I just found that subreddit such as this exists and so I guessed why not just see your opinions.

I've started my journey a few years ago. Very quickly I got drawn to red pill, then to black pill. You know, the usual stuff. I basically created a strong belief around those things.

But I started looking at things through a less limited way as my mental health started becoming better.

So anyways. Here's what I've learned from my journey so far. Be free to tell me if there is any information I've learned that is incorrect. As long as you say why you think so, I'm open to listen. (I have to say this, because from the few days I have been actually active on Reddit, I've learned that if I don't mention it, people just straight up insult.)

I think that the issue is that the advice on the internet is overly complex and makes people do more mistakes, and become like robots following directions with no freedom.

I think that the main thing a man should do, is get his mental health in order. This makes one tougher to experience negative emotions. So you'll not really care much, and just enjoy the interactions. This would also pretty much make passing "shit tests" pretty much effortless without even having to notice they happen.

Then he should start taking risks from that mindset. Since there would be no desperation, hate, or any negativity making him overcorrect, or making him take negative risks, the feedback would probably be a lot more positive in general.

Lastly, he should take care of his body. Things like working out and so on.

This would basically make a man have that "fun and dangerous" energy in his interactions which would make them more engaging and in a good way.

I think like this is pretty much the foundation a man should have. Then build the rest based on his experiences, as what works for one man, may be detrimental for another. So taking specific advice on the internet seems counterproductive to me.

So I think it should really be just this. It's simple and efficient. I don't think attraction should be much complex. I mean, what would the point of it being complex be? It would just make it easier for us to go extinct.

Is there anything I am missing?

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Of course, be a decent human being with hobbies and so on outside of this.

EDIT:

I cannot see the comment about the "fun and dangerous" thing so I cannot reply to it. But I think they have a wrong idea of what that means. I simply take the dangerous part as not being controlled by negativity, and therefore not being able to predict what they will behaviourally do by others, as now they're not following controllable pattern. I do not mean being violent. I do not mean that at all.

I think that what you mentioned about them then hating women for wanting, is simply them being confused about what it means, and talking from their "twisted" definition of "dangerousness." This definition is more likely to be developed in a person that already experiences a lot of anger. So they are not mentally healthy. They are not doing the first step I talked about. They are not following my model at all.

And the intensity doesn't matter. I am more of a chill person. So I would not really do anything too wild. But I do not think a person being a bit more wild is bad either. There are women for both types of those. It's having the energy itself that matters.