So I've gotten numbers from 10's in class and went on instant dates but fucked up by not escalating quick enough. So I know it's possible for me to pull but when it comes to the cold approach I immobilize. Twice now I've seen a very good looking girl out and just walked away because I couldn't muster the courage. I think I might be assuming they are higher value than myself and then become fear stricken. This is solely on the cold approach though. I already feel like I'm wanting something as soon as I see them and that value sucking would only come out the second I approached. How can I deal with this? Should I just pretend I don't want anything from them in my head and jus go approach. How have you guys handled this?