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This isn’t LTR stuff. Stay for the short term wins if there are any
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/23 12:48 AM
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Steroids
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/23 04:31 PM
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If your smv was higher than you could’ve made him wait for sex for a few more dates, to show his interest. Giving it up too soon can end things no matter what the attractiveness gap is.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/23 02:32 AM
3

Sleep down one rank and find someone who will pay for dates. Attraction will grow with repeat exposure.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/23 06:48 PM
-5

Lol. You leave/block once a man brings up body count.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 03:48 AM
15

He’s probably looking to mate-switch and by telling you this maybe you’ll break up with him so he gets out without having to break things off.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/23 12:20 PM
5

You gotta: -Fish where the fish are -reel in the jealousy -don’t compare yourself to your mom or others -what is your height and weight
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/23 05:53 PM
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In a way it makes sense. Low character people do these activities and they spend money foolishly. Why not target them for movies?
/r/MGTOW02/05/18 08:44 PM
5

Some men are into casual and some men are into long term. Either way is fine.
/r/MGTOW01/05/18 03:18 AM
2

Sleep Nutrition Exercise
/r/MGTOW29/04/18 12:21 AM
1

Life satisfaction comes from two sources, success and your primary romantic relationship. There’s 3 areas that make up your mood. Your self confidence meter, your external value meter and your internal effort meter Self confidence, I know I can’t deadlift 450lbs, but I can deadlift 350lbs and if I keep working at 350lbs I’ll get better over time. I don’t just give up and not workout. External value meter comes from your friends, job and mates/parenting. Get positive feedback, as in find great fr…
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 11:18 PM
2

Low intelligence Low character Testosterone and the lure of being a hero in their community Is what created this scenario. Seems that those traits could be responsible for other tragedies also. In that sense, it has little to do with incel
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 12:44 PM
14

Low intelligence Low character Use birth control to the nth degree in all situations but especially with these types.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 12:32 PM
2

Emotional stability might make it easier to let go of emotional attachment to a cheating gf but doesn’t mean they’re any less likely to get repeatedly burned by women.
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 12:23 PM
1

Comment validated
/r/MGTOW28/04/18 12:14 PM
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It means you hit the feeling circuits but not the attractiveness circuits.
/r/MGTOW26/04/18 03:47 AM
1

Each human has a level between 1-10 of emotional stability. Lower end of the scale are people who are road ragers, can’t handle being cut off in traffic. Higher end are people who are able to let go of small annoyances, and move on quickly from being cut off in traffic. The women you describe are on the lower end.
/r/MGTOW25/04/18 12:38 AM
3

Those women are the best women, some men can get.
/r/MGTOW24/04/18 12:52 PM
1

Clapping
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 10:58 PM
2

All good. I don’t want the idea that I’m saying all men. But I guess in my posts is a theme of how to improve your competitive level to improve our life experience. Two of the biggest keys to life satisfaction is I) success and II) satisfaction in your primary romantic relationship. You achieve both by being as competitive as you can. Nothing comes easy. Trying a little can go a long way. Yes I get the legal challenges (losing wealth). But if we minimize the risks, a lot could be gained.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 05:37 PM
3

Fair point made, in my posts I rarely use terms like all or every. There’s a wide range of reasons of why men would come to mgtow.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 05:30 PM
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It’s the female version of porn. Males want high gene quality females for low investment casual mating. Females want high gene quality males who highly invest in long term relationships.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 05:26 PM
3

Agree. There’s more to mgtow than reasons I mentioned. Cheers.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 05:24 PM
2

Humans will lie to get sexuality. That shouldn’t be news to anyone :)
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 05:09 PM
1

Calibrate your current value and go up 10% in mate value for casual relationships and down 10% for long term relationships
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 05:08 PM
1

No no I mean you (the female) had the money.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 04:50 PM
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All decision making is based on cost benefit analysis so he sees a benefit in telling you that. Human nature will always seek the best deal possible. You don’t buy a car for the listed price, you negotiate/or shop around to get the best deal possible
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 04:49 PM
1

I think you are the female example of some mgtow males. They dated above their league. What I mean by that is, if you are a natural 5/10, you dated a 8/10 male because of money most likely, or the promise that the male wouldn’t have to work/provide if he dated you. That’s the issue. Eventually the deal loses its value when the higher value partner sees their true market value. The solution here is to date in your league. It’s hard to accept but that’s the way to happiness in a relationship.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 04:42 PM
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The more posts like this the more I think that mgtow men are bitter that they don’t get a participation woman just for being male and having a job. You must compete in every aspect of your life. Nothing comes to you easy. Unless you have great genes.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 04:32 PM
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Many men here have been burned here by women who were above their league and the women have woken up and realized they can do better. Many men here think that having a 70k a year job entitles them to a beautiful woman will will be faithful for life. Human nature doesn’t work like that. If you are a male, and your wife puts on a lot of weight, guess what. You’re not interested anymore. Why should you have to be trapped for life? Women are the same.
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 03:57 PM
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I hear ya. Other posters have said the issue is self esteem. It is not that. You have a female who is miscalibrated to the market. All human behaviour is based on a cost benefit analysis in their brain. So while the market would say your smv is higher than her ex, to this female, it is not. Keep in mind that genes (looks) dominate the show, however, personality, intelligence and circumstance are also considerations that humans make when it comes to mate selection. If you’re getting negative feed…
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 03:08 PM
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Life is unfair to many people. Be grateful you live in the west, and have the opportunities you have. If you want to compete in the mating arena (or job arena or to make better friends) use these suggestions: get as physically fit as you can, work hard in your job, dress well, get a good haircut, clean your house/car and learn to socialize. Compete and let the market do its work. Another tip, don’t date women well above your league, this ex stuff will happen less often if you date women that you…
/r/MGTOW23/04/18 02:52 PM
1

Get better jobs, better friends, better mates (if you want them)
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 07:43 PM
5

Work hard and compete. Get into the best physical fitness you can, work hard at your job/school, dress well, get a good hair cut, clean your house/apt/room/car and learn to socialize.
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 07:30 PM
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Behind the attempt to shame people here is the foundation of mgtow. Males who are not naturally competitive and won’t put in the work to be competitive, make subs like this and take their ball and go home. Nothing wrong with it. Do what ever you want. Enjoy your life.
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 07:18 PM
4

Yes fandom is just group signalling. Going to games could be wealth/status signalling.
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 06:34 PM
1

You’re describing a chad relationship. Meaning the male is more valuable than the female, making access to her sexuality easier. Many males who go mgtow cannot do this. They are not natural chads and they don’t want to put in the work to be more competitive.
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 06:30 PM
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Yep that would be ideal
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 06:36 PM
10

Cheers 🍻
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 03:10 PM
5

Who’s cleaning OP’s gutters?
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 03:09 PM
1

I see what you’re saying. Yes that’s true. This will always be risk. I’m saying that your risk is lower if you date in your league, and if you’re competitive the risk is even lower.
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 02:37 PM
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Many men would say don’t talk to your ex. This makes sense evolutionary, because in the Stone Age if you had broken up with someone for a period of time, there’s a good chance she’s pregnant by another man. And that wouldn’t be worth it for you to put any investment into her. But in the modern environment, with condoms and other types of birth control, you could get away with a (low-investment) sexual relationship with a woman who previously qualified for you physically, and with zero risk of ha…
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 11:59 AM
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This goes back to my original point. Date women in your league, and her leaving will happen less often. Stay competitive (fitness, job, dress/hair, clean house/car, social skills) and she will stay. You need to be the best deal she can get. That’s when she stays. Life isn’t fair. It’s not even remotely fair. Accept that and compete with the hand you’ve been dealt.
/r/MGTOW21/04/18 11:39 AM
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Lol
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 09:28 PM
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Well ya. A lot of guys are landing women they shouldn’t be. What do you expect to happen? “I make 70k a year, I deserve an 8. I don’t work out, shave or clean my house.”
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 09:17 PM
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Yep some chads have no self respect. Like a dog fkn a pig
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 08:57 PM
1

There’s jealous circuits going off because you’re likely being over rewarded (ie she’s hotter than you are). Stick to the status quo and accept that she’s going to get attention like this. Or make yourself more competitive (fitness, job, dress/hair, clean house/car, learn to socialize) and find more options.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 08:31 PM
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Lol depends on the attractiveness of the woman. Jk. Yeah you run away from these scenarios.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 08:26 PM
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Many men are getting to relationships with women above their league and they’re getting burned when the female “wakes up” and realizes that she can do better. Date at your level, and the chances of this happening goes down.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 07:54 PM
1

You find one that you’re attracted to, matches your personality and intelligence level. Also it should be under the right circumstances (example: no crazy ex, drug issues)
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 07:29 PM
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This is not necessarily chad’s fault. If men would just date in their leagues, women wouldn’t be so easily picked off by men in the woman’s league.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 06:14 PM
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Use this: a psychological phrase “position of power”. It’s where you accept the worst thing that could happen and you make peace with it. You don’t have to be stoic or cold. Just live your life but accept what could happen.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 03:10 PM
6

For men, it’s not in their best genetic interest to show emotion. If they did they wouldn’t find mates. That’s why you see what you see.
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 12:52 AM
2

Boys. Stop sleeping so far up. If you’re a 5/10 male, just because you have a 50k a year job doesn’t entitle you to an unemployed 8/10 female. Stay in your league and these “bad experiences” won’t happen (as often). Also calibrate your value too. Guys think they’re a 6/10 when really they’re a 4/10.
/r/MGTOW18/04/18 02:13 PM
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Chad is sort of the problem. A 7/10 male probably hooked up with this 4/10 female and it inflated her self-value for the moment.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 09:27 PM
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All human behaviour comes down to a cost benefit analysis. If your gf found a better deal then you, she’s gone. When you find a better deal on car insurance, a sandwich shop or a mate. Guess what? You’re gone too.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 06:41 PM
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The chad problem is real. If you’re a 7/10, you’re not a born-chad but if you sleep with a 5/10 female you are effectively hurting the 4/10 males who could be mating with the 5/10 females. Rule of thumb: find your level (ie 4/10), then sleep up 1 point for love/relationship and sleep down 1 point for casual sex. You run into problems when you’re a 4/10 male and you get into a relationship with a 7/10 female (vulnerable, MH issues), and she cheats on you with a 8/10 male. You get upset, create su…
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 05:17 PM
0

Try the rockstar life until you hit 30. Then join us and get a job. Absolutely nothing wrong with that.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 04:52 PM
1

Your past example is not exactly how human nature works. Humans are both a causal mating species and a pair bond species. The women that some mgtow have chased in the past were much too fancy for their level. 10% is not a high cost if you are competitive (ie: physically fit, work hard, dress well/haircut, clean house/car). Yes some women are not calibrated to the market either so they will reject guys they really shouldn’t be but that’s the way it goes.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 04:11 PM
1

Sure. Find a woman who is 10% fancier than you. Not 30%+
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 03:09 PM
1

I noticed this too before. Let it go and just keep sharing your thoughts and experiences on other posts. Cheers.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 02:59 PM
4

Very long post which I skipped to the last paragraph... Doing drugs was the users choice sure. Getting off drugs is one of the hardest things for a human to do. Quitting cigarettes, alcohol and junk food is up there too but no where close to drugs. The real help is finding a coach who has successfully coached people out of their addictions.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 02:53 PM
1

You are not attracted to your equal. You are attracted to value. When you’re buying a car and you have 10k you don’t just look at cars priced 10k. You look at cars priced at 11k and try to get a bargain.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 01:38 PM
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Not sure if this a troll piece but it’s got some points. The simplest way I can put it is some men need to understand how human nature works. It’s natural to want to have sex. In fact in almost everything humans do, is to help humans compete for sex. If you’re a 4/10 you will never get a 10, you’ll never get an 8. But you could get a 6, with work. Don’t give up. Get fit, work hard, dress well and have a clean home/car.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 12:06 PM
3

Don’t give up. Keep working hard. Work mostly on your appearance. Also need to accept that most relationships last less than 5 years. Human nature is not a Disney movie. Humans are constantly running cost benefit analysis and if there’s a better deal next door, they go.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 04:15 AM
6

Also yes if you are an active father you would still have to pay
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 04:08 AM
3

Roughly 15% of your pretax income per child
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 04:00 AM
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Bingo. The girls you are attracted to will not like you back. And the girls who are attracted to you, you won’t like them back. Acceptance is a key. But don’t give up. Get in great physical shape, work hard, wear nice clothes, get a good hair cut, have a clean car/house/apt. Learn how to socialize.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 02:13 AM
2

Try new friends. You are more competitive than they are and they’re taking advantage of the agreeable personality you have. It’s not going to change so I’d consider looking for new friends.
/r/MGTOW10/04/18 12:23 AM
2

Sounds like she was a good deal for you however it didn’t sound like a match if you were doing things you didn’t enjoy ie going out on weekends.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 08:43 PM
2

It probably allows her to be more selective but it doesn’t exactly elevate her market value to men.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 08:18 PM
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Ya her description of herself is that she’s lazy, disorganized and unstable. Not exactly attractive traits, but males prefer looks over any of that anyway. So it kind of doesn’t matter.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 07:11 PM
4

She probably isn’t getting valued by important people in her life. How’s her job? How about her friends? How about her romantic side? She’s probably thinking she’s less than others and it’s making her depressed.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 07:00 PM
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It’s kind of telling that OP has had fifty jobs in 5 years. I don’t think he has a problem with rejection. He might be a little fed up.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 06:15 PM
2

Lower value men are giving the princess treatment and the higher value men won’t invest in the women long term. I think this is a problem on both sides of the coin. I’m probably wrong.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 06:08 PM
4

Try sales
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 05:45 PM
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It’s actually funny. She’s saying exactly what girls in her boat are thinking/wanting.
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 05:42 PM
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Lol it’s signalling. “I enjoy life. I’m not depressed. Mate with me. “
/r/MGTOW09/04/18 04:50 PM
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Some guys in here only want a hot gf but can’t accept having a hot gf comes with a price. Aka chads always lurking. They want marriage to be like Disney movies “happy ever after”. Since human nature doesn’t work like that, they’re taking their ball and their going home. Woooooo
/r/MGTOW02/04/18 12:04 PM
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