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1

Coach Corey Wayne has a couple GREAT videos that worked for me on this exact topic, cleverly titled something like “How to get your ex back”
/r/seduction23/04/21 09:51 PM
1

“Oh shit!” <look at body like you got in the wrong one> or Make a Frankenstein noise and move in as if to hug/eat her I have done these for many years and both work, if your personality is “goofball Viking” AND one more tip — don’t bend/crouch to be in photos, it looks needy, almost supplicating. Stand up straight and let the photographer tilt the phone a couple degrees upward.
/r/seduction23/04/21 03:51 PM
6

Pay for some, seriously. You need to get it out of the way so you can continue on with your life. I don’t know if that means finding a local sex worker or a trip overseas, but at 30, this virginity thing is like a cancer that needs to be removed.
/r/seduction23/04/21 02:18 AM
1

So does wealth, so does a good family upbringing Let’s put investment advice and parenting advice in here next 😂 STONKS!!
/r/seduction22/04/21 09:47 PM
1

Get a little ahead of her on your route home (but still in view of the school — just like across the street and away from the hubbub) Be on your phone When approaches, get along side her and walk with her. Say something dumb like “I think I just saw Bigfoot/kidnappers/an escaped lion, let’s walk together!” (You know, for safety!) Watch her face and body language closely. If she grimaced or pulls her arms close or angles away from you, back off. If she’s neutral and expressionless about it, join …
/r/seduction22/04/21 12:30 AM
2

Holy shit wait a second, walking up to strangers in bars/clubs is “cold approach”? I’ve been operating under the impression (for twenty years!) that “cold approach” was for places women aren’t typically looking to get hit on — at the park, a library, that sort of thing God damn what other words am I mistakenly believing I know but don’t 🤣
/r/seduction21/04/21 08:42 PM
5

<walks into delivery room mid-birth> yo toots!
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:05 PM
4

Pull away a little, make her chase it
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:04 PM
3

I’ve found it killing my game because I get a little too touchy and friendly too fast, and I can’t read signals as well (or I’m reading them but not processing how to react correctly) — whereas with a little bourbon I’m in great flow state
/r/seduction21/04/21 04:03 PM
0

Haha deadly accurate Seriously tho, if the location is part of the problem (which it is for a LOT of people), relocating can be a solution ✌️
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:16 PM
1

You here yet? These two models just walked up to me rolling a keg and asked if I wanted to party, and if I knew anyone from Ohio!
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:12 PM
1

come to nyc
/r/seduction20/04/21 04:07 PM
21

Sounds like she wants you (or a roommate) to invite her over to party on Thursday or Friday to me. If she’s referencing Kris Kross and has a nine year old, and you’re describing her as “this lady” I’m guessing she’s like 42?
/r/seduction20/04/21 10:40 AM
10

There’s gotta be two or three universes where they end up falling in love and having great sex every day for the next twenty years
/r/seduction19/04/21 10:02 PM
1

Step one: graduate
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:24 PM
192

Alternate Universe You’s #173839-#8483839 all fucked her and this morning are either looking at strange rashes in their pubic area, being suspended over date rape allegations, being arrested over date rape allegations, or various combinations of the three, and they WISH they made the choice you did...
/r/seduction19/04/21 12:23 PM
2

It’s not my style, but don’t some guys just walk around the clubbing areas and strike up conversations outside on the street?
/r/seduction17/04/21 06:34 PM
1

If you want a hard stop with the backup chick, tell her it’s over (“the magic’s just not there”) If you want more of a fade away, just ask her out less and be less available — save her for weekdays or as a backup option when the girl you like more isn’t available (This all depends on where you three are at in your relationships — is there the expectation of seeing one or the other every Saturday, have there been declarations of live, or are these relationships still fairly new)
/r/seduction16/04/21 10:19 AM
5

To increase foot traffic to your new sushi restaurant
/r/seduction16/04/21 09:59 AM
1

How is putting the onus on her “leading”?
/r/seduction16/04/21 02:04 AM
1

You can always hope/pretend you’ll meet up with her again in five or ten years (I’ve got over I do that for) That’ll help you get out more and date around and mayyyyybe you’ll find one that’s even better as you grow and change
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:49 PM
1

I understand the logic but it still seems beta — you’re putting the effort on her Gotta take the risk of a face to face “no”
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:45 PM
2

It’s a way better answer than mine (“pirate fight”)!
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:12 PM
1

Have you met them already? Treat it like tennis, no double texting Be quick to make a face-to-face date Profit
/r/seduction15/04/21 10:31 PM
1

Clear it with friend first, if you value that friendship
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:40 PM
1

With Covid it’s easier than ever to say “let’s skip the bar and just take a stroll in the park”
/r/seduction15/04/21 01:03 PM
0

Yeah heaven forbid they start imagining all the fun stuff that might happen 😆
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:58 PM
3

“Nothing’s gonna happen that you don’t want to happen,” delivered warmly. (Also hopefully you’ve been reading her signals and haven’t been pushy) The safer and more comfortable they feel, the better
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:18 PM
1

So you’re bad around people you want to have sex with? And fine around people you don’t want to have sex with? Approach girls without the goal of having sex with them?
/r/seduction15/04/21 03:30 AM
4

Guess you should’ve chosen a closer bar 😆 Hope you said hello to other chicks at the bar instead of letting it ruin your night!
/r/seduction15/04/21 12:05 AM
3

The kind he is attracted to
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:52 PM
2

Go on the double date, have fun, don’t be needy, escalate lightly (while always monitoring her reaction)... You’ll make a ton of mistakes, but you’ll also do a few things right (even if only by accident), don’t sweat it, we’re all rooting for ya
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:42 PM
3

Don’t forget all the penis statues and giant-breasted goddesses in museums/throughout history! It’s an interesting question, maybe it comes down to displayability/presentation? But then would cameltoe be more popular? Maybe it’s more associated with childbirth for whatever reason? Maybe it’s just penises, butts, and breasts are flesh, whereas the vagina is kind of the absence of flesh so it’s harder to make into a symbol/icon/art Just talking out of my ass here ✌️😅
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:31 PM
2

Haha saw the edit, awesome
/r/seduction14/04/21 10:59 PM
6

Wrong. “Models” by Mark Manson. Gonna pass it on to my son in a few more years.
/r/seduction14/04/21 09:52 PM
2

It works for my style of dating, where I end up befriending five to ten new friends each week (guys and girls), and so a couple times a month I’ll randomly hit up a dozen of them and say “bar x tonight!” If they come, they come; if they don’t, they don’t and they can see all the fun they missed on Instagram. 😇 (Sometimes I warn them a day or three in advance, other times it’s like, that afternoon...) Half will be unable/busy/next time, half will be cool/maybe, one or two will be the “fuck yes” y…
/r/seduction14/04/21 06:20 PM
2

You made an error not moving things faster, but it doesn’t seem irrecoverable. Hit her up this weekend, low pressure. “Bar A tonight” (no question mark, it’s just a statement you’ll be there) and see if she ignores it, responds, or comes and you’ll have a decent gauge on her interest level
/r/seduction14/04/21 05:30 PM
2

I mean, the polite answer is “I always loved when you did X, but you haven’t for a while, do you want to talk about it?” But the actual answer is, since it’s no longer “a good relationship”, to bail out asap, especially with the hedonistic post-lockdown summer of sex that’s on the horizon
/r/seduction14/04/21 12:53 PM
20

I’d thumbs up like it, not heart love it, you haven’t even met face to face yet. And I’d just thumbs up the main post, not individual pictures. Most importantly you should text her today and ask if she wants to go out sometime, and if she says yes, ask what day is usually best for her schedule (she might say Fri/Sat like a lot of people, she might say Sunday or Tuesday depending on her job or school schedule.)
/r/seduction14/04/21 11:25 AM
2

Get to know her IN PERSON! Give her a big hug when you see her, get that kino going early so it doesn’t turn into a “just friends catching up” debacle
/r/seduction13/04/21 02:15 PM
2

Meet at a bar or someplace halfway between the both of you to plan the trip, and make delicate moves, always judging her reaction. Or less likely but way better logistically, get her to come to your place (or at least your town) to plan the trip. That way you’ll know if she’s interested, but the risk is you go too far, creep her out, and she cancels the trip a few weeks later. (If she’s just an acquaintance than this is probaban acceptable risk to you) You’ll also get insights into the sleeping …
/r/seduction13/04/21 12:17 PM
14

Maybe just stay with the hello; introducing yourself makes it a whole thing. And keep moving, don’t do it where people might feel “trapped” (on a line, on a bus). Make eye contact, smile lightly, say hi, done.
/r/seduction12/04/21 08:22 PM
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Awesome! It’s definitely better than the feeling you get when you haven’t acted, or getting friendzoned because you weren’t clear (we’ve allllll been there) Next step, less pining and more clear, immediate approaches?
/r/seduction12/04/21 05:06 PM
-3

Stop discouraging my participation in this thread by criticizing meeeeeeeee YOUR WORDS ARE VIOLENCE!!! (Is that about right? I don’t speak beta, but you’re clearly fluent!) 😆
/r/seduction12/04/21 04:58 PM
-2

And YOUR bigoted comment implies women can’t handle criticism! Oh dear! Be gentle!
/r/seduction12/04/21 04:29 PM
-17

“I’m a woman and I don’t agree” 😆 This is how you know the advice is probably pretty on-point, boys
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:29 PM
1

I mean, I’ve been in the epicenter for a year and going out since August most weekends, whereas you are, I presume, are hiding in your little room, and you’re probably half my age and not used to how the news lies to you, or how valuable every day is, but you spend yours how you see fit.
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:17 PM
1

😆😆😆
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:05 PM
-4

Are you elderly? Maybe an obese asthmatic? Look up the hospitalization and death rate for your age group, plug in any comorbidities you have too. I suspect you’ll be pissed off to discover you surrendered over a year of your life to avoid a day or two of maybe feeling tired and achey.
/r/seduction12/04/21 05:11 AM
-4

Your response is exactly why we can safely ignore any advice you’re giving, you’re home playing video games and whining about having a small social circle!? And the “I don’t feel safe” crap is your excuse? Go the fuck out. Solo. Meet people in friend groups. Say hi to people. “Man it’s good to be out again, yeah, I was playing FF14 way too much omg I play that too oh shit let’s drink!” Catch Covid, be sick for a couple days, then be immune and go out more. Save the games for times when you can’t…
/r/seduction12/04/21 03:35 AM
0

If someone’s reading and replying in Reddit threads on Saturday night, instead of out having fun... or worse, they’re the guys at the bar nosedeep into their phones? Hahah yikes 🤣
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:23 AM
1

They all taste the same to me 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction12/04/21 12:16 AM
3

I don’t know what to tell ya man, but when a girl responds with anything that’s not a fuck yeah — whether it’s “I can’t this weekend” or silence or whatever, it don’t hurt. It used to, certainly, but at this point in my trajectory it’a nothing. Part of it is maybe they’ll come around in a month or a year, part of it is there’s more girls out there, but most of it is simply that is not a “rejection” if she only barely knows me? Something like that. Also, I’m not sure where you are but it looks li…
/r/seduction11/04/21 05:25 PM
79

Learning that rejection doesn’t hurt — that in fact it’s a time/money/energy saver — was a MAJOR turning point for me I got there thanks to Mark Manson’s “Models”, a book I will plug for ever and look forward to handing down to my son
/r/seduction10/04/21 09:15 PM
1

It’s actually even more of an illicit thrill, AND it’s easier to end it cleanly, AND it’s a better ratio of sex to relationship shit (dinners, talking, driving, meeting her parents or whatever) But I suspect you’re younger and still have an idealized view of the world?
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:58 PM
1

Maybe I misread but I was thinking the ”some sort of hotel” OP referenced was the Airbnb this chick already had!
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:14 PM
1

“I love that movie!” Then hop on a table and do the Greased Lightning Dance https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=wK63eUyk-iM
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:09 PM
4

She pepper-sprays me and flees shrieking
/r/seduction10/04/21 06:06 PM
1

Because fucking in a cafe is frowned upon 😛
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:59 PM
0

I never* bring up the boyfriend/husband — why would you? “Pardon me miss, can I remind you of some reasons we should stop having a good time?” **unless she’s dating/dated a friend of mine
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:57 PM
7

Omg that’s brilliant! You can also learn how to sex from porn And how to drive from The Fast & The Furious series of instructional films
/r/seduction10/04/21 05:52 PM
4

Do you live in a third world country (or someplace where money literally equates to survival)?
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:49 PM
6

Really sounds like you did everything right, and your conclusions are sound. Sometimes things just don’t go the way we expect. In retrospect maybe pulling her earlier would’ve been the move because she was already all over you, but i wouldn’t sweat it, I’m willing to bet the other guy is a bit of a doofus and just kind of fell into the situation he found himself in.
/r/seduction10/04/21 12:26 PM
1

Fucking LOVING this “Men Don’t Love...” book man!! I was afraid it might be wishy-washy feel good shit but man it’s BRUTAL in its clarity and honesty GREAT RECOMMENDATION It feels like a stolen playbook ✌️😂
/r/seduction09/04/21 03:14 AM
1

Read all of these except the last, getting it right now! (I’d only add Coach Corey Wayne’s “3% Man” — it’s as great as “Models” imho)
/r/seduction08/04/21 05:46 PM
6

Look at all the people who still haven’t figured out how “attractive” doesn’t exclusively refer to an appealing physical appearance
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:31 PM
3

You think girls AREN’T hoping for amazing guys? You think they don’t care what type of guy approaches them?
/r/seduction07/04/21 03:25 PM
4

I was joking
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:41 PM
1

Yeah I’m sure the whole stalkery “I know where you live” interrupting-her-day vibe will totally not hurt his chances at all 😂
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:36 PM
7

“Wanna go for a walk in the park sometime” might work better for you then, I’d buy a couple juices and add some vodka to them tho 😁
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:47 PM
61

That’s not so bad. I’d risk it. You can’t go knock on her door tho, you have to text her or bump into her And say, hey, with the quarantines lifting, wanna go check out that [bar/club/etc] down the street? And if she gives you anything less than an excited YES, take the hint, back off, and don’t be weird.
/r/seduction07/04/21 01:25 PM
37

Are you guys in school and moving out soon, or are you potentially looking at years of awkward encounters in the lobby and elevator?
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:25 PM
4

Yes — and you’re THE FIRST PERSON EVER to do so! All of the rest of us were born perfect and we NEVER make any dating mistakes! 😆
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:18 PM
2

It’s forward, but it lets him clearly know you’re interested. If he doesn’t respond “yes!” then you know how he feels and can move on :)
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:08 AM
1

Well, he seems free on Sundays! So, maybe Sunday morning again. Or if you want a proper date ask him tomorrow what he’s doing Friday or Saturday night
/r/seduction07/04/21 05:01 AM
2

Ask to meet up again, see how it goes
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:57 AM
8

I might seem overwhelming because your parents, your friends, movies/music, none of them told you this stuff (or worse, told you b.s. that runs counter to this stuff) But it gets much easier as you practice, and tbh the practice is fun — even when it goes badly, a short time later you’ll find yourself laughing about how badly you got shot down or fucked up (which are SOO much better than that “I didn’t talk to anyone” feeling you get from never trying) Every single one of your ancestors managed …
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:29 AM
7

you’re probably standing taller, maintaining firmer eye contact, owning your space, that kind of thing, which are all markers of self confidence. Enjoy it!
/r/seduction07/04/21 04:10 AM
1

“Tackle women” ok! 😂 I actually think this isn’t totally wrong — not strangers, of course, but girls you know, doing the kind of rough play like their older brothers and fathers might have done with them?
/r/seduction07/04/21 02:25 AM
1

You’re supposed to slap her in the face with the glove before you drop it, and if she doesn’t pick it up and accept the challenge you get to keep her lands and title, don’t they teach you knaves anything in Chivalry School!? 😂
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:18 PM
1

I think Mystery said “the opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference.” (Love and hate are neighboring emotions, and strong, and show you’re thinking a lot about the other person.) Changed my entire mindset back in... 2003?
/r/seduction06/04/21 06:15 PM
1

I’m old fashioned, to me sex means penetration and ejaculation — the two things necessary for procreation.
/r/seduction06/04/21 04:12 AM
1

Sound like you technically achieved penetration, but did you cum?
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:40 PM
2

Colleges are businesses. They make money by accepting students. (I was at a decent state school for my undergrad, where I tutored kids my age who were shockingly bad at reading and writing.) You should operate on the assumption that the college WANTS TO ACCEPT YOU. They also generally like to diversify, and your age makes you stand out. If you have a reasonable story about the delay (got addicted to drugs, had to help a sick mom, had to work to support a kid) that’s a good thing. Assuming you ca…
/r/seduction05/04/21 07:27 PM
1

Dude, some colleges will accept ANYBODY — I’ve tutored peers who could barely READ
/r/seduction05/04/21 05:17 PM
1

Because you haven’t dated some yet and been turned off by their personality (or lack thereof), or by their politics (less common, but still sad when it happens)
/r/seduction05/04/21 04:26 PM
1

Yes please protect us, we are unable to read things and draw our own conclusions! Thank you thank you for being so brave!
/r/seduction05/04/21 03:06 AM
2

I’m tall. It’s a good thing, but EVERYONE always says “oh wow, you’re tall!” It’s not exactly annoying, but it is predictable and a little dull. It’s also something I’m completely not responsible for, so it’s not the compliment people seem to think it is! I imagine the same thing is true when women are told they’re cute/pretty/etc So, I make specific complements about choices or actions the girl has done, like customizing a tee shirt that shows off her figure or how the specific streaks of green…
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:54 PM
1

I’ve never done, but one can imagine they’ll be able to spot and target your weaknesses faster than you will on your own
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:45 PM
1

And remember, lying about your feelings towards someone is NOT nice — you’re not being a nice guy if you’re being dishonest
/r/seduction04/04/21 05:34 PM
1

You can try non-sequiturs — you’re talking about where’s she’s from, then you mention how much you hate tomatoes because <tell your tomatoes suck story> and she can jump onto that, and how much she hates eggplant I’ve also literally said “I’m trying to think of something to say about those boots” when I couldn’t think of something to say about her cool boots.
/r/seduction01/04/21 02:17 AM
1

I understand, that’s why my comment says “talking to” instead of pulling. ✌️
/r/seduction30/03/21 11:42 PM
1

You say it’s the opposite of what you should do, but I’ve always found dudes coming up and saying hi to me after they see me talking to a few hotties.
/r/seduction30/03/21 04:44 PM
4

I was a bit bored by No More Mr Nice Guy, but Models and 3% Man are LIFECHANGING
/r/seduction24/03/21 01:12 PM
1

Men lead. By asking “where should we go?” you were making HER lead. My default texts when a girl reaches out are “hey! let’s hang out again sometime, which is better next Friday or next Saturday?” her: “I work Friday night can we do Saturday?” “I’ll pick you up Sat @8” or “meet ya at Bar X Sat @8” Then on the day around noon “hey let’s make it 9” — and she’ll confirm or she’ll flake (but you’ll have plenty of time to reach out to someone else) 👻
/r/seduction23/03/21 11:40 PM
1

Be more specific! “your shoes complement your blouse perfectly” or “those curls really make your hair bouncy” or “I love the lighting in this photo, very noir!”
/r/seduction23/03/21 11:22 PM
2

Don’t write stories — just hang out and have fun. Let things progress naturally.
/r/seduction23/03/21 05:54 PM
3

It works better on girls you’ve known for a bit but haven’t gotten to know / hooked up with yet, as something to do while you’re hanging out, but i wouldn’t try it on new girls or first dates.
/r/seduction23/03/21 05:22 PM
0

Mating and resources are things we are biologically driven towards because our ancestors were. Make a baby! It’s pretty amazing.
/r/seduction22/03/21 11:29 PM
3

Omg you watch their interaction guys! And if he’s doing well (which will be rare) you take mental notes And when he’s doing poorly you become the cheerleader for the interlocutor: “maintain eye contact, stop looking at the floor my guy!” or when he mentions his posh job/car/salary you say “that’ll impress her!” And “try reading her palm, that’s the smooth way to initiate kino!”
/r/seduction22/03/21 07:26 PM
1

Ugh it’s the worst
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:16 PM
3

I hide behind the cereal and when they pull a box away and my face is there it’s like fate
/r/seduction20/03/21 09:03 PM
-3

Enjoy your knighthood, virgin!
/r/seduction18/03/21 11:06 PM
1

Fair enough. The pick-up thing works if you’re on foot too, tho (I use it in nyc all the time — you’d be surprised often they’ll suggest “why don’t we just go here <insert bar near her apartment> instead of hopping on a train to the neutral spot further away.)
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:58 PM
7

You are giving awful advice The answer to his problem is to PICK HER UP at her place, not meet at the bar, because now, automagically, there’s the unwritten rule that he’ll take her back to her place at the end of the date!
/r/seduction18/03/21 10:05 PM
6

Well, this lump in the sidewalk LOOKS like dog shit, and SMELLS like dog shit, but I don’t want to ASSUME it’s dogshit without tasting it first, lest I be labeled a “negative thinker”
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:57 PM
1

Have you checked out Coach Corey Wayne, my fellow forty year old? He’s great for us Gen X guys who know how to carry on a face to face conversation and shit. He figures those special girls come along once every few years, so you want to practice your skills NOW so when the next one comes along, you’re ready. Edit: and it’s not necessarily over, just on pause — improve yourself while she slowly discovers how crappy most guys actually are. A couple years from now you might be telling her “nah” 😆
/r/seduction17/03/21 10:51 AM
1

Dude, I agree with almost everything you’re saying but you type a lot and it feels like I’ll get sucked into a black hole of big words and circular arguing with you, sorry man
/r/seduction16/03/21 11:54 PM
1

Too true (I’ve got a son and a daughter who I assume will go to college not too long from now so I’m sympathetic to these issues) But also he’s most likely got more muscle and stronger bones and isn’t scared of being overwhelmed physically by her either It mostly evens out 🤘
/r/seduction16/03/21 12:11 PM
2

Keep underthinking
/r/seduction16/03/21 03:17 AM
1

It’s not societal — it’s biological. Pregnancy and child rearing is a MASSIVE COST
/r/seduction15/03/21 11:38 PM
9

Because dudes don’t have to carry a fetus for months and then take care of a baby for the next decade and a half Men and women ARE DIFFERENT, you can whine about the differences but it won’t help you
/r/seduction15/03/21 08:26 PM
1

There’s no meaning on your list. Are you choosing to build something that will make the world slightly better? Running to qualify for a marathon or to attract fit girls? Find some meaning, something to aim for.
/r/seduction12/03/21 04:40 PM
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