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Question for MenAveragegirl101/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 11:06 PM
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The ironic thing is that these guys with "nerd elitism" would never go after a truly nerdy girl (their female counterparts), they would only go for model looking girls. And by nerdy girls, I mean the girl who has a rolling backpack and waist length hair, the girl who is 20 lbs overweight and OBSESSED with Disney, the feminist Tumblrina, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 02:12 PM
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Maybe because men think a BMI above 17.5 is fat and she is tired of being called fat by you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 03:24 AM
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Well since you have made up the answer why did you even post?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:25 AM
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Why can't he say "I want you to have more sex with me"?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:24 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 01:02 AM
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Who discusses the sex life of pro wrestlers and how it applies to TRP with their husband? That's such a weird topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:56 AM
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Lol if a guy doesn't communicate with me, I'm out. I don't want dread. I want him to TALK TO ME. I don't have the energy for mind games. I work full time and volunteer. I can't handle extra stress.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:53 AM
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Not a girl with low self esteem! Which is a lot of girls!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:46 AM
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Lie a false statement made with deliberate intent to deceive; an intentional untruth; a falsehood. Petty having or showing narrow ideas, interests, etc. mean or ungenerous in small or trifling things: a petty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 12:45 AM
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Excuse me, I thought I typed it. No need to call me a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 09:27 PM
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I'm not talking about murder. You can end a friendship MUCH more easily than a marriage. And i said it applies to both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 07:11 PM
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I am not sure what you mean by power, but dating the wrong man has the power to completely destroy your life. Even if the man isn't intentionally ruining your life, which is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 02:50 PM
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Well I am pretty conservative so I guess the most I can infer my friends and people in my life who are pretty conservative themselves have slept with is at most like 4. And that's me guessing. My friends don't talk about this stuff. No one discloses their sex lives around me. I definitely know a a woman who is over 25 and a virgin but she is religious and very well adjusted and content. I knew a girl in high school who told me she has slept with hundreds of guys but she was from Europe. She move…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:53 AM
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I am saying that both people should be responsible. An unplanned pregnancy should go like this: BAM surprise baby! woman doesn't abort baby and makes an effort to raise the child with her sex partner, ideally as a husband but if not at least as a coparent man ideally marries the girl and if not at least do parents the kid both parents try to give the kid a good life if the man decides "ooh I can't handle raising my kid" or is abusive, or leaves at minimum pay child support women shouldn't have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/17 05:06 AM
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No I am like a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:48 AM
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But how? I want to do this too.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:47 AM
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Where is the evidence of this? Yes, you can be a successful stripper or cam girl or whatever but where is the evidence you can be a successful gold digger?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 01:15 AM
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As I have said earlier, if a man is raped he shouldn't have to pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:03 PM
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No. Reading comprehension. In situations where the baby is healthy and the mom is healthy and where there is no rape and incest involved or other things of that fashion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:59 PM
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What attitude? Sorry for supporting kids and not wanting them to be murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:58 PM
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TBH I would ban abortion (except for in situations of rape/ murder/ incest/ health issues/ etc) if I could the only thing stopping me is nervousness that women are going to get under the table abortions and die. I fully support more birth control and I believe men should be responsible for protecting themselves too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 06:58 PM
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A) I don't have political opinions, just moral ones b) pregnancy is a consequence of sex c) if you get pregnant and have a healthy baby after fully consensual sex and choose to kill that baby, then it is not moral. it's not fascism. Fascism is a tendency towards a dictatorship and strong autocratic control. Policing women and implying that it is appropriate to shame someone for believing abortion is immoral is fascism. Because you want to force me to believe how you believe. Killing a baby is im…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:00 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 03:09 PM
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I know. Ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:12 AM
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Because look at how angry men are about supporting their own DNA on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:12 AM
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Then it doesn't matter what you believe. The law says that men are responsible for their kids. It's simple. Saying that his DNA is not his responsibility condemns both women who are raped and women who had kids when in a serious relationship who were abandoned as soon as the guy learned she was pregnant. It doesn't matter what you say. It's the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:11 AM
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I am surprised at how callous you are about abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:08 AM
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What is callous?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:08 AM
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Well the good news is that unless you are raped, you are making a decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:05 AM
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What? Why isn't the police helping?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:04 AM
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No I am not! Just well read! Especially since the police didn't support him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:04 AM
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I'm not the guy you are talking to, but I said that for me personally, i don't believe in abortion unless the kid or mom is sick, or if there is a rape or invest situation. So if billy got raped or something then obviously he doesn't pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 04:04 AM
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And I don't care about yours. It's your kid, support it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:30 AM
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And she weights 86 lbs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:30 AM
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And don't get upset about supporting your own kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:30 AM
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It's ok I don't want to marry you. 110 lbs is fat for you. 89 lbs is ideal. It won't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:17 AM
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And I don't care if abortion is legal. It still makes you and the mom responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:16 AM
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I am already saving myself for marriage and even if I wasn't it would be at least for serious relationship. It disturbs me that you can dissociate yourself from your own child and expert women to do the same. Yes you are responsible for the child and so is the woman. Boom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:15 AM
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What is naive? I have read here many times when a woman says she is saving herself men say it's s test.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:14 AM
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I am a woman That's why I don't like how men just act like the birth control pill is an easy option with no effects what so ever that women can just take and smile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:12 AM
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A 17.5 BMI is 89 lbs for me. No thank you. If I was 110 lbs I will be happy. Sorry if that is too fat for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:05 AM
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No I am trying to argue that men and women should take care of the kid together. If you have a surprise baby, then both parents should try their best to raise the kid together. If they can't handle it, joint custody. If they can't handle that, then the parent who makes more money should pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:03 AM
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http://www.webmd.com/sex/birth-control/news/20161027/male-birth-control-in-a-shot-promising-but-more-work-needed
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:01 AM
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Thank you. It's pretty easy since I have been scared of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:01 AM
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SO YOU GET PISSED OFF WHEN I TELL MEN THE EXACT SAME THING? Both people should be held accountable for their child. Physical abortion (except for in situations of health issues or rape/ incest) is wrong. Financial abortion is wrong. (Except for in rape or incest or crazy situations). Both are wrong. The woman and man should work together to raise their surprise kid. If they can't handle it, then they should split custody and the parent who makes more money should pay child support. Can't handle …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 02:00 AM
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But that's common sense. And when I say men should do the same they get offended.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:58 AM
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http://www.cnn.com/2016/10/30/health/male-birth-control/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:57 AM
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And even though it is legal it is not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:57 AM
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Because even though it is legal it is not fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:56 AM
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I used to feel like that but now I don't. And if you make significantly more than your husband he resents you. If you are happier than him, he resents you. If you are unhappy, he resents you for being unhappy. If you are saving sex for marriage he is calling you a prude constantly. If you're not, you should have abortions and are careless if you get pregnant. Etc. I'm scared of men now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:56 AM
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No. Men just use women for sex and I described a very real situation. Maybe not to you individually but most men are like that. As evidenced by the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:54 AM
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Because it is more than just a fun thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:45 AM
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Yes. I know. And abortion is murder. Saying abortion is a fine and dandy option is like saying suicide is a good option. It's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:44 AM
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WooHoo! I have the right to kill my unborn child! Now I deserve to not get child support if I choose not to murder my baby!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:43 AM
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Why do you talk about abortion as if it is not a moral option?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:38 AM
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Your question has no meaning to me. It's like saying suicide is an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:28 AM
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Yeah but I consider it killing and many women do and rule it out as an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:23 AM
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Yeah but if he makes more money he will resent me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:23 AM
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That's horrible it sounds like the illuminati was somehow involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:22 AM
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Why would I give up a child to some strangers or kill my child? And why can't men get a vasectomy? What is wrong with a vasectomy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:21 AM
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I think a lot of men hold the ideas. I am legitimately scared I will marry a man and be will complain I am not making enough money and stuff like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:20 AM
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No, just on whether the child is killed in an abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:19 AM
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I don't think men should be held solely responsible. I think both people should be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:18 AM
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What are the options?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:13 AM
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Abortion should not be legal unless incest, rape, or health issues occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:13 AM
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So both people should be responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:08 AM
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No but it can definitely lead to pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:06 AM
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Neither. I don't support anything. I think it makes a lot of men unnecessarily suspicious, angry, and bitter, and makes it hard for women like me to find a good non crazy husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:05 AM
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Hormonal birth control messes with your mood, weight, etc. Abortion is morally ambiguous for many women. What are the options? Everything has a downside.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:02 AM
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I mean it is something I would talk a lot about first and make sure he doesn't have any interests in things i wouldn't do. Besides that you kind of mold into each other over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 01:01 AM
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Now I want to know what happened. Omg.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:59 AM
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I don't have the authority and I don't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:59 AM
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Yeah most non PIV sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:58 AM
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That's why I am not feminist and identify as no pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:58 AM
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I am not. Sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:56 AM
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But both people should be responsible. Both.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:56 AM
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No I am serious. Lol. It went like this over the course of 7 years. Cheezburger > 9 gag > Omegle > 4 Chan and tumblr > The red pill > the rest of Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:55 AM
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What is your story? Tell me in detail.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:54 AM
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I want a guy who is also saving himself for marriage. That's not bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:53 AM
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I don't support abortion unless there is a health problem with the mom or baby or in cases or rape or infest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:52 AM
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4chan.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:50 AM
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WGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:50 AM
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Yes, if the fetus and mom are healthy. For severe birth defects or in cases where the mom is in danger then abortion is ok. Also in cases of rape or incest.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:46 AM
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They did and men had serious side effects. Women have to deal with awful side effects of birth control, too. I suspect that a lot of the issues men have with women on here are due to the havoc birth control pills can wreak on your mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:44 AM
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What are you doing that a woman can get your sperm without your consent??? and what empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:43 AM
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But why should a woman have sex with you if you don't want to marry her or support a surprise kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:42 AM
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Exactly. When a woman says "I am saving myself for marriage" men say "haha" and "are you Amish?" And even Keon tiger (idk how to spell his username) said I will never marry. Then they complain about how women should not be irresponsible and not become single moms. Then say that men should not be accountable for kids. So you want to bribe commitment in exchange for sex "I refuse to marry a woman or even have a serious relationship with a woman if she says she is saving herself for marriage" Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:41 AM
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I won't. But if you get bored and decide to cheat on me with a 19 year old after we have been together 20 years you better pay child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:34 AM
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Why wouldn't they want to marry me? Hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:33 AM
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You're acting like what I suggested is a life ruining burden.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:30 AM
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When a woman says "I don't have sex outside of a serious relationship/ marriage" men consider her as using sex to bribe for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:30 AM
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No but it takes two to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:29 AM
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He doesn't. I just don't feel sorry for the man and it bothers me when men complain about financially supporting their own child with a few hundred dollars per month when they easily could have just not had sex with someone they are not at least in a serious relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:28 AM
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Then it's fucking stupid not to think that people (men AND women) shouldn't face the consequences of carelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:26 AM
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common sense. Men should do the same too. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:26 AM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:25 AM
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I am saving myself for marriage already and most women don't have sex outside a relationship. But men consider this shit testing or bribing for commitment or other nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:25 AM
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They can only have sex with women they trust in a serious relationship or marriage, and not have sex if they are not okay with potentially getting someone pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:24 AM
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I am not a man hater I am saying it's sexist against men to say that they lack self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 12:23 AM
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Well I am saving sex for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:57 PM
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Because men can do the exact same thing. What a novel concept. Unless they are helpless and lack self control?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:57 PM
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But why can't men control themselves? If i were a man, i wouldn't have sex with someone unless I was in a serious relationship where I fully trusted that my partner would support the kid and love the kid, even an unwanted kid, and would involve me as a parent. Kind of like now And if I truly hated children, I would get a vasectomy or be celibate. Oh but men lack self control. TRP says they are just animals who are helpless and weak, kind of like feminism says. Hmm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:56 PM
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Exactly don't moan about how you can't have intercourse when you aren't even willing to be there if a child occurs, even an unwanted child.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:54 PM
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Even better If I am not okay with raising your kid alone, and I know you aren't willing to support that kid. I simply won't have sex with you. Omg what a novel idea, imagine if people didn't have sex until they were married or at least in a serious relationship!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:53 PM
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If you can't afford a kid, either don't have sex or use protection or get a vasectomy And only have sex with a woman you trust
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:52 PM
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If you're not okay with possibly impregnating someone don't have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 11:50 PM
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I'm not a feminist but bald men can still be sexy. Some examples: Pitbull, Dwayne Johnson, Moby, Vin Diesel.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 12:04 AM
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Lol in high school no one asked me out. I had guys stare at me, or act semi flirtatiously, but no one asked me out. Now it's the same thing. The first time I was properly asked out was when I was 19 or 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/17 09:04 PM
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It's extremely traditional but people still value money and still want their kids to be upper middle class or wealthy. They still expect their wives to cater to their husband and basically be the husband's slave. Also, Iran isn't like Saudi Arabia or Yemen, it is a more progressive country. They don't treat their women like absolute garbage like Arab countries do, most people hate the regime.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:39 PM
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You didn't answer my question, therefore it is clear you would not date her, but don't want to say why.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:03 PM
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They still do respect education. Omg. Everyone there wants their kid to be a doctor. I don't know about middle class though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 04:02 PM
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Lol that's not true. Unless they are super Muslim, they want their daughters to be doctors or engineers. If that doesn't work out, then just get married ASAP to a doctor or engineer. If you become a doctor or engineer you will be wealthy and THEN can get married ASAP and pay a nanny to do everything. That is the fantasy. Even if they are super Muslim they still have the fantasy. In Iran and other countries, there is "wealthy class" and "lower class". Jobs that are middle class in the western wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:55 PM
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What kind of jobs matter and what don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:51 PM
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I am middle eastern. Basically engineering and medicine are the only ways to have a comfortable life and good job and not be forced to depend on a weird husband who may not treat you well. Also in many families, a woman either becomes a doctor or engineer or gets married. Other degrees are not respected or are considered "whore-ish". In my family's culture, a woman with a good (upper middle class) job is considered wife material. Something like teaching or nursing doesn't require a bachelor's de…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:50 PM
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What I am saying is what if she is a cam girl, hot, but NOT FAMOUS? Would you still date her?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:43 PM
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Well at least you admit it, many men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:42 PM
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TBH they are pretty strict about controlling access to addictive drugs. Even things like antibiotics are monitored. Narcotics are very closely watched, even the waste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:41 PM
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That's a good post. I am the average job girl. I don't have no aspirations but I am lost because I make pretty good money and get excellent benefits but I don't want to do the same thing forever and ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:40 PM
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Being told what? You don't know any hot girls that aren't famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:30 PM
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If you sleep 8 hours a day then give 1 hour to commuting per day, you are left with 1 hour to do your chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 03:29 PM
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What if she is hot but not famous?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:55 AM
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I don't think that saying "take your clothes off you whore" is having every whim met.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:25 AM
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Is a woman who is a maid spoiled because she gets paid to clean? Is a chef spoiled because she gets paid to cook? Is an actress spoiled if she gets paid to act as someone's girlfriend? Is a teacher spoiled because she gets paid to take care of kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 02:06 AM
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But I thought it was an amazing and pure and moral career choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 01:37 AM
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So why do you want an actor or dancer or teacher but not a cam girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 01:16 AM
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You did once rant about how women should be camgirls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 01:14 AM
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I have a job with no overtime culture and I am tired. I don't know how people work 12 hours a day 5 days a week and function, especially mothers/ wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:02 AM
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I wish I could be a teacher or farmer. Psychiatrist is meh, dermatologist is ok but not like Dr Pimple Popper. If a teacher and farmer made as much as a doctor I would be chasing it with fervor since I think they would be jobs I love, especially if I teach for a private religious school.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:00 AM
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I took an 8-5 job and I don't have overtime and good benefits but I don't make as much money as the nurses who work 12 hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 11:29 PM
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You don't have secret societies flashing subliminal messages at you and preparing you for revolution and a following dark ages when you hike through the wildernesses or hold a pen and paper or are doing jumping jacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 06:44 PM
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Regular movies and sports are not good either. They all manipulate people. I think the best hobbies are spending time outdoors in nature, exercising, building things, making things (sewing, knitting, drawing, etc) and reading nonfiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 06:31 PM
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Yes. They are tools used to cripple men. People get all defensive when I say it, but they are. Men cannot lead a family and be strong if he watches porn and plays games regularly. It cripples thinking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 03:05 PM
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I already said Jack. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 03:02 PM
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Believe it or not, women will marry a 3-4 if she is desperate. That said, my coworker is also Jane and met her husband on a dating app. And someone on Christian mingle will have better luck than on okdcupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:58 PM
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No, they're probably 3's or 4's. Out of 10, 1-2 will stick around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:54 PM
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If at first you don't succeed try again. If they don't match they can keep trying and experimenting. People's sexuality molds into each other's if both are inexperienced.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:43 PM
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This is not true at all. People wait until they are married believe it or not. Not everyone is like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:42 PM
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I AM JILL. As someone else said, jack would have a much better experience in real life. Jill will have an easier time online. In churches, Jack will be a good catch. And since, as heads of the family, men are the primary target of mind control tools like video games and porn, there are much less men in churches. He won't have women throwing themselves at him right and left, but he will have more options. Women like Jill are very common in church. Online, Jill will have more luck. It's strange fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:41 PM
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What does that have to do with marriage? Husbands don't pay wives wages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 02:19 PM
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Skittles are nasty and I don't eat candy so I would be like the kid who gets an avocado in that viral video and say "thanks..." and push it aside. But if he got me dates I would eat them and be happy and do romantic stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 01:37 AM
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That is a complete digression. Someone who cleans a septic tank is doing a complete necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 02:05 AM
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Sexually gratifying someone is very different from being a doctor or nurse who helps a sick person or an accountant who ensures you're paying taxes or a lawyer who brings justice. Also a teacher or barber or welder isn't going to get std's from their job unless something freaky is going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:53 AM
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Because having sex with or even thinking about sex with someone you aren't married to is adultery You're welcome See number 1
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:23 AM
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Working overtime and dressing according to a dress code is very different from sticking stuff up your holes and getting peed/ pooped on by a married man My long term dream is to run an off grid living business which is very different from 8-5 If your husband bothers you for working overtime he should make better money so you can spend less time at work and more time managing the home and keeping the home happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:13 AM
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hater Go on tagthesponsor.com
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:10 AM
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I don't understand. If I could find myself some rich guy who wanted to lavish me with gifts, I would MARRY the man. And if he had some fatal personality trait or was hideous, I wouldn't want to sleep with him or marry him. And if he was cheating or not interested in commitment, I wouldn't want to marry him or sleep with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:09 AM
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Do you really think these guys just have one prostitute for years and years??? No! They sleep with tons of women, and not just that, they do nasty things like poop on the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:03 AM
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I've gone 23 years without sex and it is yucky and adultery. For both the man and woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:01 AM
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Sticking stuff up your orifices while naked with another person who you aren't married to and probably is married to someone else is very different from sitting at a desk from 8-5.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 01:00 AM
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I am in the US. I make between $60-80k a year. I think I would need to make over $80k to be comfortable alone in my city (no roommates), and over $100k to support a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/17 02:55 PM
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I am not feminist A 21 year old girl has no business getting with a 16 year old boy. That is just as bad. I think people should stay within their age group and if you are an adult you should stick to adults. Generally 16 year old boys are not attracted to 23 year old women, although there are exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 06:10 PM
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Any guy in his 20's or older has no business hanging around 16 year olds. When I was 16 I had a crush on a guy in one of my college classes who was 23 and we studied together once or twice. I wasn't super sexy but I was a cute 16 year old and I think it was obvious I liked him. But he didn't even go there. I thought it was because I was ugly (I was immature) but then I understood as I got older that he didn't want to put himself in a situation where he would get in trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:37 PM
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A 16 year old girl dating a guy who is over 20 is just wrong. Legally and morally. At least wait until the girl is 18 gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:32 PM
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Men do have a wall, too. But it's not like a woman's wall. At 36, you can still have a healthy child. Even at 40 or 50 or 80 you can (I remember reading somewhere that older men are less likely to have healthy kids though). Of course you don't want to be so old that you are elderly when the kid hits adulthood, but you still have time. At 36, a woman should get on with having kids if she really wants one, because her fertility will start to decline and her risk of problems with the pregnancy will…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 04:30 PM
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PM me I am on my phone I can't pm easily
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 06:17 PM
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And I don't think anything. It's their life. I personally won't have a kid unless my future husband I can afford to give the kid a life which both of us see as good.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:32 PM
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TBH I think the economy is about to collapse and we are heading towards the dark ages. I think many people are going to lose everything and protest in the streets. Already, adult kids of even middle class people are angry. They have crippling debt and barely can afford to survive, never mind buy a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:31 PM
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In my insane inflation area (rent $1800 for a studio, $2200+ for a 1-bedroom, $700k + for a small house) , with both parents working, it's below about $80-90k a year. Outside my area, it's below about $40-50k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:19 PM
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50 years ago, if you were poor, you could still get a house but it would be small. You could still get food but it wouldn't be fancy. You had savings and would be ok. During the industrial revolution, if you were poor you were barely going to survive. You, your sister, dad and mom worked 12 hours a day 6 days a week in a factory and lived all cramped together in a tiny little apartment. Some nights, you would go to bed hungry. Now days, we are heading back to the industrial revolution. Poor now …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 02:58 PM
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And nursing is weird because it makes more money than other professions but is not well respected. And it also doesn't make enough to provide a family. So you turn off the men who are upper middle class who would prefer a PhD professor or lawyer (lawyers and professors make less in my area unless they are very successful) who makes more money than you because you are too "blue collar" but then attract a new class of men who make much less than you and want to use you for your money. But since it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:37 AM
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Thank you! I hate it!! I know so many exhausted and worn down nurses whose husbands do lower paying work. They end up taking on a much larger burden for the family. It has turned me off of feminism and made it clear to me that if I am going to have kids, my husband has to out earn me or be okay with me scaling back and making less.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 03:31 AM
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I am in a high paying costal state. I make good money but the cost of living is high
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 01:07 AM
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If you have kids, yes. It ruins your life and the kids' life. If you don't have kids, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 10:52 PM
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I'm not a feminist though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 08:06 PM
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I'm WGTOW until I meet someone amazing and if I don't then whatever. At least I didn't ruin my life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:25 PM
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Omg where
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:24 PM
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Longevity and a clear mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:24 PM
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I agree. I wish I had a solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 07:09 PM
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But then all that extra stress unloaded onto moms also increases risk of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:58 PM
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Ehhh $100k combined isn't UMC in my area. $100k is like survival in my area. At least you do admit that you reject women based on income. Men don't admit that and I think they should. Especially on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:38 PM
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That is a good thread
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:37 PM
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Not many, but men do expect women to put everything into their career and be a good parent thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:35 PM
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This is so true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:34 PM
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I want to live outside the city ;_; I want suburban or country life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:33 PM
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If big box retail guy decided to move to the Midwest and be a nurse and eventually nurse practitioner I would marry him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:32 PM
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They want richer men because the cost of living is so cripplingly high that you need a rich (upper middle class man) in order to have kids and have yourself, husband, and kids be happy. A house in my area runs upwards of $700k on average. Even ghetto areas are over $500k. Rent is extremely high too, upwards of $2000 a month for more than 1 bedroom. Every day I worry about money and my career and I make good money and am comfortable. I can't imagine marrying someone who makes way less than me and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:32 PM
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Because I thought it would be stupid to waste my education on a degree just to find someone of a higher SES to marry. And it's not like nursing is crap, it pays well enough. I want to be upper middle class if I have kids but if I never get married and stay single or if i get married and don't have kids, I just want to do crazy things like live off the grid and maybe run a business of some sort. Now that I am older, I am thinking of going to school just to be more credible to find a good husband.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 06:29 PM
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I am middle eastern mixed and look Hispanic. I think if I moved to the south I would get persecuted. I worry a lot though you are right. I am saving money and at around 30 if I am unmarried buy a nice house in a cheap area.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:40 PM
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No not really. I said it many times, if I marry someone who expects me to work full time then I just don't want kids. It's too much stress for me and I don't handle stress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:38 PM
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I am an RN lol, but where I live the average house is over $700k, a family needs to make over $130k just to get a down payment. I think about becoming a nurse practitioner but they tend to be abused and I don't have hospital experience so I don't think I would be competitive for non-abusive jobs. I may apply to get a PhD but my salary wouldn't get much higher. I am looking for men but not actively yet. I mainly look at church and through friends and sometimes like on Instagram but at some point …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:26 PM
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Not at my job. I mean there's one old doctor and he is old.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:22 PM
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Because by your logic smoking is ok, too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:20 PM
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Have fun smoking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:19 PM
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Yes but why would you eat meat in the first place if avoiding it lowers your risk? People who don't smoke still get lung cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:16 PM
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http://www.cbsnews.com/news/red-meat-and-arthritis-linked/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:14 PM
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I am not saying woe is me, I am agreeing with the guy in the video. And what are the obvious solutions? Besides "don't be fat" since I am not even fat to begin with, and am working on losing like 10 lbs. And "be submissive and feminine" which I am, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:10 PM
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http://www.alzheimers.net/2014-01-02/foods-that-induce-memory-loss/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:04 PM
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http://www.counselheal.com/articles/6463/20130822/red-meat-linked-alzheimers-disease.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:04 PM
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Yeah CNA is what I would call "blue collar" or "lower middle class". RN is middle middle class, although 2 established RN's would be the beginning of upper middle class. NP can support a family in the "middle class" tier and two NP's would be "upper middle class" while a CRNA would be able to support a family as "lower upper middle class" and two CRNA's married to one another would be the equivalent of two primary care doctors married to one another: upper middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 05:01 PM
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Nursing isn't lower middle class. It's solid middle class. Where I live, entry level for a nurse is $60-80k and if you stick around and establish yourself you will be making $80-120k. Much better than a history degree or something. I wanted a job where I could be at home with the kids and work part time without ruining my career. I don't want to put in long hours and sacrifice spending time with my family and kids. I want to be able to keep the home clean, cook, drive my kids to activities, home…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:55 PM
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If you eat healthy your body and mind won't break down the same way as other people's. You will age but you won't get crippling Alzheimer's and pains.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:49 PM
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No he would be strong and elite from plant power gg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:44 PM
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I like this video and it is excellent. This is exactly why I am a non-feminist woman and feel so hopeless about marriage. I am from an upper middle class background. My dad works full time and long crazy hours, and my mom stays home and volunteers a lot. I grew up wanting a family like my own. I wanted to stay home and be a mom, and work part time or from home to keep busy and have some relevant skills. I chose nursing, which is middle middle class if 2 nurses have a family or for a single perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:35 PM
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Gross but cancer free and we will live to be 100 and have clean bowels.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 04:22 PM
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TBH I will be controlling of how my husband eats, too. I will make a plant based meals and nag him if he doesn't drink vegetable juices that I make for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/17 03:20 PM
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I don't disagree but the op post focused on SAHW.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 08:05 PM
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Everyone's personal life goal doesn't have to be to maximize productivity for their employer. Uh, yes it should. A woman's value is only determined by how much money she makes (contributes) to the house and anything else is worthless. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:36 PM
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I don't frown heavily on single parent households, though. I don't think it's the best thing for a kid, but what can you do if your husband ( or wife but usually it is the husband) cheats on you or does drugs or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:24 PM
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Maybe because I am vegan, but washing, chopping, and preparing enough vegetables for a family of 5 doesn't happen quickly. Preparing pasta and frozen vegetables takes maybe 20-30 minutes. Chopping up vegetables, cooking the vegetables, etc. to make a home made stew takes 2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:23 PM
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I spend 3 hours on Sunday for minimal home maintenance for my room and bathroom and laundry. Key words: minimal, just my room and bathroom. If I had to maintain a whole house, it would take maybe 6-8 hours a week for minimal maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:19 PM
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And show me in quotes where I say working moms are evil demons?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:03 PM
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WTF I can cook a meal. When did I say I can't cook a meal? Show me, in quotes. Don't make stuff up. But it takes me a good 1-2 hours to make a legitimate, homemade meal, and since I only get 4 hours after work before I need to be in bed and sleeping on a full stomach is linked with weight gain, heart problems, and diabetes, I would rather cook something fast and easy in 30 minutes and go for a nice 45 minute walk after dinner than spend a full 1-2 hours cooking and sleep on a full stomach.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:02 PM
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With kids I think that the best thing for the kids and the mom is staying at home. I had a stay at home mom and she was excellent. I will not be talking about stay at home mom's, because the OP says wives and not moms. Housework and managing a home is a lot more work than people give credit for. I work 8 to 5. I am out the door at 7 am and home by 6pm. That's 11 hours a day dedicated to work. I get 4 hours after work before I sleep. My mom, who is a SAHW, does most of the cooking and cleaning fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 03:22 PM
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I am not even commenting to you. I am commenting in response to OP's post which clearly says that the world will do fine without women in the workforce, basically implying that teachers, nurses, caregivers, etc are useless. I didn't even mention op's gender or race or business ownership gg.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 06:06 AM
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But I thought the world would be fine without women in the workforce?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/17 04:07 AM
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It's a female dominated field which is much more valuable than HR. So is caregiving.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 05:32 PM
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What about nurses?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:57 PM
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Nurses are important and are like 90% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:57 PM
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I guess your girlfriend taking care of the elderly isn't vital because they are only 2 or 3 out of 10 and not 8's. She should just let them die. I guess nurses, teachers, caregivers, etc are useless too, because kids, old people, and sick people should die too. /s And now medical schools and dental schools are majority women. They are useless too. I don't support attacking men and saying how men are useless, but going about saying women are useless is not right. It's exactly the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:57 PM
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What does "taking care of some 2's and 3's" mean?? Does she take care of the elderly but you rank them 2 or 3 out of 10 in terms of looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/17 03:15 PM
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