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Jesus Christ lillith. I kinda like some of your arguments in this sub overall, but sometimes you just can't comprehend basic shit, it's tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:41 AM
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I actually agree. I won't go into details cuz I can't properly explain why, but it's something that I've realized in the last 2 years or so. And it was one of the reasons that I grew up thinking that women don't like men that much (because, well, they aren't lusting and wanting us in the same intensity that we want them. Something like this).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:44 AM
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It's something that I wonder as well. I've met very few women who actually made an active effort to meet me. Sure, even if she is a bit passive, if it works it just works. If I do everything, make the invitation, choose the spot, the day and so on and she just agrees then we're good. But, there are times where the woman tells me she is not available on a specific day, and doesn't suggest another day. So I have to keep the boring act of asking "how about this instead" no? how about this other day…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:34 AM
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South of Brazil. It's not pure vulgarity here. It's a place of italian immigration, and a lot of catholic influence. Idk, people just treat casual sex like it's no biggie. For example, my friend had 3 relationships (the last one is his current girlfriend), and he had sex with all of them either in the first encouter or second encounters. They started "hooking up", and then it turned into a relationship. With all of them. He never really treated the early stages like a date, it's a casual hookup …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:55 PM
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Yes. I've done it before, so I have no place in asking for a 25y girl that has never done ONS. It's actually quite common where I live, and it's very likely that the girl that I meet has done it at least once. But yes, the less the better. If she has never done it, then great. If she has done it a couple of times, it's ok. If she does it frequently then it's a no-no. Not that I can know that for certain, but living in a small city does have it's querks (fortunately and unfortunately).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:24 PM
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Yep. This whole dating thing is messy as hell. If you have the basics sorted, it's just luck and chaotic after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:30 AM
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I'm sorry about that, ma'am. I really am. Reality is brutal for most women. But I'd just ask to not generalize an entire gender. I know some men do that as well, they blame all women and such, and it's wrong. But most men are not privileged oppressors who hate women. And men's stuggles are more than just complaining about the lack of options and acess to women, relationships and sex. You might not see it because, well, you don't live a man's life (the same way I don't fully understand women's pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:54 PM
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You bring some good points, I agree with them. About the second point, overall, they will have days that they are not in the mood, normal days, and horny days. But if he has normal health, he is more likely to be normal but easily aroused, something like this. This is my case, at least. And socialization does play a big role, I do agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:17 PM
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Totally agree. I don't think it's fun at all for women. Imagine being so fed up with guys approaching all the fucking time, and possibly missing someone interesting because he messaged you when there was a bunch of other uninteresting guys messaging as well, and you ignore him by accident or something like this. I happened to me as well. I sent a girl I was interested a text, she just opened the message and didn't reply. After two weeks I met her at our local pub, and manage to talk to her, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:56 PM
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I always kinda agreed to this position. Ever since I improved myself, I managed to get girls pretty consistently, also got some girls to approach me, or dm me first and so on, but I never had a situation of them "begging", or double texting me, or going back to me after some time. Like, the moment I make a slight mistake she's gone for good. And I my reasoning is that, there's no reason for her to try and reach to me again considering the amount of options she has. And I don't understand why nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:22 PM
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Don't want to be rude, but the grammar part was kinda hard, not gonna lie. I got bits and pieces of what you wanted to say, but the text feels broken and all over the place. But it might be me, my main language is portuguese.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:02 PM
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You have no idea how many women are not up for dating and only want ONS and casual stuff. Men are probably and almost certantly a majority in this scenario, testosterone plays a big role in horniness, but still, some women are absolutely feral for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:01 PM
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I don't understand what you wrote in this post, my english is kinda broken. But imagine (and I could be wrong), that it has to do with "men only want sex from woman" or a variation of it. And I also don't understand what you want with it. It's false, it's wrong, and you are thinking in very simplistic terms. You are making it a much bigger deal than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:53 PM
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How can I post something and not get deleted? I wanna post something as a discussion, I have the opinion that not approaching women in fear of getting reported does not represent real life and is extrapolated by online discourse, and I just wanna know what people in this communit think about this topic. But it gets removed because it's flaired wrong, or gets deleted because I post an argument and thus should be flaired as debate. But I don't wanna debate. I say something, they think it's an argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:54 PM
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I already do that, but living in a small town makes it kinda boring after a while. It's always the same places to go, and usually always the same people. That's why I wanted to go for someone that doesn't go to the same places as me. I have gotten dates by sliding into dms before, but they were usually with less popular girls, I can talk to them in person, on dms, on whatever, it's not a problem for me. This case is just because it's that scenario where you are absolutely sure she won't respond …
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:45 PM
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If I never saw her in person, what I am supposed to do? I could just do nothing, which is what I'm doing right now. Or I could try and approach via insta. Again, I never had the chance to talk to her in person.
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:40 PM
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She is around 1500 followers, pretty average for girl in my city. But what makes it harder is that she won second place at a sort of beaty contest kind of thing. My city has italian hetirage, and they do every 2 years or so a sort of fair/expo related to the city, and to "represent" the city and to make the whole thing more interesting they select a "queen" and a "princess" of the expo. I think you get the idea. She was elected as the princess, so she was kind of "unknown" before but now gets a …
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:48 PM
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But why should it matter? Why would I stop approaching girls if one girl considered me creepy when I approached her? It doesn't make sense. My world is not gonna end. If I know that I'm not a creep and I approached in a respecful manner, but she still thinks I'm creepy, then fuck her, she is being a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:38 PM
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No it absolutely does not. Since when is starting a conversation with a stranger harrassment? It would be harrassment if she said she is not interested and you didn't go away. I'd be rotting in jail by now if that was the case. Just don't take OLD stats in real life, it does not reflect reality at all. I get about one match every 2 months on tinder, but can get girls not problem in real life, it's just a different reality. I just use tinder to know who is single so when I meet them in person I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:52 PM
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I just wanna say that going to talk to her face to face and making basic questions and small talk is not harrassment. You are very much in your right to do so, and yes, maybe she likes you, but probably she will think it's annoying and will reject you. Well, that's life, in the mean time men approach and women get approach. It's kinda annoying for her and kinda annyoing for you as well, but if you wanna find a partner sometimes you gotta go through awkward shit. I just sent a dm to a frind of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:28 PM
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But if you do the approach in a good way, and 1 of the 30 girls you approach calls you a creep, then just leave her alone, you ain't getting arrested. 29 of the 30 didn't call you that, which probably means you are not a creep, so why would you be bothered by that one girl? She is either not interested in you and couldn't find a decent way to reject you at the time, or maybe did found you a creep, which makes both of these bad for her. She should learn how to reject properly or actually learn wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:08 PM
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What I mean by stranger is someone you see walking by the street and that you will probably never see them again. If you see someone regularly, even thought you might not know their name or never have talked to them, they are in a way less of a stranger than a random person in the streets. There's at least some level of familiarity, it's easier to find things in common and start a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:53 PM
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I agree with you, maybe shouldn't have used the word stranger, my bad. What I mean is that girl that you regularly see in the gym but never talked to, or that girl that you met at the bar last week, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:24 PM
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I think that reddit exaggerates the whole "men approaching women and getting called creep" thing. Everytime a girl complains that men are not approaching, the main answer is that men don't approach anymore because they are afraid they'll be called a creep, or recorded to be posted on social media, or whatever. I'm sorry, but I just don't see it happening on a daily basis. I guess it happened more than once already, but it's not the main reaction you are expected to receive when approaching, spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:07 PM
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I had this double standart printed in my head, but had a "screw everyone" moment and it all changed for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:45 PM
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My (left) knee hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:52 PM
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I agree, but I also have something to say. I think that it's not a problem to be into something more than others. Like, let's take the gym example, I think that if you really like the gym, go there 6x a week, diet and everything, it's all fine. You will probably have to search more into gymgirls as they are more likely to "like" you, but you shouldn't necessarly hide that side of you just because the average dude only lifts 3x a week and doesn't diet. Maybe I'm coping, but me for example, beside…
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:30 PM
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Well, I never said I didn't enjoy it. And I don't know if you are implying that I'm redpill, but I'm not, fuck the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:25 PM
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First date until starting a relationship. I do think that it works a bit differently on a stablished relationship, as it's easier to talk things out, set boundaries and preferences and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:38 PM
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I didn't know what to put in the title. I just wanted to share a story about approaching a girl that didn't know me through insta and it working out in the end. I know it's not "courage", but I just didn't know what other word to put in instead, english is not my main language.
/r/seduction01/04/25 01:11 PM
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I know it's a weird response, but I don't know the woman I'm picking. I'm picking from 20-27y (I'm 24), normal working class woman. I think it's more of a case of chemistry and/or compatibility. They just always go cold and we cut contact. Maybe they are looking for something serious but just not with me, or maybe they don't want something serious at all for now, idk. For me, thought, I'll be fine, I'm sure of it. I'm super fit (going to the gym since 2016), good looking face (with a natural low…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:19 PM
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Also my case. I can usually get hookups. It's not super super easy, but every now and then I still get the opportunity. But it's not what I'm looking for, I just want a girlfriend, bro. I think I'm being a man in the wrong way, I just don't know how to keep a woman, lol. It's kinda funny and weird but it's true, bitches want the D and no contact after. I'll not say I feel used for sex, it's more a case of the person that I want only wanting casual stuff. Maybe I'm picking the wrong woman, lmao, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:18 PM
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Yep. I kinda feel dumb that I learned it later than usual. But the difference was night and day when it started happening with me, it's so obvious right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:32 PM
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Just gotta say, this thread is brutal. Just got reminded once again that being attractive is better than being nice. You should still be nice, but first you gotta be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:19 PM
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I don't like it, don't think it looks good on a adult woman, Besides the liberal association, I think it's too childish, and makes me think of "immature" at first grance. I am also not an anime guy (only watched as a kid). If I was into it, I'd probably not mind it as much, I guess. It's almost an immediate dealbreak. I'd try and make an exception if they are under 24 as I think it's still kinda acceptable at this age. But I'd not like to date a 30+ woman wtih colorful dyed hair. I'm sorry, I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:06 PM
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I'm not expert on this, but I'm sure testosterone is much more potent in libido than estrogen. Just ask any female bodybuilder who took test how it affected her. Or men, when their libido is low, what is the first thing that comes into mind? Also, testosterone does cycle, but not as much to have a direct impact. It's not like I wake up with 400, and by the end of the night I'm at 800, or so. It's more like 600 to 670, which does not affect libido as much. In this case, the libido disparity is ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:07 PM
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I mean, I gotta disagree, testosterone is big deal. I'm sure we can be more nuanced in this, but the question "on average, who has more libido?" is certantly men. Dudes be climbing walls for pussy like there's no tomorrow. Specially considering women's libido is a cycle. Maybe there's a point where they are also horndogs, but for men it's not really a cycle, it's steady, and it's not low at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:50 PM
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Yeah, I just kinda cringe, idk. It's like "I'll go all the way to the other side, while you stay inside for no reason, just to do this easy thing for you because you think it's sexy, even though the door is super light and easy to open and not heavy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:56 PM
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For some reason Instagram is recommending me some pseudo trad-wife content. It's not the same as you guys have in the US, but it's mostly girls complaining that men aren't being manly enough (initiating the convo, paying for dates, staying in the side of the street when walking at the sidewalk, etc). But it truly makes it seem like noone is doing it, which I think is probably wrong. Look, I get that some men might indeed be clueless, but I'd bet that most men do think that they are the ones supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:14 PM
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I do have a beard. It's kinda similar to chris hemsworth beard in terms of size and proportions, but it still needs to grow a bit in some parts, his definatelly looks better overall, surprining noone lol. I'd say it's 90% similar or so.
/r/seduction04/11/24 02:37 PM
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I started attracting 30-40y woman at 21, and still going at 23. Though, they generally say I look older (around 28). I guess they still want a young guy, just not someone who looks 20. I don't have a thing for them, or even try to be appealing to them, I just do my thing. I would actually prefer someone 21-27, but I'm not complaining either, they are super fun.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:44 PM
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I don't give a shit about feminism, and also don't care if it's feminism or not. Using words like that does make it sound like animals, and it's just stupid IMO. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:52 PM
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I don't know if you agree with me or not, but that's kinda what I mean. There are contexts that using a similar word will do the trick, won't matter much. In this case, I'm able to understand the message. She could have said "people that have an XY chromossome and have a penis", idk, I'd still understand. But the common word used in this case is men, not male, so it implies that, because she explicitely chose a different word (with the same meaning) to the conversation, she wants to bring more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:37 PM
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Why not use normal words? English is not my native language, there’s just no way I think female when I wanna say woman, or male to say men. It’s out of my vocabulary. And if you are going to say male, why not use female as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:48 PM
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Why do you always use males and women, and not men and women? I get that hearing men and females are annoying (rightly so), but doint the same isn't gonna solve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:35 PM
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Yep, agree with you POV. It also applies to a lot of other factors in life, including your death, lol. Dating is just another part of life, you can improve and should improve, but sometimes you just didn't get lucky. Some things are so simple, yet a lot of factors have to go at least well enough so the situation happens. Sucks to suck, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:34 PM
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Welcome to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:41 AM
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Kinda random, that's why I also love it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:35 AM
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One of my problems with dating is that I cannot control other peoples emotion. In the sense that, when I meet someone interesting, I'm scared that the person is just gonna leave me. I'm always searching for the right message, that will make her more interested in me, the right words, the right topic to discuss. But there's no such thing, if she was more interested she would do something, and most important, I'd not be confused if she was interested in me or not. I should just treat it normally, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:32 AM
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I want children, but I don't want another mans kid in my life. I want my own kid, with my wife. Multiple kids at at that, but me and my wife. No, I'm not looking at single moms like that. What I'm looking at is at someone who has a kid with another person, and I don't want that. I have nothing against them, I just don't want to date someone with a kid from someone else in my life, that's all. I'd love to have kids with my eventual wife, though. I do have the means. I'm still young, 23, but my fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:08 PM
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My opinion is that this is all complete horseshit. And tiring. Goddamn it's tiring..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:52 PM
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Nope, Brazil, but southern Brazil. It's different from the big cities, and I also live in a small city of less than 30k people. It has some stuff in common with the rest of the country, but also a lot of differences as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:06 PM
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Well, I don't wanna boast, but my situation is not the same as for the vast majority of men, be them average height, short or tall. Yes, my point is that, my face (and my body) saved me. But I don't think that it would be that different if I was shorter. The pool would definatelly shrink, but it would still be there IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:43 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what I mean. Only having above average height won't get you everything, how it's portraid in media. They will prefer me over the 182cm average guy. Now, if he is tall, good looking, has a noticeable presence, that's another story, I'll be cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:31 PM
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Having a nice face and a good looking body is cheating! You guys have no idea, I feel like I'm playing on easy mode. No, I don't consider myself top tier, neither do I get everyone I want, far from that. But I'm not even putting effort to approach, they do it themselves. This has never happened before. I was a virgin 2 years ago, now we are on another leve, babyyy, let's go! So yeah, looks do matter. Yeah yeah, be confident, have good posture, hygiene, know how to talk to people (underrated af),…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:07 PM
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fr fr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:47 PM
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Hoes come and go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:45 PM
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We do value friendship with each other. Hell, the only kind of love that I received outside my family was from friends, since forever. In school, second grade or so, me and my best friend joined a group of 3 fat funny dudes, and we formed a 5man squad of goofines. Later on, 3 more colleges joined in, and by the end of highschool, when we were 17y old, we were 8. I'm 23 now, we still meet to have barbecue and drink a ton of beer from time to time, we just don't meet that much anymore because adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:42 AM
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Yep, that might be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:32 PM
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Based last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:31 PM
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I do get what you mean. I don't think it's most men, but it's a lot of men regardless, and it does have a significant impact. I guess something similar can be said about women who only go for rich dudes, not liking him as a person but enjoying the lifestyle. But yeah, it's not all sunshine and rainbows with dating as a woman, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:40 PM
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I don't have a full opinion on self improvement. Sometimes I think it's helpful, other times I think about that line in fight club and part of your opinion comes to mind as well. However, I gotta say that the universe was right about not giving me a better dating life when I was younger. I was immature, didn't really go out that much, didn't know how to talk to people, but specially woman, and so on. After I discovered self improvement (together with other things, like stoicism and stuff), I gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:41 PM
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It might just be cultural. I'm from Brazil. I totally undestand going to clubs to enjoy and have a good time, but again, here it's mostly a place to hook up. Yes, couples go there to enjoy the music, specially if it's in a more grown up place. But, for some reason we do consider it mostly a place to hook up, so people that are dating don't go alone or with friends because it might seem disrespectful to their parner. I don't doubt you, but I wouldn't like my woman to go to a club with her friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:29 PM
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In my local town, if you are at a club, you are either single, or with your partner. I don't record, like ever, seeing someone that I know is dating someone, go with friend and without the partner around. Men or woman. If you are dating someone, and you want to go to the club, you either go with your partner, or you go with your friend AND your partner. No clubbing with friend, but partner at home. Unless it's an eletronic music club, then everyone goes there to use drugs anyway, and there's no …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:51 PM
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Think about it: 100-200mg/wk for 2-3 cycles of 16 weeks. Trenbolone on fast food will put you right ahead of someone who has been working out for six years, without as much time and money spent, right ahead in appearance of having muscles. Well, it will also literally kill you, mentally and phisically. Tren is not your average steroid, you can't just casually use some of it and eat junk food because you want to be ahead of other fit men. It's no viable. If you want to do it you have to do it wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:16 PM
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Sorry I didn't undestand it very well. I'm saying that me, as a man, vs another man, I think I'l more fit and stronger than the average male. I'm not saying that if I was a fit woman, with 8 years of going to the gym, was farly strong, agile yada yada. I think a regular fit woman would still lose on average against an average man. She may excel in some things, but overall I don't think it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:55 PM
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God this is such a mess. Absolutelly terrible. No focking words m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:12 PM
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What if my grandma had wheels instead of legs? It's just part of the injustices of the world. And yes, I think it's one of the worst ones, only behind wars (fuck wars). I would love for things to be different. It absolutelly sucks that a minority of men commit horrible crimes, and because of this you have to be alert of the majority of men, but stuff are being done in this regard. You are centantly doing your part in this, I'm also doing mine, and will do more when I have kids. But telling all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:52 PM
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Well, if you bring equipment for a bear, you would be equiped against a man as well. Maybe bring a gun or something just in case. If he also has a gun, then it doesn't matter that it's a man or a woman, you are levelled. And then it comes back to the question. It will only matter in this case if he is an aggressive man, and chances are, he is not. I know we have society, the judging system, policies, and stuff that keep some bad poeple from doing bad things, but the average man is not a predator…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:45 PM
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There's no way the average person, be it woman or man, survives against a bear in the woods without equipament. You might survive, but the average person would be dead FOR SURE. You can say whatever you want, that the sky is red or whatever, it won't be true. I'd rather encounter a lion than a bear, there's no way I survive both of them, but bear are on another level in nature, I'm sorry. And I'm pretty sure that if you ran this experiment multiple times, the amount of times that the bear killed…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:21 PM
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Also, if I'm alone in the woods with a man, he probably doesn't want anything with another man, but if anything happens I'm pretty certain I'd be stronger. I think the odds of something happening is not 0%, and I have to consider it a possibility, it's the only way I die. Yes, the prompt never said about a fight happening, but if the goal is survive, you have to consider aggresive behavior as a possibility. That's one of the main reasons I go to the gym (granted it would be better to learn how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:10 PM
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Well, or they are just being biased in their answer. I know this shit can be more complicated than it appears. Like, I can understand there's some deep trauma happening, and it's also kind of a protest. They are saying that men today are so down bad that they would rather encounter a bear in the wild than a man. But I don't agree with this, there's so much I'd like to write, but I will try to stick with the basics. Besides, my view, obviously as a man, and every limited living experience that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:02 PM
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Considering I'm doing pretty good in fitness, I would probably survive no problems versus an average man, be him 20, 30, 40, 50, doesn't matter, and I don't think I'm being cocky. Like, I'm 23, have 8 years of going to the gym, I'm fairly strong and pretty agile. If the dude is bigger, I'd just tire him, if he is more slender I'd be stronger. He has to either know how to fight (anything could do, I'd get rekt), be "me" but better (stronger but still agile, or more agile with similar strenght), o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:35 PM
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That's my opinion as well, but I can't seem to justify it, but it just seems to be the case. Why do you think that men want woman more than woman want men? It is testosterone messing with the libido of men? Is it societal expectations? I'd love to understand it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:08 PM
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We do follow each other. Timeline is: About 5 or so months ago, I followed her, but she didn't follow back. I didn't remove her from my following list. Now, in mid february, I post the photo and after 4-5 days she follows me back and likes the photo. So, last week we were already following each other.
/r/seduction27/03/24 11:59 AM
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Yeah, I thought about going and talking to her, but I was unconfortable going there alone. She was in a group of 5-6 people. I guess it's another area of improvement, but I'm not perfect, I have some strong points and some weak ones. It's not an excuse, but sometimes shit is hard, ya know? Still a long way to go to become the chadest of chads.
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:21 PM
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Thank for the words, man. Really appreciate it!
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:23 AM
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It's funny to me. I've always been someone who was liked by everyone. I was never famous at school and stuff, but everyone that knew me thought of me as a nice dude, so the thought of someone rejecting me was quite scary. Imagine someone destroying this (fake) nice image that I have of myself. Then as we grow we learn that you are not gonna be liked by 8 billion people, and that's fine. I lost far too many opportunities in life (be it in dating or other areas) by being scared of rejection or abo…
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:24 PM
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Yep
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:18 PM
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Huge cope. But it's perfect for me, I'm not complaining. If dudes do find MGTOW to be the superior lifestyle, there will be more woman for me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:59 AM
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Oh that’s interesting. For me it always felt that girls were less likely to be virgins at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:23 AM
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I really don't know what's my reality. I'm 23, so still gen Z, but at 17y, at the end of HS, I think about half of my class was still virgin (including me), but the men were more about 70 to 80%. I think the problem really is on the kids that left highschool when the pandemic started. They must be around 20 by now, getting out of their teenagers looks but with no experience outside highschool. But what do I know. However, it does feel like less kids are losing their virginity before HS, and havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:46 AM
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I agree. I don't see these complains happening in real life, and feel like cheap self-defeat. I've kissed a coworker, I've kissed female friends (and some of their friends too). I don't go to libraries, but I've kissed a high school classmate, 2 or 3 college classmate, and the list goes on. If some dudes just keep giving up, I guess it's just gonna be easier as time goes. Good for me, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:28 AM
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Do you really think the majority of people would settle for a perfect but fake relationship? I’m a man, and I would love to have an imperfect person around me, like, you know, two human beings, who are flawed and grow up with their problems together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:58 PM
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Thats an interesting perspective, makes a lot of sense. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:22 AM
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- I won't tell you my city as I engage with a bunch of brazilian subreddits, and would like to keep my privacy. Maybe search for Bento Gonçalves, it's a relativelly big city in my area, it's not the safest but it's not the worst like Porto Alegre or Caxias do Sul. - Yeah, I've seen it myself, guys changing the subject, or ignoring womans own SA stories. Kinda awful, if you tell me. I guess people, in this case being the whole population of my city, wouldn't like to talk about it, I know I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah, that makes more sense. Thank you for the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:31 PM
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Well, no, I haven't talked that much with Brazillian woman in general, just with the ones in my area. But I suspect the situation is not good, specially in the northern part and big cities like São Paulo and Rio de Janeiro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:00 PM
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I never said I don't believe woman, I said I never bought into the narrative that woman are getting raped, SA and SH by man that much like we see on the media. Like, to me is just absurd to hear someone writing "I was raped...". It's such a hurrendous sitution, it blows my mind. When someone gets murdered here, it's news for at least a week, I imagine the uproar if someone got raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:58 PM
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Fair. Still don't know the meaning of a dive town ahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:28 PM
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Don't go out calling our clubs shit. We are the only ones who can say crap about our crap clubs. No but you are partially right, they are not great by any means, it's just what we have. We can go to nearby cities of 100k people, and there we have some good shid. The thing is that, even there, the scene doesn't change much. I have girl friends that go the to study at college there, and they also don't complain about men harrasing them, or raping them. I think the thing is that, Brazil in general …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:05 PM
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Probably, yes, I agree. I think I still have a chance, just have to read the room and see where it goes. I am not full of hope, but I don't think it's time to give up.
/r/seduction07/04/23 05:15 PM
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Yep. There was a girl who started to go with some friends of mine, and I didn't know her. I wanted to approach her, but first we had to have some interaction. But she didn't want to interact with me for some reason, I did some small talk and she never really kept going. Until I approached her in a party and she said no. After that moment she started a lot of conversations with me, and now we talk a lot more. Well, I didn't get the girl, but know she respects me at the very least, like we are in …
/r/seduction07/04/23 02:21 PM
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I didn't say I hate incels, I said specifically against the incel mentality, as I think it is a way to "slave" young men into a mindset that's not helpful to them and posibilly harmful to society in the long run. I don't hate them, as I fell like they are in a lot of situations, victims as well. But being shy to the problem is also not good, I fell we have sort of a duty to point out that these people are wrong. They are not enemies, they are not bad people, but. for them to have a chance to cha…
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:57 PM
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My man spitting facts. The fact that the incel mentality is so predominant on online spaces is a shame, more and more young man fall into that trap, and generalizing groups like that does not help either. Let's see individuals like they are, individuals.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:20 PM
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I don't think people should be proud of being male, female, straight, gay, whatever, they should be proud of getting into a university, of having a successful company, raising a child by good standarts, inventing something, doing good for the poor. I'm not proud of being male, i'm just a male, although i'm proud of my achievements, of what i've done to help others, and what brings me shame I try to improve step by step. I undestand the concept and importance of the male role in society, and I un…
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