| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 0 | How do you fake that you care about someone.I havent held a girls hand yet. How am I supoose to hurt someone? | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you fake that you care about someone.A meal is just like 30? Does any girls feel pressure for 30 buck? I never seen one. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 07:06 PM |
| -1 | How do you fake that you care about someone.I dont know what I am attracted to, basically if the girl looks good I.will give it a shot | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 06:35 PM |
| -5 | How do you fake that you care about someone.I have emphathy. I worried about all people in the world and I donate to charity every year. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How do you fake that you care about someone.Meet for coffee instead? Most girl will happy to split the bill just I want to pay for it out of courtesy. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:13 PM |
| 0 | How do you fake that you care about someone.That means fake it. Maybe I will change my attitude later but I need to fake it for a start. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 04:06 PM |
| 0 | How do you fake that you care about someone.Honesty speaking I dont care about anyone other than myself even my parents . I want to find someone because I care about myself. I understand that I need to make some changes, I just need to know how. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 03:56 PM |
| 1 | House party.I have frienda not so hot and wealthy as me get hot girls so I think my expectation is reasonable. | /r/seduction | 31/05/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What a "normal"person do?Most people dont do the cold approach stuff hitting on dozens of girls they meet on the street. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I submit and reconcile with myself.My family is rich too. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Best place to meet women?I am wondering what people used to do specifically our parents generation. They seems to get married prettry naturally, no bar no club no all that stuff just know someone and get married and have a family. While we struggle to do ? Is that a gen Z problem? | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:54 PM |
| 1 | [23M] How to make up for crucial social milestones I missed out on during my youth?I have thinking of this for the past few month and there is no solution for this. Many prople you envy for their social life are pretty fucked up in their career and financial status. I guess for normal people we just sacrifice our social life for our career. Why not make the hell out of money and get a hot ass trophy wife when you are 40? | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Been in this sub for six months but nothing has changed.You dont blindly try to date any women you met right? If they dont show any interest why bother? | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How to know if someone is legit for fwb?I am not aware of any of these approach. I have been in this sub for like several months but no progress. I went out a lot more than before but nothing come out of it. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 07:01 AM |
| 1 | Where do you find al the social events?Never use Ins before. How do I track local events? | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Where do you find al the social events?Dallas. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Where do you find al the social events?I have never used instagram. How do I find all these promoters? | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 04:07 PM |
| 7 | Where do you find al the social events?How do I know people? I go to events right? Then back to the question... | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Where do you find al the social events?Give me an example. I am new to the citt know nobody. How do I organize? | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 07:30 AM |
| -1 | An Approach Doesn’t Have to be an ApproachHow good looking thou like a actor type like Chris Evans? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Finally went to a club for the first time.I didnt deny her, I tried to dance with her but cant keep up. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Finally went to a club for the first time.Maybe I am not sure, but wont hurt to learn a few moves right? | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Finally went to a club for the first time.I mean I was really bad and dont know a single move then she said its done and sent me away.. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How much time and effort you need to spend to be good at it?I mean I dont want that rotation stuff just try to find a girlfriend | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | How much time and effort you need to spend to be good at it?I dont want the rotation stuff I just want to get a girlfriend like a normal person. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Game support, success groupHave you tried creat a group on Meetup?Not sure if they allow it. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?I will say yes. What I mean is I dont get out with a goal to get laid that night. If thing dont work out I will go home and rest for tomorrow instead of keep.switching bars. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 1 | How is "just go and say hi to her/him" so easy for some people? [21M]Just like I dont understand why so many people cant pull their life together, living paycheck to paycheck in a shitty apt etc. And still they get women under those circumstance, maybe my life is too in order without any surprise or difficulties so it strips my chance to get girls. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | Dallas vs AtlantaI am in Dallas too. Definitely hangout sometime! | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 08:13 AM |
| 4 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidHow the hell you meet ppl by joining reading clubs. I think reading literature is a one person job. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?I mean I am not super into get laid. Just want to meet more people and potentially get a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Not very good looking, reddit rate me as 7. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Right, so as a complete newbie, I just open google map and search, then go to the high rating clubs in my area. Is that how u find clubs? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 10:30 PM |
| 3 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Going through the sub I feel more and more like I am doomed. It is against my nature and I have to fake it to get women. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?I am good with people, I get along with people easily wherever I move. Just no girlfriend from that. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?High value is very hard to demonstrate for people dont like social. What we enjoy to do we prefare to do it alone, video game, movies, shows etc. If I want to succed on something, I hire somebody to help me like a personal trainer. I cant think of a way to demonstrate my high value. I am high value I think, just check my other post | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?When you do something not for fun just for girls. It is better to be direct isnt it? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 0 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Daygame? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 08:24 AM |
| 3 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Thanks for the insight mate, have a few question. 1. Are club girls default to hookup or ons? 2. When I search on Meetup not many groups are for the club, most are for normal hobbies. Better way to find groups? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 08:23 AM |
| 0 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?What do you suggest then? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 07:43 AM |
| 3 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?What do you mean by dropping acid | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 07:03 AM |
| 27 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?The problem is if I dont go to club there are not much option left for me. OLD doesnt work, social circle doesnt work. Interest group, maybe but thats the same logic with nightclub. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | How to actually enjoy yourself at night club?Is it okay that I go alone? How to join others? | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What is a good way to meet a lot of women?Same here check my post, feel free to dm me. We can do this😂 | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?Have u ever get called out, rejected harshly or even pepper sprayed? | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?It seems pickup girl is naturally for you guys. How you do it, blend in your everyday life. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?Right, the local friend option. These day you can get everything you want without leaving your house. Trying to find a breakpoint now to adapt to it. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?That wont be possible due to my immigration status. Volunteer maybe? But I think it is pretty creepy to volunteer just to meet girls. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?Agreed, thats why I quite OLD and focus on going out once I realized it, but it is a lot harder than Tinder in the sense of approaching. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 0 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?I think I am not very into sex. What I want is a companion who can share my life with me. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 04:48 PM |
| 0 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?House party you mean? I watched some youtube video seems people really make a mess when they go to your house. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?Really, the most thing I get from the internet is you have to go out and meet girls | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Started getting numbers but can't turn them into dates. Need advice.I am new too. Where and how you approach could you share? Thanks a lot. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxiety? How to overcomeGive 10 bucks to your wing when you let a hot girl slip by. Ask him to return it to you after you have talked to one. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 06:33 PM |
| 1 | I still cant do it.Got matches but they are not talking to me. Guess they are bot. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I still cant do it.Probably first I will feel ashamed and afraid of being called out in public. Second I think it is related to how I was raised. In my countru kids are not allowed to have romantic relationship before college and parents always taught me to be respectful to women makes me feel immoral when approach. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 03:33 AM |
| 2 | How to get a gf?Hot girls get hit on whenever she walk on the street right? If I were that girl I will feel bored and annoyed. What makes you stand out? | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How to get a gf?Tinder doesnt work for me. Redddit rate me as a 7-8 guy but I dont get any matches except bots... | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | I still cant do it.I think I need to find a way to face it instead of taking a break else I would give up. Tried daygame or nightgame doesnt work. Everytime I went to a bar I will just drunk myself without talking to anyone besides waiters and uber home.. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I still cant do it.Picture what a successful man looks like in your head. I have most of that except a healthy romantic relationship(non gold digger, sugar babe etc).I know it is weird but this is what happen on me. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 1 | I still cant do it.I dont have any friend or family here. Zero social circle and cant hit on colleague due to HR issues. Thats the hard part for me, it is literally start from scratch cold approachel. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I still cant do it.I think I will get more and more desperate if go down that path. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 10:30 PM |
| 1 | I still cant do it.I really want to figure this out. Why is it so hard. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Best courses for daygame and game?I believe it will once I overcome my fear and start approaching. His theory explains a lot of things not just dating. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 06:08 PM |
| 7 | Best courses for daygame and game?I like Todd V dating. There is a ton of his free video on Youtube you can watch. I bought the System and think it is fantastic. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | I have boosted confidence and plan on picking up all day next sundayAsian women are racist AF toward their own race. Any race that are not Asian will have a easier time getting laid compare to Asian men. This is what happening in my home country. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 05:50 PM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]I remember my first year in US I was being joked by an older woman. So I get some refund of the apartment fee something and the apt manager said :"You could take me out(With that money)". It was my first year in US and took me a while to figure out that she is flirting😂 | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Did being too accessible ruin my chances?Try it, if it doesnt work move on. Meant to be is some 20 century outdated bs. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Did being too accessible ruin my chances?Go around ask anybody. Many of them have the experience that the girl they treat like a princess fall for a scumbag that treat her like trash. Sadly that is how human brain works. Be too good to her she will take everything for granted and think you are low-valued, needy, insecure bla bla. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:38 AM |
| 3 | Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold ApproachWhere to start though. Has to go to clubs or bar or running around malls and grocery stores to find attractive girls? | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?Thanks, my point is internet is spreading misinformation. Maybe I am not flashy enough. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 07:52 PM |
| 4 | "Intelligent" conversations don't work?Not just intelligent topic. Anything not direct will hurt yout unless you are super advanced level and know how to escalate. Sad that this is the way that most people are taught to communicate with girl. Be respectful and meaningful yada yada and then later found out all you need yo say is, you are cute... | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 09:23 AM |
| 3 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?Porsche | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 08:07 AM |
| 3 | What percentage of women are attracted to men with lots of money?How to though, you cant stick your paycheck on your chest to walk on the street. I drive a fancy car and I own the place I live and everything I wear are fancy luxury brand but it seems people dont give a fk. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 07:54 AM |
| 3 | I asked her number and she denied.You set the premise to be platonic but your goal turnout to be man-to-woman, common beginner mistake. Basically you cold approached to be friendzoned. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 07:20 AM |
| 12 | Any advice/tricks on how to force myself to cold approach women during the day?People tends to overestimate themselves regarding looks.If he said he looks like model I will say he is above average which is not enough for dating apps. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Do as much small talk as possibleI think small talk has one problem. That is small talk doesnt set a proper premise so it will be very hard for you to escalate later if you are truly interested. You hit on her to be friendzoned for the best case | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 07:38 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Racial streotype exists? Yes! So you should give up from the beginning by seeing yourself as doomed? Definitely not, dont worry about things you cant change, focus on things that you can. | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Push-pull + Cat String method is the best seduction combination.Is this viable for newbie? I mean completely newbie. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Do as much small talk as possibleI have seen a lot of video what they suggest is open and direct. For example, greet by saying you are cute I just want to say Hi. If you dont set the premise girl will assume you dont want it for beginner it is much easier to use direct opener than small talk and escalate later. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 2 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!I agree with the concept but disagree with the number, living expense varies a lot from region to region. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | DaygameI guess it is different person to person? For me I will say thats cool have a great day and leave her alone. Do girls really say the boyfriend line even they have some interest on you? | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 07:01 AM |
| 4 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?People are different, some people are good at something but suck at others, not to mention their personal experience and environments are different. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | A Dating Guide for the Introverted Analytical ManThis sub suggest you should fight your nature and jump out of comfort zone then something magical will happen... | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Where are you making approaches?I guess anytime anywhere. Say you see a girl you want to approach. Approach her, talk with her about anything like weather movie, sports game. If it go well say we should hang out more may I get your number? If not wish her a good day and move on. At least thats how I imagine it😂 | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Going to bars alone?I plan to go to a bar to watch a game tonight. Not sure how it will go… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you go to clubs or bars by yourself?I dont understand. How can u read on a bar. Whats the difference between Kindle and Cellphone? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Going to bars alone?Can somebody dont like social actually have fun in bars? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 06:28 AM |
| 1 | I’m talking to this guy rn and I don’t think he knows how to flirt with me or seduce me in any wayMaybe he had past experience when he thought "it" happened but it actually didnt so put him in a awkward situation. So you want to be clear, very very clear I guess. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Fuck the gameSo I went shopping like crazy these weeks and plan to starg going out after I learn how to dress myself. I think I will be you in a year, or even worse😂 | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Anyone | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 02:58 AM |
| 9 | My strategy for tinder and bumbleMy photo cant be that bad, why am I not getting any matches... | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 08:59 PM |
| 6 | Recently approached one girl (all month) and asked her out, got her number and have a beach picnic date scheduled in a couple days.What if she throw you a detest look and thought you are some creepy weirdo?I am always afraid of that, you dont approach ppl without reason. | /r/seduction | 27/06/21 06:14 AM |
| 3 | 25 and I have no idea what to doIt is so hard for me to strike a conversation with others.. Dont know what to talk about. | /r/seduction | 26/06/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | How does a local meetup party work?Is only these kind of event or meetup general? | /r/seduction | 22/06/21 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Well, this went better than expectedI will never dare to do that because if I get rejected I will be very embarrassed and be let down by a few days so I never try.... | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it to desperate?That sounds, desperate? | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Any good starter for people dont like social?I dont know. I did feel lonely sometime and I want a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it to desperate?What if girl approach me first. Like compliment my shoes shirt etc. I dont know what to to except exchange a few conversation. Dont know how to take it further, possibly. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 06:15 PM |
| 3 | Any good starter for people dont like social?For a guy who love gaming and shows that place does not exist. To me social it is like sacrificing my fun time to get a girlfriend and get laid. That is just.. abmormal. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Isn't it to desperate?How to distinguish from normal approaching and creepy? | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women is incredibleAnd then thats it. A few exchange of conversation and I dont know what to do next. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Starting with daygame/cold approach tomorrow for the first time.I get cold approach from time to time and I am pretty comfortable with it like girls in apt building, meet on the street etc. I can chat with them for a few but thats it. Dont know how to continue. | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 07:52 AM |
| 6 | Approaching women is incredibleIn what kind of scenario you do this? Go to a bar alone just like how they do it in shows and movies? | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 07:38 AM |
| 2 | How to get a date?What do you suggest for people enjoy playing video game and watch Netflix a lot? It is very hard for me to find something outside more interesting than this. If not, the main purpose of me going out is to get a girl. This is kind of creepy... | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 11:20 AM |
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