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You still wanna be good looking. I am also tall, so that helps too. I have had no problems with girls of any ethnicity. I only got called out for being Asian when I was fat, so I stopped being fat and now it is not an issue. I am currently in Mexico and now everybody thinks I am Mexican lol.
/r/askTRP09/02/22 02:09 PM
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Nah man. For the past few years I've basically been a chubby Asian (rated 4 by truerateme) and I've still gotten matches between 5-7. Fucked a lot of them. In Asia it was extremely easy, fucked 3 girls off Tinder in a single day one day. A bit harder in Europe but still worked. Finally got in shape again and now it is a breeze. I'm 6"4, so that helps but it's not like you see that directly on my pics. I haven't used professional pics btw.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:01 PM
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No, it isn't. Porn addiction is very real and just works like any other addiction. Porn is extremely addictive and many start very young. Imagine forming a habit as early as 12 years old and keeping it for 10 years. That's something not even heroin does.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:59 PM
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Good question. I reckon they like masculine types. Got another friend who is into them, and I to crazy depraved sex and it's like they know when they meet. Same for me, I guess. Unfortunately I also attract some crazy chicks.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:02 PM
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Yes but there are many addictive personalities out there like me who can't handle it, so I need to abstain completely. Same for booze with me.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 04:01 PM
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Good point. Just bust a nut a few times so you automatically focus on other stuff. There is strength in numbers too.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 03:11 PM
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Yes. Making a fixed rule is stupid and against the human condition. I had a Columbian chick putting her tongue all over my face on the first date but massive ASD with the fucking due to some stuff about being Catholic. Another girl in the same town drove a taxi to my place and lay on the bed after maybe 10 minutes of talking. Gotta take them as they come. I guess a key thing would be to at least offer them the opportunity to say "yes" but don't do anything desperate and play it cool.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 02:00 PM
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There is the physical effect of tightening your kegel muscles, as well as just rubbing your dick too hard with your own hand (and too often). And there is the psychological effect of dopamine and sexual arousal getting wired to porn, sitting in front of a screen, et cetera. All of these are valid and create a cocktail that is porn addiction. I do not feel the way I feel masturbating five times a day to porn when I fuck one or more chicks 7+ times a day. The latter makes you feel good, the former…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 12:10 PM
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I think RATIONALLY going for 2 drinks on first date and then telling her you need to get some stuff done, THEN meet with good logistics the second time would probably yield the highest success rate. I don't think with my brain all of the time though. I had a lot of 1st date lays as well man, most of these hoes are just hoes. I guess the best way is to just sense it, go with the flow and be assertive but not needy.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:30 AM
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I was on a one year run of nofap until mid 2019. I was fucking chicks almost 10 times a day with no erection issues whatsoever. Before I have experienced text book PIED. Couldn't get it up with chicks, could not even get aroused. I had one of the hottest chicks I have ever seen(!) in my entire life sucking my dick and then tell me to fuck her so hard she'd die and I couldn't get it up. That was basically when I decided I needed to do something. Experienced a looooong flatline (I have been porn a…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:28 AM
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Yeah, I'm mostly on board. What do you think about going for the kill? Pushing for the F Close on the first date is risky business but for me, it works mostly (I'd say 60-70%). Sometimes it kills it with chicks who would probably have fucked me on 2nd or 3rd date. It also feels like the more you push for the close the more the NO solidifies. So only inviting her home one time and if she says no just leave it? Some people here advocated going for a 2nd date lay in general.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:17 AM
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Just one thing that doesn't help you in any way but could harm you by triggering her ASD or other neurosises. So no, better don't use that term unless you've already fucked her.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 09:00 AM
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45 mins is the absolute max for a huge city or countryside. The act of driving more than 2h already displays lack of options and desperation.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:56 AM
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Absolutely am on #teamsubmissivegirls too. Funnily, I also attract them as they seem to sense or smell all the depraved stuff I am gonna do to them. Once you had a girl who will let you do whatever you want to her and even love and cum from it, you can never go back.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 08:40 AM
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She should have unmatched to your weirdo message. the fact she replied at all means she is interested
/r/askTRP12/10/20 07:09 PM
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Nah, not delusional. For some reasons I don't have the problems you have. Maybe because I am not obsessed with race. You sound like a lefty. It's the same as a chick claiming she only fucks blonde guys and then a cool dude with black hair comes along and she'll fuck him too. I can't hear this whiny horseshit anymore.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 09:24 PM
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Be happy if your dad even vaguely resembles some kind of manly father figure. Most guys don't have that these days. My late father was very strict. We had a lot of fights over the exact same stuff as you. Now I miss him and I am eternally grateful for his lessons.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:07 PM
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Visit them once every 3 months. Most people can love their parents much better from a healthy distance.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:04 PM
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Absolutely not, man. If you act like a stereotype, then yes. Indians gotta lose that trademark accent. Asians shouldn't just hang out with other Asians, etc. A six pack and huge arms are universally non racist. Stop with the incel horseshit or fuck off.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 04:03 PM
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This is very true and very important. Imagine you acted on all those of the second manner. You would have a 60 percent or higher success rate. Most people, even on trp, don't.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:02 PM
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Even outside it doesn't matter that much.. identity politics truly has made people care only about their "race" and somehow make it the most important thing when it isn't.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 12:00 PM
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If you don't want to fuck them that means they can't be hot. Otherwise you'd want to fuck them. Otherwise I agree that there's nothing wrong with having non sexual relations with females. Just don't expect too much.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/20 07:50 PM
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I banged my flatmate and it was awesome. She was a battle hardened Latina however and played it cool. Any signs of BP in the course of that will fuck up your living dynamics beyond repair. (You have to act like nothing happened afterwards or she will immediately regret it)
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:46 PM
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Honestly, some of my best plates were from Tinder. Women who knew how to fuck, who gave me their all while demanding no commitment. These were absolutely random matches, maybe after months of flakes, unmatches and dates that went nowhere. The number 1 rule of dating apps is being honest with yourself: If you want a blonde barbie doll you better bring top-notch aesthetics and some fun to the table. If not, lower your standards. And yes, in Western countries these apps are more and more flooded wi…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:38 PM
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Today marks day 214 of my nofap journey which started on the 8th of July 2018 after about 2 years of erectile dysfunction and girls being repulsed by it. From then up to this day I have had sex on 31 total occasions which constitute an average of 1.5 times sex per 10 days or once a week, while not counting multiple rounds on the same occasion (I love to keep the statistics on these things lol). During the last month, I have noted a marked improvement of my erections occurrence and their strength…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:28 PM
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Got rejected yesterday by a fairly hot classmate, Rejected another girl the other day after she was disrespectful and still rolling 2-3 plates at the moment. While it still stings the moment it happens and in the immediate aftermath, the long term effects of it are purely positive. Yesterday's rejection specifically taught me to not sweat it and avoid alcohol.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 02:22 PM
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"No, you're the one using me for sex!"
/r/askTRP30/01/19 05:50 PM
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It's basically a turd sandwich
/r/askTRP23/01/19 06:24 PM
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Man your ethnicity does not matter at all. That is a 'oh woe is all me' attitude that is entirely beta. If you don't speak the lingo just put some hours in lear ing at least the basics, locals will always appreciate it. High bodyfat percentage always puts you in a huge disadvantage with girls. Being fat makes you soft and feminine, automatic Beta Bux. Focus on losing it and becoming more masculine.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:42 PM
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This! Dirty talk and letting your inhibitions at the door truly sets apart a man from a boy. It turns sex from something nice into something that will change your life.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:32 PM
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This! Also working out is NOT enough. Find some badass hobbies like dancing, Martial Arts, playing instruments, languages and get REALLY good at them so by the time you are in your prime you are gonna be an absolute slayer.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:10 PM
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I traveled throughout my late teens and through my 20ies. Now living as a digital nomad and not looking to stop. What good is a life spent in only one place? Southeast Asia is wonderful and you will get local and international pussy. Stay in hostels! China and India will change your perspective. Get a blowjob at a bus stop in Brazil.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 01:01 PM
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This! There will be dry spots in every aspect of your life. Even if you love your job/subject there will be times when you want to give up. This is where men are speerated from boys. And this resilience will proof itself useful in every aspect.of your life.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:05 PM
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Your writing is all over the place. Also some use of formatting would be appreciated.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 10:02 PM
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You need mental help, bro
/r/askTRP15/01/19 09:32 AM
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This is the only true answer. You have to realize that not all of your friends will be alpha or RP. In fact, most people are likely to be BP. Even some of my most RP friends settle down at some point. Therefore you have to accept that your friends and social circle are different from you and some will have a different 'sexual strategy', but that's not the only thing that matters in life. Focus on cutting out negativity/naysayers and people who detract you from your goals (eg. with drugs or too m…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 08:43 AM
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I am not trying to conjure up a theory as I have no real expertise in this field. It is just a commonality I have noted with my gay friends, so it might be a factor. There might be a hundred other factors, including genetics.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:25 PM
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Let me start by asking if you grew up with a single mom?
/r/askTRP09/01/19 07:00 PM
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Go on nofap. Apart from that just do as much social stuff as you can, maybe go travel for a while and live in dorms (force yourself to be social). For me truly developing a IDGAF social attitude has been an ongoing process that took years.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:57 PM
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masturbatory is a wonderful term that can also be applied to most self help books / gurus.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:55 PM
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Unless it's in Siberia there should be plenty of stuff to do. Young people should live in a big city with a ton to do anyway, enough time for the quiet farm life later.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:48 PM
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I'd focus on social events within your friends/acquaintance circle. This circle should constantly be expanded through hobbies, sports, etc and you should get a couple of invites every week. For everyone who does not like to dance/ isn't a natural in the club environment this is much easier. Depending on where you are in life I would go to a few or any of those.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:13 PM
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Huh? I got laid when I was nowhere near those numbera you get. Even got reasonably hot Tinder matches. If those numbers are anything to go by you ahould have no problem getting laid every week.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:11 PM
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I have yet to meet a girl who gives a shit about that and I fuck half a dozen girls a month. I don't know if that's some American bullshit but in Europe and Asia nobody gives a shit.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:52 PM
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It's not pseudoscience. Nofap being pseudoscience is, in fact, pseudoscience. Porn induced ED is very real. Porn being an addiction and, therefore,as harmful as an addiction, is very real. It is what stopped me from doing it and now I am on nofap 180 days plus. I now have normal libido, no more ED and spend my time doing worthwile things. The 24/7 super horniness you have on porn is actually NOT normal.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:48 PM
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Being comfortable trumps whatever might look good on paper. With the right physique you can perform the greatest fashion sins and still get laid.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:50 PM
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I use condoms, problem solved? I also don't seem to be running into crazy BPD girls all the time and the girls I am fucking also have no interest in getting pregnant, therefore no drastic measures needed.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:48 PM
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Just wear whatever you feel like. In terms of sexual strategy fashion plays little to absolutely no role.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:45 PM
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Also not everyone is "RP" and you will have BP colleagues and friends. Other RP men might actually be unwanted competition at times. Therefore don't project your standards of happiness and success on others (this one is hard and I struggle with it). You should definitely cut out all negative people tho.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 07:44 PM
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I think love is a level of trust established over a long period of knowing each other. I have that with a few friends and had it witb my ex of 7 years. It would be my goal in any future LTR. "Falling in love" or oneitis is just a biological reaction if you meet someone you really wanna mate with.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:22 PM
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Very hard! From my dating experience you either get a girl with an awesome and loyal personality but no sexual experience and doesn't necessarily like sex. Or a girl who fucks like.a champ but is firmly on the CC. I'd personally like a girl who fucks kinky or can at least be taught, submissive, intelligent and has hobbies(!).
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:20 PM
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This. If you fuck her well enough and show some endurance she will make plans for you.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:09 PM
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I want a family but maybe around 40, which seems to be the consensus here. My lifestyle right now, which is nomad/traveling, doesn't really allow for a long term relationship anyway. If that's still my thing later on I'd need a woman who puts up with this.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:08 PM
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Don't be bitter because being bitter and passive aggressive is the most BP thing to do?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:05 PM
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Giving up after one bad experience is not very manly. I think Tinder depends on location a lot. I don't rely on it but I swipe a few every day. I get no leads for a month or two and then I get a girl who drives over same day and fucks me silly. Just use it as one tool in your arsenal.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:04 PM
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It's actually not hard. Just know your boundaries and stay true to them and don't put the pussy on a pedestal. That's more than half of the whole thing.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 08:40 AM
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Don't be a faggot and establish a threeway.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 09:12 AM
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Hey man I have lived through the same situation. I know it can be heart wrenching. If you need to chat or have amy question just PM me.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 06:07 PM
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To become the hero that Gotham deserves.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 05:36 AM
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Have yet to get laid from a club other than when I brought the girl. Not my kind of environment and I am picky with the music. Bars work if they have any sort of event that makes it more natural chatting up loads of girls. I honestly get girls from all sorts of circumstances, from supermarket, bus ride, cafes, trade fairs, etc.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:43 PM
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Finding alpha friends is hard. Some of my alpha friends live in settled BP relationships. Most of my friends are probably more on the BP side. I look for other qualities in them, especially as I live in Asia for most of the year, where alpha males are extremely rare. There is stuff that I don't tolerate such as negativity.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:34 PM
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I get that from time to time, probably most people do. What helped me tremendously was 1. finding friends (through similar interests) 2. trying new hobbies 3. living in a city with a lot going on
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:11 PM
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I do fuck one or two chicks a month on Tinder and I am by no means an Adonys. It is very easy to tell if the chick is down from texts and thr meetup. All girls I banged were on first date. All were good in bed (meaning they fuck around a lot but who cares, wrap it up) and turned into regular plates. Have a lot of flakes, some LMR and some straight no's on meeting. I check it for 3 mins every 3-4 days. Don't spend a lot of time on it! Don't text a lot or overthink, the girls who want business wil…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:07 PM
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I have never sent a dick pic in my life and I don't understand why people do it. It is about the least distinguishable part of the male body.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:43 PM
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I would say in the West thats 1 percent or less, and that's in big cities! I dont think there's more "super hot chicks" in Asia or South America but the base level of chicks is hotter on average. I have been cruising on a level where I have 5 regular plates that are in the 6-7 range. Will be focussing on some more rigid dieting to try and open the door to model tier. Honestly I think throughout my life I have encountered exact 2 or 3 model tier chicks who had a personality.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:42 PM
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What's stopping you from trying? Odds are super low but it's free lol. For me Tinder doesn't reap anything for a month or two and then I get a girl willing do drive over same day. Numbers game.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:40 AM
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Subjective. There are hot chicks in every country. Tho in US and UK the amount of landwhales is significantly higher due to shitty diet. Recently came back to Europe from Asia and I note an increased amount of phlegmatic lifestyles and landwhaleness. I think the West ss fairly boring anyway and you should go and see the world and fuck chicks from other cultures anyway :)
/r/askTRP30/12/18 08:37 AM
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Sure man! I don't eat out at KFC or anythibg. I live in an Asian country right now, so there are always cheap healthy options. I usually only buy fresh fruit at the supermarket. Breakfast is oatmeal with coconut water and fruit. Lunch and dinner usually outside. Asian food is a bit carb heavy so I usually order some extra meat.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 11:04 PM
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Not drinking is awesome. Diet is not as complicated as many make it seem. I eat out daily because where I live right now it is cheaper than cooking myself. If you eat a normal portion there is no problem. If you eat three hamburgers and a litre of soda there is.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 11:28 AM
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People on truerateme told me I have good genetics plus I am tall. Also not white. I fluctuate between normal weight and overweight. I do get laid with all kinds of chicks, it is mostly about frame. However, it is easier to hold good frame once fitter. Top tier chicks will only get interested if you are not fat and have your shit together. Even at my fattest I could bang 2-4 chicks a month who were not uggos.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:38 PM
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Replace the word "fapped" with "shot some heroin" and read that again.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:36 AM
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Couldn't agree more. 150 days on nofap and counting.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:02 PM
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And counting! Haha I do have sex regularly tho. But even without there is no way I am going to abuse digital heroin again. Next feat of strengths are 180 and finally 360.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:14 AM
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Not being able to have real sex has helped with the initial urges. My ED has gotten worse in the last couple of month before my recovery. I don't have urges anymore and I can pull real girls whenever I want. I still get the occasional flatline which is to be expected as my addiction was really bad. I think half a year to a year for full recovery. Once you're a significant amount of time in, it isn't hard anymore.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:13 AM
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I do have an above average sized cock. That girl is the hottest I have been with but not as good in bed. Has a hard hime staying "in the zone".
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:19 PM
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It's a subscription in most country's I live in (I currently live and work in 3 different countries) and it is expensive but yeah, I might hop on that for a bit.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:18 PM
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I am on a 150 day nofap streak. I have gained a lot of benefits and I can have sex but it is not 100 percent back to normal. I have been severely addicted to porn from about 11 years to 24 years so that's 13 years. I expect a full recovery somewhere around 1 year, who knows. I don't care though as there is no way I am going back to being a crack whore and I don't find porn amd masturbating in any way appealing any more. The only direction is forward.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:16 PM
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Balancing humility and egocentrism. Ego works well for picking up girls but is harmful when trying to engage in teamwork. Be humble without bowing to everyone and use your ego without looking down on everyone. You can also learn to "be" different roles (as opposed to playing them) to give a good impression even if you don't want to.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:13 PM
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One can only achieve that by not thinking that in the first place. We often make a judgement like that very quickly, while objectively not even knowing if that could be the case. It's usually prejudiced. It is also true that we can learn something from everyone and everyone knows things we don't. We are better off not judging someone based on our superficial impression and confined on what we think is the ultimate truth.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:50 PM
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As an ENTJ I can relate a lot. I prefer direct communication and I am self confident which always risks bordering egoism and egocentrism. Most people are mediocre and I detest mediocrity. One tip would be to ask yourself if the people you are judging are only bad in terms of your world view or values or really objectively bad. One thing I had to learn was that my values and frame of operating is only my own and everyone else does operate differently but that does not make them more right or wron…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:06 PM
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It does only if you want it to.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 02:37 AM
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That's why I mention the subconscious. It could have just come off like that. I wouldn't personally bother with a girl that tells me shit like that and if they do I just ignore it.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:52 PM
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Text only fot logistics, set up a date asap and see if there's any chance she wants your bodily liquids. Honestly it don't matter what you say. The girl has already decided if she wants to fuck you. You just have to not screw up, if she's positive. I had dates where I felt there was no chemistry and we ended up fucking all night. Other dates I thought I had found a soulmate but she ended up not being into me. Attraction is non negotiable.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:49 PM
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I generally have a two date approach (no move on first date, kino and closure on second date) but that is not fixed. Had girls jumping on my cock 30min after meeting them for the first time. Also had girls trying to drag it on for months. And flakes. Gotta be spontaneous and flexible, man! There is, however, no point in intentionally dragging it out. Your are pretty much playing the chick's game here.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:47 PM
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Losing weight by eating less, lifting and lots of cardio. Also generally moving much more and not just sitting on my ass. Lost 30kg. Still don't have a six pack but because I am tall and have good facial genetics the attention and respect I get has skyrocketed. I can snap my finger im the 6-7 range but super hot girls are shit testing the hell out of me and it bores me. That might change if I get super lean but I am not in a hurry for that as I am also enjoying life. Grooming is important but al…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:43 PM
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I see faggotry and neediness in your writing. Neediness can be displayed unconsciously, as in you are trying to break through the LMR but do so in a needy manner that doesn't display abundance which turns the girl off. Just game more chicks so you won't care if she puts out or not. Consider staying away from her as she seems to be damaged goods.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:39 PM
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I think all that race baiting is utter crap. I am mixed myself but I never even think about race. If I like what I see Ingo and get the job done. I don't remember a single time my race has ever been brought up when gaming. Turn the mirror around on yourself: are you desirable for these girls? Are you possibly lacking any confidence when chatting up girls that you think you have a privilige over because of their race? Also are the ones actively seeking white dick even worth it? I honestlt not oft…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:36 PM
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If you view yourself in terms of the leftist propaganda, such as minority or person of colour, you already lost. Only racists, left and right, think like that. The beautiful truth is that most people and most bitches are not at all racist. Even your skin colour don't matter, other than what was claimed here. I am mixed Asian, dark skinned and I if I set my mind to fuck a chick of any race, it usually works. Been with all ethnicities and my "race" has never played a role. Frame is everything. You…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:25 PM
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Second that.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:48 PM
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How did it hurt? You did not even knownthe bitch. It could have been a guy posing as a chick or even a bot! Rejections don't matter because ultimately all of these hoes will forget about you and it all won't matter. Learn from it and move on to fail some more.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 03:06 AM
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Most of those are fake. Most of Youtube pranks are fake. A lot of social media is fake. Watch out.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 04:34 AM
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"I am looking for midget wrestlers for an upcoming tournament I promote"
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:27 AM
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As TRP's resident sex doctor, here are the most common causes for your erectile dysfuntion: Porn addiction / Masturbation Performance anxiety Cardiovascular problems The first has over the last decade evolved to be the most common. I personally do go raw with chicks I know but I don't recommend it.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 01:43 AM
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No and no. Always split. Don't refuse if she wants to pay but never pay unless she has been a very nice girl (govong you very submissive sex) or has paid a couple of times for you.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:45 PM
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Absolutely. Don't ever feel like you have to. As a general rule just don't do it. Most girls will actually respect you more if you don't. Bottom line is that nothing good comes from it, you just lose extra money.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:31 PM
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We split the bill for everything else. I always do that unless they want to pay for me, which happens. If they paid for me a lot I will pay for them a few times as I don't wanna be a complete leecher.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:19 PM
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Would you bail at the first sight of this, would you ignore it and keep fucking her or would you give in to her demands of taking full responsibility?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 12:09 PM
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I might agree with that, however I think even apologizing and acting all nice would not have made a difference. Have done so with girls before and it just cements their perspective of "being right" and she'd make you do all sorts of silly shit before finally giving what's rightfully mine. Imagine these scenarios: Her: "you dun messed up" Me: "nah." Her: "mh maybe he's right" Her": "you dun messed up" Me: "yeah you're right. I am sorry, my queen" Her: you best be sorry, go and buy me some flowers…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:05 AM
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Thanks for the pep talk. What would you do though? Acting all nice until I have the money back and then cutting her out?
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:57 AM
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I am soft nexting her because she threw a tantrum and blamed me for something we both were responsible for. I feel disrespected by her.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:54 AM
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Yes it is. The cutest, most innocent seeming ones are often the sluttiest that will make you abuse her. Asexual girls exist but they usually have tremendous psychological issues and you best stay far away from them anyway.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:44 PM
27

I talk to some of my exes because they hit me up but I only do it because I have zero attachment to them. For you this is not the case so I would definitely advise against it. The scenario is already laid out: You will crack and confess your feelings and that will give her greater power over you than ever before. You will end up emasculated. There is no good to come from this. Cut her out.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:17 PM
1

Got away cheap then. Find other girls and make sure to make them horny, don't display neediness and be willing to walk away. It's gonna go well for you!
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:14 PM
1

The hotel might have gotten her guard up higher as plausible deniability decreased significantly. Also you gotta get her super horny, I have screwed that part up myself a couple of times as it is easier to get needy in these kind of situations. Lastly, don't sweat it. Some hoes are just hell bent on these kind of rules. Hope she paid the room herself.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:05 PM
1

The cold just shuts me down. Above 15 degrees Celsius I can sustain being a Greek God with a dozen hobbies and working and studying. Below I have to fight myself to get my ass out of bed. In my language we call it "winter belly" - fattening up over the cold days due to lack of activity.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:03 PM
1

Already taking fishoils but I ordered some cod liver oil and l theanine and see if that does anything for me :)
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:01 PM
1

It is absolutely normal but also something you have to man up to. I still have approach anxiety after years, everyone has. When you see someone you wanna approach, do it immediately. Also keeping an open mind helps. Don't approach with the aim of a certain lay, but see it as a playful encounter that should, above all, be fun. That's the essence of outcome independence. I open girls on all sorts of occassions, not even asking for ther number everytime but just because I enjoy it.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:17 PM
1

No worries, some of it is your responsibility, but some of it also depends on the girls personal preference.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:13 PM
1

I agree that you can't always be happy and that people who pretend to be are most likely fooling anyone and themselves. I know that the cold weather fucks me up and I will get away from it once I get the chance. For me it is just weird to feel like this for seemingly no reason at all.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:07 PM
1

Good sex is not just making her cum (mechanically, I assume, which is even less special ). Refer to The Sex God Method for guidance. Good sex should make a girl go absolutely nuts over you and go out of her way to see you again.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:49 PM
12

You don't have to have Bill Burr levels of comedic timing. Just make up 3-5 possible "routes" up in your mind you could lead the small talk. Like topics that are relevant, e.g. something cool that happened to you recently. Having a broad idea of what you could talk about helps but it should still come naturally and not be rehearsed.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:39 PM
4

Could be any reason, man. Maybe her toaster broke and now she stresses over having to make a trip to IKEA to replace it. Or you haven't fucked her brains out. Or she is just not feeling it for whatever dumb reason. Anything, really.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:36 PM
1

Seems like you are still at the beginning of your journey. Don't worry though, as it is a lifelong journey. I will try to keep it brief: Don't make getting laid your primary goal or even any kind of goal. Girls sense this from a hundred miles away and it repulses them. Neediness is to be avoided at all cost. Sex is great and nice to have but not worth abandoning anything else of value. to achieve the above you want to stay on that nofap course. I am on half a year of it and my libido is back to …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 01:35 PM
1

Depends on how ugly a 5 to you really is. Most of the somewhat unpleasant girls don't fuck around a lot and are trying to lock down a BB in their territory.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 11:42 AM
1

No they don't. Everything the self proclaimed victims on the internet or dumb leftists tell you is wrong. Especially dumb racist subreddits like r hapas. People are actually not racist. That's something I have come to realize. I am Asian too but I just act the way I want and choose the frame I want and people perceive me exactly as that because I am that. I am not a stereotype or my heritage or my somewhat Asian looks. I am what I want to be. And dude I slay all kinds of pussy, white, Asian, bla…
/r/askTRP17/10/18 11:38 AM
1

I usually go with the "I am with the city council and I need to inspect your room"
/r/askTRP14/10/18 02:20 AM
1

I chat people up while waiting in line and stuff like that. I don't consider that as game tho, just something I do as a social guy. That's what makes it non creepy as well, as my mindset is just like that and does not revolve around getting laid. Yes, mostly people with issues are hostile. Open hostility towards another human being is almost always a projection of ones own insecurities. Most cliques I know revolve around some semi hot girls and their beta orbiters. I don't waste my time with the…
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:07 PM
2

They call it the sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 12:02 PM
2

The cringe is strong with this one. I got two plates from the same friend group right now. If you're alpha they will be competing for you.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:41 AM
5

Don't talk about trp. Don't even talk about women or sex around most guys. Especially the less successful ones will despise you. I have a problem with the eating alone and reading up on game part. If you are in a canteen sit next to some chicks and talk to them instead.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 11:39 AM
1

You are already beyond saving, muhn.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:34 AM
22

I would advice you to kiss another man first so he can teach you how to be a proper kisser. You might also want to blow a guy or get fucked im the ass first to learn proper technique.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 05:33 AM
3

Nah man this dumb question shows that you have not internalised any of the required readings. You are looking for a quick fix, for someone to lay out your life for you. Fortunately that is not how it works and you are destined for failure. Get your lazy ass up and do something about it.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:46 AM
6

Buy her flowers
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:26 AM
1

I had a good laugh mate
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:18 AM
1

Yeah I don't like it either. Just seeing the way it looks turns me off. Also smells nasty because tampon.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:16 AM
6

I don't know man I am a postgrad and I keep fucking Freshers and second years every week. Once they see me they fall like flies. You know why? Boys their age are sub fags, addicted to the internet and with a horrendous BP mindset. They are more feminine than these chicks.They crave a mature leader. You gotta look harder, muhn. It should be easy.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:13 AM
2

TRP does not teach all women are bad, sluts are whatever. That is a BP narrative that people use against it. What we do is to open the eyes of men to the true nature of sexual relationships between men and women. By truly understanding women our relationships with them actually improve and we get to truly appreciate each other! Some might have what we call an "anger phase" but that should be temporary and prompt only self improvement. The weight of our burden here is really on the man to become …
/r/askTRP03/10/18 05:08 AM
1

Why are you messaging so much? Is that some gay fetish of yours? Does it get you off?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:21 AM
4

Why are you messaging so much? Is that some gay fetish of yours? Does it get you off?
/r/askTRP03/10/18 03:20 AM
11

Women definitely want to be fucked by a what they perceive to be an attractive alpha male. They might like different things in bed but if you give them what they crave it is the only way for them to truly fall in love with you. They will divide heaven and earth to get sex from you. I firmly believe women desire sex more than men. On the other hand, even thr most attractive "Chad" will be dropped in a heartbeat if he can't fuck a woman right or especially(!) if he has trouble getting it up.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:26 AM
3

It's not your looks that turn people off but your super beta attitude as confitmed by you posting a couple of validation seeking threads here. I reckon you are from India or Pakistan, where it's harder to meet girls. Just work on yourself by finding hobbies and playing sports and the rest will eventually come.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 02:20 AM
1

I almost never pay unless the girl is very fun and going through significant effort to see me (such as long commute). There is no fixed rule, however. Only when I'm feeling it and that's rare. They have their own money, you know?
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:34 PM
2

Dude, you're fine. But you are looking for quick fixes. Be in it for the long game. 1-2 years of gym will do wonders. Also get a handful of hobbies. You could easily get laid now with some women as well but you need the right mindset.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:31 PM
1

Man, as long as you're not hallucinating or delusional (as in talking to aliens or thinking Hitler is still alive or 911 was an inside job) that is not a problem. Most people on here are actually like that. Just be confident about your interests.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:28 PM
1

What does different reality mean? Schizophrenia?
/r/askTRP29/09/18 03:56 PM
2

Does not seem like you have read the sidebar. Stop looking for easy fixes is one of the lessons.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 03:47 PM
1

Your explanation does not sound too weird or obscure to me. Can you elaborate why you think of yourself as super weird?
/r/askTRP29/09/18 03:43 PM
5

Nah man, he was a loser who chose to be a victim rather than overcoming his problems. I dealt with similar or worse things in my youth and I simply chose not to blame others but take responsibility myself and work on improving myself. A man who kills himself over some bitches has wasted his entire life and if he even choosds to harm others, good riddance.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 07:38 AM
2

Just don't deal with them. Alternative ones and Western educated ones are your best bet. Traditional Asian girls are usually good looking airheads that want to lock you down in marriage.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 04:40 AM
2

I don't think girls actually have standards. High SMV trumps everything. 90 percent of guys today are non homosexual faggots. Give a girl something to go with, e.g. body, dominant frame and she will like it, even if your hobbies or opinions seem incompatible.
/r/askTRP29/09/18 04:38 AM
1

Waa not trying to put you down mate. I know stuff like this can be stressful. Priority is to keep yourself out of harms way. Don't worry about appearing like a bitch. Consider cops or legal action.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 12:12 PM
3

Your whole wall of text seems a bit psychotic to me honestly. You might wanna consider professional help.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 10:22 AM
18

You are being too much of a bitch about this. /Closed
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:19 PM
2

I see overthinking and lack of abundance. Just talk to more girls.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 03:06 AM
3

There is not a lot of info in your text. From what you write my eye catches "a few weeks"?. Why wait so long? You should talk to 100 plus women in a "few weeks". Forget this one and talk to 15 new women today. Some will like you.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 02:10 AM
1

This. There is no need to "look perfect" and no need to wait until you supposedly are.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 12:38 AM
2

Agreed. Usually meet tinderellas for cheap(!) food or coffee near my place. Then invite them to watch the Incredibles back at my place. The whole thing takes maybe 30 mins. Don't really have time or energy for anything beyond that. Daygame prospects I might meet downtown but same routine.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 02:18 AM
3

Porn ruined my sex life. That is the primary driver for most to quit it. Then, there are other bad factors as well, such as numbing the brain to dopamine. It is not part of any alpha males life.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 06:56 AM
0

I have gotten that kinda shit a lot im recent days. Seems like a trend. Or maybe I have just gotten fat .
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:48 AM
1

Dunno if I agree with this. Sometimes it is worth it to grind through dry spells. When I started dancing it took me quite a while to start and take it serious. Small steos of success also fuel passion.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:46 AM
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It causes Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction that can only be healed by quitting it. I am now on my third month of Nofap and the urges to watch sexual material on the screen are gone. I get rock solid throbbing boners again after failing to get it up with 5 different girls. Make of that what you will.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 01:42 AM
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I got laid when I was really fat. When I got leaner I actually got laid less for a while. I think it was because I paid heightened attention to everything, thus my game felt really forced and needy. Nowadays I once again pay less attention to pussy and get laid more. Why is that? have a lot going on in your life, preferably where you meet a lot of different people. Hobbies like dancing, even board games, are great! Some goal in life, something that you are passionate about that is not pussy. You…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 03:05 AM
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Second this
/r/askTRP08/09/18 11:52 AM
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Can you give a tl,dr? No time to watch long ass videos these days
/r/askTRP06/09/18 04:41 AM
0

Don't, you lazy fuck. I am horny all the time due to naturally high test. Just chat uo the first bitch you see. Then the second. Once you have reached a hundred chances are your dick already got wet. It's just statistics.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:33 AM
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Build a modern harem. To do that, pursue a lot of cool hobbies that have nothing to do with women. Get good at shit. Do shit that scares you, e.g. dancing or martial arts. If you got that going for you and look the part, women will naturally flock to you and suck your dick at a bus stop (if you're in Brazil lol).
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:31 AM
1

Well there's still a lot of factors at play. Point is,it don't matter as rejection is better than regret.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 05:05 AM
1

I never do that honestly. Don't be an Autist and be able to tell real no from playful no.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:53 AM
1

A lot! Right now I live in Asia and even some of the tinderellas are surprised that they came to my small bedroom alone and then I try to kiss them haha. They are either not used to this or don't find me attractive enough. It does not matter, I started from being a BP pussy and now I am at the point where rejections don't phase me one bit as there are literally millions of girls where I live. Girls that were shy at the beginning were usually a bit more eager to put out than the ones who are rela…
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:52 AM
1

Well it all has to be natural. Just feel the vibe. I don't make out before we're home because sexual tension.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 01:29 AM
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Bring them home and try to make out with them. Some of my best plates were from girls where I was surprised that they were even into me. Nerdy girls, shy girls. Wake their inner slut.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:20 PM
1

I will have to go back there for a while. Don't look forward that much but honestly I will just keep myself busy with hobbies. Back there I met the most solid lads (and banged the most chicks off that circle) through sports clubs. If you can, move somewhere south or at least go travel. Sounds like you need it.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:15 PM
1

Hi! Cool. Right now I am in Asia. Before I lived in the UK. I personally think the UK is a depressing place haha, but London gives you a lot of activities to pursue. Dancing and Martial Arts as a start, more particular fields that you're into like art, board games... Check meetup, google business related events, language exchanges... Tons of opportunity. Diversify and you should be good! The people I met off reddit was rather random, they were looking for photography and art buddies. Some people…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 03:05 PM
2

Are you fat? Skinny? Ugly? Your problem is that you don't have options. Become a man that has options and you might stop with this cringeworthy faggotry. Sex with a hooker is complete shit. Been there, when I was at my lowest about a decade ago. Fuck that. I don't know what you guys are doing but I only fuck girls that I like and I keep them around as fwb/plate. The sex is satisfying and when it's great it is one of the great things we can experience in life. I do fuck to bond, as fucking is how…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:59 PM
2

Do you live in a major city? If not, consider moving. I live and work in one of the world's biggest cities and there is exciting shit on every day. Made good friends at networking and interest groups. Hell, I even befriended people off the reddit group from my city and videogame developer groups! Also think about Martial Arts and Dancing Classes and all of this should be a good lead. Don't sit on your ass at home, do shit that scares you and you will reap results. Lifting is not a hobby but a ne…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:53 PM
1

Most are like that, some aren't. Start with becoming thr best version of yourself. A version that you love, so others can love it too. TRP does not mean LTR and marriage are impossible, but you really need to have your sbit together to not be fucked over. When serious investment is involved, prepare for the worst. Go and do some cool shit for the remainder of the year and then see where you're at.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:47 PM
1

I love it. Makes me feel masculine. Just means she perceives your SMV to be higher than hers. While I like playful resistance and mental challenges I don't like outright disrespect and drama, so I much rather give the monkey juice to a girl that actually likes me.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:43 PM
2

Hey man. I had the exact same reason for quitting porn and masturbation and it's been 60 days now and I have not the slightest urge to go back to that twisted life. I have no problem with your occupation but keep in mind how your brain works. The constant novelty, fantasizing and exposure to material could slow down your recovery. Just tread carefully, my man!
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:41 PM
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Consistency is key if you a serious. Immersion prevents you from slacking for weeks which will set you back. It is also fun and fun and progress are key motivation when learning a language. Language exchanges are great. I personally have a private tutor that I see twice a week. Make loads of friends and that language and use it, fuck English. I made the mistake of taking a degree in the lamguage I am learning right now and it destroys the fun. I firmly believe that if you take the fun out of lea…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 02:39 PM
2

"I need to find a bitch and get my dick sucked" - Gangsters and Strippers
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:12 PM
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Porn induced erectile dysfunction. I quit porn because of it. Also the dopamine binges turn you into an addicted faggot. Google 'your brain on porn'
/r/askTRP28/08/18 03:11 PM
2

No need to feel depressed because understanding the true nature of women and sexual relationships with them will enable you to have more satisfying relationships with them! As for improving your life, start living it by doing shit that makes you u uncomfortable. Afraid of dancing? Go to a class this week! Replace dancing with any other stuff. Try loads of different things. You have one life. Live it.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:34 PM
1

You can meet women everywhere. During the day, at night, at H&M (happened to me recently), through friends, at hobbies. It does not matter. Talk to them.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:25 PM
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Just as in sex, it is your responsibility to get the fun out of her. Honestly it is not that hard to get them talking. Ask questions. If she is really a mute, which is very rare, talk passionately about your life.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 02:22 PM
1

Read again what I wrote.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 10:47 AM
1

You can use it om the side, just don't focus or rely on it for now. Work on yourself first and foremost.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:35 PM
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Sounds like you need new friends, unless you are hiding something from us. I get that too but usually it's mutual. Just find people who actually do cool shit and get them to like you.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 04:08 PM
1

You're below a fag. Stop being a fag and maybe one day you can get laid.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:56 PM
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You are a complete rock bottom pussy. You're basically below a fag. Start working on yourself to become a little bit of a man. Don't shame a woman for what is just in her nature. Everything that ever happened to you is entirely your doing. Dont blame anyone but yourself and learn from the experience.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:55 PM
1

What's the question, man? Bad looks don't kill the game entirely but good looka certainly make the game easier. I got lays from Tinder when I was 30kg overweight. Obviously not Model Tier but in the 5 to 6.5 range. Gotta lower those standards a bit in that vastly inflated marketplace. Still, go for it as any practice is good practice.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 03:53 PM
1

Even though I had a very tough childhood by any standards I can't relate to this or any of the recent suicides. Probably because it has to do with mental illness and not an "insane" world. Everyday I wake up, glad that I am alive. Even of I spent the next 50 years just waking up, working out and eating I would still be relatively happy. Just the joy and sensation of living in a relatively peaceful time, where most of the world is open and accessible, is enough to bring tears of joy to my eyes. S…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 02:46 PM
1

Frame + Attractiveness will get a girl to comply. If she does comply you are pretty much good to go. If she does noy comply it means she is not attracted to you.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:26 AM
1

Tinder if you are very attractive. Social Circle game and even day game. Also they pay for me or we, at the very least, split the bill.
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:18 AM
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You guys here sound like you are firmly in anger phase. It is true that focusing on yourself and building a successful and fulfilling life should always be number one priority. From that stems your ability to have satisfying relationships with women, be it as plates or LTR. I believe in Monk Mode w/en you're a fat neck beard but MGTOW strikes me as just another excuse to not go out and expose yourself to the real world and it's women. TRP does not preach that women are inherently bad or evil. Th…
/r/askTRP12/08/18 12:16 AM
1

Did you do so on first date tho? As I said, this post does not apply to Tinder and I am not even talking to traditional girls but those that were educated in the West and/or have spent a lot of time there.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 03:47 PM
1

Any good foreplay guides? The sex god method does not elaborate on this
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:21 PM
1

Have read that one up and down and deployed it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 01:12 PM
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I got a lot of girls while I was still objectively fat. My weight loss journey spamned over 40kg and 2 years. I was pulling girls while 30kg overweight. The attitude, frame and IDGAF matter a lot! I know buff guys who are still virgins because they are internet addicts/nerds who pedestalise women!
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 01:10 AM
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From my own experience being very fat and getting a six pack I can say that confidence does beat looks. If you don't give a fuck you automatically can pull a lot of girls, especially does that are just looking for a good time. Being super lean has extended my "reach", especially with white girls, but it is by no means necessary. A small pork belly or a skinny guy can pull too if he has balls. Just plain obesity is a cockblocker, those guys must focus on getting in better shape first. Overall loo…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 12:24 AM
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From my own experience being very fat and getting a six pack I can say that confidence does beat looks. If you don't give a fuck you automatically can pull a lot of girls, especially does that are just looking for a good time. Being super lran has extended my "reach", especially with white girls, but it is by no means necessary. A small pork belly or a skinny guy can pull to if he has balls. Just plain obesity is a cockblocker, those guys most focua on getting in better shape first. Overall look…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 12:18 AM
1

You are like a seer as I had seen your post earlier today just before I met a girl exactly like that. 1 .90m with killer legs and a huge ass (thankfully I am even taller) but very shy and kept calling herself "ugly" and "not pretty". I can usually fuck these Tinderellas within an hour of meeting them by "making them feel like a girl" but this one turned me into a bitch by appealing to my sympathy. So yeah, did not take that one home. Important to remember to treat all hoes equally and not give t…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:23 PM
1

Made my day. will actually pull that at least once
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:20 PM
1

Haha that's a great one
/r/askTRP27/07/18 05:19 PM
1

You mean 5-10 times a day is not enough? Oh snap!
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:15 AM
1

Thanks, that gives me some hope. Longest streak was 14 days. Unfortunately then even just touching the willy leads to ejaculation. Did it really help with premature ejaculation and dick sensitivity?
/r/askTRP04/07/18 07:50 PM
1

You're right! That's why everyone should use a calculator. I was around 2000 most days as I had to lose 30kg and wanted itnto go reasonably quick. Worked for me, might not be a good idea for others.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 01:17 AM
0

Debatable! There are some personal experience reports of heart problemw from sludge blood. Some studies state that the weight loss of keto and any caloric deficit diet after a certain amount of months is usually the same.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 01:16 AM
1

Definitely agree on the "Borderline". I've met one a couple of years ago when I was a bit less of a man and the way she knew exactly how to push my buttons was terrifying. Best to stay away from such women although that particular one was nothing but a model.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 04:28 PM
0

Connor murphy is the best role model out there, just watch his youtube videos
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 12:51 PM
1

"The key is to ensure that if you're going to have a friendship, with anyone, they are a person of good character that adds value to your life, just like you will add value to theirs." That is exactly my problem, with both males and females. Most people don't strive to live a life of greatness, but of mediocrity. I don't get anything from associating with these people as they just throw me off track with their senseless drinking and pointless meetups. Unfortunately for me, most people are like t…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 05:12 PM
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That's basically it. There are women I like more than others, especially if they are smarter than your average dumb hoe. Spending time with them is more satisfying than banging random dumb hoes. Then there are women who are very compatible to my personality and I meet such a woman once or twice per year. I feel very attracted to these women and vice versa. It is fine to plate them or even LTR them but it is vital not to adopt a BP frame for, as in "AWALT" they will jump to the next opportunity o…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/18 04:36 PM
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Not drinking is my biggest new years resolution. It is the main thing that keeps me from seeing the gym results I am aiming at. It is expensive. If I go out I'll have a coffee, tea, sparkling water or (rarely) diet soda instead. No need to cut it out completely but once a week (limited to 2 pints) or, better, once a month should be max.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 05:56 PM
1

You will gain success from stop posting about doing stuff and actually do stuff. Also, you don't sound that sexually confused when you can masturbate to porn a lot.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:44 PM
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Read but don't read too much self-help stuff. That is just another form of procastrination. Newbies should take one hit to the nuts. You can go and watch a video of Jeff Seid or Connor Murphy. That should give you the "revolutionary" truth that being buff is better than being fat and being a bit cocky is better than being needy. From that truly original realisation move on to become successful in whatever you want to be successful. Grab life by the balls and start your own business or at least g…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:42 PM
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Writing this, I had videos like this in mind: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddjZf7Nqbo0
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:30 PM
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So everything that you do always revolves around the pussy? That's called pedestalizing the pussy. If getting some is the only reason you go out in the first place, you are setting yourself up for failure. Obviously, I am not saying that you can't talk to girls you like on a night out, but getting laid should not be the sole reason to do something, especially if it's something you'd otherwise not even like.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:29 PM
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I do it myself but casually. If a girl gets in my vicinity by herself (think at the bus stop, in the supermarket, even in the gym) that is an IOI so I make a move. But I don't run around on the main shopping street trying to stop girls who are in a hurry like some Youtube PUA's.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:25 PM
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You misunderstood what I mean. I don't mean that they literally know about /r/theredpill or whatever. I mean that an increasing number of girls is very suspicious of random strangers stopping them on High Street and calling them cute. That has been the regular approach to "day game". These days I would suggest making it more casual to avoid possible accusations of creepiness or worse. This is more a legal precaution than anything else.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 10:23 PM
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I've lost 25lbs this summer and had major successes with girls. My general relationship with being active. The reality, however, is that I need to lose another 40lbs to finally be lean and fit. Those successes were in a sunny country where being active felt natural. Due to work, I am now in a cold as fuck country. I have plateaued with the weight loss in the last couple of weeks and even binge ate a couple of times due to stress. I am setting a goal today to lose another 25lbs until April 1st. C…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 10:00 PM
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Honestly, just make it natural. People nowadays are pretty PUA aware and don't respond well to being randomly chatted up and told they were being found cute. Instead, seek environments where it's more natural to chat up strangers. On campus, in line at the grocery shop or at a bus stop. Just everyday situations that you share with girls.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:07 PM
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I've had a hard time with one particular INTJ who would not say anything for minutes unless I ask her something. My number one advice would be to ask questions and state your opinion on things.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:02 PM
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No, you go to the club primarily to dance, enjoy the music and have fun (preferably with friends). I can spot guys who are only there to get laid from 10 miles away and they come over as thirsty. Do things for their own sake, not just to try and get laid. As a beginner daygame is king.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:01 PM
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I feel the same way at the moment bro. Doing a Masters and having fun but I do not have an idea for after and the thought of becoming a 9-5 slave just terrifies me. There is also no job or business model that I can truly be passionate about, that just makes it worse. I understand that uni is uni and work is work but there has to be something meaningful for us to do for the next 40+ years other than just slaving away and getting a wrinkled dick.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 12:24 AM
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One of my gym buddies is about my body type and hugely disagrees with me on the effects of fapping. Says he does it thrice a day and has no problem going for 2-3 rounds of sex on the same day. Does have trouble cumming though. I can see me getting back in shape improving my performance a level or two. But fapping is still in issue. I just feel the psychological effects of it everytime, them almost being like drinking too much coffee. The lack of sensitivity of my cock is something that is a meas…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 03:31 AM
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This is a sad truth. What would you have guys do that are still in transformation? If a girl disrespects me like that? Go full confrontation, especially in social group settings where you can't really just walk away? Or just laugh it off? I really hate being disrespected just because I still have a little beer gut.
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