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In modern bureaucracies, the bureaucrats are always blameless and have 0 responsibilities for their actions or the actions of their subordinates.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:07 PM
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I was falsely accused by my ex-wife, two weeks ago I actually talked about it with my girlfriend, she immediately took my side and called my ex unreasonable and encouraged me to fight for custody. I would say that I'm very lucky with my girlfriend... But my ex-wife was also amazing and supportive during the first half decade of our marriage. She was an amazing wife... Until she wasn't. Before I had my current girlfriend I was dating a woman who herself was claiming that she falsely accused of ab…
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:05 PM
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This has been an ongoing trend for 30 years, but where you previously had these types of songs balanced out with songs of women loving men, the latter category is becoming rarer in the West. The last song I can recall that had a woman actually desiring a man was "Unholy" and the female singer is a transwoman.
/r/MensRights12/05/25 11:01 PM
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Imagine this being any other demographic.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:42 AM
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Like me, but I couldn't be with a woman who had the delusion that being rounder was somehow healthy.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:41 AM
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From my observations, fat women skinny shame, skinny women fat shame. I remember reading an article many years ago that if you had a same-sex friend who was obese you're more likely to gain weight, and if that person was fit, you're more likely to become fit yourself. This is likely because friends want to shame out-groups and women are more group-oriented than men.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:40 AM
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Obviously, one only needs to look at which group of people is afraid to be seen outside of their house without wearing thick layers of make-up to mask their real face. This is one of the many reasons why I prefer tomboys.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:38 AM
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I can read from your writing style that you are Autistic, my guess is that the previous posts were deleted because you cover too many topics at once, it's best to split this into 3 or 4 posts. And while I agree with most of what you wrote, I have archived (Archive.today) it for you so it does still "exist somewhere". Regarding your observations, I would personally say that I agree with you that most transphobia is just misandry and it's a shame that males with feminine traits are often mocked in…
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:35 AM
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"Male immigrants are the problem", yet these very same women also protest against mostly female immigration, as in Sweden the Feminists wanting to limit immigration from Thailand and the Philippines because it's mostly female immigration and obviously "Swedish men are exploiting them".
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:28 AM
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Reddit in general is an extremely pro-female space, just look at any relationship problem, if a man complains he has to "man up" and "be patient", if a woman does so, she has to "dump him". I recently saw a post where a woman was shunned for asking a man his relationship history to him and everyone just said "dump him" because she had the idea that he might have been promiscuous, his promiscuity is "irresponsible", but imagine a man asking the same, that would be "entitled", but a woman being co…
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:24 AM
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When the Cologne attacks happened, Feminists were marching in the streets of Amsterdam blaming all men, including Dutchmen. Remember, they view every male as an enemy.
/r/MensRights19/04/25 09:21 AM
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You can't always have your first option, only a handful of people are attractive and most people are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:50 PM
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Archive first, then share the archive.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 10:02 AM
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Engage in dialectic, not debate. Debate is irrelevant, we should put misandry under a microscope but never entertain the ideas of the misandrists. You should find sympathetic people and create your own journal or group, activism is in the dialectic.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 10:00 AM
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I was with my 1 year old when a man threatened me, I called the police, the man who threatened me ran away the moment the police showed up, his girlfriend came, the police then took her side. I had no idea who these people were, but then the cop told me to apologise to HER.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 09:54 AM
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I wonder if a class action lawsuit is possible, we should employ lawfare wherever possible.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 09:50 AM
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I was on a date a few months ago, a woman in her mid-30's and all she wanted was to freeze her eggs, she spent tens of thousands of Euro's on it, I didn't want to tell her that the vast majority of women who do this will never have children. Even women that don't hate men, have good fathers, and were raised to like male things can often end up childless because of high standards.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 09:49 AM
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Any woman that doesn't care about you is unworthy of your love and attention. Cut them out of your life, your life improves without them.
/r/MensRights18/11/24 09:46 AM
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I have a subscription with which I can travel for free in trains every weekend and I often listen to random people discuss things, one thing I noticed is that 90% of what women talk about is either men in their lives or male celebrities. I'm convinced that 90% of women's brains just think about men, even the type of woman that vehemently tries to avoid males still spend most of their time talking a about idealised fictional males. Oddly enough, I rarely hear males talk about females at all. It's…
/r/MensRights18/11/24 09:46 AM
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Traditional Conservatives hated men for centuries before the Feminists existed, A Voice for Men has a large library of articles showing how most of our modern divorce laws and pro-female hiring practices can be traced to 19th century laws and legal practices. Feminists later took what the Tradcons made and expanded it creating "Misandry, Inc.".
/r/MensRights18/11/24 09:37 AM
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A man gets what he can negotiate and most women have essentially made it so most men have to pay for dates. If a woman pays for the date, usually there isn't a second date unless you're exceptionally attractive AND found a woman who doesn't enforce misandric gender roles. This year, I've had issues with multiple women where I split the bill, but I noticed quite quickly that if they aren't very attracted to you that paying the bill didn't matter, so I would just say that I forgot my wallet. Appar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:39 PM
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More often than not, women can be the target of proxy-misandry (I've been wanting more than a year to write an article about that), for example I've seen women shame other women for being "boy moms" that is a woman who has a boy, in one case a woman with 7 daughters and 1 son was mocked for the fact that tried to raise her son to want "masculine" things. Misandry can also harm daughters of single fathers, I've read a story years ago about a teenage girl feeling suicidal because she and her fathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:31 PM
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I agree, I genuinely wouldn't want to ever pierce the ears of any of my kids.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 06:43 AM
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In Israel there is a movement called Bruchim (literally “blessed”) which opposes circumcision, regarding Muslims... https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10943-022-01635-0 "Opponents of female genital cutting sometimes assert that the practice is not mentioned explicitly in the Qur’an as a way of implying that it does not have any religious standing within Islam. However, neither is male genital cutting mentioned explicitly in the Qur’an, and yet most people accept that it is a Muslim relig…
/r/MensRights17/08/24 06:39 AM
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There are no male clubs, men are often ostracised by women, meanwhile there are tonnes of female-only clubs and female-only programmes. This isn't a biological difference but a cultural one. Want to see real equality? Go to a Communist society, men and women are largely equal, interestingly enough, Mainland Chinese men and women also commit suicide at near equal rates. The suicide rates are very clear examples of how the system fails and ignores men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:52 AM
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Men should learn to improve themselves for themselves and not for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:49 AM
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"Below average men and women who are unable to obtain long-term partners." All women are 10's and all women perceive all women as 10's, remember that no woman is without a relationship outside of her choice and no man is without a relationship by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:45 AM
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The female "loser" is a loser because she didn't get whatever she wanted, the male loser literally gets nothing. A man is still happy with sex once every 2 years, as long as he's getting some some of the time. A woman is quickly unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:43 AM
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Orgasm sensitivity is a biological thing that is different for every person (man or woman), my girlfriend is very sensitive for orgasms and can have a lot and she quickly gets them the moment intercouse starts. Interestingly enough, both my wife and girlfriend prefer PiV intercourse (something I'm bad at due to PE and PD), but my wife can only have a single orgasm and it happens around 5 minutes in, she can't get it from fingering. Meanwhile my girlfriend loves fingering and can enjoy it for a v…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:41 AM
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It started with the Baby Boomers, I believe they called it "F first, talk later" or "F first, talk maybe". This was very common in the 1960's and 1970's. I don't think that it ever went away, though it's probably a mostly urban thing and as every generation is more urban than the last urban culture spreads.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:36 AM
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I recently joined Bumble (just to try it out, I'm both married and have a girlfriend) and while I do get occasional matches, literally none of them ever make a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:33 AM
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Yeah, I've been in a dead bedroom for almost half a decade, got a new girlfriend recently and it's just amazing having someone to hug you. Note that I'm still married to my wife, I just have a girlfriend on the side and she's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:31 AM
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The sisterhood is always real, there are no female homeless people because other women take care of them. An ex-girlfriend of mine tried to convince me to give a homeless friend of her a place in our house, I asked if she was fine with me doing this with a homeless male friend and she said that she wouldn't accept a man she didn't know, so I said that I wouldn't accept her friend either. Another friend of the homeless woman get her to stay with her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:25 AM
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Exactly, women find any man they don't like "creepy" and avoid interacting with most men. If a man finds a woman insufferable and multiple men would ghost a woman beyond sleeping with her she will still be seen "wonderful, nothing is wrong with you" by other women because literally 100% of women think 100% of women are "awesome and amazing". This means that a lot of the worst women who are unsuccessful with men beyond one night stands and FWB can easily have relationships with women because wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:22 AM
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Dating women as a woman is different, I know a short, obese, acne-ridden, schizophrenic Chinese woman who has had dozens of girlfriends and always hangs out in large groups of homosexual and bisexual women and is a member of several girls who love girls-only WhatsApp groups (she shared some of those conversations with me). Describe a man with ONLY ONE of the above mentioned attributes and he would have trouble interacting with women even in a friendly non-romantic way. Being a woman is always ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:18 AM
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Accessibility is the difference, for example homosexual men are only 2% of the population and homosexual women 0,2% of the population but each have an easy time finding partners because you can simply filter out anyone that isn't interested (plus bisexuals are around 99% of all women and 20% of all men, both numbers are growing). So, any woman can easily find a man who is interested in her, even if he's rare, the internet has made it really easy. Before 1995 lonely women used to exist, today tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:16 AM
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I prefer chubbier women, most men I know prefer heavier women. Only women dislike heavier men. Just look at popular magazines, men enjoy seeing obese women while there are no obese men in magazines because women wouldn't tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:11 AM
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They mean to say "men are so lonely and touch starved that we would accept the partnership of literally any woman", just look at domestic abuse rates, the only reason female victims report it more is because men would tolerate literally anything as long as they occasionally have the attention of a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 08:09 AM
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People here fight against misandry, not against women. It's just that most misandry is done "in service of women".
/r/MensRights30/01/24 05:36 PM
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You need to understand that "gender equality" has both an exoteric and esoteric definition, that is "patriarchy" means that men are overrepresented while "equal" means that women are overrepresented.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 05:35 PM
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I really like your username, RazorBladeKandy2 made some of the best MGTOW content around, I really miss him. Anyhow, I hope that other men's rights organisations from around the world file similar suits, South Korea is next.
/r/MensRights30/01/24 05:30 PM
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This is pure dehumanisation, men aren't worthy of being seen as human beings, this is exactly why the men's rights movement is fundamentally a human rights movement.
/r/MensRights10/12/23 09:53 AM
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Also, let's not forget that A Voice for Men supports the ratification of the Equal Rights Amendment but no modern Feminist organisation in the US does.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:40 PM
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"Independent: The fact that we're considering making misandry a hate crime should concern everyone who believes in equality by Victoria Smith (10/16/2018)" Typical Mott and Bailey tactic, they use the word "equality" but they have their own definition.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:40 PM
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You should turn this post into a YouTube video and upload it, it needs a wider audience.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:37 PM
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I know a 6' Asian-American millionaire who is an inkwell, he has an active social life too. It's extremely difficult for most men. Women rate 80% of men as ugly, 18% as average, and only 2% as (somewhat) attractive.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:37 PM
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I am always skeptical of any claim that tries to paint anything worse for women, even menstruation isn't as bad for most women as the media paints it to be. In fact, the media portrayals of menstruation as such an enormously painful thing might make it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:31 PM
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Imagine how the media would have a field day if even a handful of comments like these were written about a (biologically) female victim.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:28 PM
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This is why we have to be careful with the "men are more aggressive" stereotype as some research has found there being little sex differences in aggression.
/r/MensRights08/12/23 07:26 PM
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Yes, but this is not unlike Whites in Apartheid being taught to fear Blacks and see them as dangerous, but Feminist Apartheid is socially praised.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:26 AM
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I cannot stress enough how almost all effective Men's Rights activism has come from the Trans Activists, this may seem like an odd statement as they actively hate us and support Feminists, but Transwomen are actively fighting against the female supremacist sex segregation and fighting for the rights of biological males to be heard, even if they have to transition first. Feminists hate ALL males and Conservatives are their silent accomplice. We recently had men showing up at women's only IT event…
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:24 AM
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This is probably the most bigoted transphobic rant I've ever seen online. It's funny how people always accuse us of being transphobic, but I've literally never seen transphobia from a non-Feminist. It's funny how you assume that most men are abusive and then verbally abuse a person. The custody statistic is largely false, anyone who has worked with divorce lawyers can attest to the fact that courts are heavily biased against fathers and that the idea that mothers are primary caretakers only take…
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:18 AM
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I used to believe that historic oppression was universally worse for men and boys, but then I read about the fact that almost an equal amount of women and girls died in childbirth as men died in wars. Today we have largely solved the women dying from childbirth issue, but men are still being drafted.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:09 AM
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A Shield for Men has several videos about this, in one video he pointed out how there were thousands of female business owners in Manchester alone during the middle of the 19th century. Another good example would be that Karl Benz (the inventor of the motorcar) was financially helped by an external investor, this investor was the woman who would later become his wife. More often than not, women opted out of the meritocratic competition and weren't excluded.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:07 AM
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Women wear make-up "for themselves" in the same way that men want six-packs "for themselves", or how men wear cologne "for themselves", and dress well "for themselves". We all know why they do it, it's just not socially permitted to say it out loud.
/r/MensRights16/11/23 01:05 AM
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As long as I live, I have literally never met a female pushover, those don't exist. Girls are aggressive and assertive from birth and people enable it. Whenever a boy is any of those things he is punished, non-pushover men exist despite society trying to condition them otherwise.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 10:37 AM
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Which is exactly why we have to set these up ourselves and turn these organisations into MRM lobbying fronts.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 10:35 AM
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Feminists enforce male gender roles, this is why the MRM exists. If Feminists also wanted to fight male gender roles the MRM wouldn't be necessary.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:54 AM
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Yep, divorce itself isn't the issue as children of divorced parents who grew up with equal custody end up as well and as happy as those in married households. The issue seems to very specifically be single motherhood and not divorce itself. While divorce predicts single motherhood, not all children of divorce grow up fatherless. When my parents divorced I saw my father a lot, in fact, I remember having a better relationship with him post-divorce. My best friend also grew up with both parents and…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:53 AM
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I have the opposite, when I was younger I can remember only ever crying 3 times for movies or TV (twice for Futurama episodes), now I tend to cry watching Dragon Ball. I can't remember what happened to change this, maybe it was having kids. Not feeling negative emotions can be a sign of emotional stability, which is generally a good thing. Not feeling positive emotions can be a sign of Introversion. Best not to try to force yourself to feel something again as that can make you end up in the wron…
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:49 AM
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My advice, try to talk to women and make female friends. I'm not sure if you have actual gynophobia or just mild anxiety around females, but making female friends helps normalise them.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:42 AM
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The best thing you can do is seek professional help, that is, if it's free in your country consult a psychologist, if you have to pay then talk openly on forums (Reddit might not be the best place due to strict rules here).
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:41 AM
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Yep, imagine being a young single woman and constantly reading online how about basically 99% of all women experience various forms of SH on a daily basis and whenever you go out you see government billboards talking about how women everywhere feel unsafe. It is literally less safe to be born male, but women are constantly being told to fear men. Androphobia is socialised into everyone by this constant fear mongering.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:38 AM
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What a horrendous incident, also notice how people just immediately attacked the victim all because he was male.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:34 AM
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In society "female spaces" are always protected and the decline of male teachers is something we can all see and know affects society, yet nobody wants to discuss it.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:27 AM
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The only reason they say this is because it's socially acceptable to insult those men, I remember that "Misogynoir" used to be a common insult against Black men and people used to say the same about Black men until it no longer became socially acceptable to belittle Black men a decade ago. Remember, Feminists can only ever punch down.
/r/MensRights11/11/23 04:25 AM
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Archive everything in the Internet Archive!!! We need to showcase people just how ridiculously misandrist many of these publications were. I'm glad the monster is dead, but we need to photograph its corpse so future generations will believe it existed. Otherwise they'll be gaslighted into thinking that stuff like this never existed.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:13 PM
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Yeah, let's arrest the people protesting child abuse and not the actual abusers. Future historians will look down on us today because we allowed male circumcision to continue for so long.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:12 PM
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Yet these same people would never accept paper abortions from men.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:10 PM
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Some women openly talk about their menstruation, others avoid the topic. This is a stigma women enforce on themselves. Some of my female friends have told me in details about their menstruation and others have never brought up the topic, men have 0 blame in this topic.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:09 PM
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Which is exactly why we have to stop them now.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:07 PM
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A Shield For Men did a great video showcasing how almost all climate change driving actions are spearheaded by female consumer spending.
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:06 PM
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Well, I find women taller than myself to be quite attractive (I'm only 6'2) and I see tonnes of women taller than me on a daily basis, what I don't see as commonly is a woman with a shorter boyfriend, I only see a handful of them a day. Even if women biologically want taller mates, this shouldn't mean that it should be socially acceptable to discriminate against shorter men, a lot of women think that it's acceptable to belittle shorter men simply because they're not attracted to us (I live in th…
/r/MensRights09/11/23 07:05 PM
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Men's rights is intersectional, if you're short and female, life is amazing (the same for tall and female, or average and female), but short men always face discrimination. This is a unique male issue and it's something society doesn't care about because it only happens to males.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:59 PM
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Funny how we recognise this as child abuse when a baby sitter does it, but not when parents attempt the same. It's child abuse either way.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:57 PM
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It's easier for women, but still not all women. My wife has been looking for a job in her own industry (tech) for 5 years now, despite actually having recent certificates, 10 years experience programming, and constantly improving her skills she's been unable to find a job. I also noticed that there are TONNES of female-only free education, free socialising events, Etc. Most of the men she worked with are White, Indian, or Chinese, there are rarely other women in the industry. My guess is that Fe…
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:55 PM
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I've actually seen women randomly grope handsome men in real life, I've literally never seen a man randomly grope a woman he doesn't know, I've seen women do this to men probably 6 or 7 times. Yep I have NEVER seen society bring this up, this man was offended enough to file a charge against her, all the men I've seen get groped seemed uncomfortable but shrugged it off. This man knew that it wasn't acceptable and they still won't punish her.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:47 PM
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Yep, my wife forces our sons to keep short hair "because that's normal", when my eldest son wants to wear nail polish she protests, gender roles only exist because women enforce them.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:45 PM
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He's lucky that he has a female defending him, if he was alone he would've been cancelled.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:44 PM
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Yep, imagine someone saying "I am a proud racist" and then saying something racist about a race. We'd never accept that unless the victims are male.
/r/MensRights03/11/23 08:42 PM
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I wonder if this difference is that when the notion of gender equality became popular during the 1960's and 1970's that more openly misandric Feminist organisations became popular in Sweden. Here in the Netherlands I don't really have much to complain about day-to-day gender relations, many women here are actually egalitarian and relationships seem to be of equals more than the man blindly serving the woman like I see in basically every other culture. Yet in the past few decades imported America…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:52 PM
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Scandinavia should be a breeding ground for MRA's as it's also the birthplace of the paper abortion proposition, yet for whatever reason we don't often hear that much from them. I remember the last time I heard about Denmark was when a few politicians wanted to ban circumcision, otherwise Men's Rights news from this region is sparse.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:49 PM
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Basically every major educational organisation from your local school boards to the United Nations' education programmes favour girls over boys, this isn't just discrimination, this is systemic discrimination at every level.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:46 PM
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The type of woman who would do these things is too mentally ill to have custody anyhow. She literally abused her child to spite the father, misandry hurts women too because the victim is female. Feminists literally cannot tell that the systems they create end up hurting women and girls to spite men.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:44 PM
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I didn't want to join Reddit, the issue is that if you want to discuss something on a forum then your options are usually joining an old internet forum with hardly a dozen users or Reddit with many millions. When people make competing forums it's basically always just for a specific niche.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:42 PM
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Any place that openly discusses misandry is open to be shut down. That is the red pill, once you see misandry you'll see it everywhere and when you see it everywhere, you realise that most people become hostile once you point it out.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:41 PM
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This is an absolute necessary sub, we should promote it wherever we can.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:39 PM
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Women can openly SH men and get away with it, I once saw a short obese woman pinch a random man's posterior and while he looked visibly annoyed, he knew that he couldn't say or do anything against her. Now imagine a conventionally ugly man walking up to a model-tier woman In a restaurant, grabbing her breasts and then saying "I couldn't help it, hihi". As a man, you are either suffering because you're unwanted for not being attractive, or you're attractive and subject to random unwanted and cree…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:36 PM
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This is essentially the same for ANY major e-celebrity. The only women who typically don't enjoy this level of female privilege are women who are (A) not open about being female, or (B) too small to be controversial.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:33 PM
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Yes, for at least half a century we've seen creeping ideology-driven pseudoscience masquerade itself as "science" and using its status as being "published in scholarly journals" to make itself seem legitimate. Imagine if any religion had subverted science like misandry has, we would rightfully call it out. The worst part is, there are so many myths thanks to decades of misinformation that most people don't even know that they believe in Feminist myths, even many hard-line MRA's, for example, did…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:30 PM
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I just don't tell anyone I'm bi unless I'm not romantically interested in them, men typically don't care but women see it as "something icky".
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:26 PM
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That sounds really sad, I hope that you can heal your traumas and I hope that your son will never have to suffer like you did.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:25 PM
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I remember reading a number of older Men's Rights publications that basically said "we live in a world that celebrates sex and sexuality, unless that sexuality comes from a heterosexual man", even the most sex positive Feminists turn into Puritans the moment hetero males are involved. This means that in society hetero men are basically not allowed to mention anything sexual unless it's to benefit women.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:23 PM
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Kind of a stupid story, but I have a story of a woman (girl) protecting a man (boy), I was being bullied by a kid in school and he would hit me and one day I decided to finally defend myself, a girl got extremely angry and started yelling at me, why? Well, the bully was significantly shorter than me so me defending myself is in fact "an act of aggression". I still hate both of these bullies to this day.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:20 PM
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Transwomen suffer from the same misandry as other men, "keep transwomen out of female spaces" is literally the age old Feminist/Conservative "keep men out of female spaces". People would beat up a biological woman if they believed she was trans.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 08:18 PM
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Yep, that's like saying that we shouldn't care for the homeless because billionaires exist. One is a much larger demographic than the other, people focus so much on male success that we're blind to the fact that 95% of men fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:48 AM
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Men overreport, women underreport. The vast majority of men couldn't cheat to save their lives, 95% of men are invisible to basically 100% of women, the idea that more men cheat than women is laughable and the current literature is extremely biased. Let's do mandatory paternity DNA tests for 3 generations and see if there's any truth to these bogus statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:47 AM
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I personally have the opposite, when I suffer from stress simply talking and complaining helps me relieve stress, meanwhile my wife is the opposite, she doesn't want to talk about emotions only solutions and if we can't find solutions through talking she doesn't want to talk about it at all. This has actually made communication very difficult. Of course, complaining without a solution doesn't really solve the problem but at least it makes me feel heard, unfortunately the stereotype is that no ma…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 09:44 AM
1

From personal experience, female body language and other non-verbal cues are easier to read than men's, as often as people say "women have tonnes of complicated rules" I find the opposite to be true, you can pretty easily guess what a woman is thinking or her mood based on interacting with her. Most men wear so many different levels of masks that the signs only become "obvious" when it's often already too late, the fact that psychologists have developed tonnes of methods to help women but barely…
/r/MensRights21/10/23 09:42 AM
0

From what I've seen in the wild, it's mostly older men that do catcalling and some teenagers, I rarely see men aged 18-59 catcall.
/r/MensRights16/10/23 10:35 PM
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This is literally how the news media reports on Israel, lots of males killed "OMG, a woman was hurt".
/r/MensRights11/10/23 09:46 PM
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It baffles me how "the sisterhood" will just stand behind any woman no matter her actions. As a woman literally every other woman is automatically your friend.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 09:45 PM
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Friendly reminder that Conservatives are not our friends, at best we can try to convince some of them of the evils of Feminism but we can't convince them of the underlying gynocentrism that affects all.
/r/MensRights11/10/23 08:29 AM
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This is a reminder that schools and basically all "education techniques" will go out of there way to make sure boys don't succeed. This is a rare case where they published the negative effects on boys, but there seems to be a very strong anti-male bias in the educational system. I remember watching a YouTuber debate a "redpiller" where he talked about educational reform in the UK basically revolving around abolishing things where boys perform better and promoting things where girls perform bette…
/r/MensRights11/10/23 08:26 AM
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The only way to deal with any form of neurodivergence (even depression) is to just never tell anyone other than the professionals who should assist you. Don't tell your boss, don't tell your wife, don't tell your friends (unless they already know).
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:53 PM
3

In the Netherlands it is actually disproportionately foreigners with Non-Western Foreigners being the largest demographic.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:49 PM
9

Not necessarily "bad genes", rather genes themselves they find undesirable, that is, our definition of "good genes" and "bad genes" is based on what attracts women, even many positive personality traits are less likely to reproduce.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:49 PM
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Women get kidnapped, men get killed. It's like with Boko Haram, all the little boys were burned alive and the girls were given hijabs. Obviously one is worse than the other... according to the media it's what happened to the girls.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:44 AM
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Probably most, most people I know with financial issues also suffer from frivolous spending.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:42 AM
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Which is exactly why we need legal reform rather than just telling men to make prenups.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:41 AM
4

I always wonder what would happened if I scrolled this sub in public.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:39 AM
1

More reason to have equal paternity leave.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:39 AM
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Now that it's mainstream, will Feminists drop the wage gap stick? Maybe we can turn this into a men's rights campaign and ask for more paid paternity leave to make things more equal.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 08:38 AM
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It very much is, I see a lot of Feminist women stuck in middle management but if I see a CEO, I only assume that the male ones are Feminists because you cannot advance in any field with the idea that everyone is out against you, the only exceptions are women who built their own businesses but I've worked for several of them and I have yet to meet a misandrist among them. Even among successful female celebrities misandry is often only found among the "creative" types.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:39 PM
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I believe that androphobia and misandry are distinct things and that while much overlap exists, they can be entirely separate. Conservative women (and many men) generally tend to be more androphobic but not necessarily misandric, the type of people like that guy from the anti-transwomen documentary come to mind. Feminists are more often than not misandric without having any form of androphobia, but many are both androphobic and misandric.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:27 PM
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Marriage has always been a gynocentric institution, centuries before Feminism existed women used marriage to control men.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:25 PM
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Imagine if there were spaces for men just to complain about male things, like the millions of such spaces women already enjoy. Just imagine men would be treated with respect and not automatically viewed with suspicion for simply existing.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:24 PM
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Same with the West tolerating and even encouraging bacha bazi, all because the Feminist Bush administration only cared about female Afghans.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:11 PM
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There is no male solidarity because society actively fights against empathy for men, whenever I meet someone with empathy for men and ask them why they don't try to set up something they will talk about it being an uphill battle. Ironically, in real life I more often meet women interested in doing this, perhaps because women are used to there being limitless support networks for them so they come with a naive trust in the system, meanwhile most men can't even imagine someone ever being intereste…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:07 PM
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I'm surprised the Feminist BBC even reported on this, unfortunately there is the presumption of guilt until proven innocent when the persecuted is male.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:05 PM
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This actually seems like a glaring blindspot that can only come out of the assumption of privilege (even when there is none).
/r/MensRights09/10/23 03:00 PM
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I wonder how much of this is societal brainwashing and how much of gynocentrism is biological, from what I can tell while life certainly was worse for men in the past, the blatant dismissiveness people have towards males seems to only get worse as time goes by. Relationships are a high risk high reward game, unfortunately the risks are higher than the rewards.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 02:58 PM
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In many instances these women are mentally ill, for example in many schizotypal disorders (which occur more often in females) it is normal for the sufferer to experience almost anything as sexual intent, receptive women with these disorders tend to be hyper promiscuous but non-receptive women with these disorders might be the polar opposite seeing basically almost everything as a form of sexual harassment. Rather than seeing this as an issue with mentally ill women not being able to properly soc…
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:10 AM
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It's essentially just a way to sabotage the success of any movement that advocates for the human rights of men and boys, they see it as their holy mission.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:01 AM
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Making it private would be a horrible idea.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 08:00 AM
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Less opportunities to become a CEO is antiquated and has been for well over a decade, there seems to be a glass ceiling preventing more men from being CEO's than women, that is less qualified women have more opportunities meaning that to be a CEO is actually easier for a woman, especially if there are more men in the field.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:59 AM
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It's like how the boy scouts has to open to girls but the girl guides are expected to continue to exclude boys. This is also why the whole trans toilet debate only revolved around women's restrooms, because no man would kick a transman or even a full biological woman out of the men's lavatory.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:55 AM
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This just really reveals society's hidden hierarchy of lives, men and boys are at the bottom, boys are only slightly more valuable than men.
/r/MensRights09/10/23 07:54 AM
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When linking to these types of articles, always link to the Wayback Machine as they often change the level of ridiculousness after a few weeks.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:37 PM
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The UK is one of the worst countries when it comes to this in the West, this is why we should work to reduce their influence as they often try to export their definitions.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:34 PM
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Yes, if a girl stabbed her they would have told it as a story of "only victims" but still somehow blame men (even if all parties were raised by single mothers).
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:33 PM
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As much as I hate the Conservative Party, I would really dread to see another Labour government.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:31 PM
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Yep, gay men are also always expected to serve whatever lesbians demand of them and gay spaces are ALWAYS open to lesbians, meanwhile lesbian groups always exclude gay men and it's normal for lesbians to openly proclaim their hatred of gay men.
/r/MensRights08/10/23 07:29 PM
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These are some extremely lenient sentences for such a serious accusation.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 04:23 PM
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Yes, it was absolutely telling how many jumped to defend actual domestic abuse and excuse it with a laundry list of excuses.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 04:22 PM
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This is a like a person who owns multiple homes telling homeless people that home owners don't get every house they want and that some houses have flaws while we just want a house.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:21 PM
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They're not crying because they regret anything they did, they're crying because they now have to face a future they dislike.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 04:13 PM
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This advice only works on a very specific type of woman, a specific type of woman who is incapable of loving anyone other than herself and everyone in her life just exists to affirm how awesome she is. We all know how to call this type of person, but it's only toxic when a man has this personality.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 04:11 PM
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I have female friends in their 40's like this, it's like they're consistently dating the same man but thinking that this time the Playboy will turn into a faithful husband. I also know a few delusional married men who think that they will be successful if they're single again. I used to try to help my female friends until I realised that they are literally incapable of learning from their mistakes, some are even aware of them, but will just continue making them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:09 PM
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A few weeks ago I was talking to a male social worker because I said that literally every social worker in my autistic son's life is female and that for years he has only been in contact with female social workers. The municipality got ME a male social worker who essentially said to me "100% of all females are harassed by unwanted attention". Male problems are completely glossed over and all these decisions are made by committees staffed almost entirely by females who have very little contact wi…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:39 PM
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Traditional Feminists are absolutely fighting the Woke Feminists, Woke Feminists aren't purely misandric as transwomen matter to them, traditional Feminists loathe transwomen because their misandry views being born male as an unforgivable sin. Wokeism is a good weapon to criticise Feminism.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 02:04 PM
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How do you even define a "modern woman"? Is that a technological issue or a social issue or both? I tried dating sites using a female profile and you'll be talking to so many men that you just HAVE to ghost most men because you get absolutely flooded by suitors. As a man I always felt bitter about always being ignored, but then you realise that she's literally talking to hundreds of men and you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:01 PM
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They are the norm in long term relationships, they're not the norm in dating. Let's say you have 4 good women and 1 bad woman, there are 10 single men, the 4 good women will be in lasting LTR, meanwhile the one bad woman who will cheat and abuse her boyfriend will have likely been with the other 6 men and perhaps even a few of the men who ended up with good women. It's the same if you switch the genders, most men are good and these men are simply off the dating market and then the people leftove…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:59 PM
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Divorce statistics prove otherwise. Also, men are extremely easy to keep as the vast majority of break ups are initiated by women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:57 PM
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You're thinking logically which is not how Feminism works. Feminism is a blindfold where everything has to be filtered through "the Patriarchy" and power dynamics. "Men have to work harder because their wives refuse to look for a job? Well, duh Patriarchy hurts dudes too" - Feminist "logic".
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:17 AM
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This is essentially the Feminist narrative on children: ALL men naturally want children because children are a tool to oppress women, no woman wants a child because self-actualisation as a woman can only happen if a woman is fully independent and her own person. Being a mother is falling into the patriarchal stereotype. James Lindsay did a podcast on how the Feminist literature portrays motherhood. A lot of women I know actually believe this, meanwhile I would argue that the people I know who wa…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:15 AM
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Hopefully he'll win.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:12 AM
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Unfortunately I can't access the article, is it blocked in the EU?
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:10 AM
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Not a real suggestions, but something that would IN THEORY be effective, note that I am NOT advocating for any of this: Militant Men's Rights Advocacy. Tired of divorce courts? Create a few cases where the woman earned more and when she loses half of her stuff turn her into a Feminist martyr and place a lot of media attention on the ex-husband where he'll deliberately parade around her earnings. Make sure to go to the media with this and call antiquated divorce laws "misogyny". Obviously, the co…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 07:05 AM
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Might work on the micro level but not on the macro level, the success of LonelyFans is caused by a large number of societal factors outside of it.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:49 AM
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That's not going to help the men that do get married (such as myself), we need legal reforms that change the system of marriage.
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:47 AM
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My father had a similar experience with his first daughter from his first marriage, her mother started to actively lie about him and she essentially never wanted to him or her half-siblings. What is interesting is that while he was 60 and she was well into her late 30's we received a court letter asking him to pay tens of thousands of Euro's in "missing child support" for her. At this point she (the daughter) was married, already had 2 children of her own, and this was just after our grand-mothe…
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:46 AM
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It also signals that he's willing to invest in you. There are multiple underlying psychological reasons for it, but I still think that we should shame women out of it. I'm not a fan of ever fully paying on the first date.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:18 PM
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Women have always worked, the only women that could afford to not work were wealthy women and they could afford to pay. Women simply demand money because it's essentially a fitness marker in men because a man that can collect resources is more fit.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:17 PM
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Women are in demand on the dating market so they set all the rules. Basically anything that happens in dating and relationships is because women choose them to happen, when you apply for a boss and they say "you have to pay for your course to join this programme or we won't hire you" you can continue to look for other companies, but if a cartel is formed and all companies demand the same because it benefits them then you are either paying or unemployed.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:16 PM
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Homelessness is majority male. Sounds the same.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:14 PM
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"Male majority" would work so much better
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:13 PM
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I very much agree with all points here. The Men's Rights Movement has existed for well over a century now and it has been ignored and whenever we try to bring up men's issues the mainstream media will deflect it and point at the PUA's who happen to use the same Matrix metaphor we do. Luxury companies and brand have been trying to sell to men as a demographic since the late 19th century, Western men have rejected make-up, eyeliner, Etc. In fact, Western men only buy perfume and even then you're n…
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:13 PM
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"The left" doesn't reject misandry as a concept, only misandric pseudo-leftists do. Any self-proclaimed "leftist" who doesn't recognise misandry is a right-winger in my book.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:04 PM
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A Shield For Men debunked this study on YouTube some time ago. I remember other Men's Rights organisations also debunking a lot of these claims. Basically anything flies when you paint men In a bad light.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 10:00 PM
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The issue is that we have a society that enables these behaviours, while reporting on an actual recorded crime without saying "allegedly" can land you defamation lawsuits, the unique crimes found in SA very much exist outside of this because the victims are near exclusively male.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 09:58 PM
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You mean misandrists, misandrists exist on the left and the right, it's not a partisan issue.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 07:37 PM
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It is because men have been "Nullified" in gender discourse, as the academics say.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 07:36 PM
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Better something than nothing. There's a female MRA pushing for such a ministry in the UK, let's just hope that one country starts so the rest will follow.
/r/MensRights28/09/23 07:35 PM
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Serf
/r/MensRights24/09/23 02:43 PM
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When I was a teenager I noticed misandry and made a post about it in Yahoo! Answers, everyone attacked me and said that I was delusional for pointing out obviously misandry. We live in a culture of female entitlement and where complaining about anything any woman does is wrong, this isn't universal. In many former Communist countries women have expectations similar to men, this is why women from these countries will often claim "Western men are more romantic", remember, romance is feudalism wher…
/r/MensRights24/09/23 02:43 PM
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Because those exclude fat MEN, excluding fat women is fatphobic, excluding fat men is just a preference, hun'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:09 PM
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Not for women, women have infinite choices. I made multiple profiles as a woman and just saw the optionality "she" had, it's ridiculous how many top earning, handsome, 6'5+ men go for unemployed obese single mothers with high lists of demands and polycules. I even invited these men into polycules and literally not a single man rejected the idea of being in a polycule with other men, not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:08 PM
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You don't think that 90% of men are ugly because you're a man. Unless you personally know a woman she is 90% likely to see you as ugly, 9% likely to see you as average, and 1% likely to see you as slightly above average. I go out with female friends a lot and they basically always say whenever they see a handsome men, if men were as open as women about the women they found attractive then men would never stop talking about hot women. The issue with dating apps is that personality comes second to…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:06 PM
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If you don't like modern dating then go meet women in conventional ways. A large amount of women are not on dating apps and have never been on dating apps, I'm not sure if that would make these women not "modern women" (as PUA's call them) because they don't have the same level of optionality. Women you meet through these methods are less picky and you meet them face-to-face so you never have to worry about pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:01 PM
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Culture, politics, and laws = the country, otherwise you just like the geography.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 02:32 PM
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Traditional cultures are even worse when it comes to false allegations, they will outright lynch accused men. I remember a Pakistani man that was falsely accused being lynched by a Christian mob in Sikkim a few years ago. When the woman confessed she made it up nothing happened and people moved on.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 02:31 PM
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People like you should try to organise and create a national class action lawsuit, especially if you didn't get any compensation.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 02:28 PM
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Relationships but never marriage, I remember when A Voice for Men was promoting a book written by a man who self identified "a married MGHOW" which the YouTube MGTOWophere didn't accept, this was actually the first major fallout in the Men's Movement.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 02:25 PM
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The MGTOW are men who refuse marriage, it's a diverse "community", some MGTOW do engage in relationships or ONS, while others avoid any such contact. Inkwell is a man who wants a relationship but can't have one. Many inkwells claim that MGTOW are "MSTOW" and didn't choose their status (based on the fact that women are selectors meaning that MGTOW are deselected men). Some of the men in one camp hate the other, but they often discuss philosophy and hypotheses with each other. I've seen more MGTOW…
/r/MensRights23/09/23 02:23 PM
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I've literally never heard ANY man refer to himself as a nice guy, only women call themselves "nice girls" and no woman that does so has ever had a half decent personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:16 PM
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This is why I am only nice to (a) men, (b) women in my vicinity, particularly female blood relatives and married women. I just assume that every woman assumes I want s-x with her (unless related) so I don't do anything nice unless it's in a very specific situation. Likewise, I only give money to male beggars. I am still angry that my wife gave money to a random homeless woman when she knows that I don't like to give them anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 02:14 PM
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I have mostly dated older women in SEA, my last wife was a decade older than me, owned multiple pieces of property across the country, and had a long and established career. Such a woman would be "out or my league" in the West but doable in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:01 AM
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Men go abroad because they can compete, if you're only 6'2 in the West no woman would date you because you're short, in Asia you're above average in height. If you only make like 70K a year in the West you're "a deadbeat", in Asia you're wealthy. Most Western men still lose to native men, but it's easier to compete when you're not at the bottom of the totem pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:59 AM
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I did an experiment where I was a woman in her 40's asking random men from 18 to 35 to join my polycule and that I would want their time and money but that s- is off the table unless I find them handsome. Literally not a single man said no, literally every man accepted joining her polycule. In one instance I got a divorced 6'5 physicist who was making enough money and took care of his daughters half of the week. I asked if he would be willing to lose custody of his daughters to take care of my k…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:55 AM
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PUA cope, they think that women get less picky with age because men get less picky with age. But any woman who is less picky will get into a LTR so logically with time only the most picky women will be left.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:51 AM
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Makes sense, no Western man would enforce traditional non-Western culture as that's foreign to him. Same reason men look for foreign wives because they don't like the women of their own culture. Of course, this doesn't apply to Latin America and the Philippines which are culturally Western, but places like China and Thailand are culturally very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:50 AM
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Funny how Greece and Latin America are light blue, especially when you realise that both are more Christian and more "traditionally Western" than any of the dark blue countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:47 AM
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Kind of ironic, as in the 1980's I remember any media depiction of Soviet, Polish, East German, Hungarian, Romanian, Etc. women was depicted as hyper-masculine. This was likely to East Bloc women winning tonnes of Olympic medals and this being the only media exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:44 AM
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I am familiar with Asians also and it seems that a lot think of Westerners as ideal partners based on what they see in popular media. Though we are kind of seeing South Koreans experiencing a similar resurgence in the West due to popular media as well. If your only exposure to another culture comes from romantic dramas then you will think that this is their culture. I often hear "Western men are so romantic" and "Western women are so supportive", but you can literally find those same romantic an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:42 AM
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Yep, and single women are having plenty of that. Being "single" as a woman is in fact not the same as "single" as a man, a single woman changes partner frequently, a single man has no partner ever. In fact, if a man was "feminine single" we'd call it "serial monogamy".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:37 AM
1

What's wrong with doing it with the same person? You can simply explore different positions. You can eat rice or bread every day and still make it different every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:35 AM
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As a woman you're always attractive, as a man you're not, even if you're handsome you have to be able to initiate and hold interesting conversations. I have made a number of female dating profiles and handsome man dating profiles and the difference is still night and day, I'd rather be an ugly woman than ANY man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:34 AM
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No woman ever suffers from being "alone", as a woman you always have tonnes of people who have your back and will always support you. A woman has to go out of her way to isolate herself, for a man to be isolated all he has to do is exist, if a man doesn't go out of his way to interact with others he is a social ghost. I see this in daily life 24/7, all my female friends complain about having too busy schedules and how everyone is always inviting them for random events. I literally don't know a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 10:32 AM
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A woman naming a young child as the father should be locked up, the fact that this even went in a woman's mind just shows how bad it is. Now imagine a man claiming that he had relations with a girl that young.
/r/MensRights23/09/23 10:04 AM
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We very much need a movement for this, DNA testing becomes cheaper every year and more DNA data would actively help benefit the medical industry. It would literally be a win-win to have a database of DNA and mandatory paternity testing. Unfortunately, even largely anonymous DNA testing with minimal data retention is seen as "a social evil" because "society determines paternity, not DNA".
/r/MensRights23/09/23 10:01 AM
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Apparently if I were in the US I'd be in the top 4% of men in height, yet my height never did anything for me in terms of dating. Well I did match with a woman who after meeting me immediately friendzone me because she had enough options and basically only swiped right because of my height. But this only happened once, maybe twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:23 PM
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42 is Millennial, not Gen X.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:19 PM
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Yep, desperate women actually existed for Baby Boomers and Gen X, they could go to a bar and a busy career woman with basically no free time would be willing to accept almost any man that proposed. Such women don't exist in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:18 PM
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Meanwhile literally every woman is in Group 4, I've made numerous dating profiles using my wife's or a female friend's pictures (with their permission) and the amount of men you get is mind boggling. Even the ugliest, most shy, most obese, most socially awkward woman is easily in Group 4. Being born female is automatic celebrity status. This is why I only want daughters.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:16 PM
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Different people have different preferences, trying to go Dutch on an entitled woman is going to get you ghosted after she conveniently "forgot" her wallet, likewise some women open their legs easier than other women. If you're a man and you want to wait and communicate that to her after she wanted to do it she'll likely ghost you as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:12 PM
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It's ethical, women do this to the men they date all the time and if they themselves don't do it their girlfriends will.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:04 PM
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Not true, in agricultural societies children were a long term investment. Today we have government pensions and government financed homes for the elderly, so children aren't an investment anymore but just an expensive hobby. But if you're poor kids can be beneficial, a cousin of mine wanted to donate her bone marrow for her father to fight his cancer but he refused because he didn't want to see any doctors. So, kids do come with some advantages that being childless doesn't have, but the governme…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:03 PM
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We're the richest we've ever been and have had more privileges than any people in the past, are you actually waiting for a future utopia before you want kids? Good for you. ;-)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:01 PM
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Every man wants to be a father, no woman wants to be a mother. That's modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:00 PM
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Unfortunately how the law works.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:58 PM
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More intelligent men are more likely to be monogamous and loyal, this isn't true for more intelligent women by the way. There was a study that found that more intelligent men are less likely to cheat and are less likely to seek coïtus.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:57 PM
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When it comes to intelligence women are generally attracted to a slightly smarter man but if there's an IQ difference of 20 points or more than it stops being as attractive. Also, people with higher IQ's (both men, but especially women) are reproducing less and less so high IQ people not finding love won't be a problem for future generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 04:56 PM
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It's extremely rare to hear it from men, the only men I've ever heard it from or have seen saying it were the "I'm the only good man and all other men are trash types", basically the "pick me boys" as youngsters call them these days. Otherwise I've only ever heard women say it.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 04:54 PM
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I also noticed that in actual media made for women (not originally male media re-made for women) that the "men are all idiots" trope is downplayed or not played at all. I grew up watching a lot of chick flicks and there are way better male role models in those than in any "male" media, which makes me think that this is just a deliberate middle finger towards male audiences.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 04:51 PM
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There are multiple factors that play into this, misandry certainly being the biggest, but the idea of the father being a bumbling idiot was conceived by Baby Boomers who grew up with watching the fathers as the intelligent leader of the family, meaning that this was initially subversive and "a reverse stereotype" becoming a stereotype onto itself. Likewise, the reason why women aren't ever cast in comic relief roles in the West is because characters are seen as representative of their groups, so…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 04:49 PM
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This is a weird line of thinking, I agree that there are many Feminist myths we probably all believe simply by growing up in a Western milieu, but using that logic would be hard to find anyone who isn't a Feminist. In fact, by definition every Men's Rights Activist is a "dictionary Feminist".
/r/MensRights22/09/23 12:45 PM
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She's not a Feminist, she's an anti-Feminist that has been fighting Feminism for almost a decade. Just because she's far-left doesn't mean that she's a Feminist, those two aren't mutually inclusive.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 12:39 PM
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What is the source for the claim that daughters receive more breastfeeding? I've looked it up and I largely found the opposite, other than that in matriarchal Californian tribes mothers breastfed daughters more.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 11:31 AM
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This sounds really traumatic and I am happy for you that you opened up to another person and found someone more supportive in your life.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 11:26 AM
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Yes, the "men don't want custody" number is probably inflated by men told by lawyers that getting custody is both expensive and nearly impossible. Imagine losing thousands of Dollars and days of your time to end up in an identical situation.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 09:34 AM
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This sounds like a horrible potential situation, which is exactly why we need MRA's in the legislature of every country.
/r/MensRights22/09/23 09:32 AM
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It's a corrupt system that is literally based on the explanation of men. In my country we actually had a way to divorce without lawyers, couples could either be married or have a registered partnership, for registered partnerships "divorce" was an easy paper formality, so a lot of couples would convert their marriages into registered partnerships and then end it completely avoiding the lawyer process. The government found out, and then made it impossible to convert marriages into registered part…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 09:31 AM
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The Iron Law of Feminist Projection.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:12 PM
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That actually has to do with the "Marxification of Feminism", this is akin to the "Shrinking markets" idea that the Germans thought justifying their invasions of other countries. It basically thinks that there are finite resources (in the case of Feminism they think that human empathy is finite) and that those who go against the grain suffer from "false consciousness".
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:12 PM
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Always bend their arguments, in trainings on dealing with aggressive and disagreeable people they often teach to bend your opponent's arguments.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:09 PM
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Kind of sad that there literally isn't a place for insecure men, even here, while there are thousands of subs for the few insecure women that exist.
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:08 PM
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Just think about it, how many exclusive male spaces are there? And then, how many exclusive female spaces are even open for transwomen? In a way, transwomen are literally the most popular and successful Men's Rights Activists today because they manage to fight female gender segregationism. Meanwhile the Girl Guides typically don't allow boys while most Boy Scouts allow girls. Exclusive male spaces are rare and wherever they exist they are treated with great suspicion and often subject to conspir…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 09:07 PM
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I know of a Men's Rights law firm based in the US from Facebook, the team is mostly female and they often help men in child custody cases. I can't remember the name as I barely use Facebook.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 01:04 PM
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From experience, women that want full custody from an otherwise good men are 100% likely to be mentally ill. I've seen divorces with good women, they want shared custody and co-parenting, those children tend to have a good relationship with both the father and the mother. The moment mental illness is involved she will dehumanise the children and use them as objects to get what she wants. I recently met a Dutch physics teacher who divorced an Iraqi Kurdish woman, they have 2 daughters and full co…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 01:03 PM
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NEVER get a vasectomy if it's not your idea, I will never willingly do it. When I asked my wife to basically do the female version she refused too, this was after she asked me to get one.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 01:00 PM
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Document everything and if she isn't communicating she is not interested in the relationship. People communicate with the people they want to be around, if she refuses to communicate it was already over. Try to get your children on your side, let the children give testimonials and preferably written accounts on why they want shared custody or be under your custody. Get whatever evidence you can get, video tape whatever you can record, photograph everything you can, and submit as much evidence of…
/r/MensRights13/09/23 12:58 PM
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Virgin-shaming has been called out by the MRM for decades, I remember reading a piece on AVfM on it several years before the media adopted "incel". ShortFatOtaku literally did a video on it today.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 08:38 PM
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Some men are still virgins in their 30's, some in their 40's and later. Among women this is extremely rare, among men it isn't. If you found yourself single again, would you go for a virgin the same age you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:07 PM
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This is basic preselection, not all women are like this. My wife was my 20th s£x partner while I was her second, she said that it would've been better if we were both virgins (she lost hers really late in life during her late 20's, I was also late at 17, but as we differ in a decade it was around the same time). However, there is this sweet spot between too much experience and not enough experience, my most recent girlfriend wasn't into men with too much so I had to lie and put my partner count …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:05 PM
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The only leverage you have in any relationship (business or personal) that is truly effective is the option to leave. You can only leave a deal if you have other options, every woman has unlimited options, the vast majority of men have 0. Hence, men can never negotiate anything in relationships unless the woman values him as an individual enough to compromise, this is rare because most women see all men as replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 09:00 PM
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Social sciences employ the scientific method, just because activists and political ideologues have corrupted most of them doesn't mean that they aren't sciences. They're just being run as Feminist pseudosciences for the time being, but you can very much apply the scientific method to them.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:51 PM
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Even if women are 90% of something they'll insist on gender quotas because more often than not men still tend to rise to the top. While in many cases the staff and all teachers of schools I've seen are 100% male, it's not uncommon for them to hire male bosses. At a care facility where I used to volunteer all the staff were female, all administrators were female, the only male I saw was the boss.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:46 PM
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If women have an extreme advantage then it must absolutely suck to be a man. My wife is a computer scientist with 10 years of experience in the field but stopped working for a couple of years because we had children, while applying for hundreds of jobs she received a total of 4 reactions, 3 were to reject her, 1 allowed to go to an interview where she first had to do a couple of tests (which she all passed) and then in the next round had to explain how much of a team person she is (she's an intr…
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:44 PM
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My best friend studies Veterinary Science, it's an absolute clam fest. I volunteered at an animal shelter for years, also an absolute clam fest.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:38 PM
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The "boys are getting medicated out of their normal boyish behaviours" thing is already 40 years old and it's getting worse every year. The pharmaceutical companies know that people would defend their girls if they would feel negative side effects from medication so they do it with boys. We have to stand up against this. Here's what I advise: Great chat groups with other sports coaches, find out how many have also noticed this and for how long. Get in touch with the parents and tell them that yo…
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:17 PM
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I see the opposite, I see more thirst, more simping, and more whiteknighting.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:09 PM
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5% on Tinder, perhaps 10% in general now. It used to be 40% of men monopolised 60% of women, but now it's 5% of men monopolise 50% of women. Though this is wholly elective on the side of women, so we can't blame these men for their actions as we would've done the same in their shoes.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 08:08 PM
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It is here in the Netherlands, a friend of mine told me that as a teenage girl she wanted to be a prostitute because her parents worked in a brothel and she had good experiences with the prostitutes and their clients there. Her parents were supportive of her wish but eventually she didn't become a prostitute. She became something else, but still spoke highly about it. She did sleep around with a lot of men for free (including me), but whether or not someone wants to be a prostitute is their choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:44 PM
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Do you view the cooks at McDonald's as property? Do you view social workers as property? How about doctors? These are all services, why make a distinction between one service or another simply because it involves sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:40 PM
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Nobody has any issues with their daughters sleeping with hundreds of men for free, but the moment she makes a living off of it it becomes "problematic".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:38 PM
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Prostitutes can give you the confidence to approach non-prostitute women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:37 PM
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That never happened, I regularly had deep conversations with the prostitutes whose services I purchased and they all had a lot of good things to say about their clients. Prostitutes only get abused in systems where it's illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:35 PM
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Odd, whenever I try to post anything over a certain character limit Reddit tells me "Error. Something went wrong." And then it doesn't tell me how many characters are acceptable. Longer posts typically cannot be posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:29 PM
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Look, there's a difference between approaching a woman in the streets and a social setting where it's typically considered to be acceptable, the difference is that women complain about being approached by ugly men no matter where it happens. Additionally, approaching women in the streets in a small village is completely different from a big city, we evolved to be in groups of 80 to 120 people, this means that the "cold approach" was the initial thing in this small group of people, this actually …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:27 PM
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Really depends on the type of women you want to attract, PUA lines only work on a particular type of woman and acting like a douche gets you the type of women that enjoy that. If you have to force yourself to act like a douche then you should realise that the moment you stop acting like one she'll lose attraction. I'd rather not be with a woman like that at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 07:19 PM
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This is why we need a hostile takeover of the academic sphere, we need to create our own universities if necessary.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:27 AM
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There's a reason why globally there are dozens of millions more boys out of school than girls.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:26 AM
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The word "Equality" in this context is Newspeakz, it's not meant to actually have the same definition as you use it. The dominant ideology defines what words mean, not the population.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:25 AM
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Had this been posted in the 1950's they'd call it "definitely Communist-curious", it's the mindset of people who will always stand by the status quo and they'll shame anyone who dares to want change.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:22 AM
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These are from other fathers.
/r/MensRights01/09/23 12:14 AM
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I didn't add DOI links because I don't know if Reddit blacklists external links.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:11 AM
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The only thing I say changed afterwards is the popularity of Tinder among women. I'd argue that this period was actively worse for men as you couldn't escape the omnipresence of the misandric media. Now I can watch shows on YouTube that I actually enjoy without constantly being reminded how shitty my life is simply because I was born male.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:37 PM
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What I'm saying here is that we should use intersectionality as a weapon against misandry and then leave hints that misandry caused it. "Hmmm, it's odd that Conservatives and TERF's complain about transwomen using the women's restrooms but not transmen using the men's restrooms", "Black men suffer higher prison sentences but Black women are barely affected, Hmmm". Stuff like this, but more subtle. Unlike the Feminist movement I think that we can properly utilise intersectionality to propagate ou…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 11:33 PM
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"I have yet to make sense of how the conversation of “gender equality”, never seems to include men." It is a called a monopoly on discourse, I'm not explicitly against the existence of Feminism as I think that we should create our own infrastructure and academic spaces that exist besides them rather than close them down, but they have vehemently fought against upcoming Men's Rights groups left and right to maintain their monopoly. Almost all prominent Men's Rights Activists in the 1970's also ca…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 11:29 PM
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Quite eloquently put.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 11:16 PM
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Being social is that instruction manual, socialising with people is literally how you get to make friends, making a girlfriend isn't too different from making a female friend other than the fact that she's attracted to you, that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:14 PM
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If you don't want grandchildren, that's your job. But I'm actually taking my sons to places where the women are easier when they get older and I'm make sure that they're on their gym grind young enough to find love in high school if possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:07 PM
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Pair bonding is its own thing, by my estimate (based on the psychological literature) this is a Bell Curve and 20% of women are good at pair bonding, 20% can't do it, and 60% are in the middle. See pair bonding like having a favourite toy, there are many like it, some even seem more fun, but THIS ONE is mine. Others will throw the toy away for something more fun and they'll never care. Others just play with it until they're bored. This means that as a man there's an 80% chance that you'll end up…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 11:01 PM
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Listen, as an expat you'll hear this from every woman interested in dating foreigners. When you meet Taiwanese women that exclusively date foreigners they'll say "White men are just so romantic, Taiwanese men are entitled", then I asked a friend who dates both and she told me "Taiwanese men are as romantic as White men, often even more so, I just find White men more handsome but I'm willing to date Taiwanese". I heard the same from American women that dislike American men, Vietnamese women, Turk…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:55 PM
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Several things here: Your father didn't have the same experience as you, technology grows exponentially and today these things are different. I met my wife through a direct messaging dating site, I met my last mistress also through one. On Tinder I swiped for 5 years with 0 matches and 1 like, on a direct messaging dating site I was talking to 8 different women in 20 minutes. But the average age of these dating sites is old, on some websites it's exclusively elderly women and men of all ages. Wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 10:50 PM
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This is why the Men's Rights Movement needs to create a list of affiliated organisations, this could be hosted on the website of the National Coalition for Men (NCFM) or A Voice for Men (AVfM) to help direct men to other resources. There are a fairly large number of men's rights websites and organisations, but only a handful of political lobbying organisations. We should try to co-ordinate better (despite disagreements) and just create a "Manosphere central discussion point" where all Pro-Male e…
/r/MensRights31/08/23 10:37 PM
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Aren't there literally international police forces that hunt men who do this? In fact, I remember reading about foreign fathers being arrested in their own countries when they did this. Yet when a woman does it it's perfectly acceptable.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:56 PM
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"Deadbeat" is a gendered insult for a reason. Women can do no wrong in society's eyes.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:53 PM
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This is why conscription shouldn't be gendered.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:25 PM
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Not helping male mental illness is just one of the many other examples where the Matriarchy hurts men too by not addressing men's issues leads to issues for women.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 04:02 PM
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Female friend ≠ friendzoned by a woman. Friendzoned is a woman you're attracted to that isn't attracted to you. A female friend is like a male friend, but female.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:01 PM
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Depends on the guy, it's like how some women find handsome a-holes insufferable but others would call him "a bad boy" and then complain about him. Personally I prefer personality over looks and I'd pick an uglier woman with a better personality, just make sure to abort all your sons because a man with an ugly face won't make it in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:57 PM
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Because the people making the false claims and statistics have a monopoly on the discourse.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:54 PM
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Awareness would be higher if we had institutional power. We don't even have to be a majority, just big enough to challenge both the Feminists and the Conservatives to the point where they would have to make concessions in order not to lose ground to us. Once the narrative duopoly of tradcons and fems is gone, we can march through the institutions. In fact, I think that it might be wise to create a few "guerilla stories" to bring awareness to the front lines.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:53 PM
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"While 85% of you are wonderful people, the other 25% were far too frequently brigades and troll farms." LOL, this has to be a troll right? Not sure how to emphasise words on Reddit, but 85% and 25%.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:50 PM
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The point is that the general news cycle won't shut up about male crimes, but female crimes barely make the headlines. Even when the victims are females, remember that matriarchy hurts women too.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:45 PM
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Another example of how the Matriarchy hurts women too. The daughter was an adult woman, if we had a more equal system to begin with her daughter would've still been alive, as would the son. But because she was initially given custody she acted this petty.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:44 PM
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I remember there being a 4 minute segment on this on Dutch television like 10 years ago, then it was never brought up again. It's because society doesn't care about men. We need to mobilise as much people as possible to make them care. We can convince Conservatives and Liberals that this is costing their tax money and that they should help with the solution because otherwise their taxes will increase. We can convince Progressives and Socialists by stating that this will lead to greater inequalit…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:14 PM
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This has to do with how gynocentric society thinks "anything bad is a man's fault, anything bad a woman does must still be a man's fault". No woman is trapped in a relationship because she can always leave and she won't lose income or security, in fact she might actively gain it.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 03:11 PM
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This is the face of privilege. Before the war Ukrainian Feminists constantly talked ill of Ukrainian men, during the war we constantly see the Feminist media report on "female soldiers are the most capable" and "a bullet from a woman is just as deadly as a bullet from a man". These women don't deserve jail time, they deserve frontline time.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 02:58 PM
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They'll happily share.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:52 PM
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Yes, I'm short (6'2) and I live in the tallest country in the world, on online dating sites here you can adjust your desired height ratio to exclude all men outside of those heights from appearing in your range for swiping. I read all the profiles and I concluded that I have literally never seen a Dutch woman that excludes my height from her range, and this includes plenty of women taller than me. In general I see around 4 to 8 women taller than me per day, it's not uncommon for them to have a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:51 PM
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Same, as a fellow short man (6'2 in the Netherlands should be considered short, if 5'8 is the average male height in the US and considered short then I should also be considered short) I feel your pain. Here there's a 6'4 minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:48 PM
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I've seen women comment here about "there's no body positivity movement for men because men are just mean and would troll each other and all women have each other's backs" but as an obese man I find it absolutely baffling how often non-Asian women go out of their way to call me "not fat". When it comes to dating I generally find that fat women avoid fat men like the plague and if you're fat you'll have an easier time going after skinny women (that is as someone who finds chubbier women more attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 02:44 PM
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And FYI, women see relationships with men they're not attracted to as "work", they see raising his kids as work, they see even interacting with him as work. If a man is sufficiently handsome it's enjoyable, handsome men make cute babies, average men make ugly babies. She'll hate her sons and only raise her daughters, thus the sons will feel alienated and will rebel against society.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:57 PM
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People had kids as an investment, it's extremely difficult to be a single mother, even today. So there is a need to partner up when you're alone, today there's government welfare for single mothers which is why they often don't actively look for relationships, but a single mother in a poor country with no social stigma against remarrying will go out of her way to find a man to support her. This is also why you see tons of MGT@W on YouTube claim that they can only ever date single mothers, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:55 PM
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To be fair, there's never been a point in history where the vast majority of women didn't work. A woman who does absolutely nothing at home but be pretty and maybe clean a little bit isn't exactly a productive member of society. Medieval women were just as independent as today's women in terms of employment. The only difference is that there's social welfare. Just look at poor countries like Thailand and Indonesia, women there have much higher labour force participation than in the West yet peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:50 PM
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Men never had any power historically, it's only a small group of men. The patriarchy is a myth, maybe an andro-oligarchy existed where a smal number of men held most power, but even in these societies it's better to be the average woman than the average man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:46 PM
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It's socially acceptable to hate men and to cheerlead women on. Any issues men and boys face are seen as "their own fault", any issues women and girls face are "things all of society should solve".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 12:45 PM
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In reality, misandric Feminists and ultra-Conservatives who want to enforce traditional gender roles are rare, I personally know a lot of Lesbians, old and young, I've befriended almost a dozen of them. The only story I've ever heard of a man-hating Lesbian was when a friend told me about her ex-girlfriend who claimed to hate all men, but then dumped her for a man and later said that "that was just a phase", her political Lesbianism and misandry didn't harm a single man but broke a woman's heart…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 12:35 PM
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It's funny how the creator of the world's first women's shelter was a Men's Rights Activist who frequently wrote at A Voice for Men (AVfM), yet Feminists take all the credit. The only thing they can take credit for is the exclusion of men.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 12:02 PM
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Because the government can regulate any men's initiative away, we need proper representation and if possible, a long march through the institutions. We need men's rights student unions, lawyers, politicians, we need to be on every side of the political aisle.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 12:01 PM
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I recognise this style, this is from TheTinMen Blog on Instagram, definitely worth a follow and we should probably back up all their posts using the Internet Archive in case anything ever goes down south with Meta. Also, he was recently at the Chris Williamson podcast.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 11:59 AM
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Sexual comparability is a thing, people often forget that not all men are like that and not all women are like that. Some women are great communicators others aren't, some men really love foreplay and others don't. Communication only gets you so far, if you as a man cannot biologically last longer than 2 minutes then a woman who doesn't enjoy foreplay isn't going to be satisfied with you. If you're a woman who loves foreplay but sees penetration as a chore then a man who lasts 15 minutes is a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:29 AM
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Who shames sluts? Men don't engage in slut shaming because men benefit from it. You don't have to feel that you're being judged by other women if you're alone in a bedroom with a man. I have several female friends with 3 digit and even 4 digit partner counts, I've asked and not one ever complained that a man judged her for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:23 AM
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I have the opposite, my wife hates it when I go down on her and I hate receiving BJ's, this actually makes us pretty incompatible in this regard. With a few ex-girlfriends I could go down on them for hours and how dry a woman is depends on multiple factors, this also includes her microbial balance, her mood, and if she is just biologically "wetter" than other women. Now don't get me wrong, going down on some women actually is icky, some women are just disgusting down there, I assume that women f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:19 AM
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It's best for men to answer, if you've been with multiple women you'll realise that not all women are the same, in fact no 2 women (nor men) are the same. The experiences I've had with different women are worlds apart. With one woman she had an extremely strong preference for getting tongued (in order not to say that word) and another woman I've been with genuinely couldn't enjoy anything other than PIV (which is the thing I suck at the most). I remember reading a Reddit thread years ago where m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:15 AM
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From Exploring Male Multiple Orgasm in a Large Online Sample: Refining Our Understanding Gabrielle Griffin-Mathieu et al. J Sex Med. 2021 Sep. "While the range of reported orgasms varied from 2 to 30, the majority (79.5%, N = 97) of participants experienced between 2 and 4 orgasms separated by a specific time interval during which further stimulation was required to achieve another orgasm. " Male multi-orgasm is identical to female multi-orgasm. And the percentage of men who can have these typic…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 11:07 AM
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The women I know who have multiple ones tend to have more intense orgasms after each one, not less intense.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:17 AM
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That's what you constantly read in the media "women can have many orgasms while men can only have one" because of the way the media reports on things (like how apparently women are physically stronger, batter at mathematics, logic, Etc. less emotional than men. I've actually read articles saying these things in pop-science magazines). I was also under the impression that literally every woman was multi-orgasmic until I met women who aren't (like my wife) and realised that it's not as black and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:17 AM
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PaychologyToday reports "No one knows how many women have multiple orgasms, but studies report anywhere from 14 to 43 percent. " These numbers are all over the place. When I was younger I commonly read "women can have multiple orgasms" and thought this meant all women, but as I met women IRL that couldn't I started to doubt this. Apparently as a multi-orgasmic man I am one of the few (10%) that can experience this. I wonder if my daughters would have more than most men's daughters because of my …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:55 AM
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Apparently "A 2017 online survey of 1,250 women in the United Kingdom found that 70% reported experiencing multiple orgasms at least once.", I got the 80% from another study I read. So it's 70~80% of women can have multiple orgasms. This basically means for every left handed woman, 3 women can't have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:53 AM
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Orgasms are biological and emotional, most women (80%) can have multiple orgasms, some women (10%) can only have 1 per session, and some women (10%) are physically incapable of having them. I've had a few relationships with women who cannot have more than 1, no matter how I or they try, it is simply physically impossible, meanwhile my first girlfriend typically had 20~40 orgasms per session and her highest amount reported was around 80. My guess is that this is a Bell curve and that those women …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:51 AM
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TRP is the best thing a man can take, he'll learn about how society mistreats him and his eyes will be opened to disadvantages he has. An ignorant man believes in lies that will make him make poor decisions. Once all men take TRP we'll take political action to have more male teachers in schools and kindergartens, we'll see more men being emotionally supportive of their sons, we'll see men demanding equal custody and refusing to vote for politicians that don't support default shared parenting. On…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:41 AM
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Also, the only type of woman who is open to be cold approached is probably the type of woman that very easily says yes to a lot of men and doesn't have a good pair bonding instinct because she requires less emotional investment to be with a man. I'm convinced that the reason PUA's talk about "dominance" and "S# tests" is because the only women that respond to their tactics have that type of personality. But hey "all women like bad boys who dominate them". Not once does the PUA think that he's ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:33 AM
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Attraction is relative, if you're 6'2 in the Netherlands you rarely stand out, but if you're 6'2 in the Philippines you look like a basketball player. Women are more picky if they see more attractive faces. Why would you take a job that pays 15 Dollars an hour when you can make 40 Dollars an hour with a job you can apply for elsewhere? But if you're desperate for a job and there's less options you wouldn't even dream of 40 Dollars an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:29 AM
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Which is why dating apps are almost exclusively male. I know a high libido woman who complained about being single, when I suggested Tinder she scoffed at me. She actually partook in several orgies with her ex. I see too many people claim "every woman has used Tinder these days", that's just objectively false.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:26 AM
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You live in an ageing Western country. Go to a poor country and you'll likely see tonnes of young people around. You probably also live in a small town or village, as most women and girls live in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:24 AM
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Most people on dating apps are men, dating apps are swipe first talk later. This means that women have both more options and are more pickier on visual dating apps. In real life 80% of people aren't men, not even China has a male surplus this ridiculous. In real life you can go into a place with a 100 men and only 5 will be handsome and she didn't just talk to those handsome men, on visual apps she just talked to all of them and she knows that those men are interested in her so she will not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:22 AM
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Most of this is (A) pushed by the Feminist media, (B) based on a single book. I forgot the author and name of the book but a few months ago I read an article debunking it and its methodology in PsychologyToday. Almost all long-term studies into happiness found that having good relationships, this includes non-romantic relationships, with others is the best predictor for happiness. I know a number of happy elderly childless women who were essentially "the third parent" for their nieces and nephew…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:14 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I stand by my decision to dump the woman I had frequent cuddling with because of some personal reasons, but if I had known that I would simply never cuddle with the other woman I wouldn't have married and impregnated her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:07 AM
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Depends on the personality, but men are generally more submissive and people pleasing than women. That is because male happiness comes from outside (community, friendship, helping others) and female happiness comes from the inside (self-love, being alone, Etc.) This also why female loneliness doesn't exist and men crave companionship. Yet in our world everything men desire is abundant for every woman. That aside, you don't want a woman who is only sleeping with you to please you either. My wife …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 09:06 AM
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Not really, most criticism of the concept simply state that most research is too old and that lesbians have longer sex (up to 2 hours). Of course, your mileage may vary. If a man only lasts 2 minutes in bed then 1 lesbian sexual encounter would be equivalent to 90 hetero sexual encounters (essentially 2 years worth), and if they do it once a week (the average lesbian couple who have been married for years tend to do it around once a week) then they would need to do it 65 times to have had as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 03:06 PM
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Yeah, Lesbians are generally a good measure to see how hetero women behave. Whenever you see people blame stuff on men I see if the statistics are any different with Lesbians. Lesbians have significantly higher divorce rates than all other categories with homo men having the lowest. I genuinely wish I was a homosexual man, but unfortunately I wasn't blessed with being gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:55 PM
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That's hot, I love to get a flatulent woman. My first girlfriend almost never farted, she did a total of two times around me over all the years we were together and it made me self-conscious because she would always complain about me. Later I found a woman who farted quite a bit, didn't work out well, then I married a woman who also farted quite frequently but eventually it didn't turn out that well between us. Apparently farting is genetic, so if she farts a lot her kids will too... As much as …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:52 PM
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Really depends on the woman, to some women telling her that she's beautiful is the way to her heart, to another woman it's the easiest way to make her lose interest. Some women can't tell height for their life (a female friend was once genuinely surprised that I'm shorter than 6'7... I'm only 6'2 by the way), yet other women can measure height at a kilometer's distance. Some women like nice guys, others like bad boys. Some women want an emotionally stable man, others want an emotionally broken n…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:50 PM
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Those are called indicators of interest and women's IOI's aren't subtle at all, they're often very overt and even a man with severe Autism would notice them. It's just that the vast majority of men will never receive any selection signals from women and will have to try to gain a relationship otherwise. The issue is, attraction cannot be negotiated so the vast majority of men will never experience any selection signals in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:46 PM
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Really depends on the environment and if you have something that makes you stand out. I'm a 3/10 (using the general scale, a 1/10 using the "normal people" scale) and I literally can't get a single match on any swiping dating app, meanwhile I do just fine on direct messaging dating apps where personality matter more than looks. Some environments are more looks based than others. On places like Tinder or night clubs and bars looks are 90% your value as a man. But most people don't meet there. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:43 PM
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For a woman it's a fleet of a feeling, she does it with herself and it's done. Women don't need the cuddling afterwards like men do. My wife can just watch p@rn and be done with it. Meanwhile I need to hug a pillow to feel better. This is also why men buy dolls because men crave companionship. Women just crave s£x and the satisfaction that comes with it. So a woman cannot understand a man's desires which are deeper than what she has.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:40 PM
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That's what women will answer. I noticed that whenever I complain to male friends I receive emotional support, but female friends will just shrug it off and tell me that it's my own fault somehow. Don't get me wrong, most men won't help either, but women rarely display anything more than apathy. I know that when a woman has a female friend that she'll receive empathy, but the vast majority of men will never receive any level of empathy from any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:36 PM
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Getting friends as a woman is easy, as a woman literally everyone wants to be your friend and nobody is ever mean to you. As a man, every interaction with literally anyone can go sour real quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:34 PM
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Logically, most men women want are taken and so with age women will notice that the men they could date are of "lower value". Just like how the quantity of "high quality" women diminish over the years the same happens with men. Do you want to buy a piece of cheese that's been at the same supermarket for months? Or would you rather have fresh cheese?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:32 PM
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And they all date the same handful of men, and then wonder why they get cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:30 PM
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It's funny how a man's time is never 'precious'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:29 PM
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Women don't have a biological need for companionship because most men in historical times died. Meanwhile men always desire companionship and hate being alone. It's basic evolution.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:28 PM
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You're misreading the market, when I was young I exclusively went for older women and married a woman a decade older than me. I thought I was "swimming against the current" for going for "low market value women", but in reality older women are single because of their higher standards. Just think about it, if a woman wouldn't have high standards she wouldn't be single when she's older. Sometimes you're lucky and you'll find a reasonable old woman who was just focusing on her career and never made…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 02:26 PM
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She was probably brainwashed since the last time you saw her, I am amazed with how many of my female friends actually believe a version of "men have it easier". I am convinced that these people live in an alternative universe or something, as one needs to be utterly blind to not see the omnipresence of misandry.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 08:04 PM
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It's say the opposite, I've only known it as an insult but since seeing the looks-based YouTube sphere I noticed that it's usually meant to refer to handsome low income men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 08:00 PM
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The only men who can do ANYTHING bad to women are the top 1%, the other 99% are completely submissive to all women like lapdogs. This means that OP looks at the top 1% and blames the other 99% for their actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:16 AM
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People with all incomes can have different political opinions. Not all university degrees produce liberally minded people, for example in the Netherlands only Economists tend to be liberals while most other social sciences produce socialists. Both are educated, but they're on opposite ends of the political spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:12 AM
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Hypergamy is often misunderstood, a woman simply needs to be impressed by a man for something she values. Superficial women like handsome men even if they're dumb, sapiophilic women will go for intelligent men even if they're ugly, Etc. A woman who "wants it all" will quickly find out that the men she's chasing have a lot of options and that unless she can offer the same as she expects that she'd just be "a plate to spin" for him. Most women don't marry millionaires, doctors, models, Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:08 AM
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Obviously, a lower class woman would never come into contact with male lawyers in her life (most lower class women I personally know also exclusively want female lawyers). If you want to date a lawyer you have to be where the lawyers are. If you want to date a doctor it's better to work at a hospital than to look for one in a random bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:04 AM
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I date for genetics, a high education is proven good genes, even if she's not intelligent she has the discipline to study and succeed in the educational environment. The best thing that you can give your children are good genes, children adopted into upper class families who descend from criminal parents are 60% likely to engage in criminal behaviour later in life, for the biological children of these same parents it's only in the single-digits. I'd rather accept a difficult intelligent woman th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 09:02 AM
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I recently saw a bald man kissing his girlfriend in the tram and she kept touching her hair and his lower back, they both looked quite young. Of course, the chances of finding a woman who'll treat you like this is like finding extraterrestrial life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:12 AM
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Yeah, I mostly interacted with nice people most of my life and they wouldn't steal, but the people that do steal a lot. It's the top 20% of criminals that do 80% of the crime and get 100% of the women (maybe that last bit is an exaggeration).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:10 AM
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Handsome and/or tall ones, not homely-looking ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 11:08 AM
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Always has been, frequency of intercourse is dependent on a lot of factors, emotions of the woman, how much the woman enjoys it (a large minority of men are too fast and a smaller minority of men last too long), the woman's libido, how willing a woman is to please her man if she's not enjoying it, and in rare cases (I think between 10% to 20% of relationships) men having lower libidos than their partners. It's not all down to looks like many BP'ers like to claim. An evolutionary psychologist des…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:51 AM
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What do you mean by "average"? Average looking or average income? Most men? I sometimes see ugly couples being very intimate in public, I'm not sure if "The Tinder Effect" is as common as people claim, obviously women win out (as they always have and until technology permits it always will), but a lot of even below average men still seem to find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 10:46 AM
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Leave a public review and make sure that they're aware of it, don't protest in silence. Thankfully I have never encountered a school like this, but if I did I would ask other fathers if they had similar issues and then contact a lawyer. I know from Facebook that there are several Men's Rights law firms (one even has mostly female lawyers) that take up MRA cases, if you're lucky one is near, otherwise see if there are legal steps you can take as this type of discrimination is usually illegal.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 10:43 AM
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Remember, as men we're human-doing and not human beings, note how they spell out unemployed men as the problem. An unemployed woman has value because she was lucky enough to be born female, an unemployed man is seen as "a burden on society" despite women taking more welfare than men in most countries.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 12:06 AM
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Unfortunately we live in a culture where if a man doesn't act on the whim of a woman and "defend her honour" that he is not "a real man" and should be shamed.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 12:04 AM
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I suppose that the complaint is that there aren't any formal male-only spaces and those that exist are constantly attacked for being male-only. It's kind of like how gentlemen-only gyms don't exist but ladies-only gyms are common everywhere, even rural villages.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:49 PM
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https://www.wikihow.com/Become-a-Mason According to WikiHow it depends on the lodge, most lodges are still Theist / Deist men-only. Freemason lodges are very common, I've seen them about anywhere except for Communist countries. I'd tell any religious man to go to a local Freemason Lodge and ask for membership, but the easiest way to get blacklisted by a secret organisation is by snooping around and asking questions, so finding men's spaces is still difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:45 PM
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I'm actually somewhat of an anti-gender segregation extremist, I'm against any type of space that tries to segregate people based on arbitrary things like gender. The idea of "female spaces" is often purely done out of the m-word, it is done to exclude men and boys and I loathe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 11:39 PM
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Hollywood and nowhere else.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:16 PM
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The thing is, most women will never be rejected in their lives, as a man rejections are common and normal, as a woman they basically never happen. Because of this we see more men act weird after rejections because more men suffer them. I don't know how I'd act in a tornado storm because tornadoes simply don't occur where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:13 PM
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The "women reproducing without men" trope is extremely common in misandrist entertainment as well, I remember seeing a film where it claimed men would regress into cavemen and women would create global peace and solve global warming overnight. These works are made to demonise men.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 09:11 PM
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The state could do that without punishing the ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:29 PM
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It was never the case that women couldn't work, during the 19th century plenty of female business owners existed, just the cities of Leeds and Birmingham had 30.000 women-owned businesses in 1890. The idea that women couldn't do any work is a modern fantasy. Often mothers still had to work part-time to support their families, this is why older siblings often took care of their younger siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:25 PM
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Wow, I didn't expect this from the Republican Party, they seem to try to push men in oppressive gender roles the most, but apparently they actually did something liberating for once.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:22 PM
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Yeah, I never got that stereotype. Career-oriented men will use gossip and back-stabbing to get a promotion. Male bullying is more gossipy than physical too, it's just that non-physical bullying is largely ignored when it happens to men and boys. I'd say that male gossip is even more covert because many think it doesn't exist, either you're talking about others or you're the one being talked to, at least women don't exclude each other socially like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:21 PM
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I'd say that men talk about a variety of subjects more, men generally like technical things while women generally like social things. So male conversations tend to be more diverse, but I wouldn't say that there's less gossip, it's just more spread out and often subtle, perhaps because there's a social stigma against doing outright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:18 PM
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Depends on the person, I notice that both men and women gossip a lot and that some people (both male and female) rarely gossip. I never got the stereotype that "men never gossip", in fact some of the worst gossip I've seen has been from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:15 PM
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Because the divorce industry coerced men who don't want to be with partners to stay married because a man can lose almost everything from a divorce, meanwhile women tend to gain a lot. A man in an unhappy marriage who leaves risks never seeing his (potential) kids and being mandated to pay a substantial amount to support a person he dislikes. No such risks exist for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:12 PM
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I've tried in vain to convince my wife to start an OF, it's literally easy passive income for any woman with absolute minimal effort. Yet she refuses because she doesn't like the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:07 PM
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No it's not, that's a myth. Wages are at an all time high and female labour force participation grew from 40% in 1960 to 60% in 2020. The only reason wages "shrank" is because the FRB changed the way it collected numbers in the 1970's.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:58 PM
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And women only treat lower ranking men like this, women treat each other as equals, that is all women view all women as equal but see most men as beneath them and will belittle them.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 08:55 PM
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"Water tight vag", I've literally never seen a woman brag about her vaginismus. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:50 PM
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As a man you always have to approach and lead the conversations, there is not one thing that can carry a man. Meanwhile for ANY woman the dating market is like that theoretical model in the PUA mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:49 PM
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Yes, but society encourages this "You go girl" and "You deserve to be treated as a queen" rhetoric, it's only controversial when it involves men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:46 PM
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Which part of the Manosphere? The Father's Rights Movement? MGTOW? The Men's Rights Movement? Pick-up Artists? Inkies? Which ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:45 PM
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Making friends as an adult woman is easy, I have adult female friends who tell me all the time how they just walk in wherever they want and everyone treats them nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:44 PM
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Women have infinite choices so female selection works through elimination, any woman has dozens of model tier men in her DM's at any given day of the week, so you're replaceable if you're just handsome and not charming. Dating a woman is going through multiple job interviews where she can eliminate you over any minor reason and she can terminate you without reason at any given time too. You're always in competition and she is always looking at other candidates and other candidates will always ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:27 PM
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I actually know exactly that guy, well, he's a friend's ex-boyfriend. She told me that she wasn't really that attracted to him because of his personality (Autism), but he got a few one night stands at nightclubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:19 PM
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Status > Looks > Personality > Money. I know shy millionaires who can't get laid, I know ugly millionaires who can't get laid, a shy handsome man is "mysterious", an ugly and poor a-hole with a high status can still find plenty of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:17 PM
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You're wrong about motherhood diminishing their abundance mindset, the actual psychological reason why single mothers are more accepting is because motherhood changes a woman's brain. In order to be able to handle a baby mothers have lower disgust sensitivity, this is because (as a father, I can say) taking care of infants is a disgusting job. From puberty females develop a strong sensitivity towards disgust, after menopause this disgust sensitivity quickly diminishes, this is also why old ladie…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:14 PM
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Non-sense, men care more about personality. The ugliest woman in the world can beat any beauty by having a better and more accepting personality, women generally only care about looks and especially the weight of a man. Just because you're superficial doesn't mean that all men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:09 PM
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Looks are the main factor in selection because most dating apps have exclusively focused on looks, if you create an artificial environment which only focuses on one thing you will naturally see that thing become the most important. If dating apps didn't show faces and only focused on voices we'd see the same results for voice and people would say "Now that women have Instagram and TikTok they don't care about looks anymore because they can see good looking men every day" and we'd see articles ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:07 PM
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Become a woman and date the men who call themselves HVM and benefit from their riches. I know a transwoman that gets expensive dinners every day from desperate men on Tinder. There's an easier hack.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:03 PM
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Where did OP say any of these things? This is the direct effect of looks-based apps, even in Iran and Libya we see the same effect, in these societies women are very dependent on men for everything but the few handsome men there are still slaying. Even if this type of life (that never existed in the West) would be here it wouldn't change the dating market. Women simply don't respond to wealth cues, only genetic health cues (attractiveness).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 08:00 PM
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Because the men who have it easy either (A) already left the dating market or (B) go for younger women. So you're now getting the rejects who always had to put in more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:56 PM
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Feminism and Feminists by themselves aren't the problem, rather it's the Feminist monopoly on gender discourse, if we had both Institutional Feminism and Institutional MRM+Manosphere we'd see both battle each other in open public debates and people would debate each talking point at home, but in reality we only have institutional Feminism and it very much enforces its monopoly. Asking the women's movement to help men is like asking the Gay movement to help Trans people, they're not going to help…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:14 PM
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If one country would pioneer it others may follow, maybe we'd even get a UN Men. Unfortunately, Australia is also the country that recently ended the default equal custody because of Feminist activism, so I'm not sure if this would actually happen and if it would happen it would be extremely controversial.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:05 PM
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This is why we need more Men's Rights lawyers like Marc Angelucci. Unfortunately, there aren't enough.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:52 PM
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Defeatism isn't helping anyone, the Feminists literally storm in and use their numbers to strong-arm their opponents, if we don't try to get our numbers up we'll forever be dominated.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:50 PM
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I'm not opposed to the concept of gender studies as it could work as a field of scientific study and I remember that A Voice for Men and other MRM organisations used to push for men's studies as a field. My main issue with it is that it is a vehicle to push for Feminist activism and not an actual scientific field of study (which is could and should be). https://www.researchgate.net/publication/315583936_Women's_Studies_as_Virus_Institutional_Feminism_Affect_and_the_Projection_of_Danger If we had…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:48 PM
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Feminists literally have "Wikistorms". https://web.archive.org/web/20230707183800/https://www.femtechnet.org/docc/feminist-wiki-storming/ Or see how people on Wikipedia react to ANY manospherian concept having its own article. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wikipedia:Articles_for_deletion/Paper_Abortion
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:42 PM
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Wow, this shows extreme bias. We should get MRA's to get degrees in journalism and try to change this world from within, then open the door for other MRA's to join these companies, perhaps we should infiltrate HR first.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:34 PM
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Internalised misandry is extremely common.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:33 PM
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Something similar happened to me when I was 14, I was in a shop and some women were just "intimidated" by me just being there, so they asked a male customer to threaten me, it was an older man and he gladly did so. Later when I asked the manager about his staff acting like this the manager said "you shouldn't whine". I've often felt tempted to throw rocks there, while it's over 15 years that happened and I'm sure nobody who worked there back then still works there now I still think about going t…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:32 PM
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There should be laws against this, that she would have to pay him alimony or something. But in reality, alimony is rarely paid to the man, even if she earns more.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:27 PM
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Virgin shaming has always been around, especially against members of the Manosphere. I remember MRA's and MGTOW back in the day calling out virgin shaming, they just have another term for it now. A term they themselves demonised.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:24 PM
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See it like this, to the German revolution the mere existence of Jews was seen as "reactionary", we are like this, their "revolution" is lik this one, it was never about equality, only fear and hatred.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:21 PM
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I will say this here and this cannot be repeated enough, society hates men more than it loves women. Society is accepting of women getting into male spaces because it hates the idea of men having anything to ourselves, society is against men getting into female spaces because society is against men benefiting from anything in any way. Female transvestites don't exist because "male clothing" doesn't exist, a woman in a suit is just a woman in a suit. A man even wearing painted nails is a politica…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:20 PM
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Paternity testing should be mandatory, as a birthday gift my mother and sister gave me a paternity test but they literally had to cough up hundreds of euros for it. As a man you have to pay for the knowledge of parenthood, something which comes natural and free to any woman.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:16 PM
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Now imagine if the KKK made similar posts about groups they hate, it's only acceptable when men are the target. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:14 PM
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It might have been that their lawyers later told them that they could get sued if they pursued such a policy.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:13 PM
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This has been the default for decades, maybe over half a century ago it was seen as funny to physically harm both men and women, but it's extremely normal. When I was a kid there were multiple shows dedicated to showing how "funny" it is to see a man get pain in the groin, but it's nonexistent to see this happen to women. YouTube is probably the only platform where female groin pain is played for comedy and this would never appear on mainstream TV.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:12 PM
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People could, we literally can scale back work and be equally productive, it's just that corporate culture forces people to do a lot or nonsensical (and often ritualistic) busywork that isn't productive. Don't even get me started on high paying jobs that are 100% this.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:08 PM
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I'm a stay-at-home father and people often act very judgemental towards me, a few days ago I was talking to a few older women and noted that my wife was highly educated and had a good job but when I told her that I was a stay-at-home father she kept referring to me as "an unemployed father" (I have literally NEVER heard anyone refer to stay-at-home mothers as such), and very few people respect me if I say that, so I'm often forced to just not bring it up or face negative judgement both from men …
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:06 PM
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A lot of men are denied promotions because they don't have a family, this is injustice. A man going his own way shouldn't be forced to follow tradition. We know and respect women who do this, but men yet have to be liberated.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:52 PM
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India has a strong rape hysteria, I remember reading on A Voice for Men (AVfM) a few years ago that the Delhi police thought that over 60% of rape charges were in fact fraudulent. Women know that they have this power and if she thinks that she can get both social status and resources through this move she will. Not all women are bad, but you're literally playing a game of Russian roulette and the definition of "winning" a game of Russian roulette just means that you got out unscathed after takin…
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:50 PM
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I think that this is somewhat a positive messages, but until the Men's Rights Movement is "a household name" that people take seriously I can't say that we're winning. This is why we need to acquire positions of influence, hide our political opinions until we've infiltrated spaces and then open the door for fellow activists.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:47 PM
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I noticed slightly more positive messages for Father's Day this year than years prior. Perhaps this is because the culture is shifting, perhaps this is because fathers spend more than other men. Who knows?
/r/MensRights07/07/23 05:45 PM
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She knows that this cry will get her volunteer bodyguards, the only reason no men stepped up to volunteer is because of the camera, otherwise the man who exposed her scam would've been hospitalised (if lucky). Also notice how she crosses the road and expecting the (male) bicyclist to stop for her, I often see women walk like this, they expect every man to make way for them.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 12:11 AM
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This is very much an Islamic idea, in Islam men have their own spaces and women have their own spaces, they keep literally everything separate. The problem is that Western Feminists see Islam, they like the exclusive female things but they'll complain about exclusive male spaces. I wouldn't have as big of an issue with gender segregation if male-only spaces actually exist, but you can walk into male dressing rooms, toilets, and showers and encounter female custodians, meanwhile I've never heard …
/r/MensRights27/05/23 12:05 AM
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Yes, gender segregation seems to increase tension between men and women, one thing I noticed is that women often can't articulate why they prefer women-only spaces, even if they don't really feel irritated by the presence of men. I recently asked a woman why she always goes to a women-only gym and her response was basically "I don't know" as she never had any negative experiences with men in mixed gyms nor did she feel particularly uncomfortable around them or even notice them. My guess is that …
/r/MensRights27/05/23 12:00 AM
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No offense OP, but the women you're describing seem like they have a very specific personality type. Best you need to do is filter these types of women out, they are a bane for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:48 PM
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If you can hide insecurity it can't be "smelled", there are different cues that signify insecurity but not everyone can notice them, this also applies to women. The biggest issue you have with insecurities is not shooting your shot when you should.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:46 PM
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Life as a man: everyone is always hostile towards you, bullies exist, you are often excluded from groups and social gatherings, Etc. Life as a woman: literally everyone you meet is nice to you and tries to make you happy simply for existing, bullying doesn't exist for women and girls (other than them bullying men and boys for fun), and no woman has ever been excluded from a group or social event, no matter how obnoxious and antisocial she acts, people will always forgive her. Yeah, it's clearly …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:43 PM
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"Women used to be the prize, now women are your competition. This is why men ‘humbling’ women has become such a common occurrence. Men refusing to pay for dates - it’s not “alpha” - it’s pure insecurity that stems from jealousy." You're wrong, it's due to women's insecurities that men pay, a woman who is confident in her financial independence would offer to split the bill, only a leech would demand to be paid for merely showing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:40 PM
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The only time false accusers face justice in the UK is when they're male, the system only exists to punish men and boys.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 11:37 PM
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Yep, and men usually don't enforce their own standards. I like chubby women but both my wife and girlfriend are skinny. Men get what we can get, if OP thinks that men go for those girls it's because those girls have lower standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:42 PM
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Dude, I'm also Dutch, the Philippines is extremely easy to go to. I'm an African person so I have less success because of my looks (light skin and light eyes are preferred, luckily my eldest son was born with blonde hair and blue eyes despite having a Vietnamese mother, I'm half by the way), I talked to some White Dutch living in Hanoi and they all had an easy time, I even knew a really short brown Maluku guy that got an absolute babe from Thanh Hoa. Dating is far easier in those countries, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah, I noticed the ones who want money will ask for it quite quickly or they'll ask for you to send romantic gifts to show your financial commitment, the ones that don't care about money will go out of their way to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:20 PM
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Casual coitus is the same everywhere, it's a specific type of person that is attracted to it and they usually hang out at similar places or use similar apps, just localised.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:19 PM
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Exactly, just look at all the "many women in their 30's and 40's are single, men should do better" articles in Western Feminist newspapers, they're always complaining about men not earning enough money or not being high status enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:17 PM
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Vietnam is far less "traditional" of a culture than the United States, I've lived in both countries and American women (even the Feminists) are far more Conservative and bound to gender rôles than Vietnamese women. Filipina's are like 1950's Americans generally speaking, I have a Vietnamese wife and a Filipina girlfriend and I'm lucky that the latter is a rare exception in her country and isn't traditional, though still too traditional for my taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:15 PM
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The national language of the Philippines is English. If you go below Luzon then "Filipino" isn't even that popular of a language, they still mostly do things either in English or Bisaya unless someone forces them to use "Filipino" (what the government calls Tagalog).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:12 PM
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Gold digging is as common in the West but it's usually seen as "indecent" so gold digging women will gaslight their prospective husbands into believing that it wasn't about the money. At least Oriental women are honest, though to be fair I was the gold digger with my Vietnamese bride. Her family literally sent money to us in the Netherlands to support us when we asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:11 PM
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The national language of the Philippines is English.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:10 PM
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Gold digging is as common in the West but it's usually seen as "indecent" so gold digging women will gaslight their prospective husbands into believing that it wasn't about the money. At least Oriental women are honest, though to be fair I was the gold digger with my Vietnamese bride. Her family literally sent money to us in the Netherlands to support us when we asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:10 PM
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I did that with a wife a decade older, I went passportmaxxing in my early 20's, if you take an older woman you essentially get more for a discount, she's very highly educated and lived in a gated community for the wealthy. I couldn't dream of finding such a high society wife in the West.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:06 PM
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I hope you're joking about the astrology stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:05 PM
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Having lived in Hanoi that's the first thing that came to my mind, I took my half-Vietnamese kids outside of the country the moment I could. So many people die there in traffic accidents it's horrible... Meanwhile I crossed the roundabout next to the Opera House with my eyes closed for fun once, my then-girfriend was angry when she saw what I was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 05:02 PM
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This is a Gynocracy, the only qualification needed is you need to be born "in the right group".
/r/MensRights10/05/23 08:31 AM
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Yeah, racism is only acceptable when it's against men, sexism is only acceptable when it's against men, homophobia is only acceptable when it's against men, transphobia is only acceptable when it's against transwomen (who are seen by transphobes as "men"). White female Feminists will often say how minority neighbourhoods make "women feel unsafe", Men's Rights has always been intersectional, Feminism is struggling with it.
/r/MensRights10/05/23 08:10 AM
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I think that those are just personality clusters, likewise in the Manosphere it is commonly stated that children need their fathers because boys without fathers tend to be more criminals and girls without fathers tend to become single mothers. But in reality those children were genetically predisposed to become like this. Should good fathers receive equal parenting after divorce? Yes, obviously. But think about it, what kind of woman would exclude the father from his children? I know a lot of di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:10 PM
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It's a very common myth that different people are difficult to tell apart. This myth is mostly being spread by people who aren't familiar by the fields they're talking about in order to claim that "underneath our skin all people are equal" while in reality lots of differences exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:02 PM
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The most handsome man in the world, plus billions of dollars, plus a super tall height, plus an amazing personality is less likely to find someone than the ugliest, most abusive, mentally ill, homeless woman. Either you're born female, or you've lost at life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:59 PM
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They look the same, it's just that MEN have no looks standards. Men don't actually care about looks, women spread the lie that men do to appear less superficial themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 06:58 PM
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Here is the link to Vice.com . https://web.archive.org/web/20230418140919/https://www.vice.com/nl/article/59mpzz/hoe-het-is-om-een-vrouwelijke-potloodventer-te-zijn Archive, as I don't want to give them money.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 02:12 PM
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Yeah, I had to do a lot of tests before getting married as well, I have kids born in multiple countries and the procedures are different. The one born in the Netherlands had literally thousands of Euro's worth of free things done after birth to them and a paternity test would only be a small increase. The only people against this are those that benefit from the current situation, this wouldn't include a single honest woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:38 PM
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"Under HIPAA, your genetic data can’t be given to your school or employer, but law enforcement agencies are entitled to access it without a warrant..." Honestly, I want to see a national DNA database for every country, it would advance medical science and mandatory paternity tests at birth would advance this, plus it would allow it to find criminals more easily. The first country to implement this system would probably inspire a lot of others to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:34 PM
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We NEED institutional power, Feminists uplift each other, 2nd- & 3rd-Wave Feminists got in the universities and then expanded their power base from there into the media and other institutions, 4th-Wave Feminism was allowed to walk in because all the doors were opened for their by the infrastructure that has already been built up for them since the 1960's. Men's Rights organisations need to try to be let into a handful of universities and then open the door for all other Manospherian organisation…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:16 AM
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This is actually well done, kudos to you. I wonder if you can publish this in a paper on critical theory to see how others would react to it.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:11 AM
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They would probably infiltrate this sub through derailment and baiting, that is keep the discussion on things that would distract from actively seeking legal rights for men. Remember, the United States government would have a lot to lose if the draft (selective service) was abolished. Likewise, they would deliberately put a few (subtly) misogynistic accounts in here and then send those posts to news media to try and smear all of us and discredit the real world problems we bring to light.
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:02 AM
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They have to justify their own existence, just label any new movements as "extremist".
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:57 PM
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I could be in a sexless marriage if there's love and support and still a lot of kissing and cuddling. A lot of men forget that most dicks have an expiration date, after a certain age your dick stops working for most men and you'd still desire companionship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:15 PM
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Exactly, you can expect (1) to get cheated on, (2) to lose half of your assets in a divorce, (3) to lose custody, (4) to find out the child isn't yours but still be legally obligated to pay child support, and (5) to have your name blackened by anyone who interacts with her as she'll go out of her way to shitmouth you. I know a lot of women like this and there's a reason it's called "dumpster diving".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:13 PM
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If women aren't PS5's then why can I turn my girlfriend on and then play with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:10 PM
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But that's literally the same with bad boys, asshole men do very well at dating too and women complain about these men all the time yet still date them. This is not a gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:07 PM
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This post shows something I noticed too, there's this old trope that claims "women say they like nice guys but only date bad boys" which is statistically non-sense, rather the personality that makes an asshole and a whiner are neurologically linked and people mate assortively, namely Neuroticism and Disagreeableness. Disagreeableness is a lack of empathy while Neuroticism is a proneness to negative emotions, the men and women who complain the most are higher in Neuroticism and the men and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
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But Neurotic people interact different than emotionally stable people, Neurotic women show interest by avoiding eye contact, emotionally stable women show interest by making eye contact. To show interest you have to mirror her, she will think that doing the other is a sign of disinterest. This is pre-selection for like-minded people before the first word is said, "the ick" is just people mating assortively again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:57 PM
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This implies that every person gets the ick for the same things, the "ick" is also heavily personal. An unhygienic woman doesn't get the ick for an unhygienic man, but a clean woman would and vice versa. For example I fart quite a lot, most women find that disgusting but women who fart a lot too don't have an issue with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:55 PM
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That is because historically women had strong kinship biases, women rarely interacted with women from outside of their own groups and women more strongly follow social norms. If Feminism is the norm in a society every normal woman would be a Feminist and only "weird" ones would be Conservative, if Conservatism is norm every woman would be a Conservative and only "weird" ones would be Feminists for example. Men are more varied when it comes to norms as men don't benefit as much from sustaining th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:51 PM
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Those scales are also highly subjective, a woman who is into heavily tattooed bearded guys with hoop earrings wouldn't find the clean man in a suit attractive and a woman who is in the latter wouldn't find the former necessarily attractive. People heavily underestimate the non-random assortively effects of mating.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:47 PM
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It doesn't need to be cohesive, it just needs to be supportive to similar minded individuals. TERF's and Trans-Feministe still open doors for each other despite one group being very Conservative and the other more Progressive, they recognise each other's Feminism and protect each other's institutions. Men's Rights Movements often squabble with each other, I remember a lot of MRA's criticising Paul Elam for being a traditional provider husband because traditional gender roles oppress men and he c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:44 PM
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I remember an article on a Men's Rights website over a decade ago entitled something like "Men's Rights has always been intersectional, Feminism has always been racist" written by a Black MRA that talked about how almost all issues Black men face are unique misandric issues Black women never had to deal with (for example the term "woke" comes from a song commenting on Black men that were lynched due to White women making false allegations against them, something unique to men and boys), and wrot…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:38 PM
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I don't think that you understand the men's rights movement at all, it is about fighting misandry in all forms and everywhere, this only ever has to do with women when women are perpetrators of misandry, but men's rights is about fighting misandry as an abstract concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 10:34 PM
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Obviously, it's just equality. Men having the same knowledge of parental status that women have always had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:44 PM
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Better = fitting better into the environment = reproducing more successfully. If a woman in a harem wants to get rid of her competitor's kids because she has a jealous personality and will poison both her co-wife and kids less kids survive. But women in relationships with co-wives where they all love each other and care for each other have more surviving offspring and larger tribes (using a simulated model of different mating strategies), it would only seem logical that being bisexual in women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:41 PM
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True, several of my bisexual female friends told me that they'd offer their boyfriends to get into a threesome. Some boyfriends denied them, others were enthusiastically accepting of it. Just imagine a man wanting to bring another man into HER bed that HE selected. Women like doing the selecting and don't like a non-handsome strange man. Some women won't even do it with a handsome strange man. Most men are less selective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:38 PM
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You're Gen X, when you were young that was the whole fashion, back in the 1980's a woman in a broad-shouldered business suit with a buzz cut was a common sight and men loved them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:34 PM
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Being a man is a chore, being a woman is a delight. That's why I choose to be a stay-at-home father and people often shame me for it...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:33 PM
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I just spent an hour watching MTV's "Forever 80's" show, apparently back in the 1980's everyone was androgenous and male femininity and female masculinity seemed to have been celebrated then, basically all women in video clips had either costumes with very broad shoulders or masculine fashion and the men were often using lots of make-up and glitter. Something happened afterwards that made it less acceptable for men to be feminine (probably just misandry).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:31 PM
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Homosexual women are always accepted by society, homophobia is 100% misandry. Bisexual women are always accepted by society, meanwhile we have seen lots of propaganda against us bisexual men. Transmen (women to men) are accepted by society and men never exclude transmen from any traditional male spaces (and neither are ciswomen barred from "male" spaces), yet we constantly hear about the "dangers" of transwomen using a toilet next to a biological woman "How dare HE?!". Again, it's 100% misandry.…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 07:28 PM
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Yeah, there are many programs exclusively for women and girls in STEM. My wife is a STEM major and she's from a Communist country where actual gender equality exists, so when I told her that in the West exclusive scholarships and free education for women and girls existed she said it was bullshit, now she had several additional courses that would have cost her thousands of Dollars if she was "born the wrong gender" completely free of charge. Imagine if these programmes helped both men and women …
/r/MensRights10/04/23 07:06 PM
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Now imagine this with ANY other demographic, imagine a teacher saying something like "Don't let these Blacks beat you", she would be fired in an instant, but men and boys are the only acceptable target of discrimination and the entire system from cradle to grave facilitates it.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 07:03 PM
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My guess is that this is a very specific type of woman most men end up dating because these types of women date the most men as they're the most likely to end relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:55 PM
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This mostly applies to PUA and BP spaces, a lot it is simply telling men that all women have impossibly high standards by nitpicking a few TikTok videos, for example the "I like tall men" videos on TikTok commonly use 5'11 men, but they will only show the ones where a 4'10 woman has a 6'10 boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:52 PM
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Depends on where you are, in the Netherlands Indian men are extremely in demand, East Asian men also but less. Blacks and Arabs the least here. I forgot the study, but it used Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:49 PM
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Unfortunately so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:48 PM
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It unironically is, Feminism enforces gender roles while requesting additional special privileges for women. Unless we have true gender egalitarianism we won't see this situation change.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:40 PM
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The issue with your view is that it is based almost completely of a Tinder economy. Before Tinder dating sites weren't as looks based as they are now, before Tinder I could go on a dating site and chat with 10 women in 1 evening, since Tinder I can swipe for years and have 0 matches. Almost all dating sites and apps now follow Tinder's model because it's the most profitable because it keeps men the most frustrated. Before Tinder you could message an ugly woman and impress her with your personali…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 05:38 PM
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I really hope he wins, false accusations should be against the law everywhere.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 05:35 PM
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That sounds really horrible, as someone who grew up with parents that always gave me almost anything I ever asked for I feel really bad for people like you and I hope that if you'll one day become a father that you'll give your children the childhood you never had.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:54 PM
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Motherhood isn't instinctual and is largely social, pregnancy changes a woman's personality a lot (for example my wife was very masculine but after a few pregnancies unfortunately became more feminine), but people have to learn how to take care of children. Historically the previous generations taught the later generations and this is still the case in upper class families, but I noticed that lower middle class and lower class families have this mentality of "you be you" and "you choose what mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:53 PM
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Generally speaking men are less religious and conservative than women, though this is because women are generally more conformist. For example, if the main religion of the land is Wokeism women tend to be more woke, if the main religion of the land is Islam women tend to be more Islamist. This is also why I suspect I suspect that of the girls I went to school with the Goth chicks turned into Tradwives and the religious girls turned into Woke women with an attitude, the conformists simply conform…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:49 PM
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My guess is that people with a bad parent tend to inherit the genes to make them like that. For example, a mother with high Neuroticism (easily angry, suffers from anxiety, shy and reserved, Etc.) Would likely produce a highly Neurotic son (and daughter) as personality is 40~60% genetic. This would explain why even if someone with a bad mother gets adopted into a loving family they may view the world in a negative light.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:45 PM
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I noticed that the term "Pickme girl" usually gets applied to tomboys (masculine women and girls), for example I know a lot of women who are very masculine, do masculine hobbies, and enjoy being around men. They do that because it's simply their personalities, not because they specifically would like to be picked. The same applies to effeminate men. I have a tomboy cousin who only likes masculine things and she's so masculine that during her wedding both she and the groom wore matching tuxedos. …
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:42 PM
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Yeah, let's just call them what they are, misguided men with internalised misandry.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:37 PM
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Shit tests are a personality trait of very specific high Neuroticism low Agreeableness women, I have a lot of female friends and the only ones that do shit tests are the ones who aren't relationship material.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:36 PM
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Exactly, to me the OP seems to be complaining about a very specific type of Machiavellian lower class woman who seeks to exploit. For example, I've dated many Filipina's I've met on dating sites and NONE have ever asked me for money, yet a Filipina I met through a friend's friend scammed me for years and she had a good paying job and went on trips to other countries for her job all the time often flying through 3 or 4 continents. The one with the most extravagant lifestyle was the one asking for…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:34 PM
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To me the only good definition of "masculinity" is one that includes all men, if a man is weak and has a muscular wife that would handle burglars to protect the family he's as much of a man as the 6'7 muscle beast.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:30 PM
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I wonder how people would've reacted if the reverse happened during International Men's Day.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:28 PM
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To me, the problem isn't women's rights rather it's the lack of men's rights. If women would get a right to free roller coaster rides I would only have an issue with it if this "right" wouldn't be extended to men and boys.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 12:26 PM
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Yeah, reverse the sexes here, a man yelling at his disabled wife wouldn't be accepted. My golden rule for situations like this is the "reversal test", if it fails this test it shouldn't be acceptable. Now imagine people telling the disabled wife who got emotionally abused by her husband that she needs to be more understanding, we'd rightfully call that victim blaming.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:31 AM
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Depends on the woman, I have two neighbours who are addicted to video games, they're boyfriend and girlfriend, there was a time where he was unemployed for 2 years and she worked and they never had an argument, they kept playing together. Plenty of women like video games, do not pay attention to the women who see it as a "red flag", you're not dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:28 AM
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I'd like to say that there are different Redpills, the Men's Rights Redpill ≠ the MGTOW Redpill (but there's significant overlap), and these most certainly aren't the PUA Redpill, the Anti-PUA Redpill, and the Incel Blackpill. I'd say that there's largely some overlap, one is more about social issues, the other legal issues, MGTOW are generally against marriage because they see it as "a gun held against men's heads", I was a MGHOW until my now-wife proposed to get married and I agreed. PUA's gen…
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:24 AM
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The world isn't epilepsy friendly, I often see random flashing videos online and just think how bad it could have been if I was suffering from it. a
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:15 AM
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You could be walking in the streets with her and some numbskull White Knight might just randomly punch you. I can vaguely recall a similar story where a woman had a black eye and someone just randomly punched her boyfriend telling him to "respect all women". I think that a friend told me that this happened to her brother, it was many years ago. But such unthinking White Knights exist, so jokes aren't the worst thing that could happen.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:13 AM
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Yep, I'm a househusband and I'd never even dream of suing my wife for alimony or something like that. I often go out and spend her money, it would be disgusting to ask for more after a divorce.
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:09 AM
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In my country a woman can point you to be the father, refuse a paternity test, and then paternity is assumed. A lot of men end up paying for kids that aren't even theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:48 PM
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I'm not sure if we have this in my country, I've read that a man can relinquish his parental rights, but a woman can still sue him for his parental responsibilities (money).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:47 PM
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150 men a year, for the past 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:45 PM
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99% is pretty close to a 100%. In fact, I have a friend and she's slept with 150 men for the past 15 or so years and has never caught an STD because she always used condoms. Condoms are literally the best birth control and STD prevention method and NOBODY is talking about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:44 PM
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The tax payers can pay for cheap mass-produced paternity tests, just like how the tax payers already subsidise basically the entire child bearing experience. I saw the hospital bills, midwifery bills, free government babysitting bills, vaccine bills, and medical consultation bills that the government paid for our child that was born in the West. Adding even a full price paternity test to that would be like a drop of water in the ocean, we could combine mandatory paternity tests with a national D…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:42 PM
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The fact that child support can even be extracted from unwilling fathers is a crime onto itself. Also, we need positive discrimination to get more men to be teachers and work in kindergartens. The government should subsidise men in industries where we are underrepresented as well, otherwise it's not equality but pure supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:37 PM
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To me this is a red flag, I always avoid women who say negative things about men in their own country. Almost every Asian woman I dated was largely positive about Asian men, I often quickly noticed that it was a red flag if she had nothing but bad things to say about Asian men. I think that this is true for people from all places, if I saw an American woman who said "American men are so bad, but I love French / Thai / Ghanian men" I'd be really suspicious of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:33 PM
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I hate the West for its lack of masculine women, all tomboys in the West are brainwashed into thinking that they're not normal and can't be heterosexual because of their masculine personalities. You can find nice masculine women in the East who are 100% heterosexual. I know a tomboy who forces herself to date women (despite not feeling attracted to them) because people keep telling her "you don't act like a straight woman" because of her dominant personality and the fact that she wears male suit…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:30 PM
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The only people even making these claims are y'all. Men aren't looking for a "traditional" leech, they want a wife that respects them as a human being, most men can't find that in America so some of them leave. The only people dehumanising foreign women here are the American women who paint them as "weak" and "helpless".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:26 PM
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Not all men want the same, plus you can find chaste and promiscuous women in any society, both are roughly 20% on each side or the spectrum with 60% being neither promiscuous nor chaste, I don't think that these numbers are very different anywhere. Just like women, men tend to prefer partners that are like-minded. Promiscuous men tend to hang around promiscuous women, and chaste men want to hang around chaste women. In fact, I once told my partner count to a woman who had significantly less and …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:21 PM
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I don't think that this is true, a low body percentage in men is universally seen as attractive by women, meanwhile men have no weight preference (though I personally prefer bigger women).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:18 PM
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Fat women don't date fat men, the only women I can date are thin because every fat woman outright rejects me before a single conversation, thin women are more likely to give me a chance. I hate the fact that my wife is thin and I wish she would gain more weight, but the idea that men reject fat women is cope, I've never seen a man in real life say that he's not attracted to fat women, I've heard even morbidly obese women complain about normal weight men as being "too fat".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:17 PM
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It doesn't matter how bad women do financially after divorce, men aren't allowed to even see their children after divorce in many cases, even if the mother is abusive. 50/50 shared custody helps women's economic prospects and men's social and emotional prospects, but both Traditionalists and Feminists oppose it because women are seen as "naturally better parents" by virtue of being born female. There has been clear research that indicates that divorce doesn't hurt children, fatherlessness / moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:10 PM
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Plenty of women in the West are "traditional", I see that as a problem rather than anything good. I've never met a young Filipina or Thai who wasn't actively working or looking for a job, most housewives I know in the Orient still work or hustle. In the West it's extremely common for a woman to completely drop out or the workforce or expect her boyfriend / husband to subsidise her hobbies or unprofitable business ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:01 PM
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"However the whole idea strikes me as a bit of a pipe dream. You realise that even if you find your dream woman who is willing to be submissive and a trad wife… she will expect a traditional husband. The financial burden will be entirely on you. Suggest splitting the bill over dinner she’ll laugh in your face." Not my notice to go abroad, I prefer foreign women BECAUSE they aren't Tradwives. Most Dutch women work part-time jobs and most who work full-time work part-time after marriage, the Dutch…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:57 PM
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I like the body shaming language you use, as we often hear the same about men.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:10 PM
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Wow, I've never heard of this book before. Thank you for recommending it, I'll listen to the audiobook later.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:07 PM
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Someone should convert that text into an audiobook and upload it to YouTube. All that is necessary is a simple text-to-speech robot.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:06 PM
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Hallmark films are made for men, by men, and with men in mind. Hallmark is Conservative so there are no women other than the actresses, I remember one hilarious one where the woman was a director of these type of films. Men like romance, women love looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:19 PM
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Kind of weird, I remember reading a study from 2010 that stated that like 95% of women hate beards but most women in this comment section love them. This makes me think that the sample of women who browse this sub deviate quite far from the standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/23 01:17 PM
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A Shield for Men made a video showing studies and reports to debunk it and showed that misandry at every stage in the education system from kindergarten to university is to blame. This isn't just one thing you can point at but hundreds of different factors favouring women and girls. None are biological by the way, it is a myth that boys' brains develop more slowly but you'll find Tradcons like Chris Williamson spread this (debunked) lie all the time.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:16 AM
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No patriarchy has ever existed, historically men and women negotiated gender roles which were crystallised in society and this became oppressive, but while women were liberated from their gender roles men are still held under ours.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:14 AM
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This might actually also help people realise that the general idea of the gender gap is largely a myth.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 12:53 PM
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"If I were you, I would consider if I had any other relatives whom I already love and trust, and with whom I can live, such as an uncle or aunt or grandparents, and discuss a temporary move with them." More often than not this isn't feasible, my mother took care of her brother's daughter for years when I was a kid, her abusive biological mother still got her back, despite living in the Dominican Republic. It's difficult to escape abuse, especially by your parents. I'd tell him to ask for help, b…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 12:50 PM
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I love overweight women, I can't find one that's interested in me and almost every woman I've dated was either normal weight or underweight, I have tried to make my wife gain weight but she loses it really quickly. If there's a pill that could make my wife gain weight I'd buy it in an instant.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:38 PM
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"I don't really see women complaining about fat men the way men complain about a fat woman" women don't complain about fat men because we're invisible to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:36 PM
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It's because a lot of these men look at the absolute worst women and project that onto all women, it's like how Misandrists always take the worst men they can find and claim "all men are like that", it just happens so rarely in reverse that people can't identify when these men are using the worst women to mean all women. Plenty of women cheat, plenty of men cheat, most people don't cheat and most cheaters are serial cheaters. But a person who has been cheated on might project this onto all membe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:33 PM
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Yes, but looksmaxxing and stuff are things advocated for within the Blackpill, it just says that you shouldn't get your hopes up too high (a genetic ceiling). Most men don't appeal to most women and as a man you need to do a lot to appeal to even one woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 09:42 AM
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I wanted to add a clip by the YouTuber Tails where he shows a Chad, then the Chad gets an abundance mindset, he gets arrogant because he doesn't have to try hard with women, he gets confident because he always wins, and then the PUA removes the attractive man from the picture and calls it "game".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:52 AM
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Game = the PUA Redpill. Looks = the anti-PUA Blackpill (this later also evolved into the Incelosphere). Game consistently lost the argument, especially when men started Chadfishing with very insecure low self-esteem attractive men that pulled more women than high confidence assholes game claims all women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:51 AM
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Top men are picky for anything beyond casual sex, you can't be picky if you're hungry. Most men live in a love desert, if you're hungry you will eat anything, no matter how much you'd usually hate it because it's better to have unhealthy food than it is to starve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:27 AM
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To be fair, if she's from an environment where good men are rare she's most likely not a good woman. Good men and good women tend to associate with each other, meanwhile misery seeks the company of misery, never let an agent of chaos into your life, be they male or female. I'd even argue that male agents of chaos are way more manipulative and back-stabbing than female ones, but both of them are bad company to keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:25 AM
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As much as I disagree with your language I do agree that this "hold frame" non-sense doesn't apply to all women. Rather it's a personality type, just like that not all women shit test men, in fact I have noticed that it's a very specific type of woman that shit tests men and her brothers tend to shit test women too. I guess that this is because the PUA idea of TRP is based on short casual flings, the type of women that love to seek lots of short casual flings with men who know "game" (be an assh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:23 AM
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To add insult to injury, my girlfriend though currently a career woman has the stupid dream of being "a traditional woman" (a housewife leech) and I lie to her that I'm a Christian (I'm an Atheist). I don't like traditional Christian women with traditional Christian values, but she's university-educated and has a middle class income and good genetics in this respect. I don't actually plan on taking a woman in as a leech, so after she bears me a daughter I'll bring that daughter to my country and…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:19 AM
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During my wife's last pregnancy we found out that it was a boy, in the midwifery office I asked her for an abortion... My wife started crying and since that moment has rarely talked to me beyond taking care of our sons, she knew that I have always wanted a daughter (probably since I was 6 years old) and that I've always hated the fact that I had the misfortune of being born male. I'm still married to her, while she had a good income as a computer scientist before after not working for a couple o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 02:17 AM
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The interesting part about the term "toxic masculinity" is that it came from the field of criminology who applied it to the culture of the most criminal prisoners in the American prison system where the men had a toxic idea of what it means "to be a man" by saying things like "real men beat other men up" and "real men steal and fight" and because mainstream masculinity didn't value this toxic behaviour they called it "toxic masculinity" to differentiate it from regular societal expectations of m…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 02:04 AM
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Yes, the "dick size energy" thing is kind of worse because it implies that it's virtuous to have an immutable physical trait with only cosmetic application. It's simply shaming for the sake of shaming. Men don't tell women that they have "small breast energy" when they do something bad and "big breast energy" when they do something good.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 01:59 AM
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I am against all forms of gender segregation, we recognised that it's racist to have apartheid, yet we don't recognise the sexism of female-only spaces. This is why I applaud the Trans Rights Movement and Anti-Gender Movement because they rightfully want to get rid of gender segregation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:52 AM
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The police can't always do anything, but it's better to report and have nothing happen than to not report at all, at least the police know that she does this shit, an abusive person is very likely to abuse another person. Most criminal activities are done by only a handful of serial criminals, 20% of criminals do 80% of crime, 20% of abusers do 80% of the abuse, multiple women shared the same abusive husband, multiple men shared the same abusive wife. I have a cousin with Bi-Polar Disorder and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:27 AM
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If she's willing to abuse him she's willing to abuse your daughter, people underestimate just how willing abusive stepparents can be to both their partner and their partner's children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:22 AM
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If you're a woman who has had bad dates with men let me ask you this, would you accept the same type of behaviour from your female friends? Would you want to be friends with a woman who has the same toxic personality as the men you would rather not date? I personally wouldn't want a toxic male friend as much as I wouldn't want to have a toxic girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:18 AM
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To a man living in starvation any food looks good, even if it's poisonous. To a man who can feast, he isn't always hungry and force feeding a man who doesn't want to eat is still a crime. Of course the starving man can only fantasise about it, but this would be like a starving Somali kid calling a force fed kid "lucky".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:13 AM
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My main issue with this is that a lot of people simply fail to realise that bad personality traits aren't sex exclusive, we know that most of personality is genetic and that both sons and daughters inherit it. Another thing I would note here is selection bias, most women who are into casual dating are more likely to be risk-taking. We know that promiscuous people (both male and female) are way more risk-taking than the average individual, this is also why STD's keep spreading despite condoms exi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 01:10 AM
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But these are all extremely different outcomes, the PUA thinks that all women are sluts and love an alpha man that dominates them, the MGHOW thinks that women are irrational animals that can only act on instinct and see men as their inferior, the MRA is against misandry and wants men's liberation from traditional gender roles, 50/50 custody, end circumcision, end all forms of discrimination, and help boys who have been forgotten by society, and the Blackpilled incel just wants to be a Chad so ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:56 AM
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I'm planning on divorcing my wife once she's financially independent (she's a computer scientist but currently studying more), I want to divorce her because she did not bear me a daughter and refused to abort our latest son when I demanded this of her during the pregnancy. I told her that I only wanted daughters but she only bore me sons. I now have a girlfriend who is unaware of my marriage or children, I plan on having a daughter with her, as she lives in a country with no treaties with mine i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:48 AM
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You act as if your situation is the default, after my parents had a divorce I ended up in a similar situation to you as it was an amicable divorce and I enjoyed the benefits of having 2 parents. Divorce doesn't hurt children, single parenthood does. "In Sweden, Emma Fransson et al. have shown that children living with one single parent have worse well-being in terms of physical health behavior, mental health, peer friendships, bullying, cultural activities, sports, and family relationships, comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:29 AM
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It's funny, if I'd write something like "Blacks are angry because Whites are succeeding" people would rightfully see it as a supremacist remark, meanwhile you write from a position of privilege and think that parading your privileges around making the oppressed angry is somehow an achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:23 AM
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Women were never kept away from STEM, the opposite is true, women have been actively encouraged to join STEM fields since the 1960's, it took decades of a system to systematically discriminate against male teachers and set up quotas for women and girls to get parity. What is true is that if girls have female math teachers then they learn math better, if boys have male math teachers then they learn math better, as male teachers are disappearing you see less boys go to universities. This isn't gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:20 AM
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"Traditional women" are leeches, I don't think that you understand men if you think that we want to babysit leeches. My wife works full-time and if she didn't I'd divorce her for not carrying the weight. A "traditional woman" doesn't actually want to do the work and expects to live like a member of the bourgeoise leisure class, how is this being "submissive"? That's like saying that if you volunteer for a company that the company is being "submissive" to you. This is also why I prefer Vietnamese…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:13 AM
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It's either a Feminist or a Conservative myth, in 1950 40% of women worked, in 2020 60% of women worked. Meanwhile I've heard Conservatives (especially Jordan Peterson) claim "women doubled the workforce, so salaries halved" which is a ridiculous claim as generally men and women work different jobs, women were already in office jobs long before Feminism, and female labour participation grew gradually and is now shrinking, which doesn't seem to indicate that it was any sort of "revolution". The i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 12:03 AM
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This really depends on the woman you're marrying, if you're marrying a high libido woman who is always interested in doing new things then you'll have way more sex than any single man, if she has a low libido then welcome to the Inkwell.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 11:58 PM
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Exactly this comment, any form of male leadership is seem as "an oppressive hierarchy" but female leadership is seen as "liberating". This reminds me a lot of the dichotomy between other structures elsewhere where one party is always blamed regardless of their standing. a
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:53 PM
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A good relationship is about co-operation, unfortunately society has made it a taboo for men to even voice their desires in relationships. "Communication" in relationships is usually defined as "talking about what SHE wants".
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:48 PM
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Only about 40% of new relationships are formed online, of that the majority is through social media and a sizeable minority on dating apps and sites.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:41 PM
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The fact that she even entertained the idea just shows how little society cares when the victims of any crime are men, regardless of the perpetrator.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 12:01 PM
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It removes the agency of the younger women who CHOOSE this arrangement. Funny how Feminism doesn't believe in women's agency when it's women they dislike. 🤔
/r/MensRights28/02/23 11:59 AM
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They are talking about the few top men who have access to the market and because of their abundance can be a-holes. Then all men get blamed for this few. It's like claiming that all men are criminals for the actions of a few.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 11:58 AM
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At the end of the horseshoe you only find misandry.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 10:36 AM
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There is a far-left Socialist Men's Rights Movement called the Pro-Male Collective, the right-wing smear is purely based on painting us as "reactionary" as opposed to the Feminist "revolution" (though I'm not sure how much of a "revolution" you can call their covert traditionalism).
/r/MensRights28/02/23 10:34 AM
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It's disgusting that complaints coming from a man aren't taken as serious. This shows that society doesn't care about women and girls, rather it is just anti-male (as he did it for his daughter).
/r/MensRights28/02/23 10:32 AM
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This is extremely sad to read, as someone who has young children I feel really sad that this could happen and that it's allowed to happen like this. Hope you'll find justice and I feel powerless being unable to help other than showing emotional support for your situation. ☹️
/r/MensRights28/02/23 10:24 AM
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RP isn't a response to Feminism, it's a response to Feminism's failing and inability to deliver what it promised, a post-gender world where traditional gender roles are a thing of the past. The Men's Rights Movement and "Manosphere" is about men's liberation and freedom. It is about getting rid of "masculinity" (as society defines it) because any definition of masculinity that doesn't include all men and boys is inherently sexist. Feminism at most only pays lipservice to this, but even then it w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:14 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/11dkqrz/3_years_ago_i_filed_a_detailed_report_for_my/ Guy gets ignored when he reports the abuse of his daughters because he's a man, Hmmm, the Manosphere really doesn't care about the plight of men and is just anti-women and anti-girls. Rolls eyes The way this idea works is by ignoring all men who actually do all activism and then focus on a group of unrelated men, group them in together and call that "the movement". Men's Rights Activists have been …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:09 AM
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"First off the manospere is not a male advocate group it's specifically limited to 3 things , money fitness and girl," maybe the PUA side, the MRM, Father's Rights Movement, Intactivists, Etc. don't care about any of those 3 things at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 10:00 AM
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The term "Manosphere" was invented by the Feminist media to find an excuse to group the San Bernardino perpetrator with the Men's Rights Movement and MGTOW, he was an Anti-PUA (proto-incels) and the term "Manosphere" was designed to group PUA's, Anti-PUA's, MRA's, and MGTOW into one group. These arguments you presented complete fall apart once you remove the perceived unity of these groups. How are the far-left Pro-Male Collective even remotely similar to Tradcons? They're not, but people preten…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:57 AM
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FBW isn't a casual relationship, it's just friendship where you do other things. I don't count my former FBW as an ex as we were never romantically interested in each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:49 AM
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I never know what to think about a woman's party phase because some women sleep with hundreds and thousands of men during them and others don't and just party. The most confusing part comes when you realise that there are women who advise other women to lie about their past to make it seems like there was little sleeping around going on. For example most of the women I know who have had a party phase slept around but some others claim that there was no sleeping around with them and that it was m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:47 AM
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What did this deleted account say? One of the reasons I hate Reddit compared to other forums is because Reddit removes all comments by a user after they're banned and all conversations with them stop making any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:41 AM
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I'd even argue that the vast majority of 8/10 do want to settle but they're off the market so fast that the only 8/10 men who are left are the ones who want to sleep around. There are more Chad's than there are promiscuous men, but most Chad's women will interact with come from the small pool of "leftover Chad's" who are on the market because they're not interested in settling down.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:37 AM
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5, women tend to produce children with the same level of education as them. The father's education level is often irrelevant (imagine having a high IQ father that produces high IQ offspring that don't make it out of high school). Because the mother's education level is important and not the father's I tend to lie about my educational attainment to get access to more highly educated women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:32 AM
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This would be like calling the client of a shop "a user", transactions are transactions and both sides think that they're getting the better deal in most transactions. I value a box of 30 eggs more than 5 Euro's and the shop values 5's more than a box of eggs. You can't say that one side is exploiting the other side without reducing the implied agency of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 09:30 AM
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Today's Men's Rights Activists were yesterday's Feminists. This is also what makes it ironic that most of the push-back we receive comes from people who do the opposite of their mission statement.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:41 PM
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https://www.divorceinjustice.org/2019/07/is-lifetime-alimony-slavery.html?m=1 "It is ironic that in the 1960's NOW (the National Organization of Women) sought to end alimony because it assumed that women were incapable of taking care of themselves. (Betty) Friedan, by contrast, sought at-will, “no fault” divorce, where either party would be able to leave a marriage at any time. She also advocated for a one-time equal division of property in divorce because “as feminists . . . we didn’t believe w…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:40 PM
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Gynocentrism and misandry have a lot of overlap but in some cases the motivation is pure misandry (for example something that punishes men without benefiting women) and in other cases gynocentrism might be a better way to describe why something is the way it is. Not all misandry is gynocentric and not all gynocentrism is automatically misandric.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:23 PM
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No, you chose to marry a person and have a child with them, you did not choose the divorce or alimony (97% of divorces are initiated by women). This is like if you apply for a job, you get the job but then they decide to fire you, but them "firing" you means that you still have to do all the work but they no longer have to pay you, if you refuse you will be imprisoned (that is literally slavery).
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:21 PM
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My wife works and I'm a stay-at-home father, she constantly complains about me not having a job. Even going to a Communist country (Vietnam) and finding a highly educated woman to take her to your country and make her work a good job won't add actual progressive sense into her mind. A man must work, but then when I point out that we'd lose a large part of our income to daycare and babysitters she allows me to stay at home, but even then she expects me to work eventually as if house-making isn't …
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:18 PM
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The word husband ("House bound") is indicative of the serving role of the man, especially when you realise that wife is just an older word for "woman". What is even worse is that after divorce a man can be forced to pay a certain amount of money even if he doesn't earn as much anymore to support his ex wife's lifestyle. Many male actors who divorced ended up working jobs they didn't want to do because the alternative is going to jail. If you are forced to work with the threat of imprisonment the…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 11:14 PM
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This is why Manospherians advocate for paternity tests to be mandatory, no man in the history of the world has ever been sure until he did a paternity test. Anything else is cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:39 PM
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"The manospherean narrative seems to be that men want traditionalism but women do not. Women are unwilling to settle down etc." I've been an MRA for over 20 years, the narrative is usually "women expect men to be traditional, but don't give them the traditional benefits", most MRA's I know are anti-Tradcon. I'm not sure about PUA and Anti-PUA circles, but the MRM and MGTOW circles tend to be very anti-tradcon. Usually we blame Feminism for enabling a continued traditionalist expectation on men a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:37 PM
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"Men have a high probability of outliving women—especially those who are married and have a degree—reveals a statistical analysis spanning 200 years across all continents of the globe and published in the open access journal BMJ Open. Between 25% and 50% of men have outlived women." https://neurosciencenews.com/men-mortality-marriage-21170/ Women have an AVERAGE higher life expectancy, men with less education tend to do dangerous jobs and over 95% of workplace deaths are typically male, single m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:30 PM
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My guess is that most women get a relationship fast and leave, I met my current girlfriend on a dating site (app for her) and after we started talking elsewhere she deleted her profile. She also paid for the last dating app she used and didn't renew the subscription after a month of trying and failing on it. According to her most conversations fizzled out and didn't turn into anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:26 PM
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Of course most men are resentful, imagine having to work really hard and then seeing the top 5% of men and 100% of women get better results than you no matter how much you improve yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/23 04:23 PM
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Regarding: "I have been told numerous times that I am a man, and that I am useless, and serve no purpose, that I am nothing besides a worthless human being, and I am tired of the endless criticism I have faced simply for being a man. I have experienced this criticism more from young girls/women than I have with young boys/men. I have grown up to not talk to people because of this issue I and many other young men and men such as myself have faced throughout our lives." Yeah, society doesn't value…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 07:05 PM
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Yeah, don't go to traditional societies, go to Communist ones. I got mine from a country with more gender equality than the West and she doesn't see me as a walking wallet. Don't take traditional women, they are worse than Feminists.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:54 PM
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Saudi Arabia has a lot of men's issues too, for example 80% of men die virgins due to widespread polygyny. Furthermore, men are still seen as disposable.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:53 PM
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I am married, still divorce laws severely harm men and even finding a good woman doesn't guarantee that the courts won't later incentivise her to sue for more. I only married because it made documents easier, got a prenuptial agreement and made sure that she relinquished any rights to anything I own after a future divorce. Unfortunately the courts here can still annul anything she agreed to. We need reform.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:52 PM
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This is good news, hopefully such stories will get reported in the news more so Men's Rights Activism will become more widely known. My guess is that people see misandry every day but can't articulate it because they don't know what to call it.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:50 PM
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If Feminism was like that then this sub would be redundant.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:45 PM
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Same, 21 partners, I'm higher than the 15 of the top 20 but lower than the 50 of the top 5. I'm not planning on adding a whole lot to my number anytime soon but I'm glad that I wasn't missing out. Though I must admit that I know at least 5 women who have slept with "hundreds" and "countless" of men (and in some cases also women). My guess is that promiscuous people gather together which is why the data could be so skewed as well. I also know a few women with triple my number not consciously but …
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:42 PM
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Yes, even in developing countries like the Philippines the average age difference is 2 years. Only in Sub-Saharan Africa is it more than 5.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:38 PM
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I'd say that it's partially your mentality towards it, you're not going to find compatible people that will make you happy unless you're going to look for them. There is no such thing as "the one" as there are billions of people on this planet and you can theoretically have a great relationship with millions. Of course, "the one" in this context might mean the one you wish to commit to. But the fact that you're articulate means that a lot of sapiophiles will find you attractive.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:37 PM
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"I don’t think women can be useless unless we create dragon ball z style baby incubators, which I don’t think we’ll see in our time. Women have inherent value, while men have millions of sperm each and one can impregnate dozens if not hundreds of women in a short time." Kind of a fallacy, we actually know that tribes that lose a large part of their male population has less surviving offspring. https://avoiceformen.com/featured/gynocentrism-and-the-value-of-men-part-two/ In this article the idea …
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:32 PM
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I think that in general men want and like children more tha women. Very few of my female friends say that they want kids, basically every man I knows wants kids or more kids. As for different tastes this is called "nichemaxxing" in the Black Pill sphere and it means that Goth girls like Goth guys, some women like neat clean shaven men in suits, others like wacky men with huge bears and wild hair, Etc. But you still need to be thin, and have a certain height to be able to compete. Women don't des…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:14 PM
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Empathy is nearly impossible in this respect. Imagine being born to a billionaire family and literally having infinite money and being taught to be careful with giving your money to anyone who doesn't deserve it. You're not going to care much about the homeless.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 06:00 PM
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The Black Pill is essentially the Red Pill but is says that looks are more important than many other factors. "Looks" is a broad concept and generally refers to facial attractiveness, height, frame, Etc. According to the Black Pill women care first and foremost about looks and everything else is secondary. I'd say that the Black Pill is 100% correct when it comes to looks-based dating apps like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge, Etc. where you first have to swipe. But I'd say that it applies less to dating …
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:57 PM
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Most of it is right but it's a bit more complicated than that, I'd place most of the blame on what the Black Pill reports to be the result of technological developments rather than just social developments. Just look at countries with no social welfare, no Feminism, and very little wealth. If you introduce Tinder there you get similar results, this is because technology increases the optionality for women. Traditionally a woman would only meet like 40 men in her life. Since the 19th century this…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:53 PM
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Time to ratify the ERA before it gets worse.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:42 PM
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Lower in the privilege hierarchy. The UK is TERF territory, if you were born male you're second-class and you can't ever escape it.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:41 PM
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To see who rules society look at the people you're not allowed to criticise.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:39 PM
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There are myriads of reasons for this, and the declining sperm count is also linked to female reproductive problems such as less eggs and longer and more painful menstruation in women and girls. In this case I'm referring to microplastics being everywhere and affecting us (not just humans). One of the problem here is that these industries are so powerful that not even issues in WOMEN'S health make politicians take action, so if even Feminists are ignored them Men's Rights Activists will most cer…
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:35 PM
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Yeah, I can't remember the last time I've ever heard a man criticise a woman or her body, meanwhile I hear women complain about other women all the time.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:32 PM
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Yes, but cognitive dissonance is a thing and if someone sees men as inherently bad they will find reasons to say stuff like "mothers aren't like that".
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:31 PM
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Thankfully I never meet such people in real life, but I wouldn't be surprised if certain misandric women only dare to say these things to other women in private. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 05:30 PM
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Which is good, more pushback is better.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:38 AM
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Notice what they say "You won't grow taller if you're not circumcised" and "You're not a real man if you're not circumcised". This sounds a lot like what you hear Sudanese people say about girls and people rightfully condemn it. Kind of funny to actually see Africans criticise this as until recently almost all circumcision expansion campaigns were targeting Africa. Good to see the end of the newscast.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:37 AM
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I've actually tried explaining that this is male genital mutilation to Filipina's, some openly protested female genital mutilation but seemed fully accepting of this. It's absolutely disgusting how this is still legal.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 08:34 AM
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Most "accomplishments" of Feminism also happened in countries where there were no Feminist movements, happening simultaneously likely due to technology liberating people.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 10:46 AM
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We need affirmative action for men going into female dominated fields.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 09:34 AM
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Misandry broadly speaking is men's biggest issue, Feminists are the most openly misandric movements, but I'd argue that Tradcons are equally to blame here. The difference being that Tradcons ignore men's problems but Feminists blame men for our problems (victim blaming). As a man you either face apathy (Tradcons) or antipathy (Feminists).
/r/MensRights14/02/23 09:32 AM
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Another example of how misandry hurts women too, because the mothers, sisters, wives, and daughters of men suffer too when men suffer. This kind of shows that gynocentrism is more about hating men than helping women.
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:10 PM
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This just sounds like all of Reddit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 08:06 PM
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I think that you're missing the point. Now imagine if someone takes acupuncture to cure their pancreatic cancer, would it be wise to say "you should go to an acupuncturist and not a medical doctor, you made the right choice"? There are aspects of your looks that you can improve, if you let people believe delusions then they're going to make bad decisions. Being polite to people who do stupid things is harmful, if a Sudanese person promotes FGM to his daughters it would be the polite thing to agr…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:57 PM
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Women don't because they never get rejected, ghosted, or broken up with and men will always tell them. Living life as a woman is like living with a map to tell you where you can go. Living life as a man is like living in a dark cave where the paths shift and there's no light.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:49 PM
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That is lying, the idea of the Bluepill Vs. Redpill is literally that all men are being lied to, this is 100% true. This is why it's important for the truth to become mainstream so ugly men can cope doing something else, this is also why I never understood the female hatred of male virgins, wouldn't you want these men to stop bothering you and never approach you? Because if the virginpilled ideas spread most men will give up on dating and never approach women again and only the men women want wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:46 PM
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You got so many matches because you didn't swipe as a woman, I swiped using my wife's pictures and had a lot as well. Men seek inclusion criteria women seek exclusion criteria. I swipe on women of all ages, ages heights, all races, and all distances. Women exclude so many factors that some women only have a handful of matches because of how picky they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:40 PM
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Even if it was 50/50 women are going to swipe left on most men and because they know that they'll have matches they will be picky because they can afford to be picky. Female desperation doesn't exist and as long as the swiping mechanism is the first filter most men won't ever see messages. I found my girlfriend on a non-swiping dating app, I literally spent years on Tinder with only 2 matches, each a year and a half apart. I talked to 20 women in 4 days using a DM dating website. Tinder is desig…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:39 PM
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Fatherlessness doesn't affect daughters in any way so society will never care. As long as misandry is the default this issue will never be seriously be debated.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:30 PM
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This is literally the first time I've ever heard this, as far as I'm aware of no women are ever shamed for looking "manly" only the other way around. That's because being a woman is a given as long as you menstruate and being a man is earned.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:29 PM
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For me the condom is to prevent HIV / AIDS, I couldn't care less about pregnancy as I could always deny having slept with her and a number of my friends could help me with an alibi. Babies are temporary, AIDS is forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:26 PM
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I just want paper abortions, couldn't care less about her choices as long as they don't infringe on my autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:22 PM
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I'm genuinely surprised about that, I don't know a single woman who was ever bullied and as a kid teachers always made sure that no girls were ever being bullied.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:47 AM
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The worst part is that while we want to protect Jewish and Muslim boys any protest against it is seen as "racism" against them.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:36 AM
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I always wondered what it would look like if a government just gave a piece of land as "male only area" and an equally sized piece of land as a "female only" area and then see how either of them develops. Men and women often segregate themselves IRL and I had an argument with a friend of mine because I tried to push her to articulate why she always goes to a women-only gym despite saying that she's never had any bad experiences with men in a gym and she wasn't able to. I'm not pro-segregation at…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:35 AM
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Men dating significantly older women is probably more common than the reverse, yet society never shames these women.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:17 AM
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I wonder if these studies work cross-culturally or if the effect is stronger in more (openly) misandric societies. We know that women's preferences are partially social and partially genetic but that the social environment effects women more strongly than men (though men can still easily be conditioned, think of how high heels are portrayed as "feminine and attractive" despite originally being a masculine piece of clothing). PHub trends also suggest that this is strong in the West but not strong…
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:16 AM
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I've been noticing a worrying trend lately that any murder of a woman is categorised as a "Femicide" and the media is pushing it as "women being killed simply because they're women" as if no other reason than a mythical idea of misogyny is to blame for these murders. They try to do this so they can get more Misandric laws on the books.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 07:25 AM
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