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Louder!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:13 PM
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I cannot wait until I can comfortably sit at the bar with a book again. Considering taking myself to the botanical gardens this weekend. I’m good company, what can I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 10:23 PM
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“Long story short I agreed to block exes on social media” Translates to: he was caught sniffing around Instagram models’ pics and liking them, there was one of those long drawn out talks that involve lots of silence peppered with “what are you thinking about right now?”s, she said talking to exes was a deal breaker, he blocked all the girls he talked to BUT didn’t delete their numbers because he knew he’d be going through the names as soon as they broke up. Lmaoooooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:42 AM
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Ok that last picture made me choke and laugh; I’m still laughing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:23 AM
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THANK you. Needed this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:59 AM
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Trim, yeah file though? No single men file their gatdamn nails and I’m over here like what the actual fuck man. And you want to touch me places with those shredders? Fuck no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 08:19 PM
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It has 15k upvotes on r/memes and I just-...can’t believe that all those upvotes are coming from self aware males and non-pickmes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 03:35 AM
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Yoooo, this literally happened to me like a month ago, except the guy and I never went on a date. Barely remembered his face when he sent a pic to jog my memory. I had tried OLD last fall and he gave me such odd vibes I was happy to let it die. Same stupid bs “went exclusive with a girl and now her and I aren’t together anymore”. Wtf is with these scrotes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:15 AM
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Oh yes, and not just a slab of ply wood on four 2x4s either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 04:52 PM
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Or assuming your life starts and ends with a man at all. I've been getting so frustrated with a friend of mine. She constantly asks me if I've been entertaining any romantic interests of sorts and when I say no she floods me with "Okay but keep your heart open, you deserve love!" and I'm over here like girl I fucking know that. It's just not a priority for me right now. My life is so full, and I don't mean overwhelming, I mean full and satisfying and I'm content - focusing on balance, a secure a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:26 PM
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Oh perfect! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:02 PM
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I also want to know where/what site to go to to do this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:56 PM
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“It is one of 35 states where armed law enforcement officers can evade sexual assault charges by claiming that such an encounter — from groping to intercourse — was consensual” Suddenly that video of the female BLM protestor being groped by the cop, jerking away from his groping and being shot with tear gas and beaten down for “resisting arrest” is even more insidious. I don’t remember what state that was in but holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:15 AM
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“I just don’t like women” Only has pictures in muscle shirts. 👀👀👀 boy you might be gay, nothing wrong with that just like, be true to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:33 PM
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“..., makes one change from heaven to earth.” What does this even mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:28 PM
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Yoooooo, I literally had this realization while hanging out with the last guy I was talking to. “Dude...he’s not abusive and he did give me a shelf he didn’t want anymore for my apartment...but he refuses to go on dates with me, texting leaves a lot of guess work, I’m pretty sure his teeth are absolutely fucked...girl this is a LVM!” He definitely picked up on my vibe changing that night. It was pretty awkward.... 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:57 PM
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It is! I would take the chance to try out appetizers I normally wouldn’t or try a seasonal beverage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:53 PM
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I’m taking a hiatus from dating, but even when I was with my ex, I would enjoy doing my makeup, putting on a cute but comfortable outfit, going to a gastropub and sitting at the bar with a book by myself. Get a couple drinks, an appetizer or two, browse the book, eavesdrop on conversations, take in whatever was on the monitors, maybe share a couple jokes with the bar tenders, and head out. It’s a pretty good time. I like to think that if I’m ever left waiting for a flaky date, I’ll just tell the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:28 PM
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I needed to hear this. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 12:53 AM
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“..., do I think I’m too good for him.” This one resonates. I’m at an age in my life when I’m starting to realize yeah, there’s actually a solid chunk of men who can’t keep up and that’s not my fault. I’m working my ass off to achieve my doctorate, I work fucking hard man. They project their insecurities onto me, call me judgmental and condescending when I’m trying to have a real conversation with them. I’m done trying to explain to them that I wouldn’t have made it this far in my program if I d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:30 PM
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Or, deadass, just a straight up sex addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:18 PM
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Yes! I needed this!! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:55 AM
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“...but she has given me a lot of emotional support during this time as well.” I don’t think he realizes how immature he actually is. He has been stringing this woman along because he wants to be able to fuck a “baby” that gives him free therapy too. Invest some of that “decent amount of money” in your mental health. Go to a fucking therapist like an adult. I can’t even with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 04:51 PM
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Doesn’t project its personal issues onto me and then treat me as if I’m the cause of its issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:46 PM
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I always thought of Skylar as a girl’s name.... Also why bring race into it at all? So angry, so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 04:44 PM
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Yeah I think you’re right. Without giving too much detail on my past relationships and examples of relationships growing up, that’s not too far fetched. Thank you! I appreciate your perspective, maybe it’s something I should bring up in my own therapy as well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:33 PM
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Thank you! It felt harsh coming out, but I know this is such a compassionate community. I think you’re right, with trust it could be exciting, but if the trust isn’t there it’s a different story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:12 PM
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Real question: is there something wrong with me that the idea of being told “I have plans for us, I’ll pick you up at ____, wear something nice” sparks anxiety in me? Why don’t I get to know what we’re doing or where we’re going?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:24 AM
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😂😂😂 his dick doesn’t work though, so why does he think he could impress her? I feel bad because she is in for disappointment...but exactly like you’ve said, not my problem!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 02:23 AM
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Alright, I have a history of being partial to older men, but porn addicted AND a broken dick AND following athletic chicks online? Nah. Nope. No. Nope. Nuh uh. Nope. No. Just no. Your future is WAY brighter than anything he can offer you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 10:59 PM
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Oof this makes my blood boil. My ex pulled that line out of his ass and my dumbass actually empathized with him. For context, I’m a woman of color, first generation American, and he is a white male with waspy heritage. When he was threatening to kill me and I went to my management company to get the locks changed on our apartment, they didn’t take me seriously (are you SURE you want to go through with this?) It was then I knew I HAD to end it because despite the fact that he lost two jobs and I …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:21 PM
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Audibly said “what?” out loud when I got to the “no strings attached”. What the actual fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 04:00 PM
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He was mildly worried? Mildly worried about his penis. I’m so glad he’s not in your life anymore and I hope you’re well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:17 PM
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“U WOT” 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:31 PM
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“Leave me, like everyone else has 🥺🥺🥺.” Yikes, well that many people can’t be wrong so BYE. “No one ever gives me a chance, just go like everyone else.” Boy you HAD a chance and you sealed it with that bs. BYE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:30 PM
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For real though. Didn’t do marital counseling but the ex and I had tried “family therapy”/couples counseling to get through our/his issues. We saw a male therapist (mistake) who was convinced the whole couples counseling thing was my ex’s idea and that I was hysterical and abusive (completely reverse of the reality). They had me arguing the ex’s side for him! It was worse for my mental health and if I hadn’t been seeing my own therapist, I’d have fallen for their shit. Finally told my ex “look, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 02:58 PM
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This resonates. When I lived by myself I cooked regularly and kept a relatively clean apartment with my tendency to clean as I go. Moved in with the now ex and he sucked the life from me. I was constantly picking up after him (he would leave open, 1/2 full bags of chips on the living room floor for days WHO DOES THAT). When I had the motivation to cook, he would hover, check on my cooking and try to direct me until I kicked him out of the kitchen for the 4th time. He kept telling me “you never c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:07 PM
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My mom taught me a saying growing up: “The thief thinks everyone else steals too.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:04 PM
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Literally started talking to a guy on snap last week, it lasted 2 days before he hit me with a “Cool.” after I recommended a show I thought would be up his alley. I was going to say “If you’re wondering why you’re 38, alone, and low key looking for puss on shitty apps like whisper, this is why. You’re looking at it.” but instead I just deleted him. Boy bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:52 PM
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Has anyone watched Tiger King? That piece of hog shit Lowe and his poor wife Lauren. The woman is pregnant with that thing’s child and he says “she’s going in to be induced, then we’ll get her to the gym” and he wouldn’t let her have a nanny unless he got to choose the nanny. He of course chose a girl WAY out of his league because “if I have to look at her it’s just better if she’s attractive” You fucking kidding me? No. He wasn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 12:21 AM
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Nah, there’s no way he’s handling this pandemic well. His parents can take care of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 10:02 PM
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Yes! We are getting a pass to stay home as much as possible and not feel guilty about it in the least. And you may be right, I am seriously hopeful for all people in abusive households. This may be the exact opposite of enjoyment for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:14 PM
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Exactly! And what he would be putting in would be DRENCHED in stress, lowering the quality of his contribution whether he realized it or not, because he himself is DRENCHED in stress and doing nothing to help himself! Good riddance to dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:09 PM
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Yes ma’am! Quarantined with my cat and it’s been so much better than having a manbaby in my space. Even CATS take better care of themselves than a manbaby, and I feed, water, and scoop my cat’s poop for him!! 😂 (That’s 98% a joke, I know humans are more complicated than cats lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 04:03 PM
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Thank you thank you thank you! I think I could be doing better about that, especially with all the free time I have lately. I called a family member last night and it was so uplifting to hear from them and joke around with them. You are very right, social connectivity is very important and thank goodness it’s still possible during this time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 03:59 PM
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Puh-reach! Even my dreams were stressing and filled with him cheating on me (truly they weren’t far off). Even my DREAMS are way better these days, no joke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:31 AM
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Thank you! And to you and your future!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:32 AM
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Did both. Ended up losing the man; kept the career progress and still going full steam ahead! Edit to add: it got way easier without him! Definitely dead weight and malicious distractions, but that’s a narcissist for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:36 PM
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I’m pretty sure he was trying to become friends with me and eventually get my data/pics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 11:15 PM
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I posted on r/sex with a genuine question and received a PM saying “You bitch! You stole my username, Love it!” And I investigated the post history because I don’t really PM on this account, and the comments and posts all indicated I was talking to a dude. When I asked why a male would want my name, they said “you tell me, Sherlock” All I said was “yeah we’re done here” Never posted there again. So sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:31 PM
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Trauma breeds more trauma. I was in pick me mode with my ex, who was pure poison. It’s been a year since I’ve been with him, and I’m still learning that normal conversations aren’t a luxury. I’ve been getting in my feelings over guys who treat me like a human and they’re literally just being decent people. I think back to before I met my ex and remember a confident and healthy young woman. I’m getting better and loving myself more, thanks to this sub and other conscious life changes, but damn, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 02:50 PM
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When I would share observations with my ex (eg: we seem to be out of synch sexually when I’ve been busy all day and you’ve been home jerking off all day; jerking off near a window while watching people walk by might not be the healthiest sexual expression) he would get angry. “Why are you always analyzing me?! I don’t like living with someone who is constantly analyzing me!!” Christ, if I knew then what I know now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:39 PM
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Really though. I have a habit of being over appreciative and showering others with positive reinforcement over the smallest things. Guess what that got me? The absolute barest of the bare minimum. I was over here being impressed with full sentences and the slightest consideration. No more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 06:14 PM
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I literally just learned this after a three year relationship of hell. This is such a good reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 01:31 AM
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Woooooow, wow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 01:21 AM
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Hatfishing!! Yes!! Omg, that’s exactly what it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/19 12:45 AM
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What’s a moid? This honesty is great, way not to play along with his illusion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 12:49 PM
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“So what do you do for fun?” It’s copy and paste at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/19 07:34 PM
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