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68

Hell, be the lead dog. Emphatically greet the guy, "HEY MAN, WHAT'S GOING ON!?!" Lemme buy you a drink! You see the game? Always lewd the convo. Be the lead dog. You're there to have fun, so have fun. She'll eat that up. Everyone wants to be around the guy who's having fun.
/r/seduction14/02/22 07:44 PM
1

You're there to have fun. Focus on the now, stay in the moment.
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:18 PM
1

Yep, amplify. Treat it like something your little sister said
/r/seduction08/02/22 03:19 PM
40

Uhh, don't invite her back?
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:30 PM
2

Is your name Dallas?
/r/seduction01/02/22 07:05 PM
7

You need to end it.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:05 AM
1

Great stuff. Though I'd disagree with "subculture" about tats. Maybe "perceived subculture", because it's no longer uncommon. Among young women, it's pretty much standard. Besides, perception is what matters anyway, right? Both of your comments are great, by the way.
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:34 PM
2

Don't you like hanging out with cool guys?
/r/seduction26/01/22 11:31 PM
1

Ask her.
/r/seduction24/01/22 04:36 PM
2

Brutal.jpg
/r/MensRights21/01/22 07:30 PM
5

I wouldn't
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:38 PM
1

guys are indiscriminate in the girls they find attractive. Hahaha. "Why don't all guys find me hot, I'm ABOVE AVERAGE!" Oh the arrogance.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:22 AM
2

Don't do that
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:39 PM
0

Yea, really, only potheads ask that kind of question, so how did you expect her to respond? Asking that makes it seem like it's important to you... Important enough to get it out there early on.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:38 PM
17

Why would you be a bad person? So you don't find her attractive. Move on.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:16 PM
4

Make a date with someone else.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:15 PM
5

I'd say "as much or more to do with your vibe than words". Words matter, just not nearly as much as tone and how you carry yourself.
/r/seduction18/01/22 05:46 PM
1

That's called a strawman. What was said was: equivalent of changing everything about yourself?
/r/seduction17/01/22 06:59 PM
1

"What do you mean?" Always good to respond with a question.
/r/seduction16/01/22 09:50 PM
2

Right? Why not just list them here?
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:53 PM
14

Next. Don't waste your time. Dont
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:52 PM
4

Yep, women love to hear your voice if they're in to you.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:35 PM
2

"All of them".... Slow grin
/r/seduction11/01/22 04:35 PM
2

"Who dis?"
/r/seduction10/01/22 06:15 PM
0

Wait, I thought the old meme was 7/5? Am I doing this right?
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:13 AM
2

Move on. Why would you want to get involved in such a shit show?
/r/seduction09/01/22 10:58 PM
1

Lol, dating app research shows that would be incorrect.
/r/seduction09/01/22 12:06 AM
14

That's called qualifying
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:57 PM
1

I didn't know most of it when I read it.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:52 PM
1

There's 0 and 1. Do or do not. That is all.
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:21 PM
1

OK?
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:21 PM
1

You don't need to have some epiphany moment to become successful. I get what you're saying, but I kinda think you do. At least from the perspective of judging/labeling yourself as a "loser" or whatever internal dialog people have that prevents them from succeeding at something before they even start. Someone who learns a new language doesn't start with the idea "I'll never learn this". Instead they start with "I want to learn this", and then practice the basics: pronunciation of phonemes, word f…
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:09 PM
157

"Girls just wanna have fun"
/r/seduction27/12/21 07:35 PM
4

Hahah, that yard looks like an idiot in those clothes. Nope, didn't bother reading any farther.
/r/seduction27/12/21 02:54 AM
1

Straw meet man. Also, what utility does this question offer?
/r/seduction24/12/21 07:22 PM
3

Haha, you're either female or just clueless
/r/seduction22/12/21 04:03 AM
2

Shoot for younger than 47. Why settle, unless she's hot as hell and well maintained? Mid-thirties is perfect for you, especially if you hit the gym
/r/seduction17/12/21 03:44 PM
42

Women get off on feeling the strength of men. Like men enjoy the softness of women. As the song goes, "Give to me your leather, take from me my lace"
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:09 PM
10

Haha, typical, assumes men who don't want to deal with a married/annoying woman is "intimidated". Hahah That you see men as a unified bloc instead of individuals says it all.
/r/seduction15/12/21 04:05 PM
2

Get fixed.
/r/seduction14/12/21 04:18 PM
0

That you even ask should tell you all you need to know.
/r/seduction14/12/21 02:40 PM
1

You asked a man to marry you? First mistake right there
/r/seduction07/12/21 09:36 PM
5

Had a friend going bald, so he committed to being fully bald. Holy shit how that changed his game. He said owning it changed it for him...suddenly it just didn't matter any more.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:00 PM
8

Who cares? NYC is a shithole anyway
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:06 PM
9

Ignore what she says, watch what she does
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:03 PM
95

Stop following, start leading. If she doesn't like your text game, that's her problem. You're the fun train, you've invited her along, she doesn't come, then she's the one missing out. Stop being a sycophant to women. Live your own damn life for yourself.
/r/seduction06/12/21 03:15 PM
13

Ethically? Everyone goes through growing pains. If your intent isn't negative, then there's nothing to be concerned about, ethically.
/r/seduction27/11/21 11:12 PM
1

Hahaha, kind of, yea. He buttonhooked me!
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:00 PM
16

I was criticizing you right up till your closing statement, and ya hooked me. Well done. This is the answer.
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:44 PM
5

Haha. This deserves the upvotes.
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:05 PM
15

Many people are allergic to silence. Boy can they be tiresome to be around
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:04 PM
3

Thing is, if you're high value, the moment your gaze lands on a woman, she'll be attracted. Your goal is to make attention from you desirable.
/r/seduction22/11/21 08:03 PM
53

The idea with game is to capitalize on the attraction that's there already. "Attraction is not a choice", as said by a dating coach. However, if you understand what induces attraction, you can improve your own attractiveness....i.e. "game"
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:18 PM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:21 AM
69

For a truly engaging conversation, you need to be communicating emotions not just information. Say this louder. Repeatedly.
/r/seduction17/11/21 03:20 PM
10

Who cares? Numbers don't matter, and comparing yours to someone else matters even less.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:51 AM
5

I just knew it would be Chris Voss. One of the best books out there.
/r/seduction15/11/21 03:50 PM
2

On apps like tinder, well, yea, that's how it works.
/r/seduction14/11/21 10:25 PM
1

This isn't tinder. Go find someone to cheat with elsewhere.
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:58 PM
32

Cut all those words down to "didn't make you tingle"
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:07 AM
3

Next, from the title alone. Don't waste time.
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:19 PM
1

And in great shape, dress well. Because then, yes.
/r/seduction01/11/21 02:20 PM
15

Time to change the way you think, first. Read "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques to alter our thinking. Every day is a new opportunity to make better choices than yesterday.
/r/seduction01/11/21 03:25 AM
0

Hahaha, takes balls to go along with current fads?
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:21 PM
0

Tattoos make you stand out...when many people have them? No, you're just another fad follower
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:21 PM
0

Tattoos make you look like you go along with fads.
/r/seduction31/10/21 04:20 PM
2

Why is irrelevant. Give her one more chance. Ask if she has anywhere to be at the beginning. If she says yes, end the date.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:06 PM
2

Height matters because everything matters...to her, to you, and it's all in flux in the moment. How's the parable go? Seek to change what you can, accept what you can't, and the wisdom to know the difference. You can't change your height, so accept it, if someone isn't attracted to you because of it, oh well...that's their preference. Just remember to live your life in a way you enjoy, and invite others along. Who doesn't want to follow where the fun is happening?
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:00 PM
1

You have too much invested. Read "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques to alter our thinking. He can help you choose to think differently, which means you feel differently.
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:24 AM
1

Don't forget the slow, sly, grin, demonstrating your comfort with the question and making them wonder. Social proof is what she's after.
/r/seduction28/10/21 09:24 PM
2

Stop. Just stop. You're apart, let it go. Stop contacting. Be as civil as necessary for something like getting your dog back, but everything else is just stuff you can replace. Also, not reading the juvenile wall-of-text-about-my-breakup. That's something a 14 year old girl does.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:51 PM
2

No one wants that in this situation. This is fun, by being serious you're missing out.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:49 AM
2

No such thing as too forward.
/r/seduction28/10/21 01:48 AM
8

Yep, she really is. She wants to have fun as much as you do. Too often this is overlooked and guys get caught up in an adversarial mindset.
/r/seduction26/10/21 10:51 PM
67

She wants you to escalate. She like the vibe, she was engaged. Think of it this way, just like men, 99% of her interactions don't lead to fun. So lead her to fun. She wants you to succeed at this, because she benefits too! And remember, you're inviting her to your world, so think in those terms: "join me", "come along", and think in terms of delivering these as directives, not questions. "I'm going to this fun thing, come along!"
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:07 PM
1

Yes. They aren't a monolith, any more than men are. Do all men like the same thing in women?
/r/seduction26/10/21 04:10 AM
6

Life is mostly struggle. Accept it now.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:40 PM
2

"It's small? Guess you won't mind when I stick it in your ass then!" (Old Sam Kinison joke) The point of the joke is to control the frame. Honestly, I could use Sam's line without missing a beat...just say it with a slow grin, demonstrating you'll always find the bright side of something.
/r/seduction25/10/21 05:36 PM
10

There's a difference between guys who play games, and guys who learn Game. Learning Game is just learning to be an attractive man, in the ways in which women find men attractive.
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:23 PM
3

No such thing as unconditional live, except that from a dog, or from a parent to child (and even then...). Nor should there be. If you cheat, or abuse someone, they shouldn't love you any more. All relationships are conditional. Let's all work to maintain those conditions with which we agree.
/r/seduction24/10/21 10:22 PM
1

Part of the attraction for them is they can tell you just don't care. I'm a similar age as you, and don't care. The IOI's I get from women less than half my age is sometimes a little uncomfortable, haha.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:04 AM
1

No. But there are things you can do to become that way. She's changing the frame when she says this, if you don't let it change your frame, it'll be a lot more fun for both of you. It doesn't matter what thing she uses to disqualify you, if you hold the paradigm that you're not "disqualifiable", because you're always qualifying her. This is maintaining your frame.
/r/seduction24/10/21 03:02 AM
2

Ask the kids say, "who dis?"
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:56 PM
2

I want a girl that every guy is jealous of. Ego. Check it.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:54 PM
1

And my experience has been the opposite. Far more bias and racism in cities
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:04 PM
-1

It's funny, you call others "racist", but use the same stereotyping yourself about "boomers". As a not-boomer, this is kind of tiresome.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:04 PM
-1

Lol, it's funny - you're projecting, showing the same stereotyping that you're claiming others have.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:03 PM
2

It is?
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:18 PM
2

Omfg 3-4 times a night?
/r/seduction17/10/21 02:18 PM
2

"I don't use Facebook,it's for old people" hahaha love the willingness to embrace the elephant in the room. That's what worked in your favor - not being defensive, and playing with the situation.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:36 PM
1

Try tinder, not this sub Besides, you haven't said anything about what you offer. Give us a pic, guys care about how you look first.
/r/seduction14/10/21 06:45 PM
1

Go where you'll find the type of guys you're interested in. Self employed makes that a little more work, but find activities to meet people. Maybe a rock-climbing group (or whatever you're interested in). You're looking to expand your social circle, mostly. Engaging with as many people as possible, increases your odds of meeting someone. Be focused on the process of meeting people (guys), and don't let your own agenda get in the way. Be outcome independent. (If you're overly focused on end-goals…
/r/seduction14/10/21 03:37 AM
2

, I like mature and stable men older than me "I ain't saying she a gold digger, but she ain't messin' wit no broke n*****"
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:57 PM
2

Not by the way she writes - it's all "me me me", without indicating what she offers a "high value man".
/r/seduction12/10/21 10:55 PM
2

This. "Thanks but no thanks, my friend inventory is full"
/r/seduction11/10/21 12:54 PM
1

🤦‍♂️ What, are you the new guy on Jersey Shore?
/r/seduction11/10/21 03:12 AM
1

Yoh again. This isn't a dating sub. Also, you only talk about yourself, meeting your needs. What you got to offer a man? Not much, since your focus is all about you
/r/seduction09/10/21 11:14 PM
1

This. Don't ask, do...invite...
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:51 PM
6

Aww, yet the sub you push is full of man-hating asshats. Blinders much?
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:32 AM
20

This isn't a hookup site, and you haven't said one thing about what you offer to a partner...it's just "you you you".
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:30 AM
1

Bwahahahahaha
/r/seduction09/10/21 12:30 AM
34

That's a response you could use, but it requires doing it with a slow grin.
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:34 AM
15

Hahaha, have my upvote
/r/seduction07/10/21 05:33 AM
4

Jesus grow up
/r/seduction06/10/21 10:50 PM
6

This isn't a hookup service. Besides, you haven't said one thing about what you can offer someone...just a list of qualifications and liabilities, to be frank. Why should any man voluntarily take on the responsibility of your kids? Why would any man want to play second fiddle to your kids? You've demonstrated you make poor relationship decisions, can't form a permanent bond (divorced), and are solely focused on yourself (your list of what you like without saying what you offer besides being a di…
/r/seduction04/10/21 11:22 PM
1

You can't even recognize your own contradictions
/r/seduction03/10/21 07:32 PM
2

TIL bitchy girls have big boobs and a tight ass.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:51 PM
133

What's a 10? Seriously, stop assessing women this way, for a start. They're either someone you're attracted to, or aren't. 1 or 2. A or B. Then remember, be outcome independent, focus on enjoying right here and now. Later doesn't exist. Tomorrow doesn't exist.
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:11 PM
3

and if you ask 100 self assured, independent women how they like their men you would see a pattern A pattern of women saying one thing, but doing another. Watch what people do,not what they say. Our rational mind doesn't have the control over our emotional/physical responses anywhere near as much as people would like to think. Remember: attraction is not a choice, what we do about it is.
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:45 AM
5

Because they get results? Clearly some younger women respond to them, or else they wouldn't continue to do it.
/r/seduction30/09/21 09:48 PM
6

You don't know why he did that, nor why those other people laughed, and after all, who gives a fuck? Just respond to the dude in a positive way, and go on with your life.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:41 PM
2

Everyone is different, you won't get the answers you're looking for. That said, most of us can do something about our weight. Control what you can; accept what you can't.
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:35 PM
2

Own it. Things happen in life. If you're still seeing him, then you're OK with him having a girlfriend?
/r/seduction27/09/21 09:34 PM
1

You have height privilege. As an average dude, I don't want to hear jack or shit from you. See how that sounds?
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:33 PM
0

Sounds like "girls of your color" are the problem then, yet you and OP frame it as "white privelege".
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:32 PM
2

I mean she was double texting and all that. Showing a lot of interest through text and wasn’t boring And if you responded to much of it, she already got what she wanted. I once went to a dog trainer who would say "Don't let the dog collect a paycheck just for existing". If they get a reward for just being there, how can you reward good behaviour later?
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:44 PM
3

Every guy - provided he does not lie - will admit that ultimately all women are the same personalitywise. Nope, not even close.
/r/seduction25/09/21 12:38 AM
30

Ignore what she says, watch what she does.
/r/seduction20/09/21 06:03 PM
3

"Or something". No. Be confident, lead. "I'm doing this, join me".
/r/seduction17/09/21 01:48 PM
1

Interview 1000 women, pretty much all will say they want a "tall" man. Some are smart enough to know they want "taller than themselves", some are completely unaware and just want the tallest guy they can find. But for the most part, women prefer guys taller than them. Will they date shorter? Certainly, you just have to have something attractive enough to make height irrelevant.
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:51 PM
0

No
/r/seduction09/09/21 03:35 PM
3

They do?
/r/seduction09/09/21 02:01 PM
1

Flirt with all women. They enjoy it, it's fun, and sets you apart from other men, they'll mention you to other women. Have fun
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:02 PM
2

Or just look at her intently for a few seconds, with just a hint of a smile. Watch her squirm. Then respond with something sarcastic or "agree and amplify", like "I know, right? But my combat boots were getting re—soled, so I had to wear these".
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:07 PM
1

www.evanmarckatz.com He talks to women, but there's great discussion in the comments from some pretty smart folks.
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:43 AM
48

Wtf is kv?
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:05 PM
1

Take your meds as prescribed.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:05 PM
3

Stay in the conversation as long as possible Well said. This should be your goal, not anything else. The longer you stay in, the better your chances of success with everything else.
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:55 AM
2

"That's what I love about high school girls...I keep gettin' older, while they stay the same age". Not sure what your question is. Yes, older men sometimes date younger women (or, younger women sometimes date older men). Nothing new here. In general (not always),men become more attractive as they age (to a point) because women are attracted to capable/successful men. A 30 year old is likely more capable/successful than an 18 year old,for example, so is the 25 year old woman looking at the 18 yea…
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:31 PM
32

Then even less of a concern, no?
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:46 PM
1

Say hi, and have a good time.
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:46 PM
7

If you make them feel the tingles, your height won't matter. It's not something you can change, so either make peace with it or let it limit you. The choice is yours.
/r/seduction28/08/21 09:10 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VvYIpa1Ulvw
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:00 AM
18

I would agree except the never go back part. Go back, be courteous, be considerate, but don't hit on her. It'll show confidence.
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:07 PM
6

Height is the excuse she uses. If you give her the tingles, height won't matter.
/r/seduction21/08/21 11:06 PM
5

Maybe. But considering how often women date bad boys, and their social circle tries to tell them and they refuse to hear it, yet still cry over it after he treats them like crap (and often pine after them) I wonder where the line is. Just interesting stuff.
/r/seduction20/08/21 09:46 PM
40

Absolutely true. What I find humorous is that while women are more social cue sensitive than men, they become oblivious to the signs that he's a jerk once they get excited by his cockiness/confidence/arrogance.
/r/seduction20/08/21 02:53 PM
5

If being yourself worked, would people be here?
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:59 PM
1

Funny you get downvotes, but it's accurate. Guess some people see it as cynical. I can tell you this is something my mother and grandmother would say, with no cynicism.
/r/seduction18/08/21 10:08 PM
3

It's a binary, a 1 or a 0. Anything beyond that is meaningless.
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:31 PM
3

And...everyone has different preferences. Don't buy into the media hype that all people find the same thing attractive, or even that what is being pushed in media is the ideal.
/r/seduction08/08/21 03:31 PM
2

Social proof (girl in the group has already "vetted" him), plus ego for her.
/r/seduction03/08/21 08:58 PM
1

To quote Pulp Fiction, personality goes a long way. You've identified some issues and you've been working on them (gone to the gym, got in shape). That's what everyone needs to do to move forward. You should be proud of the work you've done. "Lord help me change the things I can, and accept the things I can't". You can't change your height, so you'll need to accept it. Once you truly accept it, it ceases to be a hindrance. We all have our imperfections that we must learn to accept. It really sou…
/r/seduction01/08/21 11:15 PM
2

Individuals do, certainly. But why do you have such a fetish for it?
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:04 PM
1

People love small talk. Think of it this way, you have to wade through the shallows to get to deeper water. That's how small talk works.
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:47 PM
1

Well put. OP, pickup any book by Leil Lowndes. She explains it well.
/r/seduction26/07/21 12:46 PM
1

*piqued And who cares what she thinks. What she does is all that matters.
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:55 PM
2

When someone behaves poorly, it reflects on them, not you. It's normal to be disappointed in people when they behave like this.
/r/seduction18/07/21 03:39 AM
4

Good advice. I wouldn't be rude to her. I just wouldn't reply but once a week, at most. Keep her danglin'. She's showing her stripes.
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:08 AM
0

Of course it does.
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:35 PM
3

Indeed. The past is always the past, learn from it, but don't dwell on it. Focus on today and tomorrow.
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:41 PM
7

Meh, that's life. In the final analysis, high school is just a short period of your life.
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:40 PM
3

It is. You're not 50+ man
/r/seduction14/07/21 05:50 PM
7

French meals. Not dishes, meals. The whole thing is about sensual experience. Src: eaten in nice French restaurants in the US and France.
/r/seduction14/07/21 12:44 AM
2

Why doesn't matter. What she does is what matters.
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:13 AM
2

*Queue
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:56 PM
0

A lot of my friends in real life that are girls say they love big dicks and that nothing compares to it and they always make fun of average dick dudes like me. They also say they only want men over 6' tall, yet only 20% of men are that tall.
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:27 PM
3

You got problems kid. Take your meds.
/r/seduction08/07/21 03:49 AM
6

No, you play with it. "What's it's name?"
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:17 PM
2

It's humor. We all fight our inner demons.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:30 PM
1

So everyone has to find every race hot or they're discriminating? What racist hogwash.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:16 AM
1

Now you're shifting definitions. Pick a definition of discrimination, before you dig a deeper whole. Because it seems to me you're playing both sides of the definition.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:15 AM
1

How is it discrimination (in the definition most people use today?). Are you discriminating when you prefer tall women? Short ones? Fat ones? Show me how Preference equals Discrimination. Only a racist would see it that way.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:14 AM
1

Bullshit.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:12 AM
1

Bullshit. Your telling me media was that strong 100, 200 years ago? You're not worth helping. Good luck with your racism.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:11 AM
3

I see why you don't get dates. It's not your skin that's unattractive...
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:10 AM
1

You have an advantage by being tall, so stuff your shaming racist bullshit ("triggered white guy").
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:09 AM
9

Wish I could upvote you more. I mean OP is already in the top 20% of height, which is often listed pretty high in a list of priorities (if you listen to what's said, versus what is done). Women will date guys who don't meet their supposed "requirements" if you can make them feel something.
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:38 PM
3

It sucks that we still live in a world where this matters. We always will. Or do you think everyone should be attracted to everyone else, regardless of physical appearance?
/r/seduction06/07/21 06:36 PM
1

5'4". Pretty much every guy is taller than you. Leave the tall ones for the tall girls.
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:31 AM
4

Who you are is what matters.
/r/seduction06/07/21 04:28 AM
2

Your lazy typing. Lke lzly leving out randm vwels. Wtf. We've had real keyboards on phones since 2003.
/r/seduction06/07/21 02:37 AM
2

Remember agree and amplify.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:48 AM
1

Haha, that's awesome.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:48 AM
1

I'd cancel shit with my family with that kind of behaviour.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:46 AM
3

Whine whine whine. And how will whining change anything? If you want different posts, then post them.
/r/seduction04/07/21 10:24 PM
2

Limerence /= happiness. Happiness is fleeting, if you're relying on something external to make you feel good, then you have a dependency on that externality. You're happy because you choose to feel happiness about this particular thing. Read "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques to alter our mis-thinking.
/r/seduction04/07/21 03:57 PM
1

Also, some (most/all) of us are assholes. So change to be a better person. That's why OP, unless you're already perfect. I'm middle aged, and still working on not being an asshole. Just take a look at shit I post.
/r/seduction04/07/21 03:46 PM
3

Be the best version of yourself yourself. Everyone else is already taken. Have an upvote for "already taken"
/r/seduction04/07/21 03:44 PM
1

Goddamn, the most positive take I've seen. Have an upvote.
/r/seduction04/07/21 03:43 PM
1

Say hi to everyone you pass, it's common courtesy.
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:47 PM
6

I think it's safe to assume that most of them have husbands/boyfriends Why? Never assume anything about others. Also, dogs are often great at judging you. Being approachable to a dog is an instant win.
/r/seduction03/07/21 04:47 PM
5

Straw meet man.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:17 AM
1

Well, first, learning to type full words would be helpful. With today's keyboards, it just looks lazy if you don't.
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:24 PM
5

OP watches "soaps and dramas". Edit: Also "old guy" here. I couldn't imagine spending even 5 minutes in the company of anyone under the age of 35 (and even then, it can be trying). Kids are annoying, no matter how "hot" they are. Looks aren't everything.
/r/seduction30/06/21 11:41 PM
2

Sounds to me like she's indicating, very clearly, she wants to have sex with you. Just play along with the sexy banter
/r/seduction30/06/21 03:20 PM
3

Sweet Jesus. Is this what the guy yelling at a fence post looks like online?
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:19 AM
2

It's widely accepted that a village is missing it's idiot
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:18 AM
1

That doesn't explain Lyle Lovett
/r/seduction28/06/21 08:23 PM
2

You're an American in France. Speaking the language, being respectful and curious of the culture will go miles.
/r/seduction28/06/21 07:36 PM
2

Another example is when men complain they don't get women, he will immediately be told to up his game. Yea, upping your game means to be come a more valuable man. Your denigrating of this is a contradiction of everything else you say. Sorry, you're not a high value man, your an attractive asshole who was born into money.
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:20 PM
6

And still, women won't make you happy, money won't make you happy.
/r/seduction28/06/21 05:08 PM
5

Indeed. That man has options. Why would he choose someone with kids? Just realized, this post is a joke. Read to the end folks!
/r/seduction28/06/21 03:37 PM
3

Sounds like you have mental issues.
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:17 PM
7

We ALL have our imperfections. Think of it this way - if you approach, despite your "handicap", imagine the message that sends... I know my own strengths and weaknesses, I don't let others define them for me. The greater the difficulty the more glory in surmounting it. Skillful pilots gain their reputation from storms and tempests. Epictetus "Never depend on the admiration of others. There is no strength in it. Personal merit cannot be derived from an external source. It is not to be found in yo…
/r/seduction27/06/21 12:06 AM
20

You forgot: Tired Distracted Stressed Mother Nature fucking with him. Unlike what many women seem to believe, men aren't fucking machines.
/r/seduction26/06/21 06:29 PM
-1

Twice is not "consistently". Also, do them the honor of believing what they say is true. Shit happens in life.
/r/seduction26/06/21 06:28 PM
17

Be a master of yourself, stop trying to be entertainment. You're living your life, she's a guest in it.
/r/seduction26/06/21 06:07 PM
2

Why are you obsessed with spamming this sub
/r/seduction21/06/21 11:54 PM
3

Ah, this troll again. You've forgotten your meds I see
/r/seduction21/06/21 06:56 PM
1

You don't. Do you, if she's interested in you, you're good to go.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:19 PM
1

Off your meds again I see
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:33 PM
3

Off your meds again I see.
/r/seduction20/06/21 11:21 PM
1

How do you know it's not true?
/r/seduction18/06/21 03:50 AM
1

For me there is nothing worse than being into someone who isn't into you back, or noticing someone who doesn't notice you back. You may want to work on this. Unrequited attraction is just a part of life. Moreover, attraction is not a choice. What we do about it is. You're entire post is very simplistic thinking. The world, people, men and women are far more variable, and complex, than you're recognizing.
/r/seduction15/06/21 01:23 PM
2

Yep, watch what people do, not what they say
/r/seduction15/06/21 04:20 AM
-2

On the first days of class in school or when I start work somewhere the girls would always check me out or whisper about me, some would start conversations or ask me random questions, If I started a conversation with a girl out of nowhere she'd usually blush, etc but those are just the first days... So walking into a bar... Equivalent to a "first day"... Just sayin'
/r/seduction14/06/21 03:33 PM
3

This. When you have passion for your own life, people (women and men) are attracted to you, because you're fun/interesting to be around.
/r/seduction13/06/21 03:27 PM
34

But muscles are an outward indicator of an internal element. It very clearly shows you have the willpower/determination to achieve a not-easy goal.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:18 PM
8

Who said anything about deal-breaker? Every element that distinguishes A from B improves A's opportunities.
/r/seduction12/06/21 02:16 PM
13

Don't be inauthentic. If you don't enjoy those places, don't go.
/r/seduction10/06/21 05:59 PM
1

Dude, you're giving her what she wants (attention) with minimal effort on her part. Move on.
/r/seduction09/06/21 03:33 AM
12

It's because that's all the energy you're worth to her. That's a "correct" response to her. She's telling you, very clearly, what value you have to her.
/r/seduction08/06/21 11:11 PM
2

If you have to ask...
/r/seduction08/06/21 04:09 PM
5

BECAUSE YOU LIKE TO SHOUT?
/r/seduction08/06/21 01:39 AM
1

You know how to act, you know what to do, you know what to say Ah, yes, this old saw again. If that were true, this sub, and others, wouldn't exist.
/r/seduction07/06/21 12:30 PM
0

Is Google broken?
/r/seduction06/06/21 07:41 PM
-22

Dude, FOB goes back a LONG way, you think calling immigrants in 1900 FOB was about color? Man, the racism you people harbor.
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:14 PM
4

Funny you relate that to "PoC"... ask a first gen Irish, Polish, Slav, etc, what it's like. It's not a color thing.
/r/seduction05/06/21 02:11 PM
11

This is great life advice. Rules only matter to those who follow them.
/r/seduction04/06/21 04:04 PM
2

No this didn't happen. Gtfo you troll
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:48 AM
1

Yet another spam account from this smoothbrain, asking the same bullshit "question". Report and move on.
/r/seduction29/05/21 02:47 AM
2

EVERY MOMENT IS THE PERFECT MOMENT BECAUSE I JUST WALK IN AND SHOUT AT EVERYONE ALL THE TIME
/r/seduction28/05/21 03:02 PM
2

You don't make people do anything. Be the best version of yourself you can be, and don't worry about other people.
/r/seduction28/05/21 02:47 PM
7

You don't. I mean go ahead and try to control your friend's life, see how that works out. Just be her fucking friend, listen to her, and give good advice, but only when asked. Move away from this adversarial mindset (this applies to this sub in general). Stop seeing men and women as adversaries. If you raise your daughters well, they'll be able to manage dating without your "boyfriend killer" nonsense. Teach them to be self-assured, give them an honest understanding of life, human nature, the wo…
/r/seduction26/05/21 02:17 PM
1

You should've said it very first thing, before you told her you had to break it. Do we not teach people how to be courteous any more?
/r/seduction25/05/21 09:04 PM
1

Flirt. Show interest. Stand close to him. Smile. Laugh at his jokes. Physical contact is a clear signal.
/r/seduction23/05/21 06:25 PM
2

Right. Sure.
/r/seduction23/05/21 02:06 PM
3

Also, she's going to resist change. It'll be work finding the balance.
/r/seduction23/05/21 02:51 AM
3

Best response in the moment: "and your point?" Call people out on their BS, gently. See how they respond.
/r/seduction21/05/21 06:56 PM
4

Hahaha, omg that's a great UD definition. Kind of presents what most people think of Chads!
/r/seduction21/05/21 03:11 PM
1

Interesting take. I can see the utility in that, a variation on agree and amplify.
/r/seduction18/05/21 04:15 AM
1

Or do dirty or dangerous jobs
/r/seduction08/05/21 03:27 AM
12

Ask successful fishermen
/r/seduction06/05/21 05:26 PM
1

Focus on the process, not the outcome. This applies to so much in life
/r/seduction06/05/21 02:48 AM
0

Teachers of any stripe already have some social proof, and if you're approachable/engaging, everyone wants to be your friend. Cool dude just sealed the deal for you.
/r/seduction03/05/21 11:58 PM
4

You've clearly never heard "Don't stick your dick in crazy, it never ends well"
/r/seduction03/05/21 09:51 PM
3

Weary means tired. Wary means suspicious.
/r/seduction29/04/21 08:16 PM
1

You do you. Let her do her.
/r/seduction27/04/21 07:43 PM
2

You know you've lost the argument when you make personal attacks. That's called sophistry.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:23 AM
0

She gave you a link to what kino is. Ffs, it's all over the internet for at least 15 years.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:19 AM
2

Look at dating app stats and tell us again that looks aren't hugely important. That said, personality does go a long way. But women are far more selective about looks than men.
/r/seduction27/04/21 12:04 AM
1

Meh.
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:14 AM
1

Had a dog in college. Instant hook.
/r/seduction26/04/21 05:03 AM
1

How's it feel to be off your meds again?
/r/seduction26/04/21 04:08 AM
1

Hahahaha, no, think on the low side of average. So round and not tall. Tall is an advantage, even if you're a bit round - at least your tall. Women are very selective about height. But they're also selective about men who can make them feel something, which is where Mr. Personality comes in.
/r/seduction26/04/21 02:44 AM
8

I've watched some amazing short, round, bald dudes outperform everyone else. Personality goes a long way.
/r/seduction25/04/21 04:18 PM
2

Any book by Leil Lowndes
/r/seduction23/04/21 01:30 PM
0

Yea, but then I'd sound like a douchebag wannabe
/r/seduction19/04/21 09:02 PM
0

Uh, no.
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:49 PM
2

So, NAWALT. K
/r/seduction18/04/21 04:39 PM
2

Learn to let go. You're continuing to choose to obsess over her. Move on. Next. There's someone better for you out there.
/r/seduction18/04/21 02:33 PM
5

Sounds like you're penis obsessed
/r/seduction15/04/21 11:01 PM
1

Yep, driving the emotional train is what matters.
/r/seduction15/04/21 09:39 PM
2

What's there to "be smooth" about. I have scars from when I was a dumbass young drunk adult. We're all young once
/r/seduction15/04/21 09:25 PM
3

Answer truthfully when asked. Own it. It is part of your past.
/r/seduction15/04/21 08:51 PM
2

Grow up?
/r/seduction13/04/21 09:12 PM
5

"engineer" is a closed answer. Tell them what you do.
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:36 PM
2

Didn't read past the TLDR...but that is so spot on I'd bet a month's pay the rest is great.
/r/seduction11/04/21 02:36 PM
5

What people do shows who they are more than what they say.
/r/seduction10/04/21 04:49 PM
2

Yep, damn few women who have the clarity to provide such advice. I've said it many times, it's like a fish telling a fisherman how to fish. There are a few women out there, can't think of one at the moment (that's how few there are). They don't want to give away the secret, because that doesn't work for them (and this is no criticism), there's an element of surprise to attraction, anything that seems formulaic doesn't drive excitement. This is just how men/women are wired.
/r/seduction08/04/21 10:34 PM
0

Icarus takes it as one, and it's all I the mind of the receiver, right? Don't let it be an insult, and it loses power.
/r/seduction30/03/21 08:54 PM
1

She's made it clear she's not interested. People who are interested put in the effort and show it. Next.
/r/seduction28/03/21 05:43 PM
-1

If i like a girl i can’t help but think about her a lot.. Says who? Does someone other than you control your thoughts?
/r/seduction26/03/21 03:10 PM
3

Observe what people do...
/r/seduction24/03/21 03:19 PM
6

Or when a girl says it, ask "what do you mean"
/r/seduction21/03/21 05:44 PM
2

Do your online course, the girls will always be there.
/r/seduction21/03/21 03:46 PM
1

Why did you delete this?
/r/seduction21/03/21 03:12 PM
2

Life isn't rational. People aren't rational. NONE of us are rational.
/r/seduction21/03/21 03:12 PM
3

Oh God, yet another female preaching to males how to date. A fish telling a fisherman how to fish.
/r/seduction13/03/21 08:21 PM
0

you'd feel less threatened? Love the strawman. You're just ate up with sophistry, which tells us all we need to know about your "opinion".
/r/seduction13/03/21 08:19 PM
8

Welcome to 99% of humanity. You can never know the difficulties others contend with. "Everyone's life is a warfare, and that long and various" --- Epictetus
/r/seduction10/03/21 05:30 AM
1

Yea, sometimes shit happens. We aren't in control. Does that mean you should just give IP? "To accuse others for one's own misfortune is a sign of want of education. To accuse oneself shows that one's education has begun. To accuse neither oneself nor others shows that one's education is complete" --- Epictetus You never truly know what that hardworking 14 hour a day guy (hahaha, omg you have no idea how many people work 14 hour days all the time), has been through. You really don't know what an…
/r/seduction10/03/21 05:29 AM
1

Why people cheat: because they lack principles. If they cheat, walk away. Done. The rest is really irrelevant, and just wastes space in your head.
/r/seduction06/03/21 03:39 PM
1

Not my job to convince you otherwise. If you think your height is a problem, whatever, just one less competitor out there.
/r/seduction06/03/21 02:41 PM
0

Yep, if my cold approaches didn't work....wait, they did. Not always, but better than if I did nothing at all. If you want to actually learn how to seduce women, actually pay attention to what we say. Hahahahahah Right. No, watch what they do.
/r/seduction04/03/21 10:29 PM
1

You think Joe has any problem getting women?
/r/seduction04/03/21 09:15 PM
4

Unless you OWN IT. Watched a friend bald at a fairly young age, he shaved it, owned it, and man it works.
/r/seduction04/03/21 08:17 PM
218

don't assume anything about anyone. This is the big take away.
/r/seduction04/03/21 05:39 PM
5

Yes, girls will do little tests to see if your just another loser or douchebag So, shit tests. I don’t even know what a shit test is. I’ve probably failed many. Nuff said.
/r/seduction04/03/21 04:54 PM
2

Go meet lots of women. She's not the only one out there.
/r/seduction03/03/21 10:38 PM
1

Sure, you can have that mentality of “I just want to get what I want, no matter what it takes”. How is that mysoginist? Just sounds selfish.
/r/seduction02/03/21 08:53 PM
1

Because it's not about her. More importantly, who cares what some girl values? You do you. Follow your own light, don't let the values of others determine your path. If she doesn't like it, that's her issue.
/r/seduction02/03/21 03:28 PM
1

If you're using the word "simp", the answer is yes.
/r/seduction28/02/21 07:43 PM
1

Looks like you deleted that
/r/seduction25/02/21 07:31 PM
2

Yep. Well done. OP, would like to hear your thoughts on the 30+ issue. Maybe in another post linked here?
/r/seduction25/02/21 12:03 AM
2

Wow. 🤦‍♂️
/r/seduction23/02/21 03:32 PM
2

Whatever excuses people use to cheat, are just that - excuses. Who cares why someone cheats. Let them go. They aren't worth your time.
/r/seduction22/02/21 09:32 PM
-2

You learn enough social skills to be funny and attractive to girls. No shit captain obvious. Now, exactly how do you do that?
/r/seduction21/02/21 08:37 PM
12

Don't compare yourself to others. We all walk a unique path (with some commonalities). I'd like to recommend "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques to alter our thinking.
/r/seduction20/02/21 02:56 PM
2

Right? Look, I can't determine how she's going to react - I'm being me. If she gets creeped out, that reflects some weird shit going on in her head, not mine.
/r/seduction19/02/21 08:00 PM
3

FUN: because women don’t need a boyfriend for providing or protection anymore, get with the time Except they still expect both of those. Don't be dishonest about this. Still, good point about them sensing your attraction: just be confident enough to own it.
/r/seduction19/02/21 07:59 PM
-1

Jesus these are just terrible. Ask me any of these and I'll just look at you blankly. What, are we all 12?
/r/seduction19/02/21 04:43 PM
-1

Tl;DR. Come one, give us the short version.
/r/seduction18/02/21 07:22 PM
1

So?
/r/seduction18/02/21 02:38 AM
3

Who cares why? She's showing what she thinks of you. The message is loud and clear. Time to dump her and move on.
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:14 PM
1

First problem is: Commucation. Ask her. Nope. Just dump her and move on.
/r/seduction16/02/21 03:12 PM
2

doesn't matter if she cancelled before or she's a new girl ! in both cases you haven't met her! Very good point! Just say "who's this" and don't explain. If she asks, just say you didn't know who it was. Actually creates a little mystery,now she doesn't know why, and that will get the wheels spinning.
/r/seduction15/02/21 08:58 PM
1

Another way to say the same thing that would be more effective: "You didn't seem interested." And use those exact words, no further explanation, no clarification. If she pushes, maybe rephrase, but still only saying she didn't seem interested. Nothing more. No judgement, sometimes people aren't interested. You're not upset, or have any emotion about it. Just a simple statement, like saying the sky is blue. Just something that is.
/r/seduction15/02/21 05:16 PM
1

Wtf?
/r/seduction15/02/21 04:47 PM
7

Yep, another "woman tells men how to date women". Sigh. I'd disagree with "be yourself" too. If that worked, this sub, and all similar advice wouldn't be necessary. "Be yourself" works once someone has learned how to be the version of themselves that women find attractive.
/r/seduction14/02/21 01:22 AM
2

Why you hookin' up if you want to date?
/r/seduction12/02/21 06:59 PM
20

They say "no". And what do frustrated girls do? THEY COMPLAIN! And they like being able to complain...
/r/seduction10/02/21 06:36 PM
1

In the trash can?
/r/seduction09/02/21 10:46 PM
1

No, people clearly understand what you describe. You don't grok that for some people that kind of talk is beyond boring, downright snooze fest, almost insultingly vapid. How does one respond to vapid without being insulting?
/r/seduction06/02/21 02:21 PM
8

Leave the past in the past.
/r/seduction31/01/21 03:00 PM
1

Why? You're not beholden to anyone else's agenda, desire, or goals. The only responsibility you have is to not intentionally be an ass to people (and that's a philosophical debate). Go do what you want to do. Also, read "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques to alter our thinking.
/r/seduction29/01/21 02:42 AM
3

If that's what you want, why you asking anyone else?
/r/seduction28/01/21 07:57 PM
1

You must detach yourself from the outcome. Don't be focused on some end goal, be focused on the process - the process of engaging with someone, having fun. You'll find many people attractive over your lifetime, people will be a part of your life for a moment, a day, a year, we all need to learn to appreciate all those interactions. Check out "Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Th…
/r/seduction28/01/21 05:55 PM
8

Everything in life is 80% attitude/personality.
/r/seduction28/01/21 01:34 PM
1

Well, can you change your looks? Then what's the point of fixating on it? Plus, personality goes a long way, and you can change that.
/r/seduction27/01/21 01:10 PM
2

It would probably be more accurate to say, "You can't instantly change for the better" not, "there is no shortcut". Well, yea, that's what that means. Stop being pedantic.
/r/seduction27/01/21 11:56 AM
53

Tone is almost everything, this isn't news. Most of what we communicate is via tone, pay attention to comedians - it's all about how they say something.
/r/seduction27/01/21 11:49 AM
1

Maybe there is another way? Be your fucking self, Hey, dickbrain, if that was working, people wouldn't be coming here for advice. Smh
/r/seduction26/01/21 08:27 PM
4

And there's the rationalization of protecting The Game, but not denying it exists. Lol
/r/seduction26/01/21 06:17 PM
33

It exposes The Game, and if we learned anything from Fight Club, is you don't talk about The Game.
/r/seduction26/01/21 06:16 PM
2

is it all over or nah? Wtf? I just can't get my head around such defeatest, quitting mindset. "Everyone's life is a warfare, and that long and various" --- Epictetus The greater the difficulty the more glory in surmounting it. Skillful pilots gain their reputation from storms and tempest. --Epictetus Life is tough, our bodies are breaking down from the moment we're born. You can either sit and wallow in agony, being the perpetual victim of life's circumstance, or "man up" and get to living. Ther…
/r/seduction25/01/21 10:00 PM
2

Despite how easy it is for me to get laid, All I want to do is just spend quality time with someone, I don’t want to just get drunk with them and then eventually end up at each others homes only to exchange numbers, follow each other on social media, yet become nothing but another stranger. Then don't do that. If all you ever do is hookup with the ones looking to hookup, all you're going to do is hookup. Start being more selective, don't hookup just because you can. Look for more.
/r/seduction25/01/21 06:46 PM
1

Move on. That's your best answer all around. Next.
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:36 PM
1

Hahaha, ok
/r/seduction22/01/21 03:35 PM
0

Straw meet man
/r/seduction20/01/21 05:02 PM
1

Right? Every single lady there wishes she was the bride. And is getting drunk and having fun.
/r/seduction20/01/21 03:54 PM
3

So the rule should be that if she cancels and doesn't make an effort to suggest a better time, then yeah, you should chalk that up to a loss. And this would be the definition of flaking, not trying to reschedule.
/r/seduction15/01/21 11:26 PM
1

Next
/r/seduction15/01/21 05:43 AM
5

You're not broken, women aren't broken, it just reflects our natures.
/r/seduction09/01/21 05:50 AM
5

https://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/ks3o8q/why_is_this_girl_attracted_to_me_when_im_a_dick/gidqoqf
/r/seduction07/01/21 02:49 AM
1

That's not what it means at all. Just the opposite.
/r/seduction17/12/20 11:36 PM
3

Yep. Here's the thing..if they weren't down with the brown, do you think they'd even accept in the first place? You're just a foreigner finding out how poorly socialized many American women are.
/r/seduction17/12/20 11:33 PM
2

Ditch her.
/r/seduction17/12/20 09:57 PM
5

Do nothing
/r/seduction15/12/20 10:43 PM
1

They don't care about the massive difference or how women have drawn the short straw How do you figure? The flip side of this is that women disregard unsuccessful men. Throughout history, 80%+ of women have procreated, while just 40% of men have (IIRC). Not that I'm complaining, just using an example that no one has it better or worse, just different.
/r/seduction13/12/20 04:35 AM
1

If you have to ask....
/r/seduction12/12/20 03:40 PM
2

Robbed a kids lemonade stand, hijacked a push scooter, and had a high speed chase with the police. They pitted me, no fun on a push scooter, I tell ya.
/r/seduction11/12/20 04:25 AM
7

But you can't know how a given person feels about it. So you play the odds.
/r/seduction09/12/20 05:07 PM
1

Conclusion: I was a bit obsessed about him You think? I mean you went all data analysis on him after the fact...
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:48 PM
1

I always found that a good video call is much better than having constant messages back and forth in a relationship makes it easier to connect and engage Uggh, video calls. Despise them.
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:47 PM
1

You're using sophistry. Keep on doubling down on your insults though.
/r/seduction05/12/20 06:28 AM
1

Wow, come in, insult people, but can't take the heat of leaving your post up?
/r/seduction05/12/20 06:26 AM
1

Well, perhaps you need to see it this way that women tell you how to actually keep them once you have them (n Then it's not dating advice, is it? Your sophistry is showing.
/r/seduction04/12/20 09:16 PM
0

And that's what is called a goalpost move. You continue to be disingenuous.
/r/seduction04/12/20 09:15 PM
-1

Aww, I'm douchy. You've really convinced me. You show your hand. Got any more insults you'd like to levy, since that's clearly all you have? Guess what, if women's advice were correct, wouldn't guys be slaying it out there?
/r/seduction04/12/20 08:55 PM
-1

Oh gee, another woman coming here telling men they're wrong. I've never heard that one before. Smh It's a fact that getting dating advice from most women is a waste of time. People say one thing and do another all the time. This phrase, and "fish telling a fisherman how to fish" are both useful. I've known perhaps one woman in my 50+ years who had the self awareness to understand this and actually talk intelligently about how dating is different for men and women. It doesn't bother me, it's just…
/r/seduction04/12/20 08:44 PM
1

Social Proof
/r/seduction02/12/20 04:17 PM
2

Next.
/r/seduction02/12/20 03:09 PM
1

Don't think for a second that how hard you work / how much money you make / what you own will make you fundamentally more attractive in some way Except...it does. Because it reflects how much you value yourself, and how motivated/driven you are, which is attractive.
/r/seduction28/11/20 06:35 PM
2

Well put.
/r/seduction26/11/20 06:39 PM
2

Be open, be honest. Let them decide whether they want to stay around.
/r/seduction22/11/20 02:30 AM
1

For some reason there's this weird double standard these days where women are encouraged to play the field, have casual sex, keep their options open. But if you're a man, you shouldn't do that, and you're expected to hop into a relationship as soon as a woman wants one And JetPillar just demonstrated that double standard.
/r/seduction22/11/20 02:30 AM
-41

I do. My high risk family members are staying home. And stuff your attempt at shaming.
/r/seduction19/11/20 02:09 AM
-32

If you're afraid or high risk, you stay in.
/r/seduction19/11/20 01:54 AM
1

MD20/20 Boones Farm (and yes, I'm being facetious)
/r/seduction09/11/20 10:02 PM
3

When I stopped categorizing into "leagues"
/r/seduction08/11/20 02:17 PM
3

One could argue you're provoking strong emotions...and that's what matters.
/r/seduction06/11/20 03:11 PM
0

Ah, yes, the anecdote. Hey, you do you, but you're advising action that is rarely effective. It's basically pressuring someone to make a decision today. Wouldn't you think, if he had any intents, he would've made that clear? And do you want to be with someone who is so indecisive and a poor communicator that you don't already know where you stand? https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/communication/can-i-ask-my-boyfriend-for-a-timeline-to-get-engaged
/r/seduction05/11/20 06:26 PM
-1

I were you, then talk to him about what he wants from this relationship you guys have Hahahahahahahhaha...yea, the "girl initiating the 'relationship talk' meme" That'll go well.
/r/seduction05/11/20 02:53 PM
1

OK. Anything useful to add, or would you like to continue to lower yourself to the incels?
/r/seduction04/11/20 03:35 PM
7

If "be yourself" worked, this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:16 PM
7

Be yourself is shit advice. It should be downvoted. People are being themselves and not getting results. People need to change to get different results. In other words, become someone new. Be yourself is trite bullshit.
/r/seduction03/11/20 03:15 PM
27

If that worked this sub wouldn't exist
/r/seduction03/11/20 12:43 AM
3

Which is no different than correcting a dog: humans are social/pack animals just like a dog.
/r/seduction02/11/20 09:59 PM
1

So long as your focus is having fun (no other agenda), well, have fun. People sense when you have an ulterior motive or agenda. Also, you may want to be slightly more direct than with a younger guy. An older guy will understand.
/r/seduction31/10/20 12:41 AM
9

Meh, shit tests are real, and never ending (even if you're married). The problem is seeing them as a negative, instead of a mechanism women use to assess an attribute about you. They're also a way to be playful. A secure man isn't put off by such assessments, but sees them as a fun part of the push-pull dynamic. Sadly the name "shit test" is a bit pejorative. A better term would help. You're spot on about attitude. It should all be a fun time.
/r/seduction31/10/20 12:11 AM
2

considering that they only started noticing me after my physical change That's human nature, we're all that way. Physical attraction is a baseline, you only get to the rest later. Look at it this way-- before you were lazy, now you demonstrated drive, commitment, action, perseverance to achieve a goal. That's attractive. Nature is what it is. Accept that and let go of the chip.
/r/seduction30/10/20 06:02 PM
1

I don't lack friendships, but I don't have any. Then you lack friendships. No man is an island. That said, if you enjoy the time you spend with them, and you're not misleading them, the only question is if your opportunity cost is being affected. That is, if you weren't spending time with them, would you be spending that time with other women?
/r/seduction26/10/20 06:00 PM
10

Never Split The Difference is one of the best books I've ever read on negotiating. It reflected my real world observation of great negotiators I've known. Brilliant stuff.
/r/seduction25/10/20 07:57 PM
1

So says you. Go out and observe people for a while. Or read some studies. You'll find women approaching is ineffective nearly all the time. (There's a very small subset of people where it works, but do you bet on the 10:1 horse?) Whether he's interested isn't what drives it.
/r/seduction25/10/20 05:24 PM
2

"I know, right?!"
/r/seduction25/10/20 03:45 PM
2

I just don't know how to ask him out. Don't. You flirt with him. Entice him to approach you. Do you really want to date a guy who doesn't have the sense or balls to approach?
/r/seduction24/10/20 05:08 AM
3

You don't walk around campus approaching girls do you?" That's all I do, all day long, who's got time for classes? <sly grin> How 'bout those Mets?
/r/seduction24/10/20 12:20 AM
6

Would you date someone you don't find attractive?
/r/seduction22/10/20 10:31 PM
12

i know that shouldn't matter Why shouldn't it matter?
/r/seduction22/10/20 09:26 PM
2

Many women are attracted to men looking masculine...
/r/seduction22/10/20 05:02 PM
1

Idealistic? You should look in a mirror.
/r/seduction19/10/20 06:45 PM
1

Not your job.
/r/seduction18/10/20 02:17 PM
2

Does it ever stop, this desire to seduce ? Is this really a question? No, your desire won't stop. Attraction isn't a choice. What you do is.
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:14 PM
1

Social Proof
/r/seduction18/10/20 03:34 AM
2

Or you can argue with people giving advice and continue to do things wrong. Sometimes...the problem is you. Seriously, you're arguing that dating isn't fun. Then why do you continue to do it? Either stop doing it because you don't enjoy it, or stop complaining about it. Those are your options.
/r/seduction18/10/20 01:21 AM
1

Look to date instead of hooking up.
/r/seduction17/10/20 08:02 PM
15

No woman is "out of my league". If a woman discounts me because I drive a practical vehicle, I just laugh. Your loss babe.
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:45 PM
13

Wow. Um. Yeah. You sound like a douchecanoe. The attitude is right, in that it should be fun, but the words are cringe as fuck
/r/seduction17/10/20 12:10 AM
1

Women want to be with a man that they feel safe with & can navigate them to sex without feeling like a slut or risk being judged. I'd give you gold if I had any.
/r/seduction16/10/20 06:00 PM
4

Then you're doing it wrong.
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:13 PM
12

TL;DR "When things seem to have reached that stage, merely say "I won't play any longer", and take your departure; but if you stay, stop lamenting" --- Epictetus To paraphrase a junior high teacher: you don't have a woman problem, you have a fairness problem. Same old "it's not fair" argument. Well, life ain't fair. That's really your problem. It's not with women, it's that you have a paradigm that says life should be fair. It ain't. And the sooner you get past that, the better your life will be…
/r/seduction16/10/20 12:52 PM
0

As soon as you meet the standard of any girl, you're in, so long as you move the interaction forward and don't fuck it up Right.and learning to understand what that looks like is key. Guys like you show zero understanding that other people don't have your understanding.
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:14 PM
2

Hahaha. Umm, I know a guy, girls throw themselves at him. He's not rich, doesn't have a "cool job", doesn't drive even a nice car (it's ten years old and plain). He's a decent looking fellow, dresses well. But how he handles people is unbelievable. He simply doesn't have the time for all the women that want him. I've watched this for 15 years. Countless times sitting at a bar or a restaurant, in a store, pick a venue, the girls fawn over him. I've learned a lot just by being there. So yeah, thes…
/r/seduction15/10/20 04:59 AM
2

Limerence
/r/seduction14/10/20 12:21 PM
2

Read " Your Erroneous Zones" by Wayne Dyer. Available on Amazon and used bookstores for a couple bucks. He essentially outlines how to use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy techniques to alter your mis-thinking.
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:32 PM
2

This. Women don't make sexual remarks to guys they don't find attractive in some way. Always assume they're into you.
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:45 PM
1

You don't ask women for dates, you invite them to join you in having a good time.
/r/seduction12/10/20 04:40 PM
2

"ok, bye" Or "Certainly not with someone as closed minded as you"
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:38 AM
3

You don't forget people. You just move on.
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:12 AM
2

Well put. Would you really want a girl who would leave a guy for you? My advice, let go of the juvenile ideas like "crush". There are people you are attracted to, and those you aren't. Remember: Attraction isn't a choice. What you do about it is. Your actions display your character.
/r/seduction11/10/20 11:32 PM
2

Sounds like you know what to do, you just lack the balls to make a decision that's best for you.
/r/seduction11/10/20 10:28 PM
1

TL:DR...Not saying this to be mean, but learn to write using standard conventions; introduction, headers, paragraphs, etc. I only read the TLDR. Either let her know that wasn't ok, or just move on.
/r/seduction11/10/20 06:01 PM
11

You're in college. They're literally everywhere. Or maybe not, since fewer guys are going to college.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:06 PM
13

This. They do this forever, married women say it to their husbands if they think the man has a higher smv than themselves. If she says it to you, she's interested. Women don't make sexual remarks to men they don't find attractive.
/r/seduction11/10/20 03:07 PM
3

Aka Stoicism
/r/seduction11/10/20 12:30 AM
8

Nonsense. You have to be attractive enough, and personality really plays into that.
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:44 PM
1

Next
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:18 PM
5

M-e-t-a-p-h-o-r
/r/seduction08/10/20 11:55 AM
3

Move on.
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:00 PM
6

Agree and amplify
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:32 PM
2

Look at it this way, would most women rather date a guy they find exciting, who can lead them to having fun, or a guy who can't? There's nothing wrong here if you're just giving them what they want in the first place!
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:22 PM
8

The solution is as you get older, continue to date girls in college :) "I keep getting older, they keep staying the same age" While humorous, I wouldn't recommend.
/r/seduction01/10/20 05:25 PM
2

Damn. Well said. Saved. Wish I could upvote twice.
/r/seduction01/10/20 02:33 PM
25

Yes. They're all free in college, no commitments, it's their be-a-ho time. They start to wake up after college, and realize it's not always a free ride.
/r/seduction01/10/20 02:29 PM
1

That person isn't a friend
/r/seduction01/10/20 01:11 PM
4

Jesus christ gtfo of there. That's bad news
/r/seduction01/10/20 12:35 AM
16

Hahahaha, the fish telling the fisherman how to fish! Classic!
/r/seduction09/11/19 08:37 PM
1

If they'd been vegan, they're would've never left home
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:08 AM
2

And read some Epictitus
/r/seduction06/11/19 11:50 PM
9

Go outside.
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:13 PM
4

Axe throwing
/r/seduction04/11/19 02:08 AM
1

You asked, and got your response. Someone who's interested would put forth some effort.
/r/seduction29/10/19 09:49 PM
3

. I think I did something stupid to make her say "we can't do this". That's called Last Minute Resistance.
/r/seduction28/10/19 05:41 AM
2

Wtf is foh/boh?
/r/seduction28/10/19 01:51 AM
5

"I'm not doings 'x' with you" means she was thinking about it.
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:57 PM
7

She did you a favor
/r/seduction16/10/19 10:20 AM
2

None - they don't need any, since they don't do the chasing.
/r/seduction15/10/19 02:20 PM
7

Social Proof
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:56 PM
14

If you're with a woman, social proof increases your attractiveness
/r/seduction14/10/19 11:53 PM
1

Wtf is "wen't" ?? And don't say "spell check got me" . Ain't no spell checker ever created that's going to insert that apostrophe.
/r/seduction13/10/19 03:06 PM
1

she has to cancel, but said she wants to take me out to dinner next week. She offered up a reschedule. Not a flake.
/r/seduction13/10/19 02:38 PM
1

I overcome viscous things by thinning them.
/r/seduction08/10/19 04:39 AM
26

Because you do.
/r/seduction07/10/19 09:31 PM
6

Better yet, tease her about looking for validation.
/r/seduction29/09/19 04:47 AM
2

His maturity is likely working in his favor now. Women often prefer "older" men (men who demonstrate confidence and capability, really)
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:47 PM
2

She said she thinks we are better off as friends. "Nah, I got enough friends". And cut comms until she's showing some interest / value, then tease.
/r/seduction27/09/19 12:24 PM
1

Jesus, 5'11"? There's something in your behaviour or mannerisms that's putting them off. I'd kill it if I were your height. Though I'd put on some weight, 155 is rather thin at your height.
/r/seduction27/09/19 02:17 AM
1

Game
/r/seduction26/09/19 02:02 PM
4

Lo and behold, she is now texting me, wanting to meet up and asking if she "did anything wrong" (wtf is up with that) She's qualifying herself to you. Don't reassure her, don't acknowledge that question. If she asks in person, either ignore or ask "what do you mean" or "what are you talking about" or agree and amplify. There's no "accidentally" getting into a relationship. If she assumes that (provided you don't say / do anything that says so), then you're not anything other than a couple people…
/r/seduction24/09/19 03:52 PM
10

Next!
/r/seduction24/09/19 01:35 AM
1

Because any attention is better than no attention for them. Still getting attention from you validates their value. You attention shouldn't be free.
/r/seduction22/09/19 10:30 PM
4

Move on. You're already giving too much. If she's interested, let her expend some effort.
/r/seduction22/09/19 07:16 PM
1

Huh, what? Anyone care to translate this to comprehensible?
/r/seduction21/09/19 02:22 PM
1

I think it's funny someone downvoted this. Welp, guess the downvoter is an incel.
/r/seduction17/09/19 01:54 PM
0

Say "no thanks, I have all the friends I need" and cut comms
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:51 PM
0

All of them. Edit: they're all open to being seduced, ffs they want you to seduce them. They want you to be smooth, confident, "the man" , because that excites and enthralls them. Just be that man. Be the man they want you to be. Be confident, be bold, follow your own inner voice, because that is what is attractive, a man who knows himself, knows where he's going, knows what he wants to do, and isn't sidetracked by those who show resistance.
/r/seduction14/09/19 11:57 PM
18

"I always use a condom." End of discussion. Look, you want to seduce, you need to man up and stand by your decisions, and ignore the questioning. "This is what I say goes" . They'll either follow along, or not. Why would you want someone who won't follow?
/r/seduction14/09/19 06:14 PM
7

Agree and amplify (to absurdity): "yea, yea, just tryina smash" with a roll your eyes, and "is that ALL you can think about?"
/r/seduction14/09/19 01:39 AM
5

Nothing. She's not happy that you walked away, and is looking for validation
/r/seduction13/09/19 05:30 PM
1

"Wow, you kiss your mother with that mouth?" Smile and walked away, shoulders back, head held high. Some people lack social skills. Edit: So what can you learn from this? You possibly misread that "dreamy look" - she had a laptop, she may have been working, and the faraway look was her thinking, and you may have disrupted that. So, learn to read people better. A skill we could all continue to develop.
/r/seduction05/09/19 01:04 PM
6

Jesus, let her go. You've started down the path, now grow some cojones and recognize what you want in a partner.
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:58 PM
8

Drugs. Feeling amazing all the time is an unnatural state. Hell, even feeling ok all the time is unnatural, as either of those would require stasis, and life IS change.
/r/seduction04/09/19 01:52 PM
3

Stop being passive, take more charge of your dating. She's looking for you to demonstrate some direction.
/r/seduction01/09/19 10:13 PM
2

Yep, I've heard and said some corny shit that girls have gone for.
/r/seduction31/08/19 09:22 PM
2

Yea, "tired from work" is insufficient.
/r/seduction30/08/19 10:17 PM
2

No, it doesn't stop the desire (some people it does, but I'd bet not most). Being an adult means choosing not to act on those desires.
/r/seduction29/08/19 08:22 PM
6

Stop sulking, to start with. People pick up on your vibe. Your sis may be younger, prettier is subjective. More important is your vibe - if a guy approaches and gets a better response from sis...well who's he gonna pick? Mind I'm not saying your a bitch or anything, but take an honest look at how you come across. Maybe you seem a little closed off or distant. Also, where are you and sis going? Maybe not the best crowd for your age bracket if there's a significant difference in age
/r/seduction29/08/19 04:47 PM
3

Your the friend You think she tells this to someone she's hot for, and trying to qualify herself?
/r/seduction29/08/19 03:03 AM
0

Well, start with not being lazy as your writing seems to indicate. Then, recognize that some of the most successful guys I've known have been short and round. Be someone people want to be around.
/r/seduction26/08/19 01:50 AM
2

we talked about it yesterday Nuff said.
/r/seduction24/08/19 06:00 AM
2

"Obviously you like dick, because you noticed"
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:59 AM
5

He's moving from home in with his girlfriend. Not what I'd call a smart move.
/r/seduction22/08/19 03:46 AM
4

Meh, nothing to fix...keeps 'em hooked.
/r/seduction20/08/19 04:00 PM
4

*compliments, fyi. The homonym with the "E" means "to complete" or "to improve".. As in this: "being an onophile, the chef's choice of wine complemented the meal" As for your question, either ignore, or agree and amplify to ridiculousness.
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:45 PM
1

Post something legible if you want people to read it. Making people work for it doesn't really work.
/r/seduction18/08/19 07:13 PM
9

Said the person with the user name "hornymamabear"
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:11 PM
5

Who cares? Why are you basing anything on the opinion of others?
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:25 PM
4

Stop being inconsiderate in public by being on your phone; actually engage with the people around you. Remember, everything isn't all about you - don't you suppose other people may find talking to you a bit boring? Boredom is a result of our own choices: if you're bored, it's because you're boring.
/r/seduction15/08/19 06:29 PM
-5

Because it's what they like? Sorry you lack understanding that not everyone is you.
/r/seduction14/08/19 04:35 AM
24

Because you lack the ability to see the nuance between the dichotomies you've given as examples.
/r/seduction09/08/19 11:08 PM
8

Next.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:44 PM
7

Maybe ask over in r/sex
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:01 AM
1

Fucking brilliant
/r/seduction04/08/19 04:43 PM
0

You spent at least an hour too long on the floor
/r/seduction04/08/19 03:55 PM
2

Think about this: your asshole father managed to procreate, probably had more women than you by a long shot. Now ask why? Why did so many women sleep with him? Why did one marry him and procreate, and put up with him for as long as she did?
/r/seduction03/08/19 09:06 PM
1

What do you think when you stare at something?
/r/seduction03/08/19 04:19 AM
1

It's not a defensive strategy, it's just not useful to discuss.
/r/seduction02/08/19 02:36 PM
3

Make up your mind. You defined it as FWB, now you don't want that? Which is it?
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:05 AM
7

You don't want to ease their mind. Agree and amplify. "Oh, sounds like you date a lot of players..." Or "That's a lot of assuming - do you always make snap judgements about people?" Or just ignore and continue as if she said nothing.
/r/seduction29/07/19 11:44 PM
2

Well, who's fault is that?
/r/seduction28/07/19 05:12 AM
6

I've never had headphones stop my voice from working. Is this a new capability of fancy headphones?
/r/seduction27/07/19 08:59 PM
1

Mirror.
/r/seduction27/07/19 05:18 AM
1

Focus on your job, don't let this hookup mess that up. Enjoy it for what it is, not more. Can't make a purse out of a sows ear
/r/seduction26/07/19 05:05 PM
1

I think theory plays little role in this game Hahahaha...oh my. Good theory always applies, to any field.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:10 PM
1

They key is to own your weaknesses as much as your strengths. "You do you" . Don't shy away from them or try to hide them. When they show, embrace them, and laugh about them. When your eye twitches at the wrong time, make it funny "dammit eye, I told you to wink later" or something like that. When people sense you're not embarrassed by your challenges, they'll feel comfortable with you. What's interesting is this same advice applies to neuro-typical people (those who don't struggle with things l…
/r/seduction24/07/19 12:49 AM
0

Wtf are you ignorantly going on about? Vasectomies don't cause dick pain. Ffs
/r/seduction23/07/19 11:46 PM
3

Please, for the love of all that's unholy Strunk & White, write like you're older than 8: use appropriate punctuation, line breaks, and eliminate run-on sentences. This is just a jumbled mess that's too painful to even try to read. And please don't use the "I'm on my phone" excuse - that went away circa 2009 when phones developed real keyboards and autocorrect.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:50 PM
11

Introvert /= shy, ffs. Didn't read because of that but of ignorance alone.
/r/seduction23/07/19 12:55 AM
5

Social proof
/r/seduction22/07/19 11:09 PM
1

Wow, talk about pot calling the kettle black. Everyone has different lines of propriety. All I'm hearing from you is projection. Edit: BTW, seeking external validation is a clear indicator of insecurity. You've got it all twisted around.
/r/seduction22/07/19 10:27 PM
1

I mean, "chunked-up" a bit more (looked at more abstractly) those are the rules for life in general. We can never control the outcome of anything, so learn to play the game, and I mean play, as in have fun with the process. The outcomes will come. Because, after all, all we have is the the process (living), interrupted by outcomes/results.
/r/seduction22/07/19 07:30 PM
2

Move on. Do nothing.
/r/seduction22/07/19 12:45 PM
1

So because you can't do it, it's someone else's fault?
/r/seduction22/07/19 05:28 AM
1

Ah , you're of the "the one thing I tried didn't work, so nothing works" mindset. You gotta keep trying till you find what works for you. Just because the first thing you tried didn't work for you / that situation, doesn't mean it's "wrong" . It just means you don't yet know enough to apply it appropriately. PS: by saying "introverts just need to go out" belies an ignorance of how people think. Those very guys need to understand how things work, first.
/r/seduction22/07/19 05:24 AM
27

Move on
/r/seduction19/07/19 02:58 PM
1

Women can improve their attractiveness too, just compare someone who's bitchy to someone's who's engaging and interesting.
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:04 AM
-1

Show me some stats supporting your claim. Sorry, some people never learn to get along, to be a good partner, to be attractive.
/r/seduction17/07/19 02:02 AM
1

Not seeing how ADHD would make you ruminate...its possible if you're hyper focusing, but I doubt that's it. You're simply choosing to assign too much importance to people / situations, than they call for.
/r/seduction13/07/19 07:51 PM
2

Yep, something like this. "Thanks but no thanks" .
/r/seduction12/07/19 01:18 PM
1

Annnddd....your point?
/r/seduction07/07/19 11:49 PM
6

Your ignorance is sad
/r/seduction01/07/19 03:52 PM
1

TL:DR. If you let others decide things for you, don't be surprised when you're unhappy with the choices. If you can't ignore other's opinions, you're not ready for a relationship. Also, "crush" is for 12 year olds
/r/seduction01/07/19 02:03 PM
1

Do nothing, but demote B to being a plate. That behaviour demonstrates she hasn't earned girlfriend status.
/r/seduction28/06/19 08:08 PM
2

You just proved OP's point.
/r/seduction27/06/19 09:11 PM
1

Agree with general advice (don't shit where you eat),but disagreed with diagnosis. She's attracted (or intimidated, same difference).
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:59 PM
47

Welcome to understanding the David and Goliath parable. The lesson in that story was David fought using his own strengths, rather than die fighting with Goliath's methods. It's also a story about owning your own frame, which David did - he brought his own paradigm to the field of battle, and didn't permit Goliath (or his King) to define the paradigm.
/r/seduction26/06/19 01:25 PM
3

What's to understand?
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:52 PM
5

Yes it's repetitive, because that's what makes it effective.
/r/seduction25/06/19 06:48 AM
3

Cry me a river. You have a real advantage in life, and you're bitching about it?
/r/seduction25/06/19 02:59 AM
14

"Why do you ask" . And stay on asking why she wants to know. Lookup "The Five Why's"
/r/seduction25/06/19 01:55 AM
2

Well we already know he lacks judgement by dating at the office, so this should be easy. Just make an excuse, any excuse, to talk to him, at work , or online. He doesn't have the sense to not respond.
/r/seduction24/06/19 10:29 PM
2

It's only dysfunctional if you don't know how to lead it.
/r/seduction23/06/19 09:02 PM
2

No such thing as a bad reputation. It's just social proof. Own it
/r/seduction23/06/19 08:39 PM
-1

Yes. (Ask silly questions, get silly answers)
/r/seduction22/06/19 02:06 AM
3

Why does his catholicism matter whether you pursue? That's for him to consider, not you.
/r/seduction22/06/19 02:05 AM
1

Douchebaggy to post shit like this here, linking to a video, when you could just list the items. But then you wouldn't get hits to your youtube. Get bent, op
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:10 AM
6

Because you're a mammal? Seriously, does everyone think the human body just works perfectly all the time?
/r/seduction16/06/19 03:49 PM
1

Oh the hypocrisy
/r/seduction13/06/19 11:21 PM
49

Welcome to being the pursuer. Now you know what it feels like for guys. PS. There's nothing for you to do
/r/seduction06/06/19 04:57 PM
1

You don't want to follow the advice of PUA, and you're here complaining about it? It's pretty simple - clearly what you've been doing isn't worming. And yet you don't want to try something else. We can't help you if you're unwilling to even try.
/r/seduction06/06/19 06:32 AM
10

Stand your ground, never get angry.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:12 PM
2

Punctuation. Try it some time.
/r/seduction04/06/19 04:30 AM
7

Do you English bro?
/r/seduction02/06/19 09:26 PM
2

Do you want to date her? No? Then it's not a bad move.
/r/seduction01/06/19 09:54 PM
2

Sounds like another IOI
/r/seduction31/05/19 08:36 PM
3

Social Proof. Own it.
/r/seduction31/05/19 03:19 PM
1

I agree with the prenup. Historically, (IMO), I think marriage was really about ensuring the family line (providing some security / recourse for the husband in cases of infidelity). Of course, this only applies to the wealthy / ruling classes. For the rest of us schmucks, it was about some social stability and control. Today, in the US, the courts are so biased against men, that there's little value in it for men, and a LOT of risk.
/r/seduction30/05/19 09:16 PM
3

So because OP misunderstood and crazed his tail, it's false. Got it.
/r/seduction24/05/19 02:58 AM
10

So long as you believe that, it'll be true
/r/seduction23/05/19 09:34 PM
8

Huh? What? Well compared to a giraffe yes. Compared to someone 6' 2" yes. Now ask a meaningful question, and provide some background so we can understand wtf you want from us.
/r/seduction22/05/19 11:57 PM
2

Ok. So then why post here? Just go ahead and give up, because "nothing works" . With that kind of attitude you'll really go far in life. Tell me again why anyone would want to hire you, or any woman want to date you, since you just give up?
/r/seduction20/05/19 10:40 PM
3

You should've ignored your friend and not promised shit. Who does she think she is demanding who you screw? That was just jealousy in her part, next time take the frame. Clearly there's attraction, just followup.
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:35 PM
2

Huh?
/r/seduction20/05/19 05:01 PM
111

Treat all questions like this just like they're coming from a date: agree and amplify. Most people are just curious when they ask things like this, AA just makes it a fun conversation. Change the story every time. Make the story fun / funny, but present it seriously like it's real. Eventually you tell the real story, but in the same tone, so it's "just another story" . And you tell a different one after that. Do it with a sense of fun. Make the stories silly. People are less apt to criticise if …
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:37 PM
2

Nah. Tell em whatever story the two of you want. You're under no obligation to tell the truth to someone who would use that information against you.
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:14 PM
1

Date for another month. Do or do not , there is no try
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:00 PM
22

No, people hate when you laugh at their jokes
/r/seduction14/05/19 03:37 PM
3

She's talking about BJ's and you didn't use that as a springboard? Shoulda teased with "I'm sure you think you're all that..." then let her stew
/r/seduction08/05/19 03:30 PM
1

So, you want to change the behaviour of other people?
/r/seduction07/05/19 10:10 PM
1

Doesn't make them more attractive in my opinion. Sounds like a load of bunk
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:03 AM
2

Leil has other books that are great, focused on understanding human behaviour and communication. Can't recommend her books enough.
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:30 PM
0

Because it's an advantage, not just with women but in general. Studies have clearly demonstrated it.
/r/seduction06/05/19 06:38 AM
2

Well with that attitude, you're right. Change your 'tude. Looks aren't everything. Just take a look around
/r/seduction05/05/19 11:58 PM
4

Do you English bro?
/r/seduction05/05/19 09:25 PM
1

Why get offended? I'm not the lazy fat fuck crying about not finding a good man. I'm disappointed that they're lazy fat fucks blaming men for not wanting to fuck a fattie.
/r/seduction03/05/19 04:44 PM
10

Middle aged guy here. Grow up.
/r/seduction03/05/19 02:42 PM
-4

The , no you're not as sexual if you have to apply the caveat. Research shows your assumptions to be incorrect.
/r/seduction02/05/19 01:37 PM
-3

Not true at all. Go read some real research. Women are much more likely to have responsive desire than men, by something like a factor of 50:1, likely because of the massive testosterone difference. Women are much more selective about sex than men, likely from the risks of sex that impact females much more than they do males. Etc, etc. Male and female sexuality is very different, due to eons of evolutionary pressures.
/r/seduction02/05/19 01:36 PM
2

Eject them from your life
/r/seduction02/05/19 03:22 AM
1

Right? Ya know why people are shunning you OP? Your hubris and condescension by not learning the language. Edit:I'm guessing you're American. Thanks for contributing to the stereotype
/r/seduction01/05/19 11:22 PM
5

Needs a TL:DR. No time to read a wall of text that's mostly not informative. Your English is quite good.
/r/seduction01/05/19 01:00 AM
4

What you think determines what you feel. Change what you think.
/r/seduction30/04/19 11:18 PM
2

Well given how you write here...
/r/seduction29/04/19 12:59 AM
2

Who.cares. Move on.
/r/seduction28/04/19 10:08 PM
4

Never explain yourself to anyone. Just do. Would you explain yourself to your little sister? Big Cats don't explain themselves. Checkout books by Leil Lowndes.
/r/seduction26/04/19 11:09 PM
3

Pickup /= relationships. Two different value sets.
/r/seduction26/04/19 04:18 PM
1

Wow. You found new words and just had to use them to sound like a dumbass. Good for you
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:47 PM
6

You don't. He can lose his job and worse
/r/seduction25/04/19 05:22 PM
-1

Nope, not normal
/r/seduction23/04/19 09:46 PM
5

Hit the gym. I know it's always said, but it makes a world of difference. I despise the gym, with every fiber if my being. But I go, almost every day, because it makes me feel so much better. Check out ddpyoga.com for some incredible inspiration.
/r/seduction21/04/19 09:26 PM
6

Right? OP is like the juiced up douchebag meathead at the gym making fun of the newbie fatties sweating his balls off walking on the treadmill. Dude is trying, and with time and practice, achieve. Get fucked, OP
/r/seduction21/04/19 04:19 PM
1

Aww, guess I touched a soft spot there ace, when all you got is insults. Go hang on mommy's apron strings...cause we know you ain't got no daddy
/r/seduction20/04/19 11:22 PM
9

You get messaged and hit on at bars, but your not being chased?
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:14 PM
9

Hahaha. Stop dating until you grow up some, son.
/r/seduction19/04/19 07:13 PM
1

Many women love to hike. Look for a reddit or message board to meet other hikers. It's also a good opportunity to hangout with women and men in groups, low pressure. And everyone gets their hormones up from the exercise.
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:33 AM
2

Value vs Comfort. There's a great post on here about it. You're not inducing the tingles. Looks help, but attitude is what really drives excitement.
/r/seduction17/04/19 05:20 AM
4

"Does not do no sex" ...wtf does this even mean? Do you English bro?
/r/seduction16/04/19 04:28 AM
-8

If you have to ask... Really, do you want a boyfriend you have to goad into being your boyfriend, or do you want a boyfriend who's mature and knows what he wants and has the confidence to get it?
/r/seduction15/04/19 05:30 AM
2

Become outcome independent. Focus on enjoying the process, dating, and don't worry about the outcome.
/r/seduction13/04/19 09:43 PM
3

You don't care yet you reply Methinks Freud would have a field day with you.
/r/seduction13/04/19 07:30 PM
1

That's cause she wasn't psycho at all. You just hit a trigger by being an insensitive ass. As a man whose been accused of all sorts of nonsensical things over the years, I can empathize with her, especially since extroverts like YOU can be such fucking ignorant, condescending assholes about introversion. Had you been as dismissive to me about it, I would've clocked your arrogant ass. Hope she helped you grow up a little.
/r/seduction13/04/19 06:39 PM
9

Meh. It can be a fun ride. You just need to be aware that you're opening Pandora's Box
/r/seduction13/04/19 02:13 PM
2

I don't remember needing step-by-step instructions as a young adult. And it's not like I was a Chad or something...
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:58 PM
8

Personality. Fuck, is it not obvious from this very experience?
/r/seduction12/04/19 10:32 PM
9

"People aren't what they say, they are what they do"
/r/seduction12/04/19 06:09 PM
4

Welcome to life, which isn't fair, ever. Now that you've learned that lesson, what are you going to do with it?
/r/seduction10/04/19 10:16 PM
2

Detach from the outcome. You need outcome independence. Don't be concerned about "where it's going" , live in the moment, enjoy the now
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:47 AM
2

Fish or cut bait
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:23 PM
12

When she said she was a bitch, you shoulda believed her.
/r/seduction08/04/19 03:16 PM
8

If that were true things would be quite different. Honest people get suckered all the time.
/r/seduction07/04/19 12:30 AM
5

You're skinny as fuck. Get to the gym
/r/seduction06/04/19 11:30 PM
0

Stop communicating. Respond slowly, and erratically, with short messages. She's getting the emotional fulfillment she wants, without having to earn it.
/r/seduction05/04/19 10:53 PM
1

You made the mistake in the moment of not passing the test. Best response right then would be something like "nah, that's OK, I have enough friends" , then leave. Your text afterwards reinforced the friend zone.
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:50 PM
2

As a 50 something who never went to the gym, THIS a thousand times over. Start NOW. You can never regain bone density, so weight lifting NOW will improve bone density for life. Similar with muscles. It's much easier to develop a strong body now, which will help prevent injuries and improve recovery from injuries.
/r/seduction05/04/19 05:17 AM
4

"Guess that makes you lesbian...or at least bi"
/r/seduction04/04/19 02:31 AM
1

Needs a TL:DR
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:53 PM
0

Looks matter. Personality can matter more, but you really gotta have it. And women are much more sensitive to your attitude / perspective than you can imagine : they can sense your weaknesses a mile away.
/r/seduction02/04/19 08:20 PM
2

She was looking for you to make a move. You didn't, so she has no further use for you.
/r/seduction02/04/19 04:33 PM
6

"New user" right on login screen. Or google it, ffs
/r/seduction01/04/19 10:57 PM
5

Hypergamy. 'Nuff said.
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:06 PM
1

Meh. Acceptance of your parents being human and imperfect is crucial. Imagine what their parents (and their world) must've been like. Things are easier today, in every way, than ever before. Rather than complain about what's wrong, what your parents did wrong, etc, you "be the change" you want to see. Only you can decide and make yourself what you want to be. Realizing this is a hallmark of becoming an adult. PS: And I'm a middle-aged misanthropic cynic. Be better than me.
/r/seduction29/03/19 03:21 PM
5

Except that's not true. You must develop social intelligence too, which is effectively what this sub discusses.
/r/seduction26/03/19 06:00 PM
1

Outcome independence. You're asking for discrete instructions for how to hit a moving target
/r/seduction23/03/19 01:26 PM
6

Well you don't ask a salmon how to fish, right?
/r/seduction21/03/19 03:03 AM
2

You should be qualifying her, not yourself
/r/seduction19/03/19 02:10 AM
5

Who cares? Why do you care? Own you actions and don't defer to other's opinions of your actions.
/r/seduction13/03/19 10:28 PM
2

No thanks.
/r/seduction13/03/19 09:10 PM
3

Interesting you bring Rome/Greeks. As I understand it, they didn't define people by sexual behaviour - it was just something that people did.
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:11 PM
1

How is that homophobic? Ignorant maybe, but his statement shows no fear whatsoever.
/r/seduction12/03/19 04:10 PM
2

Ignore the question and move on to something new.
/r/seduction10/03/19 02:21 AM
2

"slaying" is too much fucking work. Most people are fucking morons, playng the game every fucking day gets old. You sound like you're 12.
/r/seduction01/03/19 05:53 PM
2

Agree and amplify. "what? Some other guys are stealin' my mojo? Who? Where? Man, that ain't cool. They need to get their own mojo".
/r/seduction24/02/19 12:06 AM
1

When you fuck up, you apologise, and don't make excuses about it. "I'm sorry for doing X"... Full stop. No explaining, no justifying, no discussion. It ends there. This holds regardless of who you're apologising to, man or woman, friend, sibling, boss, coworker, lover.
/r/seduction21/02/19 06:47 AM
6

"emotional tampon" hahahaha Soo, stealing that
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:09 AM
3

Just makes it easier for those in the know. It's the same with at subject, really...
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:48 PM
6

You're 6' with an accent...
/r/seduction16/02/19 01:33 AM
4

You're 23 and a woman. You're clueless about approaching women. Go away. Edit: clarified cluelessneas
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:16 PM
3

Nah, LSD is the best thing for OP.
/r/seduction11/02/19 05:32 PM
1

Hahahahahahahaha Fuck you op Hahahahahqjja
/r/seduction11/02/19 04:12 AM
6

Social proof/pre-selection bias
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:08 AM
3

Move on.
/r/seduction31/01/19 08:05 PM
183

Social proof in action.
/r/seduction30/01/19 01:16 AM
2

And that's the point. You CAN'T prevent flirting at pickup spots. Sheesh
/r/seduction27/01/19 07:09 PM
2

Don't go to pickup spots. Ffs. It's like going to a seafood restaurant and then bitching they only serve seafood.
/r/seduction26/01/19 03:44 PM
8

Hahaha...no. This is a red flag. She doesn't even know OP at all. Run away op.
/r/seduction19/01/19 09:43 PM
7

"all of them" grin
/r/seduction19/01/19 02:21 AM
8

Err, maybe let the date know and ask if she'd still like to come over or postpone? I mean, it's a weird idea, but maybe do something like use your words?
/r/seduction13/01/19 02:17 PM
2

Two words: Move. On. Two more: It’s. Over.
/r/seduction12/01/19 01:33 AM
12

Women can't get them pregnant.
/r/seduction02/01/19 02:22 PM
1

"Hangout sometime" is a weak gambit. "Hey, come do X activity with me" is more confident, active.
/r/seduction22/12/18 06:42 PM
1

Dissemble all you want, but that's exactly what it is, junior.
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:02 PM
1

You're right, I didn't read past the first rambling paragraph that didn't provide any direction on where it's going... no synopsis, no "setup". Oh. And maybe you should check your juvenile veiled insult, junior.
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:38 PM
5

Needs a TL:DR, cause if you can't explain it in less than a paragraph, you probably can't explain it well.
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:36 AM
1

Doesn't sound like a "shy" issue. Sounds more like he's keeping distance to prevent any perception of impropriety. Not much you can do.
/r/seduction20/12/18 02:48 AM
1

She was nervous, which is good. Attraction does that. Just escalate. Kiss, whatever you feel. Worst thing that happens is she leaves.
/r/seduction20/12/18 12:15 AM
2

Better to be ambiguous rather than snarky. Snark like that would indicate you care. Better to be too busy with your own thing.
/r/seduction20/12/18 12:13 AM
4

Hahahaha....so much the opposite is true. Social proof. If she was put off, think sex woulda happened?
/r/seduction19/12/18 10:59 PM
3

"Sorry - haven't had time"
/r/seduction19/12/18 08:38 PM
1

Lol, because he finds you attractive, but knows he needs to not act on it for job security.
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:10 PM
1

She wanted you to escalate. Gals want to feel something, so do that. She asked to see your room...to have an excuse to be there. Better to escalate and get shot down than not.
/r/seduction19/12/18 06:12 AM
1

Yea, you'd be surprised how little difference being married makes. Stats on cheating are pretty insightful. If you rustle her jimmies and have social proof, she kinda doesn't care if you're married (perhaps).
/r/seduction19/12/18 01:48 AM
3

He's not shy, he's just not gonna risk a job over getting lucky.
/r/seduction19/12/18 01:45 AM
1

Why all the weird caps and bold?
/r/seduction18/12/18 08:57 PM
9

Not friend zoned, a ring is the ultimate social proof. You were attractive enough, had the confidence of not needing her, and the social proof of a wife.
/r/seduction18/12/18 12:12 AM
7

Confirming is good. But do it from a position of confidence. "See you tomorrow night" or something that assumes it is on, not asking.
/r/seduction15/12/18 03:37 PM
2

Lol Brutal.jpg
/r/seduction14/12/18 04:43 PM
5

I'd make sure to carry a glue stick and construction paper. "Collage"
/r/seduction14/12/18 01:59 PM
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