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So much hate in the comments, as RPers we should be doing our part to inform this man of his lifetime of wrongdoing and point him in the right direction to make changes if he's willing to put the time in. He's past his peak maturity obviously, but he's not dead yet. The hate projection is so strong in the comments that I'm doubting most people have even read the Rational Male. Tomassi would be embarrassed to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 05:29 AM
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I've had conversations with a serious tone that lead to numbers with no dates, while my best successes on dating apps were the convos I had that were fun and flirty and didn't require much thought.
/r/seduction21/05/18 05:58 AM
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Yes you are. Fucking married women is great. No strings attached sex once a week for two years, I was even friends with the husband and knew both sides of the family. Ultimately decided to call it off because I genuinely felt bad, I'm not sure why he never once confronted me. Me, this jacked short guy slinging bags of dirt for a living at the time while he's this tall, higher up at hydro making the big bucks. I guess it all comes down to the attitude I had and the thrill she got from cheating re…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 03:32 AM
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I'm the opposite, I always made the move with girls I came in contact with and was rejected every time. No regrets.
/r/seduction20/05/18 07:13 AM
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Me Chinese me play joke, me go pee pee in your coke.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 07:38 PM
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Does Old School Runescape count? I need to invest thousands more hours to max my account.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 06:27 AM
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Just take steroids if your test is naturally low.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 05:10 AM
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Give her some bitcoin.
/r/seduction30/11/17 09:17 PM
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For a small fee of course, For another $29.99 you gain access to minor force choke, $69.99 minor force lightning, and for $129.99 you gain access to deluxe incineration. The intent is to provide potential sith warriors with a sense of pride and accomplishment for unlocking different powers.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 04:22 AM
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Inner game and confidence. Please read before posting. Plenty of deformed leatherfaces getting girls on the regular.
/r/seduction23/11/17 07:01 AM
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I thought not. It's not a story the Jedi would tell you. It's a Sith legend. Darth Plagueis was a Dark Lord of the Sith, so powerful and so wise he could use the Force to influence the midichlorians to create life... He had such a knowledge of the dark side that he could even keep the ones he cared about from dying. The dark side of the Force is a pathway to many abilities some consider to be unnatural. He became so powerful... the only thing he was afraid of was losing his power, which eventual…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 06:08 AM
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I dunno dude. I think a real man has the "talk" with his wife, at least a phone call. This shows you're a stand up guy who deals with his business, a text is just cowardly imo. Don't stoop to her level. Deal with it in person and than you go no contact permanently. Tell me I'm not old school.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:20 AM
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There has to be more to life than watching RSD Tyler and RSD Julien.
/r/seduction22/11/17 05:04 AM
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Set me up with a game plan. I dress well, I look like a bodybuilder, good looking but I'm a 26 year old virgin. All I need is exposure to be honest. I'm currently reading the 48 laws of power. There has to be more to life then a hermit in the basement gaming and lifting every day.
/r/seduction22/11/17 04:59 AM
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Uhh this girl I knew from work stopped to chat to me today while I was out shopping, she has a facial deformity and it's clear she likes me. I am not at all attracted to her and she kinda weirds me out and disgusts me but I have to be nice to her because she's genuinely curious about how I'm doing. It's kind of annoying because I'm there to shop for my groceries and not have a full on conversation with somebody I'm not even remotely interested in. Yes, the majority of guys are superficial when i…
/r/seduction22/11/17 04:41 AM
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Labels are just words at the end of the day. Now get your dick out from between your legs and go and conquer the world!
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 12:01 AM
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No, I lost all that muscle because I was in the hospital, I worked my ass off to get it back the natural way. I'm natty now.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 11:27 PM
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I'm approaching 300 lbs bench, 450 lbs deadlift, 350 lbs squat and 225 lbs military press in 8 weeks of nSuns 5/3/1 in which my starting stats were 205 lb bench, 375 deadlift, 225 squat, and a 95 lb military press. I'm almost as strong naturally as I was when I was on Tren 3 years ago. This is only 8 weeks of serious diet and training and I'm at my same weight of 5'8 205 lbs. I do have a 12 year lifting foundation though, 3 of those years being enhanced. If I can do it naturally, anyone can.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 10:12 PM
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Do frozen veggies have less nutrient value than fresh? I don't care about taste, I'm more concerned about cost, but if it's sacrificing nutritional value I'll always eat fresh.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 09:10 PM
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Play more video games within moderation, and the women will chase you.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 08:18 PM
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I disagree with this slightly. My best friend is the definition of ugly, I'm ugly too but not as ugly as him. He's definitely more friendly and got more game than I do while I'm better looking and more vain. He's fat, while I'm a bodybuilder. I don't think you realize how cut throat people are when it comes to physical looks. Go on a site like Chatroulette or Omegle for instance, which is a website where you video chat one on one with people and can keep cycling through with the click of a butto…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 07:54 PM
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Just be yourself.
/r/seduction20/11/17 05:29 AM
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I keep reading around this sub that "hitting the weights" will earn you respect and get you laid. I find this piece of advice to be false. I've been natural bodybuilding for over 10 years now and I'm still a 26 year old virgin. I'm 205 lbs 5'8" , around 12% bodyfat. I'm more shredded and ripped than your average RPer, definitely more knowledgeable on fitness and health. Sure you still need social skills, etc, but this misconception that lifting weights will change your life has gone too far. Lif…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:39 PM
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Op has a superiority complex. Check yourself.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:18 PM
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Well if you're going to the black market for one thing, you might as well go for that other thing called Accutane. It will dry you out, causes depression , and will hurt your gains in the gym because it will dry your joints out temporarily. The shit is basically poison and is prescribed only in rare instances for that reason, but it is by far the most effective acne treatment out there. Yeah Accutane is easily obtainable online, well it was back in 2012 anyways, but back then you could buy DMAA …
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 09:19 AM
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Hey guys, just purchase a Nintendo Switch, and lift heavy, you'll be happier in the long run when you realize living free and single is the best way to go.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 07:56 AM
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Haha that's nothing pal, try 26 years single!
/r/seduction07/11/17 07:04 PM
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If I want to spend time playing my brand new Xbox One X or Nintendo Switch then that's what I'm going to do god damn it. Lifting takes priority obviously, but I'm going to do things I enjoy in my free time, not wasting my time analyzing stocks. I'm not going to give up what I enjoy in the pursuit of more respect from others or to try and impress women. Becoming like a computer in terms of efficiency sounds boring to me, I'll pass on that. Steve Jobs may have changed the world for the better, but…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/17 06:29 PM
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You don't chase the ghost. Come on man, you got other plates spinning. Abundance mentality right? She ghosts? Her loss. You keep moving forward with no fucks given. It's funny you just reworded what a lot of guys post, essentially your question is "how do I get the girl". Come on dude, you know better.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 08:00 AM
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Well said. This guy knows the deal!
/r/seduction14/10/17 02:53 AM
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Everything is good advice here, except dinner. Take her for coffee, dinner is like a third date or later.
/r/seduction14/10/17 02:42 AM
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You gotta make the moves man to show you're interested. Who cares if one fugly is into you. Ignore ignore ignore.
/r/seduction14/10/17 02:40 AM
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You do you man.
/r/seduction14/10/17 02:19 AM
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Good thing my man, but if you truly had an abundance mentality you wouldn't care if several women got emotionally attached. Infact, if I'm reading this right, how is that a bad thing? You can keep on having friends with benefits with these girls.
/r/seduction14/10/17 02:16 AM
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Lmao, you are a green pill phaggot, meaning you are below a blue pill phaggot on the totem pole. You must be new here, give your head a shake. Read The sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 07:08 AM
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I was at a concert last night, and had a few fat chicks approach me the moment I walked in, they didn't introduce themselves or anything but they planted themselves right beside me and made sure to brush against me a few times. It wasn't a packed venue at this point so it's obvious they were looking for my attention. Naturally I'm not very good at talking to women but I'm curious if ignoring them because they weren't attractive was the right move. I don't know much about social interaction but i…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 06:43 PM
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I disagree. More and more couples agree to terms of having kids together without marriage on the premise of the man walking the fuck away if she disagrees. As it should be.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 07:28 AM
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I'm messing with you bro. Part of the game I'm starting to realize is to be silly at times. She's sending mixed signals, I'd simply ask her out and you'll have your answer. Get out of your head, she is definitely not thinking about you as much as you are of her.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:18 AM
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Creep. Pervert. Pedophile.
/r/seduction11/10/17 05:00 AM
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Just talk to her after class, would you rather live in regret or make that approach and the worse that happens is you get rejected and you can move on? I know which option I'm choosing 100 times out of 100.
/r/seduction11/10/17 04:53 AM
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Easy to make out with drunk chicks, get back to us when you're mastering day game.
/r/seduction11/10/17 04:36 AM
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So you're saying there's a chance...
/r/seduction10/10/17 04:00 PM
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I liked everything except the part where you started talking about pride. "Swallow your pride because silence is golden".
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:14 PM
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Credit to: u/IllimitableMan for this. "Agree and amplify is the usage of the logical fallacy reductio ad absurdum (latin for: reduce to absurdity.) What you do is you take someone's criticism and imply it is absurd by exacerbating what they have said. So if someone were to say "seanlikecrazy is gay" instead of getting butthurt like a normal guy and saying "I'm not gay!" as if you're ashamed and that's there's something of value to that remark, you'd say "I'm so gay I woke up in Narnia with a pin…
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:24 AM
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I was reading a post on redpill the other day, something along the lines of only men can really "love" someone, which is a bullshit word used by women to get what they want. Women don't understand the concept of love because they rationalize with their emotions while men use logic. They will rip you apart if you think love is consensual. Thoughts? Nothing you haven't heard before, just from my perspective I've given up on the idea of ever truly loving another women (or falling into that trap) an…
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:32 PM
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What if there's like no brain activity going on. Like I'm literally sitting there with nothing on my mind and I'm drooling and all I can think of is how much I like turtles?
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:10 PM
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I've heard this one before lol
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:53 PM
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I don't know why anyone would pay for a stripper lmao. Any guy that visits a stripper reeks of desperation "hey look at me I'm paying to get a boner for someone sitting on my lap". Get real, any girl interested in you will sit on your lap and jiggle that booty.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 05:11 AM
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Matthews, Auston
/r/seduction05/10/17 12:21 AM
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Yeah, you got lucky, women like this are in the minority and a normal woman would have moved on quickly. Being late and ignoring the women by accident because you're an idiot when you drink are not attractive qualities.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 10:50 PM
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I don't understand the context in which you're using the word "frame". Mark Manson says it's ok to be vulnerable. How can you make yourself vulnerable without breaking frame?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 10:13 PM
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I've been worrying about it since 17 and not much has changed. But things are looking up and getting better because I'm totally confident and I've got a good sense of style now. Hopefully things will get rolling smoothly soon.
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:21 AM
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None, I'd bang em sober.
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:15 AM
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I said pardon? Uhh, WHAT? Dating sites/ tinder are like buying into a draft lottery. Ultra low success rate, only 9/10 male models have quick instant success on tinder. High quality women don't resort to using dating sites or tinder anyways. My suggestion is to go to a mall and rapid fire approach if you want dates fast.
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:13 AM
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Matthews. That is all.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:57 AM
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Own all the shit you want, doesn't mean your life is fun and exciting.
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:56 AM
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Approach more and who gives a fuck what they think
/r/seduction04/10/17 03:12 AM
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I always start my dates off with a hug. Boom touch barrier broken.
/r/seduction04/10/17 12:54 AM
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Ask any man who actually slays with women, the "nice Christian girl" is just a front. Awaiting an actual player on seddit to confirm which shouldn't take long. The majority have been fucked and chucked like any other women who pees and poos and has boogers in their nose. They might just have more "shit tests" than your average women but are still emotional creatures that can be gotten to.
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:10 PM
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Bull shit, every women is a whore in the bedroom and they all like being treated rough. Basic biology 101.
/r/seduction03/10/17 11:00 PM
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Stop selling your product.
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:38 PM
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Text game doesn't exist!
/r/seduction02/10/17 10:36 PM
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I did keto for a short time before I was diagnosed with schizophrenia. I shredded fat quickly at the expense of some muscle and strength. That was my goal though, it was not like I was on anything else at the time. Typical keto results. I'll have to do some more research on what you are talking about as it sounds promising. There are some studies that show creatine monohydrate at moderate doses can treat depression, PTSD and even schizophrenia. All of which I have suffered through at some point.…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 10:02 PM
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I do train hardcore already, I have a body many men would dream of, but I'm not a pro bodybuilder. Just a guy who's trained for over 10 years consistently and ran 3 to 4 cycles when I was young and stupid and now I'm doing it the natural way at 26 and it feels so much more rewarding and my energy is through the roof. The thing that pisses me off is my low social value. I'm a loser that lives on disability for mental illness and even though I've got the body of a Greek god, I'm still pissed off t…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/17 04:58 AM
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You've changed my mind on the approach. I won't go back unless I really need something, maybe I will see her again to practice socializing more while not really focusing on a specific outcome. Thanks for the advice dude, appreciate it from an advanced guy.
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:27 AM
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Great story. I had a milf FWB once, they sure are horny for being so old lmao.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:57 AM
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That's my problem, it comes out fast and stuttery depending on the person but when I'm comfortable I can be slow, cool, and deliberate in my speech. I just need more practice but I felt comfortable talking to this women so I will be alright if she turns down my offer. Infact, I'm just going to ask her if she wants to join me for coffee and then take her number or info. Easier said than done though.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:52 AM
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I think the recollection to our first conversation is a great conversation opener, but I'll avoid calling her cute, she's heard that a million times before. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:41 AM
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You are a bitch. Get out of your head. Go say "sup girl, I like turtles", or just say "hi" in the most straight face possible.
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:16 AM
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Not really the advice I'm looking for. I think I'm going back there tomorrow and going to get her digits if the conversation flows well or at least get her name so I can add her on Facebook. I don't really care what anyone else thinks because fuck what anyone else thinks of me. It is certainly not illegal to ask a girl for her number, nor is it unprofessional for her to give it to me!
/r/seduction02/10/17 02:03 AM
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This man gets it.
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:22 AM
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So you're saying there's a chance....if I just act like a potato?
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:20 AM
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I get offended when I say "hello" to someone I know and they don't greet me back or if I say hi to a stranger and they ignore me. I can't seem to just break into conversation, I know I'm socially inept but I like to at least have some structure to a conversation. Intro Body Conclusion Call me old school. I'm 25.
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:18 AM
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Keep up the good work, young padawan.
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:04 AM
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Sounds like a date is going down
/r/seduction02/10/17 12:42 AM
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Talk about religion and politics and what you're going to name your 3 kids. Women love that stuff.
/r/seduction01/10/17 02:28 AM
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Attitude and confidence. Get out of your head. Acquire more hobbies.
/r/seduction01/10/17 02:25 AM
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Dude, don't get too excited, girls hand out their number like candy but text her anyways and see what happens. Report back to this comment if she agreed to a date or not.
/r/seduction29/09/17 07:01 AM
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I've watched quite a few of Tyler and Juliens videos over the years. They haven't really helped me much mainly because I haven't been doing many cold approaches.
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:39 PM
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We can go a step further and say "to be certain" is the simplest definition of confidence you can find. I am definitely unsure/ indecisive fairly often and a lot of the questions people ask on seddit are a combination of low self esteem paired with being uncertain about the matter at hand. If I was certain in my actions more often even if I made mistakes and was wrong, than that would be okay instead of living in fear so often. I would have more success if I got out of my head more often, and sa…
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:35 PM
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I disagree. I'm awkward as sin over the phone but at least somewhat bareable in person.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:43 PM
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I'm sure you've heard the term enjoy everything in moderation. You just did overdid it and were doing something that wasn't sustainable. Move forward and forget about it, do not repeat the same mistakes again. I personally don't drink at all anymore, that's just my lifestyle choice as I want to be healthy as humanly possible and a buzz isn't worth the cost you pay for it.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:35 PM
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Nah, tell her to meet you there. It's a first date so she's not worth the gas money. If it goes well, then maybe she is worthy of a ride home assuming she didn't drive there herself.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:29 PM
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Yes! This!
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:26 PM
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Then maybe Inner game should be at the top, instead someone new here is going to click this and this which is supposed to be full of good info, but is instead full of "page does not exists". I'll read all the inner game threads right now, but I've read the books suggested.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:56 PM
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Up to you man, women love a man who can cook well. It's worked for me the few times I've had a second or third date, then I know I have them in the bag for sex because of my culinary skills and it's something I enjoy doing. Depends what you are looking for I suppose. It's no coincidence cock and cook are so close to each other in spelling.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:25 AM
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You're good at talking to people and are interesting eh? Yeah start with people on benches, sitting in the library, etc who don't have such a sense of urgency then you can work on people who are in transit.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:16 AM
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Keep on lipping the words and pretending to know how to dance, that shows enormous confidence because most guys just sit on the sidelines and stare awkwardly. Guess what? Those guys think they are cool, but they're not getting any pussy tonight, but you are. Just keep vibing with the music and approach, dance for a bit, try and escalate, maybe ask her if you can talk with her somewhere more quiet and then make your moves. If she refuses, take her number on the dancefloor, hand her your phone for…
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:12 AM
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Do not ask her if something is wrong. Text her once more after waiting a week. "I'm cooking you dinner at my place. It'll be a surprise. I hope you're not vegetarian LOL". Proceed to cook dinner before she arrives or maybe you two can cook the meal together and have some fun.
/r/seduction28/09/17 02:06 AM
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You did well, do ask for numbers. Don't change your approach, she wasn't interested. Don't take it personal.
/r/seduction27/09/17 11:14 PM
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Care to elaborate a little more. You're not wrong, but I'm looking for some lengthier answers.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:42 PM
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You're a moron. Everyone take this man's advice with a grain of salt!! He sounds like the town's crier!!!
/r/seduction27/09/17 04:52 PM
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You maaad? You maaad? You maaad? I got dirt on you doggy!!! Fuck outta here. I'm improving and the only way to get better is to be hard on oneself with heavy criticism while rewarding good behaviour. I call it being cautiously optimistic.
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:24 AM
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I post here and a mod messages me that I got posted on some other forum outside of reddit. Kind of funny actually, I'm one of the smarter guys on this sub and I totally have the I don't give a fuck attitude. Keep making fun of me while I become a slayer. Killing frenzy!!! Running riot!!! Rampage!!!!
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:51 AM
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None, I'm still 25 and only had 2 sexual partners, one being a 48 year old milf. Looks and physique aren't all that important, I have both yet nobody likes me because my personality is unattractive.
/r/seduction25/09/17 10:11 PM
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Take a big shit in her toilet when you get to her place. It's an actual way to shit test her.
/r/seduction25/09/17 10:09 PM
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Pm me your number and I'll show you how! ;)
/r/seduction25/09/17 10:00 PM
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None, more sex and foreplay.
/r/seduction25/09/17 01:35 AM
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No. Tinder only works if you're incredibly good looking with professional photos. For your average dude, you'd be lucky to pull a whale or a cretin from middle earth.
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:52 PM
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Dude, I had a fwb with a 48 year old women when I was 24. She's feeding you bullshit, 6 years is nothing. I hit on 18 year old girls all the time, I'm 25.
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:50 PM
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Explain how I excel at everything I attempt, but suck with women. Yeah, your theory is crap.
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:47 PM
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False, stop eating pizza and Doritos all the time. Also quit drinking mountain dew.
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:43 PM
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No, we will not buy your book.
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:40 PM
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How did you get over the Indian "smell"?
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:39 PM
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Soy un perdedor I'm a loser baby, so why don't you kill me?
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:35 AM
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Can confirm, I'm that guy who gets no girls.
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:33 AM
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Just relax man and stop being so uptight. You're probably over thinking things or you never would have gotten a second date.
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:00 PM
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People go to restaurants by themselves? I've had dinner alone when I wasn't living in a stable place, but now that I've got a home I don't eat out unless it's a date. Not in school anymore, so no reason to show up there. I mean the college gym is packed, and I could go an extra hour out of my way to get there because I'm an alumni but not really a point when there's a gym nearby. Grocery stores? Ok if she's buying healthy food, I'm down to approach and have a ton of things to talk about. Gas sta…
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:56 PM
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Me, this is
/r/seduction23/09/17 04:10 AM
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What do you do when your 400 lbs in bulking season?
/r/seduction23/09/17 04:06 AM
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Guys here are clueless, they're telling you to "slow down". To be fair, you did mention tinder AFTER they replied so maybe calling them clueless is a bit harsh. They're from Tinder dude, it's merely a hook up app, they're expecting you to take them home and have sex with them at the end of the first date. Then they will bolt hoping to never see you again as soon as the sex is done. They're not receptive to meeting again because they will be with another Joe and rinse and repeat. So yeah, escalat…
/r/seduction23/09/17 04:03 AM
1

Don't do this. You can do it yourself, there are Wi-Fi phone number apps like text plus, etc. Just use those instead of giving moose here the numbers.
/r/seduction23/09/17 03:53 AM
1

How old are you now? I meant where are you meeting women through day game? I'm not all that interested in clubs to be honest and I hate dance classes because I'm an incredibly slow learner so the freaking instructor kept singling me out. Yoga is full of old ladies where I'm from so I'd rather just do it on the tv.
/r/seduction22/09/17 08:00 PM
1

Lul, this only happens when I try to put a condom on. I lose my boner like instantly. I don't know what to do.
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:38 PM
0

Get her number, not some app username lmao
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:31 PM
4

Not fair, but plow that pussy.
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:27 PM
2

Humble brag thread, not going to comment.
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:24 PM
0

Yes you are wrong. I want to be a shredded sick Kunt that can get away with anything bro. Fuaaaarkkk!!
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:33 PM
2

Need to work on your spelling and grammar dude, lmao. Anyways, I had a 47 year old milf FWB for two years. Great sex, no strings attached. I tried to push the envelope of her breaking up with her husband just to be with me, but she just kinda got freaked out by that whole convo. So, we just continued having sex. I kinda just stopped texting her one day, and never heard from her again thankfully. I'm glad it just stopped because I was feeling bad for her husband who knew that I was having sex wit…
/r/seduction22/09/17 04:24 AM
1

I don't like the replies Itt. Reading too much into female psychology sounds like a bad thing. Just dress well, lift, smile, and talk to people the best you can and you will see some success.
/r/seduction22/09/17 04:03 AM
1

At least you get eye contact. What if women never even notice that you're there? I've done a really good job at approaching women who do make eye contact, but that's rarely.
/r/seduction22/09/17 03:43 AM
2

Golden advice, makes me feel good about myself reading this.
/r/seduction22/09/17 03:33 AM
-2

Wow dude, no offense but when you watch porn, does seeing the other man's erect penis turn you on more than seeing the woman naked? Dude, you might just be gay, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that (No homo). Edit: Women don't fall in love with men with no testicles, you might as well become a Eunuch because you have failed to put your penis in a vagina so far.
/r/seduction22/09/17 03:13 AM
1

Okay. Where were your go to spots to meet people?
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:59 AM
2

Absolutely they are, I'm the fucking man and everyone should know it.
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:53 AM
10

Just go up to her and tell her you like turtles.
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:17 AM
3

Ask her out for coffee first. Then Make your move.
/r/seduction22/09/17 02:16 AM
2

Others saying pursue your passions and lift weights are wrong. Yes, these are great things to do to always be improving yourself but they won't help you attract women. Being the best version of you is definitely a great first step, but seduction is a whole new ball game.
/r/seduction21/09/17 03:44 PM
-2

A man that dances is gay now? WOW, stooping to new lows itt. He most definitely is a straight guy with not many options, of course he wants to bang any girl that shows him even a little bit of attention.
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:47 PM
1

A loser on disability
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:57 PM
2

Every girl and her dog is into hip hop. Now finding a Metal head is a different story.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:56 PM
1

I've done this with failed results. I asked a girl sitting with her friends at school to come and sit and eat lunch with me. Needless to say, it didn't work out to well and like 10 different girls gave me dirty looks. It was a failure but it was definitely a great learning experience.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:54 PM
0

Guy can do what he wants, I bet you're from r/all. Tough internet keyboard warrior we have here. Punch me in the face while I'm trying to impress a woman and see what happens.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:47 PM
3

Wrong Op. Their are two types of people in this world, those with a shovel, and those with a gun. You, you dig.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:45 PM
3

Avoid this advice. Op, she's not interested so I suggest you just do nothing and move on to other girls.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:42 PM
1

I rather just be in the top 20% realistically, instead of being the bottom 5% living in Flea Bottom. I'm shredded, I just started wearing beautiful, sexy clothes that make me look even more jacked and confident by racking up several hundred dollars (which I will pay back eventually) in credit card bills. Not bad I guess for several hundred dollars, thanks for the basic Bastard fashion advice from r/malefashionadvice. Spent another fuckload on Aventus Creed cologne. Big penis to boot, I feel on t…
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:35 PM
3

Yes, let's get a discord going boys.
/r/seduction19/09/17 09:16 PM
2

I do all those things. If you're facially ugly, you come off as creepy more often than not. I've got balls of steel and get rejected like crazy because I'm an ugly Moe Sizlak. Sad, but true. Women can't get horny and attracted when ugly buttface piggy is staring them in the face!
/r/seduction19/09/17 08:25 PM
16

"Get shredded, fuck bitches". - Zyzz R.i.p.
/r/seduction19/09/17 08:21 PM
0

Downvoted by sheep! Those things improve YOU. Paying for tinder, or dating sites, those things are the equivalent to paying for sex, aka prostitution!!!
/r/seduction19/09/17 08:08 PM
1

Too young dude, move along here unless you're a pedo.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:26 AM
0

This guy doesn't know how to dress? Why would I watch the video?
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:25 AM
1

Oh, great friend you are. /s
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:19 AM
1

Lmao what is envy? Can an expert please explain what this guy is on about?
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:18 AM
3

Don't mention the term indicator of interest. Anything else is fair game. Ever heard the line "I noticed you, noticing me!"? Yeah, try that out and see if it works. She making intense eye contact? Call her out on it in a joking/fun manner.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:16 AM
1

Pretend like you never even looked at her profile.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:10 AM
1

And a part time job. You need real life experience too. Anyone who was in school who didn't work part time had it easy, often paid for by their parents or some other means.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:09 AM
1

I dunno about this, I'm very honest with my intentions, I often tell a women she's attractive pretty early on and I scare them all away. I don't know where I'm going wrong. I don't know if I should keep on playing the honesty card or switch it up and be more mysterious.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:03 AM
-8

Hahaha yeah right buddy, I can tell from the way you type that you're a virgin with severe social anxiety. We all got to start somewhere, and my advice to you is to work your way up but take what you can get for now.
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:58 AM
2

Oh okay, above average in the facial aesthetics department. This is how you succeed and I see it now. Oh well, good job I suppose.
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:54 AM
1

I only drank socially once or twice a month, now I don't drink at all. YES, I don't drink at all now, it makes sense.
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:39 AM
2

Ofc. Sniped a beauty tonight!
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:06 AM
3

I just quit last week actually, I don't need alcohol to socialize and after doing a bit more research I found out it was hurting my gains at the gym. I want to take diet and training more seriously so it was a no brainer for me.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:48 AM
-6

I don't drink so it's still cash down the drain.
/r/seduction19/09/17 12:30 AM
5

Bad advice. There are millions of women out there in abusive relationships who are beaten, being fed drugs, raped, verbally and emotionally abused every single day and it just goes on and on. The guy is constantly screwing up and screwing her over, but even if she says she hates him, she will still stay with said man. Financial demographics don't even come into play here, it happens to the rich and the poor. Now the answer for why women stay with such assholes is beyond my understanding, and I'm…
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:37 PM
2

Ignore this fella right here.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:25 PM
-21

So you basically paid for sex lol.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:24 PM
1

Hmm. I don't know about this, I'm attractive, in great shape, and younger than OP but get like no matches, but this guy is slaying? Must be different in Australia than Canada that's for sure. I've actually had a Kiwi girlfriend that I did long distance with and she was a solid 10 so my conclusion is that girls from NZ/ AUS are much less superficial than Canadian/American women.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:19 PM
1

Telling you again, it's the hair man.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:31 AM
1

Harder to read then OP. I wonder if the spelling in your book is just as bad?
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:25 AM
0

Go for It, troll the fuck out of her. Best way to get a random girl you barely know is to be random and silly. I like turtles.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:19 AM
1

Lmao I remember when I bought a girl flowers and chocolates once and she wasn't even my girlfriend! I offered them to her on Valentine's day and she wouldn't accept them. I was a cuck back in college lmao! Please for the love of god, avoid this, you will be seen as the scum of this earth by this girl.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:14 AM
1

Just tell her that you'd like her to join you for drinks and then take her number.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:07 AM
4

Dude, once she's over, just get her on the couch and grab her boobs. Works for me.
/r/seduction16/09/17 02:01 AM
1

Lmao OP is good looking, all he has to do is say "hi" and he's in. Hi rarely works when you have a face like Moe Sizlak (bartender from the Simpsons).
/r/seduction15/09/17 08:59 PM
1

3 each way.
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:34 AM
3

Hit on other girls, you're young man! Enjoy life! Have fun!
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:29 AM
0

Lol. One's internet reputation behind a veil of anonymity is really important. Like who gives a fuck, any retard can post a video of their dog, cat, or turtle and get 20k upvotes, the only flaw is it takes me longer to preach the truth on certain subreddits because of the 10 minute rule. I never swear btw, I'm just emphasizing a point this time around. Switching it up.
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:52 AM
0

It's amazing how people take context differently over reading text sentences, this guy apparently thinks I'm mad? Lol no, I have a very calm, deliberate demeanor. I was just clarifying with this other guy.
/r/seduction12/09/17 05:26 PM
-53

She used haha in every message she sent me, so the haha is there to emphasize it's no big deal. Maybe the fact a lot of you are incels is because you overanalyze every little detail and it projects when you are talking to people.
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:10 PM
6

You just skimmed through my thread, I said I no longer care, it USE to bother me, I too no longer have time or mental energy to even think about flakes/rejections.
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:05 PM
0

Lol, I remember those days, ff vii was played many a time alone in that cafe. Oh well.
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:21 AM
1

I just used Chad as an example, I could have used Jamal or Tyrone. Is an incel the same as a virgin basically? Never checked out that community tbh, too busy trying to improve than kick people while they're down.
/r/seduction12/09/17 03:18 AM
1

Keep improving and keep approaching. The first few rejections suck but soon they will not phase you. Lots of info on this sub is about altering your frame, good place to start. You're in Uni so attractive women are literally everywhere, I'm jelly.
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:02 AM
3

People who call themselves alpha are not. You'd be surprised that those some of those guys flying under the radar are probably going to be more successful than you and are probably really good with women. Reputation isn't everything but I guess to you it's pretty important, so my advice to you would be to keep exceling in school, participate in all the school events, and get out there. There is life after you graduate and you will form all new relationships. I'd recommend staying in contact with…
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:55 AM
6

Relief? Fuck yeah! Nothing better than nervousness and sexual tension going down the toilet after you get rejected. I hate wasting time talking to women that aren't interested so I make my intentions pretty clear within 5 minutes of an interaction. I use to be that guy who talked to all the receptionists at the gym for 5 minutes a day all week in some hope that they might show signs of interest in me after getting to know me a bit. After countless rejections there after a week of effort on my pa…
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:42 AM
3

Work on you bro and the rest will fall into place. Start dieting if you aren't, exercise regularly - for weight lifting I recommend nsuns 5/3/1 training protocol, work on your fashion, style and grooming and find an interesting hobby or 2 if you don't really have one. You can make huge progress naturally with healthy diet and proper exercise in 6 months, by which time you will be ready to test the waters. Keep on reading then apply that theory in practice - easier said then done, but what you ne…
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:24 AM
3

She's having sex with him as we speak, his penis in her vagina. Move on to the next one.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:15 AM
1

Cut your hair bro, it will increase your success rate.
/r/seduction12/09/17 01:10 AM
3

I get that vibe you're not really successful with women as you claim to be, hence why you are asking where to find them. If you are good with women, you already know the answer.
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:37 AM
1

You might be attractive but are you in the top 5% of the population in terms of physical attractiveness? Probably not. You have tons of competition from Liam and Chad - both who are better looking than you and are often naturals. Accept your ugly matches and smash (or not), or just stick to irl cold approach where you can get the women you want.
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:30 AM
1

Some things are timeless - jeans, Sperrys topsiders, a good time piece, top colognes, belts, but I have a hard time with fashionable tops - maybe I'll check this magazine out just once to see what it has to offer but I am skeptical.
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:19 AM
-4

By the time Its in GQ it's probably no longer fashionable. Fashionable people are leaders, by the time its trending, they've already moved on to something else. It is a good start, but if you want to stand out, you need your own individual style. I bet girls would notice and laugh at you if you had an exact knock off outfit of what Zac Efron was wearing two months ago. They do read GQ after all.
/r/seduction12/09/17 12:11 AM
1

Good for you man, just go and test it out, if you enjoy it than great you have a new hobby. I went to salsa with the intention of meeting girls but I didn't enjoy the dancing part so I stopped going. Same with beginner yoga - too easy so I just do it at home on tv now. Sure, it's two less outlets to meet women but if you're not passionate about something don't waste your time.
/r/seduction11/09/17 11:57 PM
1

Stop making excuses, invite your friends and the girl friend and tell her to invite her friends. Nothing wrong with a sausage party anyways.
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:50 PM
5

Just talk to her like any other person dude, send her a few snaps, then ask for her number, set up a date and then make your moves. If she rejects you, no big deal, millions of other women out there.
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:47 PM
1

Simplify your "script", it has too much going on all at once that you don't come off as genuine and you are most likely being seen as "artificial" or fake. Too much "acting" going on. Just let the conversation flow naturally while keeping a playful tone while building sexual tension. We might not be naturals at this, but do you really think all men who are good at something really follow an instruction manual? No. Repetition and adaptation to the situation is key, cold approach is a test of char…
/r/seduction11/09/17 05:25 PM
2

She is thinking about sex with you already, I would definitely escalate on the date, and then you decide if you want to smash right away or wait a few dates before having sex. The ball is in your court, and she's playing by your rules; you have her right where you want her.
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:42 PM
1

Good job man, women love the confidence you have.
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:33 PM
1

Can you explain the difference between intent and interest?
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:15 PM
1

It's all up to you man. Personally I wait until the 3rd date which is always home-cooked dinner at my place before I have sex with a woman. It's only a rule if you, the man, impose it on yourself. It usually takes me 3 dates to feel totally comfortable after they enjoy my cooking or not, and by that time I'm totally horny and she is to. Some women will tell you this 3 date rule bs, but honestly if Chad comes along she will sleep with him on first date regardless. So yes, if you want, be like Cha…
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:06 PM
19

Remember: a number is not a close. He should focus more on the interaction and gauge her interest from there. I only watched the first cold approach. He did get the number and was on his way in the most direct straight forward way possible which is actually pretty easy. However, I noticed he didn't really leave himself much time to raise his stock and peak her curiosity so to speak. Anyone can approach and grab a number off some random, girls hand out their number like candy. Yes, he called her …
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:43 PM
5

Often feelings of inadequacy go through my head when I'm thinking of speaking to a new girl for the first time. I do not value my time as I should because I feel that if I "interrupt" some random girl that is walking from A to B , that I am wasting her time or going to make her run late. I need to do a better job at respecting myself and my time, and just approach the girl I'm attracted to. No excuses. I personally hate it when I accidentally make eye contact with people handing out free samples…
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:39 AM
3

I'd take her on an "activity date" to test her boundaries as you've done enough talking. I'd take her ice skating, bowling, hiking, or something that involves an activity which gives you an excuse to touch and grab her. See how she responds to your touch. Bowling - tease and help her with her "form", ice skating or hiking - hold her hand and then try and kiss her and see if she's receptive. If she is, great, now with extreme confidence playfully hug her, pick her up and spin her. Women love bein…
/r/seduction11/09/17 02:49 AM
2

Easy. FWB is just a label and just causes unnecessary drama. In other words, the more you push trying to get a girl to commit to labeling something the more that girl will pull away. As long as you know what you want and what you are willing to do is all that matters. Remember, girls think more emotionally then logically when it comes to relationships so you want them to feel desired, but not left feeling like a slut for having sex. My recommendation is to keep doing what you are doing, initiate…
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:54 AM
1

Dude she's down to fuck, ask her out.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:16 AM
1

She is moist and ready to fuck, up to you. Should be an easy lay.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:14 AM
1

Watch your language. Lol.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:10 AM
1

All the good advice has been suggested already, I just came to read the comments.
/r/seduction11/09/17 01:05 AM
1

Why is your username so confident but you act needy and wimpy as fuck based on your post and comments? Did you choose it because that's the man you want to become? In that case I understand, but otherwise WTF dude. Do you suffer from low testosterone or something? Most normal straight guys would have made their move by the 3rd date at the latest (that's being conservative), and if they didn't the girl would have likely moved on. You are definitely a special case, which is fortunate for you becau…
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:48 AM
4

Just ask them out like any other person. You severely limit your dating options otherwise. You can't get fired for talking to other people, just don't push the issue if they reject your advances. Source: That guy who got rejected by most woman at work, no fucks given.
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:28 AM
1

Dude, just invite her over and fuck. If she's interested she'll come over, you don't need to start the dating process from the beginning.
/r/seduction11/09/17 12:15 AM
1

Eat clen, tren hard, anavar give up. Glad to see people cycling responsibly. My natty gains are through the roof though so I'll use TRT when I'm 50 lol.
/r/seduction10/09/17 11:18 PM
4

Or that r/incels sub people keep mentioning
/r/seduction10/09/17 11:09 PM
6

First you find out if she is real, she could be a catfish for all you know.
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:37 PM
4

Text her for drinks, if she declines, you stop talking to her for good. Ain't got time for attention whores.
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:22 PM
0

Your smile has nothing to do with your learning disability. Just embrace that you have that smile and adapt it in your game. Girls love a man who can smile, I've been told I never smile which is probably why nobody likes me lul.
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:30 AM
1

I don't know where you heard this but I'm very relatable with a broad range of interests and had zero friends from public school through college. Now I go to metal shows and that's how I meet the majority of my acquintances.
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:26 AM
1

Great movie
/r/seduction09/09/17 03:41 AM
1

Girls aren't on r/seduction which this specific video was aimed at lul
/r/seduction09/09/17 03:31 AM
2

Some clever joke if you're witty that includes her giving you her phone number.
/r/seduction09/09/17 03:16 AM
27

Well said man, I love going to concerts and festivals alone, you make acquintances within the scene, but never develop close friendships with these people for obvious reasons. Nothing worse than getting lost from your "friends" when the mosh/circle pit hits and you waste time looking for those people. If you run into them again, cool, if you don't meh whatever. The other scenario is arguing over which bands to go see at a festival if you're with "friends" whereas if you go alone you can see whic…
/r/seduction09/09/17 03:12 AM
3

Not this, she may end it over text but a man who is in a committed relationship who is ending it should take the higher initiative and end it in person. We started this as coffee and end this as coffee is my personal rule anyway. If it's just some random, who you may have slept with once or twice, than you can just text them or disappear.
/r/seduction09/09/17 02:53 AM
1

Nothing wrong with going back to the parents place, all you need is bathroom access and it can happen.
/r/seduction09/09/17 02:48 AM
2

Stop snapchatting these girls! Get their cell number and set up a date, if they decline your date invite, then you edit their contact info and put a little * or whatever next to their name and try again at a later date or just delete and next them. Surprisingly I've texted old contacts out of the blue who were long on the backburner who I'd forgotten about and got dates out of it from texting some silly random line of choice. After you get the date, minimize your texting, the next texts you shou…
/r/seduction09/09/17 02:44 AM
14

Get some new clothes, shoes, whiten your teeth, and pay top dollar for a professional haircut. Work on your appearance, and then start developing your own personality and game more. Start doing exciting things in your free time, limit tv and gaming, go out and socialize with anyone and everyone. I bought a new pair of Sperrys, $450 Aventus Creed cologne, and threw out all my holey socks and underwear and bought all new ones. My clothes are pretty good so I didn't buy anything else. I threw out h…
/r/seduction09/09/17 02:27 AM
2

I meant exclamation, not a question mark.
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:02 AM
7

Real talk, I'm going to try this on my first date with a girl from tinder. No fucks given?
/r/seduction08/09/17 04:02 AM
0

It's been 5 years and a restraining order later since she's talked to me, and I catfish her once in a while just to have a text conversation with her tone and writing style. I've went on quite a few dates since then and slept with a few women but I'm always obsessed with that one who got away - The New Zealand girl who said she was going to move to Canada to be with me, then one day just bailed. It's so hard to just leave her alone forever, and I'm not sure I have the strength to just stop. Yes,…
/r/seduction07/09/17 01:28 AM
-27

Dude, I don't need this, just go for the kiss, if she rejects you, she rejects you. No does mean yes though.
/r/seduction07/09/17 01:11 AM
5

Older women are easier in my experience, they are more experienced in the bedroom and will not play games with you. You can be direct with them, and they'll be straight up with you. I mean 35+ as below that women can still be quite immature.
/r/seduction05/09/17 10:31 PM
1

Great post. I like turtles.
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:18 PM
3

"Awesome pics. Great size. Look thick. Solid. Tight. Keep us all posted on your continued progress with any new progress pics or vid clips. Show us what you got girl. Wanna see how freakin' huge, solid, thick and tight you can get. Thanks for the motivation."
/r/seduction27/08/17 11:15 PM
3

I'm not even in a shitty place! I do live with my parents and I am on disability for schizophrenia and I don't currently have a job but I'm extremely happy with what I've got. You would think women would be attracted to someone who is happy with themselves and is in great physical shape, but I guess not. I literally repel women, but it's no big deal I'm content with I have.
/r/seduction27/08/17 10:47 PM
-3

No you didn't screw up but remember this my friend: all women are sluts, no exceptions. They'll often sleep with you on the first date and then never speak to you again. It's the way of the world now and it's pretty fucked up.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:45 PM
3

Happens all the time, move along.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:40 PM
11

Was recently messaging a girl and when she found out I had no job she ghosted me. Girls are so cut throat these days that I refuse to pretend to be someone I'm not. I'll keep on lifting heavy ass weight and I'll find a woman eventually, job or not.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:39 PM
2

I have Assburgers myself and it makes it hard to get girls when they're staring at my burger butt.
/r/seduction27/08/17 05:34 PM
1

Send me a pm girl, and I will tell you all about it. P.s. - where's my glass of water?
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:18 PM
1

Read the title. She found a Chad and is currently getting railed by him while taking his semen to her face. Harsh, but it happens to the best of us.
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 07:29 PM
18

I'm the guy who sees the presentable version while a Chad sees the messy slut she really is and all he has to do is whisper in her ear. Sad reality.
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 07:25 PM
3

You payed for her coffee too I hope?
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 07:20 PM
9

Congrats you passed your very first shit test. Have fun enjoying many more of them.
/r/seduction13/07/17 07:15 PM
2

What do you mean? I'm trying to understand why everyone here is so negative? How exactly is being so pessimistic going to change your situation?
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 07:08 PM
2

Don't sell yourself short. Don't have any expectations going into the interaction, but if you're compatible and there's chemistry and there's an opportunity to pull, you pull.
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:57 AM
1

Fair enough, become a tradesman that's awesome too. You didn't get my point, you're too young for this shit. Go enjoy being a kid while you still have the time.
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:39 AM
1

Hard to compete when literally every guy already does this.
/r/seduction13/07/17 03:02 AM
1

Lol tinder plus, you can enhance your style with that kind of cash.
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:59 AM
12

You're too young to be interested in pick up. You're still a boy, you have access to a whole high school of young girls. Give this up and focus on your studies. Come back when you're at least 18, then you can start filing field reports.
/r/seduction13/07/17 02:55 AM
5

Do you have a battered rv and can you "cook"?
/r/MGTOW13/07/17 01:05 AM
15

Is sucking dick and riding cock not a hobby to you?
/r/MGTOW12/07/17 11:14 PM
1

Here, eat a Snickers fella.
/r/MGTOW12/07/17 11:10 PM
7

So basically, approach more women. Adoy.
/r/seduction12/07/17 03:54 AM
1

How does one obtain this sort of power?
/r/seduction12/07/17 02:10 AM
4

I gave up on seduction lol. There's too many other things out there that I enjoy like music, weight lifting, sports, and heavy amounts of video games. Just accept that your face is ugly fella and life gets much easier to enjoy. Focusing on pick up was making me self conscious and hurting my self esteem. It's only really worth it for 1% that make it while 99% fail no matter how hard they try. Also putting myself out there by going to yoga and dance lessons were not things I genuinely enjoyed so I…
/r/seduction14/06/17 05:19 AM
4

Playing Nintendo switch all day, every day. Just kidding, I do play video games in moderation though. When I started my journey of self improvement I said I'd quit video games forever, but you know what it's something I enjoy doing so I'll keep it as a hobby. None of that grind a MMORPG anymore though, I did that for over 10 years, 4+ hours a day, 12+ in the summer before I got a job. Now that shit hinders your growth as an individual and is not mentally stimulating enough. It's probably the rea…
/r/seduction18/04/17 06:17 AM
2

You sure that's a saying. I thought it was "if you're the fittest guy in the room, you're in the wrong room". Just kidding, all that matters is "What's Rich doing?"
/r/seduction18/04/17 06:06 AM
1

The successful ones are honest and genuine guys who have high self esteem and self confidence with high value, who are actually approaching these girls. They are not putting on acts, they're enjoying what they do, and the majority of them definitely aren't using pua "tactics" which are crap by the way.
/r/seduction17/04/17 05:14 AM
3

I can't help but look at my hand when I initiate Kino.
/r/seduction15/04/17 09:22 PM
1

How to become a "mouth breather". People can notice when you're forcing yourself to a breathing pattern, it demonstrates low self esteem and/or value. Source: we used to call stupid people on the rigs "mouth breathers". People that need to focus on their breath more than what is going on in front of them.
/r/seduction15/04/17 09:17 PM
1

Lol don't do this. I've tried this many a time and it simply doesn't work. The man is expected to lean in first and make his intentions known. If she's reciprocates, great.
/r/seduction15/04/17 09:00 PM
4

What m8
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:55 PM
2

Tinder lol. If you're not a 8/10 good luck.
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:50 PM
8

I disagree. Why have sex with someone who isn't attractive to you?
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:49 PM
1

Why the fuck not? I often see people walking long distances from A to B down a creek path I walk and I often think about approaching. They aren't doing anything during that time but staring into space, so why not have a conversation with me while they are getting to where they are going.
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:41 PM
1

Do not waste your time approaching women YOU are not attracted to. Nobody benefits and you aren't going to learn much. If you she's someone you wouldn't see yourself having sex with, then why waste time on her. The only situation I'd be talking to an uglier girl is if I open a group of friends and the attractive girl has that ugly fat best friend that you have to be nice to in order to help build rapport with the girl you really want.
/r/seduction15/04/17 07:31 PM
1

Girls*. I haven't met any girls my age yet, plenty of older women but no young women my age yet
/r/seduction14/04/17 10:02 PM
3

"How badly do you want my dog?"
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:51 AM
1

What if you cum quickly? I can only last long after 2 or 3 rounds.
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:37 AM
1

I highly doubt you're as skilled at conversations as you think you are, otherwise you'd have no problem asking for dates. What you are basically saying is conversations are easy, but I suck at them anyways (failure to build rapport).
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:19 AM
0

Explain. I find the gym is probably my best chance at meeting girls, I do yoga 4x a week and weights 4x a week for a total of 10 hours a week spent at the gym. I haven't met any women yet but I'm sure some will cross my path at the rate I am going. Demographics is there.
/r/seduction14/04/17 12:06 AM
5

"Girl said "hello" back to me. Her panties must be wet." Talk to her more and get her comfortable (rapport) then ask her out and acquire digits. Only way you'll know for sure.
/r/seduction13/04/17 11:55 PM
3

Try and escalate physically. If she likes you, she won't mind if you're a bit quiet. She wants a guy who has big balls between his legs, not her chat buddy. If she calls you out on it repeatedly then I'd say you're just incompatiable. You can still attempt to have sex with her if you wish, but she might not be relationship material if she's telling you to "talk more" this early on. Keep in control.
/r/seduction13/04/17 07:01 PM
13

Good job bro. Now do this whenever you can.
/r/seduction11/04/17 06:52 PM
4

Grocery stores, gym, yoga, fitness classes, and dance classes. There is a new class called "country heat" at my local gym and it's packed with 20 something women. I don't attend it however because it doesn't fit my interests and I hate country.
/r/seduction11/04/17 05:28 PM
1

Focus on your own needs. You nailed it. You get it.
/r/seduction11/04/17 05:37 AM
3

Get her alone and grab her tits, works every time.
/r/seduction11/04/17 04:28 AM
2

Money saved and I'm on disability and live with extremely supportive parents. Planning to get into custodial work for the school board. I just need my drivers license. I use to go to therapy for driving when I was in the early psychosis intervention program but I was never in the right frame of mind. In 3 years of the program I never improved myself, it was all about recovery. If you're wondering why I was in such a program it was because I was wrongly diagnosed with ADD and prescribed low dose …
/r/seduction11/04/17 02:40 AM
1

You won't build any interest over text or snapchat. Do yourself a favour and delete Snapchat, it's a waste of time. Set up your next date over text and that's it, if she's interested she'll go out with you again.
/r/seduction10/04/17 12:38 AM
3

Move on and start talking to other women. This girl wants plenty of young college dick, just not yours. You dodged a bullet because she sounds immature.
/r/seduction10/04/17 12:19 AM
12

Another piece of advice: If you're Homer Simpson stupid like I am and can't remember self affirmations in real time and are incredibly reactive then just tell yourself "fuck it" or "no fucks given". This way you will give less fucks about making mistakes, become more confident, and become less reactive using poor social conditioning in these situations. See an attractive lady? Fuck it I'm approaching. Oh she just rejected me? No fucks given. Accidentally bump into somebody? Fuck it I'm not apolo…
/r/seduction10/04/17 12:07 AM
2

What is wrong with Sleeping with co workers?
/r/seduction09/04/17 02:47 AM
1

Lmao don't do this. I've tried this many times and it doesn't work. You'll only seem desperate. Focus on new girls.
/r/seduction09/04/17 02:19 AM
28

You don't wanna be a fuck boy lmao.
/r/seduction09/04/17 02:16 AM
1

Well I can get there in 30 minutes via car, but it takes 2 hours by bus. Not that far. I meant 4 hours by bus total both ways.
/r/seduction08/04/17 07:53 PM
6

I wouldn't go around being proud and gloating that you want to become a PUA. Instead phrase it as you want to become a more ATTRACTIVE MAN. It's more genuine and sincere when you're talking about self improvement, especially if you bring it up in conversation as people will be able to relate and even agree with the process. A lot of people ask me why I'm quitting my job and I tell them it's time to reevaluate things and work on self improvement to become a more ATTRACTIVE person. That's exactly …
/r/seduction08/04/17 06:54 AM
3

That's a man baby.
/r/seduction08/04/17 06:27 AM
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End was cringy. But rest was well played.
/r/seduction08/04/17 06:24 AM
1

That's a terrible success rate bro. You must be really repulsive.
/r/seduction08/04/17 03:42 AM
2

No. Approaching her from behind is creepy. Checking out a women's ass after you've established rapport with her and she notices is not. Also, if I were caught staring at another's women's ass or tits by another stranger, no fucks are given as I'm a man who embraces his sexuality.
/r/seduction07/04/17 05:14 AM
2

Persistence can pay off. Give her 3 strikes then she's out, while pursuing other women of course.
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:52 AM
2

But...but...women love rough edges.
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:48 AM
3

Totally false. You must have low self esteem and no confidence whatsoever to be thinking like this. You do not need a high paying job, you can live with your parents and not drive a car at all and still become a genuine womanizer. Read The Manual by W. Anton for starters and you'll see what I mean. I've already started implementing all kinds of advice from the book in to my every day life and it's starting to slowly pay off. I'm attracting girls that I find attractive while having realistic expe…
/r/seduction07/04/17 03:45 AM
6

Stop over thinking all this eye contact and go say "Hi" and escalate from there. It's simple.
/r/seduction07/04/17 02:55 AM
1

Nah, focus on both.
/r/seduction07/04/17 01:30 AM
3

This is bullshit lmao. Real men take action without much thought and act spontaneous. You text her whenever you want, avoid much convo as you should have built enough rapport when talking to her. The next step is to set up a date. Keep texting after that to a minimum.
/r/seduction07/04/17 01:25 AM
1

Damn dude that's gross. You must reek of desperation.
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:41 PM
1

If that's what you're into, good for you. Tai Chi is for seniors mainly, but if you enjoy it who cares what anyone thinks. I meditate with a program that uses binaural beats to allow you to meditate 8x faster than a Zen monk called Holosync. It's what works for me.
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:29 PM
0

Subway you shay? Approach her real quick and be like "Welcome to Subway, would you like a footlong?" in the most indian accent you can muster and gauge her reaction. She will either be incredibly disgusted, incredibly receptive, or too stupid with your use of a sexual innuendo to open her. Only one way to find out.
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:19 PM
2

"She is out of my league" Already dug your own grave with that attitude. You need to work on yourself, learn to become selfish, and become confident as you can be. Luckily in your situation she doesn't even know you exist. Improve yourself and if you get the opportunity than approach, if not make your own opportunity. I know it's hard to get a girl away from her friends, but you need to approach and say "Come here and talk to me for five minutes". If she declines then she's not interested and yo…
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:12 PM
2

You lost? Can I point you in the right direction?
/r/seduction06/04/17 06:54 AM
0

Not talking to a woman because she has a boyfriend is a limiting belief, but you're right. I'm not comfortable when I approach when there was never eye contact initially before the approach. In fact, I assume they aren't interested so I never do.
/r/seduction06/04/17 05:38 AM
1

If you're in to that sort of thing, then you approach the MILFs who have kids in their teens. Not the ones who have young kids as you'll be playing daddy more often then you'll be having sex.
/r/seduction06/04/17 04:13 AM
0

If she's not important to you, you ignore her. If she's important ( potential sex partner) then you put her in her place politely with a line like "if you talk to me like that again, get out". High value men have options and do not tolerate backlash from a woman like that.
/r/seduction06/04/17 04:08 AM
1

This thread was amusing to read. Dude you are really desperate and needy with no self esteem whatsoever. You need to do some studying man, some serious studying. Read Models by Mark Watson, and the Manual by W. Anton. They will get you started anyway. Then you need to practice and preach every day.
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:46 AM
1

Stop texting her stupid shit and set up a date. If she declines, delete number.
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:37 AM
6

Have some self respect. Girls are glued to their phones. If I know what you know about her then I'd move on. I consider myself high value so being an option or "eh maybe" is an automatic backburner for me. If a girl doesn't value me the way I value me then it's not going to work. Stop overanalyzing this shit and focus on numbers. Girls are in abundance remember.
/r/seduction06/04/17 03:34 AM
1

I often get bert stared during my day approaches followed by "ummm ya I have a boyfriend" without even saying "Hi" back. No fucks given because young poon is in abundance.
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:55 AM
12

Cliffs?
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:52 AM
2

Reading Models by Mark Manson and The Manual by W. Anton Is a good start. Then you just need to apply yourself and practice all the time.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:35 PM
3

Mack on every single girl. You said it already, you're a pussy. I don't care if you're physically ugly and awkward, approaching every girl will improve your confidence and your conversational skills over time. You will gain respect, some will think you're creepy but that's ok, even Brad Pitt is creepy to many, but those are girls you'd be incompatible with and want nothing to do with anyway. I wish I could go back to HS and hit on any girl I found attractive. Just do it.
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:29 PM
8

I mean, listen, we're talking about practice, not a game, not a game, not a game, we talking about practice...
/r/seduction05/04/17 09:21 PM
2

You're making this more painful then it should be. She's in neutral right now, but if you made your intentions clear earlier she would possibly be receptive to them. Next time you see her, you ask her out "Join me for coffee and a walk" and acquire them digits. If you keep talking to her without escalating, you're on your way to the friend zone real quick.
/r/seduction05/04/17 08:59 PM
5

You improve yourself and move on to new ladies.
/r/seduction05/04/17 08:51 PM
4

Is listening to what they say really that important though in seduction? I'm starting to learn that during the early stages of seducing a female that you should keep it light and playful while leaving serious convo for later. I'm not really interested in learning from them as I am more concerned about what they have to offer me; what their value is. If I want knowledge or wisdom then I can just ask another guy for that as they are generally more logical and explain things much more clearly.
/r/seduction05/04/17 08:49 PM
1

I disagree. If your authenticity comes off as unattractive, then you need to study and practice consciously changing your behaviours to become more attractive. For example, last night I was talking to the young female cashiers at work, instead of asking them questions like "do you watch this or do that" I was instead framing my questions as statements "Tell me you watch this, tell me you do this, tell me you listen to that". They in turn were genuinely more receptive to talking me and when I got…
/r/seduction05/04/17 06:11 PM
1

It can honestly be stuff your grandma would ask you about if you're looking for a female. I'm a beginner too so I'm focused on females right now, not the top 10% who I refer to as women. Those will come in time but you gotta first focus on the 90%. 90% of women are shit but some are attractive physically and have a bit going for them and are good for practice. From there, honesty and boldness does pay off. "Hey, join me for coffee/ insert fun interactive activity here". If she agrees, you calmly…
/r/seduction04/04/17 07:17 AM
1

Sit beside her, not across from her. Touch her lightly on the arm when you flirt, joke, laugh, compliment, etc. If you compliment her on her necklace, watch, ring or other accessory, make sure to lightly touch it. Have fun and remember every date is a learning experience.
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:22 AM
1

You haven't hit a plateau, you're still in the beginning stages. Gotta get out there and practice. Perfect practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction04/04/17 01:05 AM
5

Disagree. Some women will think you are a creep for simply talking to them which is laughable. After I read those several pages in "Models" by Mark Manson about being a creep it opened my eyes. I never had seen it that way before, being controversial is ok and shows your vulnerable. Not everyone is going to like you when you decide to be polarizing, and that's ok. My advice for talking to a women listening to music, ask her what she's listening to and her favorite music artists and expand from t…
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:57 AM
3

You 16? You sound immature, she clearly wants nothing to do with you. Move on.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:46 AM
1

Change your focus; less pua garbage and more self improvement and self awareness. Get out there!
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:44 AM
13

I disagree with the advice here suggesting to be persistent. When you're in the friend zone, you're no longer in the neutral stage, you are in the unreceptive stage. The harder you try, the more respect she loses for you. Needy men continue to pursue women who friend zoned them. Not an attractive quality. You want to become an attractive man don't you? Your next step here is to use your connection with her to hit on her friends or disregard the social circle completely. Up to you.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:42 AM
2

I've read "Models" by Mark Manson and will read his other big book and the ones he recommended.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:30 AM
1

I guess some guys here tolerate this behavior. I consider myself high value and don't have time for time wasters. This screams she has insecurities already, not a confident woman. I set a date up on Tinder or get her digits. No exceptions. I'd next her.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:27 AM
19

I just finished his book "Models". On to the next one. I gave my 2 weeks notice today at my dead end retail job. I'm done being pushed around and ordered around at the bottom of the food chain. From now on, I call the shots. I'm spending this summer unemployed, going to all kind of meetups, reading a self improvement/ seduction book every day and hitting on any women I'm curious about and find attractive. Got a plan for a new career this fall.
/r/seduction04/04/17 12:20 AM
2

Go for it man. Worse she can do is not respond. In that case, just next her. Too many women out there to worry about just one.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:52 AM
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While I agree strong eye contact is key for conversations, shows your interested, and exhibits strong confidence. I disagree that eye contact can suddenly flip a switch inside someone and make them want to have sex with you which is what you are trying to say. Your game is what impressed her and eventually lead her to have sex with you. No point in overanalyzing eye contact.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:34 AM
4

Look it up! When I tease its usually a minor neg. See a girl with headphones in? You tell her: "Could you turn your music down? It's loud, etc". I've opened with that line on public transit and in the gym a few times with good success. The girls then usually comment on how ballsy I was to say that to them during a first date. My problem at the moment is I lack substance and I am a pretty boring guy so I don't get much further. Definitely working on that. I know it's not the answer you're looking…
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:02 AM
3

I had a MILF FWB for over 2 years. They are Straight to the point, experienced in bed, and absolutely love sex and crave dick. We'd have Movie night every week and wait for her husband and kids to go to bed then have sex on the couch and in the kitchen. It was great, never serious, and I would have spent that time gaming and jerking off anyway. Now that I'm past that, I'm making huge strides in self improvement and meeting people. I recently joined a dodgeball League and have much more planned.
/r/seduction03/04/17 01:33 AM
12

Genuine one liners, compliments and playful teasing. When things are getting more heated and I make a physical move and she asks me "What are you doing?" I usually straight up say "I'm making my move". They usually laugh at that one. If they couldn't get the hint before that, that always makes my intentions clear.
/r/seduction03/04/17 12:47 AM
31

What if I already do all these things but I'm still foreveralone.
/r/seduction02/04/17 07:48 AM
3

Why is that? What is wrong with having sex with co workers?
/r/seduction31/03/17 08:36 PM
1

Every case is situational though. I've "earned" numbers after lengthy conversations after they rejected me the first time, and some I've gotten really easy after a few messages. Depends on the girl.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:39 AM
7

Rap concerts might be different but try this with a girl at a metal concert and you'll get your head bashed in. Jokes aside, I met this girl at a metal concert, exchanged numbers and everything and went on a date. She told me straight up that I was awkward as fuck. Oh well, on to next.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:24 AM
1

What if your life is the boring one though? I once went on a crazy day date with a girl and her model aesthetic friends who were judging me heavily to the point where the girl wanted nothing to do with me anymore at the end of the day. The sloots even made plans to go clubbing that night right in front of me after she rejected movie night at my place.
/r/seduction31/03/17 02:11 AM
1

Can confirm. You are a retard. Source: I'm a retard
/r/seduction31/03/17 01:59 AM
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