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Breath deep and push air out from down your throat, not from your neck or from the back of your mouth. A good trick to see where this comes from is to take a big breath with your mouth, like the start lf a yawn, and try talking before releasing the air
/r/seduction01/01/22 08:48 PM
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The thing is to reach that point where she can see that you are a confident and social guy who shows that masculine, sexy vibe when you are with her. Then you should find something in her that you can use as an excuse to go on a date. Maybe she shits on the coffee of the faculty's machines. There you have a chance for something like "so you think you know about coffee huh? I'll take you to my favorite coffee shop this weekend and I'll let you judge" That kind of thing where she can't really conf…
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:47 PM
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Only ask contact info when you aim to ask her on a date. You shouldn't do it for the sake of becoming texting buddies. When to do this also depends on how often you see that girl. If she doesn't even study in your faculty, it's one shot. Try to convey all you need to convey in a few minutes and "hey I'd like to grab a coffee with you some day around here. What's your number?" If it's a girl you consistently see in your lessons, however, that's quite different. Build value and comfort while maint…
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:33 PM
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There are no universal truths here. The only thing near to that is refering to our subconsciously conditioned brain from hundreds thousands years of evolution, and those say that the female should be the one trying to get the male to stick with her after impregnating her. While the female needs him to protect her and provide for their children, the male's genes drive him to spread his "seed" as much as he can. Obviously modern relationships are much more complicated today and so are individuals,…
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:16 PM
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Hahaha I can see why that possibility is "bs" for you
/r/seduction31/12/21 01:13 PM
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I thing it's a matter of outcome dependence. Like, deep inside you feel like complimenting or whatever is just a way for you to make people like you, feel their approval. And you are afraid that they might perceive it as you trying to get something out of them. I used to have that issue. Then I started complimenting other men who I perceived as with lower social value, or women who I had no sexual interest on... Until it became natural to my personality, just saying these things to make people f…
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:10 PM
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Again, there's much more to talking with people than having sex with them. My girl best friend, I started talking to her because she had some amazing boobs. It took me <5 minutes to realize how crazy in love she was (and still is) with her boyfriend, but I simply was enjoying the conversation so I kept talking with her. Today I can say she has given me infinitely more than any hot girl I have had sex with, in ways "similar to sexual pleasure" and also in deeper ways
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:58 AM
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Unless your crush is a golddigger!! Yeah I see your point, people label you as soon as they can, often with the purpose to put you below themselves. To the eyes of a woman who knew you being a half-ass guy, you will remain "figured out" forever unless you stop seeing each other for some years and then you meet her back again being a more mature woman. However my brain has some kind of mechanism that makes me lose the appeal for any girl after I feel rejected by her. Like "if she didn't want me a…
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:08 AM
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Have you considered the possibility the man wanted to know her before deciding if she was attractive, and simply kept talking because they enjoyed the conversation...? Ofc indirect approach isn't the most "efficient" way to seduction, but holy fk, there are more things in life than increasing the body count...
/r/seduction31/12/21 10:32 AM
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Something cheeky and relatable by the start of next week, like "what a weekend, I won't let you get me drunk on friday"
/r/seduction29/12/21 11:07 PM
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Don't text her happy new year ffs. On that day your phone should be so cramped up with conversations of close people (closer than a random match) that it shouldn't cross your mind to text her like that. It's not about being a dick, ofc you can wish her a happy year whenever it comes up casually. However the way I see it "remembering about her" gives off needy vibes.
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:23 PM
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Make a list of situations in which approaching an attractive girl is a good opportunity (you wouldn't interrupt her, she will feel safe, there can be good communication, etc)
/r/seduction27/12/21 11:29 PM
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I'm also confused, are you asking how to seduce her so that giggle comes up when she thinks about you two having sex last night, or is this just about your insecurities?
/r/seduction25/12/21 08:30 PM
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Go to a bar, sit close to her (not a table in between) and try to have natural physical contact. Go from less to more invasive. Give her a genuine and personal compliment like "I love how that eye shade looks on you". Use strong eye contact and remain confident during silences And the most essential thing: see if she reciprocates or if she gives you hints to back off.
/r/seduction24/12/21 12:05 PM
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But you did I think it's the biggest mindfuck canned line I've ever read
/r/seduction24/12/21 10:30 AM
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I think the issue goes much deeper than just hiding your deep voice. Don't be afraid to show your masculinity to avoid... Losing social approval?
/r/seduction23/12/21 12:41 PM
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Now that she knows that you are actually attracted to her, in her mind you were either blind to not see her signals, or a coward to not act on those when she was so clear that she wanted your dick. Next time make your moves while you have no reason to be "loyal" to another woman. You are only harming yourself by refusing those opportunities
/r/seduction23/12/21 10:03 AM
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Now you actually have a DATE. Make it about you and her, not about an activity. Go get a drink, sit rather next to her, don't put a table in between you two so you can little by little increase physical contact and eventually kiss her.
/r/seduction22/12/21 03:32 PM
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How about not lying nor overthinking a question that you don't actually wanna answer? As with all stupid questions, just answer playfully, self-amusement is always a safe move to generate value. When they ask you about stuff like your body count, there is no perfect, universal answer. So you might as well have fun and take something good out of it
/r/seduction21/12/21 06:51 PM
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One good way is to make her guess. Allow her to have ask you for clue if you want to make it more creative Another engaging way to "answer" would be not answering at all. This is a useless question, just information exchange. You can generate value showing her that you don't feel the need to give her everything she asks from you. If a question genuinely isn't interesting to you, feel free to act on it.
/r/seduction19/12/21 09:46 PM
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You certainly need to improve your wittiness too
/r/seduction18/12/21 04:52 PM
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Another demonstration of how important is inner game as compared to words... Overthinking like that such question only will repel women
/r/seduction18/12/21 10:28 AM
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I think it's very unlikely to find a woman who just wants to make a scene in public for the sake of it. As long as it doesn't give her followers and likes, even the most attention-seeking woman won't expose herself unless you really disturb her. Just be confident, respectful and read social cues and you should be fine
/r/seduction18/12/21 09:39 AM
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That's golden advice, determining in advance in which situation you should approach and where you shouldn't
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:19 PM
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R&B is the way to go. Check out summer walker, two feet, 11:11, PLAZA... Unless you are with a latina or Spanish hoe, then go for old reggaeton
/r/seduction27/11/21 08:39 PM
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That's it, God bless that kind of rejections. Instead of going home and beating myself up for not taking action, I go home reinforced by learning that hot girls ain't worth shit until you know if they have values at least
/r/seduction26/11/21 01:55 PM
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You guys keep doing that stuff? How old are you and the girl?
/r/seduction25/11/21 12:41 PM
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That woman is mean, and that's the main reason why you feel like you still need closure. Because she is so disrespectful that she isn't willing to give it to you. I'd advice to build a new life and once you have fully adapted to your injury, only then you will be able to invite a decent woman to join your life
/r/seduction15/11/21 01:18 PM
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Having an analytic brain is extremely helpful if your self-steem is up, but it wrecks you in these times when you think less of yourself. One thing that has helped me deal with that enormously is daily meditation. It helps you "detach" from your thoughts and rationalize those self-destructive ideas in order to understand where they are coming from and how can you transform them into something useful
/r/seduction10/11/21 07:29 PM
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When a woman rejects you she might be rejecting: A: The side of your personality that you've shown her in your interactions (you are much more than what you demonstrate in a 5-10 min conversation where you are nervous, trying to make her like you, etc) B: The situation itself (like hitting on her when she is not in the mood or the place is inadequate to her) C: The situation in which she is (maybe she is really into another boy, hooked to an ex, etc) D: Her taste (you can't be appealing to all w…
/r/seduction10/11/21 01:36 PM
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Todd V
/r/seduction10/11/21 10:52 AM
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Someone didn't get laid this weekend...? Yet here you are giving some crazy lessons
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:04 AM
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I see... Well, if you have played your part to improve the marriage and he isn't willing to correspond you, I'd say that it is time to worry about your own happiness. From what you tell, your husband clearly has inner issues related with a very fragile emotional intelligence. You can rest assured that he is the only one in power to improve that area. All that should matter to you is to separate in the way that is less harmful to your children. Be understanding of your husband and keep in mind at…
/r/seduction06/11/21 05:12 PM
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I understand what you are saying, but if that man has been caring and simply didn't know how to provide for your deeper needs, he deserves your respect, don't sneak around his back looking for a replacement... Try to discuss your feelings with him. If he doesn't change, go together to marriage counselling. If that doesn't work either, break up and only then look for another man.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:49 PM
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Daily meditation helps a lot. Self-steem too. I don't think there is any magical trick or shortcut
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:38 PM
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Get rid of the halo effect that makes you believe a physical attractive girl is as valid in other sides of her life and personality. What the hell, it doesn't even mean you would enjoy having sex with her. The most attractive women are often times too self-centered to establish any kind of connection based on providing pleasure to another person
/r/seduction05/11/21 07:24 PM
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It's all about learning that even the hottest girl is a human with tons of flaws and insecurities
/r/seduction02/11/21 09:35 PM
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Idk man in my world that is seen as being the monkey of the party who isn't really aware of social rules. I'm talking of 18-22 yo environments. My issue is that I find it too aggressive to initiate physical contact before having solid eye contact
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:03 PM
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How do you start dancing with a girl you like?
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:59 PM
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I have 4 tattoos. Now that you know that try going over my words using your reading comprehension
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:29 PM
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Just internalize that there is nothing wrong in what you are doing. You are offering the opportunity to know you to a woman that would never meet you otherwise. Are you THAT horrible as to consider this a bad thing? However there is the "I don't want to disturb her" factor. This is as simple as learning to read the social cues that tell you that the woman would rather be left alone. This shouldn't take you more than 30 seconds. 30 seconds of uncomfort in one side of the balance, the possibility …
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:45 AM
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Not hating on tattoos themselves, but the ridiculous reason behind them in the present case. This thread came across as the pinnacle of losing self-respect in the attempt to get laid
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:35 AM
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Here one should expect ideas and ways of self-improvement better than injecting permanent ink on the skin, right?
/r/seduction30/10/21 11:11 PM
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Yeah your life must be much happier than that if you come here just to trashtalk a man who speaks his journey of self-improvement
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:21 PM
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Imagine taking the final decision to alter the one body you will have for the rest of your life, with the goal in mind to increase your probability of having sex with some random hoe who values ink in a man
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:36 PM
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Can you give a rational explanation for the "showing interest and then never actually dating" shitty attitude?. I'm so done of despising girls because they schedule, reschedule and then reschedule again to end up flaking once more. The more I try to understand, the less I do And no, I'm not buying the bs of "avoiding conflict", because it's a ridiculous excuse at least in the cases I'm referring to
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:33 PM
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Putting yourself above her. Yourself meaning also your values. You can be a nice guy (honest, respectful, empathetic, etc) and maintain the good side of the "asshole". It all comes down to looking for your own acceptance, not hers. Keeping your frame and being loyal to yourself. Also not making a big deal of the woman. You should give her the value she earns, and that can never be more than how much you value yourself.
/r/seduction30/10/21 08:17 PM
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Do girls...? Do men...? There is nothing such as a universal response, same as there is no universal method to seduce women. I can make a woman's day (and the days that come after that), or I can make a woman uncomfortable for 1 minute. The key being that it should be 1 minute at the very maximum to realize that you are not welcome there. Anyways, some girls like it if it is done right, some other don't like it even if it is done right, nobody likes it if it's done wrong.
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:18 PM
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Yeah right? The lack of respect, honesty and personality overall...
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:35 PM
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That's a really good take on fear of rejection. Fking tribal life man that crap got into our heads real deep.
/r/seduction29/10/21 03:34 PM
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Very good. Question is, why women try to make me feel like they are interested and then do this? Especially when I'm never friendly in the sense of giving them praise and attention. What's the purpose? Making me lose time for the sake of it?
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:04 PM
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I agree with that. Now there is something I'm struggling to understand about a girl, can you help me before I start hating her? We are both 21, I walked into her in uni after not seein her for ages and asked how she was doing. We planned to go for coffee after morning lessons on Tuesday. Tuesday comes, she asks to reschedule for today because we will have more time to spend together. Today by the time we were supposed to meet she texts me that she had to go home earlier to do something. Hasn't p…
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:16 PM
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Taking them out on a date. I mean, for each time I actually meet a woman there are 2 flakes. I tried to see if I'm doing anything wrong about that but it doesn't seem the case. Also, I'm not gonna spend much time reflecting on such a stupid behaviour.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:02 PM
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Hahahaha that "hug with intent" thing left me thinking... What do you think the difference is with a friendly hug?
/r/seduction29/10/21 11:59 AM
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Meeting women who are free beings and honestly showing your intentions=bad person Insulting people you don't know and treating your partner as a possession=good Well that's some serious complexity you got going on there. Anyways I'm done at this
/r/seduction25/10/21 09:04 PM
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You're one of those many (around 30 people just in this thread, apparently) who will put the blame on the other guy if your GF cheats on you or simply finds that random dude to be a better match for her. Keep that attitude up, will bring a lot of good to your life and relationships!
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:50 PM
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Another powerful lesson in being friend-zoned by a hot girl is learning to humanize them. Seeing the worst sides of a woman you would usually put on a pedestal really helps you rationalize their value and the halo effect provoked by looks.
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:47 PM
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Yeah, it's really good to exercise your mind from time to time, I encourage you to try it before you start insulting people with such poor judgement
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:08 PM
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Internalize my words because it's not self-compassionate shit, if your exgf screwed the relationship over a random dude, she doesn't even deserve you to bear a grudge against that guy.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:42 PM
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If you really are trying to be your best version in a relationship and your GF leaves you for a random flirtatious dude, or cheats on you... Then it is you who deserves a better woman. Thank that "outside interference" who dared to seduce your GF and thus opened your eyes regarding her worth.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:28 PM
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Men who offer their GF more value than a random one night stand, those wouldn't be afraid. But yeah it's easier to criminalize other men instead of being the best boyfriend your woman can get
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:20 PM
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Selfish gains hahaha... I'm the one getting downvoted to hell while the true gentlemen of the post... straight consider GFs possessions that should not dare interact with a man that could put their current relationship on the spot. This is an easy detector for low self-steem guys who are afraid that their GF would choose other men over them. Maybe improve yourselves, work on your relationship, and let other people socialize the way they want to as long as it's respectful.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:14 PM
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It all comes down to being natural, instead of this two-faced approach that is so typical from women who fear their ego being hurt. Also try to use sense of humor and show interest when I'm trying to bear the conversation to deeper topics. In bed, make me feel desired with eye contact and let me lead. However this last part is not universal, not all men like their women submissive in bed.
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:04 PM
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I don't get why this is getting downvoted...
/r/seduction25/10/21 07:00 PM
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I see we have different perspectives for this matter. Now I have a simple question for you: when you are in love with a woman, do you require for her to automatically shut down any man who offers her the possibility to know each other?
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:35 PM
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Homewreckers? Hahahaha if the building goes down is because the structure in the first place was "a load of horseshit". Maybe it was the girl who had shitty values, or the relationship itself was rubbish, or even the boyfriend got too comfy and slowly killed all his attractiveness. The "homewrecker" is just introducing himself as an option for the girl to evaluate if he offers her anything better than what she currently has. Again, 0 blame on guys who hit on "taken" girls as long as they are hon…
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:47 PM
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As long as he doesn't sell the idea of a relationship to get laid and then kick her out, the OP wouldn't be doing anything wrong. The girl is in her right to find a better fit for her than her current bf, and also in the obligation to be loyal and respectful towards her current bf. OP has all freedom and 0 obligation in here.
/r/seduction25/10/21 04:35 PM
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Thank you lovely! Expect some follow-up by the birth of our first child! Hahaha
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:44 PM
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Hey! I wanted to update you on this. I finally sent her a voice message asking how was she doing. She seemed interested too so I told her I'd rather speak to her in person. Tuesday after class we will be grabbing coffee together!
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:09 PM
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Hey, how long do you talk with girls before you ask their number? Introducton, p&p, basic info and close? Then, when and how do you message them? Thank you!
/r/seduction23/10/21 01:06 PM
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Try around the humanities faculty of some university
/r/seduction22/10/21 02:38 PM
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I advocate for the mindset thing. For instance I was very insecure as a kiddo. Then around 14 yo, when I already was more confident generally, I started improving my English for real. And man, by 16yo I looked like two different beings depending on whether I was speaking my native language or the language I learnt being a teenager.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:10 PM
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Improving the aspects of my life that will attract them girlz. Just kidding, I mostly try to nourish those values and attitudes that I think allign with my nature and personality. Also daily meditation and exercise. Also devoting some time to really LIVING my hobbies, connecting with the fragrances I smell, with the music I listen to, with the movies I watch and with the people I talk to.
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:07 PM
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I see your point! It's too bad how unlikely it is for me to physically run into her again. So I'm going to send her a voice message and I'll avoid bringing up this thing about my exgf. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and don't even mind downvoters, this subreddit is crammed with people who need to assert themselves any way they can to feel less insecure
/r/seduction21/10/21 07:14 PM
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Seems like I didn't make it clear enough that my main concern is not seeing her in person again. Otherwise I wouldn't even consider texting over interacting. Btw I planned to tell her in some moment that I used to find her quite interesting but didn't give her a shot because in that moment I was in a relationship. Why do you advice against this?
/r/seduction21/10/21 06:29 PM
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I also much rather have in person interactions, but the thing is it has been 3 years since I last saw her. It makes sense to message her now. It won't make sense two months from now if I don't see her again in the meantime
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:53 PM
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Thank you! Your perspective is the most coherent I think. Do you think I should ask her out right after we have the "reencounter" small talk, or would it feel more natural to keep in touch for some days before I make a move?
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:44 PM
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The best start is in building up your confidence, your life, your social skills and becoming comfortable with talking to strangers (be it men, old women, or sexy mamasitas)
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:51 PM
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Bro you just mentioned how meeting and dating women with your "system" has turned this activity into a dull, routinary task for you. And yet you are recommending people to follow your ways? Ever thought maybe it is you who needs a change?
/r/seduction21/10/21 12:03 PM
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Good thing you are not going to lose the thread in those lessons because of getting lost in thoughts about you talking to that girl
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:25 PM
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There's something that I don't understand here. Say that you cold approach 10 girls a week. After 6 months (300 approaches) you only got 2 women into bed, even if you have days like today in which you add 3 new contacts? That seems weird to me
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:20 PM
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Why should she smile a stranger when you lock eyes? Of all the girls that have shown me interest with their look, only the most drunk smiled me on the distance. Neither do I smile a woman I don't know before I approach her. Weird
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:08 PM
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Get used to talking to people you don't know, just for the sake of socializing. Once you have 0 insecurities engaging a conversation with whoever, you can start approaching attractive women
/r/seduction18/10/21 05:03 PM
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I'm all about natural game, but regarding this... Man if I go with whatever comes to mind in the moment I will automatically comment on her looks, and I don't like to strike a conversation so directly, it's uncomforting for many girls since you are putting her on the spot. I'm curious about what do you usually come up with in these situations?
/r/seduction16/10/21 06:11 PM
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Being constantly aware of the things in my life and personality that I am proud of, and actively working on that stuff I want to improve
/r/seduction16/10/21 07:15 AM
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Only way to get a girl pregnant without cumming inside her, is having intercourse after cumming and not peeing after that. So you should never have 2 rounds one after the other without a pee break. Other than that you are safe to go (if you have self-control and awareness of your orgasms...). But I repeat, STD is a bitch
/r/seduction11/10/21 10:34 PM
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"the pullout method is a myth"??? If you are as good at flirting as at biology, I'm sure you won't be spending much money on condoms. However I will always recommend a condom with these kind of girls for STD reasons
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:26 PM
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Just be open with him about how you feel about a relationship with him. You know that you'll harm yourself if you have sex even knowing that he only wants you for fun. So be stronger than that and close your legs if he makes it clear that he doesn't want anything serious. If you don't resist the temptation everything will be fked up, so keep that in mind when the juice starts dripping off the cave.
/r/seduction11/10/21 06:46 AM
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Yo girl he's been an honest gentleman to you, I think you should just accept that he isn't looking for the same things as you are, and if you have sex with him that will fk your friendship up for good, since you'll feel deceived when he doesn't text you a "good morning queen how did you sleep" on the next moening.
/r/seduction10/10/21 08:51 PM
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Always on Todd's team. The most natural and less disturbing way to meet random women who are just minding their business.
/r/seduction10/10/21 07:55 PM
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Shhh shhh everything will be just fine baby boy
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:33 PM
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Needing direct game to escalate is the reason you lose 4/5 women that would potentially be into you. And no, you shouldn't be down to fuck before having had any conversation with her. Any girl that gives her pussy some value won't go to bed with a guy who's dominated by his cock to that degree.
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:48 PM
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Being so direct makes it look like you are already down to fuck her without having a word with her. I don't think that adds points to your appeal... And also puts her on the spot, so if she is in doubt (like 80% yes and 20% no) she'll say no just not to feel like a whore. Often times it is much more profitable to take things slightly slowlier.
/r/seduction09/10/21 06:25 PM
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If you want to improve your game you need to detach from people's disapproval. Same as a woman will have her own reasons to reject you and you should not feel moved by that, you should not give a fk if someone roasts you as this user is doing. If you are sure of yourself and what you do, you'll be indiferent to people's criticism in whichever form. Regarding the post per se, I personally would find it weird if someone approached me with no intent at all. "What's your name", "how you doing" "I wa…
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:28 PM
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Never make one woman the owner of your night. If things don't escalate very quickly just assume it's not meant to be. Exchange nunbers and move on to another girl and don't dismiss that you could find that other woman chasing you around the club. But never, never expect anything from anyone you just met unless she is literally grabbing your cock.
/r/seduction09/10/21 02:49 PM
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I'd bleed out clapping you. You have to decide yourself what makes you valuable, not this sick society that is moved by the interests of big corporations. Capitalism is fucking up both men and women's self-steem, but especially men who feel compelled to reach enormous standards... Just base your value on things that depend on yourself and that's it. Work on what you particularly consider is worthwhile and fulfils your soul. To give an example, I always had a shitty relationship with my parents. …
/r/seduction08/10/21 02:07 PM
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I would approach it as what it is, hanging out to know her better and have a nice time. No need to label it as a "potentially sexual encounter". If you feel like you wanna have sex once into the date simply escalate things as a man, not as a lawyer that conveys explicitly the conditions of the meetup.
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:30 PM
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Agreed on everything. I'm trying to grow balls to approach girls in college, but I wouldn't feel confortable using direct openers (hey you look cute I wanna meet you, etc), what do you recommend me?
/r/seduction07/10/21 12:27 PM
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About podcasts, any in which there is casual conversation. Not serious stuff, but rather debating on quotidiane matters or situations, sharing anecdotes... That kind of thing. Then, you should find public figures that simply allign with your values and background, and which you admire for this and their social skills or whatever. In my case it was Russell Brand, yours might be a buddhist youtuber, some footballer, Keanu Reeves, etc...
/r/seduction07/10/21 11:07 AM
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I think you'll find what you want in a channel named Sergio Sorokin
/r/seduction06/10/21 08:08 PM
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That's not a universal truth either... It's all about the mindset, yes, but not all people react the same way to being in unknown land.
/r/seduction06/10/21 08:01 AM
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For me it's all about the vibe you convey with your eyes. Make me feel desired and, depending on your natural way of being, look at me with submission or dominance. No vanilla sex unless you are my gf
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:05 PM
2

From what we know, I'd suggest something like "hey it's X from Y, what about meeting this weekend without your parents' eyes fixes on us?". Regarding your confidence issues... Man it's easy: you were drunk = you were being more yourself, without so many filters = she liked you the way you are deep within = cut the bs and be yourself, it's done.
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:33 AM
3

Agreed, and I would add... Don't expect anything from women until they introduce you to your parents. I've had "relationships" that went quite beyond a 3rd date and still were full of shit. Don't assume a girl has caught feelings for you at least until she formally introduces you to her parents
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:48 PM
1

Then be persistent on doing what I said and you'll get it!
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:54 AM
1

There's no fast path for what you are asking, but the best route I'd say is: Meditation + stoicism + cold showers (those will teach you to face irrational fears)
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:52 PM
1

Got it, thanks for the explanation pal that makes sense
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:11 AM
1

Did you really find making out with a girl to make it harder to meet her afterwards? That seems quite illogical to me, can you explain please?
/r/seduction26/09/21 10:13 PM
2

So? Just have an "adult" conversation, tell them that you need a place to lay girls and your room is better than the street or a public bathroom.
/r/seduction24/09/21 02:03 PM
4

Learn about escalation. Then invite a girl you like for coffee some evening and if things go well after 1-2h into the date you can tell her to go home "watch that movie I have been wanting to watch for some time". Ofc before anything try to talk your parents into letting you take girls to your room. Mine were very nice in this matter, all they asked me was not to listen anyone moan or see nude women around the house.
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:59 PM
9

In which planet...? Almost every girl that feels slightly attractive knows that when a guy just "randomly" approaches her is because he is appealed by her physical attractiveness. Plus, if your only way to set a man-woman atmosphere is to explicitly refer to her appeal as a feminine figure, then you got some skills to train. And you won't learn these by doing things the same way forever.
/r/seduction23/09/21 04:22 PM
2

Steppenwolf
/r/seduction21/09/21 07:00 PM
1

I can see your point but no need to put it in this diminishing, almost sexist way. It's far better (also for yourself) to see women as in need of your manliness to feel completed, rather than putting them straight below you.
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:10 AM
1

Something congruent with your opener) how you opened the conversation. Which was it, btw?
/r/seduction17/09/21 11:39 AM
3

I see. You need to move on and stop harming yourself over that failure. Instead, turn that page and write on the back what you can learn from it. That is, you should approach any woman as soon as your brain gives you the first signal that you can and want to approach her. The more you overthink, the worse. In many senses. Good luck pal.
/r/seduction13/09/21 08:05 PM
3

Every attempt is a completely renewed attempt (unless you mean hitting on a same girl 746363 times), so don't let past failure absorb present and future success
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:25 PM
1

Your lack of confidence comes from feeling that you don't deserve her attention, so just humanize girls. Same as you have flaws and insecurities although being very attractive, all women have. Also, work on your internal world (set of values, goals, etc) and learn to appreciate these things in a girl beyond her beauty. This way, you will only idealize her when you believe that she "has everything" and is even better than you at your own game.
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:07 AM
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Don't lose your time explaining a dog how to use a fork: you will upset the dog and it won't change his manners. When people don't want to admit their mindset is wrong, they will go through ridiculous lengths in order to not understand you. This quote the OP is bringing up is probably the best thing you can internalize out of the sea of BS that PUA try to sell
/r/seduction07/09/21 12:05 PM
1

Your words are really inspiring mate! You seem very well put together, I congratulate you on that :)
/r/seduction31/08/21 05:27 PM
1

I think you got the key. Making it feel natural to simply speak to strangers. And on the paper that's fking right! I mean we are all humans, I'm a nice guy so what's the harm on letting somebody know me? But I guess I have fear of looking like a weirdo or discomoforting someone by doing that. Can you advice me on how to take that first step? What do I need to switch my mindset?
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:03 AM
1

I usually try to keep it safe when it comes to hitting on classmates or workmates, so... I'd start the convo in a cheesy way, Idk, something like "I am glad to inform you that I'm satisfied by your offer and I'd be absolutely eager to teach you Chinese in exchange for 40€ per hour. Anytime. Sincerely, (your name)". This way you get her laughing (hopefully, otherwise you have nothing to do there) and then you can tell her that it would also work for you if she bought you a couple of drinks after …
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:34 PM
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Horrible, that's how it is. First thing is to make the encounter feel as NATURAL as possible. You are interacting with her, not hunting. And following that line, INTERACT... Create some comfort, show her that you are a high value guy (confident, social, fun...) and then suggest that you should go for coffee together some day. Your goal shouldn't be to grab her number, but to have a nice conversation and find out if she is worth knowing.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:09 PM
16

I personally would have struggled to get the conversation going with this unknown man. Can you explain how you started things?
/r/seduction21/08/21 01:30 PM
3

I see your point. Not only is it important in order to make the best out of your time, but also to avoid the frustration from finding that no matter how good you do you won't stir x women's interest. Now, could you tell us what's that you pay attention the most in order to spot which attempts are worthless to follow?
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:54 PM
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Not sure if this is a troll or what. Seduction is about getting laid with girls who initially are not into you for shallow reasons. Your method doesn't work at all if she doesn't feel some attraction from the start.
/r/seduction21/07/21 09:55 PM
1

The joke about chasing... It was sth like "if you pay so much attention when you're driving as when I'm talking you'll get that license for sure", because she commented on me something about my life she had heard while I was talking to another guy. Nothing exaggerate nor weird as you can see.
/r/seduction10/09/19 11:09 AM
1

Nah I don't even consider myself as a gamer, but I have read about some cases here in this sub and also lists of tips and all those basic things. The thing about the hypothesis, I wrote it that way just to connect the ideas, I like writing and I thought this was the best way to explain myself hahah also I'm not English so maybe I just didn't find better words. The joke about chasing... It was sth like "if you pay so much attention when you're driving as when I'm talking you'll get that license f…
/r/seduction08/09/19 07:49 PM
1

Okay thanks for the opinion mate! Do you also think that abusing from neg was the mistake?
/r/seduction08/09/19 03:06 PM
2

Uhm appreciate your opinion mate. Probably I didn't even realize that every second I would be focusing on the other boys instead of on her the day of the exam, that felt to her like if I was negging... So damn hard to calibrate not chasing her/showing interest in a situation like that
/r/seduction08/09/19 10:32 AM
1

Oookay I was thinking about sending her an audio quickly explaining why I didn't accept her follow request and telling her why I think we would get along if we met some day. I guess the best I can do is what you are saying.
/r/seduction08/09/19 10:03 AM
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Ooooh okay I got your point, it's a very good perspective. In that case, I think the best will be to wait for some time we accidentally meet and then create a sexual vibe. Next time try to do this explanation instead of just deprecating the op. Thanks anyway.
/r/seduction08/09/19 10:01 AM
1

That's a good observation, u're probably right. Do u think I can do anything now or it would be awkward to talk to her again before I casually see her around the street?
/r/seduction08/09/19 09:06 AM
1

Lol I'd be pleased to know what made u think that hahah
/r/seduction08/09/19 09:04 AM
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