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Are you agreeing with me, disagreeing with me, or something in between? If the latter, please specify where/how/why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/19 10:34 AM
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Being funny and having a good sense of humor is clutch. Being able to make a woman laugh scores you more points than you might think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/19 09:42 AM
1

Thanks for this. You're a sport.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:52 AM
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Humans are too easily influenced by culture and societal expectations for any of this to be relevant. Evolutionary Psychology is referred to as a "soft science" for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:47 AM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:51 PM
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This is a _lot_ to unpack, here. I mean....everyone's conditioned by society in some way, and each person _is_ unique. This really _has_ to be evaluated on a case-by-case basis; human beings are really too complex, varied, and just plain _weird_ to blanket-statement _anything_ about how they behave. I use this phrase a lot, but....I'll say it again: Ants haven't written a definitive guide to Ant Behavior. For obvious reasons. Humans shouldn't expect to have written one for Humans, and for much t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:49 PM
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The internet tends to tell you whatever it is you want it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 06:41 PM
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Honestly never encountered this myself. It's entirely anecdotal evidence, admittedly, but _I_ was always the one turning down first date sex from the girl I was seeing. I'll add that most of my free-wheeling/sleeping around days were in my _late_ 20s, though--I'm sure that that has something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:53 AM
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Interesting question! How does fishing rank as an "alpha" past-time? "Do you even fish, brah?" Edit: This question is almost impossible to google/search for because of reasons that should have been obvious to me before I even tried typing it in...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 08:42 AM
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Anglerfish know how to fish. It's in the name.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 06:25 PM
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They're out there, but the vast majority of TRP culture, and TRP devotees are 20-something frat boy types, or frat boy wannabes. It's a _phase_. It's eventually grown out of, and discarded. "Plate-Spinning" is just kinda creepy when you get into your late 30s/early 40s, and beyond. It's much like bragging about how much you can drink. In your 20s, it's awesome....as you age....not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 10:13 AM
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Of course I do. I'd do the same if I were having a male friend over, or if I expected a visit from my folks. Living with someone and entertaining a guest are two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 08:37 AM
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It's culturally expected, to a degree, that's why. I mean if you learn how a female is expected to act from pornography and hentai--I mean where else are you gonna find anything close to an "example"? And....well, men _do_ tend to like it. I remember my first time with a non-moaner--I was sure I was doing something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 08:23 AM
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So just don't date introverted girls, then. They'll get along just fine without you, I'm sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:07 AM
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Eh, give it time. Fifty percent of women eventually experience baldness, themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 10:28 AM
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What a wild, unorthodox idea..... X D Yeah, I agree 100 percent--I'd have posted something similar if you hadn't stated just about everything I'd wanted to, already.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 07:56 AM
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Eh, I'm sure there are women out there who like it.....I know for sure there are lots of women who absolutely adore widow's peaks on men. I'd wager that, if you're funny/witty and can make them laugh, that that would more than put you in the black if you're balding for most chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:16 AM
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Smart, all the way. Having sex with the dumb chicks kinda feels like beastiality, somehow....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:46 AM
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You just shave your head....it'll be fine....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 05:38 AM
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Heh. Exactly. And then you think about it....and all of a sudden their views of "all women cheat", "hypergamy", etc suddenly make sense. The psychotic and damaged ones are the only ones they get..... The women who are decent human beings know better than to put up with their bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:52 PM
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Black and white, absolutist thinking is a waste. Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:20 PM
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"Plate-Spinning" to me always seemed like it implies effort, like....dating many women who are all under the impression that you're not sleeping with anyone else. Like, having to lie about not being available on a certain night because you're taking Girl B out for dinner...... "Spinning Plates" .....well, eventually those plates will fall, no matter how good of a circus performer you are. Then I see "Lying isn't alpha behavior" and other such shit.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 02:12 PM
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Meeting women at bars or clubs isn't much better, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:13 PM
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Yeah....you're being silly. I'm speaking as someone who had bouts of neurotic jealousy in my teens and 20s....just relax. Where she's been is where she's been.....and she's no longer _there_. She's with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 01:06 PM
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The provided post reeks of "not real", first and foremost. Second.....for the most part, it's girth that matters most, not length. There are size-queen chicks out there with a fetish for it, but.....generally most chicks aren't into having their cervix slammed--sensitivity goes _down_ the deeper ya go. Under four inches, you _might_ have a problem, but not one that couldn't be solved with some creative positioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 12:46 PM
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I've never really understood the insistence on using the term, personally. What's wrong with just saying that you have "fuck-buddies"? Or that you have an "open relationship"? Is there a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:57 AM
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That generally is how one should react to assholes....that said, though: I think what the OP was inferring/fishing for is women's reactions to being hit on by nerdy, short, pimply, overweight, or otherwise physically unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:17 PM
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Early to mid 20s, then.....gotcha....
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/19 03:11 PM
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Be careful where you're swingin' that much common sense, dude....you're gonna hurt somebody.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 03:24 PM
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I'm with ya, here. The biggest mistake the democrats made was allowing themselves to cease being the party of the working man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 12:00 PM
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I find your numbers and statistics dubious...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:57 PM
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This is needs work, in terms of being passable erotic fiction. The redpill bits really only get in the way of the narrative; probably best that you lose them altogether. And some buildup and character development is clearly in order: What what she wearing, what were you wearing? What did she smell like? Also: Show, don't tell. "I did alpha shit" doesn't mean anything in the mind's eye of the reader, you have to describe, tell us what it is you did that was so "alpha" and "Chadly". In future work…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/19 01:18 PM
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Doom-sayers predicted the same, or worse, when the The Pill became available, when abortion became legal, when inter-racial marriage became legal, when NYPD Blue dared to show a man's butt on network television; Mortal Kombat's Fatalities didn't turn children into raving murderers.... The human race will be fine. The changes you're living through aren't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:27 PM
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If that's the best you can do, I feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 11:26 AM
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If it means anything...I'm late 30s, lost virginity at around 20, started living with the woman I eventually married at around 29. The red pill thing is just something I see as incredibly misguided, and more often than not, arrogant. Humans have yet to write a comprehensive guide to Human Behavior for much the same reason that ants have yet to write a comprehensive guide to Ant behavior. You're 23....you have better things to be doing than subscribing to this kind of absolutist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:56 AM
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Like those damn Irish. And look at us now...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 10:12 AM
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All the women that you get as a result of having done these things...are the women you deserve. Of that, I am sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:47 AM
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The concept of sharing interests, hobbies, passions, and a sense of humor with one's partner is kinda foreign to most RP-folk. You're gonna scare them with this kinda talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:20 AM
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You've linked the results of an online survey that someone put up on their blog.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 09:00 AM
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A date assuming that you are going to pay for the dinner as a matter of course...that's a giant red flag, for me. By all means, be prepared to pay for it, but if there's zero in terms of a playful game of paying the check/paying the tip...that's a "this one's a dud". At least for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 08:52 AM
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On the first....it's outdated and largely isn't a thing anymore. Hopefully the two of you have been dating for long enough that you've each met the other's parents...and you can probably tell if they approve of you or not. It's nice if her folks like you, but in this day and age going to them and asking permission is probably going to get you weird looks. The second is up to her....whatever. Honestly, it depends on how cool-sounding your last name, and hers, is. If your last name is "Globowski" …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 06:00 AM
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The male black widow actually takes great pains to make sure he isn't eaten after mating---he ties up the female with webbing in an almost bondage-like manner--most of them escape uneaten. The fate of the male Anglerfish.....now there's a real horrorshow. Only species that has it worse would be the hyena.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:51 AM
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In your early 20s, then. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:29 AM
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Might I ask how old you are, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 03:24 AM
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Sorry to hear that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/19 03:25 AM
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Have you considered getting into video games, yourself? I mean.....surely you and the man you married have some common interests and shared personal passions, hobbies? You should look into rekindling _those_ things, honestly. If you don't have that....well, I guess there's always staying together for the kids....
/r/RedPillWives31/12/18 02:26 PM
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You should just do whatever the hell works for you and your partner.....redpill, bluepill....these are terms that don't mean anything in the real world--they only exist on the internet, and are only important to a tiny minority of people on said internet. If the two of you are genuinely happy with your current housework arrangement....then don't fix what isn't broken. My wife is by far the larger breadwinner in our household, but can't cook to save her life. She burned hard-boiled eggs once. And…
/r/RedPillWives31/12/18 02:01 PM
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They assume that all women have something wrong with them.....because all the women that are attracted to RPers _do_ have something wrong with them. Mentally healthy, intelligent, non-hypergamous women _do_ exist.....they just don't to have anything to do with _you_, and thus you don't see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 10:52 AM
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What are you calling a "myth", here? Just so we're on the same page. All of what I said, or specific parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 01:05 PM
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I met my wife on Okcupid, actually. Been married two years, now, been living together for almost ten.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:34 AM
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I think the reasons why most couples pair up is escaping you, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 09:26 AM
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See....I'm honestly not sure if you're making fun of the TRP jargon, here, or if you're serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 10:34 PM
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To each their own I suppose. I've had a few cute moments with the nephews thinking that their "dubstep" music was so very loud and noisey, among other proclamations of being "edgey".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:13 PM
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Not much I, or anyone, can say to that. I hope it gets better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 05:00 PM
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Very 4 serious. 10 years later, we both still have "I love you" moments over watching other people's kids throwing temper tantrums in the grocery store....we just look into each other's eyes and say something like "They're even _worse_ when they're at home, And _that's_ why we don't have those, or: "Worst Pets _ever_." My personal favorite is: "We all make mistakes. Some of us just have abortions instead."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 04:15 PM
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Speaking from personal experience myself......finding someone you can tolerate co-habitating with, and who can tolerate co-habitating with _you_.....is a rare enough occurrence to invoke terms like "soulmate". it's a silly, illogical and idealized thingy, of course, but....when you have it, grab onto it and know that you have it better than most humans ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:49 PM
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Same here! High five! : ) The wife and I actually met and first bonded over our dating profiles both containing the words "Dislikes Children".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:43 PM
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You should have him babysit for your kid-having friends a time or two to make sure about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:37 PM
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Well, that particular bit is one of the biggest problems humans in general have had. The love of absolutes, black and white, good and evil, etc...."Would you make a good Dalek"?" is something I try to always ask myself--forgive the nerdiness, there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 03:14 PM
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Imperfect beings dating imperfect beings.....and failing, and then trying to come up with perfect reasons for why it happened. There's a reason why ants have yet to write a guide to ant behavior. Humans don't have alphas, they don't have hypergamy, they don't have SMV..... TRP, or any kind of doctrine on relationships, really.....it's just a bunch of assholes who want there to be an easy answer where there will never be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 02:21 PM
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I'd go about looking for women who you share interests/geeky passions with first and foremost, then---it's how I broke out of the mid/late 20s "suck and fuck and Goodbye" cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 01:01 PM
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Oh, of course. In our case, we initially planned on something under a grand, and at a park somewhere. Then the parents got involved.... I would, however, recommend against being cheap about it if it's within one's means. The idea is that you're only going to get to do this once, so.....do it big. Treat it like you're buying a car, and will only get to buy a car once in your whole lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:48 PM
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Being charming and witty works better, I'd imagine---I mean, do you just hand off your resume to women you're interested in, with the most relevant bits circled in red?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:38 PM
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This is as opposed to a path where one is nearing 40, still hitting on 20 something girls in bars/clubs, and _isn't_ creepy/pathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 12:29 PM
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Do you know menstruation works?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:15 AM
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Being interesting to talk to and able to make her laugh tends to work, too.... I mean, I _guess_ that might qualify as "high market value" or whatever, but.....every woman _does_ have different things she finds attractive in men. Of course no woman has ever gone after a man she considers of "low value".... It's when you get into setting what those values are, and considering them absolute, that this whole SMV song and dance gets stupid and self-sabotaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 11:10 AM
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Love is being able to mutually tolerate each other at each other's _worst_, in my experience. "Falling in love" is easy, being mutually attracted to one another is easy. I would even go so far as to say that having children, and raising them together, is easy (not the actual "raising the child", part, but rather the "together" part....'cuz you're kinda obligated to be a team at that point, really). Live together for a few years before getting married, and/or, for the love of God, having kids. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 10:45 AM
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It's an excuse to have a huge, expensive, decadent party that's all about you. And....affirm that you've found a life-partner that you're dedicated to. It's definitely _not_ for everyone, and there's nothing wrong with you if it's not for you. But....it was definitely _for_ me. My wife and I lived together for about seven years before we decided we should probably do the wedding thing, and we had a huge, expensive wedding....got to see friends that neither of us had seen in years, got a great di…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/18 09:58 AM
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Perhaps not free, per se, but covered under social welfare programs, certainly. Which they currently are _not_.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 10:40 AM
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Access to feminine hygiene products. I mean....you're welcome to lobby for access to tampons and maxi-pads as a male, if you like, and if that's your thing, I won't judge, but......
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/18 09:15 AM
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Slow down, there, Chicken-Little. The straw men are gonna unionize if you work them any harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 01:12 AM
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Not on the internet, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:34 AM
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Being special is important to you, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 12:26 AM
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It sounds like you had a very good dick to hone your skills on. You're among a fortunate few, though--most never have that opportunity. Please consider that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 05:10 PM
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*applauds* Game. Set. Match. Well done, my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 12:32 PM
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Agreed. Even the "studies" they all like to reference..... There's a reason sociology and psychology are referred to as "soft sciences". X D
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:57 AM
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Don't confuse the internet for reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:44 AM
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I respect your honesty, but....will say that, and this is speaking from experience: There is a very definite upside to dating/sleeping with a woman who has a high N-Count: She likely knows how to please you, likely is confident in the bedroom, is very likely honed in expertise of the lips, tongue, hips, hands....and likely a few other body parts. It's certainly preferable to being a girl's "first"....unless you really like winces of discomfort and whimpers of "Ow" with your love-making...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 11:41 AM
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Of course not. Thus the "three fourths" part.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/18 09:10 AM
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Did she ever get that orgasm?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 10:27 PM
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Being called names by a stranger on the internet....yeah. That'll help....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 06:57 PM
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Good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:07 PM
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And how many women do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 04:04 PM
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I'd be surprised if even three fourths of them were _actually_ married, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 12:23 PM
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Or sexbots. XD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 11:37 AM
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You're correct both in this way of thinking, and this particular criticism of the "redpill" mode of thought. The concept of bonding with other human beings is just _not_ in the cards for RPers--most of them eventually grow out of their 20s and quietly stop this crap, anyway. Consider yourself ahead of the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 10:30 AM
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Aw....you're takin' all the fun out of the game for the twenty-something kids when you say shit like that, man.... let them have their fun--at least _some_ amount of time where they think they have it all figured out before reality comes avalanching down on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 10:22 AM
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You get a parasite in your innards. It grows, makes you sick, makes your hormones go haywire--eventually reaches the size of a soccerball. Then it makes a very, very rude, potentially lethal, always very painful, exit via your genitals. It then adopts the role of a very, very obnoxious _external_ parasite, it sucks, leech-like from your nipples, it ruins your sleep schedule. It demands that you love it and consider it the best thing that ever happened to you---because you have to. It's too late,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/18 11:06 AM
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...if you say so. My wife and I go the peasant route of just cleaning up after ourselves. Different strokes for different folks, though, I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 01:29 PM
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Take the red pill if you want. It's a phase-thing and you'll be over it in a few years. Just like everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 01:24 PM
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If you're not into it...don't do it. If you don't know if you're into or not.....do it and have a safe-word. If you're into it, do it. The fuck is the problem, here?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/18 09:57 AM
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It's something frat boy assholes think beta males are doing while they're totally being an alpha and banging all the hot chicks at da'club. Eventually one's 20s end and this nonsense niche-culture vocabulary ends with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 02:05 PM
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Oh sure they would....the difference is the internet. Now there's a place to whine and complain and be a Flat-Earther or whatever-the-Hell-you-Want.....and there's at least 40 to 100 folks there to help you believe whatever it is that you want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:04 PM
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From what I've read.... How old are you, right now, again? Just asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:47 PM
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Do you have any hobbies? Pet interests, passions? Topics you nerd out over?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:42 PM
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So.....are you 23 , or 43?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:28 PM
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People in their twenties have a bizarre conception of what life is like/should be like after 30. Eventually, they'll turn 30 and find their misconceptions becoming more akin to reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 12:25 PM
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That being "RedPill" isn't something that 90 percent of the folks who are even familiar with the term won't forget about by the time they're at or around 30 years old. Every guy hates women when they're in the midst of their first or second breakup/rejection. Ants have yet to write a "Guide to Ant Behavior". Same with humans and a "Guide to Human Behavior", despite their best efforts to pretend that they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 03:50 PM
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Or an unhappiness you're stuck with for life....and thus have no choice but to convince yourself to be a happiness. If you want kids...enjoy it when you have them and good-for-you, you're more of a man than I am, and I'll spend lots of time thinking about that, I promise. If you don't want them, and they happen anyway, somehow.....what choice do you have, aside from learning to love it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 02:42 PM
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This must be how incest happens....your mom or your sister texts you and wants to take you out to lunch while she's in town....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 12:23 PM
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Get a cat or a dog, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 04:39 PM
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No one's "hard-wired" for it. We're hard-wired for things like walking upright, sleeping at night, and wanting to orgasm. Long term monogamy isn't for everyone. Finding someone that you find tolerable and that can tolerate you is a rarity in and of itself. Ideally you want to establish at least this before you go about the whole marriage, and for fuck's sake, the reproduction/child-raising process. Humans are just too complex to assign hard and fast rules like this to them. Not because they're s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 10:37 AM
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No one cares about what 10/10 men want....for the same reason that not one cares about what 1/10 men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 10:11 AM
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Depends on what she's packing in the intelligence/compatibility/sense of humor department.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 10:05 AM
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I'll give that one a big "hell yeah". Mutual fascination with strange documentaries has always been a big factor for me. Zombie Snails controlled by parasites, the "dracula" ant, the reproductive cycle of the anglerfish..... "Gross...I don't care" Throw it back. "Gross...tell me more!" Keep it. "That's hot!" Keep it...with caution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:39 AM
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Sounds like you should just look into hiring escorts. People who want companionship and want to bond with another human being typically look at things like how compatible their sense of humor is, how many shared interests they have....or, you know, just about all the stuff that you've not listed, here. You're also in your early 20s, trying to date others in their early 20s. You're an inept jackass trying to date other inept jackasses.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 08:31 AM
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Addicts are always going to exist---the only effect that the war on opioids has had is making it more humiliating and difficult for those who need opioids to live their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 06:34 AM
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They die from alcohol abuse at much higher rates than they do opioids. No one cares about booze killing people anymore, though--it's just accepted. Just like the opioid death rate should be. And will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 05:50 PM
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Agreed. The Boomers still have a weird relationship with aging...and Gen X, and the Millennials are no different. Getting old sucks, and will always suck. There's no difference to be seen between the generations....aside from the Millennials having the internet available to whine about it on. The Boomers and X'ers would have done the same, given the chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 05:03 PM
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In your experience, eh? That experience spans.....how late into your third decade of being alive? Do tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 05:14 PM
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Green Lanterns have all the luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 04:50 PM
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Sounds like you're in you're 20s....like....a lot in your 20s....
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 04:39 PM
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The study is Canadian.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 04:28 PM
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The Boomer's parents said the same exact things about them. Young people have always been, and will always be, naive and immature. They'll stop being young as they age, and be bitching about how Generation Z are a bunch of entitled, spoiled layabouts in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 03:35 PM
1

Not really. This is kind of like saying that we were better off before the discovery of antibiotics, or vaccines. Cowardice is assuming that we can't or won't find new challenges once the old hurdles are done away with, or that we would somehow lose something without the old horrors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:09 PM
1

Ah, shit. I'd typed out like three paragraphs of response, and you kinda nailed it all, here. Most of them do eventually grow up before they become a 40-something who expects people to care about their leg-day, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:44 PM
0

Gotcha. Still shouldn't make any kind of significant difference, really. She either says "yes", says "yes but I have other shit going on could we do it next weekend", or she says "no". Anyone who would say "no" based on the fact that you asked online is...not worth your time. There are plenty of others out there who will at least reject you for a reason that makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:49 AM
1

It really shouldn't make any difference. If she's into you, and you ask "hey, do you wanna go see a movie on saturday?/ Get coffee on Wednesday?/ Etc" she'll probably say yes. And if she's not into you, she'll probably say "No", and not suggest alternative times. If you're pursuing a girl who's on the shy-side, asking this online or via a text might actually be preferable, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:46 AM
3

Typically, when you quote someone's post.....it should be something that they actually did say.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:13 AM
1

You stole my answer, you prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 06:35 AM
1

And how old are you, sir, if I may ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 10:40 AM
2

It means you're a grown-up, unlike the people who do this kind of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 08:20 AM
8

It sounds like you date remarkably boring women, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:40 PM
8

If you go to put your arm around her, and she wiggles away from you awkwardly, or if you go in to kiss her, and she...well, doesn't kiss back, or dodges you completely.....she's not that into you, and you should pursue someone else. You can be the initiator without being a fucking predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:37 PM
1

Honestly, I don't think these two things have much at all to do with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:21 PM
1

You bond with them over shared interests and hobbies, emotional and physical intimacy... having a similar sense of humor and being able to make each other laugh is important......I mean....fuck, man.... What's the problem, here? Trust is just that: Trust...meaning you don't feel the need to think about cheating. Ever. It just doesn't cross your mind--you live together, you tolerate one another, you support one another. If something other than this is what's happening, then you're doing it wrong.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 08:49 PM
1

I do think there's a disconnect of definitions at work here, but....what about, say, pornographic images of women (or men, or hermaphrodites...or whatever) ? Does that qualify, and is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/18 07:49 PM
1

How old do you want to be in 15 years? X D
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 04:02 PM
1

Something that requires context. As I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 03:29 PM
3

"Incorrect". Extending the word to morality-related stuffs requires context--it's fine, but....requires context.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 02:51 PM
3

I've always considered those three words to have different meanings, personally. There's some overlap, to be sure, but really now...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 02:20 PM
1

If "AWALT" were true, then "AWALT" would be a term that exists on other planes than just the internet. It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:30 AM
3

It's why humans interact with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 11:07 AM
1

This is a very, very broad topic. It might be best to narrow it down a bit...reduce it to specifics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:22 PM
1

I'm sure they are. Otherwise we wouldn't have body dysmorphic disorder. Men are, as well, to a (probably lesser) degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 07:19 PM
3

Inasmuch as you can shame anyone for just about anything, I suppose....I'm sure it's happened. I'm also sure that long-eyelash-shaming has happened....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:35 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 06:23 PM
1

Honesty is important! : ) And, without a doubt, if there's zero physical attraction/arousal...there's no point. I guess I was projecting a little when I said "dullardly": I find it important that you have shared interests with your significant other, and that they're at a mental level where they can challenge you, in terms of ideas. If you haven't found something to disagree on, or debate by the second or third date, well.....it just seems like there's lots of boring in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 05:08 PM
1

People with horrible, debilitating mental disorders don't tend to mind their appearance or hygiene very well. I'll just leave that point there. Moving on.....does the word "subjective" mean anything to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:56 PM
1

I'd say .....pretty much all the ones that aren't horrible, shallow, or otherwise dullardly people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 04:38 PM
3

Eh....kinda. Some of us just want to debate red-pillers without being banned for violating their safe-space. I suppose what you describe might technically describe what "Purple Pill" means as per the intended definition, but...look at the definition of "Blue Pill", and what the Blue Pill subreddit is....which is a "Can you believe this shit?" compendium of mockery.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 03:33 PM
2

They do that because of the reality, and profitability, of clickbaiting. The MarySue and ReturnofKings.....they're the same. Regardless of gender, humans tend towards stuff that's stimulating....something to get mad about, or something to get mad at. Sensible and realistic doesn't sell.
/r/MensRights12/08/18 01:49 PM
1

If we're extending this thing to exes....I'd officially change my answer to "Likely be disappointed that fire wasn't involved."
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 11:38 AM
1

"Analyzing data from an internet survey...." Study is now garbage. Publish in a peer-reviewed journal or GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 07:20 PM
11

Be suicidally depressed, and likely for a long, long while. Can't respond to the "kids" thing as my wife and I both despise children and find the idea of being shackled to the horrid little things terrifying....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 06:54 PM
1

This study, which they for some reason neglected to link like a real journalist should...was, by their own admission, limited only to college students. Whoopty shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 03:11 PM
12

Being good at sex is for people who experience happiness via providing their partner with pleasure. Being attractive or not attractive has little to do with it....sexual partners who are only concerned with their own pleasure are assholes. This is an "asshole vs. non-asshole" thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/18 03:28 PM
1

SMV is something that less than five percent of the population knows the definition of, and something that's only spoken about on the internet by the aforementioned less-than-five-percent. Everyone else just dates based on mutual attraction, compatibility, and shared interests. Like normal people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/18 01:24 AM
1

Sorry to hear about your awkward and emotionally painful experience with this particular woman. Could you perhaps tell us of your experiences with other women that have led you to the "AWALT" conclusion, though?
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 12:02 PM
1

The Matrix is a silly sci fi action movie from the 90s that was written by two brothers who now identify as women. And apparently there was a scene in it that involved choosing between two pills that some dude on reddit really really liked...
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 06:13 AM
1

Actually, we're in a period of remarkable stability and prosperousness compared to....most all of previous human history. This kind of stuff will always be popular, though: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sR-z1i2ihec
/r/TheRedPill22/07/18 06:06 AM
3

It's also not going to be the best sex in the world....unless one has a thing for the woman wincing in pain and assuring you that "it's ok".
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 01:38 PM
2

I was the insensitive one who asked about it when she told the rest of the family. X D She laughed through the tears and admitted that it was kind of hilarious. And yeah, she's doing fine.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 01:07 PM
2

This. No one, repeat no ONE wants to be a woman's first nowadays.... Aside from religious weirdos and those harboring whatever fetish applies...
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 12:42 PM
1

It's only as important as the two of you make it, really. I'd say "be wary" of shorter guys looking to "prove something" by wooing a taller woman, but....this is, as you said, one to two inches of height difference. Most guys with this sort of Napoleon Complex will go after women who are six feet or taller. I have a step-sister who was 6'3, and married an abusive husband who was 5'3. They're long-since divorced, but...yes, he had to do a little hop in order to strike her in the face.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/18 12:00 PM
1

That's a very, very limited and self-serving take on how evolution works, honestly. Coyotes, Anglerfish, Penguins, Canadian Geese...
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 03:47 PM
3

Do the two of you have a lot of shared interests and/or passions/hobbies? A similar sense of humor? I just remember the mistakes I (and almost everyone at your age) made in the late teens/early 20s: The biggest one being that thinking that finding each other physically attractive is enough to build a future that will last decades, or be at all fulfilling. For the record, you don't sound like you have BPD at all....you just sound like you're 19. You'll be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 11:04 AM
1

At the risk of seeming like I'm hijacking the thread, here......I have to ask something I've wondered for a while, here, and given your unusually cogent explanation as to the nature of "hypergamy", can't resist the opportunity: Is this not just a "human" behavior in general? Why is seeing a better mate than one's current one, and being more attracted to that "better" mate, a thing that only females do? Or am I missing something fundamental, here? I just never understood the necessity of assignin…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 10:32 AM
1

That's pretty much what it should be. Household chores should play to one's strengths, and be fairly divided, and agreed upon mutually. My wife, for example....can't cook to save her life. Therefore, I cook whenever possible. I do the laundry....she vacuums and does dishes.... If you're happy being a submissive little housewife....that's fine. If you're happy being a submissive (or dominant!) little house-husband....it's fine. Generally you should date and/or marry people that make you happy, an…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 09:40 AM
2

I think the reason he said he does not want an exclusive or committed relationship with you is because he does not, in actuality, want an exclusive or committed relationship with you. I also think that if you want an exclusive or committed relationship, you should pursue it with someone who is not him. Do the Friends With Benefits thing or don't....one or the other. Or just be friends.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/18 04:21 PM
2

Well, there's what you thought you did, and then there's reality, dude. I don't know what else to tell you. Just think of me as retarded or something...whatever works best for you. But we are at a point of clarity, regardless. You want your kid to pursue non-American women....any specific non-American culture you're leaning towards pushing, or....? I mean, is this a mail-order bride thingy you're trying to sell to him, or just a generalized "Look for something that's fresh off the boat"? I'm mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 03:41 PM
1

Wasn't sure how to answer this given that I'm already married...been so for about a year--been living together happily for seven years previously. It was more to appease the parents that we ended up marrying, really--and we got a fun lavish party out of it. My opinion isn't so much "NAWALT" or "AWALT" as it is "All Horrible Human Beings Are Like That." The key to a happy relationship and/or marriage is to not do so with a horrible human being. Have similar interests, similar passions, a similar …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 01:12 PM
1

Explain. I mean....are you and your family American/living in America? Are you advising your son to look to non-American women, or to forego women entirely and marry other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 12:51 PM
1

Generally, while there is a genetic component to it....it's not unlike Down Syndrome in that your chances of have a kid with Asperger's/Autism goes up as you (and the father) age. Starts going up exponentially after 35. A very high proportion of Aspies have fathers that conceived them after age 40.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 01:32 PM
1

It'll remain a niche topic that exists primarily on the internet rather than real life, and you'll be luck if even 15 percent of the population ever comes to know what it is. Objectivism has been around for decades-it has its cycle of devotees and promoters--the majority of those who "get into it" don't tend to stay for very long--TRP has a similar existence already.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:57 AM
1

Now I'm wondering what he thinks "Peer Review" means.... XD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 11:40 AM
2

It could be that he's chosen to forego the option of filing rape charges--it shouldn't be this way, but there are a multitude of reasons for a man to elect to not do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 08:15 AM
1

It's a bit harder to do that when they're family, but thankfully it's only coming from kid-loaded cousins, and not parents. Funny thing was, in nearly the same breath, these same cousins asked us if we might be able to babysit their ever-growing litter. The wife and I both laughed out loud, and she asked: "So, that whole "crying" thing......you just shake them really hard and that shuts that whole business down, right?" And this is why I married this woman, heh. Needless to say, they never broac…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 08:09 AM
1

As planejane already stated. It's correlation, not causation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 05:09 AM
5

No, it doesn't. For some women, having a high N-count means satisfaction that she's "played the field" and is ready to settle down in a relationship, for others, it's something they always want/a lifestyle they enjoy living, and thus, find themselves happier with a lifetime of short flings. Then of course you'll also run into the low N-count woman who cheats because she didn't "play the field", and wonders about better sex, better men, etc. And yet some of them marry their first, have kids, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 02:23 PM
5

Try being a married couple that doesn't want kids--it's even worse. Family and co-workers who have like six toddlers running around calling us "selfish" and "unnatural". X D
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 06:03 PM
0

I think they're just being playful/oggling, man...
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 05:58 PM
1

The real world isn't black and white, or simple enough for that question to be even close to answerable. "Femininity" and "Masculinity" are ultimately very vague and subjective terms that, while having an admitted semblance of normative meaning, mean different things to different people--different spectrums that have varying boundaries. Specifics are what's going to matter here--as is, you're just tossing out terms and people will answer based on how they personally interpret(and enjoy hearing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 05:15 PM
3

Anecdotes that reinforce what I already believe are the best things ever.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/18 05:02 PM
1

Correlation, perhaps. Causation: no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:51 PM
1

There's something about being in one's early to mid 20s and thinking you have it all figured out. It's different from what happens in the teenage years in that it's "for real this time". x D
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 08:23 PM
2

Please elaborate on that. I think you may thinking of something that stupid women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 05:26 PM
2

I suppose you should be thankful that Lucio Fulci never had a daughter, then.... XD Kudos in advance to the perhaps 2 people that know what I'm talking about. The rest of you can just move along....
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 05:51 AM
3

I thought they all ended up in your bed, though?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:46 PM
0

Yeah, yeah...pain is just weakness leaving the body and all that. You found something you enjoy, and good for you. Enjoy your newfound hobby/passion. Are you sure you're not just in a manic phase?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:08 PM
1

Why would they keep going to a salon that murdered them?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:55 PM
2

The average age of most gamers is 35.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:47 PM
1

I think it's just that female protagonists are easier to portray as vulnerable and weak, particularly in the horror genre. Thus, it's a bigger and more triumphant emotional payoff when they defeat the Alien/Terminator/Jason Vorheese. It's laziness, not a conspiracy.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 06:38 PM
1

How do your friends' "stayed together" stories go?
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:42 PM
1

Part of loving someone is giving them the ability to hurt you. It's just how it is....
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:34 PM
-3

Whatever gets you out of bed in the morning, I guess....
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 05:27 PM
3

I had the same thing happen with some old college buddies that got really into anime, and cosplaying, and going to conventions that revolved around such. I had no interest in it, but it became such a key component in their lives that eventually it caused the friendship to wither. Can't say that any of them looked down on me for not being into what they were into, though.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 07:13 PM
0

What's this "mission" of yours?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 06:44 PM
3

Why would putting on more muscle dissuade the folks who initially called you a meathead, though?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 06:15 PM
0

If you're burning more calories than you're taking in, and are still gaining weight....there are lots of scientists who will want to speak with you. The laws of physics may need to be re-written.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 06:06 PM
1

You're correct. Most MGTOW folks do end up making women a larger part of their thoughts and energy than most Blue Pills do. It's like if the Catholic priesthood did nothing but talk about how awesome they were because of their celibacy.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:52 PM
5

That's why you bludgeon them to death in their sleep, though. The Strong dominate the Weak, and the Clever dominate the Strong.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 12:45 PM
1

Kudos to you for being able to admit it. I myself was once....well, in a bad relationship that drove me to act in much the same way. She found my jealousy "cute", and played with it/teased it. I did a lot of things I'm not proud of, to put it succinctly. Never date a mortician, no matter how good the sex is. That was all 12 years ago, however. I've since found (and married) a woman who is not a psychopath--much happier for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 10:39 AM
3

No. It's not. What the OP describes is being a stalker. Once a relationship reaches this level of distrust there's no point in continuing it.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 04:29 PM
4

Only because they don't have the option of doing anything else. Of what value is loyalty when there is no alternative to it?
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 02:45 PM
1

Eh, it could also be an excuse to have an extravagant, expensive party. As mine was.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 02:31 PM
1

You're fine. Any woman who dismisses you out of hand for living at home to save money and take care of your aging parents probably isn't the sort of person you want to be with anyway--female assholes either date male assholes or take advantage of males who are not assholes. The best thing to focus on are shared interests, similar tastes in film/music/video games/what-have-you, and above all, a similar sense of humor. Don't be dishonest or avoidant about the fact that you take care of your folks …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 12:08 PM
1

Why is that? Your best guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/18 08:46 AM
1

I suppose I can see that, then.... it wouldn't be my bag, but as long as it's not abusive and you're both into it...party on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 12:30 PM
13

You're gonna hurt somebody if you keep swinging all that common sense around, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 12:24 PM
1

Apparently, yes, because I don't get it. I mean, if it's just the look of the runny mascara that you have a fetish for, then ok--it's not really about the fact that they're distressed or sad. The vagus nerve thing seems very odd to bring up, too. Unless you have a thing for women receiving treatment for epilepsy....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 11:02 AM
2

Well, I knew it was only a matter of time before that song came up....kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:56 AM
6

How is it "sexy" when a woman (or anyone, really), cries? I mean, I can see it being an attractive trait in that it displays humanity and intimacy, but...you're the one who used the word "sexy", here....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:36 AM
1

Not much for me to respond or react to there, save for appreciate your honesty and, predictably, find that to be a rather depressing and unrealistic way to look at one's own species.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 10:29 AM
1

Ah. Sounds like intimacy with other humans just isn't for you, then. There's nothing wrong with that, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/18 07:30 AM
1

Redpillers and MGTOWs go to Redpill and MGTOW places on the internet to have their pre-existing beliefs reinforced and vindicated. Not to read this kind of stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 12:20 PM
1

The fight against, but are consistently defeated by, Mega Man X. And that's why they are not alphas. Alphas would defeat Mega Man X.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:09 PM
1

Wow. Is there anything that doesn't have it's own adorable little wiki nowadays....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 04:06 PM
3

Just listen, nod, and hug/cuddle with them if they've had a bad day. More intelligent and/or mature women will realize that they're just fulfilling a need to vent, but even if they aren't self-aware in this respect....it's not exactly a herculean task on your part make them happy, here. If you're not the sort of person that needs to vent to a listening ear...then you're just a different kind of person from your SO--and that's it. Be happy that you're able to make them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:29 PM
1

Fair enough. Admittedly any chick who does that is probably not looking for much beyond what goes on in the hotel room, and is also probably a "better double bag it" situation, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 03:05 PM
2

Or he's just an introvert/shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:53 PM
1

Any particular reason you didn't go for it? Just curious..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/18 01:45 PM
1

Hasn't happened with Gen X, though....remember also that the Boomers were limited, dating pool-wise, to pretty much their neighborhood, their workplace, their church, or personal ads in newspapers. Later generations have the internet, where one can actually check to make sure there are common interests before you even say "hello" to somebody you fancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 10:13 PM
1

Gen X is already doing better than the boomers in this department, though. We do have the data. It points to the boomers being the anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 10:06 PM
2

There's nothing horrible about these figures, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 06:45 PM
1

If the two of you can't co-habitate then there's no future for the relationship. Simple as that. Expectations of physical affection aren't at all outrageous....if she's had a bad day and needs to cuddle...that's just part of it. Neither is her wanting to be a part of your life socially, BUT.....just saying "it's a "guy time sorta thing" should be enough for her. All that said, if the two of you don't have any shared interests/passions/hobbies at all....there's no point. Why the hell would you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:39 PM
2

What of the shy, nerdy girls, then? Are you saying that they just sit there and pine for the chaddy/dudebro/frat-guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 12:16 PM
13

Statistically, they're doing a lot better than the Boomers did, actually. The "half of all marriages end in divorce" thing may very well live and die with the "Me" generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:52 AM
2

You don't see very many RP'ers who have been happily married for many years....it's mostly 20 somethings, or older men who are going through, or have gone through, a messy divorce. The happily married majority simply have no reason to post here or even know what "Red Pill" even means.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 10:38 AM
2

I'm happily married to a woman I've living with for over seven years. We did the marriage thing mostly to appease the parents...closing in on our first anniversary of that, now. My point there is that people who are happily married...or, hell, just happily monogamous, children or no-children...don't complain, much less post about it on the internet. RedPill, MGTOW...folks are there because they're disatisfied, angry....there because something's wrong, in their perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 09:04 AM
2

For 5-15 minutes, anyway...generally one should have something they find fulfilling and exciting after they've orgasmed....crossword puzzles, video games, taxidermy....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:47 AM
1

Honestly, I just think most Reds are simply in their early to mid 20s. They'll grow out of it the same way most kids grow out of Pokemon by their mid teens. If that sounds like a trollish statement, it's because it is. And because, honestly, the only 30 to 40 something RP'ers I ever hear from are those that are in the midst of a horrific divorce. 35 years old, 2 children, been happily married for six years and counting RP'ers? Somehow nowhere to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:39 AM
3

I think it might just be that you married a shitty human being. I mean.... the fact that you're telling this story in the first place--you wouldn't be doing so if it weren't shocking, and thus, unusual.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:11 AM
1

I have, but it was the presence of a psychopath. Something lesser that was remarkably adept at appearing greater.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:49 AM
1

Fair enough in context, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 05:00 AM
1

And you're sure it's not just that humans in general can't co-exist peacefully?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 04:27 PM
1

Men ignoring sweet, "ugly" chicks doesn't happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 02:27 PM
3

Dude was born rich. The rest is just due to him being an adult Eric Cartman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 01:05 PM
3

Men do the same thing, only it's "land-whales", "hog-beasts", and "butter-faces".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:51 PM
1

How does this compare with getting along and having several common interests/passions?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:44 PM
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Generally, girth matters much more than length....and unless you're severely below average, you can make up for it with tongue (either size-wise or stamina-wise). All the sensitive tissues are located at and around the entrance, anyway. Chicks that are into their cervix being smashed do exist, without a doubt, but....they're weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 12:36 PM
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For the same reasons men do, I'd imagine...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 11:45 AM
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In the Company of Men. The dominant/alpha male of the movie is even named "Chad", and is to this day the most disturbing, horrifying villain I've ever seen in film. The movie has no violence, no nudity, and almost no swearing.....just a lot of evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 10:23 AM
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I'd be more scared of the nutcase woman that you'd actually attract by doing something like this. Confidence is attractive, don't get me wrong....and I can see a woman assuming that it's playful gesture with a close friend.... "Hey, this guy's fun, he's lively...." But taking a complete stranger's shit? To all but the most mental or stupid women, I can't see it saying anything other than "psychopath", or "can't hold his liquor". I mean, some guy twice my size takes my phone or keys at a bar, I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 09:58 AM
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Is the other man in this example a close friend, or like, a stranger? I mean, if it's the former case, it could be taken as a playful gesture....I guess what I'm asking is if you're absolutely sure it's being interpreted as a dominating/alpha male/bullying thingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 04:15 PM
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Could I trouble you for an example or two of this "aggressive/dominant" behavior of which you speak? For context--I mean, obviously you're not running up to them and punching them in the face and dragging them by the hair (at least, hopefully not...)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 12:22 PM
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Shown by whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:20 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 11:07 AM
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Male, late 30s, 13 in "notch count", if you're insisting on the term... Never lied about the number. Now happily married to a woman I've been living with for over seven years, now, our first anniversary fast approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 07:45 PM
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I've never knowingly done this, and honestly, wouldn't think much of anyone who did.... My first ever real relationship was with a girl that I had nothing in common with, save for the desire to not be alone/not be a virgin....so maybe that counts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 07:03 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:24 PM
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How did they vote against it if they didn't yet have the right to vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 03:57 PM
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Had to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 02:24 PM
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Next step is accepting that others are the exact same way. The hard part, dating-wise, is finding someone else who is at this same point in their mental maturation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:12 PM
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It is. It's mostly either incels pulling a "you can't fire me, I quit!" sorta thing....looking for and encouraging rhetoric that helps them believe that men who date/get married are "simps" and that they are the superior human..... OR: There are those that just have come to the conclusion that they're just much happier not co-habitating or being involved with another human being. They "Go Their Own Way", and just "Go", unlike the former type, who just seem to make women an even larger part of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:58 PM
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At the same time, or are we talking about two separate occasions?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:53 PM
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Maybe in one's early 20s, that's true.....some of them do eventually grow up and learn to look for shared interests, intellectual compatibility, and sense of humor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 03:07 PM
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Sounds like jackhammering, to me. And, honestly, as if you'd be better off just using your hand instead. If a woman isn't willing or inclined to tease, grope, etc and expects you to do all the work, then....yeah, there are issues--not that there's not something to be said for laying back being treated like a plaything to be teased (it can be hot every once in a while, on either side.)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 04:11 PM
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That's some pretty heavy-duty, and risky Big Brother shit you'd be talking about, there. People are stupid and gullible, yes, but they're also pretty keen to notice when things are being taken away from them suddenly. Makes them keen to vote, and, failing that, become violent. The proposed 40 percent childless tax would see me on the next bus to Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 01:14 PM
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Turning back the clock on a cultural level is just not possible, barring some kind of apocalyptic event.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 12:19 PM
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Thanks. It's how I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 06:06 PM
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It depends on the individual. For me, personally, "loved and lost" wins....but there are folks out there who just do not have the urge, or some would say "need", for personal companionship--and there's nothing wrong with deciding that you're just happier not co-habitating with another human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 01:18 PM
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Or at least not twenty-somethings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 01:16 PM
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There's a place in the back of your brain that knows better than to make absolutist statements like that. You should listen to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 12:49 PM
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Why do you think being willfully obtuse helps your argument, here?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:32 PM
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Eh....it's not culturally feasible in our current political/social climate. I think maybe start with providing birth control and abortion accesss for all. You start "punishing" people for having children, the bibles will start thumping so loud that it'd set off richter scales.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:29 PM
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Builds violence, too. And voter-participation. Ideally, you want the latter over the former--and thankfully, the former is largely what we've gotten. And so here were are, Ain't it a bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 08:25 PM
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If only there were a way to get poor people to not vote.... I mean....really, democracy is the root of this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:55 PM
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You're complicating the silver bullet solution, man....stop that! If it weren't for people like you, all problems would have easy answers. X D
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:53 PM
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You grow old and infirm alone, wheezing and frail with only people who are paid to take care of you bothering to ensure your well-being. People who just want to go home to the people they really care about once their shift is over. You might as well ask why one bothers to make friends, honestly. It's cliche, but there are legit reasons to fear growing old and/or dying alone. Should you settle for someone you don't get along with/someone you can't emotionally bond with? No, of course not. Nor sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 07:04 PM
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I was just using the existence of pensions as an illustration of the economic well-being of that period, nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:53 PM
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I'd be more inclined to cite the economic boom of the 50s, myself. Pensions came as a matter of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:33 PM
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Women who actually will sit there and wait for you to open the door for them...no. Unless they're doing it as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 05:01 PM
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Ever watch Sandman's videos on youtube? Same thing, more or less...it's not even about the "movement" anymore, so much as it is about providing a "Two Minutes Hate" to those that want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 01:09 PM
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"Asshole" works, then. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 11:07 AM
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I just asked if there was a term for males who maintain several sex partners and use artifice in order to do so. Not to imply that the Nietzchean dudebro sermon wasn't appreciated, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:43 PM
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I understand. The term is what it is...I just find it lacking in terms of being appropriate. That said.....is there a term for "man-slutting"? That is, maintaining several "girlfriends" that you're lying to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 04:00 PM
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I won't argue that the term doesn't mean what you're saying it does....but it seems to be a rather "not apt" one, if it does. "Plate spinning" implies multitasking and some kind of grand juggling performance--I'd think it would mean dating many girls simultaneously, all or most of them under the impression of there being exclusivity. If there's no lying or artifice involved....wouldn't something like "Keep a Stable" or "Black-Booking" work better?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 03:24 PM
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Leaning towards yes.....this is assuming I love her, and we're both committed to the relationship. And that she would be fine with me being a house-husband for a while until I could turn something up in the same area. If my own career were highly specialized, like, to the point where prospects in the "new" area were slim to none....I might either insist on a hard "no", or insist that she accept house-husbandness as possibly permanent thing on my end.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:10 PM
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You're gonna hurt somebody wavin' all that common sense around, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 12:00 PM
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Arguably the Pikachu shirt might make you appear more interesting....the black v-neck, and you're just like every other dudebro wearing a black v-neck. The pikachu shirt, and you're a dudebro wearing a Pikachu shirt. X D
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 11:57 AM
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BPD is...a challenge--I've heard a small handful of success stories, usually when the BPD woman (or man) is of high intelligence and willpower. NPD is the true "Mr. Yuck Means NO, STAY AWAY, DO NOT TOUCH!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/18 08:43 AM
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Better than a life of poverty, certainly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:04 PM
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Ideally I'd want both...but would lean more towards "fun", personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:01 PM
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Can't speak for the sweatshops and outsourced factories of the 2nd/3rd world, but....honestly I don't see the point of a job that affords you that little free-time. What point is there in the income if you never have the opportunity to enjoy it....do it up big in your vacation time, maybe, but....seems to me that it makes that vacation time just as rigid and demanding as actual work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:45 PM
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Uhm.....two days off per week is the norm, barring periods of mandatory overtime or crunch-times that pop up.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:23 PM
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I think you're forgetting about the existence of weekends, there. Doubt it changes much with regard to your outlook, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 07:58 PM
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We also have the benefit of dating sites and the internet. For Boomers, your dating pool was pretty much limited to your neighborhood, and your workplace. And personals in the newspaper, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 02:21 PM
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I suppose it does....in the same way that I'm sure there have been women who have left men solely because their penis was too small, and women who have left their men because they got rid of their pickup truck(this is something that I observed personally, actually.) These are pretty much a behavior of women who are also horrible humans beings, or are immature (they have until their late 20s for this to continue to exist as an excuse, imho) That said...RP men don't tend to pursue the most emotion…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:46 PM
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Agree, mostly. But I also think that the "mid-life crisis" is a phenomenon that will be found to be mostly unique to Baby Boomers.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 12:21 PM
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I'm sorry you feel that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:31 PM
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It's a bit on the immoral side. Do you owe it to this girlfriend of two years? No. But if you don't feel bad about doing so, she's probably better off without you in her life. As are most all women, for that matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 05:00 PM
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Not sure if this counts, but the extreme RP/MGTOW people have given my wife and I an almost daily source of laughter. We watch Sandman's videos together whenever a new one pops up, sometimes in mutual, gasping tears of painful laughing. It's proven to be a bonding experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:29 PM
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Doesn't seem to stop them, though, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:59 PM
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I'd try to wait until your late 20s before marriage....or at least, barring that....at least live with your prospective husband for a year before tying the knot or bearing his children. Being able to co-habitate is the hardest thing to find--forget good sex, forget good looks, forget even high income....that you can happily tolerate one another is the diamond in the rough, here. Child-bearing-wise....don't wait past 35. Risk of Down Syndrome and/or Asperger's go up exponentially after about that…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:08 PM
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You find someone who you have shared interests with, someone who enjoys similar hobbies/books/movies that you do, and...most importantly: someone who can stand living with you, and someone you can stand living with. That last bit is something even "the beautiful people" struggle to find, and is far rarer and far more valuable than any "high" rating of "quality".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:33 PM
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Don't get old.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:04 PM
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The growing trend of chihuahua ownership is a clearer link than what the OP is proposing...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 03:25 PM
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That's not incredibly scientific....but, hey, if it makes you feel better...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 02:11 PM
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Penthouse Forum is a respected, Peer-Reviewed Journal...my bad for forgetting about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 01:48 PM
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It's more an Occam's Razor kinda thing...I mean....anxiety, nervousness, perhaps having been drinking....the awkwardness of pausing to put on a condom, the lowered sensitivity that comes with wearing a condom...... or because you jack it to porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 11:40 AM
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I'm speaking of my personal experience, here--recently married, both myself and my wife being long-time Atheists who lived together for seven years before going through the marriage song and dance: It's a gesture of permanence and commitment--would we have been fine just never getting married? Definitely yes. To a degree, it was mostly for our parents (who were far more "into it" then we were)....and we got a rockin' fun party out of the deal. An excuse to invite and thus, see, friends we hadn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 11:11 AM
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Doesn't make them any less fat, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 06:00 PM
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Fair enough. I'm personally not a big fan of fellatio, myself---there's nothing to look at while it's going on but a bobbing forehead. I read a bit too far into your comment, I suppose. One's tastes are one's tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 03:20 PM
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Are you saying that you don't enjoy/don't care about pleasing your partner, or are you saying that your cock is just that talented?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:16 PM
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....just go down on her--maybe read a few guides on cunnilingus tactics beforehand. I mean, some women are unable to climax via regular sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 09:31 AM
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They have to bring enough sex for everybody?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:50 PM
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I suppose. I just can't imagine deliberately doing something (poop-related or otherwise) solely for the pre-planned purpose of observing the results. This kind of stuff just happens as a couple cohabitates for a longer and longer period of time, and becomes more and more comfortable with one another.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:43 PM
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Does taking a loud, apocalyptically violent shit with the door open not qualify as a test? X D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:32 PM
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Asked my wife about this.... she asked if this was about taking a really loud, dramatic dump with the bathroom door left open. X D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 08:12 PM
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The ubiquity of the internet is the difference. It's now much easier to find a goofball extremist with an outrageous set of beliefs, and paint it as being representative of "feminism". One can pretty much name any ridiculous, goofball thing one wishes to believe in, and find a group somewhere online to help you believe in it. The loudmouths get the attention, the ones who are extremist and weird get the attention....much more so than the feminist goofballs of the past did--Andrew Dworkin, Carol …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:07 PM
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The books and advice tend to tell men the same thing, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 06:05 PM
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No, I do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:59 PM
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Yes! So much this. Women who just expect you to pay the bill...probably are not terribly good people. Insist on paying for it, make a playful game of paying for the check...and you might have a keeper, regardless of who ends up taking the damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:12 PM
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Traditions such as? I'm finding that last paragraph a bit vague..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 07:47 PM
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