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Legal RightsAstavri/r/MensRights23/01/21 10:56 PM
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DiscriminationAstavri/r/MensRights22/01/21 11:56 PM
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GeneralAstavri/r/MensRights18/02/21 02:23 AM
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GeneralAstavri/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:08 AM
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Activism/SupportAstavri/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:54 AM
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GeneralAstavri/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:21 AM
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IntactivismAstavri/r/MensRights09/02/21 02:03 AM
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FeminismAstavri/r/MensRights28/12/20 10:55 PM
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Social IssuesAstavri/r/MensRights01/01/21 11:43 PM
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CMVAstavri/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:19 PM
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Astavri/r/MGTOW215/02/21 06:09 PM
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ProgressAstavri/r/MensRights08/01/21 05:06 AM
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Astavri/r/MGTOW215/02/21 12:49 AM
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GeneralAstavri/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:19 AM
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FeminismAstavri/r/MensRights31/12/20 10:12 AM
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ProgressAstavri/r/MensRights29/12/20 04:42 AM
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FeminismAstavri/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:07 AM
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I agree again?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 09:02 PM
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Correct? I don't disagree with anything you stated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:37 PM
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Lol "is it really a privilege if you are rich, and you never know what it's like to truly have friends?" Yeah, it's still a privilege. You can always choose to dumb down the "pretty" find a guy who makes you happy. It's their flaw if they are running through relationships, based on their own inflated ego, or just because they can and want to, or picking guys that are top tier expecting them to have a personality. Same with money. It's their fault if they keep showing it off and displaying it and…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 04:19 AM
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This is ridiculous and false. There is a video of a guy showing his innocence when the women called the cops on him for DV. Saved his ass. Evidence helps greatly. If you are referring to the Obama Title IX, you are right it wouldn't help, they didn't care about evidence, but it was updated.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 03:58 AM
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I feel like many places are changing this. The ones left having a changing table in female restrooms and not male restrooms are older places.
/r/MensRights18/02/21 01:35 AM
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I don't understand why people didn't clap and cheer him. Maybe too unexpected? Cheating is terrible, man or woman. It is an invasion of your personal relationship and space. Why not do the same in shaming?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/02/21 02:36 AM
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Please, it was a joke. I got banned regardless.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:15 PM
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Not disagreeing with you there. Why else would feminism focus on mansplaining and women only STEM programs in the US, while there are people being trafficked in other countries. The amount of money spent on these petty programs is insane and everyone is joining the bandwagon. It's working. Men advocacy however, is not.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 03:31 PM
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I'd be worried about government employment too, since this may include millions of potential jobs being instantly denied. Security clearance jobs would also include government contractors.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 07:17 AM
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This is manipulative. Men will like it but It isn't real.. Then again, I've seen some Men's Issues female advocates I'm not sure had selfless motives.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:11 AM
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Kids are the worst with gender roles. And they don't even care. It's just fun and games for them.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:09 AM
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RAINN is one. But you will have to look at the data closely. Envelopment (forcing someone to penetrate) is not considered rape, instead sexual assault, but it in fact is rape. So you can get the data, you just have to play around with the placing of it.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 05:08 AM
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Bingo. But we should blame the patriarchy because they lead everything, thus are to blame for everything....
/r/MensRights15/02/21 04:52 AM
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That's stupid. Why is having a feminist rhetoric always an attack by some folks here? Like where the fuck do feminists think men should get flowers too or men liking feminine things is part of their goals? They don't give two shits about that. They got other shit to think about like femsplaining how mansplaining is a thing, or manspreading is an epidemic.
/r/MensRights15/02/21 03:47 AM
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I'm not sure. My comments were biased in feminism? Or my whole views are? If so you didn't really elaborate. My litmus test is honesty, not bias, it has nothing to do with it. You don't like the truth, fine, be immature. MensLib and TwoX are light to the touch on banning, TwoX being the easiest to ban, and gaining the most downvotes in a short time. Ask feminists was actually quite well with warning of their bans. Also some didn't give a lazy feminist response to blame the patriarchy and a few l…
/r/MensRights15/02/21 12:33 AM
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Women can do no harm to man unless he is murdered or hospitalized.. That was the point. She can continue to hit a man, when he strikes back, he is in the wrong. She gets up hits him, he hits back again. I shit you not, the videos are the only defence these men have of being seen as defending themselves. Even then no one believes them. Thanks for derailing the comment and thanks for playing.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:36 PM
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This is a small sub group of Jewish group that perform the metzitzah b'peh, where the baby is cut and once it is cut the mohel sucks the blood. He doesn't bite it off LMAO. He just sucks baby dicks. The mohel doesn't necessarily have to be a rabbi also.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 11:20 PM
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Was he a legal guardian? Father doesn't mean legal guardian.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 07:07 PM
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I'd like to the the evidence that a legal guardian (father) doesn't have the right to know the child's medical situation. The other stuff, I'm sure is true.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:33 PM
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What are you talking about, are you just stupid? Menslib, feminism, askfeminist, twoX. I've been banned from all of them by making "antagonizing" comments. Even less provocative than what you wrote on this board.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 01:23 AM
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Infant circumcision most common 3 methods....NOT lasers. Get out of here with your fucking lies. https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/procedure-circumcision.html
/r/MensRights13/02/21 12:52 AM
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How do you do this? Report admins
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/21 12:40 AM
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No one uses this laser method! No one will pay more for equipment for something they have been doing for years for cheap. That doesn't make it painless either. As an adult, you are numbed but the healing is the terrible part. As a child they use local cream and it hurts the shit out of you.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 12:37 AM
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Get with a woman that makes more than you. Wait a second, women that make more than you don't get with you.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 12:34 AM
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Let's not make MRA into a woman hating blog. OP likes women, but hates feminism. What the fuck is wrong with that? Some women are crap, some women are terrible, yes. But some are not man hating, wallet picking, child support seeking, husband abusing, and they are very supportive of men.
/r/MensRights13/02/21 12:31 AM
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Unlike fem boards this won't get banned. What do you call MGTOW?
/r/MensRights13/02/21 12:24 AM
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Women underrepresented in higher education? Well if that isn't a bold face lie. You'd make better claims saying black women underrepresented but I see they are not discriminating against white women.
/r/MensRights12/02/21 10:07 PM
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Good they exposed them. He may have a case for discrimination.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/21 10:51 AM
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Ah yes. Because it "may" cause a negative impact on women somehow, even if it's fair in reality.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/21 10:46 AM
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You ignored literally the following sentence. NOW falls into an organization. What I mean by the other statement is men don't gather and organize for these same groups. As well as the public doesn't have the same sympathy as the feminist groups. If more male advocate programs existed, they would have a chance. However, you make a point that we of the women's issues should just be people issues, not gender issues. After all, they claim equality as a primary goal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/21 08:11 AM
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I think feminism has a monopoly in grassroots/public lobbying. I think they have a monopoly in organizations that focus on helping women. Yet I still think not enough emphasis on men supporting these same type of organizations for themselves. It is a lot of selfless work that isn't paid much, and when men are more focused about work, not working in a men's issue non profit for scraps, There are few men in this field.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/02/21 02:40 AM
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Stupid? Where do you live?
/r/MensRights11/02/21 02:37 AM
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She's the perfect victim yet the media still destroyed her, she had evidence, is donating all of it, bla bla bla - said an idiot. How was her career destroyed? Did she donate all the money? How was the evidence consistent with her being the victim?
/r/MensRights10/02/21 12:30 PM
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That shit is just an excuse. The father one might be a possibility. Women are the main deciders in this stuff though. Why would a single mother elect this for their child anyways? Yet they still do.
/r/MensRights10/02/21 12:27 PM
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Just gonna throw this out there. Blaming the patriarchy when women are mean to each other.... The fuck? Not only are they victims of everything, men are always at fault
/r/MensRights10/02/21 06:41 AM
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The goal is to remove themselves from women DOES NOT equal because they dislike them. In principle, the ideals are NOT sexist. The result is sexist though, but same with feminism. The ideals are not sexist but in reality, that's what it has become for too many. Anyways, Plenty of feminists have clearly stated they HATE men, vocally, in books, on the media, in articles. Killallmen, menaretrash, victim is always right man is always the perpetrator and guilty. Fuck, even when title ix got changed a…
/r/MensRights10/02/21 06:39 AM
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That is completely fair evaluation as well.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 11:58 PM
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Yes. This does happen. It doesn't mean it is easy. There are people who don't fit in a normal gender that find others like them too. Doesn't disregard the hardships someone will face.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 11:36 PM
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If the end result is in misandry it doesn't matter. Regardless, Why is MGTOW a misogynistic movement then? Thats not their goal. Their goal is to be left alone, not hate women....
/r/MensRights09/02/21 11:34 PM
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Well, sure. I'm not for it. But to this point fitting in a huge desire of human nature and going against the large majority is difficult and could mean hardships, especially when finding a partner.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 10:00 PM
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Yes but it plays a big factor, since genders try to appeal to the opposite gender (or same if gay).
/r/MensRights09/02/21 09:58 PM
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American values. Not Christian values. Although it has become an american christian value in the last century and a half
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:44 PM
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That Is is generally correct. The catholic church clearly stated it is not a requirement but is not against doing it for personal/cultural reasons. To religiously accept circumcision as a covenant between God and a person, you are essentially diminishing the new covenant, which is Jesus. Accepting Jesus is priority above all else in all Christianity. In other words, for Christians, It is more acceptable to just do it because of habit or being passed down rather than to do it for the old testamen…
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:42 PM
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And which one was blasted all over the news? They will never see the male gender as a vulnerable population unfortunately.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 09:02 AM
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BTW this is personal experience from what I've heard from girls that I'm friends with when the subject comes up. Or women/girls that I seemed interested in, I talk with them soon to find out they are not into that, or it's gross. I don't even bring it up it just comes out somehow. A pre-rejection rejection maybe? I have not had any women personally reject me either.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:36 AM
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I would have expected a higher rejection rate on the east coast. At least more women who ask about it and maybe lose interest. Midwest tinder is like hi, are you cut? I know the west coast is awfully accepting of being intact.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:29 AM
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Pick and choose. Easy does it now. Heel there, ignorant one.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:17 AM
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Depends on the region, area, and culture. Saying "all uncircumcised men that you know" tells me that you live in an area where it's not awfully uncommon. Maybe west coast? Unlike the US midwest.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:14 AM
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Feminism can be seen as misogyny too. Thanks for playing
/r/MensRights09/02/21 07:11 AM
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Nothing wrong with men only spaces. What about domestic violence victims where the female was the perp. You are saying a man who was abused by a woman should allow a woman in that space and be vulnerable there? If men want to be vulnerable, they need their own spaces too. You are only seeing it in the point of view that men with power have, and refusing to see the situations that include men without power.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:58 AM
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Saying MGTOW is misoginystic is like saying feminism is misandry. Both are opinions and from biased parties.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:49 AM
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Autonomy is used for FGM. But your statement is true about destroying normal genitalia as well.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:44 AM
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I guess this might be a cause. Sounds plausible. Nothing wrong if you are. There is no shame in this.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:41 AM
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You know that saying that goes, "just walk away" when there is a situation you just can't argue with against a stubborn idiot? MGTOW is just that. Thanks for playing.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:40 AM
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Some seem to believe it's part of traditional values and it's taking away from these values. They also tend to believe men should be stoic and not feminized. This is somewhat acceptable. I've seen MRAs be very traditional to say it's not a bad thing, usually that gender roles are a good thing. I have some agreement with this thought. Men can be raised stoic and masculine without damaging their mental capabilities. If that's what works for them.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:30 AM
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Just a tactic used to keep men quiet or not have an opinion it seems this day. Plenty of men and women interrupt when talking. I don't think it's a gender issue. There are men who will do it unconsiously because they are a woman but this is far and few than what they make it out to be. I think "men that mansplain" mostly to it to both genders, or are devil's advocate a about anything.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 03:24 AM
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I guess it can be worded weirdly. Why are so many MRAs for circumcision In my OPs title, I said for and against intactivism which can confuse things.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 02:43 AM
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That should be the Primary reason against it. At least my opinion. Why are so many MRAs FOR it though? Or just don't care about it.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 02:31 AM
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It's based on opinions and lots of contradicting information. This page is contradictory in their studies and can be specific to the situation. https://www.circinfo.net/circumcision_sensitivity_sensation_sexual_function.html Delays ejaculation, yet doesn't decrease sensitivity, they say. Some say the intact penis is tooo sensitive and used it as a mean to reduce it, which is beneficial they say. I don't understand how someone can say it reduces sensitivity and then go on to say it doesn't. Many …
/r/MensRights09/02/21 02:19 AM
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Also check out the post I made by Joe Rogan titled don't cut baby dicks. He is so right and he always argues this. Puts anyone in their place that disagrees about it.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 01:59 AM
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This is it. Those same women who argue my body my choice will go to their grave mentioning the "health" benefits of doing it to their sons. In reality, it's just an excuse for aesthetics and "hygiene." Doesn't help that the men they are with agree to it 100%, likely so a woman like their partner doesn't reject them due to their opinion.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 01:57 AM
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Early propaganda expanded by media which has now become culture. People make biased studies to fuel the "need" for it. The question is why does S. Korea do it, that one puzzles me.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 01:50 AM
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You sure can. Being unfamiliar with something can definitely make something unattractive.... Speaking of majority circumcised areas that is.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:38 AM
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https://worldpopulationreview.com/state-rankings/circumcision-rates-by-state
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:35 AM
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I see. Culture of those around you are a powerful influence on perception. Wish It wasn't so.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:25 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dataisbeautiful/comments/1kvn44/newborn_circumcision_rates_in_the_united_states/ That is neonatal too. Hoovering around 70% circumcised for the midwest.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:16 AM
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Also it is not "normal"(common). the majority in the Midwest is circumcised, more than any other region actually.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:13 AM
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Um, you must not be from the Midwest or had a few woman say this to you. Maybe you are in a high immigration area. Your statement is completely not representative of what women want in the Midwest though. I've had many female friends and many women have clearly stated their hate for intact penises. It's sickening really the amount that think this, let alone are polite and say they just prefer circumcised men.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:12 AM
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It is. But he'll be rejected by a large percentage of women (or men) is a better reason, although a completely stupid reality. NO one wants to admit that's the main reason though. This is regarding the US only.
/r/MensRights09/02/21 12:03 AM
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Curious. Saying that in the US is not as easy, at least anywhere besides the west coast. You don't want your child to instantly not fit in. Or be rejected by women when they are older just for a small stupid reason. I say this because many places in the US, no matter how good of a person they are, they will be instantly rejected because they were not violated as a child. Men tend to do things that women see attractive and unfortunately, women in the US can be assholes about intact men. Even so c…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:59 PM
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Not always. It's been seen to be about helping the vulnerable population. That's why bring our girls back was a thing. But men will never be seen as the vulnerable population although they are dying left and right. Petty feminism is about hating men. Killallmen, menaretrash, sexism against men in hiring, women only groups, mansplaining, manspreading.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:43 PM
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Allure that women want. American women majority prefer it. And they have power over men. Then brainwashing. Making excuses for the same brainwashing.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:40 PM
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You in the US?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:39 PM
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This is the kind of activism that should gain more support. Instead, it's seen as a weird cult by US and other places that practice it so much. And men who agree don't want to shame themselves by being a part of such a group, nor make their child the black sheep. I blame women really. If women didn't so much prefer it (let alone not call it gross) in places like the USA, you would have a lot more support. After all, men do what women want sexually or else they risk their child being alone in a p…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:39 PM
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Na. Women are making more money and are pushing marriage since there are less "qualified" males out there. Women have always been the primary deciders in relationships throughout history. Meaning they always get to be the pickier ones. That is how history has played.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:31 PM
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Yes that happens. He should have called the cops but it's not his responsibility, it's the caretakers. Fuck if I'll risk getting labeled a child molester. Although, I bet he feels bad and didn't think it would end in the child's death. This is another way men can be expected to do something ahead of their own well being IMO.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:25 PM
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Men can be victims is a Mens rights goal too. you are an idiot. Some feminists may agree with this, but they don't do anything about it or even care. It is not a feminist goal, remember that. Victims of war? MRA issue brought up all the time. Men being punished more for the same crime? Men are victims. Men dying for employment? How are they not victims? There are petty issues that people say "Masculinity" causes that I don't care for. If someone asks a woman on a date in the grocery store, it is…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:19 PM
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That's because during Obama era, he made Unis accountable for assault through Title IX. Basically do something about the assault or you are liable. Trump era, so many innocent boys sued (ironically using Title IX for sex discrimination) and due diligence was included in Title IX now. However, the school is still the judge, but it's more fair. Some students were mistaken for a different person and still kicked out before this. If I were in a potential situation I would have a tamper proof voice r…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:10 PM
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No, my ideas are about treating both genders the same in unlawful situations. I wouldn't call my ideas feminist if I'm advocating for men to have their fair share. Or do you think seeing that "male can be victims" is a feminist goal and not MRA goal?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 11:01 PM
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So I'm in complete agreement with you by the way. Shit can be too toxic on here sometimes. Lots of passing blame as well as circle jerking about the same thing, with no actions
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:51 PM
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NVM I see it on your OP. Yeah that happens.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:50 PM
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Mensrights?
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:49 PM
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You need to understand... Goes on to justify why sexual assault is accepted towards a man/boy How about men who are abused by non reciprocating domestic violence. This is why abusing men is becoming acceptable, or raping them, because of people with your mindset.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:48 PM
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Ah yes, that will happen. I see you separated the topic half way in your post. Good point.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:26 PM
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Hostility? Some yes. Many times feminism is just criticized for the many shortcomings of many different feminist groups. This is hostility towards feminism so yes. I used to think like you, feminism doesn't go out of their way to actually make it unfair for men. Then I see all of these grassroots groups, specifically pushing for things that give innocent men a disadvantage, such as custody, child support, or Title IX, which gave innocent men no voice in accusations. Other situations for DV, viol…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:23 PM
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That's not "offensive" enough. Just say, I don't agree with a lot of aspects of feminism. Men are being demonized quite often and always to blame for situations that don't always apply. Nothing more. A true statement, will 100% get banned. Your statements sounds like they are on the fence about feminism, then many will try to convince them. Like "feminism welcomes anyone who isn't misogynistic".
/r/MensRights08/02/21 10:05 PM
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Also, just because one may have blatant toxic comments (due to freedom of speech) doesn't mean some boards are insidious in their toxicity such as twoX or feminism. Every situation is exaggerated to make it seem like they are victims or in the right, despite if the OP is saying the full story. "the trust your instincts" is why black men are harassed by Karens. The victim mentality is why men have to take a video recording to show why they didn't instigate it, or voice recording. This affects men…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 09:39 PM
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It also depends on what you say. I have pushed all my limits on MensRights. Never even a temp ban. I said something antagonistic on left-wing and soft ban. The ONLY fem board I have said "antagonistic" stuff and took a while to ban is askfeminism, and I believe there is a hidden motive for that too, rather not get gaslighted for this, half of questions are from MRA but downvoted. Any upvoted thing is a circle jerk of patriarchy and man blaming. The lightest ban button of all of them is menslib t…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 09:30 PM
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You are not deleted or banned. I listened. So will others. Downvoting is a separate issue. This freedom comes with assholes who say things like women are all cunts. On twoX, you would be BANNED by bringing something up that opposes the view or MAY SEEM antagonistic. Same with any other feminist board. Leftwingmen rights is a bit touchy on bans too. The few idiots don't account for everyone. I bet the swallow comment was in regard to "he should've wore a condom" debate of why they have an 18 year…
/r/MensRights08/02/21 09:11 PM
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At this point, I only think the media makes controversial titles so people can read them. That including people who care about men and think what about men? Think about this. Who reads articles like "men largely affected by coronavirus?"
/r/MensRights08/02/21 09:00 PM
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Title says "women dropping out of workforce" Putting focus on women only again. It's a people issue, not a gender issue. We should be together in this not apart. Just like women affected by coronavirus.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 08:58 PM
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Yes I found this out while having a conversation of shortcomings for RAINN.
/r/MensRights08/02/21 04:59 AM
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Also what do you want me to reconsider? That RAINN is not a good statistical analysis? I agree it has major flaws for male victims looking now. All derived from NCVS
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:31 PM
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I'm sorry, found out more. NCVS does include envelopment. RAINN does include envelopment/forced sex. They just call it sexual assault. Some states define rape and for intercourse without consent. This includes envelopment. This includes forcing oral sex on someone when the perp is performing the action.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:29 PM
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ALL of these things are issues you are doing NOTHING about. You came to my post for MALE victims, and said it's NOT AN issue so I can say fuck you.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:11 PM
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Yes, unfortunately, I am not familiar with other countries and who has jurisdiction over stats (therefore funding). Please if you live in other countries, get the official statistics to define situations as rape. This is what gets victims funding.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 03:55 PM
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Being half passed out and she starts giving you oral when you don't want it. Or being drugged. Sexual assault and not rape by BJS NCVS definition. Fingering a woman is rape without consent. Giving a blowjob without consent is sexual assault.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 03:53 PM
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Sorry yes.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 02:08 PM
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Statistics of rape are not shown. Forcing a man to penetrate is sexual Assault not rape. That's the point of this OP.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 02:07 PM
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Felt like inception trying to get to the source link...
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 06:55 AM
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No mugshot? O well.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 06:52 AM
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Spitting on a passenger should be seen as battery during coronavirus times. He didn't defuse the situation but she wasn't wearing a mask either. He did it for the safety of the whole bus. She was spitting her germs in the air for everyone to inhale, with elderly people around her and no regard for safety of people around her.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 06:49 AM
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I wouldn't be too upset. Not to sound racist but it's just a bunch of black women trying to hustle all they can out of men or bitching about how little they do. Completely sexist garbage.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/02/21 06:38 AM
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Anything this biased deserves my same judgement. Left and right winged nut jobs, who's motive is to divide and conquer, or entice for views.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:30 AM
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I'd be careful of blank statements like this. This happened in like two villages in africa since they made circumcisions seem like a good prevention and didn't promote condoms. Basically idiots who thought this concept without being educated. The prevention of STD isn't really statistically strong enough in my opinion. Just like second hand smoke causing cancer. Additionally, gay men in the US had no effect on spreading disease, intact or not.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:29 AM
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Std rates are higher in Europe than the US?
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:24 AM
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Up to you. You are now the age where you can consent to such a thing. Your parents did right by you. The STD thing is a load of shit for developed countries. Cleanliness might be easier, but really? If that is the reason I'm not sure why to go through with it. It is cosmetic at that point. Think about it this way, would a doctor recommend a labiaplasty to a girl the same age? It would be cleaner as there is less skin and folds. Is that acceptable? I don't really think so. Personally, I would be …
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:19 AM
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You won't get banned for this. This is not r/menslib. I can understand where you come from. Throughout history, women have been the selective deciders In mates. That hasn't changed. There is a certain power they have. There is a certain power men have too. It's a terrible cycle of powerful men choosing women based on looks, and women chosing men on power and feeling of safety, which includes wealth too. Your justification is an oversimplification of a much larger dynamic though.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 06:11 AM
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I misread that
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:44 AM

I don't think feminist opinion matters here. Feminists do not have jurisdiction over the DOJ or BJS. They have not firmly settled your claim. FBI has confirmed this is rape per the change in definition. https://amp.reddit.com/r/FeMRADebates/comments/227v3o/fbi_confirms_definition_of_rape_includes/ If this gains no traction, ill start a petition. Those have more power than an email. Edit: thanks for your support, any email can only help.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 05:38 AM
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Nothing wrong with this as long as you don't push your beliefs on other people or shame them for being different, not saying you do. Same goes for people who are not traditional and shaming those who want to be. Shaming each other when we have different goals just doesn't make sense. Men shouldn't be fighting about their differences, they should be united about their similarities and the issues they face. Speaking of, what are the issues you think men face? The feminisation of boys and men? If I…
/r/MensRights07/02/21 04:55 AM
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I don't see this. I had a therapist who was very good and that is not my experience as a patient, nor did I feel this way talking with them. But I digress. If they complain about their patients, they are not good therapists.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 04:38 AM
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If there is a company that trolls, it's dailymail. They love to push people on opposite ends, make victims when there are none, push button, be completely biased without opposition. I would block anything from them and try to forget the headlines if I could. I dont wan garbage clouding my judgement.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 03:33 AM
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There is a lot of crap on this subreddit too though. Lots of negative mindsets and unhealthy views of women or their struggles. As well as passing blame. But men are not silenced. And I won't be banned like I am from every other pro-feminist subreddit.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 03:24 AM
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Society teaches men to keep In their emotions. It is an issues that puts men in a tough spot. Fit into society or go against cultural norms that oppose it and face social punishment. There are huge negative downside publicly displaying emotion. Also, god forbid you show emotion at work or outside your home as a male. Keep it for the counselor or parents is what that means when you show emotion.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 03:21 AM
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Reminds me of don't ask don't tell.
/r/MensRights07/02/21 02:19 AM
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I'm not misreading it. Laws are ambiguous for a reason, to include a wide variety of issues. I talked this over with someone and it seems the main concept is consent and would include forced penetration or envelopment. Yet some states do not recognize this specifically, I dont know how that works where the DOJ calls something rape but the states calls it something else. Maybe states are not enforced to follow the DOJ definition.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 11:50 PM
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Although I'm not sure rainn includes envelopment
/r/MensRights06/02/21 11:19 PM
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How does this statement block envelopment? See this link. It includes envelopment. https://tamenwrote.wordpress.com/2015/05/10/an-update-on-fbis-definition-of-rape/
/r/MensRights06/02/21 11:16 PM
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This is but a mere ploy of empty words. A minor issue. Read further statements in the same chain. People are catching on that feminism = equality, does not mean so, it tricks people to thinking they care about all. They are catching on, which is why equality is important, but less feminist out there. Lots of ploys and tricks to get people on the bandwagon. Lots of idiots fooled. Getting caught up in definitions of what feminism is, is a MRA criticism IMO.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 11:11 PM
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Ah, now this is a statement I can get behind and agree with. Feminists who protest MRA meetings simply for the fact that they promote men's rights (or the speaker may have said something that seemed controversial) is wrong and bad publicity anyways.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 11:05 PM
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As I said, it's not a shitting show of comparison of who has it worse. That's a different topic that is a mens issue that I think needs to be addressed as well. I never said this isn't an issue. But you took the topic to something else. Read my fucking comments before that. I mention men dying is an issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 11:01 PM
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https://www.justice.gov/archives/opa/blog/updated-definition-rape#:~:text=%E2%80%9CForcible%20rape%E2%80%9D%20had%20been%20defined,penetration%20of%20a%20female%20vagina. “Forcible rape” had been defined by the UCR SRS as “the carnal knowledge of a female, forcibly and against her will.” That definition, unchanged since 1927, was outdated and narrow. It only included forcible male penile penetration of a female vagina. The new definition is: “The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina …
/r/MensRights06/02/21 10:58 PM
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Teaching consent should be taught to all children, not just men. This is the same concept of boys being told to never hit a girl while leaving girls out of these conversations. Then women abuse their boyfriend because they think they will always be a victim. I agree with a lot of things, but they should be universal for both genders, not just boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 10:55 PM
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I like the way you think. MensLib is easy to ban without being forgiving though. I wouldn't say they care about ALL men's issues if they can't talk about a couple of indirect issues that may disagree with feminism to a small extent. I have examples of this. Regardless they do a lot of good, but recently it's been about toxic masculinity, boys needing education of consent, and anything that makes cis hetero males seem like the enemy. Not saying this is wrong, everyone needs to know this stuff to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 10:08 PM
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Ok, how about the back order of rape kits processing in the US.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 09:32 PM
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Too many posts on here that someone will read that long crap compared to the others. See how many upvotes you have. You are just a human bot, repeating the same thing. I want you to tell me why ALL feminism is bad including RBG. Unpopular opinion. ALL men are bad... It's the same damn rhetoric idiot feminists use.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 09:05 PM
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Yeah it is bad. I don't think it will change. We can only look to the support from those that support mens issues. The problem is the ones that have no family or friends. And lawyers if you have been wronged.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 09:03 PM
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Yes the scheme of equating feminism to equality for all gender goes away. It can be shown from videos of feminists who protest male rights events. They ruin themselves In a way by manipulating people to joining a cause that isn't what they say it is. "Do you believe in equality? Then you're a feminist." Is becoming the next, "do you want to be healthy, here are essential oils I'm selling"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 09:00 PM

How do you feel about r/menslib? Do you think feminism deserves some criticism? Also, I like your mindset
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 08:57 PM
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This was changed to include consent which would include males being forced to penetrate.. Because of feminism (I'd hate to say it). This counts as rape as of 2012.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:56 PM
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No not what I mean. I meant men's rights are second to feminism and women concerns. Any touchy issues are banned. Read my OP, read the Title IX example. They don't have to be inflammatory. Basically anything that may slightly criticise feminism no matter how justified, is blocked. Which as we know feminism isn't perfect. Just read my OP. You read the title and commented. I won't want things to be completely one sides, a flaw of Mensrights, I would say at least show PART of the one side regarding…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I guess men's issues will always be seen lesser than by everyone. That we can agree on.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:22 PM

True, and I agree with you very much. However, gendered crimes are different. A homeless woman is more likely to be raped or sexually assaulted, a homeless man more likely to be killed. Their situations may be similar In many ways but different in others. It sucks. No one cares about men the way they care about women. It is ironically a traditional mindset.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 08:21 PM
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I asked a simple thing, what's wrong with RBG, you bring up something else.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:09 PM
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No, I'm not going to waste 5 minutes reading several different examples of the same thing. No thanks. You won't listen to me on my shorter posts but you want me to read a post 5x longer?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:09 PM

I'm not talking about Britain. I'm talking about developing countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 08:08 PM
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So male DV victims shouldn't be taken seriously? Is that your take?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:07 PM
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But you say they stand In opposition, I'm not seeing this. They get mad when their goal is to try to end FGM and people compare it to MC. No one defends it, they just state one is worse.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 08:07 PM

I'm not, but you are saying they actively go against MC, this is not true. I am a moderate, I see the flaws in both sides. Blaming feminism for MC is NOT a thing. Blaming feminism for many other things can be true.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:59 PM

I have repeatedly disproven the equality issue. Feminism claims equality when females are unequal. They don't care when men are unequal, or definitely isn't their main goal. Nothing wrong with this. They are a women's advocacy group. Any feminism calling it gender equality I can easily rebuke a heartbeat. Some dont even say it anymore because of how stupid it sounds. That's a minor issue that I don't want to go in though. Any man will soon realize they don't care about areas where men have it wo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 07:55 PM
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Yes, this is what I'm talking about. They do have some good for domestic abuse and other issues but if you specifically call out a female perp, banned.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:52 PM

I don't want feminist sympathizers. I WANT criticism of feminist movements. No one likes radical feminist, but more are accepting of moderate feminists who focus on women's rights that don't affect men in negative ways. I just am tired of the let's blame feminism for everything including things like MGM, which they don't really have a part in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 07:50 PM

Yes and women are trafficked and married at young ages, while some men complain about dating troubles on Tinder. There is always a worse comparison. Men are dying, some one needs to advocate for that. The point isn't that men don't have issues that are worse, the point is when women want to advocate their issues, MR seem to be upset no one cares about mens issues and take it out on women's organisations of why don't you care about men as well. You want to advocate prostate cancer, fine, but don'…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/21 07:32 PM
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Yes, prior to this men couldn't be raped unless they were penetrated. They expanded the definition of assault to not consent but it applies to men to in many ways.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 07:02 PM
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Where has it been disproven? Sexual assault is down at universities? You mean like crime is down in general? That has been proven..
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:46 PM

They don't make it worse. Feminist do not oppose intactivism or anyone in those groups. They don't help the issue, but they don't make it worse, you and I know this.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:45 PM

My main grievences bout menslib is that MEN ARE SECOND PRIORITY. Therefore, men's rights are not a priority if slightly conflicting with feminism ideals. I used to think it was setup by men with men's issues. Exactly what you said, it wouldn't exist without feminism, the creators, this I found out later. I don't have a gripe with feminist issues such as reducing sexual assault, trafficking and child marriages.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:44 PM
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As with menslib, I said not all of it is bad, there IS some good coming out of it. I didn't want to make absolutes about feminism, but only as a direct comparison of some men in menslib, to traditional women in feminism. I just didn't want to elaborate this in my original comment.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:39 PM

Um, if school swept assault and rape under the rug, how is that justice? That's the same as when men victims of DV are not taken seriously. It was an incomplete change that resulted in injustices for some people. Due diligence, added later made, the changes more complete. My comments are not long. Why do people choose to knit pick the small comment that isn't the while story.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:35 PM

I'm not a feminist. I don't advocate for women's rights, although I believe in equality. I'm not reading your long post. You took something I said and changed the context. A TOP POST ON MRA MENTIONS THE REAL FEMINIST that you deny. I do however consider RGB a feminist and there is nothing wrong with what she did. Please find something against men that she did. Please. I dare you.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:33 PM

Yes. Read the rest of my comment. Due diligence needs to be a priority. And it wasn't. This is why men's rights exist. To keep such laws from discrimination against men. I don't understand what there is to disagree. If someone is raped or assaulted, should they not get justice? And if someone is accused, should they not get a right to a fair hearing by the school? Additionally, they should not be public ousted. That simple.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 06:31 PM
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This is good insight. MensLib is frustrating because it claims men's issues but majority are blaming men for being toxic. There have been some good discussions in trans or gay men, but the subreddit does not serve the cis hetero male population since they are the oppressors.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:58 PM

Yes. This is why many people support equal rights but don't support feminism. Many people know this. However, many people are still passionate about women's issues. Which is fine to say the least, as long as someone is there to keep things in check so things don't go overboard. Example is Title IX changes Obama made to keep schools accountable for assault. A very good thing to help victims. Then boys/men were being falsely accused without due diligence. So in Trump era, changes were made to incl…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:54 PM

It's fair to call out femenazis, but they are not to blame for all of men's issues. Male circumcision is one example, this is not a feminist dominated issue. Feminist are not for it. They don't go out of their way to advocate for it like FGM, but they don't support it from what I've seen. Simply failing to help mens issues is not going against men. My OP was to say menslib is NOT men right as a priority, but women and feminism first. I don't want to make this about a ragging on feminism. Not my …
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:51 PM

Yes, yet again some are accepting as well. The majority don't seem to be. My OP was not about how feminism is bad, it is about how menslib does not put priority for men's issues. That is all.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:47 PM

What about RBG? Why do you hate her?
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:45 PM

Ill argue this, some feminism has done a ton of good to help women. Trafficking, education in third world, some basic human rights. There is nothing wrong with this. Look up top posts all time on this subreddit. It shows a post of a real feminist. Few developed countries fight for things like this. Let's not make this a disagreement on what constitutes a feminist and what isn't It's like comparing different religous denominations. I wish the people here didnt make it their ONLY goal to destroy f…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:44 PM
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You cannot deny, some good posts are on there, that if both on MRA and Menslib, they would get upvotes. That is not what is happening in the majority of the time though. We cannot deny the few good just because it's overall mindset is feminism. This is a wrong mindset. Some good topics on male victim DV occurs. Saying posts like this are bad is stupid.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 04:38 PM
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All the time. Are you serious? I think you are trolling me. This can't be a serious question. Most folks support equality of both genders, but not feminism There Is there a reason for this. Not all feminism is equal. The definition has become more abstract than the many denominations of the christian church.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:56 PM

Fair enough. You can go to menslib and feel like being born a hetero cis male is shameful, dirty, and wrong. Look at the top comment.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:48 PM
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That's not the point. Feminism likes to claim equality, when they don't care for men's issues. This is fine. Promote women's issues but don't call it equality for all genders. But you don't have to claim something that is false. I never said all feminist are misandrist, I don't even use the word. But I know some of them come out and hate women or men who want traditional roles. Their choice, why hate them? Why shame them? You keep grouping me with all the negative associations of MRA, but I crit…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:46 PM

I'm sorry, nowhere does it say In the FAQ they SUPPORT OR PROMOTE women's rights. Read it again. It specifically says they DONT OPPOSE it. They SUPPORT equal rights of men... Again, no one here is claiming they are promoting women's rights. They are promoting men's equality. Your previous statement said MRA claim they promote women's rights and issues, but that is false. You are mixing MRA up with feminist claims.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:39 PM

MR FAQ: MR and the MRM do not wish to remove women's rights, or even fight against women's rights. Instead, we simply believe that men deserve equal rights.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:30 PM
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Who the fuck claimed that? Look at the notes. Don't make lies. I HAVE SEEN NO ONE claiming that male rights is going to progress women's issues.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:28 PM

No no no, we rag on the equality that they so HIGHLY claim. I have always always always stated feminism is not about equality towards all, only in areas where women lag. And sometimes they want special treatment that is unequal. Also you just generalized me and all of MRA. I don't appreciate that.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:25 PM
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This is fair. I wish there was an inbetween to menslib and MensRights.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:23 PM

Being against affirmative action is not anti woman. This is meritocracy. Mensrights don't like feminism, or blank accusations, rape or DV. That said, they won't immediately side with the victim, they will wait for due diligence. Due diligence doesn't mean you hate women. I guy I went back and forth with truly believed all women are cunts, besides 5% one being his girlfriend. He was downvoted to hell. He was anti-women. We don't post on women's issues, it's in the name. That doesn't mean we hate …
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:21 PM
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Haven't seen this yet. I have trolled many folks here. You won't be banned, yet your opinion is SO unpopular. Don't make lies. Mensrights ban button is hard to press. MensLib perma ban button can be pressed by the wind.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:15 PM

So does feminism? But you point out a very true flaw in the subreddit. You see about cases that are a win for men, then you can use those situations to apply to you or someone you know. Advice for how to prevent such issues is also observed. Yes, sometimes it's a bitching festival of how feminism is bad. That comes with the territory of not censoring.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:13 PM

This. Is. it. Going on menslib these days makes me feel ashamed for existing as a hetero cis male. Agreed, not every post is a shit show, some actually address issues of heterosexual males. I bet feminism makes women who are ok with the traditional lifestyle feel like shit as well. They shame women's choice that is not their own or for their own motives.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:09 PM

They get banned for incitement of violence such as "let's plan on killing women" People search by controversial. You are not censored. Upopular opinion is not censoring. Don't get the two mixed up. Furthermore, someone wrote women are cunts, actually believed it (I looked at their history) and got downvoted to hell here.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:06 PM

Fair enough but you are not censored at least. And I'll say there is a balance. You get more toxic shit in MensRights, however, you don't address many issues with menslib. I too do not like the feminism hate on here sometimes. If you look top top posts all time on MensRights, you will see one where it says "this is what real feminism is" and I wish people thought that still on here but they won't. Third wave feminism can be seen as the same as generalizing all men, there are too many feminists t…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:03 PM
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The problem consists of when I see a man who reports being a victim and becomes the perp. This is common. This is known. Women claim victim all the time, men not taken seriously or the opposite. Someone mentioned a situation where a man claimed abuse and seen as the perp and used an example of Depp and the mods even said they were too late (it gained traction and upvotes) so they didn't delete it. Otherwise they would have censored it. I have a problem with such censoring. Furthermore, as I stat…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 02:56 PM
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You're just an idiot so I don't really care.. You fail to acknowledge assault does happen often at universities. This shouldn't and doesn't diminish the fact that false accusations happen. We want justice for victims and justice without failure of due diligence. Due diligence is all that is asked for, accountability that everyone has a right to. If due diligence fails, you just make victims of a different type.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:43 AM
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Even if the "patriarchy" did this, even though tender year doctrine was brought up by a woman, why should men today suffer for the actions of other men (men who had authority over laws) who did it for appeasing women? Seems like the root cause is giving women what they wanted and not caring about the men...
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:28 AM
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Well you are right. A pay gap is justified when you work part time vs full time. Or when you work as a nurse aid vs a general laborer. Or when you go to school for engineering instead of psychology.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:24 AM
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You are thinking of unadjusted pay gap vs adjusted pay gap. Unadjusted = total comparison, all females vs all males. Accounts for nothing Adjusted = accounts for total hours worked (full time vs part time), career, field, experience. And you are right. The adjusted pay gap is 95/100. Changing words to earning instead of pay isn't really explaining it.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:21 AM
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Sorry I misworded. Not denial of patriarchy, but denial that partiarchy is the problem.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 03:16 AM
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You mentioned patriarchy and denial of such, so that is automatic deletion. If you read the subreddit info, it states "we are pro-feminist" and since feminists heavily believe in the patriarchy being an issue, it is controversial. Now, I'm not saying the patriarchy is all good. It contributes to the reason why police don't take male victim domestic violence seriously IMO. But I'm not saying the patriarchy is all bad either. Then again, would it be any better if women were handling these or if we…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 12:41 AM
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Although any post that may seem controversial against feminism is censored, they do have some good posts on legitimate men's issues. But that said, the issue is incomplete since you cannot speak freely about ALL of men's issues.
/r/MensRights06/02/21 12:32 AM
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They would be incompetent. It takes years to perfect some of these fields. However, let's say they magically had the experience and skills. Women would be injured, they would be protesting for better working conditions, better pay. Not enough employees to get the work done, not enough strength for labor to get the jobs done. Economy collapse and any physical labor job would cost a lot. Food- farming male dominant, more injuries and death Deliveries and warehouse- male dominant Roofing - mostly m…
/r/MensRights06/02/21 12:28 AM
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You don't know the Jewish law/old testament. It is THE covenant, part of an agreement with God. It can be seen as sexist too since women have no such covenant with God by their laws. It doesn't have to do with making people in the perfect image. New testament says old testament rules don't apply, there is a new covenant (Jesus) so it shouldn't apply to Christians but many American ones claim it as religious for some reason, yet they eat pork, and don't make sacrifices like Jews.... Muslims, I ha…
/r/MensRights05/02/21 10:04 PM
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Let's have men draw their perfect vagina. Then we can write an article about how men have unrealistic expectations of the female genitalia...
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:57 PM
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Your're not wrong. But there's a reason it doesn't show up on headlines. No one cares, it doesn't give clicks.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:52 PM
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There's a reason he videotaped this. It wasn't the first time. Imagine if she didn't call the cops, you know he wouldn't have. I bet he only videotaped it because he knew she would claim being the victim.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:48 PM
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I mean they are. More universities and boarding exists now than before. Along with the growing population and wide use of alcohol in these places. It will increase by simple numbers. Beside the point, their comment was effortless and didn't make much sense. You can go to school and avoid situations where you can be accused or assaulted, essentially be anti social, while still getting a good education.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:43 PM
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Depends on the setting and environment. Those that think things like that are innappropriate will think it's innappropriate for any gender to say. However, the extent of harassment would be worse for any man. If a woman said it, it would be taken lightly. A man says it and it's sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:34 PM
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I looked deep into this. Most people including feminist think KAM is stupid. Even they know it is as stupid as it sounds and is bad publicity these days.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:32 PM
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It does help to an extent. It shows further evidence of consent. In other words it cant hurt but it isn't a fix all situation.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 09:25 PM
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This subreddit doesn't censor unless you can cause harm. I can call someone out for being an idiot. I clearly gave them evidence of their answer from research, and they knit picked one thing that I said and called it victim blaming when it is not. Nor was my intention to victim blame. They completely derailed my comment to something it isn't. So they are an idiot for not doing their easy to find research that more men smoke than women and making their baseless comment. Their comment was a basele…
/r/MensRights05/02/21 03:34 PM
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Yeah, the unadjusted wage gap is garbage and anyone using that number just sounds ignorant as fuck. Adjusted wage gap is more logically reasonable so that has more merit. It's much more narrow though at 95% equality.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 06:01 AM
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I mean, if people are terrible about it yes. But most folks are good about not making people feel like they got hired by affirmative action, especially since it can be workplace discrimination. If anything it is insidious and discreet. I personally wouldn't want to be viewed as less than qualified by my peers. But you know, as a minority or women in certain fields, people will view them a certain way regardless of whether affirmative action was applied or not.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 01:19 AM
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A decent thought but I don't think so. "They found subsets of cells in the lung, the nasal passages, and the intestine that express RNA for both of these proteins much more than other cells." https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2020/04/200422132556.htm
/r/MensRights05/02/21 01:16 AM
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Maybe, but it has changed over time. Korea and US practice it widely without religious reasons. However, trying to ban it can be seen as anti-freedom of religion and will be met with backlash. So religion is impeding on preventing it. But you know, so is FGM in african and middle eastern countries. Religions people constantly oppose the bans but the UN and other groups don't care for their religious beliefs when it affects girls.
/r/MensRights05/02/21 01:13 AM
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You're an idiot. No one wants to put women against women for the intent of hate. We just don't like people who hate people based on their gender. Any normal person (male or female) would hate someone sexist.
/r/MensRights04/02/21 04:12 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Boys_are_stupid,_throw_rocks_at_them!_controversy
/r/MensRights02/02/21 03:07 PM
9

Kind of sexist no?
/r/MensRights02/02/21 06:05 AM
3

But do not benefit from having white privilege. Ranking goes as this it seems, regarding penal system: White woman Black/latinawoman White male Black/latino male
/r/MensRights02/02/21 02:17 AM
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I think we should mirror some conversations that XX has. It would do us some good. I too get jealous if a female friend said another man was attractive. I want to look my best, be fit. But knowing that my personality will never be enough, and there is no way I'll have enough in $$ or status, I would give up. On the other hand, if I had money or status, I know women would use me. Luckily, I found my wife early, but I feel for you single men out there. It is do or die. You look good/have money or …
/r/MensRights02/02/21 02:12 AM
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There have been countries that tried to ban it and were branded anti-semetic. Iceland was threatened by the Anti Defamation League. Along with some cities in Cali that tried as well.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 02:07 AM
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Why's that, because women are having problems with this issue?
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:58 AM
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You're not wrong. It's just no one acknowledges that men have the same issue too. It is not a gendered issue that XX is making it out to be. This is not a women hating sub (most folks). If anything, it is jealousy that women upvote the shit out of comments like that, have support, while men, again are ignored or kept out. But I guess that's this subs fault. Maybe we should talk more about stuff that mirrors XX that can relate to men as well. On a side note, Any women hating posts or comments are…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:58 AM
3

Don't you know the teenage boy lured the adult woman or that he seduced her into commiting the crime? He played, he deserves to pay. Sarcasm.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:49 AM
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Just being so widely accepted in developed countries is just mind boggling. Comparing it to FGM is not the same, OK everyone knows this, but the primary reason of FGM is autonomy, the exact same argument against infant MGM. You can't use autonomy for FGM and then completely turn a blind eye to MGM. But "health benefits..." Still, even though a minimal significance, it goes against AUTONOMY. People treat it like it's a vaccine and put it on the same level, and it's not. I was so sad to see the CD…
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:45 AM
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Not sure if this counts. I don't know that it is hateful enough. Kill all men would be though. You can do what piece of shit chinese retailers do, give 1 stars to their competitors. That seems to be acceptable somehow, good job Amazon. But that's fair game. Not saying you should do this. On a side note, completely unrelated, it is very hard to make sarcastic statements via text.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:39 AM
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There is no winning unless you are attractive and fit the masculine male stereotype. Even then you can be accused of using women if you date around
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:30 AM
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Too bad it isn't female tears, couldn't find one of those. But I did see that one as well
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:22 AM
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I learned that today. I'm not sure that the feminist buying this know that.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:19 AM
3

Something makes me think this is fake. The situation just seems odd that the Uber driver just so happens to be the husband. I want to believe this is fake. It's sad.
/r/MensRights02/02/21 01:18 AM
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Yeah, ignorant people don't always speak exactly what they mean. I've mispoken too I know you have. Biden said poor kids should deserve every chance as white kids. Something along those lines. Except you don't see any men coming forward for these incidents. If that was the case it be different. Like R Kelly or Bill cosby. These guys raped women though. I would make her an equivalent of robbing someone at gunpoint. You make It sound like it was a sex crime when it was robbery. Not that was wrong …
/r/MensRights31/01/21 01:53 PM
1

That's a good point OP was asking for advice on this. Many did respond in saying just don't attack me. Which means go about your business.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 09:45 PM
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She clarified this in a later statement
/r/MensRights30/01/21 09:43 PM
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She never said she drugged them either.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 04:40 PM
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SAME with KIDS. It does suck, but if someone legitimately needs help, who are you to know if they are asshole POS or people that are grateful you saved their lives.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:52 PM
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I will boycott any movie she is in. That or until Johnny Depp is back in the game.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:47 PM
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Cardi B did not admit to sexually assaulting men. She admitted to sneakily taking their money when they willingly wanted to have sex with her. Robbery is a bit better than drugging someone. That said still wrong.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:45 PM
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Goes to show you, if you are going to have a gang bang or have random sex, please have an audio recording. Similarly, a woman did something to a man she met at a gas station. He recorded the whole situation and cleared his name. Is there some sort of thing you can do with your phone? BTW, it seems most audio recordings are legal with a one person party consent (in other words you can't eavesdrop on two strangers who don't consent) in the general sense, can't find it for cases of sex. But video r…
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:05 PM
2

Hmm, when I got here, I could have sworn you were serving fish tonight.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 03:01 PM
2

The woman walking could feel some empathy for the man and cross the street herself You never know how terrified an innocent man must be by potentially being pepper sprayed because of her irrational fear. Or having the police called on them and being arrested. Women do this shit all the time for black men who are minding their own business.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:55 PM
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On a similar discussion it was massively upvoted that men are just going to fucking keep walking and carry on with their own business. Still not the top vote though. Followed by it's not my job to make you "feel" safe when I'm minding my own business- by another poster in response. Personally, I wouldn't walk across the street, I would slow down and give some space (men or woman) if I'm walking behind then at night. This was a top comment.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 02:45 PM
1

Face it, the most impeding problem on male issues is police who don't care for male victims if the perp is a woman, unless she stabs him, robs him at gunpoint, or does something severe. Even so, no one cares about male victims. Not at the hands of feminism. This has been history for centuries.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:17 PM
1

And men protect rapists too... I'm not sure what you are getting at. Not all accused are rapists not all accused are innocent. Both sides seem to defend the other blindly. The law is clear though. It is proving it that is difficult. This is why statutory rape is simple and boys get justice. Feminists are not the ones to blame for corrupt systems or people that let women off easy. Our law is clear, our judges and police are not.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 05:15 PM
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Our law defines rape clearly and concisely. It includes anyone who doesn't consent. Men or women. Boys or girls. Whatever history and what some have fought against men, the law is stated clearly. Forcing to penetration without consent is rape. Whatever argument they had, feminism doesn't go against males being raped, they all agree the laws are clear and they are justified.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 04:27 PM
1

And I was wrong. Prostate screening is not on the A B category therefore not all preventative is covered.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 06:56 AM
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Scratch all that. Here is a link for the direct rulings for the Affordable healthcare act regarding preventative colonoscopies. Read it well, it may help you save some money if you need to. https://www.cancer.org/cancer/colon-rectal-cancer/detection-diagnosis-staging/screening-coverage-laws.html
/r/MensRights28/01/21 06:52 AM
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In general, screening colonoscopies for people at average risk are recommended every 10 years by the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force. (Under the law, preventive services are covered at no cost by insurers if they meet the task force's recommendations.) And actually getting it yearly shouldn't change this but I didn't want to change the wording. It further states, if you have had polyps or other abnormality, it is not longer considered preventative.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 06:50 AM
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Weird. If they documented it as preventative, it should have. This was the case for me on my HD plan. Obama made all preventative tests and exams free, regardless of the insurance. If you have symptoms beforehand (therefore it is investigative) or findings from an exam, it no longer is preventative. Did Trump change this recently?
/r/MensRights28/01/21 06:45 AM
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The problem is those without health insurance. But they have some programs for free prostate checks for men without insurance. No where near the amount of uninsured free womens tests/checks. In that sense you are right. But Obama made preventative tests free. If they find an issue that turns out to be disease or disorder on the test, then it may no longer be considered "preventative"
/r/MensRights28/01/21 06:07 AM
1

Completely misunderstood "decries"
/r/MensRights28/01/21 06:02 AM
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Wrong. In the US ALL preventative tests are free... Colonoscopy as well.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 05:37 AM
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I have a problem with general statements. If you have health issues, you should get preference. If the majority of people with issues happen to be men, so be it. If some minorities get it at higher percentages then other, so be it. But health risks is a priority. Giving blanket preference to a sex, gender, or race is wrong. Simply being a minority/male/female doesn't put you at risk. Some demographics have higher risk than others. But a healthy white man (40) shouldn't be given preference over a…
/r/MensRights28/01/21 05:35 AM
1

Is it because more men have high risk health situations? Eg heart disease/problems?
/r/MensRights28/01/21 04:07 AM
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We should give high risk over gender preference. Being male alone is not high risk. Gender unequality is illegal by ERA. So a blanket gender preference wouldn't be right. A man in low risk shouldn't be given preference than woman in high risk. If more men get it because of high risk situations that unintended discriminaton is ok. BUT healthcare workers are given priority to obvious reasons so many women will get it first. Again, unintended discrimination. More men have heart issues, a issue that…
/r/MensRights28/01/21 04:02 AM
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I used to watch lifetime movie network and every situation, the typical male stereotype would be the bad person. Playing on people's fears gets clicks and views. This is news media 101. ONE time, I saw a woman being the bad guy and I was surprised. This had to do with more of a false accusation and stalker too. All fit in the typical gender roles. Imagine writing an article or paper on men victims. No one would care, not even men since many don't fear it or think it could happen to them.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:55 AM
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I feel "life extension" is an unusual situation. If someone had terminal cancer, regardless of the issue, their insurance won't cover it either. I knew a woman near end of life, her insurance didn't cover it. She paid like a million out of pocket and it didn't work. That is the definition of being not cost effective. It just so happens a shit ton of prostate cases are towards the end of life (over 85). Still is discrimination since it affects men for this specific case, but more justified consid…
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:51 AM
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Haha, compared to non binary and trans, I think both regular genders are looking like gold. Non binaries do not fit well in society and it is way harder to exist if you don't fit in. Both sexes have unique problems, but I've never seen problems like trans and non-binary, they seem to have the worst of both. Sexually assault, being harassed for frequently, high suicide rates.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:42 AM
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Contraception is not always covered. This is a lie. Preventative care is always covered, so mamograms, pap smears. The only one men really have is prostate exams. Also, your insurance might have sucked in general.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:38 AM
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Not mandatory, affirmative action. This gives some leverage but not absolution. The only ones making it mandatory are the idiot employers who are giving them an absolute preference because of desperation. AA should give preference for equal or near equal candidates who are "minority". Instead, due to lack of candidates in the minority, they are given a huge leverage. Companies seeing how shitty their diversity is are having managers give absolute preference. They should still be hiring the best …
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:35 AM
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Not to mention masculine men are more attractive and accepted to the general population. Even among those that "think" men should show their feeling, be more feminine, etc.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:25 AM
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Society doesn't accept the men being open to feelings, that's just group. Many of people may believe it in theory but when it happens it is unnattractive and off putting.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:23 AM
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To be fair, men who see women complaining think the same shit, women complain too much. It's just that women do it so often everyone is used to it. Sucks because it is seen as a feminine thing and any men see feminine characteristics as weakness.
/r/MensRights28/01/21 03:21 AM
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Being a male feminist or simp is almost as bad as incel on this regard. No disagreement there. All of them rely on changing peoples views instead of fitting in their typical gender roles and appealing/being attractive to the other gender. Like a fat chick kind of. Society says she needs to be thin and good looking. Men are told they shouldn't talk, they should be strong, and have money to be attractive. And/or good looking.
/r/MensRights27/01/21 09:45 AM
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You are correct in that statement. Look, I'm going to be real with you. The whole SS thing is garbage, we all agree. The disenfranchisement may help but I doubt it. But that alone is not enough for anyone to take it seriously due to all the compounded if/thens. It makes sense completely why you say it though. National coalition of men has fought for this and it was ruled unconstitutional In 2019 For this reason: MSSA is in violation "since the restrictions on women serving in combat roles in the…
/r/MensRights26/01/21 06:38 PM
1

I mostly blame the phone but I tend to reword some things after I type sentences even on my computer. I have ADD so it doesn't help. Are my sentences uncomprehensible? But I see it rearranged convicted with convinced... That wasn't an ESL issue, that's a phone.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 06:16 PM
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I took a quick look of your profile and you seem to have some unhealthy views of women in general. Did your mom abuse you as a child? Or did she leave you? Did a previous girlfriend hurt you in a way that you were unable to recover mentally?
/r/MensRights26/01/21 06:12 PM
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No, english is not my first language but I'm not autistic. I'm also using my phone to type. I'm not sure how you were not trying to be offensive. why do you say that?
/r/MensRights26/01/21 06:08 PM
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Because it was a hyperbole. That's why I don't take it seriously. You added two separate instances (being a felon from failure to register) and voting (denied for felons) to equate the 49% of the population is disenfranchised. That is simply not true. Even so, you cannot be a felon if you are not convinced and happen to be one of the 14. I don't know why you fail to see the HUGE difference between your claim and reality. Ok, I'll give you the disenfranchised argument that even for an instance, i…
/r/MensRights26/01/21 05:12 PM
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I think your argument for voting fails since MOST states allow felons to vote after time served/parole/probation, many states just banning voting while in prison. I don't know where you got the load of shit you said. Only 2 states permanently ban felons from voting. Since 1980, 14 people have been convicted of failing to register for selective service out of an estimated 1 million failing to register (trying to get federal student loans). HOWEVER, this article shows many ways in which someone ca…
/r/MensRights26/01/21 04:44 PM
1

What the fuck does that mean? "The vote"
/r/MensRights26/01/21 03:43 PM
0

Then why do our laws say a man can be raped? And some idiots don't mean the majority.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 02:28 AM
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Women's shelters are mostly domestic violence if that's what you mean. I don't know that feminists are to blame for men being raped not being a crime. If so, no one in the US. UK says vaginal penetration is rape. Anything else is sexual assault. Even forcing to penetrate. So feminists have actively tried to prevent anal penetration as being called rape for women as well? Is that what you are telling me? Just because the law doesn't exist doesn't mean it's the doing of feminism or all women right…
/r/MensRights26/01/21 01:01 AM
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I'm saying if a man was forced to penetrate, he would have police as a resource and a rape kit as well available. If they deny him, that precinct is up for a sueing. They HAVE to process it, even if the police think it's a load of shit. Whether the kit will get processed or put in a backlog is a different story, just like other victims.
/r/MensRights26/01/21 12:00 AM
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Why are they being denied these? What resources do they need that are being denied? Rape kits can be used on a penis as well. Im asking you. What resources are people who do not report rape are being denied?
/r/MensRights25/01/21 03:19 AM
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I don't know what you mean denying rape victims the resources they need. Like a shelter? What resources do men need in these areas? There is already a backlog of rape kits, of the people that have reported crimes. Obviously there are not enough resources to begin with.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 03:12 AM
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Wow, focusing on which area is being unequal the most is discrimination. Ironic. Yes by the most simple terms of discrimination it is.... So is parental leave (it discrimination against people who don't want to be parents) So is discriminating against someone who doesn't have a MD/DO as a doctor for a job of being a doctor (it discriminates against those unqualified to be a doctor) Giving smoking breaks is discrimination to those who don't smoke. I discriminate against people who are on either e…
/r/MensRights25/01/21 03:09 AM
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This argument is stupid, It doesn't work here. It works for when you say only men can be raped if they are forced to be penetrated. Or men can't be raped. See the other comment on -1 to +1 scale
/r/MensRights25/01/21 03:00 AM
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Your arguments suck. On a scale of -1 (unfavorable to men, 0 (equal) and +1 (unfavorable to women) THERE WOULD BE A LOT MORE POSITIVE NUMBERS (EG UNFAVORABLE TO WOMEN) Un focuses on these areas not to ones that are +0.1 (slightly unfavorable to women).
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:58 AM
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Ok unreported cases. So maybe we should encourage men to report these incidents then. If the legal system calls it rape then what's the problem? Police don't take it seriously? I don't understand the issue? If you want to advocate for men being forced to penetrate, it is illegal so what's the problem? You just want to put down feminism. You don't care about men's issues. Your goal is to hate feminism.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:56 AM
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It isn't relevant, YES IT IS. You can't use that. It is directly related to the topic. Stop saying that. UN DOESNT focus on things that are even close to 0 (or countries that have areas close to 0) they focus on the worst of the situations.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:52 AM
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You will never agree with any logical argument. I at least have acknowledged you are right about forcing to penetrate. Not about the UN issue though. You know -1 to 1 would still show more injustices to women and you won't acknowledge that.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:50 AM
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No need. But also I don't think in the US it is not considered rape under our current laws for be forced to penetrate
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:47 AM
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Look dude. I'm saying even if they measured -1, 0, and 1, there would be a lot more positive numbers in the mass majority of areas You know this is correct. Dont lie. Don't be so set in your ways. Focus on issues men have issues with.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:46 AM
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Both subgroups are not. That does not mean "some."
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:37 AM
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I'm not derailing. But you keep saying they discriminate against men by supporting women's issues, In which their categories have many things in many countries that are above 0 (unfavorable) towards women. There are more +# than near 0 numbers. FACT. There is no changing your mind. The only thing that made sense is the forced to penetrate statistic. That's all.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:35 AM
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No, it's just one place from the source of data that said it is not STATISTICALLY reliable.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 02:32 AM
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O wait "but subtypes of made to penetrate were not statistically reliable."
/r/MensRights25/01/21 01:58 AM
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Why don't you show me this data? This is fair. Although I'd like to see where feminist have actively prevented in calling it rape. Please give a link for that as well.
/r/MensRights25/01/21 01:56 AM
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I asked you to list the areas where they are disadvantaged and you have not. On the scale of 0 (equal) 1(unequal for women). Then list ALL THE categories that are above 0
/r/MensRights25/01/21 01:49 AM
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Dam I think I might start identifying as a woman and claim being in a lesbian relationship.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 11:38 PM
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Hmm, you are right. They are not a government platform and they are their own platform with their own rules
/r/MensRights23/01/21 11:19 PM
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You are trying to prove feminism as evil by using examples. All Germans are not Nazis.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:58 PM
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MRA keep dogmatically believing that men are anywhere nearly raped as much as women. I understand men are raped but not in the same numbers and HOW CAN IT BE PROVED. The same argument for many cases of women accusing rape. How can some of these women prove they were raped if they didn't take the necessary precautions. So it goes unpunished.. both genders, yet women who are raped don't get justice at higher rates because they are raped more. You don't care to hear facts. Because you blatantly sai…
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:52 PM
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I have not been proven. The concept is subjective. It Is based on opinions. UN cares about women, how does it harm men? MRA and extreme feminist both suck. No wonder people have such a low opinion of both. Both deserve to just die from the lack of reproducing. Its a shame because men still don't have an advocacy group that focuses on issues and not blaming feminism. Good job MRA, you have accomplished nothing for men's issues. You are attacking a straw man instead of attacking the issues.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:45 PM
1

I can't argue with idiots I'm wasting my time
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:38 PM
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They don't care. That simple. MRA give two shits about women's issues. They only have one perspective and narrative and it's dogmatic regardless of relevancy to a topic. That's why y'all are majority fucked up. It's a shame.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:37 PM
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Feminist don't give a shit about men. MRA don't give a shit about women. What's the problem?
/r/MensRights23/01/21 05:32 PM
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Saying so doesn't make it true. They advocated bring back our girls. They didn't use an index to show women were disadvantaged in this area. The index is used in a mass population comparison, 300 isn't going to change this.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 05:31 PM
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Pro woman does not equal anti men in all situations. If it wasn't for government interference, abusers would get to keep their children, men and women alike. This prevents a power dynamic and abuse to victims therefore involving the government. Also, those couples that allow government involvement already have distrust and should be separated. Your argument crap.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 06:46 AM
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The thing you failed to note is, what is the problem with helping women and girls. Giving women and girls equal rights in some areas DOESNT hurt men. It just ignores men's issues in other areas. How are they exacerbating the issue to where boys and men are being punished?
/r/MensRights23/01/21 04:29 AM
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The UN has measured and said women and men are equal using this index for Boko Haram? No, they just advocated for bringing back the girls. Educatíon is a index measurement though. Where is education predominantly female in the world and men are disadvantaged? This is the only one that may have merit to the scope of our discussion.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 04:25 AM
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No, MRAs hate women. See. Easy. That simple. MRAs don't care about injustices to women which is a lot, they care about injustices to men. MRAs want to control women, not give them abortion rights, keep the conservative family and keeping women in their place, they want to keep masculinity and keep their power. They want accusers to keep their mouth shut so they can keep raping them but use false accusations as a cover up. How do you not see the irony in me saying that? What feminism is male geno…
/r/MensRights23/01/21 04:02 AM
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Name one issue where they called it equality in a place where men are disadvantaged. Yes I see that have the scale that doesn't include men but name one specific topic where it is 0 on a rating of 0 equality and 1 inequality, and it SHOULD be a negative number.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 03:33 AM
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You asked for a non radical feminism movement.... That was the whole topic. .
/r/MensRights23/01/21 03:30 AM
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Im not disputing your arguments that are opinions at best. Only one. More feminists and less MRA. They don't hate men. MRA hate women. See how that works?
/r/MensRights23/01/21 03:30 AM
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Progressing women only issues is not radicalism. There is no arguing with you, you have made up your mind what is defined as radicalism.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 01:01 AM
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US does not hate men. They love men. Many women support men here, the majority. You hear the vocal minority, that is all. Our government doesn't care about men who don't contribute, unless you are disabled. They don't care for single mothers who have children either and do the bare minimum. They don't care for women non mothers who don't work either to be fair. Some states ban abortion so they force women to have children that they don't want and can't afford, majority poor black women who get s…
/r/MensRights23/01/21 01:00 AM
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The thing is, how is this radical? If most numbers are not 0 or anywhere near. Say you were to include negative numbers. How many situations would be near -1 vs +1? I asked for a radical example you said they advocate for women and not men. I never accepted rape. Stop putting words in my mouth. Women advocacy does not mean anti-male. Not all women who advocate unfair laws against men are feminist.
/r/MensRights23/01/21 12:56 AM
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They don't measure men being disadvantaged as equality.... No one said this, you are lying. Name ONE example. Please do so. I don't want to see a 45% men vs 55% women stat either. That is not a disadvantage. that is near equality. PROVE IT TO ME. I'm tired of men who hate women spit about lies and hearsay. Someone said an prominent feminist didn't want male contraception. I quickly disproved that from an article she wrote....
/r/MensRights22/01/21 11:41 PM
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I'm not reading that shit. Don't be stuoid
/r/MensRights22/01/21 09:31 PM
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I went to bed. UN gender equality (women's rights). They don't say smash the patriarchy, toxic masculinity, all the other nonsense that radical feminists use here. They worry more about education and healthcare. But I know you will come back and say "how is this what they did here not radical" Yes, you can claim X is radical about anything. Any action that advocates can be considered radical by some people. But I strictly mean about smashing patriarchy, femenizing men, toxic masculinity,
/r/MensRights22/01/21 09:09 PM
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Feminists do not protect female rapists. This is a lie. Some idiots may defend a woman's action, some say due diligence. But the judicial system is to blame.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 08:56 PM
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But who defined that the word feminism is male hating? You are just switching words around. I don't see anything for women's rights advocacy and when I do, feminism is often included in context. Pizzey and Meryl Streep are the only ones I know about specifically denouncing feminism but advocating Women's rights. I guess if the main ideal is feminism is patriarchy is an issue, toxic masculinity, all the other negative context. But wikipedia defines this as radical feminism.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 11:29 AM
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You may be right on the women's rights advocacy thing. These words have become synonymous. Can't a WRA do things that inheritely put males at a disadvantage too? Why is this the first time someone has mentioned it to me? I want to stand with WRA, I don't like some feminist movements.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:56 AM
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Read stars. I do my research. You lied. Although a shit piece on men, she says male contraceptives SHOULD be a thing. Valentini: "I mean, don’t confuse my hesitance with a lack of enthusiasm:**** it’s absolutely vital that men have more contraceptive choices – to take more control over their reproductive futures***, and because the responsibility has fallen disproportionately on women’s shoulders (and nether-regions) for too long. I’m just not sure whether a man who refuses to roll a latex sheat…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:51 AM
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I dunno, as a male who sees that trade is a much more viable option rather than what I went for, I regret my decision of going to college. Women can have all the college degrees that won't bring them jobs. I blame the gender gap on this and always have. However, I think we need more details. If more men are leaving psychology, social, sciences, general studies, and taking up trade instead, good for them. If more men are leaving the good sciences, engineering, and medical, that is worrisome. We d…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 10:33 AM
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Anyone in power will be accused these days, not criminally but at least publicly. Some will have more authority than other, since a random person be easily disproven. Biden, Trump (wouldn't doubt it), bush, bush sr. Al gore, Clinton. Keanu reeves (paternal accusations but still) Someone tried to smear McCain for misconduct. https://www.westernjournal.com/flashback-john-mccain-labeled-2008-sexual-misconduct-accusations-a-smear/ Any powerful men that don't have feminist interest as a priority (or …
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:56 AM
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I don't understand this, I should try to progress men's issues without bashing feminism? How can I? The sub does nothing to help make things actionable, they just attack feminism. I want to help male DV and I want to help men have the right to see their child. Where do I help these folks?
/r/MensRights22/01/21 06:11 AM
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Tender year doctrine wasnt a feminist movement. She was not a feministz she wanted her children. Courts agreed, judged agreed. This has been changed in most areas to include "best interest of the child." Still In practice. This is a unique situation unlike any other. Men do have no say you are right. Religion had authority, no abortions. Someone has to take care of the child, this is child support. Yes can be manipulated, but use a condom jeez. They can fail or be tricked but it doesn't happen o…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:57 AM
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"I know I'll get replies only for this comment" Cool thanks for proving my point. Other men's issues don't matter even to this sub. Only bashing feminism "the main cause of all that is evil for men" Bullshit dude. Drafts happened for men before feminism and women's rights was a thing. Violence against men has ALWAYS been a joke and makes men look weak. MGM has been around BEFORE feminism. Men HAVE ALWAYS had their main arguments and unfairness towards them BEFORE feminism and women's rights exis…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:21 AM
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Hmm, that is idiotic thinking. Men do more so they need more basic human rights? Many men and women get ADDITIONAL benefits from serving in any developed country, not basic rights. In that logic, men who don't serve shouldn't have the rights to drive either or be able to own a home... That's the dumbest argument ever, I wouldn't suggest using again. This is about women not having the same rights as you. Not you having lesser rights in other situations.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 05:15 AM
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Dude, a feminist movement in Saudi allowed women to drive. RGB allowed women to sign their own mortgage. Don't give me that bullshit. Those thing are equality for women, not advantages. No one said they helped men as well. I explicitly said they didn't. No one said all suffragettes are good. Be a fucking idiot.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 04:47 AM
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Shit don't work. Get a direct source link.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 04:12 AM
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I disagree. There have been some good EQUALITY from feminism (or feminism ideals) FOR WOMEN. Like the right to drive, vote, and sign their own mortgage. Many equality movements were done without feminism though. I don't care. I advocate for male rights but blindly saying feminism hasnt made some things fair for women, is completely wrong. It hasn't done much to help men.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 04:05 AM
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Emasculating "breed in weakness." How progressive of you. This place is more open to dialog than anywhere else I've seen. Although many do support claims for their narrative, many comment on opposition's or flaws in a claim. You are half right though.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 03:58 AM
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You ignored the fact if more likely to die from complications...... You addressed a possibility of more likely to get it.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 03:53 AM
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Boo. This is a huge deal.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 03:50 AM
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Yes. Isn't that wrong? Not all Muslims are terrorists, a small percentage are. Most terrorists use Muslim belief and twist it for their motives though. Except with Muslim beliefs and culture it is a bit more complicated. The ottoman empire didn't expand because of kindness. Say what you will about the crusades (there was a lot of wrong) but it was a defence to the ottoman empire.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 01:24 AM
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Simp or feminist, I can't tell. Either way you won't find a mate.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 01:16 AM
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Just like the post. "Boo hoo" " crybabies" Why is de-masculation used as a weapon for feminists? Isn't that ironic?
/r/MensRights22/01/21 01:14 AM
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Not until the FDA approves those claims and becomes the new standard.
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:54 AM
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Here is a source, more of an opinion piece but has some good arguments. "Rather, it is thought that that such impulses have been selected for because heroic behavior has provided competitive advantages for men throughout human history" " In a second study, 92 women rated the sexual attractiveness of men who had behaved heroically in war as being higher than that of soldiers who had served but not been identified as heroes" https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/out-the-ooze/201601/the-psycholog…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:22 AM
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Sorry if you don't like biblical references but here are two. In the New Testament she is mentioned as the stepdaughter of Herod, demanding and receiving the head of John the Baptist. She was the wife of the famous Herod Antipas, who played a big part in the execution of Jesus of Nazareth. Although I would say many leaders do not fall for that since they have actual power and don't need to appease anyone. Regular people however, will do whatever they can to appease women (indirectly or directly)…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:15 AM
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Bingo. Regular males do things that the world requires. And even regarding business failure rates, men start more and make more. I think even this has to do with labor/trade small businesses IMO. Here is an article with some stats on that. Although I don't like how they say it could be "barriers" that keep them from succeeding. Like lack of financing. Like wtf does that mean? Financial loans DO NOT DISCRIMINATE on gender, they discriminate on risk. https://smallbiztrends.com/2019/02/small-busine…
/r/MensRights22/01/21 12:04 AM
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History has shown, men who go off into war (and have no gains from oil and land) are seen more favorably in the eyes of women. Yes the leaders wage war for other reasons but why would a lower class male or middle class male do so?
/r/MensRights21/01/21 04:50 AM
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Jewish tradition is pretty strict on the 8 days or whatever, although many accept the Brit Shalom which is strictly ceremonial. Many do not. Hell, there is a group of Jewish people that won't stop metzitzah b'peh to where the mohel places his mouth on it and sucks the blood. So, some people are pretty strict on this in other words.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 01:59 AM
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Autonomy is often used for FGM. Cultures hate when other folks step in and tell them to stop FGM. Doesn't stop them from imposing their beliefs. It is forced assimilation. Regardless of the practice being barbaric on girls. But no one is forcing assimilation to the developed world so MGM continues. Any culture will call it a cult if it goes against the norm though.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 01:54 AM
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Easy. Some women have a power over men they cannot even see straight. And manipulation can trick anyone to do anything. It's an art that some are blessed with. He's an idiot too for failing to see that beating a man with a weapon is wrong. It takes two fucked up people for this.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 01:48 AM
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This. Happens. More than you think. Men will beat someone to death because they think it will get them some. Because it is what women want. Not all women, but there are many. It's why men go to war willingly. Many women like men that are capable of power because In a way they inherit that power.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 01:46 AM
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You are correct, and although it contributes to the pay gap it doesn't account all of it. By saying "account for hours adjusted" and still compare ALL fields with each other, you will still get a large pay gap. As someone mentioned that is a 13% difference for hours worked. But the pay gap is like 26% comparing all to all (non adjusted). Industry is a big contributing factor to pay.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:31 PM
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Watch youtube experiments of men being abused by GF vs women being abused by BF. Some of them you will see men laughing at the guy.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:25 PM
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I have noticed in India since feminist policies have gone unnopposed, no one kept them accountable for policies that severely screw men. MRM have emerged due to this and is a rising trend. I can say the US is heading that way as well.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:24 PM
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Because programmers and roofers and any predominant male field pay more than childcare and women predominant fields. The only one is nursing for women, where they get paid very well. 40 hours as a construction worker is not the same as 40 hours as a daycare worker. I have replied somewhere with a post that showed all fields with gender ratios. I looked at all the predominantly women fields and all the predominantly men fields, and you can easily see why women get paid more. Because they are in d…
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:20 PM
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There is, but adjusted for hours worked, experience, industry, etc, it is very small. I wouldn't doubt small businesses are skewing the numbers to.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:15 PM
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Dangerous jobs don't pay "more." They are usually blue collar and pay shit for the risks and life long damage from the physical strain compared to white collar work. Roofers, construction, logging, fishing, farmers. They get paid according to supply and demand, and their skills. Although within construction and roofing, higher risk jobs tend to pay more (in which those have more skills and a specialty background).
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:12 PM
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This is crap. Hazard pay isn't a defined thing. Only certain companies and the government will give extra for hazard pay. Roofers, loggers, and fishermen, construction don't get "hazard pay." They get paid for their worth and skills are. The military and government, however, will give hazard pay if you are working in high conflict areas, high risk fields. This is not much for the military, like 150-250 extra a month.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:03 PM
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This is illegal to pay women less for the same work and same skills. That's why.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 11:01 PM
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When they talk about the general pay gap, that's not why men get paid more though. For the same hours worked men get paid more, in different positions and fields. It does attribute to when men get "paid" more in nursing when this is brought up, along with men taking higher specialties in nursing since they are not accepted in low paying nursing specialties.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:56 PM
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SO WHY ARE YOU WITH ONE if you hate them so much. You're a fucking idiot. I have never seen someone so stupid and lonely.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:54 PM
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Because of patriarchy, men give women better tips.... Because of toxic masculinity, strippers and only fans women can make good money... Oh wait, she earned all that by herself, that's woman empowerment.
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:44 PM
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The negotiation salary thing is not really the issue, with the exception of certain positions. It is ILLEGAL to pay a woman less than a man for the same job, same experience, same qualifications. Companies will not risk this for a lawsuit. That is the definition of discrimination. Male nurses get paid more they say. If you include full time hours and TYPES of nursing, the pay is the same. In nursing, women work in maternity wards, men do not (and are generally not accepted there). That is a lowe…
/r/MensRights20/01/21 10:42 PM
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You just ragged on women and divorce why the fuck would you marry one if you think that way? Lies from beyond the imagination
/r/MensRights18/01/21 09:57 PM
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Ok keep at it. Because men like you get plenty of decent women. Men like you abuse and use weak women who are instable. It's no wonder you have such a negative view and over generalization of all women if the only ones you meet are unstable, ill, and tolerate with men who hate their existence.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 10:39 PM
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I'd gladly kick your ass while wearing a skirt. Go volunteer for helping others and change your mindset. Otherwise the mass majority will continue to hate you and your shittiness will reveal itself no matter how hard you try to hide it. Then you will end up hurting yourself or living a long miserable life. Do it for your own good.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 10:25 PM
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Agreed. Some other mindsets I disagree with as well as the absolute hate in ALL feminism. Like RGB, no one should hate her, she actually helped men with laws and she is feminist. She made it so women can sign a mortgage by herself. Nothing wrong with that type of feminism though. She is the only example I can think of though. Modern feminist are not the same.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:32 AM
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That's the difference in a sub that allows free speech and one that doesn't. But To be fair, it is their space and the can choose to do what they want. We can choose to do what we want, until reddit quarantines us or bans us, I'd be pissed. That means men have no space to voice their opinion freely.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 07:21 AM
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We have many women who care about men's rights issues and who are not sexist. Your statements would be correct. Many women would not be offended.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 03:15 AM
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Perfectly stated.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 02:47 AM
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Bad choice of words without context I guess.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 02:25 AM
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Also, you will find no censoring here (with obvious violent exceptions), so some may be more extreme, exclusionary, OR comments that are against MRAs.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 02:01 AM
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I don't trust VICE. They like to poke at the extremists to further cause separation.
/r/MensRights17/01/21 01:26 AM
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I don't know about you guys, but I'm a big fan of #toomanymen made by a commenter. Instead of generalizing all men. Much better alternative.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 10:56 PM
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I mean, it is fair to have support for perpetrators. But so should women, I think Erin Pizzey was a strong advocate for helping women perpetrators as well as making shelters. Having support groups for both genders can be very important for reducing DV. We 100% need more help for male DV victims though, especially when 70% of non reciprocating violence is perpetrated by women. This doesn't even bring in gay men to the equation.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 09:18 AM
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I agree with the other response. Also remember, the majority is not as you described and many people value men and women alike. I hope you are not in a field to when you don't feel valued because of it.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 09:13 AM
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Just have to respond with "fake statistics, those are lies" here's <link>. Keeps it simple to where any idiot or skimmer can understand. No one likes to read through paragraphs. Then they will say "well, women get hurt worse" You say "what about non reciprocating violence, which women are more perpetrators" <link> That puts out two easy to see facts that cannot be disputed. That's all someone can do but probably won't change their set in stained brain.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:55 AM
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Yes, but for the general argument of killing children, post partum is correlated to this. Again, not saying it is right...
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:50 AM
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You deserve an upvote. I feel the same about reddit
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:12 AM
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Idiots defending a killers actions. Although I agree it could have been mental illness, this does not discount their actions that have unfairly taken lives. Those same people get mad when a white terrorist is displayed to have a mental illness in the headlines.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:10 AM
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Because of article of the murder suicide I found out that women ARE equally (if not more likely in recent years) to kill their children. It doesn't happen all too often (450/year in total male/women perpetrators) is one opposition, just like women being murdered by men though 1200/year. Considering population size. Those numbers are not high like rape statistics. Also a defence will come up as they have "post partum depression" they are mentally ill and need help not be jailed. Since ppd will ca…
/r/MensRights16/01/21 08:07 AM
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A good read with some helpful resources towards the end. Abuse is abuse. It should not be tolerated. Do not tolerate it, do something about it. Put pride/shame behind and report abuse, for you, for the greater good.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:56 AM
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They don't have a charity review. Which means they are so small, or they are not legitimate. Is there another one in the US?
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:39 AM
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I think the main problem stems with the lack of certain goals. What do MRA actually want to change? There is no execution or plan. They just complain together. If they want affirmative action to stop, that isn't going to happen since it opposes feminism, a greater force. If they want to ban MGM, there is a group that does this but many don't join for some reason, they don't want to be branded as one of those. If they want to advocate for male DV, they CAN but there is a lack of traction or effor…
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:36 AM
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I agree with this. This stems from the dogmatic viewpoint that women ALWAYS have it worse. THEREFORE any progression of women is actually equality in their mind. That is where "equality" in feminism comes from. Not the idea that men's issues matter are a priority as well.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 06:18 AM
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Well, I hope it doesn't come to that point. Seems like the US is being pretty fair considering other countries.
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:51 AM
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Using quotas has ALWAYS been illegal, in hiring, in schools, etc. You cannot use a quota of "we NEED 50% women" or we MUST HAVE "10% black employees" Affirmative action does not mean this, it means giving leverage BUT NOT absolutes. That's the definition of preference, some extra points. The problem is, there is no way to regulate this. Hiring panels can choose to give more points to certain groups to make it appear legal. Schools can use other excuses that I'm not aware of (obviously they are d…
/r/MensRights16/01/21 03:11 AM
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I wonder if title ix laws protects from discrimination for k-12 and not just universities. This shit happens. If 95% of k-8th grade are women, there is bound to be some bit hating teachers. There shouldn't be but classrooms are not always monitored and observed secretly.
/r/MensRights15/01/21 06:25 PM
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7.5k worth....
/r/MensRights15/01/21 04:03 AM
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RBG actually defended men for social security benefits. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weinberger_v._Wiesenfeld Title IX was recently changed to include due diligence (after something Obama did that kept schools accountable, schools would kick men/boys out without due diligence). Modern feminism isn't really about equality though. Men act in shadows and small groups. Any male issues (such as title IX) that directly may disadvantage victims (typically women) will be met with direct opposition. I…
/r/MensRights15/01/21 03:37 AM
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It is zero sum when you are taking about funding programs..... That's the definition of zero sum. If the government budgets for health issues, the more you have for one the less you have for others. Peoples private donations as well. This situation is very much zero sum. Not all thing are but this is. Showing awareness of how much is spend on breast cancer vs prostate, MIGHT bring light to make things fair for men. Although an argument is men die at much higher rates past 75, whereas women die m…
/r/MensRights15/01/21 03:17 AM
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RGB, an equality leader, helped men from discrimination in situations. But this was more from an equality standpoint. She has been known as a feminist. She fought for women who actually wanted equality such as being able to sign their own mortgage. Feminism now is not about equality. It is about progressing women, but they claim equality. They DONT CARE to progress ANY men's issues, although they may claim they are against certain issues. MRA don't claim equality or helping women's issues. But h…
/r/MensRights15/01/21 03:00 AM
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Well, the idea they stated is when their male partner doesn't want to use a condom.
/r/MensRights15/01/21 02:26 AM
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I think you have crossed upon trolls in that comment. Which can be found for anything really. There are also people who troll on the idea that all people should be sterilized at birth, then reverse it if they have the money. This way, poor uneducated people don't keep producing more of the same type of people... But back to the topic, people do joke about MGM, they think it's gross if it's not or have a very low opinion of those that are not (sound familiar? FGM advocates say the same thing...) …
/r/MensRights15/01/21 01:38 AM
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This is old news. I saw it posted twice on here. This takes away credibility to MRAs. At least post a recent sexist teacher article within a couple of years.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 04:47 AM
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Reddit should unknowingly reverse upvotes just for that place. Isn't really unpopular unless you say some pretty bad shit. Hypocrites.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 04:25 AM
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Dude this article is from 2017, the event itself is from 2015... Yes there are shit teachers out there.
/r/MensRights08/01/21 04:09 AM
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13 year olds have it worse than babies, 100x. They will be more traumatized, the pain is more, and recovery is more. And yet they consciously go through with it!!!! They will be shamed by their peers if they don't. It is 100% a cultural rites passage, like FGM is for girls I would say.
/r/MensRights03/01/21 04:28 AM
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When governments try to ban it, they are preventing Jews from practicing their religion freely. When FGM is banned, many cultures (women as well) use the excuse of freedom of religion and bring up Jews and male circumcision to defend their practice. Seems like the need to end FGM exceed the freedom of religion in that case. It is NOT anti semetic if you believe children should not be for autonomy reasons. It MAY SEEM anti semetic if a ban goes into effect from the governing body.
/r/MensRights01/01/21 05:43 AM
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You will find mixed arguments from men's rights group about this topic, in the US at least. When something becomes so engrained in your own culture, you don't see the issues outsiders see. In certain cultures, many women are the ones fighting for the right for FGM within their own culture. https://www.pri.org/stories/2014-07-02/why-do-these-women-kenya-support-female-genital-mutilation Also, In the US, if you so as mention banning male circumcision, you will be called out for anti-semitism. This…
/r/MensRights31/12/20 09:27 AM
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I DIDNT DENY IT, I said it happens. That is literally a quote from the article you sent saying there may be other factors. So what? Be celibate, not marry women, if one pushed don't marry them. You don't have to participate in marriage. More and more couple I know are chosing to not marry. You are also equating ALL education = more money. This is not true.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:27 PM
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You took a statement out of context!!!!! I said YOU advocate for keeping only men in power, if you take a quote use the whole thing. Obviously britain is not doing this. Obviously you are against it, so where is this contradictory. REPRESENTATIVEs Should REPRESENT the population.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:22 PM
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Although true, some women suck and are only look for a male to marry for financial gain. This article seems very speculative and even mentions possible other alternatives of why marriage is low. "It’s also possible that many people are now prioritising other things over getting married, such as education, starting a family, buying a house and going travelling. This could also be a reason for the rising average age of marriage." Along with other possible explainations such as the cost of marriage…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:18 PM
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But when you are shown facts, "it is biased" Fact denier. Worse than fems who deny suicide male statistics saying it is biased.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:11 PM
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Your definition of feminism. I don't think femenazis are feminists. How is 50/50 in parliament not fair if they represent 50% of the population? Because it takes away from a man's position is your logic. How is equal rights for parents not fair? Men shouldn't be disregarded at fathers when It benefits the child to be in their life. How is #believeallvictims fair to the very few that are being falsly accused? Or the opposing instantly siding WITH the accused instead of victim? Both narratives suc…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:10 PM
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No logic with you, even for a win for male equality. Read the article, they found contradictory information that men were being paid less. The class action lawyer was dissappointed. Paying people as little as possible does not count for top companies of which the elite group get to work for. Those companies value their employees, not milk them dry like the rest of the middle class. The lawsuit will have it's due diligence and unearth if women are in fact getting paid less, or if the reverse is t…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:45 PM
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"Men still hold more than 66% of the seats in parliament despite a record number of women elected" Leaders should be 50/50 in my opinion since they represent half of the population...
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:37 PM
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Good argument on the school being majority women. That is very general though, just because they go to school doesn't mean it is worthwhile. Harvard has a 50/50 enrollment. That is fine though, 4 year degrees are overrated and lead to working at Starbucks anyways. Men will just go into trade for decent middle class jobs.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:32 PM
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Yes, when a majority of illiterate youth are girls, they will help this group. I don't know that they would do the same if roles were reversed. "Of the world’s 774 million illiterate adults, 2/3 are women" http://www.unesco.org/new/en/unesco/events/prizes-and-celebrations/celebrations/international-days/international-womens-day-2014/women-ed-facts-and-figure/ Even with the aid, girls still have less education in a world perspective. So again what's wrong with helping the specific group.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:26 PM
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You know nothing of anti women in Saudi and the middle east. You just attacked a group that is literally the example of law separating oppression against women. This is why I know you hate women. You don't care for men rights, conscription, you care about keeping the gender roles what they are now. You have no sympathy
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:09 PM
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And they hate men who oppose their concept of feminism, and men in power who have kept only men in power. But keep attacking feminism and more women (feminist and not) will dislike you.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:00 PM
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It can be zero sum sometimes yes, but that doesn't make it unequal. When women sued google for equal pay in a class action, they found thousands of men being underpaid compared to women in certain positions, this resulting in higher pay for the men. And back pay. How did MRAs help those men? They didn't, the law did. Men are not losing rights in the workplace, as the sex discrimination by law is regardless of sex. But you are likely speaking of Afirmative action. That is a fair argument and I'll…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 07:52 PM
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That isn't logical at all to make that conclusion. MRA terrorists like you and femenazis are the reason why people hate both. You both suck.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 07:41 PM
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So fucking what? Autism association helps fight for autistic people. Skin cancer fundraisers help people with skin cancer. St Jude's goal is to help children. Each group has helped a specific cause. Bashing on the for not helping a different group is the dumbest thing ever.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 07:03 PM
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Yes, so it is lost in your point of view. Just because the game is zero sum and you are in the losing side, doesn't make it less fair. They are not seeking overwhelming majority in positions. Just more inclusion in leadership. MRAs who fight feminism directly will be seen as nothing as women hating POS by everyone but the few that gather. That's reality. Change your motives to help men, DIRECTLY on their issues
/r/MensRights29/12/20 07:01 PM
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Saudi, a women was imprisoned under terrorism for advocating women have passports and can call people outside the country. Most recent example.. Conscription is a shit argument. Come up with something better.. I'll tell you why: It is not like you personally do this anyways so don't get so offended. Anyways, majority of military is volunteers even vietnam was 70% volunteers. Also, those same men fighting in recent wars, they won't be arguing about men's rights..... Vietnam there was some backlas…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 11:21 AM
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If one person gains a vote, an already opposing vote is lost, it is a 1:1 trade in that sense that still counts as zero sum. Overall, the group is larger so I get what you mean, a bit more complicated in populations I guess, maybe that is the fallacy at work in myself. I agreed to the men should be able to opt out before the third trimester. I said this in my last post. But you are giving information without solutions. As I said, the forced fatherhood is a bipartisan agreement it seems. What oth…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 09:01 AM
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She is fighting for real equality for women that have real oppression in her native country... This is real feminism, not the fake shit western women think they are fighting by progressing their own benefit. Crickets for men? What about Jamal khashoggi that was over the news... No sympathy? How about men who are imprisoned in war? Forget the draft that hasn't been around in decades.you wouldn't say that about them. I understand not supporting "modern feminism" in the US, but your lack of sympath…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:23 AM
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I see. I guess it still feels like women would be "losing" something though. Giving the father the right to opt out, they would directly be losing financial support. Although losing is just leveling the playing field. The baby daddy had the option of using a condom... That is their 18 year long mistake along with trusting someone like that, let's not forget that. Whenever a women will "lose" rights, no one will ever pass that in office. Seems like a bipartisan agreement. If anything democrats wi…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 08:11 AM
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But even so with having equality, how can an MRA local group or open discussion help equal rights? Really not much someone can do other than knowingly watch their own demise and complain about it to others. Corporations won't jump on that bandwagon, government won't (unless you know if any MRA lobbyists). I see a lot of being informed and not a lot of actions.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 07:13 AM
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Zero sum game is for the gain of one patty, it is a loss of the other.... Your explanation of her not losing any rights has no merit. If he gains rights to see his child, at the very least she loses her right to refuse visitation. She still loses. That is fair though..... That's how it should be, equal parental rights. Two examples: Eg. She has 80% custody him 20%. Now it is 50/50. One loses one gains custody. That is zero sum. She has rights, he doesn't, that means when/if he gets rights, she d…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 07:06 AM
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I have been convinced, feminism is ruining men. Yes it can be a zero sum game. Wouldn't you say the equal parent rights is a zero sum game too though? If men get equal rights for parenting, women lose out on their time? It would be fair though. Ironic, since women want to increase their % in good employment fields while decreasing the % of men in good employment. But they equity advantage too. So how does one protect their job? How to we get people on the MRA bandwagon?
/r/MensRights29/12/20 06:28 AM
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Also, by the looks of it, they are winning. I am seeing corporations jump on the equity bandwagon. I blame the lack of middle class decent jobs. I don't blame the women and minorities. There are simply too many qualified white males
/r/MensRights29/12/20 06:04 AM
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Yes appeal to emotion. Emotion divides. It is powerful. It will bias, it will make people not side with you.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 06:01 AM
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Well, this is a good argument. Many feminist call for equity and not equality. True, this meaning an advantage now to make up for historical inequalities. The younger white males get shafted for the older generation. What are we to do about it? How can we progress without being hated by half of the population?
/r/MensRights29/12/20 05:56 AM
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Fair point but I want MRAs to progress. I want our issues to matter. I want true equal treatment, but I don't see it happening if MRAs are stigmatized into anti-women group that no one will side by. I don't like affirmative action, I don't like that it is unfairly advantaging candidates that just don't have the skills, experience or education because the candidate pool has few to begin with. I sure as hell don't like the lack of quality jobs out there for educated people and I truly believe that…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 05:52 AM
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You didn't read my #1 and #2 arguments. Some feminists are fighting for basic human rights. It doesn't make the MRA image better Neither what you said is an argument to those two. Women do have it worse in some situations and men have it worse in some situations. People are soft about the rape and harassment issues and being taken advantage of by some category of men. I thought men's rights existed to shine a light on male issues, not to overthrow the whole concept of feminism?
/r/MensRights29/12/20 05:35 AM
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You see, then you go into argument #2 in your case. 2 it doesn't help the MRA image. Neither does calling out affirmative action. It just makes you look sexist, racist, and digresses the situation. How can we put an end to unfair practices that puts white men at a disadvantage? Do you think the government will ever demolish affirmative action? If we teach each other to go into female dominated fields such as nursing, and shine a light on how it is unfair that male teachers are seen as predators,…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 05:30 AM
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MRA is just anti-women. See how it works? To feminists: feminism=equality To MRA: MRA=equality Fake feminism = seeking unfair avantage for women, keeping unfair laws against men Fake MRA = doesn't care about men's rights but only for keeping women quiet and in their place My goal = help the image of MRAs Were on the same side.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 05:17 AM
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See #1. A Saudi women was imprisoned for trying to advocate women rights to have a passport and make calls outside the country. She is a Feminist. I won't digress into your reply, because #2 is still valid, anti-feminism is a bad image and instantly lures people away. You ignored both of my arguments and spouted what you wanted to say about feminism being bad. Fake feminism is seeking unfair priority due to being a female. Real feminism is fighting for equality of rights.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 05:13 AM
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Please stop generalizing ALL feminism. In other countries women are fighting for equal rights as men (driving, having a passport, being allowed to go to school) and they are they are the real feminists. Yes, 90% of the US feminists are fighting to gain control and power or destroy men, but we need to stand in solidarity with real feminism. Fakefeminist needs to be a thing and they need to be called on it, we should reserve feminism for those who want real progress, as in equal rights" for women.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 04:27 AM
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Yes because "it's ok to be white" wasn't viewed as a covert racist slogan.. If you want to be viewed as the neo-nazis of gender rights, that is fine. You see nothing wrong with it, I'm simply lending a hand to help while you get trampled by the herd. Don't listen to me, that's fine too.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 02:48 AM
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The history doesn't change the fact that she was arrested on terrorism charges for advocating for women's rights. Those charges are based on today's loosely interpreted laws. Although the history makes sense, I feel it doesn't contribute to this topic, nor Is unrelated to the person whom you responded to. Seems like you are saying they will have their rights rapidly but I don't see this happening, especially since women driving ban was just lifted.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 02:17 AM
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Fair enough, but there is a way to play the game. Anti fem is not the way to play since many many many people who equate feminism = equality. However, pointing out things that are clearly sexist that some feminists say in a way done properly and you will gain support.
/r/MensRights29/12/20 01:51 AM
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For example look at this article. https://www.fatherly.com/news/paternity-leave-fired-disney-lawsuit-federal-ruling/ Title 7 doesn't protect males in this situation. It needs to change. It won't change if we say, fucking feminists want more power. It has potential to change if we say, "men are further pushed into the stereotype of working and not caring for their children, meaning women will have to step up causing further gender inequalities." Otherwise if you go against feminism, you automatic…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 01:36 AM
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100% I agree expose bills that are unfair that were written decades ago. Nothing wrong with that. And if a new bill has a rider that has unequal rights for men, expose it too. Nothing wrong with that. Attacking femenism in general and having that mindset will only make you look anti progressive though and basically be viewed as the neo-nazis of the country who often advocate for rights that are being taken away from the white people. No one will join that bandwagon on a large scale though, you m…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 01:21 AM
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You are too stubborn arnt you? This is not something you will win in the real life. Even if you win an argument, you are losing but you don't even know it. If you want to push your professional associates and friends away, by all means keep doing what you are doing. Yes incel, creep, rapist are offensive, but avoiding women will only fit you in that category in their point of view (doesn't matter if you want to be voluntarily celibate). Is it right? No but that is the situation. Yes some women y…
/r/MensRights29/12/20 12:45 AM
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Yeah very true. Crawling into the life of the internet will make those real life issues seem larger than they are. I think you convinced me to cut my Internet use.
/r/MensRights28/12/20 11:42 PM
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This subreddit is toxic. It will make you think you will be accused or are viewed as a rapist by 99% of women you meet and how to avoid them. This said, r/menslib is a better subreddit but they severely mod anything that may seem like it is against feminism or may seem biased against women so you don't get all of the issues. Know this. The further you distance yourself from women, the more you become what you don't want to be viewed as (rapist, creep, incel). Just watch what you say around women…
/r/MensRights28/12/20 11:16 PM
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This is real feminism, countries where people are fighting for equal rights, not better rights and to advantage their own position. Posted on a fem board, crickets. Red pill me please. I stand by people like Loujain, striving for actual equality and basic human rights. Down vote me if you want.
/r/MensRights28/12/20 10:59 PM
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Not really the reason why in most situations. Life threatening jobs don't really pay more for example infantry or loggers. I think it just has to do with supply and demand and where women choose to educate themselves vs men. Nursing is a majority female field that pays well but it is one of the few. Men have many specialized technical skills such as electricians and plumbers that pay just as much as nurses. Not to include tech fields that are imperative to today's economy. I think men have been …
/r/MensRights25/12/20 12:31 PM
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I know why. It is because female dominated fields pay less.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 12:14 PM
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I feel like it is best to not have a voice when women want to speak about their own rights, unfortunately. Let's face it, in a conversation they don't really ask you anyways, and if you say no comment, you can state you don't want to bring up a male perspective and male bias. The pay gap is a tricky subject. We know per exact position, pay is fair, it is overall that the pay is not. On average, women in ALL fields get paid less than men in ALL fields. Does that mean male dominated fields deserve…
/r/MensRights25/12/20 11:53 AM
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I don't think you are understanding me dude. Women are more likely to be sexually assaulted by someone they know. FACT I got this . When comparing men and women in regards ONLY to violence from strangers, men are more likely to be attacked by strangers and women are more likely (than men) to be sexually assaulted. Is that sentence better for you to understand.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 10:22 AM
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CONTEXT and you erased the early part of my sentence. I'm not arguing over semantics and my somewhat poor grammer when it is clear I'm talking about strangers only. Men are more likely to be physically assaulted by a stranger but women are more likely to be sexual assaulted by a stranger.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 09:10 AM
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Yes they are both cancer, But if I'm advocating for a specific one at that moment, why would I bring up the other one? At a skin cancer event/fundraiser, no one is going there to hear about lung cancer and if someone brings up awareness of lung cancer and tries to steal the show, they would just look like a dick wouldn't they? If you look up hodkings lymphoma on cancer.com, it MENTIONS NOTHING about non- hodgekins lymphoma. It simply focuses on what you came there to see.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 08:59 AM
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The facts are this: OP posted an opinion piece sourced from a random blogger without a name. This blogger is essentially saying that when women's issues are brought up, they ignore men's issues. I say: when women want to advocate for THEIR issues, let them. And this bloggers post is propaganda and is not helping the visuals of MRAs, nor is helping MRAs achieve any sort of actual progress. You disagree and bring up facts on male victims and say my comments are clear but do not correlate to the co…
/r/MensRights25/12/20 08:55 AM
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Keep commenting. Open your eyes and you will see, if you want to advocate for men's rights such as violence and murder, autonomy, you will stop shitting on women when they want to advocate for their own causes. MRAs are not taken seriously because of pieces of shit like you and the blogger who likes shitting on feminists. Millions are dying due to starvation, why isn't this the focus of all topics since this affects more people if you want that mindset. Face it, you don't give a shit about men's…
/r/MensRights25/12/20 08:07 AM
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That's exactly it. On male topics, don't bring up women shit either. That's exactly what I'm saying. IF YOU WANT TO BRING UP MALE PROBLEMS, fine. But that's not what the blogger is doing. They are literally just shitting on when women's rights issues are brought up. When women bring shit up, he is saying "well what about men?" In many of their points, or well don't bring up other statistics.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 08:02 AM
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Yes, if I want to focus on lung cancer, I don't want to bring up skin cancer, a different topic. How does that not make sense?
/r/MensRights25/12/20 07:56 AM
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Dude I brought up random attacks. I literally said men are more likely to be RANDOMLY attacked BUT women are more likely to be randomly sexually assaulted. That is when comparing to men and women and RANDOM ATTACKS. Read my shit dipshit. Fuck off and stay focused on the reason why is said this, and that was women are sexually assaulted because they are women.. Your a fucking idiot who can't read.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 07:54 AM
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Plus you are putting aside the point of my argument. The bloggers post said something about making women feel like they are being attacked because they are women. Yes, when they are sexually assaulted it is because they are a women..... That's all I was saying. You took it to male violence which is not the same as sexual abuse. Two different topics.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 05:58 AM
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Not to mention, women do suffer violence because of their gender. Men are more likely for random violent attacks by a stranger but women are more likely to be randomly sexually assaulted by a stranger. How the fuck is that not a gendered issue. A perpetrator will more likely rape/sexually assault a women than a man, because she is a woman.....
/r/MensRights25/12/20 05:20 AM
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And who the fuck is this random blogger who doesn't even have their name on the article? Regardless the point for some of them is the same point for BLM and when people say All lives matter. If your neighbor's house burning down, you don't come up to him and say well my house matters too. Yes you house matters but that is not what we are focusing on now. If women are letting it known that women are being abused, why bring up males? Same thing, if we want to focus on male abuse, why bring up wome…
/r/MensRights25/12/20 05:08 AM
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This is from a "MRA" instagram. It doesn't say that these are common practices. This is propaganda used to piss off men for and it has no valid claim from what I can see. Get this shit off of here... Biased fictional crap like this is hurting men's rights.
/r/MensRights25/12/20 04:36 AM
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I believe you, it's just a man has to worry he will go to jail as well. Men have worry about being imprisoned for crap they are doing and things they didn't do, in my opinion. But also I'm thinking of the US.
/r/MensRights04/12/20 10:15 PM
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Then they will call this fraud and put them in jail.
/r/MensRights04/12/20 09:28 PM
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I am not sure about this exactly but you are likely correct. What I do know is a specific situation. A girl I know TOLD him it was NOT his, she told him he didn't have to sign it, he knowingly signed it. In this case, he took responsibility of this child as his father. For all legal purposes, he signed him as his own. This was his fault, and this too does happen because the guy is blinded by the girl to realize the issue. Is it right? I think they need to know the long term issues with signing f…
/r/MensRights04/12/20 09:11 PM
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I'd think you fit in better with men's rights because you, a man/boy, are traditionally viewed to behave and act a certain way in this society, of which you do not fit in. Men's rights teaches the population that men are not all the same, are not toxic as portrayed, and have their own issues. This one guy isn't a representation of all cis men rights group, just like some men hating femenists do not represent all women rights. He may just have been insecure and lashed out at you, as many people w…
/r/MensRights04/12/20 08:59 PM
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Is there a replacement that can be used for the draft for developed countries? It has been decades since a draft occured. I mean it's a great powerful example but it doesn't apply right now and likely won't in the future as most will volunteer.
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