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| 8 | Three things I've been doing that have improved my game | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 10/10/15 05:31 PM | |
| 7 | Invested too much without getting any sex | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 05:30 AM | |
| 3 | How do I overcome fear of small-talk? Last night's gaming | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 03:48 PM | |
| 1 | What to do when girls start qualifying themselves? | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 07:49 PM | |
| 0 | Stop depriving women of sex! | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 28/12/17 02:24 PM | |
| 0 | My notes | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 02:32 PM | |
| 0 | Halloween lay report | Archangel_White_Rose | /r/seduction | 02/11/15 03:20 PM |
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| 3 | Real talk how do you approach 10s in places with competition?You just do it. Most 10s don't even realize they're a 10. And when other people see you just talking to a 10 theyll just assume you have game. | /r/seduction | 27/07/26 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Asked out a girl in my class on TuesdayHave your date set before you get her number. Your goal isn't to go on a date, your goal is to get her to spend time with you. That means not rushing your first meet, build rapport and hook then get her contact by messaging yourself through her phone. High five and hugs build sexual tension. She needs to WANT to see you again, duh! | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 03:23 PM |
| -1 | EYE CONTACT WORKS!!!The Reddit virgins are jealous. Take it as a compliment | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 04:28 AM |
| 5 | As a girl, how do i pick up guys in bars?This | /r/seduction | 08/04/19 11:05 PM |
| 32 | I’m not good at talking to people until I get to know them, alas the friend zone is my worst enemyThere's no "friend zone" only "playing it safe" zone. | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.You. You should give a fuck about you and your wellbeing. No one else matters nearly as much, and their opinions are secondary. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.Who are you giving a fuck about? Whose opinion do you care for? | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.Why not? | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.It's called not giving fucks. Try it 😉 | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 02:32 PM |
| -2 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.Yeah. Sometimes. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 02:22 PM |
| -1 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.Lol. Shows what you know. I fuck my friends. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 02:02 PM |
| 8 | Tired of being a failure with women; especially being at college right now.Step one- befriend as many hot girls as you can, hang out and get comfortable talking with them. | /r/seduction | 14/02/19 11:58 AM |
| 5 | how can i balance between being interested, and needy?Imagine a homeless man walks up to you on the street asking for change, now imagine same guy only dressed in a suit and tie. Needy is the behavior you exhibit when trying to when something out of someone, usually perceived as higher value than you, trying to impress them or fulfil their expectations. | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 03:26 PM |
| 28 | I can’t stop thinking about a girl and its driving me crazy. I can’t focus on my work because of this. How can i get rid of this feeling?Its called being 20. You'll grow out of it soon enough. | /r/seduction | 07/01/19 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Small college town game?You're right. That was not helpful in the slightest. Don't mass approach RSD style, just make friends first with some cool people and socialise. Cold approach is the HARDEST approach to getting laid. If you have a reputation of a cool guy to hang out with it'll stick unless you do anything creepy and non-consensual. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Small college town game?No ones reading this. Racist against who? | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Small college town game?Racist against who? | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Small college town game?You're a creep! | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 01:29 PM |
| -5 | Some good old conversation points!Maybe you are a creep. Or autistic. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Some good old conversation points!You dont look like an insecure little beta cuck. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Some good old conversation points!Try it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/19 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Some good old conversation points!Wink at her like you're really smooth. | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 6 | Some good old conversation points!Find a way to make it more awkward. | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Some good old conversation points!Thats how you know she's the one. | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 07:22 PM |
| 286 | Some good old conversation points!Think less. Wait less. Make eye contact. Dont you fucking dare look away first. | /r/seduction | 03/01/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | My friend got asked out by my crush and it hurtsThis will teach you to make a move instead of waiting around for her to. | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 09:51 PM |
| 72 | I actually did itYay! Now have a conversation. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Topics to speak about with womenWait, so you're saying you can have conversations with women like they're another human being? | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 04:21 PM |
| 9 | Whatever happened to that dude Mystery, what's he up to these days?You live, you learn, you grow. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | How you all text girls? Im boring at texting...How do you text your best friends? | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Thank you 😁 | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 05:50 PM |
| -1 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Sure, you do that. I go right for the makeout. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 01:43 PM |
| 13 | No one tries to put effort into me. And it kills my confidence. I see my friends getting attention from girls everyday and no one cared to say hello to me. Even my close friends dont care.Practice. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 12:59 PM |
| 2 | No one tries to put effort into me. And it kills my confidence. I see my friends getting attention from girls everyday and no one cared to say hello to me. Even my close friends dont care.How much effort do you put into yourself? No one will invest in you more than you do. | /r/seduction | 26/07/18 12:58 PM |
| 1 | What traits, qualities, characteristics does a charismatic person have?Assurance/confidence | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Update on girl who asked for my instagramShe's truing to establish basic communication with you. Stop overthinking so much. Why you lie and be fake? | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 11:43 PM |
| 8 | How to be natural around girl you really likeBreak the tension by fucking up and being ok with it. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on making a comprehensive list of seduction topics? (Explanation in description)Make eye contact, smile. Dont be needy or fake. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Get off RedditMake eye contact smile, engage, tell her to shut up. Be your self means stop being needy and fake. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Progress!It was the act of leaving then coming back, that hesitation weirded her out. Keep engaging! Your best now will soon be average. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone written "The Game" with 4-5 years of being stuck at TFL (as I was)Cause if you dont challenge life life will challenge you. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone written "The Game" with 4-5 years of being stuck at TFL (as I was)Cause if you dont challenge life life will challenge you. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone written "The Game" with 4-5 years of being stuck at TFL (as I was)Cause if you dont challenge life life will challenge you. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | PUAs act like making out with random thots is a skillSeduction doesnt take nearly as much skill as people think it does. The marketers want you to think its hard cause the. You'll buy their products. The reason is that women WANT sex. They want it so bad they'll fuck someone with shitty game just cause they're horney. Sure, you can work on your skills and that'll help you a lot. But if you're just hanging out with girls a lot you'll still get laid eventually. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | “Which of my friends would you bang?”Whats the term for voluntarily celibate? | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone written "The Game" with 4-5 years of being stuck at TFL (as I was)Give yourself a challenge. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 02:32 PM |
| 1 | My first ''succesful'' daygame rapport.A flinch is a knee jerk reaction when You feel sexual tension and you get an impulse to break or release that tension. The impulse pushes you to do something needy or chody to break your frame. Often flinches arent very dramatic, I'm guessing that when you tried to push for the date your demeanor shifted and you were a tad too needy. Keep your frame going, it helps when its an authentic frame cause you'll feel less impulse to break it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 12:20 PM |
| 1 | How would you have acted?You poor sad clueless man. She wants your dick not a date. You failed to engage her in a non-needy way through texting. She comes back to land on your lap and instead of escalating to her pussy you shrug it off and hold a grudge. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:16 AM |
| 1 | I found the girl of my dreamsYes- do have sex with her and keep hanging out with her. Contrary to what is often said sex does NOT ruin relationships. Don't be needy or desperate. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Is having a high value what's preventing me from getting laid?You are being needy. In many ways when you have all the good stuff your game can go down cause thats not REALLY what girls are looking for. When you have the Things you have a tendency to wave or flash it around, humblebrag, in a subtle way. The solution is to stop being needy. Slap her ass, tell her to shut up and boss her around a bit. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 05:00 AM |
| 2 | 2 dates went well now she is busyIts a common shit test girls use all the time to see how into her you are, how busy your are and how many other girls you are seeing. You fail the shit test when you are fine with taking it slow, or otherwise are fine rescheduling to next week at which point she loses all interest in you. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How to feel more like a man?The only right answer here. Give yourself a challenge. If it's easy set a bigger challenge. If its too hard break it into smaller ones. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How do I get or keep a girls attention?Its not about getting her attention, its about making your attention so valuable that she wants it. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Need help - never had a GFGo somewhere Do something new/different/dangerous | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:39 AM |
| 3 | Need help - never had a GFStep 1- make friends with some hot girls Step 2- fuck their friends. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:37 AM |
| 3 | How to not be desperate?Desperation comes from a lack of abundance. Abundance is a mentality that you have all the needs for yourself and others around you. People tend to gravitate towards abundance and away from desperation. When caught in a desperation cycle the only way out is to work hard and create an abundance of something in your life that you can share and help the people around you with. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:35 AM |
| 1 | My first ''succesful'' daygame rapport.Awesome interaction! You did flinch when going for the number or second date, it doesnt matter at all. Have fun with her! | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:30 AM |
| 5 | Certain type of girls approaching meYou're probably not as unattractive as you might think. If you pay attention you'll notice that the chicks you want to give the least attention to want it the most. And thats a key to the game- girls want attention, and they want it as high value as they can. Cause the more value gives her attention the more status she has. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:25 AM |
| 0 | How many sluts have you fucked this past week?Like 10 or 20 | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 04:20 AM |
| 12 | “Which of my friends would you bang?”Short answer- all of them Long answer- like most girls she's somewhat bisexual. But more so she's jealous. What SHE wants to know is do you like any of her friends more than her and how loyal you are to her. The ideal is you are using her to make THEM jealous, and as long as she feels they're jealous of her she'll let you fuck all of them. BDSM play comes in handy here. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 03:50 AM |
| 17 | (27/m) The last couple tinder dates I’ve gotten ended with little interest and I get a text the next day saying “I didn’t feel much of a spark” or just that they don’t feel interested.You are playing it safe. They feel it and feel turned off by it. Do something a little edgy or dangerous, challenge yourself to do something new. | /r/seduction | 16/07/18 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Unsure what to do with this girlShe wants to fuck, but she doesn't want to fuck someone needy and desperate. Stop being needy and desperate and lead the interaction. | /r/seduction | 11/07/18 05:23 PM |
| 30 | ''Sorry, you're not my type'' = the new ''I've got a boyfriend''You mean like they're people? | /r/seduction | 08/07/18 06:46 PM |
| -1 | ''Sorry, you're not my type'' = the new ''I've got a boyfriend''Hint- she's not into needy fucks. | /r/seduction | 08/07/18 06:46 PM |
| 27 | Asked a girl out in person for the first timeThat's what's called a flinch. She didnt turn you down. What happened was a reaction to your fear of actually escalating and going on a date. You took the easy way out and steppes on the breaks. | /r/seduction | 03/07/18 07:15 PM |
| 3 | Guess I messed upShe also doesn't want to be a slut, so she wants to fuck but she doesn't want to admit it. Is why as a man you gotta tale the first step and make it easy for her to fuck. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 06:39 AM |
| -1 | Why has seduction evolved to be as complicated and confusing as it is today?It's only complicated cause you make it complicated. Shits easy. Make eye contact. Don't be needy. Make her jealous. | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Invested too much without getting any sexTrying to impress a girl is inherently low value. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Invested too much without getting any sexThe anxiety you feel is the sexual tension starting to build and you not being comfortable with it and wanting to break the tension right away. Your insecurities pop up as an excuse to justify breaking that tension. | /r/seduction | 07/06/18 12:39 PM |
| 19 | The best way to approach hot girls (in field)Numbers dont mean shit | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 03:23 PM |
| 0 | Stop depriving women of sex!Do they think you're ugly or creepy? How do they feel about you gaming girls? Do they want to help you hook up or are they jealous and put you down? | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 04:39 AM |
| -1 | Stop depriving women of sex!You're trying to learn how to swim by swinging from trees. Women don't choose you and being more attractive isn't gonna solve your problems. Try making friends with some girls, hang out with them and get to know them, no sex or dating just friends. | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Stop depriving women of sex!Why do you think that is? And why are you on r/seduction to begin with? | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Stop depriving women of sex!You don't get laid much do you | /r/seduction | 29/12/17 01:33 AM |
| 13 | 'I have a boyfriend'The "I have a boyfriend" line, along with "I'm a lesbian" basically translate as "I know you're hitting on me and I'm not interested." What it really means though is that you are coming on to her to fast and aggressively and need to chill. | /r/seduction | 25/01/17 12:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you find casual sex in Las Vegas?"hey! How do I game a insert current fetiahized interest here?" Same way you game anyone else, just fuckin do it | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 02:13 PM |
| 58 | So I learned this vital rule last night...The only thing that killed the energy between you is you thinking you killed the energy between you two. I forget their names all the time, even after I sleep with them. I don't care, I'll tell them I'm inebriated and bad with names. I'll tell then they should get a better name, maybe even give them a new nickname. Point is, the biggest cause of you fucking up is you thinking you're fucking it up | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 04:08 PM |
| 19 | Cold approached a HB10Your best now will later be average | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 01:22 AM |
| 1 | I always get nervous right before I make a move. Up until then, I have no problem talking and cracking jokes, but as soon as I feel the moment coming, my nerves get going and I start to shake/shiver like I'm cold.Whatever you feel she will feel next. If you are able to ride out the emotion and wait it through she will feel the emotions you are feeling too. | /r/seduction | 19/07/16 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Being Challenging: Not answering their questions directly. Is this necessary?The short answer is do whatever you want. It's always about having strong frame. If shes asking you questions she is either interested in you and wants to know more about you or make conversation, in which case vibing and flirting are more important than actually answering the question. Or she's shit testing you in which case she's trying to shake your frame and see how delicate your confidence is, in which case maintaining a solid and congruent frame is more important than answering the questio… | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Go out alone? NYC-Clubbing"Where are your friends?" me "I don't have any." It's a shit test. Skirting around it or lying is failing the shit test. A shit test is basically her attempt to push you off your state, if you easily maintain your state because you're in a genuine state shit tests will fail. But if your faking confidence she'll find it easier to shit test you. | /r/seduction | 02/04/16 04:56 PM |
| 4 | How do I get a girl to come back to my place?Seriously? You gonna try to pull her from the dance floor right to your place? Dance with her a bit, make some chit chat, maybe get a drink. Mention you're hungry, go grab some take out nearby, then take her back to your place. | /r/seduction | 10/03/16 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Eye Contact?Eye contact is one of the powerful ways to convey energy/state transference. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 06:00 PM |
| 3 | To drink or not to drinkBest advice is to work on game sober so that you aren't dependent on anything for your confidence and skill. That being said I just had a crazy night last night on alcohol, weed and a few other drugs, alphad and entire house party, hit on every single girl there, had at least five showing intense IOIs- touching me, grabbing me, saying I am amazing and buying me drinks. Plus there was one girl that made it clear that the only reason she didn't want to make out with me was that her bf was holding … | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I just had the strangest night of my lifeMy guess is that you A escalated too quickly for her and she freaked out. B built too much comfort and not enough attraction. Girl number two- right on! You were already in the zone + frustration from previous girl = more motivation. | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 05:53 PM |
| 4 | How To NEVER Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again (+INFIELD)Seriously @#2? That is a total legitimate question to someone dating two guys | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 05:49 PM |
| 6 | I can always make out with a girl at a college party, but never bring her back to my room.You are escalating too fast. Break it down a little. First lead her around the room, grab her to the bar, take her to a couch, just grab her hand and lead her to another corner to make-out with. Then you take her to another spot, I don't know, another party, another bar, some other location. Now that she's used to going places with you take her to your room and fuck her up the ass | /r/seduction | 10/01/16 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Do girls see the guy thats flirting with multiple women in a negative way?Jealousy is the most effective way to get girls. I'll hit on girls while on a date with someone. Shit, I'd hit on a girl while having sex with another | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | advanced nyc daygame community?Union sq and Washington sq are good hotspots with lots of hot girls. If you really wanna go full on Time sq ALWAYS has hot tourists, you can literally do an approach every minute. Personally I prefer going to bars, clubs, events and stuff like that. House parties are my favorite as you can easily get into an hour long conversation with someone. | /r/seduction | 06/01/16 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Last minute date cancelingTo them it builds confidence. The more dates she flakes on the more men are trying to reschedule- the more validation she gets. | /r/seduction | 12/11/15 10:50 PM |
| 1 | I know what to say and generally how to say it, but I don't take advantage of the knowledgeReading and learning is only worth so much, you need to practice, practice practice to get used to doing it in real life. First couple times you try do anything it will always feel weird cause you've never done it before, but soon enough you get used to taking a proactive approach and it feels natural. Nothing feels natural the first time you do it, ever. Get used to saying what's on your mind, and framing it as fact. You are giving validation, not sharing an opinion. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with something when going out..Be honest with yourself and with them. If you are there to hook up accept that and move on, embrace it. Make a joke of it. Have fun with it! If you are there just to have a good time embrace that and have a good time! Invite girls to have a good time with you, and if they don't qualify enough for you use them to get to know other girls that do qualify. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I overcome fear of small-talk? Last night's gamingTHAT was the problem the other night. I always say what's on my mind, my mind literally went blank. There was a million different things I could've said, and in that critical moment not a single one of them was found | /r/seduction | 17/10/15 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Any other way to approach this girl?Go big or go home, do something out of character that a player wouldn't do, like meet her on her doorstep with roses then tease her. You wanna convey that you want something serious with her, but your not desperate. Girls eat up that crap. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 06:40 AM |
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