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I think I might put my money on sooner.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 08:08 PM
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There is truth in this. Have worked in my capacity as a MD with a group of men trying to ask the questions in Australia. Just as we get close the funding gets pulled. No explanations are ever given. Most recently was a proposal to discuss at community level the possibility that male suicide can be the result of forces OTHER than mental illness, such as feminism, estrangement from children, lack of meaningful work, the impact of the 90/10 on many young men etc. Nope, too close to the bone. Much m…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 12:32 AM
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Great. Europe, particularly Germany, has a really strong tradition of empathic psychiatry. Have a look at this, maybe Amazon Mentalization-Guidebook by Janne-Oestergaard Hagelquist First edition. Any issues let me know. Also check this out, from London: https://www.annafreud.org/training/mentalization-based-treatment-training/about-mbt/ Keep in touch as needed. Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 09:54 PM
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Ok. So what I am going to advise you comes from an Australian/UK perspective. Medication, per se, is not the primary treatment option for BPD ( and to be clear, we are talking about borderline personality disorder, NOT bipolar disorder, they are different and often confused) and furthermore I am assuming you have been correctly diagnosed. You have not reached this diagnosis by doing a google consult ( I have had patients wander in and tell me they think they have BPD because they read about it o…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 09:19 PM
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Good morning. Sorry for the slow response. May I ask what type of therapy you are about to commence? Then I might give you some reading suggestions to give you a better insight into the some of the core problems that you face and how to manage human interaction.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 08:42 PM
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Agree. DSM 5 has lots of serious problems, but BPD exits. What you describe as pathological narcissism and BPD both share, from a developmental standpoint, is serious trauma to the self at a very young age. They are somewhat different responses. As I alluded to in my previous response, these are theoretical nuances. From a practical TRP perspective what matters is what is actionable. The action here is to turn and run. YOU cannot fix them, but they can fuck YOU up in more ways than an origami ma…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 08:50 PM
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As a professional who has treated many cases of BPD, it is a total shit show. The only ones for whom there is any hope are those that have the insight to realise they are damaged. That is NOT the majority. They do not arrive at that position without leaving a trail of disaster behind them. The most optimistic opinion I have ever heard was a from a specialist unit in Melbourne that quoted a 90% remission rate with intensive mentalisation based therapy over two years. If anyone is interested I cou…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 05:37 AM
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Certainly agree with the classical Russians and Robbins et al. I have it close to hand in my office and constantly refer my juniors to it. " As is your pathology, so is your medicine"
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 12:25 AM
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Agree, and this raises a very important point, suicide which is not explained away by mental illness. There is some momentum gaining behind the concept of a 'situational approach' to understanding suicide. Now of course some are the result of mental illness and this is a complex area, however others are best conceptualised as the final act of a man who is perceives himself as powerless or helpless. This is were the rising gynocentrism may be a contributing factor. The list of the causes of that …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 12:21 AM
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Sweet justice. So much more often it is the man who comes home to the emptied house.
/r/MGTOW22/05/18 03:32 AM
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MGTOW can embrace a spectrum of things. Let me put it to you from a somewhat binary TRP perspective using attachment theory. One form of MGTOW is the avoidant/fearful insecurely attached individual. They have been rejected, used, divorced raped etc. In response they say " fuck you wimmins, I don't need you". You may now retire to the land of Incel where you will dwell under the delusion that you have voluntarily given up pussy. The other form, more akin to TRP than MGTOW, is the securely attache…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 01:10 AM
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My advice,step back and take a breath. TRP is a toolkit, you take what you need. Now consider doing the following, take some time doing it, there is no rush. Read the sidebar. No More Mr Nice Guy, The Manipulated Man. Conduct an experiment, remember you need to be dispassionate about this, do not overinvest in expected outcomes. Even go so far as keeping a journal, like any good experimenter would, noting what you are testing and the observed results. a) Phase One. The 'usual' Disney narrative. …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 11:02 PM
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Reminds me of Eddie Murphy: "I fucked her but I make love to you. And if you don't know the difference we have a serious relationship issue"
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 04:30 AM
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Yes, the 'material' is exactly that, the assets!
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:55 AM
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Or not. 2 against 1, no knowledge of your enemy. I get how it reads gutless but from a different perspective smart. No drama, no cops. I have seen many a case of a guy walking in and catching the wife in flagrante delictio, taking to the guy, cops called and guess whose arse gets hauled off with an intervention order shortly following.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:11 AM
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The old 2/3 rd rule applies. They give you x, you reciprocate with something 2/3rds of that magnitude. Keep them mean, keep them hungry.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 01:06 AM
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I suspect you cannot. Rather spend a bit of time asking yourself why you need that affection/attention/appreciation.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 01:39 AM
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My ideal. Laugh and say she is all yours brother. Turn and walk. Do NOT look back. Radio silence. Displays abundance and treats her like a soiled possession left out on the kerb.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 11:06 PM
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Agree. I would add that the polarity of 'I love you' and 'I have cut myself off from everyone' and the ensuing drama engages my borderline personality radar. OP, hit the sidebar entry of 'How to manage your bitches'. It is all there. Your aim is to repeat, rinse, repeat, internalise. 'She doesn't remember'. Good bye. Next thing she will forget the consent she enthusiastically gave you whilst sword swallowing last night.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 10:25 PM
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Many a women in my consulting room have confessed to setting a guy up. " I just fell down the stairs when the cops arrived", or " I hit him, drew blood then coward in the corner when the cops arrived". Said with a smirk and without any remorse. Be careful downunder.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 05:34 AM
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If the possibility of trauma being suffered had no previous precedent then I do not see how it was unethical. Even if it was, and assuming the stat analysis was rigorous, that in no way detracts from it validity about what can be concluded about human behaviour. Trying to repeat it, given that knowledge now, may constitute an ethical problem. However the two concepts are distinct.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 05:22 AM
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The last line is key. I do a lot of therapy work with men, often the over mothered teenager. That is the Archimedean point from which the therapy starts. At one level they know they are not worthy of the praise that has been heaped upon them, at another level they are angry at the empty platitudes, at another level they yearn for the Disney myth. Takes a while to break free from that paradigm and let the painful truth settle in. Many men never get there. In fact MGTOW is wasteland inhabited by t…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 11:12 PM
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You’re onto it. Anything that I say or do that is perceived as being anti feminist I will accept as a compliment!
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 08:58 AM
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Yes, you are correct. Lets break this TRP thing down a little in point form. It is a heuristic, a tool box. This is not sacrosanct fact, it is the collected experience of many ( read unique) individuals. Collectively we are trying to navigate a way forward that honours masculinity in a world that is hostile to that very thing. A core part of our masculinity is our sexuality. If you had seen the recent post about JB Peterson one of the messages was, at the end of the day, there is no Messiah. You…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 06:27 AM
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The oldest teenager can be a lot more dangerous than the toddler. Of course you can talk to them, the trick is to become more observant to the response both behaviourally and verbally. She may say x but behave in a way that suggests y. Believe the latter first. This can be a chilling moment when you see the silent tear whilst thinking you have fucked them into nirvana. Old wounds as mentioned by another poster, cognitive dissonance ( am I really a girl that enjoys having my head beaten into the …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:11 AM
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Those silent tears are harbingers of doom. Proceed with caution, or better still, exit via appropriate door.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:06 AM
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Fu*************ck me, what a story. Enough to cool any man's ardour.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 01:03 AM
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That last sentence has the gold. Get lawyered up, go monk mode and take a hard look inwards. Otherwise it is going to be on rinse repeat cycle for the next x relationships. Wishing OP the very best of luck, take the reins and steer in your own direction.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 12:11 AM
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Pike by name, pike by nature. Many thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 04:57 AM
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Tell them you are an albino and have been victimised your whole life.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/18 12:34 AM
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The indoctrination starts during orientation week. Odds are ( I am going out on a limb here) no strong father figure at home to correct the bullshit thus spoken. Certainly had no 'second book' education prior to going to uni. Good luck with your path. Hopefully you will become a self sufficient man who is self employed. I know a few young men doing apprenticeships who lay like floor tilers, meanwhile, back at university their mates are seriously sex starved.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 01:26 AM
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From my experience increasing numbers of middle aged men are aware of the risks. I hear lots of corridor and 'under the radar' comments. Subtlety is everything. Do not walk around with antifem emblazoned on your forehead. I use the mama bear tactic when employing office staff. They have a mortgage/debts and need the job. They know they are not a target from a sexual point of view so I can position them in the workplace like a chess game. Meetings happen in public. If I am teaching younger female…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 12:11 AM
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Law and Med are not immune. At one top tier law school in Australia students are given trigger warnings at the start of lectures that certain material (like rape law) may be confronting and if distressed they can absent themselves from the room. As a lecturer in the medical faculties at two Australian universities, I note with great regret that the education the med students are getting now is not that which was delivered 20 years ago. The old way was very structured; basic science(chem/physics/…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 10:50 PM
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Welcome. Many thanks in advance.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:55 AM
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Agree. I saw a recent article in a medical rag down here in Australia saying that doctors should not 'label' people as obese. Rather they are on the higher side of a healthy weight. Wonder what the euphemism for death by cardiovascular disease is; on the lower side of ground level?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:40 AM
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Upvote for achievement. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 04:32 AM
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Love your country man, pity the politics is going to the shitter.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:28 AM
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As long as they are a source of revenue, be direct or indirect, they are far from useless for those that use them. How they are treated though, yes, I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 12:25 AM
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Whilst I know of exceptions, the wisdom around here could be distilled into the word 'never'. One must be master of ones shit and ship at all times. Cultivate the close male friendship for that.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 11:41 PM
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I'll stick to the book 'No More Mr Nice Guy'. Besides making me want to reach for a bucket by the time I reached item number 10, I prefer to reserve my interpretations of female behaviour based upon my observation, not their scree. Glad it helped you, but read far and wide and cultivate that watchful, discerning eye.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 05:10 AM
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Agree. I have found with men aged 20's to 50+ that if I introduce the concepts innocently by question many will agree or take stock and consider. Start 'teaching' red pill and bam, shit storm. I have also found recently that #metoo particularly has influenced the way many men are thinking, most importantly in terms of protecting themselves. If only u/blupillprofessor, the world would be a better place. And as another poster has said, its not just women, the white knights are the scourge of the E…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 03:58 AM
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Agree. This guy has discharged both barrels into his own foot. First getting hitched, second this. It wont fly. Best bet is bail IF he is has his doubts before kids, and wrap it ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:28 AM
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Check out the defacto laws in your state. Where I am in, after 6 months you are treated the same as if married. A painful and hard earned lesson. Don't repeat. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/17 03:00 AM
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My clinical experience with those that formally qualify for narcissistic personality disorder is that they have no insight at all into the problem. Borderlines might get there but it takes many years. So I agree with your evaluation.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 01:11 AM
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Two other resources for you to consider, if you have not already. Jordan Peterson. His youtube channel, certainly has found traction amongst younger men. Particularly the idea of get your own shit in order before you try to fix any thing else. 2.https://www.amazon.com/Make-Your-Bed-Little-Things/dp/1455570249/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1512445337&sr=8-1&keywords=make+your+bed+william+mcraven This book, written by a former Navy Seal, also deals with the little things that are foundational. I often us…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 03:43 AM
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And break them they will. Its beyond control. If you think you can control a borderline you are also delusional. As has been said, run, RUN.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 08:18 PM
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Yes, remember that post well. I f I recall correctly I made a response to that confirming how it accorded with my experience.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:57 PM
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I agree, chit chat has its place but you are more outcome driven. Action is key, as is accountability. For some young men it will be the first they have encountered it so swallowing that pill maybe difficult. Very happy to keep our dialogue going. GLO ( Gay Lube Oil) might be a person worth shooting a pm to ( if you are new he is a resident luminary that has done lots of Skype work with younger men, particularly with fitness couching).
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 10:04 PM
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One effort that I have noticed recently is that being done on 'The Art of Manliness' podcast/website. Personally I think it is a bit juvenile, getting badges for completing various activities, but that said at least it is an effort to improve the lot and skill set of younger men which is the demographic being targeted ( 20 to 35 I think). I support your idea of a negative comment must be followed up by a restorative/corrective action. On a more general level I think there is an enormous amount o…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 09:43 PM
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Tell us more about how you imagine this community would look. Do you see it as being 'virtual' or does it have a geographical location?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 08:55 PM
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Some of these issues are more than tangentially related to feminism. Homelessness for example. Male homelessness, who cares! Female, watch the response. Many men (certainly not all), have found themselves on the bench after they have been divorce raped, or the traditional job structure has evaporated favouring part time, service/admin female friendly work rather than manufacturing/heavy industry. Or killed themselves as life and traditional sources of meaning have fallen apart around them. Whils…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 08:04 PM
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Very similar idea to that of Rollo's 'sexual zoning'. Certain theatres require certain behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 12:03 AM
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Sad but true. I have female patients now using the 'rape' language when they give their husband token sex. 'It's coercion, it's like assault'. Poor fuckers just look back like a rabbit in the headlights. Dangerous times, be wise, be proactive, be strategic in terms of who you cultivate as contacts within the work environment. Read up 48 laws of power.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 10:03 PM
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Yep, the cancer is well established here in Australia.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 09:56 PM
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Interesting article from Scientific American Mind: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/nice-brains-finish-last/ Some scientific reasoning to validate a non pro-social position (if you need that).
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 09:45 PM
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Try this out for a read: https://www.amazon.com/Fear-Challenge-Sir-Ranulph-Fiennes/dp/1473617995 Famed English explorer, climbed in the Himalaya, fearful of heights.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:31 AM
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No. It would appear that feminism is biting its own arse at the highest level. Men, top tier serious powerbrokers, having closed door men only meetings. Sad thing for the ladies (who have complained about this and gained traction in the SJW leftist media) is that 'it cuts them out' of the power play. So sad, my heart bleeds.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:10 AM
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Correct. You construct a hierarchy of things that trigger you. Lets say ranked from 1 to 10, 1 being the absolute worst, for example cold approach a HB10 with her own retinue of orbiters/girlfrinds etc. 10 might be approach a HB 6 who is by herself and you have picked up on some IOI's but with no intention other than to start a conversation. You start exposure to 10 repeatedly until you can do it, then move onto the next and so on. Which is exactly why benzodiazepines such as alprazolam should b…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:11 AM
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Keep strong brother. 30yrs in myself this December. I try to think of it as character building, though I would not voluntarily sign up again.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 03:41 AM
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Believe. Many a time a man has asked me for Viagra for ED. Turns out the problem was sitting on top or lying beneath him.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 12:01 AM
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u/BluepillProfessor. It sounds like you are dying on the inside. Must be a reason that keeps you there, certainly does not sound like it is her.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 09:46 PM
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Agree. I've seen many, many men with a quarter of time under the belt getting less. At least she is committed, better than many. But is this what you really want? I think not. As u/MattyAnon says....
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:32 AM
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Kudos to you brother, a textbook response. Beautifully handled. all the best for the future.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 12:01 AM
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I would agree with Arndt. Here is her take on the misrepresentation of men as only perpetrators of domestic violence: http://www.bettinaarndt.com.au/mens-issues/domestic-violence/
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 09:47 PM
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Because you prove that you are not dependant upon her for your happiness. Remember the concept of abundance mentality? A ruined day today may just lead to better days in the future.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 02:25 AM
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I get you are hurting but really, these post occur so often I get the sense that the sidebar is not even glaned at. Simple advice. You know how you said: "I've been a mess, stopped going to the gym, have no interest in nothing, haven't taken care of myself, I feel destroyed. My weeks are made up of junk food, porn, video games, overthinking the things that I could've done or avoided in my relationship as well as thinking of her and the good memories we had" Do the opposite, and read the side bar…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 05:01 AM
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Be very careful about your assumptions concerning the word 'successful'. Not divorced does not by definition mean successful. Many a man is married and unhappy. Look around.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:41 AM
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Sounds reasonable. I would see about 10 a year who would have some bariatric procedure performed. Over the next 12 months would shed 30-60 kg. Follow up plastic job to deal with the flaps of excess skin now dangling. Thereafter, well you can guess the rest. Partner in complaining how they have changed, out all the time, different friends, dead bedroom etc etc. What I should be doing is giving the woman the referral to the surgeon (of course the diet and exercise suggestions have all failed) and …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 11:46 PM
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Confirm that. As an MD have seen it over and over, usually with the guy financing the rebuild.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:52 PM
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My pleasure. Good work, keep up your efforts. Sounds like you have insight into the issues at hand. Dependency is not usually a major issue with wellbutrin. Keep up that neurofeedback, nutrition and exercise (for life). Best wishes.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 12:19 AM
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Where I work it is restricted to 'on label' use for smoking cessation. However have used it with effect for difficult to treat bipolar disorder and some cases severe depression with psychotic features. Like all meds must be used with caution and supervised by someone who is well versed in psychopharmacology and a holistic approach to mental well being. Any discussion of psych meds needs to nuanced. They are not wonder drugs, the mode of action is incompletely understood, there are many possible …
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:40 PM
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Give me some time, looks like it might be useful
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:35 PM
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There is truth in that. I think a central problem which is being revealed in this thread is that the word 'depression' does not equate to single entity. It rather is an umbrella term that describes several different states that have different causes, trajectories and management options. A discussion of the validity as opposed to the utility of psychiatric diagnosis and classification is a worthy one but probably too far a departure from the main theme of this thread. On the one hand is existenti…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:23 PM
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You would have noted that I said care in selection is crucial. The idea that one should pay full attention to the quality of their nutrition and start getting regular exercise is (or should be) foundational throughout medicine.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 07:52 PM
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There are different types of anxiety so that may need some further exploration. Psychotherapy has a good evidence base for effectiveness. Different therapists use different approaches, CBT, mindfulness etc. Finding a good therapist is crucial.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:17 AM
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As an MD who practices in the psychiatric area I would agree. Take a look at anything written by Peter Gotzsche, one of the founding members of the Cochrane collaborative. Then the scales will fall from your eyes. From a different tangent, if one was to become depressed because of the existential awareness of the lies that one has been sold, would not numbing them back into subservience not be the correct strategy? Be careful, psychiatry knows a lot less than it appears.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 05:01 AM
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Here is a good review of that. The author is a woman who has written very RP sympathetic articles, particularly with respect to the high incidence of males being the victims of domestic violence. http://www.theaustralian.com.au/news/inquirer/cassie-jayes-red-pill-too-truthful-for-feminists-to-tolerate/news-story/13fd616a569c1d48bb4fd221d51795f2
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 12:20 AM
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Personally I would use dread game and not say a word, The stakes are high and include divorce. He needs to knuckle down and get his shit together. Eat clean, lift hard, cardio and cultivate discipline. As the body changes so does the mind. Soon enough, if he has the eyes to see, he will be getting looks, both women and men will start responding to him differently. She will either respond in kind or not. The choice is then his. Don't fall for the counselling, mental illness or erectile dysfunctio…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/16 10:41 PM
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Live up to your name soulbrave. Keep at it, fuck those who smirk. You will see who smirks after 12 months of solid lifting.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 09:47 PM
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Maybe the same for picking up plates. APPROACH. Get a copy of the book 'Antifragile'. You will make yourself stronger by deliberately and frequently putting yourself in uncomfortable situations. My experience in the gym is that the guys that know what they are about can be spotted pretty easily. Never had a knock back when I have asked for advice, just be seen to be following through on it. No one who is serious tolerates an attention seeker.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 09:43 PM
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Fully agree, great post. In fact the open letter has rich literary tradition. To those men that read this and felt awkward may I invite a moment of self reflection. Why did you feel that way? It is very possible that what you were experiencing was a defensive reaction, often founded in the experience of your own childhood. Usually involving an absent/distant father that you wished had been more available. You learnt early that to attempt to get close renders you vulnerable and open to be hurt em…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 08:40 PM
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Welcome aboard. Hang in there, cultivate hobbies, get off to the gym, don't put pussy on the pedestal and stay in touch with this community. Best wishes.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:20 PM
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http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-10-14/michelle-grattan-sometimes-sexism-gets-the-reward-it-deserves/7932068 The ex PM continues her diatribe, also very recent
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 09:04 AM
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Never doubted that. You could have a business on your hands, selling the curriculum/guides to other fathers.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 09:00 AM
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http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-10-15/ladies-and-longevity:-the-week-in-news/7932538 Look at the last paragraph, regarding the recent appointment of a man to a top UN post. This from within the last 24 to 48 hours
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:58 AM
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Agree. I too was one of those. I was a blue pill SJW. One day, out of desperation that I knew something was wrong but could not articulate it, I stumbled across TRP. I think it may have been via Rollo, then the scales fell from eyes. Not easy, but very, very liberating.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 04:02 AM
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And you probably have seen in the last few days the call for more women in academia down here, as they are still ' under represented ' From one pissed off Aussie to another.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:23 AM
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Sadly, though it be a limited sample, my experience of home schooling is that it often driven by the mother, frequently single, and very ill equipped to attempt the task. My approach has been the evening meal, we all sit together and talk about the days events. A small dose of red pill administered frequently trims the sails nicely.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:21 AM
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Suicide rates for young males already climbing. However what makes the news is a recent up spike in young female suicide rates.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:44 PM
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No longer the 'land down under where men plunder'
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:43 PM
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Good luck. A group of men tried to get a course started at a Uni in South Australia that addressed men's issues, as a balance to the feminist driven gender studies program. Years of development, just about to start enrolments, one femcunt complained. GONE!
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:41 PM
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No protection afforded by the private system here. Especially the primary system which is overwhelmingly dominated by females. This is a cancer. Very often I hear female teachers commenting on how wonderful the girls are and how difficult the boys are. Couple that with absent/weak father role models and these kids have NO idea of what it is to male. One avenue is to encourage participation in male dominated sport (football/cricket here) with a male couch. I almost threw up last year when our loc…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 11:36 PM
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Victorian here. This shit is becoming pandemic in Australia, our national broadcaster, the ABC, hardly lets a day slip by without some attack on masculinity. Everytime I see a child (male) who has been referred by teachers for the possibility of ADD/ODD etc I have a LONG hard talk with the parents about the problems boys face in an increasingly femcentric education system. Sometimes I get lucky and they remove the child from the school rather than have him on meds. Very often though, especially …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 10:39 PM
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Right on brother. So lamentable those days have largely passed.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 09:41 PM
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No need to apologise here. Best wishes
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 12:30 AM
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Welcome. All you need is in the side bar. Consider reading it the first step towards cultivating discipline, which you are going to need. This transition takes some time, not overnight. Read, check your nutrition and wander into a gym. Get a white board, put above your bed with daily, weekly, monthly goals. Once you have been doing that for a while come back with a reformulated question. No one here can or should hand out solutions, you must start the journey yourself, all the info you need is j…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 09:52 PM
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Let's not. Fair and objective is not the standard men are subjected to by women,the media, law enforcement agencies, the courts or all the betas, SJW's and white knights. Furthermore I call bullshit on this capacity for empathy and social skills as as well. If being 'better with children' produces what we see in the average child these days then they, women, stand guilty as charged. And the charges are legion!
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 05:18 AM
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As an Aussie, I used not to be able to understand the desire to bear arms. Since immersing myself in TRP I can now see where you guys are coming from. Interesting how uncomfortable it can be in the beginning as blue pill thinking is challenged and crumbles. We are in the unenviable position of not having a Bill of Rights, funny that few of the 'powers that be' have taken that cause up.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:03 AM
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Great post GLO. The forces at work are both ubiquitous, powerful and to some extent synergistic with human nature. The French philosopher Rene Girard wrote of mimetic desire. This being the unconsciously driven desire to have/attain what one sees others having/doing. One can easily see how this can and is being exploited.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 11:46 PM
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As a fellow MD, well done to you. Keep up the good fight. And that rectovag fistula, just a social construct, like gender, nothing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:52 AM
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Have to say that as each day passes I think about doing this more and more. Best of luck to you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/16 10:24 PM
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Same experience here, 51 yrs as well. My goals include climbing mountains of which I have a bucket list. Whenever I think I am too busy to hit the gym I look at the picture of a summit behind my desk and think of how hard it will be if I miss TODAY (the idea being the result you get is determined by what you do today, not tomorrow) and off I go. Good luck with your lifting.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 02:21 AM
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Guess who pays for the love child when the Bull has fucked off and beta billy has been kicked out!
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 11:24 PM
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Married 25 yrs +. Also in what would commonly be regarded as a good marriage to good woman. OP speaks the truth. Take heed!
/r/TheRedPill03/07/16 09:58 PM
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Agree. Good luck to them, but my personal experience and being in the business of talking to both sexes about their problems has shown me that our shared conclusion is the common experience.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 11:20 PM
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Correct, particularly the second point. One of the great traps for men who are sent to ' counselling' or 'therapy' with a female, and often sadly a BP male therapist is that they are expected to communicate LIKE A WOMAN. 'How do you feel' about this or that. If they cant then we have found our problem, you just cant communicate. The bloke is then shamed and the problems laid at his feet. This must be guarded against. When I do therapy with men I try to make it as accountable and actionable as po…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 10:36 PM
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rp-oldgame, I have been married 20+, agree with you entirely. She can be a good woman, a good mother, but there is no territory unexplored on that map. Have experienced exactly what you describe.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 09:50 PM
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And I'll call it leg day and finish the job in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 06:12 AM
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As has been said before, one thing is certain. Will Arnetts' cock cares not.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 10:31 PM
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Adoption is a hornets nest. Laws regarding biological parent access can change. Be very, very careful.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 10:27 PM
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Well that just brought up my breakfast. I am trying to avoid these morons parading around, but alas. Christ our country is going down the shitter. That and the green leader being 'afraid' of Trump and admiring Trudeau. All of the parties are milking DV for all it is worth.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 10:25 PM
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Perpetual motion, defies Newtonian mechanics, lubricated with bullshit so there is zero friction, no energy expenditure required.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 01:30 AM
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Your dick knows, its pure biology. Sadly many a man thinks they have ED, the problem being they have to resort to Viagra etc to get it up with the women they are with who has morphed into a landwhale. Very common middle aged married man scenario. Wife suggesting they go and get some help, BP husband not suggesting she hauls her arse off to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 01:27 AM
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No. Lived in the area from 1964 to 1982. Then moved around within the Sydney area whilst at uni. After that moved to Vic for work and stayed here.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 05:19 AM
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Penrith. So it was easy to jump on train and get of at Glenbrook and hike into the park, or Katoomba.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 05:10 AM
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Yep. Found the Blue Mountains to have the same effect on me when I was growing up. Hit the bush with my mates every chance I could when I was at school.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:50 AM
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Yes, particularly theories like postmodernism and feminism. From my experience as a fifty year old man TRP is experientially based. How to approach it? Like the Buddha said to his followers, don't take my word for it, if fact trust nothing until you have tested it for yourself. The journey is akin to a steep mountain, very hard to start, lots of slips and falls and wishing to go back to the certainties of base camp, but the view from the top....ah.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:37 AM
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Grampians area. Enjoy the bush, I have always found it restorative when I have been in a dark place. You sure have earned it. Safe travels
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 04:32 AM
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Best wishes and strength to you from a fellow Aussie. Grew up in Sydney, now live in the bush in Victoria. Stay strong, stay focused. Think about getting a nasty female barrister if and when you have to slug it out in court.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:26 AM
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Old man should go to Amsterdam.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 12:04 AM
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This short film (approx. 2 min) perfectly captures the difference between men's and wimmins communication style and how exasperating we find it. Enjoy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 10:24 PM
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I am at once amused and outraged by the assertion, increasingly accepted as truth by betas, not just the feminists that push it, that men do not know how to communicate. Look around us, the Roman aqueduct, the pyramids, technology, mathematics, great works of literature and art, etc etc fucking etc. We, I proclaim wearing my 'man' epithet proudly, know how to communicate. We communicate content in preference to form(feels). Distilled instruction, technical notation, graphics, the mutual nods of …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 03:56 AM
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You fucking patriarchal shitlord. Projecting those toxic masculine pursuits onto women. Off to the correctional talk you go!
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 09:41 PM
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I think it is the same in the part of Australia that I live in as well.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 09:35 PM
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Seen this play out so many times. Generations of weak mean brainwashed by the femcentric zeitgeist. Just this weak learnt of a young man at my gym, married young to girl with a serious disease. Has child, gets up at night to look after said kid to give wifey a rest. Looks after kid when she wants to go out. Then she declares that he has locked her down, stolen her best years and she wants strange cock. Sure baby, whatever makes you happy makes me happy. Off she goes to the CC. Next move, he is k…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 09:32 PM
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The other 'epidemic' occurs at the end of useful employment. The government peddles the live longer, work longer propaganda. Meanwhile middle aged unskilled men are laid off, many succumb to illness, depression or suicide. All the while the number of part time female friendly jobs rise. Dependency flips. Its hard not to see large scale engineering at work. So many asleep. Good post OP. Thoughtful. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 05:05 AM
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Jesus I need a lid on my coffee when I read some of these responses.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:54 AM
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Why are you asking permission? This whole subreddit is screaming the answer at you!
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:25 AM
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"Hey babe, meet you at the pool". That should take care of that.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 05:11 AM
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Agree. If I ever became single OH BOY would I embrace it. Never ever would I jeopardise myself with what I know now. To err once might be forgivable, but twice....
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 04:53 AM
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Well everybody does not cheat. We are living in a shit society. As a father of young men I try to be an exemplar. Not preach, but live my values and be consistent. Distil the RP truths, not didactically but by Socratic dialogue. Be realistic, AWALT, don't be shocked if you get cheated on, don't get oneitis, pursue self improvement etc. As has been said before a man needs a code. What a man does with his own code is his business. Just because some hoe cheats on me does not mean I follow suit. AWA…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 12:44 AM
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That is one of the most powerful critiques of the mindfulness movement. They have taken one of the eightfold paths and made it the only one. Forget speech, action, etc etc. A very soppy version that does not call one to take personal inventory and responsibility for action. Watered down Buddhism for the west, to compliment your tie dyed T shirt, Thai fisherman pants and hemp bag.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 12:23 AM
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Yes, I agree with your point about distortion. Certainly is the case that biology is ignored when what it demonstrates does not 'feel' good.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:56 PM
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Sounds like a crock. Pink means well oxygenated, blue means ( to be very non technical) kids fucked, do something. That is a rather long bow to draw in terms of comparison, but that's sociology for you.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:40 PM
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Agree. Great to have a place where we can own our shit and sit back and consider how it applies to me, rather than how can I judge another mans actions. Good post OP.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:28 PM
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Whenever I hear opposition the the notion of men's rights I am reminded of Elie Wiesel's millennium speech. To give you the most salient excerpts: "Of course, indifference can be tempting -- more than that, seductive. It is so much easier to look away from victims. It is so much easier to avoid such rude interruptions to our work, our dreams, our hopes. It is, after all, awkward, troublesome, to be involved in another person's pain and despair. Yet, for the person who is indifferent, his or her …
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 11:17 PM
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Correct. One well known Western practitioner/teacher, Jack Kornfield, said your job when meditating is to sit on the cushion and be present to the shit that happens, that is all. Therein is a core tenant, to dwell nonjudgmentally, with awareness, in the present moment. Lots of BS spun about neuroplasticity. It certainly is a fact, but some of the new age claims are less than well supported by evidence.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 10:35 PM
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Both can co-exist. Depression with psychotic phenomenon is a well recognised condition and is treated differently to non psychotic depression. The spectrum of severity ranges from mild, moderate (some psychomotor retardation) to severe (+/- psychotic features). Keep in mind the word depression is relatively imprecise and describes a number of states that may have different neurocognitive psychopathologies.Usually it takes the form of persecutory delusions, delusions of having malignant disease o…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:18 AM
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Like giving the kids a respectable funeral. How fucking dysfunctional.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:13 AM
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Believe it. Patient gets off shoplifting because she 'dissociates'. This shit is real.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:11 AM
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The Karl scenario is not implausible. I know of doctors who have been held accountable when patients have not followed through with recommendations that have been made.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 09:19 PM
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Allow me to clarify. Attachment theory asserts that the ROLE of primary care giver and the SECURITY of the attachment are key. That role may be filled by mother OR father. The feminists don't like this as they are quick to pick up on the obligation and responsibility involved, one cannot blame the mother if the kid is screwed up (from their perspective, of course we know different). The role of the secondary care giver, if the child should be so lucky to have one, is to facilitate the role of th…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 04:59 AM
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Mother can mess up kids WITH a father present. From one psychological perspective what matters is the quality of the attachment between the baby and the primary care giver < insert gender here>. That person needs to be present and available, both in time and in person. If those conditions are met then there is fair chance the early years will be ok. The father appears to play a more significant role in the later childhood phase when the kids needs the push into the world and some firm barriers w…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 02:39 AM
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Congratulations, it sounds like you have a role model. Look after that man as the years pass. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 09:03 PM
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Blue tinted glasses and desperation my friend.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:34 AM
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Simple, don't marry and beware of cohabitation laws in your jurisdiction. Otherwise the advice above re trusts. Getting divorced raped young is bad enough, there comes an age where you cannot recover. I had a patient recently tell me that she drafted a prenup with a new guy, no children involved. He was to pay her $x1000 per month for ever if they split and she gets access to his funds acquired before getting together. Buyer beware!!
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 12:31 AM
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That's worthy of pondering deeply about. Take an upvote.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:42 PM
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Agree, odds are he will walk right into another disaster. That's why the 'shock therapy' of TRP is so vital. Only when you turn inward and really examine both yourself and WHY/WHAT you have been seeking in your previous relationships can you become free.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:32 PM
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It is. Every day there is a news item extolling the virtues of women and the evils of the pay gap and lack of equality. I could be accused of generalising but the whole Green party and a fair number of both the major parties are betas that pander to this shit. Some every restrictive laws coming into action, for example in Tasmania a person who is accused of domestic violence cannot cross examine the 'victim'. A bit of a problem is your financially stretched and have to represent yourself. Lots o…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:27 PM
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No problem. Happy to talk further when required. You are certainly going to need to cultivate fortitude, both mentally and physically. Best wishes.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 04:40 AM
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OK. Give me a few hours, am at work. Then I will get back to you. BPD and borderline are rather different creatures. One way of beginning to discern which is which is the childhood history. Was she abused, had a few failed relationships, has no (decent) friends, cannot trust, one minute idolises you, next your an arse hole, evidence of cutting? If so more likely borderline. First thing however, YOU are very vulnerable if you think you cannot live without her. The brutal truth is that you MUST ge…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:17 AM
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Do you know exactly what she suffers from? That way I might be able to tailor the advice more appropriately, all things considered. As a generic response however, dealing with mental illness in a loved one can be very taxing. Step back and check your diet, carve out time for fitness, lifting helps your own mood as well as cardiovascular fitness and SMV. Make sure you do not become socially isolated from your friends. The particulars I will address with further info if you wish.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 11:45 PM
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Advice from someone who treats these problems on a daily basis: DONT. If you are in a quality LTR with someone who becomes depressed, that is a different matter. But to consider courting someone with a personality disorder, might as well wander through the everglades dragging a rotting carcass. You will not come out unscathed.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 10:29 PM
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Marriage was stale, I was being needy for sex and what was on offer was not satisfying. After a few months of immersing myself here and beginning to see the wood (or lack of it) for the tress I had a bit of an epiphany. Rather than blame the wife I had a good look at myself in the mirror and asked if I were a women would I fuckwhat I saw? NO. So I quit asking for sex, in fact I just opted out of sex al together. Went through the kitchen and threw all the shit out, ordered cookbooks and started c…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 09:22 PM
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This. One Hail Mary and all is forgiven. Now where has that new cock gone..
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:23 AM
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The going exchange rate in gender dynamics: diamonds for shit!
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:07 AM
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I can easily understand that. Many of us found marriage way before the red pill, and for some us we remain married and it works. But, that is something of a singularity. Though female nature has always been what is, social changes have removed all barriers to the expression of hypergamy and legal frameworks disempower men. Given these phenomenon MRP is justified on two fronts. 1. As has been said, if you are facing a bear you are not looking for advice about what a dick you are getting into this…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:02 AM
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Agree. Lifting is therapeutic in its own right.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 10:39 PM
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On the money u/Thotwrecker. 50% is a myth. I know so many married med that will have three dates on their tombstone. Born--/--/-- Died--/--/-- Buried--/--/-- And the last two maybe decades apart. To all the young men who may read this post, think long and hard about OP's post.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:20 AM
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Agree fully. I am married, have been for 25 years. Had its travails, sailed close to the edge sometimes. Raised by a narc mother and absent father, my wife is a good woman but do I recommend this to my children.... NO! Why: 1. I wouldn't do it if I knew what I know now. 2. Your risk it ALL, children, property, happiness, capacity to develop as an individual unfettered by the demands of others. 3. Chances of you finding a person with whom you can grow with in a developmentally complimentary way o…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 10:00 PM
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Have an upvote, gave me a laugh in an otherwise unremarkable afternoon. Good post OP, one for you as well. Nothing more certain than the questions that follow from sustained gym activity.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 06:09 AM
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See 2.10 minutes onwards, the appropriate response from Bond in the DB classic. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hInFQ4eN2Qo
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:24 AM
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What time zone are you in? I am in GMT +10. Lets say we could have chat for 30-60mins gratis. We might then be able to discern a crude map forward and sort out how to access local resources.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:00 AM
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Yes. The theory went on to be developed further with various personality traits being speculated upon as having there origin in a disordered attachment. The most severe expression is the borderline personality disorder and one of the most promising modes of treatment, mentalisation, has its origins in the work of Bowlby. Then there is the avoidant type, they want attachment but expect abandonment. Classic scenario, GF is perceived as being unavailable or distant, you respond with fuck you, I do …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 03:39 AM
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There are lots. The important thing is the doing, not so much the reading. Here is one: Goldstein J; Insight Mediation. Other good authors include Thich Nhat Hah (Breath, you are alive) and Jack Kornfield. Jon Kabot Zinn, though a bit wordy, has lots of good stuff on mindfulness. Happy sitting!
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:15 AM
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Thanks. I use this framework frequently in therapy with men so it is part of my job. One of the may untruths peddled about TRP, that we are a bunch of under-educated, cave dwelling neck beards. There is a lot of wisdom and knowledge on this forum.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:39 AM
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Thanks. Many of us older guys (I'm 51) learn this the hard way, well into adult hood. Much the same way as we encounter the red pill. I see you have been a regular contributor of late. You have youth on your side. Be careful not to become bitter, aim for freedom. Knowledge, particularly self knowledge is key. A regular meditation practice can help to discern the here and now from the influence of past and future. Best wishes.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:37 AM
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This nonsense is eroding basic freedoms. In Tasmania it recently came to pass that a person accused of domestic violence could not cross examine the 'victim'. Why, because it is ' too traumatic'. No major drama when your counsel can get in there, but if the man cannot afford representation and goes it alone..... FUCKED. The response from the feminazi brigade when this problem was made obvious was, as you would expect, no problem, it is the victim and her feels that matter. NOT the truth. Tough t…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:11 AM
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There was a post about it several months ago. John Bowlby was the founder. The theory was informed by both his psychoanalytic background and ethological studies. It represented the move away from the Freudian drive theory to the idea that what humans universally seek is a secure attachment as a baby. Get that right and the world is perceived as generally benevolent and one can move into with some sense of security (that now being the projected expectation resulting from the internalised security…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 12:53 AM
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Best wishes to you OP. u/G_Petronius is correct. She was the screen that received his projection Learning about attachment theory and having (appropriate, by a male with no hesitation to pull punches) therapy if in risk of serial oneitis helps avoid outcomes like this. She was actually a minor player in a production that started in his childhood.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 09:27 PM
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Good one. Beta Billy gets a bullet in the brain for thinking he can fuck a whore that would ride a gearstick.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 10:31 AM
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Interesting interpretation of no shaming. May I suggest you take your shit elsewhere, clearly NOT what this sub is about
/r/TheRedPill08/05/16 11:51 PM
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Interesting contribution. From another perspective marriage may well have been a more benign institution when it was socially reinforced and the average life expectancies of the parties involved were short. However now we face the prospect of living well towards 100 and to expect both parties to be developmentally aligned throughout such a large expanse of time is essentially unreasonable. This not withstanding all we know about female nature. Passion will wane, interest will diminish, the end r…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 01:30 AM
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Agree. I would have no problems supporting the wellbeing of my children in the event of divorce, fortunately my youngest is now 18. However, I have seen so many men destroyed by the malicious actions of the ex in turning their children against them you seriously question where is the line. Furthermore, supporting YOUR (that is to say you have confirmed your pedigree) children is one thing, supporting the divorced partner is another. FUCK THAT. If womyn (I prefer that spelling as a certain subset…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/16 01:19 AM
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married man here, agree with the move, thanks. Look forward to the discussions, and BTW, do not marry!
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:31 AM
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Still not perfect but at least she cannot forget to take it. I would not take her word without checking for the strings during foreplay.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 08:24 AM
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Yes. Its like seeing a rainbow, "ah, there is that majestic hamster again, ain't she something", have a smile and a chuckle with a nod of the head and move on. Otherwise you could go spare! Had a women just the other day telling me her husband died of a broken ankle, right after she told me the autopsy found a heart disease. I could have been speaking Zulu when I tried to point out that an autopsy is pretty reliable, but oh no. Its one fucking amazing piece of kit that hamster.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 04:53 AM
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Agree. Short of the missing bits or proven infertility from another cause, no way on Earth would I even intimate to a patient that conception is off the cards. I've heard it all, 'he does not put his dick in, he pulls out before he comes yada yada'. The intelligence of some of the users must make opening the packet a challenge. Then there are the other variables that might interfere with the absorption;antibiotics, other drugs, gut issues, diarrhoea etc etc. No such thing as fail safe short of v…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 12:55 AM
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Well done. Pity more men did not share those outcomes. I was under the impression however that the parliament made the law and we are all expected to abide by it. Maybe just another illusion?
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 02:17 AM
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Good luck. I understand your point, I have two daughters. But reality suggests other outcomes may occur. If you are not already aware, at least here in Australia, you are seriously disempowered as a parent. Kid wants the pill at 15- no prob. Kid wants to move out of home at 15 because you are an oppressive arsehole (not suggesting you are), sure, meet the team of SJW's that will find her a place in Crackhouse Court and help her fill in the social security paperwork. Abortion at 16 and don't tell…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 11:47 PM
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Agree, and apart from men the real losers are the kids. So often I hear women bemoaning the labour involved in raising a child. So often I hear the call for monetary compensation. Ideally one would of thought raising a child was a privilege, not a burden. But there we go again, ideally. Doesn't exist. A good barometer for checking how far along the unplugging spectrum you are is how one gets triggered. Feeling angry, OK, still some unplugging to go. The final phase, amused mastery, implies a cer…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 11:02 PM
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Agree. Morality is just an abstraction, the universe is neutral and does not give a fuck. Sadly. The notion of there being a germ of good that exist within all people is not that far removed from the other great myth, all mothers love their children unconditionally. It IS all about consequence and what is tolerable within the limits of the given cultural norms at the time. Accepting this is another step along the road to freedom and the cultivation of amused mastery. That said, don't become Rask…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 09:58 PM
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Or the red pill version. She's a bitch and I am free.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:13 AM
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Like not being a beta-a new revolutionary act.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 05:13 AM
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Or hold onto his one remaining atrophied ball when he goes home to his wife and Tyrone.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 04:18 AM
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Put it to the tune of 'Hit the Road Jack", and I'm not going to give them no more no more no more no more....
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:45 PM
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Too generous to assume there was any discussion that permitted a choice !
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:43 PM
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Congratulations u/redpillschool. For an aggressively feminist rag like the guardian I think you have done a sterling job.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:31 PM
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Biggest genetic problem these kids have is their parents.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 11:17 PM
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Correct. It will be just another case of 'bullying' resulting from toxic masculine social conditioning with cries for even greater 'diversity' and 'inclusion' policies within the femcentric education system. Wonder if he gets to choose the colour of his wifes peg?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 10:48 PM
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Spot on. I'll go out on a limb and say that in my experience dealing with patients, a hyphenated name is one red flag up before we even get started. Then lets follow that with parents unmarried and kid home schooled by mum, usually not immunised and you almost have the flush before the kid gets to speak a word. Biased I know but that's what I have come to conclude over the last twenty years.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 09:50 PM
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Generations of men raised by women. Guided by feeling, entitlement and a need for validation rather than logic and hard earned respect. They sadly do not know what being a man entails. To the mods and EC's. Thanks, much learnt, keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 12:55 AM
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And in other news today water is wet.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 01:19 PM
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Agree, this seems such a universal experience. I am married for 24 years. Two years ago, after having worked my arse off for decades supporting the kids and putting her through post grad studies I reluctantly announced to her that I might be suffering from depression and needed some time off work. BANG, switch flicked. Suddenly she feels the same and quits work. Fuck was I resentful. With four kids took a hard look at the situation, took two months off work, radically changed the diet and lived …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 08:38 PM
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Check the mum is good advice if you want to get a sneak preview of what might ahead. Learned that one the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 08:26 AM
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Touching a fucking vagina is though, or making an unwanted glance, or asking her out if you are not Chad. I know what you say is true but the double standard catapults me right back into anger mode.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:13 PM
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Sadly an export from my country. I remember that song well, I was in second class. 'Only Women Bleed' was another one that comes to mind. I had the good fortune of going to a boys only school from grade 5 to year 10. Best thing ever, mostly male teachers as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:07 PM
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Very true. Heard many a story from male teachers of the need for constant vigilance. Where and how they look, what not to touch, what not to say, where not be alone. A fucking nightmare. Little wonder men are opting out of education.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 10:03 PM
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I would also suggest getting a regular, say six monthly, sperm count post vasectomy. The chances of spontaneous recanalisation of the vas are low, but I have seen it happen and you can guess the fall out.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 09:53 PM
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Sure. There is no shortage in fact,bit depends on how you want to approach it. Here is a very brief list: Robert Kull. 'Solitude, seeking wisdom in extremes'. Story of a bloke who spent time alone in Patagonia. Anthony Storr. 'Solitude' A psychiatrist extols the virtues of introversion and aloneness Thick Nhat Hanh. 'Fear' A Buddhist approach. Christopher Jamieson. ' Finding Sanctuary ' A very ecumenical Christian approach. And of course the stoics such as Plutarch, Epictetus and Seneca. Beyond …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 05:51 AM
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Not one I would care to spit roast.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 06:28 AM
2

This. I fear that just this may deliver you guys in the US a very bad election outcome. If the feminists feel that all intercourse is rape because the patriarchy is subliminally threatening and they are unable to withhold consent because of fear, then I say to them you are either a child or a retard. Either way the privilege to vote should be rescinded from these shrews.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 06:24 AM
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Whilst your waiting for the motivation to arrive, which can often be a long time coming, harness your strengths and cultivate discipline instead. Discipline rather than motivation. By your gym habits you should be able to do this. Then, rather than waiting for a muse, you just turn up to whatever it is that is important, rain, hail or shine. Furthermore, may I suggest you do some reading regarding discerning solitude and loneliness. A man needs solitude, it is an enriching, fallow like experienc…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 05:06 AM
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Prepared for a laugh? Several years ago a fellow did a postgrad thesis on masculinities. After giving the mythopoetic men's movement a trashing he suggested that we could learn from queer and neo feminist ideology. These are what he called numen! I'll stick with patriarchy thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 08:50 AM
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I think you are spot on. SHOW them how to live. Internalising the RP and leading a manly life might just catch their attention, particularly if they have no father or a brow beaten, exhausted BB who just ekes out an existence day to day. Be an exemplar, that's the way to effect change and honour the principal of working on being your best self.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 04:48 AM
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Justifiable anger. There are medicine cupboards full of that shit in schools all over this country (Australia), just waiting for the morning admin. Strength to you, all the best for your boy, at least he has got a solid mentor in his life.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 12:59 AM
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Important points. Both by OP and ultimatecad. I sadly see children often sent to me to 'sort them out', 'use medication' etc. Almost invariably the referrer is a female, mother or school teacher. The correlation between poor parenting, limited boundary setting, ambivalent or non existent discipline is so high that I remain unconvinced about the validity of ADHD as an entity. In twenty years I have seen two kids that I would unequivocally diagnose with this and both of those assaulted their mothe…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 12:32 AM
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Try this: Du du hast du hast mich du hast mich gefragt du hast mich gefragt, und ich hab nichts gesagt Willst du bis der Tod euch scheidet treu ihr sein für alle Tage Nein Willst du bis zum Tod, der scheide sie lieben auch in schlechten Tagen Nein You you have you have me you have asked me you have asked me and I have said nothing Do you want, until death seperates you, to be faithful to her for all days No Do you want, until death, which would seperate, to love her, even in bad days No And, the…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 12:28 AM
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Or as Eric Fromm described, ' The pathology of normalcy'
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 11:59 PM
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This is where the red pill journey has taken me. +1 for your comment. I once was very BP SJW, now, after waking up and seeing what is going on, I am where you are. My job is to maximise my self and my family. The former is the only that is under my control. If I happen to inspire the curiosity of a few that leads to change, great. If not, so be it. Lamentable, but realistic.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 10:36 PM
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Exactly. It is a musical instrument that I learn as well. Must say I found it hard to start with, mostly raised with my father absent, mother pushing her own agenda hard. But after a while I knew what I was getting was authentic, a real gift.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 09:52 PM
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They have had a life time of being told they are a special cup-cake. Then they arrive in adulthood after being ' empowered' in their expectations from the female dominant school system, enter the workforce after further fem only scholarships and positive discrimination hiring. Have a child (that becoming increasingly a life style choice) be eligible for child support, subsidized child care (or demand that it be provided by the employer). If they become unemployed they have the safety net of unem…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 09:32 PM
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Agree. I am seeing positive psychology centres being established in schools around my location. All about affirmation that is given for merely turning up. It is fascinating to take a cross cultural look at this. I am a student of a traditional Japanese art. My sensei was talking one day about his own journey. If the teacher scolded you and told you to get out, stop wasting his time and come back when you can do better, that was praise! If he said 'good job, good job', you knew you were a waste o…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:55 PM
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Kudos to you young friend. At least you can see the trees from the fat cows frolicking on the grass. All the best to you.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:28 PM
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There is truth in OP's comments. The 'anti fat shaming movement' seeks to shift the standards again. http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-03-20/chelsea-bonner-on-size-of-beauty-in-modelling-industry/7261850 As OP says, there are plenty of beta's out there that will only reinforce this nonsense. Not only is it to the detriment of the nations public health, it goes against our evolutionary drive to select fit mating partners. As has been said before, it is not only the feminista that are our enemies, t…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 08:24 PM
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Here is a marketing opportunity for GLO. A T shirt with Yes Means Yes Means Tank Your Rank. (men going elsewhere). With an appropriate college logo attached.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:54 PM
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It's already dead in the water. Ideally I would get my frame in check so there is no aggression or sense of butt hurt. Get the advice I need regarding the damage coming my way. Nonchalantly say one does what one must. Then......gone. What.a.bitch.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 10:21 PM
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Agree with that. If I were to become single I could definitely see the point of MGTOW, particularly as I am in the 50 age group with adult kids.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 08:50 AM
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Right on Archwinger. Men in general are actually unaware of the degree to which we do have power. If the discipline can be harnessed to focus on oneself, as the core driving ambition, and that pussy will be a consequence amongst many other desirable outcomes, then we can really shake the system. As has been said elsewhere, it is not just feminism that is the enemy, it the betas that are so indoctrinated they have no fucking clue. Just this week I overheard a conversation between some twenty some…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 10:48 PM
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Apologies not required here! Your point is apt, I am reminded of the millennium speech at the White House by Elie Wiesel: "In a way, to be indifferent to that suffering is what makes the human being inhuman. Indifference, after all, is more dangerous than anger and hatred. Anger can at times be creative. One writes a great poem, a great symphony, one does something special for the sake of humanity because one is angry at the injustice that one witnesses. But indifference is never creative. Even …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 03:36 AM
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Certainly is getting tough here. Last year a proposed course in Men's studies at Uni of South Australia was shut down after a feminist critique. If you go searching for similar courses you may find one, from an unaccredited university in Hawaii. Similarly a course in Men's Health offered by a Western Australian university no longer exists. Dire times indeed. I relinquished by subscription to the Australian edition of the Guardian after getting sick of anti-male rants that became increasingly com…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:33 PM
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I would not call the middle of Federation Square in Melbourne 'intimate'. Furthermore you would be a real prat wandering around asking directions to the nearest pet store. I'm on board with the ruse theory. Anyway, not to worry, I read that our glorious foreign minister may decline a visa. The White Knights can put their steeds away and the femmes can sleep easy once more.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 06:44 AM
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Agree with your point regarding material necessity in preindustrial and third world situations. I cannot see first world mating behaviour ever changing. The material consequence of human rights and education is access to reproductive control. That is to say that in these human societies culture is part of the environment which can exert selective pressures. Cultural change gives access to technology that changes biology. That coupled with the dissolution of the extended family, another consequen…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 08:27 AM
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Glad I watched this. Next time a womyn starts wingeing I will demand that she " checks her privilege". Certainly seems as if they are the ones that have it, rather than western white cis-gendered males.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:04 AM
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Oh but wait, says the teacher to the mother, there are drugs that will help them pay attention again !
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 05:00 AM
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Point for the truth. I am not an American but I really lament over the decline both here in Australia and for you guys. Just look at NASA and aviation. The shit that got done in the 50's to 80's just would not happen now. Too much red tape, not enough raw masculine energy willing to risk it all to see how high, how fast and how far.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:53 AM
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Very firm stats that once you have female education and human rights in place the birth rate falls. I am not arguing against these, but the association is established.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 04:35 AM
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....Lawyers
/r/MGTOW26/01/16 11:51 PM
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Check out the Harvard Study of Adult Development. Best popularised in Vaillant, "Aging Well" . http://www.amazon.com/Aging-Well-Surprising-Guideposts-Development/dp/0316090077/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1453845116&sr=8-1&keywords=aging+well+valliant Significant truths about the importance of male bounding throughout the lifespan and its effect on longevity. However, as many posters have noted, it gets harder post red pill. I too have found the gym a good place to strike up conversation between reps,…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 09:53 PM
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Doctor here, agree beyond 100%. I practice privately, within a hospital and teach at two universities. The standards are falling, the level of intelligence required to get into the profession is falling and the paperwork and required level of political correctness are escalating. It is turning to shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 08:24 PM
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Brave New World describes the present dystopia more accurately than 1984, though of course elements of both apply. Check out this utube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FRabb6_Gr2Y Neil Postman on 'Amusing Ourselves to Death' .
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:30 AM
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Here the analogy of the matrix rings loud. Unless there is that shard of doubt about reality irritating your mind, you do not see the illusion. A bluepill has to have this, then with luck he will meet a man that behaves in a way that stimulates his curiosity. Why the IDGAF attitude, why the apparent contentment, why the seeming abundance? As smokecheck 1976 said, defend what is yours. Be the change you want to see, broker no shit and play the laws of power. Do not be passive.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:25 AM
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Agree fully. Its tragic that so many young men are so deeply indoctrinated that they cannot see it for what it is. Emasculation and female domination. The perversion of language makes me irate; 'rape', 'aggression' , what do they even mean anymore. But I get it, they are not defined conceptually but rather emotively in the midbrain of the female. Hard times ahead indeed. But, as said before, we as men can endure. Back to the stoics, the gym and the endless quest for self mastery and improvement.…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:07 AM
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link to the article http://graphics8.nytimes.com/images/blogs/freakonomics/pdf/DeliberatePractice(PsychologicalReview).pdf
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 10:59 PM
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Interesting dystopic vision. All boys are automatically on a potential sex offender list from 12 to 18, graduation from that determined by a panel of womyn that is convened monthly. Restrictions apply, apps on electronic devices prohibiting porn, no hanging out with adult men outside the immediate household, no aggressiveness to females tolerated. If breached demerit points, get enough then onto a different list with greater restrictions on employment etc.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 10:09 PM
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Just call and report the details to a female connie, then call back moments later as you had to jack off from the vicarious excitement that resulted from explicitly describing your sexual fantasy to a women in uniform. Oh shit.. Its happened again
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:46 PM
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Got a phone book, daily random pick, who knows your luck in a big city.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/16 09:41 PM
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Exactly the answer. Someone who is not aware of the power that lies within and the options that might be available once the pill is swallowed, the gym is hit and reality seen for the first time.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 12:20 AM
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Interesting qualifier. Can I lift her?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 12:18 AM
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Truth right there. You don't know how it will end. But whatever it is, by the time you've arrived here the odds are that the way the relationship is at the moment must end regardless.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/16 12:15 AM
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Has she ever made any false allegations?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:14 PM
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Pre TRP I used to think this way as well. However working in the health sector with eyes wide open has led me to see how (the Australian version) of social security gives people the option of opting out, having kids for benefits and generally leading the life of a parasite. Bnefits for the injured, vets, the elderly; sure. Benefits for the rest, simply unaffordable. To fund healthcare properly the tax rates would have to rise significantly, and the corollary of that is what you make free eventua…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:53 PM
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Agree. If you don't like them who cares. STFU and stop whining like a women. Kudos to GLO for having the initiative to get off his arse and try something instead of looking to Chad Thundergovernment, as it was eloquently put in a post recently.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:45 PM
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Absolutely correct. Loose the balance and illness results. Depression and anxiety are both in part characterised by imbalanced limbic, particularly amygdaloid, and prefrontal cortex inputs/outputs.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:40 PM
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Agree. The increasingly wide and slippery interpretation of what constitutes violence, workplace discrimination against men and false rape allegations are REAL and getting worse by the day. Do nothing for long enough and the prospect of male emancipation from the fem agenda will be well nigh impossible. Not to even start on the crises facing boys and young men being indoctrinated in female dominated education. GLO is correct, distil his advice through the 38 laws of power and stand up. As Lenin …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:34 PM
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Just lost the coffee with that last line!
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 11:04 PM
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Maybe we should have a free the cock picnic, pity it could not have been synchronised with the nipfest.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:37 AM
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And like a car they depreciate as soon as the rubber hits the road.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 05:28 AM
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Changing gyms is running away. Use the adverse environment to strengthen you. Focus on your routine.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 04:09 AM
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You may have or are about experience an acute attack of oneitis. My prescription: Realise such. Hit the sidebar, immerse yourself in the terrors that await those who fall. View it as immunisation. Back to the gym, get some pain in your limbs happening to get your mind off her. Interests (other than her pussy)? If none now is the time to cultivate. If yes then get back to it. Introduce some space, NOT with view to what it might motivate her to do rather to give YOU the time needed to see clearly.…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:50 AM
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As it has been said. There is no 'try', only 'do'. Probably is not part of that vocabulary. Good luck, but a post after the achievement would be more meaningful than a list of aspirations. Acta, non verba.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 03:26 AM
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I understand that. But what further damage would be done by risking reunion and the possibility it may go south again, or the strained dynamics as anger resurfaces. At a deeper level, what is it in you that needs to get back together. I ma not referring to the obvious issues regarding the kids but your need for attachment. Maybe, as suggested elsewhere, the fact that you are considering this throws light upon some inner work that needs to be done. Care would need to be exercised in choosing a th…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 09:46 PM
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51 yr old, four kids, married 26,years. You said it yourself, you are nuts. The best analogy i can liken this to is Russian roulette. You've been told there are two rounds in a six round chamber. Five have gone, I straight into your guts via your heart. Now you're saying, Nah, I'll be OK. I get your concern. I see lots of kids fucked beyond repair by parents not separating and staying that way. Your mutual behaviours are their primary model for the future. Is this what you want them to accept as…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 08:50 AM
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Pull the pin, reprehensible behaviour. Clearly identify this is the consequence of her actions to all involved. She can deal with the angst from the sibs. A bad show.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:48 AM
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As a doctor I would certainly second that The kids I see, almost exclusively male, are almost exclusively referred by female teachers or mothers.
/r/MGTOW14/01/16 08:29 PM
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#wastehertime2016. Sorry hun, forgot to tell you about the snip . After several years and the wall approaches with the certainty of an event horizon.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:26 AM
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Agree fully. I am sick and tired of getting requests from lawyers requesting reports that may lead to exoneration or sentence minimisation based upon very tenuous arguments of mental illness. Just like false rape (though not nearly as devastating) it does an injustice to those who really suffer. I also have seen the person who has the bipolar diagnosis, go fuck someone else whilst they are clinically normal, then play the hypomanic card to get out of the consequences. Bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 11:06 PM
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If by BPD you mean borderline, there is considerable data from India and some from US/Europe/Australia that has larger numbers of males than traditional thought. Certainly much higher rates in India. But keep in mind the limitation of DSM vs ICD. DSM is pretty west-centric. Otherwise yes, the spilt is as you suggest.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 11:01 PM
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The personality disorders are murky. There are no 'zones of rarity', features that allow one to reliably discriminate between one or another (hence the clusters) or indeed between a personality disorder and any other mental illness, particularly bipolar affective disorder. There are of course ways of arriving at diagnoses, but one must be aware that these diagnoses, particularly as presented within nosologies such as DSM are constructs and nothing more. They are not true entities. That is not to…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 10:02 PM
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Thanks. Though I know I can only speak through my own cultural and experiential reference, I really feel for the younger generation. So much uncertainty and the state of gender relations is fucked beyond belief. All the best to you, pm anytime.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:22 AM
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The word may have retained its true meaning for you. However for many it is toxic. Its just another reality that many of us have to confront when pealing back the onion of self understanding. I agree with the ideal you put forth, your family should be your refuge. But alas.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 09:58 PM
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That generational gap is a real thing. I am 51, married with 4 kids aged 25 to 18. My wife occasionally starts up about they should this and that. I have to remind her that tectonic changes have occurred. Gender relations, technology, employment, the relentless, insidious creep of postmodernist relativism. Its a different world for you guys.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 09:55 PM
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Agree 100 percent with u/Whisper. Take control. Abandon the fantasy that all parents provide unconditional love. Steer your own course. I've treated MANY men that spend a vast amount of their adult life coming to terms with their childhood. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 12:57 AM
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Upvoting for the insight on the need for validation. Been subjecting myself to vetting this very need since encountering TRP. Being raised by a borderline mother and absent father makes the encounter with authentic masculinity threatening for some time. Learning how to behave like a man, take what is rightfully inbound in the way of critique and cultivate IDGAF for the rest takes some time.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 11:48 PM
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You are asking the correct questions. Often our present behaviour patterns have there roots in our childhood. The way your mother +/- father related to you is critical. In my experience, both personally and clinically, whilst there is certainly truth in the notion of the absent father/father wound, the 'mother' wound is often much more devastating. We like to think mothers are the epitome of love, reality for many of us proves otherwise. As men, of course we have feelings, we just have to be dis…
/r/MGTOW29/12/15 08:15 PM
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Welcome. Me, married 27 years, 4 kids. Take it slow. Lots of good advice already given; diet, exercise, read etc. I cannot emphasise enough the take it slow. The pill can be hard to assimilate. You will find yourself questioning everything, long held values, friendships, priorities. It can really catch you by surprise. So for now, low profile, keep your cards close and knuckle down and work. After a few months you may see some changes. If your are seriously on board it is LONG haul. Keep that ga…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 04:11 AM
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Reminds me of the story reported a few years back. British John called the police emergency number after a hooker he ordered turned up looking not like the advertisement. His complaint, too ugly,breached the sale of goods act. Police not amused.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 06:35 AM
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From my own experience and talking to other men this experience is really common. Your too rough, someone is going to get hurt. Yes, it will be him when he grows up and remains a beta supplicant. I do not think women get this, just like how WE (that is men) cannot communicate. What she is saying is that we do not communicate like her hamster hamster. Keep up the good work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 03:33 AM
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Well done and welcome, from another 50+.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:00 PM
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Agree. I have a few pairs of Crockett and Jones. Keep them well polished. Rather surprised at the amount of attention they get from the ladies.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:38 PM
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Right on. An RP man seeks to develop respect for himself. From that all will follow. Own your shit, lift, read, eat well, take responsibility for actions and outcomes. To what degree others respect you is one of those variables over which one has limited control. To what degree you respect yourself is another matter.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:34 PM
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U/Ladd_MaccAodh has given some good advice above. Some of the psychology involved will be accessible, some more unconscious. In a way, this is a blessing in disguise. The point being the way through this is to unburden yourself. Remember, modern Wymyn are responsible for their own orgasms. Your job is to deal with the head on your shoulders and freeing yourself from the responsibility of pleasing her is a good way to start. Focus on your pleasure. This is a starting point, not the whole journey.…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 12:26 AM
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Rammstein are great. Du hast should be a red pill anthem.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:44 PM
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Not necessarily. There are physical ( neurological, vascular, endocrine, medication side effects, smoking, caffeine and alcohol consumption) and psychological (performance anxiety, depression, relationship issues, more complex psychodynamic issues) causes. The general advice of lift and diet is, of course, appropriate and fundamental. However seeing your doctor at least gives you peace of mind that all issues have been considered. Sure there may be a role for meds such as viagra but that is only…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 09:40 PM
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Correct. In fact he had serial oneitis for several of his students. Some of his sonatas were written for them. Alas he was but a musician, so was rejected because of his lowly station.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 01:20 PM
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Second that. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 06:45 AM
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Thanks for your effort u/Thesegates. Solid post. Good order of priorities, women being the consequence, not the cause. Cheers
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 08:44 PM
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Truth in that. Being in the business of prescribing I often see men coming in asking for it. When I look at their companion I think, yep, I would need it too! But there comes a point when industrial amounts of Viagra cannot overcome inbuilt revulsion. She might be thinking of England, but he sure as hell won't be thinking of her.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 01:16 AM
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Twenty-seven years married. Seen the good and the bad and a fair bit of it was mine to own. To me that is a core tenant of aspiring to a TRP way of being. What's mine is mine. I am not a victim, I am responsible for actions and outcomes. My wife and I went through a rough patch that lasted for a few years. We both sorted out our shit knowing it was all on the line. The mutual agreement was neither of us were satisfied, if we could do the work and we arrived at a place that we were satisfied with…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 02:29 AM
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I would not include mothers in any category of exception to the rule. Some of the worst damage I have seen inflicted upon boys and young men has been from their mothers. Either covertly or overtly. So whilst we may, very understandably, long for the ideal of unconditional love, it remains an Platonic ideal. Society in general and women in particular would prefer to hold onto romantic notions, reality teaches otherwise. To OP, good post. Many thanks
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 11:57 PM
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Fellow Australian here. Pretty grim situation. Last year there were reports that a university in South Australia was going to commence a men's studies program. You can guess the rest. Shut down by the feminists. I agree with the above advice, until you have some power, adopt a low profile. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill17/11/15 08:32 PM
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Agree. I experienced that 'conversion' as a consequence of immersing myself in the side bar and the daily discourse here on TRP. Raised as a very BP SJW. Found myself thinking more conservatively, which initially I actually found uncomfortable. Now I see the errors of my earlier days. It is exhilarating to have ones mind opened.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/15 08:42 PM
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Another way of considering it is the psychological defence of projection. That which cannot be tolerated within; in this case being the interior knowledge that I am a woman beating shitbag, as described so eloquently by GayLubeOil, is projected onto all men. The outcome being that he frees himself so some degree at a subconscious level of the burden he should be carrying and scores points (valuable only to persons such as himself) of being embraced by feminists. A malignant force in the world.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 08:52 PM
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That accords well with my experience with patients. Women may take a long time to make the decision, but once made, game over. Men on the other hand often , sadly, are ambivalent; she will change, I will change, I have seen the errors of my ways etc.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/15 08:40 PM
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And another..100%
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 04:52 AM
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Agree fully. Striving to be an independant, free thinking man not beholden to dogma is core to the TRP way of life. "I am not a victim, I am responsible for my own actions and outcomes" is my mantra since immersing myself here. Not easy, not comfortable, but at the end of the day I know my life is being enriched.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 11:26 PM
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Same here, from Victoria.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 06:10 AM
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Best of luck to you both SKV. Judging by your posts he has done a fine job of raising you as a man.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 09:24 AM
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51 year old here. TRP is clear as crystal. Life gives you the glasses you need to read it. Agree entirely.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 03:30 AM
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Another well worn strategy is "my drink must have been spiked". Far less often the case according to police (females specialising in sexual abuse cases) that I have spoken to. Just another tactic to avoid responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 09:58 PM
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Agree entirely. My wife often comments that she does not understand/feel comfortable with the dynamic between my adult sons and myself. the forthright, no nonsense, non emotive use of language. Yet we understand each other perfectly.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:43 PM
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Great post /u/Archwinger. I see this scenario time and again as a doctor. The importance of men grasping this and responding with a non femcentric, RP way of life cannot be overstated.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 06:22 AM
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