I just came back from a daygame session that went really well. I didn't score any numbers - but man, it was FUN.
I initially started off the session in a terrible mood, and it showed in my approaches. I was getting instantly rejected left and right - but I didn't stop. Somehow, after a few rejections I suddenly became happier than before I started - and the women I approached felt that. I started to get extremely positive reactions from women, including an attractive blonde girl whom I approached on the street who was with her friends. I told her "You're style is very elegant" and she instantly lit up and thanked me for making her day. While I didn't close her, it still was an amazing experience.
Doing pickup has so many benefits besides scoring dates. It is the best way to develop confidence, interpersonal skills, even skills to make friends. Plus, I can be myself and talk to anyone I want. I've met everything from fashion models to Instagram bloggers to singers to sorority girls, women most guys could only dream of meeting.
I also feel a TON of motivation when I do pickup, even in my other hobbies. I'm a musician and I've found that the times I've been most productive with music are coincidentally when I'm doing pickup. The motivation I get while doing pickup is unlike anything else. It's also incredibly therapeutic (to me at least) and I feel extremely happy when doing it.
Many people think that pickup is just adding notches to the bedpost. It's more than just that. Some of the best experiences I've had in my life have happened thanks to pickup. Pickup has changed my life and I will never stop doing it, even when I feel discouraged. I feel incredible gratitude to do the thing that is pickup.
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