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| 64 | Approached a 10 in a group of girls | Field Report | ArcaneAces | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:31 PM |
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| 1 | Checked out.Ok... You might need a crazy change of perspective. Maybe travel out if the country for a vacation. | /r/MensRights | 04/05/26 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Checked out.Why tf do you work so much?!!! You need to dial back a bit damn!!!! | /r/MensRights | 04/05/26 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsNGL I ain't got the patience for that | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 07:08 PM |
| 3 | Am I overthinking this or is he comfortable with me? Authority figure relationshipI'm guessing lecturer? If that's the case then please don't go any further. For both your sakes. In fact, no matter the relationship since you've already said the dynamic is bad, it's not a good idea to continue. Find another addiction until the dynamic changes. To your question though, yes guys notice these things and he's probably sending out feelers as you are. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Am I overthinking this or is he comfortable with me? Authority figure relationship🤣🤣🤣 you wrong for this | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsThanks | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsThanks | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsSo true. I knew the risk when going in but damn she was fire in a desert. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsThanks for the pointers. I like to respect women's personal space so if she says she's not interested or something similar, I'm out of there. However, I will work on my approach in trying to win over the friends first next time. Wouldn't want to lead any of the others on though so it's a strategy I'm not comfortable with. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsI usually have a hard time mingling for long with strangers but will put more effort into it. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:22 PM |
| 5 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsIt's really not bro. I don't know why you think it's a bad idea to hit on strangers you think are cute. You're one of those white knights or something? I go for what I like and if it doesn't work out, fine but I know I gave it a shot. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsI'm not one for the long game but maybe I need to re-evaluate. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsThanks | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:18 PM |
| -8 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsSeems like too much work tbh... But will keep in mind | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Approached a 10 in a group of girls🤣🤣🤣 true. I did say hello to all of them first thougj and they replied enthusiastically. My strategy might need some work in the future, like maybe I should look out for when she's withdrawn from the group. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 05:10 PM |
| 10 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsYeah fr best thing to do when a lady shows that she's not interested is to leave. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:43 PM |
| 16 | Approached a 10 in a group of girlsThanks 👍🏾 | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 5 | Not giving an inch or folowing up. I think that's my problem. Yes/no?Sound advice from Alucard! Woohoo!!! | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What’s one peacock accessory that you’re wearing?Right now I wear a black but shiny round faced smart watch. I always pay attention to wearing good shoes when out on a hunt though. | /r/seduction | 03/10/24 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Needed some serious advice on this oneYou're thinking wayyy too hard about it. Focus on the ones you're attracted to and stop worrying about whether she's below you or not. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How to seduce someone out of your league without showing needyDutch courage or just grow a pair and stop belittling yourself by thinking they're out of your league. | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 11:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being logical and start being fun around girls? (Didnt find any similar threads)Make lots of fake friends and try to get to know them deeply. Their likes, dislikes, struggles, accomplishments, try to enjoy rmale company and you will very soon pick up on what they respond positively to. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.Agreed. Also, OP should not create scenarios in his head about the lady banging other guys. That's incel behaviour. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.Cool... Can't say the same for the other guy. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 10:05 PM |
| 0 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.You think most women that reject you just put out for other guys? | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.I'm a dude. Members of this community seriously need to get out of their incel headspace. I'm literally begging y'all. | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 09:54 PM |
| -2 | Hinge date says she wants to start as friends as she doesn't want to jump into romance.What is wrong with some of you? | /r/seduction | 01/10/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Here’s how to approach women without making them feel uncomfortable:That could work too | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Controversial: I don't think we, as men should worry about unintentionally making women uncomfortable at all.I mean if you want to be a decent person then yes you should but not in a way that terribly inconveniences you. When it comes to approaching a lady though, it shouldn't be a big concern. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:11 PM |
| 24 | Here’s how to approach women without making them feel uncomfortable:Not sure about 2, might come off as manipulative. Just compliment something about her and segue into a conversation is better. Don't compliment her as sexy though. | /r/seduction | 29/09/24 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Outer Game Not WorkingWhat hobbies do you have? Are they social hobbies that allow you meet a lot of ladies? Maybe start there | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?Ok... | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl?Uhh no this is really bad advice | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:52 AM |
| 4 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?Imagine what about her would make you want to cry with joy and then say to her. A healthy dose of exaggeration is needed though. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:28 AM |
| 2 | How do you make a conversation emotional, instead technical?Men think mechanically? The most popular emotional scenes were mostly written by men. | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Help me M16 get out of the friend zone!Man stfu... OP just ask her out on a date. She either says yes or no and if she says no then at least you made a move. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you stop people who are walking?Yes but I apologise profusely. | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | I will be attending a free event tonightHe already aims to talk to 10 beautiful girls. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Was Dating a more even playing field before apps and social media?So yes? | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Escalating Warm LeadsRead. The. Post. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Escalating Warm LeadsRead the post again. He doesn't want to make it weird for her so wants to take it slow. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Escalating Warm LeadsI paused my movie for this? The plausible deniability is so the lady doesn't feel weird about being asked out. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 06:15 PM |
| 13 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Don't be hard on yourself. What's most important right now is to develop financial discipline a d turn your life around. Give active dating a pause for now but try to have fun as you navigate your financial and self esteem issues. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:44 PM |
| 5 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Why? You're addicted to shopping or something? | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:29 PM |
| 0 | Escalating Warm LeadsYeah... But there's plausible deniability. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Escalating Warm LeadsStart slow... Ask for a drink. Then ramp up the sexual tension but in a neutral way. Will take some time but if she likes you she will go along. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 08:52 AM |
| 8 | Approach to going out alone with confidence?Festivals, game nights, local parties. Go to places where you can vanish in the crowd and also have fun even if you don't get lucky. | /r/seduction | 21/07/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?I think so yeah | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | As a high body count man, should you accept a high body count woman?There's no yes or no answer. So what you're comfortable with, some men don't care about that others do. Most important thing is if the lady is interested in being loyal and faithful, unless of course you just want smash. | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 07:01 PM |
| -1 | Quick question - BirthdaySend her birthday wishes | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 12:26 PM |
| -1 | How to escape?Take her to dinner and tell her how you feel. | /r/seduction | 09/07/24 12:48 PM |
| 0 | Should I tell a woman I’m dating my body count if it’s low?Do people really ask this question? | /r/seduction | 26/06/24 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Not everyone can be a “high value” or top 10%. As more men improve competition does as wellWhy do you feel like you need to grind to keep up? What are you keeping up with? Truth is that just as women are xo.owtimg for 10% of the guys, guys are also competing for 10% of the women so of course if that's what you want you have to grind hard and don't blame women or anyone really for that. In the end, improve for your wellbeing and for a better life because you might not get the 10 you're desperately chasing but if you do get her, it's a bonus. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Blanked Out at The BarYep. You need to first be comfortable chatting with girls and then upgrade to flirting. You should always try to find something about them that interests you at first glance and talk about that and then move on to other topics naturally. | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 07:20 AM |
| 0 | Is it inherently wrong to change yourself?No so long as it brings a net benefit that aligns with your goals. For instance if you're naturally shy you definitely should change yourself and life will reward you better for it. However don't go doing drugs just so you become a bad boy or something, that most often leads to disaster. Basically change yourself safely. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 10:51 AM |
| 7 | How do you start a conversation with someone who’s giving you strong eye contact in the clubOpen with a compliment, but not in a groveling way. Project confidence when you compliment her. Then just chat a little with her before asking for her contact info. DO NOT TELL HER THATS SHE'S HOT(unless you can do it in a naughty, devil-may-care manner.) | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | After what date can you start discussion about exclusivity?Just ask him what he wants if it's not what you want, then move on. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?What's my post history? | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 10:19 AM |
| 5 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?I smell bs... | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 08:01 AM |
| 4 | How can I get to know women? Having a hard time with success in the dating worldWell first of all it seems like you have a lot of personal or emotional issues. You might want to work on those. Also you should think about improving the pictures you use for dating apps. It's possible that your current pics are not endearing. You should also get invloved with social activities. Join a hobby club or something other community where there are a lot of physical meetings, you might see someone you like eventually. Do you still go to the gym? If you don't, you should start. Also you… | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Met a feisty one, not sure how to pursue furtherBe careful with this one bruh... But you def should take charge and ask her to hang out if you're really interested in her. If she turns you down, ignore her and she might just reach when she sees that you're not desperate. | /r/seduction | 13/05/24 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Am I in the position to put myself out there or should I sit on the sidelines a while longer?Keep approaching while working on yourself. You will eventually become better at approaching and seducing ladies the more you approach. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Which movie should i do ???What do you want from her? A relationship? A fling? Seeing as it's really complicated your best move is to be straight with her with what you want. Cut the Gordian knot as they say. If she accepts, cool. If not, then move on. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 12:20 PM |
| 10 | How do hookups happen in college?This is the smart comment here. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:23 AM |
| 11 | Did anyone else have a hunch about the Sydney stabber? I didHas it been confirmed that it's some simp shit? He was said to have struggled with mental illness a lot. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask her on a date?Yeah you can ask to hang out but since you have reservations about it, don't say it's a date. Just a hang out and then you can meander the conversation to love and romance. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask her on a date?How old are you first of all? | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | strange behavior after a positive impressionShe's probably not interested. Leave her unless she texts back. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Exercise: Summarize game in a list of 10 or fewer realistically achievable, actionable points, which will torpedo those who execute it into regular, sustainable success with hot womenYou don't necessarily have to own/rent. Just have a place ready for when she's ready to get frisky. Could be a hotel room, a friend's place etc. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:41 AM |
| 2 | Exercise: Summarize game in a list of 10 or fewer realistically achievable, actionable points, which will torpedo those who execute it into regular, sustainable success with hot womenIt all depends on each person's situation... I can't give you specific actions to take because they might not apply to you. For instance, becoming confident. For some people it's just as simple as going out more and approaching people. For others, they might need therapy because they suffer from anxiety. However the destination is still the same. To get more confident. Same applies with the others. | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 09:40 AM |
| 11 | Exercise: Summarize game in a list of 10 or fewer realistically achievable, actionable points, which will torpedo those who execute it into regular, sustainable success with hot womenBe confident, dress well, be able to be fun but enigmatic, hunting grounds should have a lot of pretty ladies, first five minutes should tell you if you've got a shot with her, Have money Approach regularly Have a place where you can seal the deal | /r/seduction | 14/04/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Falling in love / want to see her moreGet a life. That's how you overcome the anxiety. It's good that you go to the gym but find something else that will keep you busy so that you don't waste your time pining for her. You could also approach other ladies when you're free, just for practice and not to have anything to do with them. | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 12:18 PM |
| 14 | Venezuelan girl wants tip for sex is that normal?Probably a ho... | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 10:08 AM |
| 7 | Lover vs ProviderYeah it is possible that the lady you intend settling down with... Settled. To avoid that you have to be very attentive to the dynamics between you and the lady. There was this girl that I tried dating some time ago, didn't work out. A year later and she hits me out of the blue and I give it another shot. However, conversation didn't flow easily between us, we couldn't get each other's jokes and it just felt like she was enduring my presence instead of enjoying it. One time we're texting and she… | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 08:36 PM |
| 8 | Failed shit testsIf she's not interested she's not interested. It's not a big deal. However you won't know until she makes a express indication of lack of interest. Text her about another date and see her response. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 09:59 AM |
| 7 | Ghosted her for a day then she does this. How do I respond?If you're interested in a serious relationship then yeah you should hit her up because right now it seems like she feels you're not serious. If you don't want a serious relationship then just move on. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 09:51 AM |
| 7 | Is she starting to get polarized?It's a good sign. Ask to hang out together alone. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 09:46 AM |
| 93 | Girl seams to ignore my massages and call after got her number.. what can i tell her when i meet her in personEhhh just move on she's not interested. If you see her again you can just say hi but don't show any interest and don't expect any. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 01:29 PM |
| -5 | Girl seams to ignore my massages and call after got her number.. what can i tell her when i meet her in personNo need to be a d***. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 01:28 PM |
| 8 | How did I fumble this smh (20M)Let her go. Sometimes they just want to flirt, the guy might be her bf. | /r/seduction | 21/03/24 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?Ok my bad... Work on your anxiety that's is what is holding you back. You can go for therapy, start working out, or something else that improves your self confidence. | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Can I ever not be so afraid of women?Didn't you post this before? And didn't we agree that you should work on your anxiety? | /r/seduction | 13/03/24 03:00 PM |
| 47 | Why is it that a girl will desire you more when you’re toxic?Your sample size is too small to come to that conclusion. Also it's possible that first girl was just really infatuated and not because you were toxic but in spite of your toxicity. Second girl might regret cheating and is desperate to have you back. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 12:12 PM |
| 4 | I can't approach any girl, any advice?You think 24 is old? 🤣🤣🤣 Take a breather son... You're still very young and you have enough time to turn your life around. Get serious with the gym, get serious with having a social life. Get serious with approaching ladies. Doesn't matter if you get rejected, just approach. | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | I can't approach any girl, any advice?Have you considered therapy? Or the gym? | /r/seduction | 09/03/24 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How do we feel about Daygame?A true seducer doesn't let something like the sun get in the way of game. Take the opportunity anywhere and time you see it. However you light be more accustomed to one or the other. | /r/seduction | 06/03/24 09:26 AM |
| 0 | dating this girl short term but can’t seem to get sexualDrop her like a bad habit... You guys are not on the same wavelength. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 07:01 AM |
| 1 | If a girl sees you more than once, do you still do the approach or is it done?No hard and fast rule bruh... You can say you saw her earlier but you were preoccupied and now that you've gotten another opportunity, you couldn't let it slip by. Just be confident but non-threatening. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth it?It is, in fact, not worth it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Girls don’t think they have a chance with me. How did you fixed this problem?Build comfort | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Why Good Looking Men Struggle With WomenWomen do care about looks, but that's not all they care about. | /r/seduction | 03/03/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Where the HOT ones areOh that's gonna be hard... You just have to explore the city by yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Where the HOT ones areYou done with college? | /r/seduction | 02/03/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you lose 'social value' if you are seen by yourself?Only if you show that you're insecure about it. Just don't go to an ice-cream shop alone, never a good look for a guy. | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching?Uwc | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 05:38 PM |
| 7 | Stupid question: how do i make better conversation after approaching?First of all, it's not a stupid question. Being good at conversation in a pillar of seduction. You should probably find topics that you can bring up naturally but which will intrigue the average person. For instance, you can commend her outfit then ask if she's wearing her favourite colour. Depending on the answer you can either ask what her fav is, tell her yours, or day something along the lines of "I pictured you as more pf a (insert other colour)." Conversations should be fun and dynamic and… | /r/seduction | 01/03/24 04:49 PM |
| 5 | How to work on your 'vibe' and make it better?Do something that gives you confidence in yourself. Could be going to the gym, joining a volunteer group, etc. once you accomplish something then you can feel more confident in yourself. You mentioned that you play sport, maybe get a new sport group that aren't full of jerks who bully you and also get involved in more social activities where you're comfortable around other people. It's a slow process but stick with it and eventually you will get more confidence. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Flirting is the hardest skill known to man, or at least known to me..I feel like you pressed too much on the guessing thing. Made her feel pressured, next time be less serious about it. Offer answers quickly and get the conversation going to where to uask for her details. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 10:26 AM |
| 21 | How to ask/find a guy to be fwb?Find time to go out and meet people and be friendly to guys you find attracrive, but in a teasing way. Then suggest a hang out and if it happens, let the conversation lead to relationships then tell him what you're currently looking for. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Had sex and still talk with a girl I like. Her friend (former best) and I had sex like 6 months ago and now she wants sex again but don’t know I had sex with her friend and still talk with her. How to proceed?Stay with B bruh... | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 05:44 AM |
| 5 | Tale of two Tinder datesSometimes it just happens that way. Just do what you can and you either get lucky or you don't | /r/seduction | 28/02/24 01:23 PM |
| 3 | What do you say you're looking for on Tinder when you're just trying to smash?"New Friends" or "still figuring it out" | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 06:28 PM |
| 3 | How can I meet with a girl that I only see in public and is always surrounded by people?Well then don't make it smooth. Just reach out and ask for a few moments of her time and if she agrees tell her what's in your mind(but not everything lol.) | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Is there away to persevere through the mountain of rejectionsDon't stick only to day game... Try night game, OLD, matchmaking. Anyway you can to get a lady should be explored. | /r/seduction | 20/02/24 07:00 AM |
| 16 | Is it normal to not see at least one good looking girl in public?I mean that it's good news there isn't a genocide happening so you're free to keep chasing girls. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | What is your guys' favorite cologne?Just go to a perfume shop and ask for their masculine scents. Then pick the smell you like the most. I personally am a fan of woody smells. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 06:24 PM |
| 8 | Is it normal to not see at least one good looking girl in public?😒... Well that's good news. Carry on chasing girls. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 06:22 PM |
| 17 | Is it normal to not see at least one good looking girl in public?Wait isn't there a genocide going on over there rn? | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Would you guys hook up with a toxic girl?Yeah o long a she gives it easily and you don't intend to hang around for long. Once her toxicity is beginning to affect you, call it quits and never let her spend too long at your place. Also practice safe sex. | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 10:07 AM |
| 3 | Women never show iois to meOhhh makes sense. Thanks. Your username tho 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 05:05 PM |
| 13 | Women never show iois to meWtf are iois? | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 11:43 AM |
| -2 | She says she doesn't want a relationshipBollocks | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Brunch for first date?Reschedule | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:40 PM |
| 2 | What should you wear when going to meet potential girls?Dress for the occasion. Going to the beach, dress in beach wear, going for a party, your graphic tees are ok. Going to the club, you might need to get something more classy. | /r/seduction | 02/01/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Game gets better when you stop watering dead plants.Don't want to be taken advantage of, don't want to look cheap, want to know the guy more etc. | /r/seduction | 18/10/23 06:56 AM |
| 8 | Game gets better when you stop watering dead plants.Yeah you're right and even if they are more interested, they wouldn't want to show it. | /r/seduction | 17/10/23 03:05 PM |
| 17 | Game gets better when you stop watering dead plants.Then get a lady who's as interested as you. | /r/seduction | 17/10/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | I made out with a girl at the disco, but discovered she’s 21Go for it. You're both adults bout be carwful. Things don't just come so easily. | /r/seduction | 14/09/23 06:40 PM |
| 6 | The worst advice dating advice I've ever received.Yeah "be yourself" should be changed to "be the best version of yourself." | /r/seduction | 01/05/23 05:31 AM |
| 0 | Pants with Pockets - the "unstated requirement"Nice post, I also arrived at the same conclusion regarding women's pants with pockets. If they really wanted them that much, the market would provide. | /r/seduction | 20/04/23 04:08 AM |
| 3 | The Dennis system explained.Maybe you have social anxiety... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/23 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Dating “expert” opinion on redpillYeah true... I don't think he's actively searching though. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 05:41 AM |
| 3 | Approaching women?By approach I don't think they mean approach to ask out on a date but to get to know the person. I agree however that approach works best in a low pressure setting like a social gathering. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Dating “expert” opinion on redpillOh my God stop this ridiculous shite! Musk's problem isn't that he can't get women, it's that he wants a woman who is exactly the kind of person he can't settle down with. I bet he's trying to recapture his adolescence so he goes for "wild" women and they don't make good long-term partners. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 05:37 AM |
| 2 | This post is for the “Nice guys” who can only seem to hear about the girl he likes complain about guysNo it's not tf?! | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Is cold approach worth learning if your end goal is marriage?Yes. | /r/seduction | 26/11/20 01:44 PM |
| 2 | A 37 year old guy with 22 year old girl. Strange?Tell her your age up front... Whatever happens, happens. | /r/seduction | 26/11/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | How can I stand out?Be funny but in a laid back way | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Damn, you people are nastyStop simping bruh... She crazy. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 12:38 PM |
| 2 | I'm new here guys and I keep approaching this term called cold approach. what is it exactlyApproaching a female you don't know face to face. Not online. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | QUESTION! Fellas, how long you you usually talk to a girl before asking for #???Oh you mean number? My bad! Depends really, usually not more than 5 minutes into the conversation unless we're in some group activity then I usually wait till we're about to part ways. | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | QUESTION! Fellas, how long you you usually talk to a girl before asking for #???After about two/ three dates | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Running out of Conversation - What Next?Sometimes things just come to a natural end... However if you want to try and maintain the relationship you could shake things up. Look for controversial topics within your areas of interest like drug addicted rock stars or something. Also ask her about her personal life, school, job, plans, embarrassing moments. Try to make the conversation natural though, let one topic lead into another, like from a discussion about short-lived stars you could ask if she is afraid of not accomplishing everythi… | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted Again After First DateYou think there might be an issue based on two dates? Get real! It's probably just a coincidence. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How do you make time for your plates?Oh ok then maybe constant communication with your dates will help for periods when you can't see them so long as the communication is not one-sided. Always try to see them once a week at least. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 08:13 AM |
| 1 | How do you make time for your plates?Maybe reduce your workouts to 5 or 4 times a week? It's not like you're being paid to work out so much. | /r/seduction | 17/11/20 08:08 AM |
| 1 | 21 [F4M] Ready to play and cumSeems legit. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Nothing can save me from becoming a 25-year-old (male) virgin anymore :(You can go for 19, 20, 21 year olds if you feel your agemates are looking to settle. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 12:13 PM |
| 1 | I was never able to connectJoin a book club, that might help. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Talking To Her While Her Boyfriend Is Around.No. Could get real messy real fast. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Quick attraction questionIf she like you enough she will give you a second chance. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 12:24 PM |
| 18 | What is your best advice on cold approach?Don't worry about rejection or if people are watching you. She might reject you because of a variety of reasons which my not be your fault and people looking at you will forget the while thing in 3 minutes. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | I hold myself back because I'm too scared of shitting where I eat. Please help?These just seem like excuses because you're afraid of something, maybe sex? Commitment? You need to do some soul searching for the real reason why you don't want to go all the way. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Quality vs Quantity?Most people in their 30s eventually reach that conclusion | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 11:03 AM |
| 0 | Girl was being flirty with me for weeks, I asked for her number and she asked how old I am. What's the best way to respond to that? I'm 26 she's probably 19.Tell her you're 25 | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 10:59 AM |
| 1 | 35 year old virgin here needs adviceThis certainly is weird. You have some kind of physical disability you're not letting on? Cross-eyed? Have a bad leg? Otherwise I can't understand why it is so hard to get laid. Maybe you should change your hunting grounds. Go to a college or some other school with adults and try meeting ladies there. Students are notoriously horny. Also try apps geared mainly for flings. You might need to be more direct in your approach, and you also need to be less choosy about the ladies you want to approach.… | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Do I stand a chance with a baby face?Came here to say this 😂😂😂. Also if OP can't grow a beard he should just adopt a confident attitude and not worry about his looks. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Day 1You did good. Now try approaching girls 10 times more in a day and you'll get the hang of it eventually. | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 10:07 PM |
| 1 | [22M] Struggling with self esteem: I feel inferior to attractive girlsDon't rush it, but you have to practice. Maybe try approaching the nerdy types first, they are usually less intimidating, then move on to more intimidating ladies. You also need to be a good talker, be able to direct the flow of the conversation without getting tired. Create a cool, confident personality when approaching them and be ready for the worst embarrassment ever! It won't happen, but being at peace with embarrassing yourself will give you the confidence to approach ladies. Tell yourself… | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How do you “fake it til you make it” with your confidence?You have to change your image first. Get stylish outfits, start working out, practice speaking a lot in public, get a hobby that attracts a crowd. Try to imagine yourself as a fictional character if it helps. It will be awkward at first, and you will almost died of embarrassment but little by little you will get more confident. | /r/seduction | 13/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How to motivate your mates to put themselves out thereMaybe a game of dare or dare? | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 2 | I am an introvert, I sit next to another introvert in class what now?Nah it's cool | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate without coming off like a creep?Set the mood. Inviting her back to your place could give her an idea of what you want, or you could suggest taking a walk to a secluded area, or play truth or dare 😛 | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I am an introvert, I sit next to another introvert in class what now?*interests | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:26 PM |
| 0 | I am an introvert, I sit next to another introvert in class what now?Snarky much? 😒 Just ask him about himself, I tweets and stuff like that, guys like that. | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:26 PM |
| 3 | How the fuck do i strike up conversations at work with girls I don't directly work with?If you get an opportunity you can introduce yourself and tell about your job then ask what their job is and what they feel about the job, the community (in the workplace) etc. | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do i strike up conversations at work with girls I don't directly work with?This advice is so bad that I'm tempted to believe it's sarcasm. | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I am an introvert, I sit next to another introvert in class what now?You like him or something? | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | What to text the day after a kiss?Oh just saw the second part of the question. Weekend should be fine but don't make it like a date date, just ask if she wants to hang out somewhere. | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 08:33 AM |
| 1 | What to text the day after a kiss?Just chat normally but arrange a date or a hangout | /r/seduction | 12/11/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | I’m aware I’m not boyfriend material. I believe I’m good enough to be considered hook up material. But that’s trash to me.Don't sell yourself short bro, at this point I think you should focus more on developing yourself and bringing value to your life and getting a life partner will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Girls saying shitests or something like that😂😂😂 don't look to eager for sex just tell her that it's ok if she's not ready then change the subject of conversation. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m aware I’m not boyfriend material. I believe I’m good enough to be considered hook up material. But that’s trash to me.Why if I may ask? | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 09:37 AM |
| 7 | Girls saying shitests or something like thatTell them it's ok if they're not ready, sometimes ladies act like that so that they don't appear cheap. If you assure them that you're more interested in their comfort than your sexual need, they might change their mind and even if they don't, by respecting their decision you can set up another date and another opportunity to have sex. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 08:47 AM |
| 1 | I’m aware I’m not boyfriend material. I believe I’m good enough to be considered hook up material. But that’s trash to me.Lol aiit... State your intentions clearly from the second date, might be too intimidating on the first. And unless you're a serial killer, every guy is bf material but you can improve your chances by being more confident, outgoing, getting a life, having a good wArdrobe etc. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m aware I’m not boyfriend material. I believe I’m good enough to be considered hook up material. But that’s trash to me.This is satire I take it? | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 08:35 AM |
| 1 | If you’re not aware, Facebook has a dating sectionHow do I access it? | /r/seduction | 10/11/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Some surprising (and not surprising) insights from a guy who had an honest chat with his girlfriendI call BS... This is straight out of a PUA manual, while sthere are so excited truths it's not as straightforward as the poster( or the gf) makes it out to be. | /r/seduction | 10/11/20 07:38 AM |
| 2 | What to do if a girl hovers in front of you?Compliment them then go from there but have an air of cool and confident. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Online First Dates - Are Guys Disadvantaged on the First Date ItselfIt's probably your energy that's the problem. You need to entertain the lady, not necessarily by being a clown but make her enjoy your company and with a dash of sexual flirting she will get in the right zone. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Your Fave Escalation TechniquesWould you like to come over and watch a movie/ have a drink/ chill? | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 02:57 PM |
| -1 | how do I get a girlfriend when I’m crippled by autismMust be tough. I am no expert and I think k you might need to consult a professional but you should try being more social, engage with others, be friendlier, open up more about your interests and I'm sure you will find like minded people and will likely get a lady who will be interested in you. | /r/seduction | 09/11/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Was going to do my very first approach and I couldn’t push myself to do it.What to say: hi/hello/ hey there... Nice dress/shoes/watch... Your favourite colour/favourite pair? Attitude: confident but friendly(not cocky) | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 07:44 PM |
| 2 | How do you do a cold approach?I personally woulsnt recommend physical contact so early in a cold approach but to each their own. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 06:25 AM |
| 1 | I wonder what everyone thinks of this article reasons being super hot is problematicThere are advantages and disadvantages to being super hot. I would know, I'm super hot 😭😭😭 | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | I can’t ever ask a women for her numberYou could try asking for their social media account or play a game about asking for their number or you can try "well this is a but weird but can I get your number?" | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her again?Eh... Give it a shot, but sound casual. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | I think my coworker and I have mutual attraction for each other but I’m scared to talk to her. What do I do?Invite her for a drink sometime. | /r/seduction | 07/11/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | [unpopular opinion] I like to talk politics on the first dateSo long as it's not the only thing you talk about | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 08:36 PM |
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