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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
15	Struggling with fluidity in seduction	Inner Game	Aynonow	/r/seduction	31/01/25 09:36 PM

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1	Struggling with fluidity in seduction I guess trying to just push those thoughts away makes them stronger in a way. Recognizing them and having a plan instead sounds way more sustainable. I’ll try to be more aware of them instead of fighting them. Thanks !	/r/seduction	01/02/25 12:24 AM
1	Struggling with fluidity in seduction you're totally right i’ve been thinking too much about the how-to and not enough about just doing it it’s like anything else really just gotta get out there and practice	/r/seduction	31/01/25 11:08 PM
3	Struggling with fluidity in seduction Got it, the idea of training my brain to catch it naturally makes sense. I like the idea of focusing on it in the moment. How did you feel when you first started noticing these patterns in yourself? Was there a specific moment or interaction that really clicked for you when you realized you were starting to break the cycle?	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:58 PM
1	Struggling with fluidity in seduction That makes a lot of sense, the consistency part is definitely something I’ve struggled with. It’s easy to get a couple of approaches in but then let excuses take over. I guess it's about developing the mental discipline to push through that. Do you think the key is just forcing yourself to ignore those thoughts or is there a way to reframe them so they don’t hold you back?	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:51 PM
3	Struggling with fluidity in seduction Yeah, I get what you’re saying about having a wing, but out of all the people I know, I still haven’t found someone who fits that role. I actually want to do this solo and build that confidence on my own. Do you think it’s still possible to reach that level without a wing, or are there specific challenges I should expect?	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:25 PM
6	Struggling with fluidity in seduction Interesting perspective. I get what you mean about anger being fleeting, but I never really thought about forcing myself to relive the moment until it causes pain. Seems intense. The second option makes more sense to me—just constant reps and self-awareness. How did you personally catch yourself in the moment? Was it more of a mindset shift or did you have specific cues that helped?	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:22 PM
1	Struggling with fluidity in seduction Yeah, I get that. I guess the hardest part is actually reaching that mindset where I genuinely stop giving a fuck. Did you just push through it over time, or was there something specific that helped you detach?	/r/seduction	31/01/25 10:20 PM
1	Am I too old to seduce? At first, a lot of things might seem confusing or overwhelming, but over time, you get used to them as they become part of your reality, especially once you’ve experienced them firsthand. When you start doing things that are authentic and true to who you are, you’ll realize that nothing is more fulfilling than being yourself. With time and experience, the process of failing, learning, and trying again helps you grow into the best version of yourself. The more you embrace this, the more confident…	/r/seduction	02/10/24 12:29 PM