Still brushing up and collecting things in this community that I feel need more female perspective.

The "generalized woman" that keeps being discussed in any game/pua community sounds like a girl still on the path of her discovery. She is made to sound very emotionally confused. She doesn't know what she wants etc. She is unsure about herself and the world. So when you game her or seduce her and end up with her long term, guess what? Your ideas about all women being "that" way gets solidified. It's like you are laying traps for a bear, 99% of the time you will catch a bear. You will never get to know the other animals in the jungle. You will remain a bear hunter and a bear expert. But you can't treat an elephant or a lion the same way.

Misconceptions about women and relationships:

1)Last minute resistance isn't a real thing in 100% of the cases. Some women just won't sleep with you because they just DON'T SLEEP WITH EVERYONE they come across. The more you try with them, the more you fail and derail your self-esteem. Trust me if she is seriously interested and had planned to give it up? She will roll back to see what your real intentions are. Women enjoy sex just as much as men but smart women want to be partners, not objects of play in the bedroom.

2)Some women are okay appearing as prudes because they know when they finally sleep with you, that misconception will change. In some cases they are very confident about their sexuality and don't like flaunting it with random men. It's a perfect form of defense. Find a woman who isn't craving attention from everyone at the bar/party/InsertWhateverElseHere. Go for the one who is craving your attention. You go seduce the girls who will take anyone's attention in 30 mins? Then your self fulfilled prophecy that she is gonna leave you one day for someone else, will unfortunately come true.

3)You can't be scared of committing to ONE woman (cause oneitis) but then expect to get a woman to have it for you? Disbalanced relationships won't last long. If she is giving you her all - and she is emotionally intelligent eventually she will notice how you aren't, she might cry and beg for a bit but then she will leave whether she wants to or not that is another story.

4)For each thing a "needy" man feels he does because he likes a girl, trust me both genders act that way! There is a girl feeling needy over you too. Don't feel frustrated with yourself for being a human. In a discussion with a friend few years ago I stated "I suppose there is one side stalking that never turns into a relationship - but all relationships are mutual stalking. What does he/she like? What does he/she do? etc.

5)Giving her attention so easily to someone at a bar/club/social event and you talking to multiple girls at the same time to avoid catching feelings - sets up many people for failure. It only perpetuates (in some not all cases!) avoiding resolving your relationship problems. Why fix it when I can ditch this and go find someone new quickly? You want commitment? find committed women and be willing to give back the same. Abundance mentality looked at right way in MY opinion: Well I like this girl/guy, I'd give it my all until I realize its not for me. No big deal plenty of other folks around. Abundance mentality gone wrong: Screw him/her - I am getting impatient waiting let me go hit someone else up. You aren't fixing the root of your problem. But just covering up your "symptoms". Don't for one second think you'd make a healthy partner this way and if you pick a girl like this? She won't either. You both will run seeking someone else outside fairly quickly when things get tough. Oh and they do get tough in every relationship.

This is it for now.

Biggest takeaway: Just like the generalized version of a woman, you will also find men who can be generalized. We are all avoiding those people if we are seeking a stable relationship. Seduction for each person is different, sure there is an overlap but getting to know someone and actually what makes their "hot button" go off, is more feasible. Give people time, get to know them. Or you can game people based on some pre-written rules and eventually it will start to fall apart somewhere in a few months or years time.