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Azazl187/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 01:49 PM
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Dating is easy it's the characters that I'm dating that seem like the problem. I'm 44 and every woman I meet seems to be driven by entitlement and their feelings. It's a crazy world out there and every time I get involved with someone it makes me more and more sure that I'm better off being single and putting my energy into other things
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 06:10 AM
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When she stopped waking me up after having a nightmare for comfort
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/26 05:54 AM
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Cut the ex out apart from matters that concern the kids. If she trys to make moves tell her that you are not interest in her opinions. She is the mother of your children and that is it, nothing more and nothing less
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 08:12 AM
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Youll just know when. One thing I learned is that no matter how similar your situation is to others, every one's break up is different. Youll know when you need to remove the ring and I encourage you to not seek advice for when. Sending you strength brother
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/26 05:46 PM
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Pretty much exactly the same as my story
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 11:55 AM
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She sought out external validation. I caught her out and walked. I'm grateful for it now as it means I'm not putting effort into someone who doesn't deserve it
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 11:52 AM
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Same happened here
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 05:50 PM
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Exactly the same time line as me
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 06:17 AM
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I already am. I just followed my own path alone for another 2 years and suddenly here I am. I of course don't act on it because I don't want to do the same to someone else that happened to me. Married women in long term relationships want change, chaos and excitement. They know I can provide it and they thirst after it and will give up everything to get it. I stick to single women but only put in minimum energy so that I save the best of me for my own progress, path and craft. Honest, open, with…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 11:28 PM
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Almost 2 years later and I still struggle sometimes. It's not just the breakup, it's the things that happen afterwards. The kids, the arguing, another man in the picture. All these things just cripple you over and over again
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 04:22 AM
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Almost immediately. She was the one that stopped being intimate years before hand too. Females are strange creatures
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 10:46 PM
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Yep same here. Divorced now and together 16 years but unable to communicate on a deeper level. An avoidant but only because she didn't have the emotional depth to handle that sort of conversation. It just took me a decade to actually work it out. Only issue is that now I can see other women most of them seem exactly the same
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 09:27 AM
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This is basically a carbon copy of my relationship with my ex wife. Young kids, lack of intimacy etc. I'm not saying this will happen to you but this is how it went for me. I tried hard to reignite the connection with meals out, holidays, weekends away, emotional support, space, support around the house more etc. Nothing worked and she ended up cheating on me and is not at it like a rabbit with her new bf and we've been divorced for almost 2 years now. Don't waste your time. If you feel like you…
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/25 08:21 AM
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Drop him. If he hasn't sorted out what he wants by now then he never will. He needs to be honest with you and himself by the sounds of it. You can't have your cake and eat it which it sounds like he is trying to do
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 03:18 PM
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You need to heal and heal solo. It's not linear either, the emotions come in waves and you just need to sit in them and feel them until they pass. Yes another will come but they will be less often over time. The acceptance stage is when you are nearly at the end. Acceptance for me wasn't a case of saying "what she did was ok" as my ex also had an affair. It was a case of saying that she simply wasn't on my level. In a way it's not really here fault, it's just the way she is built. Her need to mo…
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/25 11:30 AM
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There are 8 billion people on this planet. Something else will come up. For me the most important thing is keeping a strict routine in place for the kids on when I pick them up and drop them off. The rest comes second to that
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 02:17 PM
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Did you leave crumbs on the kitchen side for longer than 20 seconds?
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/25 09:33 AM
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When she stopped waking me up in the night and asking me for a cuddle due to bad dreams
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 10:05 AM
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Every body's experience is different. I'm a year down the line and I'm still not ready to date. My ex cheated and cast me out. Through self respect I'm working on myself and healing as best I can. Im the only person on this planet who knows when I'll be ready to date but tbh I really don't think it will be any time soon. Unfortunately there are alot of low value women out there and I don't want to get stuck in another relationship where my worth isn't appreciated
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/25 11:06 AM
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This could have been a reality for me but unfortunately I caught her out cheating. There is no way that things can be amicable now unfortunately. Most women have a back up plan. Make sure you know your rights and where you stand. You see like a very controlled person, just ensure she doesn't end up taking you to the cleaners and speak to a solicitor as soon as possible
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/24 01:21 PM
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Whatever it takes to feel better from the hell that is divorce
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 12:20 AM
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Dead bedroom for me and she cheated. Try explaining that one. Unfortunately as the guy you will always lose. Clearly I wasn't giving her what she needed blaa blaa blaa. Not that she thought it acceptable to just ignore me physically and emotionally for years until it started to break me as a man and then she hits me with the ultimate betrayal at the end.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 10:37 AM
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My stxw was messing around which caused us to split up. She has maintained that we broke up because things were not working and she was unhappy and has completely ignored the fact she cheated. Fast forward 3 months after our spit and there is another guy on the scene who she has involved in my children's lives without even telling me! My kids told me. Right from the beginning I've been firm but fair with her and I filed for divorce 6 months after the split and forced the house onto the market. I…
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 10:26 AM
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In my experience no contact meant she just learned to live without me quicker and found someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 05:43 AM
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Have you actually properly and openly told her about the way you feel and then asked her what her opinion was on the subject?
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 09:37 PM
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10 months later and I'm still trying to accept it. It's different for everyone
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 06:15 PM
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