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| 89 | My Soul Just Broke a Little... | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW | 19/04/18 08:25 PM | |
| 46 | Why does God hate gay people? | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW | 21/04/18 06:32 PM | |
| 37 | Another Friday Night... | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 07:49 AM | |
| 26 | Stanley Tucci film takes honest look at sex dynamics on college campus, gets tanked by critics, here is an honest review | Edu./Occu. | KingZwack | /r/MensRights | 04/12/18 03:25 PM |
| 18 | Male emotions and Mother's Day | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 09:10 PM | |
| 11 | NAWALTs do exist and Unicorns do not... | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 07:55 AM | |
| 6 | Crazy-widower | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/07/18 07:15 AM | |
| 5 | Where Boulders Lie and Sand Settles | KingZwack | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 01:55 AM |
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| 1 | Has the ACLU gone full feminist?I thought all of us on the left were communists, now you're saying I'm an individualist Peterson acolyte. Which is it? | /r/MensRights | 21/02/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Has the ACLU gone full feminist?I fail to understand how so many people want to be in a box. How do you hope to manufacture original thoughts and ideas if the world is summed up into: X=good, Y=bad ? Isn't that precisely what the people on this sub spend their time fighting. Feminist ideology has created a paradigm of "man bad woman good" and it is tearing social bonds apart. It's your choice to make the same mistake in thinking about groups of people in such lazy ways, but why would you want to limit yourself in such a way? T… | /r/MensRights | 21/02/19 12:17 AM |
| 0 | Has the ACLU gone full feminist?I wish I could see the world in binary terms, would make me much more adaptable to this idiocy. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/19 11:18 PM |
| 8 | some men in my office refuse to be alone with women — Ask a ManagerHere is the OPs stickied comment: "If you are considering posting a comment about false accusations or men needing to defend themselves from #MeToo allegations, please pass this post by. (And also, please re-read the info in the post about legally being required to apply the policy to all sexes you interact with if you have it at all.)" | /r/MensRights | 20/02/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | history moves in circles. is that the first time men rights are in this peculliar state or do we have precedence?http://people.uncw.edu/kozloffm/glubb.pdf Page 15 is the meat, but the entire essay is worth the read. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | history moves in circles. is that the first time men rights are in this peculliar state or do we have precedence?Check out John "Pasha" Glubb's, The Fate of Empires. It's easy to find in .pdf with a google search. It's a relatively short essay, what you're looking for is about 2/3rds of the way in. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/19 04:08 AM |
| 7 | This Shit is why I turned away from Feminism and became an MRA insteadIf it makes a difference for you, Cassie went through hell in order to get funding for marketing and distribution after she and her family paid out of pocket to get the raw footage. She's a warrior spirit, it's a couple bucks to rent on youtube and I highly doubt you'll be disappointed. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/19 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Stanley Tucci film takes honest look at sex dynamics on college campus, gets tanked by critics, here is an honest reviewLink to the review: https://www.wsws.org/en/articles/2018/12/04/subm-d04.html | /r/MensRights | 04/12/18 03:26 PM |
| 44 | Wtf sexism is sexism no matter to whomr/menkampf | /r/MensRights | 02/12/18 05:37 AM |
| 7 | I’m a woman who deeply believes in Men’s Rights. I just learned about this famous case today and thought I would share it here.Thanks! I'm actually a beneficiary from this and never knew. | /r/MensRights | 29/11/18 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Okay so I've been taking to feminists...OP, I hold out the white flag of surrender here. You're getting the massive cynicism that is, unfortunately, earned by the MRM. Perhaps a good place to start is understanding the difference between feminism and Feminism Incorporated. Feminism Incorporated is analogous to the pharmaceutical company that has no intention of curing the disease because that would erode profits. Little f feminism is the well-meaning "equality for all" bunch. It's a huge divide and many of us would like to have a conv… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/18 03:58 AM |
| 1 | It’s funny how the left scoffs at anger over toxic masculinity, but when we talk about Islamic terrorism they are quick to remind us that not all muslims are terrorists.Respect. If reddit was a bar I'd buy you a drink. Cheers. | /r/MensRights | 27/11/18 03:19 AM |
| 2 | It’s funny how the left scoffs at anger over toxic masculinity, but when we talk about Islamic terrorism they are quick to remind us that not all muslims are terrorists.I wanted to be butthurt about your use of "the left" in the header and then your post was all sensible and shit. I agree, the use of toxic masculinity wouldn't be such an issue if it were actually defined, and balanced with a sense of what positive masculinity is. I do wish the left/right paradigm could be viewed in that framework as well. I'm the first to admit that the crazies have taken over the asylum on "the left," but personally I don't fit on "the right" either. Hmmm. Humans are too diver… | /r/MensRights | 27/11/18 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Is there a replacement word for feminism?It seems you are more in line with Christina Hoff Sommers and she calls herself an equity feminist, or Camille Paglia who has her street-smart feminist movement. Or, you could drop the feminist label and be an egalitarian or human rights advocate. On the flipside, what you're describing as modern feminism I prefer to call Feminism Incorporated as it has a greater duty to preserve itself and its funding in lieu of advocating for women, much less for equality. | /r/MensRights | 26/11/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | "Muh White Babies"If the majority of Christian folk acted in a way that resembled their scripture than many more people would be on board. Instead they have this self-righteous, "I believe so I can do whatever the fuck I want" attitude. It's the same with the 'muh white baby' crowd. Show up or shut up godammit. Live by example and people will follow. I'm not making white babies because I'm not a fucking martyr ready to prostrate myself on the altar of gynocentric law just to keep the race going. What have you don… | /r/MGTOW2 | 17/11/18 08:52 PM |
| 7 | The new feminism increasingly looks like the old chivalry. One of the surest ways to become equal is not to have anyone open doors or pick up cheques. But still feminists want both in growing numbers.Men are dogs. There is some truth to this. As a hobbyist dog-trainer I learned early on that dogs have a very short window for the carrot/stick paradigm, about five seconds. Dogs, for one reason or another, don't have the same conception of time as humans do. A good example of this is if your dog does something wrong and you call them over, then you punish them for the bad behavior, they interpret it as punishment for coming when called. The previous behavior is forgotten to them and they expect… | /r/MensRights | 10/11/18 09:42 PM |
| 6 | For all the sauce haters here - fuck you! I am cooking my own way. And it tastes better than your sauce-less excuse for food.Eh, I'm gonna call bullshit. The original photo is of steak and a high quality cut of beef cooked correctly really doesn't need sauce. You're welcome to it if you like. Then you show us a pork roast. If you brine that pig then yes, sauce optional, but slapping some gravy on a mediocre cut of pork is a must. This here my friends is comparing bovine to swine. | /r/MGTOW | 10/11/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | A new study shows that young men who are overly preoccupied with building muscle have a significantly higher risk of depression, weekend binge drinking, dieting that is not connected to obesity, and four times the probability of using legal and illegal supplements, and anabolic steroids.It's a better article than I was expecting, and shows concern for the well-being of men. It's true, I'm not terribly financially ambitious, or at least I don't enjoy drawing attention to myself by being flashy, so I've used fitness and charisma to make up for that in the dating world (in the past). The conclusions are somewhat specious as the other commenters here have pointed out. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | The hidden classism of modern feminism"Real" wealth is the product of combining natural resources and manual labor. It's not useful in my mind to throw out the value of what I call "amalgamaters", these being the Steve Jobs and Elon Musk type of people, but I am firmly on the side that conflates manual labor with wealth creation. Paper and digital wealth is a powerful tool for distribution but the extent that we currently rely on these "useful fictions" is the extent we will fall when their utility collapses. A la 2008. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | The hidden classism of modern feminismI still lean Dem, and I find myself more critical of Democrats because I still expect them to be the party for working people although it's less clear if that ever existed during my lifetime. Wild Bill Clinton shifted the landscape quite a bit when I was just a kid. I recently watched a lecture by Brett Weinstein where he ended by saying that if the libertarian-left and libertarian-right can make some compromises and work together we might have a shot. It's something I've been saying for years, … | /r/MensRights | 07/11/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | The hidden classism of modern feminismIt's not uncommon for me to self-declare as a socialist when I find myself in political conversations. I'm not really a socialist nor a capitalist, but somewhere in the middle. I will call myself a socialist because it immediately moves the conversation into a space where I can criticize capitalism. It's a tactic to shift the Overton Window if you will. Inequality is good... to a point. Risk takers that build an enterprise deserve to be rewarded, and so do their employees. Communities suffer whe… | /r/MensRights | 07/11/18 03:31 AM |
| 26 | The hidden classism of modern feminismMy only gripe with this article is this line: "Underneath the heart-tugging rhetoric is a dark secret, the same secret that drives all of leftist ideology: envy of and resentment for the wealth-creators and a disdain for the common laborer." Granted, "the left" has been entirely overrun by insane identity politicians and deserves to be excoriated for that, there are plenty of us labor union types that have been pushed into a no-man's-land politically. It's simply unjust to erase the leftist acti… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/18 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Mushroom discussion threadWonderful post OP. Back in the summer I traveled to my hometown to officiate my sister's wedding, ironic for a mghow but I enjoy public speaking and if it wasn't me it would have been my devout mormon uncle giving the speech. The day after the wedding my dad and I packed up and headed deep into the wilderness, to a spring-fed alpine lake full of rainbow trout. I ate about five grams of mushrooms in the middle of the afternoon while my dad enjoyed some cannabis. We paddled the canoe out with our … | /r/MGTOW2 | 13/10/18 10:27 PM |
| 1 | more cunts = lower IQI can witness to the Earth, Atmospheric, and Marine sciences portion. I received a double undergrad in geophysics and mathematics. The Earth Sciences attract a number of women and dimwitted men because it's the one science discipline that doesn't necessarily require a lot of math to complete. From my experience this skews the data a bit because there tend to be two types that go into the field. On one hand you have what I like to call aesthetic geology which includes paleontology and sed/strat (… | /r/MGTOW | 07/10/18 01:26 AM |
| 6 | The Lasting Impressions. Cassie Jaye Came Expecting To Dissect The Men's Rights Movement. Three Years On, She's Still Having To Dissect The Truth That She Found About Feminism.Denying the validity of climate science is the same as denying biological differences between the sexes. Both sides have their sacred cows. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/18 06:47 AM |
| 22 | BBC News: Trump: 'Scary and difficult time for young men' in USGotta play the game | /r/MGTOW | 02/10/18 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Anyone annoyed by MGTOW parading as men's liberty?I'm a very left-wing person. My views on politics are not well-received in the sub and there is plenty of shit in the sub that I absolutely disagree with. I just fucking deal with it like a man. There is no committee. "They" are just assholes. Welcome to the internet. Not only can you be bisexual and go your own way, you have an advantage. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/18 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Anyone annoyed by MGTOW parading as men's liberty?Also, there is no their way. It's shitty that you were discriminated against by the sub. At the end of the day mgtow isn't the subreddit though, it's a message that men need to find when they're struggling to break through their cognitive dissonance. You're having an emotional response and spreading bad information. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Anyone annoyed by MGTOW parading as men's liberty?That's perfectly reasonable. Like all subs that grow too fast it has lost its way and become saturated with groupthink. I won't defend that. I was banned and then reinstated for defending the fact that gay men (or any man) can be mgtow. A lot of reasonable voices have been pushed out of there in the last year. Unfortunately the message is starting to have a 'messenger problem'. The division between various male perspectives need not have walls though. I'll stand with any man that respects himsel… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/18 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Anyone annoyed by MGTOW parading as men's liberty?I'm a writer not a memer. I leave that to the kids. I reached the point of going my own way after a lot of painful trial and error and when I first discovered a community of like minded men it was a huge relief. It's not hyperbolic for me to say that it might have saved my life. I spend time in the mgtow sub mostly to help other men. Most of my interactions through that sub are PMs. I've always been a "helper" and it almost killed me because I was trying to help a disjointed society that overtly… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/18 05:35 PM |
| 7 | Anyone annoyed by MGTOW parading as men's liberty?It's a reaction to feminism. MGTOW don't get together and plan how to create their own brand new academic category and then lobby to have their ideology taught in every university around the globe. They don't organize MGTOW walks where they reclaim the right to hang their wangs in public. They don't create 'art' about their penises. They make generalizations like AWALT (all women are like that) which really rubs people the wrong way because there are two messages in the acronym. Most people hear… | /r/MensRights | 02/10/18 05:17 PM |
| 15 | Cern scientist: 'Physics built by men - not by invitation'"Prof Strumia has since defended his comments, saying he was only presenting the facts." Finally. Don't apologize. This guy got up in front of a room of mostly females and told them the truth. The ladies that heard him and understood him will probably have solid careers. The ones that stopped listening and got butthurt will struggle and then leave the field and tell everyone how sexist STEM is. Guys got some balls. For now. | /r/MensRights | 01/10/18 02:40 PM |
| 3 | "Women are not visual, women are not sexual, it is men who are pigs!" ...An alpha widow in the making. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW, The Behavioral Sink, and the Societal Entropic Death SpiralI'm working off memory so bear with me. I got the impression reading your post that the mice had virtually unlimited space, but the size of the enclosure was the built in 'limiting factor' for the mice. I was trying to clarify a bit is all. Wasn't one of the surprising things, and I think this is what you are getting at, was that even when the population was relatively small the mice clustered in groups basically along a pareto distribution? | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/09/18 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Liberal activist and actress America Ferrera: "White men" will make us "handmaids" - take away our rights and votesBefore the last US election I kept trying to tell my democratic friends that the more they yell and scream the name Trump, the more likely it was he was going to win. I tried to tell them to shut up about it, but when your only other option is to defend Hillary's record... anyhow This is the same kind of thing. The more backed into a corner men are, the more likely it is we'll end up in Handmaid's Tale. There is another option ladies. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearDo you get off on making little quips so people stop talking to you and you can get a small dose of smug self-validation? It's rather endearing. Are you GYOW or TFL? | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Female generals introduced into history game, major backlash ensues.Infinite potential to create a brand new experience from the ground up, but instead the political agenda gets shoved into IPs that have existing, loyal fanbases. Why is it so hard to understand not to fuck with dedicated fans? Go make something new that pleases your sensibilities and don't get butthurt if few people want to play it. | /r/MensRights | 30/09/18 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearDo you feel better about yourself when you call people liars? Projection, another feminist favorite trait. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 06:33 AM |
| 7 | I'm an anti-feminism! I believe in all gender equality!Feminism is an all-or-nothing situation. The positive things that come out of feminism are eventually overtaken by way more of the bad things, mostly because women aren't capable of being satiated. More, more, more. It's not healthy for a man to attempt to live the way feminism tells him to. In order for a man to agree to the terms of feminism he must have deep shame simply for being male, whether conscious or subconscious, and this will have repercussions on every aspect of his life. Get yourse… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/18 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearThese parallels between libertarians and feminists just keep going deeper. Don't wanna have a conversation because you know deep down you're wrong so you go for the character instead. Pathetic. Libertarian God I confess I am a liar. Feminist Goddess I confess I am a rapist. Ideology is dangerous dude, but keep telling yourself you have all the answers. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with ghosts from the pastI've trained a lot of men on complex machinery and most show up with a bit of machismo and act like they know what they're doing. I picked up the phrase a long time ago: You can't know what you haven't learned yet. For most guys that sentence breaks through and they start asking questions. I think shame might be the most powerful emotion in a lot of men. Shame. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearYou do realize the inherent contradiction in saying the right to tax is a fiction but the right to own property is not, right? | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW, The Behavioral Sink, and the Societal Entropic Death SpiralNice write-up. On the topic of stress you could even expand on the concepts of positive and negative stress. The positive stress of survival was replaced by the negative stress of living in an overpopulated "city". The limiting factor in the studies was space. The mice had unlimited resources otherwise and still managed to top out at about 80% capacity. The stress of living in close quarters and competing socially ALL THE TIME created neurosis in the mice. Perhaps this explains why Japan seems s… | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/09/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearThe problem with building such a beautiful ideology on paper is that at some point you have to bring that into the physical world. Even libertarians acknowledge on some level that we must cooperate as a group to survive. If we abolished The Government we may have a brief respite and then another form of government would form. Corporations or war lords or kings. There will always be some form of governing in human societies. The right to tax may be a legal fiction the same way as money and my nam… | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearI use money everyday... not about to stop. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearDon't we all? | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearI'm just playing your game. You have truth, I have truth. Whatever the fuck that means. Libertarians would be able to make this world a much better place if they weren't so dogmatic. Isn't it strange that the Libertarian party in the US always suffers the No True Scotsman problem when it comes to picking and supporting candidates? | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearTaxation is not theft, it is investment. There, I just created a counter-thesis which is equally true to your thesis. Mine is the baseline reality and if you can't see that then your mind is already in a cage. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearI'll take that as a no. Your identity seems tightly wrapped up in the right-libertarian perspective. Ain't nothing wrong with that but saying your opinion is baseline reality, once again, sounds a lot like a feminist talking about male privilege. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearAre you capable of forming an argument against the premise that taxation is theft? Being able to argue all sides of an issue is how one finds the truth. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Kavanaugh smearAll politicians are criminals man. "Taxation is theft" ranks right up there with "male privilege" as far as letting me know a productive conversation is out of the realm of possibility. Watch out for these rhetorical traps as they preclude deep critical thinking. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Kavanaugh smearI support trade unions, national parks and wilderness areas, legalizing drugs, environmental regulations, government funding of basic science, etc... There are plenty of reasons to favor certain left policies. Plenty of reason to favor certain policies. I just can't defend being a democrat or republican at this point, then we start throwing around words like liberal and conservative like they mean something anymore. Knee jerk reactions on one side or the other precludes thinking for yourself. | /r/MGTOW | 30/09/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | These are the total fucking Brain-Damaged Retards who think they are entitled to your sperm to fill her empty hollow womb with the gift of life so she can take ownership of it like ... this. Standards aren't just low, standards are just a fairytale. The female chromosome is designed Defective.Not Sure | /r/MGTOW | 29/09/18 04:12 AM |
| 2 | The positive masculinity farmer and the snekSo many kids after getting high the first time: "Those motherfuckers are full of shit, drugs are awesome!" | /r/MGTOW | 29/09/18 03:58 AM |
| 3 | Lessons learned from recent events. Things MGTOW has known for years.LoL | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/18 12:26 AM |
| 11 | toxic masculinity is a paradoxAKA a "shit test" | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/18 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Cuck BETA simp Bird sexual strategy and mgtowIt's a beautiful dick though. | /r/MGTOW | 28/09/18 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Just watched Master and Commander..."He who would pun would pick a pocket" | /r/MGTOW | 24/09/18 04:02 PM |
| 8 | PUA be likeMmmmmm..... donuts. | /r/MGTOW | 24/09/18 03:56 AM |
| 3 | The chad thingIf I'm having a conversation with an evangelical christian and they say 'God', in my mind I'm picturing a dude in the clouds, even though my perspective is something much different. It's simply a construct to allow for mutual understanding. I'm not really a fan of using terms like Chad, or alpha/beta for that matter, as it can be counterproductive, yet I'll admit there is some utility too. | /r/MGTOW | 01/08/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | There are only 2 gendersThey're even going after hermaphrodite as non-PC compliant now... it's intersex or androgyne these days. Smh. | /r/MGTOW | 01/08/18 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Beast Among Men"When you see the lifestyle of successful people and then look at your own life, it makes miserable to realize how much of a failure you are." No, I see people with drastically different values than me. So much shame and alpha/beta language going on. I appreciate your can-do attitude and go-get-em-tiger spirit but this may not be the best house to monger your wares at, if you catch my drift. | /r/MGTOW | 31/07/18 03:34 AM |
| 3 | What's your usual response to, "Don't you wanna have kids and pass on your genes?"I say that, "I probably have 2 or 3 of them out there that I don't know about." Which is followed by laughter or groans depending on the crowd. Then they see in my face that I'm not joking. "Seriously though, the planet is overpopulated and it's taken me time to find peace in depressing my natural urge to reproduce and you should thank me." | /r/MGTOW | 31/07/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I have fucked over 300+ models... Here's how I did this... [AMA]I work as a bartender on Fridays and Saturdays, and I'm a helluva cook and grow my own vegetables and herbs in the summer. I chat it up with customers at the bar and get their number, then invite them over for a meal. Then we fuck. (This was my life for a couple years and then it got real old real quick) Getting laid isn't hard, finding meaning at the bottom of a vagina is the hard part. You do you broheim. | /r/MGTOW | 31/07/18 02:51 AM |
| 14 | No one gives a fuck about men"Once you realize that nobody gives a shit, you can do the same." Well said, Paul. | /r/MGTOW | 31/07/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | There are only 2 gendersI've lost a handful of friendships over this issue. Oh well... | /r/MGTOW | 30/07/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | No more Mr. Nice GuyDude nailed it. It has been years since I read it though. Welcome to chat if you want, I can dust it off and give it another gander. | /r/MGTOW | 27/07/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Jordan PetersonThat seems a bit too simplistic. Granted I'm not a fanboy, but a lot of Peterson's academic work has revolved around archetypes and "greater truths". The paradigm he presents using mythology and historical references can have value to many people of a wide range of beliefs. I agree wholeheartedly that his personal filter, his desire for a functioning traditional marriage society, will leave many mgtow credulous. That shouldn't negate all of his work however. One of the best selling "men's help" … | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Jordan PetersonAgreed. It's really a semantics argument, hence the quotes around 'blind spot'. We all have limited experience and our own blind spots. What I appreciate about people like Peterson and Tomassi and Mark Manson, and other writers of their ilk is the high level of humility they express. There is, I believe, value in pointing out deficiencies, so that we can separate the meat from the bone. God help the day I ever meet somebody that I agree with all the time, sounds like a subtle version of hell. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Jordan PetersonI feel like Rollo Tomassi falls into this same 'blind spot'. I have much respect for him and his writing, but he can't quite understand what dating and hook up apps have done to the dating landscape. I'm old enough to have dated before and after even facebook, and there are many factors to be considered, but social media was a tectonic shift on par with the introduction of the pill. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 07:47 PM |
| 3 | Never chase what you want..I want a grilled cheese though! Never seen a grilled cheese chase anything. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 07:13 AM |
| 2 | A study has found men are officially now the vainer sex, stopping to admire their reflections 28 times a dayNew study shows men averaging 28 glances in the mirror per day, surpassing women for the first time since 1807. Also, women taking an average of 164 selfies per day, but only instagramming the top 61. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 07:12 AM |
| 6 | The Tinder "Manprovement" FailI'm offended. This is bullshit. I've put years of practice into being a douchebag and I didn't make it on their list. It's because I'm fat. I know it, it's because I'm fat isn't it? I should be doucheshamed no matter what I weigh! /s (obviously) | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 07:04 AM |
| 9 | Dumbest thing I've heard... todayI'll admit no one has told me to "keep my zipper closed", but if I had a nickel for every time somebody told me to "keep it in my pants"... I could probably buy a coffee at Starbucks. | /r/MGTOW | 25/07/18 06:52 AM |
| 1 | "Learn to talk to people"Am millennial. Oh, born in the mid-80s, yeah, yep you're right. Put down the fucking phone already! What? What's that? How dare you criticize Nirvana you little shit. Cheers. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/18 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Why are MGTOWs fueding with Red Pillers? I thought we were allies?Eh, two sides of the same coin. When you flip it it's going to spin-spin and spin-spin. Plenty of TRPers think they're Alpha McChadistan and a lot of mgtow are planning to revolutionize the world with their abstention. Rage rage against the dying of the light... and all that. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/18 06:36 AM |
| 4 | What is the fate of those who are forever single?Abso-fucking-lutely. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/18 06:28 AM |
| 7 | What is the fate of those who are forever single?Here's a dataset of 1. I'll just say that my gramps will always be my personal hero. Really cool dude. His brother, my great uncle, is a close number 2, and then my pops rounds out the top three. My great uncle was a dude, an athlete, and a scholar. He knew from his early teens that he wanted to be a teacher, he was always trying to guide people. By the time he was 23, and this was still in the '50s, he came to the conclusion that marriage wasn't for him. It caused some consternation between him… | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/18 04:24 AM |
| 1 | teach me how to be a MGTOWWhat do you want? Seriously. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/18 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Question: what does the term “roastie” mean?My Irish heritage runs deep and that just officially ruined St. Paddys for me. Fuck you. How am I supposed to eat corned beef after that? Well done, Sir. Well done. Nobody eats corned beef well done. | /r/MGTOW | 23/07/18 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Thank you all for giving strength.It was, and it is, as the sun rises it shall set. Good luck and go forth dude. | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/18 11:51 PM |
| 5 | I feel like something is missing.What you're missing could be defined as a Narrative. The vast majority of us are spoon-fed a similar narrative from birth. Go to school, get a job, get a house and a pretty wife and kids, a few promotions, grandchildren, then retire and drive your motorhome around. If you do this your life will have meaning and others will see you as a success. Now that narrative isn't working for you because it's a lie and it was never YOUR narrative. It's the story that keeps the machine running smoothly. Heal… | /r/MGTOW | 22/07/18 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Another Friday Night...Well said. | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW, why no marriage is not enoughDevil's advocate: By engaging in FWBs and generally being open about my decisions to not marry, procreate, or have an LTR, both with prospective FWBs and my greater social circle and family, I am able to speak wisdom into the vacuum of society without getting shouted down as a lonely neckbeard virgin living in a basement. I would be a fine catch for a lady and simply being honest about my intentions and values puts a human face to the downsides of this hyperfeminist zeitgeist. Perhaps I do more … | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 09:18 PM |
| 1 | OT: If news arrived that an asteroid is hitting earthIt would be a great way to go. I imagine there would be considerable chaos at first as the entire human population would be experiencing anger and denial at the same time. A lot of people would say fuck it and stop working so we would lose a lot of services, and many people would die from lack of resources, suicide, and drug overdoses. After the initial shock we would get our shit together and make sure critical infrastructure and services keep running, and people would see what's really importa… | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have traveled. Out of all the countries you have visited, which women eere the freakiest?During foreplay she used my dick to tease her butthole and while having sex she pushed me out of her and switched holes. It wasn't my first time and I was happy to oblige but there wasn't a conversation about it. What I wasn't expecting to learn from her was that, and I might get shit for this, I really enjoy eating ass. | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Guys who have traveled. Out of all the countries you have visited, which women eere the freakiest?I can't recall actually hooking up with a woman from the country I was in at the time. My travel flings have always been with women that were also traveling. In Cambodia I met a lebanese chick that will always be in my mind. Serbia was my only threesome with two Portugese girls. Vietnam was a French girl that was all about the ass. There are always Australian women around. The key is to stay in accommodations for backpackers such as hostels and guesthouses. | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | New to MGTOW, a couple of questionsYou might check out this link: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/5vo6si/to_those_who_say_i_came_here_to_see_exciting/ I too was turned off of mgtow by the vitriol, and then I dated a staunch feminist which left me baffled, and the best explanations to my questions came from YouTube. Colttaine especially resonated with me. MGTOW for me has provided a framework to understand the various and scattered observations I've made throughout my dating adventures. I think if a guy absorbs the academi… | /r/MGTOW2 | 21/07/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | On DeathThanks man. Psychadelics are similar to taking the "red-pill". It has to be a personal choice and I'm not going to encourage anybody to do it. "Well, if you're going to do it, here is what to expect." I think that coming to terms with death is hugely important though, especially in the West. Much philosophy is based on it, even pop-culture, that without accepting death our life is taken for granted. | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/07/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | On DeathA comment I made a few days ago: A few weeks ago I was camping on a remote alpine lake in Idaho. I ate some mushrooms. I sat on a large rock overlooking the lake to watch the sunset. A fish jumped nearby and then I realized that it appeared as though it was raining, as thousands of little insects dropped to the water for a drink. Then another fish jumped. The world seemed so simple to me in that moment. The insects had to risk their life to a fish in order to drink, but they're insects and don't… | /r/MGTOW2 | 19/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 1 | MGTOW any techniques, food, supplements, herbs, etc you have used that work to increase lucid dreaming?Fasting has a lot of health benefits, especially if one eats a lot of processed food and meat. Our bodies are designed to store energy and it's ok to give the digestive tract a break every now and then. | /r/MGTOW | 17/07/18 08:34 PM |
| 4 | Fellow MGTOW gentlemen, what are your favorite things you’ve discovered while going your own way? Food, drinks, hobbies, skills, vacation spots, life lessons, etc?I read a shit ton, have always enjoyed it but not being nagged to watch netflix or being interrupted to hear some random thought is great. Backpacking at my own pace and through difficult terrain, without carrying unnecessary luxuries. Traveling: staying in guest houses and hostels instead of a "hotel with a pool". Bitch we're in Thailand, that's the ocean, why TF do you need a pool? Also eating cheap and delicious street food for every meal. Southeast Asia, central america, eastern europe are a… | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/18 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Sometimes I feel bad for these womenAlpha fuxx and beta buxx. Spending teens and twenties sleeping above their pay grade before locking down Joe the accountant for resources. | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/18 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Sometimes I feel bad for these womenIt's perfectly reasonable to have sympathy for women but don't confuse that by taking away their agency. They hold all the cards in the sexual domain and when they make bad decisions the default is to blame men. An aspect of MGTOW is that, as a collective, we're holding up a mirror to women and saying, "You created this mess." We're a bunch of dudes deciding how to best live our lives for ourselves, but in aggregate this lifestyle is a reaction to forces we played no part in creating. The sad tr… | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/18 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Interesting thoughtThe toothpaste isn't going back in the tube. You can daydream as much as you please about instituting your own brand of moral authority via government, but the only forces powerful enough to bring that vision to reality are war, revolution, famine, or plague. Until that happens and the next religious authoritarian regime takes over, I say we're all better off handing out as many VIP passes to heaven for fetal souls, sorry murdered children, as the ladies like. We're living through the most degen… | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/18 03:17 PM |
| 11 | Do you ever feel so utterly exhausted that you wish for oblivion?A few weeks ago I was camping on a remote alpine lake in Idaho. I ate some mushrooms. I sat on a large rock overlooking the lake to watch the sunset. A fish jumped nearby and then I realized that it appeared as though it was raining, as thousands of little insects dropped to the water for a drink. Then another fish jumped. The world seemed so simple to me in that moment. The insects had to risk their life to a fish in order to drink, but they're insects and don't think about it. They're just bei… | /r/MGTOW | 16/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 4 | Interesting thoughtThe cat is out of the bag as far as I'm concerned. Do you believe that outlawing abortion will reduce promiscuity? Perhaps by a tiny fraction. It might get some women to be more careful about using condoms and birth control (which is far more responsible for promiscuity than access to abortion), and it might mean more men stuck paying child support, and also a return to back-alley abortions, and more neglected unwanted children. Are neglected children good for society? If you're concerned about … | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Interesting thoughtSometimes I need a reminder that most of the people on reddit are still teenagers. Thanks. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 07:59 PM |
| 8 | Interesting thoughtAn abortion a day keeps the population okay. Every abortion is one less future welfare recipient. One fewer psychologically scarred bastard child of a single mother. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Interesting thoughtYou're correct. I'll go to my room and jerk off a million fetuses into an old sock now. My point being it's semantics, and your latin argument is nonsense. I wouldn't have said anything if you weren't so condescending. Apologies if I hurt your fee fees. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 07:35 PM |
| 0 | Interesting thoughtAlso from your link: Definitions: bearing fruit offshoot/branch/sucker/sapling produce/crop ||fruit of plant | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Interesting thoughtFrom your link: Definitions: bearing young, breeding conception laying (egg) birth/bringing forth young | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Interesting thoughtCome on dude. At least debate in good faith. Your link proves my argument. Fetus, in latin, is used frequently to refer to things other than a human in gestation. Fetus is a general term in latin which is why biologists adopted it for modern use. There are much more direct translations for our word "child" from latin. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 06:50 PM |
| -5 | Interesting thoughtIn latin fetus means offspring and also can be translated as "to bring forth", and was used to refer to plants. In latin an apple is the fetus of the tree. Is an apple a child? | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | What a shocker, scientists are worried about falling scientific standards.Cult of Gaia... that's good, can I borrow that? Ya know I just had an epiphany and decided you're right, can you send me some pamphlets on Yahweh and the rapture? I think I'm ready to switch cults now. | /r/MGTOW | 15/07/18 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you help/deal with friends getting engaged/married?It's incredibly difficult for a person to change their paradigm. We build our identities around certain stories and ideologies, and to change the way we view the world is to change our very identities. To shift our paradigm, or take the redpill (whether you're talking women, religion, political affiliation, etc...), generally requires some sort of traumatic event. Hence the stages of grief we go through when we see the big lies told to us by society. You can't make that change for anybody, you h… | /r/MGTOW | 14/07/18 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Do we fap?https://youtu.be/GnsjOA1G3wE | /r/MGTOW | 09/07/18 12:03 AM |
| 3 | This can be the model for the sex robot."the sex robot"? Will there be only one? I call dibs on Friday afternoons, and Johnson better clean her up real good when he's done. I don't trust Johnson. | /r/MGTOW | 19/06/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | The next frontierStarting at the age of 14 I struggled with suicidal ideation and the only thing that kept me from literally pulling the trigger was that I was afraid of death. At 27 I had just ended a 5 year relationship and my blue-pill self was right on the edge of saying adios. Laying in bed, curled in the fetal position, crying and making my final plans in my head, when I was overcome with the beautiful realization that I am alive. Holy Fuck! I'm alive and I'm going to die anyway. What the hell am I doing? … | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/18 03:27 AM |
| 1 | When I think back to my family, I remember a lot of female complaining about men, but very little men actually doing something badIn my family it's a little different... my Dad's side has a lot of mormons and we get together every couple years for a big family reunion. It's probably 60/40 mormon vs heathen. When I was young it was a chore to go to these things because I felt ostracized for being a "heathen", but as I got older it became apparent that my mormon uncles and male cousins were mostly cool as shit and didn't give a rat's ass about my religious status. The women are condescending as hell and seemingly go out of t… | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Men My Own Age.Do you feel better about yourself now? | /r/MGTOW | 18/06/18 02:56 AM |
| 2 | After reading posts here for a long while I have come to the conclusion that many of you should move to a different part of the countryIt's true, no point in me denying it. My prejudice isn't against the South, it's against the broken institutions and social contract in this phase of society. We've heard it all before: you just got to find yourself the right woman! Or, look at me, my wife is NAWALT and you're a bunch of whiny man-babies that need to alpha up and find a good church girl. It rings hollow to me. You can take a lady to a waltz but you can't take the AWALT out of the lady. For me, I've found my peace with the ways t… | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/18 09:27 PM |
| 9 | After reading posts here for a long while I have come to the conclusion that many of you should move to a different part of the countryDo y'alls hear'n what this feller says? He says 'f we move on south they's these big farms need plenty o' men to work. Pickin' cotton an' cuttin tobackey, good work for a fella. They's called plantations and they need plenty of good strong men, pay is good too the feller says. He says an' the folks dun there treat a man like a human, like a good right human bein'. I don' know about you men but I'm a pack up t'night and head for the first plantation I can find by golly jeezus and josef! | /r/MGTOW | 16/06/18 05:35 PM |
| 10 | MGTOW terminology?https://www.mgtow.com/glossary/ | /r/MGTOW | 28/05/18 08:28 PM |
| 6 | What is your ideal world at our current level of technology?Nailed it. OP is not in the right place. | /r/MGTOW | 26/05/18 02:09 AM |
| 2 | My first MGTOW experienceYou got the popcorn? I'll supply the bourbon. | /r/MGTOW | 26/05/18 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Which is more expensive, a wife or taxes?You can hire a competent CPA to plan out how and when to take cash. The income tax rates and accountant fees are black and white. A wife is a bottomless pit. | /r/MGTOW | 26/05/18 02:00 AM |
| 2 | My first MGTOW experienceForgive them for they know not what they have done? I spent a lot of years trying to imitate what my G-rents had, and I've forgiven my father for his innocent naiveté, and it's a new age. Now, we live in a time when ignorance is becoming unforgivable. Good thing all you beautiful bastards are shining the light home. | /r/MGTOW | 26/05/18 01:52 AM |
| 2 | What's the manliest thing you did last week?Took a piss standing up. | /r/MGTOW | 25/05/18 04:18 PM |
| 2 | We have a theme park ride name for the CockCarousel, but what theme park ride comes after the CC?The Sushi Slide | /r/MGTOW | 24/05/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | CreepyLoneliness is an emotion and can strike the body at any time. I do agree that loneliness is the most painful when you have people around that should, in all reasonableness prevent it, and then exasperate it... It doesn't help those deepest in the grips of loneliness and despair to say it's an illusion. Solid male friendships can do more to alleviate the sensation of loneliness to another man than an erotic encounter; and the female touch can be important to a lonely man too. Loneliness is an emo… | /r/MGTOW | 24/05/18 01:30 AM |
| 8 | Blue Piller: "Everyone feels like being in love with someone has screwed them over at least once in their lives. I just hope he can realize this MGTOW bullshit isn't the answer before it's too late."How many dudes out there played the PUA game, found success in it, realized how goddam'd empty it is, and moved on to higher pursuits? I, Sirs, stand accused and guilty. Lessons be learned in due time to many of these guys, and to the fortunate few that find everlasting love... thank the In-laws and your lucky stars. | /r/MGTOW | 24/05/18 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Has intimacy changed for you?I continue to casually date women so there is still physical intimacy in my life, and honestly I think there is more romance than when I was looking for the 'one'. Instead of shopping for a house to live in for the next 50 years, I'm renting apartments near the water or the big park and moving often, so I can enjoy the scene for what it is and not get caught up in what it will be (metaphor, I own a condo). It's more honest and fun this way. As far as male friends go it's been tricky as I've lost… | /r/MGTOW | 22/05/18 08:18 PM |
| 2 | A year ago, I quit my job to sail the world on a tiny boat. It hasn't always easy, but it does have its moments.I'll be heading out across the Northern US on bike and staying with family in Idaho and consolidating to a backpack. There I'm going to do planning for the PacCrest trail. Gonna drive with my dad down to Arizona in the winter and stay with friends until it's time to start hiking. Taking all summer to cover the PacCrest into Washington to spend time with friends and my uncle. I'll get visas lined up for Vietnam and Cambodia then fly out of Seattle to Hanoi. Hopefully at the beginning of the dry s… | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Been lurking awhile, posted a couple of times.. Any of you beautiful bastards willing to mentor a dude trying to make the most of himself?Yep, keep living man, no need to cut out the recreation. Keep paying off the debt. Some finance types may disagree but I'm of the mind that debt-free is the only way to be. Once I paid off my school debt I started building wealth like crazy. Watch for ways to cut back needless spending, but keep doing what you're doing. If you're not paying for a dame then you should have the life soon. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 08:03 AM |
| 16 | A year ago, I quit my job to sail the world on a tiny boat. It hasn't always easy, but it does have its moments.My home is on the market and when it sells I set out to circle the Earth on foot. You're an inspiration dude. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Been lurking awhile, posted a couple of times.. Any of you beautiful bastards willing to mentor a dude trying to make the most of himself?Aww shit dude! I held my red card for four years, granted I was doing research with USDA-ARS and never worked on a live fire. Are you year round? The best way I can think to bring in extra cash is as a bartender, a job I've had a lot of fun with, and can be forgiving as the schedule goes. Your best option may be to find ways to reduce your expenses, but if you're on the road why is your expendable income so low? When I was in the field it felt like hitting the lottery at the end of the season...… | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:47 AM |
| 5 | An ode to MGTOWWant to drink a bourbon and shoot the shit by the fire? It's peaceful out here. Welcome to the wilderness my kindred spirit. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:36 AM |
| 9 | Who Would Win? #FeminaziFatalityI don't come here for the memes but this is FANfuckingTASTIC! | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:32 AM |
| 0 | When she tries sexually escalating with a MGHOW...Maybe I have to be burned by PoundMeToo or superAIDS, but if a lady friend wants to fuck, who am I to disagree? | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:30 AM |
| 3 | Been lurking awhile, posted a couple of times.. Any of you beautiful bastards willing to mentor a dude trying to make the most of himself?You don't have to give specifics about job title, but what do you for work? You say there isn't time for a second job, and it sounds like you're looking for investment advice, but you have a pittance for risk investment, so what skills do you use for work? If you give some more info I may, or may not, be able to help. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:27 AM |
| 8 | A revelation that I otherwise might not have found (a thank you to the sub)You write well and are self-aware, and now seeing the bigger picture. It's a bright future for you I hope. Cheers. | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 07:16 AM |
| 3 | How to legitimately not care what a women thinks about you?Imagine yourself driving down the highway. You notice a police car and you can see the dude has his radar gun pointed right at you, as you look down to the speed gauge your heart instantly sinks to your belly because the needle is stuck at zero. "Fuck, how fast am I going!" Your foot eases up and the engine lets off and the vehicle continues down the road slower than before, a bead of sweat forms out of nowhere. You're watching the side view mirror and the copper isn't moving. No problem so far.… | /r/MGTOW | 20/05/18 06:50 AM |
| 30 | Yikes. Make sure you know your SO’s financial history. Or better Yet GYOW.My money was 'ours' and her money was 'hers', and she spent every dime she made, only paying minimums on her CCs and the income contingent student loan plan. I'd say, "Hey, lets get a beer at the pub." The next thing I knew we'd be paying a $60 tab for overpriced cocktails because I was a Simp and she couldn't be happy with a beer at the dive bar. Very pretty, great sex, fun to be around when she was happy, and my first big goddam red pill. | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/18 09:46 PM |
| 49 | Yikes. Make sure you know your SO’s financial history. Or better Yet GYOW.On the other side of this coin... I was in a very serious LTR in my blue-pill days and the only thing that stopped me from marrying her was the debt she carried. It wasn't even that she had a shitload of debt, I was able to hamster my way around that, but that she couldn't manage to abide my moderate requests to pay it down even when I was covering all the bills and she had a nice salary. Thank you financial literacy and due diligence! | /r/MGTOW | 19/05/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Coping with solitude?A friend was visiting a few weeks back and he observed that I "live a small town life in a big city" and that thought has really stuck with me. If you're open to a book recommendation check out Cannery Row by Steinbeck, lots of MGTOW philosophy in it. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 01:01 PM |
| 5 | If you're a woman lurking and/or posting hereYeah... but... nobody makes roast beef with sauerkraut like a woman! | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Coping with solitude?A bit older than you, probably a rather different lifestyle too, have been living the MGTOW way for a long time though and this helps me... I've settled into a routine over time where I frequent local businesses. I go to the same coffeeshop on Tuesday and Thursday, breakfast at a little diner on Saturdays, and my favorite dive for a beer or two on Sunday evenings. There is a taco shop and pho joint I frequent, otherwise I cook all my own food and live a very minimalist lifestyle. Over time a fir… | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 03:25 AM |
| 8 | If you're a woman lurking and/or posting hereThey're out there, but it's a helluva lot cheaper to walk your ass down to the local deli. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 03:08 AM |
| 12 | Is porn starting to lose its appeal for anyone else?Been there... the mind is incredibly powerful and porn only fulfills what, two of the senses? Sight and sound. I've nothing against porn, but like most things in life when you go without it for a period and engage the deeper mind to solve the problem, it's just not terribly fulfilling. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 03:06 AM |
| 23 | If you're a woman lurking and/or posting hereCome on now, we should welcome the ladies here. I mean, I could really go for a sandwich about now. Nevermind, they'd tell me to make my own damn sandwich. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Where Boulders Lie and Sand SettlesHaha. Just drinking some lager beer. | /r/MGTOW | 18/05/18 02:45 AM |
| 5 | To Men going your own way...Umm...yeah that's it. I've never been laid, not attractive waaaah. | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/18 07:24 AM |
| 3 | MFW The fashion industry is probably one of the best ways advertise somebody else's product to your friends, family and strangers every single second you're around them.I feel like you're picking up on the multiple dimensions of redpilling... Female nature may be the most accessible form of it because we're inundated with instinct as soon as we hit puberty, but if you're open-minded the continuum of brainwashing starts to become apparent. Honestly, I'm ashamed to say, the female aspect of it all has been my most recent awakening. I studied geology and math in college which opened my eyes to how powerful oil companies are. I visited my sister in Korea and went t… | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/18 02:15 AM |
| 17 | To Men going your own way...Femininity is awesome! What happened to it? Oh... why don't we like hypergamy and the fact that women find 80% of us below the 50 percentile... What was your question again? | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/18 01:55 AM |
| 9 | The deteriorating societyThe anti-millennial and 'special snowflake' talk is no different than the SJW talk about 'straight white men'. I'm all of the above. You make a good argument and I agree with most of what you're saying, so why let yourself fall into the same ignorant trap? Men succumb to relationships because they're horny as fuck, same as always. A man cannot know something he has not yet learned, so stop shaming the poor saps for their ignorance. The woman has succumbed to her natural instincts, and so have th… | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/18 01:34 AM |
| 7 | Awkward family dinner momentI suppose there are cultural or family norms to take into consideration. Brutal honesty is powerful too from my experience. At the end of the day, life is a dance, and hard decisions are named appropriately. I guess we just gotta keep moving 'til the music stops. | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/18 01:12 AM |
| 37 | Awkward family dinner momentHey dude, I found myself in a five year relationship that made me miserable because I was trying to play the societal game and please other people, it eventually made me redpill af and I almost went the blue pill route of marriage and would be fucked right now. My best advice is to be radically honest and lay out your intentions without regard. Your family will come around or they won't, but you gotta live for number one... You. | /r/MGTOW | 14/05/18 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Male emotions and Mother's DayThanks, I will. | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Male emotions and Mother's DayIndeed. Yes, indeed! Well said. | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Male emotions and Mother's DayToxic mascunity does not exist. | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a new stateSpokane and Boise are basically sister cities. I grew up in Boise and lived in Spokane for a year, 2010-11. My opinion as far as the cities themselves are concerned, Boise has more charm and generally a better culture with less crime. Spokane is forever in the shadow of Seattle/Tacoma whereas Boise is forced to stand on its own. However both cities are great launching points for recreation and Northeast Washington/Northern Idaho is truly 'God's Country'. In the '80s or early '90s Spokane tore do… | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a new stateWell, Idaho is an outdoor recreation paradise. The whole damn state pretty much. Boise is the only proper city in the state and about half of the state's population lives in the metro. Boise State University (BSU) is a decent school and I believe you can do joint credits with College of Western Idaho (CWI) for trade skills. BSU was basically a tech college until about 20 years ago and fairly recently broke up into the two separate schools. I went to the University of Idaho (UI) in the northern p… | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a new stateWhat would you like to know exactly? I grew up in Idaho and have spent a lot of time in all three. | /r/MGTOW | 13/05/18 01:16 AM |
| 4 | ESPN pays a women 7 figure salary just because she’s a womenI remember when it was the Eisen/Scott Personality Network. "Bring me the finest meats and cheeses in all the land" God, how I miss the '90s. | /r/MGTOW | 12/05/18 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Society's Death TripThe year my grandpa was born there were roughly two billion humans around. When my dad took his first breath it was still fewer than three billion; roughly five billion when I came into the world, and now over seven-and-one-half billion. That's too much change in too short a period of time. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/18 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Men are like dogs, women like catsMy mom died when I was a young child < 3 years old, and my dad nearly committed suicide. I didn't learn this until I was 30 years old. When my grandma started suffering the worst symptoms of Alzheimer's the family witnessed my grandpa improving in health as it seemed he had a renewed sense of purpose in caring for his ailing wife. It was only a year after she died that my grandpa seemed to just give up and died soon thereafter. Men love on a much deeper level than women and nobody will change my… | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/18 11:57 PM |
| 6 | Nihilism is intellectual laziness and it spreads like cancer.Nihilism, in the vernacular, is just a pretty way of saying physical hedonism. In Philosophy, nihilism, is a degree of understanding. The concepts of nihilism and self-actualization are not mutually exclusive. Take the humble ant as an example. Is the life of a singular ant meaningful? To us superior hominids it may well seem not to be, but how does that ant interpret the situation? Or the lonely stone... surely the life of a stone is non-consequential as it doesn't exhibit consciousness. Who is… | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/18 07:11 AM |
| 4 | What does fulfillment mean to you?First thing is that you're still in the process of breaking a lifetime of conditioning. It's a process and takes time. Read "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar and "Iron John" by Robert Bly. Second thing is that you're young. I know, I know... I heard the same shit ten years ago and rolled my eyes. I'm not an old man yet (33) but there is a mountain of folly in youth and you want to conquer the world. If you spend your twenties building yourself and working towards a debt-free, healthy, and in… | /r/MGTOW | 08/05/18 05:43 AM |
| 3 | NAWALTs do exist and Unicorns do not...Fuuuuck. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 08:29 AM |
| 2 | Can we start a MGTOW film club or something?I meant it in a good way. Westerns, for the most part, are about men dealing with harsh environments. Am drunk... Also gave me the thought that we are living in a new sort of wild west. It makes more sense to go off and do work and then visit a whorehouse instead of pandering for females sorta thing. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 08:27 AM |
| 16 | situational social justice is hypocriticalWhoosh | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 08:17 AM |
| 7 | "america is waking up to the farce that is feminism"...and the stage 4 pancreatic cancer patient had the realization that they wanted to live another twenty years. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 08:16 AM |
| 9 | "i’m addicted to dating apps – but I don’t want a date"Sex is a biological necessity for men. If a grown man doesn't get sexual relief occasionaly, through intercourse or masturbation, he will experience wet dreams. Social validation and/or attention is the female equivalent. If the female is not validated occasionally she will act out until such attention is received. Social media and dating apps are the female equivalent of online porn for men. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Can we start a MGTOW film club or something?Westerns tend to be MGTOW to the extreme. Are we living in the techno/media wild west? Fuck. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 07:32 AM |
| 8 | Has anyone else noticed that women that were born in the early to mid 1980s seem to be exceptionally cunty?We're witnessing the end of an age, an empire. Young men see it for what it is. The mathematics (game theory) indicate that the vast majority are in for a wild ride. Smoke 'em while you got 'em and look out for number one. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 07:15 AM |
| 15 | Has anyone else noticed that women that were born in the early to mid 1980s seem to be exceptionally cunty?If you read Christina Hoff Sommers she points out in her books that the female empowerment/self-esteem movement hit nationwide status in education around 1990 so this age range are the first to be fully indoctrinated in the "having it all" mentality. The men of this era (myself included) were caught in the inflection point, raised on blue pill traditional ideology, while the girls were set free to burn those ideals to the ground. It seems younger men are not as naive. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Can we start a MGTOW film club or something?OP, this is the kind of thing that you just gotta do yourself. I'm on board, find some good films and do some write-ups. There was a post (or comment) recently about a 70's film called 'A boy and his dog' and now I'm trying to track down a copy. I think it would gain traction around here. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 05:34 AM |
| 3 | Can we start a MGTOW film club or something?Sicario is great. The lead is a female in law enforcement that is given the keys to a man's world and is, realistically, broken by it. I'm looking forward to the sequel. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 05:31 AM |
| 5 | Hoeing 101 - And guys keep on falling for it!For sure. I did too. I worked in a factory and trained a lot of guys on machinery and used that saying when a dude put forth a lot of machismo, because that's what we do. It cut through the ego pretty quick and let them know I was trying to make their lives easier. We're often our own worst enemies and the little head compounds that dramatically. I wish this information was around for me 15 years ago. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Gotta Love Those Feminazi's On Dating Apps - Have Yourself A Good Laugh GentlemenThe sidebar on that sub is solid gold. | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 05:08 AM |
| 9 | Hoeing 101 - And guys keep on falling for it!You can't know what you haven't yet learned? | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | My rant on news & news media: is there a point in watching the news anymoreSix years ago I ended my longest relationship, over five years, and was a bit depressed and facing the world anew. I bought a small condo and decided I was going to experiment with minimalism and I could add things back in to my life as I wanted to. Six years without a TV, I just recently got data on my phone as I need it for some contract work I'm doing, no subscriptions... I was bored at first and then started making regular trips to the library and then got in to a routine of hitting up local… | /r/MGTOW | 06/05/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Hamstering for Sex with FishIf the soy boys become any more feminine their junk will start to smell like tuna and these women will have their wish granted. | /r/MGTOW | 05/05/18 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Why Didn't My Teacher Rape #MeToo?Mrs. Harris, 8th grade. Had to walk out of that classroom with my binder held strategically to cover my boner every. damn. day. | /r/MGTOW | 02/05/18 04:04 AM |
| 5 | MGTOW needs...I notice it's generally the funny memes and screenshots from female oriented subs that top the hot list, and there is some great content there, but I pop in here looking for the personal stories and discussion oriented posts. I see it as a process and all the gents here are at different places. A high school guy is going to have a different perspective from the 40-something divorced guy. My perspective is as a dude that organically grew from a NiceGuy to a Simp to a purple pill PUA to GMOW and s… | /r/MGTOW | 01/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Women going apeshit over sexdollsI've never been a big fan of eating ass, and I would definitely slurp some chocolate ice cream out a sex doll's brown clown car! | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW = FAGGOTSWhat a fucking douche. Can you cry out any louder for help? | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 08:22 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW = FAGGOTSMy pussy hurts from all the u/EvieBeast cock that has been inside it. You ram me so good. Tell me I'm your whore! | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 08:20 PM |
| 1 | MGTOW = FAGGOTSPreach Sister! | /r/MGTOW | 30/04/18 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Saw it with my new set of eyes.Feminism is an ideology based on unfalsifiable maxims (patriarchy, privilege, power/oppression) and requires indoctrination. It is the cult of imagined oppression. A state sanctioned and funded religion. Red Pill is a shift in conscious awareness (how society views men, biased laws, markers of personal value) that is painful to experience and is accompanied by the grieving process. The feminist "click" is the sound of mental shackles locking a woman's brain, the red pill "click" is the sound of … | /r/MGTOW | 29/04/18 04:35 PM |
| 13 | Saw it with my new set of eyes.I started down the Red Pill rabbit hole after I dated a feminist and that experience led me to research feminist theory because I couldn't understand the crazy that came out of her mouth. In feminist circles there is a phenomenon known as the 'click' moment, when the ideology sets in and they perceive the world through the eyes of oppression. The red pill has the same 'click' effect but you begin to see the world almost as a table top game with very relaxed rules, and the blue pill indoctrinatio… | /r/MGTOW | 29/04/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Showerthought: If everyone can choose whichever gender they are doesn't that just make us have one huge gender and thus everyone is essentially heterogeneous? A concept the very same people are trying to destroy.When asked to define infinity, the lay person will say something like: a really big number. This is generally good enough. How many numbers are there between the integers 0 and 1? Infinty. Sex is binary. You are born a woman (0) or a man (1), with the exception of the rare genetic mutation. Biology (hormones) and personality (socialization) will manifest an infinite possibilty of expressions (individual humans) within these bounds. Attempting to create categories outside the bounds of zero and o… | /r/MGTOW | 28/04/18 11:00 PM |
| 19 | "the one thing that women had going for them has been taken away, the one respect in which they had the last laugh over their husbands and lovers," or why paternity testing is evil.That was satire right? Right? | /r/MGTOW | 28/04/18 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Yet another broad lecturing on how to be a real man.I'll sum the article up with two quotes so you don't have to click. "A leader commands attention, doesn’t pull punches, leads the troops, calls the shots, defeats the opposition. This can be a damaging downward spiral, but if men don’t lead in this way, they may be considered ineffective, thereby making them feel like they are less of a man." and "Until masculinity is more broadly defined to include feminine traits, we will have a hard time redefining leadership and companies will not achieve th… | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/18 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Lost a long time female friend when I shared some truth with her.Good on you for helping your ex in difficult times. As men we're built to provide and protect, and we don't have to lose that part of our humanity just because the social game has castigated us. I'd even argue that we MGTOW need to embrace it as we reclaim masculinity as virtuous. As we go our own way and pursue self-actualization, sooner or later we must climb the mountain of forgiveness and mutual respect. The top of that mountain is our rightful place. As for the friend, the truth hurts and c… | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Notorious feminist Clementine Ford is having a field day with the Toronto van attackIf you were born a dude and don't identify as a chick then you're cis. It's a derogatory term used by trans and trans-defenders to dismiss the opinions of anybody that identifies as the sex they were born as. | /r/MGTOW | 26/04/18 04:44 AM |
| 15 | feeling good not giving a fuckNice. A piece of advice for you: It is difficult to maintain the IDGAF mindset perpetually. It will come and go, usually with a sense of loneliness or any variety of other old emotions popping up when you're down. When you're down just be aware of it and adjust. Keep at it and over time IDGAF becomes your dominant mindset. Then you're untouchable. Cheers brother. | /r/MGTOW | 25/04/18 07:29 PM |
| 11 | whos going ti look after you?My grandpa's brother was a life-long bachelor and a really great dude, I always looked forward to visiting him. When he was 85 he walked out into his front yard, called the police and told them there was a body at his address, then ate a bullet out of his favorite handgun, the .357 magnum my grandpa carried with him in WW2, which is now in my possession. Sounds pretty good to me. Honestly though, take a look around and tell me with a straight face that we aren't on the precipice of some seriousl… | /r/MGTOW | 24/04/18 03:47 AM |
| 9 | Why does God hate gay people?Indeed. The term 'God' is a catch-all in western society and it can mean the bearded, judgmental white dude in the sky as per the dimwits or a higher order that us little folk cannot, at this point, fully comprehend. I believe it was Tesla that stated, "The day science begins to study non-physical phenomena, it will make more progress in one decade than in all the previous centuries of its existence." I believe, in essence, he was referring to 'God'. | /r/MGTOW | 21/04/18 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Why does God hate gay people?A voice of reason! Cheers my man. | /r/MGTOW | 21/04/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Why does God hate gay people?If you're responding to me personally... yeah, no shit. I'm not a Christian. If you're barking at the collective 'you' then what's the point? It's a goddam joke. | /r/MGTOW | 21/04/18 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Which types of women do you consider ideal for a serious relationship?I won't recommend injecting heroin into one's arm either, but if they're going to do it anyway... | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/18 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Not giving a fuckWe can make an argument that it's all just cope, right? Avoidance of pain and seeking of pleasure. What I was getting at is the internal contradiction of trying to be something. I'll give you another example: the "alpha" male. If you ever see a guy pointing out the "beta" behavior in another guy, and claiming the "alpha" title for himself, he is only proving himself to be a "beta". "Alpha" has no need for such nonsense. "Alpha" is a state of being, and not a state of trying to be. Buddhism seeks… | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/18 10:23 PM |
| 14 | Which types of women do you consider ideal for a serious relationship?You're in the MGTOW sub asking for advice on which types of women to date... ok. I'll lay out some things to help you navigate the steaming fecal flotsam floating around in the sea of modern dating. First, I'm not really sure basing your prospects on job type is too helpful. A girl that uses little to no social media, however, is a good sign. Step 1: Always, always, always remember that YOU are the prize. Do not ever be afraid to say no or show a girl the door. Make her prove herself to you. If … | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/18 07:47 PM |
| 14 | Not giving a fuckWhen you boil down Buddhism to it's core, the purpose is to remove desire from your life. No desire, no suffer. So the budding Buddhist goes forth desiring not to desire. Do you see where I'm going with this? Trying to not give a fuck is itself giving a fuck. Also, your state of mind... not giving a fuck... is not your personality. Separate those two concepts asap. If you don't want to give a fuck then you must realize that you're already dead. That is to say that at any moment you can drop dead… | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/18 03:35 PM |
| 2 | What is MGTOW, really?I guess I'll call myself a confirmed bachelor then. Doesn't change the value in the philosophy and shared knowledge. These purity tests don't really help anyone and makes MGTOW analogous to intersectional feminism. "I'm not one of those white feminists, I'm a queer femme black feminist!" "You're not a real MGTOW, only monks are MGTOW!" Don't pander for pussy, don't mix material possessions, don't cohabitate, and definitely do not get married. Those are rules 3-6 of MGTOW. | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/18 12:16 AM |
| 12 | My Soul Just Broke a Little...Working in the trenches! We need more men willing to mentor the youngsters. Keep up the good work, man. | /r/MGTOW | 19/04/18 11:41 PM |
| 10 | My Soul Just Broke a Little...Yep. Unfortunately it's not a new feeling for me either. Not much else we can do but keep on keepin' on. | /r/MGTOW | 19/04/18 11:38 PM |
| 2 | My Soul Just Broke a Little...https://youtu.be/O-LMeKlk2HY | /r/MGTOW | 19/04/18 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Considering going my own way via suicide. What are your thoughts on this?I feel ya man. We may have a lot in common. I have moments when I wish it were more of a struggle, that perhaps I have been too successful. I'm in my 30's, own my place outright, have a nest egg that allows me to work as I please, my hobbies and lifestyle are inexpensive, and I'm always trying to find the truth in this world which affords me little patience for the bullshit of people and the system. If I had to struggle to get by it might just give the day-to-day more meaning. Comfort is a burde… | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/18 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Reading recommendationsAlan Watts: The book on the Taboo Against Knowing Who You Are and The Wisdom of Insecurity Robert Bly: Iron John | /r/MGTOW | 18/04/18 02:48 AM |
| 9 | Who knew that my female friend would trigger my alarm bells and enable me to go light-speed into the rabbit holeAllow me to share my story: I've been living the MGTOW lifestyle for about six years, and though I'd heard the term, I had never gone down the rabbit hole. I live what you might call the confirmed bachelor version of MGTOW. I'm a serial monogamist. It started when I wised up and ended a five year cohabiting relationship after coming to the conclusion that I was little more than a wallet. I kept thinking how thankful I was that we never got married and the breakup was relatively smooth. I've prob… | /r/MGTOW | 17/04/18 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting in shape has destroyed my dating lifeYou and I are not much different. I could tell you the sob story of my childhood but I'll just say that I was an angry, sad, frustrated wreck all the way through my college years. The reason I enjoy commenting here is because I went through an incredible spiritual journey to rid myself of the heavy burdens of my youth before I ever got into seduction. When I did get into seduction it was very easy for me because I had spent years working on my inner game without knowing what inner game was, I ju… | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Getting in shape has destroyed my dating lifeOk, I hear you. Once again there is some good news here. You have awareness of the root problem and you want to move past all that bad shit so that you can live a full life. It's going to be a hard process and requires that you rewire your brain. You are a badass dude with so much to offer the world. However you haven't been living your own life. You've been living the life other people decided for you. Every time you make a decision based on your self doubt you are giving power to all the bad s… | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Getting in shape has destroyed my dating lifeFirst of all find a therapist. It really sounds to me like you need to talk some shit out. Been there myself and I felt a lot of shame at first but it was huge for me. Anxiety is a bitch. Look at the progress you have made. Using drugs was your crutch and obviously unhealthy enough for you to decide to stop. You DECIDED to stop popping and got yourself into the gym. That's huge. Now you have recognized the symptom (anxiety) to the root cause of your issue. Where does that anxiety come from? What… | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 06:01 AM |
| 6 | I got caught checking her out and I don't even careI gotta say man, this is the mindset that so many posters on this sub fail to wrap their heads around. Learning seduction is a spiritual game, it's a journey of Self. Being honest and comfortable with yourself is the most important thing. Keep it up. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:52 AM |
| 4 | Where do you go other than bars to meet women?Let's start with why you don't like bars, what activities and hobbies do you enjoy, and what type of women would you like to date? I enjoy museums and they tend to have a lot of free event nights, social bike rides and run groups, and dance and cooking classes. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:46 AM |
| 19 | How to stop being goofy?This is a bit odd to me because one thing that I changed in my 20s, which helped me tremendously in my social life, was moving from being the "serious" guy to being a fun loving goofball. I don't know dude, embrace the goofy but try to have more situational awareness as to when it's appropriate or not? | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | anyone in here have ideas for older couple where sex has stopped or low libido from one person?Happy to help. Feel free to PM me if you have more specific questions. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 02:30 AM |
| 1 | anyone in here have ideas for older couple where sex has stopped or low libido from one person?I have a good friend that was dealing with the same issue after they had their second child. He finally asked me for advice and this is how we brought the fire back to his life: He was dressing like 1995. Baggy jeans, sneakers, too big t-shirts, and he didn't keep up with haircuts. I know his wife well enough to know she would appreciate him putting in a little more effort. He spent about $250 and had two pair of proper fitting jeans, a nice pair of chukkas, and three fitted non-tuck button down… | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | How can I frame hangouts as something that isn't just between friends?Invite her along to something you are either already going to do, or would like to do. Make it a statement and not a question. "Hey Stranger! I'm going to a bonfire Thursday night, you should join me." "I'm going to check out this art exhibit Saturday, you can tag along if you have some free time." "Need a change of pace? I'm heading down to X bar for a whiskey drink tonight." If she is busy then she is busy and you do your thing, if she isn't busy and wants to hang out then she will join you. U… | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 2 | How to get over intimidation/anxiety around women's guy friendsI agree that self-esteem is a big part of it. A tactic you can use to make yourself more comfortable in this situation is to invest time and energy in getting to know the guys better. Imagine a situation where your buddy invites you to hangout with him and a few of his other friends that you haven't met. Are you going to be intimidated to meet your buddy's friends? Probably not. You're going to chat them up about whatever and make up your own mind on if they're chill dudes or not, right? The onl… | /r/seduction | 21/10/17 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Constructive criticism for a FRYou could have suggested playing a game. There are many conversation based games out there: 20 questions, associations, 2 truths 1 lie, fact or fiction, never have I ever, etc... I like to play a game where you say the name of a band and the other person has to come up with a band that starts with the last letter of the previous one. Tool, Led Zeppelin, Nirvana. If you do it right you're going to learn a lot more about each other than the usual where ya from conversation. Games allow for a lot o… | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Question about expectations when going out.When you pick up a new hobby what are your expectations the first time you do it? Say you've never danced in your life and you sign up for a swing dancing class. Do you expect to be Fred Astaire? No, the only thing you should expect is to get better with practice. When approaching women there is an extra layer on this. With a solo hobby you have 100% control, with approaching you have maybe 40% control, as she has her life going on too. Expect nothing means you're doing it for fun, because it sh… | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I think I pinned down what the source of my AA is.Perception is reality. If you perceive the world is against you then it is. If you perceive the world is hoping you get her number, it is. | /r/seduction | 16/10/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Completely lost, please helpYou're doing fine man. The only advice I can offer is to remember that there are a billion fish in the sea so don't get hung up on this one. Keep that mind frame going forward as to not put pressure on this one girl. Force yourself to touch her more when in the non-work setting, it's still the man's role to escalate. It's better to ask forgiveness for being bold than to regret what might have been. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop fucking talking around a pretty girl.Dude, chill. You have already recognized the problem. You can't shut up and maybe come off narcissistic because of it. It sounds like you're just anxious though. So work on the problem in front of you. Just shut up. Smile, laugh, whatever but just shut up. You have a habit of turning the conversation to yourself. This will happen again as it's your default. Learn to recognize it when you're doing it. Once you're self aware pivot the conversation to asking a question of the other person or group … | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take before I should expect any kind of result?It sounds to me like you're going out just to try to talk to women and not actually enjoying the bigger event going on. Working on your comfort to approach is huge and it sounds like you have made some strides there. Now it's time to work on having a good time for YOURSELF in the process, which makes you a fun guy to be around. You are in the stage where every decision you make is a calculation, from who to talk with to what to say, and you're tripping over your own feet. Don't stop man. However… | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Just wondering..I'd recommend you pick up a copy of The Game by Neil Strauss | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What would YOU talk about with a 16y old girl in your class?The only way to get over these kind of feelings is to lean into the punch. That is to say face your fear and get experience. All you have to say is "Hi, I'm Nopainagain." It helps if you have a genuine smile on your face. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Completely lost, please helpDid you make physical contact at all other than the hug? Did she sit right next to you after the couple left? Did she touch your arm or keep hitting you in the shoulder? Was she mirroring your body language? Were you mirroring hers? Did you look down at her lips after eye contact at any point? Did she lick or bite her lips? Work friends can be tricky because she might be interested but that's an extra mental hurdle to jump over for both of you. Gotta escalate kino and gauge her reaction. | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 07:22 AM |
| 3 | Asking my co worker for her numberShe was/is interested. The aggression is because you didn't make a move. Find an event coming up soon that you want to go to, preferably something free or cheap. Next time you see her tell her, "I'm going to this event on this day, why don't you tag along." Make it a statement. If she says yes then ask for her number. If she says no but maybe something on Saturday, get her number. If she just says no, pay it no mind and see how she responds over your next few interactions. Doesn't have to be an … | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Are people attracted to you the mirror of what you look like?Life is a funny business. The truth of it is that you're going to hurt people and people are going to hurt you. Go into it with an open mind - you're not attracted to her and that likely isn't going to change, but she may end up being a cool chick that you actually want to be friends with. I know a lot of the redpill thought out there says otherwise but my experience shows me that having women on your side goes a long way. She may end up being a dud and if so then you move on. She might catch th… | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Are people attracted to you the mirror of what you look like?To answer your question: No. A girl that isn't in your league (I'm assuming) thinks you're attractive. That's that. Here is some unorthodox advice based on how you described yourself and your journey. Hang out with this girl. Who cares if she isn't attractive. You are on a long journey friend. It's a marathon as they say. Hang out with her and friend zone her. Here you have a non-threatening girl to practice on and build confidence. Take the myriad advice on the internet about flirting and put i… | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 03:06 AM |
| 3 | Guys, how did you get college FWBs and fuck buddy's?Study/homework groups worked wonders for me. I took the lead in organizing groups in all of my classes. After scoping out the class for the first couple weeks I would start inviting people, girls and guys, to meet me at the time and place I planned to do my work anyway. Yes, I actually focused on getting my work done and it wasn't just a setup to flirt. Actually, I was rather naive back then and the result of getting girls was a happy side effect. Take the lead. Be in charge of organizing and be… | /r/seduction | 14/10/17 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Went from a decent level in seduction, to close-to-zero ability. Am I the only one?I hear you man. The good news is that you've identified the problem. You're in your head, letting the ego bring you into negative spaces. No worries, it happens to everybody. The solution? Change your mental inputs, and let the id out. Think of the ego as the voice in your head, and the id as the inner child that is curious about every little aspect of life. The ego is an asshole telling you that you're not attractive enough, that she won't talk to you, that you're not good enough. That you're n… | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Went from a decent level in seduction, to close-to-zero ability. Am I the only one?I honestly believe that we are mirrors to the world and the reflection others see when they are around us depends on what we see, or how we feel, in ourselves. This is why sad people attract other sad people, angry guys attract broken women, movie stars date movie stars, etc... I go through funks where I don't feel like putting energy into my social life and the way my friends respond, as well as women I talk to, reflect that. I look the same, laugh the same, talk the same, flirt the same, but I… | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 06:48 PM |
| 3 | If there is one thing you'd say gave you the most success with women, what would that be?Sexual experience in an LTR gave me more confidence which led me to reading many books on developing even more confidence which led me to flirting with everybody which led me to not giving a fuck which led me to having a strong and likeable self-identity. TL/DR Inner Game | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | What are some fun first date games that you can play with a girl that allow for an excuse to escalate/kino?Have a chance to try it out yet? | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Can I go on dates without picking up the woman in my car?For sure. I talk A LOT with my hands, smile, and tone of voice, and can get away with being a snarky smartass. For someone more reserved or still getting comfortable your example is much better. It seems we agree to make her realize it reflects on her if she really cares about the vehicle situation. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Can I go on dates without picking up the woman in my car?Simple and clean, I like it. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | [17m] What to talk to her about?I wish I had a resource like this when I was 17.... You already have rapport with her which is great. You go to school with her so you must have some idea of what interests her outside of school, right? The conversation isn't about you, it's about her. Open the conversation in your comfort zone (talking about mutual school stuff) and let it flow for a bit, then be assertive and say: No. I don't want to talk about school. Tell me about (and fill in the blank with something you think she will be e… | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Can I go on dates without picking up the woman in my car?I'm in my 30s and date mostly successful, professional types and hipster girls. I do not even own a car. If a girl gives you shit about your car situation just give it right back. Women have a number of filters they use to cut through the men asking them out and the materials issue is actually a pretty small one. It's easy for them to use because it's superficial, and it's also easy to bypass by qualifying them: Her: Oh. You don't have a car? Me: No. Why waste my money on a car? You seemed like … | /r/seduction | 28/09/17 06:36 PM |
| 3 | What can I do to get a girl to kiss me?The key to being a guy that women want to be around is to be You, 100%. The definition of suffering from Nice Guy Syndrome is trying to be the guy you THINK girls want to be around. You're a kid and you're inexperienced. Can you accept that? Good. The first thing to do is stop worrying about the fact that your friends are getting laid and you aren't. What to do next is to start learning how to be Rocket Starlord because that guy is cool and fun to be around. Here are three books to get started l… | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 04:00 AM |
| 3 | I'm too professional once ON dateMy advice would be to get away from the tables and chairs. Go DO something, get coffee to go and walk around a park or something. Go to a kitschy shop or bookstore, bar with pinball, etc... this will give you more topics of conversation than just you and her. It also makes it easier and more natural to escalate kino. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Old fart needs helpIf you don't want to straight up ask her and you have time to slow play it over several visits you can go fishing. So you already have rapport, assuming you know each other's names and she doesn't take you to be a creep. So now you have to create attraction, or bait the hook. Your goal is to get her to bite. How to bait the hook? Find a mutual interest. Maybe you are a decent cook. She has to eat. You go in and mosey up to the bar. The usual? Actually just a shot of Jameson, I made a gumbo tonig… | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 04:51 AM |
| 21 | What are some fun first date games that you can play with a girl that allow for an excuse to escalate/kino?I have a favorite coffee shop near a record store. I have her meet me for coffee and if it is going well I suggest that we walk over and browse the record store (changing venue bonus). Once in the store I suggest a game where we each find an album that has some personal meaning and then we have to tell the other why. So I go grab The Offspring 'Smash' and she grabs Britney Spears. I tell her that Smash was the first album I ever purchased, she tells me something about Britney. Then I grab the Ch… | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 04:31 AM |
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