Not giving a fuck

Arod-Reddit · 2018-04-20T15:10:09+00:00

Use this: a psychological phrase “position of power”. It’s where you accept the worst thing that could happen and you make peace with it.

You don’t have to be stoic or cold. Just live your life but accept what could happen.

KingZwack · 2018-04-20T15:35:28+00:00

When you boil down Buddhism to it's core, the purpose is to remove desire from your life. No desire, no suffer. So the budding Buddhist goes forth desiring not to desire.

Do you see where I'm going with this?

Trying to not give a fuck is itself giving a fuck. Also, your state of mind... not giving a fuck... is not your personality. Separate those two concepts asap.

If you don't want to give a fuck then you must realize that you're already dead. That is to say that at any moment you can drop dead and be no more. So what is there to worry about?

https://youtu.be/O5YpUsDsHmk

Non-PC-Guy · 2018-04-20T16:07:08+00:00

People who “don’t give a fuck” as you say are not heartless; they still care about things, but just not about anything that has little to no significance. Women fetter about everything, especially unimportant things; simps do too. Just be cold in regards to the BS.

TB409 · 2018-04-20T15:46:16+00:00

How does one not give a fuck

without giving off a cold or stoic vibe

Do you see the contradiction?

treble-n-bass · 2018-04-20T16:35:22+00:00

Why do you want a warm, outgoing personality in the first place?

MisterEdGein2 · 2018-04-20T15:52:02+00:00

Force yourself to smile. It actually works to improve your mood significantly. Literally force it.

If your face muscles are sore you are doing it right.

DavidShekelburg · 2018-04-20T15:58:26+00:00

You shouldn't need to.

mgtow-zen · 2018-04-20T19:14:52+00:00

You can't. But what you can do is realize you bring light to a situation, rather than taking it from the situation. Like polarity.

The way I do it is make it a point to allow love to flow from me to everyone I can, including women. It's like water in a pipe, if you maintain pressure, there isn't any back flow. You can never be hurt if you do this in a true way (takes practice) because you don't need them.

This way, it does not matter what she or he thinks of me, because I'm not getting it from them. What do I care if an outlet is dead, if I'm in touch with the power plant and can get all the juice I want?

6tfcxdr54eszaw32q1 · 2018-04-20T16:28:05+00:00

Sounds like a job i'd have to quit.

UmbrellalikeWetness · 2018-04-20T20:19:55+00:00

Here's what I do: enjoy what's going on, FOR ME. So I can be happy that I am having fun, without giving a fuck if any other person is.

L_jeezy · 2018-04-20T21:08:05+00:00

who cares

kiwi_like_me · 2018-04-21T02:42:01+00:00

Know yourself and be open about your insecurities - they have less power over you that way.

figyg · 2018-04-21T05:04:59+00:00

There are absolutely things in life to give a fuck about. Is your hand swelling up after you fell off your bike? You should give a fuck!

But you have to figure the things to not give a fuck about, and I think that only comes through experience and not really from phoning it in.

2018-04-21T09:51:37+00:00

exercise and eat healthy (fast). care about something, instead of other people.

further more, you will seem stoic or 'cold' if you are alone, when in the direct company of others, obviously you will be'outgoing' whilst you reflect peoples personalities back at them

Taoism

Mchooofer · 2018-04-21T10:44:52+00:00

Yea. Use ur charm. If you don't have one, build one. Just be straight out honest. Seems to work.

Not giving a fuck

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Title	Not giving a fuck
Author	Mby56
Upvotes	30
Comments	30
Date	April 20, 2018 3:01 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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