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Question For MenArtistic_Bumblebee17/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:11 AM
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Or they say stuff like men don’t care about your education. If they are trying to wife and bring home- they do , that is if they have a prestigious job too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:52 AM
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Your bubble is small and you’re probably in the educated class. When I stepped out of this bubble- omg what a messss
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:52 PM
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Then I guess you guys are immoral predators
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:51 PM
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Idk about immoral predators but they are opportunistic with low values
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:12 PM
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Not really. We would do more but what you’ll get is a man using you bc you are convenient.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:28 PM
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Nope he seems like he’s wasting my time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:22 PM
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You’re a guy. You’re gonna take what you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:20 PM
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Oh my god hahahah She made a better choice. I would do the same. If he’s nonchalant and just doesn’t make time he’d make a terrible partner. Not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:19 PM
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They can get casual, let’s BFFr. Stay ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:13 PM
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Old women can demand anything ESP when it’s just sex. Stay mad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:43 PM
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It’s from experience tbh I’m always like oh I can tell you’ve not had a LTR and a slew of short term everything. It’s not a good experience. They are burned out on the getting to know you part bc they’ve done it so many times with not good intentions and we can totally tell. LTR men have always been easier and more understanding. He fits into your life better
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:27 PM
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Idk after the initial choosing - he decides if he wanna act right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:14 PM
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Same as you guys lol He would be smart
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:13 PM
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I live in a big city and travel to bigger cities. I’m just picky
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:13 PM
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Huh? Do you date men? I know right away if he’s had serious relationships or not. Usually men that marry in their 20s have been with her for a LONG time. I’d hardly call that rushing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:12 PM
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I’ll agree with you on this one 😆 30s men would get nowhere if they continue the bs they did in their 20s They are easier now like they do what I want and then are willing to have a normal relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:38 PM
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It is comparable. The good men multi tasked and built themselves while having a steady relationship. I notice 30s men lack maturity and they rush to get married but they don’t really have the skill set to keep her around. I notice the best 30s men are the ones who held a serious relationship for a couple of years. Such a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:32 PM
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There is a lot of hatred for 30+ women. But your smart enough to know men always talking 💩at any age we are at so it’s moot
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:27 PM
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It’s funny that it doesn’t really play out this way. They are too old for 20s and the decent 30s require things from them. I notice they try to settle quick. I see a lot of playboys trying to do this but they don’t have the maturity and experience to hold something real (they expect princess treatment) And also they have to sift through single moms if they wait too long.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:26 PM
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30s man is it really desired by early 20s woman. Only the most attractive 20s men will reap
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:22 PM
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Does it matter? Most men. won’t have access to the 20s range
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:21 PM
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No I think they’ve always been the same. It’s just that women aren’t in scarcity anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:19 PM
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All he has to be is good in 2 areas. Sex and looks. And women sometimes settle in the looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:16 PM
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If it makes you feel better neither gender gets what they want without settling hard and then there’s no real satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:15 PM
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I’m straight and most women agree. Good looking men are so rare you never see it irl. Apps are best
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:14 PM
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You got him right on the head with that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:12 PM
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Lmao if he’s just for sex he better be good in all those areas, that’s the whole point. Bf/husband material gets more slack bc there’s more to them than sex. The gaslighting you guys do is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 09:11 PM
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I think a family and community BUT it’s highly dependent if there are available men. Most men are just looking for short term so it’s not really conducive for us to 100 go in on family.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:09 AM
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It depends. She may be doing it bc you don’t seem interested or not putting on enough effort
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 03:59 PM
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It’s like men say “the juice is not worth the squeeze”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:00 PM
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> personal ambitions I’ve noticed women jumping at being a SAHM usually didn’t really have much going on. They either never had a career or in lesser cases gave up a professional career. So when they say oh I could’ve done this or that- really? Are you sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 04:46 PM
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It’s a significant handicap especially since your peers are mostly childless still. I’m older and I still wouldn’t touch that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 04:29 PM
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They don’t. But they give it up to lock down a guy that wouldn’t normally be interested or keep him interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:10 AM
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I know this is true bc I don’t sleep with them right away and generally more prude (don’t like thirst trapping hard on insta) bc I want to like him first and hoes DEF get the lions share. And they get good ones too. They’ve def get better guys and have had more LTR and get married first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 08:52 AM
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Honestly like they have a point. If you fuck early I think they will end up in more LTRs than someone who waits. Yeah they will get pumped and dumped a lot but they can just lie about BC later.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:37 AM
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I disagree. I think fast sex sometimes does keep them around. I wait bc I need the attraction first and I feel like I am def losing to the edge of these women putting out early. I could totally see someone ignoring me over someone who does put out fast. They do it bc the perks are higher and more likely rewarded. I don’t blame them, they can just lie about their BC
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 01:29 AM
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The difference is that weak shy guys will never go up to a woman and violent mysoginists will. That’s it. Thai is just an excuse for violence against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:01 PM
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I just know there are telegrams of each city in every state with every woman’s photo. I don’t doubt mine is out there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:40 AM
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I’ll bet you anything they have the tea app for women on telegram. But the thing is anyone who would use that is slimey so I don’t mind not dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:07 AM
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We use it for potential predators, so diff than using it for weird incel purposes like what men would do with it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 05:05 AM
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It does matter just like heigt
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 04:26 PM
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I noticed this too with other woman. It’s def based on reality
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:37 AM
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I tend to agree with the current economic situation. Idk how they do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:05 PM
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The thing is if they don’t know that they will think you are a dick for hitting and quitting. Not sure if telling them the sex was bad would be any better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:47 AM
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It’s not new at allllll They’ve already done this, the first time I’ve seen this was more than a decade ago
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:11 AM
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Men will become players and assholes if they can do boom don’t assign morality to men that do not have to opportunity to display morals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:30 PM
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Yes haha they are so dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:51 AM
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I noticed if you aren’t their preference in any specific was say oh you’re chubbier than he likes he’s say ohh o like all bodies. Some bs like that. But if he liked your body in specific he’s say it directly.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:54 AM
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The thing is too tight and you can’t even have sex I guess that’s the same as big dicks, there’s a limit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:33 AM
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They’ll never tell you straight if they know you might leave or refuse sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 04:31 AM
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What is your experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 09:01 PM
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True bc most want commitment and the options you want are hard to get but I think I said that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 08:22 PM
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One thing I don’t get with you guys is how you like to f randoms. That’s literally gross to me haha Can you explain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:45 PM
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It’s not undeniable that we do have it easier in terms of options. BUT I will say the better options are left for prettier women. As in handsome successful and a man that wants to commit- now that’s a diff teir that you guys call the 10% A lot of women DONT have access to them and then there’s a select who only have access to them sexually. These men are picky and they will not f an ugly women. I think only the upper tier of women can get commitment but it is slim. In my experience I’ve worked o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:39 PM
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Yes that’s the exception if she goes for a guy in her 30s. I agree they never really get better it’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:13 PM
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Not on PPD. Also you guys don’t like hearing hard truths. I couldn’t come up with this stuff even if I’ve tried. I’ve lived it. They can’t even schedule a date and stick to it or make time for someone they want which is incredibly BASIC.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:12 PM
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I would say the ones that never want a usual are rarer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:03 PM
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That’s why dating in 20s the women should accept that he’s prob not serious. They only get serious when they decide to settle down or get it more together and usually that means financially
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 07:03 PM
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Yes I noticed that they never really develop the skills required for something real. And it’s bc they were used to giving the last girl nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:04 PM
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Nope he’s right, men only start to get super picky when they look for a partner for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:37 PM
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You’re wrong. If that’s the case they would’ve NEVER fkd some of my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:52 AM
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No - but they can get it more often than thought
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:07 AM
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I don’t engage in casual sex but I’ve been friends with handsome men that do. They have standards for the women they sleep with. So no, not all women can come on and choose whatever guy she wants. Chads are PICKY You’ll probably see in the comments that they don’t infact get the best looking men. I know this for a fact bc I’m also friends with unattractive men and they also can sometimes get casual sex. What does that say about her? Not even good enough to have sex with for one night, couldn’t g…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 04:56 PM
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I understand why as a guy there’s so many judgements around it. Esp if you knew she goes around but then you put in crazy leg work. I think though if your hormones are crazy you women can do casual and the standard doesn’t have to be super high. But for a bf we have to show face and bring him around people so in that sense it is a higher status in a woman’s mind. Completely understandable how men feel. I would be the same if I was a man unless she had sex with me quick first too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:05 PM
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And sometimes they will not be all that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:00 PM
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That right there. I don’t do casual but Sometimes I’m like omg I would have never said that or showed up to a date last min if I wasn’t so hormonal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 08:59 PM
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I agree that only the attractive will slay on the apps especially men. Even women tell me they only get goblins. Not true for me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:36 PM
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I’m an engineer and a lot of the women have problems with their men bc they can’t match the lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:34 PM
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This is true but there is more nuance. Professional is good but higher paying jobs are way more coveted. Engineer doctor lawyer. They will be okay with a teacher but the money issue would def cross her mind. He wouldn’t be for serious
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:31 PM
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You are right, but there were also other things you guys are not considering. The women had high BC bc they would date a lot and would give in easily to the avg Joe. And the men would be dating to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 03:30 PM
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You talk about this with your bros
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:33 PM
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Oh reg women were def messaging him do not cap hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 11:04 PM
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He’s right, idk what that other use was talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:32 PM
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I would say 8+ and maybe a 7 if he’s her type. But less attractive women cannot get casual with handsome men so they may go lower. My friends have told me this and I thought they just fucked anyone lol but they said no they have standards and were offended
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 04:31 PM
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Message you first, throwing hints that she’s available for a date or straight up just asking for sex. I’ve been friends with handsome men and the storiessss man. Women are not what they say they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 03:29 AM
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Women do approach men, and a lot online. They just say they don’t. But they do throw themselves at certain men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:11 AM
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Depending on age, that list is a lil basic. But being 30+ skinny, young looking with no kids is a crazy hack. Men don’t care about jobs per se but high income professionals do care low key. Bc they may want someone smart or not really looking into his money like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 12:10 AM
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From whose perspective? I think it’s horrible from a woman side if she’s more desperate but amazing for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 11:39 PM
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Just seeing how many pregnant women get discarded it’s a no for meeee
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:32 AM
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It’s true, I had PCOS. And 4x the T. Didn’t want it just moody all the time which explains mens behaviors hahah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:52 PM
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Oh I hate a nonchalant guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 12:19 AM
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Redpill guys can get women but they are targeting a niche group. Some women are okay with sharing if he provides, a lot will not be. Some are willing to put up with abuse, some are not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:44 PM
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Yes. And that’s where the showering and personality come in.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:42 PM
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I like them to look normal. So cute but not too much The guy I’m talking to now - my friends say he’s okay or I can do hotter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:46 PM
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The way they look, often not fixable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:39 PM
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Yup. A phd and a hs graduate would most likely not happen unless she’s a trophy wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:12 PM
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I noticed this but there’s a level to it that hot men will not stoop low even for a ons. They actually have standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:13 AM
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Another example is them saying they don’t care about a woman’s education. Upper class men absolutely will! She must look good to the family If he’s lower class - that may threaten him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:10 AM
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You can do whatever you want. Whether she respects you after that- idk
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 12:09 AM
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Idk if this is true but wow I’m happy for you guys. Grooming and health should’ve been priority.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 10:30 PM
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Can you elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 07:00 PM
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Fine by me bc I get everything I want
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 03:28 AM
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Doesn’t matter, he was willing to give an experience and left his ego at the door
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 01:19 AM
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If that “thing” was inherently degrading I would understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 12:16 AM
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That’s just one class of men There are others that absolutely simp but are also attractive. I’ve met them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:19 PM
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Yup and you wonder oh does he has std that are not curable and super common like HPV Probably can’t kiss him neither But I also hate men with high BC, non prostitutes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 08:17 PM
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I think the best way to describe is that feeling you guys get when you find out she had a bajillion partners? It’s the same when you find out he pays for prostitutes. Dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:11 AM
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Crazy how she wouldn’t be getting that effort if you could provide. Explains everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:59 AM
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That there! Idk how they don’t understand that. They think oh we can who’re around and get somewhere, not true esp seeing how most of them throw a fit over a $50 dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:03 AM
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I’m my experience they get off on that bc they feel loved ig
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:01 AM
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Like I said, they won’t really give you anything substantial. Maybe the OF girls get things but the avg woman thinks showing your body on the internet is too risky and not worth
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:14 AM
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Mm they are far few in between and will only do this for the hottest. Also in my experience they will do it for very short time, or nothing really substantial. But you do suffer bc you know they wanna touch you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 08:13 AM
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She’s 21 give her a break. Only later you realize nothing matters and just do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:51 AM
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I also disagree with her. My advice is to go for who you want - most women are reasonable. I know a 10/10 is committing to no one. Go for who you want and hope they see the humanity in you. Or stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:50 AM
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Your first statement is true BUT along the way they did fall on love with some hoes and wifed. Not all but a fair few. In my 30s I see a similar thing. All men bash single moms crazy. But they end up getting with them bc they are easy and then boom marriage and a house. Do hoes and single moms get hurt along the way? Yes but they also do often get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:48 AM
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I’m in my 30s and from experience I know you girls are taking them Way wayy too seriously. You are right that the hoes do in fact get a lot out of them. They also get married first- it’s true and the guys will get mad but I’ve lived long enough to see it. My advice is do what you want. They just talk smack but don’t let that keep you from experiencing things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:46 AM
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I think it’s when they take way too long to respond. Or the convo is way boring. Also if he takes too long to move the relationship along
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:43 AM
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In my experience they will never directly ask. They give you a short time frame to give it up - no dinner lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:41 AM
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Which type of lies, I can tell you exactly why I think you’re referring to body count? Well it’s obvious. Men only really do anything for you if youre sleeping with them. You’ll get very little without. So how many tries will you give her to find her man? It also a way they garner resources which is why they get mad about slut shaming. You’re basically telling them they cannot go out and get what they need
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:37 AM
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How do you think you differ from other men, and is there a sign women can look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 06:35 AM
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Bc you met a mentally ill woman at a bar is hardly a data point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:15 AM
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Women without ovaries are in the major minority. I take BC and I absolutely have cycles. Do you even know how it works. Women in menopause are often retired. In the minority of the workforce Huh? We need more sleep. You guys sleep 5 hrs tops
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 03:13 AM
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Omg I love that app
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:53 PM
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I agree that we are the ones expecting to enjoy it. But we are also nervous about oh what if it’s awkward but I do agree most don’t try to help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:48 PM
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There’s no way you suggested that lmao. That’s EXACLY how they get messed up. Staying too long. You accrue a lot of triggers. There’s only so much you can take from one man. It’s worse experiencing bad things with someone you care about than a bunch of random me you hardly knew. If she had a lot of long term things it can be equally messed up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 07:09 PM
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It should be a wake up call that this is coming from a blue pill women. They are absolutely stunted , it’s insane to witness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:32 PM
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That’s crazy that the more you experience men the more broken you become. These same women were the young women of yesterday, with no baggage. But man men fuck up big time- they absolutely decimate them. I feel the same, men are un dateable even for anything casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:30 PM
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Also I recommend the look HAS to go with them. I would look terrible alt but I love the music etc. so I look like a normie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 09:14 PM
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It can be difficult for them if they don’t have a hobby or something that separates them. OR just male dominated hobbies, but there are some women there that would prefer them just that the competition is way higher - so would that make a difference? Not sure
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 08:00 PM
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Yeah you entered a niche.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:48 PM
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You’re right that a lot of men are too far below the threshold to get women that even improving everything about himself to the max won’t work. There’s a middle ground where they are attractive enough, physically and otherwise but they absolutely fumble and are terrible with women. These men usually put in low energy bc they wish to be desired like the top tier men which is fair to want that in certain aspects. Bc sometimes they just want the avg girl. And ofc the hottest do not struggle at all.…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:47 PM
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Yup it’s true. But I think most guys don’t have the emotional intelligence to pull it, they just get lucky. You can’t treat them ALL the way bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:09 AM
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I agree it’s just that the “fisherman’s” tactics can be abusive. Def don’t be friends with her first, you really have to establish a non friend relationship quickly and then progress it. If I’m friends too long with a guy I cannot see them as anything else. They start to become “familial” to me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 05:46 PM
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If you see these comments on photo based apps you can TELL op isn’t cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:25 PM
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I would say they are “winning” but that’s not the factor of discussion. They do get more attention and material items etc and often time a relationship. It’s not “better” per se bc they do get discarded in some cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 07:18 PM
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This is so true. I think although they may not start serious - hoes def get the best results. And get married first, just because they are more available to more men so the likelihood is higher
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 04:21 AM
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I think he means certain instances where you can be a little communicative or a little more caring / nurturing but it can get good results but it also can not work as well depends on the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:33 AM
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Then there you go, she was in the wrong and I wouldve ignored it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:15 AM
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Okay you got me but I think the line is drawn on traits that cannot be changed. If he hits her- there’s no inspiring him to not do that. And that’s what we mean. If he’s gonna cheat? He’s going to do it no matter what, should I agree to non monogamy? Should I agree to do some crazy sex acts? Nah. Nuance I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:18 PM
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There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:16 PM
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Him “being careful” means he’s going to become more manipulative so he can r retain women even if for alittle awhile longer. But He doesn’t become more moral, that’s for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:58 PM
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It’s kind of absurd you don’t want pretty people dating pretty people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:50 PM
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His blast radius may be small but there are magnitudes more ugly men than chads. So You can argue collectively the bast radius of ugly men are far wider
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:42 PM
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The issue isn’t the birthday but the lack of emotional intelligence that she should be remembered cherished on that day. If I tell him then I’m not really getting what I want. And he has autism bc it’s standard to tell an acquaintance happy bday
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:19 PM
5

I’ve read like 1-2 good examples but most were thinly veiled attempts to get us to consider undesirable types.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:16 PM
8

Theres nuance to this. Did you tell her it’s over or did you monkey branch? There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:13 PM
2

It’s the presence of knowing but deciding to ignore it and then complaining after.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:11 PM
1

To an extent, yes. But I’ve read the comments from them and they are crazy. If she stays after cheating? Then complains? 0 accountability Stays after being treated like trash AND THEN HAS HIS BABY? 0 accountability for oneself She’s not a mind reader but if the evidence presents itself and she decides to stay? Thats on her completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:10 PM
4

Not really. I’ve noticed chads have standards and they do NOT bang ugly women. Ugly men cheat crazy too they just need the opportunity or pay for it. In My experience they aren’t better or have better morals- no way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:07 PM
0

This is what they don’t want to admit, it’s that the Gen man population is like this. Most women do not date Chads. Most women are def used by the avg ugly man. In fact chads can be nicer bc they have a lot of positive feedback. It’s the ugly ones that can be nastier bc of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:06 PM
8

You missed it. There really is no way to “ make men act right” you guys just want to extract max effort while acting shitty Don’t like her? Leave
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:01 PM
1

good cook and DECENT company Well dang that’s it? You’d have to be way more than that. Decent company was crazy! Not to be mean but we def are expecting a lil more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 04:42 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 03:27 AM
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We are born with value
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:29 PM
2

They keep trying to gaslight us, it’s not working
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:30 PM
1

Wah wah all I can see is men expect to sit back and do nothing as always
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:29 PM
1

That right there!!! They keep saying oh you have to do this and that to expect this or that. No we don’t! Men are not in control
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:27 PM
1

I think he ignores the fact that we can pick and choose bc we are the desirable gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 07:26 PM
4

Bye :)👋
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 08:05 AM
2

I’ll drop my screen addiction when you guys drop porn. I’ll wait ⏰
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 05:36 AM
3

Hard disagree. The one approaching knows that if it’s done in a tasteful manner there can be a time and place. The guy who doesn’t and is interested is let’s be honest - a coward.Also the fact that he knows he’s a bother shows that he KNOWS he brings nothing to the table
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:58 AM
1

That right there. Can’t even approach? What else can’t he do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:25 AM
3

Women know the guy not pursuing will not be better than the guy pursuing. We know men are more or less the same. None really want to commit unless he’s old and wants kids but for the most part men are pooling to use our bodies - for sex or for babies. I think we’ve had it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:24 AM
11

Women know the guy not pursuing will not be better than the guy pursuing. We know men are more or less the same. None really want to commit unless he’s old and wants kids but for the most part men are pooling to use our bodies - for sex or for babies. I think we’ve had it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:23 AM
19

That right there. There are some women who realize yes she can initiate but he must take the reins after that. I see comments from men on Reddit that wonder why women initiate bit then become cold. Like yes they really wanted to sit back and be the woman! Men are opportunists and recommend no women does that. If he can’t even approach then then what hope do I have for him to do anything of a higher order
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:21 AM
2

Men are opportunists. I would not assume just bc he says yes to a date will step up after that. In fact it would probably be the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:12 AM
3

That right there. Having then approach eliminates some of the bad matches
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 12:06 AM
12

This is why we don’t like men in general, could never be normal. There existence is highly flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:22 AM
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Blue pill nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 06:19 AM
0

Your dad taught me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 10:29 PM
0

Yes Sociology is a science Anthropology is a science
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:51 PM
-1

Would you say this to a vet? “Oh surely you know everything about dogs even without meeting all of them, and especially not being a dog” See how ridiculous you sound? Most of you guys are dumb fr. Go to school learn critical thinking. You don’t need to know everything to make assessments/risk management. Generalize, asses risk and identify if it’s a no go. Engineering principles, don’t give me some bc that it’s wrong 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 09:24 PM
0

Like which questions. All the women posting on r/men are absolute airheads.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:17 AM
1

lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:23 AM
3

Other subs are blue pill and you can never get any compelling rebuttals. I love engaging with dark pill and sometimes RP but the bluepillers almost seem dumb to me. In lala land, OR I’ll even recognize they just may have been lucky to only have great experiences/examples
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:52 AM
1

It’s debate we like rage baiting and trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:51 AM
-3

You made me LOL, I am toxic but it’s about time we give you guys hell. top 5 fattest You’re right, I went to Walmart one day and counted 20-30 ppl and the stat was right! 70% are overweight it was crazy. Who’s the user?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:32 PM
0

Right, I’ll give you that one. They met your standards but your standards have to be lower than average. A lot of them aren’t Ben good for sex even when you just evaluate them for that. You tell them that lol they hate being told they wife hoes regularly but it’s so true. Hoes have lower standards in men so they date a larger variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:10 PM
1

I disagree, I noticed it with my friends too. Even if he was undesirable- he still would try, as if being with a girl gave him confidence to seek other women out. We mostly date ugly men, we know the hot ones have tons of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:08 PM
2

I said this to another user: the difference between a good man Anna bad man is the lack of opportunity. But your skirting the point, they fantasize about her friends/other women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 07:02 PM
-2

It does. More men have to meet your standards. Thus those standards have to be lower than average to allow more men in. I’m an engineer I’m right It’s a reason why hoes get wifed very often. Tou guys are just open to more men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:56 PM
-2

If you were promiscuous you def have lower standards for men. Grain of salt on your ideas/experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:06 PM
2

Not sure, I think they are gaslighting though. They also think 50/50’is fair when it’s absolutely not
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:59 PM
-1

No they really are jacking it to your friends. Not joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:57 PM
2

She’s dating the avg man lol. You guys don’t want to accept most all of you guys are mediocre and the experiences that come with men are even more mediocre. Not even trying to rage bait
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:55 PM
2

I genuinely don’t think it’s worth it. A lot of women I know have so many complaints about their husband. And I’ve not been truly happy with any of them. Such a lack of effort and their expectation of us brining in the monster share of the value
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:53 PM
4

Unfortunately she’s right.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:52 PM
7

Your points are valid except I don’t think they “need” variety- they are just selfish and non empathetic they will put their wants before the woman. But your 2 points are exactly why it becomes not worth it for women. Too much cheating and they get annoying with the sex thing. And on top of that they want 50/50 if we are being real. As a woman wow I really get nothing in return. Hard to justify marriage. Women def hard cope about marriage and have been gaslit to want it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:50 PM
0

I agree most men don’t play the field, it’s the “trying to play the field” that gets them. In my 20s they always seemed like they were looking for more- whether they could achieve it or not They don’t invest bc “what if I find the one” or the gf they have is not what they want or ideal girl so they won’t respect her or treat her well Kind of like men thinking they will easily get a young gf when he’s old af. Delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:09 AM
26

I don’t know. I think we are all looking for the outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 03:54 AM
-1

No objectively. Some had better looking boyfriends but I don’t recall them being better it worse- the same
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:30 AM
2

That’s crazy how they choose cats+anti depressants instead of you. You should be ashamed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:50 PM
2

Huh? I did say that, and no it doesn’t contradict Man did have DEI when women had to pick whatever man they could marry
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:21 PM
0

You have to assess everything holistically. It’s men who had DEI
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:32 AM
-7

Nope, those are the guys YOU payed attention to. Every single one of my friends had ugly bfs, a lot of them got played and none remain with their 20s bfs. Ugly guys are not more moral
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:03 AM
1

men were happy growing together This is still true if you start YOUNG. No let’s play the field and try to settle at 30. I have assets now big dawg who are we trying to grow? And like I said if he’s an absolute asset but makes less then sure but the other commenter said it. Instead of men evolving- we will die out. Women learned skills while men refuse to grow soft skills. It is what it is It’s funny how if we want someone bringing in as much as we do it’s wrong 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 06:09 AM
0

Yes, like the moment he has an opinion about what I should be doing oh hell no haha This is the same with 50/50, it’s hard to respect him. I’d say he’d have to be putting in more in some way where I’m like okay I’ll hear you out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:51 AM
-2

I guess you’ll have to give up your life bc you came from a woman womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:37 AM
3

No bc we crash way less often than men. Our insurance is cheaper
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:36 AM
0

It’s just a respect thing. And women don’t like feeling like we are losing financially if things go south, we are way more vulnerable I would say unless he’s an absolute asset then I can’t justify it. But men don’t like being giving
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 05:35 AM
-2

Yeah it’s just not worth it. Like I said he can be bf material just never husband material. No way I’m combining finances
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 02:39 AM
4

Tons of anecdotal evidence. You’re red pill, you’d be the last to tell me there’s no evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 12:09 AM
1

The preferences you guys refer to are based on sexism so I don’t wanna hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:43 PM
4

Red pill but not sexist 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:23 PM
1

What will men do? You’re right, it’s one thing growing with a man together and it’s another if I have a house job and car and he’s going to court without having the same or more. I’ll probably stay single or never take him seriously. I already out earn a lot of men and am close to getting a house. After that it’s probably gg. But I don’t think men get that when we are young we are open to men that don’t have it together. But that time is squandered by you guys playing the field. You guys end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 09:18 PM
4

baseless 90% of murders rapes and violent crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:55 PM
4

No but I’m sexist like you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:54 PM
-2

Where? And from whom? I need examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:57 PM
4

I think the outcry is that they never get the opportunity to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:48 PM
0

Do we ever get sympathy or help aside when we give out 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:47 PM
-5

The thing is we know the difference between then and the “bad guys” is opportunity. They don’t have the chance to act out, but they are no different. So in that case those undesirable men become MORE undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:10 PM
0

Because she capitalized on mens thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 03:52 AM
2

I don’t think it would be after for women, they will treat us as disposable. Even a non romantic setting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 04:52 AM
1

Even with only that much you guys have so much bad press
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:46 AM
5

Fine by me you guys have been doing it since dawn of time. We’ve been doing it only recently
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 10:43 PM
-3

Men first lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 08:55 PM
-11

It’s kind of hard to humanize you guys bc a lot o you are often selfish and lack empathy. So when something bad happens, I don’t have the ability to feel bad
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 07:09 PM
2

Heavy on either he’s really fun or attractive. They get mad at Chad for nsa sex but atleast Chad is offering something
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:01 PM
8

I’ll give it to you. You’re right that I would NOT relinquish leverage. In personal experience middle ground of mutual understanding leads the man to want to tip it so they will have similar perks of when they did have leverage. Doesn’t work when men are over valuing themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:43 PM
10

I don’t think they will ever understand that they are way way overestimating themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:56 PM
4

kids make women happy but the drawbacks of husband/family are greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:55 PM
2

Nah bc you guys need to get called out. Spend a lot of your years chasing after 🐱bc you guys feel entitled Then when you realize you need a house slave oh now I want to get married 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:08 PM
0

Nope. No one really thinks about bi people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:20 PM
2

Hit a nerve didn’t i
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 11:18 PM
0

It’s funny bc it’s hard to articulate why we don’t like bi men, but most of us DO NOT. Maybe it’s natures way of telling us don’t waste any resources there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:38 AM
2

The “at his request” made me LOL! They are famous those are not good examples Men are never going to have leverage you guys want. Not 20s not 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:52 PM
1

You’re abusive and you’re not taken haha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:30 PM
-1

He waited a long time shopping, never took anyone serious and look at him now. The creepy guy at the bar. You’re right not to feel sorry for them. If they were marriage minded and not just looking to fuck everyone they would not be on this position
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:29 PM
0

No we just mature, the riff raft of clubs is not appealing anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:25 PM
-2

No you guys had apps and absolutely ruined that for yourselves. Approaching in the past was acceptable but you guys did way too much so women just don’t trust you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:24 PM
0

IF your ugly hahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:24 PM
3

I got tired of telling them this bc they love to say oh we will just marry some woman 10 years younger. Not so!!! It’s like me saying oh I’ll just marry a rich man, there’s a lot of nuance to that and you don’t always get what you want in life. In my 20s, 30s was way too old for me. I don’t think. They get that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:23 PM
3

most 30 somethings We matured, going to clubs esp for a partner is so laughable! That’s for kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:19 PM
6

It’s funny how most women hit all of these!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:45 AM
1

I’ll agree, she’s responsible for not leaving after the fact. I typically don’t feel sorry for them. Both genders don’t take rejection we’ll
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:51 PM
2

Good for you but he’s right! Idk if you have girl friends but they are def being settled for. Even if I’m my perspective they are out of their man’s league, you can tell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 10:33 PM
2

You’re right most women aren’t aware. They don’t realize that’s a huge part they are getting bad treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 09:29 PM
1

Do you also have kids/are you divorced. Are you above the age of 35
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:00 PM
2

Let’s be real Most divorces are about infedelity. He will say his ex is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:54 PM
1

Are you divorced with kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:51 PM
2

Yes if I’m also divorced with kids. Single? Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:51 PM
3

Let’s be honest, most women act tough about this but absolutely fold (lie) when it comes to telling them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:50 PM
3

He wanted the older guy to stand out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:49 PM
1

I’ll stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 07:48 PM
1

Wow he was trying to pimp you out. What a steriotype
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:44 PM
0

They do at least one - two of those but the whole list would be crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:46 PM
1

It’s the same for women. You can ask him whatever but he will lie. That’s funny how the tea app for men didn’t work bc most men don’t have experience with women on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 05:44 PM
2

Only to sluts. You impede their ability to gather resources
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 01:10 AM
2

Yes We know there should be compromise and he should benefit too but they are way below non standards. Thier main pull was financial but now they can’t do that so nothings left
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:53 AM
2

You’re still with her so I guess it did work women in male fields
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:56 PM
2

I agree, men aren’t “needed” so if he wants to “survive” his genes to survive he has to act only in his best interest
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:29 PM
6

Yes they are full of it. Women don’t like being in the position to be judged or have less leverage in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 04:44 PM
1

If you’re a 1/10 ofc it won’t work. You have to be kinda attractive to her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:26 PM
9

I think most women try at first - don’t achieve it and then settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 04:24 PM
4

I think this is how some women “are always in relationships” they don’t even like the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:59 AM
1

Why are you women fking ppl you don’t like that’s weird. I get being desperate and always wanting to be in a relationship but damn
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/25 06:59 AM
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That’s a good one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:28 PM
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That right there. Also, the marry and date non hot sluts allllll the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:21 PM
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I think you guys see it differently. Getting treated with 0 regards is kinda hateful. You guys don’t love them, you guys love to use them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:18 PM
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It’s funny because you guys date and marry them all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 05:05 PM
1

No? You guys don’t do the unpaid labor, you guys like stats go look it up. And the strength, I agree if they don’t meet the physical requirements then they shouldn’t be getting preferential treatment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:49 PM
-1

You guys try to conflate both genders situations. Women can do this bc there are more options. We are the choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 05:06 PM
1

90% chance you’re the average Joe And okay, that’s your decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 03:49 PM
0

That’s the thing. You’re NOT most womens type. In fact no women are interested In most of you. So it’s either A. Make some effort B. Be overlooked You guys like option B. But in order for A to work is you have to be borderline standing to start. -5s try to put massive effort for 10s and still fail, why? Because he didn’t meet the minimum threshold
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:30 PM
-4

Him putting effort and showing he cares boosts his attractiveness. Even if fake. She may not be super interested in the beginning but it’s the effort that may make her be like well he’s a good guy and over look his flaws. The hot guy already has enough going for him that he just needs to be decent
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 02:45 PM
-6

He’s not working 100c harder He’s maybe putting a fingernail more of work and then getting mad he’s not getting results
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 08:35 AM
0

No I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 02:37 AM
0

Some yes, some no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 12:22 AM
1

The do actually. I’m not a single mom but they will chose single moms over me LMAO. They expect nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/25 10:44 PM
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That’s crazy But also indifferent is better than annoyance
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:01 PM
2

No she’s def lying haha Idk why you guys fall for this gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:17 PM
2

No she’s def lying haha Idk why you guys fall for this gaslight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 10:17 PM
7

It’s funny how you guys immediately know there will be kid casualties
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 06:58 PM
0

You must be in a red state. In California we complain about conservative men matching with us. The tea app doesn’t allow politics so idk where you’re seeing that. Maybe a comment here and there
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:29 PM
1

They do care but they don’t speak up so they won’t lose the guy. They absolutely care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 12:14 PM
2

That’s so true. Attractiveness is a huge factor but we consider safety and his perceived health. If he seems suspicious I won’t want to be naked with him at any moment. If he seemed like he’s been around - i don’t want stds. Also she has to be in that mood where she’s okay with him dipping after. Also if he’s annoying/arrogant/mysoginist then it’s a no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 11:36 PM
-16

It’s not the same. When women do it, it’s not that serious- she wouldn’t be sending him money lke men do
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:38 PM
1

If your group chats 🙄 Sending revenge porn and photos of women you guys are in contact with Don’t make me laugh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 09:44 PM
2

🫢🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 08:51 PM
0

I don’t think you guys can, y’all are built different
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:05 AM
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Yes exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:13 AM
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Yup same in my area. There were some chads being shared but that was a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:13 AM
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Not really a lot of them are genuinely ugly. Sure there are a few hot ones that are being shared but that def is a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 12:11 AM
-4

100% But since the tea app exists now, there have been men outed for that. Nice that they will be held accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 10:35 PM
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That’s interesting why you guys would care then. Maybe it’s because y’all messing with them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 09:32 PM
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Does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 08:23 PM
3

Yes. They are saying we post dick size and height and I’m like no? That’s rare. We should start though as punishment for the leak
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:43 PM
1

I will say if he’s hot and outed to be a rapist or predator it will affect him negatively If he’s outed as some who’s just wanting to hook up and he’s handsome it can help him find women. They ask for his ig
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:42 PM
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Mm I don’t think so. The only time where I’ve seen it help them is when a handsome one gets posted and they say oh he’s there just for sex. Some women will ask for his insta. So I guess it worked for him haha
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:41 PM
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You guys are funny if you’re trying to shame us in not dating hot rich men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 04:40 PM
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No girl, if they were rich/generous they def would’ve said so.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:16 PM
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Nah they would say so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:15 PM
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They just want it to fit their narrative so bad. If anything it proves that dating ugly does not help. One commenter said maybe they are tall, hmmm idk bc some you can tell are short
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:15 PM
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Doubt. Maybe they are tall. But not tall and rich, they would’ve said so. Also, I see what my friends marry/date. Absolutely not even close to the top 10 percentile
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 03:13 PM
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No it wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:25 AM
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Have you seen the men in the tea app? And AWDTSG? SUPER UGLY. Yes there are some that are handsome and are being shared but it’s not the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:24 AM
1

Unethical vs illegal. Whose worse. The answer is obv
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 08:10 PM
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Yes. Our rape and violence levels are substantially lower
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/25 04:06 PM
1

Hahaha pay men more Okayy And then y’all will hold all resources and then we’re screwed You’re right they’ll throw a fit and jump back on it. A lot of women aren’t that smart or put themselves first At the expense of someone else. Expense of a man. Yes. That.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/25 03:34 AM
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I would say certain things no, but a$$ pics and bikini pics? Gtfo It’s an aggressive tactic and most women want to be the passive one in the courting phase but they would never admit
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:50 PM
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If he’s abusive or a cheater most women would care. You’re right that some won’t as long as he provides but honestly his level of providing is prob far greater than the avg.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 08:49 PM
1

You make your best guess. I do it at work, I’m an engineer- believe me 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:04 AM
2

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 12:03 AM
1

Risk management, you should look it up sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 07:26 PM
1

I wouldn’t say that’s all we care about but those are 2 good starting points. I would be like okay, this is worth the risk and any possible bad occurrence that may happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:37 PM
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He’s trolling, there’s a reason they say he will cheat provided there are options. Staying faithful due to lack of options isn’t a better man
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:36 PM
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At best they might stay but cheat on the side. After all he “earned it” 🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:34 PM
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We just put our name in the hat. It the same as women sleeping with men before commitment - doesnt all ways work but def works ALOT. Also if we end up with a man that “makes it” we are the opposite of “cash and prizes”. He will likely discard. No man wants to be helped by his woman, it’s degrading, another flag that he will discard you. In reality we never win, so we try to get the most to prep for the worst
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:32 PM
1

I wouldn’t even say that, maybe if following is low
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:27 PM
2

Yes it’s a lie. IG is an unofficial dating site.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:26 PM
1

Your first scenario is fine. The second girl- super unstable. Guaranteed high BC. I’m not putting myself in the same category
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:17 PM
8

This is a better analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:22 AM
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Bc you’re a guy, you way less options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:05 AM
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That. I can think someone is attractive but be like nah I wouldn’t go out with them though
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 05:05 AM
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Imagine dating a guy knowingly he’s into your friend? Nah, I would like the illusion that he’s not into them like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:55 AM
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Not really, it’s more of - get a load of this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:54 AM
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That’s fucking how about she got rejected by your friend relationship wise, possibly fucked him but then went to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:52 AM
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Not really, when we chose men it’s bc of A particular trait(s), that’s why it’s flattering to you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:51 AM
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It tells me they are shooting their shot at everyone. They don’t like me, they just want A body.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 03:14 AM
0

You guys held women down, that’s why they didn’t have jobs. Now that we are “equal” now what
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:25 PM
1

Fair, but the rest I’ll stand on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 06:23 PM
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grown up enlightened adults How come addictions,joblessness and lower education is more prominent in men? Also you guys are less hygienic. The average women has it more together than the avg man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/25 10:55 AM
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I think it’s true, all of them hold at least 1-2 off their values
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 07:30 PM
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The irony in this is that’s the better strategy. Sometimes I listen to them accuse us of doing certain things and I’m like my god what a great idea. A lot of women don’t wait at the finish line, only the smart ones do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:39 AM
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For the first point, a chin implant won’t fix a recessed maxilla. As for the second yup he’s creative writing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:32 AM
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He lost me after the Ukrainian hooker. But I was gullible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 01:31 AM
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You guys bring in 50 financially but she’s definitely putting down more in the relationship. Not worth it for her or any women to enter this arrangement
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:27 PM
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I love when they say that we joined the workforce to do the exact same thing like it’s a dumb thing to do lol. If I work for someone- I would expect SS and a paycheck, with a man your future is iffy depending what he feels like. There’s no comparison, I’d rather be secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:26 PM
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Ha! Good one. Nah but I don’t want kids. I realized that the lower tier women will overly cater to the top 10%, makes me think instinctively they know their dna is deficient. A lot of beautiful women go for sub par men bc they love being catered to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:38 PM
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Well according to you if I go for the top 10% then I’ll def not have an incel son
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 06:22 PM
0

Charles Darwin and natural selection?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:59 AM
1

What is a good man to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 02:58 AM
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All my friends are either dating or marrying the bottom 90% lol those guys are no more faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:37 PM
3

You guys are supposed to be responsible too but you guys are desperate so yes it is one sided
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 06:36 PM
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It’s crazy bc that’s how it should be designed - some men do not mate. Some genes shouldn’t pass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:08 PM
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Can we get men easily? Yes, a good one? Nah Most are looking for no effort sex/labor. If we cannot provide that then they will not mess with us. ALSO men expect that up front before they decide they want to spend on us or commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/25 04:06 PM
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We know. But what’s crazy is that when you guys do find someone 1. Put in abysmal effort 2. Soft cheating - sending messages and other things that don’t involve sex 3. Cheating I don’t feel bad tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 04:45 PM
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No we know. You guys just want sex and free labor but broke/ugly men need to sell the idea of love to get it. Chad doesnt
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:32 PM
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😂😭 These sluts love raw though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 02:56 PM
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Haha my exact thought. He just doesn’t like women cashing out and them having autonomy. Says alot about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:38 AM
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Wow then all of you must be low value
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:31 AM
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Get on Prep bc Chad and Thad def getting ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:30 AM
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Most based post I’ve ever read. It’s is true, marry for money and cheat or bankroll your own life and then use them for little entertainment they provide. No in between. Tired of women defending their man when he’s probably cheating at that very moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/25 06:30 AM
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Once men have a vagina, don’t expect to have inherent leverage
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:38 AM
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We can have it both ways. Watch us. Don’t worry you guys still have an edge in male dominated fields. Every woman has been benched for the new male hire, they groom them for higher positions while there are tenured women engineers available.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/25 03:37 AM
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Of course they didn’t stick to it 😆 We were already getting a shit deal BEFORE all that and they didn’t think the treatment was bad enough to 4B. You think these women stick to the standards they say they have? Nah. Rare, RARE
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 03:35 AM
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We get confused bc you guys certainly act like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/25 06:00 PM
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Boo hoo. At work I’m too “passive” and nice when I’m acting normal and respectful. My field was very anti fem and it’s just something you gotta suck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/25 03:16 AM
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Wow it’s almost as if women have been trying to tell y’all this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:46 PM
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Don’t believe that. I have school teacher friends and they say the boys are struggling while the girls succeed. If anything they are putting up with boys bs more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:45 PM
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there is a lot of research into why women don’t stay in those fields. I’m a MechE and the harassment and sexism is crazy. They need to do a study on the career projections of both genders. Leadership is almost all men and they plan to pass down those roles to other men who are newer and less qualified. Seen it a lot. I work with a few young women that were engaged. Old heads would say that they would have babies soon (some were not planning to) and would be relegated to roles with no growth bc t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 10:39 PM
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But it’s not only attractive ppl cheating. It’s the general pop
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/25 12:21 AM
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Nope. Then three way term would not exist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:20 PM
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3 some - okay, gang bang? Idk about that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 07:35 PM
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It’s bc even if they strap a woman with a kid, he’s still disposable that’s it. He can no longer garner sex AND he’s expending resources. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 04:00 AM
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Because she left the man that’s all. They don’t care about much else except the fact that it makes them realize they are still extremely disposable even if they strap her with a kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 07:47 PM
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I already explained to him most are not getting 80k YEARLY from CS. 6000k at best which would be 500k a month. That’s pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 11:19 AM
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Oh my god not 6k! 😂😂😂😂 that’s only good enough for one of my booty cheeks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/25 01:16 AM
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That’s the problem, y’all are so jealous of 304s yet can’t stop fucking them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 06:00 PM
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The VAST majority of men will not have this issue, they wouldn’t be able to live off your measly $200 a month. Athletes know to keep it wrapped exacly for this reason
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 05:46 PM
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The finance thing was a joke, 99% of us aren’t getting one and that’s no everyone’s type
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:41 PM
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Women will tell you how to get a woman Men will teach you how to manipulate a women to be with you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 07:01 PM
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Not really. One is a choice- another is not. You can guess which it is
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:31 PM
2

They don’t chase as is. BARELY.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:00 PM
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We keep trying to tell you guys this. Sometimes sex and another categories cross where you can gain favor bc you are a woman but in my experience it also has the opposite effect. I’m an engineer and they can go light on me bc ima woman or be even bigger dicks bc I’m a woman. Honestly men only have it bad when it comes to sex/ relationships, that’s it. Even in employment you guys have more range bc you can do heavy physical work that most woman - not even gonna lie would have a huge disadvantage …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 10:30 PM
2

He’s taking currently as in “right now”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 11:51 PM
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That’s why you can’t complain if you gfs lie about BC
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:04 PM
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It is a question we ask tf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:57 PM
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The only way they compensate is by cheating while she’s pregnant. Don’t get pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 06:02 AM
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It is - does she cook clean have my babies? AND you guys want her to live off of very little or else she’s a gold digger
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 07:24 PM
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It’s the same as wife material. He’s saying she’d be the best slave
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 05:26 PM
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Wow you’re so smart
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/25 12:46 AM
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What your describing is common in cultures because you must “reign” in certain behaviors for the population to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 05:13 PM
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Most of us know if he doesn’t make the first move it’s a no go. He most likely won’t even drop hints bc he actually doesn’t like you
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:36 PM
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He was hot, wasn’t he
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 07:35 PM
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desperate to be with someone ASAP if you were on the apps you’d knows it’s far from ASAP haha
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:25 PM
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The reward is greatly defeated by the risk of getting something bad. That’s all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 05:14 PM
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This is what I thought. She’s more in danger if it’s a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 02:38 AM
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Yeah at the cost of little girls self esteem 🙄 But boys will be boys smh you guys disgust me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:33 AM
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Yes. I’ve realized most women are def not smart
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 04:16 AM
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It’s crazy that this guy got what he wanted. Crazy ons and the virgin. He’s probably hot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 07:43 PM
2

Upper class society. They rake it in through networking so it’s absolutely necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:32 PM
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At least this way she gets guaranteed $ not like how it is now how they get finessed and end up with nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:55 PM
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she can name her price CAP. Watch him offer him wage 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:55 PM
0

Hell nah not me though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:36 PM
2

I mean I’m sure you can find someone dumb enough to do it for cheap. A lot of women do this for FREE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 08:33 PM
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Low key I can see someone doing this for crazy anoints of money. 200k/year. ATP but beta bux max
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:05 PM
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If it’s PANS, yes it will
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:55 PM
2

Right? I’m making 115k and WAYYY less bs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:48 PM
2

200k min salary and I can see it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:47 PM
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200k and then they are talking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:46 PM
1

You forgot grocery shopping, I’d it’s just one meal 2hrs. And if you want the dishes cleaned/put away 2hrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:45 PM
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That’s true, I didnt think about that. But just the sheer labor of something like this- most men would be priced out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:04 PM
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It’s not but I guess they can choose something “better” if they have the money. I think men cannot even beta bux anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:01 PM
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You should ask her. That’s all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 08:16 AM
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I’m just thinking if I followed any of those rules for women how deeply FUCKED I would be right now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:10 PM
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You’d be surprised. IM surprised that they can get something. And they usually have a gf that they try to cheat on 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:29 AM
2

This post made me laugh and watch out Witt the C word. They will ban you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:57 AM
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😭 whenever I see a handsome man he’s never with a hot woman. I can literally tell who was a sneaky link even if they have kids now
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:55 AM
1

I don’t know about that one. Some will stick but for other perks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:55 AM
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no mid guy They aren’t expecting Stacy but they do expect multiple women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:58 AM
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Now you see our issue. 🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:55 PM
1

Risk management
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:22 PM
1

Yup and I know women don’t press the issue bc they will not be able to keep their dates around esp without sex. It weeds out tons of them, and I’m fine with that bc they were never about it. Don’t want to keep a sex pest around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:42 PM
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Mm kind of. It’s that less desirable men pose more risk bc there is less benefit to engage with him. Like at least the hot guy is hot you cant lie about appearance. The ugly guy is more likely to pretend to keep her around and if he is misrepresenting then she literally came out in the negatives. Even if less desirable men were just ask likely to manipulate then we still equal out to 0 if things go wrong. Yeah not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:30 PM
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They get mad bc it weeds them out instantly and before sex. I don’t see how women still fall for that, they don’t think you’re equal they think you’re a dummy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 05:36 PM
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You’re addressing people that don’t even want to invest on a dinner
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:20 AM
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I will just say…as soon as he separates from his BM or wife his value will plummet. Not that married or taken men are high value to single women but you get the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 05:44 PM
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Men already do that even without this sub🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 09:13 AM
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None of them bc those are big ones. I didn’t mention other things bc I can work with those, these though are non negotiable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:02 AM
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All of the above. Being cheap, being low effort, thirsting online. They all do one at minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 01:40 AM
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I do bc I like to troll them as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:44 AM
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It’s because it’s too many of you guys. If it was here and there then we would make that differentiation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 12:14 AM
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Most men never reach the income where money makes him look better
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/25 02:54 AM
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I feel like people who try to argue against awalt or amalt have 0 nuance funnily enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:45 PM
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Yes it’s true but I think what they are referring to are the “others” the non chads doing or saying some crazy shit. It’s weird bc we know he does not have those privileges but tries it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:43 PM
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It’s ALOT if men not living to the expectation. A lot of you guys want to live a Chad lifestyle and ruin the dating economy so women’s standards raise substantially.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:23 PM
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If you’ve dated before, they will pretend for a month or so and then become lazy. But you’re right, there are tons who are just lazy off the bat
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:21 PM
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The character is more or less the same in all men. Just because he’s ugly doesn’t mean he’s Jesus my god
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:06 PM
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I’m sorry but I won’t take blame for someone being low effort or lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:05 PM
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It is on her and they will disagree with me but I know you guys will paint every abused women as if she knew before hand. Ugly guys abuse too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 08:00 PM
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She’s really mentally destroyed is probably why she looks older
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 08:39 PM
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When male friends give me money I’ll help them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 09:15 AM
1

It’s a curse though. Knowing more absolutely scrambles your brain. That’s why I’ve come to realize and be less critical of those other pills (unless they throw some c word straight in my face) because it’s their brain protecting them from the r word. Like with pink pill we know men would much rather have both the hoe and the housewife (at the same time) instead of choosing either. It’s a long topic but the fact is that we never win either (that’s a VERY debated topic here). But what I’m trying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:27 AM
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It is male attention too but catering as in these guys go above and beyond because they LK like the girl. For example he may open doors for her, bring her food text, her all day etc kind of like pseudo bf. I technically can do this but that’s weird as a friend. I’ve had girl friends that have wanted to make me their pseudo bf but it was so weird and borderline gay (I’m a woman). In the end they got mad and pissy but I’m thinking like girl I’m not your bf, stop being codependent. And as OP brough…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 05:49 PM
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Damn didn’t improve after 100
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:43 PM
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That’s interesting. They were iffy until they saw your dick game then it was a no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:58 PM
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That’s fair but there’s also an element of being a risk taker. They def don’t care about stds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 09:37 PM
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I think there I might be another reason that is predominant here. The women that only like hanging out out with men is because they are catered to at a level not even her close female friend would do. That’s it. They know you don’t like them bc you’re not going out of your way to do anything for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:16 AM
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Hahaha honestly I love that dark pill that you cannot name. They are right and were smart enough to figure that out. I feel like other pills are delusional, mainly the red. Although they have figured out some things out, they c word HARD. Now that I found one of you that has consciousness, tell me why old guys ALWAYS want to think young women want them. It’s weird. I just told one the only old guys we are chasing are the ones on the $100.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:34 PM
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Old men always be thinking young things be checking for them LMAO The only only old guys we are chasing are the ones on the $100 bill 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 10:01 PM
1

Wow a red pill guy with an IQ over 70
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:58 PM
1

Not really, if I don’t get a Chad, I’ll happily stay alone
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:54 PM
1

Yes I agree with you. Better genetics will be passed on. Ugly manipulative genes wouldn’t be great for humanity. But whoever I say it, they say oh you want eugenics 🙄 so thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:53 PM
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What did you say old man? I think you need to change out your Walgreens prescription glasses I thought you meant they were trying to catch your eyes at Whole Foods or smth 🙄 maybe they were doing it for other young men but trust me young women aren’t trying to get old men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:46 PM
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I mean go for it but as a women we def talk about it. So if we find out you’re going for other women too you’ll have a 0 success rate there on after
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:44 PM
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Not really the young woman fresh grads are very overly accommodating. They get taken advantage of bc they are too nice so what you’re telling me is crazy haha I’m still waiting for them to come out of their shell and tell theme to shove it Most of the younger guys, and the ones that I feel would use anime desktops are actually pretty nice. Pretending or not, we appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:42 PM
5

not date a coworker or classmate. The coworker is is legit bc who knows how long you’ll stay there. The classmate however is very bad advice. If they say no then okay you won’t see them around much and after graduation you’ll never see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:35 PM
1

Bc men do this while your walking to a grocery store or any store.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:33 PM
4

They are the desperate of the bunch. They also wake up at 5 am get dolled up to go to Home Depot looking for a blue collar worker and just ignoring the fact the odds of him being married are very high. They def hate that we have a no cold approach culture now. My ex friend was one of these. We went to a country for vacation where approaching was rampant and SHE LOVED IT. It was disgusting to see but to each their own. I hate being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:32 PM
1

That photo you posted is what boomer engineers I work with think. They don’t like us around bc they can’t say anything nasty or hit on us. Disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 09:25 PM
6

Huh? I was just commenting to cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 12:13 AM
7

Because the agreement of being together is contingent on being faithful on both sides. You let them know that you’ll be cheating sometime down the line and you’ll see how fast they discard you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:04 PM
15

Honestly this is an excuse men use to cheat too. Entitles asf
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 05:59 PM
-2

Beggars can’t be choosers my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:46 PM
-1

What relationship skills are you talking about? Putting up with bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:38 PM
1

Give examples of #2 of some of the things they may say I think most men would love a situationship with most women but same as women, would rarely consider marriage with any of them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:37 PM
0

Someone said “It’s a natural state of humanity” The bear the bear the BEAR!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:34 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 08:56 AM
2

The ugly men will pretend better and longer bc he needs to. This is why they love bomb bc they cannot be nonchalant with that face. They always think they got the good guy and are okay with him looking not great. Women don’t understand he is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:37 AM
3

I’m almost subscribed to the Misogynist idea that women are dumber. Is SO obvious. They also think they are all special and certain things do not apply to them. They do. They also can’t figure out why men cheat. C’mon guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:36 AM
0

They can just go with an ugly guy that needs to give relationship status for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:16 PM
3

Ugly men do use relationships as a proxy to casual sex. They do not meet the minimum threshold for casual flings so they pretend they want a relationship, they’ve been doing this for centuries
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:13 PM
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They want the virgin that immediately wants to give it up to him with zero effort. Huge egos,
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 01:04 AM
2

You take one to confirm it’s not yours and then put in money if you find out by getting the court involved. So cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:47 AM
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Clowning you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:18 AM
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I’m just going to do whatever makes you guys madder
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:18 AM
0

What is your economic status? And how close are you to family
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:26 PM
-1

You work at target ofc you have no say in how much she makes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:22 PM
6

And we keep saying this, ppl in a class want to date ppl on their class. Ofc men that work at target won’t care bc they are on the low end of income. Are you a doctor too?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:21 PM
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I have friends though, I still date but no any of you. They aren’t marriage material but they are fun for a little BUT I will go to the top 5% for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 10:03 PM
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I saw the men my friends would date. There were absolutely chances lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:51 PM
10

Sure, sure 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 07:18 AM
10

Nope abortion is was worse but better than an unwanted child. We all know men are mad bc you guys can’t get sex. Makes me happy that not even the sluts will f you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:59 AM
4

It’s not, it’s the rose toy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:58 AM
11

There will be no “let’s give this guy a chance” any more than it is now
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:43 AM
2

All of you guys are assholes. Good luck getting any sec
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:14 AM
8

It will be the opposite. Your opportunities will dwindle heavily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:13 AM
12

Plan b is extremely disruptive to our bodies. Only dumb women use it as BC. I don’t live in one of these anti abortion states but i would be even more picky than I already am. I would probably never date again
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:12 AM
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Most men are subpar so yea they will have to pretend and lie. Once they are found out most women will leave but some will stay long term. It’s a strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:42 AM
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They want all to be whores except the one they settle down with. That way they can berate all women and get what they want too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:23 AM
8

It’s an “ego boost” they don’t realize men would do a hole in the ground. Usually 4-6s engage in these types of things for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 10:49 PM
0

And that would be low iq. Men feel entitled even if you go to 100
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:38 PM
6

Alot of them do go 5050 bc they can’t get the men they want to provide for them. And that’s why they are always throwing insults
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:53 PM
3

Meek submissive flower so a doormat instead
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:51 PM
1

It declined because we stopped taking pain killers after we could work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 04:31 PM
1

I don’t see your photo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:07 PM
0

I always think average is 5/10. Most men are below that. But I guess your saying the average man is ugly so ig that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:02 PM
1

Because it’s true. Most men are unattractive and then don’t have other qualities to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:38 PM
2

They don’t understand men more they just have lower standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:17 AM
-1

Just be honest for one second. The reason you guys get all sassy with us is because sex is hard to come by and y’all are left without the thing you want most.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 01:57 AM
-2

No it has to remain natural selection, otherwise lesser men will be born.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:37 PM
-1

Just cause he was horny and decided to kill people doesn’t mean it was the woman’s fault 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 10:37 PM
-1

Trust me, it’s men that like war. If we would have women leaders they would ignore each other. Trust me we would not react like you guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:55 PM
-2

Like you guys said- one man can impregnate many women, therefore less of you are actually needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:54 PM
0

Your dad probably was like him so that’s why he’s not present
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:54 PM
-1

Back then you’d fight other tribes frequently and with no real medical care. Now you will maybe and that’s a big IF, you get drafted. You have access to armory and weapons. You guys are just mad bc a lot of you have to pay for sex or OF
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:53 PM
-1

come back harsher on women ? This is weird. Taking it out on women when it was a man’s war
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 07:50 PM
1

They def get married. They have lower standards (hence high BC) so more men have access to them, they have a higher chance of marrying
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 05:56 AM
1

Depends on the manager.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 02:16 AM
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We can equally say It’s hard to date bc men don’t have enough income/assets but no we stay quiet
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:47 PM
1

Not really bc women can be coupled if they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 11:04 PM
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And you guys want us to solve this by splitting open our legs?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:21 PM
-2

Fair fair and I don’t want to hire someone who doesn’t want to be there
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 05:20 PM
-9

We know you’re all there for a check so we fire swiftly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 04:08 PM
-8

Fair fair. But then the employer is like damn these ppl don’t want to work and there will be a hiring freeze and very strict standards
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:22 AM
-23

And then when you do get the job you’ll put your best foot forward for maybe a month and then put 0 effort there after.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 08:53 AM
1

I can voice my opinion either way. You guys just get mad it’s bad PR
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:38 AM
1

It’s all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 05:06 AM
1

I agree. And this is only because we can’t really expect a provider bc of current economic conditions so the bar is raised on looks/attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 01:23 AM
1

In my experience they put effort for maybe 1 date. But maybe I’m unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 10:12 PM
1

No it actually is on the floor. Men don’t want to court and do even less of anything after the relationship starts. There is no “real” benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:50 PM
1

You can see the men under my comment agreeing with this guy. That’s what women are fighting against
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:46 PM
1

Doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:10 AM
2

100x more but most are not viable. I don’t even mutually match with 99%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:13 AM
-1

It’s funny because there is no “100” other men. Maybe if she’s popular on social media, otherwise you’re consistently losing to no one hahahhahah
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:05 AM
1

Chiming in, it’s all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:04 AM
9

They actually recognize this. On guy here told me the infinite labor she does is reasonable payback for the courting phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:03 AM
6

Wouldn’t you think of the men? Those $12 monthly go very far
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 04:01 AM
1

The fact that men still chase tell me the investment there is still worth the bigger struggle. Nice try though
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 03:55 AM
3

Right? If I’m broke I’d rather be broke on my own. It’s too risky being with a man who can’t do anything for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:49 AM
1

It doesn’t and I don’t care much for it. The only reason we want it is bc risk management. In order for me to engage I have to be able to gain more than I’m risking. That’s it. Men usually are more risky and don’t really care to offset that so 4B
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 09:48 AM
5

Most women don’t realize men use manipulation and other non ethical tactics to get anything
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 07:32 AM
1

The answer is usually no. Queque the walk dates and coffee dates
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:57 PM
1

Honestly, it’s because they can’t be realistically provided for. Most men can’t or the man they are with simply won’t. And they KNOW this. So they will make up all kinds of reasons why they do 50:50. They like to say it’s feminist and men respect them more but that’s obviously so dense and not true. You’d not be surprised how many backflips they will do to convince themselves of these things. As dumb as they are they absolutely know if they want a husband and a family they will have to help fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 10:00 AM
1

I agree with your first paragraph. 4B baby. I don’t get the logic there. You guys will spend on hoes but not the wife? Weird. Like really weird The stahm one was valid bc he often didn’t make enough to retire her as well. The spoiled gf hate just came from bitter 50/50 women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 01:17 AM
1

If that’s the hill you’re going to die on I hope you like to be single
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:07 PM
1

I know that’s it’s a horrible first date he I’m humoring them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 07:00 PM
0

I can’t believe you came up with this paragraph just to say you shouldn’t be told to work out and have a social life lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:29 PM
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Muh penis though. And I feel entitled to free sex and labor so hiring help is a no go for me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:20 PM
2

It’s funny because traveling takes a lot of planning, organization,energy and effort. And patience, the avg person saves for a vacation. I don’t like traveling for these reasons. They are def trying to punch down. why do you think some whore… Because that’s who they really want and desire 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:18 PM
2

Well thank you for admitting it’s a STRATEGY and not something based on good faith. We knew though
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:12 PM
1

most men don’t spend a dime on their wife/gf. And then we see how Sofie rain (OF girl) made 43 MILLION. and you guys want us to accept walks in the park, my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:09 PM
1

Nice reverse psychology. It doesn’t work bc at the end of the day men feel loneliness a lot more and seem to be more crippled by it than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:06 PM
0

Yeah exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:05 PM
2

I’m just going by the fact that dinner is way too expensive and serious for most men based on comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 05:04 PM
2

We are the more sought out gender so XYs should shoulder the initial risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 11:23 AM
1

Dinner at a reasonable place is fine. They don’t get many dates anyway so they can easily save $50-100 until they meet another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:54 AM
3

I think it’s worse than that. Even if you go 50 he wouldn’t be able to pay for his half of the trip lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 09:00 AM
1

If men were genuinely trustworthy we would accept coffee. We ask for more to manage risk. If he’s paying more he’s going to filter us out. If he thinks I’m not worth it he won’t ask me to a dinner date and that helps me weed out men who don’t like me or trying to play around cheaply.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:58 AM
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Because it screams high maintenance. They can’t afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 08:34 AM
2

I think you found the issue, I didn’t notice they used the word chase. OBVIOUSLY certain women would only chase stellar men. We don’t usually chase at all and I can’t find myself even chasing the 1%. If they are sitting there wanting to be chased, they will be waiting forever. Top 10% are chased. The next 50% will have to court and the rest won’t really have a chance unless manipulation is used. It’s a successful strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:53 PM
2

It is bc why did you wait until 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:50 PM
1

Since I can’t see his personality really, I only go by looks and as long as they don’t say anything dumb on their bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:13 AM
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Because they are looking for sex but also other types of labor on the cheap. They used to get sex,childcare, chef, cleaner for cheap and now they can not. I can see why they are upset but I will not subject myself to that while bringing 50%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:56 PM
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Yeah I felt like them being non committal and likely to cheat not very attractive for me to risk anything. I’m also not jumping at the chance to do chores for them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:51 PM
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Yup and the reason we over ask for things is because the risk is high for us. We will have to pay 50% bc of the economy so that’s why there’s and inflation of other features. Like he has to be stellar or rich or a combo. I think the fact that men are wildly unreliable really messes it up for them. In my 20s I saw how they were so non committal and just cheating and it was obvious they wanted to play before settling down but that wasn’t a good look. I didn’t waste much time with them bc I’m like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:46 PM
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No one says that. We know exactly what’s going on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:37 PM
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Yeah, I think for both sides - the opposite gender isn’t offering much. Except men want sex more and I feel they want kids more so they keep trying to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:32 PM
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He’s looking at it through a male perspective. The truth is economically both genders have to work so that raises the standard for men. If I’m paying 50% he better be stellar or I’d rather rough it out alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:30 PM
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Honestly it stops mattering bc the situation for us is getting more difficult. Rights wise and economical wise. I don’t really care to evaluate men like that, I evaluate them compared to what o want which may not be realistic but it doesn’t matter to me bc I’m okay going 4B. He has to be pleasant physically and financially or else I’m like okay I don’t really want to risk this. It is what it is. That’s why women will not go above and beyond with domestic labor anymore and why men say it’s not wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 12:27 PM
1

You men fail to realize, hitching up with any man is severely undesirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:52 AM
1

Thank you 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:06 AM
0

No I have better. I seen them with my own 2 eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 11:05 AM
5

Please, some woman- any woman back me up 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:47 AM
4

They def do cheat eventually but they also are embarrassing. Like they will micro cheat, thirst all over women online, message them etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:37 AM
3

I am trying. It’s hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:24 AM
4

And? Then you go back to square one where women don’t like you anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:24 AM
1

Nope. My friends only date ugly ass men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 08:23 AM
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Ikr. The pickings are slim and the odds of even getting a rich man are VERY slim to none
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:53 AM
1

This exact post is why I don’t get why men cheat. Like you have one maybe 2 leads and that’s it. Nope cheat on the girl that likes you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:51 AM
0

I’m fine, I’m doing 4B
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 01:00 AM
2

My friend got married a year ago and her husband is short/ugly/low wage and calls her fat and her family ugly daily. Winners. That’s who RP wants us to end up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 11:35 PM
2

The average guy or AN average guy? The average guy is ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:02 PM
4

Good luck. That’s as good as me trying to find out if he’s used escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 10:01 PM
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Low iq
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:50 PM
8

If they are big on OF they could retire early. If they are not they are less likely to be found out. And men marry hoes all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:35 PM
2

Ask any women. I’d rather get cheated on by a hot guy. And leave him ofc. Ugly guys eventually find some way to humiliate us. Even if it takes years but they will do it through online thirsting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:33 PM
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Because he has muscles and is huge? 🙄 It’s also about personality. He could have healthy masculinity or toxic masculinity. I know you sleep with them quick so you don’t think about this but there i explained it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:31 PM
2

No bc I think he’s a feminist or smth. But who knows what he’s actually like, Taylor might be just eating her words and not being truthful to her fans like beyonce
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:22 PM
3

as worthy enough to seek one It’s exactly this. You guys cheat way too much and thirst at other women and I feel like that the bare minimum. Why would I get into one knowing he’s gone mess up my self esteem and embarrass me? Nope. I wouldn’t be opposed to 50/50 as a CF person if this wasn’t the case
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:19 PM
2

Chad wasn’t the only one to ruin it. We have expectancy that if he has a lot of options then it’s less hurtful. It’s the men that don’t have options that have ruined it. They cheat with escort or a random, now THATS hurtful. If this wasn’t true we would be with ugly men more. But it’s not. I’ve seen it and women know this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:09 PM
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There have always been tons of SWs. Now it’s OF. Which I’m happy they are taking mens money. They don’t want to spend it on their gfs/wives/kids so at least someone’s taking their $
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:06 PM
1

No that’s someone with a really low sex drive. Probably not ideal for the avg man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:22 AM
1

That’s fine, men aren’t a must have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:19 AM
1

It’s crazy bc you know they have longer dry spells than that. Or they were paying for sex. This is why I can’t buy the idea of marriage bc they are too perverted. Can’t even resist liking thirst traps Yeah in their 20s they are thier best but I notice they quickly decline in 30s. I think they lose shame and realize they infact DONT have options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:18 AM
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Trust me bro I’ve dated men. Sorry but you guys have a lot of bad press. How about holding other men accountable next time Sorry you can’t get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:49 PM
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I know way too many men cheating so therefore it’s safe to assume all of them cheat. I took stats for my engineering degree and when the population is too high you can assume one group is the same with high confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:18 PM
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I’ve learned to put their personalities in boxes. Especially ones I work with I know some are great to work with but would be AWFUL partners. People are dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 10:18 PM
2

Except low iq. It may take those men 10 years to find an affair partner but they will find it. Or pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:47 PM
-3

Women like attention but they like striking down/rejecting men even more. My friend loved attention and then made fun of the guys for not being attractive or something weird about them. She was okay looking and chubby but I understood why she wanted the attention. She was mid af
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:41 PM
2

It’s only fair. Some of us also think we picked good men but turns out it’s not true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:00 AM
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Me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:45 AM
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The older ones have figured out something the young ones have not. If they commit they will get consistent sex. Young ones still think hoping from one woman to the next will get them the most varied sex. This is why cheating is so rampant. Idk how you guys haven’t figured that out yet
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:38 AM
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They are going for men who don’t see them worthy of commitment. If it was Megan fox you’d see how fast he’d drop thay
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:35 AM
1

And that’s the man’s fault. Don’t take her in. Figure out her past, don’t take a monkey swinger
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:32 AM
-3

I’ve seen what men my friends fuck and it’s top 70% fs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:31 AM
0

It is bc you’re not really with that guy unless it if they fully cheat like hang out all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:40 AM
3

Tbh you’re right but deep down they know they are only wanted for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 12:40 AM
4

Well that’s his problem if he thought that. I’m not going to be a single mom, overweight and still have my ex living with me and think men would want me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:48 PM
2

Mm see this I don’t believe. You’re looking at it through a male lens. Men will never really stay faithful to one forever. Esp if there are more options actually available not phantom options men think they have. Men have to be a certain caliber and she’ll stay faithful. Ofc an unstable women will never stay no matter what. You want to know how I’m right? It’s because if you have an overall pretty good guy it’s actually risky to monkey branch. The odds of me getting something better would be in …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 09:47 PM
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I don’t get why it’s an “ugly truth”. Men want a young fit and subservient woman, and I’m like okay you do you but not me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:32 PM
-1

I don’t get what took you guys so long to realize we want an attractive financially fit man
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:27 PM
-1

Me personally I didn’t go 4B because of the election. I already was. Only airheads did. The market of men has been trashed for some time. The way I deal with potential dangerous men is the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:55 PM
3

Low IQ post. They aren’t going to have sex bc fuck men. Stealthing still affects us bc it exposes you to stds and it means your partner is dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 05:10 PM
0

You’re not going to get a wife with 30k
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:36 AM
2

If you’re interested in a second job and going without much sleep/ not being able to take care of your health than you might like it I can make the quick assumption that I would absolutely hate it. I need my free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:31 AM
3

Tbf I’ve seen how thirsty unattractive women can be, they really should be called sex pests /predators 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:26 AM
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You can’t compare it to mgtow bc they weren’t going their way, they were sent their way. I saw posts where once they found a woman they suddenly turned on the movement. We are not as desperate as men. Most of us anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:18 AM
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They never admit it though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 07:42 PM
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No they were still fucking bottom tier men. I see my friends Bfs and what they look like/are like. But I think this will affect more attractive men that did get women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 04:21 PM
1

Oh I know I’ll always be a work slave and have to work with men but I don’t see us engaging for sex or family.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:57 AM
2

We’d be let down either way
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 09:13 PM
3

I don’t date but my friends do. And they get married to them. One friend doesn’t know she’s a boiling frog and I can tell her cortisone is super high and she gained a lot of weight and acne. Other friends complain so I know the nitty gritty. They don’t even date/marry chads. These are ugly guys with regular jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 08:10 PM
2

You undesirables aren’t better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 07:14 PM
1

I think it doesn’t matter what path, no either will be perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:48 PM
1

Very few but most aren’t really good at that. They are crying themselves to sleep at night. That’s fine well eventually cease to engage at all And yes you guys do adapt too. That’s where 50:50 came from. So we don’t get anything and walk with nothing. It’s smart but only works on the dumb dumbs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:46 PM
1

We hold a bigger role bc we don’t want to settle? How about men having a big role bc they fail to meet expectations. Female mammals have always chosen who will procreate. This ensures the next get is better than before. Some men have to be filtered out. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 05:06 AM
3

Hot
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 07:51 PM
1

I think it may be bc they have more experience but they do it bc they need to put out for attention. Hot women get it free so I’m not surprised their BC is low
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:42 PM
1

Honestly the BC thing is real but I guess we still disagree in the fact that a high BC on men is equally disgusting. I still disagree bc she won’t give sex just because. You’d most likely have to wine and dine and pretend you care.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 04:29 AM
0

Mens sex is less valuable bc it’s abundant
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:06 AM
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It’s also the ones you “wouldn’t think” to be like that. (4-6s) no mater the demographic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 11:42 PM
-1

No it’s not 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:13 PM
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No she won’t. Party girl with do the heavy lifting of courtship so men don’t feel the need to put in effort for the other girl
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:38 PM
1

For both ideally but they will accept a casual thing easier if he’s attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:37 PM
1

If I can only tag my coworker
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:31 PM
1

Most, if not all get married. Ran through women have low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:29 PM
1

I’m bitter but not ran though so this rule doesn’t work really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:28 PM
1

Mm idk. I think men will actually prefer them over an old virgin but high BC women are highly unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:27 PM
-1

I’m just going to say that we say this but most of us don’t really get much. I stay single bc men are super tight fisted in every way so I don’t feel it’s worth putting in anything. Other women will act tough and say they require all that but get little to none of those requirements. My married friends get a shitty deal but want to be validated so they put up with it. It’s RARE that I see any women reaping all those benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:23 PM
1

I mean that’s fine. We will just adapt. Reap benefits and bounce before sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:18 PM
0

Short term 🤔 maybe they were around for the long game of hit and quit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:17 PM
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No she’s just low iq. Talk to these men and you’ll see they are not serious at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:16 PM
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Wow it’s almost as if lying doesn’t exist. Man, you guys have low asf iq. Obv casual sex isn’t in reach for most men so they will put relationship to get more matches
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:15 PM
2

Low key BP is in fact correct about it. Idk why this sub ignores that being based and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:14 PM
2

I’ll just add they gotta be seemingly not threatening. Although some women are questionable about this one
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:14 PM
0

This is a female strategy that is similar to the male one. You guys will date/have sex with women you know you have no interest in. And you’ll do it knowing she wants something serious. Cry harder
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:07 PM
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This is too real. Hey I’m struggling to find a decent man but I’m not over here crying The only amendment to this is they want a steady gf/wife and a side. At the same time. Until then they’ll keep bitching
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:05 PM
-1

Idk man, maybe bc roe vs wade, roll back of women’s rights 🤔🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:52 PM
1

I know haha and it’s weird that it’s been the other way around for me lately but they are also 30-35 range.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:53 PM
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Yes and no. Even if we find someone “better” it’s a risk to switch over. The ones that are completely like that tend to be unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 03:53 PM
1

Idc honestly bc mens idea of love is us staying after cheating and other bs. Miss me with that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 05:41 PM
2

Come to LA, we are still single in our mid 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:40 PM
0

It’s because it’s off putting when you bring it up within the first 2 messages. Men do this to me and it’s so nasty. It feels like they are just looking for a box to check and don’t care who you are. I’m assuming it’s the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:38 PM
0

I’m not gonna lie the marriage line is VERY off putting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:36 PM
2

It’s pretty clear. If they are creepy or seem like they’d do something the moment you were alone with him , me personally I would never see him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:33 PM
1

I don’t have an interest in a relationship where I’m putting 50 and then held to some traditional standards. No way. I’d consider if he elevates my life substantially THEN I’ll be capable of compromising
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:26 PM
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It’s the last paragraph. And why? Because we bring in 50 financially now, that risk is becomes large. Men want multiple women at the same time so it’s. It even worth commuting in a huge way. Women will sleep with attractive men and ghost bc there’s more to a good relationship than looks. She just used him to his best of his abilities and ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:10 PM
2

How convenient, date younger after wasting women’s fertile years
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 04:01 PM
1

Why is it cruel. We need $ to survive. Why should I be burned to suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 01:56 AM
1

Wow she must’ve been smart
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:53 PM
1

No, I didn’t find my first ex to be ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:52 PM
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And that’s fine, i understand. I have a good job and marrying/having a kid would put me at risk since most men make below 100k.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:23 PM
1

🤔very large majority never went into bf status. Just ghosted I talking phase or date phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:22 PM
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I’m a woman and the only tangible thing a man can provide is $ or an very elevated lifestyle. Would not consider birthing a kid unless this is met. No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 09:21 PM
2

No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 08:43 PM
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Idk who you’re talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:18 PM
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I mean that’s fair if that’s what you want but you might not have the option to get the age range you’d like. perfectly fine It’s a little annoying they spent their 20s gaslighting and dangling the carrot on stick and then to arrive at thirty and are so aggressive with settling down quick. After a message or two they are aggressive about me not “wasting their time”. Now their time is more valuable but they didn’t sit and think about women they’ve led on in their 20s. Disgusting. I believe you gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 06:16 PM
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Mm I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 11:17 AM
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they just bail when something gets hard This is me. I’m gonna be honest and I do this because I don’t see anything in him that’s worth the struggle love. That’s when I bounce when it’s too inconvenient
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:16 AM
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A lot of girls want to marry their first boyfriend they get so every year they feel more pressure. They get stuck on the carrot on the stick and keep chugging on with a worthless bf in hopes of marriage soon. By 30 I agree we are less desirable for marriage and I’m including myself in this. Either 1. Desperate 2. Something is very wrong with them 3. Don’t care about marriage (very uncooperative bc they have nothing to lose) I’m #3 and I wouldn’t date myself, too much work and expectations
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:12 AM
2

Please give more info and elaboration. Does it take them a decade to realize they aren’t going to attract a harem so they better lock something down? It’s weird bc some of these guys weren’t even that bad. I have high standards and some were pretty good but that really scared me off bc they wanted to know if I would be ready for something serious like dating to marriage in 2 years. Too much
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 05:09 AM
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The age isn’t the red flag it’s her ideas that’s she’s created in her head. Guaranteed she’s had fomo way early in her 20s and men catch on to that. In my experience men in their 30s want to get married quick which made me hesitant bc I knew they were desperate. Aka fomo. Not ideal in a partner, they don’t care about me, they just want to check off a box.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 12:29 AM
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It’s normal for them to date bc they are more desperate and men love that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 07:53 PM
1

How do we spot these guys accurately
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:30 AM
0

Hahah there it is ladies. They are keeping you around because it’s cheaper not cause they love you. Include childcare/house care and other emotional support and 50% of the bills explain what men bring to the table that is worth this. I’ll wait
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 04:22 AM
1

So you’re saying they are just less hard working
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:45 AM
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The fact that there are more Walmart employees than porn stars (in the US) should tell us most ppl would rather work at Walmart.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 02:44 AM
1

Social skills are when you can appease to their ego. They will insult you if you make them feel off.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:37 PM
5

But but but I won’t be attracted to men 🙄 And you think woman SWs are over the moon with their clients 🙄 BFFr
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 08:24 PM
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I think it is YOU that didn’t read my comment. They will have to be gay for pay. Both sex workers will be disgusted by their clients so don’t give me that”women only have sex with proffered gender” what’s the difference if John’s are equally disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 07:26 PM
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This whole argument is exploded once you’re reminded men can also e who’re. Their demographic would be gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/24 04:02 PM
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From California and it’s not even normal here. Rude actually in this case Friends and family you can ask but it’s more of a judgement of ourselves not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 02:49 AM
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He’s a loser. We even are disgusted if we find out your ex was LV
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:36 PM
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You forgot a 4th. We despise men who see escorts even more than the last 3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:15 PM
1

They have lowered the standard fs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 03:10 PM
1

I see this all the time too. The men are desperate though. Some are knowing some are not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:37 PM
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I can see why they are confused. Some and by some I mean ALOT end up having a LTR or marrying this woman. Not because she’s valuable but because he’s desperate and settled. See it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:36 PM
1

you just hit someone big Ofc I did haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 11:32 PM
5

I think men who can’t get access to them would hate them. They wouldn’t marry them or have a one night stand bc they can’t so I can see them hating bc they have no use for them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 07:14 PM
1

Hahaha yeah those are LV women, decide if that’s what you want and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/24 04:33 PM
7

? Arab women throw down just like the rest of them. They don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 04:31 AM
5

That tells me the poster was just a lay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:38 AM
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She probably got an Arab man that could do those things
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 11:04 PM
0

We’ve seen this like 1million times. Find another stat to scare women. Spoiler: we are not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 05:51 PM
0

Noooo I would not want to strap a man onto me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 04:35 PM
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Sticking you’re wiener in someone has consequences. It’s about the only consequence you guys have.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 09:26 PM
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Pre-diabetic lifestyle that’s crazy 😂 What made you wait so long? Instead of hoeing men should try to find someone in their 20s and this wouldn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:46 PM
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You guys are just saying this bc you aren’t thinking in reality. When the bills come lmk if you still want to do that for the long haul
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:34 PM
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Who is interested then
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 08:33 PM
3

It’s like green people hating peach people. It doesn’t do much bc peach peoples racism is systemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 05:01 PM
1

I’ve tried to tell a few men about their umm nice sweet girlfriend What did they say/how did they react to that? I think it’s an ego thing. For women they get mad bc they thought they were special or have a golden 🐱 and her man is not like other men. I don’t bother telling them anything. Not worth my time. Hey I did tell the boys to say something 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:06 AM
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Okay so the open relationship ones don’t count bc it seems like the woman almost does it out of spite. your account isn’t unusual Yeah I mean I make fun of the guys and tell them wow you didn’t even tell that man who he’s marrying. They just told me like if he can’t figure it out it’s on him lol I don’t think it would matter though, he would not believe it. It’s the same thing when you tell women her man is cheating and she blocks you/gets mad. Alrighty then, have fun with that. I can’t imagine …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:54 AM
1

Which Reddit threads? Would like to read them There’s a guy I work with and he just married one of my coworkers that was passed around. Not sure if he knows. Mostly men work there and they make fun of him like crazy. Young guys and the old guys cap on him hard. It’s almost sad. But no one told h to wife the first woman that threw herself at him. She f’d him at work on the second week of meeting. He thought he was special
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 04:12 AM
1

That’s so true. I work in a male dominated field and they apply male dynamics to tell me something I did bothers them. I didn’t get it until awhile but it was annoying like just tell me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 01:09 AM
1

Obviously we are not talking about you but I know some men would think that baggage would be too large.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:35 AM
1

They go with it bc they know their pool of people would be inpeded
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 12:33 AM
0

Sluts are most def mostly married but that’s only because their standards are lower. But I would all wager their husbands don’t know about it hence the happily married part
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:49 PM
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Agreed. It’s like the single mom thing. Only single moms are up in arms that they are less desirable bc it’s their particular situation, single dads do the same. But if you make certain choices be prepared to stand on them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:48 PM
2

I’m just gonna say they are gaslighting you guys HARD with that lmao You guys are allowed to uphold whatever stipulations. Whether they will be fulfilled - that’s another story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 11:42 PM
1

I forgot to say it’s a catch all for men to describe hot men regardless of the person’s personality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:05 PM
2

“Bad boy” is the catch all for a desirable man. You have to be born with good facial symmetry and height. That’s it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:42 PM
1

Way to assume men are competent lovers bwahahhah I think men have a hard time grasping we are just worth more bc they’ve been told men are superior than women. Fine by me but it confuses you guys in the long run. Why me don’t get laid wahhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:30 PM
0

I’m happy to be as transparent and men are 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:27 PM
1

Men have a higher sex drive. We also cum a lot less often. That’s what I referring to. Low iq take. You don’t have to agree with it, but you will still be subjected to those rules. Plus, men love prostitutes so thats not the diss you think it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:36 AM
-1

That’s a common insult to get us to accept less. Not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 07:03 AM
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Yes I think that’s true. Women sometimes have sex for attention and these are usually smashing more ppl than average but I don’t think women have higher sex drives idc what they say
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:40 AM
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You proved my point. She is in more demand. Presumably bc the sex part. It’s a need apparently which makes you guys seek women out more. If they go 50/50, the man comes out winning more bc she provides a need (sex) and he only provides for his half. It’s why women are so disgusted at 50/50 I don’t know if you guys are pretending to be dense or just gaslighting hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 05:01 AM
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Not better but we objectively offer more. Consistent sex (ideally). The second line is also true. It actually makes you guys look worse and we look for clues if you guys are just hitting on anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 04:42 AM
2

Easy, 40 single
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:34 AM
0

We are picky so that’s saying something if you tried hard to pick the best and he’s still 💩 the options are just trash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 01:20 AM
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No, but you responding with a paragraph def shows you got insecure lmao Cope harder bop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:38 AM
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That’s the point. It’s an act, they aren’t actually nice. The fake emanates from them. If you still feel comfortable having sex then that’s you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 07:08 AM
1

Same thing. We don’t “need” sex so desperately so we won’t chase even if you men stop. I know men think we are less than but that right there proves we just provide more
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:52 AM
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It’s the reason men chase us and not the other way around. Elaboration: mid-ugly women chasing chads bc on this case he clearly has more to offer. Not the norm though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:28 AM
2

I notice this when we are about to “do stuff”. I end up not having sex bc of that though. Freaks me out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:16 AM
-1

Both but the average guy is less valuable than the average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:15 AM
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perfectly lovely Yes bc they are trying to bang. They can be sweet but I know it’s fake haha
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 03:00 AM
1

It’s not this. They are looking at me already and I see something instantly change. Like an animal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:48 AM
1

That depends, he might have other above average qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:38 PM
1

Bingo. Or she’s on a time crunch for marriage and kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:37 PM
0

I realize that you guys admitting to it will severely further dry up your prospects so I understand the gaslight. Have a nice day, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:36 PM
1

What is it though purple pill man? The look means something but idk what, I just know it’s bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:34 PM
0

The invisible ones just don’t get a chance to display toxicity. None is more morally superior
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:31 PM
6

Upscale super market Do you really believe that? I think that’s men’s first problem, way over estimating value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 10:30 PM
2

You just said not all men but in novel form
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:53 PM
-3

They know women in general don’t prefer bi men so they lie now. Or resort to calling us bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:43 PM
-2

YES! At first i thought it was only me that got a gut instinct to not be attracted to bi men but apparently it’s common! They have become privy to it so they lie now This is why they’ve resorted to calling us bigoted instead of respecting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:42 PM
3

Tbf I find it funny sometimes bc the stories are crazy but yeah I don’t consider him a good prospect after that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:39 PM
11

The looking in his eyes and suddenly feeling afraid HIT. It’s a look they give. Idk WHAT it is but I’ve seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:38 PM
2

/u/unique-afternoon6316
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:33 PM
-6

We know bi men are outwardly more sexually deviant so I can see why they would be hesitant. Not that straight men are any better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:25 PM
-3

Whose worse? The woman that’s “bigoted” or the bi man that lies about being bi? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:24 PM
1

Mm, idk if they are just that good at gaslighting or they know they are doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:23 PM
-1

It’s for things like you guys asking for multiple kids so casually like it’s nbd. Crazy unempathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:14 PM
0

I don’t assume. I see this in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 09:12 PM
3

Can he compensate for this “lopsidedness”? Our body does deform and some end up with permanent side effects that men are completely casual about bc it’s not them. School age is 5 years my guy and that’s for each kid. 5 years of lopsidedness. Ofc it’s nbd for you bc you won’t be going through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:54 PM
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Every man on earth carries some type of risk, no one is perfect. Alrighty then, completely missed the point. Carry on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:51 PM
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Yeah sure. Look how they want to unalive themselves when they can’t get a woman in bed or for companionship while women are okay with being single. The only reason men have to chase is precisely bc of that. We offer more at a baseline. Men carry too much risk so he must offset that by chasing and providing something more of value. You guys are good at gaslighting though, I’ll give you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:13 PM
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Not even with childless couples. Women provide the basic “need” for sex and her weight. While he only puts in for his half. See how they want to unalive themselves over that? Clearly we are providing something more valuable than they can at a baseline.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:11 PM
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This is part of it. And idk if men are pretending to be dense about it but also men “need” sex so that’s the other part. She’s providing a “need” + her half where as he just provides his half. Get it? Look at how men are the chasers. Clearly they need something more. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:08 PM
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Answered someone else below ne
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:07 PM
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Men “need” sex. So that right there she is providing more. Also you guys can’t really compensate for pregnancies. So going half with a guy actually makes it so he gains more. Wouldn’t do it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:06 PM
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I don’t see this as equal. Man in this case still receives more
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:59 PM
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Sure bobby
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:12 AM
0

I don’t agree with your explanation but yes she is deflecting. They are responsible for themselves at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:07 AM
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Yeah, it seems like low iq shit. If they are methodical and know they are bearing more negative traits elsewhere but accept it then okay then. But I feel like they don’t process the risk there and take on way more risk than he’s worth. I see this with mid-ugly women. They get a hot guy and will put in crazy elbow work to keep him. Me personally, it’s unnecessary to have the TALLEST or hottest. It’s useless if they are acting as you mentioned. Absolutely not worth the keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:03 AM
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We can but some women are willing to shoulder more burden if he does have a rarer good trait like looks or wealth. Some women lie about it and I’m not sure if they are low iq and don’t realize it or its methodical
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 05:00 AM
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Well once you get to that wall age you realize there is not wall. You will be subjected to their bs for as long as you’re alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 05:18 AM
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Understanding this POV does not make me empathetic lol I can see it but I don’t care per se, obviously I only stand for things that I can benefit from. I think it’s bc there are certain RP that think off the wall things that aren’t true. My favorite would be telling old men they can have access to young women when they are old and financially secure (house/job) not true at all. He’s gotta be massively loaded and then it will only work on a subset of women. Me personally that’s not worth it given…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:40 PM
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I was just saying bc it’s a popular red pill idea. Idk if it’s died but basically they want the perfect wife but somehow want her to accept him stepping out sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:35 PM
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That’s my point , you’d also be miserable so I don’t get not being productive to give yourself a better life
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:32 PM
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My bad, me personally I can’t live like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 07:05 PM
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I’m told to trust both sides but I’ve found it’s not a good idea. Man is out for himself and woman is out for herself but she will disguise herself as someone that is on you side until it no longer benefits her bottom line. See: SWs. Somehow it’s good to be one but not if her BF/husband sees one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:29 PM
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Fair but you guys aren’t able to explain it aside you HAVE to. Which I need more explanation bc men are surviving without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:25 PM
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Bruh are you sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:21 PM
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I just don’t understand why you guys need 🐱 to be a little productive? Don’t you care about a place to live? Food to eat? God damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:17 AM
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disturbed by being approached Okay this is where incels were correct. They would only appreciate being approached if the guy was attractive. This is why I don’t get why they are dying to be approached bc the stats of attractive men is low. And those men don’t need to approach, they have pickmes that do the work for them. terrified a man would turn violent if they turned him down. Such a lie lmao there’s a higher chance they they will be assaulted going to a tinder dates place after meeting them …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:10 AM
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I am a misandrist but I also know women are also only out for themselves so I’m not protecting them either
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 08:00 AM
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He’s absolutely right and only men who met their SOs will not like it bc they don’t want to believe they got bottom tier women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 04:10 AM
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Please link
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:45 AM
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He’s right though, women that attend those and or approach men have some defect. Would proceed with caution
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:45 AM
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All of that was…. Valid. Scary seeing something valid come from red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:44 AM
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Fair. And I will say women reject men for pure satisfaction. My friend loved to be approached but always rejected them. She was super mid so I understood why she needed the ego boost
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:41 AM
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See that’s the problem here. Dinner is too grandiose of an effort it seems. Wouldn’t bother with that. He def doesn’t like me that much or looking for an easy lay. Wouldn’t waste an evening with him
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 05:41 AM
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Why do you think you deserve a low BC woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:19 AM
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What do men say? 👂 a hole is a hole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:18 AM
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They can be porn sick too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 03:18 AM
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Get a man to do it? Oh wait you guys already do that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 10:07 PM
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You have to already have some type of instability to begin with. And then yeah it does snowball bc they do get dogged out. Fucked and then ghosted? That def does something to you. Explain more on how you know in bed aside the obvious ones. I heard from a guy if they are okay walking around naked after is a sign. It’s the same as me sussing out johns. It’s revolting and there are indicators- just not good ones. What are you going to do now?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:33 PM
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Yeah I can’t see from the men’s side/perspective. But it’s funny bc women will act chaste around other women but when I had a friend as school he would say this girl would send him nudes and I’m like no way you’re lying - boom he showed it to me lmao Where are you meeting these women? And what do you do to sus them out? I would also say women who are desperate for marriage too. They will sleep with them for commitment and get dragged along by several men. Depends though bc those may have low BC …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 08:51 PM
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You have to have the instinct for it. Any one okay with you having a high BC- they def been around and sympathize so they won’t judge. I tell RP this and they get mad. Also the type of relationships you have matter like if he has a few past fwb- that’s disgusting and I would look at him different. Not trust him as much. 4-6s have the HIGHEST BC. They have to give up more to get attention: affection from men. An 8 does nothing for attention and doesn’t have to do much to get his attention. It’s i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 07:58 PM
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It’s bc we know it’s porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:06 PM
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From his response he’s front he time where they way underpaid teenagers to take care of their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 03:25 PM
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At least in my experience this is SO true My last ex I never had sex with bc I suddenly got the feeling he was cheating and I was right. Didn’t want to risk an std
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:01 PM
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Women with low body counts 1-2 already don’t like high BC men. I always say if she doesn’t care - that’s bc she’s able to sympathize and not judge you bc she’s the same way. Red pill gets so mad I say this but it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:53 PM
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I feel like if it’s either or- they would like the virgin but she wouldn’t be able to pretend as well as the hoe. Also hoes despite what you guys think also fuck non chads so they have experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:50 PM
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I would be okay with it but I know this would never pass bc the state would not want to front the bill for a deadbeat so they’d rather stick it on the current father figure.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 10:48 PM
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Okay I agree. I’m a young millennial and it was pretty band but I still feel like we were very different from the older millennial crowd. I can believe that 90% of genZ men are single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 09:50 PM
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Men are scared to put any work and here we are
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:05 PM
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This could be achieved. Men collectively can make it better to be worth them so by default it’s worse to be single. Women would get fomo and desire to partner. But naw right? Too much work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 07:03 PM
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Bingo and this is what likely happened to the other commenter. Her husband likely said “this should do”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:49 PM
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I just think it’s childish. It reminds me of my brothers. I also get the impression they won’t lift a finger either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:14 AM
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To combat shallow mechanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:50 PM
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Sorry but it’s honestly a .2% and not it’s also regular looking guys too but they have to be our thype
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:37 PM
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We’ve just developed mechanisms
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:01 PM
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As ive gotten older I’ve def noticed what they are talking about. Yes they do exaggerate but women do In general let men get away with a lot if they like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:29 AM
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The ones doing that- yes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:46 AM
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Yes I agree. But these women are also mentally unstable
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:30 AM
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Thanks for making a coherent argument. So you’re right about the Chad part. There is a subset of women that will do whatever for Chad (or any man out of their league) and he could be broke. This is not the subset of women I’m talking about. In our perspective men don’t want to provide or do anything to make up for that. So now that we have to work unfortunately the standards for men have risen. Be more attractive and treat us better. So when it comes to crazy stuff like cum play or 💩 play. Nah I…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 11:53 PM
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Fine by me🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:34 PM
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Second this. And there’s a guy above talking about cumplay? Lmao this guy Most men don’t bring anything to the table and then they ask for this shit? Like damn, no thank you. If he was stellar i would hear him out but the avg man. Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 04:46 PM
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It’s financial but also we know men aren’t interested in taking active participation or even want to provide so it’s the obvious route
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/24 12:32 AM
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in what world woman would choose being the side In this world This is where i agree with men that women are always portrayed to be good people. A lot of sides know he’s married. But stay for self serving reasons. Ie. The man would rather spend on her and not his wife
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:53 AM
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Tbf I only perfected it after entering corporate. Def killed all empathy for anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 03:36 AM
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Dependent on her for money. The women I know have allowances lmao If her standard of living drops significantly then she’s not perfectly fine 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:23 PM
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Say hi to Pamela Handerson for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 10:00 PM
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Haha nice try. I know this play. Complain and complain but if the tables were turned you would not gaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:28 PM
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I’m also subject to judgment. So I will be returning the favor. Men say that women are worthless at 30 and those are uncontrollable factors. Do I cry about it? No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:18 PM
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I agree we are brutal. But I don’t feel bad bc men would do the same and they have done the same. Look at women that are married and dependent on their husband. The husband treats them like trash
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:47 PM
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If those 30s men can’t get 20s women when they are 20…somethings wrong dude
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:11 PM
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😂💀
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:10 PM
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Those men are SO easy to spot. But only the best of them experience that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 07:09 PM
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They just settle hard
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:51 AM
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They most absolutely were only looking to fuck. Mm I see. It really left me with a bad impression of Turkish men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 12:01 AM
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Not me. But you’re right other women do this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 09:42 PM
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Fair enough, but we avoid those
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 04:44 PM
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If she likes you more this put you at an advantage. This is why women don’t like this. We’d rather him like us more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 12:37 AM
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If she’s HOT (not in a plastic surgery type of way)- yes. Top 5% But I meant pretty as in 6-7/10 But I mentioned that only because men always say you can’t be top 5% over 30. Hard disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:07 AM
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100% honesty. I dont want marriage and kids. Do they know this? Nope. I guess that’s my biggest flaw lmao I’ll own up to it. I can negotiate marriage under some circumstances but kids is a HARD NO. I’m an extreme avoidant but because of the above I don’t negotiate my standards and leave when he pulls some bs. The good part of that is I’ve gotten great experiences and have dodged some shady 💩 I don’t like doctors bc they want a super model and they aren’t usually attractive + arrogant asf. But fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 03:03 AM
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Yeah but I find if you’re pretty, skinny and no kids you’re golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:35 AM
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The landscape changes when we reach 30 but it’s not bad at all. I’m still thin and have aged well and no kids. This is actually a good thing at 30+. The men I date have higher education (lawyer, doctors, business men). They want a “fresh start” where they can share milestones with you and 20 year olds don’t take them seriously so you’re actually in demand. This is def dependent on how attractive you are irl though. Also they look that you’re educated as well. I know RP says they don’t but it’s n…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:34 AM
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This is how women feel when men are not providers. What’s the point? I can see how men find relationships not worth without sex. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:19 AM
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Men who marry settle hard too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 10:53 PM
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I was the same as you. I suggest never telling them you’re a virgin and say you have a BC of 1 if they ask. Never give them the satisfaction of taking your V card
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:16 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:15 PM
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The thing is- a healthy woman waiting a long time is still a turn off to them bc they know she has high standards and you know how they hate putting in any sort of effort
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:14 PM
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Or super picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:13 PM
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True but I feel like virgin scouters are also a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/24 06:07 PM
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But you guys love to talk about other women sexually or those you’re cheating with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 11:07 PM
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Like men have any loyalty haha
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 10:35 PM
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Yes! 😂 and they’ve always done this. They as in friends have done this my whole life. I’ve NEVER asked them. Tmi
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 09:36 PM
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My friends bfs have 0 of the 3 6-6-6’s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:45 PM
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I agree, most women don’t take accountability. Esp with the grooming thing. Age gap relationships are a good example. Most women advise against but there are a minority of women still getting into them and claiming she got groomed. She did get groomed (you can get groomed above 18) but there was enough knowledge that it’s not recommended but she did it anyway. When you are young, old men are creepy so that’s on her
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:23 PM
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Yes. They have lowered standards into Marianas trench. Ideally it would work out but women are actually and genuinely comfortable being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:16 PM
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Died laughing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:15 PM
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Long conversation but I don’t think you can have both
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:13 PM
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The women who are with men are the ones on meds and go to therapy in the aftermath
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:12 PM
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It’s people who have failed to adapt are the ones that prefer traditionalism even though it’s still something you can do in current times. Women who don’t want to put in work to get a career will complain that she’d rather be a house wife. Me, personally the career part was easier bc there was more of a guarantee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 08:11 PM
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Fair but usually the guy we want to date isn’t in abundance. But I think it’s more that we are okay being single
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:15 PM
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I’d think he didn’t like me and move on. Nbd
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 07:14 PM
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High n count women can’t really lock in a guy (for other reasons) without having sex with him first. This is how women get men that aren’t really in their league. Low n count women wouldn’t risk it bc he might just pump and dump
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:19 PM
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Honestly yes. And I feel like they were fooling around not serious bc they also usually are not married
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 05:22 AM
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It was bad in my 20s. I learned that I’m not missing much so I don’t try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:35 AM
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lol the baby dad stereotype is bad. As much as you guys want to cope- BDs are also undesirable to single women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 03:34 AM
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We are talking about him with a kid - stay focused
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 02:15 AM
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Pffft I don’t need other women to tell me what is a good man. Clearly they don’t know. We don’t like single dads btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:43 PM
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I would only consider a single dad when I’m 40 and he HAS to be rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:42 PM
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Mm nah we don’t like single dads either. We can be attracted to them but then not attracted after knowing he has a kid(a)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 11:41 PM
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Basically yes. Those women are not attracted to them but want a good guy for her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 10:36 PM
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When you get older you realize 22 is very young and being a virgin at that age is actually obtainable. These girls know most men are after sex so they are extremely picky and won’t date most of the male population. I feel like hoes are more open to a variety of men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:30 PM
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Are you new to this sub 😂 we debate the same topics every week
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:21 PM
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😂mwahahaah
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:20 PM
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I didn’t even read his whole post. He’s probably hot ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:16 PM
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Mm I haven’t read his profile but I also write about of wild things but I know in person I cannot advertise certain ideas 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:14 PM
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Do men actually go to bars looking to fight 😂 that’s hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:11 PM
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Yeah they are just saying that. They like the attention And the rush of rejecting you, UNLESS you’re attractive- don’t approach They should go to a country where that’s common and they’ll see it’s AWFUL. I went to Istanbul and yes they were only approaching bc they think American women were easy but it was SO annoying! Was so glad to come back to the US. My friend is an attention whore and she loved it though. She loved the attention even if she rejected every single one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 07:03 PM
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Because they are the kings of having my cake and eating it too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/24 09:48 PM
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In my experience men are NEVER willing to drop porn. Tbh that made me feel like okay if he’s watching then I don’t feel like I “need” to do any of these fantasies. My ex at the time wanted to do weird stuff irl and keep watching porn so how does that benefit me?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 08:05 PM
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Men always use the “maturity” , “compromise”, “transactional” phrases to get us to accept less. I don’t have to anything esp since I know men would NEVER be gracious enough even if the scripts were flipped. My grandma was a good example of the type of women men want. She ended up with 13 kids, abused, poor and finally homeless. Women of this generation say - no more. Come right or don’t come at all
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 05:14 PM
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Because we don’t have to compromise. I had an ex who was into weird stuff and I was relieved when I left him bc I was like he can find someone else to do that 💩. Not me though. He def did not provide enough value for me to “compromise “ Edit: if he was compatible on every other level It would be a case by case thing. If it’s too crazy like the Dubai toilet thing idc if he’s my soulmate. But reality is most men are far from compatible and it’s usually a dealbreaker if he’s presenting sexual devia…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 04:55 PM
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Op literally gave two undesirable options. A fuckboy and a very unattractive one
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:38 PM
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I drop both of them. I stay single :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 02:37 PM
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Yes some women would share but it’s a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 07:08 AM
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True and you’d probably end up in a ditch if you try to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 03:16 AM
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That’s funny how you guys don’t want a compromise and we have to bear all the burdens of an ugly cheap man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:10 AM
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Chadflation
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:34 AM
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I honestly wouldn’t care but I wouldn’t touch him with a 10 foot pole
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 02:33 AM
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I would feel bad but we saw how horrifically men treated their wives. Like really crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:57 AM
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We created men lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:00 AM
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That’s why 4B exists. Easier/less stress to wage slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:46 AM
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I mean fine by me. Continue to do all the labor we don’t want to. But I meant you guys are not needed for partnership anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:45 AM
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Sure. Every massage parlor in my city has never gone out of business. I noticed these even as a kid, they survived the pandemic bc everyone’s husband is going there 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:43 AM
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Slut shaming is fine by me
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:01 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:00 AM
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Hey man you can do whatever. But beggars can’t be choosers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 12:00 AM
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Tbh that kind of guy will see one here and there for life even in marriage and we always catch on to cheating. If I lived in an area with legal prostitution I would be extra vigilant. Since I don’t I just watch out if he doesn’t do any other adjacent things. Which I won’t disclose :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:47 PM
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I don’t disagree but I’m not worried if it’s not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:45 PM
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I didn’t- you said that. You think sex is our primary role because you get none. If you did you would be judging her by other qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:45 PM
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Fair but I would be concerned the guy I did like use them at any point in time. Just like you men don’t like whores, we don’t like johns
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:44 PM
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Fine by me 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:42 PM
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Men are greedy, so it won’t just be the players. Plus players like the game, so I feel they would be more allergic to paying for it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:42 PM
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Hahah bffr no one’s cleaning 💩 for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:56 PM
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Men already buy sex in the US and it hasent done shit. They are way over valuing themselves and purposely undervaluing womens role.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:49 PM
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Men already pay for sex and it hasent done shit
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:46 PM
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It’s doesn’t help society it just helps men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:45 PM
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If I and other women knew he’d been seeing prostitutes I would never want him. Lmao Value = 0
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 10:38 PM
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I think the problem is simping for women that have clearly no interest in them. I see this alot and he does it for YEARS hoping for something. Sometimes these women are engaged or married, idk what they are thinking tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:29 PM
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Mm no that’s only you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:24 PM
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We do this because we find out candidates are also applying elsewhere and often trying to work at multiple jobs at once even if hired. A bad hire can really put the business under so we have to be careful. Not hiring is better than hiring a bad employee
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 05:21 PM
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Oh I will complain. If they want a prostitute, they have to option to go to one :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:27 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 02:20 AM
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Better than him going for me bc I’ll be “cheap”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:31 AM
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all he can value you by is your looks Yes that’s why if he’s cheap asf I know he’s not that attracted to me and I’m about to get a mediocre experience bc he thinks “I’m not worth it”. Which is fine but I’ll pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:42 AM
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What’s the point of marrying a millionaire if you can’t enjoy any of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:31 PM
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She married a billionaire but this goes to show that billionaires can have the same value as a poor guy. She only does manual labor all day, despite him having the $ to relieve some of it. Not ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:28 PM
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When he asks for a coffee date I immediately think yeah this guy doesn’t like me. It’s low effort and he’s probably going to only buy his own coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 03:11 PM
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They want US [women] to have kids they just want the feeling of having kids but don’t care for the caretaking part
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 01:58 AM
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I’m stating that bc men try to pass it off as all woman would want a psycho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 10:26 PM
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That’s insane dude
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:33 PM
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Even the ugly ones which goes to show you have to be crazy unstable to even consider that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:17 PM
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Heavy on the mentally ill. Don’t compare me to that bs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:16 PM
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They think they are the exception and their 🐱 is so golden he would never murder them lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:15 PM
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The women who are infatuated with him are mentally ill. The average woman would not be into men that “ran her over until she looked like spaghetti” yuck. Don’t compare me to these woman that would jump to do conjugal visits with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:14 PM
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I don’t get why men like this want kids. Like what’s the point if you don’t want to spend time with them. I feel like they have them to solely trap you into doing domestic labor for him while he fucks around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 06:07 PM
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No they didn’t. I was a kid when dial up existed and my parents made sure to not let us play on it all day. They would hide certain parts so we couldn’t use it. Did they provide a way to keep occupied? No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 05:29 PM
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Seriously, the price is hefty. I’m still weirded out women still pay it though bc I know most of them have 💩 bfs / SOs
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:57 PM
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Yes all men. lol fair enough. The only ones that I see that got married to good women got with them super early. Early college LATEST. Most men won’t do this bc they want to be 304s in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:52 PM
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Most ppl don’t do those things themselves, they pay some guy to do it. It’s SO easy to outsource.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:48 PM
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Be so fr. People pay contractors to fix roofs the avg man doesn’t know how to fix roofs. All those things are outsourced except maybe easy stuff like mowing the lawn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:47 PM
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Ohhh now it’s wrong when I’m making fun of you guys? 😂 I’ve grown up in the same town and I’ve seen who gets married first. It was the woman who were desperate to be validated as wifey bc they were LK ashamed of their past. This also happened at work. A new guy started dating one of our coworkers not knowing she was having sex and fooling around with some of the guys in office (married and taken too). They are getting married In September and he’s definitely the butt of the joke and we still mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:58 AM
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Hahahah that’s so true. And you guys do end up marrying them. Seen it. You guys end up marrying them bc they have low standards in men. Most of you guys don’t have the option for not ran through women bc those will require a lot more and it’s understandable if that’s too hard to obtain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:47 AM
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There’s a problem if you are mad those types of women don’t want you. Me, personally I wouldn’t want a coke whore so it wouldn’t bother me what they do with an Uber driver
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:24 AM
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Imagine doing all this hard work to get a 2/10 Thai sugar baby
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:21 AM
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I would say no unless you’re hot and in that case you could just use tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 01:20 AM
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It’s not empathy. It’s ego. You like the idea that women want you for you and not bc she’s forced. If that wasn’t the case you guys would just see prostitutes and the gfe experience wouldn’t be popular. Us in chains wouldn’t work. Some men care about their daughters. Also if that was the case I would just rope and be part of the movement to end humanity
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:05 AM
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Lmao I say single is luxury. Alot of women would love to be me so shaming tactics of being un wed are funny
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 12:03 AM
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No bc I have the ability to carry a baby. He can’t share the burden on that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:57 PM
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🤔 me personally I wouldn’t marry an ugly guy. I make 111k yearly so I’m not rich but I can afford to be single. Women that are not great financially will be okay with BB. That’s life. Just happy I don’t have to be with an ugly ass guy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:56 PM
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Do you know men also get paternity leave despite them doing less? I don’t care about enforcing things that won’t give me an advantage. You say it like I care about being morally superior. I will fully leverage things that are in my favor to outweigh things that are not in my favor. (I’ve learned this from men) Remember that women were encouraged to get into the workforce to be equally exploited by employers. But unfortunately lots of women are exploited by employers and their man lol. BUT Now th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:53 PM
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I only stand by things that will personally benefit. The whole world is a hypocrite so if I’m not, I’m behind.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:50 PM
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Why would you feel bad. The things you listed are things they give freely to their bros
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 10:48 PM
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And? I’m not ashamed of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:59 PM
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You mean go 100/50? Like I said, we bear more risk and aren’t really into men like you guys are into women. We will be fine single while you guys are not. So we can make demands men could never The double standard is that women are the more valuable gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:09 PM
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I can tell you personally what I think but some women might be more lax. I believe he should pay for everything. If we married I would be okay with helping pay for a house. Men cheat alot more and I would risk catching stds. At minimum I would be burdened by having a periodical std check. Men want sex more so I’d have to be burdened by him wanting more sex than me. I have to worry that he’s gonna make a side baby. If I have kids with him the risk raises substantially. The likelihood of being a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:04 PM
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What really happened is that those were bottom tier women that couldn’t get the 6’ft man so there’re like this 5’9 guys is alright, I’ll give it a shot
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:52 PM
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Some women do wants kids and a family so it does matter to them that redpill breeds a holes. For the rest of us we don’t care if you make asses of yourselves, we will remain single 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:45 PM
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I think when we are younger we are forced to put it aside bc young guys don’t have money or their parents are still paying for things. We know that the only way to get a guy with money is to date way older and we aren’t interested in that. We aren’t looking to settle so the broke hot young guy is fine for now
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:40 PM
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Bc it’s a logistical nightmare to date someone from another country. They families will also expect help so there’s that. I wish you luck though
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:37 PM
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I don’t want kids but I don’t want a poor man either. Smh Nowadays you need one partner to have a great income to have a standard home. I make 111k already so he’s gonna have to bring in a bit more to afford a house bc I will not be with a man that I want elevate my life. Why would I waste my time ?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:31 PM
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Yeah I saw the result of working moms. They aged like crazy and were always stressed. My mom would take her PTO to take care of us and our dad would not. And you know how tight fisted these men are, wouldn’t be willing to get some paid help for her even if she’s carrying a monster amount of duties. I see some of the girls I work with aspire to do this and I’m thinking like….think about that again girl. None of their r husbands are rich so they will struggle doing both jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:26 PM
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I find it crazy parents have them in those conditions. It’s insanity. You give birth to them and they will struggle for the rest of their life. That’s crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:23 PM
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people complain and don’t want to sacrifice Um yes? We want to live and enjoy life if you want to work like a dog and end up sick, that’s on you boo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:21 PM
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There’s no benefit that’s why they want it that way. Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:17 PM
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Yes absolutely. I live in a HOCL area and make 111k….still don’t qualify for a house so yeah 60k is poor lol. What is that? 40k take home? Rent is 2k a month so that’s 16k left for food and utilities? So what you have like 4 k a year to save? Hahhahaha naw I’ll pass
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:15 PM
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Because anything that isnt legitimately rich might as well be poor
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:13 PM
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Yes. We aren’t obligated to be empathetic towards men, you guys would never do the same. It’s only bc you guys want sex and a slave that you guys don’t off us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:12 PM
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Even just dating them with no kids. You’re assuming risk for free. And they do not understand we are not obligated to be empathetic to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:11 PM
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In this theory, If we are married to him then that means he has enough for both. But she’s right, it’s so much of a drag to have a family with a poor guy. Than it is to stay alone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:09 PM
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It’s going to stay that way bc of the economy. Even us working is not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:07 PM
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Not paid for sex but paid for my presence in general. Would never go 50/50 bc that doesn’t uplift some of the risk associated with dating men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:06 PM
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Some actually do. But they have high standards so it’s true that all of you guys end up with the hoes bc they have lower standards. You have to have way low stands to have a high bc. Remember Chad has all the options so he’s going to have sex with the top ones
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 08:01 PM
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Sometimes not when they see how women will jump to cheat with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 04:39 AM
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Yes i do judge men based off that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:15 AM
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I would say 17% is not significant. Now let’s look at the study where divorces happen more frequently in age gap relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 02:10 PM
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Trust me you won’t know all the time because they know jewish men won’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 05:02 AM
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The Jewish ones do it too, they just hide it better. Same for arab women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:57 AM
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Men (20s) that can’t get fuckbuddies go for ltrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 01:56 AM
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Really bc you guys seem to think it’s the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:28 AM
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A lot of them pay for prostitutes and still want to have a gf/wife. We know which gender is more valuable
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:37 PM
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Haha the thing is men need us for survival. We don’t. So the leverage is. It on your side
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 10:31 PM
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Crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 11:42 PM
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My only counter argument is that this happens naturally with age too. Don’t have a high BC but I just care less. I don’t really care if certain relationships dissolve bc there is always another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:14 PM
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This is the truth. It’s like when single moms shame men for not wanting to be with them. They damn well know kids Is and understandable deterrent
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:12 PM
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Would you accept a high BC woman or be like every other man that would only go for non damaged woman. This damaging that woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 09:10 PM
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More or less. Both of them are entitled in their own way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:12 PM
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Second this. But I do know some women who will choose the ugly tall guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 03:02 AM
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more varied You guys are not. Something you guys say and how you guys gaslight is SO textbook
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 11:02 PM
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My friends date and marry the bottom 50% and they are just as vile. Abusive asf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:53 PM
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You forgot a big one. I will bring in meager earnings and make you pick up the slack. You’ll have to figure out how to support kids and a mortgage. I will call you a gold digger if you expect more of me financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 10:51 PM
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Fair point and I’ll say that wouldn’t be my first thought. I would think like if he was so attracted to me why did he wait so long and I would kind of think that he’s probably desperate which is kinda mean to say a little unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 12:43 AM
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To be completely fairrrr women were actually trying to engage in good faith at first but men completely advantage so yes now we only look out for ourselves as you men do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:00 PM
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Hahah not me. It’s one thing if he lies but it’s another one if I don’t ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 02:55 AM
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Yes. And other toxic reasons. Both genders doing this are disgusting so nice try with the gotcha. Only high BC women accept high BC men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:31 PM
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Haha it’s a subset of women who won’t care. But I’d be cautious, they probably have a high BC if they are okay with it. Otherwise I can see them only sticking around if they don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:19 PM
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You mean masculine women? 😂 They probably support his ass too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:18 PM
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That’s literally disgusting and you’re right, we wouldn’t know. It’s the same for men, you will never know if she was a past hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:17 PM
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Yes. They usually do it for attention or self soothing trauma. We don’t want John’s just as much as y’all don’t want escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:13 PM
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Tell us more, you seem to be knowledgeable. They can always go to the cheap Asian massage parlor. I know a bunch of men go to those because they never go out of business
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 05:12 PM
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Sex addict - loser
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:19 PM
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It’s what I’ve noticed but good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:58 AM
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Right? One is being forced and other is just deciding to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:57 AM
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Heavy on the last paragraph! 💀 That sounds miserable, idk why men would subject themselves to do the inverse
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:36 PM
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I notice this alot with the women I work with. They try to get their masters before kids and try to go up the ladder too. We are more likely to consider other/better options because we are building for a future family (if she wants that) I’m doing it too even if I don’t want kids but I just want a better lifestyle and I KNOW inflation is about to get worse so I better buckle up. Men on the other hand feel comfortable and don’t really seek better opportunities. I think it’s because now that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:34 PM
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I notice this alot with the women I work with. They try to get their masters before kids and try to go up the ladder too. We are more likely to consider other/better options because we are building for a future family (if she wants that) I’m doing it too even if I don’t want kids but I just want a better lifestyle and I KNOW inflation is about to get worse so I better buckle up. Men on the other hand feel comfortable and don’t really seek better opportunities. I think it’s because now that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 07:34 PM
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You gotta count all the women (there’s alot) that damn near bullied their bf for a ring. Those are also undesirable yet they are married
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:23 PM
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That depends if she was la trying to get in a relationship. If she was that’s def a red flag that not even a bottom feeder would be able to put up with her
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:22 PM
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You can’t afford $5?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:53 PM
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They pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:30 PM
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Haha men are notorious for doing this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:28 PM
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Because normally when men make less in the relationship they agree to ratio the cost expenses. I noticed when the women makes less, he wants to go half by dollar amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:18 PM
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We were discussing 50/50 to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 03:17 PM
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So salty haha who cares about “value” when you can afford anything. It’s like telling someone poor that they are rich in experiences and this is somehow better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:55 AM
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“Different measures of success” yeah except one can leave you destitute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 06:54 AM
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YES AND THATS NOT BECAUSE THEY THINK HMMM I WOULD LIKE TO FUCK OTHER MEN. It’s because he OVERALL SUCKS
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 05:23 AM
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Most women like myself are not okay with 50/50 only because the risk on our side is a lot GREATER. Child bearing and everything. Also women are fine with staying with 1 man our whole life; who cares if he becomes old and ugly. Men DO NOT. Men don’t stay as monogamous so no I won’t pay 50 because the risk is not equal. If I get married I will contribute but he will have to make substantially more for me to consider
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:46 AM
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Let me guess- he makes less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:20 AM
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This is funny bc I would say men are more GUILTY about this. They encourage men to cheat and just be shitty to their partners or pressure them to do something that is clearly cheating. Not reprimanding my friend for dating shitty guy is far less vile. And anyways these women most often than not can’t be helped.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 04:13 AM
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Ohhh now “we are all damaged” men are so funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:02 PM
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Post a photo pocket full of coke Like op said- only damaged ones would be into that. The young women you guys want aren’t interested in coke heads
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:34 PM
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Yes bc hs people go to bars. I mean if they are out worth their friends at the bar then it’s fine but for the purposes of picking up women - ew
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:31 PM
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Not at the bar, his bedtime is at 8pm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 07:26 PM
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I agree, thank you for bringing this us
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:10 PM
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This is my experience too, even my “damaged” friends didn’t date older. They just dated abusive men their age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:07 PM
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This is a good point. Men that are 30ish tell me they can’t date younger bc these women don’t take them seriously 😂 I laughed bc it’s so true, at 20 I was not looking to settle and have kids. It’s funny that they got to 30 and realized this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:06 PM
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Idk dude. Seeing a 50 year old at a bar is weird. So out of place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 05:02 PM
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Using their logic, 90 year old men would be getting the most 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:57 PM
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It is bc like you said we can choose to not be single and share a man or get with an undesirable man
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:52 PM
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It’s almost like your eyes readjust when you get older. A 30 year old no longer looks old asf. They sure do when you’re 20 though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 04:49 PM
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They are dreams bc you have to be asleep to believe it 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:25 PM
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Heavy on the slightly older 1-2 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:24 PM
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She already explained this in her post. Those 10 year younger women are damaged
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:23 PM
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I second this. I only started dating 30-33 year old men when I was 29. 30 seemed to old for me when I was 28 😂 Even now, I’m not tying to date a man that’s way older than me. It’s just a redpill fantasy. This is how I know those guys are in their 20s bc they have no idea . It’s sad bc if they aren’t desirable in their 20s they def are not going to be in their 30+ ages
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:20 PM
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And the west doesn’t have a toxic work culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:21 PM
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What? Some get wined and dined- some don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:39 PM
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Idk some of us can tell if he’s way out of our league and just around for easy 🐱
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:57 PM
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What you’re taking about is a subset of specific women. Ones that definitely HAVE to lead with their mouth or 🐱. Not all of us have/want to and I can tell when one man is def out of my league, it’s funny bc they will match with me and test ME if I’m easy or not. I hate low effort so these guys get unmatched idc if they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:56 PM
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You guys always shame us for not wanting anyone below 5’8. Same thing, idc if height can’t be fixed. Like I said, attractive men can put in effort or we can stay single. Although those men can still get a subset of desperate women without effort which is fine if that’s what they prefer. They don’t even get super attractive one either unless they have $ too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:49 PM
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I don’t really care. Most of us won’t share either so we decide to stay single by choice
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:46 PM
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It’s the same for men. Over sexualized apps have you guys believing having sec with a lot of women is possible. It’s not for the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 06:45 PM
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I’ll tell you something, I see ugly doctors on dating apps ALL the time. They are picky. From a woman’s perspective it’s their job that puts them in the game but they can hardly compete with an attractive guy that has a decent but less status based job. Like an accountant. Like they would never be looked at if they weren’t a doctor but that doesn’t put them at hot guy tier unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:29 PM
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Same with men. You guys keep an open mind when you’re actually with a woman, like you actually gained desirability. You guys seems to forget yall undesirable and take the SO for granted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 04:27 PM
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Excuse us for wanting desirable men. I remember seeing a thread where men were saying they would never consider a fat woman (the average woman is overweight) and that even with a good personality she’s friend material at best. Accept no one wants you and get on with your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 03:57 PM
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Cool, now you get how women feel 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:35 AM
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Def prime pick for abuse 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:34 AM
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The point is- we don’t care. Create a net benifit for us or we won’t engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 04:31 AM
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Np. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 10:16 PM
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I’m not sure exactly. Bc online every man seems to not want to deal with relationships but in real life there are def a lot of men still trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 07:13 PM
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It’s a VERY valid take though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 01:25 AM
1

Isn’t that the point? It’s that it’s not doing better so you can assume it has no affect
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:56 AM
1

Not really, there are places that have legalized this but men still get married. Women provide other labor aside sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:47 AM
1

She’s 19. Love to hear her take on this in a year or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:38 AM
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Great, now that you established that- you can offer up your 🐱 for these poor men Ima not seriously respond to this bc your 19 and stupid. Read this over in a couple of years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 03:36 AM
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Don’t think so, it will just result in a massive amount of women being strung along. Sounds great for men but not us
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 05:23 PM
2

Not at all, most women are too jealous. It really takes the wind out of our sail when we know he’s fucking other women. Only a select few women can do this, and even then i notice only if he has a lot of money in addition do they put up with it. Not sure if a handsome guy would be able to get away with it on that alone. That’s why even they lie. If it was a better option, the average woman would be doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 04:56 PM
2

No. We’ve said countless times if we can’t get the man we want being single is fine. Only a select group of women are okay with sharing top men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 07:29 AM
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Y’all are definitely thinking it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 09:45 PM
2

That but also someone who appears to have a high BC or desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:34 PM
11

Delusional? Men keep saying women in their 20s are in absolute peak. I know it’s not true but you guys say it to put 30s+ women down. And this is the result
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 06:31 PM
1

It’s not celebrated where it counts. We aren’t assigned anyone to provide for us so we develop opposites it’s to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:15 PM
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Yeah if you work for corporate- those traits will be absolutely knocked out of you. They will def hold you back. When I started my career they spun all these into me being incompetent, for example if I was too agreeable (just wanted keep good relations with coworkers) they insinuated I was weak in some form. Now I’m Definitely disagreeable, combative. I walk around like every man there is beneath me. Haha they did this but just see that I took this home with me as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 04:11 PM
1

Because both think they can do better and expect more out of the other partner. Doesn’t work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 01:51 AM
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Nah, I think because both think they settled
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 11:09 PM
1

This is something that is never talked about. And I bet there are a ton of men just like you. Interesting. It’s always “oh she didn’t give him enough sex so he got it somewhere else”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:23 PM
1

Do you think this is what happens to certain men? Did you end up cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 05:18 PM
6

But the truth is that he’s “drained” bc he has to provide or god forbid - not cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:23 AM
5

What if she had her hoe phase in HS? The white collar paragraph is SO true. I laugh when k see it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:11 AM
3

Yeah, if you generalize them you can sue them out but I swear they always throw out vibes
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:09 AM
7

Haha I’m def the biggest avoidant but not a hoe 😂 the difference is that I run b4 sex or anything happens
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 07:07 AM
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