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Definitely wasnt what it read like but congrats that it worked for you.
/r/seduction29/04/26 10:34 PM
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Im sorry this is a really apologetic approach and even if you get the number, there's very little chance she's going home with someone she hasn't spoken to, doesn't know anything about, or when you don't know anything about her. Idk if you're trying to say this worked for you...if it did, well and good...it's just way too unlikely in my experience
/r/seduction29/04/26 10:21 PM
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It takes a certain kind of person to just be hooking up - if you dont care for their values, thoughts and feelings and just wanna create emotional spikes with all kinds of small talk and humor...sure just go ahead and hook up. Im very no BS, I cant take women who do astrology, who smoke and drink profusely or take hard drugs at all. That said, I have never placed myself in situations where girls can get to know me too easily either
/r/seduction26/04/26 07:12 AM
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Apps are a rabbit hole. Most studly guys I know barely use apps, or are even banned from them. Approach in person, use cold approach for practice and social circle to close
/r/seduction14/04/26 03:54 AM
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Yes Ive been through this, female mindsets can be really volatile and they may even need meds so dont always take it personally. A good friend sticks around unless you cross a line. Better to just move on, I know it hurts and its a lot of investment but the only way you'll really be happy is by finding new friends
/r/seduction05/04/26 07:40 AM
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Art circles have a lot of events, if not the most. There are art fests that entire cities go for and people travel to see them. There are previews and gallery openings and art nights and art weekends. You can just go to the galleries that have special previews and network over there
/r/seduction04/04/26 12:25 PM
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Bad question that deserves downvotes...you should explain what type of women you are looking for, what your hobbies and interests are and then decide. At the moment its just 'everyone with a vagina', which is fair and fine but you have to be really dumb to ask that because everyone knows the answer to it. Unless you are blind and deaf together you would know where they are because you can see them yourself
/r/seduction04/04/26 12:18 PM
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You could’ve made it more subtle…it could’ve come up in the conversation, like “I’m a huge coffee drinker” “oh you love coffee too?” “Yes I can take you to the most aesthetic cafés in town if you promise to keep it a secret”. Of the conversation is continuing try that angle, if it doesn’t work move on
/r/seduction01/04/26 02:13 PM
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You got any more context here?
/r/seduction01/04/26 01:53 PM
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The protocol is that you almost always ask them out, only exceptions if they're taken, family members or if you don't like them. Some more directly some more indirectly, directly you ask them out on a date, indirectly you just take their numbers and call or text to chat and feel out the vibe
/r/seduction20/03/26 02:42 PM
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I have a free site I’m working on. DMing you if you are serious
/r/seduction18/03/26 12:21 PM
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Its true at a spiritual and personality level but not at a behavioral level
/r/seduction17/03/26 10:00 AM
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If you're a true pro the counts and numbers dont matter. The world is too high variance and you cant extrapolate anything from it. Just follow a law of large numbers.
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:28 AM
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Just hit her up with bold lines/ask for nudes if it matters. Or keep her as a friend and try with other women, you have to sacrifice some chess pieces to win the game
/r/seduction02/03/26 07:19 AM
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Make it clear that its going to be a one time thing. A lot of guys love the BBW, including me. Though I dont go for obese women, a lot of guys definitely do and so have I once in my life.
/r/seduction25/02/26 11:48 AM
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If she isnt showing interest in you, she doesnt deserve you no matter how awesome your time together. Im not saying to cut her off, but if you keep your options open here and find someone who wants you and is crazy for you, you'll feel a lot better about it. First plan the 4th date, maybe shes just busy and not much of a texter. I myself kinda dread texting and calling and only prefer in person interaction. Of course the rules would change about someone I love/am excited to meet. Or if you want,…
/r/seduction24/02/26 05:29 PM
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Well as a classic dork - not really a book reader but more a coder deep into a select few pop culture genres with great disregard for others... I've been dorky about game and turned my negative into a positive. I havent really gone far enough to optimize my results as I always find high quality girls early on who are GF material, thus requiring me to not have to go casual. I think I learned to become emotionally mature in my single phase but there's only so much detachment you can have from resu…
/r/seduction18/02/26 08:29 PM
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This shit DOES NOT MATTER! If she likes you, if you approached her well, if it clicked, she will text back. And besides, most women flake on most guys, so dont take this personally if it happens. YOu have very little control over it. Obe thing I will say: call her, you have nothing to lose. And it shows you have balls and can put your ego aside. But if she doesnt pick up or you dont feel like calling, fine. On to the next, on to the next, on to the next!
/r/seduction18/02/26 03:34 PM
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You asked for the coffee too early. Yes your conversation wasnt great but thats ok, you're young and the nervousness can be cute. You gotta talk for 5 to 10 minutes minimum before you go for the number. She doesnt know you, shes not gonna go out with you. One big tip Id give is to try and avoid saying 'Hey I saw you from over there' that shit is really copy pasted and they know, and its also low value because it literally adds nothing in terms of chemistry
/r/seduction31/01/26 09:45 PM
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Its a great idea. Its how Ive landed GFs in the past, and I met my current one in a friends group who brought more friends to meet me around xmas. You get to do a lot more push pull which benefits both her and yourself. She gets a flavor of you since she sees who you hang out with, it becomes far less serious and you can keep taking breaks from each other thus allowing you to spend a lot more time together at a stretch without it feeling like you have to constantly yap or cater. She gets to watc…
/r/seduction28/01/26 05:10 PM
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nice writeup but I mean...this is reddit....
/r/seduction08/12/25 08:56 AM
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Well that’s a good attitude since you know your worth at least. And you’ve got the right idea, you take it till you make it, rather you pretend to know the truth till you actually know it. But as far as the grind being miserable and soul crushing I’d say just focus on the positives. It’s not about finding a partner but forming brief yet meaningful connections and focusing on things that go well like if you delivered clever lines, acted more daring, looked good and had the balls to approach
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:53 PM
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We are already perfect but we can just market it better and find someone who matches our needs. That still means going through the grind of meeting people which is a lot lol
/r/seduction27/10/25 02:05 PM
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that sounds easy
/r/seduction27/10/25 04:40 AM
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I think if theres a story/reel to go off of it helps to make some kind of callback...as for setting up a meeting plan, better to have a genuine event and maybe even invite her in a group and tell her to bring friends...becomes less serious than 'coffee dates' which are pretty hard to escalate at btw
/r/seduction23/10/25 11:11 AM
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Somehow when I said the same thing he got upvoted for saying 'calling doesnt work well for people under 25'. So yeah he's full of excuses but its interesting how the exact same advice gets upvoted in one place and argued in another
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:30 AM
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Your list of potential stalkers? Omg, Im devastated to hear a chick who I barely knew to begin with now thinks negatively of me. How will I ever recover from this judgment of a stranger?
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:27 AM
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Your list of potential stalkers? Omg, Im devastated to hear a chick who I barely knew to begin with now thinks negatively of me. How will I ever recover from this judgment of a stranger?
/r/seduction21/10/25 05:26 AM
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excuses and BS. Suit yourself.
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:46 AM
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Im 31 and thats BS. Girls get 100s of DMs and get called pretty daily. Without calling ur just standing in line
/r/seduction21/10/25 04:40 AM
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Not calling her is not playing the game right. Without calls you are really forgettable
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:44 AM
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well maybe shes joking back, you never know, in either case just call her
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:38 AM
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Ok this is the point where you have to call her on the phone. You have her number, which means you have permission to do so. Do not bring up the same conversation thread...if she does just say we dont have to talk about it... But lets say she doesnt pick up, I'd prefer to just communicate explicitly on text and come clean and burn the set at this point. Yes I was jealous, because I really liked you and could see us having a really good connection. So while I know we barely know each other, I'd r…
/r/seduction21/10/25 03:36 AM
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I think its also important to specify its a huge function of your environment. If you're in a stem field, chances are you dont get many women to interact with so no matter how cool or nice you are, you dont have a chance of meeting anyone. If youre on a dating app, you could be in a conservative or less populated area which affects your chances or it comes down to your looks....and social circle is the biggest game of chance anyway
/r/seduction15/10/25 04:17 AM
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Well it helps a lot, you cant approach if youre not confident so you fail at step 1...and even if you do and youre trembling you fail right at steps 2 through 5. Even if you get rejected a confident approach at least means you did a lot right. But shouldnt be mistaken for cockiness either. Its definitely a necessary condition. But a bit of technical knowledge on top of this is definitely required. How to open, how to withdraw, how to deal with distractions, when to call it off... a lot of this c…
/r/seduction13/10/25 02:03 PM
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I dont think there should be a metric...have a single phase if you must
/r/seduction11/10/25 12:21 PM
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ok thats just a bad example. In the example you gave, I would definitely focus on the positive compliments I get. You are intentionally misinterpreting "I want people to like me" as "I want everyone to like me". Yes, there is such a thing as getting addicted and co-dependent but humans are designed to seek validation from the other gender and without attraction there is no humanity. Its literally what we are made of, so stop invalidating the very premise of our being. For your second paragraph, …
/r/seduction03/10/25 06:32 PM
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It didnt work out. No big deal. Even if she has a bf doesnt mean you dont have a shot, but that only works if she accepts you and lets you in on a friends circle. Your best bet is to be casual, friendly and inviting. Biggest smile, how was your workout, you really went at it today kinda stuff...see if her perception changes in a few days. You may feel awkward but you'll have to be unphased. That is if you are up for the challenge. But either way you should try elsewhere
/r/seduction03/10/25 04:35 PM
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This is some half baked take based on something you heard in a reel somewhere. Everyone needs others to make themselves feel good. Its called being human. You could love yourself as much as you want, you'd never be happy about dying a virgin as some people do. As for losing hope, it can happen as a phase when you go gaming aggressively and get nothing in return. He didnt say hes lost all of it but everyone would feel cynical if you grind at something and get no results. I myself have only gotten…
/r/seduction03/10/25 04:25 PM
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absolute horseshit
/r/seduction03/10/25 12:54 PM
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Which country, just curious. Because that matters a lot. This is my reality as well at the moment. But I want your stats. How many approaches per day? Which places are you meeting? Are you working full time? If yes when are you gaming? Do you have wingmen?
/r/seduction03/10/25 08:03 AM
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thats bs. You dont know him. He may love himself plenty, and you dont have to love yourself to love others
/r/seduction03/10/25 07:54 AM
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You'll have to have a presence or something engaging yourself. If you have good photos of yourself definitely put em up, but otherwise - dogs, art, streets, jokes and observations, whatever your vibe is. Keep reposting
/r/seduction28/09/25 04:44 PM
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bad advice. Small victories and optimism are the way to progress in the game. Sex isnt everything
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:53 PM
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For whatever its worth Im 5'10 and dating is really hard though I try my best
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:59 PM
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That’s true but has little to do with my situation. In my situation it’s a matter of meeting girls who have a lot of rules about how they expect a guy to be, aka the girls weren’t that chill themselves. It’s just a mismatch of cards, nothing more or less
/r/seduction19/09/25 07:57 AM
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I mean being chill is nice, but as a chill person I guarantee it takes a whole lot more. Just the other day we pick up 2 chicks in the most chill way possible (like my friend made out with one and it pissed off the other but I was super laid back and just telling them stories n joking aruond, though still throwing in little flirts) and I send them the most chill texts, something along the lines of 'I'll be in your area tomorrow lets meet up if you're free', to which one says shes busy tomorrow t…
/r/seduction18/09/25 01:44 PM
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Cafés clubs events streets dating apps, rarely social circle
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:20 AM
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You just have to do that
/r/seduction16/09/25 04:01 AM
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That’s the grind champ, only the strong make it out alive…all you can do is rise up to the occasion
/r/seduction15/09/25 06:06 PM
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Its all about investment. The longer you interact, and depending on the quality of it, the more likely she will respond. Not in a group or anything but more one on one. You can also get numbers/ig in brief interactions, sometimes theyre busy with their friends. But it usually doesnt work. In which case your best bet is to hope to run into them again and build it off from there. Dont let the rejection phase you
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:04 AM
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You come from the faulty assumption that just because a woman chooses a guy theyre better than you...they probably just vibe more with them. Similarly someone will vibe more with you. Your time will come, be patient
/r/seduction05/09/25 04:43 AM
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If seeing means hooking up with: Im not really "seeing" anyone but I have relatively hard leads on 3 chicks atm who Im only texting or calling. Softer leads - maybe 10-20. Im trying to find a high quality relationship, and there is one girl I can call any time just for sex but honestly she's really cringe lol. I believe in order to move up the ladder its important not to settle so there are some phases of loneliness. I've reached the point where on my Hinge profile I've started getting likes and…
/r/seduction17/08/25 03:30 PM
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Cold approach + gym is necessary. Also be on the apps. I got laid through Bumble although I had made out before. Cold approach saves you a lot of time by helping you build experiences and options. It does require time and patience. But its the best way if you want to do it asap. If you dont feel the urgency, just do what everyone else does, ask out someone at school or work, or go for someone in a friends circle, averaging 5 attemptsa year lol
/r/seduction21/03/24 03:46 PM
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You just rephrased what you said, and you literally were complaining. Also being on this sub has nothing to do with women not liking you lol, where do you get these weird ideas from?
/r/seduction22/10/22 10:02 AM
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It's the observation that does the overthinking lol, coming be serious, are you really trying to get away with calling a really convoluted and unnecessarily presumptive reductive generalization an observation and hoping we take the bait? And you said I'm the one overthinking,un what multiverse does that make sense? Just grow a pair and talk to women
/r/seduction22/10/22 09:49 AM
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No way, same! I think it’s because being extremely skinny as a guy isn’t very desirable for hotter women, so fat women assume we’ll be more desperate to date somebody. Or maybe they just want to crush us.
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:39 PM
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> Most guys will say something like “well I like how you look” or “I don’t think you need to lose weight”. And…it’s a nice thing to hear I guess but also it feels a little…I dunno…judgy? Like, I didn’t ask your opinion. You are, categorically, socially retarded.
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:21 PM
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Its very hard to be honest in this situation as its something of great value to a lot of people. I think I will never comment on their looks but will always encourage them to work out in the most hardassed way possible
/r/seduction20/10/22 12:17 PM
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Dont let your "record" affect you. You have learned enough about socializing and seduction through watching others. You dont need advice here, and the fact that youre asking for it just shows your lack of confidence. Sometimes the lack of confidence is just a phantom feeling that has no basis anymore, realize that and just be more ballsy with your hands and get the action you want
/r/seduction24/09/22 07:25 PM
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Slide your hand there though, too quick and itll feel like a molestation lol
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:04 AM
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Haven't fucked in a long time now but thank you
/r/seduction08/08/22 06:03 AM
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You got NFTs, nice fuckin titties
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:29 PM
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Id say ignore these people downvoting you and calling you creepy for wanting to get laid when you had FIVE WOMEN at your place, theres nothing wrong with what you did or thought, you couldve probably been more direct, daring, charismatic etc. but I doubt it would change the outcome because these things are learnt over time and are more a part of your permanent personality, you may have gone with a more casual approach in which you thought you could get laid by just "being there", it helps to be …
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:01 PM
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Yeah because according to you good looking people cant be smart lol
/r/seduction17/07/22 07:15 PM
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Please tell me this is some kind of self aware joke. Your first sentence is an anecdote about your solo experience and you're judging him for doing the same, except in his case it's a clear phenomenon that everyone's all too familiar with. Your tinder success is just luck and tgats fine but how can you be so ignorant about other people's experience?
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:18 AM
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Personally I've got a fetish for a pretty face and big tits (meaning it's hard to get hard without), but also am anal about the girl not being a complete bimbo, being able to open up and having liberal political views. So I have the opposite of a problem. EDIT: Love how I got downvoted for just expressing my preferences lol
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:15 AM
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It's just fine. Don't overthink it
/r/seduction12/07/22 01:28 PM
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A really cool common short person flex: Make an L with your index finger and thumb and then invert the positions. Basically it stands for taller people small dicks, shorter people big dicks
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:00 AM
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People's opinions and likes change with time. Nothing is constant. It's not desperate to make an effort. It's flawed to assume that it's all predestined and that it's a binary.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:34 AM
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Got a little technical but i can understand and appreciate the reasons, I just hope I remember all of it subconsciously. The one about not doing self deprecation is a huge one, I often find myself doing those jokes just to express my insecurity about something. I guess while it's nice to express some feelings, with fear the best approach is to get rid of it by powering through and being brave. But what if you fear about something that's out of your control? Well then that's just bad luck and one…
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:17 AM
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She only needs to be interested enough to show up after which is where the real magic will start. Its not even about literally making them remember as it is about showing importance to the event. Also assuming the worst in people beforehand is a really timid way to live life
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:48 PM
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Takes some getting used to and a lot of practice but keep going to places and look around and see who matches the vibe. And there will always be good and bad nights, more bad than good in the start but the good nights will dominate. Just be cool, confident (or brave if you aren't very confident) and interesting to talk to and you'll gel perfectly with the crowd you're looking for
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:49 PM
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I have never read something this articulate. Really appreciate how you think, I've met people who tell me 'stop being the funny guy girls don't get turned on by thag' when thats clearly a boring way to live and obviously not true, the problem comes with the intention and masking of my own fear. Personally I think that's what she said jokes are kinda overdone and really lame but there's a skill to those as well and making humor a sexual thing is exactly what the OP is looking for, I say with expe…
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:45 PM
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Set it up now and remind them again later
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:27 PM
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Patience is important. Also give her a call. Takes more balls, moves you to the front of the line and puts a little more pressure on her to not entertain the counter thought
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:03 PM
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Bad logic though. Children don't have the same hormones as adults and have different needs entirely. Dismissing a real need isn't the right answer. It's some kind of acceptance and gratitude of the love you already have and patience for what is to follow. It's even justified to get frustrated imho
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:41 AM
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Just stop being addicted lol, this dude just solved addiction
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:06 PM
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Well look beyond their looks and personality and see if theyre good people, see how they treat you and treat others. If its all good, by all means, theyre amazing people and DO put them on the pedestal. If not, see them for what they really are and search for someone who can do it all
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:19 PM
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With hotter girls what matters the most is being in the right place at the right time. If you are, and if you're all there mentally and emotionally, you've got a guaranteed positive outcome.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:35 PM
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No idea what kinda d-bag d-votes these posts because its truly a mystery to me to this day, with some girls its the case that they become more quiet as time passes and one of them is my neighbors who mysteriously never notices me in public, Im always seeing her and saying hi, once even meeting her 30 kms away from our home and yet she barely even gave me a smile and said nothing. Another girl is just quiet when in the group but talks a lot over the phone, shes a good friend but this is a pretty …
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:10 PM
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Took a couple of days and my partner was fairly supportive though I just played it off as nervousness. I had to stop watching porn for those few days and kept going at it, I was making out for too long and that was causing me to plauteau out a bit
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:56 PM
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I think what you need more is an intimacy coach, these could be prostitutes with some maturity (they dont call it experience for nothing) or women who go by that profession. Scope out the prostitutes and see if they're physically attractive enough and capable of helping you feel comfortable or just look for an intimacy coacch directly. I have been where you are. Ive rejected immediate advances and tried delaying them to when Im better but thats because of some bad experiences I had in the past r…
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:39 PM
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Bars, clubs, cafes, make guy friends first and through other friends
/r/seduction05/06/22 05:31 PM
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Congratulations to you if you're that good looking. Guess despite being broke you worked on yourself and gave this time and are now reaping the rewards. You might even live in a more progressive place to have women approach you, because I know plenty of great looking guys but this never happens to them. I consider myself fairly good looking too but I don't work on myself except going to the gym whenever I can. My point still stands though, it is possible to pick up girls even without great looks…
/r/seduction01/06/22 06:13 AM
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DMs from random perverts are not an indication of anything you really have to offer lol, as far as guys are concerned real life pickup is still the best bet, you're crazy if you think DMing random chicks gets you... anywhere. Maybe among younger generations what you say might apply to some extent a lot of people still go to clubs and bars to hook up. I honestly think people who believe what you said need to step out a lot more and should stop reading negative stuff online that only hurts their c…
/r/seduction01/06/22 04:11 AM
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They make all the difference on dating apps, but irl its an entirely different world for guys. Looks may matter but a guy who doesnt work out and doesnt let that affect him, to him the sky's the limit
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:40 PM
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I couldn't agree more, but it kills their chances more because of how it affects their confidence than having any basis in reality. Girls don't give two hoots about looks except while swiping through dating apps and just walking around in the outside world and seeing how mismatched couples out there are physically should be proof enough of how people have assumed the online world and offline world to be a lot more similar than they really are
/r/seduction24/05/22 08:16 AM
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My whole cringe exactly. But I'm also trying to point out that this is the kind of stuff that's propagated nowadays. It's like how back in the day magazine bods were the envy, it may have made some sense but this jawline business is so much worse because it's purely genetic
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:32 PM
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Well all concerns are in the mind so they're all imaginary
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:21 PM
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Tom Hardy too
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:24 PM
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I cringed really hard at the question but its sad this is a very real concern society is dealing with rn
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:23 PM
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Just watch some pornos with littler guys and hot chicks if this bothers you so much lol. I mean I'll be honest it's helped me realize how we think theres only one way to "look good". Id give the same advice to fat people who think they cant get laid because of their weight, its pretty cringe considering how I see a lot of fat guys walking around holding hands with girls I could dream about. I mean sure workout if thats your case but jawlines are not an unhealthy disease. And honestly stop giving…
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:22 PM
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I agree. I think they expect a lot more escalation and it almost always seems like they want to hook up on the 1st date and the 2nd dates the limit. Its not a "numbers" problem as other people say, but it is an expectation of whats "the done thing".
/r/seduction21/05/22 09:47 PM
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Genius
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:49 PM
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I don't actually but since I gave the GRE I might have figured a thing or two about what good arguments are like. I do write songs about girls I have a crush on, I also do stand up comedy and rap at open mic nights! Both of which require good use of language. I also write paragraphs like these on reddit once in a while. I suppose in the modern world that should count for something but yeah, no essays or literature of any sort. As for debates, I've taken part in them but Im pretty bad at arguing …
/r/seduction18/05/22 04:12 AM
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I wish I was tagged in this response and just happened to stumble upon it. I don't think I do it in an unhealthy way personally, I try to make sure I give the girl enough to tease me back with and go for a very light hearted comedy contest, I really try to see if she's onboard and only then progress. I don't hug when her feelings REALLY get hurt, it's more like I don't give them a chance to respond and give a pre-emptive hug apology, it's almost a spontaneous part of the goofy routine but it jus…
/r/seduction17/05/22 07:23 PM
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I don't mean in a berating way, it's more in a teasing way that I do it, but it's a subtle art that needs to be calibrated and you should know when to stop
/r/seduction17/05/22 08:51 AM
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So my whole routine is just making fun of a girl and then touching their shoulder or hugging them to apologize, not necessarily on a date more during pick up
/r/seduction17/05/22 06:22 AM
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It's ridiculous to suggest there's any age his advice applies. If you're cold approaching at a young age even, there's no reason for people to think of you as a loser and by believing there is you only make it a self fulfilling prophecy. As for your point about hobbies, it depends on why you're doing the hobby. If meeting women is important to you, join a dance class. If you want to work on yourself, go to the gym. Sure its a matter of luck because you usually choose the dance class out of a pas…
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:45 AM
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I cannot digest the most concentrated dose of irony that your name is "Social Reject" while his is "Honest Confidence"
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:25 AM
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This post is absolutely non-sensical, is probably written by a teenager and idk why people have even given it any clout. To treat cold approach as a binary, that you either ask out someone you've known forever or you approach someone completely out of the blue is obviously baseless and the person writing it has never stepped out of the pit he lives in covered by a huge ass rock. Not like you can increase familiarity with people who go to the same place by showing up there often and get some idea…
/r/seduction16/05/22 09:21 AM
2

Be proud you tried and take the small victories from the conversation, don't even assume she doesn't like you, maybe she has a boyfriend or something ynever know, just move on to the next one
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:58 AM
1

Actually if you aren't using people then you have no friends who are of use to you and they're just people you make small talk with. Just because you use people doesn't mean you're doing something wrong to them. It's only wrong when you deceive them, which the OC never said. We live in the real world. Get over your childish notions.
/r/seduction13/05/22 04:28 AM
1

Lifes all about using people and being used. If you can't be used, you're useless
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:03 AM
1

Well, it's not that simple. Even hooking up isn't just treating the other person like a human sex toy, else we'd choose to jerk off instead. It is an act of intimacy so doesn't hurt to pretend like it is because that's what it is
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:38 PM
1

Why would you do that? Why would you even ask us that? Virginity is not that big a deal
/r/seduction09/02/22 10:48 AM
2

I've had chicks eye fuck the shit out of me in baggy clothes. It works when it's a style thing
/r/seduction09/02/22 09:25 AM
1

Lol so my ex long distance cheated on me with a guy from her college (never slept with me but slept with him), who later cheated on her and she stayed friends with him and was erratically standoffish with me, but once I started sexting her, which I wouldnt do much of earlier, she acted indifferent initially but later as I bombarded her with sexual text creativity craved the attention, sexted back a little and agreed we should sleep together at some point. She later denied it but agreed to meet m…
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:54 PM
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Id say use 3 to 4 jokes/lines first. I tried with after one line which worked, with a girl I added who liked my comment. Straight after that I ask her personal questions and she doesnt respond lol. So Id guess you need a few more to reel her in
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:02 AM
2

So Ive had limited experience with plenty of failure but I'll tell you anyway. Some stuff learned from movies of course, smile a lot while talking, a couple of witty lines etc. and some stuff emulating dudes from school. Whenever I tried to flirt, I'd fail, Whenever I didn't I'd kinda pass but I stuck too hard to the innocent-coy routine and didn't close. The biggest problem, I dont know if its just introversion or the tension, is that no matter how insanely well the conversation goes with a gir…
/r/seduction29/01/22 08:22 PM
1

not true
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:29 AM
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I feel like there are good reasons for that too. Maybe porn raises your standards a bit. The women in it are often fit and irl chicks can be too easy on themselves. I also feel like you have to do your research and learn to get turned off by toxic trends like implants and lip jobs to have keep ethical and healthy standards
/r/seduction13/01/22 06:28 AM
1

I think it makes it a little tougher to get it up, especially if you do so much your dick hurts. Sensitivity and erection are the only issues, and they're pretty bad ones tbh. The rest of the stuff about attracting women is pseudoscience bullshit with some placebo effect, though if you really really overdo it you either find women too hot or not hot at all, both of those can be made advantages but will feel like disadvantages initially
/r/seduction13/01/22 06:23 AM
0

I have the opposite problem, I keep telling stories
/r/seduction31/12/21 06:14 AM
2

Just go alone. Ive done it a couple times and at least managed to speak to people. Talk to guys and girls both but keep your priorities clear. Obviously wouldve helped to have a good buddy but better to go solo than with a bunch of buzzkills Heres a really good video by A G Hayden, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VzieYD90tl4 dont overdo the channel viewing, this should just give you the motivation and make sure you dont back out. The rest is experience
/r/seduction24/12/21 06:03 PM
2

Its a balance of story telling and getting them to tell you their stories
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:35 PM
1

Let's just say I wish I had a dollar every time this happened
/r/seduction16/11/21 08:50 PM
3

Use that to your advantage, it depends on too much to put a number on it
/r/seduction30/09/21 08:34 PM
3

You just motivated me bro 🤜 good job. The main thing now is to keep the momentum going and not be satisfied with this one achievement
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:15 AM
17

Fuck right off with that attitude
/r/seduction12/08/21 07:13 AM
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In my experience, powering through that initial scaring test with a stoic attitude gets you in their good books quick. Next time you see that face be like, "Im sorry, I was just trying to talk to you girls. Where you from?" or something incredible complicated like that
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:10 PM
1

Being nice can actually help you maintain relationships, but first off "nice guys" are not really all that nice, they're kinda simps and think the world owes them something for not being a total sleazeball. They are misguided into believing theres karma in this world for relationships. Ive been one of them all my life and while Im still kinda low in the women dept, I know its not something the universe is telling me I deserve. But yes, what "nice guys" lack is a go-getter attitude, and some kind…
/r/seduction10/12/20 02:25 PM
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I mean as Jordan Peterson says, all she's saying is "while I dont mind you as a person, your genes should definitely not survive another generation" but yeah thats supposed to be a joke...somewhat
/r/seduction08/11/19 08:05 PM
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