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CMVAwesomeDog59/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:53 AM
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CMVAwesomeDog59/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 03:09 AM
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Maybe you re right, but there s a reason we have the saying 'dont judge a book by it s cover'. I reckon if you re so easily swayed by some fancy pics you re probably not worth dating long term anyhow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:49 AM
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Sure you could. But we d still end up talking about them nonetheless, pictures or no pictures. Talking to you didnt seem hard at all, anyhow. And if all you had was one lazy selfie, versus all the pics you mentioned, it would not make much of a difference to me. Until we get to talking it would be ridiculous of me to think the amount or quality of your pictures is a fair representation of your personality. That s all im sayjng.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:26 AM
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Why would anyone ever initiate a conversation with someone who has (appears to have) nothing engaging about them? I could give you hundreds of reasons for why you should engage in friendly conversations with folk you don't know, but if that's how you see people I don't have the patience or will to change your mind. I said my piece. I wish I didn't have so many engaging things about me so you'd leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:14 AM
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Hahaha, see what I mean? Now I could've talked about art with you, asked you why people online hate cyclists so much, asked what kind of books you're reading and so on and so forth. And I never needed to see a picture of you in a sundress caressing some flowers, or one of you posing in front of a gym mirror, or, God forbid, one of those pictures with a book on your legs next to a bottle of wine and a pair of glasses, and maybe a housecat if you got one, with a caption like "Food for my soul" or …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:07 AM
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Now I never said you were shallow, I specifically talked in the abstract, since I don't know how much weight you actually put on those pictures or if you're just making a point. But you know you said nothing right? You called me toxic ludicrous and obnoxious and gave me two tl;dr 's of your take. But you said nothing! Sounds pretty basic to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:53 AM
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Hey, meangingersnap, what are you into?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:36 AM
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Yes, you would talk to me about it, as the only way of gauging out my interests is through conversation and not through glancing at pictures. Seems we're in agreement here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 12:33 AM
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No. Determining what those hobbies and interests are based on pictures, instead of conversations, as stated above, is shallow. >I can hire a photographer to take a picture of me on my pal's chopper wearing a sick fit and then run that shit through photoshop until it comes out looking like an award winning album cover...but I cant ride a bike for shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:58 PM
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I was actually looking for what people meant by unremarkable. Thanks for painting a clear picture of what that is. Of course you re saying it in the context of dating apps or online dating in general, so it makes sense you go for the most shallow and non important characteristics possible. Now I never had success on dating apps. In real life I've quite a bit because it's easier to let your personality shine through in open face to face conversation than it is through pictures on tinder lmfao. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:02 PM
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I mean I don't like freeloaders. Still conflicted about the kid situation, little guy's not at fault for his parents being the way they are. They should be stricter on who gets to parent, that kinda goes against the whole freedom vibe but then again if you're using your freedom to fuck over kids you deserve to eat shit. But yeah, I do not offer sympathy on repeat, continuous mistakes. I'm not for increasing taxes to give out free tampons, or for alimony payments and stuff like that. But if you c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 06:52 PM
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Im 6'4 and i still got no matches on tinder man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:36 PM
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There is a field called evolutionary psychology in which most experts will agree we re hard wired genetically to be attracted to certain things. Analytical psycholohy puts forth the idea the other attractions we have that are not genetically imprinted unto us come out of our formative years and remain there for the rest of our life, even if we re not conciously aware of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:00 PM
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That is a pessimistic and unrealistic outlook and you know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 11:56 AM
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Could be man, I wouldnt know, I like all races. But I met this black guy in college who was born and bred in Kenya, spent a few years in Europe, and legit told me he only likes white women, and would never date a black girl. I wonder what type of societal racism against black people there in Kenya, or perhaps he got all that during his few years in Europe? Also i showed him a scene from lord of war and he did concede that he d date SOME black women, but he was still repulsed by the idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:13 AM
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The capacity is always there for heterosexual men to fuck other heterosexual men (see convicts and sailors), does that mean heterosexual mean chose not to explore their gay side of out shallow narrow mindedness? And even if we agree that the tall chasers are shallow and basic, why would you want someone like that in the first place? Would you really bother trying to change this kinda woman, when there are others who will like you for who you are right off tue bat?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:52 AM
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You didnt say much there, friend. Chances are you dont like women over 50, but you d make an exception for Jennifer Aniston. Does that make your aversion to old ladies nonsense?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:48 AM
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I personally know a couple where the girl makes over 4 times what the guy makes, he constantly borrows money from her. She s like a 7 or 8. I know a lot of stories like this, but then again it could be applicable to my country more so than others. But a lot of women will date down, and a lot of guys will date up. This is not a new thing, or a 'free society' thing, look up what the women of ancient Sparta were like. Look at how many rich women cheat on their ceo husband with the tennis coach and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:46 AM
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I agree. And I did mention how people view this thing as being akin to eugenic practices, lmao. I dont understand this either, but then again I dont understand people who are into watersports.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:41 AM
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Sure people can change, preferences can change, but some things are hard wired into the brain although change might be possible it might take decades and even then its not guaranteed to work. If you have a particular kink or fetish or preference that you d rather not have, how would you go about getting rid of it? And how long do you think it would take?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:39 AM
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Racist in their dating? That makes sense but still implies you re an actual racist. Whereas I could love race A, maybe even be part of said race myself, but im just not attracted to people in it, sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:26 AM
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Its a valid reason to reject you, as im sure you wouldnt want to be with those women in the first place, since they have a sexual aversion towards your race, but its never a valid reason to stereotype you or be racist. Dont limit yourself, but dont try to change people either, its futile. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 08:24 AM
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I wouldn't tie masculinity or feminity to activity preferences or professions. Appearance plays a part of it, but it's mainly about personality traits (and flaws). Masculinity is often shown as stoicism, but it goes deeper than that. Emotional control, perseverence, strength, charm, respect, the ability to protect and provice for others are perhaps the key elements of traditional masculinity. The existance of these traits(or lack thereof) is revealead in difficult situations when there's an evid…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:22 PM
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or you were a loser 10 years ago Imagine you were madly in love with me years ago, we were friends but we did everything together, started flirting, maybe even hooked up once or twice. We had a genuine connection, our values lined up, same sense of humor, we finished eachother's sentences and shit like that. But instead of getting with you, I go with Stacey. Now you know Stacey for a while, she cant hold a conversation with a brick. She s mean, spreads gossip around, and you re pretty sure she s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:32 AM
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Sure some people are just lurkers, some are not even women and are just looking at the post for rage fuel or laughter or whatever reason. But yeah that leaves a good % of absolutely unbarable women. Its not that unlikely, there s 4b women on the earth, is it that hard to believe that less than 0.1% of them are horrible? Cmon. And some guys will want them, regardless of how shitty they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:50 AM
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Ofc the needle doesn't help the heroin addict, and ofc they should quit. But the needle holes will help me realize who is an addict, that is all. And yes, it doesn't directly help me, and I agree there s a lot of attention whores and tik tok junkies out there. But from my experience, engaging with those people is retarded. I would maybe fuck someone like that but not get into a relationship w em. Them being so easily influenced by social media makes them below my league, as arrogant as that soun…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:47 AM
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Yes, simps are fucking up the market for the rest of us. I was making a point that while you can expect sexual comments on the lewds you post, they can also be somewhat honest and not over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:37 AM
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It certainly doesn't help, that the feed of instagram/tiktok videos make it appear as if the 0.00x% most attractive people on the planet are more numerous and more available than they actually are. I think it helps a lot. Helps you know who to avoid (people who unironically believe that and social media addicts in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 11:00 PM
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Horrible ideas, let people exercise freedom even if they end up dying alone. Hypergamy existed for over 200000 years, learn to deal with it instead of asking daddy government to make it go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:57 PM
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This. The people that adamantly believe they only have 1 type are lying to themselves and the world. The people living in less populated towns or rural areas never have a type, this is just dogshit big city mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:52 PM
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It is completely useless, and all it does is inspire cowardice. Approach whoever tf you want, the worst that can happen is you get rejected. Rejection is part of life people learn to deal with it instead of living in fear(women too).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:46 PM
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There s difference between 'nice tits' and 'i would chop off my left nut to touch your tits'. Simps ruin the market for the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:43 PM
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Personality wise especially, a girl will literally tuck her chin in and simps will call that shit hillarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 10:38 PM
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Average means the majority, the top of the bell curve, in la 50-50 scenario there can be no majority, no average, that s why most parliaments require a 51% majority at minimum to pass legislation. No study has a sample size of two people. If 60% of the women in the village were nuns, it would be fair to say - this village is full of nuns. It boggles my mind that i have to teach you this, but maybe your education system or your parents failed you. You still have time to learn tho, dont quit just …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:37 PM
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Thats why im taking it slow, some folks call me lazy but i aint got the money for that surgery lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:19 PM
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Im happy for you, and glad you chose health. I know it's tempting but try not to lose it too fast & without building muscle or your skin might sag. That s just my experience tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:43 PM
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Same, and I wanna build muscle too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:25 PM
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Being fat is a choice while being short isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:07 PM
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To all the fat ladies out here, speaking as a fat dude myself, do you want/try to lose weight or are you intent on keeping it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:01 PM
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He s saying you can add your subjective view to the pile of subjective views™️, and we can then determine what the average view is in that pile, that becomes the objective view. It s what's called a generalization, and contrary to popular belief generalizations arent inherently bad. Example: College graduates make more money than high school graduates. This is subjectively false, as there are some people with degrees making less than uneducated workers/business owners. It is objectively true as …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:54 PM
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Good bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:31 AM
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I m a straight guy and i ve been obese for most of my life. I ve heard women say "You d be really cute if you were fit" more times than i can count. I ve had a girl tell me while we were making out "Btw dont take this seriously, I'd never date someone your size. Another girl who I fell in love with started distancing herself from me after a while even though she first told me she s falling for me. When questioned why she said things were getting too serious, and if we end up having sex i might c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:03 AM
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Goes on purple pill D E B A T E Calls people pathethic losers with low self esteem while claiming the moral high ground. Refuses to elaborate further. You re literally a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:26 AM
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They l figure it out themselves. Tell them if they re above 12 and they ask you about it, without badmouthinh your ex. Do keep in mind anyone who knows can and probably will share the truth with them. Your own parents are the prime suspects for this. I am a child of divorce and my grandmother badmouthed my father for my entire childhood. Im shocked to see the level of civility and discourse here when we re not talking about dating lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:29 PM
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It can limit partners you re absolutely right, but honestly i dont see that as a bad thing, IF you re looking for a long term relationship that is. And btw i didnt just ask prying questions I also overshared from the get go just to make sure we re on the right page. Thank you! I hope you find someone that s right for you as well, and if you have one already I hope it works out well for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:58 PM
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You are also likely to miss out on healthy relationships if you ask brutal questions on the first date. That is what i did and im the best relationship of my life. Chalk it up to confirmation bias but if we break up and i find myself looking for a long term partner im going in hard on the 1st date. My other relationships where i tried to take things slow and not overshare and play along with their games, didnt go neaaaarly as well as this one so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:15 AM
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You are expecting people to apply abstract thinking to a topic that is purely driven by emotion. Yes. I'l do you one better, the LAW expects you to apply abstract thinking and not impulsively shoot two people when you catch your partner cheating. In most countries, the LAW also expects you to be rational in self-defense situations when your flight or flight instinct kicks in, and to minimize the damage you do to your attacker, or you may become liable for it. Im not talking about children im tal…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:33 AM
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Astrology girls. Never again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:25 PM
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You re a spiteful little girl arent you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:19 AM
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Women who act submissive arent trustworthy? I dont know any woman who doesnt act submissive...huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:13 AM
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I didnt say be a mind reader, i said look at the persons actions and try to see things from an objective standpoint. In other words, detach yourself from the situation and analyze those things impartially. I believe that is called abstract thinking, and most people develop it around the age of 12. So yes, it is the other person's fault for CHOOSING not to use this kind of thinking, and instead acting impulsively. Impulsiveness should be condemned, most murders happen because of it. It is objecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:28 PM
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You do realize there are good honest people out there that come off as assholes, be it on purpose or otherwise? On the other hand, you l have the biggest assholes coming off as positive happy go lucky guys. If you judge someone based on first impression, you re asking to get played. Studies show that most people, however, do exactly that, they l categorize someone in the first 5 seconds of meeting them. This is why you buy shitty products from good salesmen. This is why you waste money on shit s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:38 PM
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This is 100% true, truth leads to real freedom, and making it a core tennant of your philosophy will give you a shitload of benefits. I wanna point out 2 things, however. 1 you cant always tell the truth, sometimes you will have to omit details, shut up or straight up lie in order to keep your job, family, social status etc. People who are true 100% of the time lose one or all of those things, me personally I cant go that far with it, but if you do im curious to hear about your experience with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:29 PM
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This. However people are capable of seeing past their prejudice. You can get mugged by x race 8 times and still realize not every x person is a thief. You can be cheated on by y gender and still realize not every y is a fuckboy/whore. To that extent you can fuck(or even marry) z type of person and realise not everyone is like that. We re all capable of seeing past it, yet most people dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:14 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:10 PM
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Try actually debating anything with people here and you l realize half of em are trolls that like shitposting and not having an actual honest conversation. The radfems tend to be dismissive and offer one paragraph replies to big ass essays that boils down to "i dont care about your suffering". The rad incels tend to misconstrue any argument into a personal attack and tend to be very fear minded and hateful. The sane people in between the two extremes that just want people to get along will get h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 04:24 PM
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You re a radfem so its better if you dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:14 AM
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It s like people going to a restaurant and picking food they re allergic too just because it tastes good, and then sueing the restaurant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:10 AM
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You can chalk it up to media fearmongering, that may well be true however you cannot deny good young men are terrified of being labled creeps, and would rather be labled pussies. I ve experienced that fear and so did a lot of guys growing up. And the kind of fuckboy assholes women complain about dont have that fear, so what ends up happening is good honest guys backing away from dating while the charlatans go in all the way and ruin man's reputation ever further.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 11:04 AM
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People like to hate on cold approache sand people who do it. I'm saying people hate on congierges, sales reps, loud black market vendors, military recruiters, jehova's witnesses, PUAs and anyone who approaches you without knowing you first. Im sure at least someone who read that went 'yup' and would preffer if all those things didnt exist. There could be plenty of reasons for this, but all those things were way more common before the rise of the internet and y all know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:54 AM
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It actually is a rational system just too complex for people to bother learning. If Interpesonal interaction wasnt rational how do you explain the existance of therapists, councilors, salespeople, lawyers? The entire field of psychology? Emotional intelligence is a real thing, and luckily for us fellows we can work on becoming smarter. You can account for feelings when calculating the outcome, feelings and logic are married, not divorced. I agree with you, if you mean most men dont account for e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:40 AM
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Probably more, since most rapes go unreported. Not reporting a crime (such as rape) should be a crime. Falsely reporting a crime should also be a crime. That s all im saying and most criminal codes agree with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:11 AM
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I didnt say that. Notice the part where i said if you care, also discourage that behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 09:08 AM
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Imagine a girl would take it upon herself to fuck all the sexless men out there. How would she be called?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:41 AM
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Stop falsely accusing men of sexual assault and rape. Stop calling guys who approach women in a polite way creeps. That wont solve the issue but it's a start. A lot of young men are scared of interacting with women for reasons like those, if you really care don't engage in that behavior and do your best to discourage it. But it s really on us men to fix this issue. The incels need to work on fixing their trauma with women or whatever mental blockage is holding them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/22 03:34 AM
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Having kids doesnt disqualify you as a long term partner for every guy out there. Just fot most of us. It doesn't disqualify you as a sexual partner for every guy out there. Just for very few of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 01:00 PM
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Run. Why not 100%? Back in my orbiter days I was told she s 99% sure she likes me. Thats not real bro its manipulation, she s playing you for a fool so you stay attached to her and be there for her, basically being her bf with all the downsides and none of the perks. I called that girl a sociopath for doing it and it rly fucked with her head for a while. Even landed me in bed with her. Im not saying go do that, im saying stop talking to her if you wanna remain sane.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:26 PM
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Exactlty, its already part of too many aspects, I dont want them in my relationship too. If i could cut them out of all the other aspects I would, and I'm already doing it. Dont trust the government folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:19 PM
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That may very well be, but without seeing your sources i cant agree with that. Either way, it is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:16 PM
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Love. Forced. Pick one. In all seriousness, i fail to see how that vow you made in front of the priest or civil servent or whatever, is any more real than a vow you d make in bed at 2am.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:13 PM
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Even if that was the case ,mister minister of statistics, you still have 101 women to have casual sex with. People get into 2 week 'relationships' to fuck all the time. Its just casual sex with extra steps.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:10 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:01 PM
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Fair enough I guess. But let me ask you this, if those benefits didnt exist, would you have still married?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:57 PM
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Im pretty sure there are entire subreddits dedicated to girls who do it on purpose but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:56 PM
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I mentioned prenup in my original comment but ok. My issue is inviting the law over in my relationship. If we wanted a threesome we d invite someone over. Not you tho, you d probably bite something off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:55 PM
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All you re doing is putting wood on the fire girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:51 PM
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You ever heard of the term 'hoe phase'? Rebound? Party girl? Women arent a monolith man, for every catholic virgin there s a girl who likes to fuck lots of ppl. Most girls reside somewhere in between. Being phyisically attractive will increase your chances across the board, with all of em. So will being funny, charming, a good listener, wise, rich, good social status, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:49 PM
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Of course, I'm not denying that. But part of it is figuring out what to do in case you can't avoid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:41 PM
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Dont talk about marriage on a sub made to debate dating, because Lilith of Babble'On who doesn't care, will start to care. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:40 PM
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Watch the black philip show on youtube. All the women that come on even the callers end up trying to seduce him. There was a particular episode, but I can't find it rn, where a girl comes in, says she has a boyfriend, and in less than 2 hours she's undressing and shaking her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:37 PM
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False. That depends entirely on the woman, some women will recoil at the idea of dating and just want casual sex. One of those coveted social skills is the ability to read a person. If you go in thinking all women are the same and you apply the same strategy and language to each of them you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:13 PM
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I'm willing to stick my dick in the oven to guarantee to you that most attractive girls are INCREDIBLY insecure and self-concious, and with a modified version of a shitty car salesman pitch you can game them and get short term relationships. It's a shitty thing to do tho. Watch the black philip show on youtube to see what I mean. Patrice was an ugly walrus with only a little bit of clout, and he could game victoria secret models.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:09 PM
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I think they're insanley low. Which is why women get gamed. Go attend a few sales seminars and practice all those shitty tactics on women, it works like a charm. People have a poor grasp on what social skills actually are or mean, or the importance of nonverbal communication. Even women. Luckily for us, they're not innate talents, but skills that can be studied, learned and applied. Sure if you have xyz disorder it will be harder and I feel for you, but you can still try.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:04 PM
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All about looks, as in 100%? You know that's not true not even blackpillers believe that. But yeah it is a problem, people are shallow, idk how that will change in a society where we worship money and attractiveness. As an ugly guy the best you can do is get your money up, workout and looksmax or whatever you call it. Even if that means using said money to get surgery, ain't no shame in it brother, 17 year old girls are doing it. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 03:00 PM
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Stop projecting, just because you pick noncommittal guys it doesn't mean all of us are like that. And if you don't care why are you replying to my shit why are you talking about it? Cognitive disonance at it's finest folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:50 PM
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Don't get me wrong this is the best relationship I've ever had in my life and I reckon the chances of us getting divorced are slim to none. And if it were to happen I reckon we would be able to work through it. I can't predict the future tho, and I've heard too many stories about brothers and cousins fucking eachother over to have blind faith in family. EDIT: No, btw, that's not preparing for the worst. Preparing for the worst means preparing for the unlikely chance(as unlikely as it might be, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:45 PM
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What are you my accountant? You don't need to know the kind of money I'm sitting on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:38 PM
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If you trust your spouse, why not do the vow of commitment and leave it at that? Why involve the law in your private affairs? You need that piece of paper to remember your love? Can't you just look back at your accomplishments together?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:35 PM
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She feels the same way believe it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:32 PM
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I trust her, as I'm sure my parents trusted eachother before they got divorced. As I'm sure all divorced couples did before they got divorced. Times change, people change. Don't believe me? Google the divorce rates of any western country and see what I mean. I trust my ability to drive but I still get insurance. I trust my friends but I don't leave my money in their accounts. We all want to believe we're special, that bad things just happen around us, and never TO us, but that's a childlike ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:27 PM
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In most places, even if she does make money, if I end up making more than her I have to pay. If she outearns me, she'l have to pay, which is also wrong, and I'd never ask for that. I dont want to debate law or give specific details about my private situation. Give those a read instead to see what I mean. https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/9nygl7/child_support_payments_are_ruining_me_financially/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Divorce/comments/5h8sha/how_do_you_survive_the_alimony_payments/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 02:10 PM
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Facts. I know a couple where the guy's a doctor and still doesn't give a shit about his gf's medical problems. It goes both ways tho we don't give a shit about our medical problems either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 01:15 PM
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Marriage is a scam. I love my girl and would wanna marry her but i dont wanna lose half my shit if things go south. Prenups are the only way to go about it. So no matter what you do you gotta invite the law over in your house to sit and jerk off in the corner while you fuck. Also weddings are retarded and family will resent you for not inviting them, so good luck having that small private beachside wedding, chances are you l have hundreds of assholes you dont even know show up to eat your food.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 11:54 AM
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This, call it purple pilled or whatever, that man is at peace with himself, and can embrace his feminine and masculine side with no shame. I say it's what we should all strive to achieve (even you, ladies), even though it might not be the most optimal strategy to get fast pussy. Quality over quantity
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 11:10 AM
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How are we acting like children? You implied something and refused to clarify further. I just applied YOUR logic against you to prove that you should stfu, but I guess you re right, it is the logic of a child, I should not have stooped down to your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 03:50 PM
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He just asked a question....you re purposely demonising him!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/22 03:54 AM
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Mental masturbation...imma use that.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/22 02:34 PM
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Ah i see. So i should spend time learning who the 16yr old girl is before....determinining how old she is. That time spent with her wont be weird at all... Tho if someone asks for your id please answer exactly right that because even if they dont figure out your age they will probably figure out you re insufferable and know to leave you alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:46 AM
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Shows up. Makes retarded statement. Refuses to clarify further. Leaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:40 AM
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You feel like that but all the studies dispeove that. Nonverbal makes up the bulk of communication or around 60%, with paraverbal (tone, emphasis on certain words, volume control etc - how you say what you say) taking up the second best spot with around 30%. That leaves purely verbal communication at 10%. For most people, what you say doesnt really matter, its all about how you say it. People dont want to accept this because it would mean accepting most people are shallow individuals with poor j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:34 PM
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So you really have nothing going on for you other than your career? But you re right, even though that s a hilarious question, you should not want that. All i can say is good luck finding him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:12 PM
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Give me one good why a tall handsome educated man who makes a lot of money, should pick you over 20yr old who s better looking even if she s poor. Financial incentives aside, since as you said men dont usually care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:05 PM
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I personally know men and women who do it, they usually form groups of friends and start circlejerking. I make fun of them, not because I'm a negative asshole that hates seeing people feel good about themselves, but because I always find it so cringy past a certain level. Dont get me wrong, feel good about yourself, lift eachother up, be supportive, but stop fucking lying. I call that shit toxic positivity, deluding yourself into thinkint you re hot shit until reality eventually knocks you on yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:59 AM
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Behavioral control requires a great involvement of cognitive and executive functions. These functions are localized in the prefrontal cortex, which matures independent of puberty and continues to evolve up until 24 years of age. It has been suggested that, during this period, adolescents should not be overprotected, but be allowed to make mistakes, learn from their own experiences, and practice self-regulation. Parents and teachers can help adolescents through this period by listening and offeri…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:11 PM
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To quote from the study you linked "By the age of 15 years, there is little difference in adolescents’ and adults’ decision-making patterns pertaining to hypothetical situations. Teens were found to be capable of reasoning about the possible harm or benefits of different courses of action; however, in the real world, teens still engaged in dangerous behaviors, despite understanding the risks involved. Hot cognition is described as thinking under conditions of high arousal and intense emotion. Un…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:09 PM
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If anything you bought yourself 7 extra years to groom your kids to die in war. What if me and my gf love eachother, we ve been together for many years, should we break up even though none of us want to just because my brain happened to fully develop and hers has a bit more to go? What about people who have kids under 25? Straight to the orphanage? Or are you gonna raise that kid without a career? What if i spent years learning a field so i can start a business, now i cant do that unless im 25. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:47 PM
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If im 24 and im dating a 19 year old, would that automatically make me prick in 2 years time? When that time comes would you advise i break up with her, even if we have a healthy, loving relationship? You imply people are children until 25, but they re still allowed to go into higher education, pick their field, take on massive debt, vote, run for office, serve in the military, drink, get a job, buy property and start businesses. Should we take all that away to protect those who don't understand…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 04:27 PM
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Everyone s saying confidence is the cat s meow and while i agree being confident is a good thing for your mental health it doesnt necessarily translate in success in dating. At the end of the day confidence without competence is just arrogance. While you can fool some people with it, you will buckle under the pressure if your competence is tested, and that might shatter your self image entirely. What helps is charm, or salesmanship or however you want to call it. If you can work a room, be funny…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:33 AM
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Inability to express emotions. Let me rephrase, I am able to express emotions, and im lucky enough to have a few friend groups where I can do that freely. But most of the time, It's heavily discouraged. Most of my exes wouldnt understand my emotions which led to them constantly pushing my already established boundaries (using their own feelings to coerce me into doing something im not comfortable with). I ve heard of women using men's trauma and emotional baggage against them in arguments and lu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:04 AM
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Il bite What if we both do? What if i want to bang my friend she wants to bang me but I''m in a relationship(or she is or we both are it changes nothing). Ive been in those situation multiple times and besides some flirty jokes and light teasing nothing happened. That s right, we liked eachother, the chemistry was there but we knew it would be a bad idea so we never did anything sexual. And I expect the girl im dating to be ok with that. I will feel sexually attracted to other women, same goes f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:00 AM
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Come on he raped you and you didnt fight back at all? Total fantasy scenario. Criminal procedure isnt perfect, some men are horrible psychos. If you chose the risk of going down that alley dressed in a skimpy outfit, you may have to pay the price. Choose better. See how you sound like? My gf is a rape victim and thats the exact shit she heard from her family and friends, most of it from women. Id urge you to look up stories of men being ruined by child support, sometimes when the kid is not even…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 03:30 PM
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Your honor I wore a condom and still got her pregnant she must ve poked holes into it beforehand or taken it out the trashbin (this is a real thing google it) Idgaf 2k a month for 12 months a year for 18 years you now owe her $432k Your honor how will I pay for my debt/rent/mortgage/medication? Not my problem bro, but if you dont pay her you go to jail. You should ve just ABSTAINED from sex, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 02:34 PM
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Gym memberships cost money Gym equipment costs money Clothes cost money Cars cost money Skincare products cost money Haircuts cost money They all make me look better, and yet I dont expect for my date to pay for it. I also dont expect women to wear heavy makeup or dress in designer shit, ALMOST NO GUY EXPECTS THAT OR ACTIVELY SEEKS THAT OUT. YOU DO THAT FOR YOURSELF I DO WHAT I DO FOR MYSELF SO GET YOUR HANDS OUT OF MY FUCKING POCKET
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:21 PM
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Why wouldnt I be? Does age automatically make you an asshole or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 03:52 AM
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It is natural to be attracted and aroused when seeing sexy women. Your dick has no concept of age or maturity. Women have been dating older men for thousands of years, same goes with men dating older woman, it s something natural. Idk about normal, look at how drastically the age of consent can varry from place to place, look at how often people freak out when there s an age gap even among adults. I feel like two consenting adults can do whatever they want in bed, but the pussy police will impli…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:44 PM
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Some people will engage in that behavior and some won't. I've had a little bit of experience with both circles and I can tell you this, the fuckbuddy/non-exclusive until in a commited relationship crowd is a fucking shitshow. People are jealous, there's fighting and drama all the time, but I can't lie it's hilarious to just hang around and watch it unfold. Luckily for me I haven't been directly involved in most of it, but a girl I was seeing at the time told me she wasn't seeing anyone else. Whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:36 PM
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Sadly those women you re describing are hard to find. Its like the 6ft tall handsome successful man, the beautiful, intelligent and caring woman is a rarity, and personally those are the ladies that 'got away' so to speak, though I imagine many men have the same regrets of not trying harder for those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:27 AM
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Take it out of the bin if you know what's good for you. Covert communication is also done by employers, clients, business partners, etc. Larning to 'read the room' means getting good at picking up on and delivering good nonverbal/paraverbal communication (which is 90% of communication according to studies, people will respond more to this subtle shit than the actual words coming out of your mouth). Instead of saying this shit is useless how about finding the value in it, outside of dealing with …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 11:17 AM
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So who is out there judging women for approaching men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:39 AM
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We do, we re just polite enough not to do it in front of your spoiled fucking face. Women also have a ranking system to determine who s more attractive. Everytime you re trying to determine someone s level of attractiveness regardless of who you are you subconsciously compare that person to others. We all assign sexual market values to everyone that is how it works. Everyone knows this but for some reason we all have to play pretend. The only grass you touched was inisde your college campus, I v…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 09:38 AM
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All men use numbers to determine a female s attractiveness/smv, be they related or otherwise. Nothing wrong with it. Most men are deranged by your definition. If you hate men that s fine you do you but why come on this subreddit supposedly about fucking fucking debating and just start insulting people instead of adding anything, anything of value to the conversation for once in your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 12:06 AM
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Why do you say its a ridiculous idea than go and defend it by claiming all those factors have different weight to them? A 70 year old ugly midget with a shit personality can get a hot young girl provided he has enough money. Sugar daddy relationships do exist. 21 year old models marry rich older businessmen. Like you said, each of those factors have a different value, and for a lot of people a lot of wealth = a lot of value, so much in fact that all the other factors seem small in comparison. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 10:20 PM
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I ve seen a lot of women publically beliteling their so for being too lazy/incapable, in their 20s and all the way up to their 80s lol. It is a whole routine you see with dozens of couples, maybe that s why he figured woman love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:59 PM
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Is it not acceptable? Any guy I know would love being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:53 PM
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Is it not acceptable? Any guy I know would love being approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:52 PM
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First of all everyone has a bit of control over it, but for people saddled with debt or with expensive diseases or those taking care of their family it s not so simple, is it? Men are judged for their beauty everyday stop capping, google some tinder experiments if you don't believe me. Some men out there are better off and more attractive than me, but i have a better chance than him simply because they re short. Other factors such as having a jawline, good shoulder to waist ratio etc do apply
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:21 AM
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I do know about it, both men and women are capable of manipulation and deceit and both can be victims of it. What are you implying? Are all women who 'choose poorly' as it were, being charmed by narcisistis and sociopaths 100% of the time? Are women powerless to resist blatant manipulation? Is every guy out there a piece of shit that can only get women by lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:06 AM
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When I tell a woman to choose better im usually advising she stops going after toxic, abusive and manipulative men, even if they 'get her' or make her feel special or whatever. It s ultimately self destructive. I have friends who got depressed when they recognized this pattern in their own dating history and realized how they ve allowed to be treated. If that s what choosing better means, I dont think the bar is high at all, and if mfs feel enraged by it i could care less. Guys feel emasculated …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:45 AM
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I didn't hate myself at first, I was filled with regret and a deep unsettling feeling of worthlessness since I could not understand why she wouldn't be with me. I tried some really shady shit like using girls I was not interested in at all to make her jealous. I was so obsessed with her at the time that I didn't get any pleasure from being with these girls, sexual or otherwise, all I wanted was her. She was even more manipulative than I was, and on top of all that I was dealing with the death of…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:50 PM
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I did more or less the same thing you did, 2 years ago and felt exactly like you described in your post. It sucked for a while, but as time passed I realized most people have the attention span of a monkey and forget most of the shit they hear, say or do, you're the only one still thinking about it. Meet new people, outside of your social circle, quit thinking your social circle is everything, your social circle should change drastically over your life as you grow up and you should only keep the…
/r/askTRP24/01/21 06:07 PM
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