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I've been a loner since my earliest memory. I was brought up by my father for the first 10 years of my life and never experienced a mother's nurture, had no siblings or extended family, was picked on and bullied, had few friends as a child but mostly an imaginary friend who I used to blame for all my problems and woes. So I was never really socialized as a child and being that I was never good looking I always used to look on in awe at the other boys who had girlfriends, and over the years I wou…
/r/seduction10/05/26 01:54 PM
1

It's not being 33 that's the issue it's the being intoverted and socially awkward. Personally, as someone who is also an introvert and socially awkward which has exacerbated as I've got older, I would say no it's not worth it but others would probably tell you otherwise - mostly others who don't know what it's like being a socially awkward introvert.
/r/seduction10/05/26 12:55 PM
0

Isn't that Mark Manson's Models in a nutshell?
/r/seduction10/05/26 12:33 PM
-2

That's ok, I'll just wait until ChatGPT becomes available in physical form with (. )( .) and ¥.
/r/seduction04/05/26 12:56 PM
1

Gym and diet.
/r/seduction04/05/26 09:45 AM
5

The only way to gain confidence is through positive feedback of whatever endeavours you undertake. Either negative or no feedback creates low confidence and despite what people may tell you, you can't fake it, and that includes 'positive thinking' and self-talk, you need real-life positive feedback.
/r/seduction04/05/26 09:44 AM
1

I've never been quite sure what is meant by 'height matters', in the sense of it being a stand alone issue, or an issue combined with other factors? For example, a tall guy with an above average face has the advantage over a short guy with an above average face, but the latter has the advantage of both tall and short guys with below average faces. If you're tall and below average you're really going to stand out as such and when the women notice you in the crowd she's going to immediately look b…
/r/seduction03/05/26 11:25 AM
-3

Just be confident bro.
/r/seduction02/05/26 05:09 AM
1

No.
/r/seduction25/04/26 07:53 PM
1

I find it easy to repel women, though I don't know why or how, clearly I'm a natural at it. I wonder if those who find it easy to hook up with women know why or how they are doing it or if it's just a normal part of life like picking up a glass of water?
/r/seduction25/04/26 07:47 PM
1

That's very much part of it for sure, bit I'd probably go as far as saying zero, and that goes for confidence too. Unfortunately it's all down to experience points of reference which determines which way your confidence and self esteem goes.
/r/seduction25/04/26 07:35 PM
1

Exactly, you have had, and are still having a lot of social experience so it doesn't surprise me that someone in their late 40s is having success in that environment. I'm completely the opposite, in my late 50s with very little social experience so age goes against me.
/r/seduction25/04/26 07:18 PM
1

Yeah if you're 48 and have a lifetime of experience with women then perhaps age doesn't mean anything to a certain degree. Though if you're middle-aged and inexperienced you're pretty fucked.
/r/seduction25/04/26 11:05 AM
1

As a below-average guy, getting to date an average girl would for me be like hitting the jackpot. I couldn't even get a below-average girl.
/r/seduction25/04/26 08:26 AM
1

And in doing so they both die alone.
/r/seduction19/04/26 02:08 AM
6

Don't be tall and ugly.
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:54 PM
1

57
/r/seduction18/04/26 11:11 PM
1

Correct, nor dated or had any intimate contact whatsoever.
/r/seduction18/04/26 09:35 AM
1

Height only matters if you're handsome as you have an advantage over short, handsome guys. If you are tall and ugly, the short handsome guy has an advantage over you.
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:54 AM
1

I'm not a virgin but I don't know what to do to get laid as I don't know how I managed to do it in the first place. The way I look at it is that I just happened to come into contact with a few women over my life that were interested in me and I don't recall doing anything significant in order to date or sleep with them. The problem is that it's now been 18 years since I've crossed paths with such women and just put it down as having lost any attractive qualities due to age. The point is, althoug…
/r/seduction18/04/26 12:36 AM
8

I must say your last paragraph was a bit of a relief - for a moment I thought I was reading the ramblings of a deranged lunatic...
/r/seduction17/04/26 08:23 PM
2

I can only assume that you are a girl asking other girls?
/r/seduction17/04/26 07:19 PM
2

Below average women know they can do better than below average men. The system works in their favour not ours.
/r/seduction09/04/26 11:02 AM
3

No.
/r/seduction09/04/26 10:58 AM
-7

Choosing a job or a hobby because they might help you get girls is not a sensible life decision. If a girl isn't interested in you because the job or hobby you chose for your own gratification isn't appealing enough for her, then she's not the girl for you.
/r/seduction06/04/26 10:51 AM
1

True yes, but I think it's important to not overestimate the amount of men that women tend to naturally gravitate towards as it emphasizes the uphill struggle of the majority of men with the top-tier dating pool being so small.
/r/seduction04/04/26 02:31 PM
1

I think it's more like 80% of the women sleep with 3% of men. The men that are objectively attractive to hot women are about 3%, while the rest of us are either average and have to fight one another for the other 20% of women or are excluded from the dating pool completely.
/r/seduction04/04/26 01:28 AM
-2

I went on a date with an attractive 20 year old when I was 36, though we tongue-wrestled I never saw her again afterwards. I'm an ugly guy so that was a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for me that I fucked up, as it was her that initially made the first move. 3 years later at the age of 39 was not only the last time I had sex with a woman, who I think was about 25-26, married, but the last time I ever dated or had any physical contact with any woman.
/r/seduction02/04/26 11:10 AM
1

When was the last time if you don't mind me asking? Only I'm 57 and have had no contact with a woman since I was 39.
/r/seduction02/04/26 11:02 AM
1

You're probably not as ugly as you think you are.
/r/seduction02/04/26 10:59 AM
2

About 20, all between 1987-2008. None since.
/r/seduction02/04/26 10:57 AM
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Fame at the gym sounds like an odd concept. Unless you mean someone who stands in front of the mirror with his buddies spending more time dropping the weights onto the floor from a height than lifting them above his head... Shit, I just go to the gym to knuckle down and do my routines simply in order to maintain my health and fitness at 57 and maybe building up a little strength on the way. I find the gym to be a strange venue for a social hub.
/r/seduction30/03/26 02:13 PM
1

I'm currently jumping between Plato's 5 Dialogues and Schopenhauer's World as Will and Idea, though I have an absolute array of collections on audible to get through. I should take a more linear approach but because for example there are multiple writings of Plato and of Schopenhauer I'm mixing it up a bit. I want to reset and concentrate on one particular writer's teachings before moving on to the next. I'm doing a lot of rewinding in order to absorb the writings so it's probably not wise to be…
/r/seduction30/03/26 02:06 PM
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Yes, I've also experienced this. Except since 2008.
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:28 PM
2

Wow, my life is practically identical to yours, work>gym>home>repeat, though I'm 30 years older than you and like to listen to philosophy audiobooks. I live in a market town in the UK, that's not to say there is a lack of opportunity for people to potentially hook up, only there's no hope for an older introvert exiled from the dating pool.
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:25 PM
3

Mick Jagger is uglier and older, fame & fortune doesn't count in the real world I'm afraid.
/r/seduction30/03/26 12:06 PM
25

There may be 3 reasons that good looking guys don't get the girls 'they want', but there is only one reason that ugly brothers don't get girls period.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:37 AM
1

Just before you said 'It's not gay' regarding skincare, I was thinking 'this sounds gay' when you were talking about dress shoes and dress shirts.
/r/seduction30/03/26 11:32 AM
1

What the hell does SMP mean...?
/r/seduction26/03/26 11:03 PM
1

You mean one of the 20% of guys that 80% of women want? Well if you're part of the 80% of guys, you don't.
/r/seduction15/02/26 01:20 PM
1

I wish all fellow old, ugly and invisible men the best of luck, but me I just did a gym session then went home.
/r/seduction15/02/26 11:21 AM
2

What millions of other guys do, live your best life knowing you'll be going it alone. You have to understand that not everyone belongs in the dating pool, and that goes for women too. At some point you just have to accept the fact that you'll never be able to attract women - it's normal to deny it for a long period as I did, but it needs to take some intellectual maturity to get to the point where you realise you've wasted too much of your life chasing unicorns and pots of gold at the end of rai…
/r/seduction14/02/26 11:23 AM
-11

Do people not go to the gym to actually train their bodies these days?
/r/seduction07/02/26 11:58 PM
1

I've had numerous cars over my lifetime and I've owned my own house for almost 30 years now. I'm also 6ft tall. None of these things have any relevance whatsoever when it comes to attracting women. Maybe if I had a Ferrari, a mansion and a 6ft dick it would make a difference but to be honest I'm better off alone than with the kind of floozy that is drawn to that bullshit.
/r/seduction07/02/26 03:50 PM
1

The irony here is that your post is of equal bullshittery to the posts you are calling out.
/r/seduction07/02/26 10:21 AM
1

Yes you are correct. I actually believe that 2 of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs are not really needs, that's Love & Belonging and Esteem, because they become irrelevant with Self-actualisation. You can waste your life chasing those 2 and never find self-actualisation. So yes, being ugly and handling it is very important, I have learnt this from Michael A Singer and Eckhart Tolle to let go of the outside stuff because that's exactly what it is.
/r/seduction07/02/26 10:15 AM
1

Your ability/inability/potential to meet and date women is not founded on a generic process, it's purely biological. The advice someone gives whether it be in a book, an online course or free is based on one man's experience and may be beneficial to some if they share similar traits and life experiences as the author. But by and large the advice is just mish-mash. The difference between success and failure in life is based on one's level of inner confidence and energy, and the only books and onl…
/r/seduction07/02/26 10:00 AM
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Yet thousands of them flock to do porn as soon as they turn 18.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:34 AM
21

The Philippines is an interesting one. I've never been myself but here in the UK we have an abundance of Filipinos yet they tend to stick to their own, within their own community. You get some Filipinas married to older British guys who have money but I wouldn't say they were more attainable than any other demographic. I work with quite a few Filipinas where most are married to Filipinos and one or two are married to older rich guys. Perhaps it's a lot different if you visit the country.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:31 AM
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Not really relevant to today is it. You're talking about a time when we had to write letters to girls to communicate.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:21 AM
1

Username checks out.
/r/seduction07/02/26 09:17 AM
1

Because Darwinism.
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:57 PM
1

What's a late bloomer? I've read posts by people in their early 20s bemoaning the idea that it may be too late for them. My dating life was dead throughout my 20s but started to pick up in my early 30s, peaking at 37-39 before dying a perma-death. I think maybe the 'late-bloom' stage is subjective.
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:56 PM
1

You're right it's a numbers game, 0 in over 17 years for me. Yeah maybe during that period I may have got lucky with a single mother or something of the sorts but I never had the self-belief to put the effort in - and it would have taken an immense amount of effort to find someone I wasn't even attracted to, but now after so much time my hard-wired brain is telling me that it would all have been a waste of time.
/r/seduction06/02/26 05:44 PM
1

I tried it a few times years ago when forced into it and I really did hate it and have never done it since, it was horrible and absolutely pointless. My best bet was to get to know women through work and see if anything transpired from that. It worked on a couple of occasions but it wasn't great as the women were married. I suppose it would have been a bit easier for me then as I was in my late 30s, unfortunately now I work in a large organisation where there are many lovely women but I'm 57 and…
/r/seduction17/01/26 12:28 PM
2

Everyone is a product of their learned experiences and that's exactly how everyone sees themselves. The thing is everyone's experiences are different and as a result so are their mindsets. Is it possible to change your mindset by cutting through a lifetime of negative experiences? Perhaps for some but in essence your real world experiences are the mirror in which you see your own reflection.
/r/seduction17/01/26 12:08 PM
2

When I used to do shrooms back in the day (late 80s) being in a crowd of people would instigate a bad trip but I discovered that taking amphetamine along with the shrooms would alleviate that. I never had the insights that you are talking about, I either went to concerts on shrooms & speed and tripped out to the music or if just taking shrooms would go to a park at night with one or two others, lay down and look at the stars and try to contemplate where we were in the universe.
/r/seduction17/01/26 11:45 AM
1

I'm really into Michael A Singer. After reading 'The Untethered Soul' I constantly listen to his talks on YouTube. After many years of not knowing what path to take I believe this is the way as the teachings have become an epiphany. I have a long way to go and although I have no idea how it could improve my fortunes of bringing people into my life the most important thing is that it's for myself and I'm able to release that blocked energy. Though from what I gather is that when you become libera…
/r/seduction17/01/26 11:35 AM
1

This is delusional. I am 57 years old and I can tell you that throughout my whole lifetime that leagues are real. If you think this is not true, the simple matter of fact is that you are actually 'in their league' and have not had the experience of being out of their league, i.o.w. you're lucky enough to have always been the type of guy that an attractive girl can be attracted to. If you've always been invisible to attractive women and only ever been able to 'take what you can get' then you'd kn…
/r/seduction17/01/26 11:18 AM
1

Why? Some people don't even see 1000 girls in their whole lifetime.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:49 PM
1

I'm sorry, but if you've approached 100 women in a year, let alone 1000, and have had no results, you don't belong in the dating pool, you're simply not attractive to women. Why the fuck would anyone waste their life away chasing a pipe dream that's simply unattainable?
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:48 PM
1

Ramadan.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:38 PM
1

You could have saved yourself and everyone else a whole lot of time by simplifying it to: This one thing determines 80-90% of attraction... Good genetics.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:33 PM
1

Thanks. For nothing.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:24 PM
1

Normally I would say that my age and looks are my disability but on top of that I have a progressive eye condition which means I'm gradually losing my sight. I'm at the stage now where I've lost my driving license and can't go out anywhere in low-lit environments or where there are crowds of people. Though I can still recognise attractive women and can just about use my phone, I don't think dating apps would help me.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:19 PM
1

It's a group that used to meet up in London around the mid-late 2000s. They would have talks, discussions and go out to try to approach women. I went to a couple of them around 2006-2007, I met Adam Lyons at one of them who went on to become a high-profile 'pua' both in the UK and the USA. If I remember correctly Kezia Noble might have been involved with them at some point also. I believe they also had an online discussion forum which I think the OP might be referring to regarding archives.
/r/seduction03/12/25 08:13 PM
1

I never misunderstood what game is, I never had any idea what it meant even after reading Neil Strauss's book.
/r/seduction03/12/25 07:56 PM
2

Height is only an advantage to good looking guys. A shorter good looking guy always has an advantage over tall below-average looking guys. As a tall below-average guy who sees shorter guys with women everywhere the 'height is an advantage' myth just doesn't wash with me.
/r/seduction03/12/25 07:35 PM
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The problem here is that you're not going to meet all those 4 billion women are you. A guy on average may not even meet 400 of them in his whole lifetime, let alone the half dozen out who may say yes.
/r/seduction03/12/25 07:25 PM
2

I admire the courage and resilience of someone continuing after one or two rejections, but after about a dozen on the trot you're just entering the territory of self-harm. If you put your hand into a fire and get burned in the process you're not going to keep putting your hand back in the fire hoping that one day you won't get burned.
/r/seduction03/12/25 07:12 PM
1

Be good looking.
/r/seduction30/11/25 12:50 PM
2

By being a three percenter. Otherwise you need to stick to your own level.
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:58 PM
1

Nope, the opposite. People would be surprised if I managed to get just one date.
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:55 PM
2

In the words of the late, great Lemmy, the chase is better than the catch.
/r/seduction15/11/25 05:51 PM
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They may not want to start off on a romantic level, they might prefer to meet up and gain trust before proper dating.
/r/seduction28/10/25 05:02 PM
1

I wasn't aware that was the case. My understanding was that the whole process is supposed to be about recognising the high interest women and then having to gain their trust. To me, low-medium interest women would be a futile, pointless pursuit.
/r/seduction26/10/25 12:31 PM
1

In what way has Bumble never worked for you, you never had a match?
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:49 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:39 PM
1

Is this 'approaching/meeting at the gym' phenomenom a North American thing? Here in the UK, at least in my gym, everyone just seems focused on working out rather than socialising, except for those groups that go together and seem to spend most of the time standing around making lots of noise. Unless it's just my social unawareness and it's happening but I just don't notice. I must admit I never noticed it when I used to go out to pubs, bars and clubs, it always looked to me like everyone already…
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:37 PM
1

How long is a piece of string?
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:26 PM
6

I heard Joe Pesci's voice when I read that.
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:18 PM
1

I don't exist to people in general let alone women.
/r/seduction25/10/25 02:14 PM
2

Was her name Lola or beautiful Delilah?
/r/seduction24/10/25 07:19 PM
1

Women are not to blame at all. They are blessed with being the choosers, it is their birthright. Yes, it sucks for us men but it's just the way of nature and you can't fuck with it.
/r/seduction18/10/25 12:11 PM
1

Huh?
/r/seduction18/10/25 12:07 PM
1

Guys who get pussy don't need subs. In fact they don't have time for subs because they're too busy getting pussy. If guarantee you if everyone was getting pussy not only would this sub never have existed, but neither would have Neil Strauss, Mystery or Owen Cook.
/r/seduction18/10/25 12:05 PM
1

It's not so much living in fear of rejection, it's more what's the point? Logic tells me that doing something that will knowingly or highly likely get you rejected is a complete pointless waste of time and energy. This is just a form of self-harm and people who commit self-harm are people who hate themselves. Life is too short for unnecessary self-harm.
/r/seduction18/10/25 12:01 PM
1

Obviously this is bullshit trolling, but if this guy was for real then I am the complete polar opposite, totally invisible to women. I do believe in Darwinian theory and that natural selection is real, also black pill is real. You're either dealt a good hand or you are not. Environment situations growing up do influence your outcomes in relation to attracting the opposite sex, but only to a degree and when you reach a certain point in life or a certain age, any lack of abilities can become irrev…
/r/seduction18/10/25 11:42 AM
1

A hobby is just something you enjoy doing to pass the time. Doesn't matter if it's gaming or doing jigsaw puzzles. The last thing you want to do is take up something that might look cool to someone else. Whatever you do to pass the time when you're not working, exercising body & mind, doing chores or watching tv that makes you content is the right hobby. Personally I've never seen any attraction in climbing up rocks or diving in caves, I prefer to play games and I don't shy away from telling any…
/r/seduction17/10/25 12:50 PM
1

The way I see it is if someone is willing to have sex with you you can find a way. I remember way back when I was 18/19 and I used to hang around the town centre where I lived at the time and on 2 occasions 2 different people offered me the key to their flat to take a girl there (2 different girls). It was weird because I used to date these girls in the daytime because nighttimes at the time I used to spend getting pissed and stoned with my mates. One girl I took back to one mate's flat but the …
/r/seduction17/10/25 12:39 PM
1

I'm autistic at a level where I'm completely independent in life, can communicate absolutely fine in a work/professional setting, but social settings are simply not situations I can exist in as I'm awkward around people. I can't even make male friends. Nothing in that list would do me any good, except for number 2 which everyone should do anyway.
/r/seduction14/10/25 02:56 PM
0

Go up and say "Who lies more, men or women?" Seriously, why would anyone do this unless you have a genuine reason to approach a group? If you're doing it simply because you're singling out a particular girl in the group this is just really weird. I never understood why these puas try to get their customers to do this on bootcamps, it's such a minefield.
/r/seduction14/10/25 02:13 PM
2

At 56 years old with no social skills, charisma, or anything to show for their life, I'd accept anything that comes my way. Except when you are this severely handicapped nothing ever comes your way.
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:47 AM
0

As a wise man once said, never dip your pen in the company's ink.
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:32 AM
1

Or the more likely you end up hating each other!
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:31 AM
1

I've witnessed 2 instances at my current workplace of women leaving their husbands/partners for a work colleague. One of them was my line manager and is now newly engaged to the guy, both have moved on to new jobs. The other woman still works there and I'm quite friendly with her as I've known her for a good few years but her colleague boyfriend has since left the company. Also as an observer I've seen quite a bit of fornication going on, mostly with married guys fucking married women and I've a…
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:20 AM
7

What you said in #3 about guys not bothering because they don't believe it's possible to change is very poignant. You can't set a goal unless you believe it's achievable but that belief isn't easy to come by.
/r/seduction29/09/25 07:36 PM
2

I wish I could go back to the 80s, for numerous reasons.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:27 PM
2

Don't you mean how they affect your use of language? I love archaic English language but it's unlikely you'll be able to replicate it in real life. If you're an actor and involved in lots of plays then may be, though there's no guarantee that the people you interact with will be impressed, they could just as easily think you're weird.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:20 PM
1

I'm sorry but you're ignoring natural selection which is an evidence-based scientific theory. Seduction as a practice or technique is pseudo science and cannot manipulate natural selection. All these rsd, mystery method techniques are simply tools designed to remove your inhibitions, but becoming uninhibited in your interactions with women doesn't guarantee you success unless the potential attraction is there to begin with, that's what I meant by the divine spark though probably the wrong wordin…
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:58 PM
1

I had a social circle in my late teens/early twenties but when I moved away I found it difficult to build a new one. Now in my mid-late 50s I have a very small social group of about half a dozen married men of my age, so there's no chance of meeting women there.
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:21 AM
1

This.
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:16 AM
1

Because a lot of guys will never get interest from women no matter what they do and no matter how hard they try because they lack that fundamental divine spark that makes it possible. The majority of guys that turn to pickup are like this - the success of the pickup industry is because of these people who have put their time and money into puas and bootcamps, not the minority of success stories that the pickup industry promotes. The bottom line is, if you're fundamentally unattractive to women y…
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:06 AM
1

You are making an ill-informed sweeping generalisation by saying of those methods you mentioned at the start "we all know DO work". Perhaps they work for yourself and others you have spoken to but the truth is that they have not benefited the vast number of people who have tried to follow them. 'Pick-up methods' are not generic to the male species and only benefit those who have a suppressed ability to attract women.
/r/seduction27/09/25 12:50 PM
2

Books can't change you they can only inspire.
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:32 AM
3

They're good looking.
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:29 AM
1

The moment you feel the necessity to chase as it's already over.
/r/seduction26/09/25 11:27 AM
1

They're not.
/r/seduction26/09/25 10:44 AM
1

Facebook dating is also a cesspool, 99% of the profiles are fake.
/r/seduction20/09/25 10:00 PM
0

Yep, and would immediately say yes if the guy asked her for a fuck.
/r/seduction20/09/25 11:23 AM
1

I've never been off porn long enough to know if abstinence would have a positive effect for me.
/r/seduction20/09/25 11:22 AM
4

300 squeezes to check for package.
/r/seduction17/09/25 11:01 PM
1

Natural selection. You're either in or you're out.
/r/seduction11/09/25 10:58 AM
3

And so the cycle continues for the rest of your life...
/r/seduction11/09/25 10:55 AM
1

A pint of bitter please.
/r/seduction07/09/25 01:35 AM
7

Tall and good looking...
/r/seduction05/09/25 07:53 PM
2

As an introvert I become enclosed inside a glass bubble in social situations. There's nothing I can do about it.
/r/seduction01/09/25 11:30 AM
4

Just leave your house.
/r/seduction27/08/25 12:03 AM
11

'Kin hell, I'm 56 and don't get attention from my age and above let alone younger!
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:30 PM
2

You'll need to already have at least a moderate level of social experience to be able to pull it off. Too many people have little to no social experience and won't be able to get back up after being knocked down, this is why very few guys have success with this.
/r/seduction25/08/25 08:22 PM
1

It's possible that pron has destroyed my life, though it's hard to day for sure as I've not even gone a month without whacking off since the age of 14 or a month without whacking off to porn since the age of 19, so I have no idea what life would have been like without it.
/r/seduction20/08/25 12:51 PM
2

I've never understood why people go to the gym in order to socialise. I go to the gym and get stuck in and work hard for a couple of hours and notice people sitting around chatting and hardly doing any training.
/r/seduction15/08/25 07:25 PM
2

He was my 'instructor' at a bootcamp many years ago along with Jeffy from RSD. I didn't get anything out of that so I certainly won't be reading his book.
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:25 PM
1

None. These books are not generic for every man. Some books may have content that either appeals to or is in alignment with certain people's personality or disposition whereas others may find the content alienating. I purchased the Manson Models audiobook on the back of tons of people raving about it yet have listened to it twice and did not get anything out of it.
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:22 PM
8

That was me before I turned 40, after which the women I didn't want didn't want me either.
/r/seduction12/08/25 10:49 PM
1

No it was purely selfish and the lights had to go off.
/r/seduction12/08/25 10:48 PM
182

About 20 years ago there was a barmaid at the local pub where my dad and stepmother used to drink. I used to go in there occasionally just to have a beer with my dad. One evening I was sitting at a table with a couple of other people I knew and this barmaid who'd finished her shift and I was pretty drunk. I can't remember what led up to it but I remember I was sitting next to her and I just turned to her and said, "I'm going to take you home and fuck you tonight". She replied, "Oh are you now?" …
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:48 PM
7

Yes you would have to make a lot of sacrifices to pursue this. I do scratch my head when I read people 'advise' creating a lifestyle, having hobbies and attending the gym regularly while at the same time going out 4 or 5 times a week approaching hundreds of women. This is just not possible if you're also holding down a job. I work 3 days a week, go to the gym on my days off, and have to do constant housework to keep the house clean and tidy, including the garden, washing etc as I can't afford a …
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:36 PM
7

I've seen dozens of posts way more informative than this get removed for being 'beginners topic'.
/r/seduction10/08/25 12:18 PM
2

Only if you're naturally attractive to women, i.e. good looking. PUAs will tell you to act like you're the prize or tell yourself you're the prize as a form of positive affirmation, but this is no more than a crutch to try to assist you while you're out there approaching 100s or 1000s of women until you may get lucky enough to find one due to the sheer numbers. If you manage to get to that point you may believe you are the prize because you've been telling yourself that for so long and there's n…
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:15 PM
1

Married women like a little dose of attention from other men once in a while. I've actually got a huge crush on a married woman at work, we get on really well and to be honest I do get what I perceive to be mixed signals from her, but trying anything is out of the question for multiple reasons. First off, regardless of whether or not she is happy in her marriage I respect her and her marriage. Secondly, if she was single nothing would happen because she is out of my league anyway.
/r/seduction07/08/25 02:15 PM
2

The strange thing is with me, and this has always been the case, I never felt any fear or such I simply thought that there was no point. The only social anxiety I feel is in crowded environments which I avoid like the plague, so in that situation it would be a general fear as opposed to just the fear of approaching a woman. But in quiet environments such as a sparsely populated bar or something I was usually quite stoic, but I know that approaching a woman for the intents and purposes of trying …
/r/seduction07/08/25 01:47 PM
1

Truth.
/r/seduction07/08/25 11:16 AM
1

As a below-average guy I am unable to discern between average and above-average. What would shock me would be if I saw a guy of my level with an attractive woman. If I did perhaps that would possibly give me a glimmer of hope but aside from rich and famous people like the Micks Jagger & Hucknall, 2 ugly bastards in my opinion, I've never seen this in every day life.
/r/seduction07/08/25 11:12 AM
1

Not really. The longer you live with experiences whether positive or negative the more they become ingrained and a part of your identity. If you've reached 23 with nothing but negative experiences I think you have the potential to improve. Youth is always an advantage but it always goes back to working on yourself. I work on myself at age 56 which helps certain areas, but nothing will eradicate the social self doubt and insecurity which has become a part of my identity over the course of many ye…
/r/seduction07/08/25 11:00 AM
0

Models is just as bullshit as a bootcamp just like any other pickup book, it's just a lot cheaper.
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:13 PM
1

I've never been in this situation but for sure what you say is legitimate common sense.
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:11 PM
1

As someone who attended an RSD bootcamp back in the day I can confirm it's a scam. In fact I don't trust any form of 'pickup artistry', I think anyone offering a service claiming to help guys get better with women are all charlatans. Yes I believe there are ways you can improve your life to increase your chances because being the best version of yourself can only help even if it's just a tiny bit, but even then there's no guarantees.
/r/seduction05/08/25 02:08 PM
1

As a 56 year old male the first one sounds like an absolute dream to me.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:54 PM
1

When it exacerbates over years and becomes ingrained and debilitating there's no way out.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:52 PM
1

Yeah I'm sure I would have had more opportunities had I been more social, unfortunately my social anxiety has just got worse as I've got older to the point where I have no incentive to leave the house. Yes I'd love to have some female company but I also fully understand and accept that this disadvantage gives me no entitlement whatsoever.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:45 PM
2

If you're considering giving up at least wait until you're in your 40s. I had my most success with women, albeit not attractive women, when I was in my late 30s. As soon as I hit 40 I became outlawed from the dating pool. Early 30s is nothing, you're still a baby.
/r/seduction03/08/25 10:19 AM
16

Meh, come back to me after you've given her the motorboat treatment then I'll consider being impressed.
/r/seduction03/08/25 10:15 AM
-1

No. If you've suffered from social anxiety and insecurity all your life you have no chance.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:07 PM
1

You're describing about 3% of men. For the rest of us it's really down to luck, i e. being at the right place at the right time and meeting someone you click with who happens to be single, matches your looks and is forgiving of your lack of confidence.
/r/seduction02/08/25 12:04 PM
0

None of the above. Number 4 I can hide, i.e. I put women on a pedestal as they are unattainable to me, but I don't show it, at least not consciously anyway. I'll never be trim because of my age, I workout regularly but I can only be in the best shape I can be. 2 & 3 are just non-starters for me.
/r/seduction29/07/25 03:59 PM
2

Yeah you're right, that's exactly what they did. Though I could've paid some random dude £20 to throw me towards women at a bar and tell me to 'just say anything'. Crazy.
/r/seduction27/07/25 12:54 PM
0

Wrong. Tyler and RSD was just a show, choreography. They were simply bringing out the woo-woo factor in sexless men and getting them all worked up and their shows and conferences. I doubt anyone came away from any of their shows or bootcamps any the wiser. Blackpill is real - tactics and techniques will only work if a woman has initial attraction for a guy, if she doesn't it's over before it begins.
/r/seduction27/07/25 12:50 PM
3

Nothing works unless the woman is initially attracted to you then all the work and all the skills are geared towards not messing it up.
/r/seduction27/07/25 12:33 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:52 PM
10

You need it when you can't get women, that's the whole point of it. What I don't understand are those who get addicted to it when they have women in their lives, to me that's fucked up. It's understandable that lonely men get addicted. If you can't get women you may as well watch porn, at least it helps you to get a release.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:51 PM
4

I went on one of those RSD bootcamps back in 2006. Total rip-off.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:45 PM
1

Well I'm 56 and clueless. Women haven't made themselves available to me since I was 39.
/r/seduction26/07/25 08:40 PM
1

Put it this way, I very much regret the opportunities I bypassed when I was young, because if those opportunities presented themselves to me now I would jump at the chance. By all means the younger you are the more standards you can have, but if those standards are not coming your way you may need to think about lowering them a little. I used to live with the delusion that I could find a girl that I was actually attracted to but it wasn't until I reached my late 30s when I thought fuck it, just …
/r/seduction24/07/25 01:04 PM
12

The product is your blocked energy flow inside. The pitch is the unblocking of that energy flow. Everything else is insignificant.
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:49 AM
1

He's sharing his thoughts and an experience as someone new, this may help someone else who is also new. The advice and ramblings of someone more experienced may not be understood. People need to take baby steps and again this is not a sub exclusively for people who easily go out every night and meet women. I'm 56 and I always appreciate book recommendations from anyone of any age if it has helped them. Give the OP some slack.
/r/seduction19/07/25 11:46 AM
1

That's a rather arrogant comment. I didn't realize that this was a sub only for 'experienced' guys to dick-joust. If someone new shows up and shares their thoughts but receives flippant comments instead of advice and encouragement they may end up looking for it elsewhere. So why not everyone stop thinking they're doing something by posting on Reddit and just close the sub...
/r/seduction18/07/25 12:03 PM
8

When I was 36 someone told me that a 20 year old girl was interested in me. When I found out who it was I asked her out for a drink, she was quite attractive and I thought my luck was finally in. The date seemed to go well to begin with, we ended up kissing quite passionately, however my low self-esteem and lack of entitlement clearly showed and it ended there.
/r/seduction18/07/25 11:43 AM
2

You've got plenty of time. I was lucky enough to lose my virginity on my 18th birthday and although I mostly struggled to get girls for the next 20 years I did manage to get together with about 20 women, mostly when drunk, but after the age of 39 I found it impossible. That was 17 years ago, and yes at 56 I do still feel worthless.
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:40 PM
1

Not sure if you're aware, but people still go out and socialise and ride horses.
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:32 PM
1

I purchased this on Audible, I didn't get anything out of it to be honest, I think you have to have a decent level of confidence to begin with in order to take on board and implement the things he talks about. I found the content to be somewhat out of my league.
/r/seduction12/07/25 04:30 PM
1

Height is irrelevant. When it comes to physical appearance if you are good looking and in shape it doesn't matter if you're 5'4 or 6'4. I'm 6', don't know if that's deemed tall or average these days, but as I'm not good looking I stand out as not looking compared to shorter guys who aren't good looking. I see shorter guys with girls everywhere but they are better looking than me. If I could shrink a foot and become better looking at the same time I'd take it.
/r/seduction10/07/25 12:40 PM
1

It is a vicious circle. Insecurity requires outside validation. It's possible to acquire outside validation but this is short-lived because when you lose it you end up in a worse situation than before. The problem is, seeking a mate and seeking sex is a human need, but unfortunately western society has been so bastardised that barriers have been put in the way in order to make it very difficult for some and nigh on impossible for others. This bastardisation has also created a mental health epide…
/r/seduction10/07/25 10:27 AM
30

I'm not sure if there's a word to describe the opposite of confidence, but whatever it may be I have it - profoundly and in abundance. It's something that I've never been able to eradicate it and it elicits a dead life, or at least a life in limbo.
/r/seduction05/07/25 04:09 PM
-6

Best post I've ever seen in this sub, period.
/r/seduction05/07/25 01:56 PM
2

I've never known how to dress my whole life. I dress the same way now in my 50s as I did in my 20s which is basically cargo trousers or jogging bottoms, long sleeved shirt usually chequered (my favourite shirt I've been wearing for the last 15-20 years, and a grey or navy fleece in the winter, trainers or walking shoes. If I go out to the pub the only thing different is that I'd usually wear a pair of jeans. It's just one of those things I've never been able to suss, like what could I wear to ma…
/r/seduction04/07/25 07:13 PM
0

Not everyone is capable. It's just a fact of life that there are some people in this world, both men and women, that can't attract the opposite sex no matter what they do. All you can do is just keep working on yourself for you in order to be content to the degree that if you can't get a date it doesn't matter so much. If you develop true indifference you'll still feel content whether you meet someone or not.
/r/seduction04/07/25 04:52 PM
1

I have the fear of asking women out with the women I'm asking out within earshot.
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:30 PM
1

Only if the girl you're approaching already finds you attractive. If not then you're just a creep harassing her.
/r/seduction03/07/25 09:09 PM
45

Why do I know where this is going before I actually read it...?
/r/seduction03/07/25 06:32 PM
1

I'm 56 and too far gone in the opposite direction of the other traits so to attempt to reverse it so late in life would be too all-consuming without any guarantee of success. Rather than gaining experience in those things as I've got older I've instead languished in isolation and have remained socially unaware due to lack of confidence & self-esteem and being insecure around people. spirituality and stoicism doesn't require any social awareness.
/r/seduction03/07/25 06:00 PM
4

1, 3, 4, 5 and 7 I can work on, but 2, 6 and 8 are well out of my reach, I'm way too far gone with those in regards to atrophy.
/r/seduction28/06/25 02:08 PM
3

I believe not. A good looking bloke could get away with it but for the average Joe not being good inside means your energy is blocked and not flowing up. Generally women will only gravitate towards you if your energy is flowing up and out but with low blocked energy you are generally either invisible or repulsive.
/r/seduction28/06/25 08:56 AM
1

I wish I was short because being tall and ugly makes you stand out more.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:33 AM
1

2,3,4,7,8,(9 I don't have experience to reflect on) and 10 for me.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:28 AM
1

Isn't it true though that women also do this, so you'll be ignoring her hoping she'll initiate and vice versa, ergo you'll both be locked in a stalemate...
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:19 AM
1

Haha, it's the opposite for me. I reached 40 and it all went downhill from there.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:14 AM
1

Emotional stability is the only thing I'm working on and improving thanks to spiritual techniques, however unfortunately I will never be able to develop any of the other stuff.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:12 AM
7

Just be confident bro. And remember to take a shower.
/r/seduction27/06/25 10:56 AM
1

"18"M and been isolated "my whole life"... Correction: "18M and been isolated thus far". You're still a baby.
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:36 AM
2

All I heard was bs.
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:30 AM
1

The big irony here is that if it were that simple this sub wouldn't exist and you would never need to write this post.
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:24 AM
1

What would be the point of this sub Reddit if guys weren't afraid of women?
/r/seduction31/01/25 04:14 PM
1

In the UK I notice that on the whole, brown girls (Indian/Pakistani) and Hong Kong girls tend to stick with their own. I've seen quite a few attractive brown and Honkongers in the work place but they generally ignore us British white guys.
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:59 PM
1

I have it on audiobook. I like his style of writing and enjoyed listening to it but the concepts are not in line with my functionality so I didn't take away anything from it that would help me navigate the world of dating.
/r/seduction31/01/25 02:52 PM
2

Sounds like Owen Cook is in the house...
/r/seduction27/10/24 11:13 PM
0

Bullshit improvised... 'Dumb' from the start.
/r/seduction27/10/24 11:08 AM
0

Nothing you just said supports the notion that you need to 'be like a doctor'... The idea is just complete nonsense.
/r/seduction26/10/24 04:06 PM
1

Yes, it's very bad. As you spend most of your time in the gym, all you should be wearing is a suit.
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:18 AM
2

Firstly, on average a doctor spends between 4-6 years in medical school. Secondly, a doctor will interact with more patients than even the best seducer will interact with women. Be like a doctor (just be confident bro...)
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:16 AM
0

A 21-22 year old kid worrying about their lack of dating experience is like a 1 year old baby worrying about their lack of steps in their quest to walk unaided.
/r/seduction25/10/24 11:05 AM
1

Gaming as a hobby is generally seen as anti-alpha by the seduction cultists. I love gaming and I wouldn't give it up just because it may be perceived as a turn-off for women. If a woman finds my hobby unattractive why the hell would I be interested in her?
/r/seduction13/10/24 07:20 PM
1

Can I buy your book?
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:08 PM
1

Best answer.
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:05 PM
1

Just be confident bro, and don't forget to take a shower and get a nice haircut...
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:03 PM
1

It is. I think what this guy is trying to say is find hobbies that girls think are cool, not what you think are cool for yourself...
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:01 PM
1

"Why does neerly everyone here talk about woman like they are a different, homogeneous species?" This sub and other forums covering the same subject would not exist if everyone thought otherwise.
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:28 PM
1

Well I doubt your dry spell could be that long seeing as you're only 26 - if I were 26 I would have last seen action at 10.
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:11 PM
1

Not me, I've just become more and more introverted as I've got older. I presume, as I'm not talking from experience, that an introverted guy is probably better off going for introverted girls, and vice-versa. I hear a lot of stuff about 'social status' and to be out and about with lots of friends can only realistically be achievable by extroverts, thus increasing the chances of attracting women - more than likely extroverted women. So it would appear that there would be a vast difference in appr…
/r/seduction15/09/24 12:06 PM
0

Books for what?
/r/seduction27/07/24 10:19 AM
1

I find it really odd how short guys think it's because of their shortness that they fail with women. I'm tall and I fail with women and I've seen many short guys with stunners. The height factor is a total myth.
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:46 AM
1

Only with guys they find attractive.
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:40 AM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction12/04/24 01:27 AM
1

"Stop caring so much..." You mean 'pretend not to care so much'. You can't just flip a switch and suddenly eradicate your deep-rooted thoughts and emotions. Never in human existence did a woman stop smelling desperation the moment a man decided that he was going to stop caring so much.
/r/seduction05/01/24 06:47 PM
1

NOT when the only person in the world that has ever told you you're good looking is your mother.
/r/seduction10/06/23 11:22 AM
2

Truth bomb. BOOOOM...
/r/seduction10/06/23 11:14 AM
1

Just be confident bro. Get a haircut, take a shower, lift and check your macros. Bro.
/r/seduction10/06/23 11:10 AM
1

Who knows?
/r/seduction10/06/23 11:08 AM
1

Your brain will rewire itself towards this naturally as you get older.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:55 PM
2

The only 40+ guys who are going to get any luck with younger women (if money doesn't come into play) are those who are experienced with women. My interactions with women over the years have been very short and sweet and have never actually been involved in something that can be deemed as a 'relationship'. And being 53 without a date in 14 years while lacking social intelligence with the inabilty to read body language, I'd be hard pushed to get a woman my own age let alone a younger one. Even tho…
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:51 PM
1

The ability to assume such things without any evidence or feedback is a consequence of delusion. I think you have to be way outside your head to hold these unfounded beliefs, whereas if you are introspective you can never delude yourself.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:39 PM
1

Could you give an example of how you define a loser/pathetic guy... what kind of traits and characteristics does he have? How does one recognize in oneself if he is indeed one of these guys without feedback?
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:26 PM
1

Trying to read that nearly gave me stroke.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:13 PM
1

Lol, I threw all mine in the bin!
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:10 PM
1

Truth.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:52 PM
1

So if I'm beta that just proves that it has nothing to do with tattoos - therefore your post is invalid.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:20 AM
4

What's the best sandwich you've ever made?
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:45 AM
2

Truth.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:42 AM
1

I don't know, I can't reach my tongue down far enough to know how they taste.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:36 AM
-1

Correct.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:28 AM
1

Wrong.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:27 AM
5

What an absolute crock of shit. I'm covered in tattoos and it has done absolutely nothing for me whatsoever, just like my height.
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:25 AM
2

I guess some dudes my age like shit music. Good luck to them, I'll just stick to the pubs.
/r/seduction30/09/21 11:30 PM
4

They don't 'self-discard' they simply can't read signals. You may assume these signals are obvious but to read but the majority of us would not have a clue.
/r/seduction29/09/21 05:27 PM
1

Any woman that won't date you is out of your league. End of debate.
/r/seduction24/09/21 09:01 PM
2

I've never been able to get get rid of my belly fat and bum fat, even when I spent 20 years going to the gym. I've just recently started on a keto diet which means cutting carbs and sugar. I'm probably too old to lose the fat now anyway but I'm trying to implement a lifestyle that will hopefully help make me feel, if not look a bit better.
/r/seduction18/09/21 11:05 PM
1

So where does the abundance mentality tree grow then? In the same orchard as the confidence tree?
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:48 PM
1

Focus on things that are achievable for yourself and not waste time with things that are not.
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:16 AM
3

No we don't have sn equal chance of getting attention from women. You have a better chance than I - you've just told me that. At least you've had women tell you what they think your flaws are - no woman has ever told me what mine are, they just stay as far away from me as possible.
/r/seduction17/09/21 02:44 PM
5

The trouble with this is that real life experience will always trump imaginary experience. You'll never be able to replace past or current negative experiences with imaginary positive ones.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:31 PM
8

I'm 6' and I've never been approached by a woman. I've never even noticed a woman look in my direction tbh. On top if that I've seen, and I actually know personally, guys whose heads are level with my shoulders with attractive girlfriends. The height myth was blown out of the water a long time ago for me.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:24 PM
1

What do you mean 'take action'? For what? Any action requires drive and determination for an end goal, which I do not have. And the fact that human dynamics and social interaction is alien to me it makes the subject all the more fascinating.
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:07 PM
1

Copernicus was fascinated by the stars and planets but because they were too far away to reach physically he had to study them through the lens of a telescope and find out as much as he could. I think Galileo did the same. Just because I don't physically partake in something doesn't mean I cannot take interest in the mechanics of it and discuss it.
/r/seduction16/09/21 11:05 PM
1

Like I said, it's my default setting. No woman has ever been attracted to me and no women ever will. You have to understand, I am not unique here, you have to look at life as whole and recognise that there are opposites in everything. One might refer to it as the 'cosmic balance' or some shit like that... For example, if there was no such thing as evil in the world how would you define 'good'? Would you even recognise good as good, or would it be just an emotionless entity? How would you recogni…
/r/seduction16/09/21 01:36 PM
1

Because there's no point. The inability to attract women has always been my life's default setting.
/r/seduction16/09/21 10:25 AM
6

It's extremely unlikely that a girl is going to comment on the size of your (average and below) dick unless you do something pretty bad to her that would make her want to put you to shame. The only time a girl will comment on the size of your dick (other than when she's with her girl friends) is if it's big. It's either compliment or say nothing at all (no complaints).
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:35 PM
1

I would rather be on my death bed knowing that no women were ever attracted to me than have someone whisper in my ear, "All those girls giving you signals and you never even noticed." If I noticed a woman doing anything that could be construed as some kind of 'signal', it could just as well be a sign of disinterest as it could be of interest... I would not have a clue, even at 52.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:23 PM
1

I never figured out how to play Poker either. I think that says it all.
/r/seduction12/09/21 08:07 PM
1

Nope.
/r/seduction04/09/21 11:09 AM
2

No, 2 of them were my friends, but I worked with over 20 black guys over a 6 year period and a lot of them, not all because I know some were married, got more pussy than you can shake a stick at while us white guys sat in the background like cucks. My 2 friends used bring girls to my house while I, a 6ft white guy, sat there like a cuck.
/r/seduction04/09/21 10:41 AM
1

It's not the mass media I've observed, it's what I've seen in real life with my own eyes. I worked with black dudes for years and 2 of my black friends lodged at my house for a while and I've seen countless instances of women approaching these guys and asking them out, which I've rarely seen happen with white dudes - and bear in mind that blacks are a less than a 10% minority where I live. I can either come to my conclusion by my own experience or by listening to contradictory anecdotal evidence…
/r/seduction04/09/21 10:01 AM
-1

Being tall and white doesn't mean shit. It's never done me any favours. In fact as far as race is concerned, through a lifetime's observation it's clear that women prefer black guys - at least western women do.
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:53 PM
1

It doesn't is the simplest answer. This is what pua, seduction, game or whatever you want to call it is for... they are non-generic methods used to not fuck it up with women who are attracted to you. If she is not, the game is already lost. The rest is just bro-science.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:37 PM
1

Just be confident bro...
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:28 PM
2

It's appalling what he did, though having watched the video a lot of what he said rings with me, except the Terminator part, but I didn't hear him mention anything about girls. The feeling of hopelessness he was describing is classic depression, though in my case even with living a pointless, meaningless existence I would never ever take my pain out on others, neither would I want to harm myself. There are different ways to deal with anguish but this is not one of them.
/r/seduction13/08/21 08:24 PM
6

Well apparently 55% of communication is through body language. Not sure I buy that though, since so many deals are brokered over the telephone, I think words and tone have a much higher % in the communication ratio than the 7%/38% they are given. I've never been able to read body language in the 52 years of my life - words are the make & break for me, it's all about what is said.
/r/seduction08/08/21 01:47 PM
1

The cult of bro science.
/r/seduction07/08/21 12:24 AM
0

Not anything. I would say that everyone is capable of doing something but not necessarily what the next man is doing, or what the majority are doing. There are areas where you are weak, so you have to find other areas where you are strong.
/r/seduction24/07/21 08:27 AM
1

tl;dr, I've always been an opponent of the 'self-fulfilling prophecy' myth. The reality of one's situation is only and purely the result of one's own lived experiences, and these experiences provide the only grounds of your circumstance and that is positive/negative feedback.
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:48 PM
-4

On the contrary, it is very natural. It's always been this way. There have always been winners and there have always been losers. Survival of the fittest. Just because you're a man and you possess a penis doesn't mean you're entitled to use it - it's there just incase. You can spend your life striving to fulfill your needs, whatever they may be, but it guarantees nothing. What percentage of guys who have participated in pickup forums, purchased pickup material and attended pickup programs do you…
/r/seduction23/07/21 10:40 PM
1

Take a shower.
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:38 AM
1

I don't know whether or not you'll turn things around, being 27 you are very young and you certainly have time on your side. But to try to put your mind at ease, as someone who has been in exactly the same situation as you, if things don't take a change for the better it becomes a lot easier to accept your circumstances when you are older. I'm 52 now and although I do rue missing out on coexisting with the ladies, it's level of importance has subsided exponentially over the years and I find myse…
/r/seduction11/07/21 09:26 AM
11

Oh well. No great loss.
/r/MGTOW201/07/21 09:30 AM
1

Ah, you speak Unwinese!
/r/seduction13/04/21 11:01 PM
2

It doesn't work for everyone. I went to the gym for 20 years and it neither helped relieve my anxiety or my depression. In fact, one of the reasons I stopped going was because I was feeling increasingly intimidated by the crowd and the noise in there. I felt a little bit better working out at home but I stopped that in the end because I could no longer find any energy within myself. I haven't participated in any physical activity for 5 years now and I have to say I feel no better or worse.
/r/seduction13/04/21 10:55 PM
1

It doesn't work for everyone though.
/r/seduction13/04/21 10:48 PM
1

Be all, end all.
/r/seduction13/04/21 10:42 PM
1

Yeah, what exactly instigates a 'mindset'? Where does it come from? There are 2 possibilities, 1. experience or 2. indoctrination. If there's something you have no experience with, either positive or negative, you can concoct a belief or mindset of your choosing and adopt this - how this effects the results of your endeavours is either hit or miss. If you have experience with something, positive or negative then your mindset will reflect that. So if you have a long-time first-hand experience of …
/r/seduction06/04/21 10:25 PM
3

I don't think you get a lot of guys who are 'stage 1' entering the pu/game stratosphere. The few that do are the ones that are hailed as the 'success stories' of the pu community... 1. Was doing good/ok, 2. Learned pickup, 3. Did better. So you're certainly right about it not being the same for everybody.
/r/seduction03/04/21 10:54 PM
1

The way I've always looked at it is that any woman has a better option than me at any time and any place. I just don't have enough of whatever to be an option thus any woman will always have power over me.
/r/seduction03/04/21 06:39 PM
1

That's what I've always thought.
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:50 AM
1

I'm still waiting to see real-world evidence that hair and/or height is an issue.
/r/seduction02/04/21 07:14 PM
1

Oh whoop-de-do, I'm a fucking miracle and my family name dies with me.
/r/seduction02/04/21 03:29 AM
1

What's your point?
/r/seduction31/03/21 09:46 AM
1

Yeah figures. You're probably into children. Sick fuck.
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:27 PM
1

Whatever that means... So did you get an answer to your question in the end? Obviously my response seemed to touch a nerve with you so I was wondering if anyone else gave you a satisfying answer?
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:22 PM
1

This is all so unfamiliar.
/r/seduction30/03/21 10:12 PM
1

And you can believe whatever you want.
/r/seduction29/03/21 10:27 PM
1

What's the difference between someone who lives a long, disease-free life and those whose lives are cut short by terminal illnesses? Most people seem to be socially functional and are able to learn and adapt in a way that enables them to meet, attract and seduce the opposite sex. Unfortunately there are some of us who are socially dysfunctional and will never be able to seduce no matter what. It's simply just a lottery in nature.
/r/seduction28/03/21 04:18 PM
1

I don't know about Ukrainian or Russian, though I very much doubt Ukrainian women would as they are supposed to be one of the biggest demographic of beautiful women in the world, apparently. I know quite a few Polish girls so definitely not.
/r/seduction28/03/21 03:55 PM
2

Not only is your assumption regarding guitar playing and computer programming false, if it were true it would be an unfair comparison simply because we are talking about manipulating inanimate objects versus influencing free-thinking sentient beings. With that being said, like anything in nature and the Universe there are anomalies and in this case the anomaly is human dysfunction. Survival and replication may be the default function of the human life cycle but no one is born with the right to e…
/r/seduction28/03/21 03:16 AM
2

I think that organizing a disorganized life can give you clarity and a clearer path to pursue the more 'peripheral' things in life like hobbies, dating etc. I find I can't relax or concentrate on the things I like to do when I'm bogged down with unfinished business regarding the things I need to do. I totally get where you're coming from.
/r/seduction18/03/21 12:49 AM
14

I haven't had sex in 13 years... hold my beer.
/r/seduction17/03/21 09:50 PM
3

If you compare a 'Chad' to all those examples you listed you'll most likely find that women are more drawn towards them. I don't know what gives you the impression that Chads are more desirable - I think you'll find that Chads are simply more readily available to the Stacys, and those other guys would more than likely be interested in refined women.
/r/seduction05/03/21 09:47 PM
2

You shouldn't need hints, this seduction nonsense is based upon trying to convince socially maladjusted guys that they can attract women who are out of their league. No one's going to give any 'advice' on how to get a date with chubby Doris at the checkout.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:42 PM
2

That's just called being socially adjusted. Calling it 'game' is just a pick-up community saying that makes it sound like some cultish dogma. You're either socially adjusted or socially maladjusted. Attraction, seduction is either natural or it is alien depending in which category you fall. Tell a normal person he has 'game' in any scenario he will think you're nuts.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:37 PM
55

Yes, and also take into consideration that dating/seduction advice is not generic. It's the same as saying that excercise helps depression. For some, perhaps for most, it may well do, but reward for effort is not a given in any endeavour.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:29 PM
2

297 comments (298 now). If a guy had written the exact same post there might be 7 comments.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:16 PM
1

I've never had eye contact from women whever I go including work, the supermarket etc. Girls I am acquainted with yes, of course, smile and say hello, chat... but women I've never met... never, always eyes forward. I personally think that women have the ability to suss guys out in their peripheral vision, knowing instantly if they would be attracted or not. If they are they would make eye contact, if not they would pretend you don't exist. This makes perfect sense to me.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:10 PM
2

I think the context of his post is that to get a 'high-status' woman you must become a 'high-status' man. A normie guy devoid of any mental health issues and social dysfunctionality should be able to attract a normie girl. A meth-guy is likely gonna meet a meth-head girl. Yes we are, guys and girls both, all people, human beings... but the truth is that we all belong to different social hierarchical tiers, and this makes a hell of a lot of difference as to who we meet and who we attract.
/r/seduction01/03/21 11:12 PM
4

This is merely a consequence of the pick-up/seduction market. Most people in general, regardless of which country they reside in can easily get together without knowing, realizing or even considering how or why. They don't need to. I don't need to think about the reasoning or mechanics behind me picking up my Xbox controller and playing a game - I just do it because my subconscious knows I'll get pleasure and reward from it. The inability to partake in a basic human function, like interacting wi…
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:13 PM
0

You could've saved yourself a whole load of time and simply said, 'be a wizard'.
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:00 PM
1

Glad it worked out for ya (not jealous).
/r/seduction20/12/20 10:53 PM
1

We are renowned for it in the uk. The girls at work just roll their eyes because they're used to it at home.
/r/seduction20/12/20 08:14 PM
1

Amongst other things, yes. It makes me feel better about myself, kind of a coping mechanism if you like. Imagine you need to fart when there are people around and you feel the need to hold it in - well I don't, and I'd much rather a woman hold me in contempt for being a disgusting pig than hold me in contempt because she thinks she's above me with her beauty. Sounds fucked up right? Yeah it is, I get it, but I've tried to do the right thing for years and just reached a point where I decided that…
/r/seduction20/12/20 05:34 PM
5

Ah you mean you don't work together, you go to her place of work? Then that's different. Employers would certainly frown upon their employees getting hit on in most cases. If it were me I'd most likely make friendly small-talk and slip her my number, I'm sure I've done this in the past, think I did it once in a library many years ago although nothing happened.
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:13 AM
8

I wouldn't advise to hit on girls at work. Work is a great place to meet and get to know girls, especially if you don't get out much but I think your best bet is to utilize any works nights out in order to try to progress things further than a working relationship with your female colleagues. I have hit it off with female co-workers, but that was many years ago - one was pretty good as I got a girlfriend out of it but 2 were married women so we had to meet on the quiet. You need to be very caref…
/r/seduction20/12/20 11:01 AM
1

Yeah a lot of people find my habits disgusting, but I'm past caring now.
/r/seduction20/12/20 09:28 AM
5

Yet due to modern society being what it is, there are very few of this type of person. That's why the majority of men will never meet the women they want, if any at all.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:50 PM
1

Lol, I do it intentionally in front of girls, especially hot girls. I now it may sound ridiculous but I do so as if to say 'your beauty doesn't effect me' (though it does really) but it makes me feel better knowing that they think I don't care. I really don't care if they think I'm rude though.
/r/seduction19/12/20 07:44 PM
6

Thanks Mehow.
/r/seduction26/10/20 08:33 PM
1

That pretty much nails it.
/r/seduction25/10/20 02:28 PM
1

A girl is attracted to a guy initially exactly the same way a guy is attracted to a girl, which is their looks. All a good looking guy has to do is not f*** it up. An average/below average guy has to explore the universe and beyond to stand a chance.
/r/seduction25/10/20 02:26 PM
1

Looks matter. Straight from the horse's mouth.
/r/seduction25/10/20 02:20 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:21 PM
1

You make a good point. The only time I ever got lucky was in my mid to late 30's with drunk old unattractive single mothers but when I was drunk too. There's no way I would have done that had I been sober.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:20 PM
1

The problem I have with the Sadhguru method is knowing that to be your best self you have to work on your body and mind, so when I tried this meditation I just couldn't get the obvious contraction out of my head. At the end of the day it's just a mantra so I'm sure there is an alternative way that doesn't contradict your own beliefs.
/r/seduction18/10/20 10:09 PM
1

They do. I wish I was an average man. Average men have friends. Average men have girlfriends. Average men have families. Not all of these may end up as ideal situations but this isn't about average men, it's about the difference between above average men and below average men, i.e. those who are able to meet lots of girls and those who are unable to meet any.
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:26 AM
2

I constantly wonder what my chances in life would be if I wasn't depressed. It's difficult to imagine how things would be different because depression permeates all areas of your being.
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:19 AM
2

When I turned 30 I felt anxious that I was getting old but believe me, now I'm 51 and if I could go back and live a ten year age period of my life again AS AN ADULT it would be my 30's. I would choose that over being in my 20s.
/r/seduction10/10/20 09:12 AM
1

Sorry I can't help with your question but I am very curious, when you say you're not old enough to go to bars that makes me think that you are at the most 17 (at least here in the UK) and you say that you are giving 'middle-aged' men the eye, which makes me think these guys are 50 odd. This sounds a bit unreal to me.
/r/seduction27/09/20 05:20 PM
1

It looks like you've missed the point by a long shot. But of course if you do feel it's a necessity in life to raise children into the world I only hope that you already have the essential life requirements in place.
/r/seduction27/09/20 04:49 PM
1

But is it though? I think it's more of a want than a need/necessity. You look at other guys enjoying time with women so you want to be able to do that too but you can't so you feel miserable. Then you look at yourself as being a failure and unfulfilled in life without actually thinking to yourself that this part of life isn't essential for your survival, like eating sugary food, it's merely a want, a desire and the real self-sabotage comes in thinking you are a lesser human being for it. This do…
/r/seduction27/09/20 03:14 PM
2

This may be legit if it's just you and the women around you, but if you've lived your whole life where your friends and peers are doing ok and you're the only one who's always pushed to the sidelines then you know it's a lot more than just your way of thinking.
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:51 AM
9

So how is a guy supposed to know if he's cute or ugly when women constantly reject/walk away and the only person in the world who's ever said he's good looking is his mother?
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:44 AM
1

Win.
/r/seduction23/09/20 02:38 AM
3

I prefer right-leaning women myself. A threesome with the Pettibone sisters would be a dream come true for me.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:41 AM
5

The font was the best thing about the post.
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:24 AM
1

You'll get an abundance of women if you are a magnet to women, but guys like this are few and far between. If you get to a point in your life, whenever that may be, when you consciously recognize that there is a scarcity of women in your life you're never going to get an abundance unless you're in a position to take a shortcut and become a sugar daddy. If you're living a life of scarcity when it comes to women and you're yearning for the company of women then your only option is to try to find a…
/r/seduction18/09/20 09:18 AM
2

If there's a scarcity of women in your life it's a reality not a mindset. I've never been able to make sense of the mentality around this confusion. Is there an abundance of women in your life? YES/NO... Is there an abundance of women in your imagination? YES/NO... These are 2 extremely different things.
/r/seduction16/09/20 12:03 PM
2

I didn't. I was 37 when I reached the point where you are now (but never had long-term relationships, I just reached a breaking point with my inability to meet/attract women). I know it's different for everyone and things may work out well for you but for me, though it took me a while to realise it, I really wasn't cut out for it. It's been this long, lingering disability that seems to have inflicted me since as far back as I can remember. What also took me a long time was actually being able to…
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:45 AM
1

Some people say you can trick your mind into thinking the opposite of what reality tells you but personally I could never do that. The fact that I'd only be trying to lie to myself would be too overwhelming. As far as I'm concerned it's cut & dry no bulls**t that your reality is a reflection of your experience. If you've only ever experienced no abundance then that's your reality. If you believe otherwise you are delusional, if others tell you to believe otherwise then they're delusional people …
/r/seduction23/07/20 06:26 AM
1

Can't tell you from personal experience but I am led to believe that there are many in the Ukraine. Apparently Scandinavia and the Baltic states are supposed to be a hotbed for attractive women too. What I can tell you from personal experience as someone who has been a lifelong UK citizen is that here in the UK I would estimate that around 5% of women are attractive. Comparatively I have seen numerous attractive women in the Hesse region of Germany.
/r/seduction02/06/20 02:37 PM
2

Things were definitely not going well with those 2 girls sitting on the bench... hence he didn't shut up.
/r/seduction02/06/20 02:21 PM
2

You've heard the phrase 'women are the choosers' right? This is where it begins and where it ends for every guy.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:21 PM
2

You still need enough self-belief and courage to make that commitment otherwise you never will. For years and years I have strongly believed that I'm not desirable and have nothing to offer, and I've never been able to break that barrier. This is why I always have been and will forever be sex-less and love-less.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:19 PM
2

Equally you can very easily not get laid if you have a decent secure job, own your own house and car and have no debt. It all boils down to whether or not you are a lost soul.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:10 PM
1

The first thing I always notice is that they are completely unaware that a ghost has just walked past them.
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:05 PM
2

And to think that us ugly guys who are invisible to women have problems...
/r/seduction26/05/20 01:50 AM
1

Yeah I'll do all that stuff next time.
/r/seduction06/05/20 07:21 PM
1

Number one sounds achievable to an extent, however I would omit the 'attractive' part. Enriching yes, you create a lifestyle that is enriching for you but having an attractive lifestyle is something that you have no personal control over as it can only be perceived in the judgement of others. Anything that you do that can potentially make you attractive is out of your hands because it's not for you to decide - it's for others to decide and fundamentally any improvements you make for yourself in …
/r/seduction23/04/20 01:49 PM
1

I relate so much to what you were saying in the first part of your post. I'm glad you managed to get yourself unstuck with your situation. For me, though I have no problem with talking to any woman of any age providing I have a reason to do so rather than just the sake of doing it, I always have and always will not have what it takes for a woman to be interested. I could ask for the time a million times, no problem no anxiety, but it won't make any difference.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:33 AM
3

No, but I've watched 3 girls sitting on a bench by RSD todd.
/r/seduction22/04/20 04:50 AM
2

I've got no problem approaching girls when I have a somewhat legit reason to talk to them. You know, asking where X or Z is, asking to take a photo if you're a tourist, staying in a hostel while traveling and asking where you're from and stuff like that. But approaching a girl where it's very clear from the get-go that you're sexually interested in her is something else to me. I completely agree with this. I've always been uneasy with the idea of this approach culture, it's so obvious and clearl…
/r/seduction15/04/20 09:42 PM
1

I don't have any experience with 'approach anxiety' as actively seeking women is a futile, pointless exercise, but certainly social anxiety which makes no difference with the quarantine, only that I'm home during weekdays instead of at work (the only place I can potentially interact with women). So excuses don't come into it, only the reasons remain the same.
/r/seduction15/04/20 09:29 PM
21

What exactly do you mean by 'disturb girls'? You mean deliberately pestering girls in a creepy way or are you saying that your friends were simply 'cramping your style'?
/r/seduction15/04/20 03:13 PM
3

I'm just starting to see myself rust, get older and feeling what I've missed out on but i'm 26 years old
/r/seduction14/04/20 04:36 PM
1

I've always felt that this is a very odd question. The way I see it, if you have the ability to make friends with women then how can you not find a woman to date/have sex with? This really blows my mind. See in my case, I'm invisible to women. I am not worthy enough for their time and effort so why would they want anything to do with me? If this wasn't the case and I could actually make acquaintances with women who actually liked me, in any way, I'd be 99% of the way there as I'd be gaining expe…
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:58 PM
0

Too many times to count. Though there is nothing that I could have done as they are obviously all out of my league.
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:36 PM
-1

You are not the judge & jury of what constitutes a helpful post. Just saying.
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:06 PM
2

I don't know what your situation is specifically but one thing I do know is that this can be a consequence of excessive porn use. I'm in no way assuming that this is you and there may be other catalysts for this kind of situation but currently this is the only one I know of.
/r/seduction14/04/20 11:50 AM
1

Lockdown makes no difference to me, nothing's changed. I'm sure the same can be said for a lot of others too. Either way I can't interact with women, and either way I'm just trying to make sense of it all.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:28 AM
1

I used to go to the gym regularly for 20 years. I haven't been for 5 years and feel no different now to what I did then. The situation with women has always been the same regardless, and there are no women in my peer group, unless you include friend's wives.
/r/seduction12/04/20 05:39 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction12/04/20 04:08 PM
1

Not that it is relevant, but 51-65.
/r/seduction11/04/20 11:47 PM
1

No I'm an older man who can't remember what sex was like. Though I suppose the fact that I was drunk at the time doesn't help my memory either.
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:57 PM
1

I was actually taking you seriously up to this point... This is why a lot of older men get younger women because older men's sex drive drops so they don't look as thirsty as a younger dude who's a virgin.
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:46 PM
2

I've never really been in to playing sports but I do remember enjoying whiff-whaff at middle school. I picked up a paddle a couple of years ago and started playing during work lunch break. I then decided to join a local whiff-whaff club so I could improve my game, something I would never normally do, but I absolutely hated it. Don't get me wrong, I loved playing and even though I used to chat to few people there I still felt isolated and alone. This has been a recurring issue throughout my whole…
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:32 PM
1

I agree wholeheartedly with this.
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:16 PM
2

I didn't read your story so I'm only responding to the title. This is the thing and I've made this point many times over the years - I believe that the majority of guys who are drawn towards this pua/seduction movement, seeking help, advice and even going as far as purchasing products from the marketers who have found a niche in this phenomenon, are for the most part guys who do not have the basic competency in social situations. This is why the majority do not benefit from this. Unfortunately m…
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:06 PM
1

This is gold. Thank you.
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:41 PM
1

Hint of Lime #1 for me. Love hot chillis, Carolina Reapers etc, but not in nachos.
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:19 PM
1

The lower the confidence and self-esteem, the worse effect rejection will have on oneself. Many folk may say that it is better to take action and face rejection than it is to avoid rejection altogether. I disagree, this is not a pragmatic analysis. Although personally I have experienced a gradual, long-term erosion of confidence and self-esteem over many years - not correlated to feeble attempts at communicating with the opposite sex - but due to life in general, I still see a pretty steady marg…
/r/seduction11/04/20 06:12 PM
9

Reading this makes me think I'd rather have an average - below average girlfriend.
/r/seduction10/04/20 06:00 PM
1

Yeah I definitely have social anxiety - panic attack level shit. I need to be in a situation or environment where I feel I have an element of control - not over others, over myself and a sense of reason for being there. Being smothered by strangers and the unknown is dangerous for me. One factor for this may be that all my life I was missing out on the things that those around me were always getting. That's a sure starter for social isolation to kick in. I think I've just always had that kind of…
/r/seduction10/04/20 05:44 PM
1

The thing is that what a lot of people don't take into account when they philosophize over the confidence issue is that it's not something that only travels in one direction. If you are at a starting point of low to zero confidence you would be mistaken to think that it can only improve. We all have the common sense to know that we should strive to do everything to better ourselves but we cannot foresee our own experiences - experiences that could just as easily erode or destroy what morsels of …
/r/seduction10/04/20 05:26 PM
1

Unfortunately I own a Samsung, I don't have iPhone/iPad.
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:45 PM
5

I know they are. Never in my life has an attractive girl been interested, only the odd overweight desperate type. Good looking women are attracted to good looking men - yes there are outliers where special circumstances are at play but you only need to look at the world around you. An attractive looking woman would not be very hesitant getting together with an attractive looking guy - what happens after that is a whole different ball game, each party is then presented with an opportunity to shin…
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:26 PM
1

To change your attitude you need to change your beliefs and reality on a fundamental level. This can only come through acquiring enough new experiences to eradicate the old ones. You can't simply flip a switch.
/r/seduction29/03/20 12:44 AM
3

Sounds legit.
/r/seduction17/03/20 11:12 PM
1

12 is very young to get addicted to porn, but then again I suppose internet porn was pretty rife 8 years ago - it seems as though pornography is hitting a very young audience these days. I didn't see my first porn video until I was 19, though I'd been a compulsive fapper since the age of 14. The worst thing is though I never grew out of it and now I've been addicted to porn for 32 years. No doubt this has had an impact on my lack of success with finding a female partner in my life, though I'm su…
/r/seduction16/03/20 10:37 PM
1

12 is very young to get addicted to porn, but then again I suppose internet porn was pretty rife 8 years ago - it seems as though pornography is hitting a very young audience these days. I didn't see my first porn video until I was 19, though I'd been a compulsive fapper since the age of 14. The worst thing is though I never grew out of it and now I've been addicted to porn for 32 years. No doubt this has had an impact on my lack of success with finding a female partner in my life, though I'm su…
/r/seduction16/03/20 10:37 PM
-1

Insert 'recreational'.
/r/seduction16/03/20 05:01 PM
43

Like drugs it messes with your dopamine receptors. Doing away with short-term dopamine hits will help you enjoy the natural things in life for the long-term.
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:52 PM
1

r/NoFap
/r/seduction16/03/20 12:48 PM
1

Manwhore... lol.
/r/seduction13/03/20 04:45 PM
3

I was a broken human being, struggling with relatively simpler things in life than communicating with others. Still am.
/r/seduction03/03/20 12:39 PM
1

I was 37 when I first discovered advice related to attracting women but I was way too far gone by then. Though I did go through a spell around this period when I was picking up unsavoury drunk women while being drunk myself, but could never ever attain what I desired.
/r/seduction03/03/20 10:27 AM
1

It all depends on how disconnected/maladjusted you are. If you're a young guy you stand a lot better chance than say, a 51 year old guy.
/r/seduction02/03/20 10:29 AM
1

I don't hate the dating game, I'm just unable to participate so I'll never be able to understand it.
/r/seduction28/02/20 10:26 AM
9

This is the pua community in a nutshell, this is the way it's always been. This is Mystery, Tyler, Style, Mehow, Vince Kelvin, Richard La Ruina and all the other plebs. This is the sell. This is the cult.
/r/seduction27/02/20 10:27 AM
1

Did you read the body of text though? ... 'Women will magically appear on your doorstep'. ... ?
/r/seduction18/02/20 07:12 PM
1

An likely story.
/r/seduction17/02/20 10:23 AM
11

Do people actually do this in real life? I thought it was something that only happens in porn.
/r/seduction11/02/20 12:41 PM
0

Just ignore them... like you would in real life.
/r/seduction05/02/20 10:40 PM
3

You don't even have to be autistic. Simply being socially disconnected/ maladjusted is enough to not be able to progress.
/r/seduction04/02/20 10:27 AM
1

I think you've got the wrong end of the stick mate. I don't think there's many who would be 'anti-pickup'. The problem people have, and the problem I have are these so-called puas, the self-proclaimed pick-up gurus who charge people money to see their step-by-step process on how to meet, attract and date women. It's pure marketing - it is to social recreation what Amway is to making money and it is the stain of the pick-up community. And yes, RSD are probably the equivalent to Amway as the best …
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:55 PM
2

Did david d'angelo ever actually indulge in any practical pua? As far as I'm aware all he used to do was talk about it on stage, interview so-called puas and sell a shit load of dvds. I think he just studied pua theory and pretended he was a master.
/r/seduction30/01/20 10:00 PM
7

I dunno, he's probably also her drug supplier.
/r/MGTOW26/01/20 08:06 PM
3

RSD are like a little dictatorship. I used to listen to these guys and even bought some of their products about 14-15 years ago before I realized what a bunch of pseudoscience peddling charlatans they are. Here's a tip: If you want to create a successful life for yourself to the best of your abilities you are better off listening to the conversations on the Joe Rogan show. RSD are just a bunch of clowns who should not be taken seriously at all.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:35 PM
3

Before your post gets deleted for not including a body of text, I just want to say that as soon as I saw Vince Kelvin's face I did not press the play button. If you are going to listen to any self-proclaimed 'pick-up guru', do not listen to this freak.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:25 PM
1

I get ya. I'm 51, have a full head of hair though am a little out of shape as have not been to the gym for about 3 years, but am definitely falling apart at the seams as far as energy and motivation goes. Then again, I don't see that much difference now than I did 30 years ago - there's definitely something else going on that keeps me out of the dating pool whatever it is, and it's nothing to do with age.
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:17 PM
1

So do you mainly go for women in your own age group? Personally, as a 51 year old, I have absolutely no attraction for women in their late 40s - early 50s, even early 40s is really pushing it. I feel like I'm a 21 year old looking at women in this age group though that perhaps is down to my extremely limited experience with women and have always dreamed about what it would be like to be with a young attractive woman. I suppose if you've had past experience and some ltr experience your outlook wo…
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:09 PM
1

The prospect is only receptive when he/she either already desires the type of product the salesperson is pitching or realises that the product is actually a necessity in their life when it is presented to them. Of course, in marketing tricks, cons, ploys & scams come into play as the gullible make up quite a significant proportion of consumers. The difference is though that in pick up there are few if any gullible consumers as it is not an action plan of tricks, cons, ploys & scams. Though of co…
/r/seduction26/01/20 12:58 AM
1

Are you sure they're not just Dave Hill from Slade's fans?
/r/MGTOW24/01/20 12:44 PM
7

I'm not talking about success rate, I'm talking about the way they act - their attitude, body language & overall creepiness. In the videos I've seen these guys looked very awkward and out of their depth- and to think they are giving other guys advice and making money doing it. To put it purely and simply, these guys are charlatans.
/r/seduction24/01/20 10:29 AM
21

That was the final nail with me for this guy. It's like that erik von markovic guy, he comes across as all confident and experienced when talking in the camera to his audience but when he is put in the scenario that he pretends to be an expert of, he implodes.
/r/seduction23/01/20 09:53 PM
3

Generals gathered in their masses... just like witches at black masses... Evil minds that plot destruction... sorcerer of death's construction... To think for years I thought that Sabbath's 'Warpigs' was actually a song about war! 🤣
/r/MGTOW17/01/20 12:57 PM
-3

And then she turns around and says, "Fuck off I have a boyfriend" 😐
/r/seduction16/01/20 12:38 PM
1

51 in a few days.
/r/seduction15/01/20 08:18 PM
12

I have a history of fat & old single mothers. My sex life ended 11 years ago, I'm done mate.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:16 PM
26

harryoko
/r/MGTOW13/01/20 09:54 PM
1

And you'd have to be the kind of guy they'd be attracted to in the first place. If you're not, there's nothing you can do. Talking to a girl is merely a way to find out if you are that guy or not. If you're never getting any joy doing that then you're simply on the lowest rungs of the pre-selection ladder.
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:49 PM
1

Or more is the case they act as if you are not even there.
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:37 PM
1

Or if girls don't talk to you.
/r/seduction09/01/20 12:36 PM
1

If I wanted to meet a woman my own age I'm pretty sure I'd stand a reasonable chance with a dating app, but I don't.
/r/seduction08/01/20 03:10 PM
1

The bottom line is that your chances of meeting a girl that you are attracted to, and vice-versa, relate to how socially connected you are, i.e. your experience - notwithstanding your level of attractiveness in the natural selection pool. A lot of guys just miss out on this - physical/environmental factors dictate your path at an early age and there comes a point where you reach a certain age and you become a product of whatever path you're put on (you don't have a choice in the matter when you …
/r/seduction07/01/20 12:58 PM
1

First of all, there is no such thing as "out of your league." There absolutely is such thing. If there wasn't this sub would not exist as everyone would have the girl they wanted. So you think the problem is I'm an insignificant nobody with nothing to offer? That being the case, if a woman wants nothing to do with someone like me because my life is shit then by definition she is 'out of my league' and only a desperate, lonely & unattractive woman who would be willing to accept someone like me wo…
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:02 PM
1

Jeez, look at the mandible on that!
/r/MGTOW30/12/19 12:42 PM
2

Why could I hear my mother's voice when reading that? I was expecting to read 'then buy her a bunch of flowers' at the end.
/r/seduction28/12/19 11:42 AM
12

Oh master, oh holy eminence, I kneel before you and relinquish all my human flaws at your feet while I bask in the glorious golden light of your divine power...
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:21 PM
1

Nice to see I'm not the only one here who sees the number rating scale for the ridiculous stupidity it is. Many of them may be cunts, but women are still people - not chicken carcasses hanging up in a butcher's shop window.
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:13 PM
1

There's a temp worker at my organisation, she is about 50, short and dumpy with a puffy face - physically just not attractive at all. Though I cannot recall ever meeting someone so lovely, friendly chatty, GSOH, fun to be around, always happy and smiling. I wouldn't hesitate to date this woman - platonically. On the flip side, I see plenty of young, attractive, hot girls who walk around with faces like slapped arses (99% of the time I interpret it as 'don't you fucking dare even look at me let a…
/r/seduction26/12/19 12:00 PM
1

This is the grim reality. If you run 'good game' devoid of natural selection, at best you'll be perceived as a try-hard and at worst a pest.
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:51 PM
1

If he was Chinese his name would be Charlie Tan.
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:39 PM
0

If I thought that this was a serious post/question and I were to give a serious response, I would ask what kind of a woman would want or need to go out and pick up guys, but more to the point, would need advice on how to go about it? The only kind of woman I can think of is the kind of woman that never gets attention from men or is never noticed by men, i.e. physically unattractive or over the hill. Other than that women need only stand at a bar smelling nice and stirring their drinks with a str…
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:28 PM
1

So you think you are absolute shit because you don't get a constant stream of lays even though you do get lays. How do you think you'd feel about yourself if you haven't had a lay for 11 years? Or if you'd never had one at all?
/r/seduction23/12/19 10:10 PM
1

You do not necessarily need to 'love' yourself - just adopt self-respect and know that you have become someone that you have made, that you have developed yourself. I relate this more to Jordan Peterson's chapter 'Treat yourself like someone you are responsible for helping' in his book 12 Rules for Life.
/r/seduction22/12/19 03:05 PM
2

I find that footage highly disturbing. This has to be one of the most awkward and cringeworthy things I've ever seen. Here is a guy who has been around on the pick-up scene for a long time, worked with RSD and supposedly coaches hundreds of men. Those dozens of videos on YouTube where he talks into the camera like he knows exactly what he's talking about- acting all confident and assertive. Now I'm pretty sure he is well versed in seduction 'techniques' and I'm sure he has been practicing them f…
/r/seduction21/12/19 11:01 PM
4

Interesting, I'll be 51 in a few weeks but my sex-drive started to deteriorate when I hit 40.
/r/seduction19/12/19 01:44 AM
5

That screenshot concerns women playing hard to get, not men.
/r/seduction18/12/19 01:07 AM
1

I fapped consistently and obsessively between the age of 14 and 50.
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:07 PM
6

The UK is pretty naff when it comes to 'pick-up' anyway. The whole pu culture and community eminated from north America where not only do they have more and bigger cities but also have more and better quality women. Most towns and cities in the UK are sausagefests, though less so the further north you go but the women for the most part are just potatoes with an inch-thick of war paint on their faces - particularly in the north-east. The only thing with London is that it's a tourist hot-spot and …
/r/seduction15/12/19 09:04 PM
0

People actually responding seriously to this post. I do despair sometimes.
/r/seduction08/12/19 02:37 AM
4

Or to put it another way, don't attempt pick-up if you're unhappy. Meeting women is something you should only do if you're already happy in yourself. This is why unhappy, depressed guys and PMO addicts never succeed.
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:30 AM
15

What you have to realise is that many guys are not equipped for rejection/failure. In these circumstances it is better to avoid defeat. You have to build a foundation in which you are able to fight through your failures otherwise the more you get beat down the less you're going to get back up.
/r/seduction07/12/19 01:24 AM
2

What?
/r/seduction06/12/19 11:13 PM
1

If you feel you're not ready to try to meet women then you're not. Don't listen to guys who tell you that you're using your lack of confidence & low self esteem as an excuse not to do it because you're not. They don't know what you're feeling but you do. The low self esteem and other issues will not be overcome by going out and trying to meet women because your mind is not prepared for you to get shot down. You need to grow through other means, lay a foundation to your life which starts off as b…
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:34 PM
1

Simple answer to your header question: No.
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:18 PM
2

No one believes I'm 50 when I tell them, they think I'm pulling their leg and they all say I look like I'm in my 30's. But I suppose I've always looked younger than I am as I remember someone once saying they thought I looked 17 when I was actually 27! No benefits though I'm afraid.
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:08 PM
1

You do realise that a lot of people over a certain age have full time jobs don't you?
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:37 PM
0

Well I've been around long enough to recognize when people are making stuff up as they go along, and a self-proclaimed 'pua' is hardly going to make me consider any of that waffle as being legit.
/r/seduction04/12/19 05:35 PM
0

Wow, what utter BS.
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:52 AM
1

I bet you don't know anything about Coypus.
/r/seduction04/12/19 10:50 AM
7

Douchey turd-nugget is the correct definition.
/r/seduction04/12/19 08:04 AM
1

I think they eat dogs too. Or is it cats?
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:11 PM
1

This is wrong. You can't make comparisons with things like learning karate, playing guitar or some other learned skill or art - because that's not what seduction is. And I am not even talking about making comparisons between dealing with one's own body, inanimate objects and someone else's free will here, although these factors do bear a significant relevance. Seduction is natural - not that much of a different process in human society to what it is in the animal kingdom with natural selection t…
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:09 PM
2

Forget about those clowns. Check out Casey Zander on YouTube - he's the real deal and his videos will give you the right signposts for your life from start to finish. I followed RSD for years, took a bootcamp and bought several products. What they never told me was that I wasn't ready to be trying to pick-up women. If you're not ready for it, i.e. you don't have certain fundamental aspects of your life sorted, following the advice of those such as RSD could potentially do you more harm than good…
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:48 PM
1

Well if she knows she's hot and knows you're checking her out she could well be toying with you. Women who know they're hot are extremely powerful and can be very good at playing games.
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:26 PM
1

Charlie Tan.
/r/seduction03/12/19 04:21 PM
2

Correct.
/r/seduction01/12/19 03:01 PM
7

Or clean your room. I've been in that hole for many years and I've been trying to take Jordan Peterson's advice for almost 2 years. I'm still struggling to clean my room. What makes it even harder though is that it's not just a room - it's a whole fucking house.
/r/seduction30/11/19 08:40 PM
1

This girl will end up being the perfect partner for someone. For many guys a girl's looks will be secondary - yes, innately a man is initially attracted to a woman's physical beauty, but we are all individuals and all have our subjective preferences. Guys in the pick-up community on top of natural players who go around 'banging hot chicks' make up a very small and exclusive percentage of the male population.
/r/seduction30/11/19 01:16 PM
8

The only kind of girl a man ever needs. The only girl in a man's life (other than perhaps his mother) that will give him unconditional love.
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 06:00 PM
4

What about Fuglyphobia?
/r/MGTOW29/11/19 05:58 AM
1

I wasn't jacked - I'd developed a reasonable chest and shoulders but could never get rid of my fat gut. Going to the gym and keeping in shape didn't make any difference to my confidence or mood, neither did it help me sleep. Never understood why people go on about working out being good for your mind.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:45 PM
1

Not any more. I used to go to the gym regularly for about 20 years.
/r/seduction28/11/19 09:24 PM
1

The outliers here are the ugly rockstars. Take Lemmy for example, ugly as fuck but shagged loads of women.
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:09 PM
9

There's this thing from the pick-up community called an IOI which means Indicator Of Interest. It's basically a sign from a woman to a man that she would be ok with him approaching her and for him to not have to worry about getting a harsh rejection. Though it's never happened to me personally I guess if I went out somewhere and a woman looked me in the eye and smiled I would take that as being, not necessarily a flat out invitation, but a show of trust and openness that would make it ok to go a…
/r/seduction28/11/19 06:03 PM
1

Sounds like you're in the top 5%. A lot of what you talk about are unrealistic expectations for most of us.
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:38 PM
4

The mods will be here soon...
/r/seduction27/11/19 10:46 AM
3

Wow. Ok, as from tomorrow I'm going to be a excellent person. Watch this space...
/r/seduction26/11/19 07:29 PM
1

No. White girls certainly prefer black dudes anyway.
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:03 PM
9

I did an RSD bootcamp back in 2006. Worst mistake I ever made - it actually had the opposite effect on me than what it was supposed to, and I've been fucked ever since. At least before that I would 'get lucky' once in a while. This shit made me believe it was impossible for me to ever meet a woman I was attracted to. Completely destroyed my confidence. Yeah, total shitshow there too and I had that Jeffy guy who was a total prick TBH. Though I wouldn't trust any self proclaimed 'pick-up coach's a…
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:00 PM
1

This guy gets it.
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:49 PM
1

A pragmatic post and one that is difficult to disagree with, however - The title is wrong. For example there is one thing that you have failed to take into consideration... Inceldom. For me, the real reason is simple... I'm just not fuckable.
/r/seduction26/11/19 04:43 PM
0

What's the matter with 1s, 2s, 3s, 4s, 5s & 6s?
/r/seduction26/11/19 01:18 AM
10

Ooh naughty, no wall of text...
/r/seduction26/11/19 01:13 AM
0

I hope that in your new role as a 'moderation' you will be better able to read the posts you want to moderate than you are able to write posts.
/r/seduction26/11/19 01:11 AM
2

I couldn't even begin to imagine going out and not drinking. I'd be much better off staying at home.
/r/seduction23/11/19 08:29 PM
0

As much as I'm all for PMO abstinence, the problem with your analogy is that trying to make it back to civilisation after a plane crash is about survival where as trying to successfully interact with women is not. Attracting beautiful women is merely one of life's luxuries as not many men are able to do so, in the same sense that not many men live the kind of lavish lifestyle you mentioned above. These things are not in our instinct but are merely rewards of a life we did not live, whereas the i…
/r/seduction23/11/19 11:03 AM
1

4 days without water? Hmm. During your time alone in the woods did you look up at the stars, notice their abundance but also recognize that you could only look at them but not reach out and touch them or speak to them so that they could hear you? Stars= Women.
/r/seduction22/11/19 10:20 PM
113

What about... you don't have social skills because you don't leave your house, and you don't leave your house because you're ugly?
/r/seduction22/11/19 03:22 PM
6

You can only have an 'abundance mentality' if you actually experience abundance. Change my mind.
/r/seduction22/11/19 02:52 PM
3

Weeks 1-10: Stop masturbating.
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:13 PM
1

I want to marry 9:18, she drinks pints.
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:27 PM
3

I never did work out what the sidebar actually is.
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:12 PM
2

You definitely do not want to be 'that guy'. I'm guessing here, but I always thought the idea of spam approaching was solely for the nite klubs or the street, places where you are likely to come across different people every time. When you are in school or the workplace, since you are likely to be there for some years the only way is to be social with people and build relationships over a period of time. It very well may turn out that that those 2 hot chicks you saw on your first day could turn …
/r/seduction20/11/19 12:26 AM
1

I misread the title...
/r/seduction19/11/19 09:44 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction19/11/19 09:42 PM
1

Of course they are not all the same, but if I told you I'd met a beautiful, awesome woman are you going to ask me, "Well, is she an 8, 9, or 10?" I'd be like what the fuck dude, for all I know she could be a 6 on your number scale - to me she could be a stunner and awesome to be around but a little too short or chubby for your liking. It's ridiculous and somewhat comical - sometimes I don't know whether to frown upon or laugh at such nonsense. Whether you are sharing advice or anecdotes when it …
/r/seduction19/11/19 09:29 AM
1

I'm sorry to have to play Devil's Advocate here but if your above post was used as evidence in court it wouldn't look very good for you. The only time you indicated having put up any kind of resistance was when you told him that 'he couldn't do that to you because you were her friend' - and that was when you said that "WE kissed"... Not once did you ever mention that you said the word 'no'. I hate to say it but your story is typical of why rape claims get thrown out of court.
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:11 PM
1

Do you prefer letters instead (A, B, C) like meat (i.e. Grade A beef)... ?? Meat, graded with letters. What do you do with meat eh? Chop it, pound it, tenderize it, cook it and eat it? Do you and your ilk see women as 'meat socks' where instead of letter grading you give them a number? You: "I met an 8.5"... Me: "Wow really? She must be really hot and obviously my type then..." Yeah mate, it really works like that doesn't it. I remember dudes posting pics of girls on the old RSD forum claiming t…
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:36 PM
19

I did this when I was in my late 30's with a barmaid at the pub. I was drunk and sat down next to her at a table after she'd finished her shift - I mean she wasn't attractive, about 40ish and chubby, but I literally just blurted out to her, "I'm going to take you home and fuck you tonight"... She simply replied, "Oh are you now?" Suffice to say I went with her to her house that night as she lived 2 mins from the pub, didn't fuck her but got an incredible bj - she sucked me dry and she became my …
/r/seduction18/11/19 07:00 PM
2

A planet where attractiveness is subjective.
/r/seduction18/11/19 06:38 PM
5

If you refer to women as 6,7,8 and 9's, your head has been messed up by the pick-up community. I think if you drop the cultist mentality, set and follow your own goals, you wouldn't be raising these questions. You've been given a bar to compare yourself to others and ironically it is those who have put that shit in your head that are the same people who vilify 'social conditioning'. Go figure.
/r/seduction18/11/19 05:38 PM
1

Thanks. Now I'm sitting here masturbating over pics of Bollywood actresses, that's another 6 real women I'll never have.
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:55 AM
6

Here's the thing, when I first discovered the pua/seduction community one of the first things I did was book on an RSD bootcamp. There was something that did not feel right about this experience, I had serious reservations about what they were trying to teach us to do and suffice to say I did not take it home with me. If I was going out into society with the intent of meeting women I would never, ever 'cold approach'. If I had enough confidence in myself and what I may be able to achieve I would…
/r/seduction17/11/19 04:27 AM
1

I kinda wish I knew why I always repelled women. I've always seen myself as ugly though not in a deformed way, and never had any dress sense or style but used to go to the gym regularly and kept myself in good shape as well as hygienic. Even today I still have a full head of hair with no sign of baldness - my height and my hair have certainly never been an advantage to me. I just think it's simply down to having an unattractive face that has caused women to stay out of my way.
/r/seduction17/11/19 04:01 AM
1

Pretending I'm trying to shake worms out of my pants.
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:23 PM
1

I think this only happens in the workplace. In my experience it does anyway.
/r/seduction16/11/19 07:19 PM
8

Those posts make sense but the problem is that not every 7 year old kid in the playground are able to connect with girls. Many young boys of that age are ignored and ostracized by girls and this is an essential stage of a human's developmental process, and these experiences can stay with you for life. If someone is 'going back' to a stage of their childhood where connecting with girls was normal, what the hell happened in between then and now where guys are trying to learn stuff that they suppos…
/r/seduction15/11/19 07:54 PM
1

There are obviously varying degrees of fear amongst guys when it comes to women. Being terrified sounds somewhat extreme, even to me, but the most common thing you hear amongst pua/seduction guys is this thing called 'approach anxiety'. But regardless of where one might be on the fear scale, it all really boils down to one common denominator- and that is the fundamental reason why the pua/seduction community exists... because when it comes to the dating market, women have the power over men. It …
/r/seduction15/11/19 01:05 AM
1

From the horse's mouth... Take heed all you budding Owen Cooks and Erik Von Markoviks.
/r/seduction14/11/19 04:12 PM
2

Sounds like you ran into someone who knows about the pick-up community. If people learn stuff through the pu community then great, but don't be 'one of those guys from the pu community'. I don't care if I'm normal or abnormal but I'd never be one of those guys.
/r/seduction13/11/19 06:41 PM
18

My triangular gaze is normally tit, tit, fanny...
/r/seduction13/11/19 04:11 PM
2

I am praying for you to hold out that long. Fuck porn!
/r/seduction12/11/19 08:37 PM
4

In about 4 hours from now it will be 9 days for me also.
/r/seduction12/11/19 04:13 PM
3

Nice honest post. Thanks.
/r/seduction11/11/19 04:10 PM
3

The 'Chad' type guy you are referring to has always been that way. Social skills became second nature to him during his developmental years growing up and the idea of not being able to meet and connect with women would be a strange concept to him. Your idea of improving your chances by throwing yourself into such an unfamiliar world may only help a very few who are young and fresh enough to be able to discover a new reality.
/r/seduction11/11/19 12:00 AM
1

Shows how out of touch I am - don't understand any of this jargon.
/r/seduction10/11/19 04:11 PM
1

My 20s were shit for me too, as were my 40s. It was only in my late 30s I could go out, get drunk and find a drunk single mother who was willing to have sex. That all ended as soon as I hit 40.
/r/seduction10/11/19 04:07 PM
1

I'm going to be completely honest with you. I've reached a point in my life where I do not care about having sex and have no interest in having a partner. I haven't had any intimate contact for just over 11 years now - what I mean is not even a kiss, I've only had the odd hug with some work colleagues who I have a good bond with. Because it's been so long, the lack of intimacy has become normalised and ingrained into my psyche. My suffering is simply my inability to find sex and relationships if…
/r/seduction10/11/19 01:01 PM
1

Of all the guys that go through the pick-up meat grinder, only a very few of them succeed. Most guys who find meeting and dating women in their lives elusive will mostly stay that way. Organisations such as RSD have known this for the longest time but have still continued to mug these poor guys of their hard-earned money. Most guys who turn to this community are disenfranchised and have lacked the skills and experience throughout their more developmental years which would have brought them in li…
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:36 PM
2

Scamway?
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:11 PM
4

Oh de toilet.
/r/seduction10/11/19 12:08 PM
3

I'm glad someone else gets it.
/r/seduction09/11/19 06:01 PM
1

Lol.
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:55 PM
5

What if you have no legs?
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:34 AM
1

The ads might be because they have a warehouse full of there old pua products and they still need to sell them.
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:20 AM
1

The only thing a cold shower does for me is wake me up in the morning. That's it.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:40 PM
1

There is no 'secret' involved. It is simply down to where one is on the pre-selection scale.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:35 PM
3

I wouldn't know, but here's a little food for thought: You have these ridiculously loud nite klubs, with ridiculously cheesy music which people 'dance' to... (more like people looking like they're trying to shake worms out of their pants), and they're doing it solo... so what else do you do in order to 'hook up'? Back in the day, way before all this nite klub rubbish, dancing at a club consisted of a guy & girl dancing together. A guy would ask a girl to dance and if she said yes then they would…
/r/seduction05/11/19 06:06 PM
1

I want to live my life the best I can within my limits. I recognize my strengths and weaknesses and use that as a basis to work around. I also recognize that trying to reach beyond my limitations can only have a negative outcome instead of a positive one. If I end up in a situation where I'm lying on my death bed and contemplating my life I would never think that I wish I could go back and do things different so that my life would have turned out better - I would just accept it as fate.
/r/seduction05/11/19 05:48 PM
1

I was 37 when I discovered 'pick-up' but was never able to break out of the conviction that it was impossible for me achieve.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:54 PM
25

By the time I reached 40 it just became even more obvious that none of that shit matters because once you're dead everything including regret ceases to exist. So worring about your last dying minutes is pretty irrelevant in the grand scheme of things - your actions & inactions are only relevant to the moment. If you're confident enough to speak to a girl and think you'll be better off for doing so, you're right. If you're too anxious to speak to a girl and think you'll be better off not doing so…
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:43 PM
3

I'm a guy who's shy and doesn't out much, but when I do I can easily get a beer. The time it takes me to wait at the bar before I get served is about the same amount of time it would take you to meet a guy. The time it takes me to finish my beer is about the same amount of time it would take you to go home with a guy and get laid.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:24 PM
4

What RSD is to learning how to pick up women is like what Amway is to learning how to start your own business.
/r/seduction02/11/19 05:25 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction02/11/19 10:10 AM
1

This depends on your disposition. For some it can have the opposite effect and lead them on to a path of despair where they will end up losing hope and give up altogether.
/r/seduction02/11/19 10:09 AM
2

I'm unconvinced of this concept. I don't think it applies to everyone.
/r/seduction02/11/19 09:59 AM
4

It's bullshit. The attractiveness of a woman is purely subjective but this ridiculous number rating assumes it is objective. I remember people posting pics of so-called '10s' on rsdnation and thinking that most of them looked like trannies. These type of women all look the same to me, like clones churned out from a factory and they aren't even on my radar. The most attractive for me are the more quaint looking girls i.e. a younger Kirsten Dunst and Max & Nancy from Stranger Things.
/r/seduction02/11/19 09:49 AM
0

That doesn't mean anything because if you say the 7 billion world population is 50/50 man/woman, then we are still in a 50/50 society in whatever city, town, village or hamlet we live in, and the reason we are in this sreddit is because we discovered that we are the 1% of our society who couldn't meet women because the other 99% are all dating each other or engaged or married.
/r/seduction01/11/19 09:37 PM
0

Ugly Old Socially anxious Socially inept Depressed Irritable Insecure... To put it simply, just broken.
/r/seduction01/11/19 09:26 PM
2

Most members of my family & relations and their friends have often asked me if I'm gay because they've never known me to be with a woman. To them it's not normal for a heterosexual guy to not meet a women, it's something that should occur naturally. I was quizzed during the summer when I visited my father and stepmother and they invited some of their friends around for a bbq. I simply said that I live a solitary life and don't need anyone around. Someone said 'well you must watch porn then.' Tho…
/r/seduction01/11/19 08:46 PM
1

You're not the only one.
/r/seduction01/11/19 02:04 PM
5

26, she's hit the wall anyway.
/r/MGTOW22/10/19 11:54 AM
1

Oh, ok. It seems quite pointless though, he must be extremely bored to do that.
/r/seduction21/10/19 09:29 PM
1

Well it seemed like a genuine question.
/r/seduction21/10/19 02:04 PM
1

I don't do Tinder but if I did and got 1 match in 6 months I would probably start to believe that not all hope is lost.
/r/seduction20/10/19 09:33 PM
1

and is widely known as a party you're guaranteed to hook up at. No one is guaranteed to hook up anywhere. Unless you're the kind of guy that can have sex with 2 girls in one night.
/r/seduction19/10/19 11:54 AM
5

If you can get that with a woman then good luck. As far as I'm concerned you can only get that with a Dog.
/r/seduction10/10/19 10:12 PM
2

You say you picked up lots of girls but have hit a roadblock. You probably just need a few tweaks here and there. I can't give you any advice but you sound like the kind of guy that the seduction community can help.
/r/seduction10/10/19 10:07 PM
1

Your experiences determine whether or not you are good enough. It's nothing to with 'limited beliefs'. Your judgement is an assessment of the feedback you receive from life's experiences. If you are having negative experiences and negative feedback you can't 'pretend' that things are different by adopting a 'positive mindset'. This is the kind of shitty advice that the pua community peddles.
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:30 AM
1

This thing called 'game', whatever it is, I don't know what it looks like but I'm of the understanding that it is the pua way of describing a method of getting dates with women. But most of the guys in the world who know this method, skill or whatever you'd like to call it know it as a product of their environment, ie it is natural for them and they already have access to the best women. As for guys who go to the pua community in order to try to change their way of life from being out of the dat…
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:30 AM
0

It couldn't have been tyler who said that as he is a socially retarded buffoon himself.
/r/seduction05/10/19 06:49 AM
1

Yeah I believe that happens for women, but for men - not a chance in hell.
/r/seduction04/10/19 11:58 AM
1

I could find a partner tomorrow, easy. She'll be 45-50, unattractive, overweight and will have 2-3 teenage kids. But that's not what I want. If I'd want a partner I'd want her to be young and attractive, and everything the opposite of the one I don't want, but that's not easy. Not just not easy, but it just won't ever happen.
/r/seduction03/10/19 09:39 AM
2

This is an incorrect generalization. The last time I ever had intimate contact with a woman was when I was 39. I am now 50. The type of guy you are describing is an outlier, assuming he is unmarried, as a single guy of this nature is extremely rare. In most cases, a single guy between 40-50 could meet a woman of similar age where it is more than likely that both parties have come out of marriages or LTR's and children would be involved.
/r/seduction02/10/19 10:29 PM
12

They are all under 25, not over.
/r/seduction02/10/19 07:42 PM
182

And all those women refuse to date men who are not rich/famous.
/r/seduction02/10/19 07:40 PM
1

Totally.
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:53 AM
2

Yup. Only difference is that I'm 20 years older, not in great shape as I lost motivation to work out.
/r/seduction02/10/19 11:44 AM
2

Some people are screwed. You can be 30 years old, own your own house, have a secure job, go to the gym regularly, be in fairly decent shape and still be screwed. I know this because I was that guy.
/r/seduction02/10/19 09:29 AM
1

I wasn't aware of that but on the flip side of your argument you have many older guys who have accumulated much more negative experiences when it comes to dating. This means that they have a picture deeply ingrained into their minds which makes dating so much harder for them than younger guys starting out.
/r/seduction29/09/19 08:21 PM
1

Well the meme is so ridiculous that I couldn't help myself injecting a bit of sarcasm. It's a bit like, "Wow thanks, you've just answered all my problems!"
/r/seduction28/09/19 08:01 PM
1

Cool, I'll stick with gta5 then.
/r/seduction28/09/19 03:08 PM
1

🤣
/r/seduction28/09/19 03:04 PM
1

It would be abnormal for me if I was in the mood.
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:54 PM
1

Are there any books, seminars or bootcamps that can teach me how to put the video games down?
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:48 PM
1

In the state of mind that you are in, and the state of being that you are in, it is not merely women who are rejecting you - the universe is rejecting you. You are not at the centre of life. You are are at the edge, on the periphery, because the magnetic force at the centre is not pulling you in as you have nothing for it to grab onto and pull in so you are pushed out, repelled by it's reverse magnetic force. The things you want are there at the centre, the things you desire - including women. B…
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:46 PM
1

Never used it.
/r/seduction28/09/19 02:30 PM
1

I don't get it.
/r/MGTOW27/09/19 04:15 PM
3

Therapy is supposed to be useful for helping someone get their life in order. More than likely this is what he needs. Hell, I need it myself and would most certainly try it out if I wasn't working.
/r/seduction27/09/19 03:54 PM
2

It's not just younger guys that are in this situation.
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:40 AM
1

I'll be short and to the point... women can't help you.
/r/seduction27/09/19 06:38 AM
1

I've thought about paying for one myself as it's the only way I'm going to get laid but I lost interest as I became depressed over the whole idea of meeting women.
/r/seduction27/09/19 05:14 AM
1

I passed my driving test 31 years ago. Most of the time I'm not even conscious that I'm driving - it's not just the controls that are 2nd nature but the awareness and constant risk assessing seem to happen on a subconscious level. On the other hand, for my friend's wife driving a car is a massive nightmare for her. She has been taking lessons for god knows how many years and failed both her theory and practical on several occasions and her confidence is shot to pieces. Why? Perhaps if I had gone…
/r/seduction23/09/19 09:15 PM
1

Who's grandma is that?
/r/seduction20/09/19 11:00 PM
1

'Does it work?' is a bit of an ambiguous question. What is the expectation? A response? A conversation? A free drink? A free blowjob? One thing is for sure, if you are seeking rejection it is guaranteed to work at some point.
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:55 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction20/09/19 10:28 PM
1

I think abundance mentality is one of those buzzwords used in the dating and seduction community and it sorta doesn’t serve a purpose especially when it’s so vague and not clearly defined. You can’t attract people unless you have abundance and you can’t create abundance unless you attract people. Don’t make no sense. Yeah I've always frowned upon this too. I was often told that my problem was I had a 'scarcity mentality' and that I needed an 'abundance mentality' in order to succeed. So like I j…
/r/seduction17/09/19 08:55 PM
1

Yes, you are probably right.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:14 PM
0

Well I'm glad they don't. What, do think I should've taken my chance with an undesirable woman? Believe me I've had plenty of opportunities for that over my lifetime and regrettably, under the influence of heavy alcohol consumption I've had the displeasure on several occasions. Yeah ok, women never approach me because a desperate woman once did over 20 years ago and I wasn't interested. Makes so much sense.
/r/seduction13/09/19 11:06 PM
15

It's 1,000,000x easier for girls to do this, only 99% they don't because it's not their duty to. This happened to me once in my life, over 20 years ago, but she was ugly and annoying.
/r/seduction13/09/19 06:12 AM
2

How's 11 for ya?
/r/seduction12/09/19 09:59 PM
1

That's a very good point but I wasn't thinking of the lowlife kind of loser, I was thinking more of the morally decent kind of guy who falls short of getting the best out of life.
/r/seduction10/09/19 07:14 PM
2

This is quite believable compared to some of the advice out there though I think this concept is quite commonly accepted now, and I always bemoan the fact that I wished I'd known and understood all this in my early 20's.
/r/seduction08/09/19 04:23 PM
1

Yeah you're right.
/r/seduction08/09/19 04:19 PM
1

I've always believed that if a man is unable to find a woman then in some way and to some extent he is fundamentally flawed as a man. By the same reckoning a loser is also someone who is in some way and to some extent fundamentally flawed. Yet there are many losers who have no problem finding girls. And I'm pretty damn sure that there is a fair share of men that live the kind of lifestyle you have described who struggle to find girls. My point is that at the end of the day people just have a div…
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:36 PM
2

Exactly. Nailed it.
/r/seduction07/09/19 10:22 PM
2

What if you're boring but not a nice guy? I mean I'm boring but I just take the piss out people most of the time. Actually, I already know the answer to that. It's no different.
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:17 PM
4

First of all, I can't remember exactly what the ratio is but the consensus that the top 80% of women go for the top 5% of men (or whatever) explains your situation. Secondly, your experience is non-relatable to guys who are well into their adulthood with little to no experience with women. You are merely a product of your environment, as is everyone else.
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:36 AM
1

Height doesn't matter at all. Of all the 'qualities' needed to be in the dating pool, height must be rock-bottom of the list. I've seen enough evidence in my lifetime to know this to be true and I have absolutely no idea why the topic of height is such an issue in the pu community.
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:28 AM
9

No I'm discouraged knowing I'm 6ft tall and a depressed, anxious mess who doesn't have any of the other 99 attributes necessary to be in the dating pool.
/r/seduction06/09/19 06:23 AM
1

I'd advise against it, they are all charlatans.
/r/seduction01/09/19 05:32 AM
1

The Bullshit Broadcasting Corporation... I won't even go there.
/r/seduction25/08/19 11:20 AM
10

Nice. I think even just stopping for a few seconds in the street, making a compliment and getting a positive reaction sounds like a good thing if you're taking baby steps. I suppose if some guys do this often enough they could build enough confidence to take things a little further.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:21 PM
2

Overzealous deepthroating perhaps?
/r/MGTOW24/08/19 12:21 PM
3

Has your account been hacked by one of those incels from r/IncelTears?
/r/MGTOW24/08/19 10:01 AM
1

Help and advice is always appreciated and I don't want to sound like I'm undermining your knowledge, but there's just no way I could ever be that Jack Russell.
/r/seduction24/08/19 04:17 AM
1

Yep, and likely never will in my entire life. My only hope is that I don't fuck things up if I ever hsppen to meet a girl by chance.
/r/seduction24/08/19 04:13 AM
1

Good for you mate. As long as you're happy in your little bubble.
/r/seduction23/08/19 05:55 PM
1

It's a vicious circle I know. It's kind of like the chicken and the egg thing I suppose. I think this is one of the main reasons why attracting girls is probabably one of the hardest things in the world to a lot of guys. I believe it's one of those things where fucking up has the most dire consequences, at least on a personal level anyway. I also believe that luck plays a huge part too. I've been following the pu community for about 15 years now and have still not found a reason why 'I' should g…
/r/seduction23/08/19 03:03 PM
1

Difference is the fairness of the judgment and also the implications. Twice I spoke about judgement. I thought this had already been covered. Judgement doesn't play a part in natural attraction - one can break down the reasons why you are or are not attracted, it has nothing to do with judgement. The conversation started with a guy saying he's not attracted to BLACK women. That's the entire point of this conversation. Again, this has already been covered. "I'm not attracted to BLACK women" is an…
/r/seduction23/08/19 02:52 PM
1

I'm the stray dog. Always have been, always will be.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:46 PM
1

The things you mentioned that you are confident about are because of positive experience. You haven't had positive experience with girls.
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:37 PM
1

What difference does it make that fat women can change their weight (not all can) but black women can't change their skin colour when it comes to attraction? - note: never once in my 'novel' did I make a reference to 'skin colour' as part of my point (using the word 'black' is merely an observation - before you try to twist that one too), never did I remotely reference that my lack of attraction was to do with skin colour - what difference does it make in regards to being attracted to a woman? W…
/r/seduction23/08/19 01:30 PM
2

Increase the frequency of masturbation?
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:49 AM
1

Counterpoints? Are you pretending to be comical as well as pretending to be intellectual? Your so-called 'counterpoints' were nothing nothing more than hypothetical musings based on your twisted logic.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:48 AM
1

You've just taken what I've written, twisted it with your 'I find racism in everything' mindset and tried to convince yourself - note, yourself not anyone else - that you know what racism means when you clearly do not. You've just confirmed what I said about being stuck in an unfortunate mindset with no possible way out - thanks for clearing that up. But you be my guest and carry on with your cry racism pathetic existence - as long as it doesn't involve me.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:24 AM
1

No, your first paragraph is my definition of your logic, not my argument. So am I biologically averse to overweight/obese women or am I socially conditioned to not be attracted to them? As far as I can remember I've always found them (physically) unattractive yet I've never judged them inherently as human beings. Does this make me an ...ist or a ...phobic in any way? I don't think so. If a man spends the first 30 years of his life as a heterosexual then starts to become attracted to men, is this…
/r/seduction23/08/19 10:52 AM
1

How dumb can you be, seriously? It was laid out right of the bat - your incorrect usage of the word racist. But I'm assuming that you have already conceded your error as you have made no attempt to defend your corner on the matter. I had your card marked immediately sunshine, you can can carry on with your irrelevant responses as much as you wish, makes no odds to me.
/r/seduction22/08/19 07:27 PM
2

Man who stick dick in dessert is fucking dis custard.
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:39 PM
1

Personal preference has got nothing to do with racism, stop making such ridiculous assumptions. I'm not attracted to transgender women, does that make me transphobic? Outlandish.
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:35 PM
1

We'll have to agree to disagree on this. I've seen enough evidence within certain areas of my life, throughout my lifetime, to know what is and what is not personally achievable. 'Beliefs' and 'self-fulfilling prophecies' are irrelevant and don't even come into it. You are dealt a hand and you have the capacity to maximize the hand you are dealt but that doesn't give you a ticket to get what you want or what others may have acquired, no matter how much you put into it. I appreciate motivational …
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:32 PM
1

Sounds to me like you've been called out and you know it. And you seem to think it funny to incorrectly place labels on people using nouns you know not the meaning of. It's a pretty serious accusation calling people racist when true racism is not something to be scoffed at. I'm only glad that I was not the subject of your ridiculous, ill-informed spat.
/r/seduction22/08/19 04:20 PM
1

Well unfortunately I don't think there's any kind of conversion therapy available for idiots who think that not being attracted to black women is 'racist'.
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:56 AM
1

Single mums are the most unattractive women on the planet. I don't even need to see them or hear them, I merely need to know that they are single and have kids.
/r/MGTOW22/08/19 10:38 AM
2

It's impossible to say since I have no idea if it's you messaging in grey or yellow.
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:34 AM
1

Basically when I was 36 I received a message from a friend that a particular girl - blonde, attractive and only 20 was interested in going on a date with me. Needless to say I was pretty shocked as this was highly unusual as I never even imagined I could get a date with any girl, but I also saw it as a once in a lifetime opportunity. I met this girl for a drink and I thought everything was going really well since she had her tongue down my throat most of the evening, but after parting ways and h…
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:29 AM
1

Oh I do. And one is that according to your logic if you don't find gay men attractive you are homophobic.
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:07 AM
3

Yes, it can open up a can of worms. I learned a hell of alot from delving into the pu community, mostly about my self and my place in the social world. It kind of unleashed so many unrealistic expectations and in doing so created a larger barrier between myself and and any chances of success with women. The funny thing is that I'd been with about 20 different women before this happened, albeit over the space of 20 years so not many by the average man's standards, but then I felt like I'd been be…
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:58 PM
1

Sorry, but your race card has been declined. Please choose another method of argument.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:52 PM
1

That's more like it.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:47 PM
1

Pick up artistry.
/r/seduction21/08/19 08:25 PM
1

Confidence and positive experience. Things I've never had through a lifetime of rejection. Not just by women but by life. It comes down to the hand you've been dealt.
/r/seduction21/08/19 07:02 PM
2

This is what every single guy who can't interact with girls thinks. This is the fundamental reason why guys seek out help with seduction/pua. This sub, rsd and all the other shenanigans would not exist if thousands, possibly millions of guys didn't ask themselves this very question. I've been asking the same question all my life, and even still now asking the same question since I first discovered pua 15 years ago. Why the fuck would a girl want me to approach her? Especially if the girl is attr…
/r/seduction21/08/19 05:16 PM
1

In other words you want to create a fake persona?
/r/seduction21/08/19 11:09 AM
3

Because they got what they wanted. Attention. When they go cold they will be seeking attention from the next mug.
/r/seduction21/08/19 10:59 AM
1

Many times when I was young and naive. They all turned out to be what we refer to here in the UK as 'prick-teasers'. Nowadays I don't pay any attention to women's behaviour. What people call 'signals', 'body language' and 'sub-communication' means absolutely nothing to me. I'd only ever know a woman's intentions if they were made clear verbally.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:57 PM
1

Depends if you make it your number one priority in life or not. There are many other things that can fill the void of a loveless/sexless existence, things that are anxiety-free. If you are trying to overcome social anxiety during the free time you have between work and other important shit then you can do away with number 11.
/r/seduction20/08/19 07:46 PM
5

I used to play bass in a band in the early 90's, a shitty band that didn't attract an audience except when we were supporting or playing an all-dayer / all-nighter. I used to more or less stand in the background focusing on my playing so didn't have the capacity to 'pose'. One time after we'd finished playing, this girl came up to me and told me she wanted to fuck me. But being the social leper that I was (and still am) I didn't know how to follow up on this invitation. It was a bit of a shock t…
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:15 PM
1

"My grandmother pushed me to talk to girls just like RSD tyler, but I was too shy to actually do it. If I pay Tyler $3 grand, I'll be in the same place." If this Sub had it's own signature, this should be it.
/r/seduction20/08/19 02:37 PM
1

At 50 there's not a lot I can do with my skin. I cold shower every day but the only benefit I get from that is that it wakes me up for a couple of hours until I get to work. I've still got an old man's face.
/r/seduction20/08/19 02:26 PM
2

Being in a band and playing gigs. Comic con if you're into nerdy stuff.
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:03 PM
3

Put yourself in her shoes. If she invited you to one of her family's weddings or funerals what would you do? On a personal note, I'd be happy to take a first date or an escort to a family do because my family think I'm gay as they've never known me to be with a girl.
/r/seduction20/08/19 12:59 PM
1

I've been racking my brain trying to think of the phrase that describes the 'problem' you are experiencing. It's a phrase used in football commentary (proper football, UK) when they are talking about a manager with too many top quality fit players in the squad to choose from so he has a big dilemma in picking the team. It'll come to me later.
/r/seduction20/08/19 12:27 PM
1

Stopped reading after she said 'this cute guy'...
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:50 AM
1

I'm neither ashamed to admit to myself or others that I'd like to fuck hot women, or ashamed to admit that it never has nor ever will happen.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:11 AM
1

Sorry love, only into girls with bodies like Kali Roses.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:08 AM
1

That's not a question to ask others, only yourself. Other's opinions won't change diddlysquat. Only you can reflect on your own being and decide whether you can happily live your life in a loveless, sexless existence or spend the rest of your life wallowing in self-pity. At the end of the day the pursuit of women, sex and relationships is merely one of many avenues in the pursuit of a dopamine hit. You can achieve dopamine hits in many different ways.
/r/seduction20/08/19 11:03 AM
1

They are purely a business. They have a product and a target market and a huge supply & demand. The twist is that they make a fortune even though very few of their target market end up with anything to show for their 'investment'.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:51 AM
3

Yes you are right.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:46 AM
1

I'm only 6ft tall which is pretty much irrelevant really. Only once in my 50 years did a girl ever comment on my height, a girl at our mutual friend's 18th birthday party tried to smooch with me on the dancefloor and said, "You're too tall", but then again she was only about 5.3. But I'm afraid that I have to contest that height is completely irrelevant when it comes to attracting women. I've seen tons of short guys with stunners taller than them and I get nothing, not even a fatty.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:44 AM
10

This post is directed at women so I find it pretty much irrelevant.
/r/seduction20/08/19 10:35 AM
1

Because they understand the male/female dynamic naturally - i.e. they evolved inside the dating pool as opposed to outside it. Most of those seeking supposed 'skills' and 'techniques' from the pua/seduction community evolved outside of the dating pool and most of those who manage to just get a foot in the door still remain just as socially unevolved but have been given a carrot on a stick to enable them to lure an unsuspecting female donkey into their lives.
/r/seduction19/08/19 01:30 PM
2

Very well put.
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:15 AM
2

I own my inceldom. Perhaps it's because I'm old and wise and understand that there is more to life than being accepted into the dating pool.
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:13 AM
-2

Unrealistic.
/r/seduction19/07/19 09:10 AM
5

Written by a moslem woman.
/r/MGTOW16/07/19 08:45 PM
1

I think you'll find it works in reverse. Those who have real confidence and drive to push further in life are likely to be the more successful with attracting women. Though such people are more than likely not going to be thinking too much into it.
/r/seduction15/07/19 02:12 PM
1

A lot of it does appear weird and creepy. I remember when I first discovered pua back in early 2006 and these guys were stopping girls in the street saying, "Hi, I saw you and thought you looked attractive so I had to stop and say 'Hi'" 13 years later and half the pua videos I see on YouTube are guys doing and saying exactly the same thing. Now that pua has gone from underground to mainstream and most people now about it now, how are people seeing these videos on YouTube not going to think that …
/r/seduction11/07/19 09:26 PM
1

I get through life using defence mechanisms that I have built up over the years and I'm not prepared to embark on anything that risks tearing those down. If I had the foresight many years ago that I would end up in social no-man's land I may have taken alternative steps to try to counteract that.
/r/seduction07/07/19 02:15 PM
3

It would make no difference if I had money/credentials because I would still need to somehow communicate that to a potential companion, which I am unable to, do so they would know no different. I have not been diagnosed with Autism or anything like that but in this age of information technology you can self-diagnose with things like Autism/Aspergers, depression etc and there's no doubt I have a combination of these that makes communication and connection with people an almost impossible task. Th…
/r/seduction06/07/19 08:59 AM
1

No doubt a poster on r/IncelTears
/r/MGTOW04/07/19 07:47 PM
2

Da plane! Da plane!
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 05:36 PM
77

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember t…
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 05:28 PM
6

This doesn't surprise me. I went on one of their 'bootcamps' in about 2006 so I found out a long time ago what slimy snake oil salesmen they were. Their seminar videos on YouTube are total whacko cringefests. Yeah that Tyler is a bit of a talker but he just regurgitates the same nonsense over and over. Their advice is dangerous shit and I wouldn't touch them with a 10ft pole.
/r/seduction02/07/19 11:14 PM
1

Buying them dinner and paying for dates doesn't guarantee you'll get laid. That's the difference between a whore and a parasite. I have more respect for a whore because she will keep good on her word.
/r/MGTOW29/06/19 08:56 AM
3

I agree that regular exercise is good for your long-term physical health but I'm not so sure about the mental health and confidence side of things. The general consensus is that it does benefit these aspects of your wellbeing but personally it didn't for me and I used to go to the gym regularly for years. It did nothing to help my anger issues and low self-esteem and since quitting the gym about 3 years ago I don't feel any better or worse. I understand that it may have a negative effect on my p…
/r/seduction29/06/19 08:46 AM
2

He's asking about seduction not bodybuilding.
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:44 AM
1

Never cook your kippers in your employer's grill.
/r/MGTOW29/06/19 12:39 AM
2

The secret is that they are the type of guys that women want to have sex with and you are not.
/r/seduction29/06/19 12:28 AM
5

Whatever is the opposite of liberalism, political correctness, sjw and virtue-signalling... I am that.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 04:13 PM
32

Personally, if I wanted a whore I'd go to a whorehouse.
/r/MGTOW28/06/19 09:04 AM
1

I'm 50 and have a full head of hair, which is only a little grey around the sides, and can easily be managed by Control GX if I so wished. Most people who don't know my age think I'm in my 30's, the oldest anyone has guessed is early 40's and the youngest, and quite recently, someone said they thought I was in my late 20's. This isn't just because of my hair but because I've always looked younger than what I am. Is this down to good genetics? I don't look at it that way so why am I telling you a…
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:39 AM
1

No. I can't think of a worse way to waste your life away than watching that garbage. For all our problems, sins and misgivings we are not cabbages. Don't be a fucking cabbage.
/r/MGTOW25/06/19 11:30 AM
1

I'm the opposite, an ex-non-incel. I had minimal interactions with women from the age of 18-39 then became incel at 40 when nature slammed the door to the dating pool shut in my face, put a padlock on it and threw away the key.
/r/seduction22/06/19 12:38 PM
11

Thots or trannies?
/r/MGTOW22/06/19 12:18 PM
1

This is no doubt one of the many, many reasons I will never meet a woman as all of them are out of my league.
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:59 AM
1

It shouldn't be, but I hate to say that I value myself based on my inability to attract the opposite sex. I feel like a worthless piece of shit because of it and it feeds into everything else in my life.
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:36 AM
1

I feel you man. I haven't had any contact with women for 11 years and the idea of meeting one now just seems like pure fantasy to me. I don't see the possibility of any woman being attracted to me and now I'm past the age of redemption. All the women at work think I'm weird and most of them avoid me so right there is an indicator of what the result would be if I spoke to women while I was out.
/r/seduction22/06/19 08:25 AM
4

Couldn't have put it better myself.
/r/MGTOW21/06/19 09:05 AM
1

A very small percentage of all the guys who ever got into pua were success stories. The majority of guys who got into it were the guys who were born to be the lepers of the dating world, and it was these guys that it appealed to the most as they are the most frustrated human beings on the planet. The few guys that went from being down on their luck with women to ending up pulling lots of hot chicks were simply normal social dudes who were able to connect with people but just not able to make the…
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:52 PM
2

Beliefs are not plucked out of thin air. They are indicative of what you are/are not capable of based on previous experience. You can't just drop one belief and replace it with another without the evidence and experience that the new belief is right and the old belief is wrong.
/r/seduction18/06/19 09:22 PM
6

Brings back memories of Raoul Moat.
/r/MGTOW18/06/19 08:12 PM
4

Looks like Zelda from the Terrahawks.
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 10:53 PM
1

That's true, unnecessary. I didn't read the article only the general question. It does seem unusual that people of that age would behave the same way as someone 40 years younger but I'm sure it does happen. I do know that my dad married my stepmother when he was 50 and she was 45, and 25 years later they are still together and inseparable. People of that age really should know better and if they are doing it for selfish reasons then they obviously don't.
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 11:35 AM
3

Love. It does exist. And is probably more prevalent in that age bracket.
/r/MGTOW14/06/19 06:22 AM
1

I didn't read your post, only the title. It's irrelevant what you wrote because the answer will always be yes no matter what.
/r/seduction11/06/19 02:13 PM
3

Keanu is literally Jesus...
/r/MGTOW10/06/19 10:41 PM
1

I was referring to the blue thing between the fapping hand and the pc - I actually thought the other one was 2 people having sex in a house! It looks like a woman riding on top of a guy.
/r/seduction09/06/19 02:34 PM
2

Between 0:30-1:42 in this video explains it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rk5DF5oZKyI&list=WL&index=3&t=227s
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:43 PM
-1

The pics at the bottom - 1,3,4&5 are all me, but I have no idea what #2 is.
/r/seduction09/06/19 01:18 PM
1

Er, what?
/r/seduction07/06/19 11:38 PM
2

Friday night is porn and masturbation night for me.
/r/seduction07/06/19 11:34 PM
1

Truth bomb. This post deserves an award. This destroys 99% of pickup and seduction advice - including on this subreddit.
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:41 AM
1

Shit, thanks man! From now on I'm going to be inherently Alpha! Watch out ladies, here I come...
/r/seduction06/06/19 11:34 AM
3

There are hundreds of YouTube videos that talk about this as well as a dedicated subreddit. I'm currently on this journey myself as I've wasted most of my life with this terrible addiction. If I succeed in beating it (no pun intended) I honestly don't think it will be of benefit to me in regards to connecting with women but for sure my motivation is energy and developing confidence.
/r/seduction06/06/19 09:15 AM
1

You have no choice but to accept rejection from women when they all reject you. If you're not in the dating market then you're screwed.
/r/seduction05/06/19 05:04 PM
1

What's that, 1, 2, 3, 4, 5% of males? Yep, as in nature so in human society.
/r/seduction04/06/19 09:12 PM
2

Elvis, Willie Nelson and the Pet Shop Boys could have done with this advice many years ago.
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:04 PM
-1

Not hating, just think it's comical.
/r/seduction03/06/19 07:00 PM
0

Invite all the friends you have in the world to your apartment and pretend to have a seminar.
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:48 PM
1

I think I've heard it all now.
/r/seduction03/06/19 06:34 PM
1

No, what you feel you're entitled to and what you actually get are two different things. If you're living in a war-torn society you might feel entitled to be safe. if you happen to stay safe then well done but don't think the outcome was all in your own hands. Having said that, now I see that you refer to the opposite sex as 'pussy' I can see that I'm involved in a pointless debate without compromises.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:36 PM
1

Like I've already explained, it is the universally given entitlement, or lack of, given to you to be with the opposite sex. It is defined by whether or not the opposite sex will accept you. The proof lies either within your abundance or scarcity reality. If you want a scientific answer I'm afraid I can't give one, all I can give you is 50 years of life experience. If you disagree, fine, it changes nothing.
/r/seduction01/06/19 12:19 PM
1

Normally when I see guys making posts like this they turn out to be 24 wishing they were only 19.
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:57 AM
2

Are people seriously still listening to this complete and utter clown?
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:50 AM
1

I would say the largest percentage of men, specifically in western society, are either married or in LTR's - perhaps the majority of which are those who settled for what they could get or the first girl that they met. It's also fair to say that many such relationships transpired through chance encounters or social circle as opposed to actively seeking out potential partners, certainly the few encounters I had with women when I was younger came about through chance encounters - mostly as a result…
/r/seduction01/06/19 10:40 AM
1

So you mean be fomosexual?
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:44 PM
1

Despite what anyone says, the truth is that it is not an 'anyone can do it' thing. There is nothing in this world that 'everyone' can do that does not come naturally and pickup is no exception. For example, some guys will get into pickup and somewhere down the line discover that they can attract women, however for most guys the opposite is true. Nature either grants you access to the dating pool or it denies you access and pickup (in terms of a learning system) is a tool for those who didn't nat…
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:27 PM
1

I don't know of this particular song as I try my best to avoid having to suffer Ed Sheeran, but by the sounds of it from what you have written this is the basis of blues - musicians have been writing this shit for years, and many movies esp romcoms have also been made because of it. I don't think it's society pushing this idea onto anyone, it's just people sharing their own experiences of not being good enough and the only people who dictate whether or not one is 'good enough' are the people who…
/r/seduction28/05/19 06:24 PM
2

Well done for reaching 42 days, it's certainly no easy task. I didn't start going for semen retention until I reached 50 yrs old, and on top of life-long porn addiction. I didn't have sex for 11 years. Can't be sure if you can improve female attraction through semen retention, some say yay others say nay. I've yet to be able to hit a decent enough streak to notice many benefits other than self-discipline and feeling a little more alive. Had I attempted this in my early 30's perhaps it may have g…
/r/seduction25/05/19 12:54 AM
1

I thought sex was a bit disgusting and weird when I tried it. Watching a lot of porn makes you think it's great, but when it comes down to it it's nothing like you think it is. I can understand why it's a bit of a turn off - especially if you can smell the girls fishy vagina and shitty arsehole.
/r/seduction23/05/19 10:04 PM
1

You are offering 20$ for someone to take this crap off your hands?
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:56 PM
1

2008, married (separated) 26yr old woman with 2 kids.
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:08 PM
1

Not very much as I'd think I would live forever and just waste away my time.
/r/seduction22/05/19 07:04 PM
1

Numbers 5 & 6 has literally been me for the last 30+ years. 1-4 are irrelevant.
/r/seduction21/05/19 05:59 PM
1

Men have been picking up women since the human race began and will continue to do so until the human race ends. The same can also be said for men being unable to pick up women, as it is not a man's god-given right to do so. 'PUA' is merely a movement, an industry with which the disenfranchised man is it's target audience and customer. Some of its audience will become aware of certain minor flaws and nuances within themselves and will be able to make adjustments that will help to integrate them i…
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:42 PM
1

Go on Youtube, look at the beginning of the seminars and check out the audience when the speakers enter the room.
/r/seduction16/05/19 06:45 PM
1

Sounds a bit complex to me.
/r/seduction16/05/19 06:33 PM
1

Short Asians are not in a minority when it comes to attracting women, they are equal among all those who women want nothing to do with - not because of race, height, ethnicity or any of that bollocks, but because they are a pieces of shit. No different to 6ft tall white pieces of shit - like myself for example. I'm not the most handsome bloke in the world but I'm not deformed and neither am I a tramp but I've seen guys who I think look like absolute crap compared to myself pull women or who are …
/r/seduction14/05/19 07:21 PM
1

It doesn't affect your 'game'. If you have game and have your own place then you have somewhere to invite girls. If you have game and don't have your own place then you will find somewhere else to take girls. If you don't have game and have your own place then you have somewhere to be alone. Having your own place makes no difference whatsoever on your ability to pick up girls.
/r/seduction06/05/19 11:08 AM
1

It can only grow and expand so much. There is an underlying philosophy and ideology in the community that has always been and will always be the same, and it's relateable and applicable to some guys but not to most guys. This is the basic concept of what those in the community such as RSD try to teach, and those who have the innate instinct to learn those concepts and techniques have the potential to succeed. Of course many things are added to this based on 21st century cultural, societal and te…
/r/seduction06/05/19 10:55 AM
2

Cambridge does appear to be an ok place for young, attractive females. I live very close to Cambridge and work near there and often go out drinking around Cambridge. Obviously the fact that it's a University City helps, but is also a touristy hot-spot, particularly throughout the summer months. I can't help you personally but the fact that you're only 21 means you have a lot of opportunity in Cambridge.
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:54 AM
5

Thanks but no thanks.
/r/seduction06/05/19 09:44 AM
1

I'd only save a hoe if she was between a 3.7 and a 6.4, and I'd only march with fems if they were between 5.29 and 7.15. Otherwise I'd just ignore.
/r/seduction28/04/19 05:16 PM
1

You can watch them on Youtube. Personally I try to stay well away from RSD. I went on one of their bootcamps back in 2006 but in all honesty I think the only value in RSD are bits and pieces of the blueprint decoded dvds, and they are the parts that are more to do with life-in-general type stuff as opposed to female attraction.
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:49 PM
1

There is no such thing as a '10'. A girl is not a number. A girl is either a girl or a girl is no one. This sounds to me like the typical extremist philosophy of the pua community.
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:43 PM
1

'If he can do it anyone can do it' is a false statement. Not just in attracting women but in life in general. There are leagues, there are hierarchies and there are classes but not everyone is capable of moving up the chain. Some do some don't regardless of whether you are short or tall, skinny or fat, ugly or handsome, Chinese or caucasian, human or dogshit. There is only the individual and each individual has his own personal strengths and weaknesses and his own potential and limitations. You …
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:13 PM
2

I was thinking that she was talking about Jorah.
/r/MGTOW24/04/19 11:51 AM
3

Thank you for giving me my next Minecraft project.
/r/MGTOW20/04/19 09:14 PM
1

Yes I'm aware there's a way out for others, but there wasn't for me - that's what I was trying to explain. Whatever that link is of rsd Tyler's ramblings I've most likely read it. I used to follow rsd back in the day, went on one of their bootcamps, bought a bunch of dvds etc. None of it gave me any inspiration. Exactly my point - Neptune is impossible to get to and uninhabitable. You are probably absolutely right.
/r/seduction20/04/19 11:12 AM
2

Yes. I would say that about 1 out of 100 women I ever see are attractive. Most of the attractive women here are foreign, mainly eastern european.
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:20 PM
1

Your mom (& everyone's mom's) is your biggest cock-block you will ever know.
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:17 PM
1

I was at rock bottom for years. Never had the success with women that I dreamed of. The reason why I was stuck in that rut for years was simply due to the lack of belief that I could achieve success. The belief was so strong that it held me back from even trying.
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:12 PM
1

LOL you're not middle aged. My late 30's were my most sexually active of my life - though that's not saying much because I've always been shit with women and have never been with a hot/attractive woman in my life, but for some reason these women came to me. Ok, we're not talking about young women in their late teens or early 20's, but women between 25-40. Here's the thing though, the last time I ever had any contact with a woman was at the age of 39 - 11 years ago! As soon as I hit 40 it was all…
/r/seduction19/04/19 09:55 PM
1

I have no doubts that a lot of guys can gain confidence, even coming from a place of extremely low scarcity. I've seen enough anecdotes over 10 years of following the seduction community to understand that there is a way for them to get out of their rut. But how exactly do you define 'hard case'? How hard case is hard case? Imagine if you were looking at a picture of the planet Neptune and you were admiring it's beautiful blue colour and the great dark spot, you wouldn't think to yourself, "Wow,…
/r/seduction19/04/19 08:52 PM
1

It was the only way I was ever able to get laid when I was younger and I also had to have a few before I ever went out myself. Alcohol & drugs were the only things I knew that removed inhibitions. I still drink but don't go out very often and nowadays getting drunk doesn't remove my inhibitions in regards to talking to strangers, though I am more likely to tell some one to f off. I think 'Dutch courage' isn't such a bad thing but I think there's a kind of 'sweet spot' if you like between too lit…
/r/seduction16/04/19 08:21 PM
1

I'd choose the lake because I know I'd enjoy it and it would be worth my while.
/r/seduction16/04/19 07:53 PM
1

Surely having female friends can only help guys in their pursuit to find dates, is that not how pre-selection works?
/r/seduction16/04/19 06:54 PM
1

I used to go to the gym regularly but stopped going about 3 years ago as I felt I wasn't benefiting from it, plus the place was getting too crowded and noisy which is not the right environment for me. I don't know about testosterone, I don't think I've ever had a high amount of testosterone as I've never been a masculine-type guy. Plus I'm 50 now so the levels are probably a lot lower than what they were anyway.
/r/seduction16/04/19 01:25 PM
1

I was 37 when I first discovered the pua/seduction thing. I went on one of those bootcamps but it just felt like it was something that I shouldn't have been doing. Suffice to say after a lot of submersion and the purchase of other products I could never find the belief that it was possible so I had no choice but to just avoid women altogether. It was frustrating for a long time but eventually I just became numb to it. I'm 50 now and have more pressing issues to contend with but it's still intrig…
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:28 AM
1

Ok sorry about that. I did submerge myself in all the pua/seduction stuff many years ago but just stumbled across this section of reddit as I've only recently joined for other particular discussions. Thought I'd just try to get a new insight or perspective on the subject as most of what I'd read in the past just sounded like bad advice or not compatible to my lifestyle.
/r/seduction16/04/19 11:10 AM
1

But I think there's a difference between being 'ass' at something, and something being non-existent because it's so far out of one's reality that you can't even be ass at it. It's not really a question to illicit advice of any kind as personally it's not something I intend to embark on, it's really out of intrigue based on how I used to feel. I'm trying to get some kind of understanding on why the two extremes of interpersonal relationships, mainly male-female, are so far apart from each other. …
/r/seduction16/04/19 12:58 AM
6

Be Euron Greyjoy Ignore women
/r/MGTOW15/04/19 11:05 PM
0

There are 2 types of guys in this world: Those who women are attracted to. Those who women are not attracted to. For the guys who women are attracted to, women will come when they are not focusing on them. For the guys who women are not attracted to, women will not come no matter what.
/r/seduction15/04/19 10:02 PM
1

You have time on your side, you are still very young. You have so much room for growth and many opportunities to come your way. I haven't been on a date since 2008, since the age of 39 and I am now 50. Turning 40 was the start of my decline not only in regards to my dating life but to life in general so my only advice to you is make whatever changes you need to make sooner rather than later. Cheers.
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:00 AM
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