Tinder Discussion

Therocksays2020 · 2021-11-18T08:03:09+00:00

Make a little rapport and ask for a date fairly quickly.

Getting snaps just makes you a fan. Going on a date is how you escalate to something physical

JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-11-18T08:30:24+00:00

I work with a young girl who was showing me her app. 90% if guys send messages like "so where are you from, what do you do for work, where do live". It's utterly boring and unexciting. She is a 23 year old who just wants to meet a strong, confident leader type who will take her on adventures and bang her brains out. Behave like that kind of guy and you will have success.

Wall2Ryan · 2021-11-18T10:30:46+00:00

My tinder success rate is rather low but still very viable...skip the small talk, what's your IG ?

IG is actually the best dating app hands down, every girl has an IG, so this will weed out the fake accounts and add some security to her to know you're not a creep . Also you can comment on her stories which can open up different convos to eventually meet up...sadly tinder is getting worse with time tbh

pufrfsh · 2021-11-18T08:32:45+00:00

Skip the boring and basic questions about education, work, etc. We get tired of those quickly and it’s boring to answer over and over again. Instead ask some super unique questions or thought-provoking questions. If/when you get a really engaging answer and can riff on it, that’s what starts the banter. Then give your phone number and/or set up the date.

byteseed · 2021-11-18T08:38:36+00:00

Do not use Tinder. 10% of Tinder guys are banging 90% of Tinder ladies. Another 90% are just swipe and pay. Chances are simply not in your favor.

You will learn much more, get better experiences, meet wonderful women by doing cold approach.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-11-18T12:25:49+00:00

Honestly, the conversation doesn't have to be too complicated, small talk works fine. My go to is to simply ask how her week/weekend is going and then talk about mine. It doesn't matter too much because what's most important is to propose a date after exchanging a few messages into the conversation.

When you match a girl, they just want to make sure you're not a creep or loser, so having small talk is good because it shows you're just a normal dude. Once you've established you're a normal guy, drop the line "hey we should grab a drink soon, what do you think?"

If the girl is serious about being on the apps, then she'll say yes. Then you ask for her number (I prefer IG) to figure out the time and place. Then, you establish logistics in the DMs/texting. This flow works perfectly for me.

mollie777 · 2021-11-18T16:37:29+00:00

Yes, there's definitely a pattern to follow you must open well and go into teasing and banter or cold reads and challenge her and after a few text you go into meeting her for a drink...That's the only thing that helps all the time...Dm me directly and I can give you advice...

Master-Grapefruit-66 · 2021-11-18T19:38:32+00:00

Once you get the snap the key key key thing is use voice messages. Dont care if its out of your comfort zone. Voice messages set u apart from the pack in a big way

BrummieAMN19 · 2021-11-19T11:32:50+00:00

Go for the phone number not snapchat first and foremost, you'll stand out compared to the other sea of orbiters spamming girls' snaphchats like a retard. In text game you follow these fundamental steps; Opener-Building investment/vibing-qualification-soft close-hard close-confirming the date.

Type in playing with fire on Youtube for further analysis on text game and you'll be a slayer in the online game

One-Hedgehog4722 · 2021-11-18T07:20:15+00:00

I’ve got some good ones

NoRefrigerator1012 · 2021-11-19T00:35:37+00:00

Short banter, then when the feels are good, throw in a time and place to meet up for drinks or coffee and leave it at that.

Title	Tinder Discussion
Author	gamebredbull
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	November 18, 2021 6:59 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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