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Sure but then that makes our list identical to tradcons lists. I was hopeful we could go a step further
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 08:56 AM
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The current mods of this sub did not set it up, it was created by the old mods who have now left. Oh. I hope the split was amicable? I saw the mod post in kbin from 3 weeks ago, and all criticisms seem to be entirely directed against Reddit admins and not fellow LWMA mods Currently I'm using relay app so once they force me to pay for this (which I think will happen very soon), in not sure how much time I'll devote to Reddit afterwards. Or for that matter, any socials including fediverse
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 02:07 PM
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My OP is partially inspired by ESG and partially inspired by cancel culture for/against corporations. Which I suppose is ironic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 01:53 PM
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Ah he's the same brother who did a bunch of interviews about his recent book! I like him despite the fact I felt he didn't go far enough and call a spade a spade. If he really does make that business list that my OP asks for, I will be pleasantly shocked because while his book received some muted, weak praise from his fellow peers (I'm specifically thinking of Anne Marie Slaughter) , such a list would make him a pariah IMO I'll keep him in mind, I have my hopes. PS: I'm trying to find the correc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/23 01:06 PM
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Potentially controversial opinion: have you considered wearing a discrete body cam and mic? I really feel that all abuse victims should have those, or at least somewhere in the corner of the room with the abuser That's incredibly fukt up, OP. I'm not surprised that "believe all victims" is not extended to you due to your gender. I concur with the other poster re: seeking outside counseling help, please don't let her get you in false accusations again
/r/MenSupportMen18/01/23 02:10 PM
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Yep. Essentially: For men's issues, blame the victims For women's issues, blame the System That said, he's getting so close. And he's angering many of his feminist viewers. I really hope he finally opens his eyes and realize he's getting leopardsatemyface'd I know I've been harsh against vaush before but.... The man is just so close to getting it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/23 08:25 AM
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As far as I can tell, “feminism” means so many different things, ranging from genuine equality This is def way more true in non Western, developing country contexts or to outright misandry This is def way more true in Western or developed country contexts As most Redditors live in Western or at least developed countries, unfortunately we are seeing way more of their supremacists than their egalitarians
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/23 08:23 AM
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Your mind is in the right track I also want to say a general comment: self preservation comes first, esp when it comes to your career or schooling. Don't feel the need to challenge her if it means putting your future in danger In my younger days I just wrote bullshit to pass my shitty sociology courses (the professors ate it up as long as I said the right words/phrases 🤣) and concentrated my actual energy to online self-education (which later turned into educating and de converting others)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/01/23 12:28 AM
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There's tons of male on male violence There's tons of female on female violence (btw my definition of violence is not just physical but also psychological, social, mental, verbal) IMO both are gendered violence, and have deep structural causes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/01/23 03:02 PM
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In case she reads this: Please upload audio only podcast versions too! Many of us don't care to watch political or social content on YouTube or video format
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 05:24 AM
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Good points. My post should've been more clear: de converting is the desired end result (or destination), but discrediting hate movements (feminism isn't the only one, of course) and promoting equality is the method (or the journey, if you prefer)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 01:40 AM
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This is a great example of a typical feminist reply which is angry, salty, and bad faith : Lmfao! You really posted this long ass shit because Andrew Tate - a blatantly hateful bastard that is harmful to men and women alike - got bodied on Twitter!? Look how this poster just magically projects its own fantasies onto OP This is hilarious. And then this poster makes a one liner that literally means nothing "No one has progressive views about men in society!" *Defends Andrew Tate Now if you ask thi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 12:29 AM
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Pick your battles carefully is sort of my motto, otherwise we will be continuously disappointed OP, the way I see it is that we egalitarians are today where the feminists were in the 50s or before: outnumbered, overpowered, despised, and the target of enormous hypocrisy and hate Thanks to the internet, however, I try my best to de convert the occasional feminist (it's become one of my hobbies) and promote Egalitarianism. This sub and certain excellent posters have made great threads to help me o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/22 12:21 AM
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In my part of the world we just got news of a tragic bus crash in the middle of snowy mountain highways Lots of men and women paramedics and heli rescue missions taking patients to hospitals, where our healthcare heroines and heroes will try their best to save them Already a few fatalities God bless these men and women, and please stay safe
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/22 08:21 AM
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As we all know ....Supremacists require control. This means monopoly on speech and thought. Just very predictable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/12/22 08:19 AM
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Never never sacrifice your well-being and your future for someone else who isn't your family or really really really close friends Aside from those exceptions, always put yourself and your interests first. (I say this despite generally voting left, because too many men are exploited by society)
/r/MenSupportMen21/12/22 05:03 AM
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The previous head of AVFM, Paul Elam, always came off as too ego driven, almost as bad as a feminist IIRC That's just my opinion. I wish they would carefully think about what is their definition of success For me, success means: increasing the credibility of Egalitarianism at the expense of feminism and masculinism amongst the average population
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/12/22 04:35 AM
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Although I still admire AVFM and still keep an eye on their work, I'm overall disappointed in their team. IMO they invest too much in feminist-style flowery word diarrheas that immediately reminds me of my shitty Liberal Arts courses (and how easy it was to pass them by writing bull crap, but I digress). Many times I feel they could've made their point more effectively with way less words I think they should invest in educational, easily shareable, potentially viral content. Think of slick YouTu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 12:24 PM
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Good points
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/22 03:29 PM
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Yeah I don't know what that commenter is thinking I've been following Elon since 2014. First a fan, then gradually got disgusted by his Bezos like exploitation of the working class. And yet I kept seeing left wing publications praise him 2018 was the turning point. That was the year of pedo sub, of 420 stock price, and the resulting lawsuits over those issues. That's finally when the sycophantic HuffPo and vice and vox finally got it thru their thick dense skulls that he was basically the tech v…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/22 11:16 AM
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wow ty, i'm gonna explore your archives.....this is good stuff to share, too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/22 03:49 AM
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I really appreciate this link, which I'll save as part of the ever growing body of receipts proving systemic Misandry in the West One of my hobbies is to introduce our values and receipts in certain small sized left wing subreddits, namely male feminists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/12/22 09:49 AM
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99% of my Reddit time is on other unrelated topics. Plus I also have many non internet hobbies But in that 1% of time, I do my thing: trying to convince male feminists or semi-feminists to see their movement for what it is: anti equality anti individual liberty and body autonomy status quo incumbents in power, not the underdogs It's very easy to find supporting evidence. It's another thing to successfully de convert them. But occasionally I am successful It's also important to note that I don't …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/22 06:40 AM
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I didn't know this Imma have to get home to read this in detail..... Forgive my skepticism but I want to be sure before I start believing this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/22 06:35 AM
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Not just him. All of us in this sub and LWMA and elsewhere.
/r/MenSupportMen29/11/22 05:32 AM
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Indeed Their ideology literally is about putting women first So it's fair that men put themselves first. Any femcels or incels who take issue with that is not anyone else's prob but their own.
/r/MenSupportMen28/11/22 09:13 AM
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.Oh boy, I have some really bad news for you about the Greeks, Romans, Babylonians, pre-Islamic Arabs, Persians, Native Americans, Canaanites, and Thais. Firstly, you conveniently cut off the part where I said "anti gayat some level". Hmmm I wonder why you did that? While I was wrong to use such a strong word as anti gay to describe Rome, you too are also wrong: https://www.thoughtco.com/homosexuality-in-ancient-rome-4585065 Interestingly, the Romans didn't have specific words that meant homosex…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/22 12:21 AM
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Although I still don't agree with your original argument, I do agree with everything else you've just said And thank you for sharing me your experience regarding those mods, TBH I do have a problem with that sub in the sense that they're low key misandrist in their own ways I thank you for engaging me, it's got me thinking
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 05:29 PM
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You are conflating a Masculinist military political ideology with bigotry A country/society/govt can be very bigoted without being fascist Fact: almost all major societies in 5000 years of recorded history have been anti gay or racist in some level. If we apply Your logic: therefore almost all societies in the last 5000 years recorded history are fascist. Fact: most millennials, gen x, and boomers have used homophobic slurs or bigotry at some point in their lives. Zoomers not so much. Applying y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 03:26 PM
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You clearly don't have a damn clue what fascism is. No wonder you are now afraid to answer my simple question Really, you think being anti gay rights (which is a position I deplore) means fascism? Being a nativist or xenophobic (again, which I oppose) means fascism? By that definition America and Europe has been fascist 100% of its history..... Which begs the question why bother fighting actual fascists like Putin or Hitler My sister in Sunnah, please consider other educational sources instead o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 07:52 AM
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So they're right wing. Not a single fascist position in your list. Trump is fascist because he tried to overthrow the electoral results, and using the military to suppress democratic protests Tell me, what is the diff between right wing vs fascist to you? Or are you implying they're the exact same?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 06:58 AM
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That's my hobby: engage Redditors who are leaning towards that myth, and I try to nudge them towards our side using evidence and reason I've had occasional success and it makes my day
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 06:01 AM
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In a 2020 survey about Canada's Feminist International Assistance Policy, more than 50 percent of respondents believed feminism, gender equality and/or programs on women's empowerment did not benefit women and instead undermined men and boys. It's a relief to discover the Canadian society is not as misandrist as they say
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 02:52 AM
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Give us examples of what makes them majority fascists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/11/22 02:51 AM
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Spread this around the uni: https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/yxle6m/many_of_the_biggest_feminist_organizations_in_usa/ https://redd.it/yxzkgm Bonus: https://nypost.com/2022/08/05/cuny-deletes-article-celebrating-grad-on-johnny-depps-legal-team/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/11/22 10:10 AM
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Thank you, I'll check them out
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/22 10:39 AM
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Basically agree to disagree. She's too proud to admit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/22 04:25 PM
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Nothing, cuz I've never tried it except with my sis and some others whom I trust However many others have tried it. Some have ended up on the news.... And worse. I just want people to protect themselves cuz we know how bad faith the supremacists are, unfortunately
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/22 03:39 PM
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OP and others: I really don't recommend you reveal your support for men's issues IRL if it likely gets you into trouble Self preservation is very valid We can still do educational outreach via the anonymous internet, there's many ways
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/11/22 12:38 PM
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Big thank you to men like OP for providing easily sharable content and threads for people like me Over the years I've come to really refine the many ways I promote egalitarianism .to combat supremacist movements, by demonstrating the many examples of double standards vs 50/50 equality. Occasionally I can see success with other subs and Redditors. So thank you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/22 02:27 PM
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Will follow him, ty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/22 07:10 AM
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I hope you're right But my suspicion is that the guest will make the entire movement look bad..... Or, vaush team will do yet another bill O'Reilly on him
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 09:03 AM
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.... See how terribly low the bar is? Unlike tradcons and feminists, we egalitarians have so little Institutional power and voice in modern society that we semi-praise a misandrist like Vauch just because he threw us a bone. A tiny tiny bone I'm sorry but I just can't accept that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 03:56 AM
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Well I'm nowadays in a financially good position and would like to donate to NGOs or think tanks that promotes our values If you have any recommendations to share, I'm all ears
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 12:11 PM
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Any recommendations?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 12:06 PM
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You make very valid points, here's an up vote Here's where I somewhat disagree with you: By continuing to support that word, you therefore support the misandrist myth that they are all on the same side. But the exact opposite is true: while masculinists support misogyny and male supremacy (while feminists support Misandry and female supremacy) , male advocates are egalitarians who speak out on male issues because the mainstream incumbents who control our society's power structures are overwhelmi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 11:44 AM
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Although Kyle and Kristal have a mixed record when it comes to addressing feminist-created controversies, I will credit them for being way better than most of their peers
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 11:22 AM
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Manoj I love you but I have to challenge some really faulty logic in your post It induces demand overnight Are you saying that legalization creates a sudden explosion of demand for sex? I would love to see any studies that confirm that, as long as those studies take a holistic understanding to that demand, including that demand being found in places outside in person sex work for which supply is relatively tight even if legalized. Again, by what logic or studies do you argue this? Look, here's a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/22 11:17 AM
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Almost every man and woman experiences what you've experienced. That's the good news Here's another good news, you still have the opportunity to discover the incredible freedom of no longer having one-itis. Again, that applies to men and women equally You'll thank your younger self for this valuable and positive experience, even tho it may not seem like it now.
/r/MenSupportMen25/10/22 11:41 AM
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In addition to what others have suggested, I recommend looking into teas and herbal teas I'm a big fan, as it is way cheaper and zero il effects them alcohol
/r/MenSupportMen18/09/22 09:58 AM
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Bad news: you violated the don't shit where you work rule* Good news. You're only 17. We've all done regretful things at that age. As long as you don't become yet another innocent victim of meToo accusations for such a tame teenage moment, is gonna be ok. Awkward, yes. Long term, this is a great learning opportunity Much better to make small mistakes at your age, than bigger ones later on *To be clear, aside from breaking this rule, you literally did nothing wrong. Feminists often claim men have…
/r/MenSupportMen17/09/22 02:38 PM
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Reminds me of: https://reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/xd9dbu/we_have_to_really_discuss_ways_to_improve_our/ioc60lo?context=3
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/09/22 01:58 PM
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Many of us, myself included, used to be in miserable families like yours. Furthermore, my citizenship status was also really sketch due to long history outside of my control (it's a long story), meaning I spent my entire childhood with the specter of getting kicked out of the countries I was living in. I had a very negative relationship with my parents, and to this day it's complicated even tho I've been happily living by myself for years and things have somewhat healed Furthermore, like most yo…
/r/MenSupportMen14/09/22 02:50 PM
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All of us men and women at one point used to have one-itis. And I'm by no means shaming anyone who still believes in it But there are literally millions of women and men who are happily free of one-itis. There are many, less risky ways to get friendship or physical intimacy or comradeship or loyalty or...... You name it
/r/MenSupportMen14/09/22 02:40 PM
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As an egalitarian and social libertarian who is by no means a fan of tradcons like JBP at all..... It's pretty rich of feminists like her to whine about the very same big Tech companies who are dominated today by feminist staff Karma's a bitch, eh Eleanor? You of course don't wanna talk about how your Tech companies (and many other Institutions of Power such as colleges and journalists) are promoting YOUR supremacist ideology to the entire world (Note, I'm obviously not talking to OP directly of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/22 03:48 PM
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Given that Iceland and Sweden are both supposedly the least religious places on earth,...... That's sad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/22 04:25 AM
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Speaking as someone who's older than you but not that old: never hesitate to regularly evaluate if 1) your major, 2) your so called friends, 3) your school, 4) your family are adding or subtracting positive value to/from your QOL I used to just endure certain segments of my social circle/jobs/school despite the fact that they were worsening my life. I've learned to recognize those signs and cut them off..... And I become much happier and healthier for it As for dating or relationships, my advice…
/r/MenSupportMen11/09/22 04:09 AM
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I'm on the Left (although I refuse to call myself a leftist anymore, egalitarian now) and I've come to appreciate the fact that this is less a Right vs Left fight, and more of a feminist vs tradcon vs egalitarian fight..... But even that's over simplification because there's a fair amount of civil wars happening in the first two groups
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/22 01:03 PM
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I've never heard of him but bread tube ..... This already makes me assume he's a bad faith edgy influencer. Of course, can't really know without a link
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/22 12:56 PM
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6 hour a day! Damn bro 👍 May I ask which industry? I have a sort of 9 to 5 except I walk to work, I never take work home, hourly breaks (not kidding), and PTO is really flexible in a way that is to my advantage. Leaves me with plenty of free time and money's plenty. I used to be in a bad situation decades ago..... Slowly things got better and better
/r/MenSupportMen10/09/22 12:50 PM
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OP, I am very happy for you For others: Take it from people like me and OP, as you get older you will value free time more than money. It is worth foregoing money to get more free time..... We can drop dead or get sick at any moment
/r/MenSupportMen10/09/22 06:05 AM
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There is a time for grief. That time is now, and forever. There is also a time to honor her memory. There's no better way than to succeed in life. What is the meaning of success? That's up to you..... For me, it means the pursuit of long term happiness I know what gives me long term happiness. OP you should find out yours.... And get it. That will make your mom truly proud
/r/MenSupportMen08/09/22 11:53 AM
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Thanks for sharing your story I would like to leave a few reminders which I'm sure most of us already know but bears mentioning in threads like these: using terrible experiences with (insert gender) to therefore hate and badmouth (insert gender) is exactly what supremacists on all sides want us to do. (Not implying that's what OP is doing) The only way to truly win, long term, is to help de convert men AND women who are falling into gender extremism and gender hate. Using our personal experience…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/09/22 08:18 AM
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Quitting high school is, I'm sorry to say, a terrible move because it will destroy your job prospects I encourage you to get your high school diploma once you're in a better situation, believe me
/r/MenSupportMen07/09/22 07:28 AM
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Amazing isn't it? There's so many examples they are in bed with tradcons, and this is just one example. Another is their take on certain body autonomy issues
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/22 02:40 AM
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Wikipedia deserves a lot of praise It also deserves a lot of criticism. This example is by no means an isolated one CEO Jimmy is well aware that they've literally been publicly having "Wikipedia editing parties" online and his team has pretended to look the other way
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/22 02:38 AM
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All men until you get to health-care workers and then it's women? C'mon dude. um, why did you miss the other women examples?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/22 02:25 AM
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OP, is he religious? Not that religion in any way justifies MGM but it's harder to change one's mind if said person bases the decision on religion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 09:35 AM
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Thank you for your very thoughtful response, and yes, I agree that internet debates can turn disappointing. I see disappointing behavior from some MRA types too. I myself try to be a better human, and a better poster when it comes to these issues. And also, I think you and I seem to be on the same team, even if our labels (and understanding of our labels) may differ. If we are truly going to assess and analyse a philosophical movement that spawned a political movement, we have little choice but …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 06:26 AM
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I just had a engaging debate in yesterday's thread which I won't rehash here For those curious: .https://www.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/x31gpl/how_does_misandry_hurt_men_in_the_same_ways/ (Also I ask that ppl pls do NOT downvote or brigade any poster for having any feminist opinion)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 05:57 AM
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Firstly I've upvoted you ITT not because I agree with you (I don't) but because I encourage dissenting opinions that come in good faith, and because I embrace diversity of views That said, I disagree with you because there's far far too many examples that confirm that modern Western feminism is a movement for women. I just had a engaging debate in yesterday's thread which I won't rehash here As an egalitarian, I do embrace 1st wave and some parts of 2nd wave as my fellow egalitarians. But the ev…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 05:54 AM
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Are.... Are they chewing on gum or tobacco or something?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 05:43 AM
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Shifting the topic to my name, now? Running away again, no surprise. I let my pro equality posts do the talking. It works, again and again.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 03:01 AM
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the feeling is mutual. i suggest next time you try actually addressing what was actually said, instead of what you preferred was said; and to actually defend your stance when you make statements like "you just debunked yourself". because you will get fact-checked. take care, and i hope you have a wonderful weekend. I hope one day you discover what i and many others did: egalitarianism is better than feminism and masculinism. Equality is better than Supremacy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 02:42 AM
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The thing with goalposts is that both sides need to agree with where you put them before it becomes an argumentative sin to move them. this is incorrect. i set a certain goalpost, A. You then pretended that i had set goalpost B. i then pointed out, hey it's actually A and not B, but i assume your mixup was unintentional. you then confessed, actually, it was intentional because i consider A "arbitrary" so let's go with B. I'm gonna ignore A. .....that is an example moving goalpost If we both agre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/22 01:30 AM
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I feel like you are misremembering or trying to reinvent this conversation. You claimed that feminists did not want to "reform" the aspects of war that disproportionately hurt men, which I immediately disproved. Wrong. This is your second time I correct you on this: I asked you to provide examples who were explicitly anti misandrist. You unilaterally chose to declare this is "arbitrary" and move the goal posts That's on you. And you asked your long, loaded question which I suspect you had cued u…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 03:40 PM
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I was wondering if someone would try to cherry pick my quote selectively...., looks like you're it. However, I will be generous and assume it was unintentional from you. It was intentional in the sense that I thought your question was loaded all to hell and not worth answering, because you had piled up so many arbitrary requirements that nobody could meet it. You're wrong and right. You're wrong, in that it's not arbitrary: if it's fair to explicitly mention societal misogyny in discussing IPV, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 01:13 PM
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Most of this is right, but depending on what war you look at and how long after the war you keep tracking the "long tail" of morbidity and mortality, often as many or more women and children die as a result of war as do male combatants. It's not always the case, but a lot more noncombatants than you seem to think die as a result of disease, malnutrition, homelessness, collateral damage or war crimes in a typical war. If you are talking about English-speaking powers in the 20th century you don't …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 10:45 AM
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In 2000, Sommers published The War Against Boys: How Misguided Feminism Is Harming Our Young Men. In the book, Sommers challenged what she called the "myth of shortchanged girls" and the "new and equally corrosive fiction" that "boys as a group are disturbed." Criticizing programs that had been set up in the 1980s to encourage girls and young women, largely in response to studies that had suggested that girls "suffered through neglect in the classroom and the indifference of male-dominated socie…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 12:22 PM
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Good catch, I've upvoted your post cuz I dislike mass downvotes against posts that give a dissenting view. I'm not a ancient history expert but ever since the agricultural era, most sedentary agricultural societies were patriarchal - Yes, this includes Ancient Egypt and Incan and Aztec empires before European contact. (I mention them because many feminists falsely push the myth that they were either women led or egalitarian). However, I should have questioned that same paragraph that you've quot…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 12:15 PM
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Indeed, and I want to add for the benefit of OP: We egalitarians recognize both the areas where women are disproportionately victimized in war (sexual violence) and where men are disproportionately victimized (injury rate, fatality rate, long term chronic illness, PTSD, conscription, suicide rate) Now why is it that unlike us, they only want to seriously reform the first part (sexual violence) but not the second part (injury rate, fatality rate, long term chronic illness, PTSD, conscription, sui…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 08:44 AM
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Hi OP The fact that you're asking this question to this sub, and asking it in a good faith way deserves recognition and credit. I want to thank you for being open minded, and welcome to our community. If you've any follow up questions, hmu. Now to answer you question, I will go over numerous areas. Note that this is not a comprehensive list*: In jobs: why do you think they care alot about smashing the glass ceiling, but not the glass floor? Or to put it another way: How do you feel about equaliz…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 08:38 AM
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Please tell me they will upload this as a podcast EP I'm a podcast junkie cuz consuming audio content is way better than YouTube videos or even transcripts cuz I can multitask
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/22 01:07 AM
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Great points I've a relatively simple motto when it comes to the slut shaming against women and perv shaming against men, almost all originating from feminists and tradcons: As long as all participants are consenting adults, they can do whatever they want with their bodies.....Sexualization? Objectification? Doesn't matter, All those moral panics are subservient to this motto. It's unfortunate that this pro Body Autonomy stance is so unpopular amongst them. Fun fact, men are more pro decriminali…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/22 08:09 AM
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It is true that political leadership is disproportionately male. My reply to them about this would be to point out their enormous and numerous hypocrisies: 1) why do you think they care alot about smashing the glass ceiling, but not the glass floor? Or to put it another way: How do you feel about equalizing the gender ratio of so called bad jobs (ie. Those that are dirty, dangerous, physical or manual, socially isolating, risky.... Think of miners, taxi drivers, truck hauler, construction worker…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/08/22 01:59 PM
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There is not a easy answer to relationship difficulties due to different politics, ideologies, religions, or other clashes. It's even more tragic if your partner goes thru this change after your relationship got serious I would perhaps consider sharing occasional links to articles or subreddit links or YouTube videos or tweets that prove what you're saying. In other words, show don't tell. I've done it before with people close to me, and I've seen some positive results
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/22 09:44 AM
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Good point, I forgot about the ethno nationalist card they play
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 11:12 AM
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The way I try to explain to moderate-ish feminists: men in the West seem unwilling to talk for the same reasons that women in tradcon societies seem unwilling to talk: self protection. Men in feminist spaces are the target of doxxing, harassment, and defamation just as women are in tradcon spaces. Would you tell those women why they're so insecure and toxic? Of course not, cuz surely you wouldn't do victim blaming. So why start now? (Depending on context, I can moderate or strengthen the tone of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 11:08 AM
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You're entirely correct I will say this: at least the hypocritical Right (whose bullshit I genuinely can't stand) usually don't bring up the gender card. The hypocritical Left (or at least, the feminists) absolutely do. Let me give another example: we know that Biden is the target of way way way more vitriol than Harris. Yet you can easily find feminist voices crying about the alleged sexism behind the anti Harris attacks, while they're silent on the sexism of the anti Biden attacks we know that…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/22 10:55 AM
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Thank you, I will save your link for future reference
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/22 05:23 AM
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Yeah I was wondering "wow a die-hard feminist publication letting this piece go public without censorship?" Too good to be true ofc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/22 03:10 PM
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Gotcha, thx.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 12:27 PM
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I agree. Because Reddit is a company monopolized by feminists, we as a minority have to be 10x more careful than those subs. Double standards is just the name of the game. I used to be upset about this, but in recent times I've decided to divert my energy and passion towards trying to calmly educate and hopefully de-convert gender supremacists towards egalitarianism in other subs I frequent. I'm not always successful but I'm encouraged by my experiences doing this, so far.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 12:16 PM
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Question, would admins penalize mods who share their conversations/interactions between them, esp when the mods feel that the admins are failing to apply the rules in an equal fashion? I ask in case you share proof of feminist brigading with the admins, and the admins do nothing but a wrist slap.... Or even less
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 12:12 PM
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I sadly agree with both you and the poster you reply to Firstly, I want to thank you for making this thread, because it is yet another proof of how sensitive this sub is to generalization of an entire gender, in either direction. We try to practice equality, while the supremacists just preach it Secondly, I want to thank that other poster for those links, as I intend to share them with others, as proof of the double standards of their movement
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 12:05 PM
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This thread and your post has now given me great examples to show skeptics that feminists have an increasing control over the entertainment industry (in this case, movies) . It helps discredit the "feminists are underdog rebels" myth in Western society
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 03:35 AM
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.... Centrism? Really? Not on gender issues, I'm afraid
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 02:39 AM
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Yep, there's so many examples of these two groups getting in bed, figuratively speaking. Namely on body autonomy issues As someone who believes in the statement "any consenting adults can do whatever they want in their private personal lives, including any hobbies" , I just find it's just a hilarious trend to observe, not to mention their cognitive dissonance
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 02:37 AM
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Your story is genuinely inspiring and I hope there are more people in our society who are as self aware and redemptive as you are. Thank you for sharing it with us. I hope you continue sharing it with others who might possibly show signs of joining your anti-sexist path, too
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 02:34 AM
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Because that's the culture they, and even we non trans people, grew up in. As a former feminist, I can tell you that I swallowed their ideology hook line and sinker, because their ideology was status quo power in the environments I was in (namely college). I was a brainwashed kid and simply didn't know any better
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/22 02:32 AM
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TIL
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/22 07:49 AM
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Indeed. Firstly, they are each other's greatest beneficiaries in terms of whipping up political support Secondly, they have lots of common positions. Horseshoe theory in action
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/22 07:05 AM
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My 2 cents: In the West, the status quo incumbents are tradcons and feminists. They have the power; thus the onus is on them to change. As relatively powerless reformers, we egalitarians have much more limited avenues than them. However, thanks to the internet, we can reach out in small numbers and change those few people. Is this a very bleak picture? No doubt. But it's something. At least, until we get a good number of high profile advocates in relatively high profile/powerful places in societ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/22 06:05 AM
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Can I be the social media manager? I can write gud ☺️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/22 06:02 AM
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Here's an upvote cuz I can tell you're coming from a truly positive place. Thank you. Problem: If most feminists were like you, then we egalitarians would have much less qualms embracing your ideology. Unfortunately, you are a very rare sect in your ideology, and vastly outnumbered in almost all levels of sociopolitical stratas by actual misandrists: colleges, tech, entertainment, journalism, NGOs, and even political parties Until the day comes when most feminists not only say, but act and advoc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 01:52 PM
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Indeed and even now, this shouldn't even be a question: the stats give a very clear and unambiguous answer
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 05:43 AM
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Mate, I sincerely want to thank you and that other poster for doing this level of research. I intend to share this with others. Again, thanks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 03:05 PM
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... There are no words.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 03:02 PM
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There's a word to describe them: Femcels. Many feminist subs like nice guys track the incel phenomenon. Likewise, many anti feminist subs like where are all the good men track the femcel phenomenon. It is pretty hilarious to see the desperation and anger as these male incels and women femcels realize their reality as dating failures They are too proud to realize that there are much more productive, positive, less hateful ways to succeed Pro tip for myself: whenever I see people laughing at incel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/22 07:50 AM
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Praise Bill Burr for spreading awareness about this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/22 02:39 AM
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thank you, i will sub to him.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/22 01:11 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate this I don't plan on doing it often but I want to contribute, esp since unlike masculinists, tradcons, or feminists, we egalitarians have no high profile YouTuber/streamer/NGO/celeb/activist/politician that explicitly promotes our values
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/22 01:06 PM
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Yes, their rules are meant to do one thing above all: impose feminist views and terminology and censor anything that may contradict it. The OPs quote from their rules makes that almost explicit Question to this sub: I'm very strongly considering lurking on ML to send occasional PMs to any OP that seems to express doubts about feminism. My intention is to help de convert them from feminism and towards egalitarianism, and perhaps introduce said OP to our sub in a very welcoming, respectful way. I …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/22 12:03 PM
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You make good points. My reply would be: a tiny bigoted oligarchy is little better than a single bigoted dictator ruler Btw I dislike the downvotes against your post, I've upvoted you ITT cuz I believe in encouraging feminists or even Heterodox unpopular posts in our sub, regardless of how much or how little I disagree
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/08/22 03:45 AM
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I’d argue that in male hierarchies winner takes all whereas in female hierarchies the power is more evenly distributed Based on your post, I would assume you're are a feminist because that's more or less what the average feminist believes.... Is my assumption correct? Of course, there are countless myriad of examples that proves this is simply not true. If you wish, we could discuss that. Caveat: I'm interpreting female hierarchy to mean Western feminism, as opposed to some pre agricultural, pre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/22 10:46 PM
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Thank you for having the stomach to engage these supremacists. i personally would never go to hate subs like theirs, but then again I don't like debating in a non neutral platform where you can be banned for challenging sexism I understand the mods in our sub are apprehensive about threads like these, because Reddit admin (who are proven misandrists) may punish our sub for "brigading" when in fact 1) this is not brigading, and 2) feminist subs do it all the time and of course they're seldom if e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/22 09:39 AM
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I kinda agree and disagree with both you and .u/gratis_eekhoorn I agree that the trans movement seems to be losing credibility in the commoner middle ground as well as the Right, in a way that is not true for TERF movement However, within the Left (specifically woke Left), it seems the trans movement are actually winning because their arguments are being much more accepted, and they are placed higher in the Oppression hierarchy than non trans women If I may make an analogy: trans is to TERF, wha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/22 08:59 AM
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Yep. Their chickens are coming home to roost
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/22 08:53 AM
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Oh thank you, I thought I remembered differently but I could be wrong
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/22 12:04 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/wg29zu/update_on_support_group_journey/ This OP has taken very brave steps towards helping male DV victims. Perhaps you may wanna DM her and she can give you some tips I wish we could claim some ownership of NGO space and certain political parties like the feminists have done in my part of the world, because I truly believe the NGO and political space is the only true long term answer to this gender equality
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/22 09:04 AM
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So cowardly for their mods to remove your post and lock it Bet they banned you too? Lol pathetic
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/22 01:22 AM
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I stand corrected, thank you As for capitalism tho: I see it as a contributing factor but not the core cause. As a social democrat, I despise neoliberalism but your claim that "not discussing capitalism must mean you must be ancap" is unfair and misleading. I stand by my view, which is dominant in this sub, that the core cause is Misandry which becomes institutionalized in capitalist structures, such as careers and family makeup academia journalism entertainment media conscription homelessness u…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 06:02 AM
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That's because capitalism, while relevant, is not the core cause of Misandry The core cause is gender hate from both tradcons and feminists. By trying to shift the blame entirely to capitalism, you are absolving Feminists and tradcons from their shitty behaviors and sexist ideologies. If you wish for more details, I'm happy to oblige BTW are you a feminist? Whether you answer yes or no ...How do you think feminists would react if you told them the true culprit of misogyny is not tradcons but rat…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 05:46 AM
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You've worded it better, that's what I meant Think of poor people who voted for more neoliberalism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 04:44 AM
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first of all, i want to sincerely thank you for posting your story. That is a very eventful and honestly traumatic set of experiences you had to go thru. i read thru every single word you wrote. To me, you are already a freaking heroine, i mean it. secondly, i too am deeply thankful to the existence of trans men and women. Even though i think many of them (esp trans women) are unfortunately misandrist (and there's many examples of this), i still wish them to continue their currently meteoric ris…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 02:37 AM
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where do you get this weird idea that LWMA is ancaps? that is diametrically opposite to this sub's reason to exist. perhaps you are confusing us to Red P**l types?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/22 01:49 AM
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may i ask you: how did you find out about men's issues? and how did you come to sympathize with Gender Egalitarianism as distinct from Feminism? i ask because one of my hobbies is to try to calmly engage (both male or female) feminists with the goal of de-converting them and having them embrace egalitarianism. Of course, they don't need to totally abandon feminism, but if i can just plant a seed in their heads that what we egalitarians say is more correct, then hopefully that seed can grow and c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/22 02:31 AM
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Very true There are women who practice self hate. There are men who practice self hate. They will never admit it, but the end result is the same: "voting" against one's best interests
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/22 01:46 AM
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dude IIRC the OP is a woman. I'm really humbled by people like OP who actually takes IRL action like this. It reminds us we have allies, even if their voices are silenced in MSM and social media
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/22 01:39 AM
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All true. I will also remind: we know Reddit, esp major subreddits, is disproportionately feminist dominated. We Also know the staff behind most famous Tech companies, esp Social media ones, are feminist dominated. Copy pasting this Proof that Reddit admins are misandrist: https://imgur.com/a/pRpSAYc https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/v8xhgj/im_surprised_at_how_little_women_hate_men_they/ https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/oyrav5/rmisandry_has_been_banned/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 10:49 PM
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There's no question that some MRA are misogynist. Of course, their numbers and political/media/financial influence absolutely pale in comparison to the misandrists in feminist or tradcon circles, but they exist. I personally embrace social libertarianism and egalitarianism. I always try to remind myself and others why that label fits. As a gender egalitarian, we are political orphans in any country. Seriously, name one country who has a major political party who explicitly adopts our values. The…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 05:25 AM
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I have to disagree with your last sentence As someone whose #1 passion in terms of social problems is gender inequality, I believe that feminists spreading the demonstrable lie that the draft is somehow more anti woman than anti man is absolutely worth criticizing Yes, saying we should sue these supremacists is silly. But ignoring them is a terrible idea One of my hobbies is attempting to de convert the extremists. I'm not always successful. But I enjoy it, and it's my calling. I've made some pr…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 04:29 AM
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Depends. In a world where misogynistic and misandrists have roughly similar parity in power over our society, I'd be inclined to agree they are similar, like you say. Unfortunately we in the West don't live in such a world. There are plenty of contexts where the tradcon is dominant, and plenty where the feminist is dominant. We egalitarians seem to be an endangered specie wherever we go
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 03:55 AM
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Where is the lawsuit comment? Granted, I'm at work so can't watch the video but I don't think OP said we should sue anyone Secondly, as far as I know, this sub is the least misogynist of all the men's subs. Can you name me which is the least misandrist of all the feminist subs ? I've been trying to find it and coming up empty, because I'm interested in engaging them in a way that promotes gender egalitarianism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 03:41 AM
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As a gender egalitarian, my opponents are tradcons from the Right and feminists from the Left The feminists who mobilize these media publications are opponents of equality, and the Right wingers who wish to preserve men's roles as overworked donkeys are also opponents of equality For us gender egalitarians, it's a shitty world where we are outnumbered
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 01:54 AM
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I just typed a long response and then found out that OP account is suspended ..... Mysterious 😐
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 12:44 AM
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I totally agree To OP: What does body autonomy mean to you? Does it mean you believe in it..... Except when it happens to please the evil Male gaze™? My answer is, why the arbitrary limits? Sometimes body autonomy is expressed in a way that pleases straight women. Sometimes it pleases lesbians. Sometimes it pleases Gay men. Often it's straight men. Sometimes all of the above. Sometimes none of the above As long as you practice body autonomy without hurting anyone else, why are feminists imposing…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/22 12:43 AM
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That's such a fantastic analogy I'm totally stealing that....ty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/22 01:33 AM
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Questions: is there a master list of all the trustworthy non profit charities or causes we can donate to, in each country? is there a master list of all the trustworthy small and medium sized companies we can do business with, in each country? This can include sellers within Amazon or Valve's Steam, etc etc I'm eager to share such lists from this community
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 01:38 PM
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Indeed I agree Gender roles are so predominant because mostly of two main reasons: right wing tradcons and modern Western Feminists. How can we ignore or excuse the authors of hate and prejudice? Imagine if we told Feminists to ally with tradcon Right on their fight against tradcon gender roles .... Also for the OP, check this and then tell us again how feminists aren't the problem: https://np.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 06:33 AM
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Indeed I agree Gender roles are so predominant because mostly of two main reasons: right wing tradcons and modern Western Feminists. How can we ignore or excuse the authors of hate and prejudice? Imagine if we told Feminists to ally with tradcon Right on their fight against tradcon gender roles ....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 03:04 AM
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I unfortunately have to agree with /u/Aimless-Nomad OP you have to remember that social media companies are disproportionately staffed by feminists. It is one of the many Institutions of power that they have successfully monopolized these companies don't give a shit about either free speech principles, or sticking to facts, or being against sexism, or being pro gender equality they only care about profits, imposing their ideological narratives, or both. This includes Reddit and I wouldn't be sur…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 02:39 AM
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Damn that's an incredible list Def saving that, ty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/22 02:36 AM
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They're probably the same clowns who are unaware that ma'am/madam is literally French for my lady, and monsieur is literally French for my sir
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/22 09:32 AM
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I'm gonna do a slight variation of OPs point by sharing this 2016 article (written by author Elena Rosenthal) about the failures of Lesbian only bars in Portland : https://www.wweek.com/culture/2016/11/30/who-crushed-the-lesbian-bars-a-new-minefield-of-sexual-politics/ In May 2022, that 6 year old article was referenced in a different publication: https://psuvanguard.com/queer-community-reacts-to-portlands-new-lesbian-bar/ My favorite parts of the recent article: In addition, if Rosenthal’s theo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 03:18 PM
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I agree with you And /u/a-man-from-earth. The tradcon Right is absolutely no friend of us gender egalitarians. I mean we literally just had the GOP veto that vet bill that Jon Stewart was promoting, God bless him. Many more examples like that. How is the Right defending crap like that and pretend they're on men's side? Maybe I'm too tin foily but when I read posters like /u/Cookiecuttermaxy I am tempted to suspect s/he's only here as a bad actor to make the rest of us look bad. It's unfortunate …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/22 06:42 AM
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As a unapologetic gender egalitarian and body autonomy supporter, let me say clearly: discrimination and prejudice against gay men is reprehensible and condemnable because homophobia and Misandry are reprehensible and condemnable. Gay men are our brothers just as lesbians are our fellow sisters. Leaving politics aside, that is a statement of fact. It is sad to see tradcons discriminate against our brothers of any sexuality. Covid has revealed a lot of monsters in our society, as OP rightfully po…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/22 01:07 PM
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Disagree The author has a brief one line acknowledgement that men die more, but then says "see? UN says the same thing so HRC was right". If you cannot see what I'm saying, let's flip the genders here: imagine if author wrote an article defending a MRA who publicly claimed that men are the "primary victims of domestic violence" by hyper-focusing on the (very real) fact that male victims are less likely to report their abuser, and the (very real) fact that authorities are much less likely to take…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/22 01:44 PM
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Given how deeply misandrist the social conservative ideologies are, I'd argue that those books weren't mr to begin with
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/22 11:33 AM
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I'm out of the loop What happened
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/22 10:06 AM
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Agreed and wrt that Clinton quote, the feminists who control Snopes have also taken great pains to completely downplay the following gender gap in fatality rate of war gender gap in injury rate (both acute as well as chronic long term) of war gender gap in untreated PTSD from direct war involvement burden of conscription https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/hillary-clinton-victims-of-war/ Just in case anyone has any doubts about who controls Snopes (there's other examples too)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/22 08:48 AM
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My two cents: The institutions of power in the West is overwhelmingly monopolized by feminists and tradcons. In the US and elsewhere, the feminists have successfully expropriated power in : colleges tech, and esp big Tech, and esp social media companies non-right wing journalism, esp tech/finance/entertainment/sports journalism entertainment industry, including sports gender based NGOs Democratic party (this one's controversial because the feminists are dragging their feet on codifying Roe) The …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/22 02:28 AM
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My bad, and you're right, that is indeed the correct meaning
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/22 09:59 AM
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As the other poster said, my intent is to explicitly recognize systemic gender inequality while being simultaneously mindful that women also experience these jobs too. In other words, I was trying to balance gender inclusivity with awareness of gender inequality That, and also to counter the sheer ignorance and hypocrisy on the subject matter from certain journalists/activists Think of it this way: there are many systemic issues in society that disproportionately hurt women more than men, and so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/22 03:29 PM
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I really wish I could find that infamous screenshot of the SFU newsletter article from British Columbia, bemoaning how "1 in 4 homeless are women". Can't seem to find that gem EDIT: i found it!!! : https://i.imgur.com/50Xxz98.png BTW I like to use the following in my debates with feminists to prove their movement's very obvious double standards during covid and the year 2020 (pasting it here): Lemme give you a covid example: you and I can easily, very easily, find journalistic articles, podcast …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/07/22 08:30 AM
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It seems like the remove of appeals and dimissing complaints if there are repeated ones would be something a lot of feminist and general social justice subs would have issues with too. I'm sorry but I strongly doubt they give a shit unless and until it affects their side - and even then, whatever reaction would only be concerning their side
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/22 05:26 AM
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IMO you should watch all the creator's content and decide for yourself Otherwise you may be missing things that are nasty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/22 05:22 AM
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But does she blame the victim, like most of her peers do? Or does she recognize systemic misandry as least some of the time? I don't need her to be totally on the same page as me, but I do need her to be at least somewhat reasonable and non-double standards when talking about systemic inequalities and oppression
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/22 04:57 AM
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As a Kyle fan those are very fair criticisms I have another, he really needs to upgrade his content instead of blaming algo again
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/22 04:55 AM
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I can handle woke as long as it's not reeking of double standards Unfortunately TYT doesn't pass the smell test
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/22 04:54 AM
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100 percent agree I mean sure, we can technically discuss things like relationship inequalities or conscription inequalities without delving into economic equality But in today's capitalist neoliberal world, that is a rare exception. Abortion, career inequality, day care needs, there's too many ways that women and men normies live a very different lives than our overlords I'm personally a Kyle fan but not TYT, and a huge part of that is due to gender politics and sexism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/22 03:27 AM
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100 percent agree. Watching feminists try to keep quiet on this, and then when confronted they try to defend such very very obvious gender inequality is really a sight to see. It's comparable to when I ask them: why do you think some people care alot about smashing the glass ceiling, but not the glass floor? Or to put it another way: How do you feel about equalizing the gender ratio of so called bad jobs (ie. Those that are dirty, dangerous, physical or manual, socially isolating, risky.... Thin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/22 10:52 PM
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I just google Reddit shoe on head Should be the first result
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/22 10:51 AM
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Shoe is a genuinely high quality YouTuber. She's one of those YouTubers who is simultaneously anti Wokémon and anti Trump (ex: the stream she did with other similar YouTubers during the 2020 election, and her bonkers video taped just before that Jan 6 riots, at that location) , and plus she's anti modern feminism/misandry, anti pedo, and also anti certain parts of manosphere . Her fan base is also interesting. Her unofficial subreddit is clearly feminist, and so are more than half of her YouTube…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/07/22 12:35 AM
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That's a good point You know, I don't really have a clear answer to your question. I mean, I'm lucky I was never a victim or needed any support group, but if I hypothetically was, then...I want to say I would reach out to any men's support group that would treat me with dignity and seriousness The lack of male candidates is sadly a result of lack of media attention and cultural awareness. Ya know what? I still say go for it, and despite occasional suspicion, I bet majority would see you as their…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/22 03:02 PM
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It sounds you're passionate about this. I first want to sincerely thank you, and am genuinely impressed. One of my mottos: don't knock it till you've tried it , esp for something like volunteering for a cause you believe in. Go for it. If it's up your alley, great. If not, try giving them your feedback after a couple months. Since I'm sure they're very small org , you can make a bigger impact IMO
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/22 02:08 PM
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Wow I didn't know this. Will share, ty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 12:38 AM
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Not just on trans issue but also in body autonomy issues and natalism Ask yourself, which two groups in the West are the biggest source of slut shaming against women and perv shaming against men? Which two groups try to cancel women who choose to profit from their looks ? And cancel her primarily male audience? Which two groups try to cancel artists or game devs who draw characters a certain way? Which two groups want to make it easier/cheaper for working moms to pop out kids (financially speaki…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/22 10:51 PM
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You know what, you make great and valid counter points I will retire that quote. However the rest of my post stands
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/22 10:51 AM
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Yikes!!! Thank you for letting me know.... Thankfully this is the very first time I used that quote in any context
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/22 10:47 AM
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"to see who's in power in society, find out who you cannot criticize non-anonymously without significant repercussions" All hate movements are about power. And some have become far more successful than others. The solution is egalitarianism. My recommended solution to 99% of all non-powerful egalitarians: do not discuss controversial socio political issues IRL unless you really are close to that person And contribute anonymously via the Internet. There's many ways: anonymously share this subredd…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/22 03:54 AM
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I agree, although based on my observations on colleges, I would also add that this extremism predates social media I started college just before the iPhone came out, and it was very sexist even then.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/22 03:36 AM
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I have to agree with u/a-man-from-earth on this: OP give us some examples of what is offensive or unwelcoming to you. You don't have to give receipts, no need for links. Just specify a few examples, in your own words I'm doing my best to be egalitarian. Tell me how we can reform
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 05:29 AM
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I understand better now, that's a reasonable view. I agree that conscription is a kind of slavery, esp when you see how recruits are treated in non Western countries. It's awful. But I agree with other posters: an anti conscription stance is like anti world hunger, pro world peace stance: We all want it, but it is so utterly unrealistic that it's simply not an acceptable argument if you live next to countries like Russia Furthermore I and many others in our community do have a major problem with…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 03:45 AM
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So then I can't help but ask: are you therefore ok with male only conscription in countries without the option of eliminating the draft, ex: living next to Russia? After all, their argument is that men are physically superior soldiers And are you ok with domestic labor and childcare being primarily by female partner instead of split evenly with her male partner? I ask because based on the voting patterns in this sub, my opinion seems to be the majority. At Least that's my impression Side note: S…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 02:39 AM
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So here's the thing: The vast majority of men and women today don't give a damn about gender egalitarianism. They're either for feminism, tradcon, or masculinism. And if we only care about promoting what's popular, then none of this is a problem. Male only conscription? That's popular in Ukraine, and I suspect Eastern Europe as well in general. But we're not here for what's popular; we're here for equality. For many of us, equality means fifty fifty. It means proportionality. Ukraine soldiers ar…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 02:00 AM
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Plenty of people = plenty of men, not women. Ukraine being a great example. Think of how feminists oppose the fact that so many women voluntarily choose to cut back on their with hours to care for domestic work, esp kids, compared to their male partners (esp during recession or covid lockdowns)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 01:49 AM
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That's fair But I specifically prefer to explicitly call out high profile advocates or public figure activists. These are their role models, and they are loudly screaming their views on social media..... Except when they suddenly go silent on certain issues. That silence from high profile activists is what interests me enough to make it one of my main points of evidence
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 02:18 PM
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For any feminists reading this, ask yourself: How many high profile figures in your team (not just Latvian, but from any country) has publicly criticized this and advocated for mandatory service for both genders ? And what does their silence say about your/their ideology? And the fact that this is just one of many examples where your team and tradcon conservatives share the same position? And don't give me the "we oppose all conscription" cop out, these countries are living next to freaking Russ…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 01:31 PM
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One meaningful step I've started doing a few years ago is to explicitly call circumcision a euphemism, and to promote the word usage of MGM
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/07/22 12:31 PM
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I will save this link, Ty OP As a Canadian, Lemme say this country is utterly hopeless on this topic. All of our national political parties except one is monopolized by misandrists, and the other one is GOP lite. No thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/22 08:05 AM
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I just had very jaded experiences before, where they just say very vague platitudes just to get rid of you, or off their tails I hope I'm wrong
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/07/22 12:44 AM
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Very well done OP at the same time I'm a very "I'll believe it when I see IRL results"and "actions speak way louder than words" person when it comes to NGOs, governments, and public figures making promises to constituents
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/07/22 10:47 PM
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Very good points. As passionate as we are about gender issues, not everything in society is about gender. In fairness, even I can forget that, sometimes. To the OP: speaking as an egalitarian, I'd say that the most powerful tool in my mind in upholding egalitarianism is to flip the gender roles in any given scenario or IRL situation. You gave porn as your example, and so I'd ask, what is the most popular female equivalent to men's porn? IMO the answer is erotica. Just like we can point to countl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 06:23 AM
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Good points When I try to de convert Redditors, one of my favorite tactics is to contrast how gender roles are treated between the egalitarian way vs the feminist way. Something like this: In jobs: Wwhy do you think some people care alot about smashing the glass ceiling, but not the glass floor? Or to put it another way: How do you feel about equalizing the gender ratio of so called bad jobs (ie. Those that are dirty, dangerous, physical or manual, socially isolating, risky.... Think of miners, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 04:24 AM
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And it's not just bodies It's gendered slurs in general. how many times have the supremacists criticized male gendered slurs (let alone use them and promote them) compared to female gendered ones? That's a rhetorical question, natch These are all great examples I love using, to help de convert misandrists and show them the enormous differences between their movement and our egalitarianism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/22 05:32 AM
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Manoj did I ever say I love you? Cuz I do 😊
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/22 05:02 AM
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100 percent agree
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/22 10:47 AM
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You're not wrong because, as I said, the pro life movement is a setback to men's rights too but they see us as literally part of the enemy, they're very clear on that. Plus there's also the absolutely ginormous power imbalance in this egalitarian vs feminist dynamic, at least here in Western society. So I'm saying: let's be pro choice, but not pretend we're on the same side
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/22 10:09 AM
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Thank you for your understanding. Based on your posts ITT Lemme say that I genuinely wish more feminists and MRA were like you. We really need more sane people like you. Unfortunately, that's not happening This sub is the least misogynist of all men subreddits. I'm searching for the least misandrist of all women's subreddits. Let's just say I'm still looking PS: if you ever have trouble in your life, and it's related to gender issues, feel free to post a new thread here. We're cool 😊
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/22 09:54 AM
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I totally agree and I seriously want to praise the OP for being so self aware and so anti misandrist compared to most of her peers However. I do want to play a little Devil's advocate: I simultaneously sympathize and disagree with those posters that OP encountered. Their reaction is not from pride, but from being demanded to fight for their worst haters, bigots, and enemies Think about it: when your worst haters and sexist enemies demand you fight with them, but they refuse to admit your plight,…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/22 09:32 AM
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I read your entire OP. I can immediately tell this is something you've been meaning to share for a long time, and I want you to know that for us gender egalitarians, your story and your experiences are very valid. And honestly, I don't think I can find anything in your OP that I disagree with. Like you, it is very very visible that the word transmisogyny has gained currency but trans misandry has not, and probably never will. As a result, I am far more concerned for MTF trans than I am FTM trans…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/06/22 06:36 AM
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Yep and for those saying "I won't have sex until this changes!" , that is either 1) a lie, or 2) they already weren't having sex anyways. And i say that as someone who thinks those SC decision is an enormous travesty
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 08:42 AM
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However, I do wonder if it might provide a fresh start to promote gender-equal reproductive rights. Lemme remove any doubts rn with this: No. I am very much in favor of abortion rights, but I am also tired of one-sidedness around reproductive rights, where it is considered normal to expect men to support the right of women to choose with no reciprocity. Indeed I'm with you Unfortunately supremacist movements don't care for such nuance and reciprocity. After all, ask yourself how many activists h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 07:10 AM
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Very very good find I will save this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/06/22 01:48 AM
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I see what you mean. That's a very fair point, and I was not even aware I was doing that. I should've said that this sub is the least misogynist of all the androcentric subs, and that i was looking for a sub that is the least misandrist of the women centric subs
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 11:02 PM
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May I ask what part of my phrasing is problematic I genuinely don't know
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 10:39 PM
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If their mods did not practice censorship, I would go there regularly to try to de convert them I hope you can do so on our behalf, or maybe pm them to come to our sub. Emphasizing that we anti misandrists do not believe in blaming the victim
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 01:49 PM
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I unfortunately am a little more cynical with that sub. To me it is another feminist subreddit, just with more male posters. That's it. Same anger, same hate, same gender supremacy, and of course the same double standards
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 01:22 PM
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Thank you for sharing your story, i really truly appreciate it May I ask you: is this sub the most fair minded, egalitarian, and anti misogynist + anti misandrist of any subreddit? Basically I'm trying to find out how many LWMA-like subs there are (that aren't half dead!), where all men, all women, regardless if trans or not, are explicitly seen/valued/treated as fellow equals. Let's just say, I only know this sub
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 10:21 AM
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I'm regularly impressed by the level of nuance and fair minded perspective I encounter in this sub. Yours is the latest example Here's an upvote
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/06/22 10:17 AM
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First of all, welcome OP. You're not alone, and unlike the supremacists, we take your experiences seriously without trying to femsplain you down Secondly, as a gender egalitarian , I definitely see egalitarianism as the sane middle way, having borrowed ideas from feminism, MRA, mgtow, trans movement, and others. Their ideas, minus their hate and their censorship and double standards, results in egalitarianism Thirdly, I'm not a fan of JBP either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/22 07:10 AM
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You're not wrong OP. This is one of the reasons why I'm no longer calling myself liberal or leftist. Instead, I call myself egalitarian, or gender egalitarian. In fact, I usually add the follow up "instead of feminist", which almost inevitably leads to counterreplies from feminist posters. I've become better at debating them, and as long as they're reasonably good faith posters (they exist!) , I try to de-convert them and encourage them to embrace egalitarianism. If they're bad faith posters, th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/06/22 12:36 AM
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"male privilege"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/22 10:57 PM
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His sin for being the wrong gender, alas /s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/22 10:56 PM
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Thanks brother
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 12:41 PM
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thanks for FYI recently in a diff thread, automod kept removing my post until the URL in my post was done in a very very specific way.... i wish automod would just format it for us, but ah well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 12:32 PM
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Ah yes signifier, the male feminist. Of course, voices like his have a magnitude more views/clicks than egalitarian and anti misandrist ones. See this comment chain for why he's such a repulsive pundit: https://reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/v89b9x/krystal_ball_analyses_how_dominant_neoliberal/ibsjdys?context=3 OP, with all due respect, I would suggest you check our community instead of sexist ones like his channel
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 10:11 AM
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More specifically, this is called gender determinism: it's the sexist idea that your gender makes your personality. There's also cultural determinism, political determinism, ethnic or racial determinism.... In fact, OP, the best way to demonstrate to people why this is incredibly wrong, is to make direct analogies to their racial/cultural/ethnic/religious equivalents
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 07:44 AM
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One of the hilarious aspects of the trans activist movement is that, despite their enormous misandry, feminists are their primary ideological victims LMAO Love that Karma
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 04:48 AM
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I have enormous respect for your bravery and self awareness and honesty You are like men who have terrible experiences/injustices due to women and (understandably) channel their experiences into generalized sexism against the entire group. But, unlike most men and women who fall into that trap, you realized this, and you realize you can escape this trap I can tell that your son is in good hands, ma'am. Please do not hesitate to reach out to our community. Most of us genuinely want to help oursel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 07:40 AM
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All I did was link to a recent thread in this exact same sub....
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/22 12:00 PM
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Unfortunately, I think you're probably right https://imgur.com/a/pRpSAYc Https://np.reddit.com/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates/comments/v8xhgj/im_surprised_at_how_little_women_hate_men_they/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/22 11:59 AM
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You're absolutely correct and that reminds me: what porn is to men, erotica is to women. Just like we got women enjoying porn, I'm sure we got plenty men enjoying erotica, even if the author directed it towards a female audience BTW I oppose all kink/hobby shamers (as long as the hobby only involves consenting adults) coming from feminists, tradcons, social cons, etc. Sex workers, only fans, erotica, those women who sell used clothing online..... We all free adults
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/22 01:30 AM
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To be clear, I didn't mean I think I'm better than anyone else. I mean, I've seen so many broken families and exploited men and women, that's all I'm saying.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 12:24 PM
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Here's how I describe it to people: The Right wants to preserve traditional power hierarchies, (as we've all been told repeatedly from our post modernist Wokémon professors.) The Left wants to..... Preserve those same exact power hierarchies, but just simply flip it upside down. We egalitarians want to do what the Left wanted to but then abandoned: challenge the fucking structure entirely.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 11:43 AM
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In what way? I'm open to being corrected. I've been successfully corrected before. Show me in detail how and where I'm mistaken BTW it appears the mod removed your post, which I don't agree with.... If you wish, you can dm me.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 09:39 AM
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Don't entirely agree Firstly, why can't we egalitarians multitask? We can challenge sexism from both the Right and the Left Secondly, generally speaking the feminists control many of the institutions of power in Western societies: almost the entirety of Big Tech and just Tech general: Apple, Google, MS, Netflix, Twitter, Reddit, and yes, even Amazon and Facebook (this means the Left controls most of internet infrastructure, minus non Western places like China and Russia) almost the entirety of p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 09:12 AM
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Few things: I should've said "we men and women reject traditional monogamy relationships" (living together in one household, men being the provider who is physically and mentally strong) instead of simply monogamous relationship. To be clear, I'm also not a polygamist, although (unlike feminists) I've nothing against it as long as it only involves consenting adults pick up is a entirely different topic. Again, I've nothing against it as long as we respect consenting adults, but that's just a hob…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 08:58 AM
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The stereotypical male ideal of the brave, buff Chad is exactly that: a stereotype. A misandrist trope that is very popular in entertainment media (including female dominated markets, such as literature and female fantasies in the form of erotica). Any man who tries to chase after this sexist trope will end up in the similar position as any woman who tries to chase after her own tropes: disappointments at best, and in serious personal trouble at worst My solution: unplug. The Chinese bros have a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/22 08:27 AM
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The supremacists in the West hold multiple very crucial institutions of power. And that's not changing in our lifetimes I've decided to concentrate on calmly debating feminists in certain subreddits in a way that effectively sells the enormous differences between egalitarianism and feminism. IMO I've become better and better at it, and I also enjoy it Others do podcasts Others do YouTube Others do infographics Others do comic strips There are infinite methods, but from a position of much less po…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 11:53 PM
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Question for y'all: As an egalitarian, I think I'm pretty good at debating feminists one on one. And I enjoy doing it. And I do it in a way that sells egalitarianism well But I can only do that if it's a platform relatively free of hypocrisy/double standards and censorship by mods. Does that describe men's Lib sub?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 10:53 PM
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OP this is the first time I hear your story. Thank you for sharing it I wish you all nothing but love and happiness. And thank you for seeing the misandry of many of your peers, I believe you will serve as an inspiration for people around you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 09:58 AM
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I'm a social democrat, not a democratic socialist A democratic socialist is a socialist who wants to achieve power through democratic means. They support public ownership of property, but they don’t want to achieve control through Leninist means. When they look at communism, they don’t see a failed, unworkable ideology; they see a good idea that was subverted by dictatorship. A social democrat is NOT a socialist. A social democrat is a capitalist, albeit one who believes that unfettered capitali…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/06/22 09:52 AM
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I agree with you OP, it is not up to men's activists to change its name or label. I personally call myself egalitarian and not MRA, but even if you do, why be ashamed? It's up to us to challenge tradcon right wingers like JBP and Ben Shapiro and demonstrate that tradcons and masculinists are also misandrists
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 03:46 PM
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if it was brigading, the mods should've pinned a post making that clear. given Reddit history, i think unfortunately it's fair to assume the worst motives from the mods
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/06/22 04:32 AM
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Thanks for copying that, as otherwise I would've missed it. /u/humblyhuman888, I would like to ask you, why do you think the mods removed your post, esp given how humanist and positive it is? I suspect you already know the answer, but perhaps I can make it explicit: they are misandrists. As misandrists, they don't like male positivity threads. /u/humblyhuman888, we here are gender egalitarians. Many of us, including myself, used to be feminists. I can go into many details as to how and why femin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 02:54 PM
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The vast majority of us did the latter It's sad to see him do the former. No real excuse IMO
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 02:44 PM
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Is he anti misandrist? Does he use words like misandrist and misandry? Acknowledging those words are to me a big sign Also does he have a podcast version? I just consume audio content only
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 02:42 PM
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Does he have podcast? I've nothing against tiktok but I mostly consume audio only
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 02:40 PM
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I'd like to recommend you Breaking points Realignment Both are podcasts with two hosts. The former is a daily US politics show with a conservative male host and progressive female host The latter is mostly interview podcast. Granted, neither of them are really focused on gender stuff but they're often very insightful and at least BP is quite anti Wokémon without going into Trump Maga territory. BP also has YouTube channel with short clips of their podcast segments
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/22 02:39 PM
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Yet another reminder that the men's Lib subreddit is just like any other feminist subreddit, only more male posters Remember folks: anytime they blame masculinity or patriarchy, ask "why are you blaming the victims? Why use euphemisms? When women bring down women (lots of examples), why don't y'all blame femininity instead?" I've had a lot of fun seeing them try to deal with their cognitive dissonance on that one
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/22 10:47 PM
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I'm a big fan of your podcast. Will it be continued?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/22 12:49 AM
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I used to believe that but I've changed my mind gradually on this: like most supremacist movements, feminism has a spectrum that goes from sympathizer -> moderate -> openly sexist -> complete extremist die hard. I'm not saying they're all redeemable. But I'm saying there's millions who are in the "sympathizer" stage who can be. They are honest enough to see the enormous flaws with modern Western feminism, if we egalitarians debate them in a calm, factual manner in a neutral, non censorship envir…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/22 10:27 AM
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What subreddits are the closest thing to a feminist version of this sub? What I mean is, this sub is arguably the most welcoming to feminists among all the men's issues communities. So what feminist subreddits are the most welcoming to men's advocates? Gender critical is banned Egalitarianism is very low traffic, not to mention no feminist ever visits there PPD is just about sex and relationship topics Over the years I've become better at debating them, but it has to be a somewhat neutral platfo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/06/22 08:37 AM
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You're a freaking hero for your work you've done in your life. People like you inspire egalitarians like me and I want to sincerely thank you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/22 02:07 PM
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Indeed, and is yet another piece of evidence that in the West, the feminists hold status quo incumbency in many Institutions of power (colleges, MSM, big Tech and social media, certain political parties, entertainment industry, etc)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/22 02:03 PM
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No wonder SF and Cali in general continues being such a shit hole That said, systemic misandry as described by OP is by no means confined to just the West coast. One random example: the g board I use to type this post refuses to recognize the word misandrist/misandry unless I manually write it. Same is true for all keyboard spell checkers
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/06/22 02:20 AM
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I couldn't agree more OP, the question is not why are women objectified. The question is, why don't they/we discuss male objectification as much as female? male ideal body in entertainment media* male partial nudity depictions being normalized male lives and limbs: conscription, dangerous jobs are disproportionately burdened upon men male suicide rates male substance abuse rates male homelessness There's so many examples of each of these points. If your friend is not likely to ostracized you, th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/05/22 10:52 PM
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I wonder if part of the issue with talking to women is that men's viewpoints and problems just aren't understood by women. Not because women can't understand men but because as a society we've never prioritized this. You've put it in words way better than I did. Thx, that's precisely what I meant to say. Btw this is off topic, but your name is very familiar to me. Your threads IMO are very inspiring, educational. I would like to thank you for your continued contribution, and would like to tell y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/22 12:42 PM
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I am a strong supporter of men talking more about their problems, I really am. however the following caveats apply I believe in most cases, men trying to talk about their issues to women will end badly, unless you're close to her. You are likely to get ostracized and cancelled at worst, or unintentionally misunderstood at best I also believe men should be talking with either close male friends and family first, or failing that, talk to communities like us, in an anonymous setting. If you instead…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/22 12:09 PM
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I randomly came upon your thread I want to thank you for making this announcement, as a Canadian I will make my purchases from them from now on EDIT: their website could really use an editor though...
/r/MensRights28/05/22 11:37 AM
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I just checked it out... .... Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:45 AM
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I have zero desire to create any sub, let alone become a mod. Alas, I have a life to live. Anyways if you wish to PM me some of your recommendations I'd love to check it out
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:37 AM
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I didn't know they were calling for violence In that case, yes, I agree the ban was deserved. The thing is, after a fair number of unsupported, spurious accusations of inviting violence, I've become very skeptical of such accusations. Anyways, I ain't shedding a tear for that sub, I hardly knew ya
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:35 AM
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Amazing. And I think we all know precisely which Reddit employee brought down the hammer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:27 AM
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Woah TIL! any idea why?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:21 AM
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Yeah I'm not surprised: they block comments unless you're mod approved. That's actually worse than the standard regular censorship we see I believe the gender critical sub is similar
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:16 AM
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Looking for a subreddit that is like this one, except less focused on sex and relationships, and much more on general gender and sexual issues from a sociological perspective. Some examples career issues within the sociology of gender health issues within sociology of gender body autonomy issues for both genders and especially, debate over the parameters of gender equality and double standards This sub should be dominated by neither feminist nor masculinists, but somewhere neutral. However, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:00 AM
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