| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 821 | I was a bit creepy but it works out | Field Report | Automatic_Beautiful9 | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 08:14 AM |
| 179 | Easy pick up today | Field Report | Automatic_Beautiful9 | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 09:13 PM |
| 89 | picking up as a waiter | Field Report | Automatic_Beautiful9 | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 11:24 AM |
| 32 | At supermarkets | Field Report | Automatic_Beautiful9 | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 09:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| -1 | How to stay away from logical conversation?I make stupid comments. For example if we have food I will ask: how’s the food. She will say it’s good or sth like that. I will ask : does this taste as good as you ;) | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Easy pick up todayWhen she read out her number, type it in your phone. Confirm it again by reading the numbers out loud, but read 1 digit wrong on purpose. If it's real, she would correct you | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:32 PM |
| 1 | At supermarkets20 | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Yeah I tend to do awesome at first approachs but not many are interested after the 2nd meeting. Luckily I approach a lot and although the numbers are small, there are enough girls who are interested;)) | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | I find cold approach addictiveI literally ask them hey, can I get your number? more often than not, it works. Sometimes I say that I have a poem for them. Idk I feel like asking them how is your day as a stranger is more awkward 😀 | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Women want a man with an edge and some balls. Looks and status aren’t enoughTrue but its very easy to improve your appearance. Workout, buy nice clothes,.. Men judge women with looks more than women judge men for looks. She puts effort in to be pretty, dont expect them to like you without putting in any effort | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 05:01 AM |
| 19 | [India] my therapist just told me that cold approaches don't work in this societyI usually just say sth about what they are doing. So at a cafe a girls reading a book. I will ask what is she reading. Then straight up ask for her numbers. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Easy pick up todayasking for social medias usually dont mean anything. they just need more followers. of course it could be but when you get the numbers its more personal | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 06:44 AM |
| 3 | Pro Tip: Stop thinking about seductionSave me from that one pussy, more opportunities for others | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 06:25 AM |
| 5 | Pro Tip: Stop thinking about seductionI don't fuck with these shit tests. I move on to the next girl. You would be surprise how much headache this saves me | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 03:33 AM |
| 3 | The MAJORITY of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction must come PRIOR to the creation of any attraction, not vice versa. (WARNING! This message may be triggering to any negative Nancies among us.)Honestly if you spend time on yourself most people can be attractive. Go to the gym, work and have money, buy nice clothes | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 02:06 AM |
| 3 | The MAJORITY of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction must come PRIOR to the creation of any attraction, not vice versa. (WARNING! This message may be triggering to any negative Nancies among us.)Its true, but to a certain degree. My girlfriends straight up told me they would never date these guys(some dudes we know). However there was a girl who I eavesdropped on a phone call saying she doesn't like being approached by strangers. However she gave me her phone numbers after | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 02:03 AM |
| 2 | How do I get over the fear of appearing and being known as the "thirsty desperate dude" when approaching?Lol I cold approach and ask at work as well. Same success rate | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 08:08 AM |
| 5 | To attract girls how can i seem confident even if i'm insecure?Yes, if you ask a lot eventually. Once in the tube I just made eye contact with a girl once for 0.5s and said this and she gave me her number. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:07 PM |
| 8 | To attract girls how can i seem confident even if i'm insecure?I am Asian in the us Well the 2 races that the success rate are absurdly low are white British and British born Asian. For white it’s maybe 1/10 and The latter 1/15. Asians that’s not born in the UK is the highest for me, 50%. Which makes sense I guess | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 03:05 PM |
| 10 | To attract girls how can i seem confident even if i'm insecure?I was awkward and still am. However I am brave enough to cold approach. Most of the time I don’t introduce myself. I just say hey, can I have your number. Success rate depends heavily by ethnicity but overall getting contacts are 1/5 | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nah, there will always be some people. Plenty of fit computer science major girls. Just ask out more people, there will be some girls who's into you | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 07:55 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Find someone else that isn't intimidated by you. I'm not like a bodybuilder but I am in shape. So not in shape girls just shy away from me. I am attracted to them but most of them are too intimidated. I do keep approaching girls that I like, if they say no, move on | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 06:19 AM |
| 22 | [deleted by user]There have been posts about this issue on this sub. It will take a while for women to be not intimidated, just like they are still evolving to ask guys out. Just assure them you like them physically and it should be fine | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 04:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Really doesn't matter what you say as long as it's not exceptionally rude. If you want anything from her just ask. | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No it's not wrong, it's what most people should do. Just not correct in my case. I worked as a waiter and get more tips when I'm extra friendly(I'm not like that at all, I don't care about them do and don't want to tell them my hobbies) I really like goth girls. I ask a friend to help me pick some clothes and results are significantly better. It's not even black, it just looks fancy. But it's not me at all, idgaf and cba to do this although I really like how I looked. However I like other types … | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't wanna act differently just to attract girls lol. Obviously if I can talk better and be more confident I will have better results in all race. I think I dress okay, but if I try more I will get better results, but I'm not into fashion that much so it takes effort. The general consensus is Asians dress more fashionable than westerns, my mates from UK, us and Canada all says that however I barely see any Asians(oriental) guy with other races. Oh yeah black and Latino girls really like Asian… | /r/seduction | 19/11/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Tinder DiscussionThis is true but it doesn't hurt to have tinder. I got some dates when I was swiping on my break | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 12:14 PM |
| 6 | How to get girls to reject me earlier so i waste less time and get less annoyedJust ask them do you wanna date me or whatever you are after. Any answer except yes means no. Answers like let me think about it, sure, but don't stop approaching | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 07:07 AM |
| 3 | I think my girlfriend was subdley flirting with someone in front of meI worked as a waiter and have got some numbers | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 08:35 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]My overall rate is 1/4. However whenever I ask white girls it's like 1/10. Asian and brown is like 50% | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on wearing headphones when outYes it's very good on the pros. However it's not worth 250. Even the airpods are overpriced af | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 04:06 PM |
| 7 | Opinions on wearing headphones when outThere is transparency mode in airpods | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | picking up as a waiterThinking back again I kinda knew that. But I wanted something short term while I feel like she wants something long term. I was thinking if I escalate the situation quickly things could change, it didn't work out but honestly no regrets | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I cold approach even when I dont make eye contact before. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 04:11 AM |
| 0 | Why is that nowadays I don’t having any concern for women.There are certain things I will always keep doing but I will mix up a little. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | picking up as a waiterWhen I did that no one texts me back. Even this girl. We added each other on insta. She finished work way earlier than me and don't text me first | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 12:04 PM |
| 1 | picking up as a waiterIf she gave you a fake one it just makes it awkward... | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I get rejected 4/5 times | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah, code names are good. But it really doesn't matter what you say. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 08:41 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]If you see any girl that you like, ask her out. Sure, it's great if you already hang a few times. But if not, just ask. Especially in uni where it's easy | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 2 | picking up as a waiterThis might have been the case. Will be aware of next time | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 07:38 PM |
| 2 | picking up as a waiterYou are correct, I think you misunderstand my words As I said, since she made such an effort, I didn't bother correct her since I knew it's real. But normally I do this to weed out fake numbers | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | picking up as a waiterIf I add every number, when I text them I will need to wait for a while to know that it's them. Same for calling, they might not even pick up and if its a stranger it's unlikely they call back. Out of 100 approaches, 10 has given me fake numbers. Why should I waste my time waiting when I can just know exactly if the numbers are worth calling/texting or not?? | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 3 | picking up as a waiterIt's faster to know and I don't add a rando in my contacts | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 03:30 PM |
| 27 | Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her homeThis happened but we only kissed not hooked up yet. Her friends grab her and pull her to go home. I stopped them and said 'sorry, I'm taking her home'. She got red and they were laughing. We went back to her place after that. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Better options come | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 10:54 AM |
| 1 | At supermarketsYou flirted with the workers. We are all students so no one's gonna report me to the store manager if I ask for her numbers. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | At supermarketsIt seems like you only watched re:zero. | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 08:54 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys approach a woman you've made eye contact with outside/in the club?Talk to them? | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned after 450+ approaches in 2 monthsDamn hard work. For me if I want a proper ons/fling then 15-20 usually. Races however makes it skewed. My highest percentage is Indian with 45% while lowest is Asian born American/UK at 3%( I'm Asian) | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 04:23 PM |
| 2 | My first approachIdk how good u look. But if u r average like me, expect to be rejected a lot. But it’s a numbers game | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get a GF [I don't think its working, Need some tips] [20M]Literally anywhere that you see girls your age come. For me in my early 20s I go to street markets, gigs, nightclub, concerts, festivals,... It could be anywhere, I picked up a girl in a bus stop before. If u see a fit girl, go for it | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get a GF [I don't think its working, Need some tips] [20M]You approached 4 girls in a month. Unless you are super hot, you won't get anywhere. I get rejected 7,8/10 times but I approach like 50 girls so around 10 girls will give me their numbers, 5 will ghost me, 2 will flakes and it leaves me with 3. Which is fine since I realistically only need one. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | I was a bit creepy but it works outExplain how am I mad? | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 07:22 PM |
| 0 | I was a bit creepy but it works outDamn it harms no one and you have to be mad | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lmao those pua are full of shit. Do your own thing. I once brought my Pokémon cards collection and offer to exchange one card for their numbers and it still works | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol, I don't only say these things. Just whatever floats the boat. It really doesn't matter what you say, just be natural about it, whether they see through or not doesn't matter, what matters is is she interested or not | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 06:44 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Keep thinking like that and you won’t. I get rejected 80% of the time. However I make the 20% worth it | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Eventually success will come | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 08:57 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Obviously I will say sth first, like ask for directions... It was just unlucky that today the success rate is lower than usual | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 13 | I was a bit creepy but it works outMaybe 1 in 5 numbers. They usually just reject me tho. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 08:57 PM |
| 9 | I was a bit creepy but it works outAngrypicnic, thatwasepic, Steven Shapiro, Jimmy Zhang. I watched these channels, it was so funny I just decided to cold approach | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 06:09 PM |
| 4 | I was a bit creepy but it works outSure. if there is a better way I would do it. But I will do tr same thing again if it can't be helped(to get her number) | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 71 | I was a bit creepy but it works outI'm not gonna tell her it's fake. If it's fake I save time by not saving her number | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Went to a bar/dance club solo. Didn't know how to approach a girl to dance on the dancefloor. How do I approach this.I see a lot of questions how to approach a girl at x situation. Just do it. You will gain experience overtime. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 09:36 AM |
| 62 | I was a bit creepy but it works outThat was my plan but I was asleep. She went ahead. I'm gonna quit this job soon and I am not sure she will be here anymore(probably but you never know). | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 09:19 AM |
| 2 | Does she spark something in you, or are you trying to force chemistry for your own validation? Your level of authentic attraction is also crucial for successYes. However I find myself having more success in short terms when I use my ‘game’ then being myself, sure some likes it but not many | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 22 | Does she spark something in you, or are you trying to force chemistry for your own validation? Your level of authentic attraction is also crucial for successWhich is perfect for a fling. You don’t get attached | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls while they are in groups can actually be better than when they are alone.Unless I’m truly impressed I cba to compliment her dragon tattoos | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls while they are in groups can actually be better than when they are alone.If there is something you find that stands out to compliment. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | I have never been on a date 24 maleIf you want to, do it. If you see a hot girl, even on the street, talk to her. Since you never dated you will be a bit awkward and she probably says no. But so what? Keep trying, you will get confident as you approach more women. When I ask people out, I get rejected 70% of the time. But I focus on the 30% and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Women at the gym.It will be weird. But if you have to, talk to her when shes on a break. If she's doing a set, don't. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Under 21 dates that can lead to escalation?Well I guess I don’t know your families dynamic. But I have kinda the same but it’s with my aunt and uncle(not retired but are home every night) and their daughter who brings her bf home every Friday night and no one really cares | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Under 21 dates that can lead to escalation?Talk to them? How old are you? If it's legal age literally no parents will refuse unless they are really religious | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Under 21 dates that can lead to escalation?Your parents don't allow you to bring a girl overnight? | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsThe point is your sisters not wrong But it's obvious. Who doesn't know a girl likes a guy who has a good body? Just like men like women that has a nice body | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsYeah girls said they like abs as well . Some say they prefer a handsome face, some say want 6ft guy. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsI mean you don't really need to ask. When I say 'linda is cute' they all became dating coaches | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 04:07 AM |
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