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Paulo Frier. Truly a wise man that taught that sub-oppression is real and many people are sub-oppressors and that’s how the oppressor maintains power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:52 PM
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The sad thing is she’s already married and in a loving relationship. I think it’s easy to say things from a place of privilege cause she’s in a nice financial bracket, already has a man, and is in a comfortable place. Alas you never know what’s happening on the other side, but I’m sure she doesn’t think that women can have more than one perspective while living their life. She says “we should be okay with handling when we have wronged someone” most women I know have no problem apologizing when t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:44 PM
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Wait so are they equating a beard and a raise to the reason why they don’t have good relationships with their wives?! But y’all chose each other right…? 😵‍💫😵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:35 PM
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Yes! This explains everything so well. There is a book discussion on abusive men and how correlation is not causation in abusive men, just because he went through trauma does not mean he is supposed to use that trauma to hurt you. It’s a book by Lundy Bancroft “Why does he do that?” An extremely eye opening book and it’s fairly easy to understand. There is a pdf online. I’m telling you there is no excuse for the behavior. As my therapist has said before “we all can be unsafe people during times …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:27 AM
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THIS! I STAN THIS! Life has been hell since I came into my 20s, now it’s block and delete every damn time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 05:43 AM
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Just reading the first 10-20 pages is insightful. I’ll say that my previous relationships did not end well, due to abusive relationship rhetoric that’s pushed onto women. “Like just communicate and he’ll understand” or “Don’t be upset you just have to understand his point of view” In reality, your not happy because he isn’t giving you what you want. Instead when you finally blow up after making space for him, then that’s when he tells you “you ain’t shit” is what people forget to tell you. I thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:22 AM
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I think the list is accurate, and I love pole dancing. It’s a beautiful way to self-express and get in tune with your body especially if you have a hard time looking in the mirror like myself. It’s the objectification of women through a sexual lens, because pole dancing is used as that. When we learn to love ourselves and feel safe in being ourselves we dont need anyone to take notice of what we are doing because we’ll do it regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:42 AM
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I’m glad I read this. Part of growing is in the letting go process. And this post is encouraging and nurturing the reality that we are human. We don’t all start off strong, some start off stronger than others and grow weaker-then have to practice all over again. It finally feels like a light at the end of a tunnel when you start making changes you can actually see, because for those first real moments of change it can take months to see growth! (It’s taken me 8 months to feel better about myself…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:45 AM
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Who is this woman? SOMEBODY GET HER TO FDS-NOW! Like is sis on here or what? She needs moral and physical support and A LOT of rest and to kick her husband and the kids out with him for a couple of days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 10:13 PM
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What is he even saying at this point? Sounds like a bunch of gibberish...🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:03 AM
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Yes fuck’em. I’m not into the whole fake it for them so we don’t hurt their fe-fe’s. They will be okay hell im okay and yet I’m also the one not reaching to an orgasm. It’s hard enough to ask for it like get over yourself for once. I’m glad you said this it really put some perspective on my experiences 😭🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:41 AM
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Yes!!! Oh my god I didn’t know I needed this. It’s a shame that women go through this. Like I felt like I was in competition with how he felt about me not orgasming even though he couldn’t make me cum. Like wtf! What type of backwards hocus-pocus is this? I felt confused and uncomfortable for a while because it happened in multiple interactions. Now I know if this comes up I’m out the door next time, but im celibate right now. Damn sis are you in my head, right now. I feel like we had the exact …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:05 AM
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Yes! I HATE THEM! They came for my sis Amanda Seales because she ousts everyone who doesn’t respect her as if she owes something to the world. Like bugs sit down🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:10 AM
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Sis!!! I was just thinking that the other day while walking with one of my girlfriends. We was having an intense discussion about relationships and she always had a retort about how women do the same things as men too, and I’m over here like🤡 no not my sis! It’s come to a point where I realize we are living two different lives and I can’t help her any longer. I’m going to keep things to myself and let it go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 05:07 AM
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You can find that info here: ✨ https://youtu.be/OizHwF8RPaM ✨ she goes deep into how he has been cheating on his wife for 14 years! (Basically the whole marriage) Use discrepancy when watching at this point I don’t know who trust anymore, but I know this one ain’t a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:49 PM
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I don’t know if this is against FDS rules but this should be posted at top tier level for a while. I’m not trying to give face to this man, but I wouldn’t have known this if I didn’t magically scroll today. Not every women is social media adept, but every women should know about this! This man has manipulated women, especially BLACK WOMEN into believing his lies!! I can’t right now, because this breaks my eyes 🙃. This mfer makin money off of US! And I know this mfer has posts strolling around on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:39 PM
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I feel like I just learned a new slogan to ward off the days when I feel bad for not being agreeable with men. “Vulnerability does NOT equal permission!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 02:50 AM
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I feel like all young women should read this and have a class on this. We need to abolish the myth “Why would I get married! I can just claim it as love and be happy!” Like no sis there is a reason for marriage as it is contractual. Meaning laws have been put in place to serve as a defense against anything that should come to harm you. What’s more it’s important know how your marriage is going to look from a legal angle, get everything you want out of it and how to abort the mission if all fails…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:26 PM
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I feel like all young women should read this and have a class on this. We need to abolish the myth “Why would I get married! I can just claim it as love and be happy!” Like no sis there is a reason for marriage as it is contractual. Meaning laws have been put in place to serve as a defense against anything that should come to harm you. Everything is a choice and as a child I never understand the importance in legal marriage because I didn’t grow up in a marriage home (single-mother-provider-prot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:26 PM
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I’m glad you said that because when your ovulating your body has a HUGE urge to relive the comforting sexual moments that you had with your partner. Especially if the break-up is still difficult to handle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:37 PM
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Say it AGAIN! So the people in the back can hear you LOUDLY!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 08:14 PM
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Girlllll! That’s why I dropped the last idiot I was vetting he wanted to take me to Michigan to visit a dispensary, (which I would love to go to...with MY GIRLFRIENDS. Not a random dude I just met). So I told him No and was like let’s go out on a date like out to eat and I was waiting to see how long it would take for him to ask me out. Girl he asked me to come over to his house and I was like NEXT! I saw them res flags and I left the scene. If you got the money to take me out the state you got …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 03:17 AM
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Like Amanda Seales be saying “I ain’t talking about them!” The focus of this group is for women. How many hit pieces are written on the patriarchal empowerment and babying of male status and disrespecting women. If it ain’t for you move on. Nobody has to cater to you. If it don’t resonate, escape. But remember these women will be receiving FDS advice from their friends when they go through something but won’t register it as that until later on, but they “didn’t need fds” right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:48 AM
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Yo! I was just thinking can there/already is a thread about anxiety and dating because it hinders decision making and sometimes it’s not our fault especially when we are trying our best to make the right decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 02:27 AM
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Where is the bookmark on this one!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:29 AM
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Why am I not surprised he’s a Pisces🤦🏾‍♀️. Girl he will cry, play victim and tell everyone you were horrible before anyone gets your story. Run-away! The victim in every situation! No foreal tho on a solid note the dumbassery is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:27 AM
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It’s all about conquering a women. Guys LOVE degrading women into feeling like they are not people and aren’t allowed to have emotions. Girl cry your tears and wipe them away with them 100s your making in your bomb ass career path. He’ll be lucky if he even gets to breathe the same air your breathe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:23 AM
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Look sis if the shoe fits 🥶 it’s time to get a new pair. I feel like she’s not being totally honest about her relationship if they think he’s treating her like gar-bagé. Maybe re-evaluate your relationship friends and family that care aren’t always saying things to hurt you. Sometimes they have the power of foresight and they want you to see it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:17 AM
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I was wondering about this aspect of the advice given. It would be a shame to give up the qualities that make up who we are as women to gain the acknowledgement of men just because they lack a complex understanding of emotions and mentality. Is this really about equality or approaching ourselves in a way that discards part of our humanity? I think this is a great topic because I was just telling my girlfriend that you have to find your equal in a relationship. Whether your their equal or they’re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:07 PM
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First off, what anime was she watching cause sis that ain’t the one😭. But in reality people make videos like this as a joke without thinking of their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:06 AM
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Girl it’s been months since that last conversation and I AM THRIVING👌🏾🧚🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:03 AM
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Ohhh my god yoo, my ex fwb posted this when I told him I didn’t want to connect with him anymore after he ghosted me and treated me horribly. Last thing I knew I was like “????” What is this madness😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:54 AM
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I agree with this post. I also love it when women are looking great in their 30’s especially as a BW cause most BM expect your downfall after you age. It’s like a double edged sword do I wanna look good and feel good (whatever’s that looks like yourself, or do I have to fight someone because they’re gonna make a snide comment about my appearance that’s always been said to me my entire life. This shit happens way before your 30 and is a conditioning mechanism towards women to look like an ideal t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:00 PM
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No I wanted to apologize because how I acted previously was unacceptable, especially since I’m here to learn and get better at being accountable for myself. Walking away is hard and it wasn’t the first I’ve been through this. It takes time and I’m not going to make excuses when I want to be better for myself. And thank you for your love because it is absolutely tough to let go of parts of myself that are ingrained in me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:20 AM
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Yes which is why I’m taking time from not dating anymore, and I’m reading more on codependency. I don’t regret what I’ve been through because its pushed me to be better for myself. I know that I’ll heal from this situation, which is what I was doing before he came back into my life. Thank you 💚 I know I’ll get better with time and work on myself. I’ve got projects coming up and will be focusing on that from now on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:17 AM
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Nah he crazy ugly sis😂 I’m learning that is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:23 AM
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I’m not looking for the don’t give him a second chance advice. I’m looking for what happens if you do decide to let them come back temporarily. What are good and bad signs while their back temporarily? Would really love to know. I’m not doubting fds, but I know we are human and have experiences that don’t always fit into that mold. Which means this should be the best place to ask and gain insight on situations like this. I’m really looking for a big sister right now to be like “if you see these …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:11 AM
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He’s not a creep, and personally I know he would have a hard time reaching out because of “who he thinks he is (anxiety and all that, like it’s not common to be nervous to respond to people when you fuck up 😂)” I don’t miss him and I gave it a chance only to see if he did change. That’s it. I’m very cut and dry with him and I don’t call or anything except for once. I thought I could trust him, but I know that isn’t true anymore. What I want to know is, did he change? Not in hopes to get with him…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:07 AM
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I told him we wouldn’t be FWB’s anymore and he agreed to being just friends, but I feel like he only reached out to feel better about himself and to have my “energy” again. Im skeptical to let him back into my life and want to make sure I look out for all the red flags this time. I’ve been following FDS ever since this situation ended and it has changed me for the better!! What should I watch out for? I also want to see if he really wants to be a friend or if he wants to just say he wants to be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:52 AM
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I would really love for a group like this to be started on FDS. You know? Like an educational group on learning different things? I’m into humanities and I learned the connections between anthro, philosophy and the humanities etc. Sometimes it’s difficult to learn more since I’m not in a class setting and most people (including myself at times) are use to black and white thinking. I’ve been trying to take a bigger approach to learning for myself and I love it when women can come together to disc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:42 AM
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I agree being a baddie all the time without expressing our own unique femininity is a red flag and PART of patriarchy. My therapist and I would discuss it often, especially the nuances of how society is really a threat to women and how men don’t understand that (My therapist was a 60 year old man by the way 👨🏾‍🦳). We would talk about it a lot especially since I wasn’t the most competent in love (what it is I should value versus what I am allowing that de-value’s me). We are allowed a softer side…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:19 AM
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Please come back to this sub and talk to us as your going through this situation, being by yourself and handling this alone is a no. You should have some supportive friends around and is to keep you up as this will be difficult to get through. You are loved and we love you💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:06 AM
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Yes!! Go off sis and learn that you have everything you want coming to you💚💚 Work hard and continue loving yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:00 AM
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Girl!!!! If this wasn’t me like 2 months ago with someone I went to high school with idk what life Is anymore!!! Ever since that situation I’m over men and I thought me and him had an open understanding to be honest and upfront. I definitely did some things wrong (like not letting him chase, and putting restrictions on the relationship out of fear that he wouldn’t want to date me because of “high values and respectability”). That’s what made it worse because after I told him how I felt he litera…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:55 AM
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Beautiful and accurate. If it’s wishy-washy its a “NO!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:27 AM
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Dont give these men anything! They are not work the heartache and health risks. I’m changing my thinking Around dating everyday, and it always hits me with a new wake up call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:36 PM
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I feel read😭😂 stahp!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:30 AM
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This isn’t even a real conversation. How are you upset for another man just because he can’t take pictures if kids? Maybe they don’t trust him?!??! He sounds like a child molester.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 03:47 AM
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