Atti1a Archive

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20	Good Tinder bios for guys When I was a kid girls used to hate it when I pulled their hair. Funny how things change.	/r/seduction	30/12/17 07:25 PM
22	How do you guys deal with the "how many girls have you slept with?" question ? "I prefer not to say, the reason being that when you tell someone how many people youve slept with, you immediately open yourself up to being judged; the number is always either too high or too low. So I will keep that to myself." I like this line because its insightful, and it instantly makes you interesting.	/r/seduction	10/01/16 08:33 PM
1	What are some books that have helped you on your journey to become more successful with women? I started with the Mystery Method. I feel this book is a good place to start, it very simply lays out the process and lays the foundation for the seduction process. I then read The Game by Neil Strauss, also good and entertaining. But the Bible when it comes to this topic is definitely The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. All the other books are childs play compared to this one, in my opinion. Robert Greene is a scholar who has studied the topic, rather than just had some success and wrote dow…	/r/seduction	28/02/14 11:30 AM
1	What are some books that have helped you on your journey to become more successful with women? I disagree with you completely. I was very much inept when it came to seducing women and so what I did was read a bunch of books on the topic. This, combined obviously with practice in the field has led me to be quite proficient in the art of seduction. And it took me only a year. Books can be helpful as they are a medium for knowledge. They give you a theoretical knowledge to then combine with practical knowledge gained in the field, leaving the reader with experience and eventually the reader …	/r/seduction	28/02/14 12:20 AM
1	Extremely short guy living in Holland :/ Dont sweat it bro. If you make it a problem, then it is a problem. Dont let that bring down your confidence. If your game is tight, then your height wont matter at all. Be confident. Be awesome	/r/seduction	27/02/14 12:15 PM
2	What are some books that have helped you on your journey to become more successful with women? Robert Greene is a beast. Modern day Machiavelli. The Art of Seduction revolutionized my game and gave me all the knowledge I needed to be proficient in this field	/r/seduction	27/02/14 12:11 PM
1	Going for a nerdy girl - effects Dude no, go for it. If you want to, if youre curious about this girl,take the chance. And be proud. She'll be grateful that are nice to her and who knows, she might be one of the coolest people you have ever met. Anything you do confidently will be view attractively by others. You have way more to gain than you do to lose, I say go for it	/r/seduction	26/02/14 12:19 AM
2	Help on hooking up with a friend (FWB) I was in a similar situation recently. What I did to take our relationship to the next level was I went for the bold move. I walked straight up to her, no hesitation, and I kissed her. Well. We are still banging to this day. And she takes it in the back door. Boyaa. Many might tell you "Oh well just tell her how you feel" bla bla. Let your actions deliver the message, rather than your words. By going in for a strong, confident kiss you are showing her that you are a man who knows what he wants a…	/r/seduction	20/02/14 01:37 AM
1	I'm afraid that girls will see "behind the facade" of my confidence and will see that I'm actually an insecure If you are good enough, most will not. But that fact that you have to have a facade is a problem which should be addressed. Isolate the source of your insecurities and then take steps to deal with them. Once this is accomplished, you will no longer need the mask and this fear will be eradicated. As a result, your game will be much stronger because it will be more genuine	/r/seduction	20/02/14 01:30 AM
1	What problems are common with higher levels of dating success? If you read Neil Strauss' book, The Game, he alludes very much to this. Now, I am not going to claim to be as successful as Style, but ive had significant success and I can agree with him to a certain degree. When you've gotten really good at this, the entire process turns very mechanical. All you think about is opening sets, getting numbers, different openers, sex, etc, and eventually you lose sight of what is really the goal. The goal, for me at least, was to feel more confident around women a…	/r/seduction	20/02/14 01:22 AM
2	when you just get any girls number in general, do you call first or text her Most people generally text first, its a little less direct and less intimidating to do. But I like the call, its a bold move. And chicks dig bold moves. Wait a day or two after getting her number, then call her. Say somethin simple and smooth. "Hey I had a good time with you the other night at ____, would you wanna get together for a drink sometime?" This shows the woman that you have courage, that you are a man who knows what he wants and is willing to go for it. Since most guys text first, you…	/r/seduction	20/02/14 01:11 AM
1	Girls respond with defensiveness, hostility, offense, and so on. Why? Something in your demeanor must be off-putting to these ladies, especially if this happens frequently. Most dudes when they make an approach, even if they get rejected, wont encounter constant aggression from the women they approach. Most women will at least give you the time of day if you do it right. Maybe you just seem like an asshole, making them feel the need to get defensive right away. I would re-assess your entire game plan, from your outer appearance, to the words you use, to the body l…	/r/seduction	19/02/14 02:53 PM
1	Looking for "College Party" gaming advice Getting super wasted generally doesnt breed good results, you need a sharp mind to be able to maneuver strategically. Have a few drinks to get the buzz going and loosen up, but dont get wasted if youre trying to pick up girls. Alot of guys start with the typical "so what are you majoring in" opener. They have heard that a million times. I like to start out with a genuine compliment, "hey I really like your shoes." or "wow thats a cool bracelet, where did you get it?" Then after the ice has been …	/r/seduction	19/02/14 02:25 PM
1	Will reading the Mystery Method help me in my goals? Rock on	/r/seduction	19/02/14 11:02 AM
1	How did I fall so far.. Sack up bro. Just do it. Practice, practice, practice. There is no shortcut. Start from scratch and work your way up. Dont try and be sometthing that youre not, because it will be seen and you will look foolish. And be ok with failure. Each time you fail, calibrate and the next time you should get further. Until eventually, you have the routine down. The more you do it, the better you get and the higher your confidence will be. Dont get down on yourself, dont sit and cry about it, dont feel bad.…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 11:24 PM
2	Problems regarding drinking. Max 3 drinks in the first hour to get your buzz going, then one drink per hour after that to maintain it. And maybe its best to consider giving up the drink all together. If you cant drink responsibly, you shouldnt drink at all	/r/seduction	18/02/14 11:19 PM
1	Terrible case of one-itis right now. In need of a good old fashioned backhand or, at least some advice. Thats a clusterfuck for sure. And most likely, since there is so much clusterfucking going on here, it wont end well. If I were you, I would just cut the ties right now. Tell her that youre sorry for getting invilved when she had a boyfriend and that you should just have the relationship of co-workers. This puts her in an interesting place. Now she has to choose, either stay with her long distance boyfriend, or break up with him and maybe continue exploring the relationship with you. If she pick…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 11:16 PM
2	Looking for feedback on being very direct with women (description inside) Ive done a few of these, and its pretty hit or miss. But generally women appreciate a mans boldness, so its not necessarily a bad move. No guarantees but you might as well go for it, you have nothing to lose. I might switch up the wording a bit though and say something a little less coarse. -"Hey Ive seen you around here a few times and youre a good dancer, would you wanna go get a drink after this?" Im a fan of such approaches, they are spontaneous and fun and many times women feel really happy…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 11:01 PM
-3	How do you game in a loud bar with no outside area? Gaming in a loud bar is almost impossible as I have found it. It become instantly uncomfortable when you approach a woman and then have to get all up in her grill and shout in her ear for her to barely hear you. My initial take on this is to just avoid those bars all together, or make sure that they have an outdoor area so that you can take the conversation there. Otherwise you could try a regular opener or approach and then in the middle of it, tell her how you dont like that they have the musi…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 10:53 PM
1	Need a little bit of help... I think that a call to her is more a bold move than a text. Just say "hey I had a good time chillin with you last weekend and it would be my pleasure to take you out to dinner and drinks on friday, what say you?" If she says no or has plans then I still think you could try one more time next weekend	/r/seduction	18/02/14 04:00 PM
2	What to do after a failed text game? Wait a while before you text her again, then just say whats up and see whats she's doin. Act like it was nothing, like you dont even remember texting her drunk, dont even bring it up. Most importantly, learn from your mistake young one	/r/seduction	18/02/14 03:53 PM
3	Looking for advice with a situation Well, she may be right in saying that she's not ready for this. And if thats how she feels, then you should definitely adhere to that. You dont wanna get involved with someone who has alot of baggage, after all you dont really know this girl yet. It may be smarter yo just let it go. But i understand, emotions are powerful. If you really care about this girl, tell her. Tell her that you want to take things seriously with her and that you are happy when you are with her. Than ask her what she want…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 03:50 PM
1	Will reading the Mystery Method help me in my goals? If you ever have any questions, just holla at me and I would be happy to help. I think this is fun as hell so keep the questions coming. Ive been where you are and so if i can help you, I will. I really do believe that anyone can learn to be smooth with women, regardless of appearance and money and all that. Once you learn to be smooth, the sex will come	/r/seduction	18/02/14 03:28 PM
1	Will reading the Mystery Method help me in my goals? Dude. As is life, when you put effort towards something, you will see results. I was never a cool dude, no girls wanted to be around me in highschool, first girlfriend came at age 20, (im 24 now). Never had much success with women and this was something that I wanted to change. So i read all this shit, watched the videos, practiced on the daily. And my dude, it works. Now I have a very solid "game", better than most I would say. Women enjoy being around me, I hang out with attractive women often…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 03:25 PM
3	Need some advice on keeping a convo going Dont seem interested, be interested. When she feels that you care about what she is saying then she will be more willing to continue the conversation. When you are talking to a girl, you want to be giving her your full attention. This may be where your problem lies, if she feels that you are not giving her full attention and arent really interested, she wont want to continue the conversation. Thereby making it more difficult for you to keep the convo going. Ask questions, stimulate her mentally,…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 03:13 PM
1	Will reading the Mystery Method help me in my goals? One thing I should mention. Many people feel, after reading pick up books like MM and getting into the seduction community, that there is a mechanical process to follow which will get a girl in bed with you. I was one of these. And although it may work, to a certain degree, I am of the opinion that such an approach really destroys the beauty and fun of being with women. Women are fun to be around, even if you wont end up sleeping with them. Dont get caught up int he "seduction process", focus mo…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 02:59 PM
1	Will reading the Mystery Method help me in my goals? I would start with the Mystery Method, its not a bad read. Its pretty short and entertaining and like i said, it explains the entire plot very simply and lays a foundation of basic understanding of the seduction process. Then, with that foundation, go on to read the Art of Seduction and really master the topic. I have watched some videos and I enjoy them because they deliver information quickly. But to really learn and understand the topics, I prefer to read. That way I am able to use my imagina…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 02:51 PM
1	Sticking point cold approach 10's. Sack up, just do it. The more you do it, the more you realize that you have nothing to be afraid of. Even if she smacks you in the face and says "fuck you you ugly piece of shit, dont ever even look at me again." you havent really lost anything. And most likely that is never going to happen. Most girls, if you approach with confidence, enjoy being talked to and will give you the time of day. The more you do this, the better you will become and the easier it will get. There is no secret or shortc…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 02:42 PM
2	She gave it up on the first date, but not since I agree with this dude , I would also advise to be careful not to get clingy or needy. That will kill any vibe that she had for you. Dont make yourself too available to her, dont hit her up every day asking her what she's doing or if she wants to hang out. Give her a few days break from texting her and let her miss you, let her notice that you may have lost interest. This will play on her insecurities and I would bet that she hits you up eventually and then will want to sspark your interest agai…	/r/seduction	18/02/14 02:35 PM
1	Will reading the Mystery Method help me in my goals? Mystery Method is a great book, in my opinion, to start with. It breaks down this process very simply and can be understood by the layman. However, there are much better books out there if you really want to increase your skills with women. The Game by Neil Strauss is a good pick up book. But in my opinion, the best book in this field is definitely The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene. After reading this book I not only understood how to seduce but why seduction works. This is the only book on …	/r/seduction	18/02/14 02:23 PM
1	How to qualify girls? What Ive found to work best is simply find something that you genuinely like about them, and then tell them. If you noticed a bracelet that she has on, say "Hey thats a really neat bracelet, where did you get it?" Now youre giving her a compliment and providing an opportunity for her to talk about it. "Hey I like your shoes, they look nice on you. Arent they difficult to walk in though?" A simple neg that I use all the time is to knock something that she likes. An example of such a conversation …	/r/seduction	18/02/14 01:19 PM