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| 2 | Got a date tomorrowPeople love to feel seen, heard, and important. People talking about themselves fills them up. So essentially they do like to talk about themselves all the time. The idea of you talking about it yourself is to show her that you are full yourself (your life, interests, etc.). If she views you having a full life already there’s really no need to talk about yourself and focusing on her will make her feel seen and heard, which in turn fills her up, which she attributes to you (rapport) | /r/seduction | 18/07/26 06:54 AM |
| 3 | Physical escalation tips?I think bro got his point across | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:38 AM |
| 2 | My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learnedHeartbreak is the best pre workout | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 09:30 PM |
| 8 | Why do their friends cockblock?She was probably just sitting their awkwardly lmao. Prob not the best choice to invite her whole gang and not just her… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:25 PM |
| 23 | Date planned for tonight but haven’t heard from her since WednesdayIf she’s doing that with others, then you know that you won’t have a genuine connection with her. From what you say, it seems like she is living the hookup/crazy life with multiple partners. If that’s not what you’re looking for, sorry to say this, but move on. The fact that she is ghosting you just means that she has other options and/or doesn’t see you as interesting. She’s not the one, hell she isn’t even “a” one. Keep working on yourself and one day “a one” will pop in front of you and seize… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 02:23 PM |
| 7 | I’m nearly bald. I’m a Norwood 4 at age 27. I’m shaving it all tomorrow.Finasteride is not one of the most dangerous and life destroying drugs. Sure, there are a rare percentage of permanent side effects, but it is a rare percentage, just like with thousands of other medications. That said, I feel for you and don’t deny the pain you have been with this medication and balding itself. I’m 17 and have been experiencing genetic hair loss since 15, and I plan to start finasteride in a couple of months (3 derm recommendations) | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Advice on girlfriendJust respond with the level that matches how much you like her. It depend on how long you have been together. If you have been together long, it is ok to be “matching her energy” or just showing her you love her. But don’t forget to keep some sort of “chase” alive, such as teasing or “unexpected romantics”. | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsYou’re too general. There are no actual examples of openly mysognistic men that are “swimming in pools of women” in which the women are there because they connect with the man on an emotional level. They are there for his power, money, or plain looks for bed. These girls are gold diggers, and should be avoided. And “as long as you have the face” is not true for meaningful relationships. As you said yourself, women give emotional advice and therefore are more emotional beings than men. Therefore,… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:12 AM |
| 3 | The ER!Oh, well at least you’re ok! It’s ok, we all have those”why didn’t I make my move” moments. It’s just nervousness. But eventually, with practice and exposure, it goes away. Take it from me, a 16m in high school, who used to want nothing to do with girls since I was so nervous. All that changed when I made friends that were girls, now whenever I meet someone someone new in a new class, I actively try to flirt (if I find them attractive, and with my hormones, they always are :P) with them. Gl on y… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsCan you give examples of openly mysognisic men that are “swimming in pools of women”? | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsI wouldn’t phrase it as “much more opinionated, biased” but just differently viewed upon. I myself have received tremendous movie recommendations from friends that are women, such as Interstellar, TDK trilogy, and Gifted (all of which I would recommend, btw). Upon looking at your post history, I noticed your posts in r/ForeverAlone, regarding your anxiety in approaching women. Surely, and logically, a tall man with abs would appeal to be desirable by most women? Yet you have anxiety in approachi… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl reaches out after a few dates. How to properly respond?If she hits you up, she most likely wants to have more fun. Lead the convo to another date, and if she declines or says she can’t make it, don’t offer again. If she truly likes you, she will suggest another time for a date. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Eye contact from a distance. Smile or no?You shouldn’t smile from a large distance. It comes off stalkerish IMO. However, smiling when they walk by and you catch eyes is nice. Maybe a hello is even better. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | The ER!Plenty of more fish in the sea. Plus, if you’re in the ER, you may want to focus on your health more. I hope you feel better/recover. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What is the best exerice for picking up women?Pick up things above your head or in your arms most likely will need heavy quad work and back work. That said, a more reps or weight question is probably more suited in r/fitness. But just think of women has heavy barbells, when you lift them up of course. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:18 AM |
| 590 | She sends me her photos, selfies, random tiktok videos ,but upon talking to her she only replies ''yes'' ''hahahahah' should I stop talking to her?She want attention. Walk away, and she will follow. If she doesn’t, don’t go back. Not worth it. Push and Pull | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:15 AM |
| 1 | What do I do?If everything else in your life is great, don’t let one genetic mishap bring you down. Also, many women find oral to be even better than penetration. Consider giving abs practicing oral to better stimulate women. In this sub’s search, type “How to totally rock her world”, and read the post that comes up. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsIf you were referring to relationship advice, film advice, venue recommendations, and music options that you would not ask a woman for because they would be biased and two dimensional, who would you go to then? Film, venue, a music advice is all opinionated,no matter what gender, it’s all biased because it cannot be factual. | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsI agree with you that the other guy is wrong in saying all gays are feminine and “have a womanly sense”. My cousin is a boxer, and walks around all “tough” and recently came out of the closet, and I would have never associated him with “womaness”. So him clearly saying ALL gays are feminine is bigoted. Your previous comment states: “Not being a "misogynist" honestly dk in what realm of advice I would take a woman's word with credance. Unless you're just seeking emotional, illogical advice. But y… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 01:55 AM |
| 12 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsWhat about your mother’s? And an Aunt? And a sister, if you have or would have one? | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsYou do know that the person with one of the highest recorded IQs, from an exam that tests logic and pattern skills, is Marilyn Vos Savant, a woman? | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 01:24 AM |
| 3 | the Wiki is almost donehttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ltoyvs/we_are_creating_a_wiki_for_beginners/gpbpl1h/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3 Hi I wrote this comment listing all my saved posts that I have that I think have been added already. I just want to say thank you for making this wiki, it’s going to help not just beginners, but long time people since we can finally have a source to compare conflicting ideas in seduction. Also, we wouldn’t have to see the same questions be… | /r/seduction | 08/05/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here who actually went from "Zero to Hero"? Anyone who went through massive dry periods, but then started dating with ease? How did you do it?Can you elaborate on walking bs eye contact? | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here who actually went from "Zero to Hero"? Anyone who went through massive dry periods, but then started dating with ease? How did you do it?Can you elaborate on walking away vs eye contact? | /r/seduction | 05/05/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | What to talk about? I want to stop torturing herI have the same problem as op. What I think he means (at least what is happening to me) is that he and this girl are interested in each other, yet when they walk together or hang out, they can’t find anything to talk about, hence the awkwardness and “torturing”. So the girl comes up with the subject of the talk (which doesn’t happen to me, in my case it just gets awkward and we separate and go to our classes) to keep the convo going. OP just wants to do the same | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Intense eye contacthttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mtdsd3/is_eye_contact_the_most_powerful_tool_of_seduction/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I made a post about eye contact and the general consensus was it makes a big difference when used correctly. So that deep intense eye contact works, thanks for confirming it. Additionally, you can look up several studies of love (yeah, scientific studies of love and eye contact exist) that show that when two people of the opposite sex had inte… | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective: Forced Power dynamic will lead to relationship failureHey, I’m the Redditor that asked for your perspective. I appreciate your post, but I agree with some other comments that this post is more of “when you have the girl” not when “you want to get the girl”. Do you think you can make another post about “getting the girl” | /r/seduction | 22/04/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Female Perspective: Misconceptions why game/seduction fail when seeking non-casual relationships.I’m interested in your view in this post, so I would ask if you would be willing to make a new post, or rather a guide from your perspective on getting a woman | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What are the generalizations of seduction you should keep in mind when interacting with women?I struggle with this. Anytime I want to start a conversation with a girl I already know or just met up with I just ask questions and it never progresses from there. Answering my questions after she answers will probably help, thanks! | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 10:12 PM |
| 2 | STOP CARINGThough borderline manipulative (similar to a woman’s hot/cold and push-pull), I totally agree with this. It always seems that when we give attention/care/investing to someone and then take it away (push pull) or stop recognizing her at all and wait for her to come to you (your post- stop caring) always works ONLY if you knew the girl before and she had an interest in you. | /r/seduction | 20/04/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Is eye contact the most powerful “tool” of seduction?No problem, we all learn from somewhere. I wouldn’t say it’s a mindset, just keep it in the back of your mind in your conversations. You really just have to read the vibe to know when to look her in the eye and when not to to avoid being creepy | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 02:54 AM |
| 5 | Is eye contact the most powerful “tool” of seduction?Oh don’t focus on one eye necessarily, I just “look into their soul” when the vibe is right. I actually agree with you on the part that she will talk more and reciprocate eye contact with me. It’s all about timing and whether you do it creepily or not. That’s why I think it’s so powerful | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Is eye contact the most powerful “tool” of seduction?Can you elaborate on what you mean by irritating? And in what do you think is the most powerful? | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 02:34 PM |
| 7 | Is eye contact the most powerful “tool” of seduction?Well if what you said is 100% true and she doesn’t feel anything, that sucks lmao. But thanks for the second tip about escalating. What do you think is best to do to get her to that “ready stage”? | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | Can "oneitis" go away?Oneitis goes away with time, I speak from personal experience. Overtime, you see that no one is perfect and you will realize life goes on and you learn from your interactions with her and you learn and implement what you missed next time. Good luck | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it still possible for me (27M) to become a high value male?Dude ur gonna be a doctor. That’s shits high value no matter what school you went to. Just remember that that’s not all and you can make friends in the medical zone, maintain confidence and you’ll be getting the ladies in no time. It’s also a bonus ur fit too | /r/seduction | 12/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 2 | How many are easily swayed by the "cynical" angle?Can you elaborate on how and what it means to be emotionally unavailable? | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | is game common sense?Seduction and game are common sense indeed. While people in this sub are unsocialized, I believe the purpose of game and seduction and this sub is to specifically break down attraction into its generalities, so we can communicate with each other to find out what works and what doesn’t, as well as new things that may work when it comes to attraction | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Who else is in their late 30s and still trying to learn how to be proficient at attracting women?Interesting points. I believe that people outside the community like you mentioned (people who haven’t heard of game) are aware of what teasing and eye contact is, but I don’t believe they know how to do them both properly (such as maintaining eye contact and subtle flirting). I think that’s the point of this sub. To educate men mostly on what attraction is and the general methods of achieving it. You mention that flirting is great, but it doesn’t make a girl attracted to you. I have to somewhat… | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | (Old FR) The time a girl LITERALLY chased after me for my number (and what I did)Can you elaborate on outcome independence? | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditMy man. Can you tell us what specifically you learned that helped you? | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Nightly account #10.While you may have not got any women, you may have saved some lives when you called the police. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 01:47 PM |
| 12 | YALL ARE AMAZING LMAOThe top posts on this sub have great info | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Clarifying what a “shit test” is and why you should avoid thinking about itI agree in the sense that shit tests are just banter/teasing. However, isn’t it possible that a woman can be saying this for the purpose of seeing how you would react (ex: humor, anger, validation of yourself, etc)? It would be different from banter, in which the purpose is to have fun and create emotional connection | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on meeting a girl again I used to date?Did you work out? It’s hard to tell when your wearing clothing in both and the camera angles in the first 2 photos make it hard to see your build | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Are Girls Who Invade Your Personal Space At Night DTF?If they invade your personal space they are most likely comfortable with you and you can escalate at a reasonable pace | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Girl I met online agrees to a movie date at her place. Need some advice!!Keep your calm and maintain authentic eye contact. Remember not to be needy. Most of all, remember to have fun with her and get to know her! It’s what relationships are all about! Gl Hf | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 20 | What are some hobbies that I can take up that would help me socialize with people while not being fixated at girls?Don’t do hobbies just for the purpose of getting to meet people and girls. You do them for you and what you are interested in. Generally, women will love that you are passionate about what YOU LIKE, not what you think she would. On a side note, your hobbies (if you like them) look fine now. Some hobbies I can suggest, not for the purpose of getting girls, are: Music: play an instrument. It helps with cognitive function, plus it’s really cool. I play piano. Gym: idk if this counts as a hobby, but… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Food for thought - parallels?Interesting post, but I believe some things you wrote are not in sync with this sub today: In the PUA days (pick up artist) seduction was focused on specific tactics which in my opinion made the person come off as inauthentic and not themselves. However, seduction today focused on generalized seduction info (ex. Improving body language, posture, eye contact, social skills) as well as general info about how picking up girls goes (shit tests, IOIs, etc). In summary, seduction now focuses on improv… | /r/seduction | 20/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Question About a Zoom ClassPersonally, it’s best to wait until this pandemic thing is over. Getting to know her in person first is better than reaching out online. You didn’t clarify how well you know her already, is she someone you’re in groups with usually? Someone you saw before online stuff started happening? Either way, I think it’s best to wait until lockdown is over and then initiate interest and deepen your connection with her. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 06:19 AM |
| 4 | I (27) met a girl (27) via an anon chatting app. Pretty long and flirty convo, but she was also nervous about her husband finding out. She feels trapped in that relationship and wants fun. Is Snapchat safeguarded enough from him potentially finding out?Third-ed | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Girl lost interest, how to get it back?While moving on is always the best choice, there are options to potentially gain her interest back: Realize why she lost interest. Neediness? Failure to escalate. Putting her on a pedestal? Distance yourself from her. This will give you time to collect yourself and give you a clear mindset of who you are. Additionally, distancing yourself would alllow you to be perceived differently by her later on. Get better. Work out, skin care, learn and review the fundamentals of game. Most importantly, wor… | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 05:47 AM |
| 1 | We are creating a wiki for beginners.Please include tofu tofu’s above the game posts. He was a former mod and made a series of posts that go through the basics and up to advancements. His posts alone could help a beginner all the way. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Pickup doesn’t HAVE to be misogynisticJust to clarify that in terms of eras of seduction include natural game, PUA, and is there anything else? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 5 | You’re taking everything too seriouslyI agree, following tactics to the exact specifics will render your game inauthentic, which anyone (women and men) can pick up on. People should only follow the generalized advice on this sub, such as simple body language tips and simple banter. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:07 AM |
| 1 | A powerful, easy tool you can start implementing immediatelyI don’t agree with PUA tactics. It is cringe with all its methods and super specifics. Inner game and conversational tactics should be generalized and authentic. The only way is to practice and get rid of self hate. Again, no one is a lost cause | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:02 AM |
| 2 | (FR)- Field Report Journal- 2/23 & 2/27I think you are doing great. The second woman you approached was a huge success, she practically invited you to an event. You built a connection, while maintains eye contact which is important. However, the only problem I have with the second approach is that you eavesdropped on her conversation and mentioned it later to her. To some (or many) women this may be perceived as creepy so you could have just continued the conversation as they were talking about it or right after. But this woman was d… | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | 3 Powerful Steps To Trigger Her Attraction For You From The StartI’ve heard this advice before and I agree with it, but when you say psychology 101, where do you learn this stuff? Is it from a book or something else? I just wanna have a better understanding of female psychology | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | A powerful, easy tool you can start implementing immediatelyI’m 5’8 but idk what my face is on the scale. Take a look at the inner game posts on this sub to start improving your confidence, which will in turn improve your game. Also try working out regularly to improve your physique. No one is a lost cause. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:44 AM |
| 2 | TIPS ON SEDUCTION (Female psychology and nature)Honestly, a “sexual vibe” can just be achieved through eye contact and body language. I agree this post is over analyzing the situation, and it could be summarized into simple general advice. However, the advice being elaborated on (abundance mindset, confidence, etc) are valid even though you call his wording (ex: use of the word “flocking”) mysogonistic. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | A powerful, easy tool you can start implementing immediatelyHow short are we talking? How ugly are we talking? Ugliness is subjective to everyone, so there are girls who like you out there. What about the conversations you are having? What’s the general gist of them? Also if you keep putting yourself down, it’s gonna affect your game and confidence | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Girls drifting away when getting closeWell if you get close to them without saying a word, I think anyone, no matter the gender, would drift away | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Performance anxiety is ruining my lifeIdk how to solve your erection problem sorry, but don’t feel disappointed that you couldn’t use your dick on her because studies and surveys show women get off to oral sex more than penetration | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | What would you do when a woman makes a self deprecating joke?Can you elaborate on why you don’t agree with the concept of a shit test? Just need some insight | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Push/Pull with GirlAgreed. Emotional investment should only come once you had a lot of conversations with her, and she invested first. Maintain your frame and distance to some extent, and next time will be better. As for whether to keep her or let her go: in terms of for a relationship, no. You’re chances are up and she sees you as someone who was too emotionally invested. However, if she agrees to just fuck every once in a while, why not? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:18 AM |
| 12 | Today I did a cold approachAny cold approach is a win no matter what outcome. It’s a win because you faced your fears and now you’re better prepared for the future. You also realized what went wrong (you let your fear get the better of you, and you didn’t have a “real” conversation) and now you just have to improve on it. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | A powerful, easy tool you can start implementing immediatelyNot true. Maybe you are just holding eye contact in an incorrect way. You shouldn’t be always staring into their soul, but not looking away either. There’s a sweet spot that usually comes out in practice and just the vibe that’s presented. You probably got called creepy because they caught on your inauthenticity. Just practice and you will be fine, it’s an easy fix | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Being nervous is ATTRACTIVE (and why it is) + ExamplesShowing vulnerability should only be after you develop a connection with the girl. Also you can convey you’re nervous, but maybe directly saying it will not work in most cases. | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Best way to get started.The mods are making a wiki which will be beneficial to newbies and everyone. To start, just search the basics in this sub. I recommend the mod tofu tofu’s series of posts: above the game | /r/seduction | 02/03/21 05:23 AM |
| 1 | We are creating a wiki for beginners.Np glad to see that all the information here on this sub is getting organized so people don’t post already answered but lost questions and we can progress further. Thanks | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 15 | We are creating a wiki for beginners.Throughout my searching on this sub (about a year or so) I have gathered numerous posts I think are most beneficial to me and hopefully many others (the following links are in no specific order of helpfulness, just links I have saved: The Sixteen Commandments Of Poon by Chateau Heartiste What turns a girl on in general and conversations? The most common mistakes guys make in the field Summary of Models by Mark Mason How to keep a conversation going A detailed guide to being yourself Infield repo… | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Advice about onenitisOk, so I think the first mistake you made is not pushing for sex. “2 steps forward, one step back.” Only hold back if she gives signs. It will be obvious if she doesn’t like it. Now, since you’ve had one Otis for a year and a half, I’m going to assume you acted needy. Remember to hold a frame that is masculine and something that you’re comfortable with. If you need to, take a step back and evaluate your life. What’s important to you? Some girl I like for over a year and she’s acting cold? Some p… | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 02:34 AM |
| 2 | I’m 15M how do I slide into a girls dms for hookupsMaybe it’s better at our age (same age in 15 too) to talk to girls in person. I don’t really see a way to have girls our age hookup just by texts. They have to feel a connection and like you, in a way that’s only accomplished by in-person contact. But, try sliding into a girl’s dms who you already know. Bold but hey, you never know if she likes you back. Something I’ve learned from this sub is that texts are used to set up irl dates. Sure convos over texts are necessary, but don’t use them as ma… | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | How do I respond to shit tests and insults?Just to confirm fractionation and push pull are the same? | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 7 | How to stop being the shy guy?I agree. We slowly become what we think we are. If we label ourselves as shy, overtime we adopt the traits of a shy person. In contrast, adopting a confident, extroverted mindset can give us the outgoing traits of a person overtime. Now the only question left is “how can I label myself as an outgoing person if the stuff I have done in the past has an introverted connotation?” My answer would be baby steps. practice conversations in public, maybe a hello to start, and general conversations later.… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s your best “don’t do” seduction advice?Hey do you have any links to posts that are about body language fundamentals? | /r/seduction | 23/11/20 02:38 AM |
| 3 | "Genetic value" will not determine your success with womenWhile genetics doesn’t directly influence our social life, it has some effect. Take example of MAOA and CHD13, also known infamously as the serial killer genes. They inhibit receptors of dopamine and serotonin (“feel good” hormones). However, I agree with you saying that this shit doesn’t matter and don’t blame genetics for it. As for IQ, genetics does play SOME role. They determine our ability to learn, not our actual knowledge. However, the ability to make neural connections exists in everyone… | /r/seduction | 21/11/20 03:35 PM |
| 23 | Instead Of Learning What To Say To Women, Learn How To Hold Good Eye Contact. Here's Why...WHERE IS THIS FROM I KNOW THIS | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Does Going To The Gym Actually Help You With Dating?You can actually build muscle in a calorie deficit, but only a slight one from your maintenance calories. Thy way you can lose some fat while gaining muscle. I agree with your rep range, it’s what I use too. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | I just lost the game.Wait if the stuff we learn here isn’t powerful or effective, where is the effective stuff? | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | I just lost the game.Can you link a post talking about the mystery method? | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How to Not be Creepy and NeedyYeah but no tldr? Come on man | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Infield report: night game make out sessionI’m also interested to know how to escalate other than kini | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Looks are not #1I agree that looks may not be number one, but however they are still important. Plus anyone has the ability to look good. Gym and a skin care routine are some I can just think of now to help. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about getting back with her but howDamn I’m in high school too and I have been where u were, except I never even asked out the girl cus I was bat shit nervous. Anyways, sounds like u got one oneitis bro. You have to focus only and solely on improving urself. Workout, study, perfect ur musical abilities. Only then will you truly have a better and more clear view whether or not u still want to be with her or move on. Also, she will see the new you and maybe think differently. But don’t workout and do all that self improvement just … | /r/seduction | 17/08/20 12:38 PM |
| 0 | Just sexBoom | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Got rejected again, this was probably the best rejection I’ve gottenNice job my broski. Don’t be let down that she gave u the no. Soon this corona crap will pass over and we can all approach safely again | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | This is one of the best parts I read in Models. It's about putting in the work over a long time to improve your lifestyle, job, hobbies, friends, and interests. This helps you do better in approaches. Just approaching without working on these will give you bad results.I’m confused. If you say people on this sub have no success, hobbies, or confidence, shouldn’t promoting self improvement be a good thing? | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:30 PM |
| 1 | My front tooth is missing.Lol this is a first. Idk about this but maybe there is like some fake tooth surgery thing or just flex with a gold tooth lol. As for tips, u said it itself actually. Just don’t give a fuck what other people think. There’s no way to do this, ya just do it | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Best memes you have for starting a conversation?I don’t really have a specific opener. I feel it would just make things unnatural. I usually go with flow or open with something that the girl and I experienced together. I guess a “hows ur day going” would work too | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | QuestionsThanks for taking the timers write this | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Best memes you have for starting a conversation?I’m not critiquing your memes themselves. I’m just saying maybe it’s not the best way to start/keep a convo going. But if it works for u, it’s fine! | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:44 PM |
| 9 | I finally did a cold approachYeah leagues and similar are just imaginary. Just approach and don’t be discouraged | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Best memes you have for starting a conversation?Yeah but like the other guy said, probably won’t get u very far. But memes are something rather than nothing | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle a very extroverted womanDon’t act so differently than you would to a normal women. There’s nothing you should change. If anything, this is a benefit because she is more receptive and more likely to be engaged with u. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Best memes you have for starting a conversation?I don’t think memes should be used as openers, but rather during the convo. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Caught OneitisSounds like this girls got good looks but no good personality. Ur associating the fantasy of the perfect girl with this person. She’s far away. There’s plenty of fish in your tank. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Are there any specific tips for this? I get brainfreezes when talking to a nice girl or thinking about itGirls are humans too. Don’t overthink. Talk to them like you would talk to a friend | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be beyond help?My bro, nah. Never too late. Lack of social experience- basically everyone in this sub has problems with socializing. That’s why we r in this sub. To get better. Get of your ass and talk to people. It doesn’t have to be girls, just get up and go Lack of common things- who says you need common hobbies and interests to have friends? Plenty of people get along with totally different kinds of people. You have hobbies, this is good. Play the guitar a little bit more. Find a band. Make a band. Go to m… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:19 PM |
| 5 | This is one of the best parts I read in Models. It's about putting in the work over a long time to improve your lifestyle, job, hobbies, friends, and interests. This helps you do better in approaches. Just approaching without working on these will give you bad results.I disagree. Looks matter, but they aren’t everything. Having hobbies, friends, and a lifestyle will lead you to better your life, and become less dependent on women. Also women will be more drawn to an interesting life. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 02:01 PM |
| 3 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 71 Progress ReportIt’s great to see you posting again. If you can maybe u should post about your longer interactions more in depth so we can give better feedback. | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 01:58 PM |
| 93 | I finally did a cold approachMy man nice job! Just keep in mind to not keep in mind of “leagues” and similar. Don’t put women on pedestals, they’re human too. If this girl doesn’t respond, you should still be proud of yourself! | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best seduction advice you learned?Wise | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Is Above the game still relevant?Just search up above the game on this subreddit. This is my first post so I’m kind of a newbie. | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 12:10 PM |
| 3 | My best night out- OVERCOMING ANXIETY, OPENING SETS, PRESELECTIONThe future is now, old man. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 10:00 PM |
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