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Artivist/r/seduction14/01/11 09:39 AM
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haha you're very funny and I'm sure the ladies like that. Did you notice an increase in your libido after regularly practicing yoga? And, has it helped with increasing your stamina during sex?
/r/seduction04/02/16 09:15 PM
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Is there a lot of interaction between the members in the yoga place that you go to? In Bikram, there is no talking between the students or teachers and you just keep doing the same postures every time. Do you ever feel like you are missing out when you get attention from these hot girls?
/r/seduction04/02/16 08:43 PM
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What kind of yoga are you doing? Have you tried Bikram yoga? I've been doing it daily for a month but haven't noticed any drastic change besides lots of sweating. Can you get six pack and muscular with just yoga? I get bumped into, rubbed, nudged, hugged, grabbed and oogled by attractive women A LOT. Does this happen in the yoga class or at other places too? I've never seen women be so blunt and straightforward. How do you react when this happens? I'm assuming you are already married and in a co…
/r/seduction04/02/16 08:22 PM
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Thats very interesting. Hope to see more FRs from you in the future.
/r/seduction05/12/12 06:09 PM
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Was this convo in English?
/r/seduction05/12/12 03:33 AM
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I already have the book on my kindle and have read almost 1/4 of it. I wasn't able to relate to the characters in the book and they seemed very stereotypical. I guess I'm not one of those nice guys this book was written for. But, I'll try to read the rest of it. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
/r/seduction27/11/12 05:34 AM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/seduction27/11/12 04:33 AM
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If its not a big deal, I'd be interested in knowing how exactly it helped with your relationship.
/r/seduction15/05/12 10:04 AM
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May I ask how many girls have you met and slept with on that site?
/r/seduction04/04/12 11:18 PM
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How exactly did over texting ruin the relationship? I am curious.
/r/seduction17/03/12 10:02 PM
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20-30 minutes sounds good. Do you deliberately slow down and consciously control yourself from ejaculating or you're dick is just more desensitized now?
/r/seduction11/02/12 04:22 PM
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Golden rule: Treat others as you would like to be treated. It's simple and yet profound. Most people don't realize that when they genuinely try to connect and offer value to another person, they are obliged to treat you fair as well. You just used the Law of reciprocity without knowing it. Well done!
/r/seduction09/02/12 06:42 AM
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I'm usually in SF downtown every once in a while. But, after I changed companies, I've been living in South Bay for the past few months. Do you work in SF too?
/r/seduction09/02/12 06:39 AM
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I just saw you across the street and couldn't help but tell you that you're cute/adorable. Used successfully many a times by yours truly. Also in SF. you would be surprised how often being genuine just seem to work. Also, she should find you reasonably attractive for thus to work. You should come across as honest and fun than desperate or nervous.
/r/seduction08/02/12 09:49 PM
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Talk about not having anything to talk about.
/r/seduction08/02/12 03:51 PM
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Funniest thing I've read in a while. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/seduction03/02/12 01:32 AM
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I don't like clubs either. And, I wasn't sure if it would be awkward to go to bars and lounges alone since it's mostly filled with group of people. Am I over thinking it and it's not that big a deal?
/r/seduction29/01/12 07:46 PM
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Do you usually pick up women in bars or clubs?
/r/seduction29/01/12 03:34 PM
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That's the time you just go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction26/01/12 03:03 AM
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I am a little confused about what constitutes as a shut test? Do you have a couple of examples.
/r/seduction26/01/12 12:38 AM
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Do you have any recommendation for wine?
/r/seduction25/01/12 10:06 PM
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Were you able to hook up with any of their female friends?
/r/seduction14/01/12 05:21 AM
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How about forgetting about acting or being confident and work towards creating an active and productive lifestyle? Working out, reading, learning a skill you are interested in like cooking or yoga or indoor rock climbing. All if this will instill confidence in you and raise your self esteem. Then, instead of running away from social meetings you'll embrace and enjoy them. In order to attract someone you have to differentiate yourself from rest if the people and offer value. Can you take it upon …
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:17 PM
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As long as you'll think of the women as a unique snowflake, you'll always have anxiety and self esteem issues. Treat women just like your buddies, and the awkwardness disappears. Also, read whatever you wrote again, and notice the self talk. Recognized anything? The way you talk about yourself hugely determines your reality. If you want to change the outside, change your inner thinking. As within, so outside.
/r/seduction31/12/11 07:55 AM
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Just curious to know why do you think so. Don't you think abstaining could actually be beneficial to some people who over do porn/masturbation?
/r/seduction29/12/11 07:21 PM
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A lot of people on NoFap had the problem of not being able to get it up due to excessive porn/masturbation resulting in desensitization of their dick. When you say could go on for an hour in the past, were you hard all the time?
/r/seduction29/12/11 07:19 PM
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How long do you usually abstain and when did you start noticing this? Also, do you cum early as a result of increase in sensitivity.
/r/seduction28/12/11 04:37 AM
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I think you missed out. A girl doesn't sit with you for that long if she is not interested. she was expecting you to kiss. Your lack of confidence could be a major turn off for some girls. It's very ere that a girl takes the initiative to kiss. At the very least you could have asked if she wants to kiss. You would be surprised how many girls would have said yes or don't know - both of which are an invitation. Just learn from this and remember the next time that it's better to be turned down than…
/r/seduction16/12/11 09:39 PM
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I can completely relate to that. Haven't fapped for almost 3weeks . You should check our /r/nofap
/r/seduction13/12/11 11:55 PM
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Could you elaborate?
/r/seduction13/12/11 07:48 PM
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What's the longest you have gone without fapping? Did you ejaculate through sex and if so how often? What were the most noticeable changes.
/r/seduction13/12/11 07:48 PM
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Did you ever have sex with her or was it only make outs? You need to be more aggressive.
/r/seduction08/12/11 09:43 PM
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Why do you think she was flirting with you? May be she was just being nice? Any IOIs?
/r/seduction08/12/11 09:29 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response. That made perfect sense.
/r/seduction19/05/11 08:37 PM
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How exactly do you go about initiating kino? Doesn't it feel awkward and forced at times?
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:44 PM
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Did it move beyond the coffee date?
/r/seduction03/02/11 06:19 PM
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Usually or occassionally?
/r/seduction19/01/11 12:54 PM
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I think I have the PDF. I can send it to you, if you are interested.
/r/seduction15/01/11 06:24 AM
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Thats awkward. What did you say?
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:36 AM
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Thanks. I will look into it. Aldo, have you read Influence by cialdini? If yes, how do they compare?
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:35 AM
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Would you recommend it to someone who is currently not seeking a LTR?
/r/seduction15/01/11 04:47 AM
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I agree with not putting it as your profile pic. That would just make you look like a douche. But, I have also seen profiles (both boys and girls) using it in an innocuous manner.
/r/seduction15/01/11 04:33 AM
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I agree but if done in proper context (playing a sport, swimming, etc) can work in your favor - especially since the OP is looking for a sexual relationship. But, it has the risk of coming off as flagrant.
/r/seduction14/01/11 07:38 PM
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Nice FR. However, I have a question. I am assuming that making out involves some passionate kissing and touching. Doesn't it feel a little awkward on the dance floor on public especially when you're surrounded by your friends and peers. I have always found it difficult to practice public show of affection with my girl.
/r/seduction14/01/11 06:10 PM
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Yeah. That experience always brings a smile to my face :)
/r/seduction14/01/11 05:50 PM
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Yes we tend to over analyze stuff like these and that can turn into a huge emotional block. But I am glad you got over it.
/r/seduction14/01/11 05:49 PM
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Memories like this are crippling. I had a similarly horrific experience when I was younger and it haunted me for a long time. :( I'd be interested in hearing if you don't mind.
/r/seduction14/01/11 01:10 PM
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Your profile may include a topless picture (maybe besides a swimming pool) especially if you have decent upper body. Keep the email exchange to a minimum and express a desire to meet soon since you live a busy life. Kino escalate on the first date.
/r/seduction14/01/11 01:08 PM
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Good Job for the first of many FRs to come. By the way did any one else also get laid that night.
/r/seduction14/01/11 12:59 PM
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Disclaimer: This happened when I was about 17 years old and knew next to nothing about influence, persuasion or seduction. I had a crush on this girl who was in my class. I was completely infatuated with her. But, i couldn't muster the strength to approach her. Needless to say i was low on confidence and nervous around girls or group of people. So, after a few weeks of just ogling her I decided that enough was enough and I will settle this for good and go talk to her. Unfortunately, I didn't put…
/r/seduction14/01/11 10:50 AM
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Interestingly a girl once did this to me in school when I made eye contact with her a couple of times. But, I believe she was showing her revulsion and not affection.
/r/seduction14/01/11 09:42 AM
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By meeting, do you mean a passionate relationship or just friendship or acquaintance?
/r/seduction13/01/11 02:37 PM
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This is clearly a case of one-itis. Never make it about one particular girl. Also, if you can't become output independent you will continue to hurt yourself emotionally and sexually. Seriously, this behavior will only do harm to your self confidence and self esteem in the long run. However, the situation is still salvageable. Firstly, do not succumb to all of her wishes. Let her realize that you live a busy life and are not always available. Read up on push pull and kino escalation. Things are n…
/r/seduction12/01/11 01:11 PM
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It is worth pointing out that she might be just as nervous as you are if not more. Use this to your advantage and don't underestimate yourself by putting the girl on a pedestal.
/r/seduction12/01/11 12:59 PM
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Perhaps you should stop over analyzing and get on the field. All these are excuses that you feel will justify your inability to step out of your comfort zone. The only competition is your former self. If you are serious about improving your interaction with women and people in general then you shouldn't really care about all these trivial issues.
/r/seduction12/01/11 06:37 AM
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That was real good advice.
/r/seduction12/01/11 06:14 AM
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