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Yes, its much better to make friends with a girl vs getting friendzoned. There were times i just friended the girl instead of trying anything and lo and behold, eventually they started calling me out for not trying to get with them, tho that was never my intention from beginning plus some of them did hook me up with their girlfriends
/r/seduction07/11/24 07:52 PM
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Thats a great point, theres alot of guys who get zero signals from women, they would be waiting a very long time to find a “warm approach”. Other issue is the point of Waiting for a sign, waiting on other people means not taking initiative on something you want , training yourself to wait for a signal .
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:37 PM
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Theres also women who are very interested but get so nervous they come off as uninterested and actively avoid discomfort by not engaging w/ no energetic pull. Then theres women who arent interested at all but then you say or do something that creates attraction then they are interested. This happens all the time in sales, with people not interested in buying anything then walk out the door with a purchase because the seller hooked them somehow. So op saying never approach those women is not grea…
/r/seduction04/11/24 06:34 PM
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Interesting you would say dont approach a girl who pays no attention to you, when many girls admit thats exactly how they act with a guy they are attracted to, for various reasons.
/r/seduction04/11/24 03:26 PM
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Think about people who stand outside of stores etc looking for donations. The first thing they typically say has to do with asking for money, sometimes they get money but alot of times they get rejected. If they instead started a conversation and connected with the other person, then eventually asked for money, that person will feel more inclined to give money because of the human connection that was made. Telling a girl shes mad cute right off the bat is really no different, she instantly knows…
/r/seduction03/11/24 02:12 PM
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This is exactly why chicks dont like nice guys, because they are putting on a fake act to these women and then their true colors eventually come out, just like this dickface
/r/seduction08/10/24 12:38 AM
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Well thats why they should be real masculine, you have to step into masculinity, its not just handed to you. And the toxic part was just the fact that that is what women respond to, they lust over bad boys in their early years, some are obsessed with men in jail, etc. which i believe stems from a perverted belief they think the man provides safety, because he is dangerous. But if being yourself means being a nice guy that gets walked all over, then you have to change what being yourself is unfor…
/r/seduction03/10/24 08:16 PM
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Whats odd and misleading about it? Just be yourself is probably the worst advice you can give someone who is having issues attracting women, they need to upgrade who they are so that the new version of just being themselves does start to attract women. Some people need perspective changes.
/r/seduction03/10/24 07:39 PM
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Personally i would because this is just how i am, im constantly joking and messing with people i like, especially women i like, but for mutual fun, not one sided. Playing practical jokes, roasting etc. This keeps it so the girl doesnt get bored as well, which seems to be a reason chicks leave, out of boredom, assholes and real toxic guys def do not bore women, women love the drama. Also ive noticed at times when i have fallen for girls, i actually had stopped this kinda behavior and then slowly …
/r/seduction03/10/24 06:42 PM
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Yea exactly, or if she drops the friendzone thing, you could tell her “sure, im open to friends with benefits with you” but you dont accept just platonic friends, in that case you leave.
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:28 PM
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Ok so for masculine , lets take leadership. So leading the interaction, lets say youre walk somewhere and you put your hand on her back and lead her, direct her to where you want to go, or taking her hand and leading her confidently somewhere is one example, not asking her for permission just doing things confidently - “we are going here and doing xyz, whatever - Not - hey do you want to go here, do you want to do xyz with me? Hypermasculine might just be exaggerating those masculine qualities, …
/r/seduction03/10/24 03:25 PM
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Displaying masculine traits..sometimes hyper masculine or “toxic” traits - (doesnt mean you have to actually be a toxic person). We all know most women go through bad boy stage in their early years - attracted to toxic traits in men..then later they complain about toxic men, possibly because they got their hearts broken by them or werent able to control those men. Regardless, these traits are turning these women on.
/r/seduction02/10/24 09:53 PM
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I thought we were friends…gotta give us more about what was being said before she said this, how did she say it, etc, context matters, could be a test, could be something else, could be just friends
/r/seduction02/10/24 04:59 PM
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Does this mean you allow the man to be the leader in the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/24 03:43 PM
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Yea for sure, its concerning and very telling how many women get upset. I watched a youtube video once titled “you are not the father compilation”. Man its heart breaking, men have to be vigilant
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:37 AM
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Yea, not sure what the percentage of total fathers that is. I think DNA testing should become a requirement before signing birth certificates. For women too, the possible numbers of accidental baby swapping at hospitals is pretty wild too
/r/seduction06/09/24 06:23 AM
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I know…30-40% of men who have taken DNA tests are not the father of their child they thought they were
/r/seduction06/09/24 04:55 AM
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They want the good genes, just like men do, but women also look for security in relationships, men who stick around for them.
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:53 PM
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Short term hook up - they want a sexy man. Longterm relationship - security is much more important to them, someone who will stick around and support them, etc. Attractive man, more likely not to stick around. One strategy is hooking up with a sexy guy then shortly after securing a long term with a not so attractive man, and who knows who the father is, thank god we have DNA testing.
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:52 PM
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Actually come across something i didnt consider before, baby swapping at hospitals, saw estimates of 18 babies per year up to 500k per year, which sounds pretty ridiculous, but just the fact it can happen makes me more inclined to suggest both parents do it, why not
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/24 12:37 AM
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Crawl, walk, run. We arent born being able to run, there are stages. Start by crawling, could be asking a random question like directions etc or making a random comment, nice shoes etc whatever, think about all the times youve done things like this to random people you felt nothing for and start doing it to women you are attracted towards and learn to do it without expectations, like getting her number or whatever, that comes later, or you can go ahead and start trying for that and dealing with …
/r/seduction04/09/24 03:37 PM
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Yea, i mean it makes sense, women are the gateway into this world and nature demands the best, human evolution wants the best. And due to modern DNA testing, we now know 30-40% of men who get tested, are not the biological father of their children, which they had previously thought they were. The question is, if every father and child were tested, would those numbers go up or down with a bigger testing pool. Sad but gotta face reality.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/24 12:30 AM
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“Hypergamy means that women would rather go home alone than with the second place winner.” - however, this doesnt mean that they do go home alone , there is no security in “going home alone” or being single , this is why many settle for men that arent necessarily their first choice, security & provisioning. “This is why men are allowed to cheat and women arent”. - no gender is allowed to cheat, but you could say that if the man is her hypergamous best and he cheats then yes she might stay, becau…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/24 06:22 AM
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If you dont make a move some girls take it as rejection, and to preserve their ego they might think “oh maybe hes gay”. Also if youre really good looking and dont make a move it may not line up with their perception of you, there is incongruency (hes hot he must hook up alot, but wait he didnt try hooking up with me, i wonder why, maybe hes gay)
/r/seduction25/08/24 08:02 PM
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Ok man, anytime a girl comments or talks about things involving sex (when she said “you must be good at it-eating vag”). In my experience this is a clear sign she wants to get intimate with you. This also suggests that when she said “i only have sex until im committed” is a lie (girls will do this so they dont feel responsible if it happens “i told him i didnt have sex b4 commitment so its not my fault we did”). Also, if she wasnt interested in sex with you at all, she may never have brought it …
/r/seduction25/08/24 05:55 PM
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Same…however, i tend to act extremely cocky with girls that i like. To me its just fun and jokes and i dont really mean alot if things i say but have been told i give off player vibes, or have this big ego (even tho i think im very humble, like i said im just joking w em) funny enough i saw a research article that showed women find cockiness more attractive than confidence.
/r/seduction23/08/24 05:39 PM
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You can try Wear sunglasses and hold eye contact with whomever, can even position your head to make it appear youre looking a diff direction. At least youre getting the practice in this way.
/r/seduction21/08/24 05:10 AM
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SMV is just perceived value for sexual relationships, it can be different for everyone and for many reasons. Women tend to get more attention when they are younger, for men when they are older. If a man wants to have a big family and the woman is close to menopause, then she is of lower value to him, just like if a woman wants a big family and the man is on welfare, he is of lower value to her. There is just soo many examples of how this can play out. If a girl is going through a bad boy stage t…
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/24 05:21 PM
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Its not just intelligence but how you convey your intelligence. Its not what you say but how you say it. That why 2 comedians can get on stage and say the same joke, one gets laughs the other doesnt, it was all about the delivery.
/r/seduction19/08/24 05:04 AM
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insemination promotes life, so feeling happy after being inseminated makes sense to me, i have heard that when a female orgasms it sucks the semen deeper into the canal through rhythmic muscular contractions that increases the chances of conceiving
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/24 01:05 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/all-about-sex/201101/attention-ladies-semen-is-antidepressant
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/24 08:30 PM
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Men dont care
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/24 05:08 PM
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Her-“i have a boyfriend”. You - “ ok cool, i like your energy, we should keep in touch , whats your number/ig”. You will get some girl’s numbers this way, send a few texts, then move on, she may hit you up later on if shes interested, lying about having a bf or broke up with bf
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:14 PM
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Transfer me your knowledge
/r/seduction23/07/24 02:38 AM
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It depends on what youre crying about
/r/seduction23/07/24 02:05 AM
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Girls will say they have a type but in reality they dont, its whoever makes her feel a certain way is really her type, and you get better at making them feel a certain way the more practice you get approaching, and its not a waste even if you know you get rejected thats another loss under your belt, the best lessons you learn are through loss
/r/seduction18/07/24 01:04 AM
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Big difference..men with a high body count had to work for it, women can have sex whenever they want. When women have sex they release oxytocin - bonding hormone. After each subsequent partner, women break these emotional bonding ties, making it harder to emotionally bond after every sexual encounter with new partner. Men only release oxytocin when they feel love for the women, otherwise just dopamine. Theres an australian girl on internet whose trying to have 365 sexual partners in 365 days, wh…
/r/seduction14/07/24 06:21 PM
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I would say yea absolutely, knock on her door, say youre going somewhere and seeing if she wanted to tag along, if not maybe another time, grab digits, less pressure the better considering your neighbors
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:45 PM
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One easy trick that might help, is when youre looking at the girl, look at her like you want to fuck her, even better if you get an erection, that energy you build is projecting to her and she may pick up on it and feel it and get aroused. Try doing more with your body language and your eyes, i would eye fuck this girl like crazy and she later told me shed feel really hot when i was around her
/r/seduction07/07/24 02:41 AM
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Taller women tend to have a harder time. I remember seeing a girl i thought was very attractive, she was 6’3 and made lots of videos complaining about dating and not getting guys.
/r/seduction05/07/24 05:27 PM
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There are many girls that just want sex but when you verbalize it to them they may lose attraction, they want sex from men who dont care about having sex with them.
/r/seduction05/07/24 03:08 PM
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I “shit test” them all the time, but its more of a a flirting tactic/joking around , kinda like roasting, if i roast her and she gives it back then its fun, if shes all nice then not soo much fun but could still connect, if she doesnt get it then we probably not a good match
/r/seduction01/07/24 07:13 PM
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I think mixing both is the best formula. I remember reading a study polling women, confidence was #2 for them, cocky was #1 for attraction. Attraction doesnt mean trust, so to get them to trust and be comfortable with you, cue the chill & relaxed vibes.
/r/seduction01/07/24 04:21 PM
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Women are “always single” , they are survival creatures always looking to optimize their situation. Boyfriends are just place holders until they tie the knot, if she tells you she has a boyfriend then back off, if she doesnt tell you then shes possibly looking to upgrade. But i think most men arent attracted to a girl thats married but isnt it funny how women will be attracted to men who are married.
/r/seduction10/06/24 01:51 PM
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Just like women like mystery, men like it too. You need to maintain an air of mystery. Also, these behaviors you are displaying are turning them off, when men display similiar behaviors it makes women lose attraction as well, it happens to both genders. You need to vary your excitement with them, its ok to do it sometimes but all the time and no good. If you do it once, then next time you dont do it, man wonders what happened and tries harder to get that response back from you
/r/seduction09/06/24 03:11 AM
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Usually when you tell a joke, you dont wait until the following day when confronted about it to say its a joke, sounds like he used the joke excuse but was really gauging howd youd respond in the moment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/24 12:45 AM
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You offer them a way out and they look for reasons to stay where they are at, its like giving a homeless man money and they use it to buy crack instead of trying to somehow get themselves out of the situation
/r/seduction07/06/24 08:16 PM
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Yup, also doesnt sound like someone who approached thousands of women, i call bullshit
/r/seduction05/06/24 03:08 PM
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Cold texting? How did you get her number in the first place?
/r/seduction05/06/24 05:03 AM
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I understand, but its human nature. Men do it to other men as well to see if hes strong or weak. It is what it is, if the bad behavior continues then you hit the eject button.
/r/seduction03/06/24 05:16 AM
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Yea sometimes they will reject you to see how you handle it, you freak out then game over, you keep your cool they feel safe and ready to bang, similar thing happened to me
/r/seduction03/06/24 03:10 AM
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😂
/r/seduction03/06/24 03:08 AM
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Men can and have done these things but its not hard wired into us. Females have a different mating strategy than us, we want the best genetics while women want the best genetics but they also need protection and provisioning. Very dangerous to be with a dude who cant protect you from other dangers, so they have to shit test us to see what kind of man we really are. Weak men fold easy, get emotional, strong men dont. They also have a reproduction window that plays with their mental state, men do …
/r/seduction02/06/24 11:51 PM
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I wouldnt say its total BS, ive seen it personally when a girl im not interested in is talking to me and annoying me and i start insulting her and she gets more attracted to me. I mean to me its similar to insulting my friends, not trying to really hurt their feelings, and im sorta playing around but also annoyed by the chick. Many men might have this experience but dont realize this works on all kinds of women when its done correctly.
/r/seduction02/06/24 04:22 PM
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Yes i do agree about making her beg by teasing her in regards to sex, im just talking about initial sexual interaction with the first kiss. There are some articles out there saying how the first kiss could be the most important part as far as sexual first impressions go, even more important than sex. I havent read enough about that to say i agree completely, but i do think first kisses are very important. One way this might make sense, is think about all the movies you ever seen that had kiss sc…
/r/seduction02/06/24 06:12 AM
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Yup, sounds right
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:55 AM
1

Yes i agree she needs to feel safe and comfortable. But this is a forum on seduction. Asking a girl if its ok to kiss her is not very seductive. You can do it and it can work its just an extra step and one ive never done.
/r/seduction02/06/24 03:20 AM
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Apparently, according to Dan Blizerian, when talking to a girl you want to act like you think she has STD’s. Basically showing a certain level of disinterest, not sure i could pull this off as i might actually lose interest. Of course hes famous so he can do all kinds of shit but anyway
/r/seduction02/06/24 02:10 AM
0

Exactly… well said
/r/seduction02/06/24 01:01 AM
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Lol ive never asked for consent and i never will, ive never been accused of assault. Unless you have her consent video recorded or signed it doesnt matter, if she wants to accuse you she can. If your scared then dont date.
/r/seduction02/06/24 12:59 AM
0

I fuck my friends so its all good…a friend thats a girl or a girlfriend is the same shit to me
/r/seduction01/06/24 06:47 PM
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If you wanna escalate right then and there, you have to isolate her, get her comfortable enough to go with you somewhere secluded, maybe a table somewhere in the club, so you can build more comfort then take her home that night. If you can get her to go with you to other venues or bars, lets say you get her to go to 2 different places + where you initially met, it will feel to her like shes been on 3 dates with you, bumping up her comfort
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:49 PM
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I do not ask for verbal consent. Its possible it can kill the moment and can also lead to her second guessing the situation and friend zoning you. Instead what i do, is when it feels like the right time where you would ask for verbal consent, i go in for a kiss but do so very slowly. This not only increases sexual tension/intimacy but also gives her a chance to pull away if she is not feeling it & you can apologize, etc. When i was younger, right before a kiss the tension was so extreme i would …
/r/seduction01/06/24 05:35 PM
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She enjoys smelling your flower after shes getting railed out by a real samurai, who didnt care if he came off as creepy
/r/seduction01/06/24 04:25 PM
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I tend to treat them like a good friend from the very beginning, im joking and smiling and this makes them comfortable, you talk about whatever the fuck comes up just like you would talk to a friend. The part i screwed up when younger was going from friend vibes to sexual vibes, so you have to know when to transition or you get friendzoned
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:51 PM
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Yes, if she is good looking, she is getting hit on by men and getting horny and you are 100’s of miles away, they will get sexually frustrated and change mind quickly about you.
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:42 PM
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Also think of it like this, a friend asks you to go to movies, you say youre not in the mood, then they start describing the movie, the theater the popcorn whatever the fuck, they are trying to convince you, then you end up saying yes because that description got you in the mood. So when you ask girls out, you should be describing the date in that way whatever it is you have planned so they are more likely to say yes
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:24 PM
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Well, i dont know if youve seen these videos of women who say “ i want a man where he can lead me and i can just turn my brain off”. Sounds like you asking them to turn their brains on and figure out when they’re free. Instead..tell them your schedule and that you can fit them in on this date and time if they are free, if not then let them know MAYBE next time i have an opening in MY schedule we can do somethin, then you remove attention and if they arent trying to find out when your next availa…
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:20 PM
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Long distance relationship and she has kids, shes prolly just looking for fun anyway, probably fucking dudes while your back in your country. I wouldnt lose any sleep over this chick. Its way too much effort, just keep her as someone you hit up when youre in that country partying but do not waste time having daily convos or whatever, she is a fun vacation chick and thats it
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:15 PM
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Well, if you guys actually are in a relationship, and she was ignoring you dancing with another dude, you fuckin move on bro. And guess what, ghosting happened all the fucking time before cell phones, you dont owe her shit, if she reaches out then go ahead and tell her whats up but you dont need to waste anymore of your energy on her, she basically rejected you and humiliated you by dancing with that guy, you are not her first choice, you gotta move on
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:10 PM
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Huh?
/r/seduction01/06/24 06:42 AM
2

Exactly…women are the one who play games, its built into their mating strategy, its not for men, weak men play games, strong men dont
/r/seduction31/05/24 10:49 PM
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The other dude doesnt know what hes talking about, kicking a girl out after sex only works on damaged women, relationship type women will not respond well to that, especially if youre kicking them out at 2-3am, some girls freak out being outside very late. And all women bring drama, its all a matter of how you respond, you ignore bad behavior and reward good behavior.
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:25 PM
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He should court me and i will be the lady = man doing all the work, same thing
/r/seduction31/05/24 07:17 PM
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If i was a chick, id literally just make eye contact, smile and wave or smile and say hi, or ask for the time, etc, then sit back and wait for the guy to come and do all the work.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:42 PM
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Youd be surprised, ive seen some handsome men with chicks id consider ugly or at least below average, but then again im straight so my ability to judge how good looking men are isnt that great, i just assume.
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:34 PM
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Its pretty simple really…just go and say something to the guy with a smile and then walk away. It doesnt matter what you say, you could ask for the time, whatever you come up with, doesnt matter, Then smile, be bubbly and walk away. If the guy is attracted to you, it will eat him up inside if he doesnt go after you. When walking away stay in close proximity for a lil bit, checking your phone whatever, so he knows youre still around, like i said it will eat his insides up if hes attracted and wil…
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:31 PM
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Theres a difference, nature wired women a bit differently than us
/r/seduction31/05/24 04:47 AM
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Brain scrambles when they get horny
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:57 AM
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Dont invite him to your house…problem solved
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:44 AM
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I do agree with that but i also think theres more to it, some kinda software problem
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:42 AM
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Of course, these are generalities , gotta go off something until you can read the finer cues, but even still , a girl can hold prolonged eye contact, say shes not interested but then actually she ends up being interested, women are just fickle as fuck
/r/seduction31/05/24 03:09 AM
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Im not familiar with what they say about British women
/r/seduction30/05/24 02:52 PM
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Usually women don’t make eye contact with men they aren’t attracted to, they don’t want to give the wrong idea to them, but they are human and do make mistakes sometimes. I mean people tend to look at what they find attractive or interesting. Also I wouldn’t take them looking away as being scared, Im sure alot of guys can say they made eye contact with a girl they thought was hot and they got nervous and looked away, same goes for women.
/r/seduction30/05/24 04:02 AM
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Bro You are in a prime position here. This is the trick, When she is speaking and you are translating in your head and there are periods of silence, you must maintain good eye contact during those silent periods, if your confused about what she says, show the confusion while looking at her etc, obviously do not stare but keep good long eye contact. This was done to me and i fell hard, although it was unintentional on her part, but you should make this intentional
/r/seduction27/05/24 05:29 PM
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Gotcha…well then yea you should def be upgrading yourself to highest potential, its a life long process
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:20 PM
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Those fundamental changes hes making to become the most attractive version is occuring outside of the date. In essence, he is still being himself after those changes have been made to showcase that on the date. The issue is pretending to be someone youre not on the date, then overtime you slack off and start being yourself then the girl realizes she was tricked.
/r/seduction26/05/24 06:08 PM
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It depends, does the new alpha F her better and evoke stronger emotions than previous alpha, if the answer is yes then thats the new standard for her
/r/seduction26/05/24 05:32 PM
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I would tell her some story of how you were seeing a woman who was in her 50’s or something likr that, shoewing her youre into older women. Or you could just tell her you are, but older women are more proactive, once they see a green light they tend to make moves
/r/seduction21/05/24 04:52 PM
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Personally, i think telling a girl shes cute or beautiful right off the bat is somewhat cringe - tons of men use that line all the time so its not like she hasnt heard it before. And your instantly revealing your hand for why you are talking to her so she can make snap judgements like the girl did with you and instantly reject you. Now if you asked the girl if she knew what time it was and she told you to fuck off, well shes got some real issues doesnt she, or she might tell you the time and you…
/r/seduction19/05/24 11:06 PM
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Ask your date , oh is this a friend of yours - or - are you going to introduce me to your friend. Sit down put him on the spot for a bit, make an exit plan, then tell your date you are going somewhere else, if she doesn’t come with than dump her, she’s not for you.
/r/seduction18/05/24 04:11 PM
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Cant get followers from a phone number
/r/seduction04/05/24 06:31 PM
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Yea, but think about it this way, shes cautious about giving away her phone number , but shes fine with giving her instagram which has all kinds of personal pictures of her, her friends, her life, etc, which you would not have access to with just a phone number
/r/seduction04/05/24 05:40 AM
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Look up apexmindset on youtube, he goes over in depth on the cuck stuff, a few videos devoted just to that. Its disturbing but makes alot of sense and goes back to tribal days, he explains it alot better than i could
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:41 PM
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Also, maybe you could try saying something like “im banned off instagram for bad behavior , etc - so we should just exchange numbers, etc” or something along those lines, playfully denying the instagram and going for the digits
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:35 PM
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Yea i def would avoid apologizing to women unless it actually deserves an apology
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:30 PM
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Yea just tell em straight up, i dont do instagram - then ask for their number again and if they dont give it and try to do something else then boom - goodbye, she playing, if she was interested youd get the number so shes playing, you walk away, sometimes they will stop you and then give you number
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:26 PM
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You gotta stop chasing her, its pushing her further away, you need to be really chill about the whole situation, stop trying to chase an outcome - its like chasing a cat - youll never catch the cat, let it come to you, you need to create the space for her to fill it and come to you, girls work on different timelines than men so just take a step back.
/r/seduction03/05/24 02:20 PM
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Personally, i dont think its necessary to give a label to hanging out with someone. I see alot of people talking about informing the girl of what the circumstances are surrounding a meetup. Just ask her to hang out, just like youd ask a good friend to hang out. Then you gauge her body language and make a move. You’d be surprised how many girls like you, and you are just mis reading signals and trying to get a verbal commitment, she might get nervous, think about it then reject the idea, then lat…
/r/seduction02/05/24 07:05 AM
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This is a mistake to hyper focus on the girl..if she sees you talking to other people it builds trust, might impress her, might build social proof, you could also jump from a convo with a random person to her, “so what about you…what do you think about x and y etc”.
/r/seduction01/05/24 08:56 PM
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Asian & Africans
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:27 PM
1

Just take your hat off and readjust it or whatever so she can see youre bald, no need to tell her
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:18 PM
1

They aren’t measuring that metric, they asked male participants to act in certain ways, what’s more important here is how the females responded to the ways the men were acting
/r/seduction29/04/24 02:55 PM
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The Role of Overconfidence in Romantic Desirability and Competition https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/26055389/
/r/seduction28/04/24 06:53 PM
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You dont have to hide anything, being yourself means being yourself, if you hide something about yourself then you arent being yourself, essentially lying to others & lying to yourself.
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:49 PM
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Well it turns out, cockiness is more attractive than confidence. There was a study and women rated the cocky participants as more attractive than just the confident ones. But you do have to be confident to be cocky so goes hand in hand i guess
/r/seduction28/04/24 04:45 PM
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Bro, when american men talk to women from other countries, esp like australia and uk or whatever we are making fun of their accents,, and when we do it, we typically like the girl, so have you ever thought maybe these chicks like you and making fun of you because they like you? Also dont get butt hurt by women, i cant remember the last time i got offended by a woman because i just never take offense to women, to men yes but women no
/r/seduction27/04/24 06:21 PM
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Ah Ok I kind of knew you what you were going to say, because ive done similiar things. Because of the girls high interest with the subsequent low interest with no real reason why, it sounds to me like it could have been a shit test. Now, This could be a learned behavior from her previous experiences with men who freaked out on her for not responding on the mans timeline. Maybe one time she forgot to respond to a guy and he freaked out, he called her a bitch, etc etc, then the girl learns if i do…
/r/seduction27/04/24 05:11 PM
1

My question is, how did you react when she ghosted? Did you message them, etc
/r/seduction27/04/24 04:26 AM
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Guys that are friendzoned can still get into handholding, cuddling etc, depends on the girl. And they can and most likely will despise you if you dont initiate sexual activity at somepoint, because women dont make the moves, its the mans job..so if shes extremely horny and you are not satisfying her needs, then yea it could get to a point where they begin to despise you. Unless you ve established all of this beforehand, but most likely will be hard to find a girl like that, but anythings possibl…
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:56 PM
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You just described the friendzone…so its absolutely possible to go friendzone and have this type of relationship but its going to be extremely hard to do this with a girl because some women will despise you for not having sex with them.
/r/seduction25/04/24 02:21 AM
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Hmmm..yea hard to tell ..i will say tho if you do get to hook back up with her, i would make sure to break off a few times before escalating further to increase her desire for you
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:41 AM
1

How long into hooking up did you sense this from her?
/r/seduction18/04/24 02:20 AM
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As a man, When you walk around and make eye contact with other men, it can be quite intense and feel very hostile. Now imagine what a woman feels, being physically weaker than men while knowing they want to have sex with her. So if a girl maintains eye contact with you, i think its a form of submission. Unless shes distracted by something else, she is showing a sign of interest in you.
/r/seduction15/03/24 06:15 AM
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Send something like - hey ____ I’m going here ____ on Friday, you should join me if you’re available, it will be fun. - so with this it’s very direct, you’re telling her where you’re going so now she can visualize that place in her mind, not second guessing yourself, never do that with women, just assume she’s free and and wants to go with you, just like you would ask a male friend, you’re not gonna tell your male friend “hey, maaaybe if you’re available, you should hang with me, I may suprise y…
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:43 PM
1

Please do not send that
/r/seduction07/03/24 03:37 PM
0

The example you provided - crying over the death of a loved one - is typically the only acceptable vulnerability in which you wouldn’t lose respect
/r/seduction11/02/24 08:02 AM
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He is correct…although there are a few circumstances where being vulnerable and crying are acceptable - like the death of a family member, friend etc. otherwise women take it as weakness, they want a rock.
/r/seduction11/02/24 07:59 AM
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Return the favor
/r/seduction10/02/24 08:18 PM
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Well I think this is easy because what do you do with good friends? You give them a hard time, you bust their balls, all in fun. When I like a girl I just naturally give her a hard time, misinterpret her words, etc all in the name of having fun. Nice guys wouldn’t do any of that, they are too scared to offend, disagree, etc. My only problem that I’ve found while on dates, was switching from friend vibes to sexual vibes, so I feel all my date fails were because of not switching . when I feel like…
/r/seduction29/01/24 09:19 PM
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Oooh this is good
/r/seduction29/01/24 02:54 PM
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I treat them like a good friend which I think makes them comfortable really quick. I don’t put on any kind of act and come off as genuine.
/r/seduction29/01/24 06:46 AM
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Not to mention that backing off may trigger the girl to chase you, which is what you may have wanted anyway, so just let go of her & dont just do it with the hopes of her coming back. If she does then that’s just a bonus
/r/seduction21/01/24 08:34 PM
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Not sure if it mentioned this but birth control also messes with this selection process. I believe women tend to select more feminine traits in men while on birth control and when they come off will sometimes lose attraction for that man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:32 PM
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Go join a club or volunteer or do something, anything with human interaction. “I’ve never known what it’s like for someone to care about me”? Wtf…you’re alive..someone had to care enough about you to keep you alive until you could do it yourself. You’re just basking in you’re own pity party and staying in the comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:37 AM
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I think marriage is a scam so yea don’t get married, who needs some expensive ritual and state enforced rules on personal relationships between 2 people. I don’t need any of that to make a commitment to someone
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 02:06 PM
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I guarantee that other dude didn’t court her for months, which is part of the problem, I know I’ve done it too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/23 01:16 PM
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First problem with this post is “man confesses his feelings to female friend”. This is what women do, acting like a woman gets you friendzoned
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 01:22 AM
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There really isnt a league when it comes to women if you know how to spark certain emotions within them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:10 PM
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😂
/r/seduction19/11/21 10:29 PM
2

Agree
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:38 PM
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I think this can relate to (you appreciate things more that you have to work for vs what you are given or don’t have to work for). Another example of this can be found in video games, when the game is challenging even though you’re frustrated you still enjoy it. Because once you get the cheat code for the game, you have a lil fun then it gets boring and you lose interest. When someone shows too much interest in a girl and they know they have you wrapped around their finger, it’s like having a ch…
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:59 PM
1

😂😂😂😂...so non Chalant
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:52 PM
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Oooh I’m excited thanks. I Watched a break down video of how Russel Brand would control interviews or seduce the female interviewer. Interesting but def not my personal style to be that charismatic.
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:46 PM
1

Pua coach? Someone should really put together a list
/r/seduction19/11/21 03:52 PM
2

Or the title of the email
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:57 PM
4

You know his email? I had signed up for this 1-2 weeks ago and not sure I got anything, maybe it went to spam
/r/seduction18/11/21 10:56 PM
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Like a non verbal push pull push pull. Nice
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:24 PM
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Nice work, but also keep in mind that women need to feel safe, so some may not feel safe going to your place vs their place. Just something to keep in mind, I was shocked when I was younger and found out some girls can’t orgasm if they don’t feel safe, so they may be having sex while questioning their safety. Totally changed my view on things
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:23 PM
1

I get that but if the guy is walking away and she runs up to him and says here put your info in…then what kind of game is that?
/r/seduction18/11/21 06:12 PM
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You’ve never kissed a girl after first contact and talking for a bit? Yea, it’s more common when alcohol is involved but very doable if you know how to work it and read her IOI’s
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:27 PM
1

She shoved her phone in his face dude
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:25 PM
1

I’ve got some good ones
/r/seduction18/11/21 07:20 AM
1

Good shit brother
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:38 AM
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Everyone has a personality, so you should provide more context on what she referenced in regards to giving that comment
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:36 AM
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Women will often act cold when they think you’re out of their league. Guys do the same thing with women actually
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:29 AM
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Well, you’re def doing some good shit right there. Create some more tension then go in for the kiss. Either 1) You’ll get rejected faster or 2) you get the kiss and leave her with a more emotionally memory of you, more likely to follow up. Either way, you’ll waste less time.
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:26 AM
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The only issue is, if you do hook up, if it doesn’t become exclusive than you’ll probably get into some strange territory. Even if she says she’s cool with it being casual, she will get jealous if you ever bring another girl over. That’s what people mean by don’t shit where you eat or whatever. It could lead to a shitty living situation , but it could work but like I said probably only if it becomes exclusive.
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:18 AM
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Let me tell ya brother. I was there, had a beautiful roommate that moved in but had a boyfriend, so I treated her like a friend or a sister. Got same kinda signals you were describing and even after she broke up with her bf I still wasn’t really thinking about sexual things with her, I had basically friendzoned her hard in my head. Well, she ended up calling me out one day and asked if I was intimidated by her. I’m like what do you mean. She said why haven’t you made a move on me. Well I made my…
/r/seduction17/11/21 11:45 PM
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First off you have a penis and your name is bootygainsxxx, thought this was gonna be a chick asking other chicks 😂
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:07 PM
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Unless maybe she didn’t see the message if it’s in that non following message menu. I DMd a girl few months ago, still no read marking, but it’s a different scenario. But Only way to recover if she did read would be in person and possible pushing the right emotional buttons on her
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:04 PM
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If you’re not looking for a relationship, then why not pursue both? Its typical for women to have multiple guys their talking to and easy for those who get approached a lot, some tend to have the mindset it’s ok for them but not for us. I’m reminded of when I was seeing a girl, then she wanted an open relationship which I didn’t want but was like ok fine, because I still want to see her. Later on, we’ll now she’s jealous I’m seeing other women
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:57 PM
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If the following doesn’t work, can always go up to him and ask him “how many sets do you have left on the machine”? If a girl did that to me and I was interested, then I would surely get the urge to spark up a convo. But the following thing can be confusing as at times I felt girls were following me but then wasn’t really sure
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:52 PM
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Yea, I mean I’ve been there before, but it’s def like a Hail Mary, there’s always a chance but very doubtful
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:35 PM
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You do bring up some valid points, and you do need to know when to properly break tension if trust hasn’t been built. But if you know how to properly use it , it can be iniated right from the start in a myriad of ways. Having the right amount of extended eye contact in the very first impression can be extremely useful, but if you don’t know how to use it then yea go for the hug. However, I found it quite ironic that when I stopped initiating first contact hugs, its the girl that goes in for the …
/r/seduction17/11/21 09:06 AM
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I was posing a hypothetical as a mechanism for thought provocation to possibly help people understand why I personally don’t give hugs when first meeting women on a first date. However most people cannot deal with any form of tension, so they must instantly release it, ie you meet someone on date you go straight for the hug - releases pre date tension. Tension especially sexual tension is one of the most useful things anyone can ever learn about, and it’s conducted through the eyes…unless your i…
/r/seduction17/11/21 08:35 AM
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You’ve been texting for 2 years
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:48 AM
1

It’s a hypothetical 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:35 AM
1

It’s a hypothetical based off the Archetype of James Bond
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:17 AM
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Lol - how about you go to the store with her and observe how she interacts with you and the emotions you make her feel. Nothing else can be inferred from this short story, besides that she asked you out
/r/seduction17/11/21 04:17 AM
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I don’t feel the need to as I don’t get offended by things that can’t be changed, such as race. Simply pointing out that racism lives on in various forms in all ethnicities.
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:03 AM
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Lol, well I had the thought about the Archetype of James Bond. Would his character be someone who goes on first date and goes right to a hug? I used to do it, and realized it was a tension release. Now I go for the handshake while examining them with my eyes, eyes are the window to the soul, I wanna see who I’m dealing with, I think when done right is very effective. Now when I go on dates women are jumping to initiate the hug, maybe since I’m not the one going for it anymore. But you bring up g…
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:59 AM
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Every ethnicity has people that are still racist. You just met a racist person. I’ve met alot of Latinos that make racist jokes but I don’t always consider them a racist as I was never taught to be offended by racist jokes.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:08 AM
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Still don’t know what you’re referring to my man, but I am a lil jealous you have a basement tho.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:04 AM
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Maybe getting too comfortable. Could be testing to see what she can get away with or something else entirely I can’t really fathom at the moment. There’s always one person in the relationship who is pulling more than pushing, guess it depends if your fine with being the puller, which typically doesn’t end well especially when unbalanced for long periods
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:00 AM
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Ooooh the slide into the DM’s. Doesn’t always work
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:55 AM
39

You could very well be over thinking it.
/r/seduction17/11/21 01:33 AM
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The way you comment makes you sound like a basement dweller.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:36 AM
5

I Don’t even know what you’re right about
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:31 AM
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If James Bond went on a first date, you really think he would hug?
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:25 AM
2

I used to hug, now I do the handshake. I’ve noticed now that a lot of women will automatically go in for the hug. I think the hug is a quick tension release, but I now prefer to stare in her eyes, and analyze her while shaking her hand, hug at end of date
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:24 AM
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EASY - go and talk to all the women you aren’t attracted to. Think about it like this - I may not be attracted to them, but heck maybe I bring some joy to their day because of compliments etc. Moms, grandmas, doesn’t matter, it’s feminine energy. Every time you see a female that doesn’t do anything for you emotions wise, go talk to her. Getting rejected by some women who you aren’t interested can desensitize you and bleed over. By rejection I mean they reject your convo’s or whatever. Also be mi…
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:19 AM
2

You have the talk, first I’d go with “id still like to see you, but I’m fine with you seeing other people (as I plan on seeing others) implants the idea things aren’t working out so when you do cut ties it’s somewhat expected. However keep in mind this can make them want you more, but at least they get the thought process before hand. Typically if I don’t plan on something long term with someone, this is the path I take. Sometimes Girls can really appreciate the honesty, especially when they’ve …
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:11 AM
2

It’s true
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:00 AM
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Leaving your number can work, but you have to build rapport. I would say 99% you will fail if you go straight to hi, here’s my number
/r/seduction16/11/21 11:54 PM
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No, if he does t approach it def doesn’t mean they don’t like you. There’s various reasons why they might not chat. Might not have picked up the signal, thinking of what to say, etc etc I would say after making eye contact, he’s seen you in his vision, you get closer, closer, then mayb bump into him or ask him a question. It could be any question, where’s the bathroom, have you seen a phone laying around, whoops its in my pocket, thanks for helping me, literally anything lol. Basically making hi…
/r/seduction16/11/21 11:37 PM
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Men usually peak in their early to mid 30’s, women peak in their early to mid 20’s. Men typically get more attractive with age. I know this because I had a baby face, wasn’t until my late 20’s I started really getting noticed
/r/seduction16/11/21 04:22 AM
1

A lot can be said about both topics but in regards to status, I disagree. Status as far as wealth and social media popularity, yes it can be difficult to achieve. But Status can take on other faces, be it a Teacher or Instructor. Being a speaker at an event or simply having a lot of knowledge on a topic can give you status and can “flip” attraction switches in women. I remember talking to a DJ who wasn’t very pleasing to look at, wasn’t very popular DJ, but told me some crazy stories and saw fir…
/r/seduction16/11/21 01:44 AM
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I mean yea you could be right, but my take away was basically the “uglier” you are the bigger the personality you need to have to make up for it. Since we all know men are more visual women are more emotionally, yes the visual part is the first thing they notice but after that there are soo many more factors that can attract chicks. I think you already know what I mean, but if I were in your shoes n based off what you posted. I might try approaching girls with the mindset of getting them as just…
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:35 AM
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There’s that one fat dude ginger who does pick up conferences. After watching some of his stuff, convinced me it wasn’t about looks. Granted he wasn’t obese or extremely ugly, but he was balding and looked outta shape and some infield videos I watched seemed genuine and he picked up some hot girls.
/r/seduction16/11/21 12:18 AM
0

Implied consent
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:42 AM
4

Prostitutes
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:40 AM
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I’d say there’s a difference between a nice guy and a good guy. Nice guy will try to please everyone and hide feelings while a good guy is a nice person but doesn’t allow people to push him around and tries to do what’s morally right. I think alot of women don’t like nice guys as they don’t employ push/pull, don’t stand up for themselves, etc. I normally make fun of girls I like, while being a nice or good person, works out fine. Just be ok with possibly offending if it’s done with good intentio…
/r/seduction13/11/21 05:35 PM
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Friend zone ain’t the end zone, easy to get out of but you can’t continue acting as a friend
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:38 AM
6

I had a similar situation, made multiple attempts n got rejected so I stopped trying, moments later were banging. I think part of it is that you’ve gained their trust by not pushing anything on them, showed that your chill, now they feel safe and probably more attracted.
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:36 AM
2

It depends on the girl as well, some are willing to meet right away, others it takes time of building comfort.
/r/seduction09/11/21 10:03 PM
3

It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it.
/r/seduction09/11/21 12:49 AM
8

One thing you can do, as you’re walking together, slowly start to walk off course and see if she follows you. If she follows, it’s an indicator that subconsciously she is following your lead and has developed a level of trust in you. If she asks what are you doing and doesn’t follow, subconsciously may still have a wall up. Not a perfect technique, but body language can say a lot.
/r/seduction08/11/21 05:09 PM
2

You’re very stoic and can handle intense emotions, but you’re always angry and little things trigger you? Sounds delusional to be honest.
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:56 PM
1

If you want to remain mysterious, then don’t open with messages like “how was work”
/r/seduction07/11/21 09:51 PM
1

Some girls do want something to fix. I think it stems from childhood issues.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:36 PM
1

I would change kind to good. Being a good person and doing the right thing. Sometimes doing the right thing you won’t be acting “kind”.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:34 PM
2

Sounds like you get a lot of numbers. How do you manage all of that. Or youre just sticking with very short convos b4 meetup the very next day
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:29 AM
1

Have you ever by mistake approached a girl that you already approached in the past but rejected you?
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:25 AM
2

Haha this is awesome
/r/seduction06/11/21 02:24 AM
2

Yup, pretend to be nice and then explode on you when you reject them, just like nice guys.
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:55 PM
5

Yup, a lot of women are playing “nice guy” roles too. It’s pretty boring as well so I understand from both sides.
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:50 PM
10

Yea, it really is a shame to not have your father or another older male as a mentor. I don’t think my father ever talked to me once about women or sex, all I had was my mother who was very agonizing so I would constantly mess with her as a kid. I naturally mess with women that I like because of it and don’t get a offended by them either. Early life is so important in soo many ways.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:08 AM
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No, it’s not fitness or fashion. These are helpers, just like being handsome, it helps but it doesn’t mean jack shit if you can’t bring girls to experience intense emotions. This is the key and the answer to the question “what does that girl see in that guy, he’s ugly, etc etc”
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:20 PM
6

Well you have to be dominant and man handle her in a sense. This became very easy for me after training in martial arts. Just like I’m dominating a training partner in practice, and flowing through different moves, that ability lends itself to be very useful in the bedroom.
/r/seduction04/11/21 07:03 PM
1

A great starting point while also being the most important body language tool is eye contact. Many research studies on it with very interesting results. There is a “socially acceptable” amount of time you hold eye contact when conversing with anyone. You break that rule with women your interested in and after establishing trust. You also take longer pauses in the convo while maintaining eye contact. This works both ways as well, as a girl did this to me extremely well and I’ve never been so pass…
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:03 PM
3

You made out and she comes over all the time but not sure where you are with her? Cmon man lol
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:47 PM
1

Why not?
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:43 PM
1

Here’s a better answer. You don’t tell the girl, you show her. There is no need to say anything, body language is like 80% of communication anyway.
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:42 PM
2

Yup, or they know they got you in the bag and friendzone you. This main example is telling a girl whose already going through some shit with a potential husband. Definitely not a typical circumstance
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:40 PM
1

At the end of the day, it’s your life, do what you want with it
/r/seduction04/11/21 05:06 PM
10

Better..you friendzone her
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:44 PM
1

It does help to show women you have standards and boundaries. You’d be surprised how quick you can flip the switch sometimes and have the girl trying to qualify herself to you rather than the other way around.
/r/seduction02/11/21 05:09 PM
1

Work life and relationships aren’t really comparable my friend. Income and lively hood vs an optional relationship is completely different. I don’t know what it’s like to have estrogen surging through my body but have seen the irrational roller coaster behavior it can produce. When you approach women with logic you’ll fail in the long run.
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:37 AM
1

Similar to how you force yourself to burp
/r/seduction01/11/21 11:22 PM
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Read about menopause my friend. Usually after their done with that shitstorm in their later years they get a bit more logical.
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:23 PM
7

Yes, but lads don’t have monthly periods and raging/ fluctuating emotional hormones like women do. When you understand the internal rollercoaster ride chicks go through you understand that trying to understand them is pointless 😂 just accept them as they are
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:06 PM
5

This is what we call a “shit test”. The sooner you accept that women do this, the better. Women all have different ways of doing it, one simple method is the example provided “we aren’t having sex etc”. They want to see how you react, do you play it cool or do you over react and act like an ass. If you chose second option, well that’s a quick and easy confirmation to the women not to have sex with you…better to find out that way in a public setting then back at the apartment or whatever the case…
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:24 PM
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It’s more like a shit test..they want to see how you’re going to react when she says no to sex. If you over react then you failed the test. If you play it cool then probably passed. When you go through the process it makes more sense. I remember my first time..chick rejected my kiss, I played it cool next thing I know she’s ripping my pants off without any effort on my part.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:17 PM
2

It’s a form of plausible deniability. They want to have sex with you.
/r/seduction01/11/21 04:11 PM
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If she says she can’t sleep without your thing inside her..will you get the clue?
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:40 PM
3

Most likely yes…and to them it’s obvious they were signaling you to start the chat but to us guys we tend to be confused. Great book on this subject is undercover sex signals. And think about it this way, would you repeatedly make eye contact with a girl and smile that you weren’t interested in? Probably not, you don’t want to give the wrong impression. Same thing for women but even more so because they constantly deal with eye contact from men.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:34 AM
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Girls don’t repeatedly look at guys they don’t want to talk to. They also don’t really do pick up. They are more subtle, your story is a great example of that.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:11 AM
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I started lifting at 14, I’m 35 now. My biggest tip for people is get into a martial art. At the very least do boxing. Some of the most insane workouts I’ve ever had was just hitting mitts. I just naturally have abs now from the martial arts training I do, without actually focusing on abs as an exercise. I do still lift but my motivation is more focused on getting better at my art vs physical appearance.
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:48 PM
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Haha. Honestly i don’t think most people are paying attention to their surroundings, especially now a days situational awareness is lacking with people wearing headphones or so consumed with their own thoughts. If you aren’t making any type of scene yea it may look like you know the chick. Being jacked I’d say works for a small subset of women, some may avoid you because of it or have false presumptions of you. I hooked up with a beautiful girl once who told me she doesn’t go for muscular guys b…
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:58 PM
3

Sounds like you’re over thinking it. Don’t get anxious for a response. Play it cool
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:42 PM
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This is just my response to girls not caring that you lift. Yes that’s correct, they really don’t. I was hooking up with a beautiful girl and I was pretty ripped at the time, and told me she doesn’t usually go for guys with muscles, but considering the crazy sex we were having, she would reconsider that. It was a fling but anyway, the next dude I saw her with was no muscle whatsoever. I’m sure there are girls that do look for muscles but overall, they care more about the emotions you make them f…
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:31 PM
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Also, be mindful of what is causing this anxiety, where it comes from, where you feel it, etc. and notice when you don’t get it talking to other girls that don’t excite you the same way. I tend to do this with all emotions I feel and it’s a process but overtime you gain more power over it.
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:20 PM
3

I get the nice eyes compliment a lot too. Friend of mine gave me a great response to that - “Thanks, they get me in a lot of trouble sometimes”
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:06 PM
1

I think it’s all about delivery
/r/seduction31/10/21 03:03 PM
1

I guess it depends in what context and for how long they talk about their ex. But for the most part, if someone likes the other person, they won’t bring up their ex, on both sides of the table.
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:55 PM
1

They always say to have the mindset before speaking to a girl that she already wants to meet you. I wouldn’t ask questions where she can immediately respond with a no which terminates the convo like that. I’m not saying it wouldn’t work but it gives the girl an easy way out. Just spark up a normal conversation with her and watch her body language. Have you ever seen 2 strangers randomly spark up a convo, exchange some ideas then part ways, they just had a fun convo and that was all there was to …
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:54 AM
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I agree with you, saying “can I meet you real quick” is giving them an easy way out, by saying no. If you make it more of a normal conversation, they may find that they are attracted to you and want to hang out later, but weren’t attracted to you from the start.
/r/seduction30/10/21 03:31 PM
1

I wouldn’t tell a woman about lack of experience…maybe if it’s an older woman. When I was young I think I lucked out having sex with a gf because I was a virgin and lacked experience and she was aware of it.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:36 PM
2

Ok, where is it?
/r/seduction29/10/21 04:13 PM
3

Exactly, if you have a selection of girls you’re already talking to, her not texting back would not be a big deal. The problem we run into when focusing on one girl is we tend to overact to everything that happens. This has gotten me screwed in the past. One time in particular realizing after that she did like me but was testing me, and I failed the test
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:27 PM
2

I thought about using a text scheduler app..to preprogram texts to send to girls on certain days because I always forget to text then they lose interest, etc….never got around to it tho
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:23 PM
3

Whatever works best for you , for myself, I don’t hold the girls hand until after I’ve already kissed her, it makes everything else go more smoothly.
/r/seduction29/10/21 05:01 AM
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I mean you can literally hold your hand out before crossing a road or something, making it clear you want to hold hands. I think it adds to sexual tension build up. When things are done tricky or too quickly, there’s no room for tension build up. I wish I knew this when I was younger as most of my first kisses were done as a quick thing to avoid the tension.
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:43 PM
1

You missed the point with this one
/r/seduction28/10/21 05:37 PM
3

One way of looking at it is youre cheating if you don’t tell them beforehand. Some -not all, women may actually be ok with it. One reason is because they are used to men cheating and lying about it. But if you’re truthful and tell them straight up, it is shocking to them and they maybe ok with it, you bypass the moral dilemma. The only thing is you can’t expect them to be exclusive with you. In fact, telling girls you are fine with them going out with other men, can actually make them chase you …
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:13 PM
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I treat women I’m interested in like I treat good friends. I tease my friends, they tease me and I laugh, I don’t take things seriously when with friends, everything is a big joke right. You don’t alter who you are when around good friends. Pretty much every date I’ve been on I start talking to the girl as if we’ve been friends, and majority have been very receptive, let their guard down, etc. In fact most girls that are/were friends with me have tried to hook up with me, might be because I real…
/r/seduction28/10/21 04:05 PM
3

Yea I could def see that, especially if you told them that while acting very confident.
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:39 PM
0

The theory behind sales applies to picking up women, absolutely. Considering some women get approached countless times a day, they develop filters to sift through the pool of men that approach them and Figure out for themselves who is worth it. It can become overwhelming, and they get good at testing men. It’s much easier for her for you to fail her test then her finding out your not a good fit 1 year later and she wasted her time. If the woman can get rid of you with a single No, “well that was…
/r/seduction28/10/21 03:42 AM
1

This is true, mentioning another girl to her will give you an idea of her feelings. Have to pay close attention to her body language response. I remember personally seeing this a few times I’ve done it , but mostly to girls I was just friends with not attracted to.
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:55 PM
2

True, he could also ask when she gets off work and talk to her outside the workplace
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:46 PM
3

If you shoot and it doesn’t work out, have a one on one with her in the hopes to not make things awkward in the group. I’ve done this with girls who were in my social circle who took a shot at me actually. Pretty much every girl that did this became frustrated and mean towards me, i didn’t let it bother me, eventually dissipated, some I’m still good friends with. So on the flip side, if it doesn’t work, play it cool to keep things cool
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:44 PM
1

Yes exactly, no questions. It can be quick or it can be slow, moving in slowly escalates the sexual tension even more
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:06 PM
1

Even If she friendzones you, it’s not the end of it. Some people believe you’re trapped for life lol. First thing about it is you put yourself in the friend zone, (by agreeing to be only friends). You can get out of it but not by continuing to be a friend. Or you never agree to the friend zone in the first place
/r/seduction27/10/21 11:05 PM
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Also I think any kind of contact, whether it be physical brushing of the shoulders to asking you a question “hey, can you watch my computer for a second I’ll b right back” at coffee shop for example….it could very well be their attempt at sparking up a convo with you. Yesterday I was walking down the sidewalk early morning and this girl was behind me with her dog off leash..I didn’t get a glimpse of her but at first I was annoyed why is this person letting her dog walk right behind me…Then they …
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:44 PM
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There’s a good book by Leil Lowndes called “Undercover Sex Signals”. It gets into a ton of examples, some are kinda strange but do make sense. Just a matter of catching them I guess. One thing I read that’s been very interesting to see play out in real life, again with eye contact, is when people are doing something, talking on cell phone for example, their mind is preoccupied with the convo but their eyes tend to fixate on what’s most appealing to them and they tend not to realize it either (th…
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:37 PM
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This board should be changed to Politically correct seduction
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:39 PM
1

My grandmother rejected my grandfather 3 times before she finally said yes, 50yr long happy marriage. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:29 PM
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That was just a simple example to show that no doesn’t always mean no, you can convince people out of no’s, it happens all the time in all kinds of situations to both genders.
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:21 PM
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There’s a difference between pursuing someone and harassing them. Have you ever wanted to go somewhere with a friend, you ask them they say no, but then you end up convincing them and they go and end up having a great time. Maybe I should rephrase, “it doesn’t ALWAYS mean no”…so far everyone’s seems so quick to take every persons response at face value and not put any effort into getting a girl.
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:08 PM
1

Exactly, goes both ways!
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:02 PM
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If a salesmen stopped trying to sell just because the customer said no, they would be a shitty salesmen. Of course you have to know when to stop but you got to think outside the box on this one.
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:01 PM
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Just because a girl says no it doesn’t mean no lol this is the problem we run into because some women will purposely say no when they meant yes, happens all the time “oh I wanted to see if he was going to try harder, etc etc”.
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:18 PM
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Prolonged eye contact with a girl is a huge sign. Women don’t go around using pick up lines to get guys, they have other more subtle ways.
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:15 PM
1

There are lots of dudes out there that are not attractive but do well with ladies. They have an attractive personality, confidence, enthusiasm, etc. Most men judge women based off their attractiveness but for women it’s different. Looks help but there are so many other factors. Women can become attracted based of status as well, etc etc. I would also say we think we are less attractive then we actually are, but the main thing is to get over how attractive you think you are and base it off the at…
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:11 PM
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Word of advice on this, I suggest learning martial arts. Before I learned, I would treat women very delicately. Now, I man handle them like crazy, but In a loving respectful way, and they are astonished. Before… I wouldn’t choke a girl, but now, since I get choked all the time in training, it’s not a big deal and I know how to apply it. Women are super fucking kinky just read any of those romantic novels, it’s just most are hiding it.
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:57 PM
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Let me ask you, as a man, do you enjoy women that are really nice to you or never disagree with you? They never challenge anything you say. Or do enjoy women who challenge you, or essentially give you shit? In addition girls are used to guys sucking up to them, when they are met with the opposite of that, they are intrigued to know why it’s different.
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:51 PM
1

Well we have 2 different kinds of orgasms. Hard to compare the 2
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:21 PM
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My fault, I thought this was the seduction thread
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:27 PM
-12

Leave out the “is that cool with you”, asking for approval
/r/seduction26/10/21 05:12 AM
1

Your stats are a bit off, & it seems like you’re not including variance
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:01 AM
2

Yup…status is a major subconscious turn on for them without many even realizing it. Yea masculine behavior, confidence, etc is important too and other things but that doesn’t guarantee survival, someone’s status is a better indicator of survival.
/r/seduction20/10/21 10:34 PM
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