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And anal for everyone too!!
/r/seduction02/02/17 04:51 PM
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Stop thinking like that.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:22 PM
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You can't make them, it's their decision, some girls are shy and don't do that, others are not and do it, just take care of yourself and be cool, and it will happen someday.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:17 PM
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took down the picture Game over. The reason can be something you have done or not, but don't blame yourself too fast sometimes girls are just like that.
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:11 PM
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This is a classic problem and the solution is, when you go out to game, go with friends that wing and support you, these ones who are making fun of you have fear to do it themselves and prefer that every other friends share the same fear, even if they're good friends in other areas, they will always bring you down when it's about the game. I have a similar group, and had the lucky to find my wing inside this same group (we discovered that each was learning about seduction game in different forum…
/r/seduction30/01/17 01:32 AM
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Don't worry if you fall for something similar again, as i said it happens, sometimes we read the intentions she have too late, always see the positive side and move to the next one, and remember to never be bitter, this will only slow down yourself, best of luck to you man. :)
/r/seduction28/01/17 03:53 PM
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It happens man, don't let that bring you down, some people are just bad and you dodged a big bullet on this one, keep going it happens to everyone.
/r/seduction28/01/17 03:42 PM
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But she choose him! C'mon it already happened, lets try to find something to make things less bad, he got experience from what happened and will be more cautious in the future!
/r/seduction28/01/17 03:40 PM
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Why don't you tried to think on her side? She might like you and is just as nervous as you are lol. Just try to connect and fucking k-close on the next date, no excuses bro just do it.
/r/seduction28/01/17 12:57 PM
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Aaaand.. you don't kissed her. To me it seems like you want to go right to the friendzone, you spent so much time thinking on that, and it's holding you.
/r/seduction26/01/17 02:01 PM
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You're thinking too much, giving too much attention to the little voice on your mind who's saying "no dude no!". Stop crying already, accept that man HAVE to do the initiative, learn to deal with rejection and fucking pay attention to what /u/TurnuptheSun said, like /u/Murfdigidy said in another thread GIRLS ARE NOT GOING TO MAKE THE MOVE YOU NEED TO! The sooner you accept that and start to approach and being rejected (like everyone else), the sooner you get laid.
/r/seduction26/01/17 01:10 PM
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Can't wait to see another FR man, good job and keep going!
/r/seduction26/01/17 12:51 PM
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GIRLS ARE NOT GOING TO MAKE THE MOVE YOU NEED TO!
/r/seduction25/01/17 08:59 PM
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Yeah man, good sleep is really important, how about friday and saturday?
/r/seduction25/01/17 04:06 PM
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I have a friend that is short and don't give a fuck about it, he's always with HB7,5 gals or better and womans always try to tease him or make him feel bad about his height, but he don't care, and always have a good answer (Like that one time where he said "Everytime i hug a girl my face goes straight to the boobs, i can say if your tits are real or fake in a hug, i'm blessed man", and use that to provoke the girl's if necessary). What i'm trying to say is, instead of just giving up, accept what…
/r/seduction25/01/17 01:51 PM
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You falled on a oneiti, the cure? Find another woman. You can ignore the advice of everyone here and tell yourself whatever you want, it's clear that she said a polite no, it's up to you to accept it. She is scared, you scared her, now give her some space if you want to keep some hope on that, but do her and yourself a favor and go meet other women while you wait her to open to you again.
/r/seduction25/01/17 12:57 PM
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Because you scared her off, i can bet you acted needy or something else that was a turn down for her. Just think what you did wrong and don't repeat it on the next girl, saying "you're cute" does not mean she's the love of your life, others will say that too, move on.
/r/seduction25/01/17 12:52 PM
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Good job bro!
/r/seduction25/01/17 12:45 PM
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I know the point of the thread is that, it's ok if you don't give money to him, just the way you said "i dont care for cancer" sounded disrespectful to people who have to deal with it, but it's fine i understood what you mean now.
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:56 PM
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Update us when you're back home, good luck!
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:51 PM
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That what you're feeling, it's beautiful man, the conection is going deep and that's cool, but now let's face reality, you're a gamer like us and no sex will never work really, but you can always escalate really slooooowly until she give up and surrender to the lust (if you like her then it will be worth spending some time doing that). Make her horny and comfortable with you, and she will naturally break her family rules, just dont be forceful thought, if in the end it doesn't work, then break u…
/r/seduction24/01/17 11:49 PM
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Yeah i got triggered.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:24 PM
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My last job was manager to a restaurant behind a cancer treatment focused hospital, have seen lot of families, lots of sad stories, only a few with a true happy ending, someday you will care for cancer too dude. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ At least do us a favor and check if the money is really donated to the dog shelters and is not being used to fund their own parties.
/r/seduction24/01/17 10:08 PM
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this.!
/r/seduction24/01/17 03:11 PM
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You don't need to be the master of the club or the king of the party, social proof can be just having friends and having fun with them, and of course making new friends whenever is possible, it's not that impossible when you're having fun, to me it happens naturally.
/r/seduction24/01/17 02:59 PM
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I wish i had the balls to daygame, it seems so amazing and exciting! Not saying i'm no planning to do it, gonna learn to fight that AA.
/r/seduction23/01/17 03:04 PM
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That's true, most guys feels bad after one rejection or after a not so pretty girl rejects ("If this one rejects me then everyone will"), people forgot that each girl has a different thinking and momentum.
/r/seduction23/01/17 02:02 PM
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Ok, going by your comments it's clear that you're a troll.
/r/seduction22/01/17 08:10 PM
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Ok, going by your comments it's clear that you're a troll.
/r/seduction22/01/17 08:10 PM
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I know it's hard, but when the results start, even after months or years, you will be starting to feel great and good with yourself and that sensation is priceless.
/r/seduction22/01/17 08:05 PM
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By your answers to the other guys it seems you have a lot to learn. if you're really in a hurry to lose virginity bang a hooker (You should not mind that much thought, lots of guys here lost v-card between their 22 to 30 year old and became fuck machines). If you want to make a change for real, became a better person and live better, then prepare your balls for working on you ma'boy. First thing go read the awesome faq and guides on the sidebar. You have to start to fix your inner game and confi…
/r/seduction22/01/17 02:18 PM
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It seems like confidence issues on your part, when things is going bad try to go to the bathroom to recolect your thoughts and decide if you return to the same group or engage others.
/r/seduction22/01/17 01:21 PM
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See what are on your control and improve it, have acne? Take care of the skin. You're skinny/fat? Go hit the gym now! Look at you, and see what you can change, it takes time i know, i have been in a long battle with my chubby body but after you start to see the results, it makes everything worth it!
/r/seduction22/01/17 01:14 PM
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But it was only his looks or he did something especific to outgame you? Besides you can always go out of the group and approach and dance with another girls.
/r/seduction22/01/17 12:57 PM
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That was a good read, i hope you do more FRs in the future.
/r/seduction22/01/17 02:59 AM
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If you're disappointed, imagine how she's feeling, it will be a surprise if she don't ghost you after that. It's the second field report today where a guys says "i payed the dinner!" like it's something that's worth a BJ reward, "my hero". Really bro you should check how to escalate, especially on a first date. And have a plan for everything, not just sayin "hey lets fuck" and expect her to say "Sure lets go to my place!".
/r/seduction21/01/17 05:01 PM
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I would love to say what you did wrong if you give us more details... I asked her out by saying, 'I want to take you out on a date' (over txt). I've never dated a friend before, so I thought i needed to be clear so she knew it wasn't just hanging out. She knows it was a date, but did you showed your intentions during the night? We went out tonight, did a fun activity What was the fun activity? What happened there? There was kino (physical escalation)? There was rapport? Emotional connection? Fli…
/r/seduction21/01/17 04:49 PM
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You social life looks boring, go to club and bars, talk to people, deal with rejections and strange reactions from each new people you meet, go out, make new friends, organize your life so your fridays and saturdays are for focusing on social life, start new hobbies if necessary, you need to live other aspects of life. The other dudes in here are already giving good advice too, pay attention to them and start the necessary changings to your routine, check the sidebar and threads on the sub for g…
/r/seduction20/01/17 07:14 PM
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Hey man, i feel you, and this is really delicate and not something that can be solved with strangers on the internet, you need to regain not the love for womens, but the love for your life and focus on your child, you have a child man, and you have to be strong for him(or her)! Meditation, new hobbies, passion and objectives for you life, and of course therapy will help a lot more than people saying "wow man what a evil woman you should hate her forever and stuff", remember YOU and your legacy, …
/r/seduction19/01/17 10:21 PM
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Hey dude calm down now!! By being that aggressive you're only showing that you are mixing your emotions and past experiences with /u/No1988 case! That's wrong! He's on a delicate state and need to calm down to learn to move on! Not hyper up the hate!!! You don't even know the details of what happened or both sides of story and already want to choose who's the victim? This is wrong man, calm down and breath please.
/r/seduction19/01/17 10:16 PM
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But how is your social part of life? How is your social circles? You have to practice talking to people to build up confidence. That said, maybe you should look for girls that share your interests, girls that like chess, squash or singing. You need to talk more about your social life for us to know what is wrong.
/r/seduction19/01/17 10:07 PM
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If they like you they will be happy if you invite yourself, there's no shame in that, after saying no many times, you will have to invite yourself now.
/r/seduction19/01/17 10:01 PM
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There were no mixed signals, it's you that don't know how to read then bro, IWriteForGroupies was harsh but he said the truth, you forced you way without giving her some space. To add one more advice aside what the others already said, normally when you're escalating you go "one step closer" and check if she's comfortable, if it's not, then retreat one or two steps behind and let her have some space and be ready for another advance after a couple of minutes, but for real stop focusing so much on…
/r/seduction19/01/17 07:54 PM
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Thanks for this challenge Darius, it really covers everything starters should do to change their lifes!
/r/seduction19/01/17 07:19 PM
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/r/seduction19/01/17 05:02 PM
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/r/seduction19/01/17 05:02 PM
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If she's really busy some talk and then give your number may work, but if she's just there and movement is slow then it's better to build rapport and then ask her for a date, good luck :)
/r/seduction19/01/17 01:10 PM
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Ask her number from a friend, then when you message you say sorry for getting her # without permission but missed her on the third night on the bar and ask when she will be there again. Just don't do as blunt as i'm saying or it will sound creepy, act playfull and natural. :p
/r/seduction18/01/17 05:40 PM
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I don't know why people ignore that option so much.
/r/seduction18/01/17 01:06 PM
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In our life we encounter bad and good people, maybe it was your fault, maybe it was'nt, maybe she's the type of girl who like to seduce guys who's into their friends, maybe you took too long to k-close or f-close, but the only truth is that everything was not under you control, never is. Don't let emotions or bitterness get the best of you, remember what happened, what you did wrong, what you could have done better and will do to the next girl, dont be bitter (i know its easy to say) and be indi…
/r/seduction18/01/17 12:58 PM
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Don't worry, many of us passed throught that and you can't force a alpha male out of nothing, you need to become one by learning and experience, but never force something you not are, so always be yourself WHILE at same time you improve to be a better version of you. Everytime you fail analyze your errors and think what would be a better alternative, test it, analyze, keep going.
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:07 AM
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Like MusicLover, i'm not a fan of BD (Boyfriend Destroyers) since i'm too dont like to game girls in LTRs, but you started it knowing the consequences and now you need to be a man and end what you started, tease her saying you want her but she has a boyfriend or another method you want, if she's on to cheat them do what you really want to the end(Fuck her or say that you won't do that while she's in a relationship), after whatever happens with her you say to your friends that they lost and shoul…
/r/seduction18/01/17 01:00 AM
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Good man, you still did better than many others so you should be proud, and it happens to lose chances, just today i lose a chance for a #-close (got approached and i'm not used to being approached so i got surprised and kind of paralized), all we can do is analyze and learn how to be ready the next time, best of luck.
/r/seduction18/01/17 12:51 AM
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I come here to say how many kiss closes opportunity you passed but the others are already saying that, anyway i want to reinforce that was painful to read that you two were in your bed and you did nothing, c'mon man!!!
/r/seduction17/01/17 01:29 PM
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Okay man i hope i can help by telling what a friend on a similar situation did, my best friend have 26 year old and is on a LTR on eleven years!!! (Yes since his 15yo) He really love her and they have a really good LTR like you, but since it started so soon after some time he felt the urge to meet other girls (like you), he was sincere and during a argument with her girl he asked for a time to each other meet new people and be sure if they really wanted to settle, they both gone yolo and enjoyed…
/r/seduction17/01/17 01:24 PM
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Humor route, always, i like to ask playfully "Can't resist a gossip huh? What's happening?", i use the answer to push more conversation and bring her interest back to me, it usually works for me.
/r/seduction16/01/17 10:50 PM
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You think of yourself as a 3, that's where the problem begins, you want a magic technique to get that dream girl without any effort, well boy i'm sorry to say that you have a long road before you, and you will start it by taking care of yourself and that shitty confidence first. Start by reading the sidebar. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/01/17 04:30 PM
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You know really well how it works, you want someone here to tell what you want to hear (Don't give up), but you know we won't say that, she's into her ex, and you're stuck in the friendzone, you're giving the attention she wants (She knows someone cares, and that's you, but the one she wants to care is her ex), you can lose some months trying to change your frame and getting out of the friendzone, or move on and do the best FOR YOU! Do it FOR YOU man! She will consume you from inside, it's not w…
/r/seduction16/01/17 01:05 PM
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Really liked this FR, and really hope someone more experienced give good tips on what you should do on this situation. I think she will not hate you, she wanted you and maybe is feeling guilty for cheating. You should act like nothing happened and restart the rapport, comfort, but go with caution while paying attention for the openings and how the kino escalate again, if there's a chance to k-close good, if not, then keep all friendly for the next time she comes you still have a chance for a goo…
/r/seduction16/01/17 01:50 AM
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Use 6-7 to practice, you can find good friends and advice that way, when you're confident and with social circles, go for the 8-9s, good luck man!
/r/seduction15/01/17 02:50 PM
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For me you did good, on approach one you should have gone for other girls instead of only the german one. About the second approach, well not your fault, every woman is different man, she was older and wanted guys of her age, maybe its a cultural thing i don't know, but to me on both approaches you showed a lot of good vibes and gamed fine. I would not blame your honesty thought.
/r/seduction14/01/17 08:28 PM
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Really cool, challenge accepted too!
/r/seduction14/01/17 03:11 PM
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Dude just stop being "that guy" please.
/r/seduction14/01/17 01:37 PM
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It is really wrong! He's on the right way, taking care of himself and his looks, it will happen naturally, he just have to adjust his inner game, he need to take of virginity from the pedestal, it is giving him too much pressure, it makes him feel inferior to his friends and make him become a beta (center of the jokes), he needs to stop worry about this and live his life, it will happen eventually.
/r/seduction13/01/17 03:34 PM
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No complains man! It's too late now, prepare your game because you will be facing two, like feppuccini said you can isolate her when the opportunity arise, if not then stay calm and cool, have fun, and if everything works right it will be only you two on the next date.
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:33 PM
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Great tips man, thanks!
/r/seduction13/01/17 12:20 PM
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Sending that on a thursday just before the weekend starts, right moment since i start to review how i game and my mistakes today before going out, you're my hero.
/r/seduction12/01/17 11:39 PM
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Hey bro, so besides mall and clubs there's no other spots younger people go like bars and stuff? If the area is weak i would definitely consider Tinder game, you lack of matchs is because of your profile and photos, theres some good tutorials on the web for making a profile, and there's a megathread on r/tinder where people review your profile and sometimes helps a lot. You should try to find on the internet (portuguese websites maybe) for meet-up between writers, workshops and such, it's a good…
/r/seduction11/01/17 11:16 PM
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Yep. But give a try on r/tinder too, there's a megathread for picture reviews.
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:53 PM
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Good FR man, i think you lost a opportunity to isolate her when she asked to go out and smoke, not saying she wanted to make out, but you could escalate more and get a number. You could totally keep her as friend on facebook, but don't talk about her bf and their relationship or you will fall on the friendzone, stay alert for a chance do go out with her without her bf. About your friends, talk about them about what you're learning here. Some will surrender to fear and ignore you, others will agr…
/r/seduction10/01/17 06:32 PM
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Wow man while reading this i said like "damn right son!" like twenty times or more! Brother you did it right! Just right! Don't lose focus yo, keep the momentum, Seddit is proud of your now son!
/r/seduction07/01/17 02:01 PM
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Good job Red! Please keep us updated
/r/seduction07/01/17 03:30 AM
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It's win-win situation!
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:27 PM
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self improvement, get a baseline on how to know more people and expand social circles, i just want a good relationship by the end of the day.
/r/seduction06/01/17 01:25 PM
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Good tip as always man, gonna use something similar too.
/r/seduction05/01/17 06:59 PM
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The sidebar....
/r/seduction05/01/17 06:57 PM
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Nothing wrong in that, you see a familiar face, and you're talking to it, do some small talk, talk about how you're there to help your mother, and try asking if she wants to have a coffee and talk about the school days or something, don't wait too much because she still in her work and the conversation will be interrupted more than once if there's a busy day. Just don't abort man, you're doing nothing wrong and have a good opener, if she says no or flake, don't worry and move on with style. And …
/r/seduction05/01/17 02:54 PM
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You made all the friendzoned nice guy mistakes, it's not worth trying to change that now, move on, there's lot of great girls out there, live your life.
/r/seduction03/01/17 04:46 PM
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TheXXL is super on point on this one, friends don't mess with other friends games, and rembember there's lots of beautiful girls out there.
/r/seduction03/01/17 01:21 PM
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You phone died! You phone died bro! You need to know the time to know if you're late or something! She tells you the time and oh wait, you're not late! Thank God! You have enough time even to talk a little more!
/r/seduction02/01/17 08:36 PM
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It was shit test for sure, she said "no" to tease (if you said about whispering is true) and wanted you to go on, she got at your place man, that's enough is confirmation about what she wants, still, you got your first night better than most of us thanks of your mentality (being fit, smart, and not giving a fuck to failures), i admire you on that. Remember that you said her to say "red" when you should seriously stop, and she didn't said it.
/r/seduction02/01/17 03:04 PM
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That's the point! Sext ain't love! And you miss love, lots of people confuse that.
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:04 PM
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Cool FR bro, she didn't you were still on high school, how did you first met? Daygame?
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:45 AM
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Really good reaction to her shit test bro
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:37 AM
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Yeah i'm on point with teory two and had a starting yersteday, just dont stay down with rejection man, keep going always!
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:27 AM
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Completely new here, but i really want to take these challenges and improve!
/r/seduction01/01/17 08:48 PM
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Thank for the text man, it's good that someone remember us to not give up from time to time, some of us need that.
/r/seduction01/01/17 04:13 PM
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Got in a small nye party with my sister, only couples but me and a single friend of my sis that just broke up with cheater boyfriend, it would be a good set if i aren't fucked up with her two years ago and got the beta impression (She was interested in me but my low-esteem didn't let me believe in that so i fucked up a really good chance), i still tried to game, and it was a good set, good try, lost her interest but it's alright, i just got back to the game now, i'm still dealing with confidence…
/r/seduction01/01/17 04:11 PM
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There's no perfect moment, you make the moment.. you should take control, be the alpha, and escalate, she's awaiting your attitude.
/r/seduction31/12/16 03:30 AM
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He's right, there's a lot of things you need to fix, the anxiety, your social circle, etc, nothing we say here will fully prepare you for tommorrow. You need to get the pressure out of your mind and the fear of disappointment too, playing games in NYE dont help, believe me i did this mistake before, you only feel worse doing nothing so get out, practice something you learned here, analyze your mistakes, and then take action again!
/r/seduction31/12/16 03:11 AM
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I have a friend of your size, and on his group, he's the one who get more girls, he's confident, smart, he knows how to tease and be himself at all times too, i can even pm his photo or facebook if you don't believe me, the rest IWriteForGroupies already said, best of luck!
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:22 AM
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Thanks for the answer, and i will surely look up on your recomendation.
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:56 PM
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Good to see you're getting good changes i'm in a really similar situation, i hope you don't care if i ask something off topic but i'm new to the game (m/26) and see in many threads persons that are proud to stop masturbate, can you explain what does fap impact in the seduction?
/r/seduction29/12/16 04:22 PM
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"No."
/r/seduction28/12/16 11:27 PM
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