AutofillGreenmember Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Girlfriend receiving a call and taking it in your presence? Obviously red flag, nice noticing, but poor response. I’m with the go quiet for a few days and let her stew approach. I think moving forward, either end it or demote depending on how serious you are with her. Previous post says college senior, meaning plenty of other fish.	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 11:29 AM
5	Using THC or CBD to help with anxiety? You can try either, but I’ve found that too much weed can actually make my anxiety worse. I haven’t tried purely CBD, but that might be the best bet.	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 10:49 AM
1	Feedback needed on unsuccessful Tinder date Depending on what you’re going for here, you can play off the hotel room as something casual. She doesn’t know or really need to know you can’t bring her home because of your Dad/Grandad. Maybe you’re getting a hotel because you’re doing renovations or some other bullshit. You can work around the ASD that might come up with a hotel room. Just remember that whatever hotel you take her to will be judged, find one that has great value. It’s also a short term solution to a longer term problem.	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 10:18 AM
3	Anyone explain what happened here? Bingo, Bill’s wife is clearly lying lol. Vague remembrance could work, just prepare for the inevitable shit tests that will follow if you choose to pursue.	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 10:00 AM
1	Feedback needed on unsuccessful Tinder date I’d say the advice on changing venue doesn’t need to mean bouncing from one bar to the next is a super solid one. Personally, I’d say whatever happened at the first bar didn’t necessarily work and then you doubled down at a second. Mixing it up and getting her away from the phone should’ve been the move. There’s also a possibility she deemed your SMV too low from the start, hence the avoidance of tab and buried in phone. She’s displaying to you she has other options and is actively exploring the…	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 09:56 AM
1	Does matching personality matter? If they already exist, that is definitely a positive. Should make for easier conversation through previous experiences and if the relationship develops past plate status then can help maintain a connection. Also gives you a few easy date ideas. The only thing here that I would watch is that these are YOUR interests before her, meaning that just because she’s around doesn’t mean you stop doing them without her. IE: If your girl is a decent golfer, does that mean you forgo all of the Saturday’s an…	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 09:37 AM
3	Does matching personality matter? Seems BP101 to me. Remember, you’re focused on your mission and purpose. She needs to be an accessory to that. Part of good screening is making sure the women you keep around fit YOUR mission not hers otherwise you will come off as an orbiter. With that being said, I will pick up a hobby or interest with a FWB or LTR to deepen the connection so long it is something I’m truly interested in.	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 09:25 AM
3	Why do i feel nervous asking a long time fwb to come over to mine to hang/fuck? Inviting her over in the situation you’re speaking of is in a way changing the dynamic you have set in place and could be what’s causing this for you, but the larger thing here is probably the oneitis. Are you spinning other plates? If she’s hinted at wanting more and is going away for a few months I say you bite the bullet, eat that anxiety and invite her over. While she’s gone stay in touch at a minimal level and she should be game to plate again once she’s back. If you’re not spinning others …	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 09:20 AM
1	A girl I've been seeing went from having super hard feelings for me and showing it to ignoring me and completely changing in a matter of days. What did I do wrong? What can I do going forward? Since it seems like the common census here is that you fucked this one up and need to go dark with the girl and allow her to reach out if you want any hopes of this resolving itself, I’m only going to comment on the STD/pain after sex.... Im almost certain that a large majority (if not all) of STD’s won’t bring you pain immediately after sex, it is likely that this chick probably has a poorly placed or newer IUD (or other sort of implant BC) if all else seemed normal (ie: proper lubrication) thi…	/r/askTRP	29/08/19 08:59 AM