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The one time I catch this thread when it's new is the one time I don't have any questions....
/r/seduction10/06/13 09:22 PM
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I respect you for not bloating and giving out personal information like her name, as much as it kills me.
/r/seduction02/06/13 01:38 AM
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Now I have a deep voice, and I find it difficult to project it. sometimes I will talk and people will have to ask me to repeat it and I get embarrassed from it because I know I am mumbling. Guess I need to work on that.
/r/seduction31/12/12 08:29 AM
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This is exactly what I thought when I read the title.
/r/seduction01/12/12 07:27 PM
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I would disagree, I had a good childhood. Middle class family, no hate in the family, very accepting. Like you said it comes from self worth but it also comes from confidence. I have seen people with horrible parents that hate them thrive in social situations. I think it comes from a traumatizing experience in childhood like you said and maybe this fits some people. For me though... I was always the one who just had that one friend instead of a group and I grew up with that idea. Did not work.
/r/seduction22/11/12 09:58 PM
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I can vouch for this, don't wait and think about it. Just fucking do it.
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:53 PM
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Yeah, I ignored her yesterday as part of moving on and it seemed like she was trying to get my attention but I did not give any to her.
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:30 PM
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Moving on or my little trick?
/r/seduction06/11/12 02:49 AM
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Haha thanks.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:34 PM
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Yea, I was thinking about it today and it may not be good, I moved on though instead of trying to dick around with it. Feels good.
/r/seduction05/11/12 09:28 PM
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I will do that instead, thanks man.
/r/seduction05/11/12 05:23 PM
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I will definitely try it out, but I am going to wait later on in the week to do so. First I am going to actually try to talk to her and see what happens, if it does not work out oh well. Thanks!
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:30 AM
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Alright, so I should just let her go then or try this as a last ditch effort that could work or fail? I am up to testing it because I am curious whether it would even work. The # was legit, and I got it at the first interaction. I texted her a few times but made the conversations brief and I never made a move. Now she has gotten a bit cold which is why I thought of the plan.
/r/seduction05/11/12 01:11 AM
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"Hey [name], now that mid-terms are done and our minds aren't ravaged by all of that [common class] work, I was thinking we could start over again. playful smile Hi, my name is ..., and I'm in ... year [program], how about you?" This was what I meant, start off like this and expand using conversation threading. Remember although she is in my class, I literally only know her name and where she is from... There is quite a bit to talk about if I re approach.
/r/seduction05/11/12 12:38 AM
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Obviously, if the girl was dropping some IOI's when you first met her but you did legitimately screw up (didn't ask for number or escalate properly) she'll take to it well and you'll be able to remedy the chance that was blown initially. I did get her number but after that, there was no escalation at all. I got oneitis and fucked up bad. We hardly ever really talked and the only reason I ever approached her was because I was getting so many IOI's and it worked out well for me. In itself, it's be…
/r/seduction05/11/12 12:37 AM
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We share the same class and in the end I fucked up, was distant on my side while she was into me and I let it go. Little attraction may be left but idk. Have known each other for 2 months but in that time period talked to her maybe 7 days? (It's so pathetic) Which is why I brought up the "we started on a bad note" This way I can be more open with her and see how she reacts to that.
/r/seduction04/11/12 09:20 PM
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Yes, this is very true. It has happened to me. The moral of the story is if you see a girl and you like her, approach and set up a date then and there. Trust me on this.
/r/seduction04/11/12 05:16 PM
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Practice conversational threading. Also bring up random shit, anything. I did that today and it started a decent conversation which I expanded using conversation threading.
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:49 AM
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I would love to go to UNC, it is a great campus. Good luck!
/r/seduction17/10/12 07:34 PM
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Exactly! I felt depressed two weeks ago because my confidence was shaken a bit.
/r/seduction02/10/12 02:46 AM
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There is no problem in being confident. It will make life so much easier.
/r/seduction01/10/12 08:48 PM
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Solid, thanks bro!
/r/seduction30/09/12 11:51 PM
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I got a question for you man, as a JR in Hs too how do you play the text game in high school? I know some people absolutely hate it but I know HS can be a bit different than the "real world". I originally learned to never text them, but let them text you but someone just told me that if I do that then I am only hurting myself, and I should text her but not seem clingy (Or text them everyday I assume). Should I text her considering the last time I texted her was Friday? I was just going to talk t…
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:00 PM
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Well I am in high school, thats why I thouhht it may work for my age group.
/r/seduction30/09/12 12:53 PM
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You guys talk about the park, but what about going to the mall? It is like a park but you can go shopping for yourself and let her do her thing and walk and talk? Just an idea.
/r/seduction30/09/12 01:23 AM
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No, thank you! This and seddit is amazing! Cheers
/r/seduction29/09/12 12:42 AM
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Fantastic, thanks so much!
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:19 PM
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Okay, final question. Should I wait til Monday when I talk to her again? I feel that would be best. That's when I plan to get a number too.
/r/seduction23/09/12 03:26 AM
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Well if I do make one, I really have no good pictures of myself to put on it, so what should I do? I really don't go out much with friends (although I am making that change).
/r/seduction23/09/12 03:09 AM
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I really don't want to make one because I don't have any plans so if I make one, it will be empty for the time being. Although I would need add everyone I know.
/r/seduction22/09/12 10:14 PM
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Never thought of it that way. Much more direct and assertive.
/r/seduction22/09/12 06:25 PM
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I wont make one, thanks.
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:07 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction22/09/12 05:07 PM
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Thanks for motivation! :)
/r/seduction20/09/12 11:15 PM
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Thanks for the laugh! It feels so bad when I don't do it but when the opportunity arises I pussy out and kick myself for the rest of the day.
/r/seduction20/09/12 11:15 PM
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Start with "hey, I am Drum2DaBass. What is your name?" Spread from that.
/r/seduction18/09/12 02:11 AM
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I feel like I was in the same situation. Okay in social places and approaching new people, but not when I have "feelings" for them. I know I am not the one to be giving advice but what I can say is fucking go for it man. It is a huge weight off your shoulders once you break the ice. I approached a girl I am into today and only though it was brief small talk (due to time constraints) I felt amazing. Can't wait for tomorrow.
/r/seduction18/09/12 01:45 AM
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Well I did it! We were walking down the hall, she looked at me before she left the class, I went behind her. Some fucking freshmen clogged the hall and I was behind them so I had to literally push them out of the way because at this point I am determined to get this done. Finally we are walking down the stairs and she is next to me, she looks at me and I look at her and say "Hey, whats your name?" and went off that. Had a small convo, made sure to keep eye contact, smile, so on. She smiled too, …
/r/seduction17/09/12 09:03 PM
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Fuck the rules! We will see what happens comes Monday.
/r/seduction16/09/12 07:20 PM
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Yeah, I guess I was over thinking the whole situation. Thanks for the advice!
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:15 PM
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I wish I could but we have assigned seats which sucks. The teacher is an old lady who won't change it around either. High school problems.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:15 PM
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I feel as if she is still attracted to me, but I really have to make a move before it's to late. Monday will be the day I do it.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:49 AM
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Thanks for comment.
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:47 AM
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Why thank you!
/r/seduction16/09/12 01:47 AM
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thanks for the last mental image.
/r/seduction15/09/12 09:23 PM
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Made me giggle. Thanks for motivation!
/r/seduction15/09/12 08:16 PM
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As do I, she is fucking gorgeous. I have to make a move!
/r/seduction15/09/12 06:24 PM
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She is foreign exchange so I have one year to get shit done before she gone.
/r/seduction15/09/12 06:18 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction15/09/12 06:13 PM
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I know it's all mindset, but it is really strange because I can talk to anyone unless I am attracted to them, then I freeze.
/r/seduction15/09/12 06:12 PM
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Thanks so much, hopefully I can get a FR in here by Monday night!
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:57 PM
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I wish I made my move the first week of school, feels so weird now... Hopefully it won't be awkward.
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:53 PM
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Trust me I feel like shit when I do chicken out. Thanks for advice!
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:50 PM
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Sounds like a plan. I have another problem is you don't mind addressing. I was about to talk to her aster class one day, I was next to her and I saw her look over, so I look over and see she was not looking at me but behind me. (no one was behind me). We never made eye contact so I got scared and bailed instead of saying hey. This happened twice... She only looked when I was next to her though which means something? I know I am over thinking this but I am new to this stuff so it's tough for me. …
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:48 PM
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Assigned seats = no. :/
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:42 PM
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So just go up, introduce myself and ask for number?
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:36 PM
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You are the faster reply to a post I have ever seen haha. I really wan't to but the window to start conversation is really small. The only time I can really approach is when class is over and we walk down the hall which is at most 45 seconds. Tough to make a conversation which is my preferred tactic.
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:27 PM
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It will make him seem needy, not a good way to start any date.
/r/seduction12/09/12 10:46 PM
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I feel like it would be easy if I did not have such an "awkward" voice. It's really deep and I find it hard to communicate in a loud environment.
/r/seduction02/09/12 05:04 PM
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What?
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:54 PM
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Never thought of that last part, thanks for the advice. Will apply that later and maybe get a positive FR going!
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:54 PM
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I too would like some advice on this, I feel like I am in the same boat.
/r/seduction02/09/12 03:13 AM
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I like the way you think.
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:33 AM
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Thanks man! I will have to talk more and get over that awkwardness!
/r/seduction30/08/12 02:19 AM
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Also, thanks for link! Good read
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:30 AM
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Im not charming, I may look good but who the fuck cares. I see fat slobs getting hot women all the time, why? They have a good personality.
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:01 AM
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I am also not witty with other people. I crack jokes all the time with friends but with women... nope. :(
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:00 AM
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Like I said before, if something is funny I keep it to myself and laugh about it to myself because I have no way of making a joke off it.
/r/seduction30/08/12 12:05 AM
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I need more observational humor as he said below. Just that I find everything to be as it is, and if it is funny I just laugh to myself.
/r/seduction30/08/12 12:04 AM
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i should look into that, my voice is very deep and it is difficult for people to hear.
/r/seduction24/08/12 04:18 PM
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Will get some FR's up in here soon!
/r/seduction24/08/12 01:02 AM
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Finally a reply! Thanks so much for the advise, you bring up some very good valid points. I will work on getting into that "circle" since I already know some of them, but not to well. I was kinda awkward last year, but I have improved my social skills so much since.
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:48 AM
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I dont want them
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:13 PM
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I dont fap that much, I taught myself self control I guess haha
/r/seduction11/06/12 06:59 PM
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This
/r/seduction11/06/12 06:56 PM
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Haha, I wish I would meet her again. It was a stranger at a water park (in the wave pool) but she was looking at me, messing with hair, all the proper body language including biting her lips and getting next to me. I AM SO STUPID.
/r/seduction11/06/12 01:06 AM
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The chick at the water park was doing all that... I am an idiot. :'(
/r/seduction11/06/12 12:13 AM
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Great advice! haha
/r/seduction16/05/12 11:58 AM
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Thanks for the reply!
/r/seduction16/05/12 11:58 AM
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I do, but I don't know how to approach them, I will follow some of the advice in this thread I guess.
/r/seduction16/05/12 02:25 AM
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Well hopefully we can get some experts to comment about this situation haha
/r/seduction16/05/12 01:35 AM
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