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Jesus Christ lillith. I kinda like some of your arguments in this sub overall, but sometimes you just can't comprehend basic shit, it's tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:41 AM
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I actually agree. I won't go into details cuz I can't properly explain why, but it's something that I've realized in the last 2 years or so. And it was one of the reasons that I grew up thinking that women don't like men that much (because, well, they aren't lusting and wanting us in the same intensity that we want them. Something like this).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 11:44 AM
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It's something that I wonder as well. I've met very few women who actually made an active effort to meet me. Sure, even if she is a bit passive, if it works it just works. If I do everything, make the invitation, choose the spot, the day and so on and she just agrees then we're good. But, there are times where the woman tells me she is not available on a specific day, and doesn't suggest another day. So I have to keep the boring act of asking "how about this instead" no? how about this other day…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 11:34 AM
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South of Brazil. It's not pure vulgarity here. It's a place of italian immigration, and a lot of catholic influence. Idk, people just treat casual sex like it's no biggie. For example, my friend had 3 relationships (the last one is his current girlfriend), and he had sex with all of them either in the first encouter or second encounters. They started "hooking up", and then it turned into a relationship. With all of them. He never really treated the early stages like a date, it's a casual hookup …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:55 PM
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Yes. I've done it before, so I have no place in asking for a 25y girl that has never done ONS. It's actually quite common where I live, and it's very likely that the girl that I meet has done it at least once. But yes, the less the better. If she has never done it, then great. If she has done it a couple of times, it's ok. If she does it frequently then it's a no-no. Not that I can know that for certain, but living in a small city does have it's querks (fortunately and unfortunately).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:24 PM
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Yep. This whole dating thing is messy as hell. If you have the basics sorted, it's just luck and chaotic after.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 11:30 AM
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I'm sorry about that, ma'am. I really am. Reality is brutal for most women. But I'd just ask to not generalize an entire gender. I know some men do that as well, they blame all women and such, and it's wrong. But most men are not privileged oppressors who hate women. And men's stuggles are more than just complaining about the lack of options and acess to women, relationships and sex. You might not see it because, well, you don't live a man's life (the same way I don't fully understand women's pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:54 PM
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You bring some good points, I agree with them. About the second point, overall, they will have days that they are not in the mood, normal days, and horny days. But if he has normal health, he is more likely to be normal but easily aroused, something like this. This is my case, at least. And socialization does play a big role, I do agree with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:17 PM
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Totally agree. I don't think it's fun at all for women. Imagine being so fed up with guys approaching all the fucking time, and possibly missing someone interesting because he messaged you when there was a bunch of other uninteresting guys messaging as well, and you ignore him by accident or something like this. I happened to me as well. I sent a girl I was interested a text, she just opened the message and didn't reply. After two weeks I met her at our local pub, and manage to talk to her, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 05:56 PM
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I always kinda agreed to this position. Ever since I improved myself, I managed to get girls pretty consistently, also got some girls to approach me, or dm me first and so on, but I never had a situation of them "begging", or double texting me, or going back to me after some time. Like, the moment I make a slight mistake she's gone for good. And I my reasoning is that, there's no reason for her to try and reach to me again considering the amount of options she has. And I don't understand why nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 12:22 PM
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Don't want to be rude, but the grammar part was kinda hard, not gonna lie. I got bits and pieces of what you wanted to say, but the text feels broken and all over the place. But it might be me, my main language is portuguese.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:02 PM
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You have no idea how many women are not up for dating and only want ONS and casual stuff. Men are probably and almost certantly a majority in this scenario, testosterone plays a big role in horniness, but still, some women are absolutely feral for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:01 PM
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I don't understand what you wrote in this post, my english is kinda broken. But imagine (and I could be wrong), that it has to do with "men only want sex from woman" or a variation of it. And I also don't understand what you want with it. It's false, it's wrong, and you are thinking in very simplistic terms. You are making it a much bigger deal than it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 05:53 PM
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How can I post something and not get deleted? I wanna post something as a discussion, I have the opinion that not approaching women in fear of getting reported does not represent real life and is extrapolated by online discourse, and I just wanna know what people in this communit think about this topic. But it gets removed because it's flaired wrong, or gets deleted because I post an argument and thus should be flaired as debate. But I don't wanna debate. I say something, they think it's an argu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:54 PM
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I already do that, but living in a small town makes it kinda boring after a while. It's always the same places to go, and usually always the same people. That's why I wanted to go for someone that doesn't go to the same places as me. I have gotten dates by sliding into dms before, but they were usually with less popular girls, I can talk to them in person, on dms, on whatever, it's not a problem for me. This case is just because it's that scenario where you are absolutely sure she won't respond …
/r/seduction28/08/25 04:45 PM
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If I never saw her in person, what I am supposed to do? I could just do nothing, which is what I'm doing right now. Or I could try and approach via insta. Again, I never had the chance to talk to her in person.
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:40 PM
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She is around 1500 followers, pretty average for girl in my city. But what makes it harder is that she won second place at a sort of beaty contest kind of thing. My city has italian hetirage, and they do every 2 years or so a sort of fair/expo related to the city, and to "represent" the city and to make the whole thing more interesting they select a "queen" and a "princess" of the expo. I think you get the idea. She was elected as the princess, so she was kind of "unknown" before but now gets a …
/r/seduction28/08/25 12:48 PM
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But your statements don't align with my reality/lived experience I think this is the core issue. I'm approaching woman constantly in person, and I never, ever got called a creep. Got rejected on the spot more than I can count, maybe more than 90% of the time, but it all ended ok. I even have a friend who managed to date a girl that rejected me like 3 years ago, and we do perfectly fine when we meet in person, it's just part of life. I agree that the end goal is to get the date, and not only talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 05:02 PM
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But why should it matter? Why would I stop approaching girls if one girl considered me creepy when I approached her? It doesn't make sense. My world is not gonna end. If I know that I'm not a creep and I approached in a respecful manner, but she still thinks I'm creepy, then fuck her, she is being a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 04:38 PM
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But when talking to someone you are interested, specially strangers, it always gotta start with day-to-day talk. Getting to someone and saying that you are interested in them straight away doesn't work, and will make the situation seem more creepy for sure. Besides, if the talk isn't going well and you sense she isn't really there, just say thanks for everything, good talking to you, and leave. If you are from america, I guess OLD has a bigger impact, but I still don't think it's the best way. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 02:36 PM
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No it absolutely does not. Since when is starting a conversation with a stranger harrassment? It would be harrassment if she said she is not interested and you didn't go away. I'd be rotting in jail by now if that was the case. Just don't take OLD stats in real life, it does not reflect reality at all. I get about one match every 2 months on tinder, but can get girls not problem in real life, it's just a different reality. I just use tinder to know who is single so when I meet them in person I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:52 PM
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I just wanna say that going to talk to her face to face and making basic questions and small talk is not harrassment. You are very much in your right to do so, and yes, maybe she likes you, but probably she will think it's annoying and will reject you. Well, that's life, in the mean time men approach and women get approach. It's kinda annoying for her and kinda annyoing for you as well, but if you wanna find a partner sometimes you gotta go through awkward shit. I just sent a dm to a frind of my…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:28 PM
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But if you do the approach in a good way, and 1 of the 30 girls you approach calls you a creep, then just leave her alone, you ain't getting arrested. 29 of the 30 didn't call you that, which probably means you are not a creep, so why would you be bothered by that one girl? She is either not interested in you and couldn't find a decent way to reject you at the time, or maybe did found you a creep, which makes both of these bad for her. She should learn how to reject properly or actually learn wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 01:08 PM
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What I mean by stranger is someone you see walking by the street and that you will probably never see them again. If you see someone regularly, even thought you might not know their name or never have talked to them, they are in a way less of a stranger than a random person in the streets. There's at least some level of familiarity, it's easier to find things in common and start a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:53 PM
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I agree with you, maybe shouldn't have used the word stranger, my bad. What I mean is that girl that you regularly see in the gym but never talked to, or that girl that you met at the bar last week, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:24 PM
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I think that reddit exaggerates the whole "men approaching women and getting called creep" thing. Everytime a girl complains that men are not approaching, the main answer is that men don't approach anymore because they are afraid they'll be called a creep, or recorded to be posted on social media, or whatever. I'm sorry, but I just don't see it happening on a daily basis. I guess it happened more than once already, but it's not the main reaction you are expected to receive when approaching, spec…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/25 12:07 PM
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I had this double standart printed in my head, but had a "screw everyone" moment and it all changed for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 08:45 PM
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My (left) knee hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:52 PM
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The world, or more so, reality, is just brutal. Sometimes it's filled with joy, other times with trouble, other times with sadness, other times with hope. But the mere fact that we have the capacity to understand the moment, to have a grasp at what is given to us, is no less than a blessing. It's a bit of a sadpost. Just saw some kid that some kid with a lot of health problems just died today (some fitness influencers were sharing his IG page to gather some funds, and today they shared that he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 02:02 PM
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I agree, but I also have something to say. I think that it's not a problem to be into something more than others. Like, let's take the gym example, I think that if you really like the gym, go there 6x a week, diet and everything, it's all fine. You will probably have to search more into gymgirls as they are more likely to "like" you, but you shouldn't necessarly hide that side of you just because the average dude only lifts 3x a week and doesn't diet. Maybe I'm coping, but me for example, beside…
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:30 PM
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I'm getting involved with too many girls at the same time, and it's confusing the hell out of me. Never thought I'd be having this kind of a problem, lol. Not bragging at all btw. I also don't really feel like dating any of them, but they all kinda matter to me, in a way. Don't know if it makes sense. Like, I'd love to see them happy. But I'm just really confused right now. Maybe gotta take a break from dating and all of this, just to make sure that if someone worth it appears, I don't miss out …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 04:32 PM
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Well, I never said I didn't enjoy it. And I don't know if you are implying that I'm redpill, but I'm not, fuck the redpill
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 09:25 PM
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First date until starting a relationship. I do think that it works a bit differently on a stablished relationship, as it's easier to talk things out, set boundaries and preferences and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 05:38 PM
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Well that makes much more sense now
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:50 AM
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Well but how am I going to attract the ladies to succ their period blood if don't have enough muscle yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:43 AM
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I'm 100% sure that I'm handsome as fuck. The only reason that I still don't have a relationship is because I don't have enough muscle. If I just benched 1 more plate each side, I'd be automatically in a relationship, it's that simple. So all I gotta do is keep going to the gym. And training hard. And blasting tren. And maybe taking creatine as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/25 11:35 AM
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Yep. These enthusiastic "yes" are so weird to me. It feels like they are walking on eggshells all the time. Also the whole "men are not approaching women anymore because they fear they might be labeled a creep or reported for SA." is the biggest cope of our generation and such a delusional take. Yes, dating is probably harder today than it was 10-15 years ago. the zeitgeist is different. BLM happened, modern feminism happened, dating apps, social media, even the rona. But let's not fool ourselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:45 PM
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Ok, imma be real with you guys. While I do live in Brazil (rural southern part, but it's Brazil), seeing how most of reddit deals with first dates do's and don'ts is almost too puritan. And I guess it's mostly american culture, but still. It's super super normal to kiss on first dates. I'm not saying it's mandatory, or that it can't happen in another way. But, in my case, every date that went well I manage to get a kiss from her. And more than half of them also endend in sex the same night as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/25 01:04 PM
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I love creating imaginary possible outcomes in my dating life and getting anxious and dissapointed when they don't happen!!! it's super fun and does not mess with me mental health and self steem at all!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:40 PM
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I didn't know what to put in the title. I just wanted to share a story about approaching a girl that didn't know me through insta and it working out in the end. I know it's not "courage", but I just didn't know what other word to put in instead, english is not my main language.
/r/seduction01/04/25 01:11 PM
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Yep, doesn't make much sense. Just forget about it, it's only my bad english.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 08:28 PM
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Best sex I have ever had she was 17 years older than me at the time. Never met someone as enthusiastic about it as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:59 PM
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Just posting something that I'm really happy about. Just for context I live in a small town, maybe it matters, idk. A week or two ago I saw a gorgeous lady on insta. she looked older than 30, and after searching a bunch on her photos I manage to see a post she did some years ago saying her age, so I did the math and now she is 36-37. But I'm telling you, she looks so good for her age. I though about the "fuck it, we ball" strategy, and decided, why not? I sent her a follow invite. She proceeded …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 07:46 PM
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Currently feeling a lot of anxiety. Sometimes it goes away and I feel like the man, other times I feel like shite. Also my mind and emotions are a bit of a mess, it's a mix of wanting desperately to date someone because I want a family and stuff, going around and getting a bunch of girls, getting attached to girls that I only engaged in the first place because I thought I wouldn't get attached, feeling overwhelmed because of all of this, or falling into doomerism thinking I'll never find anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 01:30 PM
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Shit's hard, anxiety is a bitch. But I'll get through, hopefully
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:56 AM
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I need to learn to love myself a bit more. She is not showing clear signs of attraction, it's currently a mix, and I can't just fall in love with her like this. She has to also want me, and when that happens it will be easy to see. Maybe you don't need to straight up discart her, but just don't be dumb and get your hopes up for nothing. Take control of the situation, take control of your mind, and whatever happens, happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 11:22 PM
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Yeah, I'm thinking of saying something to her, trying to be a bit more direct. Maybe it works out, idk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 04:43 PM
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You are right. Maybe I should just chill for now, as it won't affect the second date with her. Funny thing is that I kinda know all of this, it's part of why I agreed to go to the parties in the first place, but each day closer to it made anxiety and desperation build up. I just hope that the fear of potentially losing someone you think is nice while you are not in a relationship with them is a bit justified, cuz if not I have some mental things to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:42 PM
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Already did that 2 times this last 2 weeks, nothing happened, it's almost like they didn't even exist. I kept thinking of her while hanging out with other chicks. I'd absolutely move on if she said she doesn't wanna date me anymore, but that's not what's happening, things are more confusing at the moment. And I just don't wanna throw it out of the window just because things are a bit hard at this time, I wanna kinda go to the end, so she either says outright that she doesn't see herself in a rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:33 PM
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I just wanna leave this hell that's called being single. I never dated in my 24y of life, and the more casual encounters I have the more I despise it. I'm just tired of this. And she seems nice, she stood out from the rest and we have a bunch of things in common. I'll try though, at least to have fun, whatever it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:28 PM
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I'll be going at a party today and another one tomorrow with my buddies, but I'm just not in the mood. My brain decided to like a girl and fixate on her even though we only went on one date. But I absolutely see myself dating her. I don't want to go partying, I wanna go spend time with her but she doesn't feel the same about me (at least not in the same intensity as me, she stills think I'm pretty or whatever, and we will probably go on another date in the near future). So much drama, but it leg…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 08:16 PM
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I also have this feeling, that's part of what's causing me a lot of anxiety. But I'm also worried I'm blind, and that I'm imagining things just to justify me going after her, like fooling myself. I don't mind this personality so much right now, but I'd not date someone officialy like this. I only tolerate it right now because we have only been on 1 date so far, it's still very early on. But I do expect better reciprocity in a more advanced stage of the dating process/relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 08:16 PM
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So maybe a little pull back, just to see what happens? I'm planning on asking her for another date next week since this weekend I'll be the one not available.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:39 PM
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Great stuff, thanks for the advice bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:26 PM
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Do you mean future dates or even the one that we went on?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:22 PM
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Is there such a thing as too much passivity? Like, maybe she expects the man to do the majority of the work at this stage, so she just don't want to iniciate?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:21 PM
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Yes, we have. I'm quite convinced she would be willing to go on another date or two, but maybe she is not interested in dating me, and is more interested in the attention and stuff. That's why I'm confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:18 PM
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Recently went a date with a girl, things went well, but now I'm kinda confused, unsure about how she feels. We talk ccasionally throught insta dms, but I'm always the one initiating, and while she doesn't seem uninsterested, I can't tell if she's just being polite or if there's genuine interest. Maybe she is more passive, maybe not, I have no idea. So now I'm overthinking it all. Should I pull back a little, keep going as it is, or what? I know it's not just her, it's a lot of anxiety from my pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 06:05 PM
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I know it's a weird response, but I don't know the woman I'm picking. I'm picking from 20-27y (I'm 24), normal working class woman. I think it's more of a case of chemistry and/or compatibility. They just always go cold and we cut contact. Maybe they are looking for something serious but just not with me, or maybe they don't want something serious at all for now, idk. For me, thought, I'll be fine, I'm sure of it. I'm super fit (going to the gym since 2016), good looking face (with a natural low…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 01:19 PM
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Also my case. I can usually get hookups. It's not super super easy, but every now and then I still get the opportunity. But it's not what I'm looking for, I just want a girlfriend, bro. I think I'm being a man in the wrong way, I just don't know how to keep a woman, lol. It's kinda funny and weird but it's true, bitches want the D and no contact after. I'll not say I feel used for sex, it's more a case of the person that I want only wanting casual stuff. Maybe I'm picking the wrong woman, lmao, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 12:18 PM
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Yep. I kinda feel dumb that I learned it later than usual. But the difference was night and day when it started happening with me, it's so obvious right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:32 PM
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Just gotta say, this thread is brutal. Just got reminded once again that being attractive is better than being nice. You should still be nice, but first you gotta be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 08:19 PM
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Same thing here, man. We went on a casual date, ended up at my place, things happened, and suddently she stopped sending me random stuff like she used to send before we went out (besides, I haven't seen her post anything on her CF on insta anymore, which makes me believes she removed me from there. These things might seem trivial, but she is also not really doing other more normal stuff to signal she is still interested. I kinda liked her, she works in a similar field as mine, loves going to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 01:33 PM
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Shit sucks. I can usually find woman for casual stuff, but whenever I find someone that could potentially turn into a relationship, it usually doesn't go for more than 2 dates. I don't want casual stuff, I'm already bored of it (and I haven't done it a whole lot), but it's just so meaningless, I want an actual relationship. I'm 24 btw, I know I'll be fine, it's just so tiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:07 PM
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5. Myself and most dudes around me do this from what I notice. It depends on the place. If we are going somewhere far, then it's just trying to score some points, just for fun. If we stick to our city or nearby cities, then it's different. If I find a chick in her 30's (I'm 24), then we both know it's just for fun, as we tend to date around our age. But if we get with someone our age, then we try for something. If it works, great, we date, if not then we generally move on, but we might stick wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:36 PM
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My New Years Resolutions are to grow up, be more mature, less innocent, and accept things as they are. I often get too caught up on my own thoughts, asking myself "if she enjoyed the date, why is she ghosting me?" "she said I'm attractive but doesn't want anything with me and prefers my friend, why?" "why does she initiate texting everytime, but doesn't wanna go out with me". The answers is I don't know, man, I JUST DON'T FUCKING NOW, I have no idea, but it is what it is. Maybe you are retarded,…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 01:23 PM
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I don't like it, don't think it looks good on a adult woman, Besides the liberal association, I think it's too childish, and makes me think of "immature" at first grance. I am also not an anime guy (only watched as a kid). If I was into it, I'd probably not mind it as much, I guess. It's almost an immediate dealbreak. I'd try and make an exception if they are under 24 as I think it's still kinda acceptable at this age. But I'd not like to date a 30+ woman wtih colorful dyed hair. I'm sorry, I'd …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:06 PM
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I forgot what I was going to write 💀. Fuckin ell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 01:35 PM
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I'm not expert on this, but I'm sure testosterone is much more potent in libido than estrogen. Just ask any female bodybuilder who took test how it affected her. Or men, when their libido is low, what is the first thing that comes into mind? Also, testosterone does cycle, but not as much to have a direct impact. It's not like I wake up with 400, and by the end of the night I'm at 800, or so. It's more like 600 to 670, which does not affect libido as much. In this case, the libido disparity is ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 06:07 PM
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I mean, I gotta disagree, testosterone is big deal. I'm sure we can be more nuanced in this, but the question "on average, who has more libido?" is certantly men. Dudes be climbing walls for pussy like there's no tomorrow. Specially considering women's libido is a cycle. Maybe there's a point where they are also horndogs, but for men it's not really a cycle, it's steady, and it's not low at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:50 PM
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I'm not feeling hatred, I'm not even from the US. I just don't like democracy that much, but don't hate it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:45 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:19 PM
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This sub has gone even badder after the election, it's so much hate/hate from both sides, it's pathetic. Democracy, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 12:02 PM
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It's happening again, that feeling of anxiety when meeting someone that might go somewhere. It happened last time as well, we went on a casual date, kissed, she was interesting, but I wasn't sure if she was the one. My main problem with it is anxiety, I'm scared that if I'm not in love immediatelly, then I'll be leading them on, which I don't want to do. And the same is happening right now. I invited another chick for drinks on friday, but we chatted a lot yesterday. She is attractive, nice and …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/24 12:13 PM
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Yeah, I just kinda cringe, idk. It's like "I'll go all the way to the other side, while you stay inside for no reason, just to do this easy thing for you because you think it's sexy, even though the door is super light and easy to open and not heavy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:56 PM
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For some reason Instagram is recommending me some pseudo trad-wife content. It's not the same as you guys have in the US, but it's mostly girls complaining that men aren't being manly enough (initiating the convo, paying for dates, staying in the side of the street when walking at the sidewalk, etc). But it truly makes it seem like noone is doing it, which I think is probably wrong. Look, I get that some men might indeed be clueless, but I'd bet that most men do think that they are the ones supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/24 12:14 PM
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I do have a beard. It's kinda similar to chris hemsworth beard in terms of size and proportions, but it still needs to grow a bit in some parts, his definatelly looks better overall, surprining noone lol. I'd say it's 90% similar or so.
/r/seduction04/11/24 02:37 PM
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I started attracting 30-40y woman at 21, and still going at 23. Though, they generally say I look older (around 28). I guess they still want a young guy, just not someone who looks 20. I don't have a thing for them, or even try to be appealing to them, I just do my thing. I would actually prefer someone 21-27, but I'm not complaining either, they are super fun.
/r/seduction04/11/24 01:44 PM
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Maybe it's after the 50kg then...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:35 PM
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Just managed to dumbell press two 40kg db for 8 reps today. Why are there no girls lining up to date me? Where are they? Am I supposed to just keep living my life with these absolute massive pecs with me without anyone by my side? Sad life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 08:28 PM
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My thoughts as well. Manage to improve a lot, up to a decent point now, but still trying to make it even better. I still think I'm living in a cage. I used to hear too much of no's (don't do this, don't try that, don't explore those. So now I'm still scared to do some things because I don't want to risk hurting/upsetting people. Please, don't be helicopter parents (and also caretakers in my case as well). I legit feel like a huge pile of potential, just waiting to find it's place, but being prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:25 PM
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Hell yeah, that's the spirit!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 07:16 PM
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I don't give a shit about feminism, and also don't care if it's feminism or not. Using words like that does make it sound like animals, and it's just stupid IMO. You are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:52 PM
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I don't know if you agree with me or not, but that's kinda what I mean. There are contexts that using a similar word will do the trick, won't matter much. In this case, I'm able to understand the message. She could have said "people that have an XY chromossome and have a penis", idk, I'd still understand. But the common word used in this case is men, not male, so it implies that, because she explicitely chose a different word (with the same meaning) to the conversation, she wants to bring more o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 05:37 PM
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Why not use normal words? English is not my native language, there’s just no way I think female when I wanna say woman, or male to say men. It’s out of my vocabulary. And if you are going to say male, why not use female as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 02:48 PM
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Why do you always use males and women, and not men and women? I get that hearing men and females are annoying (rightly so), but doint the same isn't gonna solve the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 01:35 PM
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Well, I disagree with that. The vast majority of woman are indeed like that, at least where I live. Ask any men about random woman on the streets, they will find the majority of them to be good looking. I don't know how to tell you, more than half of woman I meet my age are attractive to me. And now, consider that most are employed and I've not selected lawyers, dentists, nurses, personal trainers, and so on. Now consider that I have a bit more money than the average person (which will put me, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:26 PM
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Idk, like a normal woman. She is nice looking but nothing extraordinary, she is trying to get fit but it's not fat either. She is not rich, but not poor either, average normal job (teacher, secretary, office work). Like, and average woman you meet on the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 05:02 PM
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Yeah, I guess I shouldn't be trying to understand why someome would not want to go on a date with me. Maybe they weren't that attracted to me in the first place, or something else, but we would not have a good relationship. Maybe it's for the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:51 PM
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Probably. Maybe my anxiety is slowly killing me, idk, I need to meet new people. Living in a small city is not doing me any favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:45 PM
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I mean, yes, but I'd not be talking or agreeing to go on dates, only to just disappear before the date. Maybe I'm doing something wrong, but I'd expect so are they, and I'd still want to go on a date to see things better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:42 PM
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Oh, please, I need the coochie right now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:36 PM
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How can some women just not be that interested at all? We get along, we agree on a date, and then she vanishes, we don't even go to a date. Or we do go on a date, agree to go on a second time, exciting stuff, keep talking, but out of a sudden, gone again. And this is not through OLD. I mean, I know there are better people out there, plenty of options, and so on, but they are not above my leage, I'm an average dude going after average woman. Yeah, plenty of options for them and yada-yada, but ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/24 01:28 PM
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Yep, agree with you POV. It also applies to a lot of other factors in life, including your death, lol. Dating is just another part of life, you can improve and should improve, but sometimes you just didn't get lucky. Some things are so simple, yet a lot of factors have to go at least well enough so the situation happens. Sucks to suck, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 02:34 PM
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Yeah it's not the end of the world I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:59 PM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:36 PM
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Number 1 concern right now for sure. No but she is legit, I'm more worried about going there, and she not enjoying the company or whatever, and me having to either book a hotel for a night or drive back home. It would be a wasted saturday night plus a bunch of money and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:32 PM
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This saturday I'm about to travel for 2h to go to a hookup in a nearby city. Usually, I don't think these are worth it, it's too much of a hastle for pussy, ya know? Just fap 1 or 2. But I wanna do it once, just to see how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 05:14 PM
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Welcome to the club
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:41 AM
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Kinda random, that's why I also love it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:35 AM
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One of my problems with dating is that I cannot control other peoples emotion. In the sense that, when I meet someone interesting, I'm scared that the person is just gonna leave me. I'm always searching for the right message, that will make her more interested in me, the right words, the right topic to discuss. But there's no such thing, if she was more interested she would do something, and most important, I'd not be confused if she was interested in me or not. I should just treat it normally, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 11:32 AM
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Probably gonna try hit some PRs today. Feeling good after some days of having a messy mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:39 AM
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🙁
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:52 PM
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I'm finally noticing that the feeling I've been having these past 2 years - and that probably was present in my childhood and teenage years as well - is anxiety. This time it's messing with my head about a possible relationship, and I'm 100% sure it's anxiety. It's a mixture of depression, with fear, with helplessness. It should be a happy moment, but it's killing me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 04:37 PM
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I want children, but I don't want another mans kid in my life. I want my own kid, with my wife. Multiple kids at at that, but me and my wife. No, I'm not looking at single moms like that. What I'm looking at is at someone who has a kid with another person, and I don't want that. I have nothing against them, I just don't want to date someone with a kid from someone else in my life, that's all. I'd love to have kids with my eventual wife, though. I do have the means. I'm still young, 23, but my fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 02:08 PM
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My opinion is that this is all complete horseshit. And tiring. Goddamn it's tiring..
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:52 PM
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Nope, Brazil, but southern Brazil. It's different from the big cities, and I also live in a small city of less than 30k people. It has some stuff in common with the rest of the country, but also a lot of differences as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 06:06 PM
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Well, I don't wanna boast, but my situation is not the same as for the vast majority of men, be them average height, short or tall. Yes, my point is that, my face (and my body) saved me. But I don't think that it would be that different if I was shorter. The pool would definatelly shrink, but it would still be there IMO.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:43 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what I mean. Only having above average height won't get you everything, how it's portraid in media. They will prefer me over the 182cm average guy. Now, if he is tall, good looking, has a noticeable presence, that's another story, I'll be cooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:31 PM
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Just did a casual spin around the city last saturday night, with a girl that iniciated the interaction, and it was the best thing that happened in awhile. Everything was so natural, I didn't have to impress her, worried to say the right thing at the right time, keep her interested or I lose her, it was awesome, she was legit interested in spendind that time with me, and she was also the one that said that we should hang out a second time. God, I missed the feeling of being treated like a human b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:15 PM
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Having a nice face and a good looking body is cheating! You guys have no idea, I feel like I'm playing on easy mode. No, I don't consider myself top tier, neither do I get everyone I want, far from that. But I'm not even putting effort to approach, they do it themselves. This has never happened before. I was a virgin 2 years ago, now we are on another leve, babyyy, let's go! So yeah, looks do matter. Yeah yeah, be confident, have good posture, hygiene, know how to talk to people (underrated af),…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 06:07 PM
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fr fr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:47 PM
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Hoes come and go
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 06:45 PM
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We do value friendship with each other. Hell, the only kind of love that I received outside my family was from friends, since forever. In school, second grade or so, me and my best friend joined a group of 3 fat funny dudes, and we formed a 5man squad of goofines. Later on, 3 more colleges joined in, and by the end of highschool, when we were 17y old, we were 8. I'm 23 now, we still meet to have barbecue and drink a ton of beer from time to time, we just don't meet that much anymore because adul…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 11:42 AM
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Yep, that might be it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 07:32 PM
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Based last sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 06:31 PM
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I do get what you mean. I don't think it's most men, but it's a lot of men regardless, and it does have a significant impact. I guess something similar can be said about women who only go for rich dudes, not liking him as a person but enjoying the lifestyle. But yeah, it's not all sunshine and rainbows with dating as a woman, that's for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 04:40 PM
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It's so over. My friend just matched with one of the best girls in the city (we live in a small town). She gave me some mixed signes once or twice, but I didn't want to test them since she is our client (she has a psycology thing, and me and my father are her accountants). So, I didn't know if those signes were of interest, or because of something more friendly. I had very small hopes of it happening someday, now I'm kinda sad. Happy for him though, she is a keeper, maybe it goes somewhere, mayb…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 08:14 PM
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I'm very selective when I'm sober and not super horny, so if she is not that hot I'd rather not. Yeah it's nice in the moment, but idk, still kinda feel bad for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:56 AM
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Guys I just discovered something. Casual sex is not fun. Yeah, I get that you are kinda drunk and not giving the fucks, but you will most likely regret it the next day. Either the girl is not as hot as you thought she was, or she is hot and you want to try and date her (but now it's kinda weird since your first interaction was sex and it's not gonna go anywhere anymore), or she is in the middle, and you will just break her heart (and yours) in the long run. I might just be stupid thought, what c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 11:45 AM
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Me when I forget my watch and suddently my left arm feels weirdly lightweight
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:22 PM
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There's this guy in my gym that I'm kinda friends with, and he kinda cheats with his girlfriend without any shame. I don't know if she knows it or not, but appareantly everyone else does, because he just told me that when they go to parties together, he sometimes say that he will go to the bathroom just to get some girlz, and aint no way they don't know he has a girlfriend. He sometimes does it with his buddy, and they both go hunting. He also does casual hookups sometimes, but he says that it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:21 PM
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Yep, I also think it's kinda wrong to the other person and you are gonna waste both yours and the others time, better to use that time to improve your life. Thank you bro, one step at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 08:08 PM
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That's my view of the situation as well. I sometimes get dates and whatnot, but they are not the ones that I'm gonna get a serious relationship out of, so I just go for the fun. In the meantime, I've tried with some chicks that I found were more of my interest, and they are not interested in going further. So, even though I can't just forget about it and hope that I get a wife someday, I'm also not gonna settle with someone that I don't find attractive enough, vibe well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 07:55 PM
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My mom knows the biggest 5y old chad in the world. She is a helping teacher (idk the name in english, she helps some special kids in class while the teacher do teacher stuff), and the kid she is helping right now is a 5 year old autistic (level 2) boy. She started telling us that the kid can barelly enjoy stuff alone, the girls in the class don't leave him alone. Appareantly, he is super sweet, and the girls don't leave his side, do everything for him (bring him lunch, his backpack and stuff), t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 11:25 AM
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I don't have a full opinion on self improvement. Sometimes I think it's helpful, other times I think about that line in fight club and part of your opinion comes to mind as well. However, I gotta say that the universe was right about not giving me a better dating life when I was younger. I was immature, didn't really go out that much, didn't know how to talk to people, but specially woman, and so on. After I discovered self improvement (together with other things, like stoicism and stuff), I gre…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 04:41 PM
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It might just be cultural. I'm from Brazil. I totally undestand going to clubs to enjoy and have a good time, but again, here it's mostly a place to hook up. Yes, couples go there to enjoy the music, specially if it's in a more grown up place. But, for some reason we do consider it mostly a place to hook up, so people that are dating don't go alone or with friends because it might seem disrespectful to their parner. I don't doubt you, but I wouldn't like my woman to go to a club with her friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 06:29 PM
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In my local town, if you are at a club, you are either single, or with your partner. I don't record, like ever, seeing someone that I know is dating someone, go with friend and without the partner around. Men or woman. If you are dating someone, and you want to go to the club, you either go with your partner, or you go with your friend AND your partner. No clubbing with friend, but partner at home. Unless it's an eletronic music club, then everyone goes there to use drugs anyway, and there's no …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 05:51 PM
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Think about it: 100-200mg/wk for 2-3 cycles of 16 weeks. Trenbolone on fast food will put you right ahead of someone who has been working out for six years, without as much time and money spent, right ahead in appearance of having muscles. Well, it will also literally kill you, mentally and phisically. Tren is not your average steroid, you can't just casually use some of it and eat junk food because you want to be ahead of other fit men. It's no viable. If you want to do it you have to do it wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:16 PM
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I am dating other women. Just talked about her because, well, I was interested in her. I'm also interested in 2 other woman that go to my gym, I won't be a rock, I wanna do stuff, live my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:06 PM
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That's part of the plan, just not at the moment. Currently helping and training with a beginner friend until he leaves the city in 1-2 weeks or so. I'll probably dm them first and ask to train in a later day. Don't wanna just wait and do nothing right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:04 PM
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No need to invite anyone, I'm already after two girls there lol. There's no stopping right now. It's just a girl, no biggie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:49 PM
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Yep, but the confusing part is that it didn't seem like that. The text was essentially saying this, sure, but she was putting emojis, liking my messages and stuff. It didn't seem like she was cutting me off. But I do also believe your message holds truth. If she really wanted, she could surely find some day off, I'm sure of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:45 PM
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I don't know about busy. Everyone I know that went to college had time to meet people. Some even partied on week days. She is studying nutrition. Like, she could find a day or two in a span of 2-3 weeks, I would guess. But recently I noticed she is ignoring me more at the gym, so that's what I started doing as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:38 PM
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It takes two to tango There's this girl at my gym. I dm'd her to ask her out and she agreed. Initally she said that she is usually not available on weekends because she travels to places (it's true, she is always in another city at weekends), and that she has college stuff in the week, so I said that it's ok, we would find a weekend where she was here. I waited like 3 weeks, and dm'd her again, she said this weekend she would not be here again, and that we should again try another time. Well, 2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 01:26 PM
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Sorry I didn't undestand it very well. I'm saying that me, as a man, vs another man, I think I'l more fit and stronger than the average male. I'm not saying that if I was a fit woman, with 8 years of going to the gym, was farly strong, agile yada yada. I think a regular fit woman would still lose on average against an average man. She may excel in some things, but overall I don't think it's possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:55 PM
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God this is such a mess. Absolutelly terrible. No focking words m8.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 07:12 PM
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What if my grandma had wheels instead of legs? It's just part of the injustices of the world. And yes, I think it's one of the worst ones, only behind wars (fuck wars). I would love for things to be different. It absolutelly sucks that a minority of men commit horrible crimes, and because of this you have to be alert of the majority of men, but stuff are being done in this regard. You are centantly doing your part in this, I'm also doing mine, and will do more when I have kids. But telling all m…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:52 PM
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Well, if you bring equipment for a bear, you would be equiped against a man as well. Maybe bring a gun or something just in case. If he also has a gun, then it doesn't matter that it's a man or a woman, you are levelled. And then it comes back to the question. It will only matter in this case if he is an aggressive man, and chances are, he is not. I know we have society, the judging system, policies, and stuff that keep some bad poeple from doing bad things, but the average man is not a predator…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:45 PM
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There's no way the average person, be it woman or man, survives against a bear in the woods without equipament. You might survive, but the average person would be dead FOR SURE. You can say whatever you want, that the sky is red or whatever, it won't be true. I'd rather encounter a lion than a bear, there's no way I survive both of them, but bear are on another level in nature, I'm sorry. And I'm pretty sure that if you ran this experiment multiple times, the amount of times that the bear killed…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:21 PM
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Also, if I'm alone in the woods with a man, he probably doesn't want anything with another man, but if anything happens I'm pretty certain I'd be stronger. I think the odds of something happening is not 0%, and I have to consider it a possibility, it's the only way I die. Yes, the prompt never said about a fight happening, but if the goal is survive, you have to consider aggresive behavior as a possibility. That's one of the main reasons I go to the gym (granted it would be better to learn how t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:10 PM
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Well, or they are just being biased in their answer. I know this shit can be more complicated than it appears. Like, I can understand there's some deep trauma happening, and it's also kind of a protest. They are saying that men today are so down bad that they would rather encounter a bear in the wild than a man. But I don't agree with this, there's so much I'd like to write, but I will try to stick with the basics. Besides, my view, obviously as a man, and every limited living experience that I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:02 PM
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Considering I'm doing pretty good in fitness, I would probably survive no problems versus an average man, be him 20, 30, 40, 50, doesn't matter, and I don't think I'm being cocky. Like, I'm 23, have 8 years of going to the gym, I'm fairly strong and pretty agile. If the dude is bigger, I'd just tire him, if he is more slender I'd be stronger. He has to either know how to fight (anything could do, I'd get rekt), be "me" but better (stronger but still agile, or more agile with similar strenght), o…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:35 PM
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That's my opinion as well, but I can't seem to justify it, but it just seems to be the case. Why do you think that men want woman more than woman want men? It is testosterone messing with the libido of men? Is it societal expectations? I'd love to understand it more.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 01:08 PM
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We do follow each other. Timeline is: About 5 or so months ago, I followed her, but she didn't follow back. I didn't remove her from my following list. Now, in mid february, I post the photo and after 4-5 days she follows me back and likes the photo. So, last week we were already following each other.
/r/seduction27/03/24 11:59 AM
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Yeah, I thought about going and talking to her, but I was unconfortable going there alone. She was in a group of 5-6 people. I guess it's another area of improvement, but I'm not perfect, I have some strong points and some weak ones. It's not an excuse, but sometimes shit is hard, ya know? Still a long way to go to become the chadest of chads.
/r/seduction26/03/24 07:21 PM
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Thank for the words, man. Really appreciate it!
/r/seduction26/03/24 11:23 AM
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It's funny to me. I've always been someone who was liked by everyone. I was never famous at school and stuff, but everyone that knew me thought of me as a nice dude, so the thought of someone rejecting me was quite scary. Imagine someone destroying this (fake) nice image that I have of myself. Then as we grow we learn that you are not gonna be liked by 8 billion people, and that's fine. I lost far too many opportunities in life (be it in dating or other areas) by being scared of rejection or abo…
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:24 PM
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Yep
/r/seduction25/03/24 08:18 PM
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Huge cope. But it's perfect for me, I'm not complaining. If dudes do find MGTOW to be the superior lifestyle, there will be more woman for me I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:59 AM
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Oh that’s interesting. For me it always felt that girls were less likely to be virgins at that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:23 AM
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I really don't know what's my reality. I'm 23, so still gen Z, but at 17y, at the end of HS, I think about half of my class was still virgin (including me), but the men were more about 70 to 80%. I think the problem really is on the kids that left highschool when the pandemic started. They must be around 20 by now, getting out of their teenagers looks but with no experience outside highschool. But what do I know. However, it does feel like less kids are losing their virginity before HS, and havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:46 AM
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I agree. I don't see these complains happening in real life, and feel like cheap self-defeat. I've kissed a coworker, I've kissed female friends (and some of their friends too). I don't go to libraries, but I've kissed a high school classmate, 2 or 3 college classmate, and the list goes on. If some dudes just keep giving up, I guess it's just gonna be easier as time goes. Good for me, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:28 AM
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Do you really think the majority of people would settle for a perfect but fake relationship? I’m a man, and I would love to have an imperfect person around me, like, you know, two human beings, who are flawed and grow up with their problems together.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:58 PM
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Thats an interesting perspective, makes a lot of sense. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 02:22 AM
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- I won't tell you my city as I engage with a bunch of brazilian subreddits, and would like to keep my privacy. Maybe search for Bento Gonçalves, it's a relativelly big city in my area, it's not the safest but it's not the worst like Porto Alegre or Caxias do Sul. - Yeah, I've seen it myself, guys changing the subject, or ignoring womans own SA stories. Kinda awful, if you tell me. I guess people, in this case being the whole population of my city, wouldn't like to talk about it, I know I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah, that makes more sense. Thank you for the input.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:31 PM
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Well, no, I haven't talked that much with Brazillian woman in general, just with the ones in my area. But I suspect the situation is not good, specially in the northern part and big cities like São Paulo and Rio de Janeiro.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 04:00 PM
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I never said I don't believe woman, I said I never bought into the narrative that woman are getting raped, SA and SH by man that much like we see on the media. Like, to me is just absurd to hear someone writing "I was raped...". It's such a hurrendous sitution, it blows my mind. When someone gets murdered here, it's news for at least a week, I imagine the uproar if someone got raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 03:58 PM
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Fair. Still don't know the meaning of a dive town ahahahahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:28 PM
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Don't go out calling our clubs shit. We are the only ones who can say crap about our crap clubs. No but you are partially right, they are not great by any means, it's just what we have. We can go to nearby cities of 100k people, and there we have some good shid. The thing is that, even there, the scene doesn't change much. I have girl friends that go the to study at college there, and they also don't complain about men harrasing them, or raping them. I think the thing is that, Brazil in general …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 02:05 PM
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Probably, yes, I agree. I think I still have a chance, just have to read the room and see where it goes. I am not full of hope, but I don't think it's time to give up.
/r/seduction07/04/23 05:15 PM
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Yep. There was a girl who started to go with some friends of mine, and I didn't know her. I wanted to approach her, but first we had to have some interaction. But she didn't want to interact with me for some reason, I did some small talk and she never really kept going. Until I approached her in a party and she said no. After that moment she started a lot of conversations with me, and now we talk a lot more. Well, I didn't get the girl, but know she respects me at the very least, like we are in …
/r/seduction07/04/23 02:21 PM
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I didn't say I hate incels, I said specifically against the incel mentality, as I think it is a way to "slave" young men into a mindset that's not helpful to them and posibilly harmful to society in the long run. I don't hate them, as I fell like they are in a lot of situations, victims as well. But being shy to the problem is also not good, I fell we have sort of a duty to point out that these people are wrong. They are not enemies, they are not bad people, but. for them to have a chance to cha…
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:57 PM
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My man spitting facts. The fact that the incel mentality is so predominant on online spaces is a shame, more and more young man fall into that trap, and generalizing groups like that does not help either. Let's see individuals like they are, individuals.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:20 PM
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I don't think people should be proud of being male, female, straight, gay, whatever, they should be proud of getting into a university, of having a successful company, raising a child by good standarts, inventing something, doing good for the poor. I'm not proud of being male, i'm just a male, although i'm proud of my achievements, of what i've done to help others, and what brings me shame I try to improve step by step. I undestand the concept and importance of the male role in society, and I un…
/r/MensRights05/04/21 05:01 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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