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| 15 | Gym gameDo u even lift bro? | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:11 AM |
| 3 | How does one attract a "baddie" type?Join a gang you'll do fine until you get arrested, then you're on your own for commissary and visits unless you set money aside or got her pregnant | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Started reading "Models" to get women, started improving myself insteadI comment on those posts. Thank you I'm aware of the subreddits I follow and I'm allowed to have a throwaway account for nsfw stuff | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.Getting no action from bitches is no excuse for poor formatting of text. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:45 PM |
| -11 | Started reading "Models" to get women, started improving myself insteadIf this worthless trash helped you you'd be better off with a boyfriend | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately afterYeah she probably wants to forget she was such a slut to give it up so fast and that typically she never does that. Either it had nothing to do with you, or you did something incredibly stupid to make her feel like a slut and never want to talk to you again. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 07:36 AM |
| 3 | Dont be afraid to approach women.I can sit around here all day and rattle off scientific facts that will convince that typically women have lower sex drives than men, and that the average guy will be better off understanding this, or I can just nod my head because I don't want to spend all evening arguing with someone in online forums. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Why would she give me her number and not reply :/Sometimes that happens. One time I was flirting with a girl in a bookstore and got her instagram but was blocked by the time I got home. In retrospect insta may not be the best platform to share if you follow a lot of the thots there showing off their boobs and butt when all your friends can see who you follow, like and comment | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 0 | having a sex doll instead of dating?It's not going to replace your need for a connection with someone. It'll just be slightly better than masturbation. Sex is a biological need why do you think there's billions of us on the planet we outbreed the food supply and species go extinct, and we go to war for lack of resources rather than slow down. | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Can you just approach women anywhere?You can approach women everywhere. Most people will preach daygame is way easier than pickup in bars and clubs but in my experience getting some random chick's number hardly ever leads to anything | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | treat all girls the same regardless of their beautyWe can barely tell you came up with this advice in 5 minutes 'Chad' | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | TBH getting pussy isn't that difficult despite what i thought beforespeak for yourself i do all this shit can't get past first date | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Doing a hooker with a condom is about as safe as picking up a stranger at a bar for sex | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Or you could just hit fwb twice and swipe on some dating app after, or get a job and hire a hooker so it's a sure thing | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I usually just go to Bikini Bars and Lingerie Cafes. No sex but at least I can look. I should get better at gaming because only action I get is in shady massage parlors, but I've spent dozens of nights out with no prospects and it's definitely frustrating. I'd rather see eye candy than spend all night striking out. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No, but tbh I thought this was wallstreetbets I thought I could find some pussy that was undervalued | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | What kinds of people are in the same "circles" as Instagram models?You can follow them without having to date them. What if I told you dating a perfect photo was difficult? | /r/seduction | 06/02/22 07:05 AM |
| 5 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?You must have just joined the Internet son | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]The good news is that even if you paid all her bills like a sucker she still probably wouldn't sleep with you. If she continues to push for you to pay for everything she's trying to use you so get rid of her. She should've known you had no money when you ordered back to back domestic beers for $3 | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Some Insights I've Learned from Gaming ModelsIn my experience attractive women are more confident, demanding, and mean than an average chick who might look like your mother. They are more likely to demand you pay for dinner, ignore your texts, reject you, etc. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Stop begging for girls attention, be abundant.Actually, I was pretty butt hurt over rejection until I started looking at it differently. It's her telling you she's not going to put any effort into it, so walk away now. She could either reciprocate your approach, reject your approach, or ignore your approach. Let's say she's not into you but really wants a bf cuz all her friends have one. Now if she starts treating you bad, expecting you to buy her things, and treat her right even when she treats you wrong you probably wouldn't want that. So… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating coach offered me a deal?I've read books by dating coaches and followed their programs on the dotted line, yet their techniques still failed. Their advice may help you with your goals, but you may want to just buy a DVD or watch youtube videos. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | What is your advice for someone who is terrible at escalating intimacy?You can try touching her shoulder during a joke or something. Gauge how she feels about physical touch. At the end of the date try and kiss her on the cheek. If she is ok with that she may want your tongue, etc. From there it's pretty ez to get to the bedroom. But if any of those tests fail you can stop and slow down, or give up and try another girl. Otherwise if you push to hard for bedroom stuff it might be a deal breaker. A lot of women want to wait and they want to wait a long time. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | I slept with 2 cute Russian girls in 3 daysI hear Russians like to fuck Ukranians | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You gotta transition from business to something personal before you ask for her number. Now every time you work out you're that guy she rejected. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here actually gotten laid at a club or bar?I have. I remember it being a lot harder than I thought it would be before dating apps were around. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 03:35 AM |
| 4 | This is a friendly reminder that you should start a skincare routine if you don't have oneYou'll start to get crow's feet, wrinkles, dark circles or more when you get older but there's cream for that too; or Botox | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What’s the worst piece of advice you’ve gotten on this sub?Not a real friend if she's flipping out over small peanuts like this | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Book Review - How to Succeed with WomenI'd rather go with the know. These are supposedly 'experts' in dating. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 10:25 PM |
| -1 | 21 Rules (Principles not game)20? Sure if you can manage to get 3 booty calls rather than one that's great, but she's going to think you're a pig, and the more partners you have the more chances that you will catch something so it's good to be monogamous. Plus you don't want to go down on her if she's also sleeping with someone else. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 10:23 PM |
| -5 | How to stop being intimated by hot girls?Being "hot" is not as rare, or as valuable as you make it seem. Maybe 1 out of 4 women is attractive, then you gotta subtract that many are already in relationships or just bat-shit crazy. I've seen bombshells sitting at the bus stop, or at discount clothing stores. Even if she still rejected you, would you really care? Then you gotta factor in that she's a chick so 100% of her conversations will be boring, you can't play sports with her, she's not into sports or your favorite movies at all, she… | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 04:24 PM |
| 95 | How to stop being intimated by hot girls?Hang around hot chicks frequently and they will seem normal | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There's several spots in LA like N. Western ave where hookers frequent. They put up signs that say 'no right turns' because they don't want you doing them in residential areas. It's not really safe though and the police crack down on it every once in awhile. You can get em as cheap as $20 though if you're willing to risk it. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | So basically you have to act all distant and not-care-ish for women to like you?Yeah. That's it. The one factor that makes you successful with women. Congratulations all of men's frustrations solved. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 07:12 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you?You mean strippers that aggressively try to get that VIP dance? No thanks | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing (not negging), and eye contact are key to being viewed as a romantic interest, not a platonic friendYeah I try to remember to be playful and do stuff like this. I was flirting with a girl the other day but she didn't respond to it. She takes herself very seriously and I'm losing interest fast for other prospects. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 5 | She was hot, but...I also do this maybe look at 2 or 3 photos read a few sentences of her profile then if we match do a deeper dive into her profile to get a big picture. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:56 PM |
| 3 | She was hot, but...Actually it wasn't a match. She "liked" my profile and I had a choice to like hers in return to match, but just declined after seeing all these red flags. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Subtle touch, flirting, teasing (not negging), and eye contact are key to being viewed as a romantic interest, not a platonic friendI have a lot of women interested in me at the moment, but it's mostly just friendliness and I'm trying to find a girlfriend. Also, I feel women are very demanding, and putting their foot down for marriage and children very early without discussing finances. They also take forever to respond. It's all just a huge hassle. I really wish I could avoid dating altogether but it's part of life. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 0 | [Update] Asked 2 girls on the same date. One flaked. The other became a new friends with benefits.8 months is a weird period of time to measure. "Data" we get from forums like this are very iffy. We are just supposed to believe at face value all the closes OP gets. (edit: included photo which most ppl don't do for anonymity). Why invest our time on skewed data? I'm unsubscribing. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | As a male, you MUST move outAs someone who has moved out let me tell you they don't care either way. They still bitch and complain unless you own $5 million dollar property | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:47 AM |
| 2 | I’ve been doing porn for nearly 4 years because I was fed up with pickupYeah seems like a dream come true. Instead of shelling out all your money on prostitutes you actually get paid to F hot women. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:16 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]It wasn't enough to put them in the hospital. Now I gotta start putting them in the grave. | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe get the tumor removed from your brain that makes you think hiking and volunteering is exciting? | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Men...this is the main reason you aren't getting laidLol. if you're social with sex workers this might help you get laid. Probably not a big enough factor for that girl next door. Nice try though. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You could literally just read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus to get an idea about dating. But I'd recommend The Game from Neil Strauss | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:18 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Sexual desire can be like hunger. You fix it you fix it for a day and you're thirsty again soon. It's a bottomless pit | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Every first date that ended with a kiss on the cheek/forehead has wen to a 2nd date. 100 percent of the timen=3 is a small sample size. I haven't gone on a second date though from more than a dozen first dates so it's worth a try. | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I went to the night club maybe 5x in the course of a couple months and nothing ever happened. Charged $30 cover 2 hours line to get in the girls all thought they were the shit, and didn't want to talk to anyone besides their stupid friends. Tried going back on Saturday when it was 21+ the place was empty. | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Stop Focusing on Your LooksIf you are black-pill then you already gave up and writing a manifesto | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Extra points if you nut in her eye during sex and get her best friends number | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:59 AM |
| 6 | Appreciation for Models by Mark MansonI picked up this book because a lot of people talk about it. I've already read one or two chapters. Seems pretty weak. Might try again. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I just asked a tinder girl out.That seems like most girls on dating apps. All of a sudden they are minor celebrities with all the male attention. I recently unmatched someone after only a day. I had been talking to some woman and we were planning to get drinks but because she kept canceling we had been talking for nearly a month. Anyways I was afraid it was going to be same old story- we meet, nothing happens, I text a few days later she says sorry not interested. So I brought up sex and she got really uncomfortable and unmat… | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 05:38 PM |
| 0 | The most attractive thing to women is a transcendent emotional experience.And so says the Amida Buddha | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Any older female virgins (>25)? How do you get over it?Hinge is more for serious relationships than casual sex, but I'm sure it's easier to find a guy into nsa fun than women | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm almost 40 some girl recently gave me her number at the strip club early 20's. She begged me to text her there but when I actually texted her it was always "delete my number" "leave me alone". One day she'd be cool the next day a train wreck. And she was a stripper so she was used to treating guys like atm's. Glad it's over but I'll definitely look at the fantasy of a sexually open younger woman quite differently from now on. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 08:57 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]She probably just started the Instagram for male attention. May as well get rid of her now and save yourself heartache later on when you start thinking about marriage. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!You don't have to be a millionaire to bang a hot prostitute. But even then you still don't date them | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sYeah chicks even tell me that a lot of dudes have six packs. They are probably always matched with at least 5 dudes that have them if they are on a dating app. Stupid. I gotta diet and do 100 crunches everyday just to get a girlfriend? Retarded | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 06:41 PM |
| 1 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!I think money is a big factor, but chicks aren't into rich assholes as much as guys think. We always think money makes up for bad game then we all of a sudden need to be a billionaire to get a gf. You could buy her a cheap $20 gift or flowers every once in awhile, and more expensive jewelry or stuff on her birthday and she will probably be happy. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:50 AM |
| 3 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!I think even if you had money you would ditch a gold digging prostitute so those women don't count since they cancel themselves out | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 01:46 AM |
| 0 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidSeduction works but you have to have everything else in place too - be attractive, be rich, be funny. Then it gets easy; and you still won't get every chick, but you'll know which ones to focus on and which ones not to waste your time with because 100% they will say no and bring you misery. So if saying the right thing, and going her pace only accounts for making her want you 10-20% shouldn't you be focusing on the core stuff that every woman wants? | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Are women the most driving life force (for you) ?Finally a post that isn't negative | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How would you chase down an old lead?I wouldn't try to rekindle an old flame. Almost never works out | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 05:51 AM |
| 11 | How would you react if someone flirts with your gf in front of youThat dude got some balls I guess. No other chick he gotta fight some dude for ass? What the hell he do for lunch, just skip the deli and start robbing people for no reason | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 02:56 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah dude. How many times have you seen Batgirl blow Robin? They always like #2... | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 11:01 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]If you spread your seed across too much plough it's going to harvest wrong. Focus on a few chicks and rotate them if not to your liking. They are doing the same thing. Is it ok to bang fat chicks? I guess just remember if that condom breaks that fat chick could be your fat baby momma | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 07:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You can get a cheap hotel (or expensive depending on the girl). Most girls that age are ok with you living with your parents still, but you should be actively trying to fix that. I'd say a lot of chicks are also ok with sex in the back of your car. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 07:03 PM |
| 1 | What should I say if a girl sends me a bikini picture?There's thousands of photos online of beautiful women better looking than her for free. Do you want to learn a language which is a very good skill, or do you want to play games with this girl and get blocked? I'd recommend going to a chatroom. Just learning a language to flirt isn't going to help you get from the airport to the hotel or order food in a restaurant. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Never ask if she has a boyfriendI don't know about you I'm not jumping in line when a girl snaps her finger | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 05:27 PM |
| 37 | A female friend told me that I have no sexual vibe. What to do?Always take women's advice with a grain of salt. Usually it's from a woman's perspective so revolves around her needs, not a guy's. And don't forget that for her women are just friends. She's probably not dating women so her interactions with women are very different. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 12:07 AM |
| 3 | What's the psychology behind women who are into rough play, bdsm, slutty behaviour?There's nothing wrong with a woman just because she enjoys sex or wants to be promiscuous. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?Confidence, and for whatever reason the gods smiled on me that day | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 03:37 AM |
| -1 | Girl wants to hookup, I’m too nervousI feel the same way when she tells me she just wants to be friends; then I kick her to the curb and f8$2&k everything within a 10-mile radius. ain't nothing but a gangster party | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 09:45 AM |
| 1 | If being needy is the least attractive thing, why do so many needy guys end up doing well with women?I think the "least attractive trait" is really up to the other party (i.e. women), and they are probably not doing as well as appears on the surface | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 09:22 AM |
| -1 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?If you can manage to get a girl over to your place and you can't figure out what to do from there. I don't know much that can help you... | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 06:50 AM |
| 2 | How to avoid a girl groups when trying to flirt with someone?This is called cock-blocking. There's PUA material out there how to deal with this. It's kind of complicated and not 100% so not sure the best way at the top of my head | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 1 | If you brush off sex on the first date does that make a girl fall harder for you?Typically you're not supposed to go for sex on the first date it's too soon, unless maybe you've discussed it via text or phone call. But be careful that first "chance" may be the only opportunity for sex you get. Believing you are supposed to wait because society says you're supposed to wait can be a trap. She probably has other men into her, and she could just be horny at the moment but not into you enough for a second attempt. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Stop deluding yourselves that cold approach isn't necessaryI'd cold approach a woman at a bar or night club, but if it's like the mall or the park usually I avoid it. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Is anyone using machine learning to identify fat chicks?Very funny. You could probably use a fat chick in your life | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Fuck the gameyea he should take a break. sounds like he feels entitled to sex, or something and women can smell it. next, he'll be in a jail cell after a sexual assault or rape from his anger issues with women. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 30s who are not in a committed relationship and still hookup with random women, how do you deal with pressure from society?I don't meet many women that admit they want to hook up unfortunately. Not without adding a price tag to it. The average woman telling me she wants a serious long-term relationship is like a cop telling me they have an empty cell waiting for me. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Women want a man with an edge and some balls. Looks and status aren’t enoughLol | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds pretty bad. I'd cancel just be honest tell her you're nervous need some time to deal with stuff. Might be better to hope for a second chance than to get rejected for sloppy first date. If she's pretty she's probably got dozens of guys throwing themselves and their wallets at her; competition is rough. You can probably read like 2 or 3 articles online how to succeed 1st date that will boost your confidence. Just keep it short and sweet. Wait til 2nd or 3rd date for kill. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:43 AM |
| 25 | Shoot. Your. Shot.Congratulations on your success, but I don't think anyone considers it seduction when you are pulling her teeth every minute for progress. People would prefer smoother scenarios where the signals are louder. Sure this may be all there is sometimes, or nothing, but clearly this is not the ideal situation and most men would rather just sit at home and watch porn or talk to cam girls than putting all this effort into it for a "chance" | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Women want a man with an edge and some balls. Looks and status aren’t enoughIf anyone is curious. Being ugly with no money but having "edge and balls" will get you maybe one chick out of 100. | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Seeing them every day?If you like the person see them as often as you want. If you don't like them make excuses. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | Approach Us!!!I think the last 5 or 6 girls I've approached had boyfriends. I don't want any drama so it ended there. | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Looking for best cities to meet attractive women in their late 20s to Mid 30sAny big city with more than 100,000 people is going to be full of hot chicks. | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Escalation with honestyI didn't know she was a stripper or big into drugs. We met through a dating app and she told me these things when we met. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Escalation with honestyIn the last 10 dates I went on there has only been one opportunity to kiss the girl, but she had such a filthy mouth and was a stripper and drug addict; so it would have been like kissing a trash can. | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Escalation with honestySometimes they don't like it when you ask. They just prefer if you go for it. Usually gauging her signals you can tell if she's ready or if you could at least go for it without her backing off and vomitting and pretending she just got dunked in slime. Unfortunately, in the last 10 dates I probably had maybe one chance for a kiss but it would have been like kissing a trash can. | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 08:51 AM |
| 2 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?That was a thread in their subreddit | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | What is the best book, guide or online site that goes into very detailed review of different seduction/dating concepts and how to implement them?"Men don't have sexual needs. They have desires and addictions to degrade, dominate, humiliate, feel powerful, get other men's approval" | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 09:01 AM |
| 4 | Where is the best place to make approaches?In strip clubs they walk up to you. Yeah you gotta spend money, but that's life. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 07:56 AM |
| 2 | How do I get over the fear of appearing and being known as the "thirsty desperate dude" when approaching?As long as you don't stare at her tits or her ass or make any overtly sexual comments it's not going to come off as creepy. You can practice flirting with your coworkers but I'd recommend against trying anything romantic with them as it could create drama and jeopardize your job and income. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 07:00 AM |
| 135 | Struggling with girls in collegeThey can't hook up with those guys if the guys are in the hospital. I'd recommend taking Kung Fu lessons and just whoop all their ass. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsSure going into debt or maxing out your credit card to some sugar baby is wrong, but buying something inexpensive like a card shows you care about her and it can be a talking point. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:31 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I'd suggest going to a gay club so there is no confusion. Man clubbing as a guy many times is a bust if you don't already know the girl before you bring her, and guys will probably be hitting on her all night if you do know her. I've gone plenty of times only to get rejected majority of the night what a waste of $20 or $30 cover. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:21 AM |
| 1 | How do I pick up girlsYeah if you don't have any game it's a very long and tedious process, and she could and many times will back out before lay anyways screwing up all the time and effort you put into seducing her which is why you should try juggling 2-3 women at once as a bare minimum. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]For her to feel safe you should try going back to her place (1), getting a hotel (2), or finally you're place if the other 2 aren't an option (3) in that order | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Any tips to improve game on snapchat? Do you snap girls all the time? Do you post a story all the time?I think a long time ago I convinced a girl to meet me through snap. I'd ditch it unless you got an amazing life that app will probably hurt your chances with her | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | It isn't about the success of approaching, it's knowing you can approach whomever with easeProgress but success = lays | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 01:42 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]No, you screw both of them or put your testicles and manhood in storage | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?Chicks don't go to the gym to get massive like guys. You want to get big? Get a male workout buddy or personal trainer. If you want to be her gay friend ask her to be workout buddies. | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?I have a small apartment and my car isn't very impressive. Sometimes she sees my car or apartment and it's a deal breaker. | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree that flirting with women on your daily routine (coffee shop, gym etc.) can open up opportunities later on and it's good practice. | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 06:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Cold approaching? | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 09:05 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You can talk to women in bars or church or something. I don't think it's a good idea to hang around malls, beaches, and other public places trying to get a phone number. It's full of teenagers and it will look suspicious. | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 12:34 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys approach girls and flirt in nightclubs?Girls in night clubs are selfish and superficial and most aren't even that hot. If you're just a regular guy you are going to get rejected all night before you find one that is interested. So if you really want a girl it's just a numbers game and don't worry if 10 or 20 say FU before you meet one who says hello. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]What's the point? They don't like it and it rarely turns into anything. You're better off getting a job then hiring an escort. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I don't know but according to some other woman on here if you don't follow her home there's a good chance you'll get laid, despite that most men aren't doing that anyway and they are stuck with porn. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 09:52 AM |
| -1 | Finally lost my virginity at the age of 25. Thank you seddit!If seddit advice is Internet trolls calling you an incel or a cuck; then I should be happy too. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 09:46 AM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]Well it's not always a good experience, unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 09:31 AM |
| -4 | [deleted by user]I'm not going to give you any ammo for you to troll me, because that comment is a trap. | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 08:56 AM |
| -9 | [deleted by user]It would be nice if they would just get regular jobs instead of turning tricks, but they'd rather just do sex work and complain all men are pigs. | /r/seduction | 11/11/21 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Girl at the gym views my insta stories without following meAsk her why she keeps posting weird stuff | /r/seduction | 09/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | The best thing you can do is cut girls off that aren’t seriousYea this bitch was all excited to hang out this weekend, now the day before she already lost interest. All the time and effort I put into flirting wasted. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 08:36 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]She probably had a hunch | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 08:26 AM |
| 0 | I've had 76 lays total as a result of dating apps in my life, with over half of those lays (43) coming from the past 2 years alone. Here's my advice on how to create a profile/bio that can do the same for you.So you spent all day putting together a fact-sheet on how to get laid by shallow sluts that will probably give you a disease or accuse you of rape? great... | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 07:37 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]When I was younger I hooked up with a 21yo girl that said she'd already blown like 50 guys. Gross | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’How dare you not like nice guys. Nice girls are 10x worse they are serial killers | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 06:28 AM |
| -6 | Why pickup will change your life.It's good to see you're getting new victims | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | How effective is the "fuck it, I'm nervous but I'm going to ask her out anyway" approach?A few times I've seen a hot babe when I'm out and wanted to chat her up, but she was on her phone or I didn't think she'd be into me, but I just tried anyway and got numbers a few times. Usually rejection can be light-hearted, but every once in awhile you'll meet a chick who thinks you're a psychopath for approaching a stranger and she'll lecture you or threaten to call the police or something. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You were ice cream flavor of the week bud | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 02:58 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I don't think it's the best way to meet women | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Cold approaching strangers will get you numbers but it usually doesn't work out. They all assume you're a player and a creep | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Three (3!) girls asked me for my number this weekendI have low swipe-match ratio. I'm sure I swiped over 100x to get those 20 matches. Probably over 500x | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Three (3!) girls asked me for my number this weekendI had 20 matches total. Of those I swiped and matched with about 10. Then I got about 3 phone numbers from those 10. I then deleted the app before matching with the other 10. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Three (3!) girls asked me for my number this weekendI hadn't used dating apps in couple months and I had about 20 matches. I got 3 numbers in a couple hours and I'm an average looking guy | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Do women really approach guys at bars?I've had a couple women send me drinks, but it doesn't happen too often. | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Made out with girl the whole night and didn’t take her homeI haven't had a chance to kiss a woman in awhile. They just talk all night long and never shut up and ruin any chance of me wanting them | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 08:39 AM |
| 1 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Don't let her bait you then use you all over again | /r/seduction | 23/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Be a sexy celeb in all the magazines?? | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Cold Approach That Reminded Me Why I Love Cold ApproachI was forced to abandon smartphones and do CA. I did ok | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | How can I go from "square" to "seductive" in my conversations???Stay focused on romance and try and lead it into that direction. Don't be friends but notice her signals and how she responds. Touch her, talk about kissing, or love or attraction. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 07:18 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I used to have a couple pickup lines memorized and just tried to sarge her into bed, but this latest book written by dating coaches suggests just try and say "hi" or "how are you" and be natural. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 07:16 AM |
| 1 | How to not be a nice guy online?Nice guys just allow women to walk all over them. Don't do that | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | As men, we are blessedSo we can go to a plastic surgeon and go from a 1 to a 10? I don't think you understand how seduction works... | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 07:32 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yea now that things are beginning to open up there's plenty of opportunities | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm working on my game. I just found some new guide on seduction and comparing notes I really see a lot of problems I had with a lot of women. Like not complimenting their breasts or ass for example. | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 05:27 PM |
| -1 | Update ( date with girl from gym)That's good to know. I'm attracted to a lot of women that work out but don't want to deal with rejection. I'd rather just gain mass. I was thinking of joining another gym because it has a younger, hotter female attendance so I could practice gaming. Maybe I will wink at a girl or try a little harder next time I'm pumping iron | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]She's acting uninterested most likely because she is no offense. She can have friends she thinks are handsome but no interest romantically. Girls usually won't make the first move. Sure when they are 30 or so with some experience they might initiate things but probably not some 20-25yo thing. And even then some "hot guy" they might just want a one night fling with but not anything serious. You have to bring more to the table than that. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 06:07 PM |
| -27 | [deleted by user]I've gotten over a 100 numbers without having sex with any of them. Don't get too confident. Last 2 numbers I got were from some dyke chicks who probably like pussy more than I do | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Fundementals of gameYou don't have to start a family. You don't have to listen to her. You don't have to deal with child support in court. If you're just looking to get laid use a condom. | /r/seduction | 10/07/21 05:49 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]I've heard the mall or the beach is a good place to cold approach on the weekends, and I was thinking of trying it but it seems like it would be full of teenagers, or just bitter gold diggers that don't want anything to do with you unless you're unbelievably rich | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 06:35 PM |
| 0 | EVERYTHING I’VE LEARNED ABOUT SEDUCTIONI got a book on everything you know to be successful with women. It's from a guy's perspective so he tells you not to apologize about your interest in sex. But they know how to treat a woman right and all the steps, which is very helpful. I've been reviewing it before a date I have tomorrow. He also explains many red flags by women that would make you want to cancel them. As a needy guy you'd be desperate from attention from any woman. But being rational there's many women you should really stay… | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Brand New HereYou could find some stupid excuse to knock on her door (save the whales, Jesus, etc.) and then ask her questions about herself after your initial speel. If she's interested she'll go into detail about it rather than just give short answers. Then you could offer to hang out more to hear more about it. If she's not interested just say thanks and move on. There's probably lots of hot chicks in your area. Better to just hang out at the market there than pull for straws with random girls you see on y… | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.When I was younger some woman told me "I wouldn't let my daughter hang around you" while I was helping them find an item in the store | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.It's really difficult to spark attraction over coffee or dinner. You have to eat and be some type of Romeo to her at the same time? Try doing activities where you can get close to her, like dancing or put your arm around her at the movies. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | When a woman says she didn't feel a connection or a "spark", is that something that is purely a matter of natural chemistry, or is it a sign that there wasn't enough escalation.Women hate men for expressing their sexuality though. They just assume you will get them pregnant and leave, even though no guy wants to deal with the courts or a woman that way. Even if you want to use protection many times they treat you like a monster/rapist | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):I lived those years, but now I'm regretting it because I have no money and pathetic resume | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 01:27 AM |
| 1 | An unusual story and what I've learned about attraction and confidenceThis is just one chick though | /r/seduction | 03/07/21 07:32 PM |
| 4 | Tinder vs bumble vs hinge for casual relationships?Yea bumble is gay. They just want marriage and kids. Tinder is probably better for hooking up but it's full of bots and girls looking for sugar daddies, and every guy on the app also wants to hook up so there's lot of competition | /r/seduction | 30/06/21 09:25 PM |
| -6 | Finally broke the Gym CodeI saw a hot babe (8 or 9) the other day, but she was probably 10 years younger than me. Would have been creepy to approach. She didn't seem interested. But those yoga pants hugged her in all the right places | /r/seduction | 23/06/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What Adult Films Got Wrong About Threesomes (and how to actually have one...)Easiest way to get a 3some is just to pay 2 sluts | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Too many leads lost through bad textingGood looking is more important of an attribute for women than men. Yes, women want a good looking guy but more important is a good career and money. | /r/seduction | 21/06/21 08:46 PM |
| 9 | How to have better flow of life?Try joining some meetups or an adult sports league | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 05:56 PM |
| 3 | I wanted to share a small victoryOne time I hit on a chick while stretching and she worked at a bar nearby. I got a free beer but it was busy so no time to flirt with her. But yea most chicks at the gym are super hot but few opportunities. | /r/seduction | 09/06/21 06:16 AM |
| 1 | I have a date with an absolutely stunning blondeI recently met up with a date who lives on the same street as me. When I asked if she wanted to meet she said she could meet WITHIN THE HOUR. but it still didn't work out | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 08:22 PM |
| 0 | How to “flip the script” with womenRead up until the term 'alpha' was used. Not into toxic masculinity. We aren't cave men, are we? | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 10:02 PM |
| -1 | How to be more appealing to women (going into college)Just dress nice, smell good you'll do fine | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:08 AM |
| -3 | Date with a cougarMaybe if you have no options? I'd skip it otherwise. She probably is looking for a younger man to dominate | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:07 AM |
| 7 | If you struggle with attracting women and/or dating, please read this!It would be nice if there were more posts by guys that were actually bedding beautiful women instead of people just giving advice who are as confused as the rest of us | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 3 | The 10 Most Dangerous Mistakes YOU Probably Make With Women | #4 is very important!All this material to study, and work to get in her bed and some guys still brag they are getting lucky. Maybe if you're a rockstar but if you're trying everyday to get laid and only bed like 1 woman per month there's nothing to brag about. | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold ApproachI don't get why everywhere I go there is a dude with a chick. Like how are they with someone but I'm still single? But maybe they are friends no biggie I guess | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Large amounts of 18-21 year old womenPff you are lucky they are that age. A couple times I approached a girl and she was only 16 or 17 so just walked away like an idiot. I don't even approach women if they look 25 or under unless it's at a bar or something I'm afraid someone might call the cops. | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Stop taking the fun out of gameyea it's pretty cool when you're young to have like 3 hot booty calls in ur phone, but hard to maintain that when you're older, unless you really stand out (like own your own boat or beach house or something) | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 3 | The number one trait you need to get laid.Damn how did you know about my problems with women and the police | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach vs dating appsSo u want someone to sit around and tell you it's easy to fuck supermodels all day? No one would even get married if that was the case | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Has the dating scene always been like this?Don't hate the player hate the game | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach vs dating appsYea I haven't cold approached much cuz of covid-19, but before then it didn't work that well either. I'm getting kind of old for this shit. Dates and no sex though is failure. | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Caught feelings after sex.. what should I do?Try hanging out with her without sex. Those feelings will go away | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Core tenants for successful gameSo either buy a hooker, or try to do all these stupid rules and pray to god it works?? | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to share with you guys the ultimate trick to quieting your mind and stopping mental chatter when talking to women!These dumb bitches never put out and the techniques in these seddit won't help | /r/seduction | 20/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingYea a woman in her 20's if you were on the fence about children they weren't as rushed. But a woman in her 30's if she wants kids and you don't; don't even expect a second date. | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Seriously? Have you tried eating jello, rice cakes, and other low calorie food to lose weight? | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingThey just love education I guess... | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It's cool she's into the gym. So she's in shape. A lot of people prefer fried chicken to carrots and ranch dressing | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 07:20 PM |
| 4 | I definitely ruined two women’s nightAre you sure there was a road to hooking up? Sounds like road block from the get go | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Female Perspective On Online DatingYea so much quantity of sure sex..maybe when I was in my 20s. Now it's get me pregnant I want kids, or no second date, or single mother has to hire a babysitter to show up angry and exhausted. | /r/seduction | 30/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Female Perspective On Online DatingI tried getting a high paying career. The technology sector typically has the best market caps for companies in the dow jones and stock market in general, so they have the most capital to use towards hiring someone, such as engineers and computer programmers to make their product. Unfortunately, my college didn't really have the resources to hire tutors for upper level ge classes, so as far as studying and preparing for tests, and doing the assignments, you were on your own for extremely complic… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Some of you are lameI don't get why people make posts like this. Not helpful at all | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Unpopular opinion a girl would only hook up or date you if she thinks you’re HIGHER value than her.So go for chicks with no self-esteem? I agree if she thinks she's better than you she'll probably try and leave you early on. So if she was born into a wealthy family you're sol unless you get a magic lamp | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 0 | Women will respect your courageThen you gotta go through rigorous screening to get laid. Easier to get a loan from the bank. Maybe just settle for getting high | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I had a girl walk away from me tonight mid set to talk to another guyDon't take it personally. Maybe a guy did the same thing to her last week so she wanted the first opportunity to do that, to the first sucker she was able to, in her revenge against men. | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | i rejected a girl this weekend and could possibly have gotten laidI rejected a girl a few weeks ago who just wanted sex but she was butt ugly | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Girls are NOT special creatures! Girls are people like you except they have are much better at picking up subtle things you often fail to notice.Trying to get laid makes you weak? | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | HOW TO MEET PEOPLE WITHOUT COLD APPROACH OR ONLINE DATINGYea but I had been playing board games and sports for months before meeting anyone, and that wasn't my sole intention, so if you're lonely and looking for a partner this might not be the best method. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective: Misconceptions why game/seduction fail when seeking non-casual relationships.This guy gets it lol | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Male perspective: why men fail seduction/casual relationshipsI think I need to start declaring I'm into a fwb because I typically outline things with chicks like I'm trying for a relationship then they LJBF me | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Just try using corny pickup lines and find a chick who thinks they're funny, then just keep trying to get them to go home with you until she finally budges | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Female Perspective: Misconceptions why game/seduction fail when seeking non-casual relationships.I don't think this was very helpful | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 11:00 PM |
| 9 | HOW TO MEET PEOPLE WITHOUT COLD APPROACH OR ONLINE DATINGI met a few people through volleyball and playing board games. Anything has got to be better than online dating | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?I used to be better at this in my 20's. I guess I had more patience and energy. Now I just use money and hookers rather than fight the uphill battle of dealing with difficult women | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | First approachI approached a couple girls the other day cuz I was rusty from everything being shutdown for a year. I didn't get anywhere but applauded myself for trying. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.I read these forums a lot when I'm bored but most of these suggestions aren't helpful | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 12:26 AM |
| -7 | Seduction tips for women?That's a boring lifestyle I'm willing to adopt | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 01:40 AM |
| -4 | Seduction tips for women?Why does a woman need seduction advice. Most are usually complaining that all guys want is sex | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Stop putting her before your goalsYea get rich before getting laid; it also helps | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sounds like she was drunk | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How should I approach and seduce women? 31Best way is just to try a bunch of openers/pickup lines and see what works best for you. Try to approach a lot of women rather than spend a lot of time on one chick, then seal the deal and get a phone number. Most chicks honestly have 0 hobbies and if she's hot her hobby is just spending all day being that hot then orgasming over how many dudes want her. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?They don't think it's rude to approach them while shopping? | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 12:44 AM |
| 1 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?I used to do a lot of stuff via meetup.com, but most of the girls weren't very attractive tbh. Now it's all via zoom | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?Grocery store? I don't get why people think that's a good place | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Good Place to Meet Women now that Things are Opening Up?A single mother is probably too busy to date men. I'd prefer someone with less attachments and responsibility, plus I don't really want to take care of her child. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Bar specific tips?Yea sometimes it's worth it. Other times you'll meet chicks having a bad day wanting to take it out on anyone and it might ruin your whole night. You gotta learn not to let those type of situations get to you though | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Give 4-5 short bullets on what you think it takes to be successful with women, or to be successful in general. No paragraphs.Money, nice suit, nice car | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Bar specific tips?Eye contact is the biggest clue, but you'll probably have to approach girls that aren't drooling over you. Some of them will be in good spirits and others will wish you never walked up to. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 12:00 AM |
| 2 | ¿How can I get a guy attention back?Yes you should text back if interested | /r/seduction | 02/04/21 10:33 PM |
| 21 | Keep in mind the fact that girls sometimes do shit that makes absolutely no sense and there is nothing you can do about it.Yea if you think them hanging out at the beauty salon all day and making stupid posts on social media = extra brain cells ur kidding urself. Hottest girls are usually the dumbest, most self-centered ones around | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 11:34 PM |
| 77 | I didn’t get her number, but I’m still glad I askedNumbers are just the first step unfortunately. There's still a bunch of hurdles to overcome after that, but good job going with your gut and not wimping out. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 01:46 AM |
| 1 | The reason why actively trying to impress a woman almost always fails...The HV suave Don Juan wins every time | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of the anxiety of talking to women?Well everyone is entitled to their opinion | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 0 | How to get rid of the anxiety of talking to women?If you have to walk over eggshells to talk with the opposite sex the conversation is not going to be enjoyable no matter what "game technique" you insert | /r/seduction | 11/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 1 | How to get rid of the anxiety of talking to women?A lot of women are super-sensitive so there's no saying the right thing ever | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Work on your WeaknessIn sports your coach will tell you what went wrong. Many times women will ghost if they aren't interested so it's hard to tell where you went wrong, or if it's just her or most women that would respond similarly. | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Unpopular but honest Opinion: LUCK is a huge factor.It's not really luck like the lotto. Dating experts know what the average woman wants so teaches guys to work around these factors. You become more desirable, rich, handsome, smoother talker, etc. it's not 100% luck | /r/seduction | 08/03/21 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Any suggestions on how to get responses from women on dating websites?I can help you get negative responses lol | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 04:25 AM |
| 1 | A woman's POVHi hopefully someone approaches you. Don't be shy a lot of men are open to confident women saying hello. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Well... today I cold approached....Some women hate men and will do everything to make your life miserable. You may have dodged a bullet | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | She's not the prize, and neither are youI like FishyPuzzi in Smells Better than Uranus, Russia. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | She's not the prize, and neither are youWhat's up? | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome your feelings of inferiority?Donald Trump has a bad reputation. Perhaps he can feel better by not being part of the election or riots using him as a wing man | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Reading this sub sometimes make things seem overcomplicated while dating.Most of these posts are guys that don't understand pick-up but need help, or could easily find the answer in a book but would rather be breast-fed the answer. I'd rather read success stories. Feels like women are just stomping all over men left and right | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:31 AM |
| -4 | How do you overcome your feelings of inferiority?Try surrounding yourself with people you feel are inferior. Then you'll feel superior lol | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 10 | She's not the prize, and neither are youSo we are going to meet up to sign a treaty that we are both neutrally attractive? | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Best Way to Get Over a Girl?I completely forgot about her until I read this post. Actually we've matched a few times but she is not worth the trouble | /r/seduction | 27/02/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How long have you been a dating coach for? I got a book recently by a dating coach that was translated into 5 different languages and I've been slowly reading that | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yea I try and wait like until a week or so of talking to her to bring up sex and usually I bring it up in subtle ways not even just straight up asking her what her favorite position is or anything. I still get blocked. Maybe it's other reasons I'm confusing with sex though. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What's funny is that most people with the biggest mouth can't fight at all. It's just a front they make to try to scare people and act tough. 9/10 times they'd probably go down with one punch | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 02:41 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]People are going to try to fight you everywhere for any number of reasons. A couple weeks ago I almost got into like 5 fights in a week for literally no reason by crazy angry people. | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Probably the best cheat code I've ever foundWhen I was learning Spanish I met a lot of girls that weren't really into Americans/white guys I thought that learning Spanish would make me more desirable but that's not the case. You'll also meet a lot of illegal immigrants looking for a green card. Also, there's a small difference between how each country speaks and many hot latinas use heavy colloquial/ghetto Spanish you won't find in textbooks or your dictionary so it will be hard to understand, including the accent, even if you can watch t… | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 02:05 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Can't count the number of times I've been unmatched because I brought up sex | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Best Way to Get Over a Girl?Yea it's best not to try and date someone, then become friends if you fail. Just like opening an old wound. The conversation went dead a few weeks ago and I guess I should have just ended it rather than be like 'hey whats up' | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 06:22 AM |
| 0 | Does kino really make that big of a difference?I'd say it's a good indicator to determine whether to go further. If she rejects kino she'll probably reject kissing, etc. But if she accepts kino she might be willing to go to the bedroom next | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | How can I turn platonically talking on dating apps to something more in person?Usually you have to establish early on that you're looking for a girlfriend, not a friend. Try to get into situations where you can flirt with her and then move it to the next level with touching/kissing. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.A lot of dating coaches will tell you having nice things like expensive cars or yachts isn't what's going to make you successful with women. I just saw a story the other day a news anchor was filing sexual harassment charges against several professional baseball players. If money was all women cared about rich pro athletes that make millions per year wouldn't be "harassing" her would they? She would have considered it flirting instead of unwanted sexual advances | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 3 | 17, a very hot girl wants meIt only becomes problematic when you're 18 and she's 16. But I think most states have Romeo and Juliet laws so you might still be ok. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 10:02 PM |
| 1 | As a man, time is on our sideGold diggers will drain your bank account so fast you'll need 10 raises a year to keep up | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 64 | A once in a lifetime reminder: Confidence attracts beauty.Takes the bus? I think you're overvaluing confidence. Not many women are going to seriously date a guy with a bus pass unless they live in a big city like New York where it's common | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Being a passive person will get you absolutely nowhereWhen people say nice guy, they typically mean an average looking dude who makes an average amount, but compliments a girl and tries to be everything for her, but who has no other options and she sees him as more of a friend than partner. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Going on a casual date for the first time, any tips?Doesn't casual mean strictly sex? Just get her to your place and bangarang asap | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 1 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.That's probably true. I doubt she would date a mummy, the ultra pinnacle of antiquity. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.Just curious you said you're into older guys. About how old are you? And what age range do you prefer? | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate when women approach you?Sexual assault is a crime so grabbing her by the pu**y is never a good idea unless you know her | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate when women approach you?Tell the cop that in the back of a police car it's ok to just "grab her by the pu**y" lol | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status ManSo this just has to do with communication? You should include more important points | /r/seduction | 23/01/21 03:36 AM |
| 3 | How to escalate when women approach you?Usually it's ok to put your hand on her hip or your arm around her if she's into you | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How can a Woman be more attractive?I'm not really sure outside of being physically beautiful. Perhaps compliment the guy you're seeing on small things. | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | "Girls won't make you happy" and other ideasAny challenge you overcome is going to have less and less excitement. If every chess match you play you easily defeat your opponent you will lose interest in chess. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women at a beach/pool?I found a good line that works 90% for me, but unfortunately mostly after I'm out of sight they forget about me. I'd like to try again this summer. Maybe approach 10 hot babes in a week or so. | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Does it help to be bilingual?Sometimes. When I was first learning Spanish I thought it would open up a lot of doors to Latin women, but it didn't mean they were into me off the get go. | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | You don't need this subSome of these posts are interesting so I don't mind browsing | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Are women worth it?Sometimes it's worth it to have a trophy. Many times it's not worth all the work and effort and heartache. Really depends on how much free time and energy you have to deal with all the ups and downs of a relationship | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever 'treat em mean' to 'keep em keen'?Sometimes I do light-teasing, but usually nothing that they may find too offensive or deep to hurt them where they may not want to continue | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | How important is it to be able to defend yourself and your partner under the threat of violence?It really depends on how often you go out. If you frequent bars and night clubs you're going to have to protect her more often than if you just went out to church and the movies but that's it. People can even confront you when you go out to dinner. Women are worried about rape and sexual assault quite a bit more than men, but I'm not sure how big of a factor it is when they "choose a mate" | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yea not anymore. Women and children used to be considered "property" to the man. It's only been recently in history that women have gotten rights, and even still there's a bunch of countries where women can't drive, vote, or go to school. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 1 | The Fear Of HumiliationEven if your goal isn't to sleep around with a bunch of women, but rather to meet just one woman and marry her chances are there will be some rejection. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | The Fear Of HumiliationIf someone thinks normal rejection where she just says no is humiliating they need to get their feet on the ground. Pretty sure even the most valuable men on the planet (ie: rockstars, billionaires, supermodels) will still face rejection if they approached a lot of women. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 1 | The Fear Of HumiliationIME usually they don't try to humiliate you during rejection, except in rare cases. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Hot Take: This sub might be stopping you from getting girls.I went out a couple weeks ago to a bar to meet single women, but it was practically empty, and the place closed at 10pm. I'm just going to have to wait until a vaccine is out for a few months before I approach dating again with any seriousness. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Is Having Lots of Sex a Meaningless, Shallow Goal?The Kama Sutra was written over a thousand years ago, and the Egyptian hieroglyphics depict sex in their drawings, so clearly culture values sex, but the media broadcasts to the masses and since most people are idiots they don't think we can have a healthy sex life but will resort to crime to get it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 07:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ever overthink, and have you ever suffered with performance anxiety?Wow 6 since September not bad. I've had to use hookers not doing too well. Coronavirus is really ruining the dating scene for me. | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 10:43 PM |
| 5 | A new perspective on approaching woman?It's good to have a few pickup lines memorized to help break the ice. And to keep the conversation "fun" have a few jokes memorized. If you go with dirty stuff you'll probably come off as creepy unless you want a ONS, otherwise if they are clean it's harmless. | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel political views are important to seduction?I went on a date once with a girl who wouldn't shut up about politics, and her opinions were bigoted and mostly wrong. It was a big turn off. I usually don't bring up politics when getting to know someone | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle women that return after they've essentially passed/rejected you in the past?I don't really put much effort/energy into them if they have a history of flakiness | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 04:08 AM |
| 5 | The best thing's in life are free.I've had "free" s3x before lol. I wouldn't say the best things in life are free. | /r/seduction | 23/11/20 02:05 AM |
| 55 | Older guys, what is some advice you can give to younger guys?The only real advice I would give my younger self is to think of women realistically. Don't fantasize about them solving all your problems, or making your life any better. Many times they add anxiety you don't need, they can cheat, and hurt you in many ways. Often times the "dream girl" you see in magazines comes with a huge price tag and the closest you'll get to being with a girl like that is paying for lap dances at a strip club. | /r/seduction | 08/11/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it true as a man that you will have to do all the work?Yes pretty much | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What to talk to girls about?Hobbies, interests. If see has a favorite book/movie that you have seen/read then try talking about that, escalate there, try to get her into you there. | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Build some mental strengthI feel like getting a hot girlfriend is a lot harder than it should be. I've done more challenging things than simply attracting beautiful women, but I guess it's just supply and demand. | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys have a lot of good friends?No, most of my friends make up excuses to why they can't go out. Meetup.com was a good place to meet people but it's all online now | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 12:34 AM |
| 2 | We often associate taking action with risk, however inaction is often the much riskier decision.This subreddit is almost identical to /r/dating except it's geared towards men | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Rejection is only a big deal if you make it one.It only sucks if they really jab into you with rejection. Most of the time they just politely decline | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Open Up Your Awareness--Women Are Hitting On You Every Day And You're Oblivious To ItMost women suck usually aren't worth the effort | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 23 | Seduction IS NOT about chasingI feel like most seduction advice is common sense. | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Is it OK to approach women while working?I wouldn't do it too often. It's typically bad vibes to be hitting on customers. If she's friendly and seems interested in you and is flirting then go ahead and try and get her number. Otherwise, it might jeopardize your job. | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 10:41 PM |
| -1 | Models by Mark MansonI've seen several reviews of this book and would like to pick it up. I've read Mystery Method- How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed. Mystery was one of the best PUAs about a decade or two ago. | /r/seduction | 04/10/20 10:33 PM |
| 2 | How hard is it to successfully pick up a girl?I'd say it's a 7 for me. The hardest part is building up the confidence, but usually after that I can get a number. Although, usually cold approach is a poor method imo and after a day or so they just don't respond or think I'm a psycho for approaching a stranger so ignore me. | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Can lack of sex make you age faster?Pretty sure if you bang 10's you can smoke meth daily and live to 90 | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Does meeting and dating women post college become significantly tough?You can try dating apps there's plenty of chicks but those things are pretty lame. You can always go to strip clubs they are full of beautiful women, but obviously that's just temporary you don't want to date them. | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 0 | There is nothing weird about going out alone, as long as you are not self-conscious about itSometimes people are gay about going out. Most of my friends just keep making the excuse they need to take care of their kids so they can't go out anymore. Lame. | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Do guys like when the woman initiates fwb/casual sex?I told a woman I wanted a relationship or a fwb if she didn't want that. She said she preferred a fwb, but never ended up following through with it. I don't really mind the fwb, but majority of women who say they want it never end up following through with it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever settled for less? Comparing new people you meet to a past date/crush/significant other.Yea Saturday night at 1am. I take what I can get | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Guys don’t forget, the girl also has to attract you.I agree it's a 2-way street. Don't be the one who puts all the effort in only to get hurt in the end. | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Don't worry about other guys that are interested in your girlUntil your first fight then she's looking for revenge sex | /r/seduction | 19/09/20 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Guys, do you like a flirty girl?I think it would be fine. I'd prefer that to ghosting or one-word responses which is about 90% of what I get | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 07:24 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with girl playing games / seeking for men attention ?Yea have you ever heard about apps that hook up women with means to do that- snapchat, instagram, facebook, etc.??? They are constantly posting photos seeking people's validation and a lot of girls prefer validation from MEN or WOMEN if they are lesbo. It's not a myth. You should be careful about this because they won't stop even if they are in a relationship and it's going to get in the way of you guys. | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 04:57 AM |
| 10 | Do women ever give into needy men?Idk try asking your mom | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Does anybody else get pissed off that they have to fucking abandon wants and desires and go on a fucking spiritual journey just to be liked by people?Lol who are these people who like you better after following in the foot steps of Buddha? | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How exciting of a life do I really need for a girl to want to date me?I think in your 20's most girls will be more attracted to the bad boy "gangsta" type guy who has lots of tattoos, does drugs, and parties and it's not until they are in their 30's they actually want to meet someone serious and settle down. | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | She stopped texting backSounds like you gotta move on unless you want a bunch more unresponded texts. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | The Law of Attraction and SeductionI agree, but you will have to deal with a lot of low-quality women before you find a high-quality woman who is willing to put the time into you, and she will have other options too so may be difficult to deal with. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 02:57 AM |
| 2 | How to Stop Giving Your Power Away to GirlsI don't think this is necessarily giving away "your power" to girls and I can think of better examples, but ok. Good idea anyways | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you not suck ass at texting?Just text to arrange meeting up. You can text emoticons and funny videos to friends. You'll probably just annoy a potential love interest. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Two for ThreeNo question. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I ignore, they chase- why?I don't think this counts as a seduction technique since it wasn't part of your plan. Although, waiting a while to respond to a text can make you seem less needy. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Staring into someone’s sole isn’t attractiveI think you mean "soul" Einstein | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 05:20 AM |
| 7 | How to stay motivated after countless rejections?Well after many bad experiences with women I would go to strip clubs. My mindset was well these other girls wouldn't even give me the time of day, and yet here are all these beautiful naked women fighting over me for a measly lap dance. That boosted my confidence even if it was "fake" attraction. I wouldn't recommend using this as a crutch for long though because you'll be broke fast. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Sure that's true. You can't just live your life trying to look good in front of women though. Do it for yourself first. | /r/seduction | 24/08/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Have A Bigger Purpose Than Women And Getting LaidI thought you were going to go into how to build a better life without making women your main focus, but you just turned it into 'not caring about women will secretly gain you more women in the future'. | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 06:02 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Some people feel ashamed for their sexual thoughts. They learn this type of reasoning from religion (which is trying to control you). Weird, when you don't normally feel ashamed at eating food, unless it's anything from Carl's Jr or Jack in the Box. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.Dating is not all roses and candy. Some people commit suicide when they can't get the person they want. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 0 | Guys, when a woman refuses to date you, accept her rejection in good faith and don’t fall into the temptation of insulting her. Doing that shows her that you lack manners and dating courtesy. Don’t try and persuade, coerce or manipulate a woman who is not interested in you into giving you a chance.I think every guy would like to do this at least once in their life. Sometimes it feels like they are unfairly rejecting you for no reason, and if many girls reject you in a short amount of time life can feel like a terrible hellhole. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Is 28 too late to start hooking up more?I'm 35 have had several women petition me for sex, usually in their 20's.....but not too late. Guy's in their 40's still get in no strings attached sex relationships. | /r/seduction | 08/08/20 07:39 PM |
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