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Julien didn’t seem too bad
/r/ExRedPill20/11/24 08:19 AM
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A lot of guys are like this. I am one of them, it’s just how alot of us were from day one. No nurture involved, some of us just have this temperament.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 02:17 AM
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You could argue that if you’re not genuinely hurting the girl and she likes the behaviour, it’s no longer bad, it’s just effective behaviour you don’t like partaking in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 05:51 PM
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Lol on god
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:23 PM
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Sociopaths, psychopaths and to a degree narcissists are a perfect example of what you call “not human”. The former operates outside of social conditioning due to diminished levels of fear, shame and embarrassment among others. The latter is this way because they feel entitled to act however they please, socially acceptable or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 08:18 PM
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Benevolent sexism is the word. Studies actually say they like benevolently sexist men over men who view them purely as equals.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/24 01:17 AM
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I called that as soon as I read it lol. Telling this sub they need to touch grass especially by a woman is almost guaranteed to go very wrong lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:42 AM
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Being chronically online in any space will eventually hurt the individual lol. Glad you feel you developed in the last 4 years, i stagnated but about to hit a life milestone right now so I’m about to get a taste of it pretty soon
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:31 AM
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The pandemic is at most 4 years ago, “when I was young” you’re very likely just as young now as you were then. Also this post comes off as a rant to justify your own existence, as if this revelation of yours isn’t valid if you don’t tell them you think it first, which is likely to garner criticism from the other users. “you guys made me dislike myself, so I’m going to criticize you now by saying your chronically online and are delusional!! You hurt my feelings, so I heard yours” is how this real…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 04:05 AM
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Almost like you’re saying they’re attractive, but not to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:07 PM
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Online exaggerates this anyways. But regardless, ya it makes it harder….so? Study your competition and beat them lmao. Like what? If you’re so convinced your date has another date after you or whatever, schedule as late in the day as possible so you’re the last one in her mind, influencing her feelings about you more positively. I literally just made that up as I read your post.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:11 PM
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So basically the comments saying they’re the same I interpret them as saying “because women are subject to herd mentality this manifests in them liking men they know other women want. This type of herd mentality is called preselection” Where as you’re saying herd mentality is one thing and preselection is where they like the guy specifically because he’s being pre vetted. It honestly sounds like a little bit of the same thing. But who cares tbh, if you think you’re right and understanding it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 09:54 AM
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Definitely not, but toxic all the same
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 02:45 AM
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Will? Lol, why aren’t you safely assuming some haven’t already offended?
/r/ExRedPill08/03/24 02:45 AM
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“Sex is no longer about pleasure, what about power.” Lol this guys about to grape
/r/ExRedPill07/03/24 10:45 PM
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No it doesn’t read like Trumps but your analogy is hilarious lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 01:34 PM
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Haha I agree. I did take “be myself” literally but noticed it only worked when I was being myself unapologetically, confidently. Technically that’s also being myself because deep down we all like outselves by default and are only taught not to, which is why when alone or I guess, talking on the Internet, we naturally default to estate of confidence and self-esteem, because that is what’s on the inside. Do I feel like people who hid the fact that confidence is imperative, when “being yourself” ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:27 AM
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Lack of social iq I swear lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:21 AM
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I HOPE THIS SEEN BY ALL I wholly agree with this post and the people in the comments supporting it. Since the very beginning I always thought in my mind about the things I found here “but, I could’ve said that myself” and assumed I just needed to keep looking for the non-common sense concepts but never found them. Yes, people who were social growing up either became “rp” naturally or were close to those guys and by extension it rubbed off via observation or passive learning. Even a few days ago …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 04:50 AM
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Any guy with long term female friends, scratch that, acquaintances could’ve told you that
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 02:10 AM
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Who really needed to read redpill to know that though?
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 12:31 AM
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Lmao how is the first one redpill?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/24 11:25 PM
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If anything, listening and observing how they talk about and interact with people they date allows you to find common themes and see what consistently works and what doesn’t. They even give u advice too.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 09:47 PM
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I just come for the lulz, this sub is just meant for laughs and the occasional thought provoking, dare I say valuable idea. Other than that, entertainment value
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:10 AM
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😂😂 “wandering into the break room babbling”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 04:07 AM
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This is the answer to so many issues that it’s not even funny lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:05 PM
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Lies, there’s a few people I knew as early as 11 who were just naturally like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:03 PM
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What a well balanced comment
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 12:05 AM
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How do you feel about chalkandapples response? That type of thinking is what you need to get you out of this thought pattern?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:01 AM
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What is this, the black pill for personality? LMAO ffs. Just control what you can then, how exactly did making this entire post which I’m sure took 30 min (in application plus thinking what to type) help you? It didn’t. That was moments of your life dedicated to negativity that you won’t get back. Next time, use that time and put it towards endeavours that will benefit you ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:55 AM
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Seriously? The question was literally answered (in a reassuring way at that) and that’s what you focus on?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 01:22 PM
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It’s not bothering anyone to talk to a stranger in public. To be in public without headphones is giving non verbal consent to being spoken to. Now to talk to her after she says to go away is a different story. Even if she freaks out most people aren’t retarded and so bystanders will just look at her as a nutcase as long as you keep your cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 11:22 AM
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For sure, but easier does not necessarily mean better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:46 PM
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For sure, but easier does not necessarily mean better
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:46 PM
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You can absolutely give her those highs and lows without being toxic. That’s literally the idea behind concepts like teasing, not giving her what she wants all the time, being mysterious and “push-pull”. Being a challenge isn’t the same as unleashing all out psychological warfare lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:21 AM
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Am I the only one who thinks this is a troll post? So many things make me think this is meant to be taken as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 10:26 AM
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Care to list some? I want to unplug from the garbage PPD teaches
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:45 PM
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Essentially, would you then just say you began to embrace imperfection and ie accept more of who you are the good and bad/“dumb” parts?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:58 AM
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Bro what? Yk how much lying and impression management I had to do to land a job? It would be very unwise for someone to date a person who acted like me in my interview process. Very cutthroat, ruthless, and sociopathic. I yeah I got the job, but I would definitely advise people not to trust anyone who acted like me during the interview process, definitely not conducive to a healthy relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 09:29 PM
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Direct in your demeanour. Indirect in what you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 10:18 PM
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I was looking for this exact comment. On point!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 01:45 AM
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Lol no. I used to make these excuses for myself until I realized that if your are competent for a certain lifestyle, you will create it no matter what scenario you’re in. Literally just go get a job that normally employs people around your age or go apply to a gym then talk to everyone. Be social with everyone but only focus on the people you feel like you have common ground with or genuinely click with. Meet their friends/ invite them out to do something generic or niche that you know they like…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 11:12 PM
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Still waiting for his response lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:48 AM
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Point one isn’t an unpopular opinion. It’s almost explicitly stated that “personality” in the dating context is just behaviour that is attractive NOT behaviour that is moral or good. Moral behaviour can be attractive, but attractive behaviour doesn’t necessarily mean it’s moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 04:29 PM
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With this thought process I’m surprised ur even on Reddit let alone the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:17 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 09:58 PM
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I’m glad others think this way, I’ve been saying this for so long
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:43 PM
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Another form of therapy is cbt. It challenges your thoughts and instructs you to come up with different ways of thinking and going out in the real world conducting behavioural experiments to reinforce these ways of thinking to change you how feel and ultimately how you behave. Talking about your past and your feelings is literally opposite to what CBT is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 09:13 PM
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Pretty sure that’s most of us. Wanted to get better, found PUA/RSD and then fount trp etc. I’d like to think anyone on this subreddit is in the process of removing themselves from that community all together by virtue of “purple” meaning not entirely red.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:53 PM
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Funny enough, he had a “gf” and I’ve met her and her family so I can confirm this is true. I put “gf” in quotes bc they both liked each other and hung out but never made it official or did anything about it as far as I’m concerned. The girl isn’t weird or a shut in, she’s nerdy but social and normal in every aspect. He does talk to his classmates and has people he interacts with outside of school that he knows and hangs out with irl but says he doesn’t enjoy it because they’re low iq and unhinge…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:27 PM
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90th+ percentile for extroversion. No you wouldn’t have lost your mind during the pandemic. It all comes to having self worth and having a strong/positive relationship with yourself. You are your best friend and the most important person in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:05 PM
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Ya it’s pretty gross, my 14yo brother is like this. Dislikes meeting new people, dislikes exercising, gives no shits about his physical fitness, dislikes being social, doesn’t care about fashion or presenting himself well just wears whatever and doesn’t care about style. Typical “beta”: avoids doing anything difficult or hard, hates his confident/ambitious classmates as he thinks they’re arrogant and views mediocrity/low self esteem as indicative of being a “good person” or some dumb shit like t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 04:10 PM
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Can confirm. Dad is highly psychopathic and growing up flirted and got with a lot of women by acting in a very agreeable, always smiling, simpy, charming way. He was an asshole ofc but only to people he couldn’t gain from. These women never saw that side of him until way later.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 01:20 PM
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What general area is this? I’d actually like to visit there one day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:35 AM
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Literally this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:52 AM
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Happened to me too. Onto the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:37 AM
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Yes. Worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 11:36 AM
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Shits tough, but u can’t let that get u down
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:09 AM
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So this list is actually reliable!!?? I thought it was just incel nonsense 😱.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:20 AM
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I’m loving the lack of victim hood /fighting in the comments. The unanimous consensus is “ya ok theyll /I’ll just go find someone more socially intelligent that’ll be able to read the hints. Better yet, someone confident enough that’ll take initiation and doesn’t need their hand held.” No ones being delusional here, it’s pretty much “ok cool, this won’t change, be alone or level up” I love it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:09 AM
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Lol I agree with both of u on this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:48 AM
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This comment wreaks of self responsibility and I don’t get any hints of incelly, socially inept, victimy personality traits in this comment. Wtf are u doing on this sub lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:44 AM
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Probably, she most likely is too short sighted or lazy to care. Regardless, this is the reality so you choose what to do about it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:43 AM
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Are you me!? Personality literally makes or breaks a woman’s attractiveness for me despite objective looks. I never met anyone else that felt like that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 11:14 PM
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I never contribute to this sub but I like the idea of this post, focus on your strengths and live a life where it would be easy to fill a list like this. I’m 5’10, pretty handsome, nice smile, still in early 20s but people older than me tell me it’s like they’re talking to someone of their age, ambitious in everything I enjoy so I’m always aiming high in whatever endeavour it is. Funny, witty, quirky at the right moments, still childish in the adorable ways, but can tap into serious maturity whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:03 PM
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This^
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 03:04 AM
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Didn’t say they were, said TRP advocates to think like that
/r/ExRedPill24/02/22 08:22 PM
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I don’t think anyone thinks this is beta, more so boring. In the TRP sense predictability is boring since women are like children as they say and children are easily bored by routine.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 04:20 AM
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Lol tf r u talking about? I said I want to hear a unique opinion not that he’s a good person
/r/ExRedPill19/02/22 07:46 AM
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So? Wouldn’t it be interesting to hear a unique perspective? Considering trp basically trains you to be that way I’m interested in hearing the opinion of someone who’s already like that naturally.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/22 03:54 AM
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What gives u that impression?
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:29 PM
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At this point I think she likes me but is hesitant because whatever dumb insecurities she has about me or our situation. I’m honestly just going to leave her alone and start flirting with other girls in class that I’m already flirtatious with (it’s okay I’m a social guy so I won’t get a name or do it in a socially awkward creepy way). Thing is I know she’s just going to chase, cling to and simp for me if I ignore her because that’s what she does every time I want to take a break from her nonsens…
/r/seduction05/12/21 05:13 AM
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Thing is she’s not my friend lol. I once asked for her number and she said no in a playful but kind of rude way because she said it kind of loudly and almost looked triggered/offended/mad when I asked. To which I laughed and walked away (bc it really was funny lol) and I then ignored her for a few days after that because fuck it. To which she then approached me and tried to be excessively nice (was giving simp energy) and looked sad, almost a feeling of guilt. Here’s the thing though, she has gi…
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:46 AM
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Like she slaps my shoulder often when I tease her, she pokes me at my side, tells me she hates me in a playful manner, says “we’re not friends anymore” playfully, teases me often, approaches me during class when she’s done her work and stays with me alone until I’m finished (I even tell her she can leave if she wants to which she declines and she asks if I need help on my work) remembers small details about me and seems to care about my well being. I’ve tickled her before and she was giggling an…
/r/seduction05/12/21 03:22 AM
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What a negative mentality lmao. If youre handsome or chill/charismatic asf it’s really not a big deal.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 10:21 AM
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When they say women like status, I agree. But don’t look at it so simplistically, they’re not looking at the status on paper, they’re looking at his worthiness of status. Ex. Kyle might not be respected by others, but due to the way he acts and thinks he is undeniably WORTHY of respect. Just like how Daniel is respected by his peers/community but acts like a clown around women thus dries up their pussy. Or how the best driver in town has the most status or something, Tyler might not flex his dri…
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 12:47 AM
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No need to overcomplicate it, just casually say in conversation that you don’t like having sex right away. Don’t bring so much attention to the topic if you don’t want it to be awkward, just address it and keep it moving. If he doesn’t want to see you after that he won’t call you back.
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 04:19 PM
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I’ve asked women if it bothers them to hear females and they say no. I’ve watched YouTube videos where women call other women females before and it wasn’t geared towards men it was gender neutral channels.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 11:55 PM
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I like this answer a lot
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 03:51 AM
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Honestly, if you have psychopathic tier confidence, self esteem, self regard and optimism all your problems with women will just auto correct. I’m not joking when I say this. You can be confident as shit but still not be an asshole all around.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/21 01:29 AM
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I’m glad to hear that man, I myself never experienced that because I didn’t take the redpill too seriously in the first place, but it’s nice to see a hardcore redpiller see their flaws and come out of the dark
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 07:22 PM
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Idk who tf downvoted this cuz it’s true. Sometimes demonstrating confidence matters more than actually having it
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 07:52 PM
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I’m not the type to comment on these forums but this confirmed what I’ve been thinking for a while. Supposedly ppl who’ve gone though trauma are impressive distant, angry, defiant (reject them before they reject me) emotionally cold(no one cares about me so why bother), reckless(I don’t care about myself so why bother), anti social (people are generally bad since my past trauma taught me that so it’s really okay if I act like a bad person too), emotionally deficient (I’ve closed off my emotions …
/r/ExRedPill18/02/21 02:50 AM
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Basically self belief, basically confidence
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:55 AM
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Cocky inside and humble outside is THE definition of genuine self confidence. U nailed it
/r/seduction21/07/20 07:52 AM
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By the way being assertive doesn’t mean not nice. Sometimes not being nice isn’t being not nice. On top of that breaking rapport is what spikes attraction. Breaking rapport = not being nice= being a challenge = attraction. Sorry being nice won’t make her attracted, attraction isn’t nice. But just because of that it doesn’t have to reflect her as a person and it doesnt have to be a bad thing.
/r/seduction14/06/20 02:45 AM
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Looool I’m a guy and I find this funny
/r/seduction29/01/20 03:36 AM
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You already lost, you care. Just tell her “Na I’m not in the mood tonight, the hairpulling and ass spanking will come later this week.” Or something like that. Think of a slot macheine, do you not crave it more when you know that every pull isn’t guaranteed a positive outcome? Do you really think she’s going to think less of you if u deny her a few times? Do you really think your value isn’t high enough that you can’t get away with saying no a few times?
/r/askTRP12/12/19 04:19 AM
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I agree only with the guy who said you’re immature if u get mad about this. Straight to the point: tell her it’s okay “because it’s last minute school stuff” so she knows you’re understanding BECAUSE it’s school not because you’re okay with being flaked on. Then tell her just clear her day before hand so the next date goes uninterrupted. And be like, “ you can make it up to me by doing xyz on the next xyz during our next xyz when xyz 😉” Basically putting out the idea of another date, while keepi…
/r/seduction11/12/19 08:30 PM
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I’m listening. How would you differentiate the two? For example what did you do that “failed” and what (cool confidence) game worked? Why do you also think dominance comes off as narcissism?
/r/seduction09/12/19 09:34 PM
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That’s not what I asked
/r/seduction09/12/19 09:20 PM
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Looking at his last and only other post, I’m thinking this is definitely a guy. But thank you for trying to install more confidence in us, really, thanks.
/r/seduction09/12/19 05:36 AM
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Haha that’s awesome, now I know what to do with girls I actually do like.
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:48 AM
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Ya I’d also like to hear. Since it’s only 5 I’d like to hear why you disagree with each.
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:44 AM
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One day I was being pretty dominant with my female friend (purely for jokes sake) As she were talking and she said let’s go this way it’s shorter I’m like “no this way” and grabbed her arm firmly and lead her in my direction and she just compliantly followed. I would also lead her around aswell since she wasn’t familiar with where we were going. She once asked me to do something and I flat out said “no” with a smile because I thought it was funny. Recently she’s been smiling and laughing any tim…
/r/seduction09/12/19 01:39 AM
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You wish has been granted.
/r/seduction26/11/19 05:43 AM
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I legit can’t tell if your being sarcastic. But I’m still standing behind my point.
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:40 AM
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Idgaf that she likes anime I just used that as a reason to bond
/r/seduction25/11/19 08:32 PM
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Just gotta get creative and have fun with it yknow.
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:49 PM
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Well ya with all this toxic masculinity propaganda I’m not surprised you’d be suspended for talking to a female at highschool.
/r/seduction25/11/19 02:32 PM
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Shake my damn head
/r/seduction25/11/19 04:55 AM
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Lol u really think so?
/r/seduction25/11/19 03:19 AM
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Well ya that’s what we’ve been talking about. And naruto is the shit, second to dbz.
/r/seduction25/11/19 02:40 AM
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I recently turned 21, why?
/r/seduction25/11/19 12:29 AM
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Ya no, I’m not always going to do what others want me to do.
/r/seduction17/11/19 11:55 PM
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I have something to say that I think you all should hear. I’m not the most confident person (imo) but I would’ve done exactly what you did. Like if she says she’s gonna sleep why the fuck would I persist in sex with someone that doesn’t want it? Especially imo if she says I should leave and I persist I feel like I’m chasing her which I wouldn’t want to do. Idk if that’s called abundance or whatever, but there are other girls who I know would like me, especially you said that you had sex already …
/r/seduction17/11/19 09:51 PM
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So next day, no Snapchat. Maybe I spelt it wrong, maybe she looked on the blank side of the paper and didn’t turn it around, maybe she doesn’t have SC, maybe she didn’t want to add. Idk. But I’m still proud of myself :D
/r/seduction26/07/19 07:45 PM
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Nah she didn’t, maybe I spelt it wrong, maybe she looked on the blank side of the paper and didn’t turn it around, maybe she doesn’t have SC, maybe she didn’t want to add. Idk.
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:52 AM
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Lead her somewhere and grab her hand in the process. Or upon hand shake look her in the eye and let the hands linger for a few seconds.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:33 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:52 AM
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Wow. Ok, I thought that was normal honestly lol. Thanks man!
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:52 AM
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Confidence? She said the same but how is this confidence? I just saw it as me talking to someone that’s in my class and saying that I like them. Many people tell me I am confident despite the fact that I still inwardly suffer from low self esteem and social anxiety so many “confident” acts I see as me just being me. So in this example how’d you describe this as confidence?
/r/seduction25/07/19 11:22 PM
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Reply to one of her stories or make a story that you know she’ll reply to. Ideally something that involves something she likes.
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:58 PM
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Calling out someone’s flaws or shameful aspects in funny ways.
/r/seduction19/07/19 07:37 PM
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Say something like i cant be friends with you cuz im still attracted to you but i dont want you out of my life which is why i still keep contact with you. BAM. Perfect friends with benefits reframe right there.
/r/seduction07/07/19 04:23 AM
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I see nothing wrong with double texting. But what really happened is she left me on “opened” once on snapchat messages. Then i sent her a snachat picture a few days later related to a joke we had and she ignored that aswell. Then the next time i saw her i approached her after class and she had a gigantic smile on her face and laughed and as i teased her her friend sitting beside us laughed at my joke so i know what i said was funny, but then she acted disrespectful immediately after the joke. I …
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:30 AM
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Good job man. We overpower these bitches lol jk
/r/seduction07/07/19 03:21 AM
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Loool what was your “dominance move”. A girl actually told me that forcing kisses upon girls works as long as she’s not putting up a lot of resistance. I even have experience that validates this.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:53 AM
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I disagree, I know a few people who have approached in lectures. But ya I hear you, I did my part and it’s up to her to meat me somewhere in the middle. I may or may not talk to her again but either way I’ll try not to attach myself to the situation too much.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:13 AM
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Still suffering from bullying trauma and thinking everyone hates me or being who I am. Which comes out as a fight or flight response towards any form of self expression on my part.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:05 AM
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I would’ve just went to talk to someone and put the drink down on a table close to me or something. Shit test or not I’m not holding no one’s fucking drink. I’ll guard it, but thats not occupying my hand for no more than a minute or so. That’s just me with everyone.
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:59 PM
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My gf did this. Honestly I’d just use a moment of dominance and forcefully take her shirt off or something. Since it would only last a second id gauge her reaction. Lots of times she wants you to pull some dominance shit which I’m completely against cuz it could either really backfire or go in your favour. But using playful force can work in these situations. Worst case she just leaves and in that case you had nothing to lose anyway.
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:53 PM
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Ya that’s why I didn’t chase her, she’s pretty expendable to me imo. So either way it doesn’t matter but if I did talk to her again (just regular playful banter) what do you think the result would be?
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:49 PM
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She’s turning 20 this year. But I feel like this is too subtle that if I call her out on it she can deny it. But it’s obvious enough that we all know what’s going on. I feel Iike she wants me more now because I’m the most talkative person in the lecture where everyone is otherwise autopilot and I know lots of people and I make them laugh because I’ve always been an extrovert so it’s pretty natural to me, I guess from a girls pov that registers as high status? My social media does a lot for me as…
/r/seduction06/07/19 11:04 PM
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Pua answer: Yes, go talk to other people and look attractive so if she comes back you look better, if she doesn’t then it’s no loss on you. My answer: Id just assume she really is coming back since I naturally look at situations that way, and after a time I deem too long I just move on to doing whatever I want after that. Because either she’s not coming back or she doesn’t respect me to keep me waiting that long so either way I’ll just leave.
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:52 PM
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Fucking right there. More decisive imo is even telling her what you want to do, ideally something u know she already likes.
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:45 PM
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If you know for a fact that she likes you I wouldn’t have said “we should hang out some time” instead “I’m doing/planning on doing xyz exciting thing this week and I want you to accompany me”. If she likes you enough she’ll give a solute yes but if she says sum bs like “why should I” I’d give a teasing lighthearted excuse making fun of her in a playful way. I guess they call that plausible deniability. This is so she gets the idea that the real reason is because you like her without actually say…
/r/seduction06/07/19 10:35 PM
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I’d just make a plausibly deniable reason to approach her so it looks like a situational approach (but she knows you saw her looking at you and she knows your approaching her) so now there is mutual attractions and both parties are aware of this fact. I’d continue studying, working etc and flirting with her simultaneously, using those silences while the both of you are studying and no one’s talking as opportunities to create tension. Then after studying I’d get her contact and leave or I’d just …
/r/seduction29/06/19 08:00 PM
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I don’t see that at all.
/r/seduction29/06/19 03:49 AM
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How?
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:57 PM
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Fair enough. So then moving on is the best choice. No big deal.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:24 AM
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RIIIIGHT!!! Isnt the goal to make your self ATTRACTive? Where they want you just by you being you? If your tricking them you believe you dont have anything thats passively attracting them and that they wouldnt make the conscious decision to sleep with you because your value isnt high enough.
/r/seduction04/04/19 08:04 PM
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something like that, i never read it.
/r/seduction04/04/19 07:58 PM
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Indicator of Disinterest. Do you even mystery method bro?
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:58 PM
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ya, it was pretty good
/r/seduction02/04/19 06:44 PM
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Only if your dealing with trauma, otherwise it’d be no real difference.
/r/seduction03/03/19 08:07 PM
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For respect learn personal boundaries, YouTube videos helped me on that. I used to game my friends for respect but it felt too energy draining and they stopped feeling like friends so I didn’t do it anymore
/r/seduction26/02/19 08:54 PM
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Short read https://krauserpua.com/2012/03/03/narcissism-and-codependency-in-the-puahb-dynamic/amp/ I’m interested in what you particularly think about this blog post
/r/seduction25/02/19 07:47 PM
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It’s clear manipulation but do u want to elaborate how it’s unethical?
/r/seduction25/02/19 04:22 AM
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Don’t let us gaslight you if u think it’s crazy ur entitled to your opinion. But I don’t see anything wrong with it cuz at the end of the day she’s still getting the sex she wants.
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:19 AM
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Lol what’s your dark triad score this is fuuuucking genius, light yagami type shit. Don’t delete this I’m definitely going to try it!
/r/seduction25/02/19 02:25 AM
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Ya, I read it.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:03 AM
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So natural, so non-gamey, took the rejection well. I like it.
/r/seduction18/02/19 01:10 AM
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Honestly, just fucking leave them.
/r/seduction17/02/19 04:52 AM
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I’m an undercover cop and I had to check you out cuz your ass looked suspicious.
/r/seduction16/02/19 08:53 PM
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YES! No confidence improvement when i took the general "just go out" advice from RSD. I approached in MANY different scenarios and my confidence didn't increase. With the underlying social anxiety I had from past trauma all my interactions felt like i was fighting against something and i never enjoyed any of my interactions. Needless to say that I didn't really get any better at game. Interestingly enough before my trauma induced social anxiety i was better with girls than i am now (even though …
/r/seduction16/02/19 07:51 AM
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Like honestly lol it’s not any harder than this^ Know what’s atttactive, be that or do that, give her a chance to pursue you and that’s it.
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:29 AM
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I think it strongly depends on the person. I like social circle or just social settings better cus I can frame it better in the way I want. On a soccer team example I’d gain passive attraction by just being social and charismatic since I’m a natural extrovert anyways. Let her see me in my “natural habitat” passionately playing soccer, being the centre of attention in social situations. Then after the 3rd week or so I’d talk to her in s group setting and I’d get everyone’s contact including hers.…
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:26 AM
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Where are these Todd videos I’m seeing on the forum coming from?
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:45 AM
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Game is so much easier than the community makes it. It isnt so logical as everyone thinks, it should be fun not some computer game as MANY people try to say it is. Incels don't exist to me. Just how Narcissists delude themselves of greatness, incels delude themselves to thinking they are far worse then they really are. Treating girls like shit actually works, but nowhere near as close as people claim you have to in order to achieve said results. Shit Tests should not be a thing. If you really ar…
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:52 PM
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LOL sorry man. Growing up from the time i was a kid I had both and i didnt think i was attractive until i was about 16 or so. However i did have a bit of positive reinforcement from my childhood friends growing up so that could've helped a bit.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:46 PM
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I agree 100%.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:44 PM
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I like how you fully understood what i said, you really are from Toronto lol.
/r/seduction18/01/19 08:41 PM
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Your blessed fam?
/r/seduction15/01/19 08:44 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction04/08/18 12:30 AM
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Maybe not, probably an ectomorph with high bodyfat and low muscle mass and round face genetics. But the fact that it does not appear that he knows he is severely underweight is yes rather alarming
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:13 PM
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Probably one of the most valuable posts on this subreddit, ive been saying the same thing to myself.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:51 AM
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105 and 5’11 wtf? Wat do u think ur bf% is?
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:44 AM
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I read it man
/r/askTRP17/05/18 06:43 AM
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How would you have handled it.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:58 AM
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Ikr id just answer with something witty but mostly direct, if she doesnt want to give it, not forcing her, next!
/r/askTRP16/05/18 10:57 AM
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“I havent even begun to peak.” - Dennis
/r/askTRP16/05/18 03:00 AM
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This sounds good, im gonna implement it.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:02 PM
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How do u interact with people? Are u urself (express ur weird hobbies and interests) or do u tailor urself to the person ur talking to? For the past few years ive been in either situations where im being authentic and people cant relate to me and feel like im weird, or where im being inauthentic and ppl love me. Its been botherine me everyday for the past couple years.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:59 AM
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Go watch RSD Max’s video “cold approach is dead” He talks about how u can get girls in settings u frequent: school, work, gym, hobbies, regular clubs. Basically he says if there is a certain girl, establish high value in the setting by becoming friends with everyone, then once ur the popular guy there start talking to the girl casually. The frame is “im talking to u as a friend/just being social with another person at the gym” but ur suppose to game her indirectly so she feels the attraction and…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 11:46 PM
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Exactly
/r/askTRP12/05/18 11:18 PM
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I did say irrational confidence “if u will” internal validation is the correct name for it yes.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/18 02:58 PM
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Yup. I was teased for being weird in grade 8 and developed social anxiety in gr9. Because of that i can say that my childhood ended at that time. Since having social anxiety obviously means you are not going to say whatever and let go since doing so would make others judge you which you are terrified of. Its pretty hard to be carefree when u are like this, hence why i say childhood ended at this moment.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 08:08 PM
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I always kind of thought all children had this intrinsic narcissism to them. I guess im realising now that not everyone had that “arrogant little shit” phase and some just really were shy from the time they were able to socialise.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 06:29 PM
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Ya up until age 8 i used to be “alpha” so to speak. Aggressively escalating on girls, showing blatant intent, literally telling everyone in my class who i liked and assuming attraction likewise. But authoritys said its wrong to be so sexually confident and so bold to the opposite gender. The seed for BP mentality was planted from there.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:28 PM
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Really? Not even at age 5 or so?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 05:27 PM
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When i think of enlightenment i think if childhood. Children in my perspective are the most alpha, self assured narcissistic mother fuckers on the planet. They KNOW their the shit even though they have nothing to back it up, theyre bold, they openly conflict with anyone who disagrees with them, they dont let petty shit get in the way of their goals and they dont think about the past, and very little in the future. They see the big picture and dont fuss on the menial things. If thats not the epit…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 01:56 PM
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Yea i go to the gym, quite often in fact. Also i read them and feel alot better, not gonna lie tho everything u said aside from the therapist piece made sense and im going to save it cus ive been literally trying to tell myself the same thing for a while, but i didnt really believe it since i had no proof.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:04 PM
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I made it through the conversations, idk i feel like a new person, like the me from earlier today just died, guess thats what facing ur crippling fears do to yah.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 02:37 AM
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Thats the thing, ive done the practical approach and ive come so far that if i were to tell people in my life that im socially anxious, no joke, theyd think im trolling and making fun of shy people, srs. This right here is what is holding me back and what was the cause of my anxiety i feel like if i face it, all will be done but at the same time i feel like some of my sanity my be gone aswell no joke.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:04 AM
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Thats great. Ultimately though ideally you want to be at a place where u have no physical abundance per say, but u give so little fucks that u dont care if she rejects you, despite not having anything else to fall back on. You want ur abundance to come solely from urself, not ur girls, not ur hobbies, not even ur body which im sure is fit since u lift. ^ IRRATIONAL CONFIDENCE, if u will
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 12:00 AM
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The fact that u even approached at the gym alone since its a huge taboo against it is great yo
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 06:53 PM
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😂😂 im literally saying the same thing
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 06:50 PM
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Completely agree hence why i felt the need to make a post. Youd think that after not having friends and aquaintances for 5 years that id become accustomed and learn to live without it but after getting into self improvement and telling myself that im getting better, the high and surge or positive emotions i got when i finally got a good social circle really showed me that i really was still depressed that entire time. Any other action you recommend i take aside from monk mode?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 07:15 PM
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