On positive/toxic masculinity BS

BrutalMan420 · 2018-05-17T04:55:34+00:00

Alright. Open up and talk to someone. Talk to a significant girl about your problems. Watch what happens when her coolguy isnt quite as cool as she thought. She’ll start looking at the cooler guys. Its just that simple man. Do what you want, TRP is just telling you what will happen if you do it. Also I dont think TRP defines a man by his N count. Masculinity, as I have witnessed it here, is being in control and inside your frame, your reality at all times and always progressing toward your goals with minimal obstruction.

BurnieSlander · 2018-05-17T07:42:10+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with opening up- just don’t open up to women. If you need to talk shit out- talk to another man. Females are wired to seek out the strongest males, so showing weakness does not serve you in any way.

In regards to sex- seeing sex as an act of validation I think is somewhat immature. Sex is enjoyable in and of itself, so using it as a reason to feel good doesn’t seem particularly healthy.

The stereotype of the badass dude who bangs a lot of chicks exists because, after you bang a lot of chicks, you realize that it’s not that big of a goddamn deal, and you start focusing on other more meaningful aspects of life. Of course then girls want you more because you are this mysterious dude who plows through shit tests with ease and who genuinely does not give a fuck about receiving validation from females, so the legend of your manliness grows, and other dudes say wow he’s the man cause he bags pussy on the reg, when really all that pussy is just a side effect of not giving a fuck about pussy and being a man on a mission. It’s ironic.. “ask and you shall receive” is not nearly as powerful as “give not a fuck and you shall receive”.

aguywholifts · 2018-05-17T06:51:13+00:00

i didn't watch your video, but to answer your main question:

i disagree with the notion that we don't need external validation that a lot of guys seem to shun others for on here. we are human. humans are social and require external validation. we all want to be liked and well received. do i think we should seek it out? no. but i do think it's a requirement for all of us to have. i agree that sex is probably the best form of external validation. i don't know where i stand on the topic of sex equating to being a man, because while i obviously don't think it's necessary, i feel pretty fucking manly when i'm balls deep and she's calling me daddy.

Got2B22 · 2018-05-18T00:47:08+00:00

Women should not validate you as a man. if anything, this is what the red pull teaches, that women have a very skewed decision making when it comes to finding a mate

I remember watching that documentary, into the abyss I think, about inmates on death row. A decent looking female lawyer ended up sneaking semen out of prison from a convicted murderer to have his child...

Yeah, um, not going to be basing my validation on females desire to reproduce with me

and point

Opening up for men is over rated. Needing to open up all the time means that you are probably too emotional. We are given the gift of logic, it doesn't get female panties wet, at least not directly, but it does teach us that most of the emotions we feel are unfounded

look, if u want to winge to a male buddy of yours about something then do it, but for the long term learn to develop skills of not getting so emotional to begin with (stoicism) and also doing practical things that actually solve your problems "girls don't like me!!!!" = start learning game

CC_ee · 2018-05-18T11:56:38+00:00

I had no one to talk to about it at all... But that seems to be a direct contradiction to theredpill.

TRP never says don't talk about your problems.

real man has had/has lots of sex?

Real man does whatever the fuck he wants.

claim to be a man, when you are honestly, a complete failure?

Failure is a necessary precursor to success. Did you never watch Rocky man?

" But it ain't about how hard you hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!"

Do we NOT need external validation?

No...

I think that pretending that we "don't need" external validation or that we can simply generate "internal validation" is equivalent to the fat acceptance movement...

You clearly don't understand what it is to be "alpha"

maintain any type of relationship if i have to be perfect?

Perfect? What?

Title	On positive/toxic masculinity BS
Author	cobalt1728
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 17, 2018 4:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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