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Ariel125/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 07:29 PM
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We actually don’t know if he’s an RP man. So whatever works for them is always a win. Being a RP woman doesn’t always mean being married to an RP man. Plus, RP men can be complete jerks and cheat. This sub is way different than the RP sub and are two separate worlds.
/r/RedPillWives20/10/20 10:53 PM
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You could try to be a little demanding, like maybe dry or “harsh“. Like keep a straight face and be like, “don’t do that” or “move me here.” It’ll catch him off guard, will probably seem hot and break the silliness.
/r/RedPillWives18/10/20 11:21 PM
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You don’t need to feel ANY guilt. If a guy isn’t pressured to feel guilt for not being a virgin then you shouldn’t either. It doesn’t matter- you’re with him now (and more experienced, so it’ll be better) ;)
/r/RedPillWives27/08/20 05:28 AM
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A very garlicky meal (for the both of you so you don’t notice the after smell on each other) and sip a really small amount of whiskey. It really gets the blood flowing and I’m jumping him shortly after every time!
/r/RedPillWives27/02/20 05:56 AM
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Your captain should always have your best interest at heart and here it sounds like he doesn’t. You’re only 21 so there’s PLENTY of time to get pregnant, but it’s going to be extremely hard on you both if you have babies then go back to school. Go back to school now and try to avoid kids until you’re done. I’m 38, have a graduate degree and make 6 figures by myself (plus hubby’s income) and am just getting around to maybe trying to get pregnant lol. I mean, don’t wait as long as I did obviously …
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 02:11 PM
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That’s when I say ‘no we don’t have kids but 2 large dogs and a cat that keep me running around and constantly cleaning.’ ;) Makes it less awkward then people get super interested in our dogs. (Also our 100-lb long haired dog has IBS so don’t tell me I’m not his ‘mom’ when I’ve wiped his behind and been traumatized more than I’d like to admit) 😂
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 01:08 PM
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I’m 38 and suddenly actually keep ‘getting pregnant’ (just chemicals) each time I go carnivore (not just low carb but no vegetables either- all meat!). I think I’m on to something and will keep trying that. I’m also on letrozole each month. I’m catholic also. Just wanted to throw this advice out there!
/r/RedPillWives02/02/20 12:57 PM
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When my husband travels I like to say ‘welcome home’ by having the kitchen clean and the house tidy. I like it looking like a hotel (if possible). He’s so relaxed when he sees it! So by you tidying before he goes to work prepares him for what he can look forward to coming home. It’s a nice ‘sending off’!
/r/RedPillWives21/01/20 02:01 AM
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If you’re afraid to submit to your husband you may have married an asshole, just sayin. I could tell my husband I’m never making a decision for myself ever again and he’d give me the moon then say he’s working on the stars next.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/20 02:10 AM
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You are so clueless. I have a graduate degree, out earn my husband and am still a RPW.
/r/RedPillWives18/01/20 02:07 AM
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Not at all =)
/r/RedPillWives03/01/20 01:19 AM
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Wow!! Thank you for letting me know about the 6 kids! We don’t want 6 but that gives me hope that we could have more than one! We won’t do IUI or IVF because we are Catholic (also, after massive student loans, who wants MORE debt?!) But thanks so much for the suggestion!
/r/RedPillWives31/12/19 04:10 PM
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I’m 38 (with PCOS) and trying for our first. We just got a positive test on Christmas Eve but the test lines have been fading each morning thereafter and I sadly think it will be a chemical. But we are excited I’m actually able to get pregnant! I’ve only been on letrozole for 3 cycles so it happened pretty quick! Looking forward to next month. I know I’m older than most, but we are almost done paying our student loans, we have “the” dream house with 2 car garage and big yard, my career is taking…
/r/RedPillWives28/12/19 03:19 PM
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My husband didn’t think I liked him but he was so drawn to me that he couldn’t stay away and became my best friend in college. I secretly wanted him so bad but played hard to get for a few years. He finally told me in our mid-twenties that he loved me and I told him also.... we’ve been together ever since. Romantically involved for 14 years, married for almost 9! What I’m saying is that you shouldn’t have to try so hard to get a guy’s attention. The only one worth your time will be the one that …
/r/RedPillWives07/12/19 02:16 AM
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As a Catholic I understand that my body is no longer mine but is my husband’s, and vice versa. So, we are not supposed to refuse each other. To do so is a sin. Unless one of us is ill (my hubby doesn’t want a yeast infection lol). It’s very freeing to have this rule because I know I am for him, and not for me. NOTE: this rule is only for a good husband.... not one that abuses, etc. You absolutely should defend yourself if needed.
/r/RedPillWives25/11/19 06:34 AM
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That’s awesome !!
/r/RedPillWives15/11/19 03:35 PM
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Wait, you’d actually watch the clock doing chores then at a certain time go ‘my turns over’? Seeking ‘fairness’ will kill intimacy. I have a career that demands 10-12 hr days in front of the computer but I still own all the housework and never ask him for help. You know what happens? He always helps 😉
/r/RedPillWives15/11/19 02:10 PM
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This picture gives me such comfort. And I have this. Some days I can’t believe I have this. That I have him. It’s unforgivable that society is robbing generations of this. For both sexes.
/r/RedPillWives10/11/19 06:57 AM
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This sounds like emotional abuse. But if you want to stay I’d suggest focusing on yourself and almost ignore him unless he addresses you. Like, don’t give the silent treatment but act like one of my dogs that just goes about their day in the house like they’ve got stuff to do (I’m always curious what their agenda is). Be mysterious. And don’t suggest anything to him. Not one thing. If he asks you something just reply ‘whatever you think’. Corporate jobs nowadays can be completely demeaning and i…
/r/RedPillWives08/11/19 03:13 AM
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My dad and husband are RP but my mom and I handle the finances because they told us to. (We also like it). The men ultimately make financial decisions but we are the bookkeepers.
/r/RedPillWives07/06/19 02:51 AM
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he scolded you for leaving a candle burning? Was it in a jar? I do that all of the time, leave the room, and we even have cats. My husband doesn't care (we do have mini fire exstinguishers on both floors). This sounds odd, though.
/r/RedPillWives14/05/19 12:41 AM
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My husband and I both have careers and he prefers that I handle all the finances. And I don’t mind because with my analytical mind it comes naturally. I raised his credit score to match mine (820+) and he’s forever in awe, lol. I do our taxes too. Numbers are peaceful to me and stressful to him, so it works out perfectly. We both aren’t huge spenders so we always align on goals, gift and entertainment limits, and saving $$. We are paying down student loans nicely and are in our second home.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/19 02:53 AM
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No problem! I love what I do but omg when a million-dollar client is chewing us out when it wasn’t our fault, and everyone’s job is on the line, it’s all consuming... day and night. Plus, he’s a guy and guys deal with stress differently than women. We might freak out and chat endlessly about it but men withdraw internally until they figure it out. He might even do something mindless in his down time instead of connecting with you (like playing video games or going for a beer). It’s called going …
/r/RedPillWives25/02/19 04:19 PM
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I’m a wife who works and when those stressful deadlines that take up nights and weekends hit, it consumes me. Your husband is very stressed about it. Don’t bother him. AT ALL. What’s even more stressful is if he effs up then his whole family will suffer - you guys, since you don’t have 2 incomes. He needs the space to work through it emotionally and focus. Careers are not 9-5 any more and neither is your job as SAHM. Your husband most likely isn’t getting praise at work either. What he’s expecte…
/r/RedPillWives25/02/19 03:24 AM
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NO do not take testosterone if you’re a woman. It will mess you up horribly.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 04:28 AM
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if you don't know then you need to read Laura Doyle's books. Most blue pilled people have no idea what they are doing wrong. (And certainly nothing against them for it). A blue pill woman thinks she's being supportive of her husband but really her behavior is disrespectful, puts a rift between them, and is condescending. And again... nothing against that person because society has taught them differently.
/r/RedPillWives23/12/18 02:59 PM
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actually my husband plays in the family room right next to where we watch TV and my chase. We are about a foot from each other (he plays on the computer) and I'm usually doing something I like, like artwork, creative things on the computer, a craft, or even working late on emails. So we are still always around each other and it's great. We don't even have to talk if one of us needs to zone out.
/r/RedPillWives22/12/18 12:23 AM
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also I just want to add that your title is all wrong. "Your husband needs some red pill magic" is incorrect. Fixing the problem starts completely with you. He's reacting this way to something you are doing (read Laura Doyle!!!)
/r/RedPillWives22/12/18 12:09 AM
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hah I literally suggested the same thing below!
/r/RedPillWives22/12/18 12:03 AM
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I think you need to read Laura Doyle's books, implement those things, then wait to see if there is a change. Be very, very patient. It doesn't sound like he's fallen out of love with you, but it sounds like he's retreating because (maybe) he feels he can't do anything right. If you read her books you'll understand what I mean. Do you remind him of things you want him to do? Do you complain how long he plays the games? If so, stop. Also, you need to realize that men often need to go to the 'nothi…
/r/RedPillWives22/12/18 12:02 AM
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Of course. My mother, who was a SAHM, taught me how to be a great wife and how to respect the man you love. Then I took it a step further and read books about it, then I found the RPW sub. I realize the reason why I married so well was because I was naturally red pill in college and didn’t even know it, so that’s who I attracted. I just so happen to have a career as well and want to build my own businesses. It happens.
/r/RedPillWives20/12/18 04:50 AM
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And I’ve also seen SAHMs be terrible mothers and wives. And sometimes things happen and they are left with nothing because they have no skills. I think it’s tragic to rob a girl of being educated and potentially self sufficient, so god forbid something happens to her man she can at least pay the bills by using her brain instead of being forced to give fries with that. As a human being we owe each child, regardless of sex, basic skills up to high school level at least, including algebra. It’s cal…
/r/RedPillWives20/12/18 04:32 AM
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I’m a woman with an MBA and am in STEM. I out earn my masculine, red pill professional husband (shrug). It’s no big deal. I’m totally red pill, too. We enjoy our money together. I like my job and plan to outsource unskilled home tasks. My mind is too full of ideas to busy it with housework. I want to start businesses. It’s who I am. I’m still an excellent wife and gladly keep daily house when we get home at night while I dream up creative stuff. Why would you ever hold a young girl back? Red pil…
/r/RedPillWives20/12/18 03:44 AM
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Also, you're only 29. A lot of men don't decide to settle down until late-30's so you're definitely no old maid! If this is a bad relationship just get out.
/r/RedPillWives09/11/18 01:26 AM
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there is so much wrong with how he reacted. Men don't like a doormat and you are both adults. He has no right to treat you like a child like that. I would start standing up for yourself asap and tell him you won't tolerate that any longer, he must stop being ridiculous. There is being RP then there's being a second-class citizen.
/r/RedPillWives09/11/18 01:25 AM
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I love this one and it's huge. I bought it used on Amazon. It's like the encyclopedia of running a house. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/068481465X/ref=oh_aui_search_detailpage?ie=UTF8&psc=1
/r/RedPillWives04/11/18 12:27 AM
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My DH is very fair and gentle when he’s angry, but still I can’t help but cry! I’m not being manipulative, but I can’t help it!! Then he gets mad because I’m crying and making him feel bad for being mad, lol. Good thing we only have arguments like once a year or less. But I still feel guilty for always breaking down in tears when it happens. I don’t want him to feel worse... I want to be able to have an adult conversation during an argument!
/r/RedPillWives17/10/18 03:27 PM
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Nice! I recently bought some ballerinas from Crocs and there’s no logo thank goodness
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 11:42 AM
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They hit right at the top of my kneecaps. If I had kids I’d still wear them and be able to bend over, crawl on the ground and still be covered. They are like a stretchy pencil skirt.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 11:41 AM
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Wedge sandals by Crocs or heeled sandals by SKETCHERS. I always look dressed up but feel like I’m in sneakers. Can walk miles in those!
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 03:00 AM
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I live in stretchy, jersey fabric skirts. Mostly from Old Navy. I vacuum in them, go shopping, wear them to the office. I role on the floor with the dogs in them. It’s way more convenient and comfortable than pants and hubby loves them.
/r/RedPillWives09/10/18 02:57 AM
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I’m Catholic, but I am a traditional Catholic, which means I attend the traditional Latin mass and reject a lot of the modernism that has infiltrated the church in her liturgy, tradition, and dogma. That’s so interesting. We are catholic and stopped going lately because we don’t like the modernism. But I love the Latin mass. I’ll need to find a local one. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWives27/09/18 04:30 AM
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Oh wow, I’m very anti-feminist and I never thought of that. I love Frozen! Actually, I have PCOS and could totally identify with her internal suffering over things she didn’t understand or control happening inside her. It brought tears to my eyes. But I didn’t like how they downplayed the romance. I’ve always loved the guy-saves-girl theme of fairy tales and I know modern Hollywood hates it. Such a shame.
/r/RedPillWives12/09/18 06:04 PM
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well, honestly as the Captain he is delegating part of the responsibility to you. He values your opinion, and that's a lot. Think of this as an exercise in learning how to handle things that are hard.
/r/RedPillWives30/08/18 03:38 AM
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I have PCOS and awful symptoms and cycles because of it. My husband knows everything and is very supportive. You need to be able to lean on him during difficult lady times... because we go through a lot more than men do. It's really incredible when you think about it. Anyway, I try not to 'bother' him with it (like not make him wait on me hand and foot, overly complain or be annoying). But if I have bad cramps and need to stay in bed I let him know. He's very supportive. I had some GYN tests don…
/r/RedPillWives21/08/18 11:14 PM
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we are keto and I throw on a few steaks 10 minutes before he gets home and a bag of frozen veggies in the microwave. He gets the big steak and I get the little one. So easy!! Try that (throw meat in a pan and a veggie bag in the microwave), then let him snack on the side if he wants. Maybe put out some bread. My husband snacks throughout the evening as well but he's over 6'5'' (but is lean) and needs the calories.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 10:44 PM
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USHCGSHOTS.com is where I got my 2 rounds over the years.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/18 11:41 AM
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It’s not accepted... however I’m a believer. There’s no way in hell I’d be able to function on 500 calories a day for 40 days if it were only placebo. There was definitely something chemical going on. I loved it.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/18 03:26 AM
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I did it twice and I’m totally fine. I loved it.
/r/RedPillWives26/07/18 03:22 AM
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I can vouch for HCG injections. It was the best diet. I kept off 45lbs. I wish there wasn’t such a witch hunt to discredit it!!
/r/RedPillWives25/07/18 10:39 PM
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My husband lost 130lbs without exercise and is now literally Captain America. Literally. 6’5’’, 190lbs, shaped like an upside down triangle. People stare and he gets hit on daily. Anyway he now says there’s no way any man should be overweight, because all they need to do is go low carb. It was so easy for him... 130lbs flew off in 8 months. It flew off faster when he went 100% carnivore to get the final 20lbs off. If you guys want an easy way to lose just go low carb/keto! It’s especially easier…
/r/RedPillWives25/07/18 10:35 PM
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We are low carb and every Friday night I close my work laptop, pour a glass of wine, turn on music and take an hour to make cauliflower crust pizza. You can hold it in one hand like normal pizza, too. It’s my specialty!
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 04:29 PM
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we are generally low carb and making a meat and vegetable keeps dishes very minimal. I find making a carbohydrate dirties an extra pan. Plus it's healthier! We will bake 5 chicken breasts at once then grab them for quick dinner salads, or I will cook steaks in a pan and throw a frozen vegetable bag in the microwave. Voila, one pan is dirty! :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 01:55 AM
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why is it okay for you to have 2 full time jobs and not him? He needs to pull his own weight at home if you're working full time. We're messy, too, but I have a crazy career and work 60-70/hr weeks (sometimes until midnight at home on the computer). My husband travels a lot, but does the food shopping, grooms the dogs, and mows the lawn. I do laundry, cleaning, and feed the animals, and cook most meals. We aren't dirty but are a bit messy, however we are getting better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/18 11:56 PM
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my husband and I drink wine on the weekends, but we just get buzzed. We can have some of the best conversations buzzed... and the most animated, intense rounds of Uno!
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 12:12 AM
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can you get a housekeeper/cleaner to come in once a week and declutter? I'm all for working women taking the domestic jobs off their plates. It just not fair. When men become more successful and consumed in their careers they outsource their tasks as needed (oil changes, lawn mowing, etc). It's all about freeing up mental energy, which everyone has only a finite amount.
/r/RedPillWives15/07/18 04:32 PM
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no it doesn't... my husband enjoys my high salary as much as I do. It all goes into the same bank account and we don't track each other's spending. It's all "our" money and we enjoy it thoroughly. He's also my captain. What he says goes, and I trust him fully. He always takes the best care of me.
/r/RedPillWives08/07/18 11:49 PM
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you can playfully say "so what do you have planned for our anniversary?" with a cutesy smile.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/18 02:02 PM
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at your age, I'd try to go to trendy, young, 'preppy' bars on the weekends. Young guys with good jobs still go out with their friends on the weekends but it's usually in 'trendy' neighborhoods, like North Philadelphia. My cousin met his wife in a bar, and he's a successful RPM. She's now pregnant and about to quit her job to be a SAHM. I would avoid online dating for a bit, because my brother does it (he's successful and lives in NYC) but there are so many crazy people with issues.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/18 01:24 PM
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I kind of disagree. If a guy around her age is in the gym on a weekend night that means he has no friends.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/18 01:19 PM
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I agree with all of these!
/r/RedPillWives20/06/18 02:47 AM
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also just think about this: if he's on edge in the car with you constantly because he knows your comments or gasps are coming then that might actually cause an accident because he's not fully focused on driving or being careful. It's actually up to you to create a peaceful driving environment, which is safer for everyone. I am sure he doesn't want to get into an accident just as much as you do!
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 02:35 PM
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Just look out the side window and trust he will stop. Also think about this... you trust others on the road to stop (complete strangers) but not him? Is he less competent than the other drivers? And lastly, a fender bender usually doesn’t hurt anyone. If one is all it takes to wake him up, so be it. My husband has been hit plenty of times (never his fault)... if the speed is low enough everyone is usually fine. He needs to learn!
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/18 04:28 AM
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Wow, thank you for sharing! This would also be a good journaling/writing exercise. Maybe even a regular daily writing task.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 03:50 PM
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I got my MBA at night in my late 20’s and am in pharmaceutical publications. I make almost 6 figures and it’s great. I make sure to stay RP at home and I feel it’s a good balance. I’m naturally RP so becoming a professional was a little challenging but I found my confidence in the office. I leave it all at work though!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 02:34 AM
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A close male friend is an emotional affair. It might seem harmless but you’re giving him a part of you you’re not giving to your husband. I would focus on why your husband thinks you should stay in all the time, ie, why doesn’t he rush home to spend his off time with you, or why aren’t you his first choice to go out with? Why aren’t you his favorite person to be around? You can change that by working on yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/18 03:03 AM
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I'm not going to sugar coat like everyone else on here. I know a girl who is ugly. She works out and has a tight body, but if anyone doubts a woman can be ugly, it's her. I would say she's probably the worst, big nose, ears, unibrow... she got hit with strong central European features and looks like her father... as in, she actually has a man's face. Be very, very thankful you're not her. But anyway... That said, regularly getting your eyebrows threaded and then straightening your hair with a ce…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 12:21 AM
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I have dinner ready in 15 minutes or less every night (we are generally low carb). Throw steaks in a pan, or chicken/fish in the oven. Throw a bag of steamer veggies in the microwave. Done. The carb is what dirties a pot and takes the longest to cook.
/r/RedPillWives10/04/18 11:10 PM
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kettle bell swinging will shred you faster than anything, and I personally enjoy the swinging motion. Also, lifting very heavy but slowly will make you very small.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 12:22 AM
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I don't think he 'needs' her help to earn (I mean, maybe he does). But if I earn 6 figures and my husband earns $300k, and our marriage isn't suffering because I have a job, it makes perfect sense to take the unskilled labor off my plate so our income stays increased by 25%.
/r/RedPillWives14/03/18 04:44 PM
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My job has gotten extremely demanding, but I used to do all the housework on Saturdays and it took 5-7 hours. Now I'm looking to outsource the things that drain mental energy because we both are working on children's books on the side as well. In my opinion, the most efficient RP career woman would outsource the below, because she is now worth more per hour than the following tasks: Groceries: home delivery (PeaPod, Amazon fresh, etc) Housework: someone to vacuum, dust, clean kitchen/bathrooms 1…
/r/RedPillWives14/03/18 04:37 PM
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my husband and I both work beyond full time (50-60hr weeks) and we don't buy lunch out and always have home cooked meals. Breakfast: I skip it (just coffee) and he eats hard boiled eggs (pre-made) Lunch: a packet of salmon or weekend-cooked chicken breast thrown onto a bed of lettuce in a tupperware Dinner: whomever gets home first around 6 or 6:30 throws a package of meat in the oven or skillet, and a steamer bag of frozen veggies in the microwave. Dinner is always ready within 15-20 minutes an…
/r/RedPillWives14/03/18 04:23 PM
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I make almost 6 figs so honestly it’s worth it to outsource domestic work. High earning men (as busy as me) eventually outsource oil changes, handy work, etc. as they get busier and their income grows, so why not me? Women try to kill themselves trying to be everything. There comes a time when a person realizes they are worth more per hour on paper and earning potential skyrockets by eliminating everyday tasks. So it’s all about what makes her happy then also can she afford to work? I like my ca…
/r/RedPillWives14/03/18 02:32 AM
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I can't find anything, and I had to cancel all of those magazines because I couldn't stand the feminazi-ism any more. I think they are going away, however. I was starting to get my subscriptions for $3 a year!! And once I cancelled they kept sending them. I had to email specifically to tell them to stop.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 02:39 AM
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we are 7 years married and still in it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 12:13 AM
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so much this! Just today I was thinking about how 'blue pill' and being feminist is such a joyless existence, especially for woman. Sure, they might be happy or somewhat Okay with life, but joyful? Absolutely not. There is such a huge weight lifted off the woman's shoulders when she goes red. There is so much room for pure joy.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 12:55 AM
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A huge thing for me was that I thought I was being respectful to my husband and he thought so, too. When I started studying Laura Doyle and RPW on my own, I realized I was very disrespectful (and “helpful” cringe). You will learn. My relationship was 110% amazing but NOW it’s like 20,000%. You’ve gotten very good advice on here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:43 AM
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Read Laura Doyle’s books. She has a whole section about “being helpful”. TLDR, just don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 03:37 AM
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okay, this isn't really "drugs". I've been on the HCG diet before where you shoot the hormone daily. I guess that's technically "drugs", too? (it works great, btw)...
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 08:07 PM
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this is an excellent post. My husband was always 'not the marrying type' (so he thought) and I was a girl who did not move quickly physically... ever. With anyone. No matter how much the guy wanted it. I wound up being 'the only woman he could ever marry' and he wound up being 'the only man I couldn't control myself around'. If you're a match and it's meant to be, it's unspoken. It just happens. There's no need for any 'talk'.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 01:06 AM
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I made heart shaped burgers!
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 04:02 AM
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everything you listed above happens, however that is more like lust. (of course you're lustful with the person you love, but the love part is so different). Everything you listed is something I felt with all of the other guys I seriously dated. But love adds to it: When it happened to me I had known him for years in college and always really, really liked him. But we both kept dating other people. However, he was always my FAVORITE person to be around. We were actually best friends. We actually …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 01:09 AM
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I’m 36 and my girlfriends are just having kids now. Wouldn’t be social suicide at all! Also I have PCOS and am just starting to become naturally fertile now. So I’m in a much different biological window than most women. I also still look 20 so I think my cells just don’t turn over as quickly. Everyone is different.
/r/RedPillWives04/02/18 03:17 AM
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well just imagine you telling him you want to go back to school for STEM and he laughs in your face and tells you that's a little out of your reach as a woman? It's the same thing. What you did and said was very hurtful and he has a right to be angry and distant.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 02:01 AM
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I had a lightening bolt moment while dating my husband. He put his huge arm around me while we were having a drink waiting for a table at a restaurant, and he looked at me with such caring eyes. And at that moment it struck me like electricity through my body. He was "the one". Even after 10 years of being together (and knowing him for 18 years) I still get the chills when I look at him. Your friend is right, though. It should be easier for her. The thing I tell people is that marriage should be…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 03:37 AM
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yeah... sorry to this lady but I deal with million-dollar clients throwing tantrums. I'm a REAL manager. Cleaning the house is such an emotional break. Today the dentist drilled my teeth for 2 hours and I was so happy to not be available on email. Then I took some extra time and called our insurance company about bills. I came home so refreshed and relaxed, I surprised hubby to surf n turf and candles. This author does not know what emotional labor is until you're sitting at your desk actually s…
/r/RedPillWives04/10/17 02:00 AM
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I work 60+ hr weeks, and if we ever had kids I'd have to absolutely get a housekeeper. No sense in killing myself, and my family would be happier having more quality time with me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 02:56 AM
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a guy won't naturally wander just because you are too nice. I'm known for being 'too nice', and my husband teases me about it, but it's one of the things he loves about me. I'm not a doormat but I'm kind and respectful to him. If a guy wanders then something else is the reason. We've known eachother for 18 years and have been together for 10 years, and we've had like... 1 or 2 fights. They lasted a few minutes and were over something stupid. Some people would say that's unhealthy however he and …
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/17 11:53 PM
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we hit a sale at Michael's and got huge jug candles for $2.50 each. We are burning Apple Pie and Pumpkin Macintosh. It smells great and he loves it!
/r/RedPillWives20/09/17 11:35 PM
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I work 60-80hrs/week at my career, but we don't have kids atm. I'm fully on board with outsourcing housework. Why should I do a minimum wage job when I'm worth $50/hr? It's all economics and women should stop killing themselves trying to do both. With that, given the introduction of kids I'd quit my job in a heartbeat. Screw corporate. ;-)
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 01:54 AM
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like someone else said, it's not about the jobs that are done around the home, but respecting him as 'captain' of your life together. Respect is huge! Being his biggest fan, trusting his decisions, and supporting his endeavors. My husband actually does the grocery shopping and helps me clean on the weekends, because even though I work from home 3 days a week I work 60-80 hour weeks completely on the computer for my career, and I'm literally glued to the screen most of the time (it's annoying/str…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 03:03 PM
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is $240k a typo? Honestly, why is he even working? Make him clean the house!! What are you doing for $240k because I want in on that!! I'm RPW but if I made $240k my husband wouldn't have to work. Period.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/17 04:34 AM
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and thank you very much for the read!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 02:35 AM
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funny you should say that... working 60-80/hr weeks in my promising career. It's so tiring and draining but will be rewarding down the road.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 02:35 AM
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I'll play!! What is my biggest roadblock in reaching my health goals?
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/17 02:01 AM
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yup, when I was at the dentist an elderly man was coming out of the door, he held it for me and said, "beauty before age!". He had the biggest smile on his face. I looked him in the eye and smiled, said thank you. I'm sure it made his day (it made mine, too!)
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 09:30 PM
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this right here. I work longer hours than my husband at my career, and we most likely won't have kids. But I'm still RPW via what is typed above. And my career in big pharma will only take off from here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 10:37 PM
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my hubs and I may never have kids (I have PCOS, but then again we haven't been totally seriously 'trying'). We have both have busy careers and are fine not having them. We did however want to get married because we are wildly passionate about each other and could not stand not being legally bound. Even though we belong to each other in our hearts we wanted it to be legal as well. It feels amazing calling each other husband and wife. Also, a prenup is highly individual. It can be pretty insulting…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 10:33 PM
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what's interesting is when I watch old movies or TV shows the women were tiny but not boney or toned... they were still curvy and soft. Even women at a healthy weight just don't look the same today. It's hard to describe, though.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/17 10:22 PM
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so true... so many women bash on their husbands to other people. I am always horrified! No wonder they aren't happy! I talk mine up as much as I can to people. He deserves it, and I'm supposed to be his biggest fan <3 (I am)!
/r/RedPillWives23/07/17 10:35 PM
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I bet this could be keto-fied with the low carb cauliflower dough I make (we are both low carb).
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/17 01:25 AM
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I've been telling my brother (single and successful in NYC) to follow point #1. So many women have issues nowadays and he needs to go on lots of dates, and was going broke in the process... and wasting his hard earned money on selfish snowflakes.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/17 11:54 PM
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I met my husband in college, so... :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 02:56 AM
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hah I read your title and got excited if you were single I was going to hook you up with my brother who is lonely in NYC. Killer job, 34, $200k/year, looking for friends/a girl who isn't a basketcase.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 02:21 AM
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we got married at 29, he was unemployed on our wedding day, fresh out of the Army, and with $120k in art school debt. I didn't care. He's my everything... I can't even explain how he is my everything. 6 years later we've bought 2 houses, live in a middle-upper class neighborhood, and he has a great professional management career. I work as well but we both make above average salaries. I knew he wasn't lazy and the art school thing had set him back. But we actually met in art school, so if not fo…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/17 12:07 AM
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if I ever get pregnant I'm more nervous about having to give up coffee!
/r/RedPillWives20/05/17 02:25 AM
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I used to want to be high up in the company, but now I am backing down a little. It was too stressful and I am letting my husband take the reins of our household. I am MUCH happier. It was killing me!!
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 01:35 AM
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I do almost zero housework during the week except for cook dinner and then switch the dishwasher. I try to empty it in the morning when I'm having coffee... it doesn't always get done. Dinner is usually a one pot/pan meal since we are on the Keto diet, and eliminating the bread/starch actually eliminates dishes! I throw veggies in the pan with the meat or the microwave for steaming. anyway, weekdays are dishes only for me. We have 2 large dogs and 2 cats, and lots of hair. But with a fairly larg…
/r/RedPillWives08/03/17 09:59 PM
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I worked hard for my career and even earned a graduate degree in a male-dominated field. I do really, really like my job and I am very lucky to have it, and the high salary. However, I truly feel winning the jackpot is being a SAHW. I love LOVE the home, and doing the chores and running the house. Maybe one day after we pay off our student loans...
/r/RedPillWives08/03/17 09:43 PM
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we like to make a whole weekend out of it. We exchanged gifts Friday night and I cooked. We've been avoiding alcohol to hit some body goals but we had a bottle of wine to splurge. Tonight he cooked scallops and lobster (it's his specialty!) and had champagne. I really like to wrap his holiday gifts handsomely, using guy colors like black paper with red ribbon. It makes him feel special and I love that!! On actual Valentine's Day (a busy work day) I will probably make some red cauliflower 'mashed…
/r/RedPillWives12/02/17 01:26 AM
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this is so spot-on! I read [somewhere] that intelligent, successful American men more and more are dating/marrying Asian or foreign women because there is none of this feminist BS with them. They keep up their physical appearance and truly respect their husband. I actually tell my brother that all the time-- he's single and makes 6-figures, is a very nice guy, and is constantly complaining about women. I point out how they don't respect him, and with how successful he is and what he can bring to…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 07:19 PM
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spot on!! I love this!
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/17 07:12 PM
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there is hope. I was carded up until I was 34 years old. I'm 35 now and just starting to notice a slight difference, mostly with under eye circles (but my career is really stressful). Take care of yourself, stay OUT of the sun, and you can last well into your thirties. I'm married btw (we've been together since my early-20s).
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/17 10:56 PM
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I think the comments are terrible, obviously, and my husband or the men in my family would never talk about women like that. However, I am sure Trump has had THOUSANDS of cheap women throw themselves at him over the years, hoping for a sugar daddy... or a fake lawsuit. I am sure he has seen it ALL from our gender. Plus, his personality is over the top and loud, and he was having a fun (to him) conversation with another guy in these tapes. I think in his head it was harmless fun. So, it's just an…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/16 01:13 PM
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you sound like me. I'm a very successful professional with an MBA, and I'm playing around with stock trading as well. I have those male tendencies... I love the thrill of taking a risk and making a lot of money. I outearn my husband (at least right now... but he's working on that and not from any pressure from me). I got an MBA because in my late twenties I was restless in my career. I felt like I was rotting in a cubicle with people I didn't like, barely making enough money to get by. Anyway...…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/16 01:59 PM
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I'm a project manager, make almost 6 figures, have flex hours and get to make sure everyone on my team is taken care of. I really like it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/16 02:43 AM
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"Sorry, Amanda wins. But...I worked hard to... Amanda is better, bye." LOL love it. Very true.
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/16 08:19 PM
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so true... as soon as my husband and I started dating I dropped all my guy friends by choice. It just didn't feel right.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/16 09:04 PM
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how'd you get out of that? Like, did you leave your career? I often dream of being a SAHM :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/16 01:35 AM
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Facebook a little too much... although I don't reveal personal thoughts or rants, I mainly post pictures of our dogs and cats... what the internet was made for! I do LinkedIn professionally (that's how I was discovered and got my awesome new job with a double promotion and 30% raise-- don't ignore it!). Then Reddit. That's about it. I want to cut down on Facebook.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 02:09 AM
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true... I would never think of throwing away anything of his without asking. And I've learned when tidying up to either move his stuff and REMEMBER where I put it so I can tell him later when he asks, or just not to move it all, hah.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 01:35 AM
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"First, Kill All the Marriage Counselors" by Laura Doyle. Even though my husband and I have a great relationship, I find her books are good 'continuing education' and growth for myself. It's excellent, and even though she talks a lot about couples on the brink of divorce, I like the stories of how the women were able to respect their men more and 'trust'. I can be a control freak because I freak out about all the worldly things like bills, the dog tracked mud in the house, cleaning, my career, e…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 01:29 AM
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I had a hellish 60+hour week last week, plus my 3-hour per day commute, plus people wanted to see our house (we are trying to sell so my commute isn't so awful). I just looked at my husband who works a 40-hour week and currently commutes 20 minutes... I had bags under my eyes and I was just like, "I just can't this week". And we have 2 cats and 2 dogs (hair!!!!). He told me to go to bed at 7pm and he cleaned the whole house for several days in a row, then gave me an amazing back rub yesterday. I…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 11:12 PM
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I've tried finding some "women who submit" type of blogs to follow, but most of them are either too religious for my taste, or seem to be BDSM blogs. I have this same problem!!!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 02:26 AM
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you probably mean 'copper'. I've had fabulous, natural results using Loreal 74 Deep Copper on my auburn hair. Gives it a nice, warm natural touch that doesn't look teenage emo :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/16 02:31 AM
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we share Amazon wish lists with my family and his family. So when a holiday comes up we either get something from their wish list or we have an idea of what to get them! It works out really well!
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/16 04:37 AM
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yes we are trying to sell our house, so we 'staged' it, decluttered surfaces and threw out like HALF of our junk. It's so much easier to keep clean now!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 03:22 AM
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I clean whatever I can't stand the most first. For me, that's the floors and kitchen (we have 2 cats and 2 dogs so the floors get furry fast!). Once those are clean I feel 100% better and organizing/cleaning everything else is a breeze. So do what bothers you the most first. If you have no time to clean anything else that day, always do that thing and call it a night.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 03:19 AM
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not all SAHM do all those chores. If they are well-off financially they might just shop or play tennis and drop the kids with the nanny all day. For me and my husband if we have kids, I see myself outsourcing a lot of blue-collar chores. I say blue-collar not to undermine the SAH role, but to differentiate it salary-wise. If I'm worth $x per hour, why would I spend my days doing chores? (note: my logic is not taking into account spending valuable time with children... this is purely from a numbe…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 08:44 PM
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it can go both ways. If a woman doesn't make that much money, it doesn't make financial sense to work just to pay for child care. If she makes a lot but is unhappy at work, of course it makes sense for her to try and stay at home. There are stay-at-home moms that are bad at it, and there are working moms that are good at it. My mom was stay at home and it was actually hard for us kids to adjust to 'the real world' at first. My aunt had a high-powered career making over 6 figures and my cousins a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 08:17 PM
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RPW isn't necessarily about being a full time home maker. Hubby and I don't have kids and I have a lucrative career making almost six figures. If I was a stay at home wife we would miss out on that huge amount of money, but could still survive. I just don't know what I would do all day without having kids, honestly. I cook and clean just fine while also having a long commute. I clean on Saturdays for about 4 hours, and in the evenings I do little chores here and there. To cook dinner one of us t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/15 08:10 PM
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then he's a bad person and you shouldn't be married to him anyway-- not use Feminism to 'keep him in check'.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/15 12:33 AM
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laura doyle surrendered wife. boom. read it! I was you, and now im at peace!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:45 AM
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I like Candace Cameron Bure and she turned me on to the whole RPW idea, even though she doesn't mention it specifically. She pretty much is, though!
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 01:04 AM
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I lost 60lbs in the past 6 months eating below 1200 per day, at 5'5'', plus exercise on top of it. Starvation mode is a myth, and anorexia is a mental disease. Anorexia is not "eating low"... it's eating low because there is hell breaking loose in your head (I know people who had it). Some days I'm not hungry, and I might max out at 900. My mom and aunt have been small their entire lives, and when they count calories 'just to see' what they naturally eat, it's under 1,000. There's nothing wrong …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/15 09:03 PM
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you are right. Fighting doesn't have to happen. I've known my husband for 16 years (on and off during college), and we've been together (dating+married) for 9 years. Our 2-3 fights were actually because I woulnd't drop the subject or I thought I knew better and kept pushing. If not for that, we would have had zero.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 08:22 PM
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we really don't fight. The few times we did, it was because I wouldn't drop the subject, like others have said, or because I thought I knew better. And I couldn't understand why he was getting more and more irritated. It's because I was irritating!! Lol. That was right before I found this sub and Laura Doyle's books. Even before I 'shifted' to RPW mindset, we argued (wasn't really fighting) maybe only once a year. When we did, he would get so mad he would stop talking to me, and leave the room. …
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 08:17 PM
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freshman year of college! I've known him for 16 years!
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 04:30 AM
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I'm going to really consider this. Maybe there's something I can wear when I get home (lacey things, sexy things). And you are so right about prepping for a meeting... I completely change at work. So I'm going to start prepping on the way home to be the carefree, fun 'girlfriend me'... the me I was in college when we met! Such great advice!
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/15 12:40 AM
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wow, I could have written your comment! I too am very proud of myself, and my recent employer made me an offer well above what I asked for, and gave me a double promotion. Now, I can at times have 'imposter' syndrome pretty badly, where I always think my employer is going to 'find out' I'm really not that good at what I do [even though I obviously am and have been told so by my bosses]. So it's like I feel like I worry about failing in the workplace more than I worry about failing at being a wif…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/15 08:36 PM
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I watched it on Friday and thought the same thing!!!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/15 06:44 PM
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oh i wash mine all the time! I put them on a swiffer after vacuuming to get up every last hair and piece of dust off the floor!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 06:55 PM
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buy these. It will change your life. Put them on a swiffer, too. http://www.amazon.com/dp/B000XECJES/ref=sr_ph?ie=UTF8&qid=1442024409&sr=1&keywords=microfiber+cloth
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 02:21 AM
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wow... the acne thing! will have to try!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 02:19 AM
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you need to read The Surrendered Wife. Like, this weekend. Go buy it tomorrow.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 02:04 AM
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I think both options are fine, not telling him or telling him. If you tell him you must be really careful about how you tell him. I know my husband would appreciate the information so he knows what to look for next time. But be gracious about it. Like, a bright smile and "Oh thank you so much! These are last week's, but they will work for today!" PS- I was thinking of doing invisaline. My teeth are crowding, much to my dismay!
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/15 06:35 PM
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that's a big success- you should feel proud. My first 'test' in practicing this was with a creditor calling about my husband's one student loan account he forgot about. In the past, I would have kept reminding him to call them so we can start making payments asap, so it won't hurt his credit score, etc. But this time, I opened the mail, saw the note, told him about it and left it on the kitchen table. From my end, I was done. Within a few days he had called the creditor, straightened it all out,…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/15 06:11 PM
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Oh my gosh, my birthday was a few weeks ago and my husband did the same thing!!! I love it, too! It's my perfect space that is all mine!! He calls it my 'beauty battle station' lol. I've got all my 'tools' in one spot!! http://i.imgur.com/SsqMs47.jpg?1 From Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/Bobkona-Croix-Collection-Vanity-Stool/dp/B005CWHY7I/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1440948491&sr=8-1&keywords=vanity
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/15 03:28 PM
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eshakti.com wow thanks! They have the cutest things!
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 12:44 AM
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can anyone link to 'house' dresses or lounge dresses? I tried ordering some off Amazon but they looked nothing like the picture, and are basically mumu's! I have sun dresses I wear out but really don't have anything I could do housework in.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/15 11:35 PM
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my husband was in the Army at the time and I have a modest ring (which I adore). Like another poster said, tell him it's the commitment to him that matters, and not the price of the ring. A side note, he could actually be trying to throw you off and really is planning something. But best to just try to forget about it and just show him you love being with him in the meantime! Have an awesome trip!
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 06:52 PM
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Ahh ok makes sense. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 05:51 PM
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My husband and I are both Catholic. But I tend to identify more with RPW rather than some of the Christian traditional blogs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 04:40 PM
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Thanks very much for the heads up. Just curious, TRP and "traditional" don't overlap? I thought they did, mostly. I've been RPW for many months now, upon discovering this sub and Laura Doyle's writings, and realized I've been naturally RPW my whole life. Just curious how it's not traditional. (maybe this is another topic)
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/15 04:27 PM
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I'm going to start doing this (Audrey Hepburn swore by it 2x week for young, blemish-free skin): boil water in a pot, take the pot off the burner and place it on a table (with a towel or potholder underneath!). Put your face over the pot and cover both it and your head with a towel. It's an instant steam facial.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/15 04:44 PM
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1 part bottom shelf vodka + 1 part water + 1 tbsp baking soda in a spray bottle. Spray down anything-- even sofas, chairs, and fabric, and it will disinfect plus deorderize. We have 2 dogs allowed on the den sofa and this stuff is magic! I can put my nose to the sofa and it smells new. Side note about dogs: if your dogs don't smell neither will your furniture. If your dogs smell like crap your home will smell like crap. Bathe dogs 1-2x per month and wipe their bodies down with baby wipes daily!!…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 05:34 PM
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I'm a project manager from 9-5 (or 7 or 8... grrr), but this speaks to me. I love it. Challenge accepted!!!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 05:21 PM
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I like the idea of doing laundry daily, hmm... it's just hubs and I, but with the pets we tend to wash throw blankets and such a lot. Did your electric/water bill rise a lot after doing things daily? We have a "small load" option on our washer that uses minimal water.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 05:05 PM
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this is great! I like the timer idea!
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 04:58 PM
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I used to feel overwhelmed about keeping things clean. We have a 1900 sq foot house, 2 cats, 2 dogs and I work full time. We used to share the house work (well, he wound up doing more than me because I was lazy), but then I found RPW and started owning it. It's now much more manageable even with my job. Dusting: these micro-fiber towels have changed everything!!! http://www.amazon.com/Zwipes-Microfiber-Cleaning-36-Pack-Assorted/dp/B000XECJES/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1434990425&sr=8-1&keywords=micr…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 04:47 PM
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my husband and I both together (total) have six figures in student debt. We also have very good jobs, but with those payments each month plus our mortgage we need to have two incomes right now. He absolutely values that I have an education (an MBA even). The debt was worth it. He's in a higher position than me in his career so it looks like a year or so down the line he'll be very much the breadwinner (right now our pay is equal). I plan on continuing to work unless we have a kid, then we can de…
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/15 07:36 PM
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