AxeMeAnything Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
11	The unanswered “why?”		AxeMeAnything	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 01:17 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Why It’s brutal. I ask my self “why are we doing this?” Every day. There’s nothing we can say or do to change things and that’s the hardest part. Knowing that there’s no hope. It has gotten easier over the last year as time continues to march on and on. It’s near impossible to get over something as life altering as a broken family. But they made their choice. One that has serious and lasting consequences, for everyone involved. Just know that as time moves on the feelings grow duller and more in the…	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 05:13 PM
3	Signs she is cheating? Having been through the fire and burned through my insecurities I can say nothing will compare to the betrayal and hurt I’ve felt at the hands of my ex. Everything pales in comparison to divorce. You just let things slide and move on. There are classic signs of cheating or promiscuity that you can hurt yourself looking for. Hiding phone. Dropping mean comments. Flirting with others. But the best thing for you and your relationship is trust. I don’t know your situation but confidence in your self…	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 04:02 AM
7	Signs she is cheating? Just relax. If she’s not exclusive it’s not your issue. Go with the assumption that she’s not yours and that you are fine without her. If it’s not bad news then you’ll be happy. If it is bad news you’ll survive. Don’t sabotage it by being paranoid.	/r/Divorce_Men	04/01/26 03:55 AM
6	How can I fight back on the silver bullet method in family court? Do not contact her. Get a therapist. You now need “professionals” on your side. She has started a narrative and will back it up with every little shred of evidence she has. That includes her own therapist claiming she was abused. Any text messages from you. It doesn’t matter the context. Only that there were “attempts to contact her”. Which can be twisted as pressure, manipulation, or evidence of instability. Get a therapist and work with them to build a backbone of someone who can and will vouc…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/26 02:38 AM
5	AI Summary of All Advice from Divorce_Men I know this is a ChatGPT analysis of some kind. But it was a good read even at surface value.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/11/25 09:34 PM
7	Guys, when will my heartache fade? Same boat. There is no easy answer and we search for one. Time is the only real answer. As time moves on the memories will fade and be replaced with new ones. New people, experiences, and feelings will come and you will find peace again. Every day you wake up, you get farther from the hurt and that distance is what creates space for healing. The betrayal is real and hurts deeper than any part of it. But it does get better. Fill your days with distractions and new activities, keep moving. You’ll …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/25 05:58 PM
3	Those accused of SA/abuse I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’ve never been accused of SA. But I currently can’t see my kids because my Ex filed a report that says they are fearful around me. Is been a month already and likely many more to come with supervision, restrictions, and bullshit. The one thing everyone tells me is that kids are resilient. They will love you unconditionally. Yes there is estrangement when you aren’t able to see them, but kids forget about the bad times when you fill their lives with good t…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/10/25 03:39 PM
4	Did you feel your divorce attorney advocated for you? “should my lawyer be advocating for me,” Yes, yes they should. You are paying them good money and trusting them to handle a situation that will determine how the next 5-15 years look. If you are feeling unheard or unchampioned, you should seriously consider getting another opinion. It may come down to you negotiating against your lawyer vs you both united negotiating against the other side. You sound grateful for not being raked over the coals, when you should be feeling confident in your positi…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/10/25 03:20 AM
2	Need advice — ex threatening false sexual abuse claim to gain custody advantage Document everything. Texts, calls, notes, everything. Documentation will win the day. Go straight to filing. The system abuses you with delays and half measures. The court will only care about what can be proven, documentation.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/10/25 01:17 AM
1	The unanswered “why?” This is exactly what happened. One day “I just want you home,I love you” to complete silence outside of threats of calling the police. It was night and day. Thanks for the insight!	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/25 03:18 PM
1	They don’t tell their family Image and self preservation can be core to motivations. By not telling others she can maintain that she’s not “failing”, which a breakdown in a relationship can feel like. It may be that she wants to completely tie everything up in a neat bow and then tell people afterwards, as if it’s already passed and therefore can’t be judged. My STBXW told her family but no one else. And made it look like nothing was wrong to the outside world. Impressively so.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 09:21 PM
1	The unanswered “why?” “How” is a great mental shift. Right now the how is: lawyers, health, housing, career.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 03:04 PM
3	The unanswered “why?” Great advice, each day gets easier, just slowly. I’m just driven by wanting to know why, likely to try and fix it if I knew the reason. But as said, there isn’t a single reason, and I can’t expect to ever get that answer.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 02:47 PM
6	The unanswered “why?” Naw, not another guy. Far more self centred and focused on money and lifestyle. (She transferred all our assets into her name right before). And most definitely it was her therapist, lawyer, family, friends, social media, that lead her decisions.	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 02:45 PM
3	The unanswered “why?” Why split our family? Why try to destroy me? Why cut off all contact? Why act like it’s out of her control? That it’s someone else’s fault?	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 01:39 PM