I am going through this phenomenon again and I am just wondering if there are some changes I can do to my life to avoid it.

I am relatively good looking and I dont have much of a problem attracting women, but I just dont feel like it. Lately I just get bored with them and start to think about this girl. Usually my solution is just to cut contact and wait, but I am jealous of men who dont even go through this on the first place.

Did any of you have "chronic" oneitis and got over it?