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That does sound plausible. I'll see what I can do!
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 02:04 PM
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So I guess I should shut up my thoughts and take the leap of faith. I know I said I don't want to hear feel good stuff, ngl though the "I promise, the world is not against you" hit me hard 😅. I guess it's because I consider people here actually having some truth in what they say.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 02:02 PM
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I just wish I didn't feel like thinking about doing those things wouldn't make me feel like I am not worthy of "wasting" others time which in turn would become a self fulfilling prophecy with such energy. God, the hell is my problem...
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 06:41 AM
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I'll try to look such places up. I tried seeking a therapist, however their schedules are full these days. I got told they'll call me when something frees up. Who knows how long that will take though.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 06:28 AM
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Yeah. Idk what my problem is 😅. It sounds so simple.. Thanks for the reply :)
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 06:15 AM
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Depends on what kinds of therapy you have in mind.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/23 06:08 AM
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When I was in school basically 99.9% of people acted like I didn't even exist. The rest 0.1% were manipulating my kindness for their own twisted entertainment, but since they at least acknowledged my existence, in my weird childish way I considered them friends. Which made it even more damaging tbh.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 11:23 PM
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About how to figure out what jobs should I even choose from when I honestly have no idea what I even want to do, nor do I have necessary skills to do any that I know of. I need to find a way to get out of this knot. The rest I think will follow.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/23 11:20 PM
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Most likely because we're this close to the warzone with Russia. So we're kind of a "key location" in the war. I'd also say it's the same with Poland, at least from my view.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:53 PM
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Yeah, but here in Slovakia it's on the next level compared to the rest of Europe. Ah btw don't call it pandemic....it's PLANdemic ;) But yeah, you're right.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:48 PM
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It's a bit better outside of cities. However we had a referendum last week, and it basically showed that outside of cities it's still pretty bad. Basically more than 70% of population likes it the way it is right now. (They don't, but they still believed the propaganda that told them the referendum was about something completely else, so they didn't even participate.) About Canada, I think I know who you mean. EDIT: And yes, race stuff too.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:21 PM
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Yeah, that's why I'm thinking of leaving my country, because they're literally trying to become America, but only the shitty parts. The country I am from is Slovakia btw. Just saying so that people who read this do not go anywhere close to it. Like seriously, we're so close to the warzone, and yet all I see everywhere is a freaking gender talk, while the non-mainstream media keep getting angry with "we're literally so close to being mobilised into war...and yet all you people talk about is fucki…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:58 PM
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I came on this sub a month ago, completely de-redpilled, trying to help others do the same. Unfortunately what I've noticed is that women like you are just extremely rare. Even on a sub like this. This made me not want to really engage on Reddit as a whole, and instead I started giving my attention to things that have nothing to do with gender, because I felt like I was getting straight up red pilled again, just from interacting itself. I just randomly opened up this app by mistake a few moments…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:42 PM
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Tbh it's an unfortunate product of modern times. This happens even on a sub like this one unfortunately. Whenever I criticise a man, I get upvoted like crazy. Whenever I criticise a woman, those times I only get downvoted. Both times I give constructive criticism. Both times I am not looking at anything through any kind of colored lenses. In this day and age, most people don't think clearly enough to realize women are still people, and therefore are still capable of being shitty. So I can have g…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 09:47 AM
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All of those problems are not women specific. I get insulted all the time by men and women whenever I talk about anything "bigger" than what they know. Like, I literally got told "you probably don't have sex if you write this stuff" when I shared my own draft of how I thought up reality works with no help from the internet. Then I looked it up and realized all that I thought up was already established by academic philosophers and had a name. I, personally, would really love it if I knew a girl t…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 10:15 AM
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Being scared of men because you never know who will approach you next, since you can possibly be raped, assaulted, or even murdered. Basically having to be conscious of what to even wear, what routes to take, etc. Men you're in relationship with can still do just that. Even your own fathers sometimes do that. Those are the basic ones I hear over and over like a broken record. Also, while they would probably not rape their fellow men, statistically speaking, the other two things are done far more…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:41 AM
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From my personal experience, men know a lot about how it is like to be a girl in today's society. This is because women are really vocal about it, both in real life and on the internet. Men however, are mostly silent, since we were forced to learn that talking about our issues will never end well the hard way. (For example I was told in a great detail why everything about me is wrong, and it haunted my mind for years after. Even though I just needed someone who would listen for a bit and show so…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 09:29 AM
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All of us enter it. The only way to not enter it at all is to simply not be born. I'd rewrite soulless people as "people who didn't have to build their character, because nobody demanded it from them." And I'm not sure where I heard it, but it makes some sense. The reason why all this is happening is simply someone playing divide and conquer with people. It's way easier to control people when they're like this, since these days it's basically demonized if men even do any sort of rebellion agains…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 08:58 AM
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Just develop critical thinking and you'll realize asking a human such thing is pointless. Everyone has at least a little distorted view.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 08:38 AM
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Blue pill - you believe in a fairy tale love stories Red pill - you believe in specific behaviours and looks above all Black pill - looks is all that matters All three are poisonous pills clouding you from seeing reality.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/23 12:26 AM
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Since it's bound to happen that not everyone will be that successful, some people start being a bit desperate after a while. This then gets amplified by society's "whispering" that if you don't have a relationship or anything like that you're a loser. It's how the "matrix" works. At first it wraps you around its finger a bit, then it tells you "you can escape the matrix, just listen to me" and so to escape it they give up their own freedom of thought and become servants of it following its order…
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 11:07 PM
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After being here for a bit longer, I completely understand what you're saying. It doesn't happen often, but my somewhat developed critical thinking skills detect it. When I see one, I try to expose it. I hope it spreads awareness to at least a few people, so that those numbers can slowly add up.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/23 03:46 AM
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Ah. Trying to take my free speech away are we~ You're trying to censor me right now. Saying I do not make sense. And therefore should not be allowed to talk. But I do not care about your opinion. You're just a random causality that will inspire growth in at least few people. My job here is done. :)
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 11:31 PM
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Shhh. Everything you write on the internet will only make more people aware. I am simply an inductor. That's the job I am great at and the job I will gladly do. You are the one throwing endless lightning strikes at me letting yourself be completely exposed to reality. Feminism isn't about equality. It's not even about female supremacy. I do not want to take your basic human respect. That can stay forever. I am demanding the same basic human respect for my brethren. And feminism is completely aga…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 09:36 PM
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Then you will stop getting it yourselves in time. You're digging your grave incredibly fast with this one. I'll just watch from the sidelines and enjoy my drink. As I have learned people are actually not that stupid. This charade you're advocating will soon come to an end. I give it about 10 years. 20 years max. Have fun. EDIT: Also you're comparing your instincts to an omnipotent power that can see all. That can see the absolute undeniable truth. You are not a deity.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 08:29 PM
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Very debatable. You see it when it's obvious. Which means that men who are smarter and more sneaky can still slip by. Those can arguably cause far more damage. It happens all the time as well. So many women are abused, assaulted, or often even raped by their partner. But don't wanna go away because it's too late and now they're addicted to them. Also the less you question your instincts, the less you sharpen them, letting them become more dull over time. But I can already see this getting downvo…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/23 06:12 PM
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Yep. I agree with you. Honestly I really dislike labels in general. They really put your thinking in a box, and make you more likely to just think inside that box, and that just makes a person think like just a copy of another person who internalized that same label. EDIT: Oh god someone is thinking in a box here. 😓
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 09:59 PM
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Any man that called himself a feminist so far in my life, felt like doing that will give him some bonus points. Literally their first step was already a giant mistake. So yeah. Feels very attention seeker-ish. Nothing anybody should be proud of doing. Definitely not enough to bring it up without even being asked.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 09:42 PM
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I thought up this method on my own after I've been taking pills prescribed by my psychiatrist for a few years. And it's what literally dragged me away from severe chronic depression with suicidal thoughts. (It wasn't antidepressant at all. In fact, the antidepressant I got first prescribed along with it I overdosed on and was no longer allowed to take. They said the whole purpose of this pill was to make you "think about things differently.") I honestly believe that if even someone with my life …
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 07:43 PM
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It pushed the idea of not relying on others to tell you what you should do. Since you mentioned pretty much only the idea of a great body, I recommend you to learn a bit about confirmation bias. I think it clouds you and the awareness is the first step towards self discovery in my opinion. EDIT: The idea of a great body was literally just maybe 1% of the video. And it wasn't even pushed at you. It was just a small unimportant detail that triggered the confirmation bias in you.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 07:23 PM
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Just don't get surprised when you'll not really be able to have anything tangible to grasp on. That's a by-product of talking from a wider view. I would consider him somewhat of a philosophy enthusiast. It will give you a bigger freedom of thought though. It's those baby steps. Eventually you'll realize you can grasp things on your own without a person having to shove it literally in front of your eyes.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 06:42 PM
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I watched a bit of red pill channels. I was even deep into them once upon a time. But this guy isn't like that. He talks a bit more....wider? Instead of tunnel visioning into some details to the point of insanity, he talks from a point of bigger picture, making those details not really stand out. This gives you far wider view of...life.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 06:15 PM
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I was thinking about making a comment about what I think. But then I remembered that I found a video on YouTube today that explains what my idea of what a person should be doing really well. I think you're gonna understand it far better from a video than just from my writing. https://youtu.be/_M77_e85Nuc
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 05:58 PM
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It is what it is. :/
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 01:28 PM
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Yeah. A healthy person would most likely just ask themselves "what is the point of writing this again?" And delete it half way through. Then they would just leave the sub. And that's the worst case scenario.
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 01:20 PM
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Killing them with kindness~ (They definitely do not have any problems of their own that they should hold themselves accountable for. Nope. It's everyone else. 😓)
/r/ExRedPill09/01/23 01:12 PM
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To me it was just a desperate attempt to gain at least some control over my life. Since my childhood was basically just psychological bullying over and over and nobody gave a fuck to stop it. Basically imagine going to school. Every time I had to go to toilet for a few seconds, or someone just simply took my attention somewhere else by talking to me or something, by the time I returned back....all my things just went poof. My bag, books, whatever just disappeared. Whenever I told a teacher that …
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 05:29 PM
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I never said we aren't on the same page. xD But yeah, you cannot make every single man have enough self control, there's bound to be at least one or a few that are just not that.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 12:09 PM
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It's the chicken and the egg situation that grew out of control. It's pointless to argue who started it and therefore is the root cause.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 12:03 PM
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Hell nah. Today's world is built around brainwashing and this would be a complete opposite of that. Why would anyone in power want it. 😂
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:57 AM
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Exactly my thoughts.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:51 AM
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Good question. But no matter what, it would still be better than nothing. Then it would evolve over time until it would be pretty ok. Or at least that's what I think.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:36 AM
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I thought about it for a while and I wonder. Why not just straight up teach in school since the beginning some kind of self respect/mental health maintenance methods as a part of some kind of humanitarian subject, so that people could have a far higher chance of starting with a solid mental foundation. Prevention is the best method in my opinion.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/23 07:22 AM
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Pretty much. It was just me and my psychiatrist dream team against the stream~
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 04:46 PM
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That kind of thinking is what's the problem with a lot of men literally fucking it up for everyone else. No. If you find someone you can get, and their personality repulses you, by not turning away, you basically say "it's an acceptable behaviour and should not change." Which pretty much gives them the idea that it's a good thing. Then they become more and more toxic as time goes on and men after you have to deal with that bullshit, until one day it becomes so bad, nobody will even look at her d…
/r/ExRedPill07/01/23 12:59 PM
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Yeah. Literally just ask "wanna go on a date?" Do not under any circumstances start talking about how you've been thinking about her for days and all that because honestly, it will make her feel disturbed as hell.
/r/ExRedPill06/01/23 09:13 PM
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It doesn't matter how smart a person is if they keep limiting their thinking. Even the smartest people get caught in that trap pretty often. It's simply a function of the brain that makes one think in a more focused way, so that they don't start thinking about what pizza they'll eat tomorrow when they're currently getting chased by a bear. Anyone can fall for it.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 10:57 PM
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I wanted equality ever since I can remember. Yes, I want women to be equal to me, and I will care about a woman who I see as an equal greatly. Don't talk like men are the only problem here. I really don't like it when someone throws out "men should do this and that" while they refuse to change at all. A lot of women have a lot of trauma that makes them view men as heartless monsters. Instead of fixing their mental health and seeing that a shit ton of men are anything but that, they just keep say…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:31 PM
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Because he's more distinct than the rest. This is achieved by making the intensity of what you say, do, or are, to another level. It doesn't even matter if you're saying truth or lies. Because if you turn up the intensity so high, it just starts sounding a bit insane either way. This intensity attracts individuals who finally see something that they feel describes their struggles at least somewhat. However, the longer they listen, the more they internalize as truth, so the more they talk to othe…
/r/ExRedPill05/01/23 09:02 PM
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Lol. Then just ignore those ones and let them rot. Why give them more attention. Let them talk to the air all they want. EDIT: Also go outside. Internet promotes toxic behaviour, because it's very distinct and gathers likes like moths to the flame. I promise you that this shit is just a very loud minority. I mean, why would a quality woman ever even spend much time on social media? Much less write such trash?
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 10:08 PM
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This is just dude to dude talk. If you react negatively even to a dumb shit like this, they'll make even dumber shit over which they'll say they rejected you for. It's not about that at all. It's about the fact you let it all bother you that makes them reject you. Gain back control over your own mind. Don't just throw it away freely like this. How's that supposed to be seen as a good quality in a person? Realize this just makes you dig your own grave. Being mentally strong is probably the most a…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 10:05 PM
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What I would do in your situation is this. Ask her out. If she says yes, good. If she says no, just move on. If you don't do this early enough, it will just make you more hurt. Don't try to play games. Don't invest a lot needlessly into what you think will most likely fail.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:41 PM
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Unless you live in some small town or something, you'll meet a shit ton of people even in a few days. There's simply no way that you would not find any. And if you're mentally healthy, you'll meet with them just by living your life the best you can. Meet people with same hobbies or things like that. Festivals, conventions, concerts, etc. Among people there will always be women. There's no need to try to meet only specifically women. Just meet people.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:31 PM
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At worst case scenario you'll stop needing them to feel good. At best case scenario you'll stop needing them to feel good, but they will be a bonus to make it even better. There's simply no downsides.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:10 PM
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It's not about being lucky. Luck is not really luck either tbh. Lucky people just keep getting lucky, while unlucky ones don't really ever get lucky. But that's only because the lucky ones are consistent in what they do, just like the unlucky ones. So no. Stop thinking "what if I will never be lucky like that" and start thinking "what makes that luck happen." And to that, my friend, I have an answer. Improve your mental health. Then you'll see that suddenly mentally healthy women want to be arou…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:00 PM
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You're a psychologist so I think you've seen this in action. When a person internalizes a belief a bit too strongly, they only start seeing what reaffirms it and block out everything that doesn't. I believe the only two things a person can do then is say something that reaffirms it to get their attention, but go a bit further until it starts sounding a bit ridiculous to them. This might make them start to rethink their belief. (This one actually made me keep myself from falling too deep. Wheneve…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 06:31 PM
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The only thing that matters to a human being is survival. We do all of this to preserve our survival. Why do you think a person has hobbies for example? Because being happy makes us less likely to stop caring and just wander into life threatening danger. People who are desperate think they're in danger of dying. They probably never felt like someone has their back through whatever would come. So they're desperately trying to find that. Unfortunately, today's society really strains people to the …
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 03:38 PM
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Tbh me before it and when I followed it gave me pretty much no results. Maybe I even repulsed some here and there. But since my mental health drastically improved 2 months ago, this has already happened not once....but TWICE in that short time. Basically I'm a bit of a gamer and sometimes talk in places where gamers are on the internet (discord). Me not really caring much has made a random girl just wanna chat with me for a while, then she sends me a friend request. Then we chat a bit more, she …
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 01:39 PM
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Nah. It's them being poisoned by the teachings of society as well. If you just come with an aura of confidence, peace within you and so on. They'd find that attractive as hell. Of course, being mentally healthy will also make you not feel like chasing counterproductively for too long or too hard. It'd just make you stop noticing they exist after a few moments. It'd be a "natural game" if you will
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 10:46 AM
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Women that respond well to mixed signals usually have mental illness that makes them do so. If you'd remain with them long term, they'd break you. (If they haven't already on some level) So honestly ask yourself, why the hell do you want to have women so badly that you'd chase your own doom? I would honestly rather just find a few that will help me prosper. But to each their own I guess.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 10:40 AM
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Yeah. I really hated myself and them for a long time. But I realized there's simply no point lamenting over it all. I learned to accept it and be in peace with it. Now even when I try to think about them all and what they did or me and what I did, I just feel completely neutral about it. So ye, I've achieved my first milestone. Incredibly good mental health. Now I can finally start building something worthwhile from that foundation. An enjoyable life.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 10:38 AM
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I said listen to your biology instead of society. The problem is that most of what society teaches we start doing on a subconscious level. That's what fucked you up. "Straight forward" sounds like you were slightly desperate and pushed a bit too hard. I believe it's that because otherwise you'd never even bother looking for red pill in the first place.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:25 AM
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Some women I really liked I could have had if I wasn't so narrow minded. Instead I got pretty much none. Spiraled down into depression and suicidal thoughts. The red pill is what preys on people with shitty lives promising them hope and then making them chase the carrot. This mentally destroys you. A lot of authors of the books that red pill recommends reading have stated some time after writing those books that they regret writing them, because when they followed their own advice they became mi…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:22 AM
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It makes you follow orders and have no thoughts of your own. Just like the rest of society's bullshit. Do you see animals making it be so complicated? No. So why would humans be different? If dating was so damn complicated we'd just go extinct long ago. Really the best thing a person can do is unlearn all that they were taught about it, and simply start to finally listen to their instincts, to their biology. It's like you don't even believe your own body is capable of attracting on its own. So y…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 09:10 AM
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Hmm. So far every girl that did this and got asked why by me, answered that she had a trauma around sex somewhere in their formative years. Could be just a series of coincidences though.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 07:58 AM
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I think of it as not operating from fear. Not being afraid to say whatever, do whatever and fuck people who tell you it's wrong. You want to open up to people, but are afraid they will judge you? Doesn't seem very masculine to me. You want to be muscular as hell, but people are telling you that they don't like that look? Fuck it, do it anyway. People will contradict other people. So it's all just noise. Do what you feel like you should do and the right people will follow you. Basically, be in co…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 07:51 AM
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Think of it like this. Someone tells you you're a shitty person. You ignore them for a bit, but since they don't stop, after a while you start telling them they're shitty. And then it just snowballs. While if you just ignored it a bit longer, they would start thinking they're talking to the air, and would either do something else, or try to actually change their methods to something more suitable to you. That would deconstruct it completely.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 07:39 AM
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Yes. It does show truth. However, it does not show the whole truth. Only the convenient information. Once you have that you start seeing it in everyone. But that's only because that's all you look for. It's just a few pieces of a puzzle. There's also rest of it. And those pieces being thrown out like they're not worth seeing warps one's world view extremely badly. And it's just inefficient. You could be missing something that could make you be miles ahead of anyone else without even trying much.…
/r/ExRedPill04/01/23 07:33 AM
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Yeah. Ignoring leads to limited perception. That just makes a person incredibly narrow minded. Not letting it bother you? That's just remaining calm and letting your perception be widened. But yeah. A massive amount of people does the first. And very few do the second. EDIT: Just so that people can see the difference on a real life example. I'm a short dude. When someone comments on it... (Usually negatively) The first option would lead me to say "You're talking absolute nonsense." The second op…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 09:36 PM
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Being aware of those things is good. Letting them control your mental state negatively? No. That will just make you miss things that you'd otherwise not miss. I'm telling this from experience. I tried to be what I thought everyone wanted me to be. I ended up acting weird, and limited my own reactions. I started thinking that I must be fundamentally wrong, and so I spiraled into depression. Needless to say that makes 0 chance of actually getting someone become suddenly negative number. Now instea…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 09:27 PM
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Lmao who said blue pill is good either? Just don't listen to any society's garbage and you'll be good. Don't listen to any of it. Literally just learn to be so mentally strong that almost nothing can create negative emotions in you. Then just take risks from that chill and positive mindset. Don't read any advice on the internet, as what works for one person does not have to for another. So just go out of your own experiences. This will build up what works for you. You'll not act like a robot fol…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:47 PM
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I was a red pill believer. Thought it could give me hope. It only made me feel even worse. It preys on that weakness someone with a shitty childhood/life has. Now I changed my priorities to just fixing my mental health. Realized stuff that makes red pill look like just a big mess of countless contradictions and complications. And am actually feeling fine. That's why I am here. It leads people to a shitty direction. Some realize it sooner. Some later. So yeah, good promise, terrible execution.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:24 PM
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Of course it doesn't help. It preys on those who need hope. Then it makes them chase the carrot. For example I had a childhood that pretty much made me think that I am lesser human and don't deserve shit. Then one day one woman showed me compassion (this was pretty much the first time someone from my generation did that) then wrapped me around her finger by making me believe she wants me. It took me a bit to actually trust her. So I asked her out. She said why the hell would anyone want someone …
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 08:11 PM
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I don't have that much to compare it to, but the sub I pretty much interacted on the most since I recently started actively using Reddit was pretty much called the worst place on Reddit even by its own community. And it's sad that it's a subreddit about self improvement. :/ I was actually almost giving up on Reddit, but then got recommended this sub in my feed and was like "I have nothing to lose so why not."
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 04:13 PM
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I'm not a girl, but I still wanna share where I think you're already doing a mistake. Worrying about something you don't have absolute control over will only make you dig your own grave. Instead, focus on things you have absolute control over, like your mindset that makes you worry about "what if they won't like that part of me." Just own it. Be in peace with it. Most likely even if they will have doubts in the beginning, if it doesn't bother YOU, they'll quickly stop caring about it as well. Do…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 01:01 PM
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If you disagree or agree isn't so black and white in the beginning. It starts as spectrum, and then it is either pretty much stabilized in the middle, or slowly starts leaning to one side. Yeah, society grooms us HARD. The free will argument doesn't really matter. As even if we would start with free will in the beginning, people start forming self imposed limits quite fast, until eventually they think in a way that simply cannot be anything but really predictable. And then you drive yourself in …
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:27 AM
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Stronger community creates stronger people who then make the community even stronger. It just snowballs really hard. Unfortunately opposite is also true. If a community is made out of people who are not strong enough and seek help, and the community itself is not that strong in communication, the individuals will become weaker and this will just weaken the community as well. It also snowballs really hard. As I started thinking about things in a lot less limited way (Somehow managed to just drag …
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 10:05 AM
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Yeah, that's what I meant when I said it's not about intensity. It's about being able to at least generate that energy. Like I already said, I am pretty chill and peaceful person. I just like some unpredictable and engaging fun here and there, but it would just drain me to do it all the time.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:09 AM
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I actually said in the post that it would become natural to pass them and therefore you'd not need to think about it and let it bother you. At least I hope I did. If I didn't then my bad. I just view it as a test of strength. And I like being strong and being able to protect myself and those around me. But I actually don't really care if others think I am that or not. So I wouldn't care if I "pass the test" and would just say what I want to say. If that makes me not pass that test for someone, I…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:06 AM
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A mentally healthy person wouldn't really think that long about a person that rejected them. Even if it happened multiple times in a row. As I think the most mentally healthy person doesn't need others to feel fine. Others are just a small bonus. About the rest, I think that societal conditioning doesn't really matter when it comes to raw biological attraction. It's just more like a limiter in where you will have to compromise to achieve it. Kinda like that instead of just going through the stra…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/23 12:00 AM
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I recently actually beat it. Also kind of went overboard after finding out how to do it and using that process a bit too much. Now I basically see even a regular person thinking in quite limited ways that are just not that good for them. And yeah, you could basically reframe "fun and dangerous" as "unpredictable and engaging" which is pretty much the opposite of passive and boring. And at least I, from my perspective, think that that's just the least attractive duo of personality traits any pers…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 11:51 PM
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From my experience, you'll not be emotionally negatively impacted as much. But I pretty much fix my mental health by stepping back a bit and stopping tunnel visioning the details. When you do that, those original details simply blend in and don't create much reaction anymore. I think of "shit test" as a woman subconsciously looking if you'll be able to handle things when worse times come around. "Fun and dangerous" could basically be reframed as "unpredictable and engaging." It's not about being…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 11:40 PM
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I addressed the "fun and dangerous" in an edit. I don't know if you saw it, but if you didn't I'd like you to. And yeah, sometimes it's really contradictory. For example, a good advice for a really attractive man would be to be more humble about it, while this advice would be bad for a less attractive man. To that one it's better to exaggerate it a bit in a fun way. Think about both and now imagine you asked them what they do for a living. Both would say "I'm a model." Now, I think the really at…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/23 11:24 PM
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