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I just want to use dating apps (live in NYC) so I can get some plates spinning which will A. Make me happier by at least having some sex in my life and B. then give me abundance mentality and confidence to really pursue women IRL
/r/seduction02/05/19 09:06 PM
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What you mean
/r/seduction28/04/19 06:17 PM
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You are considering her the prize No, no... he's displaying outcome independence. He's basically understanding that she may not be into him for any random reason and thus the focus for us should be to improve our communication and simply not display low value. Then things will fall into place. Because we're not "gaming" women we're being open and honest and communicating that clearly. "letting her choose" I mean yeah dude you can't force attraction. That never works. You are relaxed and displayi…
/r/seduction26/04/19 02:37 PM
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I'm all of those things (not that tall I guess, 5' 10) and even though I've had great success in the past, lately I'm off my game and have not been successful whatsoever. We're not chicks man, looks aren't everything. Attractive women don't date attractive guys they go for non-needy alpha males
/r/seduction25/04/19 04:02 PM
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Bill Burr is married to some black lady who bosses him around... your examples are weak. Jeter is of course an alpha, he was one of the greatest Yankees of all time.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 03:39 AM
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So are you setting how high the fence is or are you asking them? And then you let them set the fence height and then ask them if they climb it?? I just don't get it.
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:39 PM
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How do you go about attracting subs? Is it like a development thing where you ease into it or are you kind of straight up
/r/seduction17/04/19 04:24 PM
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Contro?
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:37 PM
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? It's a good show, you're missing out. One out of every 5 chicks I match with on dating apps we talk about game of thrones. Being in touch with pop culture is pretty important for socializing in general my autistic friend. And as my post suggests, you can learn a ton from this show
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:18 PM
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He was an orbiter, Cersei wasn't letting him get any, but then he put his balls on the line and gave her a bit of an ultimatum. And she caved to his frame Obviously not the most comparable situation but I think the highlights are: persistence, knowing your true value, and lastly as in Euron's case, not giving a single fuck. He was risking his life for the chance for something greater, to become a king and fuck the queen.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 04:16 PM
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This is a massive generalization, plenty of sexy women wanna be successful. If anything, they understand their looks can get them places in life further than if they were ugly You're misconstruing gender and intelligence -- dumb guys think exactly the same way, being dumb is the true curse I would never wish for. Maybe the real question is would I rather be a dumb attractive women or a smart ugly woman? That's a lot tougher
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 11:41 PM
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Lol wut? I'm saying yeah she can waste your time and get you right down to the moment where you want to fuck and then if deep down she's not sensing you're an alpha and doesn't want the risk of bearing your child, she'll get LMR and not fuck. Scary in the sense that it's just so subconscious and non-gameable. Also I feel like I tend to get used for validation because I'm a good looking guy and so alpha widows want to get that validation from me but then don't fuck (for whatever reason)
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:32 PM
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This is the scariest advice cause at the end of the day you can't control attraction. Women will always go along with the show because they want to have that affirmation that a guy was willing to fuck them, but when it actually comes to putting it in that's when they will only be satisfied if they think you're high enough value for them.
/r/seduction29/03/19 04:15 PM
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While I don't really believe this story, the message is obviously true -- you need to pursue whatever you want in life because one day you'll be dead. Of course, all of us humans never truly grasp that reality and think we'll be special and exempt, but oftentimes in a situation like this we are reminded of it starkly. Definitely was a motivating factor for me early on, was realizing I'm not getting any younger and so the window for meeting young women who I can genuinely connect with (AKA not be…
/r/seduction27/03/19 07:29 PM
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Freddie Mercury made it work, you see that bitch he had early in the movie?
/r/askTRP27/03/19 03:27 AM
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Ah but see I'm just getting off the ground -- will absolutely try this. Once I get momentum I'll be able to start being a bit more discerning. I guess I just needed to hear that you can indeed be this upfront and the world won't end. Thanks man
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:44 AM
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Then go get em tiger! Yeah see i wouldn't exactly be here if it was that simple. It's the going and the getting part that I've forgotten how to figure out
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:42 AM
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No I'm not -- I don't want to trigger it in the first place. I try to be non-judgmental and make them feel comfortable showing their true selves to me. Ideally their kinky and deviant sexual selves. Instead all I get are stale girls who aren't exciting me and who I can't even bang
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:41 AM
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Be careful though. Lots of guys who are usually the "relationship type" find that casual isn't as easy as they think. The line between FWB and relationship can quickly blur, and accidental feelings are always a potential side effect. Haha that's such a good problem to have man. Last time I successfully plated girls I was loving my life and just so self-assured and happy. Haven't felt that way in like a year. Even proceeding to want to jump into a relationship was only to further my learning expe…
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:40 AM
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Right exactly, this is what I mean it's clearly coming across as needy since I'm kind of after validation from the sex. Like my question asking "is it ok" is certainly not in any sort of moral ethical sense -- it's more that is telling myself or others that I want casual sex the wrong mindset? Like obviously it's a terrible mindset to go into a bar/club trying to hit on women to get laid. How do the naturals do it? Do they do it truly not caring about the outcome? Or is it more like they go to "…
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:34 AM
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How? Implied through my actions? Verbatim? "I only want to fuck lots of different girls"
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:26 AM
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I'll start trying that more often. I'm all about being open and honest! My only worry is that I am chasing away girls where it would be implied if we met up but by putting it more frankly it will scare them away. Ie the girls in the middle who would sleep with me knowing I'm implicitly there to fuck
/r/seduction26/03/19 02:25 AM
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Of course it's LMR, I know it well -- there's a difference here though where it's not just one or two situations but a common theme I'm coming across. There's something I'm doing and women are picking up on it and sensing it, I'm not getting them to open up I guess
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:57 AM
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Yeah, you need to establish this much earlier on, like prior to meeting. Got it, so I guess specifically for apps too is how I should be playing it. You give great advice so thanks for your help. FWIW I'm like late-20's so I guess part of it too is that this is when girls start wanting to settle down? Of course I have no interest in that whatsoever. Let me ask you this, how should I be making my interest in a hookup/casual sex if I'm at a bar/club and meeting girls in person? I feel like with th…
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:55 AM
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Yeah totally agree with your first part, I don't try to logic with them obviously haha. In fact that's what is confusing right, is that they're naked on my bed and I'm kissing them grabbing their titties so obviously I'm quite "fine with her" fucking me, I'm being clear with my intention in that that's what I want to happen. I'm coming across seriously because I used to have better luck and there's been a slew of girls recently that all followed a similar pattern. All met on apps as well. It's b…
/r/seduction26/03/19 01:50 AM
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I needed to hear this myself bro. Thanks
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:15 AM
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Somebody's been playing too much Assassin's Creed
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 05:42 PM
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I tell the blonde I'm leaving soon, and she's welcome to come with if she wants to. Interesting that you didn't straight up ask her / tell her to come with you, you just said I'm out you wanna come with? Might try that one, takes the pressure off the girl and gives them a slight bit more of plausible deniability as she's just "tagging along"
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 04:06 AM
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So what are you supposed to do when you're horny? Just jerk it and move on with your life?
/r/seduction19/03/19 10:51 PM
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Can't seem to find it.
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:38 PM
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Once you've had sex, everything gets easier. Of course, this is exactly how my last LTR happened -- I was in abundance, caught a coffee with her on a random Saturday in Brooklyn, and we ended up going back to her place to fuck. From then on, absolutely like you said, the context was set and she continued to be very intimate with me. From there I dropped my other plates and stuck with her because I wanted some practice being in a more committed relationship. It ended up perfecting my sex game and…
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:24 PM
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Tell her when it's become a done deal. IE when we've already had sex? But that's the part I'm not getting to, because these women are giving me weird LMR -- I'll get them on my bed, partially or even completely naked... and then they'll just say nope nope and even though I'm cool with it (obviously) I'm getting the sense that they're sensing my lack of congruity
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:21 PM
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Nah man fuck that
/r/seduction14/03/19 07:20 PM
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Show me bobs and vageenee
/r/seduction14/03/19 06:31 PM
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Lol, I know I sound autistic, is there like, a guide? All my friends seem to be good at having one night stands, I don't know how to go about it though
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:53 PM
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Right, I'm struggling though, I want casual sex but most girls I meet don't seem to be down
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:50 PM
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Right -- but at what point in the interaction? Example -- I'm seeing this chick tonight I met on an app, weve chatted a bit for some small talk already. Within like, 15 minutes of meeting her should I drop the bomb?
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:32 PM
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I make it clear that I’m not looking to commit beforehand. I'm curious how you meet these women and when you drop these lines -- like, if I meet a chick on an app, when should I tell her I'm basically only interested in fucking / friends with benefits? During texting phase or on the first date? Or only after you've had sex?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:47 PM
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Empty platitude
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:44 AM
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I mean bro I want to be a natural -- do you think all the natural alpha guys who slay chicks whenever they want have to read books to understand techniques and "What to say"? Models is great because of the philosophy and life advice it provides, not because I'm learning pick up lines. I found great success with Models, plated girls and ended up LTRing one for a year and a half until I broke up with her because I wanted to fuck other women -- unfortunately, I'm not as good as I want to be at havi…
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:13 PM
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She's just manipulating you / using you for validation man
/r/seduction13/03/19 07:47 PM
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Always be happy, never be content
/r/TheRedPill13/03/19 07:00 PM
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Techniques are important for beginners. I am not a beginner. I live in NYC going out to all the popular bars and am competing amongst the top guys in the city for the top girls in the city. Hence why if there's a situation where a girl of lower value is interested in me, I have no problem showing interest. It's the higher quality women where OP's disinterest advice can apparently be more effective than the Manson Model. I'm not awkward with women and I don't need any dumb "techniques" like you'r…
/r/seduction13/03/19 06:43 PM
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Models is written by a guy who doesn't have much experience himself and never taught anybody else I mean that's just not true though, he's fucked 100's of girls (at least he says he does, I don't think he lies) and he has indeed been a dating coach for a while. OP said he at first just didn't give a fuck and only then when he saw how it was working became more conscious of it and started doing it on purpose. Check out some of the other comments. Anyway I think Manson's concept of non-neediness i…
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:20 PM
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See this completely contradicts the Models advice of being forward and bold and expressing your desire for her. Shit like this is what makes me so uncertain if I'm expressing too much interest or too little
/r/seduction12/03/19 01:59 PM
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I was just in Zurich! Partied at some amazing club with a South Korean DJ, had a blast
/r/seduction09/03/19 08:00 PM
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Wtf this is gold
/r/seduction05/03/19 03:40 AM
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I'm with you man, girls compliment my facial looks all the time, but there's minimal transferrability to actually getting laid. At best I find it opens more doors for me by allowing me to approach in bolder situations but the drivers of success are status and personal attitude, looks is only a method to get your foot in the door. What's frustrating is that it feelsbad when you fall short of your goals in a given interaction and then even when you find success people will just write you off as be…
/r/seduction05/03/19 03:34 AM
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I used to have abundance and totally get what you're saying. But having gone through a dry patch I'm really "forgetting" everything I experienced and learned from my previous stage. It's fucking weird, I've never been in such a mental rut where I know I used to slay but nowadays I just am lacking the innate drive and intuition. My development has not only stopped but has reset itself and gone backwards Feeling MIGHTY scarce
/r/seduction05/03/19 03:15 AM
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What does RMT stand for here? And yeah see my comment below -- I've had an addictive relationship with gaming in the past and understood how to overcome it and quit it cold turkey (just like juul or any other addictive substance) but the problem for me is that I feel a large sunk cost having played these competitive e-sports titles for a long time, and I'm attracted to the Twitch Streaming ideal of becoming famous for streaming. I watch streamers, both the mega-popular ones like Shroud & Ninja b…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 04:09 PM
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Damn. What's so alluring to me too is that now that video games have become more mainstream, you see people like Shroud and Ninja becoming famous and millionaires from streaming. That concept is so attractive and I know deep down I could achieve success like that if I really tried and had a smart plan. I don't know how to reconcile a genuine passion for gaming while also recognizing my addictive personality and realization that I could be going out and doing real shit
/r/TheRedPill03/03/19 08:54 PM
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The real question is how does that come across. I don't mind complimenting a woman IRL when it will be seen as bold but online it seems cheesy because I haven't even seen her yet. Even if I do think she's cute I feel like it comes across as lame
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:06 PM
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Right, it's a good polarizing question when you're basically at the make or break stage texting a girl
/r/seduction27/02/19 08:59 PM
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Lol gotcha. Was mostly messing around
/r/seduction27/02/19 07:02 PM
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The real question here, is do you do the black-man nod or white-man nod? IE, Up or down?
/r/seduction27/02/19 06:16 PM
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There is a level of entry for online If anything I think about the opposite -- you can use dating apps to get a bit of abundance, which helps your real life approaches. You can't practice true abundance if you are starting out cold and having no fall back / no base of confidence
/r/seduction26/02/19 03:58 PM
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I got accepted into West Point bruh I am very well versed in warfare. My point is this is some gay ass Men's Rights shit that comes across to me as complaining. Should we be happy that we live in a feminist society that requires women to be part of the draft too? Do you think the patriarchal societies in the east would allow this shit? What's the end goal here?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 05:56 PM
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Who gives a fuck about this?? This is like the last reason I come on here to read about this shit. While you're out at a bar go ahead and tell chicks about this and see if it gets you laid, or makes you look like a fucking pussy loser
/r/TheRedPill25/02/19 04:50 PM
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TL;DR Don't lose the forest for the trees
/r/TheRedPill21/02/19 05:20 PM
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I'm at work and can't watch, TL;DR?
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:16 PM
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it's time to reclaim your edge while you can. ...right. I agree. I'm just confused how I thought I had everything figured out and had achieved deep inner satisfaction but now that I've lost the chick I've lost the "Frame" that went with it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 04:30 PM
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Let's just say I have indeed been invited to the depravity before. But now that it's over I lost my edge and lost the sense of deep inner confidence arising from having won the love and affection of a woman like that. I'm back at square one it seems in a lot of respects and I'm wholly stuck in a rut spinning my wheels
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 06:14 AM
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It was pretty classic LMR / anti-slut defense because she was sitting on my bed staring at me but when I would try to escalate she'd keep saying no but then not get dressed / leave. I asked her and she admitted she's less experienced sexually which is totally fine but after multiple times de-escalating and then re-escalating and failing I just got tired of it and kind indicated its over. I might try to hit her up again because I understand she's hesitant and I could see myself making it a thing,…
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:06 AM
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Agreed, this is troll. Hasn't even given any advice on slamming chicks so what the fuck do I care about this bullshit
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:51 PM
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Fuuuck my ex went to Parsons
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:17 AM
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Because it's the truth
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:04 AM
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Dude those two resources for me were money. I feel like I've been full circle with my seduction experience -- I broke my boundaries and left my comfort zone, started being more social and approaching people more. Proceeded to get some plates and eventually picked me favorite plate to make my girlfriend for over a year. Then things stagnated and we broke up and now I'm feeling back at square one instead of having learned from all these experiences I feel quite lost. Where do we go from here?
/r/seduction14/02/19 08:36 PM
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Seriously though: /u/TheJoeyJoeJoe curious to get your thoughts on this bullet point. How do you express intent and sexuality without kissing them? And doesn't it seem like a lack of escalation if you're not going from touch to kissing to fucking? Appears to me like a natural progression. And just on my end anecdotally, anytime I've first-date fucked I've kissed the girl first. Now like I said, normally I kiss every girl on the first date, so my sample is a bit muddied. Are you talking dirty and…
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:43 AM
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Lately? I've been on such a dry streak. But bruh, there was a time I was fucking so often I was getting tired of it
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:37 AM
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I rarely kiss before getting to the bedroom. It kills the sexual tension. Wow, that's a surprise to me. But a welcome one, to be sure -- I've been having trouble closing on the first date but I always get to the kissing part. Maybe I'm killing the sexual tension too soon? Because what I feel like inevitably happens is I kiss them, they reciprocate (your last bullet is gold -- if a girl is willing to go "on a date" with you, she's willing to fuck) and then we make out a bit more before I try and …
/r/seduction11/02/19 10:01 PM
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Fuck man, what if you want to become a Twitch streamer or work in the video game industry? That's the deep conflict I'm having with myself right now -- video games began probably as a form of escapism and certainly were addicting for me at various points in my life. But I do genuinely enjoy them and have an exciting life outside of them as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 04:37 PM
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Our gender is built on taking risks my man. The core concept of finance is managing risk -- which is exactly what you do by first getting experience with women and the gamut they range, and then picking the right one to be the mother of your children. My thoughts on the matter as a mid-20's guy living in a big city are that I want to meet as many women as possible, learn what I like and what's important to me in a woman, and then build enough resources for myself and have the option to raise a h…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 03:42 AM
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Needed to hear this, thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 05:20 PM
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Agreed, bad attitude saying any particular setting / source of meeting women "only has bad quality" isn't true. That being said, online dating is definitely an inefficient way to meet the higher quality ones. By definition it helps lower attractive girls
/r/seduction26/01/19 08:30 PM
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And the only solution is more cowbell
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:20 PM
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It's not popular/unpopular it's just not even relevant
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:46 PM
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Man that's a dumb train of thought. Who cares how they would or would not cope, this is the way it is
/r/seduction17/01/19 06:39 PM
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Nice username lol
/r/seduction14/01/19 09:13 PM
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ts funny half the time this sub goes back to le tribal society example. I do think it's a useful mindset to put yourself into. Understanding what life was like when the necessities of reality were imprinted in stone into our genetic code. Your points about how modern day life are so vastly different from 99% of our species existence is what makes this more important. The perspective of our ancestors is helpful in motivating you today. Evolutionary psychology is a real field of study
/r/TheRedPill14/01/19 04:15 AM
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Playing down This is super interesting thanks for giving the extra context. I feel like I stand out a bit in social situations and therefore don't meet a lot of expectations. Where can I read more about this playing down concept?
/r/seduction14/01/19 04:03 AM
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Seems to have been removed
/r/seduction14/01/19 03:41 AM
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Nobody calls it the Jane Hotel bruh it's just the Jane
/r/seduction09/01/19 02:17 AM
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False false false It's about having a good group of friends to go out with and knowing the right places to go to meet new people.
/r/seduction07/01/19 06:39 PM
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This line of thinking is absolutely gold. Thank you
/r/seduction07/01/19 05:33 AM
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I genuinely feel sorry for you man. I share the exact same sentiment with OP. That's what is amazing about being male, is not being bound by your looks in the same way women are (sexually speaking). Getting laid is entirely about your inner game, we are not chicks dude, being pretty as a dude is more or less useless
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 08:15 PM
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I genuinely feel sorry for you man. I share the exact same sentiment with OP. That's what is amazing about being male, is not being bound by your looks in the same way women are (sexually speaking). Getting laid is entirely about your inner game, we are not chicks dude, being pretty as a dude is more or less useless
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 08:14 PM
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Being "picture attractive" as a dude is not that important at all. At best it lets you approach situations where maybe an "uglier" guy wouldn't be able to, but it's always about personality and closing skills that actually gets you laid. Plenty of great looking guys who get laid less than normal looking ones because they have their own issues as well
/r/TheRedPill04/01/19 07:26 PM
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...but that is the pretense as to why I approach lol. Like obviously if there's a situational thing to say to generate a conversation that's ideal, but if you see a gorgeous girl just walking in the street or getting coffee there's literally nothing I can think of other than walking up to her and saying I wanted to talk to you cause I think you're cute or at least something along those lines Even then, I want to make my intentions pretty clear, so eventually I want to tell a girl I like her / th…
/r/seduction04/01/19 04:11 PM
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Feel like a lot of this advice, which is stellar, is in conflict with direct game -- ie, if I go up and approach a woman I'm already "pursuing her" instead of "leading her" How would you take these maxims as it were and apply them to a direct cold approach where you walk up and say hey I think you're cute and wanted to talk to you
/r/seduction04/01/19 12:50 AM
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Nah lol that's not happening. Basically I'm at t he point /u/organiceconomy9 is describing where I am incredibly self-doubtful, and it's crazy to me because I thought I had it all figured out and had abundance and felt super confident in myself and was very self-accepting. I could feel how it bled into social interactions on the day-to-day, I was happier, more driven, enjoyed things more and took more interest in doing new things. I seriously don't know where it all went wrong
/r/seduction02/01/19 05:52 PM
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I made a FR almost two years ago which ended up being a chick I dated for a while. She ended up figuring out my reddit username and found the post and called me out on it haha. Now I've since moved on to an extent but I lost the mojo I had when I met her and dated her early on. I feel extremely lost now, like I'm back and square one and unsure of myself. What do
/r/seduction02/01/19 03:36 PM
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Who's tgod
/r/seduction31/12/18 02:59 PM
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Before the internet though you can't even compare the influence of writing things down for everyone to see. People only lived off the lived experiences and stories they were told
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:59 AM
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The text, says removed
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:15 AM
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Why'd you remove it? Can I get the text?
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:06 AM
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seems like a sanitary thing to do, especially this time of year
/r/TheRedPill28/11/18 12:13 AM
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"What am I gonna do with you?" Said exactly like this
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 05:05 AM
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no its not, its literally the only point of living at the end of the day
/r/seduction15/11/18 04:55 AM
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Neediness
/r/seduction14/11/18 05:12 AM
1

Ok Warren Buffet -- thanks for the investing info
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:50 PM
1

Ok Warren Buffet -- thanks for the investing info
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:50 PM
1

Ok Warren Buffet -- thanks for the investing info
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:49 PM
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Hey man, I'm pretty libertarian in terms of my politics but even I respect the role of government there. Although I guess there is an arbitrage opportunity around state-statutory laws...
/r/seduction24/10/18 07:01 PM
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Hahahahaha head on over to /r/wallstreetbets you belong there EDIT: Just for what it's worth, taking your financial example and extrapolating means you want to pull a Drake and start buying into chicks when they're like...16. Even earlier if you want to really buy low... so..yeah...
/r/seduction24/10/18 04:18 PM
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That's how Dahmer killed his people, careful bruh
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:57 PM
2

I'm in NYC.
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:06 PM
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Bro, on Hinge their algorithm is terrible. I get like 4 DISGUSTING fat, ugly, frankly weird, completely unattractive women in a row... ...and then I get one slamming babe who is obviously not even on the app anymore and most likely a fake account set up by Hinge itself lol It's pretty lame, and from my understanding Hinge is more for dating / relationships versus tinder and/or bumble being hookups
/r/seduction12/10/18 05:51 PM
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It's really coming full circle, couldn't agree more
/r/seduction10/10/18 03:23 PM
1

I guess the TL;DR is don't try to talk to on the dance floor, just start dancing with her and then bring her somewhere else to talk
/r/seduction27/09/18 10:42 PM
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Ah this is gold, thank you
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 07:31 PM
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This some Models shit, good shit dude.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 02:27 PM
1

See my comment above, I'm in the exact same position as you, and I would love some guidance, especially since this was 3 months ago lol. I wanted to date other people and now that she's gone I miss her dearly and regret all the stupid shit I did to push her away, I'm so lost
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:49 PM
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Brother -- I'm in your exact position right now. I was the one who even (at first) ended the relationship because I wanted to date other women, now I'm a fucking mess and feel lost and almost like I fucking went no where with my life in the last year and a half. Any advice / can you PM me?
/r/seduction19/09/18 09:48 PM
2

Can you link this post or PM it to me?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 01:45 PM
1

Hmm, it's not out of the ordinary. But it's usually a case-by-case basis as well. I think for us to help you better, you should show us some pictures of your girlfriend for us to make an evaluation. Her mom / your mom would also work as supplementary information
/r/seduction11/09/18 08:57 PM
3

Dude I had a very similar situation. Especially as ppl get older I think you gotta make a determination quickly if you want to move forward with the relationship or realize that it's not gonna work out so you don't waste each other's time fooling around, which again the fooling around part is the fun part, but there's gotta be an end goal. Like I don't like fucking that much to just be satisfied with only that, idk tho, it definitely beats the alternative that I see in all my friends "relationsh…
/r/seduction06/09/18 04:27 PM
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CPT I assume After I carried the rejected racist to the curb only thing worse than a racist is a hypocrite
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 09:57 PM
15

Less of this
/r/seduction03/08/18 02:09 PM
6

2 isn't really a failure that's just how the numbers game works. It's like necessary spillage in an economic model, you're never gonna hit 100% and if you are you aren't optimizing for what we truly want, which is desirable girl(s)
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:12 PM
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