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19

Shoot yer jizz and out you is.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:20 PM
129

Not an exhaustive list, but here are some that are generally accepted within TRP: High N count and/or serial monogamy Poor or non-existent relationship with her father/paternal figure Substance abuse issues/addictive personality Maintains contact with ex's Self-victimization Social circle full of "party girl" types (sluts of a feather flock together) High sense of entitlement Staunch feminist
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 03:09 PM
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Beware the Alpha Widow, boys. Perfect example of the importance of vetting out a potential LTR before you commit. Dollars to doughnuts this broad displayed enough red flags to make VI Lenin sport a hard-on but her doting White Knight failed to perform his due diligence. Sadly he won't realize his mistake until much, much too late.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 02:22 PM
1

Nice. I'm in commercial construction. We should do lunch! haha ​ Seriously though, we build all over the country. Drop me a DM if you're interested in swapping info.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 05:36 PM
3

Sidebar. Read it.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 01:45 PM
59

"Sounds good. We can have a pajama party and I'll give you a facial"
/r/askTRP30/06/17 06:19 PM
2

what else is there to do? The world is your oyster, man, or at least it will be when you're finished with med school/residency. The older I get, the more hobbies I find that I wish I had the time and resources to pursue. I'm sure you'll come to a similar crossroads but with the added benefit of having the money and access due to your profession to be able to pursue them to the max. No one can tell you what hobbies you'll enjoy, but here are a few of mine (some of which I do and some of which I a…
/r/askTRP16/05/17 08:59 PM
2

If this is becoming a pattern with multiple plates then it's probably not your text game, but your "real game" ie something you're doing or not doing when you are hanging out with them that causes them to lose attraction. If it's an isolated event and only happening with the one girl from your post, then it could be for a multitude of reasons - maybe she found a higher SMV man, maybe her dog died, maybe her herpes are flaring up, maybe she got involved in a LTR... Doesn't matter because she is a…
/r/askTRP07/04/17 05:13 PM
4

Ironic that he posts a conspiracy theory in a thread about cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 04:25 PM
6

When you're ready to hang out with her again, shoot her a text saying something similar to "no, you're good. Was just busy. Come over and let's hang." Escalate and act like nothing happened. If she declines sex, refer to previous post.
/r/askTRP31/03/17 05:40 PM
6

Several things are amiss here. I'll start with the obvious... its been a steady decline in the amount of sex This is always a bad sign. You need to figure out why and do so without flat-out asking her. What have you done to cause her attraction to wane? Too much attention and/or you lost frame and she got a whiff of BB? Bad breath? She's getting attention from a higher SMV man? No clue from your post but rest assured there's something you have or haven't done. start watching good ol Netflix we g…
/r/askTRP31/03/17 05:16 PM
6

I agree. I've also seen some post-kid tits that were ravaged from breast feeding and would definitely benefit from at least a mastopexy (breast lift).
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 01:23 PM
1

There are, but they are exceedingly rare. However, that's beside the point. Your life's mission should never be centered around a woman/women or the desire for a relationship. You can only be open to the idea of one, not actively pursuing it and you shouldn't even be open to a relationship at your age and while in college. Right now you need to focus on school so that you can invest in your future. Besides that, have fun living the college life and develop your identity as a masculine male. Stud…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:41 PM
10

If a man can learn to be like a natural alpha, it undermines their assessment ability. Which is analogous to make-up, push-up bras, Spanx, Instagram filters, etc that women employ to do the exact same thing to undermine men's ability to assess a woman's genetic fitness, but I doubt any Red Pill detractor would acknowledge that little inconvenient truth.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:24 PM
14

Similar to Freud's Id, Ego and Super-ego. The Id is all your instinctual needs and desires, the Super-ego is basically your conscience and the Ego is your ability to satisfy the Id while abiding by the rules your Super-ego has assimilated over the course of your development, acting as the mediator between the two. A blue piller is relying on his Super-ego to satisfy his Id, which is part of the reason they often are unsuccessful with women.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 10:25 PM
1

i.e., Every bitch on the planet.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:31 PM
1

I'd rather ask for forgiveness than ask for permission.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 02:59 PM
2

Get into skiing/snowboarding if you aren't already. Insanely fun and a great way to meet new people. Snow sports are a big part of Colorado culture.
/r/askTRP09/02/17 04:51 PM
37

I’ve seen a guy physically lose interest in me, the spark go out of his eyes. Gee, I wonder if it's because your photos aren't an actual representation of what you look like in real life. Can't count how many times that Tinder HB8 turns into a 5/6 that magically gained 30 lbs by the date.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 07:37 PM
0

Breathing exercises/meditation, less caffeine, yoga...
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 07:26 PM
15

"One bitch is too close to none."
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 11:01 AM
7

"My feelings are just slow"
/r/askTRP13/12/16 06:23 PM
4

plating =/= dating
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:22 PM
2

trust fund Find someone else Doubt that'll happen.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 07:37 PM
1

My vote, as others have said, is to apply dread. Twelve Levels of Dread
/r/askTRP06/12/16 05:53 PM
1

lol "little time"... I wish I had the free time now that I did when I was 16. Unless you attend some underfunded, inner city shit hole, I'm sure your school has a gym with at least free weights. Take advantage of it.
/r/askTRP10/11/16 09:07 PM
1

Why are you in an LTR at 24, especially with a slut like this? At your age you should be spinning plates, not entering into committed relationships with sub-par women. Drop this bitch, lift like your life depends on it, eat a shit ton of protein and healthy fats, work on your game/holding frame. As others have stated, no need for any conversation with this chick about ending the relatiobnship. Just block on all social media, delete number from phone, ignore any and all of her attempts to reach o…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 03:33 PM
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Yep. With buzzwords like "sex-positive" and "her exploration" it's easy to see this guy subscribes deeply to third wave feminism and the BP paradigm.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 12:24 PM
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our female ancestors cucked the betas of their times to ensure alpha genetics would be passed onto us. Thanks, Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Grandma, you hypergamous slutty cunt!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 11:37 PM
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I had a better idea of what masculinity means at the age of 8 than at the age of 18. Wow... that's a really good point and something I've never considered before you said it. More evidence of the BP wool pulled over the eyes during adolescensce. Probably not a coincidence that this occurs during that crucial time in an emerging man's life when it would better serve him to be exposed to full-throttle masculinity. Would you consider writing a full post on this? Would be interesting to hear you exp…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 11:09 PM
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Easy there, tough guy. I was offering some genuine advice. You expect me to believe that no man in the history of Athens, GA has ever hooked up unless they were a 6'8" tight end for UGA or Pi Kappa Alpha Brother? I've partied in Athens and it's no different than any other college party town. Own up to your situation and use it to your advantage. Blaming your shortcomings on your environment and avoiding agency is something women do. Georgia is a horrible place unless you're into black women This…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 11:54 AM
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Sounds like you need to work on your game. I live in Atlanta and have no problem pulling new talent and very rarely will I consider a black girl.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 12:44 AM
3

Please note that I'm not looking for "distance relationships are a waste of time" advice If you've lurked TRP for more than 30 seconds then you know that statement won't deter any of us from denouncing LDR's. And furthermore, if anyone gives you the advice you're asking for, then their advice isn't worth shit because they subscribe to the belief that LDR's are legitimate relationships and are viable as such. They aren't. I discovered TRP while knee deep in an LDR (which I ended shortly after) an…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:46 PM
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So are you asking how to plate her? If so, that isn't hard nexting. Your next steps are to continue to go NC, block her from all social media, avoid places you know she frequents to "accidentally" run into her, etc. GFTOW and forget about her.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:27 PM
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Don't get married; don't argue with women; don't contact your exes This is a mantra all RP men should chant every morning.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 08:45 PM
1

"Actually, I thought we'd play patty cake and quote bible verses."
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:13 PM
6

This would make OP look butthurt. Dread is best practiced subtlely.
/r/askTRP15/04/16 10:08 PM
5

Go monk mode while you get braces and work on other aspects that need improving if you think you'd be too self-conscious to game girls. Are you medically not a candidate for Invasalign or will your insurance not cover it?
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:57 PM
1

Maybe give us some more context as to what kind of girl she is. N-count? Age? Daddy issues? Stable home life? Serial monogamist or CC rider? Party girl or responsible homebody? etc... You could always go through her phone to see if there's any direct evidence but assessing her promiscuity is probably where you should start.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:54 PM
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if she ends up actually being pregnant I definitely need to know. Assuming she tells the truth. If she does end up pregnant, don't sign the birth certificate until paternity test confirms it is yours. If she balks at this, just say you assumed you were both seeing other people. This may get her to offer some trickle truth.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:38 PM
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I treat it as a shit-test and just A&A, especially if it's a text: "Yes. Furious. So mad I can't see straight. I need a warm bubble bath and a glass of Merlot before I positively explode with anger." Amused mastery is always my go-to.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 01:23 PM
1

false negative ... with late developing symptoms or my gf cheated on my recently (fitting with the 1-3 week shit) I think you have your answer.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:39 PM
2

I'm disappointed the world isn't better That's because you've been told a blue pill lie your entire life. What you're really disappointed in is that the real world doesn't live up to that lie.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 07:23 PM
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One poster gets close: It sounds to me like the issue could be more than maybe that he isn't 'manly', it's that he has nothing in his life outside of you. That kind of dependency isn't attractive at all. I get the feeling it has a lot to do with wanting him to show initiative/take the lead in areas of his own life and your relationship. But then drops the ball: Encourage him to seek out his own hobbies, make his own friends. You clearly care about him. Just tell him honestly that it isn't attrac…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 04:00 PM
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Jesus Christ, this cunt's story is eerily similar to how my ex trapped me. Couldn't even finish the video because my face was starting to swell with blood in rage. At least I have joint custody and actually get to see my son.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 11:28 PM
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I usually don't and just move on to the next catch. Tinder is a numbers game, ie fishing with a net versus fishing pole. You just keep reeling them in until you land a girl who is so interested that she will make meeting you a priority.
/r/askTRP05/04/16 04:02 PM
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she sent me a message threatening me that if I didn't meet with her then she would tell everything to my girlfriend Dollars to donuts she's bluffing. When I was still married to my ex, I had an affair with her best friend. When the affair ended (dramatically and poorly), she threatened to confess everything to my then-wife as a means of revenge. I called her bluff and of course she never said a word. Women care a great deal about their social standing. It's unlikely that this chick would purpose…
/r/askTRP05/04/16 03:43 PM
1

Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 05:26 PM
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How about you be our control? Go marry a chick with a 100 partner n-count and let us know how it turns out.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 11:19 PM
1

No need to apologize. Just keep holding frame, applying dread, punish bad behavior/reward good, and above all, maintain the ability to walk away at a moments notice and you're golden.
/r/askTRP02/04/16 12:24 AM
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What are you really asking here? You know this chick is throwing up too many red flags for LTR consideration, so she gets plate status and you continue on your mission and game other women.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:44 PM
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A mission that he puts before everything else, especially women.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:39 PM
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Sounds like you are already appropriately dealing with it by holding frame. Maybe you just wanted to humblebrag a bit? If the shit tests become too frequent or more than you want to put up with, you next. Easy as that.
/r/askTRP01/04/16 11:37 PM
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So the kids can grow up and think your model of a miserable relationship is a healthy one, thus continuing the cycle? Great advice.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:20 PM
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I kind of like it when a girl rides my face and slaps my dick but that's as far as I'll go.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 12:24 PM
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10 is probably what she tells guys when they ask her n-count. This slag's taken miles of cock.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 12:54 AM
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50% of pregnancies are unplanned That honestly seems like too low of a figure to me. I would've assumed 75-80%, which is probably more accurate if you adjust for "unplanned by the father."
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 07:05 PM
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The beauty of the A&A is that it disarms the shit test by acknowledging it but not entertaining it. Remember, women pick up on social cues better than men (especially unplugged/BP men) so when you successfully pull A&A off, all she knows is "he saw my attack coming and blocked it like a kung-fu master without so much as breaking a sweat" which reaffirms your dominance and puts her at ease.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:05 PM
1

Exactly. Which is why I said "they should be worn every time"...
/r/askTRP29/03/16 07:35 PM
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Even if she agrees to those terms you will never really know who slept where. This chick sounds like a loser and at your age, you should avoid LTR's and be plating as many as you can anyway.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:56 PM
1

Hate to break it to you guys, but condoms don't provide 100% protection from all STD's, especially since they don't cover 100% of your genitals that come into contact with your partner's and their secretions. Obviously they greatly reduce your odds and they should be worn every time but don't fool yourself into believing that they make you immune from getting VD. If you are sexually active, you will more than likely contract at least one infection over the course of your life.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:43 PM
1

If you're getting the response you want from pressure flips, then use what works for you. However, it's always good to have more than one weapon on your arsenal.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:37 PM
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It's failing for you because you have no frame. You have to embody that cocky-but-charming, arrogant-but-lovable asshole persona, which will probably be difficult for you because your LTR is used to you being a pushover beta. A&A is Shit-Test Passing 101... Like /u/Archwinger said, brush up on the sidebar and focus on "mastering" amused mastery.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:25 PM
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Sounds like you're doing it right. It's necessary to build a little rapport with a girl through texting and since it's your target age range's main modality of communication, knowing how to do so effectively and efficiently is crucial. The main reasons TRP says to keep texting to logistics is so you 1) don't say something stupid and ruin your game, 2) avoid fueling her validation machine, and 3) keeps an air of mystery around you which will generate them tingles. Adhere to the 2:1 rule and limit…
/r/askTRP22/03/16 01:43 PM
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Happy to be part of the 20-30%.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 09:37 PM
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The reason a dog will rummage around in the garbage if you let them, is that they don't differentiate between "good" or "bad" smells. All strong smells are simply interesting. Their noses are drawn to smells that are of interest too them. Same thing with emotions for women. They are drawn to the range of emotions. Regardless of whether they're "good or bad". The mere excitement of being emotionally fulfilled is good enough for them. Not sure who dropped this gem, but I saved it when I first foun…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 09:25 PM
1

I moonlighted in the bar/nightclub scene for six years when I lived in Las Vegas. Some pointers: -First and foremost, HUSTLE. I mean that in the literal sense. Work your ass off, do your job well and efficiently. Get your prep work done before asked to do so by the bartender/managers, keep the liquor/glasses/ice/mixers/condiments, etc stocked at all times. Live by the ethos "if you have time to lean, you have time to clean." A clean bar is a happy bar. -Learn the drinks. Since you're 18 I assume…
/r/askTRP04/03/16 08:26 PM
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forget relationships and just plate. OP, you should seriously consider this. Your post is part of the reason we say an LTR is the red pill on "hard mode."
/r/askTRP04/03/16 08:14 PM
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I've always wondered why you don't have flair or post in the main sub. I'm shocked to hear you were banned, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:55 AM
3

Also known as the "sunk cost fallacy." It's the same as gamblers who throw good money at a losing bet in order to recoup what they've lost, except in your scenario replace money with your time. A successful gambler knows when to cut his losses. A successful man who values his time knows when you cut bait in a failing LTR.
/r/askTRP02/03/16 08:20 PM
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I wanted to protect that beautiful precious dream of a life that I still believed was as a fragile as a crystal sculpture. When you remove pussy from the pedestal, you replace it with your own life. Great post, OP.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:52 PM
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Don't stick your dick in white trash. Everything about this video screams trailer park.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:32 PM
1

Yep. And just to clarify, what I meant was that spinning plates (low quality women from an LTR perspective) is the only logical alternative to an LTR with one high quality woman, since they are few and and far in between. So can I get fries with that?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 06:16 PM
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You end up resenting her after a while, and there's nothing you can do that will prevent that from happening. That old adage "no matter how hot she is, some other guy is sick of her shit."
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 05:33 PM
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We live in a low quality female world So true. And the only way to offset low quality is to yield high quantity, ie abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 05:28 PM
1

Do you lift? Exercise is the best form of stress relief. Won't directly fix your problems but it can give you the clarity and confidence you need to do so. Also, look into guided imagery. Goes hand in hand with meditation and breathing exercises. Good luck.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 09:22 PM
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I'll keep this rather short. Yesterday I was banging a plate, and she asked if I was fucking other chicks and how many, I started counting on both hands and she laughed. Then we went round two, she came hard, she suggested a threesome (the good kind MFF). End of FR. This part was good. Beginning of question: The only girl who I know would be down for that threesome is an ex plate of mine (a girl I lost my virginity to), but we had a bit of a fallout because I got sentimental (read: clingy) ... T…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 09:11 PM
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The thing is she already bought the tickets Demote to LDP unless your oneitis prevents this, which I'm thinking it probably will. If so, break if off clean and don't look back.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:02 PM
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Treat it as a shit test, A&A: Her: "How old are you?" You: "78. I have that Benjamin Button disease" Or pressure flip: "That's a little personal, isn't it? What's your bra size?"
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:57 PM
5

One more reason to stay the fuck off FB.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 05:54 PM
1

When they say they want a nice guy, they are picturing it coming from a handsome, tall, good looking, social proofed man. Exactly. OP is conflating a "nice guy" with a NiceGuyTM
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:11 PM
1

23-year-old Krystal Harvey Her name is "Krystal." That's all you need to know what kind of woman this is.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 07:09 PM
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abdada did give me his advice on this particular situation And then you said "but but but, this is the only girl I can fuck." The epitome of scarcity mentality. You threw u/abdada's advice out the window because you think your situation is unique. It isn't. You're only pissed at me because I used offensive words. Good. I meant to offend you. Your question, like 95% of the other shit posted on here, can be answered by reading and (more importantly) internalizing the sidebar. You may not think I g…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 09:00 PM
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Ok, hard lesson time. It's a pet peeve of mine when people ask for advice on this sub and then have the gall to reject it, especially from a seasoned vet like u/abdada. This is "ask the red pill" so when you are thrown a bone, you fucking take it. The advice you were given isn't what you wanted to hear so you tried to explain how you're a special snowflake and you wanted your scarcity mentality validated... That's not how it works around here. No one on this sub who's worth a shit is going to te…
/r/askTRP21/01/16 08:04 PM
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I like this idea. Be a great way to keep hypergamy in check now that slut shaming and at-fault divorces are ancient history.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 07:18 PM
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Read the sidebar, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 01:03 PM
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By spinning plates, the cure for scarcity mentality. I could be wrong but it sounds like you have some work to do beforehand - sidebar, lift, and possibly monk mode. Also, avoid women careening towards The Wall.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 07:01 PM
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OP skips leg day. That's enough for me to not listen to a damn thing he says.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/16 09:01 PM
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orbiters I don't really consider having orbiters a red flag (unless there are dozens). Every bitch on the planet has at least one. It's like saying having her period is a red flag... Then again I don't do LTR's.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 07:25 PM
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other than her backing down is immediately met with me ejecting in silence? Had a recent situation like this with my youngest plate. She was starting an argument because she felt like she wasn't getting enough of my time and was pissed when I neglected to make plans to see her a few nights prior. This is how it played out (via text): Me: I'll hit you up tonight when I get out of work/home from gym. Her: Will you actually this time? Me: Not if you have an attitude. Her: That's not an attitude, I …
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 05:43 PM
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When they were given to you, you were too young to make your own judgements. A little off topic, but Richard Dawkins (biologist and author of The Selfish Gene for those who don't know) considers indoctrinating youth with religion as a form of child abuse. I think the same can be said for blue pill indoctrination.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:26 PM
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You are dropping some nuclear DGAF here, and it has to be upbeat to really make the legend travel well. I like this advice. OP, if you go this route, make sure you maintain frame/amused mastery. If you act butthurt, it'll have the opposite effect and blow up in your face. Your only other options, as already mentioned in this thread, are to demote to plate or next.
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:49 PM
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Do you have to access this through your carrier?
/r/TheRedPill15/12/15 01:07 AM
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Not a fair comparison. There's no benefit to the indiscriminate strangling of puppies whereas a woman can benefit greatly from divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/15 06:02 PM
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This. 90% of the women I regularly see at the gym who aren't on treadmills or in the group exercise room rarely work anything other than their lower bodies. Their goal is to post ass selfies on instagram with some hashtag referencing squatting. They are the female equivalent of curl-bros.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/15 07:07 PM
2

How did she find out your true age? Did she ask? Did you offer this information? Her asking is a (subtle) shit test. This is where a little mystery can do wonders. Unless you're using a dating app where your age is known, keep her in the dark: Her: "So you look young... How old are you?" You: "78. I have that Benjamin Button disease" Or pressure flip: "That's a little personal, isn't it? What's your bra size?"
/r/askTRP10/12/15 06:08 PM
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I think Xemnas meant in the context of men and women in relationships. As in women who are in an LTR have a greater chance of getting back with/cheating with an ex versus men who are in LTR's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/15 03:22 PM
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Key word in my comment: consensual
/r/askTRP02/12/15 02:32 PM
1

There's a pretty good discussion brewing in PPD, if you can stand to navigate that circlejerk.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 09:23 PM
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filming that shit, deep throating her, ass to mouth, cum on hair As long as these acts are consensual, this doesn't constitute abuse. He didn't suggest OP rape this girl for lying about being with another guy. He just said separate from any emotional investment and use her to gain new sexual experiences.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 09:02 PM
2

Little off topic, but a good read is The Tao of Pooh by Benjamin Hoff. It's basically an introduction to Taoism using the Pooh characters as allegorical vehicles and it's full of little gems akin to your comment.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/15 02:34 PM
1

You have a source for that? I fail to see how additional padding/head gear would translate to increased brain damage over the lack thereof.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 01:55 PM
18

Sounds like you swallowed that pill to me, brother.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:56 PM
4

Please tell me you banned that troll.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:49 PM
8

Faux-White Knight gaslighting. I love it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:35 PM
8

Her version of "we were in a rut" could mean he didn't respond to a text fast enough. Women make hamster mountains out of mole hills.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 06:23 PM
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The research actually indicates that while men have more cardiac events, women tend to die from heart disease more than men. The commonly held belief amongst medical professionals is that higher levels of estrogen in women cause their symptoms to present atypically (i.e. lethargy or feeling "off" versus the radiating chest discomfort typical of male patients) and they are less likely to seek immediate care, which can be life-saving in cardiac events. Source: background in cardiac rehab Edit: Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/15 12:02 AM
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Thought it sounded a little fishy when I heard it the first time, but it also sounded pretty clever. Thanks for clearing that up. I certainly won't offer it as advice moving forward.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 05:08 PM
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Also back in my beta days i learnt my then gf was still sleeping with her ex up to our 2nd date. So just be careful, she could be "forgetting" the exact timeline. This is your takeaway, OP. Seems a little too convenient she stopped sleeping with him magically two weeks before you met. My bet is that she's trickle-truthing you.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:06 PM
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Some advice I heard on this sub regarding lawyers and divorce: meet with every top-notch family law attorney in your city for the free consult. Then she won't be able to use their services due to conflict of interests.
/r/askTRP20/10/15 03:02 PM
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You're still in the anger phase. It passes and eventually you will come to understand that women are not to be despised, that they are human who make mistakes and act based upon their biological drive and social conditioning. It isn't even really women you are angry with, but how the wool has been pulled over your eyes for so long. You can still "love" and admire them but it has to be within the context of everything you learn here and above all, the willingness to walk away at a moment's notice…
/r/askTRP20/10/15 11:39 AM
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she could not find the text yesterday because her phone has been acting funny Riiiiight. Not only is she a liar but a bad liar. I would say demote to plate but it's obvious you have Oneitis for this chick... Hard next.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 05:51 PM
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Damn I miss those feelz Think of it more as a high than a feeling, because that's what it is. Your emotional state had been dependent on the dopamine/vasopressin response that occurs when you were in your LTR, ie "in love." Post breakup you were an addict jonesing for a fix and you couldn't score. What you long for now is to get high again. Much less romantic from this point of view and it helps get over the "I'll never fall in love again" phase. Also, to paraphrase Patrice O'neal's quote: the i…
/r/askTRP19/10/15 05:36 PM
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"Yo bro. How old are you? You look pretty old." "We can't all have baby faces like yours. Isn't it past your bedtime?"
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 11:53 PM
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I assume she's on suppressive therapy (ie valcyclovir/acyclovir) since she's known since she was 17. If this is the case, there's a chance you have not contracted it yourself as these anti-virals have been shown to reduce the risk of spreading the infection. Get a complete STD panel performed - your local health department will test for free if you don't have health insurance or otherwise can't afford to go to a doctor. I would abstain from sex (with her or anyone else) until you get the results…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:41 PM
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Don't feed the trolls, especially the weird trolls who only offer non sequitur. Not sure why the mods haven't banned this guy yet.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:45 PM
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I think he's trying to convey how women's solipsism paired with 3rd wave feminism allows them to defend their promiscuity in that they are behaving like men. Their argument is "I don't mind sleeping with you even though you've been with many women, so you shouldn't care about my slutty past." What they fail to realize is that a man views a woman's high partner count much in the same way she views weakness is men. Each gender is biologically programmed to have an aversion towards those traits, so…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 05:48 PM
3

Good point. Hamster gonna Hamst.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 08:46 PM
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Great post and I second that it should be included in the sidebar. Also, still blown away that she finally came around to your logic. The hamster must be asleep at the wheel.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 07:57 PM
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Examples that come to mind: Practicing and mastering a sport/martial art (same vein as working out) Learning a new skill (wood-working, programming, photography, working on cars, etc) Higher education, trade-schools, night classes, certifications etc Meditation Improving your diet/eating clean
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:35 PM
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Yes and yes. Usually, the ulterior motive is commitment.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 05:19 PM
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Speaking of experts on what women want, could you imagine dating a self-professed Romantic Advice Expert like this columnist? Christ. What a miserable excuse for a man she must attract.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 12:10 PM
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All that said, if you're initiating every time I'd reassess your romantic situation. This was my biggest takeaway from your post, OP. Google 12 levels of dread. Implement.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:29 PM
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Work your way up to bartender. Did that for years in Las Vegas and it's impossible to NOT get laid in that line of work.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:20 PM
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Supplement your macros with a mass gainer protein powder 3 x a day, the last one right before bed. Many can pack 600-800 cals/shake. Make sure you're not just sitting around on the couch though. Gotta lift or you will gain nothing but fat.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 07:17 PM
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Chicago, huh? Let's ask /u/abdada if he's banging any PT's at the moment...
/r/askTRP30/09/15 05:18 PM
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Your wit should be a rapier, not a sledgehammer. "Tell her I'm rich and, uh, I'm good-looking and, uh, I have a rapist wit!"
/r/askTRP30/09/15 04:49 PM
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It depends on what you're trying to get out of each relationship. For plates, you want to be engaging when you are with them but ration out pieces of yourself to foster mystery. Show them that being with you is a privilege. Fuck them well. The rest will fall into place as long as you don't develop Oneitis and revert to clingy behaviors, adopt scarcity mentality or fail to maintain frame. Same rules apply to an LTR, though they take a little more finesse. In an LTR, you have to balance Alpha and …
/r/askTRP28/09/15 09:03 PM
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I recommend something physical, ie a club/team or combative sport. Compliments your lifting and forces you to be in the moment - good for the body and mind. If you aren't that athletically gifted, maybe rock climbing or hiking. For non-physical past-times, try something creative. I dabble in acrylic painting and photography is next on my list (saving for a decent camera).
/r/askTRP28/09/15 07:40 PM
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People who contract STI's =/= trash Statistically speaking, if you've had more than one sexual partner in your life who wasn't virginal, there's a strong possibility you have had at least one STI without even knowing it. Condoms can't prevent everything. It's just one of those "gotta pay to play" scenarios. Protect yourself as much as you can and vet out the women you bed, but know that you can never be 100% safe-guarded from sexually transmitted infections if you engage in sexual activity.
/r/askTRP25/09/15 03:31 PM
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Then why are you hanging out with her at all? Seems like it would keep you from truly getting over her/your Oneitis. To each his own, but you know the old adage: Hang around a barbershop long enough and you're bound to get a haircut...
/r/askTRP24/09/15 07:01 PM
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And if you do it right OP, you won't even make it to the movie.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:19 PM
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What do I do when I become totally board on a weekend and say I have already read at that point and all my male friends are out drinking? Go to the gym. Also, if you're doing everything you say you plan to do in the paragraph above this quote, you won't have time to be bored.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 04:00 PM
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Dated a 9 for about 6 months when I lived in Las Vegas. She's a fitness model and an IFBB bikini pro although she made her real money as a cocktail waitress at a well established nightclub. She is by far the best looking girl I've ever fucked. I did just about EVERY beta move you can think of - fawned over her, jealous tendencies, bought her gifts, paid for most dates, said "I love you" first... basically gushed over her which, in my BP days, was what I thought it took to win over a girl. She ha…
/r/askTRP24/09/15 03:17 PM
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If teenagers and early 20-somethings truly had the weight of the world on their shoulders, we'd all be fucked... Try not to take yourself so seriously. Be thankful you have a forum such as this to navigate the SMP and that you found it at such a young age. I would have killed for that opportunity when I was 19.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:18 PM
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Is there an existential crisis involved in taking the pill Just a little cognitive dissonance now that you are seeing the world through a red lens and although it makes sense, it goes against everything you've been taught to accept when it comes to dating the opposite sex. It's normal. It will pass but you will not be able to see things the way you once did. And that's a good thing.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 02:16 PM
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Find a boxing gym and sign up for a group class. You'd be surprised how many attractive girls attend these things and you'll likely meet some interesting dudes as well. I generally wouldn't recommend taking the sport up for this reason, as improving yourself should be the impetus, but in this case you can kill two birds with one stone.
/r/askTRP24/09/15 01:41 PM
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There was a good thread posted by /u/blacwidonsfw that focused on rationing out information about yourself to help build mystery. Here's the link: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3m2xi1/rationing_myself_out/
/r/askTRP24/09/15 12:45 PM
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"I'm not used to not getting what I want" = gina tingling so hard it registers on the Richter scale.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 08:25 PM
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You'll probably get a better response in the AskScience sub than in here.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 06:49 PM
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Yes life is fucking hard and yes, you are probably being a bitch. Progress, by definition, occurs over an extended period of time. Progression is simply the manifestation of the hard work you put in over said period of time, and that is what improves your character. Stop looking for instant results and start improving yourself. If you had been doing this, you would have known the answer to your question. Now go to the gym and lift heavy shit.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 06:46 PM
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Dude. You're 20 years old. You literally have your entire adult life ahead of you. Shape and live your life the way you want to and be thankful you found the Manosphere at such a young age.
/r/askTRP23/09/15 04:36 PM
2

Hitler Youth Haircut. Great name for a Punk band.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 06:16 PM
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This. Even "single" girls have one or more of the following: orbiters/guy friends, sugar daddies, ex's they still talk to, etc... At the very least she's some Chad's plate. I get that you specifically asked if she has a dedicated boyfriend and by her response, she obviously does. One that she is willing to cheat on. OP, the question is are you going to let that get in the way of fucking her or not. The question you asked her is irrelevant.
/r/askTRP17/09/15 08:36 PM
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It's one of Rollo Tomassi's Iron Rules: http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/ OP, you can probably benefit from this blog if you haven't already.
/r/askTRP16/09/15 04:22 PM
1

Every chick on Tinder.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:54 PM
1

Read also: Oneitis
/r/askTRP15/09/15 08:03 PM
1

Really wish I could upvote this more than once. Excellent analogy.
/r/askTRP15/09/15 05:14 PM
2

I saved the following comment from a fellow TRPer that I think fits well here. It may not answer the fundamental question you seem to be asking from a societal standpoint, but it rings true for why RP men feel aversion towards women with high N counts. Unfortunately, I can't recall who posted it so forgive me for not citing sources: "Let me be clear about why I dislike promiscuous women. It is, indeed, because I am insecure. I am insecure about her past, and the ways in which it may negatively a…
/r/askTRP15/09/15 05:09 PM
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I'd guess older guys who find TRP are extremely annoyed they didn't find it when they were younger..Maybe it would've saved a break up or divorce Sometimes I find myself stuck in this thinking but I realize it is just the lingering effects of Oneitis and the last part of my blue pill self that I have yet to kill off. Abundance mentality helps immensely with this and is in my opinion, the single most important facet of RP strategy.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 02:26 PM
1

dancing lessons might be a bit tricky. My gf would be obviously pissed off Does the word "dread" mean nothing to you?
/r/askTRP09/09/15 08:03 PM
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This is exactly how my ex-wife conned me into getting her pregnant. Said she couldn't take birth control due to side effects but she knew when she was ovulating and when we had to "be careful." Learned later through a mutual friend she was trying to get pregnant the entire time. My fault for believing her but I thought with my little head much more than the big one back in those days.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 02:01 AM
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Oh it 100% had to do with me. My former BP self wasn't Captain Save-a-hoe, I was King Bring a Bitch In From The Storm
/r/askTRP04/09/15 10:46 PM
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Sounds like 90% of the women I've dated in the past. Not a coincidence...
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:33 PM
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Completely agree. With the advent of the internet/smart phones came instant gratification. It's human nature to never be satisfied so the action that produces that instant flurry of dopamine has to be perpetually repeated and often ramped up, similar to drug use. The result is a burned out husk of a psyche and the mind recoils in depression.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 06:21 PM
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How the fuck do people get depressed when the world is an amazing place. We take quite a bit for granted in modern society, especially in the Western world. I'm of the opinion that depression is born out of a lack of "real problems". Our paleolithic ancestors had to worry about basic survival every day and did not have the luxury to be depressed.
/r/askTRP04/09/15 05:54 PM
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it makes me feel bad because I feel like I'm not special. Like I'm just one of many guys that she's been with. I feel like I'm below these other guys because they got her first. It makes me feel bad about myself. There may be some hope for you yet. The reality is that you aren't special. She could very easily find someone better than you in every way. And truthfully, she eventually will because you display low value by placing her at the center of your life, pedestalizing her, and relying on her…
/r/askTRP03/09/15 06:39 PM
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Can I get my comb in grey? Want it to match my fedora.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 03:58 PM
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Don't feed the trolls.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:43 PM
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Think about how you will feel about it in 20 years. You won't care. You won't care about it in 2 years, OP. Probably much sooner than that. I speak from experience. One day you'll look back and laugh that it even upset you as much as it did and you'll be thankful she showed you her true colors/that she's AWALT and that you dodged a bullet. Continue improving yourself. Lift. Get that certification. Pour yourself into work and working out and working on other women.
/r/askTRP02/09/15 02:39 PM
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This seems like it should be common sense but I would venture that a lot of guys in this sub have never thought about it in this sense. It certainly resonates with me and explains literally every one of my previous oneitis situations. Insights like this offer closure and act as a safe-guard against future occurrences. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 11:59 PM
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Whenever I read your posts, it reminds me I still have much to learn and a long way to go. Props, man.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 08:56 PM
1

Fat/not in shape does not inherently mean beta. Just look at Patrice O'Neal. Also, remember that women view power as an attractive quality in a mate, even more so than physical beauty and it seems you are projecting here (men look for beauty in women so that's what they look for in a man, right?). As a manager, he comes from a position of power. If you orbit and he is the one fucking her, maybe you should re-asses who is the alpha in this situation.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 07:31 PM
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I just treated her as an equal Sounds more like you pedestalized her. The Oneitis has you, bro. Wake up.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 05:13 PM
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Feminism as a sexual strategy has effectively achieved what it set out to do - provide an optimal mating strategy for women that is supported (or at least not shamed) by society. Hypergamy dictates that a woman will seek out the best mate she can procure at both the genetic and provisional level (AF/BB). We see this in the wild as women ride the CC in their youth and settle with a Beta as they approach The Wall and society encouraging such behavior. A more sinister, though perhaps more primal, e…
/r/askTRP14/08/15 02:31 PM
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Either follow them or break it off. Never follow the girl. Instant loss of frame. You want her to chase you/move to where you are. If she won't, cut her loose.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 02:55 PM
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You sound more like someone still plugged in, Copper Top.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 02:32 PM
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There was a study that showed men and women naturally select colognes and perfumes that compliment/augment one's pheromones. I'll try to find a link. EDIT: http://phys.org/news/2013-01-women-perfumes-mimic-immune-cells.html
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:27 AM
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The other solution you speak of is to spin plates and maintain abundance mentality. Be the guy who reaps the rewards of a woman's hypergamy rather than be the chump that suffers from it.
/r/askTRP02/08/15 08:03 PM
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This. I spent some time reading through posts in exredpill and there are some desperate betas whose gerbils are running full bore trying to re-plug themselves in.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 03:28 PM
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