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Be bisexual
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 03:45 AM
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is because men being the president is the "default" To clarify, men being the President is not the default. The President being a man is. But besides that, let's look at the 2016 Democratic primary. It sure looks like Democrats were not voting primarily on gender lines, but rather ideological ones. And in the general election, we didn't see a vast realignment of Democratic men voting for Trump or Republican women voting for Clinton. Do male Democrats feel their interests are better represented b…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/21 07:23 PM
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The problem is that when people talk about "patriarchy" or (in the video) a "male-dominated society" is that the terms are horribly unclear. One way of understanding it is "males as a class dominate society." To that I think a very strong response is "males as a class" isn't a thing. They don't act like a hive mind, they're not colluding to help men they've never met. There's no team, and when a Republican man sees a male Democrat elected President, they're not thinking "Yes! One of us!" and vic…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/21 03:57 PM
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Obviously I'm not speaking for anyone else, but something I appreciate with him is that he won't get drawn into an argument where he disagrees with the premises or where the person's claims are too fuzzy to really engage with. It's really common for people to try to railroad through really big claims that aren't clear and of dubious truthfulness, and then just not actually get challenged on it. I like that he stands up against that. As an example of that kind of pattern people engage in (from my…
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/21 03:36 PM
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I get it if people like beyblade. Spinja ninja was the thing when I was coming up, but whatever. That said, stop bringing your beyblade to FLGSs. That shit is loud AF. Y'all are to sound what Magic is to smell.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/03/21 10:31 PM
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Yup. I wear the same thing for my Tuesday class as I wore for the Monday class. I just change out of it when I'm done teaching so I've only worn it for a few hours.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/10/17 11:42 AM
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But she lied under oath, perjury, falsified a police statement, defamation of character, and so many others that easily add up to MORE time and fines than what he is currently being ordered to serve/pay Except that there isn't enough evidence to bring a perjury charge.
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:55 PM
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Because you need actual evidence that she lied. Right now all they have is his word. Not enough to get a conviction on.
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:54 PM
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she lied in court which is illegal and a hell of lot shittier than breaking a radio You need proof beyond a reasonable doubt that she lied. The court saying it doesn't believe her enough to sustain a conviction doesn't mean there's strong enough evidence that she's lying.
/r/MensRights16/09/17 12:53 PM
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It doesn't necessarily show your true colors though because choosing to hold your tongue is also an important part of someone's personality. Sober me prefers to not make a scene and keep things from getting awkward for everyone. Drunk me forgets to consider stuff like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/17 09:05 PM
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It's a 2x2 matrix. Will you, and will you tell anyone?
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/17 09:02 PM
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That's not the name of any criminal law. I know most legal codes are tough to navigate, but you could google "gender-based discrimination [state] penal code" to help you find it. Spoiler: It probably doesn't exist because gender-based discrimination isn't a crime in the US.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 05:24 PM
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girls are usually more interested in how it looks, boys are usually more interested in how it works Then explain why boys care about how girls look and can't be bothered to learn how girls work? checkmate
/r/MensRights18/04/17 04:19 PM
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First repaint of a ship I did for X-Wing miniatures game was to turn one of my X-Wings pink. Because Wedge Antilles wants you to friggin' know it's Wedge Antilles coming for you.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 04:11 PM
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This level of sexism is a criminal offense. Just curious what the actual statute is that she's violating.
/r/MensRights18/04/17 04:08 PM
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GUILTY AS CHARGED!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/17 01:51 AM
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Except that you're not under oath in the back of a cab, and there's no obstruction of justice.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 05:03 PM
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She probably got fired from her job though for getting her man's account banned.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 04:22 PM
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It is a crime, it's extortion.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/17 03:58 PM
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One big difference is that you can't look directly at your own face. You have to learn to do it in a mirror, and that can be a bit disorienting.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 01:13 PM
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Hello, this post is being removed for not following our introduction / help request policy: FOUND HERE. Please review this guide and repost your questions with the appropriate information added. As a beginner, I would recommend you read the SIDEBAR I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Thank you!
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:28 AM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:27 AM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction02/11/15 12:27 AM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction26/10/15 10:41 AM
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Well, you haven't really told us what you're doing. How can you expect someone to tell you what you're doing wrong?
/r/seduction26/10/15 10:37 AM
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Why don't you come up with the first version?
/r/seduction23/10/15 06:58 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's impossible for anyone to give you useful feedback based on the zero information you provided. You can try again with a much more detailed post describing the issues you're having.
/r/seduction23/10/15 12:49 PM
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Your submission was removed because this is a really basic question that's been addressed many times before. Run a search and check out the all time top posts for some help.
/r/seduction23/10/15 12:48 PM
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Women still do prove their worth. But, traditionally (and still now) most of their worth is in their looks, so it's a lot easier to prove. Of course, for a lot of women maintaining looks is also a lot of work. The real difference is that once a woman has high value it's extremely easy to demonstrate it; with men, demonstrating value is much harder.
/r/seduction08/10/15 09:00 PM
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Why would you want to center the fantasy around him losing his father?
/r/seduction23/09/15 12:16 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:29 AM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:29 AM
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Your submission was removed because this is a forum to seek advice, not to complain.
/r/seduction19/09/15 03:00 PM
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If it's just testosterone, then you don't need any dark side tricks, just boost your hormones. Bam, done.
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:45 AM
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I just didn't know what to say. That's a problem everyone deals with, language barrier or not. You know the solution for language problems (more conversation), and to solve the rest of it, read the sidebar, and all the top posts, and use the other resources native speakers use.
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:52 AM
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The manipulative stuff doesn't really work, not unless the girl happens to have some serious issues (and then it's best not to get involved). Why this stuff "works" is because believing in it inspires guys to make more approaches and do so with confidence. But, more approaches, more experience, and belief in your ability to attract is what leads to more success, not the manipulative tactics.
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:47 AM
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Your submission was removed because what you're dealing with really has nothing to do with not being from the US. It's the exact same problem every guy deals with. Check out the side bar and top posts.
/r/seduction02/09/15 03:44 AM
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/r/seduction02/09/15 03:42 AM
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Your submission was removed because repost
/r/seduction29/08/15 12:28 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction29/08/15 11:28 AM
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Your submission was removed because for outside links, our general rule is that you need to be offering value to Seddit rather than seeking to get value from Seddit. While your content was objectionable, it gets interrupted by a popup asking people to signup for a newsletter. This looks like you're more interested in getting people to sign up than you are in having them read your content. A little less aggressive self-promotion, and you'll probably be okay going forward.
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:49 PM
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I just can't do chit chat. Like discuss weather or news etc. Do you keep up with the news? Do you have opinions about things going on in the news? What exactly seems to be the difficulty? Maybe it doesn't matter, I'm sure this place is full of sweet ppl looking for someone to enjoy life with:-P This is an advice sub, not a match making service.
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:54 PM
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I don't know how to act. I get clumsy, like trying to smoothly climb into my truck and end up stumbling on something and faceplanting on the seat. The metaphor, while amusing, isn't helpful for getting advice. The more specific you can be about how you're socially clumsy, the better advice you can get. There's quite a difference between, say, being awkward when making physical contact, and blurting out idiotic non-sequiturs.
/r/seduction25/08/15 12:32 PM
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/r/seduction25/08/15 11:38 AM
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/r/seduction25/08/15 11:38 AM
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/r/seduction24/08/15 09:14 PM
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/r/seduction24/08/15 09:14 PM
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/r/seduction24/08/15 09:13 PM
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More or less.
/r/seduction24/08/15 07:57 PM
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/r/seduction24/08/15 05:28 PM
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Hello, this post is being removed for not following our introduction / help request policy: FOUND HERE. Please review this guide and repost your questions with the appropriate information added. As a beginner, I would recommend you read the SIDEBAR I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Thank you!
/r/seduction24/08/15 04:01 PM
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Well, there's a whole lot of things going on. There's people who Fake It 'Til They Get Good At Faking It. I they think that is making it, because they will see some sort term improvements, but in the end, they rarely fake it well enough or long enough to truly make it. Then there's people who have all the requisite skills and only need to act with confidence. They're not really faking it until they've made it. They've more or less already made it, and just needed to give themselves the freedom t…
/r/seduction24/08/15 03:32 PM
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how important is firmly communicating your career potential right away? Not at all. Yes, women do tend to prefer men with good careers (or at least good prospects), but guys who lead with that are a huge turnoff. It's a sign that you don't have anything else going for you, and think that dating is about resumes, not connection.
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:03 PM
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You're thinking of "Anchoring" and it's almost certainly a bunch of pseudoscience mixed up with some confirmation bias.
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:01 PM
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(1) Talk to girls more (2) Really pay attention to their reactions and non-verbal cues (3) Talk to girls more
/r/seduction24/08/15 02:01 PM
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Some people belong to the "fake it 'til you make it" school of confidence, and while a little bit of delusional grandeur can give you the motivation to give it your all, I think the best source of confidence is experience. Identify the things you care most about in your life, and become the best you can at those things.
/r/seduction24/08/15 01:58 PM
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I removed this because nofap discussions tend to be un-nuanced and over-generalized to the point of being counterproductive. It's like asking if you should give up drinking. Are you an alcoholic? Does it negatively impact your life? If so, then quit. If not, then it doesn't really matter much either way. Same thing with nofap. If it's negatively impacting your life, then you should do something about it. Otherwise, don't worry about it. Problem with these threads is that often times the people w…
/r/seduction18/08/15 02:44 PM
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/r/seduction18/08/15 02:40 PM
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/r/seduction18/08/15 02:39 PM
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If she's not looking at you, she probably doesn't want to kiss you right now.
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:15 PM
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I've never heard a man say this. The only time I've heard it is from women who are trying to feel better about not being approached by men or failing to keep them interested. It's right up there with "they only bully you because they're jealous."
/r/seduction17/08/15 04:14 PM
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/r/seduction13/08/15 03:25 AM
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Probably what most beginners need to hear. You're not learning rules. You're learning principles. Learn the difference, people!
/r/seduction12/08/15 02:32 PM
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See, this is why I do miniatures gaming instead of video games. At least if a girl isn't into it, she can still appreciate the cool models and awesome paint jobs. At least, that's the lie I tell to myself.
/r/seduction12/08/15 11:40 AM
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While the tide is turning on video games, it's still not exactly a high-status hobby. But the issue really is about the 'passion.' If you play video games 40 hours a week, you aren't necessarily passionate about them. Basically just ask yourself what you're working towards. Are you a designer trying to make games? Are you competitive in e-sports, and your time in front of the TV is practice rather than play? Then maybe you have a passion. If it's just mindless entertainment to you, then it's not…
/r/seduction12/08/15 11:38 AM
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They're not necessarily crappy hobbies, just crappy solutions to his problem. He said there's nothing he's passionate about. Taking a list of random activities someone else likes isn't likely to help you find something to be passionate about. Probably the best way to find something that really resonates with you is to try just a ton of different things.
/r/seduction12/08/15 11:27 AM
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/r/seduction12/08/15 11:19 AM
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/r/seduction11/08/15 06:59 PM
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/r/seduction11/08/15 06:58 PM
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Get out and actually talk to some women. You'll find that in practice it's not a formula at all. This is like saying you get depressed after learning music theory because it's just a bunch of formulas and patterns. Might seem that way if all you do is look at the paper and never actually listen to music.
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:23 PM
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/r/seduction11/08/15 01:21 PM
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/r/seduction11/08/15 01:19 PM
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Well, I can't imagine too many girls getting turned on by a guy describing himself as "bubbly."
/r/seduction11/08/15 01:18 PM
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/r/seduction10/08/15 02:41 PM
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Why would you even think otherwise? "She likes Halo, I like Halo, therefor she'll probably be easy!" Nnnnope.
/r/seduction10/08/15 02:41 PM
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/r/seduction10/08/15 02:39 PM
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/r/seduction10/08/15 02:39 PM
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/r/seduction02/08/15 01:50 PM
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/r/seduction02/08/15 01:49 PM
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How often do you go out, and on average how many approaches are you doing?
/r/seduction02/08/15 01:49 PM
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The problem with routines, especially if you're running multiples of them back to back, is that you don't make a personal connection. You're just running a script, rather than interacting with your date. This is probably why you can do well at approaches and getting numbers, but are doing poorly on dates.
/r/seduction02/08/15 01:47 PM
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/r/seduction02/08/15 01:44 PM
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/r/seduction27/07/15 10:04 PM
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/r/seduction27/07/15 12:27 AM
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/r/seduction26/07/15 11:19 PM
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/r/seduction26/07/15 11:18 PM
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/r/seduction26/07/15 11:18 PM
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/r/seduction26/07/15 11:18 PM
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/r/seduction26/07/15 11:18 PM
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/r/seduction26/07/15 05:16 PM
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/r/seduction24/07/15 06:11 PM
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/r/seduction22/07/15 01:51 PM
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/r/seduction21/07/15 05:37 PM
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/r/seduction21/07/15 05:36 PM
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/r/seduction18/07/15 07:48 PM
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You don't need to do research. Basically the vast majority of guys do it regularly and there's absolutely no issue. The problem is only if you become addicted, are watching porn for hours a day, and it becomes disruptive in your life. Think of it like alcohol. For most people it's not an issue, but there are some alcoholics out there who need to completely abstain. But a normal person shouldn't be following the same plan as an alcoholic.
/r/seduction17/07/15 02:56 PM
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There have actually been some studies on this, and what you need to do is make it harder to have a direct comparison between you and your better looking friends. If you have a very similar sense of style as them, they will immediately stand out as being being more attractive. If you have a different style, then you don't get the direct comparison. Consider movies. It's very easy to say that Empire Strikes back is better than Star Trek First Contact. Not that First Contact is a bad movie, but Emp…
/r/seduction16/07/15 05:43 PM
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The headphone gesture is pretty darn effective. Also, it's not like there's much of an alternative.
/r/seduction16/07/15 12:24 PM
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Your submission was removed because this sort of meta discussion isn't actually pickup advice. But, it would be okay over at /r/fpua
/r/seduction15/07/15 03:19 AM
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How can I get her to understand these concepts that the seddit community has been addressing for years? Are you trying to fix her? Because it sounds like you're trying to fix her. And if so, you've already lost. You can help someone who wants to change, but you can't make someone want to change, that has to come from within.
/r/seduction13/07/15 12:43 PM
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It's not so much what you do, but how you're responding to her. If she's giving your indications of interest, you're generally okay going forward. If she's showing disinterest, then whatever you do will seem creepy.
/r/seduction12/07/15 07:48 PM
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This is a terrible idea. Try to avoid gimmicks and tricks, work on actually being more attractive.
/r/seduction09/07/15 03:25 PM
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This is probably a better question for /r/relationships
/r/seduction09/07/15 03:22 PM
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Or not. Or people say "I don't want it to depend on luck" and they go out and work at it to get better and take control of their lives.
/r/seduction06/07/15 12:03 PM
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But I've found that usually, if you're just a nice, respectful person, at least some women who have something in common with you will be interested. Guys (and some gals) end up here because in their experience, just being a nice respectful person has resulted in zilch.
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:47 AM
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Never take advice from anyone who hasn't put in the time and effort to learn about how this stuff works. Don't assume that women inherently know, but don't also assume they're permanently blind. Plenty of women put in a lot of thought into understanding how seduction works, and there's no reason to not learn from them. Plenty of men just KJ and theory craft and there's no reason you should be listening to them.
/r/seduction06/07/15 11:45 AM
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Is it okay to resign myself to just peaceably observing? No. Either talk to her, or go find someone else to talk to. Don't just stare at a girl you have no intention of approaching. And get his "she'll probably reject me" mindset out of your head. It's not your job to reject you, that's her job, so stop doing her job for her. The way I approach it though is that no one is out of my league. I'm a pretty interesting person, not repulsive looking, and I could see just about anyone finding me attrac…
/r/seduction05/07/15 10:30 PM
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So what's happening is when you're weighing the pros and cons of this, the pro side is off because you don't have any options. Going from 0 chance to 1 chance? Fuck yeah, why not go all in? Imagine you had 10 other girls you had a good chance with though. Going from 10 to 11? Probably not worth compromising your values, her values, and your friendship over. You'd stay friends and get a relationship with someone else. So the solution here is to get some options. This is the right sub to help you …
/r/seduction05/07/15 09:07 PM
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If you're talking about long term social circle stuff, things can change. Best way to speed that along is to find someone to be interested in the friend. Do not try to get the friend interested in someone else, it's going to be really transparent what you're doing. Instead work it from the other angle and try to get someone to be interested in her. When she sees she has a real option on the table, there's a good chance she'll get over you, and then her friend will be free to pursue you without (…
/r/seduction05/07/15 08:57 PM
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I removed your post because, as you guessed, this is the wrong sub for this kind of question. It's really a moral decision that you have to decide for yourself. How strongly do you feel about not making a move with a girl in a relationship, and do you think this experience will be worth compromising that position? It's not an easy question (just look at how many people struggle with something similar), but it's one Seddit isn't really cut out to help you with.
/r/seduction05/07/15 08:53 PM
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There's some actual science on this. If you don't get touched often, physical touch actually feels bad. But, when you get more used to it, it feels good. It's not a matter of just deciding whether or not you like it, your brain straight away interprets it differently. The only way to change this is through exposure. And the best way to do that isn't when you're already in a high pressure, stressful situation, like trying to make the first move with a guy. Instead, you need to focus on increasing…
/r/seduction05/07/15 10:42 AM
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Basically this. But, there's a difference between having good listening skills, and engaging in a one-sided relationship where the girl uses you to vent but doesn't care at all about listening to you.
/r/seduction04/07/15 03:03 PM
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/r/seduction04/07/15 02:56 PM
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/r/seduction04/07/15 02:56 PM
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I've had this happen countless times, and the best response is something along the lines of "Yeah, my friends didn't feel like going out tonight, but I still wanted to, so fuck it."
/r/seduction04/07/15 02:56 PM
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Being messy, pigging out, whatever.
/r/seduction01/06/15 03:17 PM
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I have a female roommate, and there's no really any general advice that's going to do you any good, other than don't sleep with her, and use it as an opportunity to kill your bad habits.
/r/seduction01/06/15 12:10 PM
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/r/seduction01/06/15 12:09 PM
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/r/seduction30/05/15 02:03 PM
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This is a terrible idea. Don't try to trick a girl into spending time with you.
/r/seduction30/05/15 01:57 PM
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/r/seduction30/05/15 01:53 PM
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Your submission was removed because this is a forum to get (and give) advice, but you haven't identified any specific issues. Also try reading the texting guides.
/r/seduction29/05/15 02:59 PM
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Your submission was removed because this isn't a question other people can really help you with. It's just a personal choice you've got to figure out for yourself.
/r/seduction28/05/15 04:24 PM
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Being the leader of a group doesn't really make any difference, and just go ahead and drop the idea of being "the alpha" of a group. Far more valuable is simply being a part (any part) of a really cool, outgoing group.
/r/seduction28/05/15 04:23 PM
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/r/seduction28/05/15 04:14 PM
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You might not be "nervous" in the traditional sense, but you are definitely ...ugh... the word is escaping me at the moment. Amped up in anticipation. Basically the only things to do are (1) try to ignore it and (2) get more experience so your emotions don't spike quite so much.
/r/seduction14/05/15 06:01 PM
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/r/seduction11/04/15 12:19 PM
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/r/seduction11/04/15 12:16 PM
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/r/seduction11/04/15 12:16 PM
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/r/seduction11/04/15 12:16 PM
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/r/seduction11/04/15 12:16 PM
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/r/seduction01/04/15 05:51 PM
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/r/seduction01/04/15 04:18 PM
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Don't go for waitresses and bar tenders. It's annoying for them and a waste of time for you. Since they're always going to be friendly and attentive, you have no way to tell someone who's interested from someone who's not.
/r/seduction01/04/15 04:17 PM
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/r/seduction01/04/15 04:16 PM
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This. Also, "I've been thinking" is super creepy.
/r/seduction29/03/15 11:49 AM
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Your submission was removed because come on man! TWO pop-ups before getting to an article that's just rehashing old, basic ideas.
/r/seduction26/03/15 03:49 PM
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/r/seduction25/03/15 03:36 PM
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/r/seduction25/03/15 02:53 PM
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You've fallen into the Inner Game trap. Getting your life sorted out is hugely important, but you have to remember that talking to women is a skill. Confidence is a component, but it's hardly the only one. This is why when people ask if they should wait until they get a job/move out/lose weight/whatever before talking to women, the answer is no. While you're waiting, your social skills are going to atrophy. Even you said you went into hermit mode. That ain't good. As for finding girls who want t…
/r/seduction18/03/15 12:37 PM
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Do it better. Be more fit, wear nicer clothes. You actually want to make a direct comparison between you and the others as easy as possible, because it makes it obvious that you're superior.
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:19 PM
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This isn't something you should worry about. How many girls have you heard say "Ryan Gosling is really good looking I guess, but eh... too vanilla for me?"
/r/seduction15/03/15 07:31 PM
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/r/seduction15/03/15 07:28 PM
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I am a 17 year old boy
/r/seduction11/03/15 01:13 PM
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Those aren't shit tests.
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:37 PM
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Are you by any chance in Europe? If you're in the US, bringing a bottle of wine would be a terrible idea.
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:36 PM
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/r/seduction11/03/15 12:34 PM
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/r/seduction09/03/15 10:30 PM
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It's just a bad opener. It's definitely easy to open with, non-threatening, and good for getting some basic experience. But, as you're noticing now, it doesn't set you up to hook. In fact, it sets you up for the exact opposite because you're now not able to talk to her for 3-5 minutes. Also, when I'm trying to study in a quiet place like a library and someone starts trying to chat me up, I find it very annoying. Not a great place for pickup. Is there a cafe nearby instead?
/r/seduction09/03/15 06:40 PM
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/r/seduction09/03/15 06:37 PM
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/r/seduction09/03/15 06:37 PM
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Every sticking point is always going to involve a specific situation with a specific person. So, unless their problem involves some rare, exotic situation that none of us would ever likely encounter, it's always going to be something that will come up for all of us at some point, and so it's pretty much always going to be relevant. Every sticking point manifests itself in specific situations. True. But, that doesn't mean that every specific situation is the manifestation of a sticking point. I'd…
/r/seduction09/03/15 06:14 PM
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It's been several years since I've read them, so no specific bits of advice are sticking out. But, there still is one very important lesson I've taken away from it: The Field Is King Greene's books aren't based on pure theory crafting. He looks to real life examples and draws lessons from them. I think that's the most important thing to take away from the book. All of your theories must start with real life experience. Want better theories? Get more experience.
/r/seduction09/03/15 11:17 AM
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You don't want to display low investment. You want to have appropriate investment. Basically you start low and then gradually move up. You convey interest with your willingness to invest the next step. You convey neediness when you show you're willing to invest 5 more steps all at once.
/r/seduction06/03/15 08:17 PM
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A bunch of the "cute cosplayers" are going to be hired models and aren't worth wasting your time with. For the amateur cosplayers there, they're going to be getting approached a ton, and so you can expect their auto-reject shields to be on full. You're probably better off not really approaching much. Instead, you want to draw the girls to your group. Be a bit louder than usual, be visibly having fun, draw attention to yourself. Having a great costume will get girls to approach you. Have some sor…
/r/seduction05/03/15 01:29 PM
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It's not actually that basic though. Asking "Here's where I'm at, what's a specific thing I should now be working on when I go out?" is perfectly fine. For instance, someone might say they're generally able to open and hook a set for 15-20 minutes, but then it fizzles. For that person a good goal on his next few outings might be working on isolating or kino. The problem with the post isn't that it's too basic, it's that it's lacking info, which is why I gave OP a chance to add info.
/r/seduction03/03/15 06:21 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction03/03/15 02:45 PM
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/r/seduction03/03/15 02:45 PM
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I'm on the fence about deleting this because it sounds too much like another pop-up seduction pro, but in this case you're asking us to build the lecture for you. I'll let it stay if you can reframe the question to be more specific to your situation. The skills you already have, the type of venues you have in mind, your specific sticking points.
/r/seduction03/03/15 01:52 PM
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Hello, this post is being removed for being too basic and already answered. Your post is answered in the SIDEBAR I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE If you really want an answer, then please repost in /r/askseddit (not askReddit, but ask SEDDIT). Thank you!
/r/seduction03/03/15 01:47 PM
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/r/seduction02/03/15 04:13 PM
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/r/seduction02/03/15 04:12 PM
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The bar tender is just trying to make some money, not start a relationship with the patrons. Of course she's going to chat more with people sitting at the bar, than people elsewhere, and she's going to chat more with people who are by themselves, and who don't flirt a lot with pretty girls. That's where the highest ROI is for her time.
/r/seduction01/03/15 06:04 PM
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/r/seduction01/03/15 03:47 PM
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How many times have you done this, and what have the responses been?
/r/seduction01/03/15 03:46 PM
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/r/seduction01/03/15 03:46 PM
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There was a study on this recently, and when touch isn't part of your normal socialization, it actually does feel differently to you. It's not pleasurable, and instead is a source of stress. You feel awkward touching people because it's outside of your normal socialization. The only way to change how it feels is to change how you act. And here's the tough part: you have to push through the awkwardness many times before it will change for you. It's like breaking in new shoes, the only way to do i…
/r/seduction01/03/15 03:45 PM
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They're attracted enough to have sex, what's lacking is the connection. Basically, you just need to focus more on making things personal (as in specific to you or her) rather than general (interesting/odd things to say). Start with the general, and progress towards more personal things.
/r/seduction27/02/15 06:23 PM
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I won't be an issue then, unless your roommate is a huge slob or extraordinarily awkward. Keep the place relatively tidy, especially the bathroom, and then just go straight to your bedroom when you bring someone back.
/r/seduction27/02/15 05:25 PM
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Please get rid of the pop-up. As you probably know, when it comes to professionals we prefer a "give more than you take" approach. The pop-up asks people to give you value before you've given them anything.
/r/seduction27/02/15 05:24 PM
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Sharing a bedroom, or just sharing an apartment?
/r/seduction27/02/15 05:16 PM
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Having sex that night or on the D2 doesn't really make much difference either way for converting to an LTR. What matters is having a person connection, not just a physical one. The morning after having sex, can you remember anything about her? Can you remember something you talked about that wasn't just fluff or flirting? And more importantly, what is she going to remember about you? Imagine after having sex, you ask her out, she accepts, and then before the date she goes out with her friends fo…
/r/seduction27/02/15 02:07 PM
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It really depends on how she says it. Often it is intended as a rejection, especially if you hear it within the first couple minutes. "Hi, did you see the fi---" "I have a boyfriend." That's a rejection, no other way around it, and she wants you to peace out. But, she could be enjoying the conversation, and mention the boyfriend not because she's trying to get rid of you, but because she wants to manage your expectations. Doesn't take a ton of in-field experience to figure out which is which.
/r/seduction27/02/15 01:50 PM
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I agree with this, the compliment (if you haven't gotten to know her) is pure supplication. And what's worse, it comes off as a completely transparent attempt to make her think he doesn't actually treat her well. No one likes a relationship saboteur.
/r/seduction27/02/15 01:43 PM
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You would look at the objective of the line and her immediate reaction. If she stops complaining about how men are just interested in sex and the conversation turns to something better, then it worked. If she yells at you for not listening to her and ignoring her feelings, it failed. Yes, other factors will play a role, which is why you look at the rate of success over multiple uses rather than a single anecdote.
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:30 PM
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In the land of theory crafting where everyone is completely logical, and understands everyone else perfectly, sure. In the real world things don't play out that way. For nearly any response out there, you can come up with a theoretical explanation for why it will work. The field tells you which explanations are bullshit. That is why success rates matter.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:34 PM
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It depends a lot on context and what you're telling her to do. Telling a girl not to talk about her feelings is very different from "Come sit next to me."
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:32 PM
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My bad, I hit the wrong auto-reply. I meant to select the "this is too basic" response. Basically, the advice for shy girls is the advice for all girls. Become more generally attractive, work on your conversation skills, and focus on learning to lead conversations with declarative statements and interesting questions, and get comfortable with pauses.
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:04 PM
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Well I would hope most guys/girls could break down incoming information instead of just firing back. But you have to think about the typical person who comes to Seddit. Generally, people who are very well socialized and able to attract women don't seek out advice on it. It's people who are struggling who tend to seek help. Telling them they already should have learned this doesn't help them if they have not in fact already learned it.
/r/seduction26/02/15 04:51 PM
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Unfortunately, there's a lot of people who, rather than getting better at seduction, would prefer to do what I call "winning seddit." If you're the standard average frustrated chump, it probably feels very good to fantasize about how you'd be charming, witty, attractive, whatever, and I think shit tests especially bring this out as it's almost a sort of revenge fantasy. Not really limited to Seddit or other subs though, you see this on just about every forum -- people jockeying to be the cool gu…
/r/seduction26/02/15 04:49 PM
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Thanks for speaking from actual experience and not just theory crafting.
/r/seduction26/02/15 04:33 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:22 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:22 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:22 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:22 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:21 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:21 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:21 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:21 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:21 PM
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How many times have you used this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:21 PM
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Most guys instinctively respond to the factual information provided. If a girl says all guys want is sex, they're either going to agree that guys are terrible and shallow, disagree with the statement and claim not all guys want sex, or express how they're the exception to the rule, or something else along those lines. It doesn't make you unempathetic or beyond help just because your instinct is to directly respond the information in someone's statement. It just means you haven't learned the more…
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:20 PM
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At no point does it say "you should / should not" do anything. This is a deceptively important part of the line. If you tell someone what they should or shouldn't do, or even worse, what they should or shouldn't feel, you're going to have a bad time. But, you're leading with a completely uncontroversial statement, dwelling on negative thoughts isn't good for you. She'll instinctively agree. Now, she's left in a position of either cutting that bullshit, or engaging in an action which she agrees i…
/r/seduction26/02/15 03:12 PM
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So I go and talk to people and continually attempt it. Then i realized this trend. I can never relate to people. I don't listen to music, I don't watch shows or TV, I don't play games, I don't play sports. I only study and workout. Another big thing is that what most people dislike, I have a large passion for, which are generally the small annoying things in life that hurt or requires energy for. I enjoy struggling and pain and enjoy the fact that I work for the things I want. You only study and…
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:52 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction26/02/15 01:47 PM
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/r/seduction26/02/15 01:45 PM
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I've been saying that ratio as well. Didn't know he also had.
/r/seduction26/02/15 02:13 AM
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Walk. Bike. Ask your parents to drop you off. Bum a ride from a friend who can drive. /thread
/r/seduction25/02/15 07:50 PM
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You didn't mention that they were kissing (at the second bar?), that's a pretty important detail. But still, if she's texting her friend (or whatever) saying the date is going poorly, then they show up later making out, something seriously stupid is going on there, and your game plan is the same: get away. Basically, its always best to control your own destiny.
/r/seduction25/02/15 07:47 PM
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Whoever is taking OP's advice. It's pretty hard to go out and close 10 numbers if you're not hitting the busy nightlife scene. At the more chill, small places, you'll have about 1-2 quality sets per night.
/r/seduction25/02/15 07:14 PM
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So the other girl has a date that's going poorly, and instead of just ending the date, she tells her friend (your date) that it's going poorly and hopes that the two of you will some how rescue her. And, the other guy, instead of knowing to bail on a bad date, has decided to throw a little passive aggressive temper tantrum. Now, since the other date is still ongoing, you don't think it's actually going that poorly, so you've misinterpreted the situation. You're trying to be friends with the guy,…
/r/seduction25/02/15 07:11 PM
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Sounds like when you go on these trips, you aren't going out to bars. Who cares if you don't know the language? You can learn how to order a drink and how to say "I'm sorry, I don't speak the language." I've picked up girls while only having about a dozen common words between us. But you know what can't be overcome? NOT GOING OUT AND APPROACHING.
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:52 PM
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Hello, this post is being removed for being too basic and already answered. Your post is answered in the SIDEBAR I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE If you really want an answer, then please repost in /r/askseddit (not askReddit, but ask SEDDIT). Thank you!
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:45 PM
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In my city everyone that i seem to meet is new 4 months or less so they also want to meet lots of people That's a pretty big caveat. People who are looking for friends will be more likely to follow up. You can try this at more neighborhood bars, and it'll definitely work first semester in college, but it you're talking about a typical oontz oontz club, not so much.
/r/seduction25/02/15 06:34 PM
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But for every guy here who says "I like shy girls" there must be a cute shy girl who likes socially awkward emo loners, right? Riiight?
/r/seduction25/02/15 05:44 PM
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the main purpose of this subreddit is to give you knowledge and skills that will make you more attractive to women in general The part about becoming more attractive in general is spot on, but I'd say the main purpose of the sub is to help you figure out how to get the knowledge and skills. We can give you a little knowledge, but we can't give you any skills. Most of your knowledge and all of your skills come from the field.
/r/seduction25/02/15 05:43 PM
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These can be great, but there's one little modification you need that will make them a whole lot more successful. Start with "Hi," or something similar. "Hey, figure out the meaning of life yet?" Have you seen Talking Funny? Chris Rock explains that the worst thing an audience can do isn't to not laugh. It's to not pay attention. If they don't laugh, at least you still had a show. But, if they're not paying attention, you've got nothing. Same idea applies. For your line to land, the first thing …
/r/seduction25/02/15 05:20 PM
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This misses half the game. Yes, being self-fulfilled is going to make you more attractive. But, if you don't have a clue how to open a set or carry a conversation or how to read IOIs or know when to escalate, you're going to be living for yourself by yourself.
/r/seduction25/02/15 05:14 PM
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Dude, you've already answered your own question. You know when you had the opportunity to make a move, and you just didn't do it. Next time, make the move. That's all there is to it.
/r/seduction25/02/15 03:27 PM
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/r/seduction25/02/15 02:35 PM
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Yes it's possible, yes it will be difficult, yes you would benefit from higher social status, and no you shouldn't wait. /thread
/r/seduction25/02/15 02:33 PM
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/r/seduction25/02/15 02:32 PM
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How often are you going out? How long do you stay in field? How many approaches do you make?
/r/seduction25/02/15 01:53 PM
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This is the type of advice that will make a lot of sense to a keyboard jockey who's used to crunching numbers to bring down his Diablo 3 Greater Rift times, but which falls apart pretty quickly in the field. First, let's look at the logistics of getting a ton of numbers. It's not actually that difficult. I've had nights where I easily got 6+ different numbers without that even being the plan. Getting the numbers isn't the difficult part. What ever gPUA knows is that numbers are wood. You can get…
/r/seduction25/02/15 12:21 PM
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I have a minor physical problem that is hurting my game, and it has a simple, readily available cure. What do? Get that simple, readily available cure. Go get a pair of glasses.
/r/seduction25/02/15 11:51 AM
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If you think your behavior is annoying, then tone it down. Seems like you've answered your own question.
/r/seduction24/02/15 01:21 PM
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/r/seduction23/02/15 03:20 PM
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First, you might want to try cross posting this to /r/fpua Now to your question, why do you think a "loud personality" is going to scare guys away? Is it actually scaring them away now, or is this just a hypothetical?
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:06 PM
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You haven't provided anything resembling the information that would be required for someone to give you advice. /thread
/r/seduction23/02/15 03:03 PM
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/r/seduction23/02/15 03:00 PM
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/r/seduction21/02/15 06:25 PM
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/r/seduction21/02/15 02:37 PM
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It's okay to stay in a set until it's burned to the ground, but a girl telling you she had a boyfriend isn't ridiculous and it isn't a shit test. Even if it's not true, it's a rejection. The set is over.
/r/seduction21/02/15 02:17 PM
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/r/seduction20/02/15 04:32 PM
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/r/seduction20/02/15 03:39 PM
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There is no smaller step. You approach and if you crash and burn then so be it. You just keep at it until you get more comfortable.
/r/seduction20/02/15 03:00 PM
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Your submission was removed because it is covered in the sidebar materials.
/r/seduction20/02/15 02:54 PM
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Your submission was removed because while a lot of people find meditation useful, it's not directly related to seduction. You'd be better off finding a meditation specific sub.
/r/seduction20/02/15 02:48 PM
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Your submission was removed because opening on Reddit isn't likely to get you anywhere, except maybe on your local sub. If you think it's something that can be done, go out and do it 20-30 times, and come back to discuss the results.
/r/seduction19/02/15 02:28 PM
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Most people want partners who share their values. Some people value being pleasant over being exciting. They're not going to want the stereotypical bad boy. Other people value being exciting over being pleasant, and they're not going to want the stereotypical "nice guy."
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:57 PM
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Abundance mentality in action. If you go out a lot and see a bunch of good looking girls all the time, you don't suddenly act like you need to pounce on the one really good looking girl in your circle of friends. She's just a friend, and you can find a good looking girl to date elsewhere.
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:53 PM
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More or less.
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:49 PM
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/r/seduction19/02/15 01:19 PM
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Good question, and you're right that it's not exactly clear what that advice is telling you to do. I don't have a great explanation for what it means to be seen as a sexual guy, but I can give you some tips on how to go about achieving it. The first step is to start thinking of yourself as a man. You're not a boy, you're not even a "guy," you're a man. Then, start acting like one. Get a decent haircut, take care of your grooming, get some clothes that fit and look good. Next, since we tend to th…
/r/seduction19/02/15 01:01 PM
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Your submission was removed because we generally don't allow these sorts of meta discussions. Seddit is about learning techniques, not convincing others it's okay to do so.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:47 PM
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So you're saying you haven't read my other posts? :-(
/r/seduction19/02/15 04:22 AM
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Know that you have a cool skill that, while shared by a lot of people, is still rather uncommon and is very entertaining. Use that knowledge to boost your confidence. Don't even mention the guitar.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:56 AM
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Look at the top posts instead of just the hot posts.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:54 AM
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Start with the sidebar ...scratch that. Start by making 20 approaches, then go to the sidebar. Then do another 20 twenty approaches. Then think about what your sticking points are. Do another 20 approaches with those sticking points in mind. Then ask for advice on whatever seems to be the problem.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:53 AM
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sometimes it can be so easy to beat yourself up for failing one of these test, especially the shit ones and then get cynical but things normally work best when you assume attraction. Yeah, it's amazing how if you go out thinking girls are bitches looking to shoot guys down just to boost their egos, you get blown out all the time -- you interpret everything as a rejection and bounce from the set happy to have your beliefs confirmed. Or, you go out thinking girls are basically just looking to have…
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:10 AM
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"Oh, if you like minty things then you might like a Mint julep. It's like a Mojito but with Burbon instead of Rum. It's actually the traditional drink of Churchill Downs and the Kentucky Derby." I don't want to be cruel, but this sounds robotic and awkward, like something you'd get in response to a malfunctioning chat bot. But that doesn't matter too much. Maybe if your tone is good it won't sound so weird. What matters is that her response is not going to be "What's the Kentucky Derby?" It's go…
/r/seduction18/02/15 11:40 PM
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/r/seduction18/02/15 11:31 PM
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Simple, don't. Have you been flirting with her when you hang out? If not, start. If you have been, how does she respond? If she flirts back, sends IOIs, and otherwise seems in to you, then just proceed as you would if you were on a date rather than just hanging out with a friend. If she isn't receptive to your flirting, then she isn't interested, and asking her out on a date is going to buy you a one way ticket to Awkwardtown.
/r/seduction18/02/15 05:34 PM
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This part seems pretty solid: While questions are generally good, leading with one carries risk. You might ask about the one topic the person doesn’t want to cover: "How’s work?" results in "They just announced huge layoffs" or, more likely, an evasive answer and awkward silence. Some people might view asking a direct question at the start of a conversation as rude. Instead, volunteer something positive about a topic that’s potentially common ground, so the person can choose to reciprocate. "Our…
/r/seduction18/02/15 05:30 PM
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To quote Mos Def: Listen.. people be askin me all the time, "Yo Mos, what's gettin ready to happen with Hip-Hop?" "Where do you think Hip-Hop is goin?" I tell em, "You know what's gonna happen with Hip-Hop? Whatever's happening with us. If we smoked out, Hip-Hop is gonna be smoked out. If we doin alright, Hip-Hop is gonna be doin alright." People talk about Hip-Hop like it's some giant livin in the hillside comin down to visit the townspeople. We are Hip-Hop. Me, you, everybody, we are Hip-Hop. …
/r/seduction18/02/15 05:00 PM
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How many times have you run this? And how many times did it convert into the instadate?
/r/seduction18/02/15 03:36 PM
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Be the change you want to see in the sub. Don't see content useful at your skill level? Make some.
/r/seduction18/02/15 03:20 PM
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You didn't tell us how many dates you usually end up going on with no sex...
/r/seduction18/02/15 03:02 PM
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Read the texting guides on the sidebar. And the quickie advice: Stop having text conversations. Texting is to set up a date so you can have face to face conversations.
/r/seduction18/02/15 03:01 PM
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/r/seduction18/02/15 03:00 PM
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/r/seduction18/02/15 02:59 PM
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When I tell people that, why do they get so weirded out and uncomfortable? Well, you haven't provided any of the context of who you're telling and how. If you just met someone and blurt out "I haven't made out with a guy, ever!" you're going to weird them out because you're over-sharing. If it's a friend you've known for a bit longer, it might be that you're coming across as throwing a pity party or desperately seeking compliments. That'll weird people out. If you're on a date with a guy, and th…
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:41 PM
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/r/seduction17/02/15 02:35 PM
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For a third or fourth date, sure. Maybe for a second date. Not a great idea for a first date.
/r/seduction17/02/15 02:06 PM
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If you don't want to go out on a date, then why do you care about how to date?
/r/seduction17/02/15 12:27 PM
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Just go in acting like it's a date. Lots of eye contact, stand closer to her than you might normally do, and, duh, flirt. Making it a date explicitly in your ask can be really awkward. This is why it's better to ask in person or on the phone, when you have things like tone to convey meaning with. But failing that, just know that she is also wondering if it's a date -- if she really wanted to avoid you thinking it was a date, she'd have said so. By not saying anything, she's open to the possibili…
/r/seduction16/02/15 03:44 PM
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/r/seduction16/02/15 03:44 PM
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/r/seduction16/02/15 02:11 PM
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/r/seduction16/02/15 02:10 PM
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So where do kids your age hangout? I know Netflix and XBox have messed with kids' social lives, but odds are some people still hang out at the mall. Or Starbucks. My high school aged female cousins love them some Starbucks. Also, what about your friends from before you graduated? Get in touch with them and hang out. Your guy friends will know girls from school. Gotta build up your social network.
/r/seduction16/02/15 01:34 PM
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This doesn't really address his problem. He's 16 and now in community college, so he's not meeting girls his age. Being himself doesn't help if there's no girls around.
/r/seduction16/02/15 01:32 PM
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/r/seduction16/02/15 01:30 PM
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/r/seduction16/02/15 01:30 PM
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Yes, I was just challenging the assertion that it's a common strategy. Not much point debating the usefulness of stuff no one is doing.
/r/seduction16/02/15 02:18 AM
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He mentions boyfriend destroyers twice, and both in the context of not using them.
/r/seduction16/02/15 01:56 AM
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Make an appointment at a decent salon, and get advice from a professional. Just say that you don't really know what you want, and ask for their suggestions.
/r/seduction16/02/15 12:10 AM
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You don't have to go and completely redo your wardrobe. That's actually a terrible idea because you're going to make a ton of rookie mistakes of you redo the whole thing. What you should do is just buy one or two things that look better. Then wait a while before buying anything else. You grow it over time.
/r/seduction16/02/15 12:03 AM
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If you're able to approach, hook a set, and get a number, it's probably not your attitude. And based on that picture, your look is probably hurting your game. Notice I said your look, not your looks. Your look is completely devoid of style. Get some clothes that aren't so generic, get some clothes that actually fit you, and get a haircut that makes you look like you actually care. Not only will you be more physically attractive, you'll convey a better persona. We take care of the things that are…
/r/seduction15/02/15 11:30 PM
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And there's your problem. /u/whoizz had the correct advice. If what you're doing is lame or boring, then stop living such a lame, boring life. Don't try to "sound alpha."
/r/seduction15/02/15 11:19 PM
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/r/seduction15/02/15 11:17 PM
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/r/seduction15/02/15 06:48 PM
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It's when a woman presents you with a no-win situation to confirm her suspicion that she needs to reject you. The most common example is a girl asking you to buy her a drink. If you say yes, you're a pushover, and if you say no, you're a selfish jerk and probably poor. This type of behavior is pretty rare though, and you're only likely to see it in big clubs where women are constantly rejecting guys.
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:44 PM
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I've seen a lot about 'boyfriend destroyers.' Could you please link to a few recent examples?
/r/seduction15/02/15 06:30 PM
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It's back up. You might want to edit it to say what the coupon code is. When I follow the link, I still have to type in the code.
/r/seduction15/02/15 03:50 PM
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I removed this post since the coupon code appears to have been "sold out", and now the post is just serving as an ad for a paid product.
/r/seduction15/02/15 02:25 PM
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/r/seduction15/02/15 01:47 PM
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/r/seduction15/02/15 01:46 PM
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/r/seduction15/02/15 01:46 PM
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Steve, We tend to set the bar higher for content from professionals. For your videos, if you want to post them here, I suggest a pretty aggressive editing hand. If I'm 2 minutes into a video and haven't heard anything worthwhile yet, the video is pretty likely to get removed. That's like reading two pages of a blog post and not yet getting to the advice.
/r/seduction15/02/15 01:45 PM
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/r/seduction13/02/15 08:39 PM
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Your problem is likely the venues you're approaching in. Yeah, the big club meat market scene can get old pretty quick, especially as you get older. I did that whole thing, going out 2-3 nights a week for a couple years, and you do definitely get burned out. But you know what I found out? When I'm in a more relaxed atmosphere, my game is far better than it is in the club scene. When you're out in the regular world, most people don't have a clue how to approach, they're standing around hoping som…
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:31 PM
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What exactly is it that you're confessing?
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:19 PM
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Your submission was removed because try these things and then come back and tell us if they were good ideas. Please don't ask Seddit to be the guinea pigs for ideas you haven't field tested yourself.
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:18 PM
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If you want to create your own list of links to articles you really liked, sure.
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:17 PM
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This isn't very good advice. It might be fun for you, but it's not effective at starting a conversation or building attraction. The problem is that your wit is all just in your head. When you come up and make a joke right away, the girl you're talking to doesn't have a clue what's going on. She's not going to get the joke at all, probably not even realize that you're telling her a joke. You'll just come across as a weirdo. The joke can be good (especially if you suck at transitioning after your …
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:16 PM
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Click the "Top" Button at the top of the sub so that you see the all-time best content, rather than just what's hot right now.
/r/seduction13/02/15 05:07 PM
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Your submission was removed because this isn't a place to debate ethics. That's something you have to decide for yourself.
/r/seduction12/02/15 05:12 PM
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/r/seduction12/02/15 01:40 PM
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/r/seduction12/02/15 01:40 PM
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Sure. Haven't you met girls you find attractive but don't really want to hang out with?
/r/seduction11/02/15 09:40 PM
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Right, but that still unnecessarily discounts advice from fish who do know what they're taking about. And sometimes guys who get with lots of girls still don't have a clue. Naturals might tell you just to be yourself. Why? Because that's all they do. Not very helpful though.
/r/seduction11/02/15 09:40 PM
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Try to see it from their perspective. You come up and say "Hi, I'm Josbel. Who are you? Where do you work? What are your hobbies?" How much interest does this girl have in this conversation? None. Try doing a search on situational openers.
/r/seduction11/02/15 08:37 PM
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Have you tried "Hello"?
/r/seduction11/02/15 08:12 PM
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So, first of all, they're not always on the defensive. But, the wrong approach will make just about anyone defensive. And the short answer is that if you look like you're trying to get something from them, they will be defensive. It's like having a salesman come knock at your door. If instead of going in thinking "How do I get you to have sex with me" your approach is "I want to find out what this person is like" you're going to get much better reactions.
/r/seduction11/02/15 08:11 PM
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Your submission was removed because you haven't provided any details about yourself. No one can possibly answer this question well.
/r/seduction11/02/15 06:42 PM
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/r/seduction11/02/15 05:25 PM
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Asking questions isn't really a bad thing. The problem is boring questions that don't go anywhere, like you're just running through the information needed to build their resume. A good interviewer technique is to respond with "What do you mean by _?" or "Tell me more about _." Don't have to use that language exactly, but it gets you off the superficial level. Compare: Her: I had a rough day at work. You: What do you do? / Where do you work? With: Her: I had a rough day at work? You: What made it…
/r/seduction11/02/15 05:25 PM
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The post oversimplifies things, and obviously this isn't going to turn a shitty date into a great date (movies aren't a good idea, no matter how exciting). But, it does speak to a good general principle: have something active and exciting to do on your date. That said, meeting for drinks is often good enough if there's already attraction.
/r/seduction11/02/15 05:14 PM
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Ya know, having someone introduce you is actually a pretty solid technique.
/r/seduction11/02/15 04:47 PM
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My thought was "GM" isn't Gunwitch Method?
/r/seduction11/02/15 04:40 PM
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Why not 6 As? /asianparent
/r/seduction11/02/15 04:36 PM
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Yes, a woman will usually forgive you for being a little too aggressive. She has lots of practice deflecting advances. But she will never forgive you for being too meek. If you're too aggressive, she might not like you. If you're too meek, she won't be attracted to you. You can turn around whether or not someone likes you -- you can't fix being seen as unsexworthy.
/r/seduction11/02/15 04:34 PM
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Eh. While this might work for some guys, I've known several guys in the community who just had music on constantly unless they were in a bar (and sometimes even then). They just became disconnected from the world around them and got very social roboty. I listed to NPR in the car, and I find it helps because I always have something to talk about. Having shit to talk about is a great confidence boost.
/r/seduction11/02/15 03:58 PM
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What's "seduction talk"?
/r/seduction11/02/15 03:52 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's too basic. Read the sidebar and the top posts.
/r/seduction11/02/15 03:29 PM
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/r/seduction11/02/15 03:28 PM
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/r/seduction11/02/15 03:28 PM
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You just mean boring. There's nothing "proper" about interview questions.
/r/seduction10/02/15 05:52 PM
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/r/seduction10/02/15 05:42 PM
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I tend to be boring, over-polite, and dull Why are you associating being polite with being dull?
/r/seduction10/02/15 04:56 PM
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/r/seduction10/02/15 04:40 PM
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Edit: Hit the wrong removal reason. Check the sidebar for basic tips on text game.
/r/seduction10/02/15 04:40 PM
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Alcohol and strip poker.
/r/seduction08/02/15 07:22 PM
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/r/seduction08/02/15 07:20 PM
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/r/seduction08/02/15 02:22 PM
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/r/seduction08/02/15 02:22 PM
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Yes, you're nervous. Breathe.
/r/seduction08/02/15 02:21 PM
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Do your job, really really well.
/r/seduction07/02/15 01:14 PM
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/r/seduction07/02/15 01:09 PM
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/r/seduction07/02/15 01:08 PM
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Wanting a girlfriend does not make it harder to get a girlfriend. Wanting a girlfriend and doing nothing productive towards that goal makes it harder to get a girlfriend. Wanting a girlfriend and actively working towards that goal does make it easier. Work on improving yourself.
/r/seduction05/02/15 02:31 PM
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/r/seduction05/02/15 02:29 PM
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/r/seduction05/02/15 02:29 PM
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Almost every time someone says girls don't want a "deep" conversation, their idea of deep is bullshit. Focus on an interesting conversation. Everyone had strong opinions about something. Find what that something is and draw them out.
/r/seduction04/02/15 09:14 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 05:40 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 03:51 PM
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If everyone is acting that way around you, the issue probably isn't how they're acting, but how you're perceiving them. Probably some sort of confirmation bias.
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:43 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 03:39 PM
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Here's all you really need to know: Avoid making the conversation like an interview. Don't have back-to-back biographical questions. "Where are you from? Where did you go to college? What do you do for a living?" Snooze. Ask questions that engage emotion. "What do you like about your job? Do you get to go visit your home often?" And when you're hitting a roadblock, use the ol' interviewer's technique of saying "Tell me more about X." If you're going to read a book to get better at small talk, pi…
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:39 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 03:34 PM
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The why doesn't matter. It's tradition now, and it's a tradition that could only be overcome with a massive collective action that'd be impossible to coordinate. So stop whining about having to approach and just learn to approach.
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:08 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 03:02 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 03:00 PM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 02:59 PM
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No clue. I just mod this place. Look for a family relationships sub.
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:22 AM
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Your submission was removed because it's off topic. This is a forum for seduction advice.
/r/seduction04/02/15 03:03 AM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 03:02 AM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 12:32 AM
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/r/seduction04/02/15 12:30 AM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 09:04 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 04:41 PM
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That was a weasely answer. I don't care about what you "attempt" to do. How regularly are you actually going out and in fact talking to new girls?
/r/seduction03/02/15 04:00 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:59 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:46 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:46 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:45 PM
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More experience. How regularly are you going out and talking to new girls?
/r/seduction03/02/15 03:45 PM
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She hasn't texted me back. Should I text her again? Maybe, maybe not, doesn't matter. This is just one of very many interactions you'll have if you keep going out. Try not to get hung up on what you should or shouldn't do in each individual instance. Focus on just meeting a lot of new people.
/r/seduction03/02/15 02:32 PM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:45 AM
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They're worthless. /thread
/r/seduction03/02/15 03:45 AM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:44 AM
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/r/seduction03/02/15 03:44 AM
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/r/seduction01/02/15 02:35 PM
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Yes. Now, you'll need to go out and read up on what Assume Attraction means so you don't end up doing something stupid, but yes, that is the rule.
/r/seduction01/02/15 02:09 PM
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/r/seduction01/02/15 01:39 PM
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You should be 90% execution and 10% reading. You stole my line. Well AMOGed, sir.
/r/seduction01/02/15 01:38 PM
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/r/seduction01/02/15 01:35 PM
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/r/seduction01/02/15 01:35 PM
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Could be your approach. Build buying temp before suggesting it. It's not like saying "Want to come upstairs and look at my etchings?" There's no subtlety with the car, you're straight up asking her to bang. When you get the (metaphorical) engines going, then you ask "How far is your place?" If her place is an option, you're good. If not, she'll ask about yours. You say it's more than an hour away, so it's not an option. Then you make eye contact to double check the buying tempt, and if the board…
/r/seduction01/02/15 02:20 AM
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Learning to bang in a car isn't going to happen over night? Sure it will. You know when I learned to bang in a car? First time I had the chance to bang in a car. And it was a fucking two door.
/r/seduction01/02/15 02:14 AM
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Work on your flexibility, bro. Also, work on raising buying temp. It's not ideal, but when you're both ready to go, ideal goes out the fucking window.
/r/seduction01/02/15 02:08 AM
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Your submission was removed because it's basically just a rehashing of Dancing Monkey Syndrome. The topic itself is okay to post on, but we try to limit outbound links to more substantial material.
/r/seduction01/02/15 12:16 AM
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/r/seduction01/02/15 12:12 AM
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If you want to know what most guys go for as far as looks are concerned, just grab any decent list of the top 100 most attractive women, and there you go. Some guys will have a "type," but generally it's not an exclusive preference and really doesn't make that much of a difference at the end of the day. Here's a list you can use. 90% of men will find 90% of those women to be well above what they're willing to take.
/r/seduction31/01/15 11:52 PM
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There were probably signs, you just missed them. Read up on IoIs, and in the future assume attraction.
/r/seduction31/01/15 10:12 PM
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What was wrong with the back of the car?
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:42 PM
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THE FIELD. The best way to learn to talk to girls is by talking to girls.
/r/seduction31/01/15 09:05 PM
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/r/seduction31/01/15 09:01 PM
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I focus on self improvement and doing things to improve my health, and lifestyle in my spare time. There's your problem. What are you doing with the rest of your time?
/r/seduction31/01/15 05:03 PM
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I'll wing for you. Free tonight?
/r/seduction31/01/15 04:46 PM
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/r/seduction31/01/15 02:32 PM
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Congressional staff aren't that big, only a few legislative aids per rep (plus a few higher positions, but they're going to be older folk). DC is mostly government contractors and people working in NGOs.
/r/seduction30/01/15 07:55 PM
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Number of actual politicians is very low. Number of douchebag striver yuppie guys is extremely high. Also, number of doubhebag striver yuppie women is extremely high. They're not attractive to the normies, and I suspect few are even attractive to each other.
/r/seduction30/01/15 06:14 PM
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Because of the context. They're there to talk to the other people at the event, not the staff. When the waiters walk around with trays of bacon wrapped shrimp and fried mac'n'cheese balls, I take my food and then immediately go back to talking to my friends. I don't wait to see if the waiter wants to chat.
/r/seduction30/01/15 06:08 PM
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It's still a bit creepy for the staff at an event to start socializing with and hitting on the women there.
/r/seduction30/01/15 05:51 PM
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I'll dig it up later maybe, but there's data out there about the exact ratios. DC and Bethesda have the best scores.
/r/seduction30/01/15 05:50 PM
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Anyone know of a similar map that charts male to female ratio? This one.
/r/seduction30/01/15 05:49 PM
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Girls #1-13 This is just a bad approach. Being the guy going around asking to take pictures of people can easily come across as very creepy, no matter how you like. Girls #14-20 Public transportation approaches are very difficult. A lot of people just want to be left alone. Girls #20-30: Same as above Same as above Girls #40-50 Could just be your approach sucks. Average, and even above average looking guys get blown out constantly if their approach sucks. And since you seem to have zero confiden…
/r/seduction30/01/15 05:48 PM
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How much time are you currently putting in to the field? What are your current sticking points? Have you hit a plateau? If you're sitting at home, not approaching, then no, it isn't worth watching. You'll finish it and still be sitting at home not approaching.
/r/seduction30/01/15 03:56 PM
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I was going to recommend you check out /r/fPUA, but I see you already have. I'm still going to use this comment to plug the sub anyways though.
/r/seduction30/01/15 03:27 PM
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/r/seduction29/01/15 03:14 PM
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/r/seduction29/01/15 03:14 PM
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I'm still very confused. What is the basis of your opinion of her?
/r/seduction29/01/15 04:47 AM
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So how do you know if you like her if you didn't get a chance to talk to her?
/r/seduction29/01/15 04:31 AM
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I met a girl I really like a while ago and we didn't get a chance to talk How do you know you really like her if you didn't even get a chance to talk?
/r/seduction29/01/15 04:20 AM
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/r/seduction29/01/15 04:17 AM
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Well then, it's important to note that men and women tend to respond to different scents (although who doesn't enjoy the smell of baked goods?). With lemon, it'll make a big difference whether it smells like genuine lemon, or like lemon-scented cleaning products. The former is a scent that might provide a little bit of a pick-me-up because of its brightness. The latter will ...well, it'll just be a turnoff. Sometimes with perfume it's not necessarily the scent, but the amount that's unpleasant. …
/r/seduction29/01/15 02:37 AM
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While you certainly should take the time to care about all aspects of your grooming, I've found that a lot of times guys place too much emphasis on superficial, small details like cologne or a scented candle in the bathroom. This is something to think about after you've taken care of the big things like (1) getting in shape, (2) clothes that fit, (3) hair and beard grooming, and (4) going out and talking to girls regularly. It's like getting comma placement right on your Works Cited page. Doesn'…
/r/seduction29/01/15 02:07 AM
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/r/seduction28/01/15 11:03 PM
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/r/seduction28/01/15 11:03 PM
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You'll find out from her based on the response to your text. What are you asking us for?
/r/seduction28/01/15 08:20 PM
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What's good for me isn't going to be good for you, because we're different people with different interests. I'd probably talk about some of the cool things my students have said in class recently. The key is to pick topics where you have a lot of interest, have something interesting to say, and can express emotion when you're talking about it. Likewise, based on her personality, ask her about things where she'll be able to say something other than some basic facts. Don't ask what her job is, ask…
/r/seduction28/01/15 05:14 PM
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/r/seduction28/01/15 04:57 PM
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Better conversation topics. You're getting awkward silences because you're doing the terrible interview style questions.
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:56 PM
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I would be happier AND more attractive to people I already know a little bit because they are able to recognize the intricacies of my personality that people I'm only meeting for the first time would not. Why not work on becoming better at effectively communicating your personality to others?
/r/seduction28/01/15 04:55 PM
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This line is awful, for two reasons. Reason the first! It's not responsive to the question. If she asks what you're looking for, "I'm not boyfriend material" doesn't tell her what you're looking for. It's very different from saying "I'm not looking for a relationship." Still, that wouldn't be telling her what you are looking for, but it's getting close. Just imagine if she said "What are you looking for?" and you answered "I'm not good at math." WTF is that? Reason the second! It's putting yours…
/r/seduction27/01/15 11:50 PM
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You don't go to class? Or are there no girls in your classes? There's no common spaces on campus? No quad? No dining hall? The dorms are all single-sex? There's no clubs on campus? What school is this? Also, depending on your school and their Greek culture, many frat parties allow the brothers to bring guests. I wasn't in a frat, but my friends who were would invite me.
/r/seduction27/01/15 11:40 PM
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I am pointing out the absurdity in your question. There is no "counting."
/r/seduction27/01/15 01:36 AM
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It varies by jurisdiction, and whether you're counting under the common law rules, or if your location has adopted the 3rd Revised Restatement on Seduction.
/r/seduction27/01/15 12:33 AM
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She's using the wrong word. Girls hate being ignored. But, they also hate to be annoyed by an overly aggressive guy. And they hate for a guy that they otherwise like to become a needy wimp.
/r/seduction26/01/15 11:13 PM
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Don't watch videos on this stuff. The people generally have a lot of shitty advice, they project their own insecurities, and it's going to get you too much in your own head. Just get in shape, be familiar with the tech (condoms), and other than that rely on your instincts. After all, deep inside your caveman brain is an inherent understanding of how to have sex, otherwise our species wouldn't exist.
/r/seduction26/01/15 02:49 PM
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Really, the only way to get better at sex is to have more sex. That said, there are a few things you should do to make your first time better. Learn to put on a condom. Go buy some and practice putting them on so you're not fumbling around with them like a noob. Do some cardio. Getting winded after a minute isn't going to impress anyone. Do pushups. Not only is it a good exercise, but when you're on top you put a lot of weight on your arms, and especially your wrists. If you're not used to it, y…
/r/seduction26/01/15 02:38 PM
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I know we tell people to ditch "interview" type questions, but try listening to really good interviews, and maybe read up on interview technique. Skilled interviewers do a lot more than just ask basic info questions (where are you from, what are your hobbies, blah blah blah), they have techniques for getting people to open up and talk. One of the most useful lines to put in your toolbelt is "Tell me more about that."
/r/seduction26/01/15 02:19 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction26/01/15 12:58 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction26/01/15 03:20 AM
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Came here to say this. I mean, down the road there might be questions about threesome protocol, but for early stages? She likes women who aren't you, not really any different than a girl who's also attracted to men who aren't you.
/r/seduction24/01/15 09:17 PM
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Women have very different sex drives than men because we have different sex roles and corresponding sexual strategies. As a male, it makes sense (from an evolutionary point of view) to have sex with everyone you can who doesn't look diseased. Make as many babies as possible since nature doesn't have child support laws. Thus it makes sense to always be thinking about sex and looking for opportunities. As a woman, it makes sense to be extremely selective. Sex can result in pregnancy which takes up…
/r/seduction24/01/15 02:48 AM
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No, you cannot magically seduce someone by looking into their eyes. /thread
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:15 PM
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"Success rate" in this situation would just mean making progress with her, not necessarily getting laid. So, how many times have you used this, and how many times has it worked?
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:16 PM
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I would recommend starting out with a bit of conversation You can ask a girl out who you've never talked to before, so long as you talk to her before you ask her out.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:12 AM
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How many times have you tried this, and what was your success rate?
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:17 AM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction22/01/15 01:16 AM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:31 AM
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So we're back to the initial problem, that you're not really trying.
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:27 AM
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Get yourself a wingman, someone who knows a bit of game and who you trust to give honest feedback. Have him watch.
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:10 AM
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I'd give a puzzled/disgusted look to some guy looking at me but not saying hi!
/r/seduction21/01/15 04:01 AM
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The rule isn't you shouldn't take advice from women, it's that you shouldn't take advice from people who don't know what the hell they're talking about. Now, it is true that most women don't know what they're talking about when it comes to giving guys dating advice. They repeat cliches, pad your ego, and tell you what to do if she were already attracted to you. It's also true that most guys don't know what they're talking about when it comes to giving other guys dating advice. They repeat cliche…
/r/seduction20/01/15 11:34 PM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong on /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction20/01/15 08:26 PM
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Check the sidebar
/r/seduction20/01/15 04:53 PM
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Do I approach? Not really. Well there's your problem.
/r/seduction20/01/15 12:56 PM
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What you're saying isn't that you're an introvert in person. You're saying that you're an extrovert who just doesn't know how to talk to people. (An introvert wouldn't care.) And the correct advice is basically what everyone has been saying. Get off the net, go outside more. You find it easier to talk to people online because (1) it is easier, and (2) you have more experience.
/r/seduction20/01/15 12:52 PM
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"I'd invite you back to my place, but there isn't much privacy."
/r/seduction20/01/15 12:49 PM
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/r/seduction20/01/15 12:47 PM
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GFTOW
/r/seduction20/01/15 12:45 PM
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Your link contains a malware download.
/r/seduction20/01/15 12:44 PM
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Does she give you IOIs? If not, she's still not interested.
/r/seduction20/01/15 12:42 PM
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you go to the pub. But approaching someone in a situation where they have given no indication that they wanted to be approached is out of order So when you're at the pub, you don't approach unless she's already indicated that she wants to be approached? I couldn't get the full article, but this research paper explains that street harassment (as defined by wiki as "any action or comment between strangers in public places that is disrespectful, unwelcome, threatening and/or harassing and is motiva…
/r/seduction19/01/15 11:29 PM
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Questions about specific women/situations belong on /r/AskSeddit.
/r/seduction19/01/15 09:02 PM
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/r/seduction19/01/15 06:24 PM
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But, let's face it - for many of us beginners our place of lay is crap. Most of us beginners are students, low-income, or living with thin walls that make all sorts of vibe killing. This is a "problem" that demographics easily remedies. College students living in dingy dorm rooms are most commonly picking up college girls who live in similar dorm rooms and are more or less expecting any hookups to happen in a dorm room. Living with your parents can be a problem, but it's one that's been discusse…
/r/seduction19/01/15 05:01 PM
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Just take it slow and pay attention to what she responds to.
/r/seduction19/01/15 03:07 PM
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I have been going back and rereading all my books and revisiting all the other mentors and resources I have but I'm at some kind of psychological sticking point. How do I get my game back?!?! You put down the books and get out in the field. Aim for nothing less than a 5:1 ratio of time in the field to time reading, watching videos, and posting on Seddit.
/r/seduction19/01/15 01:49 PM
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Many people are taught that everyone's favorite word is their own name, and that you can win people over by using it a lot.
/r/seduction18/01/15 11:00 PM
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Sometimes it's an attempt at manipulation, sometimes it's just a speech habit.
/r/seduction18/01/15 10:16 PM
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/r/seduction17/01/15 03:06 PM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction17/01/15 03:05 PM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction17/01/15 03:04 PM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction16/01/15 04:52 PM
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Can it work? Yes. Is it likely to work? No. Are better looking guys going to have better odds? Yes. Is asking questions like this going to help you improve your game? No. If you want to know if something can work, go out and try it for yourself.
/r/seduction16/01/15 04:51 PM
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I also don't know how to carry a conversation going let alone start one The hell are you talking about? I just told you how to start a conversation. It's the top level comment in this thread.
/r/seduction16/01/15 04:30 PM
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That is exactly what will happen. So what?
/r/seduction16/01/15 03:33 PM
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Eckhart Tolle is a con artist of Lacanian proportions.
/r/seduction16/01/15 03:03 PM
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In the future, don't use sensationalist headlines.
/r/seduction16/01/15 02:58 PM
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I understand that, but I don't even know what to do let alone say!!! Walk up to woman. Open mouth. Say "Hi, I'm Thaaaking." Report back after doing that 10 times, and I'll give you the next step. Leave the negative feedback up yo assss Ditch your own negativity first.
/r/seduction16/01/15 02:57 PM
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/r/seduction16/01/15 02:08 PM
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/r/seduction16/01/15 02:07 PM
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Where's the evidence that this is destroying dating culture for anyone other than a few whiny teenagers? There are some people with dumb ideas about dating, the types you'll find on Tumblr and occassionally leaking onto your Facebook feed. Some of them are truly radical wackos, but more often it's people with moderately stupid ideas who compound the problem by being imprecise and hyperbolic with their language -- or as I like to say, they are as clumsy as they are stupid. Either way, these types…
/r/seduction15/01/15 02:05 PM
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"I'm looking for a great wit." "Feh! Wit not make one great."
/r/seduction13/01/15 05:03 PM
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I removed this post for a couple reasons. First, the feedback you get will almost always be useless because people leave out very important information. For instance, many people who swear by nofap will fail to mention that they have a masturbation/porn addiction. Obviously their results will be different. Second, you can just try it for yourself. You need to be willing to experiment with your life, and there's certainly not going to be any lasting harm from not jerking it for a week or two. Jus…
/r/seduction13/01/15 04:39 PM
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Eh. Trying to be witty often comes across as trying to be witty.
/r/seduction13/01/15 04:36 PM
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Try it 20 times, then come back and tell us how it goes.
/r/seduction12/01/15 06:19 PM
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THE FIELD Spend 10 hours in the field, talking to girls, for every 1 hour you spend reading about pickup.
/r/seduction12/01/15 05:27 PM
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Apparently it's common now when exchanging numbers to immediately just text the person your name. Now they know who it is when they get a later text.
/r/seduction12/01/15 03:53 PM
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/r/seduction12/01/15 02:34 PM
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Do the friggin' readings, pay attention, be engaged in class. That may be my bias as a professor creeping in, but I do think this is the best advice. Don't be a gunner who's raising his hand to answer every question, but there's nothing unattractive about being a good student. Being a slacker, on the other hand, you might think it's amusing or cool to buck authority, and some immature girls might go for that, but mostly you just come off as a clown. Girls don't want to sleep with a clown. Also, …
/r/seduction12/01/15 01:12 PM
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/r/seduction12/01/15 01:08 PM
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Two problems here. First, there's nothing wrong with just chatting women up in public for no purpose other than to have a conversation. Get out of the mindset of thinking you can only approach women you're romantically/sexually interested in. Second, less attractive girls aren't any easier. I've seen plenty of open, friendly 9s and lots of bitchy, impossible 6s.
/r/seduction11/01/15 09:53 PM
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So what you do is next time you're out socializing, you try to be a bit more mindful of your behaviors, so that when someone says you're being try-hard you have a better idea of what exactly they're responding to. That's how this stuff works.
/r/seduction11/01/15 05:13 PM
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/r/seduction11/01/15 04:37 PM
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Um... do interesting things.
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:36 PM
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/r/seduction11/01/15 04:35 PM
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What behaviors do you think it is that's making you appear as a try-hard to others?
/r/seduction11/01/15 04:35 PM
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Giant dildoes.
/r/seduction10/01/15 05:05 AM
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Having experience with a lot of women is very different than being currently involved with multiple women. You can have a lot of experience and knowledge without even wanting to date more than one woman at a time.
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:06 AM
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Yeah! Read the fuck out of those guides!
/r/seduction08/01/15 11:45 PM
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Eh. I disagree with a lot of it. In my experience, shit tests are rare. Most common among young club girls and slightly older strivers. As for needing to date multiple women at once to give advice? Nope. You need good evidence to give good advice, but you don't need to be a player to get good evidence.
/r/seduction08/01/15 11:36 PM
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If she was drunk, she probably didn't make much of a real connection (or simply doesn't remember it). Why would she want to respond to a text from someone who is, from her point of view, basically just a stranger? Best option in a situation like that is to venue change to a place with food and sober up a bit.
/r/seduction04/01/15 09:34 PM
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You didn't overcome your neediness because you are in fact still needy. The entire evening in framed in terms of you wanting to get this girl to like you. You're approaching this by trying to act un-needy, instead of trying to be un-needy.
/r/seduction04/01/15 05:39 PM
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I'm removing this because it too general motivation advice, not really specific to seduction.
/r/seduction04/01/15 05:12 PM
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I hate when people want to talk about pop culture, I'm like "Enough with the Shakespeare and Mozart already!"
/r/seduction04/01/15 03:20 PM
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Also, what does that say about a woman who's going home with a man on the first date? It doesn't sound like something a classy lady would do. If you had sex with a woman on a first date, would you consider yourself to be lacking in class because of it?
/r/seduction04/01/15 01:46 AM
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It might be better to think of it in terms of stepping forward and stepping back. When you're stepping forward, you're actively pursuing. When you step back, you're asking her to pursue. An example would be saying something like "You might be too much of a good girl for me." Now the ball is in her court, and she has to take the position of pursuer. The push accomplishes a couple things. First, it makes you not seem desperate. You demonstrate confidence in her attraction to you, and that you don'…
/r/seduction03/01/15 05:30 PM
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I've had a lot of experience in higher education, and I haven't seen anything to suggest that more education makes someone any less vapid. Time and experience can, but time and experience exist in more places than just universities.
/r/seduction31/12/14 05:50 AM
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Omigosh and danged'ol at Tanagra.
/r/seduction31/12/14 05:22 AM
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Sure, changing demographics can help. But, getting a more educated group isn't going to change the average rate of vapidity enough to notice.
/r/seduction31/12/14 04:59 AM
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So are 18 year old boys. Start hanging out with a more intelligent crowd...people who come from more educated families etc. Being educated doesn't make you any less vapid.
/r/seduction31/12/14 04:27 AM
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I'm a pretty narcassistic person -OP
/r/seduction31/12/14 04:26 AM
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Yeah, the problem is how narcissistic you are. You want to feel superior to people so you look for their flaws and are likely succumbing to confirmation bias. I spend plenty of time on my phone and have done my share of Tweeting, and you could find plenty of stereotypes I fall in to (from the South, watches football, has read Tucker Max). But, I guarantee I'm pretty danged'ol smart. And, I generally find something to talk about with whoever I'm around, from Jane Austen to deer hunting. If all th…
/r/seduction31/12/14 03:26 AM
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Also feel free to tag their posts so we're sure to see them.
/r/seduction29/12/14 11:25 PM
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How many times?
/r/seduction29/12/14 09:06 PM
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Roughly how many women have you messaged while using a fake picture? Of that number, how many have you gone out with? How many did you go out with more than once? And how many did you have sex with?
/r/seduction29/12/14 08:05 PM
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Here's the way I see it: If you're making good progress on your own, then you don't need a bootcamp. If you're not making good progress on your own, then a bootcamp most likely won't help you. The main reason people struggle is too little experience. It takes months of consistent approaching to see progress. 10-20 sets per week, at least. A bootcamp isn't going to change your habits, or get you to overcome approach anxiety. Bootcamps could help if you're going out a lot, approaching regularly, a…
/r/seduction29/12/14 05:32 PM
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A similar useful mindset is to stop saying why something won't work, and start thinking in terms of what it would take for something to work. Think about the end of a football game when a team is down by 14 points with only a few minutes left on the clock. It'd be easy to think in terms oh why they're going to lose, but teams start playing based on what it will take to win; long passes, clock management, knowing they need to get a 3-and-out after scoring, etc. You basically reverse engineer your…
/r/seduction29/12/14 05:22 PM
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I'm removing this post since meta posts aren't typically allowed here. However, I'm bringing the issue up with the other mods.
/r/seduction29/12/14 05:11 PM
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/r/seduction29/12/14 03:43 PM
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My question is, how important is it to convey that kind of dominance outside the bedroom, and if so how is it best expressed? The way it comes across is confidence. When conversations turn sexual, many guys will start to get shy or nervous, this is largely because they don't see themselves as particularly good in bed and are a bit embarrassed. A guy who is confident in his skills won't be phased by the conversation.
/r/seduction29/12/14 03:32 PM
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I'll play devil's advocate here. Homework is essentially gamifying life. You do this long series of dull tasks in order to get a reward at the end (higher final grade). I don't think this results in social robots and an Orwellian nightmare. This also isn't terribly different from some of the focus-on-the-process advice that's given to noobs. Have trouble approaching? Okay, your goal tonight is to make 5 approaches. Do that at least once a week for 4 consecutive weeks. After that, you advance to …
/r/seduction18/12/14 02:10 PM
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/r/seduction17/12/14 06:35 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/AskSeddit.
/r/seduction16/12/14 06:52 PM
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Many of the concepts in Models will be relevant to women. Also, have her check out Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, which talks a lot about the female side of the game. And of course, tell her about /r/fpua. We need some more women there to help build up the community.
/r/seduction12/12/14 04:26 PM
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What does it matter? If we say it's no hindrance, then you go out and don't worry. But what if we say it's a huge problem? You're just going to stick your dick away for a year and not even try?
/r/seduction11/12/14 09:53 PM
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Look for the common denominator in these situations. If every guy is acting this way towards you, then the common denominator is you. Odds are you're mis-perceiving how your actions come across. For starters, what exactly are you doing when you put effort into "making them comfortable"?
/r/seduction11/12/14 09:51 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:11 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:11 PM
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/r/seduction10/12/14 05:11 PM
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My typical routine begins with "Alright class, get out the reading for today," and ends with "Please don't tell the dean."
/r/seduction25/11/14 10:24 PM
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Canned routines get an unfairly bad reputation. Using someone else's canned routines is generally not a great idea. There's some training-wheels function, and they're great if that's how you're using them, but long term, they're not too good. But your own canned routines, that can be fine. It's original, so you don't sound like everyone else. You're having fun with it and enjoy it, and that's the right energy to bring. And, if you want to make your own, you have to go out and experiment and run …
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:58 PM
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I think the over-emphasis on inner game is because it's so damn easy to talk about. Not that it's unimportant, but the reason it's so inflated is because it takes about a week of reading this stuff to be able to sound exactly like any other guru talking about inner game, authenticity, and confidence, and wham, bam, now you're a pickup pro without ever getting laid. The appeal carries over to fora, where people want to feel like they're improving. If they talk about outer game, they'll be conscio…
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:55 PM
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The most important thing is communication about your roles and expectations. Same as with a wingman. Most wingwomen who have no experience think that their role is just to be a cheerleader and say "Oh, go talk to her!" That's worthless, and often quite frustrating. What you'll want is for her to fulfill the basic wingman role, which is to neutralize obstacles. Basically, when you're talking to a girl, the two main obstacles are her cockblocking friends and AMOGs. In either case, she talks to the…
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:49 PM
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If you're a porn/masturbation addict, seek professional counseling. If not, then it's probably not going to help though it might have a placebo affect. But then again, it might help, or it might psych you out by getting you to obsess over masturbation. If you're really curious, try it out for a week and see how you feel.
/r/seduction25/11/14 08:24 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction23/11/14 01:59 PM
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This belongs on /r/askseddit
/r/seduction23/11/14 01:58 PM
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Exactly what you think. They're deciding whether or not they like you.
/r/seduction23/11/14 02:53 AM
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Blame it on the dog.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:05 PM
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Go to Golden Brown Delicious in Dupont.
/r/seduction22/11/14 11:05 PM
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On the other hand, you have to 'be a man', that is, to just not care about other people's opinion You should care about other people's opinions. The problem is when you care too much, or about the wrong people's opinions. You should probably care if all your close friends think you're an asshole. Odds are you're actually an asshole. But, should you care if a girl you opened and were immediately shot down by thinks you're a creep? Nope. She doesn't know you, so her opinion on that isn't well info…
/r/seduction18/11/14 04:32 PM
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I'm borderline on just removing this. But on the other hand it might be useful for folks to see your comment. Seddit is not for theory crafting! If you want to know how well a line works, go out and use it a bunch, then come back and tell us how it worked.
/r/seduction18/11/14 02:15 PM
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They do go for guys of other races. /thread
/r/seduction17/11/14 11:34 PM
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but it feels like a drain knowing danm well if you don't say anything, that there's almost a zero chance of you getting with her or even her talking to you So what you're saying is you'd like to be able to get girls without having to talk to them. And I'd like to get a paycheck every week without doing any work.
/r/seduction17/11/14 07:08 PM
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Having a girl bring up negative feelings about guys tends to not make them want another guy right that moment.
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:26 AM
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Hello Ladies episode 1.
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:26 AM
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/r/seduction17/11/14 03:19 AM
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Doesn't matter. Focus on what you can improve. /thread
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:19 AM
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Posts about specific situations belong in /r/AskSeddit If you want advice on texting, read the sidebar As for deciding whether to text or call, either can work, either can fail. Depends on your style.
/r/seduction16/11/14 10:36 PM
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How can you get multiple girls numbers? Same way you get one. Just repeat. Isn't it awkward if they see?! Yes.
/r/seduction16/11/14 08:11 PM
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Or you could just call her.
/r/seduction16/11/14 03:32 PM
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You can, but there's not much anyone can really do. No one here knows how she feels about you, so the only thing you can do is find out for yourself.
/r/seduction16/11/14 03:29 PM
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/r/seduction16/11/14 03:19 PM
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As far as the generally ignoring it stuff goes, boobs are basically like having a beer gut?
/r/seduction15/11/14 05:38 PM
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So then asking for reassurance from you is not an IOI. Or if it is, it's an indication of interest but with no real intention of acting on it.
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:25 PM
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You've missed the point. There's a big difference between fishing for a compliment because you want reassurance and are indifferent to the guy giving the compliment, and setting someone up to compliment you as a means of flirting.
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:08 PM
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But that's not the same as "I want to get you to reassure me on something I feel self conscious about."
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:01 PM
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Basketball has a net instead of a basket. I think the difference is netball doesn't have a backboard.
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:00 PM
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6)How do I look?: If I say I don't like my voice, I don't know if this dress I'm wearing is cute or not, if this haircut is okay....know that I want you to tell me I'm pretty. Don't get me wrong, I don't need the compliment, but it's just way to get you to reassure me on something I feel self conscious avout.(In all honesty I will say these things on purpose just know how you feel about me)Basically, I care about your opinion. This one's a bit unclear. Are you sure you're only doing this with gu…
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:45 PM
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It's like basketball.
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:44 PM
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Thus the advice to assume attraction.
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:43 PM
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This is actually a good question. Guys are super aware of any time a boob makes contact with them. But, it seems like some women are completely unaware of when they've touched someone with a boob. Or they're pretending to be unaware and are actually manipulative assholes. I don't know. It'd be nice to find out.
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:43 PM
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Not the wrong subreddit, and sometimes even really basic stuff is worth repeating. Really beginner stuff coming from a blog run by a professional coach just trying to push his product, that shit gets removed. Basic stuff coming from a normal person? Totally fine. Thanks for your contribution, feel free to stick around.
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:41 PM
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Nope. Don't take advice from people who have not put time and effort into thinking about the advice. This can be true of men and women. I've gotten as much bad advice about dating from guys as I have from girls. People are often wrong about what will attract them, but in this case she's saying "Here's how I tend to signal to people that I am attracted." Maybe there's more subconscious stuff she's unaware of, but she's unlikely to be wrong about what she's written.
/r/seduction14/11/14 01:39 PM
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/r/seduction13/11/14 05:02 PM
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Winning over his friends. Cannot emphasize this enough. You do this in two ways: First, make sure you're always put together when you're around his friends. Make up, hair, etc. Make him look good by being with you. That will raise is status among his friends, and who doesn't like that? Second, be nice (almost flirty) with his friends. As a guy, it's very rare for an attractive girl to go out of her way to be nice to you. We're so used to the dynamic working the other way. Being able to think "Wo…
/r/seduction12/11/14 04:39 PM
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Maybe I'm just lucky and my friends and coworkers are less anti-social.
/r/seduction11/11/14 05:50 PM
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This is one of those things that sounds obviously true at first, but I doubt it really holds up to scrutiny. First, I don't think we've really gotten rid of human interaction. Obviously a lot will vary based on where you live and what you do, but most people gossip around the water cooler (coffee maker, whatever), or go to happy hour with their coworkers. I stop by and chat whenever I pass by a coworker's office. Second, I think we may be overestimating how much socialization people had pre-real…
/r/seduction11/11/14 05:02 PM
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There are women who want to be challenged. Hardly anyone wants to be made to feel stupid.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:30 PM
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You'd be surprised. The nerdy guys with bad social skills don't just make up the idea that girls don't like them because they're smart, they're fed the story by others around them. Their parents will tell them it, their other nerdy friends will tell them it. They'll keep getting told that once they're out in the real world and making lots of money girls will finally appreciate them, blah blah blah, but right now they're shallow and like dumb guys. It's the equivalent of women thinking men are "i…
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:28 PM
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Because normal people don't ever want to dance, get drunk, show off, or possibly meet someone to fuck...
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:23 PM
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"I don't have a sense of superiority, but boy howdy is everyone around me inferior!"
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:22 PM
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Here
/r/seduction11/11/14 12:27 PM
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/r/seduction11/11/14 03:31 AM
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Sex is fun even without procreation. True Detective was entertaining as hell, and I didn't defecate once during it.
/r/seduction11/11/14 03:22 AM
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I'm very smart and I've gone to clubs. Theory confirmed!
/r/seduction11/11/14 02:03 AM
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I've noticed a similar trend, not smart guys complaining girls don't like their intelligence, but guys saying they don't like how girls aren't smart enough to stimulate them intellectually. Most of these guys are just putting on a front, and they kinda sound like this to me. Learn a few esoteric ideas and then act like everyone else is dumb because they don't know what you're talking about. It's a way for them to gain a sense of superiority in a society that has put them at the bottom of the hea…
/r/seduction11/11/14 01:25 AM
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This is an essay I just wrote today. Feel free to criticize. Alright. I'll take a break from critiquing my students' essays to critique yours. You don't have a clearly defined thesis. Your reference to Darwinism sounds like you only have cursory knowledge of the subject and have not read Origin or Descent. Science has not proven the basic tenets of religion false, nor is science at all capable of speaking to the issue. So then what can man strive for to be the best you can be? In the end one can…
/r/seduction11/11/14 01:07 AM
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Hey, odds are you got that advice from something I wrote! (Your word choice sounds like how I've written it. Did the advice you read mention it drew from negotiation/mediation strategy?) The 90 degree angle is best, but you also have to use some judgment. If the table is particularly small, then it might be awkward. But, for a normal sized 4 top, sit at the 90 degree spot rather than directly across. 90 degrees really is the best because it's not awkwardly close, but it still feels more intimate…
/r/seduction10/11/14 10:20 PM
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Define what you mean by "the friendzone" and you'll have answered your own question.
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:13 PM
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/r/seduction10/11/14 04:29 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction10/11/14 01:35 PM
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I think you may have confused "uninteresting" with "disinterested."
/r/seduction10/11/14 01:30 PM
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Being with a big muscular guy also makes her feel safe. I'm pretty sure most girls are attracted to big muscular guys.
/r/seduction10/11/14 01:04 AM
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And this is how you collect wood.
/r/seduction09/11/14 07:35 PM
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This belongs in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction09/11/14 07:33 PM
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What does it matter if it's harder or easier? It's however difficult it is. Either play the hand you've been dealt, or go get a new hand.
/r/seduction09/11/14 04:48 PM
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Can you explain why you think getting hugged would indicate that you're in the friendzone?
/r/seduction08/11/14 11:20 PM
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Get a friend who you trust (and who knows some pickup theory) to watch you approach and give you feedback.
/r/seduction08/11/14 10:46 PM
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I'm very confident in myself, so the only assumption I can make is physical unattractiveness You literally cannot think of anything else that might play a role? Please try.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:21 PM
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Girls are insecure if you are hot. Anyone can be insecure if they're worried about possibly not making a good impression because they value your opinion for any number of reasons. FTFY
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:20 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:03 PM
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Juggler.
/r/seduction07/11/14 02:04 PM
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Again, I'm going to say that the problem is most likely that you're writing off people too quickly. Most people do tend to put on a front that gets them through the day with the least amount of discomfort and annoyance. And, most people do have something they care deeply about, even if they're not actively pursuing it right then. There are some truly vapid people out there, but they're a rare breed. Most of the time if people seem shallow, it's just because you haven't gotten them to open up, so…
/r/seduction06/11/14 06:56 PM
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Basically this. Alpha and Beta can be useful shorthand, but they're far from being truly accurate.
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:28 PM
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Basically, if I were a girl (and better looking), I'd be your type. I have a JD from a top law school, so I'm wicked smaht, and I'm finishing an MFA in fiction writing and working on publishing a collection of poems I've translated from Chinese, so I've got a pretty good bit of emotional depth to me as well. And there's no other way of putting this, but to me, you sound like an ass and completely unaware of the emotions of those around you. I've known a ton of lawyers, and none of them has struc…
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:27 PM
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THE FIELD /thread
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:59 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction06/11/14 12:58 PM
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But they already know he was preselected! And they also know that he's into the girls who selected him! They already know all of this! Just shut up and bang them already!!!!!
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:12 PM
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Nah, I like mine more. If he's hooking up with a lot of girls, then we can assume girls like him. By saying "I like the girls here," he's making himself the selector. Saying "I guess the girls really like me here" sounds like this is new, as if they didn't like him in high school. Not that it's a huge difference. It's subtle, maybe no one would even notice, and fuck it, a thousand more important things are going on in the interaction.
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:57 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:43 PM
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What's there to handle? Is this affecting your life in any way? If you're trying to get with a girl and she brings it up, just be honest. "I hear you have a reputation as a man whore." "Oh, well, yeah, I guess I really like the girls here." Bam. Handled.
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:02 PM
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Basically this, but I'll add something else: If the friendship is truly important to you, why would you risk it just to get a girl? It's because you don't see yourself as having other options. If you were getting a D2 with a new girl every week, it'd seem insane to you to risk a friendship just to have a week were you got two dates instead of one. We only risk out friendships because we don't see ourselves having any other options. The solution isn't to minimize the risk to the friendship, the s…
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:50 PM
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Maybe the sex isn't that great. Hear me out! I'm not saying you're entirely unskilled or anything, but I've found that sometimes when it's just not working it's because the position is a little bit off. A slight change of angle can make a world of difference. That might be why in your previous relationship it got better the longer you were together -- you basically had more practice and knew how to work together. Yes, sex is teamwork. You may also want to try condoms with a different shape or de…
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:10 PM
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denying this is a sign of addiction Or denying it is a sign that your experience is not the universal experience.
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:07 PM
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Can we stop with the blog posts? Yes, we can. You can stop them by looking through the New tab and downvoting them early. You can also flag them if they don't provide any real substance and are just fluff and clickbait. We remove a lot of these posts, but we also have school and jobs and real lives, so we're not monitoring the sub 24/7.
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:03 PM
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Buy one piece, try it out, see what reactions you get.
/r/seduction04/11/14 02:37 PM
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I believe it's the not just the color but the brightness as well (bright colors look happy). That said, don't feel like you need to go around wearing nothing but bright red all the time. The more important thing is to pick clothes that fit you well, that match your style, and that you feel comfortable in. I have a shirt that routinely gets compliments every time I wear it. It's blue and gray.
/r/seduction04/11/14 02:03 PM
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The problem isn't that it can't be expressed in numbers. The problem is the number of variables at work makes it too complex to bother with here. You have to consider not just the gross (heh) amount of attraction at the end of the date, but also which way it was trending, how much momentum it had. And then you have to look at other things going on in her life. A new studly coworker will sink her attraction for you. Getting hit on by a creep might make her appreciate you more, or it might make he…
/r/seduction04/11/14 01:52 PM
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Complains about depression and lack of motivation. ...posts to /r/trees. Yeah, there's your problem.
/r/seduction04/11/14 01:46 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong on /r/askseddit
/r/seduction04/11/14 01:42 PM
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What's your current relationship with this girl? How often do you talk to her? How often do you hang out?
/r/seduction04/11/14 01:32 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong on /r/askseddit
/r/seduction04/11/14 01:31 PM
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I dont try to kiss them or anything on the first date, and at the end I will give them a kiss on the cheek and that will be it. That could be your problem.
/r/seduction03/11/14 07:02 PM
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Some details about how the dates tend to go would be useful, don't you think?
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:05 PM
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If you flirt with girls and escalate (appropriately) you'll come across as a sexual person. If you escalate too quickly and act like you're obsessed with sex, you'll come across as creepy.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:38 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:36 PM
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Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit
/r/seduction03/11/14 01:53 PM
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Every day she goes out, no matter if she's wearing crappy sweatpants or a sexy little black dress, she gets hit on AT LEAST 3 times a day. I suspect this vastly overestimates the number of times she gets hit on per day. There's a good chance she's interpreting something as being hit on when really it's just a guy being particularly nice (customer service workers can come across as flirting not because they're hitting on the girl, but because being really nice to people makes the job suck a lot l…
/r/seduction03/11/14 01:51 PM
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Read the texting guides on the sidebar. Questions about specific girls belong in /r/askseddit.
/r/seduction03/11/14 01:38 PM
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Find some less bitchy/catty girls to be around. Also, become more attractive.
/r/seduction03/11/14 01:36 PM
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Can't give better advice without more details from you. Otherwise it's just a guessing game.
/r/seduction03/11/14 12:38 PM
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With that many dates, it's not girls not wanting relationships. It's you. Good news though: that's true of every single guy on Seddit :-) Good chance your problem is that you're not gauging their level of interest right. If you rush to make out, have sex, whatever, when their buying temp isn't high enough, you come across as too aggressive, only interested in sex, etc. If you don't go for it when their buying temp is up, they end up with lady blueballs, think you're not going to take charge, etc…
/r/seduction03/11/14 01:32 AM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong on /r/askseddit
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:41 PM
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Move on, stop wasting hours of your life.
/r/seduction02/11/14 07:55 PM
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I don't know what it is; I can talk to girls, dance with them, flirt with them... I'm having trouble sealing the deal though. What trouble are you having?
/r/seduction02/11/14 07:08 PM
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Some do, some don't. If you're going on a date though, the girl is probably open to a relationship, so it could be that your date game isn't very good.
/r/seduction02/11/14 05:18 PM
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I prefer getting a number because it prevents you from wasting time facebook stalking or worrying about every little status update either of you makes. Phone numbers are simpler, and it's less ambiguous why you want her number.
/r/seduction02/11/14 05:17 PM
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Refer to the sidebar.
/r/seduction02/11/14 05:16 PM
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Do it a lot more.
/r/seduction02/11/14 05:15 PM
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It can work if done well. It will fail if done poorly. Same as every opener. Want to know if it has a better chance of working? Try it 20 times and report back.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:54 AM
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So you asked her to go on a Tuesday date, and then she said yes. Then before going out you asked her to go on a different date on Friday? Yeah, that's just weird bro.
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:53 AM
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"Hey"
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:51 AM
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You might be the weirdo. Really going to let that stop you?
/r/seduction28/10/14 01:49 AM
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How can I keep her interest without being clingy? Wrong question. Either you have her interest, or you don't. If you have it, she'll get back in touch to set up the date. If you don't have it, it doesn't matter what you do now.
/r/seduction27/10/14 08:44 PM
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My question is, what happened? We don't know, we weren't there.
/r/seduction27/10/14 08:43 PM
2

Best way is to not be needy. You should still have friends, interests, and a life outside the relationship, and not be getting serious because you feel like you have to lock this one down or risk being single forever.
/r/seduction27/10/14 08:43 PM
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I only just got the second professor I needed for my thesis committee like last week, when I was supposed to do it months ago (before the summer started). Some people, once they procrastinate a little, find it hard to stop because now they have to admit they screwed up. Then it snowballs because the screw up gets bigger and bigger.
/r/seduction27/10/14 07:01 PM
2

Do whatever you can to improve your looks, and do whatever you can to improve your game. Literally the same advice as for anyone else. /thread
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:54 PM
2

You haven't mentioned how often you go out to meet girls.
/r/seduction27/10/14 02:54 PM
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It can be amusing/intriguing for a bit, but the longer you talk to someone the less effective it will be. They'll become frustrated and it'll feel like you're putting up a front.
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:44 PM
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In this type of situation you really need to make use of your wingman. He can fill you in on what went down while you were gone. Did the girl get her friend to sit down to intervene, is the girl intervening on her own without being prompted, or is it just a pure accident?
/r/seduction26/10/14 04:58 PM
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Most people who get into Weight Watchers are fat. I'm not sure if Weight Watchers makes people fat, or if fat people are attracted to Weight Watchers...
/r/seduction26/10/14 04:49 PM
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There was nothing in this post to indicate that he was likely dangerous. Did he see the guy trying to drug girls? Did the guy talk about emotionally abusing women to manipulate them? Nope. The guy is just awkward around girls, fumbling with routines, and trying to gain some respect by lying about the girls he's been with. we shouldn't make genuine creeps more capable. "Creep" and "capable" are both horribly vague words in this context. If you mean we shouldn't help people who have nefarious inte…
/r/seduction26/10/14 04:45 PM
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I know this is going to be shocking, but many people who are engaged in self-improvement have a lot of improving to do. This would be a shitty community if we said WBAFCs weren't welcome.
/r/seduction26/10/14 04:36 PM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong on /r/AskSeddit.
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:59 PM
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Have you considered that maybe this guy is just way below average on social skills and is trying to improve any way he can? You know, kinda like most people on Seddit... Yes it can be creepy, because that's just part of the learning process. No one comes across like a natural while in the process of improving themselves. One of the most beneficial things a guy can get is someone who is willing to watch them in action and give constructive feedback. Did you even try to talk to him about how his t…
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:57 PM
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Ahoy there. Please stop adding your website as a signature to your comments. That's very spammy. If you add it to a quality, substantive post, then it can be appropriate for people who want to learn more from you, but tacking it on to just any ol' comment isn't appropriate.
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:51 PM
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Yes. /thread
/r/seduction26/10/14 02:50 PM
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Questions about specific girls/situations belong on /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction20/10/14 01:36 PM
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If you want to know if it's affecting your game, stop for a little while and find out. /thread
/r/seduction20/10/14 01:34 PM
1

You used to be unapproachable and had resting bitch face, yet smiling for prolonged periods is completely natural for you? I don't see how these can be true at the same time.
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:30 PM
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It depends on what you want to get out of. Are you trying to hook up that night? Then if a girl is interested you should stick with her. Are you trying to get a ton of experience opening? Then open a bunch.
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:28 PM
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/r/seduction15/10/14 01:55 PM
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/r/seduction15/10/14 01:55 PM
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/r/seduction14/10/14 02:17 PM
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This is a terrible opener. If you run it enough, yes, you'll probably end up with quite a few numbers. And none of them will call you back and you'll get zero dates out of it. Gimmicks like this are dead ends.
/r/seduction14/10/14 02:15 PM
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I like to use a sports metaphor to explain this. Imagine you're a football quarterback. Inner game is getting your head in the right place for the game. You get a good pep talk, you're not distracted by little things. You're not going to have missed cues, you know what the play clock is at, you're simultaneously amped up and calm and collected. Your mind is absolutely perfectly in the zone. You call hike, the center snaps the ball, and you drop it, you scramble to recover it and just before gett…
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:19 PM
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I dunno. Try it 20 times, and report back. /thread
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:10 PM
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inner game = self esteem outer game = self confidence Not really. Inner game is both self esteem and self confidence. Outer game is interpersonal skills. Confidence in your outer game is inner game.
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:09 PM
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Tl;dr: Non-fictional tends to teach you more. This doesn't mean that fictional teaches you nothing, I just find that it teaches you less than non-fictional. This is wrong on so many levels. First, since you seem to be talking only about self-help non-fiction, I'm going to refer to it as self-help from here on out because it's a tiny minority of the non-fiction out there. Self-help does not teach you more than fiction, it teaches you something different. And this is with a big caveat: Often self-…
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:07 PM
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Looks like you've confused Inner Game with Lifestyle. Inner Game is basically confidence, and that's what you're lacking. And Inner Game is something that a girl can pick up on in a 5 minute conversation at a bar. It comes through in how you carry yourself, the tone of your voice, how much eye contact you make, etc. if there were a part II to that post to help those of us with incomplete social lives, what would it be? Go out to bars, meet girls.
/r/seduction12/10/14 02:35 PM
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Yeup.
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:04 AM
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If you know 80-100 attractive girls, then the problem isn't meeting new girls. How many of these girls have you even asked out?
/r/seduction12/10/14 04:01 AM
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If 4,000 are commuters, that leaves 3,300 students. You know ~800 girls already? Damn bro. Problem isn't finding more girls, it's attracting the ones you've met.
/r/seduction12/10/14 03:55 AM
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I cook, I learned to juggle, I'm building my own custom lego spaceship with about a zillion functional parts, and just for fun I'm giving a talk at a conference on fictional legal systems. Also reading, when I get around to it.
/r/seduction11/10/14 04:15 PM
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Touching hands isn't going to get you into any trouble. Touching their legs could if you haven't been getting reciprocal kino back from them. As for how old they are, I don't know, they're wearing a ton of make up. Don't care either.
/r/seduction10/10/14 09:43 PM
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hand contact That's a very big field. Be specific.
/r/seduction10/10/14 09:25 PM
2

Just what sort of kino do you have in mind where getting arrested is a possibility?
/r/seduction10/10/14 09:20 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction10/10/14 09:19 PM
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Average Frustrated Chump
/r/seduction10/10/14 02:42 PM
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Our caveman brains aren't really wired for minor fears. The caveman world was very black and white. There were things to not worry about, and things that would kill you. Not a lot of things to worry about only a little bit. Rejection, embarrassment and the like hurt, but only a bit, and there can be some social fallout, but usually only a little. But our caveman brains don't know how to interpret that. It can either be totally unafraid, or it can think that the girl is a hungry mama bear protect…
/r/seduction10/10/14 11:50 AM
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Getting a girl's number under false pretenses (you want to date, but say it's so you can get together and study) is a bit creepy. If you do actually want to study with her, then call her up, ask her to study, and use that as a chance to get to know her better. If you don't want to study together, call her up and ask her out. What do you stand to lose?
/r/seduction10/10/14 11:44 AM
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If you're a reasonably attractive guy with decent social skills, then dating from your social circle can be okay -- in fact, it's how most people find someone. But, if you're an AFC, dating from your social circle will usually mean creeping out your female friends, ruining a few friendships, and severely limiting your options. As for whether the person in your relationship should be your best friend... It's often a bad idea to date someone who is already your best friend. But, it's okay for the …
/r/seduction10/10/14 11:42 AM
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I don't think it's the publishing that's really the creepy part. If you're planning to blur out her face and keep her anonymous, that doesn't seem terribly creepy to me. What'd be a bigger problem is that you're starting the interaction with an agenda that's going to cause you to put up a certain front, and that will fuck with your game. But I think there's two even bigger reasons why we don't see good in-field video: (1) A bunch of pros are better at internet marketing than they are at actually…
/r/seduction10/10/14 11:33 AM
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"I noticed you noticing me, and I just wanted to put you on notice that I noticed you, too." -- Fresh Prince
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:06 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction08/10/14 04:03 PM
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One of this subreddit's advice I've always heard from RSDJulien Also this isn't about seduction, it's about you being a butthole to a friend. Removed.
/r/seduction07/10/14 04:26 PM
1

Just be more specific. What type of programming do you do? Computer programmer isn't boring just because programming is boring (to most girls). It's boring because it's generic. "I write programs for insurance companies" is much more interesting (even if it's still just boring programming).
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:45 PM
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First, get your game up to a 10.
/r/seduction06/10/14 04:20 PM
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Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction05/10/14 06:18 PM
1

If by area you mean regions, then yes. But if you mean subject matters, then no, small claims courts will hear all sorts of disputes.
/r/PussyPass05/10/14 03:30 PM
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So maybe she got distracted by the first part. So she's thinking "I'm responding to this" while you're thinking "She didn't respond to that other part." Or maybe she didn't want to give her number, and used the other part of the message to avoid the issue. Only way to find out is to continue the conversation.
/r/seduction05/10/14 01:49 AM
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She'll say something like "Say please", and I'll reply by calling her out on her drama Post examples of this.
/r/seduction04/10/14 10:18 PM
3

Why not just approach rather than standing off at a distance? It's easier to approach with eye contact first, but you should just head in. Moving towards them will draw attention, so it's easier to get eye contact before you reach them, and if you don't get it then you just approach without it.
/r/seduction04/10/14 10:17 PM
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Sidebar
/r/seduction29/09/14 01:10 PM
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And now you know not to take advice from coked out frat guys who might just be trying to get you to fuck fat chicks because it would be funny.
/r/seduction29/09/14 12:55 AM
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Someone once told me that starting off f-closing more unattractive women will help me gain experience. It pains me to see that advice is still making the rounds. I always wonder where people get advice like this. Every once in a while someone will come in and say "I keep hearing [bad advice]" and yet they can never point to where they're getting it from. I'm sure there is some terrible advice like this out there, but I bet a lot of the time it's the guy being derpy and not understanding what was…
/r/seduction28/09/14 09:56 PM
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It can help, but is it enough on its own? No.
/r/seduction28/09/14 03:45 PM
1

Sit on couch. Sit next to her at the table instead of directly across from her.
/r/seduction27/09/14 01:01 PM
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On sites where you can filter by race, you're probably going to have a bit of trouble. Not really sure how it plays out when you can't sort by race. But here's an awesome idea if you find you're having trouble with dating sites: Go out and meet women in person. The end.
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:46 PM
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NOT A SHIT TEST
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:45 PM
2

The normal way. You're welcome.
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:44 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction26/09/14 12:54 PM
1

If you can't change it, it doesn't matter. /thread
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:57 PM
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What you do is tell her that you can't tell how interested she is because she never takes the initiative, that you feel like she's just kinda going along with it but isn't that invested.
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:56 PM
2

This is one of those situations where it's almost entirely your delivery, body language, etc, and little to do with the line itself. Try it 20 more times, see how much the line really matters.
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:55 PM
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Walk up, open mouth, make fool of self, feel embarrassed, walk away. REPEAT. That's it. Do some basic searches on openers, and get out in the field. /thread
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:54 PM
1

I don't? Seriously. She may be way better looking than me, and could get a guy way better looking than me, but who am I to decide whether or not she likes me? That's her call to make, and I better give her the chance to make it.
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:53 PM
3

Depends on why you don't want anyone to know.
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:51 PM
2

How long have you been seeing each other, how many times have you asked her out? Have you had sex?
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:51 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction24/09/14 02:50 PM
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In the future, please try to move your videos along a lot faster. If after 1:45 (the equivalent of about a page for someone talking at the normal speed of 140wpm) you haven't gotten past your introduction, then you need to do better editing. I tend to crackdown on videos that take too long to get going because of the tendency for guys to get into self-help time sinks. IE: Rather than going out and talking to girls to get better, they look for endless hours of videos to watch. Over-long, rambling…
/r/seduction22/09/14 05:22 PM
1

Read sidebar texting guides.
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:35 PM
1

Your submission was removed because you just need to try it and see what happens. Then try it a bunch more times. Repost when you call tell us if it works.
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:33 PM
4

Basically this. Getting numbers is easy because it's so easy for a girl to just ignore your texts. I've had stretched where I'd get 10+ numbers that would all flake because I was going out with the intention just of getting numbers, rather than on building a connection.
/r/seduction22/09/14 01:31 PM
1

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/r/seduction21/09/14 11:59 AM
1

Your submission was removed because this topic has been discussed many times. Run a search.
/r/seduction21/09/14 11:59 AM
1

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/r/seduction21/09/14 11:59 AM
2

Think about jerking off with your dick completely dry. Not pleasant, is it? So just start very slow and uh... thinks sort of take care of themselves down there.
/r/seduction20/09/14 07:41 PM
2

It's not necessary, and it's rarely sufficient, but it does help. If you're trying to become wealthy in order to get more women, you will most likely fail. You need to pursue work that you're both good at and passionate about, then the money will follow.
/r/seduction15/09/14 04:48 PM
1

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/r/seduction15/09/14 04:45 PM
10

Why don't you just ask OP to move the post to askseddit instead of being condescending and dismissive. We do. These removals come with a form response telling them they can repost on askseddit. The reason for this post is because we can't be 100% efficient as moderators. We have jobs and lives and other things that take up our time. Asking people not to post content that will later need removal cuts down on the moderator workload. We welcome and ask for specific field reports, so it is evident t…
/r/seduction15/09/14 04:44 PM
2

So who cares about your accent?
/r/seduction13/09/14 07:27 PM
3

You start learning the language, and you talk to them as best you can.
/r/seduction13/09/14 05:21 PM
1

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/r/seduction13/09/14 03:44 PM
4

hes doing what I am not Well then, duh. The solution isn't to find some inner zen peace with yourself. It's to fucking talk to more girls.
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:44 PM
0

Your submission was removed because Seddit is here to provide advice related to seduction, not to explain why you get jealous of your neighbor.
/r/seduction13/09/14 03:42 PM
5

Don't. Talk to them before/after class, get number, go on date, kino then. In class pay attention to class.
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:25 PM
1

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/r/seduction29/08/14 04:10 PM
1

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/r/seduction29/08/14 04:09 PM
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/r/seduction29/08/14 02:20 PM
1

I really like jersey, but I find the top sheet tends to get bunched up or wrapped around me.
/r/seduction29/08/14 02:19 PM
1

How are your interactions with guys you're not interested in dating? Are you able to relax around them, joke and have fun?
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:48 PM
3

Just do the classic invitation bait: "Big plans this weekend? ...No, me neither, though I was thinking about doing XYZ." If he's interested, he'll keep the conversation going, looking for an easy way to ask you out. If he's not, he won't.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:44 PM
1

Read the texting guides on the sidebar.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:41 PM
1

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/r/seduction29/08/14 12:36 PM
4

Most guys don't get checked out on the street. Maybe the top 1%, but generally no one is that interested in checking out guys.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:35 PM
1

Posting wrong. It's a form response.
/r/seduction26/08/14 04:42 PM
1

Run it 20 times and let us know. Until then, thread removed.
/r/seduction26/08/14 04:42 PM
2

Go out anyways.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:52 PM
1

Your submission was removed because sidebar
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:51 PM
1

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/r/seduction26/08/14 01:40 PM
1

How many times have you run this? / What's your success rate?
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:40 PM
3

Where do I start? The field. Go out and talk to girls. Even if you crash and burn, the first thing you need to do is figure out exactly where you're at.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:40 PM
5

Busy dance clubs aren't my scene any more, so I can't give much advice there, but if you go to bars that are a bit more laid back (happy hour is good) then the first thing you should put in your toolkit is the situational opener. Pick anything and comment on it. He's got a book, ask how it is. There's a game on TV, ask him what his team is. He orders a froufrou drink, ask him if his balls have dropped. Ask a woman, it's going to be rare for you to get the insta-rejection that guys are worried ab…
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:38 AM
4

Hey, I mod r/fpua, so I'm going to ask you one of the normal questions for women: Is your goal to get more people to approach you, or to be able to cold approach like guys do?
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:33 AM
2

So workout to tone the body rather than build muscle. That's like telling AFCs not to fuck too many girls because the 10s don't want a man whore. Or telling someone at a dead stop not to press the gas too hard because cops will come down hard on you for doing 100mph. Technically the advice is correct, but it's also basically off topic. Assuming she isn't already very fit, she should be trying to put on muscle. After she puts on muscle, then she can figure out if she should put on any more.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:32 AM
4

Came to recommend r/fpua. It looks dead most of the time, but there's actually quite a good comment rate, just not a lot of new posts.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:26 AM
1

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/r/seduction26/08/14 01:24 AM
2

I went a couple years back in NYC. Better than just an advertisement, but it's not like you're really going to learn anything useful either. Best use is to find some wingmen.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:24 AM
60

Eye contact, kino, paying attention, trying to mash your face into her face.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:23 AM
1

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/r/seduction26/08/14 01:23 AM
3

If you've told her what your expectations and intentions are, you're not leading her on. She's leading herself on.
/r/seduction25/08/14 09:07 PM
1

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/r/seduction25/08/14 08:58 PM
1

Do you have any preferred resources on preventing buyer's remorse? ...A winning personality?
/r/seduction25/08/14 07:00 PM
2

I think (3) sounds fine. Having a concrete idea of what, but not a definite when, is perfect. My only advice here is to maybe scale down the making out a bit, and introduce the idea of D3 before the end of the date. Then at the end of the date you bring up the D3 idea again, "So I'll call you about plans to go to that bar. I'll probably be free Thursday or Friday, I'll let you know when I'm sure." Everyone will nod and agree to another date at the end of the night, even if they don't want to go …
/r/seduction25/08/14 05:28 PM
2

Don't push too hard for sex on the D2. If it's going to happen, let it happen, but if you have to push for it then she'll think that's all you're interested in. If you're planning to see her again, then you won't be so desperate to have sex that night; you know it'll happen next time. Don't spam her with texts in between, but don't be a completely silent aloof guy either. Make your D3 plans more concrete. Every guy says "Yeah, I'm totally going to call you again!" If you have something more spec…
/r/seduction25/08/14 03:01 PM
1

Your submission was removed because sidebar
/r/seduction25/08/14 02:57 PM
7

It's a dorm room, brah. Just keep it clean and have condoms.
/r/seduction25/08/14 01:41 PM
2

Does your camera have a timer?
/r/seduction25/08/14 04:54 AM
1

Basic texting law is read the sidebar. /thread
/r/seduction24/08/14 06:43 PM
1

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/r/seduction24/08/14 06:42 PM
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/r/seduction24/08/14 06:42 PM
1

It can help people who have serious porn/masturbation addictions (but a therapist is better if this describes you). For everyone else it's at best a placebo and at worst it gives you an unhealthy relationship with your fun bits. /thread
/r/seduction24/08/14 01:57 PM
2

TITCR A couple more tips though: Assuming you're doing a walk-in (because you don't already know which stylist you want) tell the person at the front desk that you don't know what you want so that they can try to set you up with someone who's good with consultations. Even better is to call ahead of time and make an appointment. Just tell them you're a guy, you don't really know what you want to do with your hair and can they recommend a stylist who's good with guys who need some advice. They wan…
/r/seduction24/08/14 01:56 PM
1

Men tend to feel attraction much quicker and more frequently. Go out to a well populated public area and count the number of women you'd have sex with right then if you could. If women did the same thing with men, there'd be a lot of women uninterested in immediately having sex with any of the men there. Men tend to have a low requirement for sex: just be attractive enough and please don't be repulsively stupid or bitchy. Women have a higher bar for sex.
/r/seduction23/08/14 06:21 PM
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/r/seduction23/08/14 06:14 PM
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/r/seduction22/08/14 11:05 AM
1

No amount of advice, no matter how perfect, and no quality of game, no matter how flawless and refined will work in every single situation. Sometimes you just don't win. Get over it and try again with someone else.
/r/seduction21/08/14 01:18 PM
2

I hadn't had my coffee yet.
/r/seduction21/08/14 11:20 AM
1

Try happy hours. Quieter music, smaller groups, and people are much more willing to socialize with strangers. You know how it's easy to approach someone you obviously have something in common? Like you're in class together, or you're coworkers, something like that. Being at a bar at 5pm is something in common -- granted, it means you're both drunks who hate your life, but it's something!
/r/seduction21/08/14 10:16 AM
-1

You've got it wrong. The "own" belongs to the girl, it's her own. They're own their own. I'm on my own, you're on you're own. It's not "I'm on there own, you're on there own."
/r/seduction21/08/14 10:14 AM
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/r/seduction21/08/14 10:07 AM
5

4000 likes converted into 2 numbers? Makes me feel better about not using Tinder.
/r/seduction18/08/14 06:52 PM
5

"Let's make a move, bro!" "I'm feeling kinda apprehensive about it though." "...So?" "So, you know. That's how I feel." "Your arms still work though, right?" "Yeah." "So what's the problem." "I feel apprehensive." "And that stops your arms from moving?" "No. It's just that I have feels." "So the fuck what? Do it anyways."
/r/seduction18/08/14 06:50 PM
10

Context, experience.
/r/seduction18/08/14 06:23 PM
8

It can mean a lot of things, depending on tone, context, etc. Could mean that you're creeping her out. It could also mean that she's in to you somewhat, but that it looks like you're trying to escalate faster than she wants.
/r/seduction18/08/14 06:18 PM
3

Ding ding ding! Except... don't walk away.
/r/seduction18/08/14 06:16 PM
20

Approach.
/r/seduction18/08/14 01:22 PM
1

This. The OKCupid stats show that black men get the lowest response rate from women, below every other minority.
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:26 AM
1

Your submission was removed because read the sidebar, read the top posts, go out and approach a lot of women. Come back when you have specific sticking points to ask for advice with.
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:20 AM
2

Your submission was removed because we don't need to hear about your plans. Come back when your plans turn into results and from those results you have insights.
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:20 AM
1

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/r/seduction18/08/14 11:18 AM
1

Your submission was removed because read the texting guides on the sidebar
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:18 AM
26

Put down the advice, and go approach a lot more. You need a 10:1 ratio of time spent approaching to time spent reading advice. You're basically trying to do this backwards. You're treating advice like an instruction manual or recipe and trying to build an interaction from it. What you should do is treat it like a troubleshooting manual. Go out a bunch, get a ton of experience under your belt, then figure out where your problems are and use the advice to try to fix them.
/r/seduction18/08/14 11:18 AM
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/r/seduction17/08/14 03:18 PM
3

Yeah, basically my rule is I'll stick with it so long as it's moving forward. I don't care too much about the speed it's moving at.
/r/seduction17/08/14 03:07 PM
1

ThePUA_Baddie is active enough here that he's heard all the basic advice.
/r/seduction17/08/14 01:02 PM
1

Maybe you have a shitty personality?
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:44 PM
2

Eh, I've had plenty of experiences where nothing happened on the first date but it did escalate on the second. And, other people reported the same thing on the original post. Does that mean my game sucks because I couldn't make it happen on the first date? I don't think so. Not any more than saying your game sucks because you have to be in set 20 minutes before going for a kiss rather than getting an instant makeout immediately after opening. It's not a race.
/r/seduction17/08/14 12:38 PM
1

That's a pretty dumb way of looking at it. You probably can be friends with women, you just haven't gotten the right combination of (1) your head being in the right place and (2) finding girls you actually connect with.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:25 PM
2

Sounds like maybe y'all just aren't friends.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:10 PM
1

After about a year still whiny and bitchy about the lost love of my life I did stumble upon a PUA forum local to my country, wrote a presentation and got invited to hang out with a bunch of guys kinda in the same spot as me, I was 23 at this point, had never been in a club before other than some rock bars when I was performing on stage so this was all new to me. With this I also realized that women are scary and I've no idea how the hell you talk to them. I would go out with these guys almost ev…
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:05 PM
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/r/seduction16/08/14 10:52 PM
2

I feel as if I have to game my own female friends, as if I shouldn't share my vulnerabilities and seem weak. If you're doing this, you're going to alienate your friends very quickly. They'll know you're putting up a front, and they're going to lose respect for you.
/r/seduction16/08/14 10:51 PM
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/r/seduction16/08/14 10:49 PM
1

Your submission was removed because read the texting guides on the sidebar
/r/seduction16/08/14 10:10 PM
4

BBBZZZZZZZZZ. Wrong. The best program out there is one you already know. It's called: Get out into the field and approach a bunch of girls. You've fallen into a trap that hits a ton of guys here. Hell, it probably hits the majority of people trying any sort of self help. You focus on reading advice, watching videos, making plans, that sort of thing, when all that time and energy should be put into actually doing shit to improve yourself. I think it's maybe because of how our education system is …
/r/seduction16/08/14 05:07 PM
1

Your submission was removed because this isn't the right forum for this sort of advice.
/r/seduction16/08/14 04:58 PM
1

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/r/seduction16/08/14 04:57 PM
3

PROTIP: If you both eat the same stuff, neither of you smells bad to the other. Don't get the super garlic chili fish if she's ordering a grilled lemon chicken salad. But if you both munch down on onion rings you're both okay. ...Next morning might not be too pleasant though.
/r/seduction16/08/14 03:52 PM
4

That's actually part of why it makes for a good date. It's a meal that causes you to lose your pretensions in order to eat. And guess what bubba, she's going to be in the exact same boat.
/r/seduction16/08/14 03:50 PM
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/r/seduction16/08/14 02:59 PM
1

Fundamental principle of Pick Up Artists seem to be to deceive women. Hi, you must be new here. /thread
/r/seduction16/08/14 12:28 PM
1

Yeup, that's a lot of things to work on. And, by breaking it down into a list of small items, you can tackle them individually and it doesn't seem like such a daunting task. For kino, you make eye contact and move a little closer. Does she hold the eye contact? Does she stay where she is, or maybe even move closer? Now you know she wants to be touched. But really, you just figure this out through experience, and you will make a lot of mistakes. That's okay, that's how everyone learns this stuff.…
/r/seduction16/08/14 12:25 PM
1

For there to be any use in seduction advice, people need to generally think alike.
/r/seduction16/08/14 11:55 AM
44

Completely agree. First date with someone from your social circle? She shouldn't be on the fence. D2 with a fork from a bar? Okay. Maybe unusual to not kiss, but not unheard of. Date from online site? Totally normal.
/r/seduction16/08/14 04:06 AM
11

It's an Asian (maybe Thai or Vietnamese) noodle soup.
/r/seduction16/08/14 04:03 AM
3

How many times have you used that line, and what percentage of the time has it worked?
/r/seduction15/08/14 10:00 PM
2

How many girls have complained about your size/refused to sleep with you because of it/etc?
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:53 PM
1

Balding is a problem. Bald is a choice.
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:51 PM
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Two possibilities come to mind, and neither one was that you're gay. First is like brodoyouevenfondue said, it could be that you're not making a real connection. Find a girl you actually want to date and see for more than just a night or two. Talk, get to know her, form a connection. That's not the same as settling down -- it's possible to have a couple girls you see regularly. Second is that you may have just become jaded. Sleeping with a bunch of girls makes some guys see them as less valuable…
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:49 PM
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You haven't given us enough information to work with. In what way are the dates not going well?
/r/seduction15/08/14 09:42 PM
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Think about this for a moment... You know your problem is obsessing and over analyzing. But what is this post? It's obsessing and over analyzing, and asking others to help you in obsessing and over analyzing. You know the solution is to stop obsessing and over analyzing. You say you want words of encouragement, but come on man, you know exactly what you need to do. Now sack up and do it.
/r/seduction15/08/14 08:08 PM
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You know what the problem is: Obsessing, over analyzing, not relaxing. You know what the solution is: Stop obsessing, stop over analyzing, start relaxing. What do you want from us?
/r/seduction15/08/14 07:41 PM
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Many of the local lairs are active, but not on the sub because there's so little to post about. I know a few use GroupMe to organize meeting up because a chat program is more convenient for that than Reddit. So, don't be discouraged just because the sub is inactive.
/r/seduction15/08/14 07:07 PM
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However, the problem is now that she has already seen me, and if I was to go up to her again, it wouldn't seem like I was the confident kind of guy to just be able to go and talk to a women straight off the bat. What's actually happened in these instances where you've hesitated and then approached later?
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:06 PM
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Everyone has their own special way of flirting Not really. There's the extremely romantic, suave, sexy types (think Spain, Italy, Brazil), and then there's the cocky/funny guy who teases girls. Maybe there's some others? But I think it's about 2% the first type, and 98% the last type.
/r/seduction15/08/14 06:05 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's been covered before. Try a search for "dancing monkey syndrome."
/r/seduction15/08/14 12:09 PM
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/r/seduction15/08/14 12:08 PM
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Hands up if you find the term "kino" a lot creepier than the word "touch"? No one fucking cares. If you don't like a term, don't use. And it doesn't matter if the term is creepy or not, the girl doesn't know what term you're using. A thumb war? Really? Does that hold the interest of anyone over the age of 6? Field tested, HB approved. If you rightfully think there's attraction Key word "rightfully." Obviously a big problem guys have is misreading signs. So, how can you gauge her level of attract…
/r/seduction14/08/14 07:42 PM
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Sac up, guys.
/r/seduction14/08/14 07:37 PM
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Go out and talk to girls IN PERSON.
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:32 PM
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Folks on the male fashion advice sub would probably be able to help you out more, but I'll give you a few tips. Like I said above, go slow. Don't binge on clothes because, as you've discovered, you can quickly make an expensive mistake. I year ago I bought a gray wool tie, wasn't sure if I'd like it, but it was cheap and I ended up getting a ton of use out of it -- I dig that it looks dressed up without being overly formal like silk ties. About 6 months ago I got 3 more, I really like 2, but 1 o…
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:30 PM
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I wouldn't ask your friend about it. Just ignore it, move on, and hook up with a cutie. As for fashion, there's really no reason not to do it. Especially no reason if you're in good shape (which you should be from playing sports). I was hanging out with a friend of mine recently who was wearing a pretty lousy shirt, but there wasn't anything obviously wrong with it, it was the right size and everything, yet it still would have rendered him unfuckable to most girls. He changed into a nice dress s…
/r/seduction14/08/14 04:12 PM
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Could be a bit of confirmation bias and cherry picking. Do you actually know how many people thought you were gay? Imagine this situation: Your friend is talking to 5 other people. One of them actually thinks you're gay and asks. A second person chimes in and says "Yeah, I was kinda wondering that too." Later your friend tells you about it. In her mind she was talking to 5 people who thought you were gay, and she tells you that a bunch of people thought you were gay. But in reality only 1 person…
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:53 PM
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The girls wanted to hook up with you, and wondered why you didn't make a move. This sounds plausible. Even if they weren't interested in him, they could still notice that he wasn't interested in them.
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:51 PM
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Why don't you dress nice?
/r/seduction14/08/14 03:50 PM
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/r/seduction14/08/14 03:47 PM
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Use your money wisely. Use it to dress well. Use it to buy healthy foods to keep you looking good. Don't blow it on overpriced cocktails. Don't try to impress girls by taking them to expensive restaurants.
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:07 PM
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Without more detail about the "game" they're running, it's not really possible to say. you should never women have complete control of the situation if you want to escalate. To me, that point of view sounds kind of misogynistic in some respects. If you care at all about how things go, you shouldn't let anyone else have complete control.
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:05 PM
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Talk it over with your buddies if you want to set up ground rules. But generally speaking, most guys use the situation as an excuse to move the date into your bedroom where you'll have some privacy.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:48 PM
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You probably read body language just fine. The problem is there are people out there trying to act as if you can read all sorts of things from minor gestures and positioning, but really it's just pseudoscience. Here's what you need to know: Is she facing you? How close is she to you? Does she back away if you move closer? I don't know about this NVLD business, but I'm sure you can read those three things perfectly fine.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:33 PM
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/r/seduction14/08/14 12:31 PM
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Yes, you can flirt with girls outside of bars. It's called day game. Look it up.
/r/seduction14/08/14 10:31 AM
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/r/seduction13/08/14 09:57 PM
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Because "Where to begin?" is a question that's already been answered: The field. If you're not actively going out and approaching, then you don't need advice, you need to be out in the field.
/r/seduction13/08/14 09:06 PM
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I use FB almost exclusively for social circle management (it's great for organizing parties, everything else is mostly a time sink), but I did ask out a girl that way recently, and that's really all it took. "I'm thinking about Whatever Mexican Place for dinner in a bit, want to come?" Keep it simple and get'r'done.
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:16 PM
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"I'm going to go do X. You should come." Bam, done. What's the problem?
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:13 PM
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Be honest with them from the beginning about what your expectations are.
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:08 PM
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Go out to a bar, talk to girls. Do that a bunch, then come back when you have specific sticking points to deal with. /thread
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:07 PM
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Your submission was removed because just do a search for openers.
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:06 PM
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Your submission was removed because just do a search for them, and consider talk therapy if it's that serious (if you're going to college, you can probably get it free)
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:04 PM
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Except that Seddit isn't just for beginners. I know it tilts heavy that way because that's just how any community this size gets, but there are guys who are doing pretty well but are still hitting walls that prevent them from getting better. Maybe it's common sense to some people, but I could see guys not understanding that sleeping with a 7 or 8 would hurt your chances with a 9 or 10 in the same social group. After all, from a guy's perspective, sleeping with a 7 raises your value. but if I had…
/r/seduction13/08/14 05:36 PM
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This.
/r/seduction13/08/14 01:48 PM
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There's plenty of things to criticize the post for, but it never said doing this was going to be easy. And you missed the point about not sleeping with a bunch of girls. It's not "Don't sleep with them." He said practice exclusivity. That means you need to first have the option of sleeping with them, and then not do it. He's saying to seduce them but not sleep with them, which is very different from repulsing them and not sleeping with them.
/r/seduction13/08/14 01:47 PM
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"This guy has a different preference than me, therefor his preference is bullshit."
/r/seduction13/08/14 01:43 PM
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Your submission was removed because Seddit is for self-improvement, not other-improvement.
/r/seduction13/08/14 01:40 PM
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Your submission was removed because just research IOIs
/r/seduction13/08/14 01:38 PM
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/r/seduction13/08/14 01:37 PM
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Read the side bar, read the top posts, read a couple of books, and go out and get hundreds of hours of field experience under your belt. Make notes when you get home or the next morning, think through your interactions, figure out what things happened the way they did, look for patterns. Then you'll be able to coach yourself. Next best option: Find some like minded guys in your local area who can act as wingmen and a sort of support network. Worst option: Get a professional coach.
/r/seduction12/08/14 06:33 PM
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Just talking about the other person can also fail though. The girl might get some good feels because everyone like to talk about themselves, but if she doesn't feel like she knows anything about you that can also be a problem. What works best is a balance of talking about her, talking about yourself, and talking about other things. The way to create intrigue (I hate the term mystery, because it sounds just like childish withholding) is to reveal information indirectly by talking about other thin…
/r/seduction12/08/14 12:32 PM
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This post may help
/r/seduction12/08/14 12:23 PM
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/r/seduction12/08/14 12:23 PM
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I removed this because it makes a common mistake with nofap advice here: It purports to be general advice that will help most guys, but it's actually advice for people suffering from porn/masturbation addictions or who have an unhealthy relationship to sex. See for example the first benefit of nofap: 1Spend lots of time engaging in other productive activities that will turn you into a much more qualified person. Most of guys aren't spending a lot of time on porn and masturbating. It's a few minu…
/r/seduction11/08/14 11:19 AM
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At this point no more advice is going to help you. It's like going cliff diving. You can read all the advice on it that's out there, but no amount of advice is going to create in you the urge to jump off the cliff. You just have to find that within yourself.
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:13 AM
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/r/seduction11/08/14 09:11 AM
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/r/seduction11/08/14 09:11 AM
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/r/seduction11/08/14 09:10 AM
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/r/seduction11/08/14 09:10 AM
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/r/seduction11/08/14 09:10 AM
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Your submission was removed because read the texting guides on the sidebar.
/r/seduction11/08/14 09:09 AM
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/r/seduction10/08/14 08:42 PM
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If you haven't been out talking to girls, then you know nothing about pickup. Go out, talk. That's how you start. /thread
/r/seduction10/08/14 08:42 PM
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Also works if you have just a few friends. Also works if you have coworkers. Also works if you can go to happy hour and just talk to strangers there. Also works if you can go watch an NFL game at as sports bar and talk to strangers there.
/r/seduction10/08/14 06:19 PM
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Dan Buettner
/r/seduction10/08/14 06:18 PM
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Therapy.
/r/seduction10/08/14 04:57 PM
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My escalation is not great, although I'm extremely likable by strangers, especially women - due to my fun and positive attitude, so during the festivals themselves, opportunities I do however keep finding ways to not get laid, primarily by refusing to believe that they want to fuck, and therefore missing obvious signs by being too pussy to act immediately and missing the moment with inaction.. OR... by locking it down right away, to the point where it's definitely on, but then being far too pati…
/r/seduction10/08/14 03:11 PM
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There are two options here. (1) You can try to figure out why you care if she's too easy, and then deal with that. (2) Just change your demographics. The big, loud, boots'n'pants dance clubs are naturally going to draw the girls who are looking to hook up that night. If you don't like that kind of girl, go to a place that's a bit more mellow.
/r/seduction10/08/14 01:25 PM
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What have you tried so far?
/r/seduction10/08/14 01:13 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's a general "teach me everything" type post. Read the sidebar, read the top posts, and get out there and approach. Come back with specific sticking point questions.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:20 PM
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First thing is to understand how a bra works. The connection is the back is normally a pair of hooks and eyes. This means you have to push the two ends together a little bit in order to get the eyes off the hooks. You basically get the connection in your hand and squeeze the two ends a little. Some people find it useful to put their thumb on one side and a finger on the other and make a snapping motion to squeeze. That's basically it. You only need to pull them about a quarter of an inch, and wh…
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:19 PM
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Only the approach really needs to be "chasing." Think about the interaction as a space. You have to move towards her to get her into your space initially. Okay, that's a bit chasing. After that, you don't pursue, you just hold your ground. If she wants to stay in your space, great. If she leaves, you let her go.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:12 PM
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Panic attacks are a serious issue. Go get professional help from a licensed therapist.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:10 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's too devoid of detail for anyone to be able to help you. Identify your specific sticking points, then ask for help.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:10 PM
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First of all, you shouldn't care too much about what people say when they're drunk. Because, you know... they're drunk. But basically, you should avoid trying to pick up drunk girls. It's very hard to run game on someone who's lost their attention span and gone full retard. Plus, they're drunk, so there's that liability there.
/r/seduction10/08/14 12:07 PM
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Relax, have fun, don't get the cops called on you. Don't crank your music up like an asshole, people want to be able to talk and you're going to get the cops called if everyone is shouting over the music. Make sure the food is the sort that will keep people from getting drunk. If it takes two hands to eat, people won't eat it (they'd have to put down their beer). If it's a bunch of chips and pretzels they'll just end up drinking more. NYU Law school had a party one year where the food was mostly…
/r/seduction09/08/14 07:16 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's a "teach me everything" type post. Read the sidebar, read the top posts, and get back out in the field a million more times.
/r/seduction09/08/14 07:11 PM
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/r/seduction09/08/14 07:08 PM
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First, have other shit going on in your life. If the only thing you have to do with your time is sit around thinking about this situation you're going to make things worse. Second, time has to pass. As time goes on you think about other shit. You have to start spending time thinking about buying groceries, or the parking ticket you just got, or something funny you saw in TV. Those little everyday things take up more and more of your thoughts until the breakup isn't on your mind any more. And fin…
/r/seduction09/08/14 07:08 PM
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/r/seduction09/08/14 07:04 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl I believe the term "Friendzone" applies to your question, I URGE you to read this post. This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT)
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:07 PM
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Make friends early on when it's easy and everyone is trying to make friends. Focus on building your social circle than trying to get girls.
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:07 PM
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It really depends on the girl and your relationship. But, what she's probably trying to say is "Please don't become a dependent, needy loser who's harassing me all the time and has no life."
/r/seduction09/08/14 04:00 PM
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/r/seduction09/08/14 03:58 PM
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/r/seduction09/08/14 03:58 PM
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/r/seduction09/08/14 03:58 PM
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Good for your buddy, but "my buddy approached a girl" doesn't really help anyone. If there was some actual sort of detail and analysis here, then maybe. /thread
/r/seduction08/08/14 11:33 PM
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/r/seduction08/08/14 06:45 PM
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/r/seduction08/08/14 06:45 PM
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This advice is terrible. If you wait until you look stylish and have all your goals figured out before you ever approach you're never going to approach.
/r/seduction08/08/14 12:01 AM
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/r/seduction07/08/14 11:59 PM
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You're going to the wrong bars and clubs, obviously.
/r/seduction07/08/14 11:59 PM
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Good advice, though I'd just add two things: (1) Under using the environment to your advantage, a big thing to look for are dates where the environment provides a common subject for conversation. For instance, a zoo or art exhibit will give you tons of things you can use for conversation. This works really well because it simulates what being in a relationship is like. Relationships aren't a constant exchange of resume info, it's enjoying life together. It's good for both building rapport quickl…
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:15 PM
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Very few people go out from 10pm-2am during the week because no one else is out there, and many places aren't even open until 2am on a Wednesday night. People who are doing 4 nights a week are most likely finding happy hours. If you really want to get more time out in the field, I'd suggest finding a happy hour and going 5-8pm Thursday night. You're not going to pull, but it's a good way to get some numbers, and also to get your chops warmed up for the weekend. You can also try day game on Sunda…
/r/seduction07/08/14 12:44 PM
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Comments aren't a forum for free advertising.
/r/seduction06/08/14 11:52 AM
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I removed this because it doesn't provide anything useful to anyone else -- lack of audio basically kills it. And, even with audio these types of videos aren't particularly helpful without some accompanying analysis.
/r/seduction06/08/14 11:48 AM
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/r/seduction06/08/14 11:41 AM
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How did you end up here?
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:12 AM
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A husband and wife are celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary and the wife asks her husband if there's anything he wants as a special gift. He replies that in 50 years of marriage he's never had a blow job, so that's what he'd like. The wife says "I've always been worried that if I gave you a blow job you wouldn't respect me." So the husband says "We've been married 50 years. There's no way a blow job is going to make me lose all the respect I have for you." The wife agrees, and that night s…
/r/seduction05/08/14 06:09 PM
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Your submission was removed because day game approaches have been covered many times before. Do a bit of searching.
/r/seduction05/08/14 06:03 PM
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Could work with proper delivery and BAC.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:52 PM
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The Pearl Harbor joke is from the article.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:42 PM
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And know your audience. If you're at a mixer for history PhD students, "Yes, just like the weather when Pearl Harbor was attacked" would be kinda funny.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:32 PM
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"guy who says weird things." Or even if you can pull it off but keep using these responses repeatedly throughout the conversation, you're just the dimwitted cousin of Dancing Monkey Guy: Retarded Monkey Guy. Or, I've heard other people just refer to this as "trolling." It can be fun and entertaining (mostly for you), but it prevents you from making any sort of real connection. These are good ways to break the ice, but poor general conversation tools.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:17 PM
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I actually think "What's your story" is a pretty terrible question. You're really putting the person on the spot, and it's so open ended that it can be tough to figure out how to answer. Something more narrow will generally work better, at least until the conversation has warmed up.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:15 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:20 AM
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They're not harder to talk to, you have a harder time talking to them. Exposure therapy is the best way to get over this.
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:19 AM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:18 AM
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I'm removing this because it's a "teach me everything" type post. Read the sidebar, read the top all time posts. Come back when you have a more specific question.
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:18 AM
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If by talking to girls in class you mean during class, then you're doing it wrong. Not paying attention is a pretty big DLV, plus you're distracting her if she's trying to pay attention. If you mean before or after class, that's the perfect time to be talking to girls. You're in the same class, so it's natural to get to know each other and you obviously have stuff in common to talk about. how boring this semester is Wrong. You think that's the basis for a fun, interesting conversation? Talk abou…
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:16 AM
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If a girl has a boyfriend, just become friends with her. It's always good to grow your social circle.
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:12 AM
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I was expecting this to be an idiotic Tedx video, but it's actually a pretty okay article. Simple, to the point, and with a lot of examples. However, the advice doesn't do what it says it's supposed to do. This won't turn your small talk into a conversation. What it will do is give you better ice breakers and make your small talk more interesting. That's not useless advice, it's just not what the title is claiming.
/r/seduction04/08/14 11:19 PM
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Hello, this post is being removed for not following our introduction / help request policy: FOUND HERE. Please review this guide and repost your questions with the appropriate information added. As a beginner, I would recommend you read the SIDEBAR I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Thank you!
/r/seduction04/08/14 10:04 PM
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/r/seduction04/08/14 10:04 PM
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Possible? Sure. Just about anything is possible. But, this is going to be extremely difficult to pull off, and that's assuming you've got the right set of girls to begin with. Many girls just won't be down for it no matter how tight your game is. It's probably not worth the effort, and you'd be better off finding another girl from a different group instead.
/r/seduction03/08/14 01:17 PM
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Someone just set his life to easy mode.
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:53 AM
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I've heard it used both ways.
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:52 AM
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seeing happy couples knowing its something hard for me to have Honestly, the way you phrased this is a step in the right direction. Notice you didn't say "it's something I'll never have." You said it's something hard for you to have. That means you believe it's possible -- this is good. The next thing to do is get yourself a game plan. Figure out what it will take for you to get a relationship that you're happy with. And yeah, look where I set the bar -- not just any relationship, but one you're…
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:48 AM
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It sounds like you need professional therapy to help you with your anxiety.
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:32 AM
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Good for you. I was just trying to give some friendly advice because when I grade student essays one of the most common problems is students overstating what their research shows.
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:19 AM
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That's not being a gentleman. Getting pushed around your own home by girls who aren't even in there with you is not being a gentleman. It's being a pussy.
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:36 PM
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The "alpha" thing is a misnomer because it implies that there's only one per group. Instead you should be thinking in terms of being a cool, attractive guy. How would you establish yourself as a cool, attractive guy in a group that already has a cool, attractive guy? Well, by befriending him, of course.
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:30 PM
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I thought these were your neighbors. Why were you in the same room as them?
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:20 PM
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Wrong answer. Please reply when you can honestly say "I have unsubscribed from there." Once you do that, put on your shoes and go for a walk. I recommend at least half an hour, but an hour is better.
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:13 PM
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Can you convince yourself of something after repeated repetition? Sure. I do believe in the power of self talk, but that's a far cry from the sort of hypnosis the video purports to show. It's not even hypnosis at all; you're constantly aware of what you're doing. As for why some successful PUAs believe in it, it's almost certainly the result of misplaced attribution. If you really believe in hypnosis and you run your routine and get laid with it, you'll believe that hypnosis works. What's actual…
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:12 PM
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I said I didn't know in a very long winded way that I forgot sharing a little humrous thing about how it's just a place close by to me and that I'll tell her later. ...What the fuck is that? You: "Want to come?" Her: "Sure, where at?" You: "Oh, this place that's nearby, I'll tell you the name later." Seriously, just think about how weird and creepy this sounds. Don't be weird and creepy. We broke up and then I called her a few days later to try and patch up. We spoke and we were going to meet up…
/r/seduction02/08/14 10:04 PM
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I just looked at your posting history, and good god man, it's a pity party. How many times have you posted to ForeverAlone? The more you do that, the more you buy into this narrative you've created for yourself about being terminally unfuckable. End the negative self-talk right now. Stop these "I'm a loser" posts. Just go out and do something that makes you happy. Not video games -- something that makes you leave home. Force yourself to focus on your positive qualities so that you can grow some …
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:55 PM
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They're immature children, and retaliating just plays into their game, it doesn't beat them at it. What I would do is ignore them.
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:48 PM
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I removed this for a few reasons: (1) Hypnosis isn't seduction. Even if it actually worked (and it doesn't, because it's complete bullshit) it wouldn't be seduction any more than it's seduction to spike a girl's drink with ecstasy. (2) Hypnosis is complete bullshit. Now there may be some legitimate forms of hypnotherapy, but this sort of stage magic is not real. It's a trick. (3) This video itself is a trick, it's not hypnosis. The guy even basically tells you at the beginning that he's a magici…
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:37 PM
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I'm not sure how you went from "don't let them fuck with your head" to "I should create an elaborate rouse in order to make them think I don't like them." They're basically saying "Let's see if we can get the monkey to dance," and you're responding with "I'll show them, just wait until they see this dance!"
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:32 PM
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them You mean the girls? Would I invite friends over and start making fun of the girls so they can overhear, that's what you're asking?
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:27 PM
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This is one of the first candid opinions I've heard of me If they know you can hear them, and are even talking about how you can hear them, it's probably not candid. It sounds like they're amusing themselves at your expense and are just a couple of immature assholes. Either ignore them or confront them, but don't let them fuck with your head. /thread
/r/seduction02/08/14 09:17 PM
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Escalation. If you're chatting with a girl for 10 minutes and find out she's in a relationship, maybe there's a bit of disappointment, but it's not like you lost a whole lot. A few minutes of time, and in return you get your ego boosted by knowing that she at least likes your personality. If you're chatting with her for an hour, and only then find out she's in a relationship, that blows. The disappointment is greater because you've now invested a large portion of your evening on a girl where the…
/r/seduction02/08/14 01:45 PM
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So first of all, the guy is a girl. And second of all it wasn't just a question. It was a question being used to gather information for the purpose of writing an essay. I was pointing out a likely pitfall if she planned on using the responses in an academic or journalistic setting.
/r/seduction02/08/14 01:33 PM
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Having a legit question doesn't preclude you from having a flawed method of finding an answer.
/r/seduction02/08/14 01:23 PM
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As a professor I'll point out a very obvious flaw in your study: you're asking people about where they get dating advice on a forum that gives dating advice. So, basically everyone here uses the internet... And there will be a disproportionately low number of people here who get (good) advice from other sources -- had they gotten good advice, they're less likely to end up here.
/r/seduction02/08/14 01:16 AM
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/r/seduction02/08/14 12:52 AM
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Don't base a life decision like this on the opportunity to pickup. The environment in one country might be better or worse, but it's an insignificant difference, especially Germany vs UK. What makes the difference is you and the amount of effort you put into it.
/r/seduction01/08/14 07:55 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction01/08/14 07:11 PM
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Ha, that's why I prefer happy hour! $3 rail cocktails? Yes please.
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:30 PM
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Day 2, ie a date. Depending on your work schedule, you might also try the happy hour scene. Similar feel to night game, except you're obviously not going to pull at 8pm; much more natural to get a number and set up a date.
/r/seduction01/08/14 04:19 PM
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Your submission was removed because your hypothetical fear of rejection is irrelevant. Either you accept that it can happen and go for it, or you say you're not willing to take the risk and don't go for it.
/r/seduction01/08/14 03:54 PM
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Ignore all the advice on how to be funny. Odds are you've got a deeper issue at work. When you tell a story are you even interesting? I've run into several guys in the community who drone on without any awareness of how other people feel. Their stories get boring not because they aren't funny, but because it's a fifteen minute dissertation on details no one gives a fuck about. Learn to pay as much attention to the other people as you're paying to your own words. This is called calibration.
/r/seduction01/08/14 03:51 PM
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Bars are still going to be the best bet, you just need to be aware that there is a wide variety of bars. You might be better off going to a more upscale lounge environment -- a place that isn't overly loud, and doesn't have anyone ordering Jaeger bombs. Also, try to keep an open mind when at the normal sort of bar. Regular girls who'd like a relationship do also go out drinking. Just don't try to pull that night, focus on setting up a D2 instead.
/r/seduction01/08/14 03:47 PM
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How do I escalate physically with a girl if we are starting with dinner Guess what, bubba, you just discovered why dinner dates are terrible. If you're going to be seated, you want a date where you're seated side by side, rather than across from each other. This is why going out for drinks tends to be pretty good, or getting coffee at a cafe that has couches. There's actually more to it than kino, and I don't want to write a long explanation now, but just know that being face-to-face puts people…
/r/seduction01/08/14 01:04 PM
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Go out, talk to girls. /thread
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:31 PM
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Your submission was removed because you're not asking for advice with a specific problem. Review the basics, go back out into the field, post a question when you hit a specific sticking point.
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:25 PM
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Hello, this post is being removed for being too basic and already answered. Your post is answered in the SIDEBAR I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE If you really want an answer, then please repost in /r/askseddit (not askReddit, but ask SEDDIT). Thank you!
/r/seduction01/08/14 12:24 PM
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To play devil's advocate here, the idea isn't wrong, just the analogy to prostitution. Tindr is basically just asking for a Yes/No answer, and you're correct that this is not seduction at all.
/r/seduction31/07/14 07:30 PM
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You don't get broad knowledge by reading summaries, you do it by reading a ton of books on a lot of subjects.
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:19 PM
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Do you make jokes about having bad credit, but then spin it to be because of your student loan debt?
/r/seduction30/07/14 01:46 PM
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That can become self-fulfilling. You see the tall guy and you mind goes "fuck, here comes the guy who can take girls from me" and your body language will respond, the girl will notice that you treat this guy as being super high value, she'll assume you're right and then go off with that guy. Taller guys fuck with my game as well, but it doesn't have to be that way. A few years ago I was at a stop light party, talking to a cute girl and these two European Winklevii come in. One of them starts tal…
/r/seduction30/07/14 01:46 PM
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The recurring theme here is "alpha" = Be a man. Can you point to a few recent posts with this message?
/r/seduction30/07/14 12:56 PM
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The Game -- doesn't provide advice, but it's good to know the history of the community, and it's just a fun read Models Um... maybe there's only 3 books you need to read.
/r/seduction30/07/14 11:59 AM
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This book has a lot of anecdotes and stories. Read them.
/r/seduction30/07/14 02:07 AM
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This isn't really a good example because he's intentionally saying bad things. Because it's intentional it comes across a bit sarcastic and playful, rather than as actually saying something dumb.
/r/seduction29/07/14 10:54 PM
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There's at most maybe half a dozen books on seduction you should read. This is one of them.
/r/seduction29/07/14 07:35 PM
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If by "summary" you mean a quickie overview that tells you what the book is about, try the synopsis on Amazon. If you mean "I'd like to gain all the information while doing a minimal amount of work" then you need to reevaluate how dedicated you are to improving yourself.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:03 PM
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Some people do get into it pretty hardcore, and you could do Thursday 6pm-2am, Friday 6pm-3am, Saturday 6pm-3am, and that gets you 26 hours. Add in some day game on Sunday or some other time during the week and you're up to 30 hours. In that situation maybe you have to decide whether to do gym on Sunday vs. day game. But no one with that schedule has enough free time to ask for advice on Reddit. Edit: More reasonable way to get to 30 hours in a week: Wednesday happy hour: 5pm-8pm; Thursday HH+la…
/r/seduction29/07/14 03:41 PM
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Make eye contact, move closer, make physical contact.
/r/seduction29/07/14 01:08 PM
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Escalate and calibrate.
/r/seduction29/07/14 12:37 PM
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Can you explain a bit about how you're falling in love with a woman you're not even dating?
/r/seduction29/07/14 12:37 PM
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Next time flag the post instead of just commenting.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:20 PM
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My problem is that I don't want to spend hours worth of time in gym when those hours could be spent in gaming itself. You are bullshitting yourself if you think that's the trade off being made. Odds are it's not gym vs. pickup but gym&pickup vs. Netflix&WoW. If you're working out at 9pm on a Saturday, then maybe you should be out at a club instead. Thirty minutes in the morning before work? You're not going to be out sarging then.
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:56 PM
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You're trying to say that looks do matter, which is in contrast to seddit's message. No, it's not. It's contrary to the message of people who don't understand what the word "matter" means. It plays a role, it's not necessary, it's rarely sufficient, but it plays a role.
/r/seduction28/07/14 08:52 PM
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And sure it might feel like you're taking a test for a subject you've never studied, but the difference here is that it doesn't matter if you fail. You can retake the test as many times as you want.
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:09 PM
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If you're this far behind the curve, the last thing you need to do is spend more time watching videos by yourself and not interacting with other people face to face. Go out to some place public, and even if you don't talk to anyone else, just get used to simply being around other people. Spend at least 2 hours out in public, preferably a longer stretch, like 3-4 hours.
/r/seduction28/07/14 05:08 PM
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NLP is pseudoscience garbage. /thread
/r/seduction28/07/14 04:46 PM
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I'm removing this because it's so far from being right that it raises the question of being a troll. Read the sidebar materials, read the top posts, go out and approach a lot. Then you'll know the basic principles.
/r/seduction28/07/14 04:44 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction28/07/14 04:41 PM
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Have you never talked to another person before?
/r/seduction28/07/14 04:41 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction28/07/14 03:34 PM
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That's a terribly oversimplified approach, in both basketball and pickup. What that saying implies is that you should always take the shot, even when the situation isn't ideal and you have a good chance of missing. But that's not true. Sometimes you should pass the ball, sometimes you should draw the foul, and sometimes you should try to get set up for a better shot. Taking a low percentage shot is often times the wrong thing to do. In pickup, you have to be aware of how your performance with on…
/r/seduction28/07/14 02:03 PM
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Eventually it'll hit you that no girl (or any number of girls) really improves your life and makes you happy. Eh, girls can definitely improve your life. If it wasn't an improvement, none of us would bother with it. That's a lot of time, energy, rejection, money, etc, spent on something that at best maintains the status quo. But you're right that they won't make you happy. They can make you happier, but if you're already miserable, a girl isn't going to change that fact.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:58 AM
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There's understanding it in theory, and understanding it through experience. You can understand how big and majestic the Grand Canyon is, but unless you actually see it in person, it doesn't really affect how you feel.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:57 AM
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Whoever told you that you can't get a relationship when you want one, and will get one when you don't want it, is a moron. What will prevent you from getting a relationship is being desperate for one.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:53 AM
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Trying to have this specific of a plan is stupid. You'll get hung up on this one idea, miss other opportunities, and when you do go for it, it'll come across as completely contrived and that's a huge turnoff. Just go, have fun, and keep your calibration/escalation radar set to max.
/r/seduction28/07/14 11:50 AM
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And in pickup the hole you're trying to get into is a bit smaller than the one in golf... But still, I think what's true for both pickup and sports, and almost everything else, is that books can add knowledge and understanding, but they don't add skill.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:33 PM
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THE FIELD THE FIELD THE FIELD The field removes confusion. It tells you what is real and what is bullshit, and what works in some situations but not others. Stop watching videos, go talk to girls.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:26 PM
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What has Seddit ever done for us?
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:25 PM
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I've noticed a major trend with cars. Fast cars are almost always painted red and very often have a racing stripe. Because of this, I recommend that you paint your car red and give it a racing stripe in order to make it go faster.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:22 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:19 PM
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Have other shit going on in your life.
/r/seduction24/07/14 12:18 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:06 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction21/07/14 02:05 PM
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Check what your insurance covers, and ask your psychiatrist to how to find someone affordable.
/r/seduction19/07/14 09:07 PM
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Look into finding a psychologist for talk therapy.
/r/seduction19/07/14 08:50 PM
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Your submission was removed because that's an issue beyond the scope of Seddit to address. Talk this over with the doctor who diagnosed you, or ask for a referral to someone who can help.
/r/seduction19/07/14 08:16 PM
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I've removed it.
/r/seduction19/07/14 08:14 PM
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I've heard of it. But I'm also exceptionally smart. How hard is it to say "It's an island near Madagascar"? "omg that's so cool" but it usually ends there It usually ends there no matter where you're from because it's just a stupid interview-style question. You need to move towards more emotion-driven conversations. Why did you come to the US? Do you think about moving back? Ask her where she would most want to live if jobs and stuff weren't an issue.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:20 PM
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Even taking it figuratively doesn't work, because the less precise meaning is "Getting rejected means nothing, that girl was an aberration, the majority of girls will like you." And that's still demonstrably false for AFCs. The truth is that most AFCs have big flaws they need to fix if they don't want to be rejected by the vast majority of women, so saying all they need to do is approach more isn't helpful.
/r/seduction18/07/14 02:42 AM
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Really varies from guy to guy. Some men like a fiery woman with lots of drama. Other men want their relationship to have stability and be a sort of safe, drama-free zone. Some men want a partner in crime for going out and getting into trouble at bars. Some men hate the bar scene and would like someone to watch Netflix with. Some men want women who are full of confidence, other men find that to be overbearing (though this could just be that some women suck at expressing confidence...). Some men w…
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:47 PM
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I think that still ignores the lived reality of many AFCs. They've been rejected not just 10 times, but 10s of times, without a single positive response. So it's not just "For every 10, 1 will like you." That's really great odds! I can open 10 girls in one night easy. For an AFC they have no idea how small the percentage is, but they know it's probably on the order of 1 in 50, or 1 in 150, maybe worse. While I think you do have to accept the numbers game and approach more, most guys also need to…
/r/seduction17/07/14 03:40 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's a basic issue that's been covered before. Do some basic searches, read the sidebar, etc.
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:51 PM
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This is probably going to get slammed in the comments for not being insightful No, it's going to get slammed by being demonstrably false. If for every 1 girl who doesn't like you there are 10 who will, then when you approach a random girl there's only a 1/11 chance she won't like you. If you approach 2 girls odds that both don't like you would be 1/121. Odds of striking out 10 times in a row would be 1 in 25,937,424,601. As you probably know, 26 billion is far greater than the number of women on…
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:20 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:14 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl This will stay in spam filter, please repost in the AskSeddit subreddit.(Not askREDDIT, but askSEDDIT) Please read RULES & GUIDELINES. This post is answered by many SIDEBAR guides. I would also recommend reading 10-20 of the top posts on Seddit: FOUND HERE Also, don't worry about it! You didn't do anything wrong since you didn't know
/r/seduction16/07/14 02:25 PM
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I'd bet there's also a consensus that guys don't want to look like an idiot. Possibly even more so, given that a girl who fails at wall climbing is just a girl who failed at wall climbing. A guy who fails at wall climbing is an unfuckable loser waste of good natural resources.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:11 PM
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/r/seduction15/07/14 07:36 PM
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I find it a lot harder for the typical girl to climb, because they're concerned about their image. It's a lot harder for the typical girl to climb because the typical guy has like a zillion more upper body strengths. We're also taller, which means we can reach holds more easily, have more options for moves to make, and can possibly bypass smaller moves.
/r/seduction15/07/14 07:29 PM
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I've been hearing a couple people around here say, "if you get good at landing 6s or 7s, you only get good at landing 6s or 7s." Who? Who has been saying that? Point me to their comments please.
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:15 PM
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/r/seduction12/07/14 06:13 PM
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I've come to the conclusion that even though I know I am a great guy underneath - none of my outside actions have proved that I am an incredible dude. I don't want this to sound cruel, but if you haven't done any actions that would show you're a great guy underneath, odds are you're not actually very great. It's a bit like saying "I'm a great writer, I just haven't written anything." There's two flaws with that kind of thinking. First, what's the point of having potential if you're never going t…
/r/seduction12/07/14 06:13 PM
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/r/seduction11/07/14 01:36 PM
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/r/seduction11/07/14 01:36 PM
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/r/seduction11/07/14 01:34 PM
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/r/seduction11/07/14 01:33 PM
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There's not a right answer. If you lose interest in the other then spinning plates just isn't your thing.
/r/seduction11/07/14 01:29 PM
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/r/seduction01/07/14 11:48 AM
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/r/seduction01/07/14 11:46 AM
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/r/seduction29/06/14 03:34 AM
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/r/seduction28/06/14 10:25 PM
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/r/seduction28/06/14 07:14 PM
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/r/seduction28/06/14 07:14 PM
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/r/seduction28/06/14 05:10 PM
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I've actually found people who name drop Edward Said to be incredibly ignorant, both about their own culture and the cultures they're supposedly interested in. None of the ordinary folks in India, or China, or Africa, or whereever give two shits about Edward Said. He's not a part of their culture. You learn about culture by talking to people and by experiencing it, not be reading what academics have to say about it.
/r/seduction28/06/14 04:35 PM
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The trick with Edward Said is to use his name in every conversation, and act as if it is a definitive proof for any point you're trying to make about another culture or colonialism.
/r/seduction28/06/14 04:26 PM
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/r/seduction27/06/14 06:53 PM
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/r/seduction27/06/14 06:53 PM
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/r/seduction27/06/14 06:52 PM
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/r/seduction27/06/14 02:26 PM
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Your submission was removed because please do a basic search on the question. Covered many times before.
/r/seduction27/06/14 03:00 AM
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/r/seduction25/06/14 11:27 AM
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/r/seduction24/06/14 07:52 PM
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Your submission was removed because it's been covered. Read the sidebar material and search for popular posts on AA.
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:52 PM
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/r/seduction24/06/14 07:51 PM
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Don't beat yourself up over it. You'd be surprised how many guys don't understand this. They approach a girl thinking "I'm already willing to go out with her, now I just need to convince her to go out with me." Sounds pretty damn familiar, right? It happens all the time, and even at different stages in the interaction. Consider a guy who's friends with a girl, but they've never dated. He decides to ask her out, but really he's thinking "I'm already willing to be in a monogamous long-term relatio…
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:48 PM
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Go with Juggler's approach: I'll give you gold for a comment I think deserves it, and you give me gold for a comment you think deserves it. ...Except I have zero golds to give.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:31 PM
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Think about what asking her out without rapport says. "I'm willing to commit spending X amount of time and Y amount of money solely on the basis of how you look." Sounds needy, desperate, shallow, and treats her like a piece of meat. Compare to gaining rapport first. That says "I liked how you looked, but wanted to see if I also liked your personality before moving forward."
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:29 PM
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http://redd.it/pbkwv http://redd.it/pbkxs/
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:27 PM
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/r/seduction23/06/14 10:03 PM
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Given his background in journalism and the likelihood that he'd return to journalism after, I doubt much if anything is exaggerated. Contrariwise, working as a journalist would have taught him that the truth is plenty dramatic.
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:20 PM
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Flavor?
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:08 PM
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Let me know when Women have appointed their official panel of representatives and I'll set the date for the mediation. Until then, post removed.
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:08 PM
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It depends on the woman, and the argument. Some women will want intellectual disagreements and enjoy a partner who they can have that with. Some women would prefer to leave that shit at school/office/whatever and not have to deal with that drama at home. Some women want drama and jealousy and all that stuff. Some women are sane and chill. Some women will appreciate it when you say that no, you don't want to hang out with her girlfriends or go antiquing and otherwise stand up for yourself. Some w…
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:06 PM
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Your submission was removed because there's plenty of previous posts discussing how to use dating sites.
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:02 PM
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It's a memoir, not a novel.
/r/seduction23/06/14 09:01 PM
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Short answer: Never heard of such a place. (And it wouldn't really make much sense to have gay men and lesbian women both using the same dating advice forum.) A lot of the advice is pretty general though: make yourself more attractive, be more open and outgoing, get a ton of experience, don't be needy, read social cues, etc. Probably the best value such a forum would have is explaining cultural norms. Which date is it normal to have sex on? How long do you need to be talking to someone at a club…
/r/seduction23/06/14 03:20 PM
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Societal norms.
/r/seduction21/06/14 11:40 PM
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I came to post basically this same comment. GO OUT AND GET FIELD EXPERIENCE That settles theoretical dilemmas real quick.
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:17 PM
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Without more detail it's impossible for anyone to say. Explain what you mean by "feeling guilty for flirting."
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:16 PM
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Single men ask women to dance. Women in relationships ask their man to dance. /thread
/r/seduction21/06/14 10:14 PM
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