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You should've ignored him. It removes the power of his insults. If that didn't work use short man fighting styles to prempt aggression. Aim for the stomach directly below the rib cage hitting in an upwards motion it'll knock the wind out of him. Then follow with a blow to the top of the forehead rendering him disoriented followed by pushing him back and to the ground. Most fights novices aim for the head or middle stomach only using their dominant arm or they aim for an immediate tackle. Use you…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 01:31 AM
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My husband can be verbally abusive on occasion if I trigger that sort of reaction by picking at things. It's excusable though because he does steroids and I know it's not really him doing its just his gut reaction to dominate situations in his life. Lately if he's pissed he stkrms off to the basement to do weighted pulled UPS or bench then comes back calm without any insults. I don't think of it as "abuse" because it lacks premeditation in a sinister way. I feel intent is the biggest difference.…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 05:14 PM
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You keep saying he, what are you doing? Can you blame a guy for looking for an out or not wanting to be angry when all you do is say what he needs to do?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 07:11 PM
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Maybe he's tired of being angry? My husband is like that too he's an actionable hothead he doesn't talk he just does stuff. He's probably tired of being angry with you
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:57 PM
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I've paid attention to alot of your posts, I think maybe your husband is at a "breaking point" constantly being accused of cheating, looking for new people online. He's probably tired of your shit. If you compound that with work or money issues (assuming he makes most of it) he's probably incredibly fed up. I'm going to go against the grain but I feel like he remembers all the cheating you accused him off and other bs and probably feels like nothing he does amounts to anything and that your a ne…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:17 PM
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I do poledancing at a dance studio 3 times a week. Running joke at work was I could never do what a stripper could (how wrong they were) I have a pole in my basement for "practice" when I'm at home. I do bodybuilding with my husband although I only focus on lady muscles like my legs and butt (they're huge now). I work on cars with my husband he taught me everything there is. I have a 1991 Dodge stealth RT turbo that I literally rebuilt with just my husband from a shell, as well as a 1985 iroc-z.…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 04:49 AM
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You need to decide for yourself what you want in life, but make sure the decision is based on who you are at the core or it will lead to resentment. Theres nothing wrong with financially depending on a man as long as its mutually discussed upfront. I made my decision in my mid 20s im not miserable but I live a different life then most moms. My life involves traveling with my husband, going on more dates because I dont have kids, basically more leisurely but I spent ALOT of time and hardwork gett…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 06:15 AM
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You can also support a family of 5 via welfare in my state the child cap is 8. You can receive 478$ per child 233 in food stamps and section 8 and energy assistance for housing and electric needs. More motivation to have 8 baby daddy's and an I ain't need no man attitude!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 02:47 AM
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I don't think it's possible to have both a career and a family at the same time as a woman. You may be able to attempt it but you lack time and dedication to one over the other. As a woman in a high powered corporate career I view applications where a woman has years out of the workforce due to raising kids as a red flag, they tend to be the most demanding take the most time off and show up late or call out more then career women. I've come to accept after joining this sub I will never have chil…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 02:44 AM
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To an extent the people on PPD are right and it's a strike at a man's ego. I've slept with 3 men all of which were in relationships with me. I never had anal sex with the first two. They were for all intents and purposes average. Both in looks height and personality. Then I met my husband at 31. He was amazing in all those formely mentioned traits. I'd never felt a level of lust that I feel for him before I viewed anal sex as disgusting and possibly painful. But attraction is a powerful thing. T…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/18 02:32 AM
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I asked him if it was alright if I came because I know that's his bonding/catch-up time with his friends. He said he would love to bring me because he loves sharing his hobbies with me
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 06:32 PM
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Of course I texted him when they left
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 09:11 PM
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You're right I'm not but I'm also laid back. The last time his friends brought their SOs to a dinner gathering they ganged together and started henpecking their men. Ever since then they don't get to come out. I've never been like that as I have nothing bad to say about my husband or his friends and they noticed
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 07:28 PM
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Not me lol
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 05:52 PM
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He's coming with us
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 05:09 PM
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I was invited by my husband's friends but he is apart of the group and will be going as well
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 05:08 PM
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Their wives and gfs like to ruin fun which is why I was the only one invited. They've crashed dinner outings and other things so I don't see them being invited
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 05:08 PM
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I find it amusing alot of women feel you need to have everything in common for a relationship to he successful. You give and take. I dislike hunting and fishing but I've learned to love them because my husband takes me. He hated the idea of going to VS and picking out g strings or going to Sephora and picking out make up but he learned to love it because he does it with me. You do things for your lover and they'll do things for you. You'll never see a person in love say "whelp it was a good go b…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 11:20 PM
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And he'll still he married to me lol. Not everyone marries for looks
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 01:47 AM
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Agree completely
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 09:34 PM
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I think I know why my husband agreed to marry me over what someone on the internet claims to know about my relationship. Not everything is cut and dry. Not denying the science and facts your presenting or the fact that most men are older then their partners my exes were all in their 40s when I was in my 20s. Some men don't "fit the mold" and yes my husband is an exception. But think of it from a logical perspective. Most women his age or younger have NOTHING but looks and fertility in our area m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 07:02 PM
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Not all guys are "desperate" when dating an older woman. My husband is incredibly attractive and 13 years younger then me. He's admitted about 75% of the women he's slept with were 30-50. Here's a guy that has all women pining for him and prefers that. Why? Sexual confidence. I know I'm not hot I accept my body (I still workout and maintain it) I'm not insecure about stuff I realised I can't change a decade ago. It makes a world of difference to men especially of high value they can't stand the …
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 11:43 PM
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Your lucky to have each other. I feel like I am lucky to have my handsome lovely hubby. Most men on his level of attractiveness are usually douchebags but he's the sweetest person ever. That being said I won't debase myself just because he's awesome in all my years of life having self respect is something I value utterly. That being said I also know what I bring to the table and he's said it as well. We value each other and feel lucky to have each other.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 12:35 AM
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It's a hookup app thats like going to Best buy to get your hair done it doesn't work that way.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 02:13 AM
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No I don't worry for myself anymore but I do worry for younger ladies on here. I want them to be happy and in good relationships which is why I posted advice. Pgh does have alot of conservative rural areas but Pittsburgh itself is mainly younger liberal leaning men. Maybe try your search a little outside the city?
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 01:28 AM
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Yes but you'd think in a city with a good amount of successful men you'd have more valueable guys online interested in dating. Maybe it's because I'm Arabic I don't know I felt I had alot more to offer then my competition but nobody seemed to care online. I went to school in Pittsburgh as well (Duquesne) the benefit in that area is there are alot of conservative men in the metro area looking for wives. I met mine in philly.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 01:07 AM
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Philadelphia
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:56 PM
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I've tried both in person and online (POF). I'm not particularly attractive but I'm not hideous. I have a masters and make well over 6 figures a year. My profile was genuine and not lazy. In a city of close to 2 million people 99% of the guys that opened me were ugly, unemployed, creepy or all of the above. I sent messages to well put toghether men and never got responses even after genuinely reading profiles and commenting on their interests. I gave up and tried in person and met the perfect ma…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 11:50 PM
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Why are you on a hookup app looking for a relationship that's like me looking for a new husband at a male strip club
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 06:12 PM
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IMO no. Most men will put up a front online to get into your pants. You can see who someone is in person better it may be harder but the rewards are higher. If your a 5 online you will attract less attractive and less ambitious men in droves high SMV will likely overlook you to chase after people in their cohort. If your a 5 in person your personality and feminity can shine and you can attract a higher value mate. Online you handicap yourself for convenience.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 10:18 PM
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I don't think he's rejecting you maybe he's afraid to be affectionate alot of tough guys are like that. Try to figure out why. Maybe failed relationships or attempts at showing love to past lovers
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/18 03:15 AM
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I take it when you say negativity your taking it out on your partner. If he hasn't done anything wrong all your doing is alienating him and if he has a back bone if you do it long enough he will leave. Bringing out positivity is hard sometimes when your life is rough, show him affection don't wait for him to show you especially if your focusing your negativity on him he won't have a reason or interest to initiate homself. If you consistently show him love and focus on positive things in your lif…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 06:25 PM
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Well I've been with him for 7 years and know next to nothing about his past before us. He's slowly sharing
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 02:42 AM
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I have been working in my non-verbal support of my husband as he seems to be going through a transition to self employment and I think finding himself to an extent. I've focused on not talking more cuddling arm grabbing hand holding kissing or back rubbing. This has lifted him up and he's more affectionate, tonight we went for a night walk and my feet hurt so he gave me a piggy back ride for the rest of it which turned into him carrying me through the front door and carrying me to bed. He's also…
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/18 02:15 AM
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IMO gender politics or politics in general are at home business I don't want to hear that shit while working it's not relevant to anything at the facility I manage.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 06:33 PM
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We ladies tend to over focus on small minute details more then men. For telling stories or talking it's a great trait but for over focusing on nonsensical information in relationships can only lead to unnecessary drama and negativity. If he was poor why does it matter. If he was a drug dealer and did his time why does it matter? How he is now and who he is now is ALL that matters.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 06:24 PM
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Here's a funny one I heard at work. HR woman asked a male HR assistant if he was femnist he said no, she responds femnism is about equality so you are a sexist. He responds do you agree with male rights activists? She says no to which he says well by logic your not about equality and are also sexist. I wrote both of them up even though female was one that brought it to my attention. Because I'm all about equality 😂
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 05:02 PM
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Me and my husband both grew up poor (I grew up in Lebanon to a family that made 4k USD a year) only after hard work did I enter the third highest tax bracket in the US after moving here in my early 20s. My husband grew up in the ghetto of the city we both live in currently. That being said when we met I was established and he was just starting out (age Gap) but I wouldn't trade him for the world. Don't overthink backrounds and other small tidbits of info just focus on the man himself how you fee…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 02:56 PM
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Good thing we have a machine, we usually argue who gets to push the button because of the funny noises it makes when it starts. If your argueing over simple shit you probably shouldn't be together.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 01:23 PM
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I guess I could chime in here. I married up astronomically in the looks department. That being said I have higher status than him as well as alot more money. Never really felt hypergamous in my relationship. Men my age are slow fat and boring. I could care less if their my status or career equals. Hubby brings a happy go lucky attitude good looks and most importantly positive feelings into my life. His friends call him Mr. Happy because nobody ever sees him in a bad mood. That to me is more impo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 01:20 PM
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I told him I had a surprise for him while he was relaxing in bed. Then proceeded to sit on his face. Couldn't pet him as suggested but he said he liked the surprise so I guess same result haha? We're going over the process of him incorporating and creating a basic cost draft for equipment. I appreciate your comments here always full of great advice!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 12:19 AM
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I think he'd rather have my ass in his face does it still work that way lol?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 10:25 PM
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Good advice but I have an A cup haha
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 01:00 PM
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I hardly see him as is because of my jobs hours if he starts a business it'd most likely interlap with my hours
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 12:52 PM
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As an ugly educated woman whos married to a very attractive alpha man let me say keep on the right track and do you. Anything is possible in life. Maybe youll have to do the pursuing when you do meet the perfect guy (thats what I did) but it can totally happen for anyone who has their eyes open and works on themselves. Go out and volunteer, join groups, walk down a different street. Itll happen if you put yourself out there and go the distance.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/18 10:52 PM
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I could easily submit to someone who makes wrong decisions (in my eyes at least they may be wrong) because I realise I and that person are human beings and prone to make mistakes. One of the biggest things imo for intelligent people is realizing you don't know everything and accepting other people won't know as much as you. I see the point your making about person A and person B. Constantly comparing "your logic" against someone elses is a sign insecurity imo and shows a constant need to be righ…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 01:49 PM
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I know plenty of high intelligence people that make stupid decisions. It's called the human factor. We all fall victim to it. I make just as many mistakes as any of the women here and just as many as my "not as smart" husband. Life isn't a math equation sometimes taking a step back and not over thinking things makes things so much easier. I view it like this I may think my ideas are better then my husband's but it's like this 2+2=4 but so does 3+1. There's more then one way to do anything at the…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 03:19 AM
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As a woman with an IQ of 138 on the WAIS-4 scale which is 2 points below genius level I'll be the first to say I have no problem dating someone who "isn't as smart as me" what is smart anyways? I'm smarter then my husband on many fronts chemistry, pharmacology, business acumen.One thing people neglect to tell you is smart people usually have awful social skills. My husband can insert himself into a group of people and immediatly have everyone feeling comfortable with his presence and lead intera…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 02:34 AM
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Do just that bring him your problem. If you talk in a everyday tone calmly and without anger you'd be surprised how easily men listen. Let us know how it goes
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 01:38 AM
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Then I think it's time for a serious talk with him. It's one thing to be focused on projects it's another thing to neglect your SO
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 12:41 AM
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Intiate yourself . Mine just lost his job and even though he won't admit he's not himself. I "forgot" to put my clothes back on this afternoon and I just happened to accidentally slip my hand inside his pants the rest is history. Tell him he forgot to nail something on one of his projects. Men tend to get distracted and have one track goal oriented minds. Take the initiative I'm sure he still loves you
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 09:55 PM
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If only mine posted on Reddit I'd be as lucky as you 😀
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 09:20 PM
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I can't assume gender by username I spent most of my life not experimenting sexually I like the openness of my marriage for experimentation but in the confines of monogamy. I never really felt the lust I have for my husband with anyone else is that so wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 06:25 PM
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He liked my idea much better then his. I think alot of women here are prudish. I've gotten private messages informing me my sexual openness makes me a slut even though I've only slept with 3 men in my lifetime lmao. My husband would never do anything sexually he doesn't think I'd enjoy his enjoyment is tied in with mine people make it seem like I'm forced into performing things I don't want to.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 04:56 PM
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Yeah the moralizing was getting to me. Apparently I'm married to a beta male because guys that wanna post shit online must be cuckolds and seeking validation for his sexual choice. I don't get the hate if I was a man and dating a 19yo in my 30s I'd get thunderous applause yet when you do that as a woman it can never be serious. Out of all the men I've gone out with my husband was the only one to connect with me on a deep level and take genuine interest in who I was prompting me to ask him out. I…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 04:25 PM
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Good April fool's joke. My husband had his gay friend call me and inform me he's been living a double life this whole time and is officially gay now and their shacking up. I was kind of taken aback until hubby called me and said April fool's 😅
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 09:16 PM
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I don't plan on controlling anyone I'm a grown woman not a babysitter. My husband can do whatever he wants he's a grown man. Control is for people who are insecure and can't attain things of value based on free association so they need to play games and browbeat others into staying with them.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 07:25 PM
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I know my husband could cheat on me easily he's vastly more attractive then I am. But only douchebags put themselves in situations to flirt til "they know they can close the deal" or go out of their way to assert they have options. I know my husband has options he doesn't need to troll bars or flirt for me to know that. You praise Patrice O'Neil an overweight diabetic who got off on pissing in his girlfriend's mouth. I don't know about you but I was alive when he had live shows. A dude that was …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 06:57 PM
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This is RPW not TRP alot of the advice on trp is geared towards getting laid not LTRs. The women here are actually worth marrying and being in relationships with. I read male TRP as well. The thing you don't get is the stuff you stated about security is a necessity for a LTR and marriage. My husband lived the Playboy lifestyle before we started dating if he didn't offer me security I'd leave him just as fast as if he was a flirtatious asshole. Men on Trp talk about how women don't act right and …
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 05:14 PM
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I have a property of tattoo as a tramp stamp best honeymoon gift ever. Hubby loves it too. Still feel feminine on the inside too!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/18 04:31 AM
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If you have the ask the question the answer is probably yes. The best relationships are built on love and most importantly MUTUAL RESPECT. If he knows something bothers you he shouldn't keep doing it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 11:05 PM
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I don't know where your getting "beta male" from anywhere in this post. Wanting to post homemade porn online isn't alpha or beta I don't think having a fetish for exhibitionism can be conflated with how someone acts. I don't really get what relevance "being married twice that long" has. I know plenty of people that are in long term marriages and miserable I'm not. Nor do I care if people judge me for being with someone 13 years younger then me I'm happy with my life and my SO.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 10:06 PM
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My husband wouldn't do that I've been with him for 7 years he's all about mutual respect. And age isn't an indicator of maturity.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 07:33 PM
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I try to preface every post with the most important details in the first sentences because I understand alot of people don't like to fully read everything but still it was right there 😂
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 04:39 PM
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Same guy for 7 years maybe people don't like the fact that I thought outside the box and married someone younger then me
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 03:56 PM
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Sex club isn't my cup of tea tbh. I have some some exhibitionism experience with him (I think?) We went on a cruise and I wore a thong bikini for beachs and sun bathing that's about the extent of that aside from sex in the car.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 03:59 AM
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I love your suggestion of homemade for us only. I think he wants to get off on exhibitionism of other people "watching me" tbh I feel maybe I've sexually spoiled him and he needs a new taboo "fix" to get riled up and excited again
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 03:49 AM
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If by troll you mean my looks then yes absolutely hahaha
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 03:42 AM
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At close to 40 I think it's safe to say no man would really want me if I was theoretically single. I have shit smv as it is. I'm also already "settled down" I have no intention of marrying again... Ever
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 03:40 AM
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All his sexual requests have been fulfilled thus far. He gets whatever he wants when he wants sex. We've done Bdsm, public sex (car), alot of things. This is the only one that makes me think twice
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/18 03:12 AM
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Try to have sex in every state you pass through. We went from PA to florida had alot of sex in-between (4 times in South Carolina)I Try avoid awkward passing conversation. You'd be surprised at the stupid shit you can say when your bored in a car. Don't be annoying with directions just figure it out as you go. Mainly have fun and keep it light
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/18 08:47 PM
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Some beta male traits are needed to have a healthy long term relationship. My husband can be the typical overly masculine meathead, but he has a soft side for me so balance out the negative aspects of his dominance.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 11:46 PM
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Get it in a gallon box 6$
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 01:51 PM
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I see this suggestion in almost every thread asking for advice, it must be gold if it's everywhere haha. I wish my husband was into that
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/18 01:48 PM
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There isn't anything fundamentally wrong with your beliefs marriage is the ultimate form of commitment but I don't feel you understand you need to offer something to modern men to get them to that point unless you marry a Muslim or Evangelical Christian. You say relationships up until marriage are a kiss and a promise what about what your offering him? Submission and sex based on..... A promise of if he married you lol. He needs to see you're worthy of marrying before he marries you that's commo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 09:30 PM
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She sounds like an alcoholic who needs to curb stress with wine. A glass at night is healthy for your heart and anti aging benefits a bottle a night is sad.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 06:11 PM
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You can't force someone to change their mind. If he isn't interested in marriage you need to decide whether your interested in continuing the relationship. You could spend years trying to "convince" him with no success.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 06:06 PM
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I never once endorsed being a slut and in previous comments stated no relationship no sex. I don't think rpw is about "valueing" female sexuality any woman can withhold sex til marriage it doesn't make her marriage material. Being a worthy partner imo is what rpw is all about. Working on yourself becoming better offering value to your partner. Commitment is mutually exclusive it's not just about a dude craving access to just your pussy it's him agreeing to forgo his biological polygamy in order …
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 05:17 AM
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If a man goes along with chastity e.g my ex bf waiting 8 months for sex it shows he lacks options and imo self respect. In 39 now and that was a long time ago but the world has changed alot since then. Not all alphas are "players" player denotes his lifestyle is to bed many women. My husband is what trp calls a "natural" he's naturally an alpha male he doesn't understand game he just naturally succeeds with women. He's not a player. He's slept with alot of women but he isn't manipulative and he'…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 11:01 PM
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It's supposed to be a surprise if I went with him it wouldn't he. I already did a consultation on Friday!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 10:49 PM
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Whisper is also incredibly insightful honest and intelligent. His advice is realistic to most men in the modern world. I'm a 39yo successful woman and I agree with most of what he says.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 10:03 PM
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I feel withholding sex is a game that isn't healthy obviously have standards e.g no relationship no sex but making it a power play won't work on modern men who know their value. Oh you won't fuck me? Well fuck you my other 300 tinder matches will. Thats modern dating when chasing high SMV men. Some men aren't like that but most are. Your only as powerful as your options in most cases
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 10:02 PM
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Not many men would be willing to wait for either sex or submission if they are high value. It's a package deal if you also want an all inclusive package as well. An endorsed contributor on male trp once said "if she makes you wait it's never worth the wait" I made my first bf wait for sex for 8 months once we finally had it he said I can't believe I waited for that what a waste. Things ended shortly after.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 09:33 PM
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Obedience is important to me because before I married my husband I was your generic nagging harpy. I had brow beaten two men into submission and wondered why I wasn't attracted to them after awhile. About three weeks into dating my husband I began nagging him and he looked me in the eye and said of you don't STFU this won't last long. From that moment on I realised I was pretty annoying and became more feminine and submissive. I get him water, reheat his food, make him dinner and bring it to him…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 05:54 PM
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Yet your still single. Maybe take the reins of your life instead of hoping someone will fall from the sky. Go to places where you'd find a conservative masculine man. Try mma gyms or gun ranges. Get to know them. Ask them to get coffee after an activity make it known it's a date. It's not that hard I feel like since you want to be "spoiled" you just asume a line of men will just form to accommodate you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 11:42 PM
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Well we are older and perhaps wiser. But I moved here from the middle East where men are men. I see how to some extent guys here are emasculated but that isn't a justification to destroy the life of another human being "just because" a colleague of mine was married for 27 years no marital strife wife decides she needs to find herself he loses more then half his assets as she had planned it in advance for a long time made alot of lies to get what she wanted. When your in your 60s what do you need…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 10:17 PM
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Men have expectations. You could be the most beautiful woman in the room but don't expect to land what you want by standing in the corner batting your eyelashes. Your post comes off as incredibly entitled like you deserve a gentleman. Try asking a guy out. Scope him out get to see who he is then go for it. Worst that could happen is he says no thanks 90% of the time they say yes though. Why would you he surprised worthwhile men are taken lol. My husband was single for 2 months when we started go…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 07:23 PM
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My maiden named was arabic and incredibly long. I view taking your husband's name as a sign of respect to him, I am "his" old lady both figuratively and literally. My last name is now one syllable instead of 4 😂
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 06:27 PM
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In most states you can't claim any property or business that was attained before marriage. Unless your hubby has a business and you help him out with it then you can claim equity regardless of if he had it before marriage. I find some of the stuff some of the women post here quite ignorant in regards to the plight of men and marriage (not reffering to you) women aren't the ones hanging themselves because they can't see their kids or have to pay 40% of their income for child support and alimony t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 04:59 PM
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Get in while the house is being built and the land is cheap. I was a middle manager at my job when met my husband, he worked at the front desk of a gym at the time making get this.... 8.25 an hour. He was like your boyfriend driven. 7 years later he was making 39k with no college degree and a GED. He recently lost his job. He isn't bothered he knows he'll get another one in no time he has a great resume with actual work history somethinf college grads don't have. Have faith.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 04:45 AM
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Prenups are nice in theory but usually thrown out in court if a woman puts on some crocodile tears or claims ignorance. Mine agreed to marriage out of moral beliefs and the fact that up until this week (lost his job) I made 5x as much as him so in a divorce I'd get fucked.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:59 AM
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If the father is masculine let him teach them about the school of hard knocks and realism. Mother's tend to coddle their children. At age 12 or so accept that your SO is going to he the primary parent and his role will be much more important for them to go from boys to men.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:39 AM
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Why would a man take you to dinner? What have you done to earn that offered good conversation? Been pleasant to be around? Maybe split half the bill? Guys aren't growing up with a 1950s mentality anymore. They have expectations of women especially from your generation seeing mommy divorce daddy leaves a sour taste in their mouths. You have to prove yourself and be worth commitment. I asked my husband out, I was worth his time. It worked out. Stop using outdated rules in 2018.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 03:34 AM
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Unless your 6'10 260 isn't a healthy natural weight. You may look way better. But if you want a Chad experience you need to put the work in. Abs are the number one chick lagnet. Get skin surgery to lose excess skin. You have to kill yourself for abs if it was easy everyone would have them. You need to lose excess skin before you'll see much though.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 05:52 PM
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260 is still a shit weight. Girls don't care if you can bench 500 pounds if you're fat and don't look like you even go to the gym. Lose more weight. You don't need debonair pick up skills just talk to everyone you meet. Women at 711. The clerk at the liquor store. For alot of men it's a numbers game. Results take hard work. Keep going the distance.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 05:46 PM
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I have no idea what words I should use to tell him. I can't just give him a speech about how awesome of an employee he was and that this is just a finanacial decision. He knows how awesome he is at work it will grind on him because he will know it wasn't his fault and he will be pissed that's he's losing his job regardless.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:28 PM
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Your right never hold things from your husband but at work I'm the boss and manage over 100 people. I can't put my personal feelings over laws and company policies.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:14 PM
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I'd lose my job if it was found out I gave information to one person first over other people? That's workplace discrimination.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:09 PM
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I think what he means by vulnerability is a man whining or complaining about a struggle, problem, or issue he has. You can be a male and vulnerable without emoting weakness.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 01:42 PM
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Maybe she realises she's a child and needs help maturing?
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 11:45 PM
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Unfathomable that women around the world could believe in femininity and defering to male leadership or any form of self improvement. The stuff we believe in was the norm for thousands of years... Because it worked.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 10:45 PM
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My husband bought me a nightie from VS he neglected to tell me it was 90% see though.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 02:28 AM
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45mins-an hour of foreplay just appreciating each other's bodies among other various things. We then have actual sex he takes awhile to get off usually 20-30 mins we go at it until he orgasms take a slight break then switch up locations or positions and go at it again. Rinse and repeat until someone doesn't want to go anymore or we're both so drenched in sweat we have to stop. Sometimes showers extend our sessions too lol.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/18 11:56 AM
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It's ok if for a few days because of work you can't do the deed as long as you make up for it on days you can IMO. My husband has been working 12-16 hour days lately but we had sex for 3 hours yesterday. Didn't bother me that we couldn't during the week. I feel if you GENUINELY are too tired or sick it's ok but realise all intersexual relationships are built on sex if there's no sex your not partners your friends.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 09:52 PM
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If I smoke a stick I find on the ground does that make it a drug because I'm inhaling tree fiber? That's your logic. You smoke pot that doesn't mystically change it from a plant to a drug. It's. A plant with thc but it's still a plant. It doesn't change into a drug via inhalation if it was bound to an ester or via chemical process changes into another chemical base via renal or hepatic function it would be a drug. It's still a plant... I'm not going to keep responding to you i don't think you ha…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 10:33 PM
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Pot isn't addictive. Opiates are addictive. Opium is a plant as is coca. When refined into DRUGS they lose that classification. Were not talking about opium were talking about pot your trying to validate your argument with unrelated points. Poppy and cannabis are natural. The definition of natural in medicine is an unaltered state. Natural PLANTS. I have a double major in pharmacokinetics and pharmacology what do I know. Plants are definitely drugs I'm going to keep my husband away from the gras…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 06:45 PM
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Soda isn't exactly a terrible thing either my husband is a competive bodybuilder and drinks a two liter and a half of moutain dew a day. He isn't fat or lacking energy. You sound very controlling. Is your husband disgustingly overweight from soda or so lazy from smoking pot he's lost his job? I think you were right in your OP you two shouldn't have gotten married you sound like you mother him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 04:30 PM
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Maybe I have a different view then most but pot isn't exactly addictive or an addiction. I work in pharmaceuticals allow me to be the first person to inform you pot isn't a drug so it can't be classified as a recreactional drug. Drugs are artificially manufactured from other substances. Pot is a plant. Huge difference. I don't think smoking a Doobie once a week or less to unwind is a relationship ending situation especially if he does it away from your children. I'd also put my money on he smoke…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/18 02:45 PM
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My husband is very articulate and intelligent in a street smart and acquired intelligence kind of way but when it's a deep question about him before we met it's always a short vague anwser. I asked him last night why he doesn't talk to his family to which he responded he does everyday I am family and the only thing he cares about. I don't think I'll ever get answers an as other users have suggested it's just my idle curiosity knowing things won't really affect my marriage to him so I just leave …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 09:47 PM
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It's idle curiosity I'm not going to nitpick things out of boredom. There's no drama really in our marriage no need to make it
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 04:21 AM
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I guess I misread how you worded things it seemed like you were stating being a dad and being inshape weren't possible at the same time. My mistake.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 04:19 AM
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I agree you need beta traits to have a good marriage. But I disagree on personal fitness. 30 mins a day of jogging or if you can make it 30-45mins at the gym is all it takes to stay in shape. Most people live within 15 minutes of a gym. All they lack is motivation. I know a SAHM who at 36 is in the best shape of her life after wait for it.... 4 kids. Her husband is inshape too not muscle and fitness inshape but for a 42yo he looks better then some 20yos.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 03:07 AM
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Well I'd like to know lol
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 02:55 AM
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I think he may have had a traumatic childhood. He's a very strong invididual mentally. Usually suffering IME with men is what builds strength and character I don't want to open old wounds but I do care about his life and experience he's just not talkative about it he's always focused on us now or a the future.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 12:03 AM
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I've never tried I just want to know what his story is. It's like he's a non existent entity until we met. It's kind of eery He's a loving driven dominant man but I feel like knowing about someone's past can help with dealing with things in the future e.g knowing more about what bothers him etc
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 09:54 PM
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Actually no. His parents were never married and he isn't on speaking terms with them and hasn't seen them once since we got together. He has no siblings.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 09:51 PM
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After 7 years our affection and love for each other has only grown daily.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 02:34 PM
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Alot changes after you move in together. Small things will irritate you about him and his habits may bother you. Be upfront and honest about boundaries and expectations who will clean/do what discuss it in detail. It will lead to less stress and arguements over menial things.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 01:05 AM
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9-12 calories per per pound is considered a healthy minimum for weight lost. Adjust based on metabolism and age. Lower for over 30
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 07:02 PM
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Because men and women want different things. No woman here is a unicorn but they are far more valueable in long term relationships then used up slags with Daddy issues or overly agressive you go girl gorrillas. Marriage is possible in today's day and age I'm married so are alot of ladies here. We realise it takes work. We acknowledge AWALT we accept that sometimes we may not he rational. But we work on our relationships and with our partners (if they're worth working with) our relationships fail…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 06:58 PM
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To me submissiveness is knowing my place in the pecking order at home. I trust my husband makes the right decisions for us and let go of nit picking details and just accept it. However a good leader always takes into account the opinions and needs of his people. Make sure your SO hears you and knows what you want. My husband knows what I like and how I like it I can just kick my feet up while he sets things in motion. What helps me stay in the right frame of mind is knowing that if I was just an…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 06:45 PM
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Yes a few. It got in the way of tumultuous time period of building my future life. After awhile you don't really miss things it only take 21 days to form a new habit. You get used to working and being focused on your goal and know when your done you can cash your self improvement chips in for a more valuable man instead of just dating someone because you feel you have to or pressured.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 03:11 AM
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Avoid temptation. Parties alchohol etc. Parties and alchohol go hand in hand. Avoid slutty peers no matter how nice they are they will drag you down in the mud with them by nagging yoy "why don't you see so and so douchebag he's been eyeing you all class" even if you date in college chances are with how us culture is it's better to either wait til college is over to date seriously or date a man who has graduated and is settled. Your life changes so much after graduation. I came to the US with an…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 12:55 AM
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I guess I was naive we've been together for 7 years and the sausage looked delicious and still does. I know a bit about bodybuilding but I think the reality is I had blinders on. I cared about what I have not how it was made. In my current state at the end of the night everything worked out and he can keep doing what he's doing SAFELY.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 05:37 AM
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Lmao if I gave my husband orders I'd be single in a heart beat. I'd never phrase something as an order I care about him and I'd like to he heard what he does past that is up to him. I'd like to think I'm open minded I'm not upset he's doing roids I was upset it might be hurting him everything is fine in moderation.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 04:28 AM
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No he's not an idiot but everyone's bodies have limits. I'd never try to control him he clearly knows about everything he does (more then me but I know enough) I just want him to be safe I just want him to understand he has a wife that loves him very much and if something happened to him I'd be losing the most important thing in the world to me. I'm not trying to tell him what to do I'd never do that I just want him to use safely
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 02:07 AM
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That's why I posted this if I tell him no steroids I'm stepping in the way of his life's passion... Which I'd never do. I posted this to see a good way to broach the subject in a healthy way. We talked he will cut back but will he in control of his use and supplies. He will do quarterly blood work that I can look at but other then that it's in his hands. I trust him and that's what matters
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 02:02 AM
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I would never tell him what to do but I care about him enough to he worried about his health. At the end of the day you're right he's a smart man and I know him enough to know he'll do what he wants regardless.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 02:00 AM
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He's not conflict avoidant and he isn't afraid of facing criticism. you're right he doesn't have to do anything but I'd like to think if he gives me his word he'll be safe about something I can trust in that.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 12:38 AM
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I'm worried about my husband's safety is that wrong? I'd never stand in his way he's a goal driven man. But he has responsibilities to me too and I'd die if I lost him. alot of his idols have died from various forms of insulin and steroid abuse.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 12:35 AM
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Sometimes taking a step back before you make a decision based purely on emotion is the intelligent thing to do. Also realising many people have sound advice when your in an upset state helps before making a decision. Sorry not the average woman
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 12:19 AM
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The reason I'd still be ok with him doing it is because bodybuilding is his life's passion if he had to choose me or it I know he's probably going to choose bodybuilding. I'm not going to ask him to give us his passion just he safe about it
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 11:07 PM
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Yes he has hcg clomid and nolvadex on top of aromasin.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 09:56 PM
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He wants to have his bench at 600 squat at 900 and rows at 500. He claims he needs it but I pay attention at the gym when he works out and most weeks he can go up 5 sometimes 10 pounds per lift if he pushes it. He doesn't need that much to make strength gains and can make size gains on half that dose. I think he should get 600mg of deca 500 of test a week for a maximum of 16 and 1 preworkout dianabol a day not 4 of a methylated oral steroid. He fan cruise on 250mg a week when he's not cycling he…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 09:54 PM
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We had a sit down a couple minutes ago, he admitted to "blasting and cruising for years" he simply did it at the gym and hid it from me. He goes to the gym in the morning by himself and at night with me so I guess he did it in the morning and hid everything in his gym back (I'd never had a reason to go through it) here's the issue. I work in pharmaceuticals I know about the substances he claims to use and I know in low dosages and with proper supplementation and healthy eating no real harm can c…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 09:06 PM
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Also there's nothing wrong with liking macho men with six packs I feel maybe alot of women think it's bad to like that because a few bad apples are arrogant womanizing pricks. My husband is macho and incredibly muscular. He was a womanizer but he's an amazing intelligent down to earth guy who is always positive. Never be ashamed for finding someone attractive but be careful with who you trust with your feelings. That all depends on how they treat you not what they look like. I've met dorky nerds…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 02:02 AM
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It takes years to heal after heart ache not the the inside but also what you project on the outside. I was single for 6 years years before I met my husband. A few guys tried but I knew I wasn't ready nor was I wowed enough to be in love again. Take your time and when it happens you'll know
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 01:14 AM
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I use Aleppo soap which is olive oil based and doesn't have chemicals it helps keep my skin clean but also doesn't dry it out. I use cocoa butter and collagen cream. After years of using that combo I do look alot younger because it's kept my skins elasticity and I have no wrinkles or droopage. Occasionally I do a tca peel to remove dead skin.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 02:55 PM
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I met the man of my dreams in my 30s. Level yourself your older so realise now you have to bring more to the table. On the flip side when you do meet a man there's a better chance he likes you for who you are and not just for your looks. Humble yourself at this age it's a man's market realise they are now the ones deciding what's what. It may seem unfair but imagine how hard it is for guys when they are younger. Get into the gym, get a good diet, and realise if a guy doesn't come your way you ma…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 02:49 PM
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But the grossness made it memorable 😂
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 02:10 AM
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When I asked my husband out we both volunteered at the SPCA he called a puppy cute but I thought he was talking to me. I asked him out and said I hope I'm not too old for you (he's 12years younger then me) he said "you're not old you're seasoned" we went iceskating he was so confident I thought he was probably and expert at it but neither of us had ever ice-skated before we both fell but ended up in each other's arms. It felt so right i had a warm feeling like I loved him ever since meeting him …
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 01:03 AM
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Yes. I dislike thongs and g strings but wear them everyday because my husband likes them, now I'm used to it. I wear alot of leggings etc but feel too old to be wearing young woman stuff as I'm not young anymore. I prefer dresses but that tends to be only on certain occasions. In my husband's defense he wears underwear and certain clothes I pick out too 😁
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 11:58 PM
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Yeah I agree. I pointed out how she didnt mention one nice thing about him. Lol just his mba and assets. I have a Mercedes and black card as well like who the fuck cares. Lemee break out my dope hat and gold chain I didnt realise it mattered until today!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 02:32 AM
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I think the hard truths caused deletion lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 02:21 AM
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Betabux escaped from the plantation... Now you want him back. You kissed a coworker and use justifications to justify petty behavior. But only after he left do you realise what a mistake it was... Shouldn't it have been a mistake after it happened not after he left? The reality is he was a work horse to you. Your comment about not wanting to "date a man who makes 50 a year" proves it.The money doesn't make the man sweetheart. Let him go you clearly didn't genuinely care for him anyway you don't …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 01:48 AM
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My husband used to sleep around ALOT before he met me. He had a huge conglomeration of friendzoned women he had slept with but didn't want more from when we met. It was off putting at first but I viewed it as a test if he truly liked me he wouldn't do anything behind my back. I wanted him to keep them as friends because if he was a cheater I wanted him to out himself sooner rather then later. I snooped his phone one night and found a plethora of "offers" from days and weeks before he responded t…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 12:46 AM
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Then like guy stuff. I love guy stuff my husband is my best friend. I was simply explaining the social dynamic of why. I have a mixed group of friends my male friends are all my husband's friends I was introduced to all alpha male bodybuilders and power lifters who love cars guns etc. I love those things too. You don't need to be ashamed for what you like I was simply anwsering your question
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 11:33 PM
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It shows a lack of ability to befriend women. Women will look at a woman with all male friends as a drama queen and someone who lacks enough social etiquette to maintain female friends. Girls chat in different ways then guys so of you get up in arms over one off comment it shows you lack social grace and restraint most women with all male friends "claim" guys are easier to be friends but the reality is they are too socially retarded or easily offended to maintain relationships with fellow female…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 10:44 PM
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No having guy friends isn't weird having all guy friends is.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 06:09 PM
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You like the attention which is part of being a slut but unless you've had sex with alot of men you wouldn't be considered one. You probably stick to mainly male friends because you can't make female friends. That's usually a sign of issues on your part. It's disrespectful to the man your with to be doing one on ones and group Hangouts with other men
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 02:19 PM
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Sounds like too much work to me but I wasn't born here so my level of understandning of "the game" women play here isn't that great. If I'm not dating or married to you I don't give two fucks for your attention unless we're like minded girlfriends then I'll enjoy some tea. I do appreciate whsiper posting this though I do think through my eyes and via how I see life beta orbiters are well overplayed they exist but in my abodes in the US men move on fast why chat or chase a girl who shows no inter…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 01:57 AM
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I get questioned on my relationship all the time mainly Hy coworkers and underlings. My husband runs our household although at work I'm his boss. I do the laundry clean the house do the dishes cook the food (unless it's his specialty) basic household stuff. He rakes the leaves mows the lawn fixes the house etc. Ive paid for most of our major expense e.g our house but he's taking over our finances. We are egalitarian in a sense but more traditional then not. Usually I ignore the nonsense the peop…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 07:47 PM
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I was stating not all women are interested in having them it came off as men coming into a women's sub telling us if we try hard enough we can have plenty of orbiters. We all know orbiters exist they just aren't as numerous as male trp plays it off to be and they tend to orbit higher quality women. The ladies here aren't here to swap Instagram handles and trade secrets to an attention whore lifestyle. Guys are coming on here pretty much trying to convince women who don't want unwanted attention …
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 12:55 PM
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Yes emphasis on decent looking. Most women are average looking at best and life may be moderately biased towards them in some regard but not all of us have hordes of orbiters. Not to mention not all of us want beta orbiters if I find you unattractive I don't want you pestering me constantly I make my own money I don't need a free dinner or attention from men IDGAF about. Your right attention whores and sluts can with effort Garner plenty of attention. But as I said most women are average and hav…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 06:16 PM
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Mines big into bodybuilding I go to the gym with him and push him for extra reps I even spot him on heavy weight. When he's tired I help him get to the gym by driving or getting him a preworkout snack to up his energy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 10:39 PM
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I don't think men are stupid that's just feminism talking. I think they are simple in a straight forward way and have an uncanny ability to say what I want to say in 10 words or less. My father always told me if you have to play games to get what you want you weren't worth giving it to in the first place. I also find the comments about beta orbiters kinda overplayed on TRP I'm average looking on a good day I have men that are friendly to me but I don't have 600 fb likes 9000 Instagram followers.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 10:30 PM
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If I issued an ultimatum to my husband he'd issue me divorce papers. Commanding a man to give you a house 3 kids and 2 vacations a year is quite asinine. You EARN those things from a man. It's ok to set a general timeline and bring stuff up in a blunt way but if you want a real man he won't take kindly to "ultimatums"
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 10:13 PM
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I was never attractive so when I met my husband I wasn't worried about losing my looks lol. As a another user said men develop a view of you after marrying that is mostly positive especially if you've suffered toghether. My husband is 12 years younger then me I don't really think he cares about my age. Having a great personality compesates for loss in looks. When your both 65 you'll look like shit but if you don't act like shit the love will be just the same.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 05:08 PM
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Why not take a stand for what you believe in? Run to another country it'll turn to shit too eventually there will be nowhere to run. Your already in a corner whether you realise it or not. History is made by groups of disgruntled men coming together with common cause.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 12:00 AM
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It's not exactly a deal breaker for either of us.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 11:30 PM
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I feel of you've been apart for years and both grown as people in that time getting back together might be alright.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 06:18 PM
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My husband is high quality. Marriage aligns with his moral values , he also believes it offers better support to him then just having a girlfriend. Being married is also a sign of prestige for men in many cultures. Guys who remain unmarried aren't shunned but are usually viewed as not serious in the workplace and alot of social situations. Not saying there's anything wrong with being a male and not being married tho! Where I'm from (Lebanon) if you are male and not married by 30 you are viewed a…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:45 AM
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I met my husband by asking him out. Guys get confused easily so be to the point so he knows why youre approaching. Hi my name is X you seem X I'd love to go out with you sometime what's your number. Be direct guys don't bite they are much nicer with rejection then women. I got the man of my dreams by asking
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 02:40 AM
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Say you aren't ready for a relationship. It's bad to just casually date and string people along. If you have work to do ignore dating for awhile.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 07:05 PM
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So you had an affair but your upset he cheated? Kinda karmatic don't you think? You both fucked up. Nobody has leverage or moral high ground here either move on or move out. I have the feeling like both of you will always have lingering feelings of doubt about the relationship. IMO neither of you have a right to be upset about either cheating you both did it. Best of luck
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 02:43 PM
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Must be a sad life doing grammar corrections on Valentine's day lol. I hope you and your husband had an amazing one. Stay blessed
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 02:26 AM
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English is my third language sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/18 01:57 AM
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38 not 40. Realise this decade is where you shape yourself. Don't let job losses or broken hearts shape your world view. Alot of women say the best time to be alive is when your older but TBH that's just wall based nonsense the best time to be alive is when you work hard on yourself and reap the rewards of your labor. Simply showing up and being pretty is easy to do when in your 20s but realise if you want an amazing life both love and otherwise it'll take work.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 11:51 PM
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When we met he was 18 turning 19 and I was 31. I don't think kids were on his mind at the time. I don't think he'd leave me for another woman but if he does that's on him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 04:34 PM
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I didn't read this post that way but I hope my advice helped someone if they are a woman. I know of very few women who think of sex like your average guy does but I have met a few. One had a testerone disorder that made her hornier then average but also more aggressive and short tempered. It is possible though the statistical evidence of a woman like that wandering into a 20kish member sub is improbable.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 02:06 AM
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Foster Care in the US costs a ridiculously high amount of money. Even being well off in my career I'd never spend that much just to take a kid off someone else's hands.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 11:44 PM
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I make well over 100 a year my husband barely makes 30. Money isn't an issue for a future child. I wouldn't want to raise a child with autism. Call me selfish... I mainly posted this because I don't want to crush my husband, he really really wants kids.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 11:43 PM
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Depends on what kind your looking for? Lace? Just underwear stockings garter combo? You can pick up nice panties in amazon. Amazon also has a great stockings brand called leg avenue. They have dozens of stocking designs. I prefer simplicity so I stick to fish nets but they have so many things under 20$ too!
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 08:06 PM
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Suggestive texts are usually a sign of desire although my husband is more into picking out clothes for me or telling me to wear that thong he likes. Makes me feel good about myself because he wants to see me in things. I'm also not good looking so I enjoy the attention alot more. He will just sweep me off my feet sometimes and take me to the bedroom (im 4'11 he's 6'6) there are many forms of desire but IMO men who desire you show it through action
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 05:38 PM
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I mean my dad is 71 and plays basketball with my husband, I do want kids but if we had them he'd have to stay home. I just don't know. It doesn't feel natural and I'd feel had if there was something wrong with the child I'd feel like it'd be my fault
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/18 12:28 AM
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Sometimes men don't think it's appropriate in certain company. Maybe there were kids around? Need more context maybe you did something or he's in a bad mood. Not enough to go on.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 09:37 PM
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I have an N count of 3 at 38. Last one was my husband who I met after being single for close to 6 years! Before that i was single for 2 and 4. Tbh I feel the best way to cope with sexual frustration isn't masterbation but channelling that energy into something productive. I volunteered at the SPCA where I met my husband too! Working with dogs and cats helped my nurturing side and focused my mind on non sexual things and I was helping something at the same time. Maybe try intense jogging anything…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/18 09:22 PM
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Agree 100% not bitchy ugly chick reporting in
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/18 04:50 AM
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To me it's utter honesty directed at myself and being able to accept that I am imperfect and strive for more.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/18 04:48 AM
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I've been with my man for close to 7 years and not once have we talked about past relationships. We're both secure enough to not care about that as it has no bearing on how we act or what we want currently.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/18 12:05 AM
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Not denying it happens all regions are different as are all people. Just basing my numbers off what I've seen in my own area and life and from what I've seen in my social circle. You could be a male 10 but if you seem angry and unapproachable women won't go for it on the basis of protecting their feelings if rejected it's how we think. You must have a great vibe and personality in combo with looks.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 08:20 PM
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This post has some validity, mainly that you need a high SMV to have women approach you. That being said IMO women at a value of 8 and above never seem to approach men regardless of smv. If your a male women that approach you will on average be less less attractive then you I'd say the difference will usually be 2-4 points someone on a man's level usually won't initiate but it sometimes happens. The level of lust needs to he high for a woman to take the risk of rejection herself which is a bigge…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 07:54 PM
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He's afraid of what people think. My husband couldn't give a shit what people think of him he voted for trump is white and incredibly sexist (in a factual way) he's married to me an Arabic Muslim he gets shit from all ends of the spectrum and he keeps on going regardless. Trp is a tool box sweetheart nothing more take away the politics and it's just another self help sub. It gets a bad rap because it empowers men. I was a feminist before I got married, in a similar boat to you. I met a powerful …
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 04:40 AM
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I think I loved my husband before we even started dating. I've been infatuated with guys but hubby was something else. We went out a few times and I asked him why he continued to see me when far prettier and younger women give him plenty of attention. His response was "because I want to" my heart sank and I felt a mix of anxiety and elation because the hottest funnest guy I'd ever been with actually liked me for who I was. It was a feeling of disbelief for awhile until he asked me to marry him. …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 09:03 PM
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And many more putter along or avoid taking responsibility. If every man had the capacity they'd all be leaders not just the select few. Alot of men do have the ability but lack the interest
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 04:31 AM
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I agree with your suggestion of reading the surrendered wife but if bf isn't on board to lead it won't do much. It takes two to tango
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 01:14 AM
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It doesn't work that way. Men choose to lead. You can't force it on a man who doesn't believe in those things. If you want to find a real man date one. If your fighting regularly you shouldn't be considering marriage it doesn't solve issues. As for sex get in the mood. I once pulled the I have a headache on my husband when we first started dating he told me to take a midol or take a hike. Can you blame him for not wanting sex if you aren't into it? Sex is about conquest for men he wants to know …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/18 12:31 AM
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Asking a man out. The ultimate way to date who you want. Yet for some reason frowned upon
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 09:38 PM
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Here's an interesting factoid. In the 20s when women got the vote so did the lower 90% of men also got the right to vote. Before they were blocked by a poll tax of 300$ that was almost a years pay in the 20s so women weren't the only ones oppressed lol
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 09:12 PM
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Have you found your man's secret patriarchy phone yet? I haven't found my husband's yet but im sure it's somewhere how else can they communicate to collectively oppress us. I find it so humorous when fellow women say shit like patriarchy. My husband is a trump voting patriarch who likes being loud and masculine if I said sweet heart I don't feel like a situation is fair let's talk about this. HE AGREES LOL. Like what do feminists think guys like that are going to throw a beer can at my head and …
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 08:32 PM
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Feminism was a scheme by the Frankfurt school in the early 50s to divide and conquer Western nations to make them easily controlled. Telling one half the population that live in privledge that they are infact oppressed. Having another half of the population work to increase tax revenue and consumer goods purchases. More competition for jobs more angry people to fight each other in a rat race. Everyone is so focused on fake issues they don't realise rights being taken away everyday and feminism i…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 07:39 PM
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My husband is astronomically better looking then me he's probably an 8 9 if he dresses up. I'm 4'11 squat and have a bit extra I also have a chubby looking face. I'd put myself in the 4-5 range. I went for what I wanted even tho he's realistically out of my league and it all worked out. sitting in a corner of a bar batting your eye lashes at a guy isn't going to do shit for you neither isn't moping about being unattractive, just go for it what's the worst that can happen he says no? Guys are ver…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 07:19 PM
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I've been taking pole dancing classes for fun the last 2 months will probably practice more on hubby for vday. My husband is taking us up to the mountains for a spa day. He doesn't know I know but I saw the credit card statement 😂
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/18 02:52 PM
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Yes but not in a normal sense. I'm my husband's boss at work but he's the boss at home. My paycheck over shadows his I pay for so much stuff on my own insistence dates bills etc I didn't realize a few months ago he wanted to manage the finances so I could retire early or start a business. He felt it was his right and I took it away from in a few months of ego. After taking a step back I now just buy him pizza or taco Bell on occasion or wait for him to ask for me to step in financially if needed…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 07:34 PM
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I'll go against the grain here. There's nothing wrong with chasing a man. Just go through your logical mind when you do. Will I want to keep sleeping with him 5 years from now? What are his personality upsides? Would he be a reliable husband/leader? What about him drives me wild? I chased my husband and for all intents and purposes I'll never do better then him or even find another guy in his level in my lifetime, but it all worked out. I chased a few guys before him and it didn't work out. That…
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/18 02:52 PM
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Hubby is definitely a hot head but over time the only thing that really sets him off is if something if it's related to me or his family or my family. He takes honor very seriously. My parents live with us so protecting what he views as his is a big deal to him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 08:07 PM
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I have seen my husband solve problems with violence early in our relationship. A bar fight for example of someone being inappropriate with a friend's wife while the husband was in the bathroom and my hubby stepped in warned him and the dude just pressed it. It escalated into a let's take this outside situation that my husband took care of. We went back to the same bar a few weeks later ran into the same dude but he didn't have anything to say. So logically words don't solve certain problems but …
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 07:48 PM
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Philly is an odd city its very progressive but also very degenerate at the same time depends on what part your in
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 07:32 PM
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I wanted to let my husband take care of him but I also don't want to be in tears while he waited for me to bail him out of a holding cell. I'd feel bad for the guy too my husband is far from small
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 07:31 PM
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I guess being high up in my career and working hard for my life I thought stuff like this was in the past but realised last night it can still happen
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 07:30 PM
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Your right I should just let this slide off and let it go. I held onto my husband because I'd like to think I have the forethought to not have him get arrested over something stupid
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/18 07:28 PM
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Yes after all the great advice here we had a talk and he stated he wanted more mental intimacy because he cares about me... And his dick is sore lol
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 09:27 PM
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I'm average looking and older at 38 I'm also Arabic so I think that may knock me down another knotch as in the US there's still some subtle racism against us. My husband is incredibly handsome charming and has competed in amateur fitness contests such as NPC at 26. I kind of thought he'd be another guy whod sneak off in the night because attractive men usually don't settle with older average women. But I was wrong. He brings me up with him and when he compliments me I feel amazing and know it's …
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/18 08:47 PM
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I don't think it's a good idea to have a child at 38 I'd be pushing 60 on their 21st birthday. I waited a little too long because of my career but I've got a great man so I guess that makes up for it!
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/18 07:54 PM
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I'm very aggressive and forward but I'm not spiteful or negative. Sometimes I just wish he was a sex animal like me but as alot of posters and male PM'S have stated guys have limited sexual endurance
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/18 05:32 PM
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IMO unbiased support for your man makes him develop feelings and attachment. Guys know alot of girls only support them for X reason. Being there unconditionally makes he feel important and loved
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/18 03:57 PM
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This seems true. I just posted a reply saying I chased my husband when we first met and here we are but it got downvoted. The reality is I'm in my late 30s I'm attractive but I'm not 21 anymore. My husband knows he's attractive and has options if I didn't ask him out and pursue him we wouldn't have ended up together. Women do ask guys out it just takes confidence and the guy has to be something.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/18 03:34 PM
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I don't know if that'd work with my personality I've gotten rid of the feminism but I'm a go getter and pursue things I want. I asked my husband out lol. I like initiating sex and from what I know about him he likes being chased. I think him being very handsome has made him a bit entitled bit he likes my aggressive nature in things that matter at least
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/18 03:53 AM
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Married less then a year but together for 6 before that
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 10:20 PM
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I guess I find his statement odd because I'm not used to having guys care so much about quality time.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 09:38 PM
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The quality is amazing which is another reason why it's so frequent. I initiate about 75% of our sex. I guess maybe I'm a big ego invested? I've never had a guy turn it down before so maybe it's just my reaction that matters
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/18 09:37 PM
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Young and hung
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 06:52 PM
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There's so much I could say to this post but I'll sum it up in a thank you! I never viewed it that way. That's a great new perspective you've given me and I'm going to use it to help improve things with the hubby.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 04:12 PM
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Yes I did pick him. I've never regretted my decision. Where we are from the guys are not men. I married one of the men. I'm a happy women. There's kinks on every relationship but I love mine. I'm here to learn because life at any age is a learning experience. My husband brings alot of energy to my life and that isn't always a bad thing. There's been so much good advice on this thread alone it's life changing!
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 03:06 PM
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Sure excuse my awful format used to reading not writing! Hubby is very good at making plans for dates or general decisions I defer to his leadership on about 90% of things. But when it comes to big life decisions like planning big events or settlement on our first house I feel he's behind me in experience and usually it'll turn into a calm debate with me explaining he's a little too idealistic and lacks experience. He's far less laid back then me. Maybe TRP will call us older ladies jaded but I'…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 08:58 PM
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